Suhaib Webb – Hikam Two Emergent Religiosity Needs Direction

Suhaib Webb
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The speaker discusses the hiccup in Islam, including a brother's advice to quit college and a disturbing hiccup in people's behavior. They emphasize the importance of deeds and intentions in shaping one's behavior, and the danger of leaving things in one's life without realizing their intentions. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of not understanding deeds and leaving things in one's life without leaving their aspiration. The speaker uses the term "naive" to describe the fall from a desire to create furnishings of life for oneself, and stresses the importance of maintaining a balance betweenics and pleasure to avoid a fall from a higher aspiration.
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Welcome back

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to our explanation of the hicom

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using of course the shar,

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the explanation of Sheikh Abdul Majeed, the sharnobi,

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al Madiki, Rahim,

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and we reach now the second hicom.

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Before we get into it, I just wanna

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give you a few stories that would help

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understand and illustrate and kind of animate what

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this hiccup is talking about. When I first

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accepted Islam, I met this brother at a

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masjid who told me I should quit college.

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So when I asked him why I should

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quit college, he was like, you know, man,

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you can't be learning from these kufar, blah

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blah blah blah blah blah blah. Right? Really

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bad advice.

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So I went home and I told my

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father like, yo,

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because of Islam I'm quitting college. My father

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was like, you're crazy.

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You're insane.

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Then my father, he's smart. He said, what

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are you gonna do with your life? I'm

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gonna hang out in the mosque and play

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basketball, man. I mean think about it. Quit

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college, hang out in the mosque with the

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brothers, eat biryani, play basketball all day. Yo,

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that's the life, yo. You know what I

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mean? So my father was like okay, who's

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gonna pay for you to play basketball

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and hang out in the mosque all day?

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The mosque, then I gotta pay for that.

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Then I was like, oh, man. I didn't

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think about that part. And then my father

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said, you're not being religious, you're being lazy.

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Right? You're not being religious.

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This claim of religiosity

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is masking

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some laziness.

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Now listen to this hiccup, and hopefully it

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will make sense to you.

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Imam Ibn Utta'ala says, iradatukatajareed

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ma'aikamatila

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The sheikh, he says you want

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Iradatuk

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is mudaf, the master,

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to the mudafun ilay. Yani, enter to read

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kedah.

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Tajrid.

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The word tajrid is from jarwada

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ujaredu,

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tajared

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and tafail and faala yfailu,

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which means to peel.

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You think about when you peel something, the

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peel usually there is for its protection, to

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protect it from the elements of the dunya.

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So he's saying you wanna peel something.

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And what he's talking about is you wanna

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peel

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the causes that Allah has

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manifested for you in your life.

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And those causes

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in your life protect you and sustain you

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just like the peel of a watermelon or

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an orange.

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SubhanAllah,

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man.

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And also to peel something you gotta put

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in work.

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So you're trying, although you can't by the

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way, and I can't peel away God's plan

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for us,

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but we can choose to try to oppose

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and that's fura.

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So iradatukatajirid

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ma'aikamatillah.

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You wanna peel away tajirid al asbab.

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You wanna peel away the things that Allah

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has manifest for you in your life.

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Ma'aikamatilla,

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while God akamak,

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while God has established you in those situations.

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Oftentimes

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when people become religious they wanna leave everything.

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They wanna step away from everything.

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They, in fact, tend to see religion as

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being synonymous

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with just putting everything in the recycle bin

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of life.

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Sheik is saying

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be careful of that.

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Religiosity

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that's not guided

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and religious impulse,

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which isn't directed,

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can be a problematic thing, man.

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Can be a problematic thing. So here the

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Sheikh,

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the first hicom is talking about the danger

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of not understanding your deeds.

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The second hicom is talking about the danger

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of not understanding

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your motives

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and your impulses.

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So he says, 'irad tuqatajirid

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ma'yakamatila

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yakafil asbabi

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aiyakafi tarqil asbabi

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Be careful

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of letting those things go from your life

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because it may mask

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a hidden agenda,

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a hidden desire.

