Suhaib Webb – Slandering A Woman Because of Her Past

Suhaib Webb
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The speaker discusses the concept of a woman who refuses to apologize and is hesitant to do so until she is sure of her mistake. They also mention the use of the word "has" in the context of a situation where a woman refuses to apologize and is hesitant to do so until she is sure of her mistake. The speaker also discusses the concept of a woman who refuses to apologize and is hesitant to do so until she is sure of her mistake.
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Very important question from a dear Swiss subscriber,

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Salam Sheikh wa alaikum salam wa rahmatullah.

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If a woman commits zina or minor zina

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and then repents sincerely and tries to be

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better and then later is slandered or has

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to face something of that nature when people

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talk about her due to the ayats, do

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the ayats, the verses of the 24th chapter

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of the Quran, Surat An-Nur, about slandering

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chaste women apply to her.

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So there's a few parts to this question.

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Number one is there is no such thing

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as like in the sense of minor zina

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being equal to major zina.

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Zina is *.

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Minor zina is certainly sinful, certainly a problem,

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a big problem, but not equal to to

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zina.

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And then repents sincerely and tries to be

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better and then is later slandered or has

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to face something of that nature when people

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talk about her due to the ayats, the

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verses of Surat An-Nur apply to her

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about slandering chaste women?

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Absolutely.

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Because unless this was a court case, okay,

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unless there was an accusation by her husband,

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let's say hypothetically of her committing zina or

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there were four witnesses that saw her committing

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zina.

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That's a whole different discussion.

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Talking now about you know the on-the

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-ground sort of slandering and things that happen

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in community which can be very very harmful

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and destabilizing.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has

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said whoever repents from a sin sincerely that

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is like the one that has no sin.

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So definitely and this is still a major

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slander of this woman, a disaster.

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People should, unless it's a court situation, unless

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it's being adjudicated hypothetically, then until this point

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these things are abstractions, especially in the West.

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You need to stay away from that stuff.

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Now if if she was trying to get

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married and she had or even a man

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had exhibited this behavior as a pattern, then

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people need to be warned.

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However, they should be warned without going into

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details.

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We say the default is ijmari and the

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exception is tafsili, meaning a person could say

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to someone like I strongly advise you not

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to get involved with this person.

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If this person was chronically doing this and

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you know, they exhibited behavior which is it's

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hard to trust that they've really, you know,

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repented.

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So the usl in this is to to

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keep it general, not to get into details.

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Then asking also if they repent, are they

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now a chaste person?

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Well, there will be a chaste person, but

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they would no longer, of course, be considered

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a virgin, right?

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So there's a difference between chastity and being

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a virgin if that's what you're asking.

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Although we know the hadith about marrying virgins

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is weak, the hadith of Jabir is sahih.

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Bukhari is contextual to Jabir.

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That's a long discussion.

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I talk about it on the fiqh of

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nikah class.

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So we're gonna start here live, Swiss as

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well, alhamdulillah.

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How does this fit into the Prophet Sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam saying Abu Sa'id al

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-Ansari reported that Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said, Regret is part of repentance and one

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who truly repents is like the one without

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sin.

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Alhamdulillah, I'm glad that I explained that hadith

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before.

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I saw that you asked it.

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Barakallahu fiqh.

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May Allah bless you and increase you.

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As-salamu alaykum.

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Allahu akbar.

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