Sulaiman Moola – Tafseer – Surah Al Baqarah – 04

Sulaiman Moola

Tafseer of Selected Verses of Surah Al Baqarah by Shaykh Sulaiman Moola

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The history and implementation of Islam has been discussed, including the use of alcohol as a means of communication and avoiding clueless behavior. The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding confusion and misunderstandings, negative impacts on health and mental well-being, and genetic engineering. They also discuss the negative impact of alcohol on people's health and mental well-being, including cutting off drinking and drinking before entering Islam. The conversation covers personal limitations, positive mindset, and the concept of a "mmedian."

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			Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim.
		
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			So Alhamdulillah yesterday we were discussing the aspect pertaining to the fasting in the month of
Ramadan and those were the verses that were highlighted and the concession that Allah has provided
for us that if a person is on journey or he is sick, then he could find that to mean a young man or
her he or she could then postpone those fast to a later time. Of course if there is a chronic
condition where there's no hope of recovery, then the video will be discharged. And then Allah
reminds us you read Allah will be coming to serve Allah URI to become a nurse that Allah intends
ease and good for us well, are you ready to become a loser and Allah does not intend difficulty for
		
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			us. When he took me to learn that when he took up your Allah, Allah, Allah Allah come to school, and
briefly we explored the linguistic difference between a command and its mom. Furthermore, in the
very same page in Surah, Baqarah, probably many of the listeners don't know in the earliest stages
in the earliest stages in the initial stages of Islam, when a person came home, and after sunset
when he or she fell off to sleep, then the next day's fast commenced by the sleep itself. So once
you fell off to sleep, that was it. If you were awake, then you could still eat you could drink of
course prior to dawn, but as soon as you fell off to sleep, that signal the commencement of the new
		
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			fast, so there were few Sahaba, who had returned after they were tired, they were exhausted, they
fell off to sleep. And after awakening during the portion of the night, they had the need and the
desire to share the bed with their spouse. And they did so by their human need by their you know the
the need for sharing the bed with their partner and the spouse. And after having the conjugal and
the matrimonial relationship. They obviously felt guilty knowing very well that once the eyes had
shut down, it was not permissible for them because the next day is fast had comments. So this is
also for us to understand that the ease that Allah subhanho wa Taala has provided for us in the
		
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			morning they came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam amongst them will save now Amaro the
Allahu anhu and other Sahaba and they apologize to the messenger sallallahu wasallam that last
night, this is what had occurred, my eyes opened up and I had the need of meeting with my partner
and sharing the bed with my spouse. And then I indulge in conjugal and matrimonial relationship. And
it was then echoed by few other Sahaba as well, it was echoed by a few other Sahaba as well. And
there are multiple incidents of this nature with the Sahaba would come. So this is our belief in our
aqidah that the MBR Allahumma Salaam and Mack assume that is they do not send, the angels do not
		
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			have the ability to send the Sahaba are humans they are mortals they can send and occasionally they
did send but categorically, unequivocally explicitly, repeatedly in the Quran. Allah has declared
the forgiveness of them all in multiple verses, what could learn the law who has not and Allah has
decreed paradise and goodness for all of them what are called alpha uncom. And surely Allah has
pardon you all. So Allah then leaving the verse Oh, hang on, let us see Yami our refer to Ella Nisa
Econ, that Allah has made it permissible for you during the nights of Ramadan during the nights of
fasting that you could have relationship with your spouses, and then allow me to mention Johann
		
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			alabanza Lacan with Anton Libba Sullivan, amongst the many descriptions that the Quran has given us
with regards to marriage. Amina Yachty and Haleakala, Coleman and fusi, calm as well as the very
famous verse in the 21st. Jews in Surah. to roam will mean it amongst the signs of Allah. Allah
Allah qudra t, which reflects the mind the grandeur and the power of Allah and Allah tala comin and
forsaken as Raja that Allah has created for you from amongst yourself spouses, Lita, schooner, la
ha, so that you derive peace sukoon comfort then Allah says Jelena comin booty come second, he has
created for you dwellings and homes that you derive peace out of it. Then Allah says, Allah lane, he
		
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			has made the night Lita school no fee. So if you look at the different verses of the Quran, the
night is designed to give us sukoon then our spouses are there to give us sukoon
		
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			and then our homes and our dwellings are there to give us sukoon. And really speaking, if my home
doesn't give me a sense of comfort, my spouse doesn't give me a sense of comfort. The Nine doesn't
give me sleep, then we are losing the very fundamentals of or the very objectives of that home, the
night and the spouse.
		
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			So Allah subhanho wa Taala then made it permissible. And this is the kindness and the concession
that Allah has given us that during the month of Ramadan, at night it is permissible for a person to
eat and drink and likewise to indulge in relationship with his spouse. And then Allah say so
beautifully Hoon alabaster, la cama Antonia bussola alone, what a profound what a profound analogy
what a profound expression. And the scholars have highlighted multiple touch should be. So Allah
said, your spouse is a garment unto you who know very the female laborers who are a garment unto you
what Entomb and use the male's Nebojsa lavon, a garment unto them. Amongst the many benefits of a
		
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			garment a you cannot do without clothing, in the very same way, you cannot do without your spouse.
in one direction. The messenger sallallahu wasallam said he is a pauper, even if it's wealthy, who
only have a loved one who is single. She is a pauper who maybe have Allison Allison despite being
wealthy, she's single. Of course we sympathize and empathize with those who find themselves in
circumstances beyond their situation. They are a victim of an abusive relationship, etc. But by
choice Islam encourages us to to advance into the institution of marriage. Abdullah animus Rudra
Allahu anhu used to say, lo lamea, becoming agilely illa Salah at a time when he Poland Island nikka
		
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			letters awaji tokara hayata and Allah azza wa jal as if I only had three days left in my life and I
knew in 72 hours I was going to die. And in those three days I was single, I would hasten to get
married simply because I do not want to meet my Allah and married men the aka Isla de sivaji, Dhaka,
Allah Al Islamic, whoever invites you to celibacy, not to get married is inviting you to something
that is not in the teachings of Islam. So Allah says, Allah boss your spouse is a garment amongst
the many things you cannot do without clothes we have to that's human nature. We have to we have to
cover ourselves when our parents are them and our Adam and Eve Allah him I mean Allah here salad
		
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			with this limit when they ate from the forbidden tree, then the result of that was that the garments
of Jenna were removed. So the Quran says toffee Josefa Nia la Hammami waratah Jana Ahava yells a
corny as Jolene writes, they immediately started taking the lead from the trees of Jenna and clad in
themselves. So that's the instinct of man. That's the instinct of men that he needs to be or she
needs to be covered and concealed in the very same way. We are in need of our spouses and our
partners and I must say something Yep. The system of marriage in Islam is that they ease a system of
interdependence. And today the world is promoting a system of independence. So become independent.
		
