Shakiel Humayun – Happiness is Our Mission 1st Eid ulFitr Sermon 2022

Shakiel Humayun
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The importance of happiness and positivity in Islam is discussed, with emphasis on the heart and the need for flexibility. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of avoiding negative emotions and avoiding becoming a whining or complaining person. The speaker also highlights the importance of fasting and offers a space for those entering without accountability. While there is a need for strength and flexibility, it is the cornerstone of Islam.

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			To everyone.
		
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			My dear brothers and sisters,
		
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			Allah
		
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			wants us to have a good life.
		
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			He says, That if someone does good deeds,
		
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			whether a male or a female,
		
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			and he is, and, and is a believer.
		
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			In every command,
		
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			in every prohibition in Islam.
		
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			And to give one example,
		
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			we go back to the time of the
		
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			prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,
		
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			when he was sitting with his companions and
		
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			a man came
		
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			and said,
		
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			I'm destroyed, oh messenger of Allah.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			said, What happened to you?
		
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			And then he said,
		
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			that I had marital relations with my wife
		
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			while I was fasting.
		
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			Then the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said, can
		
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			you free a slave?
		
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			He said, no.
		
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			Then he said, can you fast 2 months
		
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			consecutively?
		
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			He said, no.
		
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			Then he said, can you feed 60 poor
		
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			people?
		
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			He said, no.
		
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			Then the prophet went
		
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			and came back with a quantity of dates,
		
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			and he gave it to the
		
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			man, and he said, give this in charity.
		
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			And then the man said,
		
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			He said, is there anyone
		
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			more poor than me?
		
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			There is no one in the whole of
		
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			Madinah
		
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			that is poorer than my family.
		
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			The prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam laughed
		
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			and told him, take it and feed your
		
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			family.
		
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			This man who came to the prophet saying
		
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			he was destroyed,
		
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			left the prophet Muhammad
		
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			while the prophet
		
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			was laughing with him.
		
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			This man who came to the prophet who
		
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			had nothing,
		
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			came with a sin,
		
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			but he left
		
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			with food for his family.
		
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			He was so comfortable that he can come
		
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			to the prophet
		
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			in front of the companions and tell about
		
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			his sin
		
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			without fearing to be judged.
		
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			He was so comfortable that he knew this
		
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			was a safe place
		
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			where he can get guidance because he did
		
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			not know how to
		
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			resolve this mistake he did.
		
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			My dear brothers and sisters,
		
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			Islam
		
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			has happiness
		
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			deeply rooted in it.
		
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			Even to the daily
		
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			dealings.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			said,
		
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			said,
		
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			that since I became Muslim,
		
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			the messenger of Allah
		
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			whenever
		
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			he saw me,
		
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			he smiled at me.
		
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			The smile, the happiness
		
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			is deeply rooted in Islam.
		
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			Some people think that to be righteous,
		
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			to be pious,
		
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			you have to have a face that is
		
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			You have to have a face that is
		
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			frowning and pinched.
		
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			That you have to be stiff.
		
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			You have to be harsh.
		
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			You have to be strict.
		
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			That is taqwa.
		
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			That is so far from the truth.
		
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			Because Allah subhanahuja'ala
		
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			mentioned that these things
		
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			require energy and strength. Some people think that
		
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			if I smile it's a sign of weakness.
		
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			If I show kindness, it's a sign of
		
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			weakness. I have to be firm and strong.
		
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			But you know what?
		
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			It takes strength
		
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			to be kind.
		
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			It takes strength
		
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			to smile.
		
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			It takes strength to forgive others.
		
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			And this is why Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa'ala
		
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			said,
		
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			that if one
		
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			endures patiently,
		
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			and if one forgives,
		
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			that is a resolve
		
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			to aspire toward.
		
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			Allah called it a resolve.
		
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			It's something that requires strength and it's powerful
		
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			if you can be kind. It's powerful
		
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			if you can smile whenever you meet someone.
		
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			My dear brothers and sisters,
		
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			the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			emphasized
		
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			this point
		
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			by saying,
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said, the most
		
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			beloved
		
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			action to Allah
		
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			is happiness
		
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			that you bring about
		
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			to a muslim.
		
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			This is the most beloved to Allah subhan'ah.
		
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			What kind of energy are we putting out
		
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			there?
		
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			What are we making the people around us
		
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			feel?
		
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			I should stop myself and think, this comment
		
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			that I'm going to make, is it gonna
		
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			generate positive energy
		
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			or negative energy?
		
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			This sour post comment that I'm gonna put
		
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			in the WhatsApp chat,
		
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			is it gonna be something that's positive?
		
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			Or am I gonna sound like I'm whining
		
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			and I'm complaining?
		
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			What kind of environment does Islam,
		
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			in every single command,
		
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			in every single prohibition,
		
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			wants us to live.
		
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			So if we're going on vacation, the bigger
		
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			picture is to have a good time
		
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			and not to argue about which restaurant we're
		
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			going to go to.
		
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			Kids, it doesn't matter who called shotgun first.
		
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			Doesn't matter where you sit in the car.
		
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			The bigger picture is
		
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			we're out to have a good time.
		
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			It doesn't matter if it was a foul
		
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			or not a foul in that game.
		
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			We're playing sports so we can have a
		
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			good time and bond together.
		
