Suhaib Webb – Essentials of Islamic Faith Part Two

Suhaib Webb
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The speakers discuss the importance of investing in entry points for a healthy community, maintaining healthy relationships with God, learning about people's religion, and being faithful. They also emphasize the need to think differently about one's religion and address challenges such as weakness and embarrassment. The speakers encourage people to have discussions about their religion and to be a faithful person.
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Like, is there really a well thought out

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strategy

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that

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will encourage people to come and stay,

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and become part of the process of a

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community?

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In education,

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is there an entry point that you've thought

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about that you open up so that people

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can come in?

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Ya'aqoub said,

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Right? Go in.

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So as educators, and I worry,

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about 5 years ago, I was teaching,

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a classical text in Irvine, California. So, you

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know, I have to give it the Irvine

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vibe, you know. It's Irvine. And,

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afterwards, a young student,

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from

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institution, religious institution,

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came to me and he's like, you know,

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I just don't I just don't appreciate how

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you teach people.

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I was like, mashallah. Thanks, man. How old

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are you? He's like, I'm 20.

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It's like, mashallah.

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So I said why? He said, you know,

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people need to come to us.

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Like people should climb the mountain, man.

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So I said to him, what if their

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legs are broke?

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He's like, what you

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what if they have gangrene?

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What if they can't climb that that mountain

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that Allah blessed you to climb, man?

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So then what will you do?

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And then he didn't have an answer.

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So I believe we really need to invest

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educationally in

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entry points for people. So we'll start with

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1 inshallah. We'll just read a little bit,

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then tomorrow we'll continue. So the first chapter

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is very interesting, very important.

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Sheikh Ahmed Darbir, what he wanted to do

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with this book is encapsulate

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those things which we have to believe.

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And he represents

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one school of Sunni Theology. There's 3 major

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schools of Sunni Theology

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throughout our history. And and these schools,

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they're all basically gonna take you to,

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San Francisco,

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but some are gonna take 280,

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some are gonna take 101, someone to Oakland

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that went across the bridge.

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But you still got where?

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You still got to Oakland, to San Francisco.

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And Sunni Theology, at its core,

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tries to do 2 very remarkable things

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that people should think about.

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The first is, it tries to enhance

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our

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respect

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and acknowledgement

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of Allah's transcendence

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of our Tawhid.

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Laysa kamit lihi shay.

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Walam yakullahu kufa 1

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ahad.

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So Sunni theology,

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and we live now, there's a great book

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out called The Domestication of Transcendence.

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It's a very powerful book. Talks about how

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language

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Now you have, like, that guy's a god,

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dude. No, he's not.

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The domestication of the idea of transcendence

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undermines,

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the jalal of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and

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their lieu of Allah. So Sunni theologians, regardless

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of their

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their madrassa that they came from,

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one of their major focuses was on preserving

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the sanctity and sacredness of God.

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Even the Malaika,

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they

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immediately acknowledge the fact, like, hey, we recognize

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your transcendence.

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The second thing, and this is what makes

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it remarkable,

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is that they try to reinforce the notion

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that having a viable,

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meaningful,

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consistent

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relationship

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with God

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is possible.

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So we call this in mantas is ishimal

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nakhidin.

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You brought together 2

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opposite

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components.

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Allah is transcendence,

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God is close to you.

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Allah is unlike anything we know, but God

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has your back.

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And that was the challenge of Sunni Theology.

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And the sheikh, he represents a school that's

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unique

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for a number of

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reasons. This I'm not saying it's the best,

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it's not my job. I don't I really

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don't worry about this kind of things.

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And that is that this school,

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primarily,

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as most of the early Islamic Sciences,

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blossomed

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in a multicultural

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society,

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where in fact,

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Muslims

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in their numbers were still a minority.

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So, like, if you read at Mongkad I

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was reading a Mongkad minamtulada today of Imam

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al Ghazali on the plane. Figure if you

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read anything on the plane after Quran, read

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being saved from this guidance, you know.

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Literally.

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And Imam Al Hazali says something very interesting

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in the introduction. He says, you know,

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when I when I when I, you know,

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grew up as a child,

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He said, you know, as I grew up

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as a child,

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I noticed Jewish children, and Christian children, and

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Medellin children.

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What does it tell you about the neighborhood

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of Imam al Ghazali?

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Like, go to a deeper reading.

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That means that Imam al Ghazali lived in

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a multicultural

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society.

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He was surrounded by people who weren't just

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Muslim.

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He was surrounded by people from all kinds

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of backgrounds.

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Now, if you think

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about that, then it becomes extremely interesting to

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note that you're studying a form of synesthesiology

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that in its infancy and as it blossomed

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especially in Iraq

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and in Egypt, full stop at that time,

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and in Damascus.

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Its primary

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engagement

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was with who

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people of different religious traditions and backgrounds.

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If you take that and think about where

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you are now in America,

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by no means is the Bay Area

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monolithic when it comes to religion.

