The Most Considerate Human

Sulaiman Moola


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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim

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Al Hamdulillah halali mill Habib Alma Kini Varma lol me Bella Maureen in wanna sleep for Suba Hannah la Hila the Hikmah to who barely knew who was the one near me who was Lila tune Isla de moi Kabir remarkable. When a shadow Allah Allah Allah Allah who was the hula Sheree Kala luxury Kala houfy in a theory

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Salalah alayhi wa early he was happy he made the material cover kibou to seal

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a modificata Kala la junta Baraka wa Taala filled for unimaginable for Colonel Hamid rosabella humana shaytani r rajim Bismillah Ar Rahman AR Rahim when levena use una Meeny mina tiberi Makita Sabu *a de Danilo

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Medina sada La La viene

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friends and elders, listeners and viewers, the recent past

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has been plagued by unprecedented turbulence, which has left the most capable and wise amongst us confused and puzzled the narration of the movie that they are all highly mamina whom higher on that they are only Halle Mammon whom higher on the most wise from amongst them will be perplexed.

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I do not believe that we are in the same boat. We can argue that we are in the same storm but definitely not in the same boat. Some are sailing in their private liners. Others are in their luxury yachts. Some are in their fancy boats. Some had to hop onto a canoe and others are looking for a log to make it to show when you look around you minute by minute the mess the passengers are falling off well enough to cut the fat women back.

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Delhi Luna Allah Allah Duma Holly Lu, Allah subhanaw taala brought the Allahu anhu said in six months I had to contend with the demise of nebulae Salam and Fatima de la, I was convinced Nobody is here to stay on this earth.

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My heart goes out to those who had to lose the near and dear ones, and probably left as the only sailor on that little canoe hoping to get and navigate through this stormy waters. There's little that I can offer to you in terms of consolation, other than to remind you that what the companions are the Allahu anhu had to contend with was the greatest challenge in the annals of human history when it came to the moment of bidding farewell to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. wahala de la wahala de la Razia to Holly kin. Rosita, Yeoman Mata Fie Muhammadu. And can they be any tragedy of catastrophe, individual or collective that can equate the gravity of the catastrophe of

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the demise of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam the Qatar and Oman Zealand water the Canada new renea hora when you do that revelation was paused, not momentarily but permanently. And the light that brought brightness to the entire globe had now set on the decree of the Almighty. It's very very challenging. It's truly daunting. The best amongst us are left confused and puzzled Abubakar Ravi Allahu anhu said I'm sad who moon fikar alone cut the

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knee. Oh my Allah, this colossal burdens are weighing so heavy on me. card that weapony attorney it is exhausted me and you talking to the greatest human after the galaxy of prophets. myths the loose Suho Hooray. Almost like boulder upon boulder being placed systematically on my body myths lusso

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had that they'll just Saga Breaking up fragment in every bone of my anatomy Yala Attorney Hi so no to her data B he kalu pseudocode me *y down How I wish when that said tragic, painful, poignant moment occurred where I was in a valley to visit my other spouse, and I discovered that the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had passed away. I wish at that time, listen to these words, my listeners and viewers. Listen to these words. The moment was so intense, my heart screamed out. If only three Ahmed could occur immediately and the world could end. The Apocalypse could happen now and that's it.

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To live on beyond after nebulae, Salamis just too painful.

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Later the Yamato muttering the man Leakey, Kayla naraba, Idaho merlon, Walla Walla de

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les telethia matamata Linda Maliki, I wish that this painful moment was go incited with the apocalypse, which marked the end of the world so I don't have to go back and see my family members and live on fellas two hours.

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In Fujairah to be here, burger soli is the answer meat and

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nothing will tall more heavy on me in my life for as long as I breathe and I occupy my place on Earth. After having contended with the tragedy of the demise of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam and these this particular stanza gives me a shiver in my body. Allah is my witness when I read it I cried for days. Come Lee be bored they come in hummin Eunice siboney come Lee be bored deca min. Min una siboney is the guru to Annie LA.

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vida. Omar Habib Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam? I don't know. I don't know how much I will lament and cry and tear and wail and sob knowing very well. I will never see you again on earth for as long as I love.

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A sister messaged me last week.

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A widow. Her son was three when her husband had passed on. He has very faint memories of his late father. He's visited the grave of his father many times. But as the boy evolves and matures, he is now into his teens, a young adult and he stood by his father's grave last week. And he messaged his mom and she subsequently messaged me for guidance and direction. He looked at the grave and he said that that I just wished this grave can open for a moment. I just want to give you one last hug.

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I just want to give you one hug. I was only three when you moved on can lead people are they coming? in? Come Lee people coming in Eunice siboney

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in Arabic There are two types of gum. One is is stiff arm one is tactile. That theory is to indicate enormity comely Oh My Habib, I don't know. I don't know.

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There was nothing more comforting and cathartic than to sit in the presence of the of the messenger sallallahu wasallam. Is that to me la cabeza Candela musclepharm in el tipo de la con el masa fermina of the Alamo. Were filler for FIFA fella daffodil be a hideout. Oh My Habib sallallahu wasallam. Allah created you blemish lis. Allah created you free from every flaw. So chata Sujata Katie Sadhguru pechanga Rasul. of source. They are a matriarchy. alfaz no middles. Okay.

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So cha cha, cha cha

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K theory Sadhguru pechanga ik Rasul of source. They're a matriarchy, alphas, no meals, okay. I've been yearning and pining to compose a boom, highlighting and magnifying your impeccable character and greatness. But the truth be told, the words have failed me and my vocabulary is constricted. Nay, I couldn't find a language that could offer words in relation to your greatness.

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neph see Frieda will come in mate in one minute woman, but then in my area. bazik Well, Allah culpa, Donna, May my life be sacrifice for you. Oh My Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you were the epidemic of goodness of greatness of excellence.

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Imam Muslim Rahim Allah makes mention of a narration under the chapter Baba Slee fertility your aura phobia ha ha god jannetty wa Hello na Baba si fertility euro for Bihar. jannetty wa Hello now are the qualities which distinguish that dwellers of Paradise from the occupants of hell May Allah make us from the former and not from the latter. Armenia Balala mean Mr. Muslim Rahim Allah says, had destiny Abu Hassan ulmus marry you when Mohammed

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Mohammed Abu Bashar ribbony earthman when loves only Abby Hassan al masana Carla had the Santa Maria Zoo hishammuddin had destiny Abby, and Qatada and motorists bin Abdullah bin

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bin heimer al Musashi radi Allahu Allah Rasool Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a call. Let me seize the moment to urge or Lama scholars and myself. Take time and try to learn the new shoes and the moon. Allah puts this thought in my mind and I share this in humility and May Allah guide me. Very recently, few days ago, I retired to bed and I had some heavy concerns that had created some anxiety in my mind. I pray to units of prayer I gave some charity and I implored Allah to see Nabeel a Salam in a dream. And this has been the draw of my mom and Allah Rewarder she makes this draw for me that may Allah show you nebulae Salaam, and in particular Omer in a dream And may Allah show it

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to us all. That night I went to sleep and I unfortunately out of my weakness did not see in the Vla, salamina dream, but I found myself sitting with Sahih Muslim and memorizing Hadith.

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And for me, that was the message quite clear, that if you are engaged in the hadith of Nebula is Salatu was Salam. Then you are with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. If you are learning, teaching, imbibing, committing, disseminating. And of course, in the broader context, the entire Deen of nebulae. Salatu was Salam. I've given you the chain of narration. Mr. Muslim Rahim Allah makes mention of this, that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah in Nairobi, Mr. Ronnie and orally macoun murgia Hylton, mimma. Allah many Yoni, hada

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Allah in Arabic denotes, behold, beware, my lord has instructed me that I educate you from some of that which he has inspired me with Minister bereave in grammar and academics, which means abortion kolomela nahal, to who? Then holla alone,

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Akin lomeli nahal, to whom I didn't mean everybody, whatever wealth I have given to my servants, my bondsman, my bonds woman is permissible, indicating the evil practice of the infidels where they would make certain things forbidden on their own selves, which Allah did not make forbidden. magia Allah Allah hoomin Buffy rotting well as he

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was Lila, these were different cattle, camels, etc. that they won't mount on they wouldn't milk it. It's for a god it's for the diabetes for an ism etc. We're in the lottery by the owner of Cologne and I created all my servants who never heard of the Shura, those who are experts on the exegesis and that is understanding the divine tax and expounding on it.

