Suhaib Webb – The Power of Effective Communication- Learn to Connect and Thrive

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The speaker discusses how communication is crucial in modern society, especially in personal relationships. They note that people of knowledge tend to avoid communicating because they don't know how to communicate effectively, and personal relationships are a result of this. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of communication in protecting young children from harmful behavior.

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			The Most Merciful
		
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			who taught the Quran
		
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			created people
		
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			and taught
		
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			human
		
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			beings how to communicate.
		
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			Allah says by You know the Quran, we
		
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			sent it in Arabic.
		
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			This clear book of the Quran, revealed in
		
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			Arabic so you can think.
		
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			As to people of knowledge if you don't.
		
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			Same thing in personal relationships.
		
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			Usually, when I see marriages destabilizing,
		
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			very rarely is it
		
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			that they don't like each other.
		
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			Usually,
		
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			they don't know how to communicate with each
		
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			other.
		
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			In fact, I've seen people who don't like
		
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			each other, who get communicate effectively, and they
		
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			stay together.
		
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			Because communication leads to security.
		
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			And I've seen people who like each other,
		
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			but they don't know how to communicate, and
		
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			their marriage falls apart.
		
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			It's interesting.
		
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			It's very important to communicate,
		
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			to push in. And sometimes when we parent,
		
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			we have to be very careful. I know
		
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			for those of us who became Muslim, we're
		
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			protective parents.
		
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			We feel we have to protect.
		
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			You know, I'm the old Muslim in my
		
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			family. I have to go hard and I
		
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			paint. You know, I have to put pressure.
		
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			But what happens is we undermine
		
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			our
		
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			young adults ability
		
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			to have the
		
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			necessary,
		
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			if you will, bravery
		
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			to formulate their own ideas and questions and
		
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			communicate
		
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			that allows them to become
		
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			normal adults.