Shadee Elmasry – The Risks of Uncontrolled Appetite NBF 258
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Villa was Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah. While early he was so
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Anything under Newark and above Trenton is Central Jersey. Those
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you know, try two hours to JFK. So no, Newark. You go down once you I
think once you really hit Trenton maybe Princeton maybe Princeton or
Trenton What do you think?
Yeah, what is Central Jersey Newark to Princeton
New Brunswick essential so from Newark all the way down to to
Princeton, or to Trenton Trenton which one Trenton is still you're
starting to get a little south. I would say Trenton
Hamels then I don't even care without South Park. Dump it off to
Delaware. Nobody cares about it. We get no love me. Me and Facchini
are from there. Tom bikinis from from South Jersey. I'm from South
Jersey. You're from South Jersey. What town? Cherry Cherry Hill Toms
River. He's from the west
Yeah, he around that area Cherry Hill. And we're just sitting like
we get no love. We just get hated on and dumped on all dunked on all
day long. Nobody loves sensation. So I'll choose you but best guess
what we got the best beaches when it's on the right on the east.
Right we got the best beaches. When I was in.
Back when I was in college. When I got my car
after we'd take classes or work whatever I was taking over the
finishing my degree or or working either one
I would go to right down to the beach, three minutes from my
house. Not even like if no traffic three minutes from the house zum
zum cross over the bridge boom, three traffic lights and a are
there free parking. And I go to the like the senior citizens
section. Right? Where like nobody's there. Literally nobody's
there. All the youth they go to the boardwalk was called Seaside
Park, Seaside Heights. And we go to Seaside Park. Right. And it's
actually a blessed it's actually a blessing in disguise that they had
this youth area with the boardwalk and the craziness. Because
everyone goes out. Nobody goes to Seaside Park. It was literally
empty. And I remember there was a summer I every single day, didn't
miss a day. And then until I traveled that year to Yemen, there
was a dude there he would sit there. He put out a lawn chair at
like six o'clock every day on the dot, put out a lawn chair, have a
big tall cup of Wawa coffee, and stab his
fisherman thingy, right into the beach and just sit there wait for
something to catch on. Right? And usually to catch one fish a day.
It takes that fish and you'd go home.
I'm thinking to myself what's going on in that life? Right?
Like you're saying he's he's old? No 5055 60
But not old. But you know?
Because people are very healthy now at 1516. But I'm like, what a
simple life he's living. But some situations are like that you find
yourself all alone. Right? And he has the ability to come down. This
is before the age of cellphones. He would just sit there with his
coffee watching his son nothing he What does he call it? Fisherman's?
What do you call it? Fishing Rod? Yeah.
And just sit there, you know, looking at the water. I'm like
something happened. Like something bad happened in this person's
life, that this is what he finds to be peaceful or something really
good happen. And this is his gratitude. Like, I'm thankful I'm
satisfied. Gratitude is very hard, by the way. Right? You have to
learn how to have gratitude. If you don't have gratitude. You're
not gonna get numb. Gratitude is harder. I'm telling you, it's
harder than da because gratitude.
It's like you it's it's comes out of your decency. Right. And it's
thinking for something in the present or the past. Whereas draw
is something that you want for the future for yourself. If you're not
good at gratitude
You're not going to be answered or if it is answered.
You're not going to benefit because you're not going to be
thankful and if and Allah does not like it opted Kofoed. Before we
get to the ODI let me talk about a couple things.
An amazing observation about the path the tricks of shaytaan listen
pays very close attention to this because a lot of us are guilty of
it.
It bliss, his fastest route to people's to the stomach.
If you can get the oily stomach and indulgence in a person, they
will eventually indulge in everything else.
And why is it that Allah calls in and mobile video in a kennel one a
sheltering kind of shape on Okumura. So this is related to
gratitude. Why is it that I always find this unique? Like, I didn't
really understand it. That those who overspent and go to access,
they are the companion, the brothers of shaytaan shaytaan
loves them.
And I used to think to myself why, what is really that bad about
overspending, right. But the thing is, it's not just overspending.
It's accessing everything.
When you access, if you have excess, or deficiency in
everything in your life, you will be so out of whack.
Then you will also it's a personality trait, you'll take it
to your dean, then in the dean, if you when you go to extremes, you
usually either go off the cliff or you bounce to the opposite
extreme, and you never find the comfortable middle where you can
be consistent.
Consistency is what gets you results, not strength. This is so
important for people who are studying who are learning at
ArcView people doing vicar. Consistency is the way to success,
not strength. Like how many repetitions? How many times did
you get up and go sit on your rug, that's more important
than how long you spent on it. So to spend one day and sit for an
hour for does it for 70 minutes.
Put that on one skill, but to sit every single day for 10 minutes.
This is better. Because it's the concept that gets your body where
every time you move. And you you do it, right. You're in graining
in yourself that that's you, you're in graining in your mind
and your heart. So consistency is far more important than strength.
Anyone who goes to an extreme can never attain consistency. So
shaytaan is the enemy. He knows the ways of goodness. So in order
to get anybody off consistency, get him to decrease or increase
and really tip zero tends to be increased. Let them overdo it. So
one to one way that shaytaan gets people is with us.
Oh, you didn't make me do properly do it again. Didn't make me do it
again. Do it again. Do it again. So now Salah instead of taking
five minutes of your time, seven minutes of your time, it now takes
17 minutes every time. Well who has 17 minutes? Every time you
need to pray eventually what do people do they leave off Scylla
completely. So it's really important to Rick recognize that
excess in matters will throw everything off balance and will
lead you to the opposite extreme. And when you're swinging back and
forth, you're you're in a state of instability.
All right, and you'll never be consistent with that. And so
a tip there comes in all things excess, the worst is in food. As
eating is basically your life. Like you're you're alive because
of eating. So if you're excessive in that you're gonna excessive and
everything else. But if you're acceptable in that chances are
you'll be acceptable and everything else. Because the it's
literally like it's part of your body. It's the one act you're
doing this inside your body. For notice the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam said I eat like a slave.
And notice the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he spoke
about humility.
Right when he spoke about humility, he spoke about
relate in relation to food. What is the connection between food and
humility is that part of arrogance?
Part of arrogance is not accepting is being picky about the food.
From kibble, one of the fastest route to humility is to be humble
in what you eat. And you might think, Well, how is that really
like irrelevant, but it is relevant because it's a practice
you do every single day. So if every single day a person is picky
about their food, well, it ingrains in them like you're some
kink, you'd like lording over the I'm not eating this, I'm eating
this. I need this and I need that. lording over the food you become
inside you. You do it every single day, maybe three, four times a
day, five times a day, right.
Keep in mind, most people today smart people
unhealthy people and people who want to be in shape. They don't
eat a lot.
So they may feel this is a trick or shaitan. Such a brilliant
trick. Honestly, he's brilliant, as much as it is evil, but you
have to admit when intelligence
it's not a lot, yet you're extremely picky about it. So
shaytaan has got you on arrogance of what you consume, while
imagining that you're temperate
while imagining that I'm not eating a lot, so you get double
fold. You're arrogant about your food and you pat yourself on the
back. And you imagine that no, I'm following the Sunnah on food. I
mean, how many times have you seen like a recipe? It's like a very
nice piece of chicken, right? It's like very modest dinner. It's a
modest dinner, but it has to be pink sea salt. It has to be in
organic.
