Suzy Ismail – #15 AlGhaffar

			nematic it's nice to see you all
again as we continue to discuss
		

			the 99 names of Allah subhanaw
taala and understand how to bring
		

			the divine characteristics of
Allah subhanaw taala into our
		

			daily lives. Today the name that
we're going to discuss is LR four,
		

			or the oft forgiving, the one who
forgives repeatedly over and over
		

			and over again. Now Allah subhanaw
taala is a love for because he
		

			loves when we as humans repent.
And as human beings you know, we
		

			look at the Arabic word incense,
which is the name for the human
		

			being, and we see that the root
word of Insan is Miss cin, which
		

			means to forget, because as human
beings we do tend to forget, and
		

			we forget and we are and we
forget, and we enter again and we
		

			forget and we arrogant. Yeah,
Allah subhanaw taala as a lot of
		

			far, loves when we forget, we
error, we make mistakes, we do
		

			things that maybe we regret, but
we come back to him and we repent.
		

			Now in the marriage relationship.
Forgiveness is a core tenant, that
		

			really helps marriages strengthen
their bond, that helps husband and
		

			wife continue to flourish together
in a relationship that is based on
		

			compassion, respect, support, and
love for the sake of Allah
		

			subhanaw taala
		

			it can be hard sometimes when your
spouse tends to make an error or
		

			does something that makes you
unhappy or uncomfortable, and
		

			maybe the spouse recognizes it or
you bring it to their attention.
		

			And they will ask your forgiveness
as human beings again, initially
		

			we may give give the forgiveness.
But if it happens again, or again
		

			and again, it becomes harder and
harder for us to forgive. And
		

			yeah, as remember that the name of
Allah subhanaw taala is a lot of
		

			for, it's important for us to
integrate that sense of
		

			forgiveness in our relationships
as well. So that we in sha Allah
		

			will also be forgiven by Allah.
This doesn't mean that we give up
		

			our rights and marriage. This
doesn't mean that if in a
		

			marriage, we are being mistreated
or we are being oppressed, or we
		

			are being treated in a way that is
not pleasing to Allah subhanaw
		

			taala it doesn't mean that we
forgive and forgive and forgive,
		

			but it means that we find in our
heart, that ability to say This is
		

			between you and Allah and even if
it is