Sulayman Van Ael – The Divine Names 6

Sulayman Van Ael
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The importance of practicing the name and being proud of its implementation in Islam is emphasized in a sermon on the treatment of people by doctors and their views on Islam. The treatment includes subhanous scenes where a woman gives birth to a child and gives birth to a child. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of science and religion for personal development and provides examples of books and websites to read. The speaker stresses the power and potential of Islam for breaking rules and causing chaos, and emphasizes the importance of learning the teachings for personal development.
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The first one that comes to mind, Al

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-Rahman, Al-Wadud, Al-Mutakabbir, Al-Sabtar, Al

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-Mutakabbir.

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A'udhu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem.

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Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem.

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As-salamu alaikum

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wa

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rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

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And it's a very interesting journey because every

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time that you are into this journey, you

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get different emotions, different visions, a different understanding

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out of all these names.

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And we should know that when we get

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together, that the explanation of the name is

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very limited.

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Meaning of the name is very limited.

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Meaning every name can be explained in an

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hour, in a minute, in a year, or

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in a lifetime.

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What we try to do is just to

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give you a glimpse of the name, but

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it doesn't do justice to the name at

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all.

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The name Al-Mutakabbir Subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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when we think about the name Al-Mutakabbir,

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of course we usually, how would people translate

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Al-Mutakabbir?

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How would we translate Al-Mutakabbir?

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If you hear this, how would you translate

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it?

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Thank you so much.

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What?

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The root letters.

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The proud one.

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Proud one.

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Allah.

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Okay.

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Al-Mutakabbir Subhanahu wa ta'ala, the scholars,

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they spoke a lot about this name.

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But when we look at the morphology, then

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we will see that it is Al-Mutakabbir

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Al-Mutafa'il.

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Al-Mutafa'il.

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That means someone that does something.

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He is doing something.

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And that what he is doing, meaning Allah

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Subhanahu wa ta'ala is above everything.

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He is above injustice.

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He is above lying.

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He is elevated above weakness.

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Elevated above and so forth.

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You see what I mean?

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So this is what Al-Mutakabbir Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala is.

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He is the one that is elevated above

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all bad and evil traits.

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He is nothing but beautiful.

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Like even when we look at him as

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the Punisher or when we look at him

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as the one that elevates, the one that

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destroys, it is still with beauty.

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Everything he does is beautiful.

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Because the Messenger ﷺ said, إِنَّ اللَّهَ جَمِيرٌ

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وَيُحِبُّ الْجَمَالِ Allah is beautiful and he loves

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beauty.

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So now to come back.

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We categorized the names of Allah Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala in our first class.

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And we said some of the names of

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Allah you are allowed to bring into practice

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by practicing the name.

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And others you are not allowed to practice

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but you should have a reaction towards the

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name.

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You see this?

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Like when we say that Allah Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala is the Merciful, I'm going to

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have mercy.

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When Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala is generous,

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I'm going to be generous.

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Allah is the Saboor, the patient one.

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I will be patient.

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But other names I'm not allowed to put

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into practice.

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Because if I would put the name Al

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-Mutakabbir into practice in the other sense of

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the word, being proud, boasting, then this is

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not allowed.

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So now when we hear the name Al

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-Mutakabbir, then we are going to be humbled.

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I'm humbled.

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We are going to become humble.

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And the Messenger ﷺ said that Allah Subhanahu

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wa ta'ala made very clear that he

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would destroy everybody who is boasting and who

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has a form, an evil form of pride.

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What is it?

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What is pride in Islam?

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The negative form of pride?

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The Messenger ﷺ said, Al-Kibru, the Kibr

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is what?

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He said it is not accepting the truth

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and looking down upon people.

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Not accepting the truth and looking down, do

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we say down upon someone?

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And looking down upon people.

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Not accepting the truth.

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Why would this be?

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For example, a father.

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A father does something and the son sees

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that it's haram.

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The son now comes and says, Dad, I

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would like to tell you that this is

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haram.

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The father will say, Who are you to

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think?

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Where did you get the courage to tell

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me what I should or shouldn't do?

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True?

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So this is refuting the Haq.

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The child has the right to tell the

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father that something is wrong, but in a

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certain way.

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Because when we look that Zakaria, when he

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came into the worship place, the Mihrab of

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Maryam, he found that she had food.

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Which kind of food?

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Food of the winter during the summer and

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food of the summer during the winter.

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You see this?

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So it wasn't around.

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And he didn't see somebody coming in and

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he didn't see somebody going out.

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He said, Ya Maryam, where did you get

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this from, Ya Maryam?

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She said, It's from Allah.

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Subhanallah.

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She wasn't even astonished.

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They were so accustomed to Allah providing them

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through ways that don't go through as bad

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means, but direct provision.

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So she's from Allah.

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Isn't it you that taught me, Ya Zakaria,

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that Allah can provide us without any means

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just like this.

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And when Zakaria heard this, he made dua

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because he was able to get a child

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and his wife was no longer fertile.

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She was barren.

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No, how do you say this?

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She was barren.

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He was very old, so he didn't make

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dua.

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But when Maryam said that she had the

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food without it being provided by anybody, but

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Allah, Allah says in the Quran, It is

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here when he heard Maryam saying this and

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telling him that she received fruit.

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Fruits directly from Allah.

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Then he said, If Allah can give fruits,

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he knows this, but he was reminded.

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So it is then that Zakaria made a

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dua.

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And he said, Oh Allah, grant me from

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you, even though that my wife is barren

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and I'm very old.

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Grant me coming from you a child.

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He was saying this in exactly the same

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place where Maryam got the fruits.

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Now Allah says, And the angels, they

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called him and they told him while he

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was praying in the mihrab.

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And where did he find Maryam with her

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fruits?

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The mihrab once again.

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So now you see that the prayer space

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and the prayer place is something very special.

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It was there that Zakaria was given the

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glad tiding of a child.

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And it was there that Maryam was given

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her fruits.

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So now when we look at the story

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of Maryam, we actually see how great Allah

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is.

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And this is why I want to go

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with you over the story of Maryam in

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the light of this here.

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So we know at the very beginning there

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was the wife of Imran.

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And she asked Allah to grant her a

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boy, a boy that will be free of

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everything.

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Why?

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Because Allah is the most great and he

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is the only one that has the right

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to be served.

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So even our children, when we educate them

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and form them, it is not to become

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obedient to us.

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It is because we want them to be

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obedient to Allah and being good to us

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is being obedient to Allah.

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So there's a very big difference.

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If a parent looks at this like that,

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then he will be more patient.

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The ego won't have a role in it.

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Who do you think you are?

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I'm your father.

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Don't be disobedient to Allah.

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Habibi, you will have mercy.

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But if you look at it as me,

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the father or me, the mother, then it

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becomes very egoistic and it becomes like very

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egocentric.

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Like me, me, me.

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But if it's for Allah, you will have

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mercy.

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Is the difference clear?

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So Al-Mutakabbir is also the one for

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whom everything has to.

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Is there something?

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I'm also very hot.

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We need to be careful.

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I wanted almost to ask to open the

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door.

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Are you cold?

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A little bit.

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Is that OK?

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Oh, yes.

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I thought I was sick because I saw

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everybody like chilling.

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OK, so now when when Al-Mutakabbir, she

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said, وَإِذْ قَالَتْ إِمْرَأَةُ عِمْرَانَ رَبِّ إِنِّي نَظَرْتُ

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لَكَ مَا فِى بَطْنِ مُحَرَّرًا فَتَقَبَّلْ مِنِّي She

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said, I want to become pregnant and then

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I want to my boy to be Muharrar.

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Muharrar comes from the word Hurr.

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Hurr means to be free.

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Free from what?

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From everything apart from the Mutakabbir.

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Because he's the only one that I really

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submit to.

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Even if my parents were to ask something

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which is haram, I'm not allowed to listen

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to them.

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I'm not allowed to obey.

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The Messenger ﷺ said, لَا تَاعَةَ لِمَخْلُوكٍ فِى

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مَعْسِيَةِ الْخَالِقِ There is no obedience to creation

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if it entails that it's a disobedience to

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the Creator.

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Then it's not allowed.

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So now, because Allah is the Mutakabbir, is

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that clear?

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Because he's higher, elevated, more elevated.

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We're not talking about a physical elevation.

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Allah is above everything in rank, in status.

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So now we go further.

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So Maryam, the Imra'atu Imran said, I

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want a boy and I want him to

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be free.

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Free from everything.

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Just for you, Ya Allah.

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Because a boy could be mentored by the

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rabbis.

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Could be mentored by the people over there

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that were very religious.

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And they would serve the people in the

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mosque.

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That would be the first thing.

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They would clean the mosque, give the people

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to drink, and they would be taught how

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to worship Allah and to become a wali

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of Allah.

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But that was not for females.

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That was only for men.

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So now, when she was pregnant, she saw

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that it was a girl.

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فَلَمَّا وَضَعَتْهَا قَالَتْ رَبِّ إِنِّي وَضَعْتُهَا أُنْثَى And

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when she gave birth, she said, Ya Rabbi,

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I gave birth to a girl.

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وَاللَّهُ أَعْلَمُ بِمَا وَضَعَتْ And Allah knows what

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I have given birth to.

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But in another qira'ah, it says, وَاللَّهُ

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أَعْلَمُ بِمَا وَضَعْتُهُ And Allah knows what I

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have given birth to.

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And in the other one, that means that

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she is saying it to herself.

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Anyway, so now it was Maryam.

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She called her Maryam.

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And Maryam means someone that is free from

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everything apart from the worship of Allah.

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That's the meaning of Maryam.

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Free from everything apart from servitude to Allah.

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So now, when she called her Maryam, she

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also said, وَإِنِّي أُعِيذُهَا بِكَ وَذُرِيَّتَهَا مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ

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الرَّجِيمِ And I put her and her offspring

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under your protection.

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Who was her offspring?

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Isa.

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Finished.

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So now, what is very beautiful to see

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is that the Messenger ﷺ has said, when

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someone is born, he is being touched by

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Shaytan from the very first moment that he

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is born.

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Like this.

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He pushes him.

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And this is what makes him cry.

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The baby cry.

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Of course, science shows us also why it's

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crying.

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It's to open the lungs, right?

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Because if a child were to breathe before

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leaving the womb, then it would suffocate.

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So now, the lungs open when the child

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is delivered.

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So now, this is one thing.

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We don't say that the two together can't

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be a reason.

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Do you understand what I mean?

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So now we say like, okay, the Prophet

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ﷺ said, Every child is pushed by Shaytan

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apart from Isa ibn Maryam.

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So not Isa.

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And this is what Allah says after that

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the wife of Imran made this dua, Allah

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ﷻ says, Her Lord accepted her dua.

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So, Isa wasn't touched by Shaytan.

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What do we understand here?

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That when the child is in the womb,

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even before it is in the womb, that

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you make a dua.

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That you say, if I want a child,

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I want it to serve Allah because Allah

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is Al-Mutakabbir ﷺ.

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He is the one that is elevated above

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me in rank and status.

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When I have a child, it's not for

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myself.

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It's not for myself.

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When we have a child, we just look,

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oh my little living doll.

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Oh my little puppet.

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The puppet will grow and the puppet will

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have a beard.

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So now, when you look at this, you

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see that there is a reason why she

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wanted a child.

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There are many reasons why someone wants a

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child.

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Some want it just because it's nice to

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have one.

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Some because the partners love one another.

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Sometimes a woman wants to get pregnant to

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save her marriage.

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She says, if there is another child, he

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won't leave me.

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And then, yes, the husband is busy.

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And then, okay, I feel he wants to

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leave again.

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Second child, third.

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And at the end, there will come a

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time when you will not have children.

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And very often it's then when they leave.

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So, having children to stay together is wrong.

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It is not a means, you know, like

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to save a marriage.

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It should be the result of a beautiful

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marriage.

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Okay, so now you see that she was

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already thinking, okay, I want a child.

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And if I have a child, I want

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to worship Allah.

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Then, when she was pregnant, she said, Ya

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Rabbi, I give my child to you.

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Now, that was the second thing.

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When it was born, she said, oh, it's

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a girl.

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And then Allah says, And a boy, verily,

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is not like a girl.

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These kind of verses, when not put in

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the right context, they will be misused by

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Orientalists or weak-minded Muslims.

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Weak-minded, not weak-minded from a handicap

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point of view, but weak-minded from, I

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mean, they have a sickness in their heart.

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They'll say, ah, look, men and women are

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not alike.

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Men and women are alike.

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But men and women are different.

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Meaning, men and women have the same value,

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but they have different obligations and different rights,

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because they are different.

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And together, they are the complete being.

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Together, they are in harmony.

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So, now to come back.

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When we have a look at this, In

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which context do we have to use this

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then?

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And the boy is not like a girl

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in serving the people of the Quds.

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She was sad.

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Not because she had a girl, but she

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said, like, what am I going to do

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now?

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I wanted a boy so that he could

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worship Allah in the Quds and be educated

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and formed by these great mentors.

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But now, this is not the case.

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So now, when we have a look, we

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see that she was sad.

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Not because she had a girl.

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Sad because the girl was not usually the

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one that would clean the mosque, serve the

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people.

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But now, all the people, they wanted to

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take the responsibility of Maryam.

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They all wanted to be responsible, because she

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was from a good family.

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So they said, I want to take care

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of her.

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The other one said, no, me, no, me.

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But Zakaria wanted it as well.

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So now Allah describes the way that they

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would do it.

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There was a river.

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No, there wasn't a river.

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Like a lake that would end up in

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a river.

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So a lake, and it would go downwards.

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And this was very narrow.

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So they would all take a piece of

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wood, write their own name on it, like

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Zakaria and so forth, throw it into the

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water, and the last piece of wood to

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go through the narrow space in the river

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would be the one that would take care

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of Maryam.

