Suhaib Webb – Lesson Five Repentance

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The speaker discusses the importance of avoiding "-shaykh" in seeking forgiveness, rather than the actual "ever event" that is the actual " never event". They stress the importance of not Alrighty and not alarmed by someone's actions, rather the actual "ever event", which is the actual " never event" and the actual "ever event", which is the actual "ever event". The speaker emphasizes the importance of not Alrighty and not alarmed by someone's actions, as well as the importance of not cares and not alarmed by someone's actions. They also discuss the importance of not Alrighty and not alarmed by someone's actions.

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			Congratulations.
		
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			We are now at the beginning of our
		
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			journey.
		
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			We are now about to embark Alhamdulillah,
		
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			what I call Usur Usu,
		
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			the foundations
		
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			of the path. And when scholars use the
		
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			word usul, it means something that comes from
		
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			the Quran
		
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			or the sunnah of the prophet
		
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			or from one of the evidences
		
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			of sharia. Whenever you hear the word usool
		
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			in the classical context it means a diliel
		
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			al adillah.
		
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			Right? So it saves people the trouble
		
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			of asking, you know, where's the diliel, where's
		
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			the diliel, where's the diliel?
		
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			Diliyah. We started by talking about the importance
		
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			of saying La, Ilaha,
		
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			Illallah
		
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			abundantly because that's
		
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			to bring about
		
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			a lot of things that are going to
		
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			suddenly just kind of
		
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			amplify our awareness.
		
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			And then buttressing this with fear and hope
		
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			so that we get into a state of
		
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			balance, and now we're ready to embark on
		
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			the journey. Alhamdulillah.
		
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			The sheikh,
		
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			he starts with what some people say is
		
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			the beginning, middle, and end quality.
		
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			Throughout the journey this will always be there.
		
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			We find it early on
		
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			in the Quran's
		
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			address to the prophet peace be upon him.
		
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			We find it towards the end,
		
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			actually at the very ending
		
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			of the Qur'an's address to him salallahu alayhi
		
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			wasalam. What do you think that quality is?
		
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			Like
		
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			the first
		
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			step on the journey,
		
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			from the Usur Ulsul
		
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			is repentance.
		
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			SubhanAllah. Why? Because if I repent, tawbatan nasuhha,
		
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			like if I repent sincerely,
		
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			then
		
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			you know I'm starting with a clean slate.
		
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			And there is a difference of opinion amongst
		
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			theologians but the predominant opinion amongst theologians is
		
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			for somebody who repents
		
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			all their sins are forgiven.
		
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			Because Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			Allah forgives all the sins,
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So there's a beautiful accent that says,
		
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			That whoever truly repents to Allah is like
		
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			a new Muslim.
		
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			And that's why you find
		
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			some scholars used to say, I become new
		
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			Muslim every day.
		
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			Right? I repent to Allah.
		
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			Right? That that person, you know revives and
		
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			renews the relationship with Allah.
		
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			So Ashaq Ahmad Dardir he says,
		
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			Allahu Akbar.
		
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			That you should constantly
		
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			on this path
		
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			renew
		
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			your repentance.
		
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			Lalahuzar
		
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			because of the wizr,
		
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			because of your sins.
		
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			The word tawba is from a word which
		
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			means to turn away, itibtu, I turn from
		
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			something.
		
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			So tawba, if you think about we define
		
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			mujahada
		
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			and the sayer to Allah, working and striving
		
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			for Allah and traversing to Allah.
		
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			You can see how tawba is central to
		
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			this because tawba means to repent
		
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			for the times where I disobeyed Allah.
		
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			Right? To repent for the times where I
		
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			inverted what should be done. What should be
		
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			done is I should disobey my nafs and
		
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			I obey Allah, but I repent because I've
		
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			obeyed my nafs
		
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			and disobeyed Allah.
		
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			And all of this is found in Surat
		
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			of Fatiha.
		
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			I'm repenting because I'm Magdoo bi alayhim.
		
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			I'm repenting because I have not acted on
		
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			what I should act on even though I
		
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			know it, and I'm repenting on being dal,
		
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			astray because I've acted out of arrogance,
		
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			right, or out of ignorance.
		
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			And I'm repenting from those 2 to be
		
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			al adhinah and amalallahu alaihihim.
		
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			Those who Allah
		
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			has favored, Allahu Akbar.
		
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			That's why I like to tell my students
		
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			the last third of Shulta Fatiha
		
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			is really site mapping for us the process
		
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			of repentance.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So the shaykh, he says,
		
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			That you should constantly
		
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			be in the state of remembrance. The prophets
		
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			of repentance.
		
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			The prophet said,
		
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			by the one who has my life,
		
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			I seek Allah's forgiveness
		
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			and I return to him at least a
		
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			100 times a day, meaning
		
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			Now every act of worship has some major
		
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			foundations that have to be there. We're gonna
		
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			talk about some of the foundations of repentance
		
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			now. The first one is anadam.
		