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			You don't need to ask him. She doesn't need to ask you have yours. Of course, we need to ask each
other, but the respective partner must not exploit or abuse the need of the other partner that is
also wrong. cafa Bill Maher, Ethan, are you buying Yama yaku, the hadith of a Buddha if a man does
not take care of the costs and the needs, not the greed, not the luxuries, the needs of his spouse
and children. That's a sin. So by me providing shelter for my spouse and my children providing food
and clothing providing drinks, this is no favor. This is my duty and this is my responsibility.
Likewise for my spouse to her husband, for her to fulfill his duty. What Allah has ordained and
		
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			decreed is her right and is her duty towards the partner. So Islam has adopted or the format of
Islam in the system of marriage is a system where each one is dependent on the other original
talamona Allah Nisa Bhima fotball Allahu Allah baldon or Bhima and fakuma mo le hobbema and fakuma
emadi him. So Allah says that hootenanny boss, the other beauty or the other analogy that the
scholars have deduced from the boss is that clothing, your garment conceals you. It is Saturday. It
is Saturday, it covers your body. So a person could probably go for a triple bypass. But if he
claims and he attaches himself beautifully, and he's well covered, you have clueless that you know
		
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			what, he had a procedure done, he had a surgery done. Yes, when he unbuttons his upper garment or he
removes his upper garment. That's the time you realize that listen, he had surgery done here. So
just as your clothing conceals your body. That is also one of the fundamentals in marriage. As a
male I can see the faults of my female of my spouse. As a wife. I can see the faults of my husband
		
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			vice versa. So these are
		
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			points that we deduce from the expression of the word lebas.
		
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			If only that much we can we can try and implement that we start concealing one another, then that
also would go a long way. So Allah subhanho wa Taala says hootenanny boss hola como entamoeba sola
Hoon Anima, Allahu Allah Cancun afternoon and fusa comb.
		
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			Allah is aware that you were guilty and you had made it and you had fallen short in this command
because at that stage once your eyes closed, it was forbidden. And the next day is fast comments. So
of course if you had not fallen off to sleep then till, till dawn, you could have your meal or you
could enjoy you know, your spouse etc. Fatah Alaykum wa funcom Allah has forgiven you and Allah has
pardoned you fell on now by Shiro one you can have relationship with them. But again, that's the
beauty of Islam, that even when you indulge in your need, which is human, intrinsic inherent
synonymous to our temperament, it shouldn't be driven by exclusive lust and pleasure or bitter Houma
		
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			Kabbalah. hula can search for the sustenance or search for the offspring that Allah has decreed for
you. So a believer is such that if you look there's a whole chapter the Bible my Jaffe, Misaki
Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, the human and the banter in the life of the messengers allottee of
them. So that's the balance in Islam. It's not dry of Yuma. It's not where it's only rigidity, and
it's only worship and there's no humor, but then the balance is it's just not someone who's an
entertainer, or it's just not someone who's a comedian, and it's just not a full hour of laughter
and it's just not a full hour of chuckling and giggling No, even in the banter of the messenger
		
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			sallallahu wasallam. There is there is guidance, there is direction, there is motivation. So even
when a believer meets with his spouse or she meets with her spouse, and they indulge in the
relationship, the Quran says Roberta will search Mar that Kabbalah hula Gong, which Allah has
decreed for you in the form of children and offspring what kulu was Rabo and you are free to eat and
drink at a Debian Allah qumola high abdominal high as well until the white white thread becomes
apparent to you from the black thread meaning Daybreak before before supersonic sets in though
before dawn you know, the time of further sets in it is permissible for you to eat some at the
		
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			museum in LA and then your fast commands right up till the night and as I indicated that it mom does
not allow for in Qatar in it. So there's the cell so you fast the entire day. Yes, one or two by
Sharon Nova and Tamaki foon. If you are observing articles in domestic, then it would not be
permissible for you to have any relationship with your spouse even at night while you are observing
the attic of so during the nights of Ramadan, you couldn't have relationship with your spouse, you
could share the bed with your partner. But of course when you observe in Attica, then that would not
be permissible for you to do Dola these are the boundaries of Allah these are the limits of Allah in
		
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			Allah to Allah for other fora for Allah to the rule ha ha ha de hoodoo. Then Salatu was a Shia
Rahmatullah comida etc, and in
		
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			the messenger sallallahu Sallam said that Verily Allah has ordained certain things in Allah tala
followed for a further to the Yoruba, so do not neglect the wahaca who do them and Allah has
demarcated certain boundaries for the attacker to do her do not trespass it was Second
		
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			Lady nation and ally has been silent about certain things out of his sheer mercy and not out of
forgetfulness. So don't probe it. Don't probate when the vs of Hydra reveal is a hobby game and he
said early, Amina hada, rasulillah. Amylin avid is hodgeman, d3 this year, or even mandatary every
year. And the messengers, a lot of them said, just leave me to what I've said, If I say yes, it will
become mandatory every year and then you won't have the muscle and the cloud to to execute it. So
Allah has been silent about certain things out of his kindness and his grace and His mercy and not
out of forgetfulness.
		
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			And then
		
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			Allah speaks about the different questions that the people had asked the messenger sallallahu
wasallam and amongst them was yes hello, Nick, Anil Hilda, they asked you regarding the wisdom of
the waxing and the waning of the moon. So the scholars make an amazing so a healer is the plural of
the word healer. And when they used to see the healer, they used to say Allahu Akbar. So that is why
healer is known as healer. Right, a Holla Holla. Subbu means Subhan Allah, Allah means La hawla,
wala, quwata, Illa, billah etc, etc. So yes, Aloo neck, they answer your messenger sallallahu
sallam. He
		
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			Regarding the crescent, so the Quran changes the focus they ask him regarding the waxing and the
waning and Allah is responding in a different way. Allah is not answering that question per se. And
from this the scholar is deduced that at times when the disciple asks his mentor a question, it's
not always necessary to ask for a reply precisely, because sometimes the question being asked could
be few times could be irrelevant. And I think this is key for us to focus on. Sometimes we have the
privilege of having a prominent scholar, and the floor is open to us, you know, anything
		
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			on you know, social interactions, etc. And we ask things, which like, you know, if I'm on the moon,
what direction must I face when performing Salah? that's valid, but you're not performing Salah on
Mother Earth.
		
