Suzy Ismail – Muslim Mental Health Panel

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A representative from Cornerstone discusses their communication counseling center and their approach to mental health counseling. They emphasize the importance of educating people about mental health issues and the need for help. They also mention their partnership with mental health providers and their focus on helping people overcome obstacles to pursue mental health counseling or mental health therapy.

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			Santa Monica. And hello, my name
is Susie Smolyan. My organization
		
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			is called cornerstone. And we are
a communication counseling
		
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			facility that works from a
spiritual foundation to help
		
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			individuals, couples, families,
youth who are going through
		
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			difficulties to improve the
relationships, whether it's a
		
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			interpersonal and intrapersonal,
or a group type of a dynamic. So I
		
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			would have loved to join you at
the multicultural Mental Health
		
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			Day Program at Stockton.
Unfortunately, I was not able to
		
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			do so. But I'd love to kind of
give some feedback on these
		
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			questions that were sent to me. So
I'll just read the question and
		
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			give you my point of view as a
communication counselor, which is
		
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			a bit different than the
traditional psychiatrist or
		
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			psychologist or even marriage
therapist. We focus on improving
		
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			people's emotional and relational
well being through techniques that
		
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			may be outside the realm of what a
typical mental health provider
		
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			would provide. We like to kind of
say that Cornerstone is the
		
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			counseling center for the 99% of
the population that insists they
		
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			don't need counseling. So the
first question that I have here
		
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			says, How would you describe
mental health and its importance
		
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			to individuals who are not
familiar with mental health or
		
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			belong to a community in which
there are strong negative biases
		
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			concerning mental health? So our
organization Cornerstone is rooted
		
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			in a Muslim spiritual foundation.
And we incorporate a lot of
		
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			Islamic concepts in our approach
to counseling, I think being
		
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			communication counselors take some
of the stigma away from the idea
		
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			of seeking help from a mental
health provider, we work very
		
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			closely in conjunction with mental
health providers. But we were
		
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			essentially for many people, the
first stop where someone is going
		
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			through difficulties, they're
experiencing problems, they feel
		
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			like they're not ready to seek
mental health help, they may come
		
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			to us first. And we'll transition
slowly if we identify the need for
		
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			mental health help to be able to
work with the mental health
		
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			providers. So we do work very
closely. And that helps eliminate
		
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			the stigma to a certain extent of
seeking people seeking help when
		
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			they need it, without necessarily
going the mental health route. The
		
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			next question says, What are the
biggest challenges individuals
		
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			within the Muslim community face
when seeking psychological help,
		
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			whether it be through counseling
or medicinal treatment, there is a
		
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			lot of weariness when it comes to
seeing a psychiatrist or being
		
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			placed on medication, even if it
is clear that the medication is
		
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			needed. For many people in the
Muslim community, there is a
		
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			sensor of feeling that if you just
pray more, whatever problems
		
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			you're having will be fixed. And
we always kind of tell our clients
		
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			that if you were suffering from
cancer, or high cholesterol, or
		
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			possibly just suffer through a
heart attack, would you tell that
		
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			person? Or would someone tell you
just pray more, and you'll get
		
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			better? And of course, the answer
is no, you would seek the help of
		
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			a doctor, you would get the
medication you need to get better.
		
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			And we view you know, mental
health help. And particularly, if
		
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			you need to go down the route of
medicine in the same way that you
		
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			have a difficulty you have a
problem, it does not mean that
		
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			you're weak, it does not mean that
your faith is weak, it means that
		
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			this is a test that you've been
given, and you need to address it
		
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			with those who can guide you in
the best way possible. And even if
		
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			that means taking medication, then
doing so knowing it is helping
		
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			your health.
		
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			The next question is as
counselors, therapists, doctors,
		
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			etc. What is the best way to
support Muslim clients knowing
		
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			these challenges? So again,
understanding the stigma that is
		
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			often attached with the idea of
seeking mental health therapy, it
		
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			was part of the reason why we took
the approach of starting our
		
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			communication counseling centers,
the focus of Cornerstone is again
		
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			to break that stigma down by
working are acting almost as an
		
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			intermediary like a bridge that
will get people to that state
		
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			where they can get the actual
mental health that they need.
		
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			And the final question is What
role does stigma play in mental
		
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			health? And what solution would
you propose to uproot the stigma
		
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			within the Muslim population? So
again, we've we've kind of touched
		
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			upon this topic and many of the
other questions as well. But I do
		
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			believe that education is key that
being able to teach people that
		
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			mental health illnesses are
illnesses. And even if we can't
		
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			see depression, if we can't see
anxiety, if we can't see panic
		
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			disorders, if we can't see OCD,
because people can put on that
		
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			face that smile, you know, when
they're outside in the world, but
		
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			inside they're crumbling, just
because we don't see it doesn't
		
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			mean it's not there. And just
because we don't see it doesn't
		
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			mean that we shouldn't address it.
So being able to educate people
		
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			about the importance of seeking
the help that's needed, and not
		
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			being abashed or shy to go down
that route to understand that,
		
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			Allah you know, in Islam, we
believe that Allah
		
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			Of course, is the best of all
planners, but knowing that He has
		
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			given each person their test their
their difficulty that they may
		
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			have to struggle against. But
being able to overcome that
		
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			difficulty with the help that's
provided is essentially what you
		
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			get when you seek the counseling
or the mental health help that you
		
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			may need. So I hope this was
helpful. Again, I hope this
		
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			important event is something that
continues at Stockton and other
		
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			universities. I believe education
is the most powerful tool that we
		
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			have to be able to break stigmas,
break down barriers and get people
		
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			the help they need. Thank you,
Santa Monica.