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And this is what Allah says, You were

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not there, O Muhammad, when they threw their

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pens, but it was pieces of wood, to

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see who the one was that could take

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care of Maryam.

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And you were not there when they were

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in dispute.

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Meaning, why does Allah say you weren't there?

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How do you know Muhammad?

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Because one, you didn't talk to the Jews

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yet.

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How do you know their stories?

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You can't read the Torah.

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You can't read the Injil.

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And there were no people telling you.

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So where did this come from?

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You were not there.

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So how did you know?

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And this was a sign for many Jews

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that Muhammad ﷺ was a prophet of God

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because he came with details that only the

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rabbis knew and never passed on.

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So this was one of those.

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So now anyway, when Zakaria took responsibility over

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Maryam, then he allowed her to do what

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the men used to do.

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But she didn't worship Allah in the open

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space of the Quds, but she had her

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personal mihram.

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And this is also what we say in

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the fiqh that every woman should have her

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musalla at home, her personal prayer space.

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According to the madhab that she follows, she

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can then, during Ramadan, perform i'tikaf in her

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prayer space.

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But only if she had this prayer space

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in her house, not just anywhere.

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So she sits down with the niyyah of

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i'tikaf, and when she goes, she breaks her

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i'tikaf.

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Is that clear?

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So this is where she would pray and

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put her Qur'an and mushaf and pray

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her clothes and do dhikr and dua.

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And this is very often better to keep

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your concentration.

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Because if you pray everywhere in your house,

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you won't have the feeling that you're really

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in a sacred space.

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It's like quick just in living room, now

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it's while I'm doing the clothes of my

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child in the bedroom.

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But if you have this place, you have

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the feeling that you are going to something

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special.

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So having a musalla in your home, for

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a woman, is a sunnah that the sahabiyat

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used to have.

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So do it.

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Okay, so we carry on.

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So now Maryam, she was taking care of

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everybody.

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Then we come at the moment where we

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said that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala provided

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her without she having to do anything.

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The problem is now, can these kind of

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things still happen?

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Can it still happen that for example, all

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of a sudden I wake up and I

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find grapes in front of me.

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And dates.

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And I ask my mother, I say, thank

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you mama.

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She said, I didn't bring it.

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Thank you daddy.

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He said, thank you for what?

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He said, I asked you to bring me

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dates and now you think I'm going to

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bring you dates?

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So he says, where did it come from?

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He thinks it's a joke from his family.

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But in reality, nobody brought it.

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Is this still possible?

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Yes, it is.

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We have to believe this.

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But to whom does it happen?

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That's another question.

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That's another question.

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So I know that some people said when

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they were imprisoned unjustly that they would have

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oranges.

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That was the only thing that they were

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given.

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And Subhanallah, the ruler was an unjust ruler

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and he imprisoned many people.

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So they would also eat the outside of

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the orange.

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How do you call that?

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The skin.

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We don't say the peel?

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No.

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So they would eat the peel or the

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skin of the orange.

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And they said, and when they came out

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of prison they told this to the people.

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They said, you must be joking.

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It's like very bitter.

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And they said, no, it's sweeter than sugar.

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They said, eat it.

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And he took it and he thought to

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have the same experience as in prison.

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Put it into his mouth and it was

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bitter.

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He said, I can't eat this.

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Why?

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When Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala wants then

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the rules, the laws of nature change.

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This is what we have to believe.

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Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala placed, created these

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laws.

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Like, to be quite frank I won't be

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surprised if I now leave my phone that

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it falls down.

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Gravity, isn't it?

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So nobody is astonished.

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It's a law.

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But these laws can be overruled.

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They are subjected to Allah and Allah is

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not subjected to these rules.

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The problem is because we are so into

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science which is not wrong up to a

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certain degree that we think that these rules

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are unbreakable.

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And Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala shows us

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in the Quran that he breaks them whenever

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he wants.

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This is what we have to believe.

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And our belief that they are subjected is

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a part of our Aqidah.

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Yes, it is a fact but Allah can

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overrule them.

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Like we see with Ibrahim Alaihissalam when Allah

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Subhanahu wa ta'ala, when the people threw

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him into the fire Allah said, يَنَارُ كُونِ

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بَرْضًا وَسَلَامًا عَلَىٰ إِبْرَهِيمِ Be gentle and kind

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to Ibrahim.

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So they say, everything was burnt but nothing

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from Ibrahim.

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He explodes everything.

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And when they ask Ibrahim like some Mufasirin

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say, what were your best days in your

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life?

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He said, when I was in the fire.

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SubhanAllah.

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So this is just in a whale.

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Can you live in a whale?

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In the stomach of a whale?

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I mean the acid and the degree of

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the acid that is in the stomach of

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a whale.

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You would come out at least.

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But there is a beautiful thing.

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When Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala says in

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the Quran, فَأَنْبَتْنَا عَلَيْهِ شَجَرًا مِنْ يَقْطِينٍ We

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made grow over him a tree of Yaqtin.

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I don't know how you say Yaqtin in

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English.

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Gourd.

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Okay.

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Now, gourd is Yaqtin is used to heal

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wounds, burning wounds.

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And SubhanAllah, when you are in the stomach

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of a whale, most probably the acid that

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comes on your skin and so forth, it

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might really destroy you.

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So now Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala, He

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covered him under that kind of tree.

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So anyway, if we are going to say,

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like now if you would tell people, Yeah,

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I believe in a prophet that lived inside

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of a whale.

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You would say, okay.

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And I believe in a prophet that was

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thrown into fire and he came out and

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was happy.

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Okay.

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And I believe in a prophet that walked

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over water.

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He will say, and I believe that you're

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in need of a psychiatrist.

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This is what he will say.

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Because that's the way that people look at

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the law of nature.

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Like it's a thing that, you know, that

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it's unbreakable, unchangeable.

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And it's almost like it is God himself.

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And Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala shows us

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not.

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But when does He show this to His

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creation?

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When they come to a point of submission

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of the mind.

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This.

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This is the last thing that we want

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to turn off.

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I don't mean that we shouldn't ponder.

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We shouldn't think.

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We shouldn't reflect.

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We shouldn't study.

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But there comes a point where your belief

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in Allah is stronger than your belief in

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gravity.

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That your belief in His overwhelming power is

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stronger than your belief in anything else.

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If I look in the Guinness Book of

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Records, I don't even know why they put

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it in the Guinness Book of Records.

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But anyway.

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A steward that was on a plane.

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The plane crashed from about nine kilometers.

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And he came out without a bruise.

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He just flew again the next day.

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Everything can happen.

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But this goes against everything we know.

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Why wasn't he hurt?

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Yeah, it must have been, you know.

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They start making calculations and so forth.

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It was just Allah.

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But they don't want to recognize it.

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Why?

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Because there are these laws.

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So now with mathematics, everything can be solved.

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So now to come back.

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Like when Zakaria came into her mihrab, he

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found fruits with her.

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He said, where did it come from?

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She said, from Allah.

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He said, from Allah.

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Okay, that's good.

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So now he asked Allah to grant him

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a child while his wife was barren and

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he was very old.

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Now sometimes when people say something like this,

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we with our intellectual minds, when somebody would

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come to you and the doctor said, your

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wife can't have any children anymore.

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She's 23.

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You start thinking about, SubhanAllah, I wanted a

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child.

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Maybe I have to divorce.

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Your parents come.

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They say, believe in Allah.

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He can do it if he wants.

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You say, Mama, the doctors.

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No, but Allah can do it.

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Mom, please.

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We are in the time of science.

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True.

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Visually, it is impossible.

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Maybe 95% that it won't happen, but

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there are people whom it happened to.

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They are the exception on the rule.

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But they are there.

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Usually it doesn't happen because there is this

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law.

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Now there is this law, the law of

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gravity, the law of this, the law.

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But Allah sometimes shows you that he can

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do the unthinkable.

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That which we can't imagine.

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He can do this.

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And this is where the Muslim keeps on

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hoping when others give up.

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The word impossible doesn't exist in your dictionary.

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It's possible for Allah.

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And very often we despair because we look

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at Allah through our limitations.

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And through the expectations we have of ourselves.

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We look at our shortcomings.

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We look at, he won't help me.

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I'm a big sinner.

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He doesn't help you because you're a sinner.

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He helps you because he's generous.

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And his generosity is stronger than your sin.

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He doesn't help you because of you.

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If he would help us because of us,

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then he would have destroyed us already.

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So you see, very often we open a

00:29:21 --> 00:29:24

door of despair because we doubt ourselves.

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And this led to doubting Allah.

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We are reflecting, or the way that we

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look at Allah is not more than a

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reflection of the way that we look at

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ourselves.

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And that's why we feel it is limited.

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Allah is not limited.

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So now, Zakaria, he asks for this child

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and Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala gave it

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immediately.

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So now we're with Maryam.

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Maryam was busy with her worship and so

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forth.

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And as was the case like Ibn Kathir

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and others mentioned, in that time, when the

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menstruational period of a woman would be finished,

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she would go further away in the desert

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to wash herself and then she would come

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back.

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So this is also what Maryam did.

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And this is why Allah Subhanahu wa ta

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'ala says, وَاذْكُرْ فِي الْكِتَابِ مَرْيَمًا إِذِ انْتَبَذَتْ

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مِنْ أَهْلِهَا مَا كَانَتْ شَقِيًّا And think, remember

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Maryam when she went far away from her

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family for this reason.

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But what happened now?

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Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala, Al-Mutakabbir, what

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I'm trying to say, is also the ones

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that can do things without the means that

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lead to these things.

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And very often, when you're going to look

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at your job, you're going to look at

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your wife, you're going to look at your

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husband, or at anything that was really important

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in your life, usually it was not what

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you were looking for but it found you.

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SubhanAllah.

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It's not what you've been looking for, it

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found you.

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So I don't think you are married.

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Are you married?

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No.

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You are married?

00:31:00 --> 00:31:02

One day you want to get married?

00:31:02 --> 00:31:03

No.

00:31:05 --> 00:31:05

Yes or no?

00:31:07 --> 00:31:07

Yes.

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Imagine if you want to get married, for

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example.

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Then you should know that there is another

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lady somewhere that wants to get married.

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She doesn't know you exist.

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She's saying yes.

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Her female Tajweed teacher is probably asking her,

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do you want to get married one day?

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And she maybe just told her, that's a

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personal question.

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Imagine if this is really true.

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And then SubhanAllah, these people meet and said,

00:31:43 --> 00:31:44

you know I had a Shaykh and he

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said this, she said when was that?

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Same moment, Allah Akbar.

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If that is true, then you're a Wali.

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Okay.

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So now, to come back, you know, we

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might be looking there.

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And when we give up, it's the moment

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we find it.

00:32:05 --> 00:32:08

Because we were, you know, we were too,

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

we were relying too much on ourselves.

00:32:13 --> 00:32:13

I want it.

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I will do it.

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I will arrange it.

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I will find her.

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I will find that job.

00:32:17 --> 00:32:18

I will find this.

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And we look and look and it's like

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the more we trust ourselves, the more we

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become blind.

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Until the wall is right in front of

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our faces and we say, I want to

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go.

00:32:28 --> 00:32:28

I want to go.

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SubhanAllah, like a robot, you know, that is

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

out of batteries.

00:32:31 --> 00:32:31

He keeps on going.

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So now, you turn around, you say, okay,

00:32:34 --> 00:32:35

that's not it.

00:32:35 --> 00:32:37

And you find it without having to look

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for it.

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And this is, what a coincidence.

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Yes, it is a coincidence.

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This is what Allah does, Al-Mutakabbir, Al

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-Ladhi Yatakabbaru Anil Asbab.

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The one that is above Asbab.

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He shows you that he's not in need

00:32:53 --> 00:32:55

of your thinking to get you where you

00:32:55 --> 00:32:55

want.

00:32:55 --> 00:32:58

He will get you where you're not thinking

00:32:58 --> 00:32:59

of so that you know that you can't

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00

escape what he wants.

00:33:02 --> 00:33:07

And this is how we, Yani, go through

00:33:07 --> 00:33:07

life.

00:33:08 --> 00:33:11

This is where we meet Allah Subhanahu wa

00:33:11 --> 00:33:11

ta'ala.

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It is when we go through the tests

00:33:14 --> 00:33:17

of life and we open our eyes that

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we see that we were blind but that

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

his names were always there.

00:33:21 --> 00:33:23

It is just for us to understand them,

00:33:23 --> 00:33:25

to see them in everything that is here.

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In everything.

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So now to come back.

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Al-Mutakabbir is the one that is above

00:33:31 --> 00:33:32

Asbab.

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So that he brings you to a point

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that you weren't even thinking of which makes

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you bigger, which makes you happy.

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Wallahi, if we are honest, the most of

00:33:44 --> 00:33:46

the things we asked for ourselves made us

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unhappy.

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And the things that came on our road

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and made our lives is that what made

00:33:50 --> 00:33:52

us happy but we weren't thinking about it.

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Subhanallah.

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And this is why we do Istikhara.

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Say, Rabbi, I'm so fed up of my

00:33:59 --> 00:33:59

own thoughts.

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I want this, I want that and every

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

time that I want something it goes against

00:34:03 --> 00:34:03

me.

00:34:03 --> 00:34:04

Ya Rabbi, Istikhara.

00:34:04 --> 00:34:05

Choose for me.

00:34:06 --> 00:34:07

But you're not even telling him what to

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

choose from.

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

This is the biggest thing.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:11

It's not like, Rabbi, this job or that

00:34:11 --> 00:34:12

job.

00:34:12 --> 00:34:14

Before you're looking for a job, you say,

00:34:14 --> 00:34:15

Rabbi, choose a job for me.

00:34:16 --> 00:34:17

How beautiful is it?

00:34:18 --> 00:34:20

You know, if you give this part of

00:34:20 --> 00:34:22

yourself to Allah Jalla wa Ala Al-Mutakabbir,

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

Wallahi, He will take care of you.