Grass, Rain, rain, whatever they call it. Free Range, grass fed,
massaged,
got a foot massage on the chicken, right? Only drank, you know, avian
natural spring water.
The amount of pickiness on the chicken.
And then the little herb one little piece of greenery on it was
organic. Farm Raised. Cost $17. Right? The salt, the olive oil.
Oh, the exact olive oil. Okay, from Palestine, what do they call
it? extroversion EVO, perfect. Or $40 A bottle. And they're and
you're the beauty of it from from from St. John's perspective,
you're imagining that you're temperate. Because I'm not eating
a lot. I'm only eating one * with with piece a leg. You know
that cut which the breast with the leg? And then quinoa.
Okay, it has to be the stuff that nobody's heard of before. Right?
And there is so much and you imagine it as healthy. You want to
argue that it's healthy. You want to argue to yourself that and
convince yourself It's for the sake of our kids. It's you want to
argue all this stuff. But at the same time, let's not
you know joke around this is some serious
Kibito going on at simultaneously.
Now, I liked that food too. But there is some cubed going on here.
You cannot just look at the people who do it. Go to Whole Foods. Look
around the aisles.
These people are just some snobs right? There are some snooty snobs
and the odema. When they look at this hadith of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Prophet said I eat like a slave.
What is slave eat? How does the slavery the plate gets puts in
front of you? And you eat it?
Is simply simplicity. In How about the coffee orders? Right? How
about the coffee orders? You need to be to have a really strong
short term memory now. Hey, I'm going for the coffee run. What do
you want? There's 10 that a jet? Alright, a cafe mocha latte mixed
with caramel with three shots of this and five shots of that with a
drizzle of that. Right? And then this kind of milk, oat milk. Right
Light with partly oat milk, partly cream. Oh, I'm not a half is here.
Right? I'm not sitting into an EVs.
Okay, you need to do hips to know these orders. So what is that to
indulging a little bit of that ego. But here's the thing you
think, Oh, it's so innocent? Yes, but one little bit of Kib.
Repeat it 200 times a year. Go for dinner, repeat that 365 times a
year. Right.
All of a sudden, what you got? You got a kink. You got a person who
believes themselves whether they know what ought to be king, all
from the indulgence of food and lack of air and the arrogance.
little micro levels of Kibera that develop
and everyone's guilty about it in some way, shape and form.
For some people for one spice,
salt. It's not even a spice. It's like so important. That's why
Allah filled the earth with it. You think about that. Allah has
filled the earth with salt. There's never been in the world
human history, a shortage of salt. All I have to do is take water
from the ocean, put it in the sun. That's it.
And then that pan will have salt in at the end of the day. Right.
That's it salt. Imagine this one of the lessons of the soul Wolf.
Was that I remember this a long time ago. They used to say one of
the lessons of to so Wolf is that ask
Try to make yourself not asked for the salt. That's really hard
right? Because sometimes you feel a stingy toothache this really
amazing Lambchop This is a shame this is a waste. I'm eating it
sometimes you have really good food you're sending like this is a
waste this biryani just need a little bit of salt to be
excellent. No, it's a big practice of to solo of that to come in that
when you ask for food, when whatever when you're hungry,
whatever plate, whatever amount, whatever is put in front of you,
if it's called food, eat it and finish that plate. That's it.
If it's if human beings call this food, that's enough. I was at the
mall the other day and I'm trying to practice this RML had went
Subhan Allah Mashallah. Three hours? 40 minutes mbsc oneman.
Today, in Emirates, Habib, it is when five hours 40 minutes. The
video is five hours, 40 minutes.
I'm sitting there and someone's like, man, you look tired. What do
you want? I said, a plate of anything that human beings will
call food. If a human being calls it food, put it here, right? And
give me a fork or spoon because I don't like shake people's hands. I
don't want to get my hands dirty. That's it. That's how we should
be.
It's not easy, right? And sometimes, I mean, we all go out
to restaurants. Anytime there's a Muslim restaurant look at this as
I think I'm fooling myself. Anytime there's a Muslim
restaurant I said, let's go and support the business. Right? Let's
go and support the new Muslim business. But you want to check
out their food which is okay in fine. Finding good, right. The
other day I went to support a new Muslim business.
Wonderful burgers. I'm sitting there eating tables full. The
owner he calls me from the back says come we putting out the rugs
for Muslim. So I left the food. We went to pray
for waiter thought we were done to cap the food or throw it away like
men. Right? And then they said go until tell him that he took half
your food. Like now I'm not going to go and give that it was busy.
I'm not going to give the owner a hard time. I despise people who
give owners hard times I cannot stand people who go out there
in a restaurant and then look at the waiter and said like an
emergency. This is not what I ordered. I was sitting the other
day at another Muslim restaurant. Um, there wasn't a Muslim who did
this. It was in England actually. No, it wasn't a Muslim restaurant
was hella because they the franchise are owned by Muslims.
Was Nando's or something? I'm not Nando's. What is Nando's? It's a
chicken with spicy sauce. There's like three flavors of sauce.
That's what you're eating. That's it, right? He's either a white
lemony sauce or some spicy sauce. It's the same stuff, essentially.
Different flavor.
You sit there the table next to me.
The waiter puts the food down. The lady looks at it. Like it's like
in shock. Not there's nobody ordered, does not want it ordered.
What the heck, what do you do? You throw the food away? What is wrong
with people? And you're a working class person. Right? You work
essentially. Why are you hassling? Don't you have any sense about the
waiters life? The Chef's life, the owner of the restaurant, that's a
waste for him. If that happens once a day, if that happens once a
day, that's 365 chicken legs thrown in the garbage. Right? It's
a wing with a leg, right? That's what they give you at Nando's?
Well, that's 365 chickens thrown away. I mean, pieces. And if that
piece is, let's say a quarter of a chicken, let's say hypothetically,
divide that 365 by four, right? 90 chickens, 90 chickens. What a
waste. We never in our family are never returning an order. Whatever
they screw up as long as it's not consumed. You're eating it. Right.
That's how it is. That's how it is and there's no pickiness in the
food. Okay.
Look, man Rasheeda says it's not Nanos, whatever it is next to
Baker Street mosque, like down the street from Baker Street mosque,
when you walk from the Baker Street mosque down, okay.
Down
to Baker Street itself, the main hub there Marleybone road. There's
a whole bunch of Halal restaurants there.
And we went to one of them. Okay. And that's where they're making
this. I'm like, This is disgusting. People are what do you
think you're some king?
Oh, we clean up after the meal.
And some people in my family always say don't do this. No one
does this in a restaurant. Just leave it as it is. Like, no, no.
We should not enjoy being served like this. Right? Unless you're
doing Tobia to somebody. But in general, when they serve you food
at the restaurant. I'm looking at the table. Do we have a slave
here? Is the slavery of of enemy slaves is over. I have no enemy
slaves here. I don't care if he's getting paid paid what?
