Sikander Hashmi – Making Marriage Easy Friday Message

Sikander Hashmi
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The COVID-19 lockdown has impacted people, particularly those preparing for wedding celebrations. It is important for strong and healthy families to avoid cultural differences and to find a suitable partner. It is crucial to avoid bringing too many guests to a wedding, create pathways to earlier marriage for children, and work towards a way to get married without bringing too many people. The importance of working towards a marriage is emphasized, and finding suitable partners is emphasized.
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Respected elders, dear brothers and sisters, my young

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friends,

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We begin by praising Allah

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the Lord of the universe,

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our creator, our designer, our nourisher,

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and that of the entire universe.

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And we send peace and salutations upon his

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beloved messenger,

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Muhammad, the son of Abdullah,

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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I hope

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and pray that you're all well by the

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mercy of Allah

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my brothers and sisters.

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The lockdown

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is now over,

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at least here in Ottawa, and, the stay

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at home home order is over as well.

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And,

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we are once again open for public,

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Friday prayers.

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Not totally back to normal, of course, because,

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as you probably remember,

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we normally used to offer, at

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the witchcraft preparation complex, which is still not

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available,

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to us,

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to use, for Friday prayer. But we are

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open at our own location,

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with registration though, of course. And we have,

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of course, capacity limits 30% of capacity

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and masks is required and, physical distancing required

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and prayer mats, required, to bring with you

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as well. Now,

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globally

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and in Canada,

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we find that the COVID,

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numbers

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are dropping.

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That is, a great sign.

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It's the mercy of Allah combined

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with

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or through manifested through, for example, perhaps vaccines

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or

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the efforts,

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the the, measures that everyone was trying to

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practice during the lockdown,

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whatever the means may be. But at the

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end of the day, it's from Allah

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and we can't thank Allah

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enough for his blessings in all circumstances.

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But sadly, my brothers and sisters, even with

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the the positivity

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and the the proverbial,

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light at the end of the tunnel being

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becoming apparent,

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we are hearing of more and more cases

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of loved ones,

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and friends,

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of members of our community,

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of our brothers and sisters, succumbing to the

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disease.

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And some of whom are in very serious

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condition.

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So we ask Allah to

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shower His mercy and forgiveness,

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His, Makfah, His Rahma upon those who have

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returned to Him.

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We ask Allah

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to elevate their status in Jannah, to grant

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them the best place in Jannah to fill

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those, and we ask Allah

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to grant a speedy who come and complete

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recovery

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to those who are ill.

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Now my brothers and sisters, believe it or

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not, we are now 1 week

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into the month of Rajab,

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which means that we are just

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7 weeks away from the month of Ramadan.

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And this, the month of Rajab, is the

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time to start planning,

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to start getting, mentally prepared,

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because, you know, once again this year, we

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don't know what Ramadan is going to look

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like,

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what it's going to be like this time

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around. But what we can do,

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and, of course, that's something that we can't

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control. So we don't know, you know, what

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the situation is going to be 7 weeks

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from now. We don't know what type of

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restrictions are gonna be in place for, Sela

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Salawy, for example, and if stars and things

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like that. But so, I mean so those

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are the things we can't control, but the

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thing that we can control

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is our mindset and our attitude. Right? So

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we can develop a positive attitude, a positive

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mindset,

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and we can make God, of course, and

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ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to grant us

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another blessed Ramadan,

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one that so many have not been able

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or will not be able to experience,

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this year.

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And subhanAllah, you know, speaking of Ramadan,

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we noticed that time flies

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and it's soon going to be a one

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complete year

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since

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COVID restrictions began and our lives changed. Right?

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So we've gone through all the seasons. We've

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gone through Ramadan, Yared, the tour aid,

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and, we find ourselves now in almost the

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same place as we were last year when

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all of this started.

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So it's been, almost one complete year now.

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And, subhanAllah, you know, even decades

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seem to fly by. Right? Because we've become

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so occupied in our lives and we're so

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busy

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and, you know, we don't have time to

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think about the past which sometimes is a

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good thing because we don't wanna think about

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things which are gonna, you know, hold us

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back or put us down.

