Sulaimaan Ravat – Sahaba Profile – Umme Salamah Binte Ummayah {RA} Part 2

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The man who met his sister at a church and married her was considered a senior second time, but eventually became his guide. He was forced to take on the responsibility of being his guide throughout the journey to cities like Mecca and Afghanistan, and had to monitor his children. He was taken to Madina to monitor his children, but had injuries that caused his family to be marginalized. He was eventually married again to his sister, but had concerns about her reputation and children. The speaker describes the importance of sharia and conservative culture in the region, as well as the death of the Prophet sallua Sallam.

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			Salaam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Ellen was silent Omar haven't become Welcome to another
edition of Sahaba profiles we continue the discussion on the life of Osama bin Abu omiya de la vida.
We explained that her real name was him, and she was initially married to Abdullah bin Abdullah Asad
masumi. She was known as Abu Omar Salah after her son Salama, and he was known as Abu Salah. Both of
them came from very noble background from rich families from well to do families respectable
families. In Macedon, mocha Rama, her husband was the blood brother of the Prophet salallahu alayhi
wasallam and her husband was the 11th person to accept Islam. She came from a family where her
		
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			father was well known for his great generosity. Whenever he would travel he would bear the expenses
of everyone who was on the journey with him. But then things change very radically for them after
they accepted Islam, the families ostracize them, they were marginalized by by their own relatives.
And then they made his electro ever senior they had the room. The things that improved after the
acceptance of Islam by Katara Dylan, they returned only to find that Muslims are still being
marginalized and persecuted and they wanted to make each other to have a senior second time, but
then it was time to make each other to Madina munawwara and when they were leaving as a family, her
		
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			family came home Osama's family came and snatched away saying to her husband, you cannot leave with
our daughter. And then he was forced to leave alone. And after she was snatched away her in laws
came and took the children away from her, saying you cannot bring up our children without our son
meaning her husband being present. And for a considerable period of time, she would go everyday to
the point of separation and she would cry until one family member one day asked her what was her
story. And when he heard it, he went and gave a mouthful to both, you know, the seniors in her
family and the seniors in her husband's family. And then they gave her permission to leave. And they
		
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			also gave her permission to leave with her children. But her difficulties did not end now. Because
there was no one to to accompany her on the journey from Mecca to Medina. These days, it's a five
hour six hour journey by modern day conveyance car or you know, a bus would be a little bit longer.
And those days, it was a good few days. You had to travel through the desert, you have to travel by
camel, and she she built up the courage and she decided to do so on her own. And she went and she
started traveling but she didn't know the way and she met a man called Othman, been up dairy. And he
was very surprised to see a woman who's traveling all by herself with her children, from Mecca to
		
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			Medina. So he inquired and you know, who are you and what's your story and where do you intend to go
and and you know, do you know the road, and when when she explained to him, to him her story and she
explained to him that she did not have anybody to accompany her. He took pity on him and he decided
to be her guide throughout the journey. And she talks very glowingly about him. She says he was such
a decent, pure hearted man, there was not a trace of evil in him. There was nothing wrong that you
could find in this person. He would lead me at the right times. He would give me intimacy, he would
allow me privacy with my children. He never made any untoward advances to me. He wasn't looking for
		
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			any recognition for any sort of compensation, nothing. He just took me all the way to Medina to
monitor them. And actually there she was very happy to be reunited with her husband, Abu salam, Abu
Salah took part in the Battle of butter, then he took part in the Battle of offroad. And in the
Battle of the road, he was wounded very seriously with the sight of a spear. The wound on the
apparent it healed but internally it has not healed. And while he was still recovering from what
happened at the Prophet sallallahu wasallam made him the commander of the army to go and take on the
new asset. We're planning to attack the Muslims. And when he went there, he fought in a very
		
