Sulaiman Moola – Reconcile Now

Sulaiman Moola
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The speaker discusses the complex human nature of Islam and how it has impacted their relationships. They emphasize the importance of avoiding metadata and language in interactions and avoiding similar experiences. The transcript describes a battle between two groups, with some being considered more powerful than others, and describes a group where two individuals refuse to do something. The transcript describes a group where two individuals refuse to do something and describes a group where two individuals refuse to do something.

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			Bismillah salatu salam ala rasulillah salam O Allah who was seldom were bad. So Allah subhanho wa
Taala has created the human very unique and amazing he is surely the paragon of Allah's creation,
from all the other creations that Allah has made the human kind, the human being stands out what are
the carvana beneath them, one after the insanity accelerator dream. But this human in many ways, is
a very complex creature as well. It's a very complex creature. He's a social creature. He has a
social network, he interacts, he has a family, then he gets married his in laws, as Alex mentioned
about it, in the 19, Jews in Surah, four upon Allah, Allah, Allah who
		
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			has blessed him with a lineage with an ancestry and he's also blessed him with in laws, and at some
point or the other, it is almost guaranteed and inevitable that in our interactions, we will have
difference of opinion, we will have difference of opinion. And as long as we manage it, and we stay
within the boundaries of respect and dignity, that is fine. There's no issue to defer, as long as
the hearts are not just united, as long as we do not use foul or obscene language against anyone, as
long as we don't sever relationships, because that is serious. The messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said, layer hidden layer Hindu Muslim in a Yahoo focus a lot of focus a lot for metadata, not
		
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			that it is not becoming the 13 not permissible for a Muslim to sever ties with his Muslim brother or
sister for three days or beyond. And if you die in that state, then I'm afraid unfortunately, from
an metadata not such a person will enter * May Allah protect us. Now, there's always a situation
in our family, close or extended relatives, neighbors, friends, siblings, or family or in laws that
what some person or the other we had some difference of opinion. And unfortunately, it resulted in
in breakdown of communication. And that's my message to you, my brother and my sister, that if you
are in such a situation, I urge you and I implore you that reconcile today. Don't procrastinate.
		
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			Don't procrastinate. The devil has no problem with our good intentions as long as it is for
tomorrow. But when we make amends, and we atone, and we reconcile today, then that is a blow to the
devil. When the devils get together and then they report back to the chief devil. The devil that
gets the biggest acknowledgment is the one who reports back to the chief devil he believes and says
that today I managed to create a rough and a, you know, ignite a spark of unpleasantness, hostility
between a couple and it resulted in separation and ultimately in divorce, may Allah protect that
that particular devil gets an acknowledgment from the chief devil. So obviously we want
		
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			acknowledgement from Allah subhanho wa Taala and we want to give the devil a blue. Now there's an
amazing incident captured in the books of Hades. Bizarre has made mention of it that Roger Ebner
will be rushing over law says I was sitting in the sacred mystery of the messenger sallallahu alayhi
wasallam and amongst the others that were present was a
		
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			man who and Abdullah Abraham or even answer the loved one. So they were, you know, a gathering with
rich with with great Sahaba legends stalwarts and luminaries of the time noble companions of the
messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when suddenly hasn't even a little bit Allahumma came to
visit, and he greeted and he said, Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. For all those that
were present, they said walaikum salam wa rahmatullah they responded as the Quran teaches us what to
		
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			do the accent Amina or do that when you are greeted, then reply respond with a similar greeting or
something greater. It is invoked the mercy you invoke the mercy and the blessings of Allah subhanho
wa Taala upon the person greeting however, Abdullah ignore Amara even answer the Allahumma did not
reply immediately. And when has somebody Alana left the gathering? Then he gradually discreetly
gently said, we're aleikum wa salam, wa Rahmatullahi wa barakato. And they after he looked at the at
those that were present, and he said, Allah will not be happy early or the early summer, should I
not inform you people have who is most beloved to Allah, from all those that inhabit the earth
		
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			today, who is the most beloved servant in the eyes of Allah? We said, but please do tell us he said
the way
		
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			Every person has an employee who came and greeted and left is the most beloved to Allah subhanho wa
Taala. However, unfortunately, due to difference of opinion between myself and him, Mark and lemony
will are condemned to who mandola leaves the field since the Battle of Safin took place. Now, as a
side remark, let me just set the record correctly. The Battle of sci fi is a battle in the annals of
Islamic history. We cannot shy away from it, we cannot refute it, it is there It has occurred. It's
documented. However, on both sides of the spectrum, were noble companions or other your loved one
home. So it was a battle that was fought between Muslims against Muslim there was difference of
		
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			opinion. And it resulted in in this battle. And there's a detailed breakdown to this, which is
recorded in the books of history. Suffice to say, suffice to say, and this is the key thing, that
the entire galaxy of Sahaba without exception, Allah has unequivocally mentioned in the Quran, that
Allah has pardoned them and for them is Jenna and paradise. So I don't have the rights and need the
audacity, it would be tantamount to and, you know, how can I ever defame or malign or attack the
character of the noble companions? If ever person does this, then it will not drop their status. But
surely the person who defends the Sahaba it will compromise his entry into gender. And that is our
		
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			Athena. And we stand firm in this regard.
		
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			But suffice to say that even the best of people could have difference of opinion. It happens. It's
It's It's human.
		