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So, I feel that at times this approach

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for theology

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is fitting because its

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growth comes through

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some very similar circumstances

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that we may find ourselves in today.

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And because of that, the way they teach

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is different.

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And I'm gonna try to explain that to

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you as we go through the text insha'Allah.

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So, he begins and he says

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the first obligation.

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He

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says,

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So the first obligation

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upon a mukhalaf, an obligation,

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of course, is something that if we do

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it with intention, we're rewarded.

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If we don't do it,

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we may be in trouble.

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As Imam Al Haram says.

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So it's like an obligation.

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We learn something from the text that early

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teachers

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had priorities in teaching people.

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Imam Sadiq Ahmad Zawook,

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he says in Al Qawai, he said,

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He said, you know,

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understanding what's truly important

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is the the constant

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case of the seeker.

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They understand priorities.

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So the Sheik, he doesn't start with like

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differences.

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I remember I I I lived here,

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and I remember one time,

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one group came and taught Akita.

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There's a weekend course here and my phone

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start blowing up, you know. All kind of

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questions from from some of our older older

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community who never heard these things before. It's

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okay, it's okay, don't worry that's no part

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of our tradition.

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And then the next week the complete opposite

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of that madrasa came and taught Akita. 2

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weeks later, it was like they're going back

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and forth like trying to take over MCA,

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man.

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And And I remember after 2 weeks

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of both courses,

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I had a dear auntie, Masha'Allah.

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She's over 70 so she gets the auntie,

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you know, designation with Ijalal and Ihtiram, you

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know.

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She said to me, I think I left

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Islam.

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I was, like, what are you talking about?

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Like, you're 70 years old, like, Masha'Allah.

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How could you have let well, I owe

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the 1st week. I agreed with what they

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were saying, but the next week,

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I found out what I agreed with was

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wrong.

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I don't know if I'm still Muslim.

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So then I I talked to the brothers

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at that time who were in charge of

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the

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the, what is it, the education committee here.

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And I said like, is this really what

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you wanna see happen to the community?

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Like 70 year old people wondering if they're

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still Muslim?

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And then the brother told me, I didn't

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know. I didn't even attend either of the

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events. Subhanallah, where are you putting on events

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you didn't even go to,

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man? So the sheikh teaches us something, and

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to be honest with you, those issues that

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she had concerns with are not even from

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the fundamentals of theology.

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They're secondary issues.

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Imam Subqee said,

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all of my students succeeded

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who

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started their relationship with foundations,

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foundational learning.

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But the ego doesn't like to hear that,

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man.

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Like what are you learning? Oh, I'm just

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learning the basics.

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Nobody wants to say that.

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We wanna say like, I'm studying this, I'm

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studying that, I'm studying this hardcore book, blah

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blah blah. When I was in Egypt, I

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remember a brother came from America.

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And this brother, subhanallah, he had not studied

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before.

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And I met him at the Azhar. I

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said hey man, how are you? Teman, alhamdulillah.

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I said what are you studying? He said

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I'm studying Anwar al Buruk,

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which is a book of Imam al Karafi.

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It's 4 volumes.

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It's hard man.

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He said to me, what about you? I

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said, yeah, they told me in 4 years

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I can study that book you study, and

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now you've been here 4 weeks.

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This brother left Islam.

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Not because of Khalafi,

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but if you try to go into the

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deep end, man,

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and you don't know how to swim,

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you're gonna sink.

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And if there's ego in the knowledge

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I've seen this in my own mistakes in

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my own life, when there's ego in something

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I set out to do when it comes

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to religious knowledge,

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it it doesn't it doesn't bring fruit.

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It doesn't bring fruit.

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So we learned something from Sheikh Ahmed Dardir.

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Priorities.

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Ask yourself right now, what are the top

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four priorities

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in your life?

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We don't even like to think about it.

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My father is 80 years old.

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I said to him,

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what are the top three priorities of your

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life? He said, I'm too old to have

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priorities.

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So what does that mean?

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I'm too young, man.

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I said no.

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But have you thought about how you wanna

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die?

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Shouldn't that be kinda like

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number 1 on your list, bro?

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Just take, like, 10:15

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seconds.

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Let's follow the example of this sheikh

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who begins with priorities.

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You know why a lot of people are

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upset inside, man? And they feel a lot

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of frustration inside? They don't have priorities.

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Sayna Ali alaihis salam,

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he said there are some people, they're like

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branches. Wherever the wind blows, they just go

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with the wind.

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He said, but the believer

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is also half of it.

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They have priorities.

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One of my teachers, he said, you'll truly

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become a student of knowledge

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when you're able to say, I can't study

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that right now.

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And then when you first go, I wanna

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study this, I wanna study that, I wanna

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study this, I wanna study that. You wanna

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study everything.

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It's like when you go to the gym,

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you will do like full body workouts.

