Sulaiman Moola – The Spiritual Ladder – Privacy When Discussing Sensitive Matters

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A man describes a situation where a woman called her a "married to" and she was in a rush to get married. The man explains that the woman had taken a "married to" attitude, but she kept her stance until everyone left. He emphasizes the importance of not compromise anyone's help and not causing emotions to be impacted.

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			Bismillah he was salatu salam ala rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were bad. In my Muslim
Rahim Allah makes mention of a narration in Sahih Muslim in Kitab, Nika on the strength of an Omar
Rahim Allah, Who says going to encima Abdullah I was once working with Abdullah rhodiola and who be
Mena in the plains of Mena. His love to have fun when saving the earth man, but the loved one who
came by after exchanging Greetings, etc. He addressed Abdullah minimus Rudra the Allahu anhu and he
said, Hello make about Abdur Rahman in La La cahaya are Abdullah screwed? Can you kindly excuse
yourself for a moment I would love to have a moment with you in privacy, I have a particular matter
		
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			to discuss with you. Nathan eration goes on first stuff Allahu Allahu he took him in isolation and
seclusion and the Hadith also expounds on the matter that he intended discussing. In essence, it was
Satan Arthur mamre, the Allahu anhu who extended a proposal to two other live animals that can I
arrange for a prospective spouse and get you married etc. which is great is wonderful that you take
care of the needs of your brother, your friends, your companions, someone is divorced or widowed or
is looking to settle down you know, you pay them up or looking for employment. However in my memory
Rahim Allah alerts us to a great etiquette and that's the richness of our Deen. That's the profound
		
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			nature of our teachings. fee, the liloan Allah is Babel. asare be mytheresa for in Oh, man, you
start the grooming vainness we learned from this, that if you want to offer a proposal to someone to
get married, or you want to counsel someone who is having marital discord, you don't do it in public
say now Earth man did not address the matter with Abdullah massarotti in the presence of Alabama,
rather, he took him aside. So the message is my brother when you help, it's great when you empower
it's noble, but be conscious and cognitive of the surroundings and the sensitivity of people,
certainly who say it was the Noblesse of who a Buddha was one of these distinguished students, he
		
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			says, I would daily attend come to Buddha with more alcohol party salad. I was a punctual, diligent,
devoted student in the discourses of my teacher, sorry, the Messiah, Rahim Allah on a particular
instance for a student I was absent in class that affected me, he looked around for me, and he did
not see me for one and maybe more of our elderly relative. So he thought probably I had taken ill
was the other unimin holder who and he asked, you know, those are all reasonable without nobody
really had a reply for them. to LA, he bothered me when I returned after a few days, he asked me in
a container about what da da Where were you? I did not see you in the lessons for the last few days.
		
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			So I said, my teacher, my mentor to feed zojirushi, my spouse had passed away, first of all to be
Emily Ha. So I was engaged in the rituals of burials, burial, etc. So my teacher consoled me
comforted me. And then he said, Hello, bertina Why didn't you inform us financial generosity
hallmark, we would have attended the funeral as well and supported you during these trying times. So
I acknowledged his condolences and his sympathy to an akuna. And I was on the verge of now leaving
the gathering, because the lesson had concluded for Steve bacani. Is that just wait, just wait one
minute. Hatton sort of like Jimmy Roman kind of imagine his until everyone had left the gathering.
		
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			When everyone left the gathering, he renewed his condolences. And then he said, We're going forward.
I'm afraid of his death is oj luck, have you given thought to getting married again? And I said,
well, who will marry me to their daughter I am a often he said, I kept you behind till everyone
left, because I would like to marry you to my daughter. The point I'm saying sensitivity not in the
presence of people. So let us be amongst those people who can help. But let us not compromise our
help. By being insensitive to the emotions of people. I mean, terrible at me.