Shadee Elmasry – What is Free-mixing

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The speaker discusses the mixing and the need for an extended period of time to feel pleasure. They explain that a man who has a need for an extended period of time should avoid it, as it could lead to negative emotions. The length of the need is permitted for a period of time, and the person should ask the door to be kept open.

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			The mixing has been discussed as following, that
		
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			which is haram, that which is makru, and
		
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			that which is permitted
		
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			when it's so jammed that the bodies are
		
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			touching haram.
		
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			What's also haram,
		
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			engaging with one another
		
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			without a need. It's to the point that
		
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			you would be looking at them
		
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			and may be influenced to look at them
		
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			for pleasure.
		
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			So now you've created an environment that has
		
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			no need. The is
		
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			having a need for an extended period of
		
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			time where it could possibly
		
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			become that, but there is a need.
		
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			And what is permitted when there is a
		
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			need and you try to lower your gaze,
		
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			and it's a almost. A man, for example,
		
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			goes to a doctor and all of a
		
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			sudden, a nurse comes in to get his
		
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			blood pressure and height and weight and all
		
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			that stuff. At that point, it's not something
		
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			he put himself in, and it's something that
		
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			he should hate it in his heart and
		
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			ask the door to be kept open.