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It's like, but when you're able to identify

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what you can't study

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because of priorities,

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then you've become a student.

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So take like 20 seconds.

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That little voice inside us that we hate

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to talk to.

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And ask that voice like, what are the

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3 or 4 most important priorities

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in your

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life?

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So that's what the Sheikh does. He teaches

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us.

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So he says, Yejebhu alim makalef. It's a

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big statement, man. And Yejebhu means it's constantly

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an obligation.

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He's he's eluding something.

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It's not like an obligation once. It's not

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an obligation twice. It's not an obligation like

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for a weekend.

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It's constant.

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This obligation is constant. It never leaves you.

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It always stays with you. It will always

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be there with you.

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Imam Shaikhari,

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he said about this obligation,

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it it will appear

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when you need it

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whether you recognize it or not.

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So he says,

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What do you think that first obligation is?

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Okay.

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Who else?

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First obligation is Islam.

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This is agreed upon by

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85% of Suri scholars.

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Majority.

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First obligation.

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Salah.

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No.

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But it's good track.

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You're close?

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Like, being honest.

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Almost. Tawhid, almost.

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They say all of those things are the

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teaching

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of this fardom.

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All those things that you're missing are the

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outcome of this.

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They they can't happen without it. This becomes

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really important, I teach in NYU with Imam

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Khaled Latif, who's like, you should invite him.

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He's freaking amazing, man.

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And I get this question, especially when Bill

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Maher was, like, attacking Islam,

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saying Islam is a mother load of bad

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ideas,

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Islam is anti rational.

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Islam, of course, disciplines rational,

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rationale, but it's not anti rational.

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Bad ideas, anti intellectual.

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He says,

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and the first obligation is to know.

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Everybody got caught, everybody froze.

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First obligation is to know.

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That's your dean.

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Now let's

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take that to a personal level. Like, how

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often am I,

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like, learning, you know, at least once a

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week, maybe listen to a podcast, maybe attending

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halakha, or whatever I can do, reading a

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book.

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But then let's take this also to an

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institution level.

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How would that play out as a policy?

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If we believe this is farda'ina farda kifay,

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that means learning is individual

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and communal, so that means I have to

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be facilitating

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the opportunity for people to ask questions, to

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engage, to learn,

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to study,

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to challenge.

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And he uses the word, marifa.

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And that's important.

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The word marifa

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is from the word, arf. If you have

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the book, tomorrow inshallah, you can take notes.

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We made like super huge margins for you.

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Marifa means

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to follow. Arf o Faras

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is the mane of the horse. Because when

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you see the mane, you follow it, oh,

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this is the horse.

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So the ma'rifah of Allah

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is that we learn about Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala.

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We learn about certain qualities that we have

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learned from prophets and sacred texts

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about God,

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and then we couple that with our experiences

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in life. That's why he doesn't say he

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says Maghifah.

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Because marifa

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is the joining of 2 things,

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learning rules and principles, learning orthodoxy,

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and living it, and experiencing it, and synthesizing

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that together.

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That's why the other word for is

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always a word. Alf always means

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something that tells you about something else. So

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they call the peaks of a mountain, alf

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aljibel. So to what? 7th chapter of the

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Quran is called what? Surut?

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Alraf.

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Also, something that smells nice is called,

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like a dog. I tell my students, say,

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like a dog. Oh, yeah. Okay. Yeah.

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It's easy. Little kids can remember.

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Don't ask about dogs.

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I'll give you a nice example of what

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I mean marrying a cognitive engagement with a

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physical engagement. This would flip Eric Erickson,

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you know, in his grave.

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And that is, if you wake up in

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the morning,

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you know, and you know that your husband

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has cooked for you some incredible meal,

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you say to yourself, wow.

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Did my husband make

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aloo paratha?

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Wow. He knows that's my favorite.

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Wait. Is it keema paratha?

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Is it asid?

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Is it

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halal turkey bacon

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and eggs and biscuits, if you're from Oklahoma?

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So you're smelling it, araf too.

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Because the outcome

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of araf is hokum, and that hokum is

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called marifa.

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Mujudisheh

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al mujudi.

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Either I'm gonna affirm it or deny it.

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So I'm smelling, I'm smelling, smelling, smelling.

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Then as I get to the kitchen, man,

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rice krispies.

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Right?

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So But that moment of meh, that's called

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marifa.

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The sheikh is saying the first obligation upon

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a believer

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is to do what they need to do

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to have that moment with God,

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To follow God.

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So,

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acquiring lenses by which we see our world

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because we are in a world now, and

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this is something I think as Muslims we

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should talk about, the intellectual constructions

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which formulate the goggles by which we look

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at the world, can at times be problematic.

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And perhaps also we learned from religious

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folks,

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things which also may be problematic.

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So we would have to trust in God

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for this process,

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but he said the first obligation

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is ma'ifa.

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This book

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tries to

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attempt and has done so

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the first half of the equation.

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How do you think about God?