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But, subhanallah, you know, even decades seem to

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fly by fly by, like, for myself personally,

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I will soon, Insha'Allah,

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will

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be starting my 8th year in Canada. So

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it's been 8 years. It's funny because sometimes,

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you know, brothers and sisters will approach and

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say, okay, you know, how long have you

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been here? It's been 2 years. It's been

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3 years. You know, it's been 5 years,

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but, subhanallah,

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7 years are gonna be over, very soon,

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and inshallah, it'll be the 8th year. May

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Allah bless you, and increase you all in,

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your goodness and your love.

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Kids, you know, who I saw,

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as young children, you know, are now teens.

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And it's actually very interesting because once in

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a while, you know, a parent

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will share on Facebook, you know, a memory,

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a picture of their children from some years

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ago.

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And, it's like, subhanallah, you know, it was

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just like it was just yesterday when they

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were looking like that.

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So children who are just I saw, you

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know, as young kids when I came, they're

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now teenagers,

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Those who are teens or who were in

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their teens, they're now getting married or have

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already, you know, are already married, masha'Allah.

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Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala protect them and bless them all.

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Now, speaking of which, one of the things

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that we've been hearing

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over and over again during the pandemic

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is how much money was saved by getting

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married during the pandemic.

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That is actually very interesting,

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because, of course, the celebrations

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have been toned down,

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severely during the lockdown, of course, or stay

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at home, or even

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not during stay at home order but before

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the stay at home order. You know, with

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limits of only, 10 people, actually you technically,

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you could have still got married during the

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stay at home order as well in a

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place of worship or a public facility. Well,

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the limit of 10 people.

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And, no doubt it must have been difficult,

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you know, for the people especially who had

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planned to get married during the winter break

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long before or they were planning to get

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married in the summer and then they pushed

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it to the to the winter break thinking

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that things may have been, you know, will

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be,

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will have opened up by then and instead

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another lockdown came and they had to rush

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it. So no doubt it must have been

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difficult to be separated from loved ones, you

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know, during that special occasion not being, able

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to have, you know, all your family members

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with you for that special moment,

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or even for the nigga because only 10

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people. Right? So I mean, if there's 2

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families, obviously,

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when a couple are getting married then there's

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not very many people, even close relatives,

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who are able to join.

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And especially for those, you know, who had

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plans and dreams of a particular type of

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wedding, you know, sort of a grand,

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event something that, you know, they've been dreaming

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about or thinking about or planning for for

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some time.

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Of course, this must have been very difficult.

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But on the other hand, my brothers and

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sisters,

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consider it to be

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another, perhaps, another one of the

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corrective

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side effects.

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What do I call it? The corrective side

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effects

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of this pandemic.

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Giving us a practical real life immersion

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into how things

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perhaps should be.

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Uh-huh. Because a lot of times we think

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we hear, okay, yes, this is what is

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better. This is how it should be. This

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is how it was in the time of

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the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam. This is how

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it was, you know, this is how the

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Sahaba used to do it. This is how

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things should be ideally, but, you know, today's

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times have changed and we can't do it

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anymore and it's difficult and this and that.

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Then all of a sudden, boom, we're pushed

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right into it. Right? All of a sudden,

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we're pushed right into it.

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The prophet sallallahu alayhi wasalam

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has said that

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that the best of marriages

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is that and it's translated in different ways.

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That which is, you know, the one that

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is most easy or the one that is

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most

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affordable.

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Right? And we know, my brothers and sisters,

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that

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strong,

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healthy families

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are the foundation of a strong and healthy

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society.

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Right? Strong, healthy families are a foundation of

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a strong and healthy society.

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If families are weak and are unhealthy, then

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society is going to be weak and it's

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going to be unhealthy.

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If families are strong and are healthy, then

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automatically,

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society will also become strong and will also

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become healthy as well in different ways.

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So this is an issue.

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Right? When we talk about marriage because, you

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know, you may be thinking, well, my yeah.

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My kids are very young right now or

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my children are already married. So whatever, you

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know or I'm not married yet or, you

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know, or I'm already done. So, you know,

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this is an issue that should be of

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concern to all of us because it affects

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us all and we all have a role

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to play. Either you have children who are

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gonna get married at some point or you

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have grandchildren who are gonna get married at

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some point or, you know, you have friends

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and relatives who have children who are gonna

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get married. You have people in your community

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who are unmarried who need to get married.

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So this is an issue that impacts all

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of us and therefore it should be of

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concern to all of us and we all,

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should know that we have a role to

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play. Now marriage, of course, is a sunnah

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of the Prophet

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and indeed pretty much nearly all of the

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prophets

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that we know of. You know, hardly you

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will hear

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of a prophet

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who, you know, did not get married or

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of, you know, the great Sahaba,

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companions of the prophet

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who did not get married. So it is

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a tradition, an established tradition,

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which shows us that it is something that

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even the pious of people

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not only practice but also

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encourage as well. The prophet,

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you know,

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was very clear in his advice that he

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had given, you know, to the young companions.

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So Abdullah ibn Mas'ud, radiAllahu anhu, he narrated

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that we were with the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wasallam.

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Well, we had nothing. We were youth, and

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we had no wealth. It's not like they

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were rich and they were established and all

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of that. Right? They said we were we

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were young, we were youth, and we had

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nothing. We had no wealth.

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And the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam said

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that, Oh, young people,

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that whoever among you can marry, has the

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capacity, has the ability to marry, should marry.

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For for it is effective in lowering the

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gaze and

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and guarding one's chastity.

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And whoever is not able to marry so

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the prophet

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gave both solutions.

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Said if you're able to, you should. Okay?

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So he encouraged it. But he also said

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perhaps someone is not able to get married,

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who does not have the ability, so whoever

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is not able to marry should fast

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for it will diminish his desire. It will

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act as a shield. The prophet, Abu Huraira,

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also

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related from the prophet

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you should marry him. If you do not

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do so,

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tribulations in the earth and proliferation

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of corruption.

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Right? If you do not do that so

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the prophet

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gave a simple formula. So if somebody comes,

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proposes

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and religion is good, character is good, the

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2 things that you should be focusing on,

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then go ahead and complete the marriage.

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If you do not do so, there will

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be tribulations

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in the earth and the proliferation of corruption.

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Right? There will be facade. And, subhanAllah, you

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know, we look around the world and once

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again the word of the prophet salallahu alayhi

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wasalam

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ring absolutely

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true. Now this, my brothers and sisters, these

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2 hadith that I mentioned, you know, these

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two pieces of advice, this was at the

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time of the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam. Right?

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This is the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam himself

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advising the companions

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radiAllahu anhu. Now you can imagine how much

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more relevant these advices are in today's times

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with the rampant,

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you know, and open immorality

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and, and and and zina and everything else

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that is around us in today's world and

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especially in today's society. Right? So for today's

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young people, you can imagine how much more

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pertinent and how much more serious that advice

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is when that was the advice of the

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prophet

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during his own time.

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So marriage is important and strong healthy families

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are important as well. But the creation

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of new families, because at the end of

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the day, how does a family created? Of

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course, it's through marriage.

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That appears to be becoming more and more

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difficult.

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Okay. So at a time when we need

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marriage more,

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at a time when that is what is

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desperately needed,

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that is the time when it's actually becoming

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more and more difficult as well. Now, you

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know, if we dissect the issue,

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we discover

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that it is multifaceted.

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Right? There are, of course, different angles like

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many complex issues. There are multiple angles to

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it. There are multiple considerations and factors.

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So this is, like, in no particular order,

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in random order, but some of, the issues

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that we notice. So for example, number 1,

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our choices

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have become

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more,

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more defined and essentially we become more pickier.

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Okay? So

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everybody wants

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mister perfect,

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missus perfect. Every woman wants or every girl

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wants mister perfect and every, man, every boy

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wants missus perfect.

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Okay? And, of course, there are dreams

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and this is

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partially caused by, I would say, by the

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effects of culture in society because whichever culture

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we live in, whichever society we live in,

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you know, the norms and of of that

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culture, of that society are going to impact

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us. Right? Because we're human beings and we

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have hearts and we have feelings and attitudes

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and we are hard, you know, and we

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get affected and we get impacted.

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So we can't live in a vacuum, or

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we could try, but we can isolate ourselves

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totally and therefore we get impacted by the

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good and by the bad as well. Okay?