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			courageous way. But once again, he became wounded and that old wound opened up in the blood started
to float, and he was struggling, although he managed as the leader to crush the acid, but when he
came back to Madina, munawwara his injuries were grievious he was struggling, and it wasn't long
before he realized that he was not going to make it. And he was on his deathbed when the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to visit him and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam petted his hand
and consoled him and made dua for him and Abu Salah asked the prophets of Allah Salaam to also make
dua, that Allah guarantees family a protector and a provider just like him. So the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam made and he said to the prophets of Allah, Islam, including your da that
Allah has given my wife almost cinema, it hasn't been who will give a neither Soto nor hardship and
the prophets of Allah, Allah Allah made the DA. And after just after making the drum abou cinema
passed away, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam himself, closed his eyes. And after that almost Salah
was grieving and she asked the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam for advice. So he said, ask Allah
to forgive you. ask Allah to forgive your husband, and ask Allah to give you an even better husband.
ask Allah to give you an even better husband. And almost Emma says that, you know, I was really
		
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			perplexed and I thought to myself, where will I get a better husband and Abu Salah, and after she
had finished her her waiting period she received
		
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			A proposal from Abu Bakr Siddiq rhodiola Han. She turned it down. She received a proposal from Omar.
Bin hataoka, the lavon she turned it down. And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam himself
proposed for her. She was very happy but she had certain concerns. She said, Oh rasulillah I have
three reservations. Firstly, I'm hot headed. I have a temper. And I don't want to show any
disrespect to you, you are the Prophet of Allah. Secondly, I have an elderly lady. And thirdly, I
have many children. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Look, I will make dua to a lump that he
cools your temper. In as far as you are elderly, I am also not a young man anymore. And as far as
		
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			your children are concerned, I will treat them as my own children actually, that's the reason I want
to marry you. So I can assist you with this responsibility of bringing up your children. And she
accepted the proposal of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and she married the Prophet of Allah in the
month of chawan. In the fourth year after Hmm. It is mentioned with regards to Muslim that the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to visit his wives every day after irrespective whose chance it was
wherever it was, he would spend the night with them. But he would visit each one of them every in
every day after us or between us and Maghreb. And he would start with Osama because she was the most
		
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			she was the eldest. Also, it's famous with regards to her that she was very astute. She was very
intelligent, on the occasion of Arabia, when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam signed the treaty, and
Sahaba could not go forward and make their way into Haram. But they had to come out of a haram go
home and come back in and perform over the next year. When the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told the
Sahaba to take off their house to come out of a house. No one complied immediately, because they
were still struck with the sorrow of a treaty that was signed, that went totally against them and in
favor of the Quran. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was perplexed as to what to do next. Because
		
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			generally the Sahaba would respond instantly, and he asked almost Salama, and look at the great
advice that she gave the Prophet sallallahu Sallam she told him that you go don't see anything,
don't engage them further. Just go and you take off your arm and shave your hair and slaughter your
animal. And you'll see what will happen in the afternoon. And as soon as the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wasallam did that the Sahaba followed, Osama took part in many battles. He was there in the
Battle of Burning Man stand up into inhaber in her name and the conquest of Makkah. And once the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was with her when gibril Ali salatu salam came in the form of
		
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			the Jacobian of the Allah one in the human form, and was talking to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
she knew 387 a Hadith of the prophets of Allah Salaam by heart. She was very very well versed in the
massage of foster relations and settling in divorce. Even a great Judas like Abdullah bustle of the
love, I know mom used to consult with her on many points of Sharia. She had a great mastery over
language when she spoke she spoke very eloquently. And even when she wrote she wrote very
appropriately, she lived right up to the age of 84. And she passed away in the 62nd year after his
law. She saw the the period of all the qualifier rashidun including while we had been abused Sophia,
		
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			and she passed away in the in the era of yazeed bin Abu Sufyan, the first of the mahatama, meaning
the first of the mothers of the believers to pass away was Xena, Binti, Joshua, the law on him, and
the last was almost Salama, Rue de la mulata Baraka with Adam inspire us with the qualities of these
great personalities, the companions of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam Sahaba profiles for myself
today my dravet as salaam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh