Suhaib Webb – Friday Sermon The Trust

Suhaib Webb
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The importance of trust in Islam is highlighted, including the need for effective communication and allowing one to split. The speaker emphasizes the importance of living with a strong community and finding a message that speaks to the people. The importance of acknowledging one's actions and working on one's soul is also emphasized, along with advice on healthy eating, drinking water, and working out. The importance of balancing behavior with others' actions is also emphasized.
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We send peace and blessings upon our beloved

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Messenger,

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Sayna

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who, subhanAllah, in the authentic narration,

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when he was informed

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of the tremendous

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bounties and rewards

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that will be given to his community

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for saying

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when his name is mentioned.

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According to Abu Musa Al Ashari, he made

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sujudah shukr

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thanking Allah

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for those blessings and bounties just by saying

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upon his blessed family,

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and upon those

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companions of the prophet

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and those who followed them until the end

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of time. Indeed we know that we are

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as a community

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held to a great responsibility,

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such that in the Quran Quran, that responsibility

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is referred to as a trust.

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Allah who

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says after

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Many scholars

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mentions refer to the that was given to

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the heavens and the earth was the of

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this da'wah, of this deen,

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and the heavens and the earth refused it.

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And we know that the Prophet

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was commanded to spread this message of Islam

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in numerous places.

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Allahu says

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to him, regardless of the situation,

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once the order was given

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to be public

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and to be delivered as a spiritual agitator,

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the Prophet

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never, never stepped away from being someone who

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calls to Allah. That's why Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala in describing him as fulfilling this trust,

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He says,

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That the Prophet is constant in calling

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people to Allah

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And by an extension, we are also, as

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a community,

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commanded to adhere to those principles

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and to be, whether verbally

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or invol verbally or silently,

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callers

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and reminders,

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spiritual agitators

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to a world which is completely caught up

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in a monoculture

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of consumption

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and investment in the exterior.

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We

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are adherents of that important

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message,

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as well as

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commanded to be carriers of the trust of

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Da'wah.

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That's why the Prophet

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when he was sitting with his companion

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and he requested his companion

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to recite the Quran to him, and he

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recited.

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We know that

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when he reached the verse,

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When he came to this verse, it said,

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we will bring

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prophets as witnesses against their communities,

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and we will bring you, Muhammad

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as a witness against your community. He said

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like, stop, stop, stop. And he said,

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like I saw him weeping.

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We know in numerous narrations we are threatened

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if we fail to uphold

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this important

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trust. In other some places, Quran.

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You'll be replaced by other people. The the

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blessing of Islam could be taken from us

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if we fail to adhere to that trust

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and uphold that trust. As well as the

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hadith of Imam

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You must invite to the good and you

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must forbid the evil.

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Oh Allah

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will allow punishment

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to fall upon you and you will begin

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to beg Allah to remove this punishment from

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you and it will not be answered. This

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dua will not be heard by Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala. Because dawah is a form of

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dhikr.

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And we know that the remembrance of Allah

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is so important, the hadith of Sahih Muslim,

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that the hour will not start

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until there's no one left to remember Allah

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on the face of the earth.

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Because the purpose of creation is

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and worship.

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Therefore, the true utility and agency of the

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creation will be done because no one will

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be remembering Allah, therefore, the end of creation

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will start. SubhanAllah.

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Based on the remembrance of Allah.

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There are a number of things that shaitan

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tries to do to keep us as a

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community

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from upholding

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this important amana.

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We're going to talk about those in the

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second chutba,

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that oftentimes

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we're so busy fighting each other, we're so

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busy amplifying

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what are really minute divisions,

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or so preoccupied with our own sense of

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self worth

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that we fail to realize that shaitan has

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tricked us,

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and caused us to turn against each other.

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As one recent convert told me, I never

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experienced a love like I experienced in the

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Muslim community,

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yet I've never seen a community so successful

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in hating itself

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than the Muslim community.

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And if we look in America, we have

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to wake up and realize maybe we're failing.

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Because every city we go to, we find

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new Masjids, new Masjids breaking off of old

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Masjids, new Masjids breaking off of the new

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Masjids will break off the old Masjids.

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It's like a virus.

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And when you ask people

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like, why did you start your own masjid?

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It's for the most mundane reasons or why

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did you break away from this group and

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start your own group? It's for the most

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mundane reasons, reasons that could have easily been

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worked out

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if we had the language of conflict transformation,

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not conflict resolution.

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And a community which is invested in its

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nafs

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is a community that's quick to split,

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but a community that understands the importance of

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its unity,

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and the greatness of the trust that it

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upholds,

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a prophetic trust,

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will be very very careful of allowing itself

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to split.