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So, you know, those particular,

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you know, dreams about what sort of, you

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know, particular,

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you know, person that we want, that we

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envision as our spouse. And I'm not suggesting

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that, you know, this is only today and

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didn't happen in the past. I'm sure it

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happened in the past as well. But the

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the type that we find right now is

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particularly impacted by today's culture in today's society.

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To the point that is, you know,

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marriage and your potential spouse

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essentially is romanticized

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almost to an unattainable degree.

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Romanticized

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to almost an unattainable

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an unattainable degree. So people have, a lot

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of times, an image of what they want,

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expectations of who they want and what they

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should be like and, you know, what type

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of how they should look and, you know,

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what type of background they should have and

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what their occupation should be and how much

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money they should earn and all those things.

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But it's unattainable.

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Right? Because there's hardly anyone who lives like

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that or who who exists like that, you

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know. So,

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the reality is, as we discussed previously as

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well, you're not gonna get a perfect angle.

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Yeah. You're not gonna find someone who's perfect.

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Everyone has weaknesses. Everyone has shortcomings. So start

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your search.

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Ask

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Allah for help.

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Ask Allah for help.

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Don't be

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fixed on who you believe

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is the type of person you need or

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you want. You know, you try to find

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someone suitable. They don't have to be perfect.

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If you come across someone who who matches

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maybe some of your criteria, not all because

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it's gonna be very difficult to match everything,

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you know, do istihara. You turn to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala for guidance

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and you go for it. Okay? And this

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is not a talk on istihara but istahara

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doesn't mean dreams. It doesn't mean, you know,

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getting up on the wrong side of the

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bed and feelings and crystal balls and this

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and that. It's not what istahara about. Okay?

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Essentially, what you're doing is when you make

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the tahara is you're asking Allah

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for guidance and help and facilitating that matter

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if it's good for you and stopping it

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if it's not good for you. As simple

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as that.

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So you go, you start, you make the

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tahara and you see, is the matter getting

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easier than expected

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Or is it becoming more difficult than expected?

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Okay. Is it going smoothly? Is it or

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or the roadblocks coming up? Okay. And if

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it's going smoothly, Ismaila, you go,

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it works out and accept it as who

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has willed for you

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and you love them with all of your

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heart.

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You accept the will of Allah

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instead of trying to impose

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your own will. Okay? So that's number 1.

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Number 2,

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we find

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generational and cultural differences on compatibility.

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What do I mean by that? Okay? So

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culturally,

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who is acceptable or who is compatible can

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be different

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and that can differ generationally as well. Right?

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So somebody who my grandparents, you know, your

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grandparents or your parents may have thought would

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be compatible

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may not be someone that you think is

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compatible and vice versa. Okay.

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You know, the the, the the definition or

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perceptions of what constitutes beauty, you know, this

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can can vary,

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from, from culture to culture, from generation to

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generation.

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Differences in ethnicity. Right? Having a strong, you

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know, preference for having the same cultural, same

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ethnic background. Yes. This was something that exists

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and there are benefits of compatibility

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or for compatibility when the cultures are the

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same. It is helpful.

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But we are seeing more and more intercultural

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marriages

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between Muslims. And this is really, you know,

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not a big deal anymore. You see more

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and more and more people doing that. Is

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it difficult

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to accept if we are not used to

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it? If it's something used if it's something

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new to us, yes, it is going to

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be difficult. But at the end of the

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day, it is not something which is a

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long, Islamically

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and the focus should be on the deen

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and the character and we are going to

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start seeing more and more of that. Okay?

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So that is something to consider.

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Number 3, we find another factor that there

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is difficulty

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in finding spouses, right, in finding suitable matches,

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or finding matches in general.

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And,

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what are we finding? That the old methods,

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which don't mean that they were bad, they

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were just previously the methods that were used

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previously,

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don't work as often anymore.

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Okay? They're not working in the same way.