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How do you think about prophets?

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How do you think about angels? How do

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you think about the hereafter?

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There's something very different. It doesn't get into

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all the arguments

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because remember this book was the the style

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of teaching, excuse me, not necessarily this text

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was,

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constructed

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in a time where they were engaging non

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Muslims. So you don't wanna start with non

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Muslims and be like, you know, this hadith

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is weak and you can't use this term,

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that terms wrong, blah blah blah blah. What?

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And also, it wanted to do something which

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Islamic Theology does, and this is the 3rd

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goal of Islamic Theology that I waited to

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tell you till now.

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We said the first is to recognize God's

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transcendence,

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the second is to have a relationship with

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God,

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and the third, and this is something that

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we need to work on, is prepare us

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for public

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life.

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To prepare us for engagement.

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And I would say, in America,

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large percentage

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of Muslim communities

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are not thinking about strategic engagement,

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they're thinking about strategic

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incubation,

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and just hoping

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I can make it.

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But that's not how it works.

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He says something else when we finish, Insha'Allah,

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he uses the word Maqalaf.

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The word Maqalaf means someone that's

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burdened.

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And this brings about something that we struggle

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with as Muslims because we have to be

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honest.

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I think America's Muslims in many ways have

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been

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infected

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by a Protestant message of the gospel of

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prosperity.

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We may not admit it, but it permeates

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America.

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American greatness is tied to God's happiness.

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Whereas our theology says, you may be great

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and God can hate you.

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You may be the most

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successful human being on the face of the

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earth, and God is angry with you.

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And you may be the poorest human being

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on the face of the earth, and Allah

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loves you.

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The

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the tethering

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of theology

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to material success

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is one of the greatest challenges of this

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age.

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And Muslims aren't free of it.

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So I said if you go look at,

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I would say, 90% of the boards across

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this country in our nonprofits,

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they're all rich people.

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Whereas you may have some Faqir,

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you may have somebody who's not that rich,

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but they know a lot about their craft

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and they're in the Masjid regularly, and they

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understand the policies of Masjid, they will never

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have the opportunity to to be part of

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the community.

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What does that tell you about the community?

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Why does the prophet mentioned

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the Khutba

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early on,

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first moments of his message, a woman, a

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slave,

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a rich man, and a youth. Every demographic

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of Mecca is with the prophet, the beginning

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of his message, because he's for the people,

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not just for one group of people.

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But that notion,

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and you see sometimes Muslims will say, you

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know, I'm sick. God must hate me. No,

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it doesn't.

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The challenge

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of

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paradox. And that's why the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam said in the famous hadith of

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Jibreel, to believe in Allah,

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his angels,

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his books, his messengers, then he did something

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called tawkidlahi,

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Watutmina

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bil Qadrin. And

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to believe

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that whatever happens is from God, he emphasizes

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the verb.

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Because people, even Tanius said, are going to

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have problems with Quran.

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So before

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we talk about being mukalaf,

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there's one thing I need to say,

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And that is, it is crucial

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that if we are going to think about

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Islamic theology

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in America

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critically,

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then we have to emancipate it from the

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clutches of white supremacy.

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And we have to emancipate

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it from different cultural groups within the Muslim

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community.

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Theology is not a culture.

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Theology is doing our best

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to believe and speak about God in truth,

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and that truth refuses to accept white supremacy.

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That proof that truth refuses to accept NQM

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and people's party.

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That truth refuses to accept pan Arabism.

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It can

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because

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theology in its essence

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is for God,

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and that's why I'm gonna say something that

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may challenge you.

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The first step to emancipating

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our faith

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is to stop trying to speak in the

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language of faith

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using the language of the secular.

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Because when we use the language of the

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secular,

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we subject

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our faith to a logic which faith doesn't

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align with.

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And I'll give you some examples, you'll be

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like, so weird.

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And that's why we say

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that belief in God

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in its very essence

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is an example

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of super

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irrationality.

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People do not like to hear that.

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You can say super rationality, I just wanna

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mess with you.

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Super irrationality.

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I I I taught this to some college

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students at NYU.

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This girl, she raised her hand and she's

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like, it's just, like, so refreshing. I can

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just tell these people, look, man.

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Part of faith is the acceptance of the

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irrational.

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Instead of trying to box faith in

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and use a dialectic, which wasn't constructed for

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faith in the first place, and then wonder

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why I can't bang with these people. I

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can't I can't jump out of the ring.

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I gotta tap out

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because you've boxed it into some constructions that

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aren't made to engage faith in the first

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place.

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What do I mean?

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Here's something you should try.

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Ask someone

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who is

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submitted

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to quote unquote

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the dominant rationales of America. James Cone says

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anything rational is subservient to something more powerful

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than it. That's a reality.

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Rationale tends to be dictated by people who

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have money, and have access,

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and can be the loudest in a society.

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That's how it works.

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That's why the prophet was called Majnun.

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You're not rational.