The table is filled with
napkins, right? Corn on the cob. Forks spoons, clean this up. At
least make give the guy three piles, right? All the plates, all
the cups,
all the trash, right? Like make it such like that you're not a king
getting served. These are all the habits of humility as they relate
to food. How about another one? This is really tough one is that
when there's a small amount of food, you pass it around to
everybody else. Right?
So Subhanallah
when it comes to food, if one let's say every once in a while,
you can convince yourself
you know, to,
to eat the food as it's put in front of you.
Right? That's a bit of it. And what else did the Prophet say I
sit like a slave. He used to sit eating on the ground one time, he
was invited to a people's house and they had table and chairs. And
he sat Sallalahu it was
within a few short period of time he said to the host he's
uncomfortable he wants to sit on the floor.
So that hadith gives us the permissibility of sitting yet the
profitability on chairs and tables, yet the preferable ality
of sitting on the grounds. Okay, I remember once I'm one of the
Habib's you
his son got married. They furnish the house and everything. They
walked in and he found a bed right in a raised bed. He walked right
out of the house. Walked right out of the house. Right. They said to
Father What is he was a very gentle shake. Right? What is
he wants anything? Then someone said it was the bed right? The
security of the bed we sleep on the ground? We put like cots
little mats like that we sleep on the ground humility upon a lot. Of
course. You're going to be sleeping in the street. If you do
that in your house today in this in this day and age. He tell you
why if no beds, right. No beds right? Floor only. I can work with
many people today.
You guys.
Babel Evans made interesting observation. Once he said that.
You were talking about this elitism that comes with organic
food and in the Muslim community. There's put his mic on.
Yeah, there's an elitism in the Muslim community among certain I
don't say all but certain students of knowledge who claim that okay,
the food has to be
prepared in a certain fashion obviously has to be thought of it
has to be pure. But there are people he was saying Baitullah
said in, for example, the communities here like in New
Brunswick, who don't have the luxury of not eating fast food, so
he was saying and I won't say who said it, but he was saying like,
if you go to McDonald's, yeah. I would rather eat the package than
the sandwich itself. Someone said this someone's Yes. And shackled.
Ala said this is a very very dangerous thing to say because
there are poor people is this not kid but nothing else? Is this not
making people feel like trash? Okay.
And is this not Kipper? So yeah, we do have there is talk about
health, there is talk about health. But at the same time,
there has to be practical. Pragmatics. This is complete. Now.
Now mind you, when I'm saying this know the level of let's say eating
without salt, right? You should know the level of that you have
not committed a crime. If you put salt on your food, you're not an
arrogant person. So but every now and then write every now and then
test yourself. Right? So such that the day that comes at you're at
someone's house, or at your at somewhere someplace and they serve
you food like that, you don't have to ask for the salt, right? But to
keep it in mind, though, it's very important to know the level of
these things. These level of things is more in the depth.
Right from the depth and the humility of things. So if you find
yourself one day, it's a long night. Okay.
It's a long night, I had a long day. All I want to hear as I don't
want to hear a single human voice I want to play to have warm food
in front of me, right? It's a long day, right? And it happens to all
of us sometimes. And sometimes you take it one step further. I don't
want any human being around me. I want a plate of food and a remote
control. Right? Class sometimes you earned it right? So but you
can't be so
you cannot elevate that which is a comment on edit. A nice thing to
do every once in a while you should not elevate that to know
how that and haram to the point that you now we overdo yourself
and burst out the other end. So it has to be with moderation. These
things these adapt, you massage them into life little by little,
all of a sudden after 10 years, you realize you do it all the time
without even thinking about it. And without ever looking down on
anyone else who doesn't do that. That's how we're supposed to do
this stuff with yourself. Okay. So the issue
You hear when it comes to all of these Olia and all the people of
the past who are great is that they control their stomach. They,
they control their stomachs. And it's, but again, we made fun of a
lot of these things like the coffee orders, but you gotta
understand where are we putting this we're putting in this level
of
if a person wants to try to remove 1% and but isn't all of life
success is by 1% here 1% There, right? Just do a little bit
better, or imitate the profit in one way or another way. And that's
the where we're supposed to understand where this stuff is
supposed to go.
Okay.
All right, where are we now we are on is hop, and Nevada jewelry. And
he said a dunya Bahara this world is an ocean we'll go to side the
coast at the end
at the edge. That is that's the Acura and their boat is the
tequila and the people are your travel companions choose your
travel companions properly if you're going to be thrown into an
ocean and in that ocean, you're going to be fighting for your
life. You got to pick very wisely who your which ship you want to
ride do you want to ride the ship? Have you know the disciplined the
disciplined
you know boat people, sailors,
the discipline sailors or do you want to be with the people who are
on a party boat? Right.
Okay, or the people who were on the Titanic.
He said the Ayatollah Julian photography behind InWa Hideo
Akula will be coming. I saw a man with one eye
making Tawaf saying I owe a lot I seek refuge with you from you.
He says how do you say such a thing? He said one day I saw a
person and I said How amazing is this person. And as soon as I
looked at that, I saw something hit me on the eye.
And I became blind. So I attributed that to making tal
Veeam
aggrandizing a creation. That's a very high MACOM
it's very high MACOM.
He says of the ruler Halima Karana Laden, the best of states is that
which matches with knowledge. Now listen to this. Okay, how do I
interpret
the sayings of the fina biller that seem
to maybe contradict knowledge or contradict something or I don't
know where to fit it? It's that person state? Because is it
sinful?
For a person when you look at someone say, Oh, that guy's
amazing. Is that necessarily sinful? Have you dropped for you?
Maybe not? Right? We're not saying it's sinful for you maybe not for
that person.
Okay, maybe they had undergone some serious training with
themselves never to look at the creation like that for them it was
a drop.
Maybe for them that's what they needed
to rectify their state. Right. So that's how we understand
the sayings of the odia one of the sayings famous sayings is
Elmo Kirby had a unique answer early your knowledge of my state
get makes me not need to ask you
but what he's saying he is saying a fact there
is it's from the batteries
and many who say see the batteries This is false Sufism no because
look at the
look at the next line. Federer Ah, he wept to hurt he said only
biffed. Akari so my DUA and my desperation calls upon you testify
to my need of you, right? So he's not saying he's not making dua
he's not saying there there's no need for dot there is no there is
a need for him to make dua there is no need for Allah
to know what you need. That's what he's saying. He said Allah knows
already what you need, you know, my state and my needs, you know,
already my states of my needs. So Mar dua is not educating Allah but
what we need, that's what He's removing there. So it's a
completely sound statement, because the next line is my DUA
and my desperate calls testify to my neediness. Okay, so and if you
ask the editor self, why do you make dua? A Allah knows be your
Azad in the dunya. He's they say simply Allah commanded us to ask
for things.
And we asked for what's in the Quran. Whatever Allah told us to
draw in the Quran we've said exactly. So there's that hit the
ascetic he doesn't want to ask anything for himself. He's not
asking for
material things for himself. They reach that we didn't reach that
level. They reached that level. That's fine.
