Shadee Elmasry – What Defines Our Identity

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The transcript describes a har laundry incident where Eddie manna was found in a bowl and fired at by Helka, who believes she will be in a bad state if she doesn't break fast. He also discusses the importance of men identifying as being good or ugly and their need to develop a consciousness of what Allah Subhanaw taala is about. The segment ends with a invitation to pray for a good month and to develop a consciousness of what Allah Subhanaw taala is about. The importance of men in their lives and their sexual orientation is also discussed, along with the need for men to identify as being "good" in their culture and be empowered by their source of truth.

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			Hello welcome to the lower Salatu
was Salam ala Rasulillah on annual
		
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			Savio manual and over the one on
the quality level on the hello and
		
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			upwards below and a hollowing
upwards he led me and handed him a
		
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			lead he had done any other oh my
goodness Nina 30 and older and
		
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			then a lot hungry named Eddie
manana you know Anna Lena Vinny
		
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			I'm in LA to Abdullah Hassan
Hamdulillah he hadn't fallen
		
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			summit and let the lamb Yeah Did
one of you that want me a condom
		
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			will cook one. And hamdulillah him
NaVi Kasana we Heidi Kitabi owns
		
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			it. Are we hiring to begin or sell
Mohammed in salatu salam ala de la
		
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			masala wa sallim wa barik ala even
a wedding are suddenly were
		
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			suddenly methodically even a
hurry, or something was suddenly
		
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			methodical they even manner in
Allah idioma de
		
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			Baraka, la vie comes Aquila, his
sexuality for having me
		
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			in sha Allah just in the brief
moments that we have before solo
		
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			today shot I wanted to share with
you a hadith that is commonly
		
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			referenced with regards to the
month of Ramadan.
		
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			And all too often this hadith goes
unnoticed or really unappreciated.
		
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			It's a hadith where the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says
		
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			letters L. O Murthy be hiring or
Allah hiring ma general faith.
		
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			The Prophet sallallaahu Selim says
that my ummah will be in a good
		
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			state, as long as they break their
fast immediately at metric time.
		
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			Right so everyone understand that
hadith, the prophesy. centum says
		
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			that my ummah will be in a good
state, as long as they break their
		
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			fast immediately a measure of
time.
		
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			Now for me this hadith has always
been growing up one of these
		
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			Hadith where I say as long as a
Saudi almost looks at it, and I
		
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			believe it but why, what's what's
the wisdom behind why the prophets
		
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			lie Selim would say that we will
be in a good state as an ummah, if
		
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			we break our fast on time.
		
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			To appreciate this hadith, you
have to appreciate the backstory.
		
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			And that is a lost count. Allah
says in surah baqarah katiba Alec
		
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			Newseum, can I put you back under
Medina, amicably come by that fast
		
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			has been prescribed upon you, as
it was prescribed upon those who
		
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			preceded you. So the nations that
preceded us, they had fast
		
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			prescribed upon the Jews and the
Christians and so on.
		
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			But what was their treatment of
the fast
		
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			initially, they fasted properly as
Allah ordained and commanded them
		
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			to do so. But with time, and with
human intervention, they start to
		
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			veer off. So instead of breaking
it on time, they would extend it
		
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			half an hour, an hour, two hours,
they wouldn't even break it that
		
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			night. And it continued to evolve
and evolve and evolve until what
		
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			you have today. So those of you
who know people who for example,
		
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			fast and Lent, what is that fast
look like? So no longer used to be
		
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			that you fast from meats or fast
from dairy or fast from this. Now
		
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			it's like a New Year's resolution
you choose to see what you're
		
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			going to fast from so they will
come and ask you what are you
		
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			going to fast from this year and
say, I'm going to fast from saying
		
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			this bad word. It's a personal
choice. So the prophets of Allah
		
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			Hi, my name is Salim is saying,
beware of that. And you will be in
		
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			a good state as an OMA, if you
fulfill the divine dictates as
		
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			they were commanded. But if you
begin to incur into your religious
		
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			practice your own whims and your
desires, then you will enter into
		
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			a destructive destructive state.
And you will veer completely off
		
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			the path of Allah subhanaw taala.
And this message brothers and
		
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			sisters, this hadith is ever more
critical and prevalent in our
		
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			moment and day to day, right. We
live in a society where we live
		
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			very much within a secular liberal
paradigm, where the subjective and
		
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			one's whims and desires is what
dictates what we will do. For
		
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			those of you who've been following
the gender and race conversation
		
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			over the past month, you will see
how arbitrary now within this
		
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			secular liberal paradigm, the
discourse has become, what a
		
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			gender is, and who a male and a
female is, has become remarkably
		
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			arbitrary. I find this
conversation truly fascinating,
		
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			right? Because you have now
feminists and homosexuals and
		
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			people all across the spectrum,
debating arduously what gender is,
		
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			but there's no clearly defined
lines, it's remarkably arbitrary.
		