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But first, what are some of the qualities

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we should think about in the Quran

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to be effective carriers of this that

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the heavens and the earth, subhanAllah, refused to

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take?

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What are the qualities that we should be

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aspiring to? Because dawah is an outcome

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of a deliberate process.

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Often times, we put the cart before the

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horse. We think that that would just happens,

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but

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is nateja,

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is an outcome

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of a set of optics

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that have been put in place

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and then are topped off,

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by the tawfiq of Allah

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And there's a few obstacles to this also.

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So sometimes I remember

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early on after I had converted to Islam,

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I went into a grocery store. There is

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a brother, I knew him from college, and

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he was selling all kind of we used

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to call his grocery store haram co.

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And it's kinda like

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specializing in all of the haram, you know.

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So, I I said to him, hey, I'm

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new at this, like, I'm not the most,

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you know, knowledgeable Muslim, but

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I don't think you're supposed to be selling

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this stuff that's like destroying communities.

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And his response

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was, Suhayb,

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you know,

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we're not responsible for that. The prophet has

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passed, alayhis salatu salam.

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Bukhari lived his life. Sarahuddin Ayubi came and

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went.

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Came and went. Like, say to Fatima, say

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to Zainab, all of these great people, they

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laid out the path for us. I'm just

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a simple store owner. I have no responsibility

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to the dawah anymore.

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Like, this was legitimately his argument.

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And maybe sometimes it's because we just don't

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feel like we're good enough.

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You know, we're not confident because of our

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own mistakes.

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But the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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he said, Every

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single one of you are responsible for relating

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on behalf of me.

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And I can bear witness to this. I've

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seen people become Muslim Muslim because of their

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interaction with righteous people,

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and I've seen quite a number of people,

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except Islam,

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because of their interactions with Muslims who may

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not be, well, you know, the most adherent.

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As one of our teachers used to say

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in Egypt,

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He used to say that our sinners

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are the first line of,

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being nearer to God for sinners who aren't

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believers.

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Meaning that, sinners who aren't believers may in

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fact find more intersectionality

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with people who are not so pious,

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and through that interaction will find Masha'Allah,

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a way to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala which

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they will achieve insha Allah

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So never underestimate your importance

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and who you are.

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But what are some of the qualities that

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we should be thinking about?

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First, is Allah says

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In this verse, it was told to Yusuf,

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Allah lays out the first foundations

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of what we need, the ingredients to fulfill

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the amenah of dawah,

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of calling to Allah.

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One of the concerns I have with the

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Muslim community in America now is that with

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its political engagement,

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with its activism,

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and even within its religious engagement,

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it may not be trying to steer people

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to God.

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But we are a community that's tethered

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by our faith

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and constantly

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commanded to be social, political, and religious

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interlocuers,

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to remind people,

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to remind people of Allah.

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So, one of the signs of my sincere

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engagement

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is I don't have to be explicit

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but

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I

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remind

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people

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That there is a meeting with Allah, that's

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why every prayer we say,

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So what are those qualities mentioned in Surah

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Yusuf?

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Number 1 is Basira,

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and Basira

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has two meanings according to one of my

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teachers.

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The first is to have knowledge of the

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people that we deal with.

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Oftentimes, we want to impose

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our cultural understandings on people,

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or we allow our sense of cultural superiority,

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and I can say this especially as a

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white man in America,

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to blind us from being good listeners and

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understanding other people's cultures and appreciating their cultures,

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and then being able to craft a message

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which is culturally relevant and appealing to people.

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Where is the Muslim position on environmental resilience?

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Where is the Muslim position

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on what's happening to

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immigrants and people being separated from their children

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at the border? When our beloved Messenger said,

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Whoever separates between a mother and her daughter,

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Allah will separate him from what he loves

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in the hereafter.

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This is an authentic hadith. Where's our messaging

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on issues that are plaguing America? The shutdown.

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But instead,

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we're still talking about

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Big Macs,

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and if music is allowed,

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and where our pants are, and whose aqidah

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is sahiha. Don't get me wrong, foundational aqidah

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is important. But we're seeing groups even within

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the Sunni tradition

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arguing over issues of Aqeeda, which traditionally they

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didn't argue over till around 200 something years

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ago.

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So, we're not able to craft the message

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that speaks

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to the people that we live with.

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Was the prophet

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We know in the hadith of Abu Dawud,

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this older man asked him, can I kiss

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my wife while I'm fasting?

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No problem. The same gathering.

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Someone asked him, a young man, can I

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kiss my spouse while I'm gathering? No.

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And he's buried behind Al Azhar Sharif in

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his masjid.

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In his explanation of Bukhari,

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he said because the Prophet understands the old

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man, he doesn't have the same

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energy as a young man.

