Shadee Elmasry – When Will My Dua Be Answered EP. 29 Ramadan 2024

It's been years and my dua still hasn't been answered. What do I

do? Has all this talk about da? Is it all false? Was it all fake? Is

there something wrong? Why is it that my dua hasn't been answered?

In this video, we're gonna cover the wisdoms behind why sometimes

the answer is delayed, the answer is delayed for sometimes very,

very good reasons. Well, the first reason we're going to discuss II

don't accuse Allah and accused the religion of being false. When

something doesn't go your way, the more humble thing to do is to

excuse yourself, and the first wisdom behind why a person's job

may be delayed, is that they are delaying, if you want to try to

light a piece of wood on fire, but you also keep sprinkling water on

it. The reason it's not catching fire is because of your own sense.

Okay, so that's the first answer that the scholars say is perhaps

some sins that you're doing is the reason why Allah is not granting

you what He wills, why is he just punishing you? Yes, it could be he

has the right to punish us, but also so that we don't receive a

blessing while upon sins, therefore ruining that blessing

for ourselves. Sins oftentimes destroys our character, it makes

us have less patience, it makes us have less wisdom, it makes us

perhaps more rough around the edges all the results of since so

Allah Tada wants to give us a blessing while we're upon

obedience, while we have wisdom while we have patients who are we

have submission, and we're easier to deal with. When we're in a bed

and we're good, our personality smooth, we're less moody, less

angry, so on and so forth. So the first reason really, we should

rebound the question and look in the mirror. Remember, whenever you

point to something, there are three fingers pointing back to

you. Interestingly, the prophet never pointed like this. He always

pointed like this. Nothing was ever pointing back to him. But the

point being rebound the matter to yourself, perhaps it is me. Who is

the problem? Also, this is the second point, my dad is too weak.

It is Josie says perhaps that the your DUA hasn't yet reached you

haven't yet paid the price, or it hasn't been strong enough for a

job. So yes, perhaps it is that Allah wills to give you something

and you should believe that he does. But maybe you haven't paid

the price yet. Maybe the price is three years of worship, maybe the

price is five years of Da hold on to it for a long period of time.

Why? Because if something is a great blessing, it often comes

with it great burdens and responsibilities. So how do you

know that you're strong enough to handle the responsibility, you

have to be trained not to cast off that responsibility because it's

becomes weighty and heavy as the prophets of Allah is in the

greatest numbers white and Allah kept away from him for a period of

time. Why so that he could have desire that desire builds up,

you'll be able to carry the burden, easy, come easy go. But if

you're made to wait, you oftentimes will carry the burden,

you have the strength to carry the burden that strength is developed,

while waiting. Same thing with rich kids rich kid doesn't really

respect money doesn't really work hard for money, does it really

honor the craft that his father may have built up, so easy come

easy go. Whereas the person who's on the outside looking in, and

he's poor, year after year, he's poor, he feels the poverty.

Finally, when he has to climb the mountain and make wealth he'll do

it. And when he makes that wealth, he'll take care of it and take

care of the poor. So oftentimes, that waiting period is building up

the strength to carry the responsibility. The next answer is

that it's a test. How much do you trust Allah, Allah selling you?

These are the principles you need to fulfill, and this is what

you're gonna get back. All right. So my lord, I fulfilled the

principles. I've fulfilled the precondition. So I made my wealth

handler to the best of my capabilities. Scholars told me my

wealth is how they assess my job, I'm having a third or I'm having

Ilha, this desperation of state and this constancy in dua, I'm

having crucial, I know, you have to have trust. So you have to

develop and build a trust in Allah subhana wa Tada. Now why is that

is Allah just playing a game with me just to make me trust him now

stuff. Rather, this is a blessing. Because once you have that trust

in Allah, then there may be a time where you have to wait a longer

period of time. And in fact, there may be a time where you have to

advise people who are going through the same thing you're

going through. So you waited 15 years finally your DUA was

answered. Now when someone comes to you after five years and said

my daughter's not answered, you're an advisor to him. No trust is not

developed except that you have to wait and be patient until Allah

Tada fulfills his what his promise every Josie has a fourth one here

is very interesting here. Even Josie says this. Our agenda is all

wrong in the first place. You have no rights. You have no rights in

the first place. What are you rushing about? I want something

Allah doesn't owe you anything. Why are you rushing for something

that you're not Oh, to stop like, this is my rent. It's not like you

owe me rent. It's not like I did something a service and now I

should be paid. You don't deserve anything. This is just generosity

from Allah. So that's actually some tough word.

From image Josie, but sometimes those tough words are the best

medicine. You shouldn't rush for something that you don't deserve.

You don't deserve anything. Some tough words but it benefits let's

look at Sophia and authority Sophia and authority brings a

softer view than ignorant Josie of course Sophia and authority came

before him to Josie said men are who are thought what Allah

deprives you that's a gift. He is depriving of you is the gift

itself. Why is that? He said that is because it could be that the

same gift given to you at this time would be ruined. It could be

that when it's given to you later, it's multiplied. It could be that

the gift that Allah has given you comes with a spiky underbelly,

meaning that a good thing comes with some bad things with it. And

right now you're not ready for those bad things like what

everyone wants a child so you have a child do you also know that also

comes with sleepless nights that also comes with no more having a

weekend off, no more come having an evening off, no more sleeping

in no more. There's a lot of no mores when you have a child and

there's a lot of spending that you know we're gonna have to spend $40

For a month of diapers $40 to go to the bathroom, right there's a

lot of bad smells when you have a child you're gonna get used to

vomit urine defecation, you will see an amount of defecation that

you have never imagined and never seen in your life and you against

gonna get on your skin and it's gonna get on your clothes and

urine will get everywhere in that as a lot of this is why Allah

subhanaw taala says in the Quran, unwed or in sandal because surely

drought will help you ask for something good. You don't realize

you're asking for a lot of bad things to every worldly Blessing

has a bad part to it, just as every bad thing has some silver

lining to it. So this is Sophia and authority telling us when he

deprives you from it. That's actually a good thing. He's

depriving you from some of the bad things related to it. This is

amazing the scholars and they put their minds to the matter how many

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