Suzy Ismail – #69 AsSamad
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The speaker discusses the concept of " handyness" as defined by the name " handyman" and how it can be achieved through personalized behavior and behavior. They explain that " handyness" is not just a desire for independence, but rather a desire for independence in a family environment. The speaker hopes that " handyness" can lead to healthy behavior and family relationships, rather than just independence in individual homes.
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Salam Alaikum, it's nice to see you again as we continue to bring
the divine into the daily by understanding how we can
incorporate the 99 names of Allah subhanaw taala, and the
characteristics of those names into our daily lives to improve
the relationship with our spouse and with our children. The name
that we're going to talk about today is a summit, which means the
self sufficient, the eternal, the one who has no need. Now,
oftentimes in our relationships today in our family lives,
particularly as as women and as mothers, we may struggle with this
sense of self sufficiency. And we may try so hard to conform to this
idealized concept of like a superwoman, where we feel like we
can show the world that we don't need anyone, that we are self
sufficient that we are self reliant. Yet we know that Allah
subhanaw taala is a summit he is the only one who is self
sufficient. And so when we trap ourselves into this realm of truly
believing that we can do it all alone, we tend to isolate
ourselves and find ourselves in the pitfalls of seclusion, which
does not lead to a healthy or a happy home. So rather than
constantly turning our critical eye inwardly, and thinking that we
must prove that we are self sufficient within our families
within our homes, instead, if we look externally, and see the
people that Allah subhanaw taala may have placed around us to help
us become more sufficient, rather than to try to focus on self
sufficiency, then we can truly see the best part of ourselves and
give that best part of ourselves, to our families, to our spouses
for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala. So I pray that Allah
subhanaw taala a summit allows us to recognize that when he gives us
people in our lives, it is not because we should turn them away,
but it is so that we can understand the beauty of the map
and the connection that we can have with others, just from a
little higher, and I look forward to speaking to you again, as we
continue to bring the divine into the daily setup article.