For them, right?
And they're content with whatever Allah brings of the material
things of this life, the pleasures of this life. So what is their dot
their DA is what Allah gave in the Quran, right? Whatever it is in
the Quran that they make that dot with desperation. You know, Allah
knows and Allah is going to give Yes, but we're commanded to have
desperation in our call to show that we are the slaves. We don't
have an Allah has. That's that's the Sophists where you start
having knowledge of No.
And that dua will never rent.
Whereas the dua for protection or for blessings will end usually
upon the
obtaining that blessing.
I'll ask a lot prayer for money to pay a debt while as soon as you
got the money now, you don't have any incentive to make it anymore.
Right? You no longer have that incentive. So
the that's why the best to is that which is motivated by poverty.
General just in general, I am impoverished not poverty of money.
Again, you get poverty and money as soon as you gain wealth, you
lose the motivation to do all right. So it's as an as a
display of my poverty in front of Allah general neat and fulfilling
the command
next what he said
annuity
an annuity is one of the idea of Allah and he says it's a soulful
total kukuli husband enough's his definition of the self and this is
why CEDAM is a group said, there are 1000s upon 1000s of
definitions of self and each one reflects the state of the one
speaking.
He says to soul is leaving off every
distal portion of the knifes
every cut of the knifes, right? Leave it off. That's his
definition. Ultimately, matzah rock said the ultimate ultimate
definition after looking at hundreds upon 1000s of definitions
he said at the soul Wolf, he said is sits at two what Joe Kilala
a sincere turning to Allah and everyone will turn to Allah in a
different way at a different level. So all of these odia are
turning to Allah and they're at like a different part of the
mountain. So they're describing different types of the mountain.
But the truth itself is the action or the motivation that gets you up
the mountain
Tarik Tarik, I'm a CD is here, not with us as a guest, but as a
viewer and if he wants to come on as a guest, he could come and tell
us about the Salawat they have like a type of, of of contests as
it relates to Salawat Okay.
All right.
Meanwhile, Governor Phil Murphy, okay. Is Mila Janabi Mobarak says
from Governor Phil Murphy, okay.
Okay.
Governor Phil Murphy is all about now that he's had Molad as well.
Okay, happy no. Good job. Hey, listen
take it you never know maybe someone does some one good thing
and they it starts to reflect the change in them. Of course I know
some people are gonna say Oh, well it's just politics. Yeah, it is
probably just politics. Okay. Well we brought something yesterday I
thought was really an observation about just yeah, you mentioned he
said
I would love
to celebrate the problem almost Thank you. Thank you drink of
water Yeah, yeah, that's so you drink of water and Jahannam yep
so we now he says that
talk if you want to come on let me know. And you could talk about the
situation that you got the the Salawat it's like a contest type
of see who How can do more select
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like a Shiva or a Shiva.
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Mustafa. If you
at football when Mustafa
he called didn't call a Sefa. He called it a Chifa. He says because
you have a choice between completing the word or shortening
the word, right as Shiva with Elif, and Hamza as Shiva with an
LF.
He says, because when we, when you have a choice between the complete
word or the shortened word, the complete word gives the sense that
we've encompassed everything. And I don't want to say that I
encompassed everything in the book about the Prophet because the
Prophet can not be encompassed. So he chose the short version of the
word a Shiva,
a Shiva. The small little contribution to the OMA about the
prophet is not all encompassing. Subhan Allah
O Allah.
Now, he says here, i Le Munia I'm going to be enemy and a scholar
who acts upon his knowledge.
Well, I heard if one young tickle pocket button,
and a biller who speaks about the
murder a two year die by Allah Tala hurler to college Johan had
delayed me sure I fell chakra Burnham and if you see someone
speaking about his spiritual state that causes him to exit the Sharia
don't go near him. Do not go near him. Okay
do not go near such a person whose spirituality pushes him outside
the shittier
alginates Mundo Matt and no real am you better unhappy Curtis said
Scalia had on lamb yoke Duran happy clutches sit to be ahead on
alginates said since a nobody died, nobody has spoken about the
reality of sit.
Remember sift because leaving every stone unturned if loss is
sincerity, there's a big difference if loss means I'm only
have one motivation here, one motive I have no ulterior motives.
That's it loss.
And many, many people have Occulus many people have a class. Good.
Anybody see one of these good guys in the masjid good person is
wonderful guy. He has a cloth. There's a lot of guys with
Nicolas. Why isn't there a lot of success then if that's the case,
because very few have said
that's the thing. Okay? Who What is sits, sits is leaving no stone
unturned. That sit.
CEOs have set
it they got they got sick. That's why they make the millions. But
they got sits in what? In the dunya. And they got the dunya.
Allah gives his fair he gave them what they asked for what you
worked for. Most people don't want they don't have sick, they have a
class but not sick. You see a regular person and by the way,
your class is questionable now. Right? Your class is questionable.
You see a poor man, he's not greedy. What does he have? He
hasn't tasted money yet. Let's give them a million bucks. Let's
give him $100,000 salary $200,000 salary $350,000 salary, let's now
up his monthly salary to 35,000 a month, let's up that to 50,000 a
month, let's increase his monthly salary is 75,000 a month. Let's
give him 90,000 A month. Now tell me this you have a loss and all
those beautiful things you think he has? Let's just see, Allah is
protecting most people.
J. So sit is that you leave no stone unturned in pursuit of your
goal. Okay,
if loss is usually a prerequisite to sit, because since it also
entails a singular focus, part of CIT is that let's say I'm doing X
that means Hey, you want to do Y NO, NO to y no to Z, no to
everything else. I'm just doing this right? Part of six is to say
no to all these other things. No to all these distractions.
Sit.
Okay, so sit oftentimes requires a class. But sit is more of in the
action. And if gloss is in the purpose, that's the difference. If
gloss is deeper than sit. So why why are you trying to succeed a
trying to succeed for what reason I try. That's a class. Why are you
doing hevs of Quran? That's a class. Why are you seeking
knowledge? That's a class. That's a question of Eclass that's the
question, sir, because now how are you doing this? Are you saying no
to distractions? Are you saying no to laziness? Are you getting up
when the alarm goes off? Are you hitting the snooze button?
I guarantee you most people they don't find success because they
hit the snooze button. That's it. They cannot get up early. Right.
You can't get up early. You know the trick is shut your eyes
sometime later in the day.
Right. We're all human beings who need to need to sleep
But the risk the higher it's distributed in the morning. It's
not distributed at the officer. Well world's awake at that time.
If you want something get up early rest later in the day, if you can
even like late morning, call us it's done with when everyone's out
and about hola the angels that come with a special risk from
Allah and they distribute it though to those who are awake in
the early hours, the wee hours then there's something even more
sacred which is
those who get up for to hedge. Right. So you got up for to hedge
it. And you get up let's say from the entrance of Federa to Iraq.
