Suhaib Webb – The Power of Charisma!

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The concept of " charisma" in religion is used to describe situations where people are not aligned with religious guidance. It is important to understand the context of " charisma" in relation to religious teachings and how it can be difficult to judge religious teachings based on just " charisma." Christian teaching is a fundamental part of our culture and is used to deescalate people. talent and knowledge can direct one's actions and ensure he is not amplifying others.

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			Welcome to our regular Friday reminder. And today,
		
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			I wanna talk about something that oftentimes is
		
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			confused, and that is charisma
		
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			and the place of charisma in religion.
		
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			I get it, man. Charisma in religion is
		
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			a slippery slope. It's rocky.
		
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			It can get it can get it can
		
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			get pretty spooky, especially the prophet
		
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			Right? There's certain types of communication.
		
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			They have like a magic. They take you.
		
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			That's why we have scholarship. That's what scholars
		
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			are supposed to do to balance people. As
		
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			the prophet said that every generation has the.
		
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			The those people in the middle who balance
		
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			people who center
		
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			and guide and nuance
		
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			responsibly the Ummah of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam. One of those scholars was Imam al
		
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			Maqdisi,
		
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			who commenting
		
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			on the explanation of Imam al Josi's
		
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			text on the Ihia.
		
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			He said that things like anger, happiness,
		
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			sadness,
		
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			success, the acquirement of wealth, even religious practices
		
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			fall under 2 designations.
		
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			Mahmud
		
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			and madhum.
		
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			What's praiseworthy
		
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			and what's problematic. And one of the things
		
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			that he mentions
		
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			is charisma. And also there's no doubt that
		
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			Allah's equipped
		
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			the prophets
		
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			with
		
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			incredible charisma,
		
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			righteous charisma.
		
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			Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			We didn't send a messenger except he spoke
		
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			the language of his people.
		
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			On the opposite end, we have the charisma
		
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			of shaitan.
		
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			Allah
		
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			says that Shaitan ornamented
		
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			beautified
		
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			their evil for them. So we see here
		
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			in the Quran,
		
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			that balance 2 types of charisma,
		
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			the charisma, which is used for Allah
		
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			and the charisma which is used for something
		
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			else in an evil way.
		
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			And this topic becomes
		
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			much more important in the age of influencers,
		
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			right? We we have to acknowledge this monoculture,
		
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			especially with the impact of COVID 19 on
		
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			people,
		
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			that pushes people towards an age age of
		
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			exhibition,
		
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			where everything is about
		
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			projecting. And this is where
		
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			religion as a study
		
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			fills a void that nothing else can really
		
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			address,
		
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			and that is the spiritual component of these
		
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			things, the wise.
		
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			Ibn
		
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			Said there was no one from the righteous
		
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			early
		
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			scholars,
		
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			except whenever they would do something, they would
		
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			ask themselves 2 questions,
		
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			why and how.
		
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			The why is, was it for Allah?
		
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			The how is, was it according to, and
		
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			did it align with religious guidance?
		
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			And it's important that we frame this as
		
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			a religious value because when we frame something
		
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			like charisma
		
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			under the broader context of religious values,
		
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			that means that there's going to be times
		
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			where charisma could be obligatory,
		
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			where it could be highly recommended,
		
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			where it could be disliked,
		
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			and what it could be haram,
		
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			and largely when it's permissible. I mean, the
		
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			general frame of charisma is that it falls
		
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			under what we know to be permissibility.
		
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			There's a very important legal axiom that addresses
		
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			this issue that says,
		
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			are
		
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			those things which bring beauty and enhance our
		
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			lives.
		
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			And the permissible things.
		
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			Are both based
		
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			and rooted on
		
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			a niet,
		
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			the intention of the person
		
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			talking about the dangerous charisma, the evil charisma,
		
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			we go to verse 204 in Surah Al
		
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			Baqarah. Go check it out.
		
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			The second chapter of the Quran verse 204,
		
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			Allah says after
		
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			there are some people
		
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			What they say when they talk about this
		
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			worldly life amazes you. You're
		
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			And they
		
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			they say, like, Allah knows.
		
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			They call Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala name
		
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			as a witness to the good in their
		
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			heart. There's another Kira'a. It's not from
		
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			the but in
		
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			also in others, the 7,
		
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			that they they they they say Allah knows
		
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			what's good in our heart, but there's not
		
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			a. Allah knows what's in their heart.
		
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			Said the worst
		
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			person. Charisma,
		
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			swagger,
		
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			swagger.
		
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			You know,
		
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			many of the scholars say that this verse
		
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			was sent because a man came to Medina,
		
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			and he amazed the Sahaba, even with his
		
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			religious talk.
		
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			And they were shocked.
		
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			And after some time they found all their
		
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			crops burned, and they found out it was
		
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			that man
		
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			that that man was a hypocrite. So he
		
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			used his charisma
		
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			to deceive them.
		
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			There's another example of charisma in the Quran
		
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			also that we need to pay attention to.
		
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			We all know the story of Sayidina Musa,
		
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			alayhis salatu salam,
		
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			and we know that Sayidina Musa was not
		
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			the most eloquent of people.
		
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			He had a speech impediment,
		
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			and he asked Allah
		
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			Remove this impediment from me so that I
		
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			can become someone who preaches your name
		
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			and communicates effectively.
		
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			Fyron, when he attacked Musa, he said,
		
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			he said that,
		
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			like, he's not even clear what he says.
		
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			There's an important lesson that we'll talk about
		
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			later on, and that is that you can't
		
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			judge
		
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			religious teachings just by charisma and shine and
		
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			swagger.
		
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			There's something deeper than that.
		