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So the connection why is that? Because the

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connections that we had as families and as

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communities,

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perhaps in our, you know, previous trees,

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back home as we would say, they don't

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exist anymore or they don't exist in the

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same way. And the new ways, perhaps, we

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find are awkward

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or perhaps they are difficult to navigate

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or to to accept. And this is a

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reality that is facing, actually a lot of

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families, you know, who have children who want

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to get married but they're like, where do

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we turn? Right? And a lot of times

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they'll come come to the imam and unfortunately,

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I'm not a great matchmaker because, you know,

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I I don't I know a lot of

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people but I don't know them, you know,

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super well. So it becomes a bit of

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a challenge there as well.

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So

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what can we do? You know, it would

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be good to,

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build

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network,

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you know, build social circles, build connect build

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connections

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with good people,

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get involved in the community.

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Right? Get involved in the community. So if

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your extended family is not here as you

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as it used to be before, that would

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often facilitate these,

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connections,

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then you can get involved in the community

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and that can at least replace it to

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some

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extent. You know, learning

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about other cultures,

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mixing together with other cultures, with people who

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are, any Muslims but they are from different

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cultures and ethnicities,

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that can also help because it removes, you

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know, the the, the the the fear of

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the unknown. It removes,

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stigmas. It it removes, you know, preconceived notions,

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all of those things that exist.

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And also for those who are looking to

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get married and not able to, I would

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say, you know, don't be so firm

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on insisting that you absolutely have to marry

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someone here. Maybe who Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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has written for you is not in this

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country.

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Maybe they are, quote unquote, back home. Right?

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So don't make up your mind and say

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be so stern and firm that no, this

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is absolutely the way I want it and

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I'm not gonna accept anything different but rather

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explore. When you try your best to what

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to get your ideal and you see it's

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not working then you have to expand, broaden

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your horizons

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and be open, to accepting the fact that

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perhaps Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has written someone

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who does not fit in your ideal and

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perhaps what you're considering that is going to

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be not good for you will actually be

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end up going for you because Allah knows

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best at the end.

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Another consideration, another factor

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is the cost of marriage.

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The cost of marriage. And this is a

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problem that we find, here but maybe perhaps

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even more so than some Muslim majority, cultures

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as well or countries as well. Okay. And

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what we find is when we break it

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down, you know, first of all, you know,

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the the number of just the the complex

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the complexities

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surrounding marriage. Right? Like the rituals that are

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involved,

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that, you know, maybe cultural and there's nothing

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wrong with celebrating in different ways as long

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as it's halal, you know, there's nothing wrong

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with that. But considering it to be mandatory

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that you have to absolutely do it. And

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if you cannot do it and if you

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don't have the money to do it, then

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you can't get married. Okay? So those rituals,

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which many times and the spending also has

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partly I'm not saying this is always the

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case, but many times you find it has

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to do with showing off as well,

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or trying to, you know, make the event,

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super,

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memorable,

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you know, thinking, you know, that this is

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a once in a lifetime event,

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which hopefully it is, Insha'Allah.

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But, you know, splurging,

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thinking that, you know, it's my it's it's

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my only chance to please my son or

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my daughter or, you know, this is my

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only chance and it's my dream and I

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want to, you know, go all out, you

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know, having, excessive, number of guests especially if

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you're not able to afford it. But even

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if you can afford it, I'm gonna ask

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you to think about something. That if someone

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is able to afford and there's nothing wrong

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with spending the blessings of Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, especially in a measured way, in a

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good way,

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but think about the impact it also has

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on the norm and the expectations that are

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reinforced in society.

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Right? Because

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people shouldn't be competing but at the end

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of the day, you know,

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we tend to look around us to see

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what is the norm.

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And we are sort of we gravitate towards

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what we believe is is most acceptable or

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what the norm is.

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So, you know, therefore,

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even if, masha'Allah, you are able to afford

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it and there's nothing wrong with with having,

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you know, doing something nice for your son,

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for your daughter, but at the end of

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the day also consider,

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you know, what impact it's gonna have on

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others and how it's gonna make them feel

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and what sort of, standard it might set

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in the community, in society. So

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the best advice is keep it simple. You

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know, there is more barakah and simplicity. It's

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the way of the prophet

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Don't make it a burden on yourself,

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you know. Don't make it a burden for

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your guests. How many times have you heard

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of someone saying I've got another wedding to

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go to? I'm tired of going to weddings.