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But let's invert it. Let me show you

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what I mean.

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Let's take a a a simple post enlightenment

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attitude,

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postmodern

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attitude,

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if you will, and apply that to a

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man who says, I was with my wife

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one night in the desert,

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and we needed some fire.

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So I saw this fire,

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I went to this tree, and started talking.

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Said, you're a prophet.

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What would be the

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highly westernized

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rationale

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analysis

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of Musa?

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He's he's nice. Now you see how crazy

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it is. We're trying to do that with

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religion, but the other way around. We're trying

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to speak

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through faith

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and subject the secular to face rationale. It

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doesn't work, so the simple thing is to

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say we just don't agree on this.

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And we emancipate our theology to speak for

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itself and to act as a cleansing agent

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in society,

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instead of always being boxed in.

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I teach a class at NYU called Islamic

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Law and Ethics. The original curriculum they gave

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me was like, why we're not terrorists?

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Why we don't hate women?

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Why this? I said, I'm not teaching this.

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I'm not gonna subject myself to your narrative.

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So he said, okay, what are you gonna

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teach? I said, from the Jenners to Jannah,

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Islam and bioethics.

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Jenners

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to Jannah,

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plastic surgery,

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bioethics.

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And they're like,

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Islam talks about bioethics?

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I was like,

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yeah. The other class we did, from DJ

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Khaled to Imam Khaled.

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Is Islam a monolithic culture?

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Our Shia scholar did Caravela and Black Lives

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Matter.

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And they were like, You know, we never

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knew

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that Islam

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could speak to the age.

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I said, because you never challenged it to

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me.

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And and and maybe the way we taught

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it, we packed it nicely into the lunchbox

00:28:00 --> 00:28:02

of the dominant narratives of society.

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So before we start, there's one thing I

00:28:06 --> 00:28:07

want us to think about,

00:28:08 --> 00:28:09

Emancipating our theology

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and allowing it to speak for itself. And

00:28:13 --> 00:28:15

the best way that that happens,

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as Ustadh Khurramurag

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mentions, is to read the Quran as sincerely

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as you can.

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And without going to one extreme or the

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other.

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Sheikh, he says,

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The Muqaddalif

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is someone who's burdened. Paradox.

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I remember when I became Muslim, man, they

00:28:37 --> 00:28:38

were like, Islam is so fun,

00:28:39 --> 00:28:39

so amazing,

00:28:40 --> 00:28:42

so awesome. I was like, really? Yeah. Like,

00:28:42 --> 00:28:43

so tomorrow

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at 5:45 in the morning, you have to

00:28:46 --> 00:28:47

wake up. I thought you said it was

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fun.

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The paradox.

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But there are things that Allah has burdened

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us with, which we may struggle to like.

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That's acceptable in our theology.

00:29:02 --> 00:29:03

That's part of our theology,

00:29:05 --> 00:29:08

And the mokalef is the person who's burdened,

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and there's 4 conditions I'm gonna mention that

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will stop.

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Number 1 is,

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that someone should be physically mature.

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This is very important,

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have their physical ability

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to perform the act.

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Number 2,

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maturation,

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mental maturation.

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The ability to understand,

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to understand moral ideas,

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to understand notions of philosophy.

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We say that if one of those is

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missing, and this is important because sometimes parents,

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it's a parent's teens edition, they come to

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me, they're like, you know, little Abdulah is

00:29:42 --> 00:29:46

so smart, but he just can't stand. He's

00:29:46 --> 00:29:48

like, you know, he's not strong, can't fast.

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So we call

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this half is there, half isn't there. So

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we're merciful to that person.

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We don't burden them.

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On the other end, maybe somebody

00:30:01 --> 00:30:03

is physically strong

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and still very immature,

00:30:05 --> 00:30:06

Not able to conceptualize

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what God is asking, we say also this

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is called,

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a deficient form of responsibility. That's important because

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I get this question all the time from

00:30:16 --> 00:30:19

people. My son is like physically very strong,

00:30:19 --> 00:30:21

my daughter's like machala very tall, but you

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may have some challenges in understanding certain things.

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This is called taklif nammas.

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You can extend this to other issues that

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we'll get in a second as before we

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finish.

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The set The third condition,

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which also is extremely important,

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is

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that a person, and no one talks about

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this,

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has

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good emotional and psychological health.

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This is found in our texts.

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Prophet Rufe Al Kalman Talata, pain is lifted

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from 3 people.

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And I'll give you an example. I was

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in a community, wasn't this community. I have

00:31:00 --> 00:31:00

to say that.

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And there was an amazing sister, a comrade

00:31:03 --> 00:31:04

sister Masha'Allah,

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who

00:31:05 --> 00:31:08

I used to see her after Salah. She

00:31:08 --> 00:31:10

would stay in the liquor for like an

00:31:10 --> 00:31:10

hour, man.