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They tell us, Mr. Dinelli boo boo lil happy that Allah created every human

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With the ability to embrace the truth, which ties up with the verse of the Quran in the 21st, Jos. Faith Arata, Allah, He let the foreigner sila in every human instinctively. And what's the proof of this? When you present the truth to him, then it doesn't take much for him to embrace it. You just got to undo the negative influence which has soiled his mind, which has obscured his lenses. And I say this often, under this commentary, that amongst the many proof or the logical proof of the veracity of Islam, listen to this clearly my listeners and viewers, amongst the many logical proof of the veracity and the truthful nature of Islam is, you will find absolute consistency between the

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tenets of Islam and the temperament of the human nature.

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Because the very creator who designed our anatomy legislated our Deen so there is no inconsistency. There is no disparity. There is no discrepancy. There is no dichotomy between the human makeup and the teachings of Islam. And if perchance you find yourself frowning or scowling at any particular injunction of the dean, then this is due to external influence which has obscured your lenses.

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Otherwise, Dean, be it inheritance, bead marriage relate every aspect is in absolute harmony with the human anatomy. We're in a laboratory by the Honda Accord, know whom, and I have created my servants with the ability of truth. You don't see just like how a glove fits onto the hand. That's how the body just takes to Islam. It just it just makes perfect sense. How many reverts when they came into Islam. But this this this thing just works well. This whole explanation of Jesus peace be upon him Allah His salam, or David or Solomon or the divine scriptures, it just fits perfectly well why we're in a HELOC, or a body whenever

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we're in the home at a homeless shelter in new fajita laetrile Nandhini him and then came the devil and he diverted them from the cause of Islam, Muhammad Ali him to LA home and he made for burden for them what I made lawful, what ammirato are usually coulby malaman sylvi suparna and then he indoctrinated them to ascribe partners with me for which there is no there is no proof. There is no evidence. We're in Allah hi Navara Allah as nil.

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And then Allah glanced at the occupants of Earth public setting Nabeel Karim the Shura say this was prior to the Grand arrival of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Matata. Boom Boom, boom. Baka

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Muslim in Baka Yamuna Hillel Kitab and Allah dislike them why Li su inszone him was hooked via RT that to him this is what the commentators have written because of the evil and hideous practices. However, few people stood out and they were those who are holding on to the pristine teachings of his Salaam.

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And then the Hadith goes on Allah said to the messenger, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were in nama. This is a key point. We're in

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two curly epithelium epithelia aka Bertelli Big O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I have sent you on earth to test you and I have sent you to test others through you.

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What's the purpose of nebulous term the Hadees of a Muslim I've given you the chain of narration we're going to try and develop and expand and elucidate on this because Neela hit Allah we're in

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Omaha mozzarella, it was cinnamon in nama comes for hacer India means definitely ma is called Kapha Kapha in Arabic in terms of grammar, then it prevents the effect of you know the the Arab in terms of being the passive or the active etc. And it creates the meaning of hacer hacer means exclusive. We're in nama Bharath took an O Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam I have sent you the beta Lee to test you at law nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for empty hand okay for your spirit, Allah Eva you

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kavaratti well mushrikeen

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what is the test of Nabi? sallallahu wasallam well he persevere and and you're on the blasphemous comments of the infidels and the foe and adversaries and hostile individuals of Islam. Needless to mention, needless to mention that he is sallallahu alayhi wa sallam excelled in this test of Allah upon the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah, Allah mo and naka de casa de roca be Maja Kowloon wala cadenabbia llamo and naka de casa de Rocha Bhima Jaco loon Ahmad Habib sallallahu wasallam. We are aware of how your blessing Buddhism is being constrained by the vituperative commands, which they heard towards you by their abusive language by the obscene language for SAP

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beef behind their back. Continue glorifying Allah welcome Mina Sanji Dean, my brother, my sister, you asked me for a cure against depression. Well, this is what Allah prescribed for His Habib sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that when you in depression, it's a vulnerable time, the devil will ordinarily intensify his effort, lead you to sin, which will momentarily soothe you but subsequently aggravate your agony, which takes you back into vise and it's a vicious circle which is unending.

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a vicious circle which is unending What did Allah say to His Habib sallallahu wasallam fossa, be handy Rebecca Arabic continue glorifying Allah welcome Mina Sanjay Dean and remain amongst those who prostrate the messenger sallallahu wasallam persevered like no other human what are known and no Amina laka Hata tough Jorah Alana Mina la rue de ambu. We're not going to accept you till we don't see a spring cash from the earth. Oh you akuna laka acuna laka Jana tune minasi you need an orchard of date palms. Only akuna la cabeza means of growth. Where's your golden house? Where's your golden house?

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We will not accept you until you ascend to the heavens. He went on Mirage but then you didn't accept it? Well, no, I mean la rue de la Hata tunez de La La Nina kita benaco. Look at the audacity and look at the arrogance. We will not accept your ascension and subsequent dissension until you do not come with a written note from the skies confirming that you arrived

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what an audacity Mio cannula in La Mancha de la Rosa nehmen kabylake *a desilu moussaka, Bara Minda Lake first berekum sobre o la mina Rasul. I don't want to go into too much detail. The first test was the test of the messenger sallallahu wasallam. in Namibia to Cali AB Italia.

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Italia Bay. Now let's bring it home. And I have sent yo Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam to test mankind in its entirety through you.

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Am I in the higher nomon Boris de la him handily you suck the Punahou Oh, you can the Boo know who that test of those to whom the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was sent and remember he was sent to everyone. I have a flash now in Romani. allama. Lucy Baghdadi has debated this academically that Allah says wa salam ala rasulillah in Belize, and he told me that we have not dispatched any Prophet, but by the language of his nation, right and we have been encouraged to learn languages, because Dre Nova till Maria sorona through fatigue. calahonda anomoly Murthy

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fabella. de la Heflin nagatomo sorry, for condonation infill housing. You know, the more languages you muster, the more people you can interact with cannoli Ebony's dubare Miotto Hola. I mean, yes, akella mokulua, the minimum below Catherine O'Hara for Corona Ibanez jubair you can Lima Colaba hadn't been home Beluga T. Ignacio bear had 100 slaves, each one spoke a distinct language of Philippines were mastered 100 languages allama and OC Baghdadi under this is the beauty of the Quran.

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So the question arises that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was sent to mankind in its entirety. And the Quran declares that each Prophet came with the language of his nation. So would it mean that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam his language would be then all the languages of the world? And he answers it. He said, Allah did not say wa salam ala rasulillah in Abilene Sani Amati he, Allah said beliefs and he called me he, we will send you with the language of your tribe, with the language of your tone. The tone of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was the Arabs, but the owner of the prophets Allah Islam was the word in its entirety. kuliah Johann Nasser in near Rasulullah Isla ecom Jamia?

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So our test is my brother.

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Do we accept the message of the messenger sallallahu wasallam or not?

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And it's not as easy as Yes, I've accepted it. So when I'm in the grave, they will ask me, have you accepted the messenger sallallahu Sallam and I said yes.

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You you you hide purpose and up you alert him. Listen, marriage has its challenges. And then he comes for the nickel ceremony. And then he says no no man you know what you people have just been negatively creating the scare and panic and phobia in me for so easy NACA to have appealed to her. What does

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that say? Yeah. Oh man, I could have got married much earlier.

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Exactly. The sheer utterance was easy. But what that utterance entails is a lifelong commitment. jasola oseni. Allah advised me to amend to be last semester. Say I brought a man on Allah and diligently complied to the dictates of that Proclamation.

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Our kashipur tyrosol Allah, Allah I see your blessing to hear becoming wide, Shay Bethany Lu Ahava, Taha surah, who then its likes have made me age. And the scholars say it wasn't sort of rude in its entirety. It was one ayah in Surah, who first statim comma Amir.

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So my brother the test is that we accepted the message of the messenger sallallahu wasallam. Fast forward time, and I want to take you to that painful moment. I want to take you through that painful moment that's going to strike with me and you

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were our body will be brought to the grave

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and everyone around will start leaving, some might be embracing my son. Others might be consoling my sibling. Others will be offering the commiseration and condolences to extended family members and I will be lying there in my casket ready to be lowered into the grave wirkkala Murong Menon katsucon to Jaden oh hi boo Oh zero homem benei him fifth tuffa voli vana e Annie jarhead luckiness Isla de la cara BYU McCarthy in a while knockin me back in LA Cava merveilleux one Muslim behind in render man who was De La MaMa wha raining machine and mushy mushy or a newbie riff

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Amelie a lab at mathworks can levy and tomato Hello ora Roma Karuna Bhima who was really Ella mia combini verbena, Kahala wala who Snowbird in Morocco and fit the birds of a feather can marry that girl Juana? Well, I used to wear in kangaroo, Eros on Pepa le ebina.