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			And if somebody just to continue with the discussion, so I've done that normally, if somebody could
read concern for me, and have somebody olana, while for me, that's greater than chunks of gold
equivalent amount offered. So when he said this, he said, Alan, and then let's go now and apologize.
		
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			Wow. And that's my message. Do it now. So we discussed it. He said, You know what, myself and him
have difference of opinion. We haven't been speaking for a long time. So I wish somebody can
reconcile. So let's go now and reconcile. So they stand up and they go and then knock on the door of
somebody allow one who's at the door. I send inquiries from within and reset. It's myself. And with
me is American answer the alarm. Bell lead now I'm live now. So the alarm on Huma, so he consents,
and both of them enter the house. Now they sit down, they sit down, and you can imagine how awkward
and uncomfortable this moment is and how dense The atmosphere is because you haven't been speaking
		
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			to someone and then probably you meet in a Masjid or at the janazah and you happen to stand next to
each other or you are in a mall and you park next to each other. And eggs as you exit from the car,
you make eye contact. So it's a bit of an uneasy moment. You know, in English, they say there's a
very amazing
		
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			saying that I came across that a smile confuses and approaching frown. So if somebody wants to frown
and scowl at you, and he is very uncomfortable, and you smile, you almost confuse him. Should he go
with a frown or should he convert that into a smile? Or like they say that a smile pours an icy
stare? Someone is given an icy look a cold Luke is giving you a nasty Luke is giving you a malicious
look. And you just smile and you fool and you have this luminous character. And you have this broad
smile. You just melted you just melted and you just you know settle the
		
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			the tense atmosphere. So now they sit in here has an idea of your loved one and Omar Abdullah. Both
are legends both are great. Sahaba amorousness was far too handsome, right? He was the conqueror of
Egypt and the Allahu anhu What can one say about the profile of Satan or the Allahu anhu being the
leaf of Islam the son in law of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the father of hustling
Allahumma Allahu anhu himself in Ebony has said, well Allah has
		
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			a teeny, tiny mineral muslimeen this land of mines is a leader in the years to come, and he will
allow will use him to unite two factions of the oma and those right in sila tell you that has some
of the olana resemble the Prophet sallallahu some from his head to his belly button and her saying
well the Allahu anhu resembled the Prophet sallallahu Sallam from the belly button going down. So
almost the the personality of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was preserved in his two
grandsons has an unforeseeable the alarm on Houma. So anyway, they enter and Abu Salah today now
initiates the discussion. And he says that
		
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			why don't you tell us had this napping lady had death tonight tomorrow well hasn't when hasn't
villano passed by and he
		
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			greet us. you pronounce some great comments and remarks about him and you pay tribute and homage to
him. Why don't you repeat this? So he said, yeah, that's fine. I can repeat it. He said, basically,
I said in
		
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			the last summer, that he is the most beloved servant of Allah that occupies the earth today. So
Hassan vilano said, then for the MacArthur, tena, Yama, sci fi, then why didn't you challenge myself
and my father in the Battle of the field? Right, so he was on one side of the of the camp, and has
some of the Allahu anhu and said it was on the other side. So he said, and this is where the
contention had come about. And this is where the difference of opinion had come about. So Abdullah
Amara Yolanda replied, and wow, I wish the youth are listening to me. Wow. He said, you know, the
truth be told, oh, has somebody a loved one who, that my dad had lodged a complaint to the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu wasallam about me. And what was the complaint? Like if today, a man tells a chef or a new
mom or a new start that lesson I need to talk to you about my son? automatically? What do you think
probably he's been rebellious at home. He's not being productive in school is not being skilled in
his work. He's not been upright in his life or he's pursuing something unlawful non English, or he's
perpetrated some crime. No, no, no. In Imran sacani. My dad lodged a complaint and he told the
province of Milan he was a lump that Abdullah that is me, you assume una hora como lane he founds
every day, and he spends a whole night in worship. So you need to speak to him Oh, Prophet
		
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			sallallahu wasallam. So the Prophet of Allah told me some what after when, what suddenly, that you
know what, sometimes you must pass, sometimes you must eat sometimes you must leave. Sometimes you
must engage in vigil and nocturnal prayer, and run and run, but obey your father, and those words of
the provinces and obey your father. They were edged in my ears, in my heart, in my body, in my
anatomy, that in all matters of life, I just would remember one thing that prophets awesome told me
about your father, when the Battle of suffering took place, my dad had mobilized and he had
participated. And he told me to join him now, I was in a, you know, a rock and a hard place the
		
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			catch 22 I knew that on that side, or had somebody Alon Who was your honorable self, your venerable
dad, and many Sahaba but at the same time, my my dad, really a loved one who had a particular view
and a perspective, and he had asked me to accompany him, and I had the words of the prophets allies.
I mean, my ears obey. So I obliged to the fatherly sentiments and I appeased my dad by
participating, but look at the maturity of this young men. I'm happy to tell you how somebody Allahu
Allah Hema remains to be seen. I mean, wanna find to be room when I stood there because my dad told
me to come, but I did not release an arrow. I did not pierce a spear. I did not withdraw my sword. I
		
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			merely stood there but I did not engage in any battle. And when he said this, Hassan Ravi, Allah who
accepted the apology, and can you imagine these two giants legends and stalwarts united, and they
embrace each other, so I'm saying to you, my brother or my sister, whoever wherever you are, you
have a difference of opinion with someone I urge you pick up the phone or knock the door but let it
happen today. reconcile before it is too late.