Suzy Ismail – #68 AlAhad

Suzy Ismail
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The speaker discusses how they use their experiences to improve their relationship with their spouse and children. They mention that they often see divisions between their relationships due to external factors, such as problems in law and family issues. They stress the importance of renewing their intention through strong connections to their spouse and children, and mention that they are heading ahead in achieving their goals.
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systematic. It's nice to see you again as we continue to bring the

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divine into the daily by incorporating the 99 names of

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Allah subhanaw taala into our daily lives to better understand

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how we can improve our relationship with our spouse, and

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with our children. The name that we're going to talk about today is

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ahead. In our previous episode, we spoke about a long way ahead, and

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we connected it with the element of sincerity in Surah hollows,

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which begins * Allahu Ahad. Now I had a means more than just

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the one, it also means the unity and the indivisible. And we know

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Allah subhanaw taala, as the one as a way ahead ahead is

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indivisible. But when we look at our families, when we look at our

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spouses, our children, our relationships, we often see that

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between husband and wife, there seems to be so many forces that

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try to divide between them, between parent and child,

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particularly in the teenage years, we will also see competing

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elements that it seems as if it is trying to divide the relationship

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between parent and child or between husband and wife. What are

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these elements? Many times we see divisions arising between husband

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and wife because of situations complicated by external

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relationships, it may be spending too much time at work. It may be

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family issues in law issues, it may be connections to iPhones and

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laptops and computers and television, more than connecting

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to one another. We see this repeated with children as well,

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where children may be divided from the connection with their parents,

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through the things in dunya that they become attached to that pull

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them away from that stronger connection. And the same division

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that occurs within our connections with our spouses and with our

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children can occur in our connection with Allah subhanaw

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taala. Just as to improve the connection to and we're head

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ahead, we must ensure that our attention is not divided. When we

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are in prayer, when we are committing acts for the sake of

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Allah subhanaw taala renewing our intention, repeating that sense of

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connection and reason of why we want to connect can help remind us

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of ahead of the indivisible and can help us maintain an

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indivisible connection to him. Likewise, with our spouse, with

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our children, developing an indivisible connection comes from

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nourishing that relationship from renewing the intention again, that

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every act is for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and recognizing

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that with each app that is done for the sake of Allah subhanaw

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taala we develop a stronger and stronger connection to him that

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will strengthen our connection in turn with our spouse and with our

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children. It is a common low height. And I look forward to

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speaking to you again as we continue to bring the divine into

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the daily Santa Monica on

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