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			Right who perform optimally. salaams Nika? Well, let's stop the Xena on the earth and see everybody
else's performing * to worry about, you know, who performed the nick of Adam la Salatu was
Salam. So is either alive or is he moved on, you know, we go into all these things, which are not
going to be focused towards us in our grave, and we ignore is my dealings in order. And one of my
scholars that also mentioned something very profound. He said many times today, we have connections
with great scholars and people have some form of spiritual relationship. But unfortunately, we have
narrowed that relationship to like I'm opening a shop can make
		
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			somebody sick a request to us. We don't use that engagement for spiritual guidance. Right? I have
fallen short in my armor or in my overawed or in certain etiquettes, etc. How can I reform and
rehabilitate myself? So anyways, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was asked the question and
Allah replies, called say unto them, he yamawaki to the nurse, he will hug that this is there to
calculate time, this is there to calculate time for the people, and likewise to calculate the season
of HUD. So islamically Alon has attached our laws with the lunar system. So Allah is in charge of
the Gregorian calendar and the lunar calendar. That's that's both about systems are in the power of
		
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			Allah. Let's jump to Jamba Zilla and to drink alcohol. Well, Elena sabich una Hakuna.
		
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			Everyone floating in its orbit for which Allah has created it. There's never any disarray in the
system of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Allah is the Creator of the sun and the moon. However, Allah has
attached the rulings of Islam with the lunar system. So, our Ramadan is calculated by the lunar
month, the index of a woman that when she is divorced or when she when she is motiva and has Ohara
when she is a widowed by the demands of her partner, then it is four months 10 days by the
calculation of a lunar calendar.
		
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			And the scholars say the wisdom of this amongst other wisdoms is the the Gregorian system is fixed.
So, so the the Christmas happens on one day throughout the you know that it's that day of the year,
if it's summer, it's summer in that place, if it's winter, it's winter, there's no change in there's
no evolving, but the wisdom of attaching the commands of Allah through the lunar system is a person
never fits into a comfort zone. It's going to be long days, it's going to be short days, it's going
to be winter days, it's going to be summer days, it's going to be changing all the time, hydro oil
change, Ramadan will change all these things will change. And that's the system that that is where
		
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			you surrender and submit to the order of Allah subhanho wa Taala so in a bar that that is why I have
Swami Elahi Soma Dawood, the best fast that is loved to Allah is the first of the world where you
observe a fast one day you eat one day you fast one day you observe. So it rebounded doesn't become
added. If you fast continuously, then it becomes somewhat easier. But if you fast you eat, there's a
challenge constantly. There's a challenge constantly. And look at the beauty of the Quran. The Seven
Sleepers right? While we're on the topic, they slept in the cave for 309 years. But when the Quran
spoke about the duration that they slept, Allah didn't say 309 years. Allah said wallaby foofy
		
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			Coffee him Salah Sammy 18 see Nina was the duty sa wallaby through and they stayed fi caffeine in
their cave, Salah Tommy in Sydney in 300 years was the do this and they added a nine years. The
scholars and as I mentioned in medical Quran right? The Wisdom why Allah adopted this phrase
		
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			I say 300. And they added a nine to merge between both the calculations. So if you were to go with
the Gregorian calendar, then it was three centuries. And if you were to go with the lunar calendar,
then it was 309 years, because on every 33 years by the lunar system, it's 34. So if you are 33
years old, by the by the, you know, the regular Date of Birth by the Gregorian, then you'll be 34,
islamically, and so on and so forth. So on a century will be three years I hope, we on one pager and
I hope my listeners are appreciating this as well. That's the beauty of the Quran. So alive, said
300. And they added a name. And that expression combines the dual calculation when Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala spoke about sadhana Musa alayhis salatu salam, to come to Mount Dora, and to spend a autograph
there. The scholars say Allah didn't say 40 days, Allah said 40 nights. Well, what are the now
musasa Latina, Laila, Laila? Well at mom nahi Ashlyn Fatima Mercado de barbarina, Laila, Laila, the
Quran focuses on 40 so these are, you know, many expressions that So anyway, by virtue of the Luna,
it's so important that we know this, unfortunately, for many of us, the only month we know is
Ramadan, the only month the you know, that's the time you come to know, probably the hijab, because
of course, people are going on Hajj. Other than that we are clueless of the year Islamic 11 on the
		
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			Islamic month.
		
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			Now there was another practice amongst the Arabs. And again, we use this to understand the edge many
times there isn't an established basis for this year, but it's just in the state of Iran the door,
you come from the area. So this This is strange, this is naive. This is peculiar, that you coming
back to your house, you've done the ROM, but you formally left on the spiritual journey of Hajj, now
you return home, probably you forgot something or you needed to attend to something. So you don't
use the main entrance, you come from the rear, and then you make a hole in the wall. And then you
actually get through this year to say that I'm not yet in the capacity to come officially through
		
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			the main entrance, because I have not yet completed the ritual of Hajj. Now, these are things that
are not found that these are things that are not established. And sometimes we have these practices
		
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			in amongst our people, you know, where a person probably has the nisab for wealth, I'm using an
example. And he or she the Qurbani would be obligatory or so now according to the variation of the
fuqaha upon that person, now he or she doesn't discharge the slaughtering of the animal for himself
or herself, but chooses to do it on behalf of a disease. If you have surplus funds, then by all
means, take care of your own and do it on behalf of a disease. But you only have the means of one.
Now you're offering to do it for a disease and you forfeit in your own. I'm just giving one simple
example. So Allah says when a cell will be to reboot, I mean the whole rehab, this is no virtue to
		
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			come to your home from the back from the rear making a hole in the wall and coming in. Well I can
borrow money Taka, the virtue is to fear Allah subhanho wa Taala. So we need to understand that
obedience is what Allah subhanho wa Taala tells us that is key. Then another practice amongst the
Arab was that many of them use to go on journey for how without taking provisions. And then they
used to go like that, but ask people so it's fine if you have that level of taqwa that you can give
everything out, but then you don't become a burden on others. But if you're going to if you're going
to ask someone else, then the Quran says that photography has more money, dolla
		
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			dolla
		
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			dolla Hila and
		
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			that is what ascribing partners to Allah subhanho wa Taala but in another verse, Allah subhanho wa
Taala says episode Hakuna, dusty,
		
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			dusty photogra maluma. Matsuura do not spend all your wealth out then people are going to you know,
say Okay, Mr. Generous, Mr. Very kind. So if you can spend like Satan or Abu Bakar, and when you
don't have you can contain yourself, then Subhana Allah that is the best. Like someone said,
lithography is rough. There is no good in extravagance. And another person replied by saying, law is
law fulfilled. There's no extravagance when it comes to good.
		