00:31:11 --> 00:31:12

I was like, wow, Masha'Allah,

00:31:12 --> 00:31:14

man. I'm so bad.

00:31:15 --> 00:31:16

And she was a student at a very

00:31:16 --> 00:31:18

very prominent university.

00:31:18 --> 00:31:20

But then one day, I saw her crying.

00:31:22 --> 00:31:23

So initially I thought, like,

00:31:23 --> 00:31:27

wow, masha'allah, she's crying, like, woah.

00:31:27 --> 00:31:30

But then I heard the cries of pain,

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

not like the cries of Khushur.

00:31:33 --> 00:31:35

So I said to her, Assalamu alaikum, what's

00:31:35 --> 00:31:37

going on? She's like, I don't know, am

00:31:37 --> 00:31:40

I on am I on 23 or 25?

00:31:41 --> 00:31:42

Like, what do you mean? She's like, I

00:31:42 --> 00:31:44

I have a compulsive issue.

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

I was like, you don't see her every

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

day? Because, like,

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

you're from the awliya of Allah.

00:31:50 --> 00:31:51

And she was like, no, man, I sit

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

here because I'm not sure how many I

00:31:53 --> 00:31:53

counted.

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This is someone who has a challenge,

00:31:56 --> 00:31:57

cognitive challenge.

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We talk about old people who have Alzheimer's.

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

Miss Yin is from the moshakat.

00:32:04 --> 00:32:06

Right? I have people calling me saying, you

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

know, my father, my mother has Alzheimer's.

00:32:08 --> 00:32:11

My father just prayed like 45 rakaat for

00:32:11 --> 00:32:12

Maghrib, for example.

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

Or you prayed like 1 raka'at, like it's

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

okay, halazian.

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

Because we believe that if these ideas of

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

taqleef are challenged,

00:32:20 --> 00:32:23

then people should be experiencing dispensation.

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

Thematic we we

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differ

00:32:28 --> 00:32:29

strongly with the shafis.

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

We say

00:32:31 --> 00:32:32

that,

00:32:33 --> 00:32:34

you know, you're not allowed to say your

00:32:34 --> 00:32:35

intention

00:32:36 --> 00:32:39

before prayer. You know, Malaysia, prayer in Malaysia,

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

Masha'allah, it's beautiful.

00:32:45 --> 00:32:46

Malakis were like,

00:32:48 --> 00:32:51

what was that? You know, we're very quiet.

00:32:54 --> 00:32:57

But you find Imam Khaleel, it's great Malekic

00:32:57 --> 00:32:59

Jewish said, except if someone

00:33:00 --> 00:33:02

needs help remembering

00:33:02 --> 00:33:03

what they're doing.

00:33:05 --> 00:33:06

So in that situation,

00:33:07 --> 00:33:08

it's commendable.

00:33:09 --> 00:33:11

How can we take this idea of taqleef

00:33:11 --> 00:33:13

and start to think about how do we

00:33:13 --> 00:33:16

educate children in Islamic studies who have learning

00:33:16 --> 00:33:17

challenges?

00:33:17 --> 00:33:19

It's not even on the radar.

00:33:20 --> 00:33:23

What kind of programming do we have for

00:33:23 --> 00:33:23

converts

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or for adults

00:33:25 --> 00:33:27

who may have certain cognitive challenges or psychological

00:33:28 --> 00:33:29

challenges or health challenges?

00:33:30 --> 00:33:32

I give an example. I'm on the State

00:33:32 --> 00:33:33

Council of North America.

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

It's really cool. I don't do anything. It's

00:33:36 --> 00:33:37

a bunch of smart people. I just listen

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

to what they say.

00:33:39 --> 00:33:40

But there was a sister,

00:33:41 --> 00:33:44

she came to me. She was a young

00:33:44 --> 00:33:46

sister. And she said to me and she

00:33:46 --> 00:33:47

was weak.

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

And so what's wrong? She said, Imam, I

00:33:50 --> 00:33:53

have been fasting for 5 days straight without

00:33:53 --> 00:33:53

stopping.

00:33:55 --> 00:33:56

I was like, what?

00:33:57 --> 00:33:58

And she said to me,

00:33:59 --> 00:34:01

I have chronic anorexia, man.

00:34:03 --> 00:34:04

When I was little, my mother beat me

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06

because she said I wasn't cute

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

and made me look at myself in the

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

mirror.

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

So when I fast,

00:34:12 --> 00:34:13

I can't stop.

00:34:15 --> 00:34:15

So I said,

00:34:16 --> 00:34:17

are you in therapy?

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

She's like, hamdulillah. I was like, what is

00:34:19 --> 00:34:22

your therapist saying? Therapist saying I shouldn't fast.

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

Drink some water.

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

What what what would make us make this

00:34:28 --> 00:34:29

dispensation

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

is that her talif is nakas.