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Yes, after loving Casa de Allahu anhu. puts in language, the emotions of the family members who say we not like wealth, who launched you just when you're about to take your last breath. We'll walk you to the grave. I will go ahead of everyone back off. I'm sitting in the hearse. I'm going to go ahead. That's my father. That's my brother. That's my teacher. That's my sibling. That's my mom. We'll come up close. We'll cry so much that people will realize how much we yearn for you given our tears. But then I'm afraid when it's time to have the dust over you. We joined the rest and we leave like others departs.

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Now you lowered into that grave, and I'm lowered into the grave, and then it would be asked to you matakohe newfie Roger

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Martin matakohe lofi Anheuser rajul What is your opinion about this person? I was blown away about the academic

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Right up in Ronda takari allama bedruthan ayeni and Allah gave me the opportunity to read it. Listen to these words, the scholars and the general will appreciate it. Mata punto via the Roger my brother my sister. You don't like darkness I don't like loneliness you don't like isolation? I don't like seclusion but the brutal truth is we rest in our graves alone

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in koloman face summer watty well are in Tierra de la casa

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de you will appear before Allah alone 10s of 1000s of mourners can attend your grave. Nobody takes the courage to hop in with you. You go yourself. I entered the grave myself coloman yo Carlos de Mata Fulani, Mamata Fudan one while I put them in Yo man yo Carlos de matar Omar, everyday you heard he died he died they died a day will come you will your armor ribbon hottub has died in sabi Pepe de vida e la yesterday or diva tada Molly Toby mo to be in La Via the corona you Bri Misra who FEMA maba Hola, como de de moda when la z da da da da, da, da da, or what did Shafi say? What's the matter in Toby ba ba, ba, ba he, the doctor with his expertise and his skills, he cannot prolong the

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life of one patient mollepata baby mo to be die levita de Cana up to Missoula who FEMA mother. What happened to the doctor who founded the transplant of hearts dies with a heart attack.

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The man who came about with with innovating and finding this research malita BB mu to be de Illa the katakana you Bri mithila houfy ma ma ma what has happened to the doctor he succumbs to the melody from which he gave deliverance to hundreds helical muda we welcome odawa when levy jelavic. Our Bahu woman is Tara The doctor has fallen the patient has collapsed the manufacturer of the medication has equally succumbed to the illness. And what does Allah say further Ola Eva Bella Ratan

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falola eva Bella tilahun ko Oh my love, oh my Allah, my brother, my sister, my listener, my viewer. We don't have control, when our soul will depart. And we know not when our body will die. But we do have control when our heart dies on when our heart is alive.

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Let it not be that these hearts die before the soul leaves keep these hearts active. How do you keep it active by the reign of revelation? How do you keep it active stay in the catchment area stay in the catchment area so it attracts be well billion matter.

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Let that rain fall on that land so that it can grow fellow La Bella Gotti loco fellow la vida belleza de la ku why not when the soul reaches the collarbone? Why not? Why and tumor hyena is in the room and has family members used thrown around looking in great dismay and disbelief. We now know after abou la Haman Kamala Kyla Iran Fela hola enquanto Maria MADI Nene a magazine 30 Jamuna Why don't you return the Tea Party in Seoul just hang on wait pause

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so allama Petra, Dean ayeni writes in on that will carry less than two this for Inquisitor if you had to say happy I borrow tune hoshina tune les Sufi Harto de Rouen voila v moon, that a person will be asked in the grave. What is your opinion of this man? This is a very abrupt text supposedly I'm quoting the words of Allah bedruthan ayeni What is your opinion of this man? methacholine he has orajel for Inquisitor, if you had to counter argue and say having a baritone Hasina, this is crude. This is drying This is abrupt. Laser v. v. Manuel Otto Kieran. There is no reference on respect venerable, honorable army

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Human cool to I would say alhama bedruthan any rights

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or say that be held in the hand? Oh qasida be held in the hand Oh lil Miss Wu li li Liu telecon de mucho sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he Bharati Luca el la ilaha illa La La ilaha illa Allah, the reason why this tax is so brief, so abrupt, straight to the point because the aim is to examine the occupant of the grave, so that he does not get the hint or the text does not suggest the honor of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam by the adoption of respectable terminology, if it if it was told to him, what's your opinion on the paragon of Allah's creation on the greatest human upon whom the Quran was revealed? Then obviously you would have known it, but it would be straight to the

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point What's your opinion of this person? Furthermore, on the point then we move on, I haven't started

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relax your mom's up.

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Relax, relax.

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so much to hear FEMA, Bane and nursey Please listen to this. So much to hero FEMA, Bane and Nancy and Nellie Mae, Geeta Yasuo rotten nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are in the early Lackey, neelum Valley como sobre handfish a mineral Rebagliati. Then there is this norm amongst people. There is this notion amongst people allama bedruthan, it writes, that when you will be asked this question in the grave, what's your opinion of this man? The notion is made the myth is that the portrait and the image of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam will be presented. What's your opinion of this person? And supposedly, it would be the image of the messenger sallallahu wasallam. I quote the

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words of Allah better deal. The commentator of Buhari Who am I

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lacking a lamb as a Delica Musa handfish a min arriva an erudite scholar, and a knowledgeable man of Hadith like bedruthan it says, I studied the Hadith and I did not come across this any way anywhere. So Mara, to Felisa Latina millhouses.

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Then I took the courage to read a booklet dedicated to the question in in the grave, and it's related mysteries of half is even a Hydra. Look at how open and candid they were. There's no plagiarism. There's no plagiarism. Yeah, we live in a world of plagiarism

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is smo ha la jolla bull coffee is so little huffy.

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I just marvel at the names of these books.

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What's the translation for those who don't know Arabic? A detailed explanation on a mysterious question.

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And will Java bowl cafe an adequate response to a mysterious question as to Java bool caffeine and is a little huffy he lines under point eight you don't want me to go through all the eight right because I haven't started

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Well, hello Luke Shifu lil Mei Gt hattah Yara Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are in the house so early.

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Having the pleasure rights and worlds the occupant and dweller of the grave. See the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at the time of questioning, final Java boo and na lumea read the fi hub bryndza he him were in amadora who mela Joby he means is an ideal.

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The Truth to be told this is a claim without proof. And you cannot rely on this evidence. In lamming gbit Kohli he has the Roger

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de Lille Javier wa has Allah Allahu Li and who has your own filth Vinay?

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La ilaha illa Allah is this somebody who knows what I am talking here? Is there somebody who knows Arabic Yeah.

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Ah, he said the only argument the only argument that those who drive this point can suggest is that the text is look at how they unpack look at the details.

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Love the Hadith? No humans words and life has been explored in such detail other than the messenger sallallahu wasallam. And of course the words of ALLAH is what ah

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so the question will be what's your opinion of this person and the word this in Arabic is Mashallah Kareem indicates close so close will then suggest and imply that supposedly nebulae Salam will be present, but there's no merit to this argument, because those who are familiar with the Arabic language will know that sometimes it is hard to fill them it is who defeats the hand it is in your mind present in your mind, not necessarily present in front. So my brother, my sister, my listener, my viewer, you will be lowered I will be lowered.

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And this will be the question presented to us. Easier said than done. It takes a life of compliance, a lives of diligence, a life of of reviving the legacy of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, then hopefully we will confidently and swiftly answer in the grave.

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Each year I endeavored to highlight one aspect of the messenger sallallahu wasallam. And I'm grateful to the Almighty and the blessings of my parents and the daughters of my teachers, that Allah subhanho wa Taala alerts me to different angles and aspects of the legacy of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and today I want to touch on something probably rarely spoken about. But when I looked into the new suits, I found it was brimming with so much meaning to offer in this amazing aspect of the life of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that is what a considerate human the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was

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in every aspect of his life sensitive, accommodate conscious, considerate, realize don't hurt don't offend, don't insult don't annoy emotions, physical verb don't hurt, just watch it. Just be careful, the most considerate human.

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Okay, so there is a verse in the 22nd of the Quran. In surah.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks about the narrative and the tale

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of one of the consorts of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And that was Zaina been to Joshua de la when he sallallahu Sallam wedded her.

