Suhaib Webb – Unlocking Communication- Key to Strong Relationships and Parenting

Usually, they don't know how to communicate with

each other.

In fact, I've seen people who don't like

each other, who get communicate effectively, and they

stay together

because communication leads to security.

And I've seen people who like each other,

but they don't know how to communicate, and

their marriage puzzle parts are interested.

It's very important to communicate,

to push in. And sometimes when we parent,

we have to be very careful. I know

for those of us who became Muslim, we're

protective parents.

We feel we have to protect.

You know, I'm the old Muslim in my

family. I have to go hard on the

paint. You know, I have to put pressure.

But what happens is we undermine

our

young adults ability

to have the necessary,

if you will, bravery

to formulate their own ideas and questions and

communicate

that allows them to become normal adults.

That's why sometimes they have the marriage crisis

in the world. We didn't teach young people

how to communicate their emotions. We just told

them it's it's it's a shame that you

talk to me. It's disrespect that you talk

No. No. No.

Let them disrespect you so they don't disrespect

others. At least they learn this is not

appropriate behavior. And you teach them and you

guide them and you talk to them. You

help them regulate their emotions.

So what I'm telling you is important, not

just in the sense of how we engage

religion in 2,024,

but how we engage each other.