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			So anyway, this was one of the practices amongst the pagan Arab, you know, these are different
practices that the Quran had refuted. For example, we were speaking the other day about
		
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			which graph right and i refuted that from Quran where people have this notion that it's ultimate,
you know, and I i substantiated it through the verse
		
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			of the Quran, Omar homi Bhabha arena bohemian addin Illa Bismillah
		
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			there was another myth amongst the Arabs. If you came to an open Valley and you decided to camp in
an open field, then the Arabs had this notion you needed to seek the refuge of the key ginia and if
you didn't ask protection of the main jinn, then you vulnerable to their interference. So they used
to say, although be as easy has Allah why the men surely suffer, Hartman Shall we? Shall we? All do
be as easy hasta la de I seek the refuge of the leader of this Jean Michel Rahim from his evil so
Allah speaks about this in Surah Jin, that what I know cannery gentlemen in say you're very jolly
minasian facade oh
		
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			well I know who can read aluminium ins. You know, you say some people are arrogant and and others
make them more arrogant. You know, you you make him more blow his head up. You he thinks a lot about
himself and you push him even higher so he gets a bit more inflated. So you elevate him beyond so
the gymnasts had arrogance. And when men started taking refuge in them it only pushed the arrogance
even more we really good man. Even the humans need protection from us. We're under who can return
one minute in See there was some humans who do not either Yeah. Oh then they will take in protection
be rigidly Mufasa Dumas it added to their arrogance.
		
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			So Allah said that
		
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			when you go for Hajj, what does he do? What does the overdue take provision there's no issues with
that. In fact, in the next verse, Allah says late Sally come to Napa and Tabitha bacon. If on
journey by the way to compliment or conclude your your necessities if you take something and you
sell it as well. But this is for necessities I need to qualify this year because the provinces might
sound a warning also. And he said a time will come where Unfortunately, the whole Joe alania on
mighty Layton so he was outside to homeless pujara T. Walker ra only Ria he was so mighty what
fukada only masala tea. How true are the words of the prophets Allah. The whole Joe alvernia own
		
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			Mati Layton as though he the wealthy of my own will make Hajj as a form of recreation and travel.
The whole danessa hayata nessa hutan is doing a stroll and recreation, having a holiday just having
a break the whole journey I met elite tennis but also to homeless Dara the middle class will make it
a means of commerce trade and business while Pura only Ria it was somehow and the learned will make
it a place of fame and recognition and everyone coming to know me and you know what? A messy more
people in my group and etc. What Pokhara whom lil masala and the poor will make this a begging
venue. And unfortunately, every every you know segment or every category that the messenger
		
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			sallallahu wasallam had spelt out, we are witnessing that in our times May Allah guide one in all
and May Allah grant us purity in our intention. So Allah says that laser the interpreter will
fatherland so Allah refers to earning sustenance in the Quran, by and large by Father Robert the
woman fatherly law with a woman fatherly law that earned from the mercy, the grace the boon of Allah
subhanaw taala there's no harm that in hajj, if you take something to cover your basic necessities
that is fine, what guru who can come and remember Allah as he has guided you. So Murphy's Law mean
hi to a father, that's not one of the great things of hygiene, what one of the great,
		
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			you know, salient features of hajis. Yes, the Wi Fi. And Hulu will be yes, the Wi Fi and Morocco
will be that the ruler and the slave are equal. There's simply no differentiation, there is no
privilege, everybody's got to go through the same rituals played in the very same garb. So the
coration had this pride amongst them, that they would not go to alpha because that said alpha is
outside the boundaries and by the way, I prefer the word haters me arafa means to recognize and
amongst the many wisdoms given COVID arafa is that that's a place where a person recognizes his
love, he recognizes his Allah arafa to recognize so the courageous to do this, that they would
		
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			they would not go to from Nina they would come away to Metallica, they would not go to alpha and
they said that is for the others not fast. So Allah subhanho wa Taala then said don't feel mean hi
to alpha bananas, then come from where all the people have come in other words from
		
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			Now you go via arafat and in fact Hydra and hydrographer right there are two things. It's your
office era and your alpha. Those are your two rotations of Hajj.
		
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			So you will also go there, nobody is above nobody has any difference. There's no differentiation.
This is the beauty of Hajj, how many people came for Hajj? And, you know the misconceptions that the
head of Islam was cleared out after having accepted Islam, probably, they were still not convinced
on the beauty or the absolute purity and the just nature of Islam.
		
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			For either copy to monastic again When you've completed your rituals, now, monastic in Arabic,
again, the word Mensa, is used in three contexts. So monastic could either be used for the rituals
of Hajj robina Arena, monastic Anna, Allah teaches the rituals of Hajj, or then Mensa, could be used
for the rituals of slaughtering while equally omitting jalna men second, Leah Guru smella he
Omarosa, whom in behemoth al anon on Mensa, could be used in the form of worship in the context and
the terminology of the Quran, when it couldn't be met in jalna men second una Zico Fela, uniceo,
Nika Phil Emery. So when you've completed your rituals, and you come back to me now, the practice
		
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			the practice of the Arabs, where they would sit there, and then they would speak about the
achievements of their forefathers and ancestors, you know, I'm reminded of this amazing quotation in
English, they say, some of us boast of the accomplishments of our forefathers in such a manner as if
we are responsible for their achievements.
		
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			Some of us speak You must have heard of Mufti so and so you must have it. Yeah, that's my
grandfather. Like you the way you get in on he is what he is because of you. Right? You must have
heard of so and so yeah, yeah, that's my uncle. That's my that's exactly some of us both on the
accomplishments of our ancestors as if we are responsible for the achievements. What they said not
only are they allowed to say lacell Futterman, yaku, Carnaby Wakanda God, enamel Fatah, mokulua
another there is no virtue to the one who comes in introduces himself by saying, my late father, my
late grandfather, my uncle was like this. My nephew was like this marriage goes to the young man who
		
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			comes himself and says this is who I am.
		
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			Couldn't have been a manager at what adapa yovani. Kumamoto, who and in slb,
		
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			write in a novel what they had to share is there.
		
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			I can just see people nodding their heads in other direction, couldn't even
		
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			be a son to anyone, work the same at the bar, but acquire discipline in your life. You'll the Nika
mahamudra, who and inessa be the nobility, the brilliance of your discipline will make you
independent of introducing yourself through your lineage. You won't have to tell them who your
father is, you don't have to tell him who your grandmother, your character will speak. Or a llama
Sahiba who karimun Willow.
		
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			Mo
		
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			This is just amazing. Muhammad Shafi said, I observed the possessor of knowledge was always
dignified, even if he was born in a home that was of low social standing, he came from a woman
nobody will ever want to arm the arm let him let him you know, not not respected, not dignified, not
high, but Sahaba Island he was a man of knowledge. So he his knowledge allowed him to break through
the shackles of the negativity of the environment in which he found himself why because that is
knowledge that is knowledge. So anyway, they had this practice they would sit and speak my father is
like this My grandfather is like the Sala said for either Tata ito monasticon Corolla or Cathy curry
		
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			come back on
		
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			the clock after you've completed then remember Allah and how you should remember him like how you
remember your forefathers if not more. One youngster asked me how much should I make? I said as long
as for the time you spend on your phone
		
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			you know the time you spend on your phones Okay, okay, I got the I got the hint. I got the message.
Allah said remember Allah like how you remember your forefathers, in fact, even more, in fact, even
more
		
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			and then of course from an agenda domain, Allah, Allah that is it mean that you can stay there on
after the 10th the 11th and the 12th or the 1112 and 13 and that is more rewarding. Then Allah
subhanho wa Taala speaks about a monarchy to right.
		
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			Woman a nassima your Deepika colu Phil hayati dunya I can just look at the beauty of Quran man. Oh
Allah Akbar. So Mina nurse This is a phrase of the Quran. So Allah
		
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			categorises li explains mean stawberry W's mean some so different places Allah says wamena nasci
maniapoto Bella he will be Leo woman Arthur, Mama, meaning wamena nacimiento de de La Villa alameen
wa sallahu wa kitabi monnier wamena nassima Buddha Allah Allah harv wamena nicey mejor de Vaca codo
Phil heighted dunya wamena nassima sure enough sobre de la amaravati woman and as a woman and as the
Quran is replete with it, this is one of the expressions some people are like this, some people are
like that. Some people they worship me on the edge Allah says, some people they worship me on the
edge. Are you in Islam? Well, I'm here, I'll let you know. But are you inside or you're outside?
		
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			Well, I'll let you know. I'll let you know for inner Saba who hate it to my inner Bay it to my Nabhi
if after accepting Islam, he sees material prosperity then he settles into the faith. We're in Sabah
to fitna, and if after accepting Islam, there's tests and trials in Calabar, Allah wa G. He turns on
his face hasira dunya well after telling him by forsaken Islam, no loss to us no harm to us hasura
dunya well after the loss is for him of both worlds valleca who will Hassan will be in this is an
open last year drew lemon voru, Accra boomin neferet la Mola when
		
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			he's turned into a diety and an ism, that the harm of worshiping that is more guaranteed than any
benefits. The harm is guaranteed it's more closer it's more real. It's inevitable, yet Oh, he
supplicates lemon, the beam Barbara who the harm a crab is close. I mean neferet then potential
benefit. The big sell Manjula with a big sell Archie wicked is that as a guardian wicked is that as
a master. So Allah says woman and as they are different types of people may Allah makers amongst
those categories who are his beloved servants.
		
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			So yeah, Allah speaks about a monastic by the name of Aquinas being sure right. Now, the Mona Phil,
they were very, very cunning. They were very slide. And again, Mohammed bin idrissa Shafi Oh, he
said, he said, let me back off in Nancy, a little macro. Well, melaku Oh, my word. I often say many
of the utterances of our pious predecessors had has more meaning today than it had on the time they
said it.
		
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			When you study their words, and you like one day, you find it difficult to lead consign that
utterance with that error. And you find it so relevant to is as though Allah made them pronounce it
for us.
		
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			He said, there's nothing left in this world but slyness and cunningness
		
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			Shogun either Lama Zoo when you touch them and you realize he's a thorn zarooni but he looks like a
blossoming flower from a distance. Shogun either lemma zoo, Zoran ramaco Oh man.
		
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			From a distance my word this man is just amazing. In fact, I often say May Allah guide me and May
Allah forgive us all. You know, when you drive in, they say keep a safe distance. Nowadays, it's
also good to keep safe distances from people also. If you get too close the stench might kill you my
brother, you're in for a rude awakening. You're in for a rude awakening. Right? Allah guide us all
Allah protect us all. Sometimes we elevate people above above their profile, and we think too high
about them. It's good to have positive thoughts about people. But we also need to be conscious that
every human is a human.
		
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			In in Muslim Sharif in the Makkah dama in on page 20 the quotation of Abdullah Namo Bara just gives
me a shiver in my back. He says lo who used to Bane and adulthood agenda ouabain Alka Abdullah
Mahara doctor to an alcohol. If I were given the opportunity to meet Abdullah first Abdullah
Mohammed or I was given the choice to go to Jennifer so he this was a great man who had heard a lot
about him but he had not met him. So he said if I died without meeting him and Allah said, Do you
want to go Jennifer's? Or do you want to first meet Abdullah and then go to Jenna, my passion to
meet him was so much I would have thought a lot. I'll put my entry into general on pause I first
		
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			want to meet him then go to gender.
		
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			Ask a man whose Nika is performed. Would you want to meet with the President or your wife first? You
know it is I know when I was getting married, right? Okay, now I can just imagine my wife gonna say
why you say these things. Yeah. But I mean, now you're driving down. And then you have some people
that are there are some kids they want to stop at a garage and somebody wants to use the washroom
Listen, man. You know what, we don't have to keep the whole entourage waiting
		
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			Kevin, let's get going, man. I mean, you know, you can you can stay hungry whole day but after you
start, it's difficult not to eat.
		
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			You guys, can I get a bit of a acknowledgement here? Right? So imagine this year a married person a
bride wants to meet the groom, the groom wants to meet the bride. If I'm told to go to Jenna macadam
of Muslim Sharif page 20.
		
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			I would say Allah first I want to meet him. That was my envy and that is how much I love them for
tomorrow.
		
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			When I seen the men, and I met them and I was so disappointed, leave alone an animal. I would give
preference to the droppings of an animal of an animal to meet in this man
		
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			for Lamar Ada who cannot back rotten in a mean Whoa.
		
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			So May Allah guide one in all you know, I often quote these words of
		
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			Khalid Khalid was one of the close associates of Hassan bacillary Rahim Allah
		
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			and someone said, Tell us about hustle and bustle and these were scholars and you know, these were
real people. He said in nevermoor Ansari ro caladenia t de Vaca Luca family, Amara Bhima roofing
Karna melon scbwi ye Donna and Moncure in Karnataka nesina. Who want to whom Stephanie and Annie
nurse Zahedan, B Murphy ad him or a to NASA maka, Gina in a party Bina marinda Whoa, fatale has
booked a 100 k for you the low common fee myth lohagarh.
		
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			They said you know who has invested he was there was harmony between his private and his personal
life. Just take that one message. There was harmony, there was consistency. Whether you caught him
in his private or in his public life, there was harmony. Anyway, there was this person by the name
of darkness being sure right. So he used to come you're at Boca tolu his words would mesmerize you,
his words would capture you. And this was one of the attributes of the Mona Lisa clean. What a da da
da da ijebu. I just saw Mohan colo test smiling told him what he thought I told him when you see
them towards the Buddha, some of them you will be impressed by their physique, right? So
		
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			you saw Mona munaf 18. He had a very towering personality. He was lanky he had an impressive body he
had a very impressive personality. Abdullah bin obey been salute that was his nature when he akula
when he spoke to us, Ma, you will just listen to him because he had the gift of the gab he can
mesmerize you can turn you can sway you, some people can just you know move into it and convince you
and they can dominate you in the 23rd Jews in Surah. Saw saw Allah speaks about those two people who
came to say
		
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			Allahu Salatu was Salam. And then they presented their case. And what did he saved us money Ba ba ba
ba ba ba, da da da da da da da da Silva is rot in.
		