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So after the wedding ceremony was concluded, then some companions or other your loved one whom remained at home, unintentionally inadvertently, and they started chit chatting in their chit chat and their social discussion. inadvertent not realizing it was creating discomfort to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam they prolong the presence they prolong the presence in the house after the meal was concluded and others had dispersed they remain behind and this cause pain to Nabi sallallahu Sallam in as alikum Conejo as in BFA esta Haman come wala hula Stephanie Minal Huck, there's so much to tell you about this ayah. But if I'm going to go into all the dimensions, my time

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is going to run out and I won't able to adequately focus on the point that I want to drive. So verily, your presence Look, your presence after the meal, you the nebbia creates discomfort to the messenger sallallahu Sallam for years. He minicon but he's a very modest and he's a very bashful person, so he could not tell you please stand up and bolt the door from outside.

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In biannual Koran, he has written two things. I hope the scholars can appreciate this Yeah, this is like deep stuff.

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Allah Allah.

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Allah Allah ambrane and Nelly annelle is the hyah Mina soldering bill hefty fee. I'm fairly heavy he mean maka Lee Yeah, did Bob berry Kareem was Sadhguru bill happy Minh makuta li de la Killeen Hakeem for you right. J whole musli homolka de la la la la la Motta tada

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ilaha illa Allah, we learn from this, that the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said personal rights were encroached upon, were infringed upon, and he was too modest, to be bold and say you hurt in me, please leave. So the ayah teaches us that modesty in pronouncing the reality when your personal rights are infringed is the natural disposition of a modest human?

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I don't know if my students are nodding their heads, like just by the way, or

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the messenger sallallahu wasallam personal rights were infringed. Allah command was not himself and his

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meaner son they're a bill hefty fee. I'm fairly heavy in incidents of this nature is the natural It's okay, they took long, it's my own I just kept quiet I didn't want to offend them was Sadhguru been happy Min moqtada

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al Hakim, but to proclaim the truth, to pronounce the truth to spell the reality to spell it out in its detail was the demon of the wisdom of Al Hakim the wise so Allah said I say it as it is well Ah yes.

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Of course going forward in life revelation will not come the scholars will have to for your Raja whole Muslim yo muqtada. Luckily, Allah mcdata by presidents will be given to the demand of the wisdom of the wise over the modesty of the modest

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The second thing

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The second thing that we learn from this is Would you bow as law halen Mora Shara it is compulsory men day three that we reform the norms of our society while horror my to my youth I'll be here later who and it is for better and unlawful impermissible repugnant to do anything which hurts others offends others? Well, me akun fee baru era in which there is no need or necessity that needs to be qualified in its contact. I'm not out to hurt you. I'm doing something which is necessary. I apologize if in the process you are being hurt. I don't intend that. But you are causing pain to someone over something which is not necessary. Camus Lee has lupus he likes sitting in someone's

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house and having a chit chat discussion after the meal is over. It's not necessary.

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What about our channels has been delayed? What about our nikka ceremonies been delayed? What about functions being delayed? Is this not hermeto minute as the behavior you were you cause in pain to people

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what can you see what putting more iron in my Jama it in Fiat I mean really? What are the kasara has an EVA? He has a Zamani hi toffee. me well Masha

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What does he write? What can you do? Ah like someone is invited. Listen, we have in a walima at 12 noon. Are we having the function at one that's the reception for your sermon?

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He just comes late without any excuse recently I to perform a Nika so I knew the groom's uncle. I phoned him I said, Listen, I have changed my adjustments. Actually, I was out on the Garden Route on a little bit of a holiday and I brought it forward to be so I found the groom's family and I'm like all on track. He says no, the photoshoot is still starting.

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We haven't yet arrived at the venue.

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What can you do if you worked in Meridian in majima? You've been invited for your town hall. And then you come late for the meeting for the event for the jelsa for the walima Walker. The castle era has Elisa movie has a Zamani and this type of infliction has become the norm leave the regular and the ordinary Hatter for me well, Masha is the most learner of scholars the most learner and wise and a

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Intellectual of people are guilty of inflicting pain on others because of this.

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We move on

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says

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regarding the adulterer and in fact on the topic of

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somebody coming to your house, etc, and coming on the right time if there's a delay, then then inform them but to your best of your ability, when say Diane took a vow from his children that promise me you'll bring beanie amin back. They said we promise I will not give you bieniemy until you don't promise me Lenore sila Houma Hakuna Matata Tony Moussa mean Allah He letter atone nanny ba Illa.

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Allah yo holla babbacombe promised me you will bring him back. Unless something unforeseen overwhelms you that separate death overcomes you. There's an accident there's a tragedy, but you don't get up early and you don't rise early. And you delay people.

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My son is having a chuckle because probably he knows

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trying to be euphemistic

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does he is Dean.

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Allah says humans are hasty.

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And part of this hasty nature is that it costs you a lot of difficulty. While you're the only Insan. Obey Sheree Dora who will hire a lawyer at rowlinson obey Sheree yet to allow her to be he be Sheree. Voila honey, Valhalla ke l NFC E. Li ve

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that in a moment of anger and rage. You can curse your family because your wife because your children because your property you know the silica of mines, this foolish phone of mines. This income of mines this house of mines this roof you know it just drives me insane. follows 2g by either the ib sharika huge Abu Dhabi hydrilla Halak. Allah says if I have to answer your curse like our answer your prayer you will be destroyed by own curse. What can I do la spgb Letty Hey, you sir, you're a llama used to be burly

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men by nature hasty they just look at the immediate benefit they don't think long term in row holobiont. It's written

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to Mina Chapin in Laffy cityteam awatere la jolla to mina shavon illa fi six sector Thema. Well,

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hastiness is from the devil, but on six occasions hastiness is from Allah.

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hastiness is from the devil, but on six instances, hastiness is from Allah Azza wa Salatu Alleluia walked, when the time of prayer has set in now offer your Salah definitely may be at the heart when the genocide has been brought, then offer the rituals and lower the disease into kusa lehighton if that corpse and that body is noble, then take it to its abode swiftly and if it is something evil, then flick that evil off your shoulders quickly.

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Definitely my at the other two tests, we will bakery the rocket, the young girl has reached age, get them married, don't delay previously people were delaying why because the cook was not available. You now there is a delay in the marriage why the painter is not available.

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But what has the painter got to do with the prospective girl and boy getting married? No, the house needs to look presentable. As we do we'll bakery the rocket three number four Cabo de nieva job

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Cabo de neither

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that debt time has expired, pay the man for Allah sake pay a doctor told me recently he said please come visit. My medical clinic is a top physician and a professor. He said I have the the daunting task of doing video calls to family members to show them the last moments of the disease due to the covered protocol. And then I'm grappling because the patient is like Doc, give me my phone. I need to delete some last messages. My wife mustn't see this. I need to transfer funds. My brother I always say my sister I always say if you cannot leave a legacy of virtue, delete the trail of evil. And remember, it's very difficult to delete it.

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Digital trail. Because everything is stored, everything can be retrieved in that last moment. You don't want to be scrambling around, have your affairs clean. When that man interviewed 10 people and he asked them if it's your last moment, what would you do? And he said, I would love to be massaging the feet of my mom and you. I would love to be performing a circuit around the Kaaba and you I would love to be reciting Quran and you I would love to be feeding someone. And the more Hadith of the time of the rough man, he was silent. People said What would you do if you know it's your last moment? He said I will do nothing different to what I do daily.

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I will do nothing different to what I do daily. If the angel knocks now I'm ready to meet my Allah now.

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That Agila Toby Tolbert either settle your debts. The time has lapsed, paid the Agila Toba Hasan in Toba when you've committed the crime in Amato, but while Allah Healy Lavina meluna su abijah holla in moto back to Allah Allah He lillahi Nyah meluna su abijah holla

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sumaiya to buena and Caribbean, Allah will accept that over of those who've committed an act out of ignorance and your ignorance is not contrast in knowledge. It means whenever you do an act of bias, it is an act of ignorance, some Allah who erotica ba ma la, Li, La La jaha Latin we're in Cana Ramadan.

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Allah has referred to the act of sin as ignorance even if it is done with knowledge. And the last out of the six where Allah wants you to be hasty, his

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wife either Nazzal when a visitor comes home feed him immediately how long you are causing the cliff to the people at your function.

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You delaying the food and then you take offense when the man walks out. Enough is enough those who attended perform the Rica and move on those who are present at the janazah performed the salah and move on. Tisha the food, leave all the other drizzle this and drape this and cosmetic and the rest of it, wait for the bride and the groom. This is not the teachings of Islam.

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The messenger sallallahu Sallam was the most considerate human we move on.