00:34:32 --> 00:34:33

So how do we serve

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

instead of, like, embarrassing And Masha, I I

00:34:36 --> 00:34:38

remember this is one of the first communities

00:34:38 --> 00:34:40

I've ever seen that had a mentorship program

00:34:40 --> 00:34:41

for people,

00:34:41 --> 00:34:44

and had, like, proper mental health support services.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:45

Like Allah bless this community, man.

00:34:46 --> 00:34:48

First, I learned that from this wherever I

00:34:48 --> 00:34:50

go, I'm like, yo, you gotta have clinicians,

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

have to have partnerships with clinicians, need to

00:34:52 --> 00:34:54

be serving the real needs of the people.

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

Imams should not be counseling people or doing

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

these because we're not trained. We need counselors

00:34:59 --> 00:35:00

ourselves.

00:35:02 --> 00:35:03

But if we were to unpack the idea

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

of taqif here in the text

00:35:06 --> 00:35:07

and expand it,

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09

we can give people hope

00:35:10 --> 00:35:11

who are struggling.

00:35:11 --> 00:35:14

Right? We can think about creating much more

00:35:15 --> 00:35:18

nuanced and caring services for our community.

00:35:19 --> 00:35:21

And then number 3, we challenge ourselves to

00:35:21 --> 00:35:23

think very differently about our religion.

00:35:24 --> 00:35:26

But when we learn taqif, we just learned

00:35:26 --> 00:35:27

this, this, this, this, okay, I'm Shelobot.

00:35:29 --> 00:35:31

But the emotional health of people

00:35:32 --> 00:35:34

is kept into consideration. That's why the Quran,

00:35:34 --> 00:35:36

you have 2 kira'ah to only make it

00:35:36 --> 00:35:37

complicated

00:35:37 --> 00:35:38

for people.

00:35:42 --> 00:35:45

Means they were affected by some external problem.

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

Qur means an Uhr,

00:35:48 --> 00:35:48

internal

00:35:49 --> 00:35:50

emotional trauma.

00:35:51 --> 00:35:52

And

00:35:55 --> 00:35:56

Allah removed

00:35:56 --> 00:35:57

this from you,

00:35:58 --> 00:35:59

and gave you

00:36:03 --> 00:36:06

The last and we'll stop insha'Allah, condition of

00:36:06 --> 00:36:06

Takkif

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

is that you heard the message properly.

00:36:10 --> 00:36:10

Husbands,

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

don't take this and run with it, man.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

I know how we do.

00:36:14 --> 00:36:16

I didn't hear you. I didn't hear you.

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18

You know, I didn't hear that. Alright. That's

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

how we get out of trouble.

00:36:20 --> 00:36:22

And kids also. I didn't hear that.

00:36:23 --> 00:36:23

No.

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

This is not a license to get me

00:36:25 --> 00:36:26

in trouble with your parents

00:36:27 --> 00:36:28

or your spouse.

00:36:29 --> 00:36:29

But

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

Khali Abu Bakr ibn Arawi is a great

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

scholar. He's also a hilarious

00:36:34 --> 00:36:36

student of a Vasari great Malik Hajiris from

00:36:36 --> 00:36:37

Andalus.

00:36:38 --> 00:36:39

He said, you know,

00:36:39 --> 00:36:40

Bulu Vadawah,

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

people have had to heard the message.

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46

And this takes us to a question I

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

think I get by more young people.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51

This is the 3rd most common question I

00:36:51 --> 00:36:52

get from them.

00:36:52 --> 00:36:53

The salvation

00:36:54 --> 00:36:56

of people who never heard about Islam.

00:36:57 --> 00:36:59

They ask him about this question all the

00:36:59 --> 00:36:59

time,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

and it's not necessarily that they have doubts,

00:37:01 --> 00:37:03

they they have friends. Their friends are asking

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

them, like, so am I going to *?

00:37:06 --> 00:37:08

Right? I'm your best friend. Go into *.

00:37:09 --> 00:37:11

We play Fortnite together, dude. Go into *.

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

That's true. Just shot a pink bunny.

00:37:18 --> 00:37:19

John Wicks can,

00:37:21 --> 00:37:21

but

00:37:22 --> 00:37:25

InshaAllah we're gonna have a Swiss National Fortnite

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

tournament. InshaAllah soon. Ming Dua.

00:37:29 --> 00:37:29

Seriously?

00:37:32 --> 00:37:34

But they get this question from their friends

00:37:34 --> 00:37:34

a lot.

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

If we take the condition of taqleef that

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

someone has had to hear the message, and

00:37:40 --> 00:37:42

Imam al Ghazali wrote an entire book on

00:37:42 --> 00:37:44

what it means to hear the message. He

00:37:44 --> 00:37:46

said, you have to be exposed to a

00:37:46 --> 00:37:47

prophetic

00:37:48 --> 00:37:49

level of immersion.

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

So it's not just like watching TV or,

00:37:52 --> 00:37:54

you know, reading some article or Newsweek, you

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

know, Islam the threat of the West. Like

00:37:56 --> 00:37:58

that doesn't count man.