00:34:25 --> 00:34:26

Do you really think if you say, Ya

00:34:26 --> 00:34:29

Rabbi, from today onwards, I want to be

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

under your protection, under your choice.

00:34:32 --> 00:34:34

Ya Rabbi, I submit to you.

00:34:34 --> 00:34:37

Design my life in a way that it

00:34:37 --> 00:34:40

drags me closer to you, further from *

00:34:40 --> 00:34:43

to paradise and design it.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:45

Subhanallah.

00:34:45 --> 00:34:46

Not meaning that you're going to sit in

00:34:46 --> 00:34:48

your room waiting until something changes in your

00:34:48 --> 00:34:50

life and that all of a sudden you're

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

a grandfather and that won't happen.

00:34:51 --> 00:34:55

But with every step you take and with

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

every move you make, with every blink of

00:34:57 --> 00:35:00

an eye, you will see something appearing in

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

front of you that you say, this is

00:35:01 --> 00:35:02

it.

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

And this is why they say, someone who

00:35:04 --> 00:35:07

submits him or herself to Allah, it's in

00:35:07 --> 00:35:08

dunya, he's like in paradise.

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09

What do I mean?

00:35:10 --> 00:35:13

In paradise, like we said not that long

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15

ago, we said in paradise, there are no

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

needs, no wants, right?

00:35:17 --> 00:35:20

In paradise, you walk, sorry, and you say

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

like, oh, this is what I wanted.

00:35:22 --> 00:35:26

It's not first wanting and then receiving because

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

wanting is a need and a need is

00:35:28 --> 00:35:30

a feeling of something which is missing.

00:35:31 --> 00:35:34

In paradise, the moment it comes, you say,

00:35:34 --> 00:35:37

this is what I would have asked if

00:35:37 --> 00:35:38

I could have asked.

00:35:39 --> 00:35:40

So everything up, this, okay.

00:35:40 --> 00:35:44

The people that submit themselves in this life,

00:35:44 --> 00:35:47

with this and this to Allah, everything which

00:35:47 --> 00:35:48

comes on their path, they say, this is

00:35:48 --> 00:35:49

exactly what I needed.

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51

So it's like they're in paradise.

00:35:52 --> 00:35:53

One, two, two minutes, inshallah.

00:35:53 --> 00:35:57

It's like they, they are in paradise while

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

they are still here because this is what

00:35:59 --> 00:36:01

the hadith of Quds and after that I

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

come to you in Sahih Muslim where the

00:36:03 --> 00:36:06

messenger of Allah said that the most beloved

00:36:06 --> 00:36:08

thing you can do to Allah is doing

00:36:08 --> 00:36:10

what he has made obligatory.

00:36:10 --> 00:36:12

And then he said, and the best thing

00:36:12 --> 00:36:14

you can do to keep on coming closer

00:36:14 --> 00:36:16

to him until he loves you is doing

00:36:16 --> 00:36:17

what?

00:36:17 --> 00:36:18

The sunnah.

00:36:18 --> 00:36:19

Sunnah.

00:36:19 --> 00:36:22

He said, until I become the eye through

00:36:22 --> 00:36:24

which he sees, the ear through which he

00:36:24 --> 00:36:28

hears, the hand with which he takes, and

00:36:28 --> 00:36:30

the foot with which he walks.

00:36:30 --> 00:36:35

Meaning that everything you have will guide you

00:36:35 --> 00:36:38

to him and that you will look through

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

that which is good for you and you

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

will be blinded for that which is bad

00:36:42 --> 00:36:42

for you.

00:36:43 --> 00:36:44

Nothing that you hear, nothing that you see,

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

nothing that you will experience will take you

00:36:47 --> 00:36:47

away from him.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

That is the wali.

00:36:51 --> 00:36:51

Okay?

00:36:52 --> 00:36:53

That's the wali.

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

Yes.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:03

No, no, no.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:04

No, that's not what it was.

00:37:05 --> 00:37:07

I said the istikhara can, the last thing

00:37:07 --> 00:37:09

I said, you can make a dua for

00:37:09 --> 00:37:11

Allah to make the choices in your life.

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

Yes, a general dua.

00:37:14 --> 00:37:20

Say, I entrust myself and my case to

00:37:20 --> 00:37:20

Allah.

00:37:20 --> 00:37:23

Allah won't leave you.

00:37:24 --> 00:37:27

Look at a small girl walking with her

00:37:27 --> 00:37:31

father or mother through the market place, over

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

the street, cars and everything.

00:37:34 --> 00:37:37

Everywhere where daddy goes, complete trust.

00:37:38 --> 00:37:39

Daddy, isn't this dangerous?

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

No, darling.

00:37:41 --> 00:37:41

Okay, daddy.

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

Daddy, can I eat this?

00:37:44 --> 00:37:45

If you're a bad dad, you can give

00:37:45 --> 00:37:46

everything you want.

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

You say, no, this is bad for you.

00:37:49 --> 00:37:50

Okay, can I eat this?

00:37:50 --> 00:37:51

It's good for you.

00:37:51 --> 00:37:52

The child doesn't even think.

00:37:53 --> 00:37:56

What you say is good, or that she

00:37:56 --> 00:37:57

can trust, she will trust it.

00:37:58 --> 00:37:59

What you say, no, don't do it.

00:37:59 --> 00:38:00

It will be afraid.

00:38:00 --> 00:38:05

So even, subhanAllah, they say that from the

00:38:05 --> 00:38:07

moment a woman takes her child in the

00:38:07 --> 00:38:10

arms, when the child is still very small,

00:38:10 --> 00:38:11

it forgets the world.

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

The only thing it hears is the heartbeat

00:38:13 --> 00:38:13

of the mother.

00:38:14 --> 00:38:17

So now, when you as a, if your

00:38:17 --> 00:38:20

father tells you, come with me, but don't

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

ask me any questions.

00:38:22 --> 00:38:23

Come with me in the car, I want

00:38:23 --> 00:38:24

to show you something, but don't ask me.

00:38:25 --> 00:38:26

Will you go with him, yes or no?

00:38:27 --> 00:38:29

I mean, if you have a normal dad.

00:38:34 --> 00:38:35

Not breaking bad dads.

00:38:36 --> 00:38:38

So, do you understand what I mean?

00:38:38 --> 00:38:38

You would just go.

00:38:39 --> 00:38:40

Your mother tells you, can you come please

00:38:40 --> 00:38:40

now?

00:38:41 --> 00:38:42

I want to take you somewhere.

00:38:42 --> 00:38:43

You say, where?

00:38:43 --> 00:38:44

She says, just follow me.

00:38:44 --> 00:38:45

You will do it.

00:38:45 --> 00:38:48

You won't even think it's something bad she's

00:38:48 --> 00:38:48

about to bring me to.

00:38:49 --> 00:38:51

So why do we, with Allah, don't have

00:38:51 --> 00:38:52

the same trust?

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

I cannot be taken.

00:38:55 --> 00:38:56

Like to there where you think is best

00:38:56 --> 00:38:57

for me.

00:38:58 --> 00:38:59

Okay, so anyway.

00:39:00 --> 00:39:01

So Maryam now, she was in the desert.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

And there was a man that came up

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

to her in the form of a man.

00:39:08 --> 00:39:20

So now, So

00:39:20 --> 00:39:21

now this man came to her.

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

He was a beautiful man.

00:39:22 --> 00:39:28

And she said, I want you to think

00:39:28 --> 00:39:29

with me now.

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

She says, I seek refuge with the Rahman

00:39:31 --> 00:39:32

against you.

00:39:32 --> 00:39:33

Why Rahman?

00:39:35 --> 00:39:35

Why?

00:39:35 --> 00:39:37

You would think because she fears him.

00:39:37 --> 00:39:40

Why doesn't she say, Al-Jabbar, Al-Aziz,

00:39:41 --> 00:39:46

Al-Qahhar, The Destroyer, The Overwhelming, Magnificent, I

00:39:46 --> 00:39:46

don't know.

00:39:46 --> 00:39:48

But why did she say the Merciful?

00:39:51 --> 00:39:52

Isn't this what we are into?

00:39:52 --> 00:39:58

Like choosing the right dua for the right

00:39:58 --> 00:39:58

moment.

00:39:59 --> 00:40:02

Why in a case like this, Al-Rahman?

00:40:03 --> 00:40:03

Think with me.

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

Without any doubt, she perceived it like that.

00:40:14 --> 00:40:15

There's an extra reason.

00:40:20 --> 00:40:21

Allahu Akbar.

00:40:21 --> 00:40:22

One.

00:40:23 --> 00:40:26

Because she wants to remind him that Allah

00:40:26 --> 00:40:27

is Merciful.

00:40:28 --> 00:40:30

So even if you're about to do what

00:40:30 --> 00:40:31

you want to do and you don't do

00:40:31 --> 00:40:33

it, then Allah will forgive you.

00:40:34 --> 00:40:34

That's one.

00:40:35 --> 00:40:35

Two.

00:40:35 --> 00:40:38

Because she asks mercy herself.

00:40:38 --> 00:40:41

She asks for the mercy of Allah to

00:40:41 --> 00:40:43

protect her.

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

But now there's something more.

00:40:45 --> 00:40:48

Even if she would have been wronged, then

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

she would still say it's Al-Rahman.

00:40:51 --> 00:40:52

That it doesn't go away from the Rahman

00:40:52 --> 00:40:53

from Allah.

00:40:53 --> 00:40:56

Because the punishment in this life will be

00:40:56 --> 00:40:58

a greater Rahman in the hereafter.

00:40:58 --> 00:41:00

And we don't understand this now.

00:41:00 --> 00:41:01

But this is why the ulema say when

00:41:01 --> 00:41:03

you see why Allah has deprived you from

00:41:03 --> 00:41:06

something, when you understand it, you see it,

00:41:06 --> 00:41:08

you will understand that He has been giving

00:41:08 --> 00:41:09

you all the time.

00:41:10 --> 00:41:12

Like some people say, I want to marry

00:41:12 --> 00:41:14

this wife or that man.

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

I want, I want this one, this one.

00:41:17 --> 00:41:18

Dua, dua, dua.

00:41:18 --> 00:41:20

All of a sudden you hear the person

00:41:20 --> 00:41:20

is married.

00:41:21 --> 00:41:22

Why him?

00:41:22 --> 00:41:22

Why her?

00:41:23 --> 00:41:23

Subhanallah.

00:41:23 --> 00:41:24

Why him?

00:41:24 --> 00:41:24

Why her?

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Well, because Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala destined

00:41:26 --> 00:41:26

it.

00:41:26 --> 00:41:26

But anyway.

00:41:27 --> 00:41:27

So, why?

00:41:28 --> 00:41:30

And then after three years, you see that

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

same brother with eye bags.

00:41:32 --> 00:41:33

I have eye bags, but that's not because,

00:41:34 --> 00:41:36

you know, I just, I don't sleep too

00:41:36 --> 00:41:37

much and I read a lot.

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

So, I have these eye bags.

00:41:39 --> 00:41:40

So, anyway.

00:41:41 --> 00:41:42

So, and after three years, you see this

00:41:42 --> 00:41:45

brother walking with his two children on the

00:41:45 --> 00:41:45

street, tired.

00:41:46 --> 00:41:48

And say, what's wrong, bro?

00:41:49 --> 00:41:51

You say, what's wrong, brother?

00:41:52 --> 00:41:53

And he said, nothing, you know, marriage is

00:41:53 --> 00:41:54

not easy.

00:41:54 --> 00:41:57

And you're married as well with somebody else.

00:41:57 --> 00:41:58

And you say, you have no eye bags.

00:42:00 --> 00:42:03

Your children are happy playing and his children

00:42:03 --> 00:42:03

are crying.

00:42:04 --> 00:42:05

You say, the marriage is good.

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

He said, no, marriage is evil.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

You say, marriage is from Jannah.

00:42:10 --> 00:42:11

He said, marriage goes to Nahr.

00:42:11 --> 00:42:13

So, you have these two opposites.

00:42:15 --> 00:42:17

And this might have been you if you

00:42:17 --> 00:42:19

would have been married to that woman.

00:42:20 --> 00:42:22

We don't know the reason.

00:42:22 --> 00:42:23

And this can also be with men, of

00:42:23 --> 00:42:23

course.

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

We don't know what the results of our

00:42:26 --> 00:42:27

choices are.

00:42:28 --> 00:42:31

Wallahi, I don't know the results of my

00:42:31 --> 00:42:34

choice of first giving Salam to Omar and

00:42:34 --> 00:42:35

asking, how are you?

00:42:35 --> 00:42:37

Or saying, how are you?

00:42:37 --> 00:42:38

How is the family?

00:42:38 --> 00:42:39

Are you alright today?

00:42:40 --> 00:42:45

Two more sentences, I'm ten seconds later in

00:42:45 --> 00:42:48

my car, can eventually lead up to an

00:42:48 --> 00:42:48

accident.

00:42:50 --> 00:42:50

Sah?

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

So, I don't know.

00:42:52 --> 00:42:53

I don't know anything.

00:42:54 --> 00:42:55

But Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala does.

00:42:55 --> 00:42:58

So now, what I want to say is,

00:42:58 --> 00:42:59

so she said, Rahman.

00:42:59 --> 00:43:02

So, whatever happens in our life, we need

00:43:02 --> 00:43:03

to know it's always Rahman.

00:43:04 --> 00:43:05

And this is the feeling we need to

00:43:05 --> 00:43:05

have.

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

And that's a very difficult one.

00:43:08 --> 00:43:12

That whatever happens in life, Allah is always

00:43:12 --> 00:43:12

Rahman.

00:43:14 --> 00:43:14

SubhanAllah.

00:43:15 --> 00:43:17

And the Messenger of Allah said, some people

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

will want, on the Day of Judgement, that

00:43:19 --> 00:43:22

Allah would have tested them more harshly.