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You want people like that attending your wedding

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in your happiness? Your your child's wedding in

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your happiness? Yes. Maybe you know them, they're

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acquaintances. You don't have to invite everyone,

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you know. Invite those who are who truly

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care or who are truly gonna be happy

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and excited,

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at the same time be inclusive. Right? So

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invite people who are actually gonna benefit from

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the food or who need it,

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and instead

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with the savings, the people who are got

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married during the pandemic, so we saved so

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much money. Right? So instead, you save that

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money and you gift it to your child,

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to the new couple

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for the nikah, you know. You can have

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a simple nikah, invite the people you want,

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do it in the masjid, give them sweets.

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You don't have to feed a dinner, you

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know, that's,

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that's not from the sunnah.

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So you don't have to have a, you

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know, a huge banquet. Yes. The woleema is

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the sunnah of the father

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So then you have the woleema and you

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feed people and that's it. You know, we

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we we learn about Abdul Ahmed

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who came who migrated from Makkah to Madinah.

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And,

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he, you know, he got married in Madinah.

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And the prophet

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saw that he had some yellow stains on

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his clothes.

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Okay. He noticed the prophet noticed

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that he had some yellow stains on his

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clothes. So he said,

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what is that, oh, oh, Abu Rahman? And

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he replied

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that,

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he said that I have married an Ansari

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woman. And the prophet said how much Mahar

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did you give her? He replied the weight

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of 1 date stone of gold. So the

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prophet said offer a banquet

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even with 1 sheep.

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Okay. What's inter now most people would just

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read that and even say yes, we should

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offer a banquet and it it proves that,

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you know, that this the Wodiman should happen.

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Well, what's interesting here is that Abid Khman

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al A'raf

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who got married and the prophet

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didn't know about it. And it was in

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Madina.

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It's a small community. So he actually didn't

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invite the prophet and the prophet didn't even

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know about it. K. He didn't even get

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him to to perform his nikat.

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The prophet asked him afterwards, well, what is

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this? And then he told him, did the

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prophet get offended? No. It doesn't look like

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it. Right?

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So, you know, if somebody doesn't invite you

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for their son or daughter's wedding or for

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their wedding, there's nothing to get offended about.

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And maybe they just, you know, for whatever

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reason they weren't able to, to give them

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the benefit of the doubt. And alhamdulillah, you

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know, it's it's it's all good. You keep

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it simple. You know, Anas radiAllahu anhu said

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam halted between

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Khaybar and Madina for 3 days, during which

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he married Safiyyah

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I invited the Muslims to his wedding feast

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in which there was no bread and no

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meat.

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There was nothing except what the prophet

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commanded Bilal

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to spread out

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of leather mats.

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Okay. No table shared nothing, leather mats on

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which dates,

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clarified butter, ghee and dried yogurt were placed.

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That was the menu.

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Okay. There was no meat. So even when

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he said, you know,

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offer banquet even with 1 sheep, many of

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the scholars say, okay, that based on this

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or based on what the prophet did, you

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don't even have to offer meat.

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I'll listen to CBC radio once and people

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are talking about weddings some years ago. There's

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a couple who called in. They said, yeah,

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actually we just got married in our apartment

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and we didn't have anything so we just

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gave chips to the guests.

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That was already. They're happy.

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Yeah.

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Instance like that as well, you know. Boy

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and girl got married. Was done. We went

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to their house. The mom put food. We

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had the food. Exchanged some gifts. That was

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it. They're happy. I'm happy. Everyone's happy. You

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know, so the amount we're gonna spend

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is not going to determine happiness for the

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couple. Actually, you might do the opposite.

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Okay? So please think about this and take

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it to heart. Consider it.

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The higher cost of living, you know, lacking

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skills

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is, of course, another

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factor which acts as a barrier sometimes

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to getting married. This is something which is

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important, of course. So we want to try

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to create pathways

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to earlier marriage for our children, for children

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in our community. You know, guiding them on

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what to study so they don't end up

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wasting time, for example.

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Helping them plan ahead, you know, so that

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they have the foundation to start families early.