Everything else is leftovers after that. That's the main part of the
day, one for your spirituality and one for your dunya that's the main
part of the day in the province I sent him even said who sits you
don't have to necessarily be working at that at those hours to
receive the bulk of the openings you've just been doing. Doing they
could do some light work, or do some heavy work it doesn't make a
difference. Yep. Do you study mama dad's work so mama dad I just read
this morning he said that between Dawn and Fajr or I guess dawn in
the sunrise I should say Dawn into sunrise. That's the best time to
make the wall for material. You don't even need to make the DUA
just by being awake at that our doing Vicodin Allah
okay, you will receive the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
sit be awake at that hour. If you're doing work, fine. If you're
doing they could find whatever you're doing as long as you're
awake being productive, right? In deen or in dunya the prophets I
send them said the risk will come to you faster than if you want to
do business east and west.
So these are the secrets of of attaining success. But how are we
going to you have to have sit because it's not easy to wake up
what is the last thing you wake up? Okay? It's not easy to do
that. Try it. Alright, but once you get in the habit of it, then
you're you're you're you start to feel if you wake up at 8am Well
today's done with plus, the day for the Vida Fein Biller, if you
wake up,
say you sleep you get up you, you you you sleep, walk to the
bathroom to make wudu. Right? You sleep walk back
the zombie out to rock as a fetch and go back to bed. How many
people do that? Right? A lot of people I know a guy who boasted
one time he said, I have perfected the ability to pray to make wudu
and pray for edge and go right back to bed and never be awake.
Like never fully be awake. He's perfected it. He said I said
that's what he's proud of. Right? And he's perfected it he said
he's like he's not sleeping but his brain he's like I make sure
that no lights on no flickering like irons or computers or
anything, nothing flickering, make wood do with the lights off. Okay?
And do all that and then be able to go right back to bed.
He said he perfected it. He's happy about that. But that's where
the blessing is
very hard if you have to balance that with you know, also being at
the job at 9am. So maybe we could do it on weekends.
He says here, Model A to outbid them in a notary. I didn't see
anyone doing more a better than a notary for June 8. Okay, and
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who you are could OfficeSuite Hello Sukiya to a homeowner. Kuru
invades bhakti Allah 50 day he ushered in a center nor was his
habit he would go out that day with his lunch. He never makes it
to his to his stall where he buys and sells with the food. He gives
it out and gives his lunch away all the time. Okay, then you go to
a masjid and if there will be a Salah
he would pray and he would do no if at all the way to
go. Then he would go to his stall and he would sell
and he would fast.
So
he wants old Mohammed wants to see the
The Muslims have great o'clock when it comes to buying and
selling and we have opted to base on buying and selling, that we
don't have the capitalists philosophy that the buying and
selling is like the sacred deed. That's the sacred deed of
capitalism is buying and selling. So the all the Muslims have always
been that if you sold enough for the day, you sold well for the day
you close up
early, and you let the other people so
recently a Muslim restaurant opened up next to another guy's
restaurant. So what did the guy do? He shut his restaurant for a
week.
He took a vacation for a week. So the other guy could buy and sell
and get customers. What's the athlete that's behind this?
There's no shortage of customers. There's no shortage of money,
share and allow help you. Right. There is a corporatization
recently
there were there was there was a nice event, I wanted to tell
everyone about it. Let's forget that. Even here. Sheikh Hamza
tamales
Kadem 3.0 and his organization besito.
Someone said to me, Oh, well, you're advertising for him, you're
going to take viewers away from yourself. We're not capitalists
here. We don't view things like this. It's benefit. Allah is
pleased with that work, in my opinion. And he will be pleased
with me. If I share it with people. Do you think I'm going to
lose out? I'm not going to lose out anything. Allah is going to
cause someone who is sharing to lose out? No.
Right? So yeah, within a decent and normal and acceptable way.
Right. He's the guy didn't shut his restaurant down. He just shut
down for a few days. Like the weekend sorry, wasn't even the
week, the weekend. Give him a weekend, let him open up his
business. There's no loss. The capitalists have a disease, their
octina is completely off.
And they're the reason for so much harm. Okay. Is the capitalists
because they destroy Amazon is a destroyer of businesses. Now,
Amazon used to be a place that was everyone loved it. Because it's
unbelievable. I ordered the thing, it's here, you know, before I x
out, right before it complete the order. It's here now, especially
if you live in our area, for example, any area that now you
live next to a warehouse, and you order something simple, right?
Some like regular household item, it's there. Before literally you
get up from the computer sometimes. It's like here, like
how did they do this? And I don't like it, send it back. They don't
even take their money back. They just swallow the loss. Right. And
so they won the loyalty and the hearts of people with that. But
now I'm looking around. And I'm seeing Amazon is making pencils.
Amazon is making forks, Amazon is making tripods, Amazon's making
foil. Why is that? Why are they doing this? Right? They went in
there, look at the top sellers mimic that business.
Right.
And they kill them.
They make they they suffer a loss for three months until that goes
out of business. Then they raise the prices.
Once you keep doing that you build up a resentment in the hearts. And
some people argue with me said Nah, that's nature business. No,
it's not in a slump.
In Islam, you're not allowed to intentionally put another guy out
of business. So if I go in, and I open up my little shop and you got
your shop, and I go in for the first month and I start giving
stuff away
that you suffer from that. I say hold on a second, I just want to
please my customers.
The call the on the city I will say stop. This is haram what
you're doing, because you are pleasing those guys and destroying
another guy, that guy lives off of his sales, the customers don't
live off their purchases, who is more important.
We're are in this is a extremely important difference between the
cap between capitalism and Sharia. And capitalism is a philosophy.
And Arcada B is not just a philosophy of how to do business,
it's beliefs about the importance of business, the role of business.
Alright, that is literally, if you look at the what is that true
heartbeat of the society? Okay.
The two heartbeat of the society
is the IQ is the stock market. people's confidence in the stock
market, right? That's the true heartbeat of the society. So what
are you thinking of buying and selling Down goes goes up, we're
happy. We in Islam say if you make money, how you react to it,
is what matters. How you react to it. If you react to it by giving
sadaqa and sugar, then it's an M if you react to it by just
spending it like a fool. Right, then you you're losing up. If you
react to it by doing sins, then it's a punishment. Okay,
All right next one
so that's why I clicked capitalism Subhanallah is
you gotta if you're a Muslim you gotta keep this stuff in mind.
These visits look see CEOs wake up five in the morning. Okay run have
some you know come Bucha whatever whatever their wife makes them
from Whole Foods
right or the housemaid in the shop at seven imagining himself to be
like doing us amazing work What are you doing you're buying and
selling stuff really?
But But this they say no more said they're more proud of their stuff
they work harder in their world than we work in our world. That's
where the source of the problem is.
That'll go for Raja Zima and you have 90 minutes with Fear and
Desire
they are the two ropes of the horse. Okay, that stop you from
bad edit What's the bad
you're sort of bored and not enthusiastic. What no desire. This
is the king you're talking to? You are talking to the king he has so
much have some desire, right? Get enthusiastic about things get
energized this you are dealing with the king or
too much confidence. Now Alaska food Rahim now we're starting to
flirt with sins and stuff. Fear have edit with fear. Oh, yes.