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

And this is when they see the reward

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

of those who have been afflicted more than

00:43:27 --> 00:43:27

them.

00:43:28 --> 00:43:29

On the Day of Judgement, when you come,

00:43:29 --> 00:43:31

and you see the reward for your afflictions,

00:43:32 --> 00:43:35

say, before it was a bit hard.

00:43:36 --> 00:43:38

And this is why Umar Ibn Abdulaziz, as

00:43:38 --> 00:43:40

I just said, like Ibn Al-Jawzi, mentioned

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

in his seerah, he said that Umar Ibn

00:43:42 --> 00:43:47

Abdulaziz said, I hope that Allah, you know,

00:43:47 --> 00:43:49

makes me struggle when I die.

00:43:50 --> 00:43:52

That I experience pain when I die.

00:43:52 --> 00:43:54

He said, Umar Ibn Abdulaziz, life is difficult

00:43:54 --> 00:43:55

enough.

00:43:55 --> 00:43:55

Why?

00:43:56 --> 00:43:59

He said, this is my last opportunity to

00:43:59 --> 00:44:00

get rid of all my sins.

00:44:03 --> 00:44:06

That's the last, last, that's really the last

00:44:06 --> 00:44:06

thing.

00:44:07 --> 00:44:09

So everybody here will die one day.

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12

And the Prophet ﷺ said, إِنَّ لِلْمَوْتِ لَسَكَرَاتٍ

00:44:12 --> 00:44:15

Death comes with its pains.

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

So remember what I'm saying now.

00:44:19 --> 00:44:20

It will be there one day.

00:44:20 --> 00:44:23

So remember when you're dying and you feel

00:44:23 --> 00:44:24

it.

00:44:24 --> 00:44:26

You feel your life leaving your body.

00:44:27 --> 00:44:29

Which is, you know how it hurts when

00:44:29 --> 00:44:30

you pull out a hair?

00:44:31 --> 00:44:33

Well, your soul is encrusted into your body

00:44:33 --> 00:44:35

more than your hair is encrusted in your

00:44:35 --> 00:44:36

skin.

00:44:36 --> 00:44:37

So you feel it.

00:44:38 --> 00:44:38

It's being peeled.

00:44:39 --> 00:44:42

But this is your last opportunity to get

00:44:42 --> 00:44:43

rid of your sins.

00:44:43 --> 00:44:46

So when this happens, think about this moment

00:44:46 --> 00:44:49

and you say, you take it with a

00:44:49 --> 00:44:49

smile.

00:44:51 --> 00:44:52

You say, Allah, alhamdulillah.

00:44:53 --> 00:44:56

It's, you know, maybe this is, everything goes.

00:44:56 --> 00:44:57

Everything you looked at.

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

Every heart you've broken.

00:44:59 --> 00:45:00

Everything you said.

00:45:00 --> 00:45:01

Everything you listened to.

00:45:01 --> 00:45:02

Everything you thought.

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

Every, you know, expression of displeasure with Allah

00:45:06 --> 00:45:07

has done in your life.

00:45:08 --> 00:45:08

Everything goes.

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

But it's also the other way around.

00:45:12 --> 00:45:14

Like we said before, sometimes we worship Allah

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

and we don't have this beautiful feeling.

00:45:16 --> 00:45:18

You know, we worship Him.

00:45:18 --> 00:45:19

We don't do anything wrong.

00:45:19 --> 00:45:21

We're not in a time of sinning.

00:45:21 --> 00:45:23

Just we don't feel it.

00:45:24 --> 00:45:26

Like that beautiful prayer that you feel that

00:45:26 --> 00:45:27

you're in Jannah and this and that.

00:45:27 --> 00:45:28

You don't feel it.

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

You say, okay, Allah hasn't accepted my deeds.

00:45:31 --> 00:45:32

This is not true.

00:45:32 --> 00:45:33

Allah is a qabit.

00:45:34 --> 00:45:37

Qabit means, He withholds something.

00:45:37 --> 00:45:38

But not forever.

00:45:39 --> 00:45:42

If He withholds something which is yours, He

00:45:42 --> 00:45:43

will give it back to you.

00:45:44 --> 00:45:47

So sometimes, because we sin so much, He

00:45:47 --> 00:45:49

withholds this because we will need it when

00:45:49 --> 00:45:50

we die.

00:45:50 --> 00:45:53

So all the beautiful feelings for every sujood,

00:45:53 --> 00:45:56

for every ruku, for every dhikr, every sadaqah

00:45:57 --> 00:46:00

will be unleashed the moment you die.

00:46:00 --> 00:46:01

Boom, there you are.

00:46:01 --> 00:46:02

And this is when you die with a

00:46:02 --> 00:46:03

smile on your face.

00:46:04 --> 00:46:08

This is which will empower you to say,

00:46:08 --> 00:46:09

La ilaha illallah.

00:46:10 --> 00:46:11

So don't worry.

00:46:12 --> 00:46:13

You're worshiping Him.

00:46:13 --> 00:46:16

The absence of this feeling is not the

00:46:16 --> 00:46:18

proof that it has not been accepted.

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

The proof that it's accepted is that He

00:46:21 --> 00:46:22

allows you to do it over and over

00:46:22 --> 00:46:23

and over again.

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

If He doesn't want you in His paradise,

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

you won't make sujood.

00:46:27 --> 00:46:28

You won't do dhikr.

00:46:29 --> 00:46:30

You don't do Qur'an.

00:46:30 --> 00:46:31

You will be now going out.

00:46:32 --> 00:46:34

You might be selling drugs or taking it,

00:46:34 --> 00:46:35

abusing it yourself.

00:46:36 --> 00:46:39

So the proof that He has accepted it

00:46:40 --> 00:46:42

is that you are allowed to continue.

00:46:43 --> 00:46:45

Like Ronaldo, for example, the moment he doesn't

00:46:45 --> 00:46:47

play very well anymore, they will kick him

00:46:47 --> 00:46:48

out even if he was the best player

00:46:48 --> 00:46:49

ever.

00:46:49 --> 00:46:50

Or Messi.

00:46:51 --> 00:46:53

So they will...

00:46:54 --> 00:46:55

Sorry, you're not good enough.

00:46:55 --> 00:46:56

No, but I want to be on the

00:46:56 --> 00:46:57

field.

00:46:57 --> 00:46:59

I'm sorry, Ronaldo, now you're 60 years old.

00:46:59 --> 00:46:59

It's done.

00:47:00 --> 00:47:01

He says, yes, but I can with my

00:47:01 --> 00:47:01

stick.

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

No, no stick, Ronaldo.

00:47:03 --> 00:47:04

Go back.

00:47:04 --> 00:47:06

So Ronaldo said, go back.

00:47:07 --> 00:47:07

So...

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10

May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala guide us

00:47:11 --> 00:47:13

So now he won't be allowed.

00:47:14 --> 00:47:15

Why?

00:47:15 --> 00:47:16

Because he can't play anymore.

00:47:17 --> 00:47:20

And if Allah doesn't accept our worship, he

00:47:20 --> 00:47:21

doesn't allow us on his field.

00:47:22 --> 00:47:26

وَأَنَّ الْمَسَاجِدَ لِلَّهِ And the mosques are Allah's.

00:47:27 --> 00:47:30

Nobody will enter his house without his permission.

00:47:30 --> 00:47:31

Forget it.

00:47:31 --> 00:47:33

How many people pass by here and they

00:47:33 --> 00:47:35

say, a mosque inshallah one day.

00:47:36 --> 00:47:37

Why one day?

00:47:38 --> 00:47:40

Why didn't you say one day?

00:47:40 --> 00:47:41

Why is your one day now here?

00:47:43 --> 00:47:43

Divine invitation.

00:47:45 --> 00:47:45

Okay.

00:47:45 --> 00:47:49

So المتكبر سبحانه وتعالى is even the one

00:47:49 --> 00:47:52

that is above your own will.

00:47:53 --> 00:47:55

How often did we want to do something

00:47:55 --> 00:47:56

evil, but then it was away.

00:47:57 --> 00:47:58

Allah took it away from us.

00:47:58 --> 00:47:59

Or we said, خلاص, I'm not going to

00:47:59 --> 00:48:00

wake up for Fajr.

00:48:01 --> 00:48:02

And subhanallah, all of a sudden this little

00:48:02 --> 00:48:05

voice says, you can't just sleep there.

00:48:05 --> 00:48:07

And you say, just let me sleep.

00:48:07 --> 00:48:10

It's like you're, you know, talking to yourself.

00:48:11 --> 00:48:12

And then you wake up.

00:48:13 --> 00:48:14

It's a feeling of guilt.

00:48:14 --> 00:48:16

Who placed this feeling of guilt in your

00:48:16 --> 00:48:18

heart and not in the heart of other

00:48:18 --> 00:48:19

people that said, I'm going to sleep and

00:48:19 --> 00:48:20

I don't want to wake up for Fajr.

00:48:22 --> 00:48:22

المتكبر.

00:48:23 --> 00:48:27

Because it's higher than your own will.

00:48:28 --> 00:48:30

He brings you there.

00:48:31 --> 00:48:33

Subhanallah, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, some

00:48:33 --> 00:48:36

people will be dragged to paradise in chains.

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39

They will be dragged in chains.

00:48:39 --> 00:48:41

Like some people, they keep on running.

00:48:41 --> 00:48:43

Do you know like these American footballers, they

00:48:43 --> 00:48:44

have a training.

00:48:44 --> 00:48:46

And footballers as well, they put like a,

00:48:46 --> 00:48:46

how do you call that?

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

A belt, an elastic belt like that.

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

And they pull and they have to run

00:48:52 --> 00:48:52

forward.

00:48:53 --> 00:48:56

You know, but they can't really run forward

00:48:56 --> 00:48:57

because they pull back all the time.

00:48:58 --> 00:49:00

And this is what we sometimes are doing.

00:49:00 --> 00:49:02

I want to go to the haram.

00:49:03 --> 00:49:04

How often does it go through our head?

00:49:04 --> 00:49:06

No, it doesn't work.

00:49:07 --> 00:49:08

Because he's pulling you back.

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

So sometimes some people, they have the feeling

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

during all their lives, I want to commit

00:49:13 --> 00:49:15

this sin, this sin, this sin.

00:49:15 --> 00:49:17

But they don't do it, but it's always

00:49:17 --> 00:49:17

in their mind.

00:49:19 --> 00:49:20

Allah drags them to paradise.

00:49:20 --> 00:49:22

He says, I'm sorry, I want you in

00:49:22 --> 00:49:23

paradise.

00:49:23 --> 00:49:25

But I want...

00:49:25 --> 00:49:26

Dragged.

00:49:28 --> 00:49:30

Some people will be dragged to paradise.

00:49:31 --> 00:49:33

Because Allah is merciful.

00:49:34 --> 00:49:35

And this is how we should look at

00:49:35 --> 00:49:35

it.

00:49:35 --> 00:49:37

You know, our problem is we experience these

00:49:37 --> 00:49:39

things, but we disconnect them from Allah.

00:49:40 --> 00:49:42

We see them happening in our minds, in

00:49:42 --> 00:49:44

our hearts, in our intentions.

00:49:44 --> 00:49:46

Why do we disconnected from Allah?

00:49:46 --> 00:49:48

When we connected to Allah, all of a

00:49:48 --> 00:49:51

sudden we are in the real world.

00:49:53 --> 00:49:55

The fake world is superficial.

00:49:56 --> 00:49:58

The real world is very deep.

00:49:59 --> 00:50:03

With a lot of, you know, unknown, you

00:50:03 --> 00:50:06

know, spaces and places and depths that are

00:50:06 --> 00:50:07

yet to be explored.

00:50:08 --> 00:50:10

And that is where we want to be.

00:50:10 --> 00:50:12

You know, under the surface.

00:50:13 --> 00:50:13

Not above it.

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

The ocean looks alike.

00:50:17 --> 00:50:20

But once you dive, you see all different

00:50:20 --> 00:50:20

worlds.

00:50:20 --> 00:50:21

This is the dunya.

00:50:22 --> 00:50:23

This is your life with Allah.

00:50:23 --> 00:50:24

See everything very clear.

00:50:25 --> 00:50:28

So now, when we go further.

00:50:29 --> 00:50:32

So Maryam, she said, اِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِالرَّحْمَالِ مِنكَ

00:50:32 --> 00:50:36

إِن كُنتَ تَقِيَّ And then, he says that

00:50:36 --> 00:50:39

he will, he gives her the message that

00:50:39 --> 00:50:42

she will receive a son once again without

00:50:42 --> 00:50:43

a sebab.

00:50:44 --> 00:50:45

And when we look, Allah subhanahu wa ta

00:50:45 --> 00:50:49

'ala created a man, not from a man

00:50:49 --> 00:50:49

and a woman.

00:50:50 --> 00:50:53

Created a woman from a man, but not

00:50:53 --> 00:50:53

from a woman.

00:50:54 --> 00:50:57

Created a man from a woman, but not

00:50:57 --> 00:50:57

from a man.

00:50:58 --> 00:51:01

And created men and women from men and

00:51:01 --> 00:51:01

women.

00:51:02 --> 00:51:03

The first one is Adam.

00:51:03 --> 00:51:04

No father, no mother.

00:51:05 --> 00:51:08

The second one is Adam.

00:51:09 --> 00:51:10

She comes out of a man.

00:51:10 --> 00:51:11

Out of Adam, but not out of a

00:51:11 --> 00:51:11

mother.

00:51:12 --> 00:51:14

And then we have Isa, who comes out

00:51:14 --> 00:51:15

of a mother, but not out of a

00:51:15 --> 00:51:15

man.

00:51:16 --> 00:51:17

And then we have all the rest come

00:51:17 --> 00:51:18

out of men and women.

00:51:19 --> 00:51:20

Men and women.

00:51:21 --> 00:51:22

Why does Allah do this?