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			This is my brother. Now what is wrong with his own and da da
		
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			da da for Karla Neha, as anything
		
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			as any infill set up. This is my brother. He has 99 you 99 shape. I have one. He doesn't want to
balance the act out. He wants me to give me He wants me to give him my one. And the challenge is was
an infill he thought he just he can steamroll me in speech. He can dominate me, he will talk you
into it to believe you. You know some guys are right. Okay. You might tell me I'm that person. So I
better watch myself here. And you know what I mean? Okay, so your debugger, some people they can
sweet talk.
		
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			So he would come in the gathering and he would be very sweet and polite. And then what he would say
in front of everyone, you shahidullah Halima physically I make Allah my witness are just love your
Prophet sallahu wa sallam, or who ulladulla Hassan. He is the most severe of opponents is the
biggest of opposition's This is the reality. His claim is I love you. His speech is impressive. his
physique will blow you away. His reality is the mana fake the truth, what they say in English. I
love people who openly hate me, but I hate people who pretend to love me. I love people who openly
hate me less than me and you are foes we are. We have hostility, I respected that you're right.
		
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			You're entitled not to like me, but I hate people who pretend to love me. And today that's the
problem in the world. There's this. There's this double standard. There's this hypocrisy. There's
this inconsistency and that has just caused cancer on this planet, or either one law to millions,
the one to assume position
		
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			Can you
		
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			forgive the welder to assume position auto law when he turns his back? So he comes in your gathering
and he says all this whole mess but let him turn his back saw Phil or the UFC, the FIA, his effort
is just to cause corruption on the earth, where you really can hurt our NASA to destroy the crops
and to destroy the progeny. And that's exactly what he did to one of the Sahaba over in that one law
when he comes into power. Now, let's take this into a political context. There are many people prior
to them being inaugurated Yakubu Kaku, you are typical. Look at the beauty of Quran just look at the
beauty man. So when he is running for his campaign, then he is like listen, he's a he's a people's
		
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			man. He's on the ground is kissing a baby holding a golgo and going in the rural areas and really
touching the hearts of people and winning the confidence. Right What is that Allah but when he takes
position when he comes into authority, and he has been sworn in he has been inaugurated out of the
UFC the fee How did the Quran say in Alamo loca Hello Korea tan f Sedona Waterloo is
		
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			that the general norm of monarchs rulers, dogmatic rulers are when they enter a nation, a city a
town a village, the opposite do they just cause a massacre there was
		
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			a village Avila and they displace the honorable people working alone. And properly. This is of
course in the context of the tale between
		
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			Sulayman alayhi salatu was Salam and the queen of Saba. So that this appeal and when it is said to
him a tequila fear Allah, Allah has that to offer that. Then his arrogance provokes him towards sin
for his boo boo jahannam one * will take care of him all in the Johanna Jessa Jessa and mo for a
while for Allah sees one * will take care of all of him. When a big sell me ha then it's an evil
place. Now, this is the nature of the Quran, the Quran contrast, this was a man who is like this
claims this but that's something else, woman and NARS. And then they are those people may actually
enough so who they are ready to sell. And many of the scholars say that saraya Shri is amongst the
		
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			DOD where it could have the meaning of buying and selling was Sharon who be feminine boxing. It
could either mean to buy or to sell. So there are other words in the Quran as well in the meaning of
that, which has the opposite meanings. What kind of wha hoo Malik, many scholars say what are you
using the meaning of a mom? Likewise in Surah, two taquile Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala says,
		
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			For the automobile
		
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			well lately there
		
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			was one lady that asked us so well lately the bell at the bottom, both meanings have been given that
the beauty of the Quran is the beauty of the Quran, and the amazing nature of the Arabic language.
And this was regarding the Allahu anhu that when he was traveling, and then the enemies wanted to
attack him. And then he said, Listen, I have my arrows here, and I am a good Archer. And I will I
will you will not come close to me till I empty my cover out and I don't look Amala kenzi I will
tell you where my treasures are go to Makkah and take my wealth and belongings but just allow a free
passage for me to go to Medina and he comes into Medina and the verse was revealed, and the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu Sallam said, Robbie held by Robbie ha, congratulations, the loss of your wealth for the
preservation of your diamond was profitable, was profitable. And then Allah speaks about oblateness
salam, Allahu anhu Yeah, and this is I'm trying to move fast but it's it's so irresistible. It's so
irresistible. This is the challenge. This is the challenge I have every year is like what do you
omit? Because this is everything is so relevant, so relevant, so we just like move to pages? Yeah.
But anyway, as long as we get in some message and lesson from the Quran, so Abdullah bin so the
verse of the Quran is Yeah, you have levena M and O you who believe Oh, hello, and difficile me in
		
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			Islam caffeic completely enter into Islam in its entirety. Now, just look at the backdrop of this
ayah of the likeness Salaam radi Allahu anhu. He was a former Jew, and he was a priest. He was a
rabbi. In the teachings before Islam, when he was practicing his faith, they would honor the
Sabbath. They would honor the Sabbath, the Saturday in nama journalist subito Allah de nocturna
foofy and the eating of the camel meat was forbidden. Kala paramiko Anna Henley Bani Israel in
llama, llama Israel Illallah nuptse. You can read the whole thing that iacobelli salatu salam had
some pain and then he made it forbidden on him.
		
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			The meat and the flesh of camel because that was very beloved to him, etc, etc. So the the theme of
Sabbath was mandatary and the consumption of camel meat was forbidden. When Abdullah Rama delana
became a Muslim, he said, Islam doesn't compel you to dishonor Saturday.
		