He's, he's merciful. But by the nature of things. Some people say
I cannot imagine a love for punishing me. Allah so generous to
me. He's so loving, and I love him. That's true. But he has
created pain attached to since Allah loves you so much. Does that
mean the fire doesn't burn you anymore? If you touch your hand on
the stove, you're still gonna get burned but not do with Allah loves
you or not. It's a system he created. Sins are attached to them
punishments. Bad things are attached to sense, right? Bad
things are attached to fire. Put your head under water, bad things
is gonna happen, right? It's just a create, it's created like that.
dude's gonna have the eyes you're gonna have some.
You know, there's there's two levels of the bad things that
happen. The first is the consequence of this and we all
suffer from that anybody can suffer from that. The second is
the actual Wrath of Allah subhanaw taala. And that comes with your
attitude. So yes, you may imagine yourself. I'm always trying to be
obedient to Allah and Good. I can't imagine his wrath come upon
you. Maybe, right. That's because you're making Toba and you try it
but when you commit sins if you were to drink out you're gonna get
drunk. Right bad things that you can have a car accident all sorts
of bad things happen and when you take Allah's for prohibitions
lightly the No Don't say that you love him. You're like, if you love
him you don't take it lightly. You love him not yourself. Right?
Okay
either out Aloha Hawaiian, I've done Alka who el interni, will Jif
Yanni sobre la death.
If Allah wills
to humiliate a Abt.
He makes it beloved to him.
The company of fools, he starts to love to keep the company of fools.
Is the fool somebody who just merely talks nonsense?
Or is the fool somebody who
doesn't understand the nature of this life?
Like a lot of these CEOs that people look up to that run these
companies, right? And spend all their life buying and selling.
Yeah, and you know, these guys, sometimes they have wisdom that
you listen to them like Dell, did they have wisdom? You can learn a
lot from the successful people but what can you learn of what Allah
says? Yeah, Allah Munna Vidal had to dunya Allah attributed to them
knowledge. He said they know. Yeah, the moon. He says, Yeah,
Allah moon. They know stuff. You can learn a ton from these guys.
But what is it, but it hides the dunya
for whom it will go to him? Well, if you don't, they're totally
unaware of the real thing that's about to happen. Right? The real
reality of what's about to happen. What would you think of somebody
who spends all their time on the high school basketball team knows
everything in and out on the all the basketball. The high school
teams knows how to play will win us the championship. Okay.
But he doesn't study. Right? You look at him and you're like,
alright, you peaked very early. You peaked in high school. You are
the champion High School. But but the moment we all grow
Graduate everyone's going to nice schools and get real educations
and real life starts to hit.
And where are you going?
You're not going anywhere. So that is a person. Yes, he knows
something, there's no doubt he achieved something, his jersey may
be hanging from the rafters and his name will be up on the most
points scored, and we'll have the championship will be in the
newspaper until senior year. Once you graduate, you're nothing, you
are a zero, right. And so that person is a full. So full is not
just somebody who talks nonsense and can't manage money. The Fool
is also someone who has no awareness of the ACA.
They're fools. You can learn a lot of from these people of the dunya.
And you should learn from them. Because we should know about the
ways of success more than their way it's more of our right because
we're going to do better with it. Than what are they going to do buy
yachts by planes? Right?
That's a panel every time I look at these people buying yachts
buying planes, but you can't change your aging process. Right?
Like what is the value of all this stuff? Some of you see these guys
6869 Oh, brand new yacht. Yeah, but you're like, once you get
brand new skin. Get brand new skin. Right? Get bread get a brand
new head of hair. Right? The stuff that Allah gave you, right? And
Allah takes it away. And you have no control over it. And they're
trying and it's getting it's experiments are not pretty. These
guys who transform like Sylvester Stallone, what are you doing? What
are you doing? Just age like a great grace they there's no way to
age gracefully.
Aging Gracefully is with spirituality. That's it. Aging
Gracefully is this you see this man? This is not this is not Aging
Gracefully. This is aging with sanctity. These are LDL Allah
aging with you didn't they didn't attain this because they wanted to
as a retirement hobby. They've been working towards this
the nearness to Allah this is the book we're going to read next
after
stories of the ollie up look at the shoe.
These are the shoes. Just look at the shoe. The dress like kings.
Look at him. We need to show the pictures also when we're doing it.
Can you get them when we do them up? Yeah. Where are we going to
nab them from Peter standards website? Single pages or just take
pictures? Yeah, just take pictures. Oh, look at this. Look,
that's how you age as a Muslim.
We're gonna make this next section quality. Yeah. Next though stories
of Allah
subhanaw taala. Then you got a guy 70 years old with a shirt off on a
yacht. And his shorts on.
Man. You bought all this? What is this for? You can't even enjoy it.
You're going to fall asleep. You're going to urinate in your
pants. You're so old. Right? You can't even enjoy it anymore. And
by the way, no women you paid for these women to be around you. No
one would want to cut touch that you know wrinkly bag of skin like
that.
But what to the WHAT TO THE Olia do
they live a whole nother life that Allah opens for them?
Heavy that life you have to work for it
we'll call up John Liu, a philosopher.
That first up is hanging. Thank you.
John Liu, Clawson washer rune Shara Shara who know fusi him and
Bissau open?
We're gonna tell him me gelada for ammo on Atari. What Listen, when
he says well, it dunya
and I'm all about succeeding in the dunya. But you guys seem to
occur to otherwise it's pointless. jarusa agilepm Claassen. Some
people they say they have bad manners. And they say, well, at
least we're telling the truth. Wherever plus, we just tell the
truth. We tell it how it is you think about it. We tell how it is.
Alright.
We're Sharon fusi him in BISAZZA is I think a typo here and
indulging their egos. They call it happiness. Okay, just having a
good time indulging their egos and their low desires for the ACA.
They call that strength, meaning I work 18 hour day. All you're
chasing is the dunya right? These guys aren't heroes. These are
idiots. Yeah, you may know something that we could learn
something from that we're gonna apply to maybe 10% of our life.
But you are an idiot. Okay? All these business moguls I know all
about them. Right? I studied all of them.
When you zoom out to know that there exists something called the
extra, all of your knowledge becomes like 2% importance you are
nothing but another idiot chasing the dunya right? Although within
that little realm you're at the top of the mountain they are
definitely at the top now they know stuff they figured stuff out.
But what did they figure out 50 years in comparison to eternity
now some of them of course, you know, they don't know any better I
know all that stuff. They don't know any better they never got the
dough. I know all this stuff. I'm just saying in general. Okay, so
he said all this has blinded them. Okay, and taking them into the
narrow straits. Fella Hyah 10 more fish away hit to him when these
people lovers of the dunya they never nothing good grows out of
their company. Okay, and nothing takes a lot of a bad it's a
purified them.
Okay.
If they speak it is only of this world.
Alright.
So he's speaking about those people who are knowingly seeking
out this dunya and avoiding the ACA. He's not talking about those
who don't know any better all that stuff. We're reading here from a
reset of course Adria and we're on the last page of reseller push
idea. Now, by the way, though, do not underestimate the dunya. You
must have some dunya. Okay, gotta have you gotta be good at the
dunya
whether you like it or not. PSE and G wants your money, the
electric company, the water company, the Islamic schools, the
colleges,
the inlaws.