00:51:22 --> 00:51:23

Once again, to show you the law of

00:51:23 --> 00:51:24

nature is nothing for me.

00:51:27 --> 00:51:28

I do it like this, like that, like

00:51:28 --> 00:51:29

that, and like this.

00:51:30 --> 00:51:31

And this is what Allah subhanahu wa ta

00:51:31 --> 00:51:32

'ala says in Surah Al-Imran.

00:51:33 --> 00:51:36

إِنَّ مَثَلَ عِيسَىٰ إِنَّ اللَّهِ كَمَثَلِ آدَمٍ Isa

00:51:36 --> 00:51:38

is for Allah exactly like Adam.

00:51:39 --> 00:51:40

Even though they're different.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:42

One is from no mother, no father.

00:51:42 --> 00:51:43

And the other one is from a mother

00:51:43 --> 00:51:43

without a father.

00:51:44 --> 00:51:48

إِنَّ مَثَلَ عِيسَىٰ إِنَّ اللَّهِ كَمَثَلِ آدَمٍ The

00:51:48 --> 00:51:50

creation of Isa for Allah is exactly like

00:51:50 --> 00:51:51

creating Adam.

00:51:53 --> 00:51:56

خَلَقَهُ مِنْ تُرَابِهِ ثُمَّ قَالَ لَهُ كُنْ He

00:51:56 --> 00:51:57

created them from from Turab.

00:51:57 --> 00:51:58

And then he said become.

00:52:00 --> 00:52:01

فَيَكُنْ And they became.

00:52:02 --> 00:52:03

That's it.

00:52:04 --> 00:52:07

كُنْ يَنِي أَهْلُ التَّرْبِيَةِ يَسَيِّي أَمْرُهُ بَيْنَ الْكَافِ

00:52:07 --> 00:52:10

وَالنُّونِ يَنِي His command is between the Kaaf

00:52:10 --> 00:52:10

and the Nun.

00:52:11 --> 00:52:13

يَنِي Meaning he doesn't even have to say

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

كُنْ It's so that we understand.

00:52:17 --> 00:52:21

The things exist with his will.

00:52:22 --> 00:52:24

He wills it.

00:52:24 --> 00:52:26

It's not like first I will then it

00:52:26 --> 00:52:26

happens.

00:52:26 --> 00:52:28

It's all because he is.

00:52:28 --> 00:52:31

Because I want now to move my phone.

00:52:31 --> 00:52:32

So now I move it.

00:52:32 --> 00:52:34

I first want it then I do it.

00:52:34 --> 00:52:36

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is perfect.

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

And he's not subjected to time.

00:52:39 --> 00:52:39

So anyway.

00:52:41 --> 00:52:41

Allah.

00:52:41 --> 00:52:43

So now she said how am I going

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

to have a son?

00:52:44 --> 00:52:46

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is Mutakabbir.

00:52:46 --> 00:52:47

He's above all the Asbab.

00:52:48 --> 00:52:49

And then very beautiful.

00:52:50 --> 00:52:55

فَأَجَاءَهَا الْمَخَاضُ إِلَى جِذْعِ النَّخْلَةِ So now she

00:52:55 --> 00:52:56

went far away.

00:52:57 --> 00:52:58

And in the Surah you see all the

00:52:58 --> 00:52:59

Faa.

00:52:59 --> 00:52:59

You see Faa.

00:53:00 --> 00:53:04

فَأَجَاءَهَا الْمَخَاضُ فَنَادَاهَا مِن تَحْتِهَا And in another

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

Qira'ah من تَحْتَهَا So all the Faa

00:53:06 --> 00:53:10

in the Arabic language when Faa follows it's

00:53:10 --> 00:53:11

up.

00:53:11 --> 00:53:13

Then it means it's immediately.

00:53:14 --> 00:53:17

فَأَجَاءَهَا الْمَخَاضُ إِلَى جِذْعِ النَّخْلَةِ قَالَتْ يَا لَيْتَنِي

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مِتُّ قَبْلَ هَذَا وَكُنْتُ نَسِيًا مَنْسِيًا فَنَادَاهَا This

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is why Abdullah Ibn Abbas said Maryam became

00:53:26 --> 00:53:31

pregnant of Isa in a moment.

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We will say an hour.

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She carried him for an hour.

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And she delivered him for an hour.

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That was it.

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Three hours.

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Why?

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Because Isa was not created from that which

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we are created of.

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He was immediately in the shape of the

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baby that was going to be born.

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Because he was not created out of a

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man.

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So he didn't go through all this process.

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So people say how did she stay away

00:53:58 --> 00:53:59

nine months?

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She didn't stay away nine months.

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She went and she came back.

00:54:04 --> 00:54:05

And now didn't they see it?

00:54:05 --> 00:54:07

Well the clothes were very white.

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And as a young lady that was pregnant

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it was very easy to hide it.

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So now she carried him.

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Received him, carried him and gave birth in

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three hours.

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So why?

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Because he was not created out of that

00:54:23 --> 00:54:24

which we are created from.

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And this is the opinion of Abdullah Ibn

00:54:26 --> 00:54:27

Abbas.

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So now when she was there Allah says

00:54:31 --> 00:54:32

something very beautiful.

00:54:32 --> 00:54:33

Look again Asbad.

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فَأَجَاءَهَا الْمَخَاضُ إِلَى جِدْعِ النَّخْلَةِ The pain of

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labor led her to a palm tree.

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A date tree.

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Allah said هُزِّي إِلَيْكِ بِجِدْعِ النَّخْلَةِ Shake the

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date tree.

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تُسَاقِتْ عَلَيْكِ رُطَبًا جَنِيًّا Dates will be poured

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down upon you.

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I will explain what it really means in

00:55:05 --> 00:55:05

Arabic.

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But you should know that you can't shake

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a date tree.

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The dates are very high.

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If it would have been possible, why do

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they climb in date tree?

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Just for fun.

00:55:16 --> 00:55:17

You can't shake it.

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But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wants to

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show her that he can give it through

00:55:24 --> 00:55:25

something which doesn't exist.

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Shake it.

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She didn't shake it but it fell down.

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To show once again law of nature is

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nothing for him.

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Is this clear?

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It doesn't move but yet it falls down.

00:55:39 --> 00:55:43

To see that the asbab for him are

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but asbab.

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And this inspires us with hope and trust

00:55:47 --> 00:55:49

and a vision.

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It allows us to continue and say no

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it's possible.

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People say خلاص.

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All the doors are closed.

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Allah is Al-Fattah.

00:55:57 --> 00:55:58

He has invisible doors.

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Al-Fattah.

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How do you know?

00:56:02 --> 00:56:10

So now, Now the word عليك is used.

00:56:11 --> 00:56:11

عليك.

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It's not said حولك.

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Around you.

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عليك means right on you, next to you.

00:56:19 --> 00:56:22

So that she with her labor pain didn't

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have to go fetch the dates.

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We're right near to her.

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And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala once again

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showing her you are not alone.

00:56:31 --> 00:56:34

Even if a husband would be there.

00:56:35 --> 00:56:36

But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala they say

00:56:36 --> 00:56:37

is closer.

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Figuratively speaking.

00:56:40 --> 00:56:44

To a woman delivering a child than the

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doctor who is accepting a child.

00:56:46 --> 00:56:48

How do you say this?

00:56:49 --> 00:56:50

Receiving.

00:56:51 --> 00:56:51

Not receiving.

00:56:52 --> 00:56:53

Delivering.

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Isn't she delivering a child?

00:56:57 --> 00:56:58

She's birthing.

00:56:59 --> 00:56:59

Good.

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

So this happens when you have a sheikh

00:57:03 --> 00:57:03

from Belgium.

00:57:04 --> 00:57:05

Or an imam from Belgium.

00:57:05 --> 00:57:05

Or a brother from Belgium.

00:57:08 --> 00:57:09

Okay so now.

00:57:10 --> 00:57:12

To show like even if she was alone

00:57:12 --> 00:57:12

in the desert.

00:57:14 --> 00:57:15

She was being taken care of.

00:57:18 --> 00:57:20

Sometimes we say I want to be alone

00:57:20 --> 00:57:20

with Allah.

00:57:20 --> 00:57:21

I want to be alone with Allah.

00:57:21 --> 00:57:23

I just want some time with Allah.

00:57:23 --> 00:57:24

I don't find time with Allah.

00:57:25 --> 00:57:26

Then you know when you drive your car

00:57:26 --> 00:57:27

and all of a sudden you're out of

00:57:27 --> 00:57:28

gas.

00:57:30 --> 00:57:31

And you're out of gas.

00:57:31 --> 00:57:33

And you have to park your car.

00:57:33 --> 00:57:34

And then you take your phone.

00:57:34 --> 00:57:35

Your battery is dead.

00:57:36 --> 00:57:37

You say oh no.

00:57:38 --> 00:57:39

You want to be alone with Allah.

00:57:39 --> 00:57:40

There you are.

00:57:41 --> 00:57:42

You know you are saying this.

00:57:43 --> 00:57:44

But you disconnected from Allah.

00:57:45 --> 00:57:45

No gas.

00:57:46 --> 00:57:46

Battery dead.

00:57:47 --> 00:57:48

This is what you wanted.

00:57:49 --> 00:57:49

There you are.

00:57:51 --> 00:57:51

So now.

00:57:52 --> 00:57:53

She was there alone.

00:57:54 --> 00:57:55

With Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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And he was taking care of her.

00:57:58 --> 00:57:59

She shake the tree.

00:57:59 --> 00:58:02

They say the reason why she had to

00:58:02 --> 00:58:03

shake the tree.

00:58:04 --> 00:58:04

Is one.

00:58:05 --> 00:58:06

Like we said.

00:58:06 --> 00:58:07

Law of nature.

00:58:07 --> 00:58:08

Secondly.

00:58:09 --> 00:58:12

Because she was then focused on something else.

00:58:13 --> 00:58:14

And now ajib.

00:58:15 --> 00:58:16

In hospitals now.

00:58:16 --> 00:58:18

They give laughing gas.

00:58:18 --> 00:58:19

Do you know that?

00:58:20 --> 00:58:20

It's a mask.

00:58:21 --> 00:58:22

It's gas.

00:58:22 --> 00:58:24

And it makes you a bit drunk.

00:58:26 --> 00:58:28

Or stoned or whatever that you want to.

00:58:28 --> 00:58:30

Then women start.

00:58:30 --> 00:58:30

Not everybody.

00:58:31 --> 00:58:32

But a lot of them start to laugh

00:58:32 --> 00:58:32

and giggle.

00:58:33 --> 00:58:34

And everything is cool.

00:58:35 --> 00:58:36

Subhanallah.

00:58:36 --> 00:58:37

Very flower power like.

00:58:37 --> 00:58:40

So they try to put her mind.

00:58:40 --> 00:58:41

On to something else.

00:58:42 --> 00:58:43

To divert it.

00:58:44 --> 00:58:46

This is what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:58:46 --> 00:58:47

was doing.

00:58:48 --> 00:58:50

So he was diverting her attention.

00:58:50 --> 00:58:52

So that she wouldn't be focused on her

00:58:52 --> 00:58:52

pain.

00:58:53 --> 00:58:53

You see this?

00:58:54 --> 00:58:56

So now this is not the only thing.

00:58:56 --> 00:58:57

Why dates?

00:58:58 --> 00:58:59

You should know that there is a lot

00:58:59 --> 00:58:59

of blood loss.

00:59:00 --> 00:59:01

When a woman gives birth.

00:59:02 --> 00:59:02

Dates.

00:59:02 --> 00:59:03

They help.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:05

To reduce the blood loss.

00:59:06 --> 00:59:07

During the pregnancy.

00:59:07 --> 00:59:08

There is a lot of iron in it

00:59:08 --> 00:59:08

as well.

00:59:09 --> 00:59:09

Also the sugar.

00:59:11 --> 00:59:12

Dates immediately goes to the blood.

00:59:12 --> 00:59:13

And brings it up.

00:59:13 --> 00:59:14

Same for the child.

00:59:14 --> 00:59:14

So.

00:59:15 --> 00:59:17

And also for the womb.

00:59:17 --> 00:59:18

To.

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I don't know how you call it in

00:59:20 --> 00:59:20

English.

00:59:22 --> 00:59:22

To contract.

00:59:22 --> 00:59:23

To come up.

00:59:23 --> 00:59:25

Because you can also have problems with everything.

00:59:26 --> 00:59:28

So also to produce the milk.

00:59:28 --> 00:59:30

And so many different things are all in

00:59:30 --> 00:59:31

the date.

00:59:32 --> 00:59:34

So he guided her to dates.

00:59:34 --> 00:59:36

Not to bananas or whatever.

00:59:36 --> 00:59:37

Dates.

00:59:38 --> 00:59:39

So now Alhamdulillah.

00:59:40 --> 00:59:40

When this happened.

00:59:41 --> 00:59:43

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala he showed us.

00:59:43 --> 00:59:46

Like how a woman that delivers a child.

00:59:46 --> 00:59:48

Or gives birth to a child.

00:59:48 --> 00:59:49

Should be taken care of.

00:59:50 --> 00:59:50

One.

00:59:51 --> 00:59:52

They are concentrating on something else.

00:59:52 --> 00:59:53

What do husbands do?

00:59:53 --> 00:59:54

When it's about time.

00:59:55 --> 00:59:56

Is it already there?

00:59:56 --> 00:59:56

Is it happening?

00:59:57 --> 00:59:58

Subhanallah.

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

The woman is stressing.

00:59:59 --> 01:00:00

She's in pain.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:01

How many minutes do you think?

01:00:01 --> 01:00:02

Do we have to go now?

01:00:02 --> 01:00:02

Stressing.

01:00:03 --> 01:00:04

Talk about something else.

01:00:04 --> 01:00:05

Let her show.

01:00:06 --> 01:00:07

How and when.

01:00:07 --> 01:00:09

But there's so much concentrated.