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CHAPTER FOUR Jews for for in taba was Lucha Anoma in Allah Hakuna Tova Bara Hema if the adulterer and the adulterous have repented, they have made Toba for redo run Houma then move on, move on. Stop reproaching them stop Don't in them. Stop discussing this with them. fee here either mode three B Aleta Eb for in who is our own Bella Dora Bora Bora Belka de algunos de facto babish Shirley la Hakeem Adama says In this ayah Allah is telling us when somebody has repented, don't sit and half that old song, my sister respectfully if I can ask you, if your husband has heard in the past, and he has repented. Don't dig soul wounds. Don't call him an adulterer when the man has made Toba. I

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know of a brother who's married he cries is a professional person. It says it's my second marriage till today my spouse Tell me Yeah, you're a divorcee. You were a divorce. See? You were a divorce. I don't know why I took you and that woman launched you. fee three piloti

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Why call people nasty things?

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Die. Yes, he's repented. For in who either on pillars Aurora. You are hurting his feelings. He's repented to allow Belka de akuna fee for a baby shower. You might provoke him back to the old wrong.

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There was a woman in the time of amagno kata it's an hire to Sahaba

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by the deviant practice of the pagan Arabs. Allah forbid they intended burying her alive. today's modern world calls it safe abortion.

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today's modern world calls it safe abortion. you frown on the practice of the pagan Arab and rightfully so.

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Today you tie the word safe with abortion in one sentence.

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ultrasonically, it has been proven that the fetus feels and yours, this foreign object that's coming in and is murdering that child. Where is this object coming from? And who is killing the very k giver? The very guardian? That is why in Surah to the query, Allah said, When Tiamat will come, why is

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that so? A lot when the child who was buried or the child who was aborted will be asked, oh, innocent soul. Why did they abort you? Why did they kill you? What was your crime in Marysville Grand Mufti Shafi? sobre? La, right? Tiana will address every injustice What was the reason of magnifying the crime of this child only amongst other crimes. The reason amongst other reasons is generally the Guardian will defend the father will be the litigant and the father will be the advocate but yours the very guardians were the perpetrators.

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The very protectors with murderers. So Allah said I will deal with those who innocently killed you.

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First Arjuna we rescued that woman a person came to Omar she was about to be buried we rescued her toddler and

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read about in the books of psychology and I've read this myself the psychological impact that lingers with those woman and those parents in the years to come. The the nightmares they have what haunts them.

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So we rescued her. Then she went through a lot of turbulence in her life.

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fossati Safra Walker the Saba had a dodgy Ha. Once we caught her she had kept some of her veins and we rescued her in time, and then we come fitted we consoled her so much she accepted Islam from Allah, Allah Koran. Then she reformed herself totally, and she's an absolute reformed woman and a dignified person. We're here and now some people are interested in getting married to her. Far off bureau home in Shani, ha. Should I alert the prospective groom and his family about the history of this girl? said naramata said you did expose her at your island Naka La Jolla Island NACA NACA LAN Leah Hillel. I'm sorry. Then I will teach you retribution like you've never seen.

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She's made Toba. The chapter has closed. It's been a long time she's reformed. Yes. If it's recent is vulnerable. She's susceptible. It's still in its infancy stages. There's a context it's a separate thing. But there's a long Toba and they are firm and they've moved on why certain tones why hurt the feelings of people? Our Deen is to be considerate.

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We move on.

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For in Asana calm filata Babu Ilyas lie in a Sevilla in Allah Hakuna Ali and Kabira This is the verse of the fifth juice of the Quran first chapter of the Quran, the context and the verses that preceded it address the aspect of marital discord and it's gonna take too much time to go into all the details. But Allah kind of wraps up the discussion on this note that oh man, oh, husband, if you find that your spouse is compliant, and she's an obliging spouse, then don't have a vindictive attitude. Don't have this vindictive attitude. You just want to take revenge you just want to get back for in Atlanta calm fella taboo Allah Hina sebelah she has been vindicated, exonerated, she's

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noble, she's she's pious, she's compliant. Now you don't go searching for a fault.

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Now see what Hakeem Alomar writes fee is the model tr li fi CR Sati Manta who be a avara feasable bill Eva amron laser surburban film noir theory, we're in nama who will bow Neff sunny.

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This is condemns any and every such move, where Allah has put someone in your trust. That woman is in your trust, Fear Allah, that child is in your trust, Fear Allah, that employee is in your trust.

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Fear Allah. That relation is a relation of trust fear Allah. Fie. He is the model FTR. It condemns those who maliciously hatch up plans, fee car settlement after who basically as the hafizabad bill Emery either be a avara FISA bill, either a amron, laser suburban field work, or in nama where

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you have a personal agenda against someone, you want to lay him off, you want to dismiss him, you want to expel him, you want to terminate the services, you want to divorce, you want to end the ease no grounds you start looking for a ground you start looking now he's like this Now she's like this year, now they like this. Allah forbid this is happening in our religious institutions leave the rest

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in nama who will bow enough sunny

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in nama who elbows on enough Sunny, it's your personal agenda, it's your own rage and anger. So now you look in but now see what this call is right? In Allah Hakuna Li Yun, Allah ends it by saying he is exalted. Now this is the principle of the seed, that the attributes of Allah the translation remains the same, but the connotations apply in the context. So Allah said don't abuse the position in which you are because I have a million times more authority over you.

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In Allah Hakuna allien my brother if you've abused that woman, my employer if you've abused that employee and vice versa, some employees are abusing the employer, taking them to the cleaners taking them to this some students might abuse the teacher some teachers might abuse it's a relation of trust. Don't cause pain to people. Don't cause pain to people don't annoy me. Show me a religion that gives you recognition to the rights of someone who occupies a seat next to you for a moment.

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While boo de la hawala Toshi Kobe Wahby Wiley Dini Santa Rosa Valley uttama well, Misaki well, Jerry they will koruba Well, job, real job he was saw Hey, babe bill Giambi, and be kind to someone who sits next to you.

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de la Rafi poofy suffering Sally hain. Cata illumine was Santa Monica Debbie Giambi, Baker fee Masjid in our majilis in Atlanta, I'm in Dallas, someone who's standing next to you in a queue to go to the counter to check in someone who's standing next to you at the queue to pay for your parking Bay at the mall. Someone who's sitting next to you how often in a gathering or in a function. That entire occasion is spoiled because you sat next to someone who is so insensitive.

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My brother you need to clean your nose, the mucus please stand up excuse yourself and go outside and take care of yourself. My brother you need to do something else. Please. This is not a grooming parlor year for to clean your feet here.

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Please can you be sensitive to people how you behave?

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in every regard, be sensitive to the person sitting next to you how often a long flight become short. If you're sitting next to the right person.

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Let me qualify gender contacts.

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Generally in business class, you're very separated.

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And that flight can be miserable. If you sitting next to a person who is just insensitive. was so happy bill. jumbie Be kind to someone sitting next to you.

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The Hadith is in Muslim,

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a companion or the Allahu anhu says Allah de sukhmani me

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masama bin muttalib

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Can I tell you a narrative and a tale about me and my mom. We said Bala please tell us for banana Anna, who you read oma who Allah to Allah. We thought he's referring to his biological mother. He said, Can I tell you something about myself and my mother? We said yes. He said, You know, one day I shadowed the Alanna told us and then we realize his reference to mother was our Chateau de la ha Wow. How nice if that would

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Be when I speak of mother. It actually means the spouses of Nabeel a Salam. And then when I talk of my mother then I need to put context I'm referring to my biological mother. Otherwise mother means the wife of nebulae, salaam.

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I always say my brother, my mom is my mom because she told me and I believe so and I trust so an eyeshadow Viola Anna is my mom because Allah told me

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because Allah told me and viola belimo me Nina mean and for say him, and Abby Ola ballymote. Amina mean and forcing him was a Jew who Omaha to whom the consorts of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam are the mothers of the soma.

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So I saw the Ilana said the hadith of a Muslim llama Kenneth Laila to Allah Tikkun in Wu sallallahu alayhi wa sallam if, indeed it was my night and then we have allow for spending it by me. Oh my word. Oh my word. I shall for the rest of my life. I can only cry in envy. I can only cry in envy. When I think of that moments where you talk about the closeness and the proximity loss aka Gil to be tildy whenever you la salon skin touched my skin and we were close. Can you imagine those moments?

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Maybe la ceram was by my house in Calabasas.

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He removed his mental and he his radar his shawl holla Anna la you talking over? discipline human circumspect, calculated

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everything in order, which woman won't agree to me that she has to last minute look for her husband's wallet, keys, phone, document, pen book iPad laptop

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that's why it's good to marry someone who's compatible so you just tell her find this GitHub and she keeps it ready for you.

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Allah bless less

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but my son Mashallah is putting me on to x. abou you need to go into x Prof. need to you need to Google search, you need to move away.

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So we tried to find the balance.