The kids, the soccer team.
Okay, the latest sneaker fad that you don't want your kids to miss
out on. So they don't really you know, get a complex many people
think that if he misses out on the latest fad, he's gonna get a
complex. It's not gonna get a complex, right? He's gonna suck it
up. Sometimes you get sometimes you don't. Why do we underestimate
kids so much? Oh, if we don't give him every single thing he wants.
He's gonna have a complex. He's not have a complex. He's gonna
suck it up. One time you get one time you don't. Right, nine times
you get one time you don't find. How's that? Right.
Someone's saying they're Elon Musk. Elon Musk knows a lot, but
only of the dunya. He knows a lot about the dunya. See, that's the
thing. He knows a lot about the dunya.
And what is the dunya relative to actual existence? It's nothing.
It's a sliver. It's a little sliver.
One time he picked up a bucket and was he
okay passed by on the day of Joomla. A sharp cut while on the
way to the masjid.
His shoe strap, his sandals strap ripped. So the store owner he says
can I fix it for you?
For Karla asna first lattice says US US law and is not just good for
US law to shift our who. Alright, so I fixed it. For him. I fixed a
sandal strap. He said to me attend to the limo kata. She's unnati Do
you know why it was cut? Do you know why my sandals strap ripped
at this very moment? He said no. He said the antimatter sell to
little drama. I didn't take the whistle of drama.
Going for call to La sad. Ha ha Nahum memtest hollow. He said,
come into this bathroom. I have a hammam. I have a place that you
can take a shower in Sakala Nam for ethical to her human factors.
He said yes. I would love that. And he went in and he took a
course. So what does that tell him? Us? That's telling us that
that we don't look at what happens they look at why is this is this
happening in relation to my Deen of some sorts? It's happening for
a reason,
too. More biographies left. Mohamed wallrock he said men
aeroball Jawara Habesha whoever's pleases his body with desires got
us a physical body He shuddered at in the damnit. He plants in his
heart, the tree of regrets. What are the pleasures that you're
allowed to? To indulgent to pleasures that the opposite of it
would be haram.
So Zina is haram. wife has had a right husband has had that
pleasure is it a bad?
But just that so why the Prophet himself sort of Allahu alayhi wa
sallam said that you get rewarded when one of you goes to his wife,
and they said O Messenger of Allah, we enjoy it. We get
rewarded to he said do
You will not see if you had went into the Haram you would have got
sense. So likewise if you went to the hotel you get rewards. What
else? Are you allowed to indulge in the food of the righteous?
You're allowed to indulge in the cooking of righteous people. Okay,
those things were allowed to indulge in those things.
Well call a low kill lol.
Tama I meant to call a Shaco Phil marcador. If and if greed was
asked the question if you if you took greed and you asked the
question Who's your dad, he would have say, doubt about Allah, Allah
and doubt about Allah's promise to give us a disk. That's why the,
the Aqeedah of a Muslim is that there's no shortage of money.
There's no shortage of customers, there's no shortage of anything.
Whereas the aka of the the pure, only the one who believes only in
the scene worlds. His aka ADA is
his Arcade is what he sees only.
So that there is always a shortage, because he's his Arcade
is only what you see.
Right? Based upon what you see. That's the difference between us
and them. It's not materials is not the right word.
It's not the right words, not the Quranic language. We believe
everything has a material Baraka that comes down from the heavens
is a material, everything has a material. besides Allah, every
created thing has a level of material. The question is the
scene or the unseen?
Why are these these people these atheist materialist, what we call
the materialist, they limit what exists to what is seen. We say no,
no, there's unseen to there's a lot more. What's the difference
between us and them? They don't accept transmitted knowledge, we
accept transmitted knowledge, why don't they accept transmitted
knowledge? You can't blame them, because the Bible wasn't
transmitted properly. It wasn't preserved. So you can't blame them
for rejecting transmitted knowledge. Right?
But for us, the Quran was transmitted properly, right? So we
have no issues with that.
The Quran was transmitted properly, so we can accept the
Quran and the Hadith.
Okay.
If it was said, ma headford took if greed was asked, What is your
job? What is your trade? He said, I earn people humiliation, and
what's your purpose to provision to deprive them
next
Al Hussein Ibni has done here.
He was a scholar and a welder and he and he was from Armenia. Oh,
you know that Armenians hate Muslims. No. He's Armenian. He has
done here. How to all their names and
Armenians.
How to Armenians names Ent?
What's the main suffix that they have?
Ah, en. Yeah, en en is the main If you see anyone with the last name
of IA n. In their last name. That's Armenian.
Right.
Karla IACA and Tata ma fille uncIe Bill heeta Allah wanted to hobble
on Sabinus he said, Don't dare claim that you love to be alone
with Allah, while simultaneously loving and getting a kick out of
the company of people. Like owns the people's attention. Do you
like people's attention? It's taking away from your love of
Allah's attention. They cannot have both. It's one it's like
they're opposites. So loving people's attention is a big
problem these days in terms of social media,
and people see oh Michelle, I got five likes I got 10 likes I got
all this that and the other
guy
we can talk mafia biller wants to head will follow. Don't claim that
you love that you
love Allah when you are always going to access in everything.
Why are you going to access to fill a void? Oh hold on. You can't
claim this you love Allah. If you truly loved Allah that void will
be filled.
We can talk ma filmen Zilla tea and Allah wanted to Ableman Zilla
and doneness don't ever claim that you love a status with Allah. When
you crave the praise of people and the status of people. Lights, he's
saying why they're opposites. For heavy he will see you will see ya
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all right, let's go to the q&a
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You good?
I did have one general question about thinking about wealth and
distribution of wealth.
If there is a need and certain things,
and the consensus that there is a need for something, yeah.
And you talked about how you know, some people, particularly CEOs in
these spaces, they focus so much on the dunya there's a capitalist
bent to everything.
And there are a lot of Muslims who have a great amount of wealth.
Obviously, they can spend on what they want to spend on Yes,
permissible. But is there are they in the wrong if they don't help
those movements that
need to be filled? Are those efforts that need to be filled?
Because they just want to acquire more wealth? Or is it something
where it's they have a right to just do with the wealth as they
see fit. Now the wealthy will be harmed by their wealth if they
don't give sadaqa we can't say they're sinful, but they will
suffer an after effect, if all they do is pay their Zika they pay
their Zika and then they indulge in the dunya. So on the Day of
Judgment, nothing bad is happening in their book but they're creating
a scenario for themselves where bad things will happen including
they may be forced into some sinful behaviors you're creating
yourself a life and a situation and beasts around you your your
family, they will become beasts they will become these like
animals
spoiled rotten, and they will create for yourself a very bad
situation
typical mother never have fun. Now they're all messed up. But when
they but I've seen so many Muslims do it right? Like I know Muslims
that have
serious serious wealth. Like absurd wealth. They do it right.
You know that they're wealthy, but you don't know they're insanely
wealthy.
Alright.