01:00:10 --> 01:00:10

On the.

01:00:12 --> 01:00:13

On birth.

01:00:13 --> 01:00:15

That they forget to take her mind away.

01:00:16 --> 01:00:18

And this is not the sunnah.

01:00:19 --> 01:00:21

So instead of asking all the time.

01:00:21 --> 01:00:22

Some men get angry.

01:00:23 --> 01:00:24

Yes they get angry.

01:00:25 --> 01:00:25

They say.

01:00:25 --> 01:00:27

It has been four hours that you're saying

01:00:27 --> 01:00:28

it's about to come.

01:00:28 --> 01:00:29

Yes.

01:00:29 --> 01:00:32

And then they pretend that the husband is.

01:00:32 --> 01:00:34

The husband pretends that his wife is.

01:00:34 --> 01:00:35

Is like faking the pain.

01:00:35 --> 01:00:36

Don't exaggerate.

01:00:36 --> 01:00:37

It's four hours now.

01:00:37 --> 01:00:38

Subhanallah.

01:00:38 --> 01:00:39

People recognize it.

01:00:40 --> 01:00:40

You know.

01:00:41 --> 01:00:41

So.

01:00:42 --> 01:00:43

And this is what is really happening.

01:00:44 --> 01:00:45

So now Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says

01:00:45 --> 01:00:45

no.

01:00:46 --> 01:00:48

Help her to focus on something else.

01:00:49 --> 01:00:49

Give her some dates.

01:00:49 --> 01:00:50

Give her something.

01:00:51 --> 01:00:51

Read a story.

01:00:52 --> 01:00:53

Do something.

01:00:53 --> 01:00:54

So now.

01:00:55 --> 01:00:56

Okay.

01:00:56 --> 01:00:56

So now.

01:00:57 --> 01:00:58

When when she gave birth.

01:00:59 --> 01:01:00

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

01:01:01 --> 01:01:01

Says.

01:01:02 --> 01:01:04

And in another qiraat.

01:01:05 --> 01:01:06

Yani.

01:01:07 --> 01:01:08

From beneath her.

01:01:08 --> 01:01:09

It was said.

01:01:10 --> 01:01:11

And some said that this was Isa.

01:01:13 --> 01:01:14

Isa.

01:01:14 --> 01:01:16

Who spoke from the very moment.

01:01:17 --> 01:01:18

She gave birth to him.

01:01:20 --> 01:01:22

Do not be sad.

01:01:26 --> 01:01:27

So anyway.

01:01:28 --> 01:01:29

So there was a river that was flowing.

01:01:30 --> 01:01:31

So that she was able to drink and

01:01:31 --> 01:01:32

wash herself.

01:01:33 --> 01:01:35

So this was provided for as well.

01:01:35 --> 01:01:38

But why don't be saddened?

01:01:38 --> 01:01:41

When she was shaking the tree.

01:01:41 --> 01:01:42

She said.

01:01:44 --> 01:01:45

Oh.

01:01:45 --> 01:01:46

If I only had died before this.

01:01:46 --> 01:01:48

And if I would only be someone who

01:01:48 --> 01:01:49

was forgotten.

01:01:49 --> 01:01:50

We spoke about this.

01:01:50 --> 01:01:50

Remember?

01:01:51 --> 01:01:52

Why did she ask for death?

01:01:53 --> 01:01:54

When we read it.

01:01:54 --> 01:01:56

We read it once again with our weak

01:01:56 --> 01:01:56

faith.

01:01:58 --> 01:01:58

We say.

01:01:58 --> 01:01:59

We say.

01:01:59 --> 01:02:00

She wanted to die.

01:02:00 --> 01:02:02

Because people would accuse her.

01:02:02 --> 01:02:02

You know.

01:02:02 --> 01:02:03

Which they did.

01:02:04 --> 01:02:05

Because she wasn't married.

01:02:05 --> 01:02:05

Yet she had.

01:02:06 --> 01:02:07

She gave birth to a child.

01:02:08 --> 01:02:09

So that she wanted to die.

01:02:09 --> 01:02:10

What is happening here?

01:02:11 --> 01:02:12

I am.

01:02:12 --> 01:02:12

Subhanallah.

01:02:12 --> 01:02:14

This doesn't fit already.

01:02:15 --> 01:02:15

Say.

01:02:15 --> 01:02:16

What's happening?

01:02:16 --> 01:02:17

I want to die.

01:02:17 --> 01:02:18

Subhanallah.

01:02:19 --> 01:02:20

Waleen is not like that.

01:02:21 --> 01:02:23

And this is why Fakhreddin al-Razi said.

01:02:23 --> 01:02:24

She wanted to die.

01:02:25 --> 01:02:27

Because she was afraid that this miracle.

01:02:29 --> 01:02:31

Would lead people to gossip.

01:02:31 --> 01:02:33

Which would be bad for them.

01:02:34 --> 01:02:35

You see the difference?

01:02:35 --> 01:02:37

She was afraid for her people.

01:02:37 --> 01:02:38

Not for herself.

01:02:39 --> 01:02:40

How can this be?

01:02:40 --> 01:02:41

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala called the mother

01:02:41 --> 01:02:42

of Isa.

01:02:45 --> 01:02:47

His mother is Siddiqa.

01:02:48 --> 01:02:49

Siddiqa is right under the prophets.

01:02:51 --> 01:02:51

You know.

01:02:51 --> 01:02:52

When Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala spoke about

01:02:52 --> 01:02:53

his gradations.

01:02:54 --> 01:02:54

He said.

01:02:56 --> 01:02:58

They are those who have been blessed by

01:02:58 --> 01:02:58

Allah.

01:03:04 --> 01:03:06

So the Siddiq is above the martyr.

01:03:08 --> 01:03:09

So how do you think that.

01:03:10 --> 01:03:11

We are looking at her story.

01:03:11 --> 01:03:13

I'm talking for myself.

01:03:13 --> 01:03:15

So her story with our weakness.

01:03:15 --> 01:03:15

Oh yeah.

01:03:15 --> 01:03:16

I would like to die as well.

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

It's too much.

01:03:18 --> 01:03:19

That was not the reason.

01:03:20 --> 01:03:21

She said.

01:03:21 --> 01:03:22

If only I would have been forgotten.

01:03:22 --> 01:03:23

They wouldn't gossip.

01:03:24 --> 01:03:25

They wouldn't do haram.

01:03:25 --> 01:03:26

Masakeen.

01:03:26 --> 01:03:27

Poor people.

01:03:28 --> 01:03:29

Isn't this the prophetic behavior?

01:03:30 --> 01:03:31

This is the prophetic behavior.

01:03:32 --> 01:03:33

It is a rahma for people.

01:03:34 --> 01:03:35

Because haram leads to *.

01:03:37 --> 01:03:37

So she said.

01:03:40 --> 01:03:41

So anyway.

01:03:42 --> 01:03:42

Then at the end.

01:03:43 --> 01:03:44

The dates fell.

01:03:45 --> 01:03:46

She took off the dates.

01:03:46 --> 01:03:47

Her child spoke.

01:03:47 --> 01:03:49

And then there was water for her.

01:03:49 --> 01:03:50

To wash herself in.

01:03:51 --> 01:03:51

To drink some water.

01:03:52 --> 01:03:54

And then she was not allowed to speak.

01:03:55 --> 01:03:57

And if you see someone.

01:03:57 --> 01:03:58

A human.

01:03:58 --> 01:03:59

A human today.

01:04:00 --> 01:04:00

A human.

01:04:01 --> 01:04:01

Today.

01:04:02 --> 01:04:03

Then.

01:04:03 --> 01:04:04

Say.

01:04:06 --> 01:04:08

Today I have promised Ar-Rahman.

01:04:08 --> 01:04:09

To fast.

01:04:11 --> 01:04:13

And I will not talk to a human

01:04:13 --> 01:04:14

being today.

01:04:15 --> 01:04:15

Why?

01:04:17 --> 01:04:17

Sometimes.

01:04:18 --> 01:04:19

Your innocence.

01:04:20 --> 01:04:21

Is so difficult to prove.

01:04:22 --> 01:04:24

That it's better for you to remain silent.

01:04:25 --> 01:04:25

And let Allah talk for you.

01:04:27 --> 01:04:28

This is.

01:04:28 --> 01:04:29

Sometimes.

01:04:30 --> 01:04:30

You know.

01:04:30 --> 01:04:31

Like this man.

01:04:32 --> 01:04:32

Subhanallah.

01:04:32 --> 01:04:33

True story.

01:04:36 --> 01:04:37

Wrote this in his book.

01:04:37 --> 01:04:39

He was one of the generals in Iraq.

01:04:39 --> 01:04:39

In the 1920s.

01:04:41 --> 01:04:41

And.

01:04:42 --> 01:04:43

He wrote a book.

01:04:43 --> 01:04:44

He became a khatib at the end.

01:04:45 --> 01:04:46

They said a man came back.

01:04:46 --> 01:04:47

It was a butcher.

01:04:47 --> 01:04:48

And had knives with him.

01:04:48 --> 01:04:50

Walking through the forest.

01:04:50 --> 01:04:50

Home.

01:04:51 --> 01:04:51

And he heard.

01:04:52 --> 01:04:53

A lady screaming.

01:04:53 --> 01:04:54

So he went.

01:04:54 --> 01:04:55

And when he came.

01:04:55 --> 01:04:56

He saw that.

01:04:57 --> 01:04:57

She was stabbed.

01:04:59 --> 01:04:59

And they went away.

01:05:00 --> 01:05:01

And there was no knife.

01:05:01 --> 01:05:03

But the moment that he bent to look

01:05:03 --> 01:05:03

at her.

01:05:03 --> 01:05:05

His own knife.

01:05:05 --> 01:05:06

Fell into her body.

01:05:07 --> 01:05:08

Like it went into her body.

01:05:09 --> 01:05:10

And at that particular moment.

01:05:11 --> 01:05:11

The people arrived.

01:05:13 --> 01:05:14

And it was clear that it was his

01:05:14 --> 01:05:14

knife.

01:05:15 --> 01:05:15

And this lady died.

01:05:16 --> 01:05:17

So he was sentenced with.

01:05:17 --> 01:05:18

Sentenced with.

01:05:18 --> 01:05:18

What?

01:05:20 --> 01:05:21

Capital punishment.

01:05:22 --> 01:05:22

So now.

01:05:23 --> 01:05:24

But he was innocent for this killing.

01:05:24 --> 01:05:24

Wasn't he?

01:05:25 --> 01:05:27

How are you going to prove this?

01:05:29 --> 01:05:29

Sometimes.

01:05:29 --> 01:05:30

You need then a miracle.

01:05:31 --> 01:05:32

But.

01:05:32 --> 01:05:33

The story goes on.

01:05:33 --> 01:05:34

Should I tell the story?

01:05:34 --> 01:05:35

I won't.

01:05:35 --> 01:05:37

It will take about 15 minutes.

01:05:38 --> 01:05:39

So maybe another day.

01:05:39 --> 01:05:40

Another lecture.

01:05:41 --> 01:05:41

Stories.

01:05:42 --> 01:05:43

So now.

01:05:44 --> 01:05:45

So now anyway.

01:05:45 --> 01:05:47

To cut the story short.

01:05:47 --> 01:05:48

He went to court.

01:05:49 --> 01:05:50

And he said.

01:05:50 --> 01:05:50

Look.

01:05:50 --> 01:05:52

I didn't kill this lady.

01:05:53 --> 01:05:55

But do you remember 30 years ago.

01:05:56 --> 01:05:58

When somebody killed someone in the forest.

01:05:59 --> 01:06:00

It's a very long story.

01:06:00 --> 01:06:01

He says.

01:06:01 --> 01:06:01

That was me.

01:06:01 --> 01:06:03

But I got away with it.

01:06:03 --> 01:06:04

And today.

01:06:05 --> 01:06:06

Allah's justice came down.

01:06:07 --> 01:06:08

He said.

01:06:08 --> 01:06:08

By Allah.

01:06:08 --> 01:06:09

I do swear.

01:06:09 --> 01:06:11

I didn't kill this lady.

01:06:11 --> 01:06:13

I did kill the other one.

01:06:13 --> 01:06:14

So please.

01:06:14 --> 01:06:15

Go and get.

01:06:15 --> 01:06:16

Get that murderer.

01:06:17 --> 01:06:19

Because he's running around somewhere.

01:06:20 --> 01:06:20

And then they knew.

01:06:21 --> 01:06:22

So then he received anyway.

01:06:22 --> 01:06:23

The capital punishment for the first killing.

01:06:24 --> 01:06:24

But not for the second.

01:06:25 --> 01:06:25

And they found the murderer.

01:06:26 --> 01:06:26

You see.

01:06:26 --> 01:06:27

So sometimes.

01:06:28 --> 01:06:29

You.

01:06:30 --> 01:06:31

You can't talk.

01:06:31 --> 01:06:32

It's too big.

01:06:33 --> 01:06:33

And.

01:06:34 --> 01:06:36

This is the very test.

01:06:37 --> 01:06:39

When everybody thinks you are wrong.

01:06:39 --> 01:06:40

Or you wronged someone.

01:06:41 --> 01:06:41

You oppressed someone.

01:06:42 --> 01:06:44

And you know it is not true.

01:06:45 --> 01:06:46

When you're a true believer.

01:06:47 --> 01:06:47

Then you do like.

01:06:48 --> 01:06:49

Ibn Ata'illah said.

01:06:49 --> 01:06:50

He said.

01:06:51 --> 01:06:53

When people accuse you falsely.

01:06:55 --> 01:06:58

And that you can't find peace of mind.

01:06:58 --> 01:06:59

Knowing that Allah knows it isn't true.

01:07:01 --> 01:07:04

Then the punishment of you not knowing it.

01:07:04 --> 01:07:05

That Allah is sufficient.

01:07:05 --> 01:07:07

Is bigger than the punishment of them accusing

01:07:07 --> 01:07:07

you.

01:07:09 --> 01:07:09

That's bigger.

01:07:10 --> 01:07:11

Because you are accusing Allah.

01:07:11 --> 01:07:13

Of not being sufficient for you.

01:07:14 --> 01:07:15

You see this.

01:07:15 --> 01:07:16

But is this easy.

01:07:16 --> 01:07:17

It also sounds very beautiful.

01:07:18 --> 01:07:18

Oh.

01:07:18 --> 01:07:18

Mashallah.

01:07:19 --> 01:07:19

Yeah.

01:07:19 --> 01:07:19

That's nice.

01:07:20 --> 01:07:21

The moment it happens.

01:07:22 --> 01:07:23

Look at Aisha.

01:07:23 --> 01:07:24

When she was falsely accused.

01:07:25 --> 01:07:26

She didn't sleep.

01:07:26 --> 01:07:26

She said.

01:07:27 --> 01:07:27

Look.

01:07:27 --> 01:07:28

She was.

01:07:28 --> 01:07:28

Look.

01:07:28 --> 01:07:29

This is what we have to do.

01:07:30 --> 01:07:30

She said.

01:07:31 --> 01:07:32

If I were to tell you.

01:07:32 --> 01:07:33

That I have done it.

01:07:33 --> 01:07:34

You would believe me.

01:07:34 --> 01:07:35

And Allah would know it isn't true.

01:07:36 --> 01:07:36

And I would.

01:07:36 --> 01:07:37

If I would have told you.

01:07:37 --> 01:07:38

That I didn't do it.

01:07:38 --> 01:07:39

You wouldn't believe me.

01:07:39 --> 01:07:40

And Allah would have known.

01:07:40 --> 01:07:40

That it's true.

01:07:41 --> 01:07:41

She says.

01:07:41 --> 01:07:42

So I'm going to say.

01:07:42 --> 01:07:44

What the Abdul Saleh said.

01:07:44 --> 01:07:44

The Prophet.

01:07:47 --> 01:07:48

The father of Yusuf.

01:07:49 --> 01:07:50

I will be patient.

01:07:50 --> 01:07:51

In the most beautiful way.

01:07:52 --> 01:07:52

That's the meaning of.

01:07:55 --> 01:07:57

And I ask Allah's help.

01:07:57 --> 01:07:58

Against what you are.

01:07:58 --> 01:07:59

Falsely saying.

01:07:59 --> 01:07:59

And claiming.

01:08:00 --> 01:08:00

So now.

01:08:01 --> 01:08:02

She remained silent.

01:08:02 --> 01:08:03

She didn't talk.

01:08:03 --> 01:08:04

She didn't defend herself anymore.

01:08:05 --> 01:08:05

She left it to Allah.

01:08:06 --> 01:08:07

What was the result?

01:08:08 --> 01:08:09

Not just a verse.

01:08:09 --> 01:08:10

That came down from the sky.

01:08:10 --> 01:08:11

She lost weight.

01:08:11 --> 01:08:12

She became pale.

01:08:13 --> 01:08:14

She was crying.

01:08:14 --> 01:08:15

Day and night.

01:08:16 --> 01:08:16

The Prophet.

01:08:17 --> 01:08:17

Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

01:08:17 --> 01:08:18

Coming in.

01:08:18 --> 01:08:18

She said.

01:08:18 --> 01:08:20

I had to look at his mouth.

01:08:20 --> 01:08:21

To see if he were.

01:08:21 --> 01:08:22

Was mumbling the.

01:08:23 --> 01:08:24

Salam or not.

01:08:25 --> 01:08:26

He didn't look at me.

01:08:26 --> 01:08:26

Look at me.

01:08:26 --> 01:08:27

Like he used to look.

01:08:27 --> 01:08:28

This was the Prophet.

01:08:29 --> 01:08:30

And this was her beloved husband.

01:08:31 --> 01:08:32

But she didn't talk.

01:08:33 --> 01:08:34

She didn't stand up.

01:08:34 --> 01:08:34

She said.

01:08:34 --> 01:08:35

Nobody will believe.

01:08:36 --> 01:08:37

And then when they came.

01:08:38 --> 01:08:39

They said.

01:08:39 --> 01:08:40

Ya Aisha.

01:08:41 --> 01:08:42

The parents of Aisha came.

01:08:42 --> 01:08:43

Abu Bakr.

01:08:43 --> 01:08:44

And his wife.

01:08:45 --> 01:08:45

Said.

01:08:45 --> 01:08:46

Go to the messenger.

01:08:46 --> 01:08:47

And thank him.

01:08:47 --> 01:08:48

She said.

01:08:48 --> 01:08:48

Why?

01:08:48 --> 01:08:49

He said.

01:08:49 --> 01:08:50

Because you have been.

01:08:51 --> 01:08:52

Your innocence.

01:08:52 --> 01:08:52

Has been declared.

01:08:53 --> 01:08:54

And then she said.

01:08:54 --> 01:08:55

Did it come from the Prophet?

01:08:55 --> 01:08:56

Or did it come from Allah?

01:08:56 --> 01:08:57

It was her husband.

01:08:58 --> 01:08:59

They said.

01:08:59 --> 01:08:59

It's a verse.

01:09:00 --> 01:09:00

Ayatutla.

01:09:00 --> 01:09:01

A verse that is recited.

01:09:02 --> 01:09:02

Until the day of judgment.

01:09:03 --> 01:09:04

And then she said.

01:09:05 --> 01:09:07

And thanks is only to Allah.

01:09:08 --> 01:09:08

And the story was finished.

01:09:09 --> 01:09:10

You never see Aisha.

01:09:11 --> 01:09:12

After that complaining.

01:09:12 --> 01:09:13

Do you find the stories.

01:09:13 --> 01:09:13

Where she said.

01:09:14 --> 01:09:15

And everybody was talking about me.

01:09:15 --> 01:09:16

And everybody was saying.

01:09:17 --> 01:09:17

This is us.

01:09:18 --> 01:09:18

We think that.

01:09:19 --> 01:09:20

We're strong in our tests.

01:09:21 --> 01:09:22

But when the test is gone.

01:09:22 --> 01:09:23

We complain.

01:09:24 --> 01:09:24

And this happened.

01:09:25 --> 01:09:25

And that happened.

01:09:25 --> 01:09:27

And I didn't expect this.

01:09:27 --> 01:09:28

And nobody was next to me.

01:09:28 --> 01:09:29

And I was all alone.

01:09:29 --> 01:09:29

And I was calling.

01:09:30 --> 01:09:30

Subhanallah.

01:09:33 --> 01:09:34

This is wrong.

01:09:35 --> 01:09:36

So we understand.

01:09:36 --> 01:09:36

I'm sorry.

01:09:36 --> 01:09:37

Why?

01:09:37 --> 01:09:38

Because Allah is Al-Mutakabbir.

01:09:38 --> 01:09:38

Meaning.

01:09:39 --> 01:09:41

That he doesn't want you.

01:09:41 --> 01:09:43

To hold on to others.

01:09:44 --> 01:09:46

And if you don't understand this.

01:09:46 --> 01:09:48

He will make you understand this.

01:09:48 --> 01:09:49

By turning those.

01:09:49 --> 01:09:50

Who you love most.

01:09:50 --> 01:09:51

Against you.

01:09:51 --> 01:09:52

This is the danger.

01:09:52 --> 01:09:54

If you don't come to a point.

01:09:55 --> 01:09:56

Where you say.

01:09:56 --> 01:09:58

Allah is sufficient for me.

01:09:58 --> 01:10:00

Then Allah will take away those.

01:10:02 --> 01:10:03

From your life.

01:10:03 --> 01:10:05

That you are attached to.

01:10:05 --> 01:10:08

The shoulder you need to cry on.

01:10:08 --> 01:10:09

Because Allah says.

01:10:09 --> 01:10:10

Do you keep on crying on the shoulders

01:10:10 --> 01:10:10

of people?

01:10:12 --> 01:10:14

While I am sufficient.

01:10:15 --> 01:10:16

I take it away.

01:10:17 --> 01:10:18

Now you feel alone.

01:10:18 --> 01:10:20

And the moment that you feel.

01:10:20 --> 01:10:22

That Allah is enough for you.

01:10:22 --> 01:10:23

He will give everything back.

01:10:24 --> 01:10:25

Because now the danger.

01:10:25 --> 01:10:26

Of you being distracted.

01:10:26 --> 01:10:27

From Allah.

01:10:27 --> 01:10:27

Through them.

01:10:27 --> 01:10:28

Is gone.

01:10:28 --> 01:10:30

So you need to go through.

01:10:31 --> 01:10:32

You need to be thrown into.

01:10:32 --> 01:10:34

The pits and the wells of.

01:10:34 --> 01:10:36

In the wells of despair.

01:10:38 --> 01:10:39

That you try to get out.

01:10:39 --> 01:10:39

Get out.

01:10:40 --> 01:10:40

Get out.

01:10:40 --> 01:10:41

You can't.

01:10:41 --> 01:10:41

And all of a sudden.

01:10:42 --> 01:10:42

You see there is a door.

01:10:42 --> 01:10:43

And there you get out.

01:10:44 --> 01:10:45

Through a way that you didn't expect.

01:10:46 --> 01:10:47

So when you love.

01:10:47 --> 01:10:49

And you attach too much to things.

01:10:50 --> 01:10:52

That they actually.

01:10:52 --> 01:10:53

Cause you.

01:10:54 --> 01:10:54

Indirectly.

01:10:54 --> 01:10:55

To do with them.

01:10:56 --> 01:10:57

What you should do with Allah.

01:10:57 --> 01:10:59

Very often it's taken away.

01:10:59 --> 01:11:00

In front of your eyes.

01:11:04 --> 01:11:05

It's a dangerous thing.

01:11:07 --> 01:11:08

So now this is what she said.

01:11:12 --> 01:11:14

So in very brief.

01:11:14 --> 01:11:15

What we have seen here.

01:11:16 --> 01:11:17

Is that Allah is Al-Mutakabir.

01:11:18 --> 01:11:19

He is above the law of nature.

01:11:19 --> 01:11:20

He is above means.

01:11:20 --> 01:11:21

He is above people.

01:11:21 --> 01:11:23

He is above everything you need.

01:11:23 --> 01:11:25

And if you.

01:11:25 --> 01:11:26

Give partially.

01:11:26 --> 01:11:28

The things to creation.

01:11:29 --> 01:11:31

What you should only give to Allah.

01:11:31 --> 01:11:32

He might test you.

01:11:33 --> 01:11:34

By taking them away from you.

01:11:35 --> 01:11:35

So.

01:11:36 --> 01:11:37

Do you want to keep them?

01:11:38 --> 01:11:39

Then do.

01:11:40 --> 01:11:41

Go directly to Allah.

01:11:41 --> 01:11:41

SubhanAllah.

01:11:43 --> 01:11:44

SubhanAllah.

01:11:46 --> 01:11:46

Now.

01:11:47 --> 01:11:48

Are there any questions?

01:11:52 --> 01:11:52

Yes.

01:11:58 --> 01:12:00

This is Ilham.

01:12:01 --> 01:12:02

Because there was also an angel.

01:12:02 --> 01:12:03

That came to her.

01:12:03 --> 01:12:04

It was Ibn Al-Ali Salam.

01:12:04 --> 01:12:05

He spoke to her.

01:12:06 --> 01:12:07

Ilham is a divine inspiration.

01:12:08 --> 01:12:09

Divine inspiration.

01:12:09 --> 01:12:10

Which is not the same.

01:12:10 --> 01:12:11

As divine revelation.

01:12:12 --> 01:12:13

Divine inspiration.

01:12:13 --> 01:12:14

Can be through a dream.

01:12:14 --> 01:12:14

For example.

01:12:15 --> 01:12:16

Or that you are.

01:12:17 --> 01:12:18

Given an insight.

01:12:18 --> 01:12:19

All of a sudden.

01:12:19 --> 01:12:20

A deep understanding of something.

01:12:21 --> 01:12:22

Or for example.

01:12:22 --> 01:12:22

You're driving.

01:12:23 --> 01:12:24

Say.

01:12:24 --> 01:12:24

SubhanAllah.

01:12:24 --> 01:12:25

I'm not going to the left.

01:12:25 --> 01:12:25

I don't know why.

01:12:26 --> 01:12:26

Usually I take this road.

01:12:27 --> 01:12:28

Let me go.

01:12:28 --> 01:12:29

This way today.

01:12:30 --> 01:12:30

And later on.

01:12:30 --> 01:12:31

You hear that something terrible.

01:12:31 --> 01:12:32

Happened there.

01:12:33 --> 01:12:34

What was this?

01:12:34 --> 01:12:35

This is what we call Ilham.

01:12:36 --> 01:12:37

It's a divine inspiration.

01:12:37 --> 01:12:38

Which is not the same.

01:12:38 --> 01:12:39

As a divine revelation.

01:12:42 --> 01:12:43

Now.

01:12:56 --> 01:12:57

No.

01:13:00 --> 01:13:01

No.

01:13:05 --> 01:13:05

No.

01:13:06 --> 01:13:06

I would.

01:13:06 --> 01:13:07

I would actually.

01:13:08 --> 01:13:10

Show them how powerful Allah is.

01:13:11 --> 01:13:13

By having created these laws.

01:13:13 --> 01:13:15

And to tell them that these laws.

01:13:16 --> 01:13:16

Are Allah's.

01:13:17 --> 01:13:19

But as he is the king of these

01:13:19 --> 01:13:20

laws.

01:13:20 --> 01:13:21

He can break the rules.

01:13:22 --> 01:13:24

Instead of saying this is not Allah's.

01:13:24 --> 01:13:24

No.

01:13:24 --> 01:13:26

It is Allah's will that they exist.

01:13:26 --> 01:13:27

Imagine if there was no.