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Maybe la ceram took off his placid mental

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Hala Anna LA. He took off his shoes for water I Houma in the region a he placed his shoes by his blessitt feet.

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Then he hopped into the bed with me.

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The words of Sahih Muslim fella miall Beth Illa Ray sama, a third drama fellow mielle best ilari sama, vana and paddle rocket toe. he hopped in paused till he assumed I fell off to sleep.

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He then stood up gently, these are the words

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put his shoes on, discreetly put his shawl on politely. Fattah hell Bob. Some people Mashallah get up when they wake the neighborhood up.

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They wake the neighborhood up No, no, no, your tahajjud is amazing. Your nocturnal prayer is meritorious mine Abby was going to genital Bercy under command of Allah but my eye is asleep has not been disturbed.

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Be sensitive. You in Africa be sensitive. You in the masjid be sensitive. You in the bathroom be sensitive. You drive in on the road be sensitive fellow amneal path Illa Ray sama vana and rocket to the words go lobby sorry the ruin her Roger widen, widen softly gently, discreetly, stealthily politely

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as the Vla, salaam left eye shadow the Alexander has said

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I covered my head, the Hummer, what desert from Maharaj two v three he I quickly covered myself wrapped myself and I also exited behind the hadith of Sahih Muslim. Now v la Salam came to Berkeley Oh my law, oh my Allah. Allah He hubballi ala Hina Genie min Cooley the Infanta a la jolla

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molal Jamie rain hubballi Phil Medina themost uttaran worries con Samantha ffynnon Phil bottari ella Hina Jamie min Cooley retain Fang de la hoonah molal Jamie Ray, Allah rescue me from every trial and save me from all difficulties grant me an abode in Medina provide me sustenance in Medina and let me also sleep under the soil of Medina

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nebulised salam came to Jen natural bothy. I came behind karma he stood for Atholl three arm, he prolong the standing thermal Rafa de sala de mirage. Then he raised his hands thrice then he made

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the scholars right number one fee he is Babu a talathi da we learn when you go to the graveyard it is preferable to make a long

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Mashallah you visiting that's great. I'm sorry Alanna says it was nice to mahkamah Fatah lllt yom nebulae Salaam pro long did number two fee and

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fee is terrible for him. And

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me acmella Min De la jalousie lol kubu when you go to the graveyard the mo correcting is to stand and pray was to make dua Wolfie he is. Babu rafaela Dane and to raise your hands and make those Sahih Muslim I've given you the reference.

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Summon Hara when hereafter for Astra for Astra for her Allah for her Waldo for burapha dato La Ilaha Illa La La ilaha illAllah my brother learn Arabic please, please, but don't ask me to teach you as Rihanna.

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I know you're going to tell me I told you that. You're going to tell me I must teach you. You know.

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Oh, summon hora fan huruf to fast fast to firewall a firewall tufa

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La Ilaha Illa La La ilaha illa Allah I cannot tell you what happens to me. Then he turns so I turn he hates him so I hasten he leaves so I leave he advanced so I advanced subject to who I just got into the house before him was two and I lied down and he came in my lucky issue has Shia robbia Allah how much time you given me?

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My lucky issue eyes, eyes Oh my Allah.

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So he died to number

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30 mahmudul monada has full harfield

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so Tarsem refers where you drop off the last letter? fi Java sutera three mil Ismay. Either lamea confy thou only monada What's the whole focus don't hurt anyone. We learn from this it's permissible to omit the last letter and abbreviate the name provided the individual is not offended by this lesson I don't like you call me mo lesson I don't like you call me silly. And I mean it. But you know, when we were kids, it was like solely from the fives

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I told that one person you see it he said you know I'm Superman and I'm spider man. I said well we slay man.

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fee Hey Joe. de Mille is

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the permissibility of abbreviating when either alum yakun is our own little monada don't abbreviate if the man is offended. I don't like this name. Why are you insisting on calling the person when he's not happy with it?

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Yeah, issue. Our issue and in is from the grammar fee he was Hungarian you do so frequently. Muhammad Obama told us Leah right. If you know they've added that you have two options you can put Bama and the original haircut. Kamata, poofy Harris Yahuwah Hari Buffy earthman young earth mo

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Wolfie mensual in Yemen. So the examples in hidayatullah Yara issue, eyes hasha Corp. robbia Allah de Lille mussorie

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A little mystery. Why are you breathing so heavy? Ayesha? Why are you breathing

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lashay nothing. Look at these words. I wish Oh my love Oh my Allah give us the clock of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam oma is letter V. Ola yo piranha Latif will hobby. If you want to tell me or you want Allah to inform me, eyes, eyes you're going to tell me or my smile Allah Tell me Mama yocto NASA Allah mucho la whatever we want to hide Allah knows everything indeed or is for our borrower to who Alhambra? I shall the Alanna then explains the whole incident.

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Then Avi sallallahu, wasallam said in a jabrill attorney hain are at you know when you see me standing up softly, gently, discreetly, actually, jabril came for now Danny had a Muslim. He called me for a job to who I obliged for alpha who minkee he didn't raise his voice when a mere two hola la que Waka devadatta Thea Bucky because you had removed your additional clothing your mental you had removed it so jabril would not enter for fun or Danny for a job to who failed to who minky and I also kept it a secret from you. And the reason why I came out softly I was afraid and the stone Rishi that your eyes must not open and you discover you alone.

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You getting up at night rushing What happened? The alarm is triggered at the warehouse men get up when what you make a noise here for

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I can't be worried about your sleep and everything. Yeah, you woke me up good luck.

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The alarm triggered the dog is barking.

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gibreel came and told me in Naropa kya maruka and Dr. Hillel Bertie.

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Allah is instructing you to go to Berkeley and make dua Abu talhah commentating on this Hadees

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karma and nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Cana euro e l o moral cabbie Raja

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come Gama and nebia Salatu was Salam Karna Yuri Allo moral cabbie Raja unli Mojave Neha minhwa de Bingley Allah takuna surburban li a V min originally when Nisa cara de lica karna sallallahu alayhi wa sallam murarrie l o Murrell bercerita was sorry rotta jaydon li Allah takuna surburban li ve t ryrie de Monterrey jolly one Nisa.

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Just as the Prophet of Allah was sensitive in the most great matters of life, he was equally sensitive in the most petty, simple and small miniscule issues as well, so that it does not offend any human in any way.

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Time is moving a Buddha the Alon who makes mention of the narration that are asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Okay, let me mention another Hadith and then I will come back to this year, a verse of the Quran

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surah to the hareem so then we have Allah after answer would go and visit all his spouses. This wasn't where he would be based, but he would go and visit and then occasionally he would drink some honey etc. By Xena brother, your loved one Ha. Our two honorable moms respected venerable Ayesha and have Cerro de Allahumma they wanted to get an abyssal allele with cell limbs attention year for a longer period as well. But of course, it was infringing on the messenger sallallahu wasallam and on someone else, so Allah subhanho wa Taala then modestly reproach them in the Quran. So I shouldn't have sorry Allah and Huma hatched a plan innocently, innocently, simply not out of anything. Know,

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you know, militias. They were the noblest of humans, but they were humans. They were mortals and they were best of woman.

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So anyway, when the Vla salatu salam went to Apsara the Allahu anhu after visiting Xena and drinking honey, she says occulta mouthfeel on a viola Am I getting the stench of this Mahaffey, which was like a gum base, which would give off a strong odor. So he said, No, No, I didn't. Well, I can share a bit too Aslan in the Zainab Whelan rude Phelan, Toby de la Toby. I only had honey water by Xena and nothing else, but I assure you saying the same you

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saying the same thing. So now I won't have this honey water anymore, but don't mention it to her or to anyone. That's the backdrop. Look at this deduction La ilaha illa Allah. This is the balance of our Deen Allah subhanho wa Taala reveals the verses This is a very key point. Often today couples talk about abuse in the marriage. I've been abused by my spouse. He's abused me she's abused me my in laws. They've abused me they've abused me.

