Shafayat Mohamed – Do Not Let Your Heart Turn Away SURAH ALIMRAN

Shafayat Mohamed
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The speaker discusses the importance of the heart in Islam and reminds listeners to be clear about their intentions. They stress the importance of the heart being the only visible and the concept of blindness when the heart falls. The speaker shares a humorous story about a woman who was on a dating website and negotiated with a man on the day of judgment, citing the importance of the connection from the heart to the heart of the husband for peace and connection. They encourage people to be grateful for the connection and remind them that they are only living for business.
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When you make dua, what is one of

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the very famous dua that people read? It's

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from Surah Al Imran.

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Al Imran chapter 3 verse 8. Here the

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What is Allah saying here? What is Allah

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telling us? Chapter 3, Surah Al Imran,

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iron number 8.

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Allah has commanded us here

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to make this du'a say, you Allah.

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Don't let our hearts turn away

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after our hearts have been rightly guided. That's

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powerful.

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The dua is about your heart. You see

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some of us probably make this dua and

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we don't understand it.

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This is a dua chapter 3 and you

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know what I want to tell you brothers

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and sisters and myself?

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Always read this dua.

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This is the powerful dua, Surah Al Imran

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chapter 3 verse 8.

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Allah is saying, don't let my heart you

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see I came to Masjid.

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I'm sitting now in Jumah Khutbah. I'm thinking

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Allah.

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I'm thinking vikir of Allah. I'm thinking whatever

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I do, I should do what you want

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me to do. Whatever I do, I must

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do what you are pleased with. Don't let

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this thought and this

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intention turn away, Allah.

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After you have given me this hidayah,

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after you have given me this guidance,

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don't let my hearts go away. You see

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your heart is a very interesting thing. You

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see just how it beats like a pump

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and it pumps, that's how it works emotionally.

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That's how it works spiritually.

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So it's easy as you go outside and

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you see food, you forget about this Quran

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and the girl.

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You see a nice pretty woman, you're like,

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that is shit Shifa I talk. Now it's

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action, brother. You know?

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You see, Haram thinks you're like, yo, that

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was masjid talk. Khutba talk. Now it's action.

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Read the thing here.

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No. As you see something that you're about

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to go on the wrong path, you ask

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Allah. You Allah, you have just guided me.

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I came from the Masjid. I just read

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Quran. I just prayed my salah.

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Don't let my hearts go off.

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And in this dua, it also have Allah

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and grant me

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and give me from your rahma

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because you are the most merciful. And when

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Allah gives you from his rahma, what do

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you think happens?

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When Allah gives you from his mercy, what

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do you think happens?

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You also become merciful to other people.

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You also become loving to other people. You

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also become kind to other people. You also

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wanna love other people and be nice to

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other people because Allah has placed that in

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our hearts.

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And you are telling Allah, Allah, you are

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the one, you Allah.

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You are the one full of bounties.

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You are the one full of bounties. So

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it's such a powerful dua. A lot of

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you read it, a lot of us say

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it, but you don't really we don't really

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get it inculcated in our hearts.

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It's very interesting, my brothers and sisters. I

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know time is going down, so I need

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to quote a few more verses

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to remind myself and you a little bit

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about this heart because this heart

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and those of you who came late, we

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spoke on some other aspects, but this heart

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is what Allah

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looks at all the time

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and we got to have our intention very

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clear and we got to do everything for

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Allah because Allah says

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in chapter 13 verse 28, Allah

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And it is only by the remembrance of

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Allah that the hearts find peace.

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So if we do everything for the pleasure

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of Allah, we will always have peace.

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In the first,

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we we reminded ourselves about how people always

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running down thing, running down thing, running down

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thing, because we never peaceful. We never had

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peace. We didn't do it for the sake

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of Allah. We're doing it for money. We're

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doing it for show. We're doing it for

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fame. We're doing it to look rich in

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the community.

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And as long as we do things like

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that, we will always wanna do another thing,

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and we will never find peace. And we'll

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die die

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running down the dunya.

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We may die running down the dunya

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and the materialistic

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things.

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You know, there is something called

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in Islam.

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You must you must check it out.

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Once someone had asked the prophet, what

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is

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that thing

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that if I do,

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Allah would love me?

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And if I do that,

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people would love me. That's a very difficult

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thing,

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to do something that Allah loves you and

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people also love you.

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Many a times you do something for Allah,

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people don't like you, not even your wife

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and children.

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And then many of that times you do

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things for people and Allah won't like you

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because you're not pleasing Allah.

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And the Prophet

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told the Sahabas,

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he said,

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you know, I gave a whole lecture last

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week Friday. I'll hand the line in Miami

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Gardens on the dunya and the akhirah.

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They go together, not against the dunya. I

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didn't speak against the dunya. I spoke of

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it to come back together in the deen.

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But what the prophet

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told the Sahabas was, you must renounce

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the love and the desire for the materialistic

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things in the world. He didn't say don't

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have it. Have a wife, have a car,

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have a business, have a job, have money.

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Muslims should have money because the 3rd pillar

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in Islam is to give zakat. So you

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need to have money.