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

But someone is, like, given

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

the access to prophetic

00:38:03 --> 00:38:04

immersion.

00:38:05 --> 00:38:07

Prophetic immersion means education,

00:38:07 --> 00:38:09

concern, care, love.

00:38:10 --> 00:38:11

Right? There's a sense of belonging.

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

And the hadith of the prophet, sallallahu alaihi

00:38:16 --> 00:38:17

salam, the Sahih Muslim,

00:38:18 --> 00:38:21

the Sahaba who cared about people. Said, You

00:38:21 --> 00:38:22

Rasulullah,

00:38:22 --> 00:38:25

what about those Bedouins who live so far

00:38:25 --> 00:38:26

away, and like way out there in the

00:38:26 --> 00:38:28

middle of nowhere?

00:38:29 --> 00:38:31

Like what's gonna happen to them? Like the

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

message never reached them,

00:38:33 --> 00:38:35

and the prophet said to them, you know

00:38:35 --> 00:38:37

Allah will judge them by his Adal

00:38:38 --> 00:38:39

and his Rahmah.

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

So we have an axiom, we say,

00:38:46 --> 00:38:49

So we treat these people like like non

00:38:49 --> 00:38:51

Muslims, like, we don't expect them to fast

00:38:51 --> 00:38:54

Ramadan, we don't make them pray Fajr,

00:38:55 --> 00:38:57

and we say their akhira

00:38:58 --> 00:39:00

is known to Allah. Allah says,

00:39:04 --> 00:39:06

So alhamdulillah, we only took just a very

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

brief introduction of the book, talking about kind

00:39:08 --> 00:39:11

of the educational philosophy behind it. Tomorrow would

00:39:11 --> 00:39:13

be a lot more simpler.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:15

We have, like, I think over a 100

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

something people, Masha'Allah,

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

have, enrolled with their kids and stuff. And

00:39:19 --> 00:39:21

couples. It's a cool thing to do together

00:39:21 --> 00:39:23

because we challenge you to work together,

00:39:23 --> 00:39:24

have discussions.

00:39:25 --> 00:39:26

One of the things in the book says,

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

you know, ask your father to take you

00:39:28 --> 00:39:29

to the graveyard and tell you about how

00:39:29 --> 00:39:30

he's planning to die.

00:39:31 --> 00:39:32

This is a conversation we should have with

00:39:32 --> 00:39:33

our kids.

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

What what am I doing to make this

00:39:36 --> 00:39:37

better for me?

00:39:38 --> 00:39:39

Not what are you doing, what am I

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

doing? That unpacks a lot of

00:39:42 --> 00:39:45

things that can be discussed by young people.

00:39:45 --> 00:39:48

So InshaAllah, we will we'll start tomorrow, early

00:39:48 --> 00:39:51

just to recap what we talked about. Said

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

the first obligation is to learn men's power.

00:39:53 --> 00:39:54

What a religion.

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

So now someone starts to talk out the

00:39:56 --> 00:39:57

side of their mouth in front of you

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

about your religion, you can say, wait a

00:39:59 --> 00:40:01

minute. I heard this classical text, right? This

00:40:01 --> 00:40:03

is like recognized by mainstream Islam. So the

00:40:03 --> 00:40:04

first obligation

00:40:04 --> 00:40:05

is to learn.

00:40:06 --> 00:40:06

Secondly,

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

we talked about the idea

00:40:08 --> 00:40:09

of

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

paradox.

00:40:11 --> 00:40:13

The challenge of being a faithful person

00:40:13 --> 00:40:16

is ultimately founded admitting that there is a

00:40:16 --> 00:40:18

component of faith which is irrational.

00:40:19 --> 00:40:21

A great example is, you worship God, you

00:40:21 --> 00:40:22

don't see him.

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

Yumminulun bilhayb.

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

It's in the Quran,

00:40:27 --> 00:40:27

a component.

00:40:28 --> 00:40:30

And then the last thing that we talked

00:40:30 --> 00:40:31

about was taqif.

00:40:31 --> 00:40:34

And we gave these examples of being responsible,

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

right?

00:40:35 --> 00:40:39

Physically able, mentally able, emotionally and psychologically

00:40:39 --> 00:40:42

well that well off. And then having been

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

exposed to the message properly.

00:40:44 --> 00:40:45

We'll take any questions you have for a

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

few minutes inshallah that we'll

00:40:48 --> 00:40:49

we'll call it a night. Some of us

00:40:49 --> 00:40:50

are on the East Coast time. If you're

00:40:50 --> 00:40:52

interested in getting the text, by the way,

00:40:52 --> 00:40:53

it's in the back and we can sign

00:40:53 --> 00:40:54

it for

00:41:00 --> 00:41:00

you

00:41:01 --> 00:41:02

as

00:41:03 --> 00:41:03

well. Inshallah.

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