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So, the answer changes because the Prophet knows

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people.

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He's not away from the people, he's aware

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of what the people need.

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He's from the people.

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Every messenger was able to speak the cultural

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language

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of the people that they were sent to.

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And that's why in the hadith of Jibreel,

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we miss something very important.

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That sayna Jibreel alaihis salam,

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when he came to Sayna Muhammad salallahu alaihi

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wasalam, he wore the clothes of the Arabs.

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And the angels, they obey Allah. They don't

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disobey Allah.

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So we learn from this,

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that Sayidina Jibril as a

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as a caller.

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He comes to people in the halal,

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in the permissible,

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Right? With what they understand. That's why Imam

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Ibn Taymiyyah,

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he said, that in the lands of non

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Muslims,

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it may be wiser for the Muslim to

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dress as the non Muslims

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for the goal of bringing

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people to Allah.

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As though as long as it doesn't involve

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disobedience of Allah.

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The other meaning of basira is to have

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knowledge

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of 2 things. Number 1, the

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in my individual practice, in my individual

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liturgy, I know how to worship Allah. I

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have a foundational text in aqeedah that I've

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learned. I've learned the basic text in fiqh.

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And hamdulillah, I know how to pass this

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religion on to my children. I can read

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the Quran al hamdulillah.

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The foundational issues of knowledge I've worked on.

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But also it means that when I have

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a need,

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for example, at work, people asking questions, maybe

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your children have heard things at school,

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I have access

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to religious education

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and religious educators.

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As I told some imams recently in a

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training program, you know, your job is to

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be like tech support for the ummah of

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the prophet salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi

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salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi

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salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi

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salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi salallahu alayhi

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salallahu al

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The second,

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is group work,

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that I'm able to work in a group.

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Subhanallah, it's really easy. I remember

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we had a great brother. He was incarcerated

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for almost 35 years

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He accepted Islam in prison.

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And if you've read the ISPU study, you

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know that this notion that Muslim prisoners are

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somehow more apt to extremism

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is not supported empirically.

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In fact, the empirical data shows that Muslim

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prisoners

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have a lower chance of recivity

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than any other religion in America.

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But I remember he came to me and

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he's like, I need to talk to you.

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I said, sure. He said, it's a lot

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harder to practice outside of prison.

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I said, of course. You know, you used

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to be in a zawiyah.

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Masha Allah, you used to be in a

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place like the Mahabad.

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You know. You don't have anybody

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engaging you. You're isolated.

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The food's not very good, so it's easy

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to fast.

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People not engaging with you,

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but now the dunya comes. He said, yeah,

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wallahi, the dunya is a is is a

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beast.

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And I said, the best thing you can

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do is surround yourself with good people.

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He found

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beautiful wife,

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great sister,

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great brother, and a great community.

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Why do we underestimate our need for one

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another is because we're arrogant.

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When I'm arrogant, I don't feel I need

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you. And when I don't feel I need

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you, I dismiss you.

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But if I'm humble,

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and I hold myself to being humble,

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then I'm going to value

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engagement in people.

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You can't do it alone.

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Sayyidina Umar used to say that Islam is

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jama'a.

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Right? Islam is the group.

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So we need to work on 3 areas.

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Number 1,

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honest communication.

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It's very important that we communicate,

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we talk with one another.

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Number 2, we askew

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assumptions which are evil.

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Prophet said, be careful of bad assumptions about

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people. One time I gave the Khubba and

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a brother came to me, I never met

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this brother before in my life. And he

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said, you are attacking me on the minbar.

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I said, how? He said, because last night,

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I got into a fight with my son,

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and you said this. So how do I

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know you got in a fight with your

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son? I don't even know you have a

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son. I don't even know you.

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I said, I apologize if that's how you've

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it, but I want to remind you, we've

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never met before.

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And the last

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the last is to control anger

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and not to feel personally offended.

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That's why I say, not Amr used to

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say,

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Like people won't succeed who don't have interlockers.

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People won't succeed who don't have people who

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engage them.

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The last 2,

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and we'll finish the other 3 perhaps in

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the future,

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is

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is working on my soul. We're gonna talk

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about that in the second Khutba. And the

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last

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one,

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is to distinguish myself morally

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and ethically

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from people who do not believe in the

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same

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faith and morals I believe in as a

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Muslim.

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So, when Muslims hold

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those in political office

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accountable

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for saying things which contradict our morality and

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our ethics, that's a good thing.

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When we remind people

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that we cannot sacrifice our commitment to Allah

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for the sake of cultural or social agency,

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or political mobility.

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That's a good thing if it's done

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with sincerity,

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infidelity.

