Suhaib Webb – Ramadn Reflections Part 4 I’m Changing!

Suhaib Webb
Share Page

AI: Summary ©

The speaker discusses how he used to use recycle bins to store his records and prayed during his time in the mosque. He now finds himself in a booth DJing and wonders how he can pray while also doing wowned w threes. He describes his struggles with focus and the importance of faith in resolving one's evils.

AI: Summary ©

00:00:02 --> 00:00:03
			I had 9,000 records
		
00:00:04 --> 00:00:06
			all in my room.
		
00:00:07 --> 00:00:08
			I used to steal
		
00:00:09 --> 00:00:10
			recycle bins
		
00:00:10 --> 00:00:11
			in the neighborhood
		
00:00:11 --> 00:00:12
			and use those to put,
		
00:00:14 --> 00:00:15
			put my records in there
		
00:00:15 --> 00:00:18
			because I couldn't find crates that could hold
		
00:00:18 --> 00:00:18
			all those records.
		
00:00:25 --> 00:00:27
			I started DJing when I was 11. You
		
00:00:27 --> 00:00:29
			would walk into my room, there was 2
		
00:00:29 --> 00:00:31
			technique 1200 turntables,
		
00:00:32 --> 00:00:35
			Gemini mixer. It was something that was integral
		
00:00:35 --> 00:00:37
			to my existence. I went and prayed Asar
		
00:00:38 --> 00:00:40
			at this mosque in Oklahoma,
		
00:00:41 --> 00:00:41
			And I
		
00:00:42 --> 00:00:42
			had
		
00:00:43 --> 00:00:45
			all this DJ equipment, and then, you know,
		
00:00:45 --> 00:00:48
			you couldn't take 9,000 records with you, but
		
00:00:48 --> 00:00:50
			the latest, greatest stuff.
		
00:00:50 --> 00:00:51
			I didn't know how to pray really yet,
		
00:00:51 --> 00:00:53
			so I was watching people pray,
		
00:00:54 --> 00:00:55
			and trying not to let them see me
		
00:00:55 --> 00:00:56
			watch them
		
00:00:57 --> 00:00:59
			pray. And then I know I'm going to
		
00:00:59 --> 00:01:00
			DJ at this party,
		
00:01:01 --> 00:01:04
			and it's like this tremendous sense of guilt.
		
00:01:04 --> 00:01:06
			So I I almost, like, ran out of
		
00:01:06 --> 00:01:07
			the mosque. You know?
		
00:01:08 --> 00:01:10
			And this one brother, and he was like,
		
00:01:10 --> 00:01:12
			man, you know, what is that stuff in
		
00:01:12 --> 00:01:12
			your car?
		
00:01:13 --> 00:01:14
			It was like the question I didn't want
		
00:01:14 --> 00:01:15
			anyone to ask me.
		
00:01:16 --> 00:01:17
			I didn't know what to say. And I
		
00:01:17 --> 00:01:19
			went to the party that night. The party
		
00:01:19 --> 00:01:21
			was pounding, man. You know, it was like,
		
00:01:22 --> 00:01:24
			yeah. It was good. You know?
		
00:01:24 --> 00:01:25
			And and then
		
00:01:27 --> 00:01:28
			Maghreb is going out.
		
00:01:29 --> 00:01:30
			So
		
00:01:31 --> 00:01:32
			I'm trying to figure a way
		
00:01:32 --> 00:01:35
			how I can pray and DJ at the
		
00:01:35 --> 00:01:37
			same time. So I'm in the booth DJing.
		
00:01:37 --> 00:01:40
			Right? I found this extended remix of this
		
00:01:40 --> 00:01:42
			song by Doctor Dre. Right? And I remember
		
00:01:42 --> 00:01:43
			being happy
		
00:01:43 --> 00:01:44
			that
		
00:01:44 --> 00:01:46
			this is the extended remake, so I can
		
00:01:46 --> 00:01:49
			actually go make wudu and pray Maghrib.
		
00:01:49 --> 00:01:51
			So as I'm going to the restroom,
		
00:01:52 --> 00:01:54
			and hear the irony of change starts to
		
00:01:54 --> 00:01:56
			come out. Right? Like, I'm happy I found
		
00:01:56 --> 00:01:58
			this record so I can worship.
		
00:01:58 --> 00:02:00
			The farther I get away from
		
00:02:01 --> 00:02:04
			the place, the louder the bass gets, so
		
00:02:04 --> 00:02:05
			the bass is still following me wherever I
		
00:02:05 --> 00:02:08
			go. And I think that's symbolic of change.
		
00:02:08 --> 00:02:10
			Like, it's very rare that you can just
		
00:02:10 --> 00:02:12
			separate yourself from
		
00:02:12 --> 00:02:13
			the mistakes.
		
00:02:13 --> 00:02:15
			So I'm making wudu,
		
00:02:15 --> 00:02:18
			and again, when you're a convert, wudu is
		
00:02:18 --> 00:02:20
			basically like a part time job. You just
		
00:02:20 --> 00:02:22
			don't go in there and, like
		
00:02:22 --> 00:02:24
			like, it's not like,
		
00:02:24 --> 00:02:25
			you know,
		
00:02:26 --> 00:02:27
			a a Shaolin Temple move that you can
		
00:02:27 --> 00:02:28
			do quickly.
		
00:02:29 --> 00:02:31
			And I remember while I was praying,
		
00:02:31 --> 00:02:33
			I heard people dancing to the chorus. I
		
00:02:33 --> 00:02:36
			would have moments where, like, I'm in the
		
00:02:36 --> 00:02:38
			prayer, and then that remix just pull me
		
00:02:38 --> 00:02:41
			out. So I'm like struggling to focus and
		
00:02:41 --> 00:02:43
			getting pulled out to the beat, struggling to
		
00:02:43 --> 00:02:44
			focus in prayer,
		
00:02:44 --> 00:02:46
			and and then there's like
		
00:02:46 --> 00:02:48
			a really an infinite number of energies because
		
00:02:48 --> 00:02:51
			I'm just struggling to pray right, let alone
		
00:02:51 --> 00:02:53
			to have, like, focus in prayer, like just
		
00:02:53 --> 00:02:55
			making sure I pray right. And in that
		
00:02:55 --> 00:02:56
			little 3 or 4 minutes,
		
00:02:57 --> 00:02:58
			that really is life.
		
00:02:59 --> 00:03:02
			Right? Very rarely do we amputate our self
		
00:03:02 --> 00:03:04
			from our evils, but our evils somehow follow
		
00:03:04 --> 00:03:06
			us or are things that we want to
		
00:03:06 --> 00:03:09
			change. You know, Islam is an event, but
		
00:03:09 --> 00:03:11
			Islam is also a process. Very rarely can
		
00:03:11 --> 00:03:14
			we completely change everything. We can amputate everything.
		
00:03:14 --> 00:03:16
			In fact, sometimes that's more harmful.
		
00:03:17 --> 00:03:17
			But
		
00:03:17 --> 00:03:21
			adapting and realigning things, and negotiating things, and
		
00:03:21 --> 00:03:22
			improving things,
		
00:03:23 --> 00:03:24
			I think really is more
		
00:03:25 --> 00:03:27
			in line with faith and submission
		
00:03:28 --> 00:03:29
			than just complete amputation,
		
00:03:30 --> 00:03:32
			either this extreme or that extreme.