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			And so this really is the
manifestation of the human being,
		
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			defining for him or herself what
is and what is not. And so as
		
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			Muslims, especially in the month
of Ramadan,
		
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			Our sense of servitude everybody
should become heightened. And
		
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			that's why Allah Subhana Allah
says katiba Like Newseum, equity
		
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			by Allah, Latina and publikum le
Allah Contacta Khun, this month is
		
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			a month of God consciousness,
because everything about cm is
		
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			clearly defined by Allah subhanaw
taala. When we enter into this
		
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			month, when we cite the moon, when
we start our fast when we break
		
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			our fast, how we pray, and so on
and so forth, clearly defined by
		
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			the Creator. But if we begin to
meddle in Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			affairs, that's what leads to our
destruction as a people. So the
		
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			prophets, Allah makes it very
simple, you will be in a good
		
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			state, as long as you break your
fast on time, meaning you fulfill
		
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			all of the Divine dictates, as he
Allah Jalla Janella defined. And
		
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			so the reason why this
increasingly becomes critical
		
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			brothers and sisters, is that
today, a lot of people struggle
		
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			with issues of gender, with issues
of orientation. And there are a
		
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			lot of fitten in our societies,
people within the Muslim community
		
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			and outside of the Muslim
community, who are struggling with
		
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			their own identities. But as
Muslims, it is very simple and
		
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			very clear cut. The sole
identifier of who we are is our
		
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			Islam. I may have been born in
this country, I may be ethnically
		
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			this or that I may have this
orientation or this inclination.
		
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			But no matter what I feel, or how
my body feels, if my religion
		
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			doesn't allow for it, then my
religion is what reigns supreme.
		
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			Even if I have to suppress certain
feelings I have, or certain
		
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			inclinations or certain
obsessions. As long as Allah
		
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			Jenner Janella told us to be a
certain way. That's how we are
		
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			meant to be. And so brothers and
sisters, the key identifier in who
		
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			you are is your Islam. Today, the
key identifier has become your
		
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			sexual orientation, your gender,
right, this is who you are. So you
		
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			identify yourself as such, that's
not what Islam is about. And so
		
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			even when coming people, people
say, I was born like this, and
		
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			this is how I feel, I may go as
far as saying, that's fine. But as
		
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			long as we believe in a creator
and sustainer, who has clearly
		
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			defined who we are, then that's
what we submit to. So brothers and
		
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			sisters, I hope and pray that this
month is a month where we can
		
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			reconnect to our Creator, and
really develop a consciousness of
		
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			what Allah subhanaw taala is in
our lives, because as our own ama
		
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			of Kalam have said, and has an
ummah has Santa hula, welcome you
		
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			from Aqaba, what is Hassan? What
is good, it is Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala has designated as being
good. And what is kabhi what is
		
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			ugly, is what Allah subhanaw taala
has designated as being kabhi. So
		
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			even if the entirety of the world
is saying, brothers, Muslims,
		
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			Jews, Christians, this is a good
thing we say, but no, we know
		
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			what's good Allah subhanaw taala
has already designated as being
		
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			good or bad. So brothers and
sisters, I hope and pray that no
		
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			matter how challenging our
circumstances become, we are
		
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			always able to turn back to Allah
subhanaw taala and gain from his
		
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			guidance and from his prophets
that I send them this are
		
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			messengers guidance, what is meant
to be good for us? Because one
		
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			some what something is very unique
and special, about specifically
		
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			the month of Ramadan. And
something that Allah says in surah
		
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			Baqarah, That also goes unnoticed,
is towards the end of the verse
		
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			where Allah speaks about SHA
Ramadan. He says, you read Allah
		
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			will be commodious, whenever you
read to be Comoros, that Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala wants for you ease
and he does not want for you
		
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			hardship. Now when Allah subhanaw
taala says that he wants ease for
		
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			you. That settles it, that clearly
means he does not want hardship.
		
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			But why does Allah emphasize why
does he use a Tolkein here to
		
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			emphasize that I want ease for
you. I do not want hardship. Why
		
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			does he do that? Because he knows
that his listener has incurred is
		
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			doubting what he's saying. See,
Allah knows our nature because He
		
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			created us and He knows that we
doubt our times and we struggle.
		
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			We struggle with what Allah has
defined for us. We struggle with
		
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			what Allah subhanaw taala has
clearly delineated for us. But he
		
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			says I know full well that
everything I have commanded you to
		
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			do is for your benefit. Not only
that, but with everything I have
		
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			commanded you to do. I want
goodness for you. I want ease for
		
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			you. I don't want hardship. So
people may tell you, Oh, this is
		
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			hard. This fast business all day
is hard work.
		
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			airing your hijab is hard, not
doing what your best your desires
		
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			tell you to do is hard. But when
Allah says no, no, no, no, it's
		
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			easy. That's where we find our
confidence. Because the neffs
		
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			brothers and sisters, the nest was
never meant to define for us what
		
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			is wholesome and good on this
earth. The nest is connected to
		
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			the dirt, it's connected to this
earth, but the rule is what's
		
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			connected to Allah subhanaw taala.
So when the source of law has
		
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			telling you what's good for you,
that's what you submit to you. And
		
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			that's what you connect to. So ask
Allah subhanaw taala to bless us
		
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			in this month of Ramadan with a
connectedness to him and the our
		
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			souls truly connect to our creator
in a way that overwhelms our
		
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			material side. overwhelms our
neffs overwhelms our beastial
		
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			desires and inclinations. May
Allah subhanaw taala protect our
		
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			iman and our Islam. May He make
beautified in our hearts our Eman
		
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			in Islam and he make hate it to
our hearts go for and forsook and
		
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			ASEAN was Sunday love Amara so
you're gonna Muhammad that one and
		
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			then hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen