Sulaiman Moola – Compliments vs Criticism

			Bismillah he was salatu salam ala rasulillah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		

			There is a Hadith of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in which he says her book cache your
army. Will you assume that when you love someone or you love something, you become blind and deaf,
you become blind to see the mistake, the folly, the floors, the blemish of that person, and you
literally block off and become deaf to listen to any mishap or any mistake or any shortcoming of
that individual. Now, I came across a very profound or do quotation in which the poet says, or the
message is conveyed in the following way. TCK coonley mohalla fat karna hai kisi Ke Kula himayat
karna bot Asan comma. One of the easiest things in life to do is to give a general approval, a
		

			blanket approval, a general overall recognition to someone. This is my brother is amazing. He's
awesome. He's brilliant. He's great. So the onlooker is like, Okay, this guy, all is good with him,
all is fine with him. There's no issues with him. And that's typically human nature. When we love
someone, we adore someone, we cherish someone. We give off the notion that everything pertaining to
that person is correct, which is which is incorrect. It is untrue. It is a Nabhi that is pure,
wholesome and absolutely correct. And then we look at the different perspective when we dislike
someone or we despise someone, or we have differences with someone then we like this guy's wicked,
		

			this guy is nasty, he's evil. Just stay clear from him because we dislike him. We resent him. So we
give off a notion that there's no good to him. when when when things are hunky dory in a marriage.
He's amazing. He's amazing. She's the best wife. He's the best husband. And unfortunately, when
things become sour and unpleasant, and we need to part ways, I don't know how I did contend with
him. I don't know how I put up with her. We forget the good. And that's the message here. Like
Indonesia, aka sub se mushkil. Calm and trust me my brother. And trust me, my sister if we can take
this lesson, I promise you, we can rescue many of our relationships. One of the most difficult
		

			things in life is kisi ki himayat karate who a whiskey Khalid bateau, Ki Mohamed curry, or kisi ki
mohalla, for karate who ski achieva toki himayat. Curry,
		

			that while you might be attacking someone for his wrong, or addressing the mistake of a person, be
bold and honest enough to highlight his good. And while you might be complimenting someone and
acknowledging someone and praise Him, which is good. Don't give off the notion that everything about
him is absolutely correct. I'm not saying necessarily that expose No, all I'm saying being honest
and candid, be honest and candid. When you are speaking about the ills of a person balance it out by
addressing his good and when you praise someone don't become so blind giving off the notion that is
an absolute you know what Savior is an absolute, you know, he or she has no flaws. Now let's look at
		

			quickly two Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam addressing both, you know, sides of the
spectrum, so there was a great companion by the name of hooray sad or the Allahu anhu every
Companion of the messenger sallallahu wasallam was great. The prophets of Allah praised him by using
the word Namah Namah Hooray. Hooray. Sad.
		

			Sad. If you know basic Arabic Nia Mahabharata comes to praise to compliment to acknowledge Allah use
that same expression in the Quran in the 23rd Jews for various prophets in our Jana who sobre la
that au was very, you know, he had a great level of perseverance, Nia Maillard, he was an amazing
servant, Allah He referred to today man alayhis salam, what will happen le da Buddha Sulaiman, we
endow food with a son by the name of Sulaiman nehama lab he was an amazing person. The messenger
sallallahu Sallam said near Mr. Raja no for me sad, sad is an amazing person, Lola to Lou Giamatti,
he is he Yes, there are two issues that need to be addressed and that need to be rectified Lola to
		

			new Giacometti, he if it would not for his long hair. So, Luca say Juma refers to the fact that his
hair was actually on his shoulders. And what is true is that he his trousers was dangling below his
ankles. So the province of alarmism started on a positive note, complimented him, acknowledge them,
praise them use the profound expression but at the same
		

			In a gentle way addressed the two issues that needed rectification and this was a companion brother,
your loved one who how do we choose to elevate people? Because he might be my my friend or my ally
or my crony or my mentor to a level that you know what he is sinless is blemish list. No, no, this
is the thing that kisi ki rehmeyer kurta, who was killed at batoka mohalla vodka a while praising
someone addressed the issue in the context on the correct merit. And in the same vein, if you are
kisi, Ki mohalla, fadd, kurta, who it was key Sahiba takashimaya uma might have differences with
someone and you might take exception with someone. But address is good as well. You know what my
		

			neighbor he could be uncouth, he could be quite rowdy, but he's the most generous neighbor I've ever
seen. My kids will not pass by the road without getting a candy or a chocolate, he will always show
us with gifts. So you might say the wrong my spouse. Unfortunately, he or she you know what could be
losing his tongue or her tongue. But on the other hand, Subhanallah he can spend on visitors she can
entertain visitors. She is the most amazing mother, he's the most amazing father. So address the
wrong button. Let's not forget the good both sides of the of the spectrum. And in this regard, I
share with you the amazing incident when the messenger sallallahu wasallam had mobilized these
		

			forces to come and invade Makkah, and he kept it a secret so that the Mexicans cannot make counter
preparations. So nobody could leak out the information and the Mexicans cannot make counter
preparations, and they would be then ambushed by the presence of the messenger sallallahu wasallam.
And that was the plan to come and of course he came in as the Conqueror, but not in a way where he
destroyed or he he you know vandalize, which is the case of rulers and monarchs in the maloca the
hollow Korean
		

			Villa, but the prophets Allah some came with great humility and kindness, love and care, be it as it
may his own companion Hatem Ebner Abby belta, Ravi Allahu anhu, discretely divulge the information.
On a note he communicated it to the people of Makkah, that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
intends invade in Makkah, take your precaution, be wary and be vigilant. Through revelation, the
messenger sallallahu wasallam is informed he sent the Sahaba to intercept the information and to
apprehend the woman who was
		

			transporting the information to Makkah. Then the note was intercepted the Sahaba Hatem Delta was
someone who was brought in the presence of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. Now there was a mistake
he made and his mistake was been addressed. In fact, save now hamara de Allah and will in a moment
of rain said our Prophet sallallahu wasallam It is clear that he has divulged this information. This
constitutes a type of treason. We need to take some harsh measures against him, and we need to
address it against him and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam as I mentioned, kisi ki mohalla furred
kurta who a whiskey Sahiba Toki himayat karna while addressing the wrong end this critical moment
		

			the messenger sallallahu Sallam said to Omar but Omar, he participated in better he is a veteran of
better and my Allah told me lol Allah, Allah Allah Allah, Allah Allah, Allah Masha, for in need to
know that Allah has addressed all the veterans and participants of whether that because of their
participation, Allah has pardoned all their sins, and hence the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam balanced his mistake in the light of his good if we can adopt this year that we have the
correct balance by law, we will rescue many relationships.