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Even lowering their standard of living or expectations,

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you know, of what we need to have

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in order to be able to to get

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married. You know, you start early as a

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couple, you go through, you grow together, you

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go through hardships together, you live through the

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hard times and then inshallah Allah will bless

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you and that will prove to be a

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stronger rule and that will, you know, prove

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to be, a means of of of joining

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the hearts and coming together because when you

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go through difficulty with someone and then, you

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know, you are blessed, then there's a special

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sweetness to that as well, you know. So

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don't just write it off because you feel,

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okay, I can't afford it and because you

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have a certain type of lifestyle, in mind,

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may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make it easy.

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So my brothers and sisters, as a community,

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we need to make it easier for our

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young people to get married.

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When we have stable, healthy families,

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inshallah, the entire community and eventually the entire

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society will benefit from that. Yes. It will

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come with the challenges. Okay. There's no such

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thing as a perfect marriage. Yes. It will

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come with the challenges,

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but the solution

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is not to leave the institution of marriage

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and say, no. It's not working. It's too

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difficult. But rather the solution is to work

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towards

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making it the way it's supposed to be.

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Okay? So our way is not to give

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up the another parceles of the al Saddu

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and say, no. It's not working anymore. We

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we don't do it. But rather we try

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to create the condition so that we can

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do it and we can do it properly.

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So look at it as something positive,

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promote it to your children,

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you know, talk about it positively,

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celebrate it, of course, within halal limits,

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resolve

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or try to help to resolve challenges,

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Try to make it easier. Try to help

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those who are not married yet. You know,

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don't be annoying and just like nag them

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and say, oh, you're not married yet. Oh,

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I think I know someone for you. You

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know, so don't be that annoying person. But

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rather, you know, sincerely try to be someone

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who can facilitate,

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marriage, for them. It is a great act

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of virtue,

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sunnah of the prophet

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of

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the prophet

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and a means of protection from Haram, And,

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insha'Allah, you will be rewarded

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greatly if it is done sincerely by those

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who are getting married and also those who

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are trying to facilitate marriages and those who

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are trying to resolve issues in marriages. Allah

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says,

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And whoever is mindful for of Allah, he

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will make a way up for them.

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And provide for them from sources that they

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could never imagine.

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And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then

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Allah alone is sufficient for them.

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Certainly, Allah achieves his will.

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Allah has already set a destiny for everything.

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Let us meet

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Oh, Allah, we thank you for all of

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your blessings.

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Oh, Allah, we thank you for allowing us

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to gather once again for Surah Al Jumah.

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Oh, Allah, we thank you for all of

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your blessings.

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Oh, Allah, please forgive us. Oh, Allah, please

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forgive us and purify us from all of

00:31:00 --> 00:31:02

our sins and its effects, You Rabbil Alameen.

00:31:03 --> 00:31:04

Oh, Allah, please unite

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

all of the families and all of the

00:31:06 --> 00:31:09

couples in love and unity, You Rabbil Alameen.

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10

Oh, Allah, please facilitate

00:31:11 --> 00:31:13

easy marriage for all of our children and

00:31:13 --> 00:31:16

coming generations, You Rabbil Alameen. Oh, Allah, make

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it easy for those who are not able

00:31:17 --> 00:31:20

to find spouses. Oh, Allah, please grant everyone

00:31:20 --> 00:31:21

a suitable and best match for them, You

00:31:21 --> 00:31:24

Rabbil Alameen. Oh, Allah, please remove hardships for

00:31:24 --> 00:31:26

all from all of those who are experiencing

00:31:26 --> 00:31:29

hardships. O' Allah, o' Allah, anyone who is

00:31:30 --> 00:31:31

suffering from pain and anxiety,

00:31:32 --> 00:31:35

depression, stress, o' Allah, please remove remove it

00:31:35 --> 00:31:37

from them and grant them peace and ease.

00:31:38 --> 00:31:40

O' Allah, o' Allah, we ask you to

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protect us and all of our fellow human

00:31:42 --> 00:31:44

beings. O' Allah, forgive us for all of

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

our sins and our shortcomings and guide us

00:31:46 --> 00:31:48

toward guide us all towards that which pleases

00:31:48 --> 00:31:49

you most, You Rabbi Alameen.