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And, you know, I will mention it in

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the in the lecture in Miami Gardens last

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week, Friday, a lot of people believe that

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam was poor. Prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam was not poor. You know

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who is a poor man? A poor man

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is one who accepts zakat and satkar.

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It was haram for the prophet

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to accept zakat and satkar. He used to

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give zakat and satkar. So you call him

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poor?

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He was rich,

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but he lived humble and simple.

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Zakat and satka was haram for him. So

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he was rich. All the prophets were rich.

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The you go study their lives.

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Gold and silver and camels and wealth they

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had.

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So Layman

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had a kingdom.

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David was a king.

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Musa alayhi wasalam grew up in a palace.

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Yusuf alayhi wasalam

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run the kingdom of pharaoh in Egypt. What

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are you talking about?

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Muhammad salallahu alayhi wasalam, when you go to

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his home as a guest, you could drink

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milk until your belly get busted.

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Milk and milk and food and lamb and

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sheep and whatever you want.

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That's how much he had. He could have

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feed the whole nation.

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He was Allah gave him. He had. Today,

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some of us got big houses and drive

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Mercedes and Lexus

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and got

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$1,000,000

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in the bank. And when a guest come

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by your home, they can't even get a

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glass of free water.

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You know free water?

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Free.

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And you're not even giving them in a

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good glass, you're giving them on a piece

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of paper

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cup. So we pour we only live in

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glass houses and look rich, but we pour.

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We got poor hearts.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam used to feed

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his guests in the best

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utensils, the best milk, the richest milk, the

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best meat, the lamb, the food. You check

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it out.

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He used to feed kufar and disbelievers like

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that

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because he had a rich heart. Remember in

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the first Khutbah or maybe in the beginning,

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I reminded myself and you of the difference

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with a rich heart.

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Uh-huh. That's what we supposed to be because

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he was his heart was connected to Allah.

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Lot of us got a lot of misconception

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about this Islam.

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So

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my brothers and sisters, in conclusion, Allah permits,

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we'll continue on this topic of the heart.

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Is there so many verses in the Quran

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that Allah speaks about the heart, and Allah

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speaks about the heart being locked.

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You know, I I I wanna remind myself

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and remind you of a verse here taken

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from chapter 22. Hear what Allah says here.

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Very interesting.

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And I I don't wanna read the whole

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verse. It's a very very long verse. Chapter

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22 Surah Hajj

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verse 26.

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Hear what Allah says.

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He says, certainly, the eyes are not blind.

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The eyes. Meaning, you know, you read the

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Quran, you read it,

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you hear

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you hear Quran and Hadith.

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Allah is the verse tells you what people

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travel through the land and they see the

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mercy of Allah. They see the power of

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Allah. They see the greatness of Allah. And

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Allah is saying, certainly it's not their ears

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or their eyes that are blind, you know.

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Hear what he says.

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He says, their hearts that are blind.

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You see how powerful the heart is? It

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is our hearts that are blocked and locked

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and blind that we don't hear what we

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should hear. We don't see what we should

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see. We don't digest

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spiritually what we should digest because this is

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what is locked.

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Oh, and Allah uses the word locked. Lock.

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This is not my opinion. Don't go and

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say Sheikh Shafa. It said locked for the

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heart. Allah says blind.

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He says it's the heart that is blind.

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That's why you know, it's like, you know,

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there's a famous saying about love is blind.

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When a person falls, there's a famous English

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saying about love is blind. If you love

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someone, it doesn't matter how they look, what

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color they are, what nationality they are. You

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love that person.

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Nationality will come after, colors will come after,

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passport will come after, and visa will also

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come after.

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Because it's love. The heart loves that person.

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And your entire family telling you

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How you like that guy? Oh, you like

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that boy?

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You don't know? You're a doctor. You're a

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lawyer. You have business. Your father has everything.

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You like that?

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What is this? What is this? You love

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that person. You see everything in that person.

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You see wealth. You see color. You see

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scholar. You see everything.

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Because the heart is blind when the heart

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falls in love. So your heart just sees

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love.

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And similarly, when your heart has hate for

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someone, that's what you see.

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You and then on the other hand, your

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parents don't like the person.

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Think Think about it. Your parents don't like

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the person.

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So now the person is a doctor, but

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your parents think you're the dance.

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The person is wealthy, your parents they're nothing

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to me. The person is good looking, they

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say, hey, what ugly girl you brought for

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me here? Your parents see a beautiful person

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stands in front of your parents, but because

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your parents hate that person, they see no

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beauty

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because they have no love.

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You now, on the other hand, may have

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an ugly paw, everything put together in the

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package and all you see is love and

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wealth and success, and what this person will

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become tomorrow Allahu Akbar.

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Love is blind. What it is? When they

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say love is blind, not the love is

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the heart gets blind when you love someone.

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The heart is what goes blind

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to see something, or the heart is what

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opens up for somebody.

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So other people, when their love is blind,

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you don't see false. You only see love.

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And other people who who don't love, their

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heart is also blind. They don't see good.

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They only see faults.