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			But we know because of this that Sayedna
		
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			Musa
		
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			he preached and taught his people
		
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			and
		
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			after Allah emancipated them and saved them
		
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			and brought them out from Firaun
		
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			that they were deceived.
		
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			When Musa Alai Salam left his people to
		
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			meet his lord,
		
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			they were deceived by Samiri.
		
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			Why Samiri has
		
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			swagger
		
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			Samiri has charisma,
		
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			but he used his charisma
		
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			to take them from worshiping Allah
		
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			to worshiping a golden calf, an idol.
		
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			And we also find in the 63rd chapter
		
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			of the Quran verse number 4,
		
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			when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,
		
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			when you see the hypocrites,
		
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			they look clean.
		
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			They have a certain swagger to them about
		
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			their presence.
		
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			And when they talk,
		
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			the way they talk can mesmerize you.
		
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			Right? But then he says,
		
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			but they are like empty wood. Like, it
		
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			looks really nice on the outside,
		
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			but there's nothing on the inside.
		
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			So the Quran, starting with shaitan,
		
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			right? And we could talk about the traps
		
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			of shaitan and using charisma,
		
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			peer pressure, swearing by God,
		
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			having a lot of swagger.
		
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			We see the hypocrites in Medina
		
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			utilizing
		
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			charisma
		
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			in a negative way to deceive people
		
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			and take them from Allah.
		
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			What about good charisma?
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam,
		
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			he warned us that whoever does not beautify
		
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			the Quran when they recite it,
		
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			is not from us.
		
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			And the sunun of imam Abu Dawood,
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he told the
		
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			sahaba, dress nicely, clean your saddles, and look
		
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			good for your brothers and sisters.
		
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			We know that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam
		
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			was
		
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			the most eloquent in speech.
		
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			And there are actually volumes, especially
		
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			in on the prophet's art of communication, his
		
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			style and his approach.
		
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			And we mentioned earlier,
		
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			Sayidimusa
		
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			alaihi salatu salam, asking Allah to remove his
		
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			inability
		
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			to communicate effectively.
		
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			And the prophet salaihi salam warned us because
		
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			charisma is a blessing.
		
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			That whoever Allah gives someone a blessing to
		
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			and they failed to use it, it will
		
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			be taken away from them.
		
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			The Quran itself,
		
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			there is nothing more majestically
		
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			charismatic than the book of Allah.
		
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			Like, but Allah says very clearly that cannot
		
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			come from its front or from its back.
		
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			It has been revealed by Allah
		
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			It is It
		
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			is a clear book.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam when the sahaba
		
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			would come to them, and they had talents.
		
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			And some of them were very charismatic like
		
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			Hassaned Muthavet.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam would not
		
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			dissuade them from utilizing those talents,
		
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			but he would re re redirect.
		
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			And that's something very important.
		
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			You shouldn't feel bad if you have a
		
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			charismatic personality.
		
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			You shouldn't feel bad if you have certain
		
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			qualities.
		
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			But how do you and I direct those
		
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			qualities,
		
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			and what do we direct them to?
		
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			To have something like that and fail to
		
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			use it for Allah makes it a curse.
		
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			But to have something like that and use
		
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			it for Allah makes it a blessing. So
		
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			that brings to mind then how can we
		
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			use
		
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			any talent, but
		
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			charisma
		
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			and make sure that it's for Allah.
		
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			We find that there are really 8 things
		
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			mentioned in the Quran that we should think
		
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			about.
		
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			The first being sincerity.
		
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			Anytime you throw something on on the Gram,
		
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			man, anything anytime I throw something up on
		
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			the Gram, TikTok, wherever,
		
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			make sure that you ask yourself
		
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			make sure I ask myself,
		
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			is this for Allah?
		
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			Am I more concerned about the likes of
		
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			the creation
		
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			or that Allah loves me
		
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			and that Allah is pleased with me.
		
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			Quran says that Allah's happiness is the greatest
		
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			thing.
		
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			And we know that there were prophets who
		
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			had no followers.
		
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			So the first thing is to think about
		
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			doing it for Allah.
		
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			And doing it for Allah means that my
		
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			heart is in the right place
		
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			and that I'm not doing anything that would
		
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			disobey his
		
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			deen.
		
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			The second thing is knowledge. Sincerity.
		
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			A lot of times we notice that people
		
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			are answering questions
		
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			and giving religious guidance
		
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			and actually giving the wrong answers
		
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			and not what
		
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			you
		
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			know.
		
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			And if you don't know or if you're
		
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			unsure, reach out what you know. And if
		
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			you don't know or if you're unsure,
		
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			reach out to the teachers and scholars that
		
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			are close to you.
		
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			Any
		
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			serious serious person engaged in this work
		
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			is going to have in their toolbox
		
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			those merjeet,
		
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			those reference points, those scholars that they could
		
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			reach out to and talk to
		
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			The third thing was
		
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			The third thing
		
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			is your ability to work with others
		
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			If you're all alone and you're strictly solo
		
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			and you're not promoting other people
		
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			and you're not amplifying other voices of people
		
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			that you know are even doing better than
		
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			you are.
		
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			You're not using your platform
		
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			to direct
		
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			others to Muslims that are making a difference
		
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			in different places.
		
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			Like my man, Tony Trump.
		
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			I saw him today,
		
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			feeding people in Philly, man. I shared it,
		
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			even though
		
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			he's
		
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			much bigger than me.
		
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			But I was compelled
		
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			by the good work that he's doing
		
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			in this really difficult time. So I was
		
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			like,
		
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			yo, let's put that out there.
		
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			We are not numbers.
		
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			Group of young Palestinians
		
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			who remind people that Palestinian bodies aren't numbers.
		
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			They are people.
		
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			Amplify those voices that are out there.