Suhaib Webb – Lesson Five Repentance

Suhaib Webb
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The speakers discuss the concept of gratitude and how it is applied to actions and words. They use the example of subhanahu Wa therapy, which refers to gratitude as a feeling, a state of the heart, and actions. The importance of gratitude is emphasized in shaping one's life and actions, and how it can be translated into a positive life. They also discuss the concept of "weAKier be" and how it is applied to actions and words.
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Welcome back to our first

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season. I like to use that word season

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of sanitation of the soul here at Swiss.

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Reading Al Kharida al Bahiyyah

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of sheikh Ahmed Dardir.

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What this text is providing us is the

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10 foundations

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that are needed for us to work on

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our heart. So these 10 foundations to the

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heart are what the rules of grammar are

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to speech and writing and comprehension.

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And every other course that we take here

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at Swiss or that we teach you

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is going to just really be building on

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these foundations. You know that I'm big into

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foundations. It's something that I believe is very

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important. Something lacking in the American Muslim community.

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In general, I don't know about other places.

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I can speak to the larger American community.

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It's just like foundational education.

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Putting in that raw work in a way

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that's accessible to everybody.

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So Alhamdulillah, we've reached now the second foundation

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from the 10 foundations of Al Wussur. Wussur

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means to arrive.

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So the sheikh, he says,

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The second is Shukr.

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And he says, waqun

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and be Allah upon

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Alihi.

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Ali

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the nam of Allah.

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Thankful,

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showing gratitude.

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The sheikh, he says

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meaning the second foundation out of the tin,

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is being grateful

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to the source of all blessings, which is

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Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala. Allah says in the Quran after

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Right? If you were to count the favors

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of Allah,

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the blessings of Allah,

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you would not be able to do so.

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We live in a time of incredible

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ungratefulness

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and

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almost, you

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know, you could say contagious

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cynicism.

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And the reason for that is people have

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Yaqeen in the dunya.

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They have certainty in the temporary world.

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So they're not grateful.

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But when I expand

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my horizons

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to the hereafter

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and understand

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that I'm living for something greater,

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I allow that to encapsulate

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the vision I have of the temporary world,

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and I see blessings,

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Alhamdulillah,

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as for what they are. But then I

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also appreciate tests and trials as simple salt

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to help me, you know, build the meat

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of the hereafter, if you will.

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That the test and trials of this life

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are not the end,

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but a part of something greater.

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And that that cannot be given to somebody

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through the secular lens.

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That has to come through the lens of

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faith that expands

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how we see the world. If you will,

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it allows us to see the world in

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a much more liberal way. Way. Right? To

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expand

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beyond the simple material

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and to see through that,

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to the hereafter.

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So I'm not defeated by tests

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and I'm not overly gassed up by successes.

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I

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contextualize

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all of that into pleasing Allah

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and what's good in the hereafter.

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Allahu Akbar. Allah says woman

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Who wants the Akhira

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will work for it,

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will struggle for

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it. So the foundation of being grateful to

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Allah

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is

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to untether myself from unhealthy attachments to the

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temporary world

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and to see

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my

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happiness

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and my sadness

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through the gauge of what is going to

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bring me success in the hereafter.

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And that's why Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, says

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to the prophet

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Later on we're going to give you what

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pleases you.

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Later on, we're going to provide you with

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those things that make you happy. As

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if to say from this point onward,

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as you go through prophethood, you're going to

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experience ups and downs.

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But later on, later on, later on, when

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you meet Allah,

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you'll find this rida.

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We ask Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, to make

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us from those, insha'Allah.

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So the sheikh, he says,

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be in a state of shukr.

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The word shukr actually

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in ancient Arabic

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is applied to a fat she camel,

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and the idea was that a fat she

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camel was indicative

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of a generous master.

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So the signs, the plump camel,

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were signs

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of a benevolent master.

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Figuratively, now this is applied to a person

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who shows signs of grace and happiness

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and joy and forgiveness

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and mercy,

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recognizing that Allah

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has blessed them.

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So now they recognize the blessings of Allah

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and they translate that into a positive life

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and a life

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of gratitude.

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SubhanAllah.

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The Sheikh he says, and he defines

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Shukr, he says,

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It's

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actually a really, really nice description.

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He says that thankfulness

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is that when the servant of Allah

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directs all of the blessings that Allah has

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given to him or her

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from the intellect,

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hearing,

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seeing,

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speaking

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and other things

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to the purpose of his or her creation,

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which is worship.

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If we wanted to define it a different

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way that makes it clear,

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Is that a person now?