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			Understand this clearly, and Islam doesn't make the consumption of camel meat obligate obligatory.
So I can balance between the two is my form of faith tells me to respect Saturday. Islam doesn't
tell me to dishonor Saturday. My form of faith tells me that the consumption of camel meat is
forbidden. Islam doesn't say the consumption of camel meat is obligatory. So what I'll do is I'll
honor Juma as well and I'll on a Saturday as well because Islam is not telling me this on a
Saturday. Islam is not telling me this on a Saturday, right? Allah Allah has created all the days of
the week, the generation of Muslim Sharif that
		
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			Allah created the heavens and the earth from Sunday and till Friday, till Friday and Friday prior to
Muslim admin Islam was created. And then of course, sit at a young scholars debate now what is meant
by Sita young? was it was it the the common six days? Because at that time skies and earth were not
there? Or is it the duration of that six days? Or is it the six days in the Yeoman endora Baker
kalfas center. So there's a whole debate in the hadith of Muslim Sharif that Yama had this was
created Yeoman is named etc. The scholars of Hadith have had their discussions pertaining to the
Hadith. So he accepted Islam and he said, I will not eat camel meat, but Attica, then I will not
		
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			believe it to be Haram. So I'll just respect it. But Islam said no, when you've come into the faith,
now embrace the faith in its entirety, embrace the faith in its entirety. How often you don't hear a
woman saying, you know, you're married now. Now you need to know your friends, life has to change,
right? Like, you can see, I'm not saying cut out your friends, but you've made a choice in life. You
moved on into life, you've taken another chapter in your life. So you need to change those things
here. I'm just giving a loose analogy. So when you've accepted the dean, accept the dean in its
entirety, take the wholesome package, take the wholesome package. Yeah, you're living in a colo
		
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			facility aka
		
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			a pawn in a hula Komodo movie. Then I wanted to touch briefly because time is really really running
out, or Mohammed says and they asked you regarding alcohol, and they asked you regarding gambling.
Again, look at the linguistics hamara in Arabic means something to cover. So you call the scarf of a
woman, Mr. Right, provided it's not see through because demand means something that covers so if
it's transparent, then it's really you know, it's not Mr. Art. It's Mark Shuford. Okay, so you have
hammer hammer, literally. And that's the beauty. Why do you call alcohol hammer? Because it blocks
your intellect? What did that villager say?
		
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			If human intellect could be frozen and sold, let the Harlan nurse, people would have asked
exorbitant amount for their brains, right. So now that human intellect cannot be sold and you cannot
purchase someone's brains, all the more you need to protect your wealth. So I'm astonished by humans
when this is something they cannot replace, or buy. How can a man use his own money to destroy his
own logic by consuming alcohol?
		
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			Right? If it's something or you can replace it, you can change it. You can substitute it you can do
cosmetic surgery, you can do this or whatever. The brain is something that you cannot you need to
preserve this faculty, how is it that humans can buy and it is so sad and tragic. This is something
that hurts me in all my years and I continue to observe this in my travels. When you see a Muslim
serving alcohol, it just gives you a shiver in your back. When you see a Muslim consuming it by
Allah it's a site you can just not adapt to, you know, you can be flying twice a week and thrice a
week. It's just a painful side. And sometimes you see someone you know they have their badges on and
		
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			it's a it's the name of a hobby or the name of the hobby. And you see the sister serving alcohol,
tears just trickle down your eyes. I was once flying on a particular cabin, and the woman's name was
hafsa. And my mind when do you know who was have sort of the alarm on her when the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam intended divorcing her. Then gibreel came down and he said Gemma for in the house
of Ramadan. A woman has two copies of prophets of Allah has instructed you that you revoke your back
because she is one who fasts excessively and she is going to be your spouse in this world and your
spouse in Africa. And this hadith flashed through my mind and I'm seeing the sister giving out
		
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			alcohol and I just started tearing and amazing
		
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			Blah, Allah forgive me for my weakness that I couldn't communicate it. But yes, that's a sad, sad,
sad, tragic May Allah protect our youth May Allah protect one in all May Allah create in our hearts
the dislike of sin and vice. Yes aluna Carnival harmony will miss it. And they asked you regarding
alcohol, when we may said and they asked you regarding gambling. So it's from the word yourself,
right? Easy chance to tamilian right? And so many times you see this elderly person and many times I
stopped them and sec, you know what, you're not going to it. I was listening to a program and you
will not believe this on one of the radio stations. And they talking about the lottery and how it
		
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			works. And the need to educate people of how slim the chances of winning. So you know, people were
throwing some tough questions at those that were running this whole thing. And he said but you need
to educate the people. And he's like, don't people know the chances are slim. So why do people still
cast eat and why do people still go buy the ticket? He says, we we know they're not going to win and
they also know they're not going to win. But we allow them the opportunity to fantasize being rich.
What you talk him into see so hogwash.
		
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			This is bizarre. This is ludicrous. This is ludicrous, man this is preposterous. This is
inconceivable. What are you talking? No. At least it makes for a juicy discussion on the dinner
table. Imagine I had 10 million. Wow. And this is an exciting Gaza. It's an exciting fantasy like
really? Are you playing with kids or toddlers? What a world we live in. In ml hamro Balmain zero.
Well and Sabo? Well as llama, read Jason minimalis Vegeta nee boo Vegeta nibble. Allah said all this
will block your way from deal. And voila, I cry my heart I go off into the rehab and from time to
time I've spoken there. May Allah guide and protect our youth, really those of us that are in this
		
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			vise. May Allah make it easy for their parents and for their families. There are so many brothers
that keep in touch with me and they constantly asked me for advice and guidance. Sometimes they the
youth come out it's barely three days and they relapse. So it's really really a vicious circle. It's
it's really one of the worst things that could could destroy. Now when I was in in Vancouver, like
three weeks ago, again, they said crystal meth and the same drugs just destroyed. The youth just
destroyed the youth, so called female empowerment Kabira woman, this was one of the first verses
that were revealed regarding the dislike and the sin of of alcohol and the violence of gambling.
		
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			Tell them in it. There are many things and of course it has its benefit. People will tell you you
take a lot of alcohol in moderation, it enhances your IQ and it's beneficial for this and the rest
of it. And through a lottery so many charities are working and the benefit but what if Muhammad
Akbar minify Hema, the harm the vice the evil, the repercussion, far more outweighs the good. So,
honestly, this has paralyzed individuals and it has destroyed communities. If you look, there are so
many islands that I have visited. You will find unfortunately, in many of these islands, alcohol is
very, very widely consumed. I recently returned from Barbados a beautiful country with lovely
		
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			beautiful beaches, lovely, cozy, beautiful climate. But unfortunately on every turn, you will find
alcohol recently we were in in Seychelles, beautiful, stunning, breathtaking, but again at every
turn and twist you'll find alcohol has been consumed and it brings a nation to the knees. And this
is the beauty of Islam. Then of course Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks about it. This is so much
beyond the aspect of orphans but I don't want to go into that I just want to touch on this year so
that we can, you know, not omit this in the mention of today. And that is the aspect of talaq and
Nika so quickly to wrap up on those notes here. So Allah subhanaw taala speaks about the return of a
		