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I said, wait. What? And here what Allah

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says in the Quran. Again, it's not my

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words. It's not my opinion. It's what Allah

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says.

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Allah says here,

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don't they comprehend and study and think over

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this Quran?

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And they're pondering

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and trying to understand what Allah is saying

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here?

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Meaning us, we.

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Allah is telling us all these things and

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we don't try to comprehend and understand what

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goes on in the Quran.

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So Allah is now here what he says.

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So you got eyes, you're reading the Quran.

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You got a degree from the university, so

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you're understanding the Quran.

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You got all the intelligence, so you could

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read it. You could do everything.

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Why are we not following it? Allah is

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saying because their hearts are locked

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up. The eyes are reading, the ears are

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hearing,

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the eyes are seeing, but Allah is saying,

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it's the hearts that are locked.

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And the hearts are not given the direction

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to the brain

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to tell the hands and the body to

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act in accordance with Allah

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and the commands of Allah and for the

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pleasure of Allah and

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So the heart, my brothers and sisters sorry

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I can't go back into repeating the whole

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beginning of the khutbah, But for those of

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you who came late again, get can get

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the khutbah after salah on how Allah on

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the day of judgment would check will look

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at our hearts. He wants to see the

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good hearts

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with all the good data

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that we have done and why we did

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it, when we did it, for what reason

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we did it.

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Because

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all actions are judged with intention. And where

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does the intention come from?

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The heart. And that's the intention that makes

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you act accordingly.

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So, you know, I always like to, I

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know recently I went to New York and

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did a a lecture. 1 brother met me.

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He said, I look at the Khutba's life

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from Darul Ullum,

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but, like, you stop giving sharing humor with

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us, man. I would always remember your humor.

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I I I just love the humor. So

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today, I wanted to share a little,

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a little humor on on love, you know.

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There was this little there was this girl

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or this lady before we conclude the chutba.

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She was looking for a husband

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interest in her.

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So you single people, think about it.

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So

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she went on this dating

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website

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to search her husband. Wahid, you smiling. Are

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you always on the dating website?

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Anyhow, brother, that is also smiling. He's also

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on the dating website.

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So he went on the website. I mean,

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she went on the website

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and negotiated. So they asked her, what do

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you want?

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She was like,

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someone pretty,

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looking nice.

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Uh-huh.

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Someone who will always be with me,

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near with me,

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in the kitchen with me, when I am

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cooking. Even when I go in the toilet,

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he must be with me.

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Oh, yeah. People put this kind of request

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in the toilet.

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When I'm traveling,

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you know, he must be with me.

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When I'm washing, when I'm cooking, everything I

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do, he needs to be with me. When

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I sit in the living room, he must

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be with me. When I'm sleeping, he must

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be with me.

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And she gave the long line of request.

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And when I want to hear some stories,

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he will share these loving stories with me

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and everything. You know, he will just give

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it to me.

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The computer came back and the organization

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replied, you need a smartphone.

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I didn't get out of there. In the

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beginning, she did really say she want a

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smart husband.

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But all these things that you look at

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the girls nowadays and the boy. That's what

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they do. The phone is with them in

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the kitchen, in the toilet, in the bed,

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on the bed, on the pillow, in the

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work, at home, in the kitchen, in the

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living. Everything.

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So a lot of times sometimes

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you think that you love someone, but it's

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the phone you love more than you really

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love. I just wanna use that example. A

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lot of times, we don't even know where

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we love and who we love and why

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we love, and we don't know what we

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love for.

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Sometimes you love just for materialistic things. Well,

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you could get that on Google.

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11 one guy was asked, he said, I

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don't need to get married because anything I

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want, I search it on Google. I get

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it from Google.

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You could get it on your phone,

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But you the phone doesn't have a heart,

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so there's no love connection. It may your

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likeness and your physical attraction.

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But that's a whole different kind of necessity

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likeness as to the connection that a wife

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will have to a husband. You may get

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all these materialistic

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physical things from a phone or a computer

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or whatever,

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but that connection of love

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could only get it from your companion.

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That's why Allah says in the Quran in

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Surah Rum, and again not my idea, in

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Surah Rum chapter 30 verse 21,

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that you find peace and you find tranquility

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in your spouse because that's a connection from

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the heart. Forget about the body and the

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phone and the television and the house and

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the refrigerator.

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It's disconnection that Allah connects.

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This connection from the heart of the wife

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to the heart of the husband, and then

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that transpires into the 2 bodies and they

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find peace. Other than that, if you don't

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have those 2 hearts,

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if a husband and wife, their hearts are

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not connected,

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they could have a $1,000,000,000.

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They can have all the motor cars, all

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the properties, all the houses. They will not

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find love and peace in each other. They

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will be looking for it outside.

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Let these radical imams brainwash some of us.

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We come here, we sit, we sleep in

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Khutbas, we don't get the message, that's why

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we miss it. All I need you to

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be grateful, Allah.

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Are you telling me

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Allah will not protect the the prestige of

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Muhammad? All of us are only living for

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business.

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That's all our dream. Let me see who

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shall save you now.

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