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			That the person
		
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			is repenting
		
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			for obeying their nafs, obeying evil,
		
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			and failing to
		
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			shepherd and responsibly look after their relationship with
		
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			Allah.
		
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			So there's this sense of regret.
		
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			Regret,
		
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			and nadam.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			said, atawbatunadam,
		
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			that repentance
		
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			is regret.
		
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			Right. So I have to generally feel
		
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			that I've made some mistake here.
		
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			I have to generally feel a sense of
		
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			pen sense of penance.
		
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			The second,
		
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			The second is that I also have a
		
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			sense of determination
		
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			that I will not return to the evil
		
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			again. Now if I do,
		
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			that doesn't mean that I haven't been forgiven
		
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			as mentioned by the majority of theologians.
		
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			And if I do, I have to keep
		
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			seeking forgiveness. I shouldn't give up.
		
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			There's a beautiful narration that the prophet in
		
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			Sahih al Bukhari said that there's a person
		
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			who sins and repents and sins and repents
		
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			and sins and repents and sins and every
		
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			time Allah says, I forgive, I forgive them,
		
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			I forgive them, I forgive them, I forgive
		
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			them, I
		
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			they keep saying it, they say because
		
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			we're not stopping because the mercy of Allah
		
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			doesn't stop. So like to remind you, you
		
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			know,
		
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			that Allah's
		
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			forgiveness, masha'Allah.
		
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			Rahmatiwasiadqulashay,
		
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			as the Qur'an says.
		
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			Means to abandon.
		
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			That if I truly feel these things then
		
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			I should stop sinning immediately.
		
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			So there's a sense of immediacy.
		
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			I'm not just like, yeah later, you know.
		
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			No, no.
		
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			So the 3 foundational components of tawba, number
		
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			1 is the person, mashallah,
		
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			feels a sense of regret.
		
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			Number 2, that the person has determination not
		
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			to return back to it. And number 3,
		
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			as we said is immediacy,
		
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			to leave it. And the 4th we'll talk
		
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			about it insha Allah, is that if I've
		
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			done something wrong to someone, like I've stolen
		
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			from them or I've backbited them or I've
		
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			hurt them,
		
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			abuse falls into this,
		
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			then I need to seek their forgiveness.
		
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			However, some ulama said that if, like for
		
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			example, backbiting or something of that nature, telling
		
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			the person is going to create a greater
		
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			harm than is better
		
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			not to Then the sheikh, he says something
		
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			very nice. He says,
		
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			And what he's talking about here is and
		
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			there's a sentence before that a person can
		
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			repent microly like there's certain sins in their
		
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			life they want work on so they repent
		
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			for those, they repent for those, they repent
		
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			for those.
		
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			As they build up the capacity to seek
		
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			forgiveness.
		
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			And the repentance of a disbeliever who embraces
		
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			Islam is
		
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			accepted without a doubt.
		
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			And he says,
		
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			Right. And the believer who repents, there are
		
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			2 opinions. 1 is
		
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			that they don't know, maybe, maybe you're not.
		
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			The other opinion which is the opinion of
		
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			Abu Hasan al Ashari, which is the strong
		
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			opinion
		
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			in my understanding,
		
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			is that they will be forgiven based on
		
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			the verses
		
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			of the Quran.
		
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			Then he says something really nice,
		
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			Do not despair
		
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			of Allah's forgiveness.
		
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			Meaning Allah will hide
		
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			your sins and forgive you.
		
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			Because Allah's mercy
		
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			permeates all things even the great sins.
		
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			And the righteous person
		
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			I love this statement. That the righteous person
		
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			is the one who whenever they make mistakes
		
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			they repent to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Allah
		
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			loves those who repent. So they have the
		
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			love of Allah,
		
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			but they're repenting because they made sin. See,
		
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			there's something really beautiful there, Masha'Allah.
		
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			As he said earlier, those people that Allah
		
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			loves are those who when they sinned, they
		
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			they repent.
		
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			And of course when Allah loves somebody that
		
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			means they're close to him and he have
		
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			a relationship with him. So what he's saying
		
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			is don't let your sins destroy you, repent
		
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			because Allah loves those who repent.
		
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			Walayasashayunashaddaara
		
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			shaytanimintashdeedi
		
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			mumminli toba. I love this demon. He says
		
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			nothing is more difficult
		
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			on shaitan
		
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			than
		
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			when a believer
		
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			revives their repentance.
		
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			It comes back to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			So Alhamdulillah, this is now the first step
		
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			on the journey,
		
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			is repent. Everyday take a few moments, make
		
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			istighfar,
		
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			make du'a, turn to Allah, ask Allah to
		
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			forgive you, ask Allah to forgive