Shadee Elmasry – What Advertisers Are Really After

Shadee Elmasry
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The speaker discusses how certain brands are selling a lifestyle that is not something everyone wants, and is associated with a desire to be part of a certain lifestyle. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being aware of the negative effects of these lifestyle changes on one's spiritual well-being and family friendships.
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When advertisers when advertising companies are selling you

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something, they're not selling you a product in a vacuum, right? Like

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you should have this particular brand of clothing or this

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particular handbag or this particular kind of car, in a

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vacuum. That's not how they're doing it, what they're doing is

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they're selling you this idea that you should have this lifestyle,

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and that these are the accoutrement of that lifestyle,

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right, like, you have to have these things to be part of this

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lifestyle. So what they're selling us is the desire to be like,

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whoever it is in advertising. So like, he mentioned, certain

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cigarette brands, right. So back in the days, and some of you are

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too young to remember this, but when there used to be cigarette

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commercials, before they were banned by the government, they,

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they would show like an active lifestyle, right, like people

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playing football on the beach, or, you know, going out

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biking in nature, and then pulling out a cigarette and smoking it.

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Right. So they're we're selling you this idea that this is

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pleasure. And this is fun, and this is enjoyable. And this is how

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you get pleasure also by smoking our cigarettes as much as you

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enjoy, you know, these other things hanging around with your

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family on horseback riding for the Marlboro Man being rugged and

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tough and out in an individualistic, so they're

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selling you an entire brand and an entire ethos, not just the

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product. The same thing with cars and clothing brands and whatever

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else. If you look at the commercials, if you if you see

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them, that's always what they're doing. They're engaging in young

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people who are cooled where this stuff and are like the Lincoln

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commercials now if you're, you know, a really successful, you

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know, upper middle class, white guy in his 40s and 50s. You drive

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a Lincoln, this is a classic car, and this is your lifestyle. And

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isn't this really what you want? And you'll have like a young

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girlfriend too.

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So that

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you can even look at McDonald's or whatever it is. Yeah. Jeremy, from

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what age first grade? Yeah. Yeah. And I mean, that's a good point,

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this stuff that they do for children. And this is all

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documented, like there's not like conspiracy theory, they actually

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talk about this, in their in their publications. What they do for

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children is they try to inculcate a brand in them, right, like brand

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identification, they don't want to sell you a product when you're

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three or four. It's a product that they want to sell you as a

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teenager, but from a young young age that gets you to love it, so

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that you'll be triggered when you get to that to that that teenage

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or preteen age. And then you start asking your parents about it. And

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they even measure for children, they even measure. And

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they literally use as a measurement nags, how often that

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child nags the parent to get them this thing. So yeah, so the most,

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the more nags that they get out of, you know, when they test

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people, when people sign up for this woefully, they don't even get

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paid. So they test the kids and they show them something and then

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they see which commercial develops the most nags from the kid to the

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parent, and then that's the one that they use in their test

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products. So this is what they're doing, right? So be aware of that

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and be aware that this is all against you. They're just trying

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to get money out of your pocket. That's all they really care about.

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But it has a negative effect on you as a spiritual person, as a

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religious person and as a Muslim, because it ties you to things that

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are fleeting, and it distracts you because again, we're talking about

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embracing a lifestyle, not just the price if it was just buying

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things, and you had a lot of money, who cares? But really what

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you're what you're buying is an entire lifestyle that's

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antithetical to the remembrance of Allah to being generous, to being

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unselfish, to being giving to others to caring about your family

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more than about things, etc. So just be aware of that.

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