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			Sometimes we forget the bigger picture and we
		
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			get so boiled down into the fine,
		
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			minute things. We forget that Islam
		
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			came
		
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			to make us happy.
		
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			We were sent on this earth
		
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			to spread happiness.
		
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			So that foul doesn't matter. It doesn't matter
		
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			what restaurant we go to. It doesn't matter
		
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			where the vacation destination is.
		
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			Because the greater picture is that we have
		
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			a good time together.
		
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			And my dear brothers and sisters,
		
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			the Jesus, Son of Mary Center
		
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			wants to be that center of happiness
		
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			for the larger community.
		
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			That happiness emanates from here and
		
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			penetrates the Muslim communities.
		
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			That positive energy is so immense here
		
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			that if negative energy comes, it has no
		
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			choice but to convert to positive energy.
		
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			And then the prophet
		
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			after mentioning
		
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			that the most beloved action to Allah
		
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			is happiness.
		
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			Then he talked about He mentioned examples.
		
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			He said, you give clothes to those who
		
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			don't have clothes.
		
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			You feed those who don't have food.
		
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			And you take care of what people need.
		
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			These are the essentials,
		
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			the bare essentials that we all should take
		
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			care of each other so that they can
		
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			be happy.
		
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			And happiness,
		
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			after taking care of the bare essentials,
		
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			you can take care of so many other
		
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			things beyond that,
		
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			like giving foot massages.
		
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			That's happiness.
		
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			Can you imagine
		
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			How beautiful is Islam that if you're giving
		
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			a foot massage, you're worshiping Allah
		
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			If you're making your brother or sister happy,
		
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			you make them smile. You just worshiped Allah
		
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			with one of the most
		
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			beloved actions to Allah
		
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			To the point the Prophet
		
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			said,
		
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			He said that, I walk with my brother
		
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			to help him take care of a need
		
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			is more beloved to me
		
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			than I make
		
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			I seclude myself
		
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			for worship in this masjid for one full
		
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			month.
		
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			And the prophet
		
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			didn't say masjid in a masjid.
		
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			He said, we have the masjid
		
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			in this masjid, meaning al masjid al nabawi,
		
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			where each salah is equal to 1,000 salah.
		
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			And we know the virtues of that. That
		
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			I go and take care of what my
		
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			brother needs. It's more beloved to me than
		
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			to sit in a masjid than
		
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			for a month worshiping Allah, making
		
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			reading the Quran, making salawat. Why?
		
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			Because that one brother after I take care
		
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			of his need will become happy.
		
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			The most
		
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			beloved action to Allah Subhanahu
		
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			My dear brothers and sisters,
		
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			happiness is embedded
		
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			in our deen.
		
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			Let us bring it out of this treasure
		
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			and share it with everyone beginning with ourselves.
		
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			It's in every command
		
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			and every prohibition.
		
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			And I will end with this last example.
		
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			Fasting
		
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			can be challenging.
		
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			There is thirst.
		
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			There is hunger.
		
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			There is sleep deprivation.
		
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			There are physical challenges.
		
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			Some have it more than others.
		
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			We can complain about it and say, oh,
		
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			fasting is difficult.
		
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			It's
		
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			hard. I'm not looking forward to it.
		
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			But Allah subhanahu trains us
		
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			to squash
		
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			that negative energy.
		
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			And to focus on
		
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			the positive energy
		
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			where the prophet
		
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			Muhammad
		
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			said,
		
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			Where the prophet
		
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			said, for the fasting person, there are 2
		
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			moments of happiness. Forget about the challenges, the
		
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			thirst, and the hunger. Focus here.
		
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			There are 2 moments of happiness.
		
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			One, when he breaks his fast because he
		
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			has this moment of accomplishment.
		
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			I fulfill this worship of Allah.
		
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			I have a good deed locked in the
		
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			bag for the akhirah.
		
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			And the second moment of happiness is when
		
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			he meets his Lord.
		
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			Because fasting is that action
		
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			that cannot be detracted from all our other
		
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			deeds.
		
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			Bad deeds can eat away our good deeds.
		
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			But fasting is untouchable.
		
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			So when he meets his Lord, he sees
		
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			that his fasting is preserved.
		
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			And not only is it preserved, there's unlimited
		
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			rewards that Allah will give for fasting.
		
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			So Allah trains us to stop looking at
		
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			the negative
		
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			sides of things and to look at the
		
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			positive sides of things. And if you look,
		
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			you will find happiness in every
		
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			single thing in Islam.
		
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			You will find happiness in every single
		
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			event in your life.
		
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			You will find happiness in every single
		
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			trial and tribulation
		
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			if you just look for it. Ask Allah
		
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			to make us a community that is built
		
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			upon happiness,
		
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			that spreads happiness.
		
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			Ask Allah
		
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			to accept our fast,
		
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			and to accept our prayers during the night
		
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			and during the day.
		
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			I ask Allah to enter all of us
		
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			into
		
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			without any questioning, without any accountability.
		
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			And a reminder that after today, there's a
		
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			6 days of fasting, another form of happiness
		
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			where you get
		
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			one full year of reward.
		
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			Give us a few moments.
		
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			This room will be converted into a game
		
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			room so you can enjoy Eid
		
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			and also taste some more happiness.