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Yeah. yohanna been Ulema to Hydra Mama. Holla Holla Holla katavi merata as awaji cavalla hoga fu Rahim, yar. yohanna be Yoni matahari mama Allahu la cabeza de ma robata. As Jake wala Rahim pada for adalah hola con la Imani como la Humala con wahoo Li Li Mo Hakeem Omar Habib sallallahu wasallam Why are you making something forbidden which Allah has made permissible for you. Now look at the other side of this whole thing in biannual Quran fee and hula I am busy listen very carefully. fee and the whole lie, buddy a Beluga fill it well karami illa if there are enough see he for in who is the r&b dunia who, what is the ROM b d, f sudo, Allahu

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Allahu Akbar. You need to be careful. You need to be cognitive Cauca you know, cognitive of people's rights. You need to be respectful, dignified, don't be uncouth, don't be an mannered but don't accommodate people to the extent which is violating your life

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which is destroying your life without necessity. That's the qualifying words. Sometimes you had a function and then in your wife's family there's a tragedy so that is a draw to be bigger but be Aurora you had to change your whole plan lesson I cannot come to this a tragedy or accident my brother in law's been admitted we need to go You're the program has changed. But I had a program or my sister you had a function and suddenly your husband wants to change your program for something unnecessary. Be kind, be courteous, be cordial, but don't reach a point in accommodating your spouse to the extent that it's harming yourself for no reason. And this is where abuse generally starts. I

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gave in I gave in I buckled under pressure. I complied. I obliged. I just continued I told the lie. I cannot tell them no. So now I just have no rights. I have no feet to stand on for in who either r&b dunia who Bella Bharara but you know what's the greater path? My child is insisting I must do this year. Okay, I can agree and forego

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You know, sometimes you get the comment, like as a father you selflessly spend on the whole family and then you want to buy something for yourself? No, I think you wasted money.

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I'm wasting money. I by the grace of Allah for every one and I do the selfless thing. And the one day I want to buy a bicycle. Okay, sorry.

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Am I giving it away? Okay. No, you're wasting money

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for him. No, you know what, even if I'm harming my dunya by listening to you, you know what's the bigger problem? It's harming your deen because evil character is setting into you. So the harm on my material is not so catastrophic as it is to your religion. I can give you my child what you want, and I don't mind losing out, but are wrong quality is coming into you fee and who am I a Beluga fishery it well karami ella if there are enough see he for in who a thrombey Tonia who Bella Aurora? Aurora, b d, hi. So you have sudo Allah Ko, la la la.

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Oops. Okay.

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So that particular spouse have sort of the alarm on her, she divulges it and she tells it to I Shara delana You know what, I had a word with him. He said he's not going to have honey again. So she slipped up she rather your loved one how Allah Allah is pleased with Allah has forgiven her and she's the closest, Allah has declared it in the Quran repeatedly. Now Allah Jo Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that your spouse has divulged the secret. We talking of being considerate. We cannot be considerate when giving a gift than a B of Allah was considerate when he

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reproached Do you know what the other might say? the one giving the gift must do it secretly the one taking the gift must accept it openly. It's the other way around now a buy Yeah, I got a nice handsome envelope from you. Just from myself and the families take it as a gift from the mullahs. Yeah, no, no, no.

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Give it secretly the one taking it must take it openly. May Allah reward you. May Allah reward you. We do it the other way around. You've compromised the richness of the gift because you've offended the emotions of that man. Or is a sir wanna be yo la VG de la. What is a Samana Bo de la v as the YG hi de de filamin a batch behave.

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La La, La La Babu, Raja Ram Bharat Mala Mala. And remember the moment where is Asana be when the nebby of Allah divulged secretly or secretly spoke rather to his spouse a particular matter, fella man not bad to be but when that spouse have surgery olana informed another spouse will have the hora hola who lie and Allah informed him your wife has leaked the secret.

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backdoor who are the aanbod there's like more than 10 opinions. moolah. Aqua, I share with you

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the synopsis of it all. The visa Sam said hafsa.

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I told you that story and I told you not to tell anyone. So I believe you've been making some whispers about it to someone.

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Which means he insinuated and implicitly referenced it without going into the graphic details. Lima Fie he mean mezzi the hudgell lety ha to reduce the embarrassment of Apsara de la Juana giving her the notion that he sallallahu Sallam assumes only a portion was divulged and not all the details.

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It's like you told your son don't go to the mall. And then did I see you there on that mall highway there? Ya know, I fancy things I was only there so I told him we were going landmen Okay, okay, yeah, I thought I seen you on that road. So now you give him a hint, you give him a hint of way I seen you without going into the details. While reproaching must tuck saw Kerry moon cut to never did a noble person throughout history demand all details to avoid further embarrassment. Okay, so when so how long? So what's the name and then which hotel?

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after that.

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No nine lemmya has bass and Sharmila

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masala Taha fu min fer Ll Kira,

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Sophie Ansari said, to deliberately give the notion that you don't know has always been the salient feature of the friends of Allah.

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to deliberately give them Oh, nice. You were playing soccer. Okay, nice. Clothes are not very dusty. No, no, I just changed again. Oh, nice. Nice. Nice. Who won't?

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We weren't playing for score. Okay. Okay.

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Okay. masala, fool. Okay, I'll try. I'm trying to wrap up.

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So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was sensitive, the narration of Sahih Muslim Kitab Monica Atacama says I was working with him to live in a must be Amina kita Monica going to um she may have to live in a miss Ruby Minh and if the Latina who was a fan, please open the device and read it. Off Monica, have fun came. He said Oh, come on. Can you excuse us? I just want to speak to epilepsy Massoud for a minute please. ffes de la who Sahih Muslim it took him one side. Then he said Allah nguzo Viduka jharia 10 sharp button la lucha to the key ruka Baba mama wa means a moronic,

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a venomous, rude. Look at the Sahaba look at the beauty. Then you want to read the lives of others for direction

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and then

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Sometimes some of us become super pious. So we like to balance. This was awesome man been a fun and epidemic of modesty. He says autolab no Massoud men. I think I need to get you married to someone young man. Someone young These are the words I need to revive and evoke that nostalgia of your early days. Man you need to I need to make you young Imam nawawi right in under Festus. La Whoa. fee is above will asare be Miss Lee ha de for in Who? mimma use the crew whom in benei. NASS, when you want to tell someone I want to get you married. Or I want to get you a job or Hey, I heard your son is on drugs or you know what you married so long? No children. You know what I know someone infertility.

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These are not things you do in public.

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These are not things you do in public.

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No kids, you have kids because

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you can talk so loud.

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Your son I seen him when he was half drunk.

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Take the man aside. Listen, I'm not trying to be intrusive. I don't want to invade you. I know somebody who's a prospective girl. And that's why I'm asking you you know what can we match your son up? Listen, I know of someone where the fertility problem and Alhamdulillah by the grace of Allah medical intervention and allows given them kids. Listen, I've got a good program in place for youngsters who are reforming themselves.

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Please sensitive. You've destroyed your endeavor to help still looking for a job. I still work in the same place where you must come find me. Don't phone him and don't offer you a job. You've destroyed any good you could get by hurting that man for life. You've scarred him.

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Some people leave marks as a lead others leave scars, leave marks and don't leave scars my brother

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some people leave marks as leave scars. leave a mark in the mind of people. I'll never forget that men. I'll never forget how do I know of a man? He cries till today? And he says my son was on drugs. And the whole society spoke to me bad and this man took me one side. Don't worry. These are our kids men. They have a little face and they stand the boy will come right nothing to panic about nothing to panic about. He said till today I made was a man has moved on. I will never forget his comforting words. How he comforted me when the world had narrowed upon me. Fi he is tabula rasa. sRGB mystery hada for in how many couples have cried to me we have to perform a click of childless couples we

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can't go to functions. Because people minding our business. You must do this you must do this. You must do this. Mine your business. Why don't you do that?

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Don't hurt people don't hurt people. Don't hurt people. Watch how you talk. Watch how you behave. Watch your body language to incidents and then I will wrap up.

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Fat hamaca takes place.

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The wife of Eric kurama accepts Islam.

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crema flees Makkah

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he goes to Yemen to take shelter.

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The wife of Eric Chroma comes to Nebula salatu salam.

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And then she says that

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in chroma takahara minca illimani for a Minho Ana Viola My husband is in panic he fled is gone.

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So please give him shelter. Let me sell some sadhu amin, Amin. Yeah, I gave him shelter. It was us. You're asking me for the son of a Buddha you know difficult that is not easy.

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You know you know what I've been through who okay no, nevermind. So okay.

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Nobody says some said who are army or army and then you want to throw the worldwide presidential pardon? The crime was perpetrated against someone else and someone else forgives. And then Wow, what a great achievement.

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I know you're sworn in and you forgive like all forgive when you've been infringed. Forgive when you've been violated then we can talk.

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Okay, so then she comes out hi Roger, FIFA Ba ba ba ba ma ha, roomie, you she has a slave with him.

