Shakiel Humayun – Mindset of Success 2nd Sermon

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The Prophet Sallall's motivation for pursuing excellence and deeds came from a desire to be the best of everything, rather than just one thing, in a series of text and sunGeneration. He emphasized petty matters as a result of negative behavior and distraction, and as a result of participation in grand matters. The network effect of rewards, which is a reward for individuals engaged in grand matters, is also emphasized. The speaker encourages individuals to be part of a positive community and make themselves amongst those who are able to engage in these activities.

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			The Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam
		
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			said, Khayun Nasi Kharni.
		
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			He said, The best
		
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			of mankind
		
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			is my generation,
		
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			the generation
		
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			of the companions.
		
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			So the question is,
		
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			what was the mindset
		
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			of the companions
		
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			that drove them to be
		
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			the best generation?
		
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			More so
		
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			than Gen X,
		
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			the Millennials,
		
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			Gen Z,
		
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			Alpha, and others.
		
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			And to understand the mindset
		
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			of the companions,
		
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			we need to understand
		
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			how
		
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			they were thinking,
		
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			what
		
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			they were thinking about.
		
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			And one of the ways
		
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			to look into what they were thinking about
		
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			is to look at the kinds
		
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			of questions
		
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			they would ask.
		
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			And so there appears a frequency
		
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			of questions
		
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			that the companions
		
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			would continuously
		
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			ask revolving
		
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			around a certain
		
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			theme.
		
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			And among them
		
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			are these,
		
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			where one of them asked the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,
		
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			Ayul Islam Khayr Where
		
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			he asked the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,
		
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			Whose Islam is the best?
		
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			Or which Islam is the best?
		
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			And the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam responded,
		
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			tutreimu ta'am
		
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			wa taq ra'us salamalamanaraftawamanlamtarif
		
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			When the prophet
		
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			said
		
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			that you feed people
		
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			and you
		
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			recite the greetings, you say the salaam, the
		
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			greetings of peace to those who you know
		
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			and those who you don't know.
		
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			Another person came and said,
		
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			Which of the Muslims are the best?
		
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			The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam responded
		
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			and said,
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,
		
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			if the Muslims are safe
		
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			from his tongue
		
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			and his hand,
		
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			that is the best Muslims.
		
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			And then the companions continued, Abdullah ibn Mas'ud
		
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			radiAllahu anhu came to the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam and asked,
		
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			Ayuulamali
		
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			Afdal,
		
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			which action
		
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			is the best?
		
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			And so the Prophet
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam responded
		
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			by saying,
		
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			making or performing the salah, the prayer in
		
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			its beginning times.
		
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			Now the companions, they had Islam
		
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			but that was not enough for them.
		
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			They wanted to know
		
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			which Islam was the best.
		
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			They were Muslims
		
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			but that was not enough for them.
		
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			They wanted to know which Muslim would be
		
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			the best.
		
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			They had many options for good deeds.
		
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			But that was not enough for them. They
		
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			wanted to know the deed that was the
		
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			best.
		
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			So they didn't just stop there.
		
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			Which is the best Muslim? What is the
		
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			best Islam? They continued further
		
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			until
		
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			a man came to the Prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam and asked him,
		
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			man who is the best
		
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			of mankind?
		
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			Not just the best of Muslims anymore.
		
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			Who is the best
		
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			of mankind?
		
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			And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam responded
		
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			and said,
		
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			Those
		
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			who are the most beneficial
		
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			to mankind.
		
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			So the companions,
		
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			this strive
		
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			for excellence,
		
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			this drive
		
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			not just to be good, but to be
		
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			the best.
		
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			This culture
		
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			of how I can be better.
		
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			Where did this drive? Where did this motivation
		
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			come from? Where did this mindset
		
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			come from?
		
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			It came from many texts of the from
		
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			the Quran and the sunnah among them.
		
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			The statement of the prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam
		
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			where he said,
		
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			The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said,
		
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			Surely Allah, the Most High,
		
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			loves
		
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			grand matters
		
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			and loves
		
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			lofty matters.
		
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			They understood that Allah subhanahu wa'ala loves big
		
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			matters, grand matters.
		
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			They understood that Allah subhanahu wa'ala wanted
		
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			them
		
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			to be movers and shakers,
		
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			and not couch potatoes.
		
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			They understood that Allah Subhanahu Wa'ala wanted them
		
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			to engage in grand matters.
		
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			Grand matters like building
		
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			the infrastructure
		
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			necessary for our communities.
		
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			Grand matters like addressing
		
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			mental illness within our communities.
		
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			Grand matters
		
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			like solving the problem
		
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			or the challenge
		
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			of riba finances.
		
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			Grand matters like dealing with youth disenfranchisement.
		
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			These grand matters
		
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			are matters that Allah subhanahu
		
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			loves. But sometimes,
		
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			when we want to engage in these grand
		
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			matters,
		
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			we are pulled,
		
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			we are dragged,
		
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			we become
		
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			unfocused.
		
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			And so the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam did not stop the hadith there.
		
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			He said,
		
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			The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said
		
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			that surely Allah, the most high,
		
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			loves grand matters
		
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			and lofty matters,
		
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			but dislikes
		
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			petty
		
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			matters.
		
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			Petty matters
		
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			that can pull you
		
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			and drag you and throw you off on
		
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			a tangent
		
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			from the grand matters.
		