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			woman. Now we need to understand that this is not a punishment on a woman. This is not a this is not
a penalty on a woman. This is part of the deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			and the woman that have been divorced yet on a bus, they will wait be unfussy in what themselves
tell us at the Kuru. And that's the famous if they laugh whether it is three cycles or three for
her, according to Imam Shafi Anima Malik imaam Abu hanifa Rahim Allah so they will wait for that
period after they have been divorced. What are your Hello meaning they would set in Ida whether you
know Laguna yocto nama holla Cola, and it's not correct for them to conceal what is in the womb,
whether it is the regular cycle or the ease the formation of a fetus, because according to that
there are eight that will differ what will lead to a family a gentleman
		
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			and the pregnant woman her ID that will be the delivery of her child, Jada humla one. So if there is
a side if there is a child then it would be total
		
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			delivery. And if there isn't a child, then it will be the three cycles. We are including a Yeoman
Nabila, who went to mill after world war two who
		
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			didn't have a daddy and their husbands who have divorced them. If he has given a revocable divorce,
then he is most deserving to take those woman back in urato his law, his intention is to reconcile
to reform not to abuse or to exploit to the men I say if you study sudut Pollock, right, it is four
pages, four pages in the Quran Surah talaaq. But in that four pages, the Anima save four times Allah
told the main fear me what the cola has become, right what the cola has become fear Allah, then
Allah subhanho wa Taala said woman yet Allah Allahu Maharaja woman yet tequila, tequila, the one who
fears Allah, Allahu Allah, that Allah will grant him great reward factor por la jolla, Barbie Latina
		
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			Armando cadenza la la, la la la, la, la la la la interjects all the discussion in Surah talaq with
fear me fear me. So the whole institution of marriage and talaq has to be governed by fear and not
by hate. I really want to touch on 212 verses here because it's key and we're dealing with the
social cases. So then Allah says, Allah Kumar Ratan, the revocable divorce is two. After that
there's no form of revoking. If you've given your wife the luck, and they after for him sercombe my
roofing out from the sun, either you keeping her with respect or releasing her with dignity. Again,
if you dissect the word sobre la linguistically, it means to leave an animal to graze freely, while
		
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			a comfy hijjah Milan hanaa tori hoonah mahina Tara food and for you is beauty. prenotare hoonah when
you return your animals from the metals in the evening with a Natasa food, and in the morning when
you leave them to graze freely, you know, a man walks into his garage and it's like a showroom and
he has his own fleet there and it just gives him a sense of pride and joy and happiness. So you're
looking at the farm and you see in your cattle spreading out in the distance and all this gives you
a sense of joy all the scatter all these acres all this law and all this grace in this is mine. When
I come see her Jamal and for you is beauty. Hey natori hoon. When you return in them in the evening,
		
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			we're hanging around. So Allah uses the word saraha. Again, Allah says leave this woman freely.
Don't shackle her, don't cage her. The three humby axon don't exploit to abuse and at the time of
dissolving What are you Hello documenta Hello Mima, I'd like to move on. It's not permissible for
you to claim anything that you gave her. Yes, there is one scenario where you can claim ilaha illa
Allah and that refers to hola and Hola. Hola in Arabic means to come out for a lake remove your
shoes. So hola means to remove. So that is where a woman tells her husband that is provided provided
she's not a victim of abuse. Because if a man has abused his wife, then it is wrong for him to
		
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			settle on hoorah. That means if you are abusing your wife, then you should give her talaq if you're
not keeping it with respect, but if you have not abused your wife, and you live in with respect and
dignity, but you just the woman is choosing to leave the relationship like in the case of diabetes
mellitus ignition Maserati, Allahu anhu, where she had asked out, then Islam has given this one
choice where she could tempt her husband through hula, so the most of any detail and intricate but
the Quran speaks about it. So at that stage, she can offer her husband the dowry back. And if he
chooses to accept that, then that would result in a tilaka bargain, but you could go deeper into the
		
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			key tabs of fit. Then Allah says for Impala kaha, if he gives the third Talat filata handle the
human body, now it's not permissible for him filata haler woman but until her tatanka has Odin
Hydra, until she marries another man, I was reading interseeded push IRA and you you will be amazed
by this. You know, often people ask what's the wisdom or why is it so challenging that after the
third dialogue, you cannot reconcile and a woman needs to come out of the sight that she needs to
remarry. And one of the HEC myths that were written and I was just blown away. The other man saved
the reason for this amongst other reasons, and I hope I can adequately communicate it and educate
		
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			the oma then is the president of zeta push it that's where I read it myself is that every man by
nature is protective over his spouse, protective over the females have his house, his daughter, his
man, his needs, his arms, etc. And that is why we have the system of Muharram in Islam, that the man
is there that is why they say that if the Muharram the male is not Allah conscious, then he will not
serve as a protector. If if there is fear of insects from that maharam, then what what presence does
he do that the aim is to protect him from anybody else that will make advancements to that female,
but if he himself is posing a risk, then what's the benefit of
		
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			Such a Muharram. So he's got to be one day who has the interest rate in Him who has the effort in
him, etc. So every male by nature is protective over the females of his house. And it becomes like
difficult to imagine my wife leaving my wedlock and being with someone else. So Allah to stop the
male. from that situation, Allah said, Don't divorce this woman three times. If you're going to
divorce her three times, then that which you dread will become a reality.
		
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			That which you dread and that which you cannot imagine that your wife is with someone else, or
someone casting a Roman glanced at your wife, that is what's going to happen. So the aim is not to
persecute the woman. But the aim is to restrain the man. The aim is to restrain the man. That's one
thing I want to mention. And then there's so many other outcome that to mention are just men. Okay,
time is up. So we'll leave it on this note, we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to put unity in our
marriages. today one of the verses that resided in the fourth Jews, Allah alone knows if we'll get
there with the with time as we move on. But Allah says Why should I build my roof that deal with
		
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			your spouse or spouses with respect and in a good way, and one of the, you know, the greatest
teachings of Habib salallahu alayhi wasallam in this regard, and I find it to be the most universal
when it comes to trying to reconcile between partners both ways. He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
La Jolla for a minute minute and in curry hamina Hello conradie amin, ha ha, let not a male despise
his wife and vice versa. Let not a woman despise her husband. If there's one quality of your partner
that depresses you. There's surely 1000 that impress you. So we're not denying you say my wife is
like this. My husband is like this in its place, we are green. But is that the only thing they have?
		
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			Or they have other things as well, as long as those weak points are not sins, because if it's a sin,
then we got to address it. If it's a sin, we got to address it. As long as it's not a sin, then
don't stagnate. Don't magnify, focus on the positive energy and move on and make peace with the
weaknesses. That's how men are that's a woman out as long as it's not a sin and advice and it's not
infringing or encroaching, then move on. We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to put unity in our
marriages and grant us the understanding of the Quran and connect us with the message of Allah
sallallahu wasallam Allah anabaena Muhammad wa ala alihi
		
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			wa salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh
		
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