01:13:27 --> 01:13:28

For you there was gravity.

01:13:29 --> 01:13:29

For me there wasn't.

01:13:30 --> 01:13:31

And for you there wasn't.

01:13:31 --> 01:13:32

For you there wasn't.

01:13:33 --> 01:13:33

I mean.

01:13:33 --> 01:13:35

If I were talking to you.

01:13:35 --> 01:13:36

You know.

01:13:36 --> 01:13:36

I should always.

01:13:37 --> 01:13:38

Take you back.

01:13:38 --> 01:13:38

Say.

01:13:39 --> 01:13:40

How would we pray together?

01:13:41 --> 01:13:42

First row.

01:13:42 --> 01:13:43

So.

01:13:43 --> 01:13:43

No.

01:13:43 --> 01:13:44

Just to say.

01:13:44 --> 01:13:44

To.

01:13:45 --> 01:13:47

If there wouldn't be any laws.

01:13:47 --> 01:13:48

There would be chaos.

01:13:49 --> 01:13:49

So Allah.

01:13:49 --> 01:13:49

SubhanAllah.

01:13:50 --> 01:13:51

Created them.

01:13:52 --> 01:13:53

And they exist.

01:13:53 --> 01:13:54

We don't.

01:13:54 --> 01:13:55

Do not deny their existence.

01:13:55 --> 01:13:57

But the problems of Muslims.

01:13:57 --> 01:13:57

Is that they say.

01:13:58 --> 01:13:58

Okay.

01:13:58 --> 01:13:59

That's science.

01:13:59 --> 01:14:00

But where is religion?

01:14:01 --> 01:14:01

Well.

01:14:01 --> 01:14:02

Our religion.

01:14:02 --> 01:14:03

Shows us.

01:14:03 --> 01:14:04

That these rules.

01:14:05 --> 01:14:06

That science didn't make.

01:14:06 --> 01:14:07

This is another thing.

01:14:08 --> 01:14:09

Science didn't make these rules.

01:14:09 --> 01:14:10

They unveiled it.

01:14:11 --> 01:14:12

They described it.

01:14:12 --> 01:14:14

It's a descriptive knowledge.

01:14:14 --> 01:14:15

It doesn't.

01:14:15 --> 01:14:16

It's just describing what is there.

01:14:17 --> 01:14:18

And sometimes it can be wrong.

01:14:18 --> 01:14:20

Because we don't see all the.

01:14:20 --> 01:14:22

Aspects of what we describe.

01:14:22 --> 01:14:23

So sometimes we.

01:14:23 --> 01:14:24

We get.

01:14:24 --> 01:14:25

We have a conclusion.

01:14:26 --> 01:14:26

But that conclusion.

01:14:26 --> 01:14:27

Within 10 years.

01:14:28 --> 01:14:28

Is different.

01:14:29 --> 01:14:29

Like the speed of light.

01:14:30 --> 01:14:30

For example.

01:14:30 --> 01:14:30

Like.

01:14:31 --> 01:14:31

And so forth.

01:14:32 --> 01:14:32

Which we see.

01:14:32 --> 01:14:33

Which has evolved.

01:14:33 --> 01:14:33

And has changed.

01:14:34 --> 01:14:34

And so forth.

01:14:34 --> 01:14:34

So now.

01:14:34 --> 01:14:35

If you're going to see.

01:14:35 --> 01:14:36

We are going to say.

01:14:36 --> 01:14:36

Look.

01:14:37 --> 01:14:38

Science helps us.

01:14:38 --> 01:14:39

To unveil.

01:14:40 --> 01:14:41

To describe.

01:14:42 --> 01:14:43

What Allah does.

01:14:44 --> 01:14:45

And then all of a sudden.

01:14:45 --> 01:14:46

Science is not an enemy.

01:14:47 --> 01:14:49

But science is then.

01:14:51 --> 01:14:52

Strengthening me.

01:14:52 --> 01:14:53

Like he's.

01:14:53 --> 01:14:53

Al-Qawiyy.

01:14:53 --> 01:14:54

Al-Hakim.

01:14:54 --> 01:14:55

Al-Hakim is the one.

01:14:55 --> 01:14:57

That does everything perfectly.

01:14:57 --> 01:14:58

And with wisdom.

01:14:58 --> 01:14:59

And with right proportions.

01:15:00 --> 01:15:01

Science shows me this.

01:15:02 --> 01:15:03

And this is our biggest problem.

01:15:04 --> 01:15:04

That we see science.

01:15:05 --> 01:15:05

As something separate.

01:15:06 --> 01:15:07

And religion.

01:15:07 --> 01:15:08

As something separate.

01:15:08 --> 01:15:09

What we'd want to do now.

01:15:09 --> 01:15:11

Is teach them science.

01:15:11 --> 01:15:12

And teach them that it's from Allah.

01:15:13 --> 01:15:15

You understand what I mean?

01:15:15 --> 01:15:16

And then we say.

01:15:16 --> 01:15:18

And in unusual cases.

01:15:18 --> 01:15:20

Allah can do this.

01:15:20 --> 01:15:21

And there you give some examples.

01:15:23 --> 01:15:24

I think that's the best way.

01:15:25 --> 01:15:25

Make sense?

01:15:25 --> 01:15:25

Yes.

01:15:26 --> 01:15:26

Okay.

01:15:28 --> 01:15:29

Yes Omar.

01:15:30 --> 01:15:31

You want to say something?

01:15:32 --> 01:15:32

No.

01:15:32 --> 01:15:32

Ah.

01:15:33 --> 01:15:33

No.

01:15:33 --> 01:15:33

Because you went.

01:15:34 --> 01:15:34

Okay.

01:15:47 --> 01:15:47

History.

01:15:52 --> 01:15:53

Yes.

01:15:54 --> 01:15:54

Ah.

01:15:54 --> 01:15:55

In English.

01:15:55 --> 01:15:55

I don't know.

01:15:55 --> 01:15:56

I don't know the books in English.

01:15:57 --> 01:15:57

But.

01:15:58 --> 01:15:58

Al-Nihaya.

01:15:59 --> 01:16:00

Of Ibn Athir.

01:16:00 --> 01:16:01

Is a very good one as well.

01:16:01 --> 01:16:02

But they are very good books.

01:16:02 --> 01:16:03

I think they have been translated.

01:16:04 --> 01:16:04

Also by.

01:16:05 --> 01:16:05

Doctor.

01:16:11 --> 01:16:12

Salabi.

01:16:13 --> 01:16:14

Doctor Salabi.

01:16:16 --> 01:16:16

And he has.

01:16:17 --> 01:16:17

Written about.

01:16:18 --> 01:16:19

All the different Muslim empires.

01:16:20 --> 01:16:21

History and so forth.

01:16:21 --> 01:16:22

And for me.

01:16:22 --> 01:16:22

This would be.

01:16:23 --> 01:16:23

My favorite collection.

01:16:25 --> 01:16:27

Not only prophet stories.

01:16:27 --> 01:16:27

Also others.

01:16:28 --> 01:16:29

So like.

01:16:29 --> 01:16:29

All the.

01:16:30 --> 01:16:30

The Abbasian.

01:16:30 --> 01:16:31

The Umayyad.

01:16:31 --> 01:16:32

The Fatimid.

01:16:32 --> 01:16:33

The Zinqiyan.

01:16:33 --> 01:16:34

And all.

01:16:34 --> 01:16:34

Everything.

01:16:35 --> 01:16:35

The.

01:16:35 --> 01:16:36

No.

01:16:37 --> 01:16:38

The Andalusian and so forth.

01:16:38 --> 01:16:39

So he has a.

01:16:39 --> 01:16:40

It's very good.

01:16:40 --> 01:16:40

You should.

01:16:40 --> 01:16:41

If it's in English.

01:16:41 --> 01:16:42

Doctor Salabi.

01:16:42 --> 01:16:43

And I think it is in English.

01:16:43 --> 01:16:44

Then.

01:16:44 --> 01:16:44

Then please.

01:16:45 --> 01:16:45

Read that.

01:16:47 --> 01:16:48

I'm going to have a look right now.

01:16:48 --> 01:16:48

If it exists.

01:16:50 --> 01:16:50

Mashallah.

01:16:54 --> 01:16:55

I'm not kidding.

01:16:58 --> 01:16:58

I'm going.

01:16:58 --> 01:16:59

Give me one second please.

01:16:59 --> 01:17:00

Habibin.

01:17:00 --> 01:17:00

Sorry.

01:17:09 --> 01:17:09

My.

01:17:09 --> 01:17:10

My apologies.

01:17:13 --> 01:17:14

Doctor Salabi.

01:17:21 --> 01:17:21

Doctor.

01:17:28 --> 01:17:28

Okay.

01:17:28 --> 01:17:29

It's.

01:17:29 --> 01:17:30

It's Ali Salabi.

01:17:32 --> 01:17:34

But I'm looking here.

01:17:35 --> 01:17:35

Yes.

01:17:35 --> 01:17:36

There are some books of him in.

01:17:37 --> 01:17:37

In English.

01:17:37 --> 01:17:37

Yes.

01:17:39 --> 01:17:40

Omar Ibn Khattab.

01:17:40 --> 01:17:41

Uthman Ibn Affan.

01:17:41 --> 01:17:42

Ali Ibn Abi Talib.

01:17:45 --> 01:17:45

Yes.

01:17:46 --> 01:17:46

Ali.

01:17:47 --> 01:17:47

Just Ali.

01:17:48 --> 01:17:49

And then Salabi.

01:17:49 --> 01:17:49

With an S.

01:17:49 --> 01:17:50

A double L.

01:17:50 --> 01:17:51

A.

01:17:51 --> 01:17:51

B.

01:17:51 --> 01:17:51

I.

01:17:52 --> 01:17:53

And they might also.

01:17:54 --> 01:17:55

Write it with double E.

01:17:55 --> 01:17:55

At the end.

01:17:56 --> 01:17:56

Because it's.

01:17:58 --> 01:17:58

Salabi.

01:17:58 --> 01:17:58

S.

01:17:58 --> 01:17:59

A double L.

01:17:59 --> 01:18:00

A.

01:18:00 --> 01:18:00

B.

01:18:00 --> 01:18:00

I.

01:18:00 --> 01:18:01

Or A.

01:18:01 --> 01:18:01

B.

01:18:01 --> 01:18:01

E.

01:18:02 --> 01:18:02

E.

01:18:03 --> 01:18:03

Doctor Ali.

01:18:04 --> 01:18:04

Salabi.

01:18:05 --> 01:18:05

Yes.

01:18:12 --> 01:18:12

Ah.

01:18:12 --> 01:18:12

Yes.

01:18:13 --> 01:18:13

The scholars.

01:18:14 --> 01:18:14

Yes.

01:18:14 --> 01:18:16

They go through three gates.

01:18:16 --> 01:18:17

The gate of panic.

01:18:18 --> 01:18:18

The gate of.

01:18:18 --> 01:18:19

Sorry.

01:18:19 --> 01:18:20

Of pride.

01:18:21 --> 01:18:22

Then the gate.

01:18:22 --> 01:18:23

Of humility.

01:18:23 --> 01:18:24

And then the gate.

01:18:24 --> 01:18:24

Of panic.

01:18:25 --> 01:18:25

But I.

01:18:25 --> 01:18:26

I can't explain them now.

01:18:26 --> 01:18:28

Because that will take about 15 minutes.

01:18:31 --> 01:18:32

So there are the three.

01:18:32 --> 01:18:33

Ask me next time.

01:18:33 --> 01:18:34

At the beginning of the class.

01:18:34 --> 01:18:36

And then we can just start with it.

01:18:36 --> 01:18:37

Another question.

01:18:38 --> 01:18:38

Yes.

01:18:49 --> 01:18:49

Yes.

01:18:53 --> 01:18:53

Yes.

01:18:54 --> 01:18:54

Yes.

01:18:55 --> 01:18:55

Yes.

01:18:55 --> 01:18:56

Yes.

01:18:56 --> 01:18:56

Yes.

01:18:56 --> 01:18:56

Yes.

01:18:56 --> 01:18:56

Yes.

01:19:03 --> 01:19:03

Yes.

01:19:03 --> 01:19:03

Yes.

01:19:04 --> 01:19:04

Yes.

01:19:06 --> 01:19:06

Yes.

01:19:06 --> 01:19:06

Yes.

01:19:07 --> 01:19:07

Yes.

01:19:09 --> 01:19:09

Hamas.

01:19:10 --> 01:19:10

Okay.

01:19:11 --> 01:19:11

Jazakumullahu khairan.

01:19:12 --> 01:19:12

InshaAllah.

01:19:13 --> 01:19:14

Stay tuned.

01:19:14 --> 01:19:15

Because there are two other classes.

01:19:15 --> 01:19:16

One is after Fajr.

01:19:17 --> 01:19:18

Which is a prophetic soul on Sunday.

01:19:19 --> 01:19:20

I know that's a bit early.

01:19:20 --> 01:19:22

And there's another one on Friday.

01:19:22 --> 01:19:24

The second, the third, and the fifth Friday

01:19:24 --> 01:19:24

of the month.

01:19:25 --> 01:19:26

And that's in prayer management.

01:19:27 --> 01:19:27

So.

01:19:28 --> 01:19:30

It's about importance of prayer and so forth.

01:19:30 --> 01:19:31

Jazakumullahu khairan.

01:19:31 --> 01:19:31

Barakallahu feekum.

01:19:31 --> 01:19:32

Assalallahu alayhi wa sallam.

01:19:32 --> 01:19:33

Anasayina Muhammad.

01:19:33 --> 01:19:35

Thank you once again Omar for everything.

01:19:37 --> 01:19:37

Yes.

01:19:39 --> 01:19:39

Yes.

01:19:39 --> 01:19:40

Yes.

01:19:40 --> 01:19:40

Yes.

01:19:40 --> 01:19:40

Yes.

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