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			Petty matters
		
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			like gossip,
		
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			rumors,
		
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			engaging
		
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			in conspiracy theories.
		
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			And it becomes worse when these when this
		
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			gossip
		
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			ends up becoming quibbles
		
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			and dispute,
		
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			and then ranker develops amongst people.
		
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			Petty matters of what color should the paint
		
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			the paint in the wall should be.
		
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			Where should the first line start and how
		
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			many feet from the wall? Petty matters
		
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			that absorb us while the grand matters
		
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			are what
		
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			the the intelligent people rush after.
		
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			And so
		
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			if you have a life goal,
		
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			a goal
		
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			that you're engaging,
		
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			wanting to achieve,
		
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			Allah
		
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			set out a formula
		
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			to ensure
		
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			that when you're engaged in grand matters,
		
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			you don't become distracted.
		
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			Allah said,
		
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			take to forgiveness.
		
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			It's a grand matter
		
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			to be able to forgive
		
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			everyone,
		
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			everyone that has harmed you
		
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			or hurt you. It's a grand matter to
		
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			forgive everyone.
		
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			It joined
		
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			virtue.
		
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			That's a grand matter.
		
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			After mentioning 2 grand matters, Allah
		
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			mentioned the formula how you can be focused
		
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			on the grand matters and not get distracted.
		
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			He said,
		
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			and ignore
		
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			the ignorant ones.
		
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			It's out of ignorance if we focus on
		
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			petty matters and in quibbles
		
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			and disregard the grand matters.
		
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			So if you're pursuing
		
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			a life goal and
		
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			there are people around you drinking Haterade
		
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			or there are people around you
		
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			that
		
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			that are creating doubt that you're not able.
		
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			They're creating doubt within yourselves that you're not
		
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			able. They don't have faith or believe you'll
		
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			be able to achieve your goals.
		
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			Then the formula here based
		
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			on this ayah is to ignore the ignorant
		
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			who want to be engaged and absorbed by
		
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			the petty matters
		
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			and for you to move onwards
		
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			and continue
		
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			pursuing your goal and being engaged in grand
		
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			matters.
		
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			The companions focused on
		
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			grand matters that changed the course of history.
		
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			Allah subhanahu said, yuhibbu, that he loves
		
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			these grand matters.
		
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			Which means
		
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			if we engage in grand matters, it's an
		
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			act of worship.
		
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			We are rewarded.
		
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			And the companions, they drove
		
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			themselves to engage in grand matters
		
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			for a very simple reason.
		
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			These grand matters
		
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			have a network
		
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			effect
		
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			of rewards.
		
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			They're
		
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			massive.
		
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			Take for example,
		
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			if you build a school
		
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			for the community,
		
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			it's a grand matter.
		
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			And every day,
		
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			if 200 students recite the Quran every day,
		
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			get 10 hasanah for every single letter.
		
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			That's 2,000
		
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			hasanah for every letter daily
		
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			recited in that school.
		
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			Imagine if they did a few pages, how
		
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			many thousands
		
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			of hasanat
		
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			you will get.
		
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			Imagine if that goes on for years, how
		
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			many millions
		
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			of Hassanat you will get.
		
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			Imagine when you die and the school continues
		
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			for generations, you're in the grave
		
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			and you're able to get millions and millions
		
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			of Hassanat for decades, probably centuries.
		
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			There are massages built around the world that
		
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			are 100 and 100 of years old.
		
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			Imagine
		
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			if we took away
		
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			our energy, if they're being sucked into petty
		
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			matters and focus them into these grand matters.
		
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			The companions
		
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			understood the network effect of rewards,
		
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			and thus they engaged in these grand matters
		
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			and they cashed in
		
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			on these amazing
		
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			rewards.
		
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			Imagine
		
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			if you addressed and helped
		
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			the problem of mental illness.
		
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			Imagine the person's life that changes.
		
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			The person increases and has a better relationship
		
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			with his family.
		
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			And then generations come out of that.
		
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			And all those good deeds continue to be
		
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			written because this is a grand
		
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			a grand matter.
		
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			And sometimes,
		
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			shaitan discourages us and says, well, I
		
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			am not able
		
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			to do one of these grand matters. These
		
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			are you need a lot of skills.
		
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			Everyone is able.
		
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			Allah subhanahu
		
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			has given everyone
		
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			skills that others don't have.
		
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			And sometimes we have raw talent
		
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			that just needs to be developed,
		
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			and we can do wonderful things.
		
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			And it doesn't necessarily mean
		
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			to be engaged in grand matters,
		
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			that you have to build institutions,
		
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			that you have to solve the problem of
		
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			poverty.
		
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			Being engaged in grand matters also means
		
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			that when you if you walk into the
		
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			Masjid and you smile,
		
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			that is a grand matter,
		
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			because you're engaged
		
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			in an institution in a positive way.
		
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			That when you come around people who are
		
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			engaged in grand manners and you make them
		
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			happy,
		
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			that's an act of worship.
		
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			So the participation
		
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			of every single human being is possible
		
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			by being engaged in these grand matters
		
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			on all of these levels.
		
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			I ask Allah
		
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			to make us amongst those
		
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			who
		
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			are able to be engaged in grand matters
		
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			no matter how big or how small our
		
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			participation is.
		
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			I ask Allah
		
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			to make
		
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			us amongst those
		
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			who have a positive
		
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			impact and to be amongst the best of
		
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			people, who are the most beneficial
		
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			to people.