00:31:49 --> 00:31:51

O' Allah, please protect our seniors and our

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

elders. O' Allah, please grant them good health

00:31:53 --> 00:31:55

and well-being with imani, You Rabbi Alameen. O

00:31:55 --> 00:31:57

Allah, please reward them for all of the

00:31:57 --> 00:31:59

good that they have done and forgive them

00:31:59 --> 00:32:01

for any mistakes and shortcomings, You Rabbil Alameen.

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

O Allah, please remove the hardships and the

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

pain and suffering that the many are experiencing

00:32:05 --> 00:32:07

at this time, You Rabbil Alameen. O Allah,

00:32:07 --> 00:32:10

please shower your mercy and forgiveness upon all

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

of those who have returned to you. O

00:32:12 --> 00:32:13

Allah, so many of our brothers and sisters

00:32:13 --> 00:32:15

have lost loved ones. O Allah, please make

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

it easy for them. The uncle of our

00:32:17 --> 00:32:20

brother Khaled and sister Rabia, the aunt of

00:32:20 --> 00:32:22

our brother Farooq, the father of brother Faisullah

00:32:22 --> 00:32:25

Faizi, the father of brother Ashfaq Sunu, the

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27

cousin of our brother Abdul Haq, o Allah,

00:32:27 --> 00:32:30

the father-in-law of brother Huram Khan, brothers Sajjad

00:32:30 --> 00:32:32

Ahmad Khan Yazi who just passed away as

00:32:32 --> 00:32:33

well.

00:32:58 --> 00:33:00

O Allah, please cure all our brothers and

00:33:00 --> 00:33:02

sisters who are ill. O Allah, please grant

00:33:02 --> 00:33:04

them relief. Remove everything harmful from their bodies,

00:33:04 --> 00:33:05

especially

00:33:05 --> 00:33:08

this virus, COVID 19, all our cancer, and

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

all other harmful creations that you have created,

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

o Allah. O Allah, especially our brothers, Eshan

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

Iqbal. O Allah, another cousin of our brother,

00:33:14 --> 00:33:17

Abdul Haqq, who is in life threatening condition.

00:33:17 --> 00:33:19

O Allah, our elder doctor Habibullah Rahman, our

00:33:19 --> 00:33:22

elder doctor Hanan, who is recovering from surgery,

00:33:22 --> 00:33:24

our brothers and sisters who are suffering from

00:33:24 --> 00:33:25

long term pains and injuries. O Allah, our

00:33:25 --> 00:33:28

brothers and sisters who are in extreme pain,

00:33:28 --> 00:33:29

and all of those who are ill who

00:33:29 --> 00:33:31

are ill or at risk of becoming ill.

00:33:31 --> 00:33:33

Oh, Allah, you are the protector. Oh, Allah,

00:33:33 --> 00:33:35

you are the shafi, the healer. Oh, Allah,

00:33:35 --> 00:33:38

grant them all speedy recovery. Protect them from

00:33:38 --> 00:33:40

all illnesses and pain and suffering through your

00:33:40 --> 00:33:42

power and your might. Remove the hardships, oh,

00:33:42 --> 00:33:44

Allah. We are helpless in front of you.

00:33:44 --> 00:33:45

Oh, Allah, protect us and all of our

00:33:45 --> 00:33:48

fellow human beings, especially the frontline workers, the

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

health professionals, the first responders,

00:33:50 --> 00:33:52

the teachers, the school staff, all others who

00:33:52 --> 00:33:55

are on the frontline serving others. Will, please

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

open the doors of halal sustenance for all

00:33:57 --> 00:33:58

of those who are in need or in

00:33:58 --> 00:34:01

debt, especially at this time. Will, please grant

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

us a good return to you during this

00:34:03 --> 00:34:04

life, at the end of this life,

00:34:05 --> 00:34:06

and at the on on the day of

00:34:06 --> 00:34:07

judgment.

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Brothers and sisters, all of those who have

00:37:22 --> 00:37:24

registered for Friday prayer, please come at your

00:37:24 --> 00:37:26

assigned time. Those who are praying at home,

00:37:26 --> 00:37:28

please go ahead now for 4th cause of

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

the heart prayer. May Allah

00:37:30 --> 00:37:31

bless you all. We look forward to seeing

00:37:31 --> 00:37:32

you soon, Insha'Allah.

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