Shadee Elmasry – Why Is It So Hard to Get Married

Shadee Elmasry
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The speaker discusses the difficulty of getting married due to the "naught choice" culture in their village. They explain that there are too many choices and that becoming happy does not eliminate the "naught choice" culture. The speaker emphasizes the importance of letting choice come to fruition.
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There's so many Muslims around. Why is it

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so hard for people to get married? I

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think people are very picky. The egos are

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very high, I think. When you have an

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ability to

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order your cappuccino or your your drink or

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your frappe with 5 layers of choices and

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they get one wrong, you return the drink.

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And

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in the past, you could have it with

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milk or without milk, with sugar or without

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sugar. But now people have, like, so many

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layers of choices. What kind of milk? Half

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and half, oat milk, regular milk, skim milk,

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almond milk?

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Too many choices. In the older times, whatever

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you wherever you live, right, in your village

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or whatever, in your city, probably gonna marry

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some girl that you know from, like, childhood.

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There's not many choices. I'm trying to be

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picky because you don't have many choices. She

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doesn't have many choices. You don't have many

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choices,

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And that eliminates all those questions in your

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head. And you go and you make it

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work. You become happy. Sometimes too many choices

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is no good.

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