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Roman slave and he starts making advancements towards a look at the challenge in the life of the wife of Erika Maria lava Anna, she's in the search of her husband. maka has been conquered. He's fled. She's accepted Islam. This man is making advancement for Jallikattu money. She said, Okay, wait, wait, wait, not now. Not now. Not now. Until she came to a tribe where she could take help. First of all set whom Allah he she said this man is taking advantage of my vulnerability and is making advancements for otaku Roberta. They apprehended and took him away. She then moved on. waka was sala de la salud de Hama. She came to the coastline of the Hama nerd Sahara ages. That was how

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Arabia was divided and the vessel of Rama it just docks at the harbor.

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So the wife of Rama says to Mr. Harris, she says to record Mr. de la know what subsequently became one of the olana but at that stage not yet, she says yeah, I crema j to come in are in the Oh, Salinas. What about a nurse while hiring us? Can you imagine this? This woman has just accepted Islam, and she's telling her husband I just met the best human and came now.

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I just met the best human and came now lacto hilic Nuff said don't kill yourself.

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I have taken shelter from you for you. Really, she says Absolutely. Then a bee of a lie is given information through way

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that karma is coming sensitive to the feelings of people. Then a B of Allah says yeah, i t Comerica, matomo Amina Fela de su boo abajo Fela De Soto abajo for in sub l may at the highest level my lesson my companions through I've been told, soon, Rama will be coming the son of a Buddha Hall as a believer. I don't want any one of you to say anything nasty about his late father Abuja Hall, because if you go into her nasty comments to Abuja Hall, it won't harm him, but it will offend and be insensitive to the emotions of drama.

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Where can you find such sensitivity? Such accommodation to the feelings and the Nef see Yato the person I kurama comes he sits down does Mojave and naka mantanani she alleges that you've given me amnesty visa some says indeed sadaqat anti amin she's correct you are safe. And limini Hi Russia in a cool Teach me this kalama that you read and let me just embrace it. He then adjusts the kalama

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he proclaims Eman whatsoever now visa some springs up. He then tells the visa some make dua for me. Now visa is and makes the following Allahumma ferula who cola de wetin Danny ha wakulla merci dhindsa Rafi Illa mo when you read to visa legal mercy Nurik was the theater no Huma Meeny Fie YG he Oh another a boon Andrew Whoa, our love forgive a Chroma every time he abused me. Allah forgive a Chroma every time he said nasty things about me be in my presence or behind my back. Allah forgive a Chroma for the blockage of truth. Allah forgive Rama for the hurdles he created in the path of goodness. I Chroma said I cried so much so much. I vowed to Allah that whatever wealth I had used

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previously against Islam, I will double it up now for the service of Islam.

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I'll leave you with the last Hadith because time has lapsed otherwise there were other things but I hope I'm driving the message. A Buddha Rolando makes mention of the narration.

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He said I came to the messenger sallallahu Sallam and I said you Islami hi which is the best action items that a man will be loving a man on the line striving the path of Allah. I said, for you recopy of the liberation of which slave is the best. So he said unfair suhar in the hollyhock Sahaja man, the one that holds the greatest value in price, the most expensive, the most exclusive, many of us spend which is great, meritorious. But unfortunately we haven't upped our EQ to spend of that which we love the most people spend and I know of one brother I haven't seen in my life and I pray for him now and I pray for him always. Well, ah that means generosity. I I cannot tell you the kind of

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generosity this man has. I am convinced Allah has made him tasty.

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the ecstasy of spending and being selfless and helping people is tasted such a sweetness for him to clear 1000 people's deaths means greater for him then for him to have the most luxurious holiday.

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And may Allah bless him May Allah bless him.

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He keeps on these are his key words. Whenever I surprise people Allah surprises me and Allah surprises are always better than my surprises. These are his words. Whenever I surprise people Allah surprises me and Allah surprises are always better than my surprises. So I'm out on a mission surprise people surprise people, we ought to disappoint people.

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surprise people surprise people

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how nice it is to find money in your closet which you forget which rarely happens

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unfor suhar in the liliha the slave which is most expensive, okay, whenever you have a life I cannot do that. What can I do? This the Harrison and I'm going to wrap up inshallah, to see to a new Sonny and outers, not only asrock help someone in what he's doing, or help someone who doesn't know how to do it. Listen to the Hadith that tell you what I read, in fact, wholebody La Ilaha Illa La La ilaha illa Allah, may Allah preserve Eman May Allah keep us with the man And may Allah never deprive us of human

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How can I earn Jana? Bring him on on a last drive in his path. liberate the most expensive slave if that's not possible, help someone do something which they know how to do or help someone do something which they don't know. A person had a puncher helping Jackie's car change his tire. Someone is busy carrying some parcels to his car and putting it in his trunk helping assist him in doing that someone is busy loading his baggage on to the you know conveyor belt helping load it on or helping you know, offload it. Ss SS people have he writes in phulbari that when the Prophet of Allah gave this option, he first said help someone who knows how to do it. Which is giving an

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indication that to help skilled people is actually more rewarding because they really are skilled people help people because people think they know how to do it.

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fee equals money let me go even harder right paula abdul money fi Shara Isla Santa Anita saw an era of volumi IANA de rasanya please and sunny I mahana. Ayanna What on earth is sunny for in who member is sada Katya lol mas

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La ilaha illa Allah, it's almost like helping someone secretly on Oh man, why you have to help him. He works for a fitment company. You can fix it up, help people help people who can do it or who cannot do it. Okay, and this is where I try and conclude and give you a synopsis of my talk.

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Whenever you have a love for them as well. And if I cannot do this, I cannot strive in the path of Allah I don't have the ability to liberate a slave. I cannot assess someone listen to this my brother my sister, my listener, my viewer, the Khufu sharika Nina's for in the house or the cartoon min Carla enough sick.

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Then you know how you earn your agenda. Chase don't harm chase don't annoy if you can't have don't hurt you will get your agenda.

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Now see what the Surefire

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Fie hate the liloan Allah Anna see hate de Lune Allah and Allah Casa amis Sheree de saloon Fifi la in sunny la QSB he had the yo la

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la la la la

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la la Yasuo Luma Alka fee in LA Illa ne Yeti well, Casa de la mala flattie was the Who? Allahu Akbar. The Hadith is now suggesting that if you in passive mode, and you're not harming anyone, you are currently in reward mode. Have we understood this correctly or not? The academic question I'm giving the answer. This is the question us fee it's suggestive, Anelka Annie Sheree abstinence from harming someone. Does the loan fee family incentive or QSB is included in the actions of a person? Nam? Yes. Riera la Sulu man cafe Illa. Manny Yeti. Well, this is the key point

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abstaining from harming someone will only be rewarding will only be rewarding when you consciously embark on that intention, not by the sheer execution of it, by way of example, you just came to the masjid or you went to the mall and you parked your car in a regular parking Bay that's about it and you went, there's no reward. There's no merit. There's no consequences. But you came here. And then you said, You know what, I just seen a brother being wheeled in with a wheelchair. Though this is a parking Bay. It will make it difficult for him to come out. Let me park that side. So if he needs to be wheeled out, it will make it easy. You are in reward

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you completed your Salah you need to offer your sooner how like you want to present but can you understand that's a door that's an exit

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when Thomas was asked why you lost your eyes, he said Andrew illa sakala I hate to look at people who don't know when to visit and for how long to visit that's why I lost my eyes

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What is AF mk? Allah VG Oh, the one who comes at the wrong time while you're jealous focus verdura and sets beyond the necessary time.

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So now you realize no no let me set your

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young couples got together we sit in a I'm not going to discuss that Allah made me a father because others just got married. I don't want to touch this topic at this time. And I got promotion I got my 13 check. It's a good thing I want to share. I don't want to discuss this now. Because I know someone is just got laid off or his brother got laid off or their marriages broke up. So I don't want to be touching this topic. I don't want to be touching this topic. How many people you make dua for in the early years of my travel, you know what but now hundreds of people learned that they come in greet you a you going yeah, I would like to come and greet you not come and greet you. He's got a

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parcel to send for his daughter.

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Just greet and make Salam and I'll make dua for you. But don't come and burden me with your burdens. My brother The thing is simple. And that's my last message. If you cannot help don't hurt if you cannot compliment don't condemn, become the sensitive human will attend. So we'll put the lava in a calm and do not forget mutual courtesy amongst you what

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to do. If you need to divorce her ended, don't give her a revocable divorce two days before they eat that expires, you revoke it and then you divorce again to prolong it and to annoy her life. Because then when Allah unleashes each other upon you, then nobody will able to give you shelter. May Allah grant us the correct understanding. Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam or other sorrowful and the evil mursaleen so you know, Donna Mohammed. He was hi Billy adjumani Allahu Malik al hamdu kulu ellika shook Roku.

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