The Spiritual Ladder – Mutual Acknowledgement

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Bismillah he was salatu salam ala rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were banned. Sometimes a union or a relationship gets dissolved after 2030 years. And then we go back to the drawing board and we ask ourselves some tough questions, where did it all go wrong? And then if we really introspect, we will realize that the cracks were there early into the union. One of the key ingredients to sustain a marriage or any union or relationship is mutual complementation acknowledgement and reciprocation. And that's the focus the key word, reciprocating, somebody who's been kind to you acknowledge complimenting and espouses, we need to constantly be acknowledging each

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other. This was a great quality and amongst the salient features of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So we know that the normal companions or the Allahu sangoma had initially migrated to at the senior present they Ethiopia. In fact, one of my trips in Africa with the grace of Allah had the opportunity of visiting this place. It was the first place of hedra Medina was the second point of Egypt. So I delegation came from there and the the negus that was the title of the ruler of Abba senior, the person who's referenced in the Quran in the opening verses of the seven Jews. His name was us hammer. So a delegation came from at the senior to to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam received them with great warmth, love and affection. And the companions of the Allahu anhu said lo Tara Tanaka Fennec a prophet sallallahu wasallam will attend to them will attend to them, and he said in the home can only as happy McCree mean, they honored my companions, when the Meccans will hostile towards them, and to reciprocate that favor. I personally will serve them.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam relationship with Khadija de la Marina is known to one in all a woman like no other woman, our mother are in Chateau de la Miranda says I had not seen her but envy had gripped my heart regarding her simply because how the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would lavishly praise and on one instance the messenger sallallahu wasallam said to her in Chateau de la wanna be is California nurse, cottony get the bunny and nurse will certainly be marrying her is harmony and nurse that Oh, are you sure that deja believed in me when the world denied me? She trusted me when others were skeptical in embracing my message. And she opened up all her wealth and

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her assets. When others were reluctant. Gannet Wakana, she was the most unique in English and I know my sisters will be happy to hear this. They say the woman who married you when your pockets were empty, deserve the most when your pockets are full. So the message I'm saying both ways as a sister compliment your husband acknowledge and reciprocate. In fact, in order to be I read that when say then our use of Allah His Salatu was Salam

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gave his blessing government to his brother. And he said go with this year and his siblings and place it on my dad and Allah will restore his vision. So the brother who brought it was known as Yehuda, and that's the historical narrations, and he was the one who initially brought it when it was stained with false blood. So to atone for that he came with the good news and the glad tidings and he came in he placed it on the face of Satan I aku Bani Salaam for de basura his vision was restored in order to be Iran. cedra jacoba Hassan said to his son, you brought good news, great news to me that my son is alive and healthy and my vision has been restored. I want to reciprocate you I

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have absolutely nothing. So I will make a draft for you. Whoa, when Allahu la casa karate mode, may Allah make the pangs of death easy for you. In fact, the messenger sallallahu Sallam said and I leave you with this, that if someone has been kind to you, thank you acknowledge and reciprocate. And if that's not possible, that the ruler who had a thorough and political demo then leverage Li make dua for him. That's the least with which you can thank