Suzy Ismail – #10 AlJabbar

			Hi, I'm Monica, it's nice to see
you all again, as we continue with
		

			Episode 10, of bringing the Divine
Names of Allah subhanaw taala into
		

			our daily lives, to improve our
relationships and our families and
		

			our homes. So today, the name that
we're going to discuss is Al
		

			Jabbar, the name Al Jabbar of the
99 names of Allah subhanaw. Taala
		

			means the Compeller.
		

			What does it mean to compel?
		

			Essentially, when we look at the
word compel, we may think of
		

			negative connotations when applied
to the human beings. Of course, we
		

			know the names of Allah subhanaw,
taala, supersede anything that we
		

			could and act upon here on Earth.
But when we think of compelling in
		

			a human sense of the term, many
times in the relationship dynamic,
		

			compelling someone to do something
may feel very much like
		

			controlling someone in the
relationship between husband and
		

			wife, it's very frequent, that
we'll see this as an issue or a
		

			block in the relationship where
one partner feels like there is
		

			control that is exerted upon him
or her. And oftentimes, you know,
		

			the understanding of Aboriginal a
woman and the set, which is the
		

			men are the protectors of the
woman can often be misinterpreted
		

			or applied incorrectly, in a way
where it becomes an issue of
		

			control or a forceful, compelling.
And this, of course, is not of the
		

			dean, because there is no such
thing as compelling someone to do
		

			something or controlling someone's
action in a marriage relationship
		

			that is meant to be a partnership,
when the US was the Lohani, who is
		

			self described in his last hotbar,
in his last word, so the OMA
		

			before his passing, he spoke of
the rights that men have over
		

			women, but the rights that women
also have over men. And in those
		

			last words, he reminded the onma
he told the men of the Ummah,
		

			in describing the husband and wife
relationship,
		

			he told them to be kind, and to be
compassionate, because husband and
		

			wife in the description of the
Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi.
		

			wasallam are like partners. And
that partnership is not built upon
		

			one person controlling the other.
It's not built upon, forceful,
		

			compelling, but instead, it's
built upon compassion. Instead,
		

			it's built upon connection, and
instead it's built upon
		

			understanding one another, and
compromising rather than
		

			controlling. So I pray that Allah
subhanaw taala continues to bless
		

			our marriages, bless our homes,
bless our families, and allow us
		

			all to reap the benefits of these
last 10 nights of Ramadan and to
		

			be the best that we can be to our
families, to our spouses to our
		

			children, and in our homes. Just a
common law here was that Emma had
		

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