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Like me, right? I wanna quit college,

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hang out in the mosque with the brothers,

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play basketball,

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and eat freaking biryani.

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Who wouldn't wanna do that? That's shahwa kafia.

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The reason he says that it's shahua and

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kafiyyah is something subtle.

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It's not something that's easily discerned

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because

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usually people do this in the name of

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religion.

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And when people do things in the name

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of religion that are wrong, it's very hard

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for them to see they're wrong

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because

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they're doing it in the name of religion.

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So the first part of this hicom

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is warning us about

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irresponsibly

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letting things go

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without paying attention

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to what Allah has facilitated

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for us.

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And the sheikh, he says the sign that

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Allah wants something for you

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is, of course, it doesn't violate Islam.

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And number 2, it's easy for you.

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And number 3,

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you're established in it.

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It comes to you easy and you find

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yourself that you're established in it.

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The next part of this hikam

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gives us the balance of impulse

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and the balance of motives.

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The sheikh, he says, watiradatukal

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asbab,

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and you wanting

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to cause things in your life.

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You wanting

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to furnish causes in your life that aren't

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there.

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Even though Allah has established you The word

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iqamah is important. That means

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your life is cool. You got what suffices

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you religiously

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and in the

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dunya,

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Allah has established you,

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Be careful.

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This is incredible, man.

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He says, and you wanting

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to create the furnishings of life for yourself,

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even though Allah has already sufficed you,

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be careful.

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Be careful

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of leaving taqatajirid.

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Leaving the life, the simple life that Allah

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has given you.

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Leave the peel where it is

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because you may

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fall from

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a higher aspiration.

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Like if you start going for dunya, you

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may have Inhitaht. And the word Inhitaht,

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subhanAllah, the sheikh uses the same word that's

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used to describe the fall of our father

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and mother from Jannah. All

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of you get out.

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And in the Quran it's interesting, I heard

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this from Sheikh Ahmediye

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that sometimes Allah says, you

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too Adam and his wife get out. In

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other places,

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all of you get out because we were

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in the loins of our parents.

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We all fell from Jannah. So here the

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sheikh is saying, you have a good life,

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your deen is tight, your dunya is tight,

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you have what suffices you.

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And you start to think man, the grass

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is greener on the other side, so you

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may

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sacrifice your relationship with Allah

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and the balance that you have in the

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dunya

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to go for something else, and that may

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cause you to fall

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from a greater aspiration,

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which is jannah and simplicity.

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The prophet said,

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like simplicity is from faith.

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This happened to me when I was in

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Al Azhar.

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I was there in my thirties, my early

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thirties.

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And I remember I saw this show, like

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what 30 year olds are doing nowadays. And

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I was in Eshar, I had less than

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$500

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in my savings account. I was broke.

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And, you know,

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I started watching this show and I was

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like, yo, I should quit SR. I should

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go back to America. I should get a

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master's degree.

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And I should go work in an office

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like all other 30 year olds. Like Jim

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and Pam. You know what I'm saying?

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And then I got a phone call from

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someone that offered me a job to translate

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things in Egypt, which paid

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in Egyptian

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Egyptian terms about the same.

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Then I realized like stuff for Allah man,

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what am I doing? Like I'm here, this

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is where Allah has put me in my

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life, this is what I'm good at, this

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is what I do well,

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so let me just ride the wave. Because

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imagine if I left that and went for

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the office job. That doesn't mean office jobs

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are bad. If you're good at an office

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job,

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don't go to Eazar.

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See what I'm trying to say here? Maintain

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that balance.

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So the sheikh, he says

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You wanting to peel away the things that

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Allah has given you after Allah has established

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you there, be careful that may mask a

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hidden agenda, a hidden desire.

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And you wanting

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to furnish your life with asbaab after Allah

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has sufficed you, causes means asbaab causes,

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after Allah has sufficed you

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with the life that you have, be careful

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because

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avoiding that simple life that Allah has given

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you may cause you to fall

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from a higher

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aspiration.

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