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I'm different

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than those people who are not

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focusing on Allah and living a purpose driven

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life, not in an arrogant way, but in

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a benevolent way,

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which reflects my foundations

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in my faith.

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Ask Allah

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to give us His

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We praise Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. We send

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peace and blessings upon our beloved messenger, Muhammad

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sallallahu alaihi wasalam, upon the family and companions

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of the Prophet till the end of time.

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There are a few things we can do

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immediately now, as I finish this khutbah to

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work on our own individual commitment. That's the

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third

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quality of the dahiya. We said number 1

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is knowledge, number 2 is group work, and

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number 3 is personal fidelity and integrity.

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Save yourself from *.

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And these are what our scholars called

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you know, the prison of the soul,

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meaning those things that discipline our soul.

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And all of us,

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can do these things, and I'll mention them

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inshallah, then we'll make dua, and we'll finish

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inshallah.

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But the first,

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the first is silence.

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We live in an age, it's very expressive,

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but we are taught to be thoughtful in

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our words.

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Whoever believes in Allah in the last day

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should speak well or remain silent.

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Communication here means in any form of of

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communication, as Imam al Maqdisi mentioned

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in his summary of the Ihia.

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So pulling away.

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One time I asked a brother, I said,

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have you ever thought about, like, being silent?

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And he said, what will I do if

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I'm silent? I said, you'll remember Allah.

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So silence is an opening to dhikr,

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and dhikr is an opening to fikr,

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and fikr is an opening to Marifa,

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and Marifa

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is a is an opening to Al Yaqaba,

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and Al Yaqaba

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is an opening to

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The second is hunger.

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Now we see, subhanAllah,

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the challenges of the environment and the destruction

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of the environment,

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largely based on consumption.

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As Muslims, we should see fasting

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as an act of spiritual

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resilience

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and resistance.

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That's why Sayidna Imam

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they asked him, how are you so wise?

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He said, I never ate till I was

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full.

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One time, Al Hassan Basri was sitting with

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someone, they said, man, I'm stuffed. He said,

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subhanallah,

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a believer, eats till he's stuffed.

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So hunger in the sense of balance, balance

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being the sunnah, should be brought about through

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fasting in the way of the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam.

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The third

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is a Sahar,

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is waking up before Fajr

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and being alone with

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Allah praises those people who do this. So

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once or twice a week or a month

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or

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so, pray when people are sleeping.

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It's important to wake up

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and be active

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in front of Allah.

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And the last is,

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solitude.

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Giving time

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to heal,

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being resilient, it's hard. Especially Islamic workers, I

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see this mistake

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that they work 25 hours a day,

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and they lose their marriage, they lose their

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children, they lose themselves.

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But the prophet said,

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You know, everything has its appropriate time.

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Not being extreme on either way,

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but being balanced.

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Here means taking time. There's a great book

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you can read called the resilient clinician,

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where you're taking care of yourself, working out,

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eating right,

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doing some kind of hobby,

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biking somewhere,

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going fishing,

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spending time with your kids and your family.

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Khilwa,

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being alone in a way that causes us

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to have

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healing because broken people can heal.

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Broken people

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break people.

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So ask Allah

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We ask Allah to accept from us,

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and we ask Allah to

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to like soften our hearts,

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and to give us a sense of rib

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in our sudoor, in our chest,

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and to give us inshirah.

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Ask Allah

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to make us brave enough to forgive others.

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Ask Allah

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to help us look deep into our heart

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for those people that we may be holding

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ill feelings to and animosity.

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We ask

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Allah if those reasons are petty

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and not real

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to help us forgive those people.

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Ask a lot to unite husbands and wives

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who may be going through marital discord.

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Ask a lot to bring children back to

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their parents.

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Forgive your parents, man. You know it's not

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easy raising kids. You'll learn one day. You're

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not born with an instruction booklet.

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It's a tough process.

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So have mercy to your parents.

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As they had mercy to you when you

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were small. Ask Allah to forgive our parents

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who've passed away.

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Ask

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to bless our brothers and sisters in Palestine.

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Ask

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to make us allies to the brothers and

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sisters in Palestine.

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Pray for our brothers and sisters in Syria

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and Egypt, and our brothers and sisters in

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the Yemen, and our brothers and sisters in

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Africa,

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in Malaysia, in Bosnia,

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in Afghanistan,

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in Myanmar, in Bangladesh. We ask Allah

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to make us the awliyah of those people.

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We pray for this country that Allah will

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help us to be of benefit and a

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blessing to this country,

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to make us true servants of what's righteous

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and good. Ask Allah

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to be pleased with us and to forgive

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us and to unite us with our beloved

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messenger, Sayna Muhammad.

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