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Directs and is actually interesting because you make

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of money, right?

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I exchange it. The

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is the money exchange.

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The of verbs is morphology to change it.

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So it means that I am literally exchanging

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the blessings that I've

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received

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from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, from the intellect

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and my speech and my vision and my

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heart and everything,

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I'm redirecting that or exchanging that

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for the Ibadah of Allah.

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Subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, it's a very, very,

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beautiful definition.

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And then he says, you know,

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that the writer of this poem alludes to

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that when he says,

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to be constantly

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in state of thankfulness to Allah

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Then the sheikh, he starts to talk about

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the different iterations of thankfulness in our life.

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And he says something really, really powerful and

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very, very beautiful.

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And this is also mentioned by other scholars

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in the context of the statement, iyakana,

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budu. Right? In Surat al Fatiha. Because when

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I recognize a blessing,

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either I'm going to exchange it for something

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which is good. I'm gonna use it and

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employ it for goodness. This is an amta

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alayhim.

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I'm not gonna pay attention to it. I'm

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gonna ignore it even though I know it's

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there and act counter to it. That's magbou

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bi'alayhim.

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I'm not going to see those blessings and

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still try to act and that is

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abalim.

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So

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Guide us to the straight way, the way

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of those who you favored. It means those

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who have who

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have knowledge of blessings.

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And then

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and that they exchange

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those blessings for the worship of Allah

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The sheikh, he says that

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thankfulness

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This is what I just talked about, but

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he says it in a much more eloquent

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way. He says that gratitude,

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right, is really founded on a state of

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the heart

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and the mind

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as well as,

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hitma bil arkan, how I act and how

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I live, wanutqbul

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lisan and what I say.

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And he says, expounding on this, that being

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a grateful person means

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The first is that a person believes that

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blessings are solely from Allah.

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And the second is to be grateful with

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our speech is to recognize

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as we talked about earlier, and to be

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in the state of remembrance and gratitude to

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Allah

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Allah The third,

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and that a person is using and employing

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his or her body

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and her his or her gifts

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of limbs

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to observe what Allah has

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commanded

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and to avoid what Allah

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has prohibited. So he says,

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That a person is employing his or her

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limbs to observe the obligations as well as

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the sunan,

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Those things which are recommended.

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This actually a very beautiful thing. He says

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something that people should be thankful for is

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repentance. That Allah guided them to repent,

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That Allah

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gave them the awareness and awakened them. We're

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going to talk about this in the future.

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To be a penitent person,

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not to be negligent.

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And that a person, when they're thankful, should

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be thankful that Allah has guided them to

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be thankful.

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Imam Al Shafi'i used to say, Alhamdulillah,

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all praise be to Allah who guided me

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to say Alhamdulillah,

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therefore I have to say Alhamdulillah.

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Subhanallah.

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Subhanallah.

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That gratitude has no ending, he says. What

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is

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what is aqara alihi salatu salam?

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And that's why the prophet said since Shukr

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has no ending,

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has no nihaya,

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that's why the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wasallam, said

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subhanak, transcendent is Allah,

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who we could never encapsulate

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truly

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thanking him, thanking you, You Arab.

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You are as you have think to yourself,

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Subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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And he said, and to live a life

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like this,

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to be in a state of gratitude like

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that is not easy.

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It's a very great thing.

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Because this is the way of people who

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are truthful.

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To be thankful with my heart and my

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mind and my

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attitudes, to be gracious and exhibit gratitude in

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my speech with zikr, and to be exhibiting

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gratitude and translating my understanding of blessings

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in my

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actions. He said,

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That's not easy.

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Because this is the way of the people

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of truth.

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Allah

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says, Allah says in Surat Saba verse 13

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that very few

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of my servants

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are going to be thankful.

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And to appreciate this further, Allah says,

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Allah says that you must make amal. Amal

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is a deliberate act. It's different than

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The word Amal means that I have a

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deliberateness to it. There's an intention. That's why

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the prophet said that indeed

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by the intentions.

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But also means something that includes the mind,

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the heart, and the limbs.

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An action is translated in this way is

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like me inadvertently doing something. But

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implies

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a deliberateness

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and compliance with

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Sharia.

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So when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala talks about

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gratitude in the Quran, he uses the

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as if to see that this includes everything

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that we talked about earlier. Those foundations of

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gratitude, my attitude,

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my emotions,

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my speech,

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and my actions.

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We ask Allah

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We ask Allah to make us from those

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who are truly grateful.

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