Alright, q&a is opening up.
What are some practical ways modern Muslim men can find purpose
directly from the Quran? What is the purpose Allah gives us? start
obeying Allah starpha Following the Sharia, and your purpose will
open up for you. Okay, how do you interpret the Quran is command to
make ablution after touching women.
It means touching with pleasure. If pleasure is
is intended or derived
calendar system
the other two calendar system there's a Hijiri for arch or
religious dates and things that relate to the heavens and there
there can be you can use a solar calendar for that which relates to
business and they used to do that for farms obviously.
Everyone even Muslims in the past used to
use two calendars, one for their farming and one for the one for
the sun and one for the moon. Totally different ways of
measuring we have two ways of measuring what's worse alcohol or
pork alcohol because alcohol leads to loss of intellect which causes
you to do other bad things. Alcohol is always in a place that
is always surrounded by other sins porque
it's a rare sin for Muslims to commit because it's not an
addiction it's not an attraction. So it's rarely some it's not as
addictive that's why alcohol is worse definitely alcohol is worse
the Prophet himself said it is the mother of since
Mother meaning it's the source it causes you to do more since
sister has her father in law is on a dialysis and needs surgery My
Allah Tala Anna said a lot of the blah blah Salim and your sphere.
So Allah Allah the umbra, Bellagio, la the ministry and
Allahu La the Bellagio la them and yes, fear
is if someone has a daily word of la ilaha illa. Should they say
Muhammad Rasool Allah in between how often they can do La ilaha
illAllah Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that
is one of the DUA that the Habib said is the best possible La ilaha
illAllah Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu Newson?
What about the book kita the garden is one of the best books
it's by ma'am my
mama should have had that.
When you make dua for it is is is it falafel? If you specify the
dollar amount,
not if it's it's a debt against you. When it's a debt against you,
and I need to pay, let's say $500,000. And you ask Allah to
repayment of the debt, you need the $500,000 or lower, you're
gonna get $500,000 that's acceptable. It's not colorful. And
it's also not colorful. If that's all you want.
You say I want $500,000 to do certain things with it. Because I
calculated do I'm gonna buy a house then I'm gonna buy a car
that I'm going to pay a dowry. Right? And then I'll have enough
left for a little investment. Alright, so I need like $1.5
million. So it's okay to make a dua for that. Because you have,
you've calculated out a reason for that. That's fine.
Is it permissible to close the eyes while still praying Salah and
sujood it's my crew because it's the way of the Jews and Christians
major difference in Medicaid and Chef a meth hub since Scheffer, he
was medic student good question and simple answer to that is that
Malik used to say that after the Quran, the straw the Sunnah, is
composed of the motogadget Hadith, the Hadith that were very widely
spread. No one doubts those Hadith. The Prophet said it over
and over and over and over. And the second source of the Sunnah,
the Sunnah, is composed now of a second thing, which is called Amil
el Medina. Whatever the people and the scholars of Medina have agreed
upon, is more towards it. Which means it's so widespread, there's
no discussion about it. Like it's more to add to that to sunrises
from the east. There's no discussion on it. It's more to add
to that the Revolutionary War happened in 1776. No discussion
about that, right. So
that he said I'm an island Medina, what the what the Muslims all
publicly do as part of worship, how they pray, how they call the
event, their weights and measures, right the size of the mud, what
they were, they, the public religion of the PEEP of that every
Muslim does.
And the conclusions of the Medina and scholars who are children and
grandchildren of the companions, he said that is a reflection of
the Sunnah after the number three after that, is the sound Hadith.
That was not much about it. Sound hadith of like one or two chains
only
a chef or a Kim studied with Malik went to Iraq studied with the
students of Abu Hanifa
then started planning out his own conclusions and
His conclusion was, I disagree with medic on the Ahmed.
I find that it's not as uniform as he claims it to be.
They differed a lot more than what he claims and he wrote a book on
it. Okay. And so he removed Amil Ellen Medina from the methodology
from the definition of what constitutes the Sunnah of the
Prophet. He removed the Ahmed
and hence he goes from which a watch that hadith to non Water
Water sound Hadith. Remember to watch or is how far the Hadith
spread
had is that it was only transmitted by one or two Sahaba.
So this we call 100 Hadith solitary Hadith. Okay.
So that's the difference between the two. So the difference in them
is in the methodology, that's like the main difference.
Local man said, What about ruling touching reciting Quran while on a
dialysis
as long as you have to do being on the dialysis does not break the
what's the best way to attract the love of Allah is to be good to the
parents to be good to the vulnerable to be good to the poor.
Right? And to remember Allah much and simultaneously to avoid much
indulgence of the dunya.
What do we do if a members of the family
make fun of Islam in front of us?
Can we cut them off? Yes, you can make fun of Islam that's almost
close to apostasy, an act that really is hovering around
apostasy. Okay. And that is a permissible, permissible reason
not to talk to somebody.
If it's your mother and father, then you don't talk to them about
that. And you still be, you would still have to help them in the
matters of the dunya.
Okay,
what's the minimum amount of hair I can cut for ombre to be
complete? I think in the chef a school it's just one lock of hair.
But in the Hanafi and Maliki school, you have to cut a small
piece of every hair short and all of the hair.
Good. Next question. My daughter's Islamic school has implemented a
late fee for Miss tuition. Isn't the concept of a late fee a form
of Arabia it's invalid late fees are invalid.
There are invalid
clauses in contracts sinful
should we look up and hope or down in shame when making Toba? Either
whatever is your heart is inclining to at that time, Moab do
we have to believe Adam was actually 90 feet tall? No. Imam
medic did not accept that hadith. A medic said no.
But a chef a and others they transmitted it. I mean body,
others, they accept it.
They accept that.
People will call this grave worshipers. What do they say about
praying at the Kaaba?
Well, of course, their argument is that well we do what the Prophet
did at grave worshipers there could be monka as heavy as a
buckler. Aladdin, he said, Yeah, the Sufis have monka right.
There is monka wrong things happen by Sufis why but it's not shipped
because the prophets I sent him said my OMA will not suffer from
shidduch again, we will say sure, we can say it's monka we can say
sinful we can say bitter, we can say excesses, but it would not
remove you from Allah so nor would you be emotionally simple as they
are our brothers and Addison another update a sound and
everything is sound, but they may have some monka right in what they
do with the grave at the graves. He also said in that same video
and that same talk he said selfies a wonderful concept. would we not
want to be like the setup but you do it right? Or are you only
focusing on some a hadith and then being mean with the OMA? Okay.
Right? You're being gruff with OMA, is that the way of the self?
Okay.
What is going on? What is going on here? Let me read that. Okay, what
if our parents or children that are going into the wrong way they
are Muslim but is in cutting ties a bit harsh for people who love to
be together in Jannah? In sha Allah says massive Matt, Sita,
Misty, the answer to that is that you should not be overconfident
about your own Islam and you should follow the Sharia. When in
so far when people mock the religion of Allah, Allah Himself
commands us to stay away from them. Let me do Coleman you are
doing them and had the louder sooner. Well, okay.
Okay, you will not find believers loving
and having good, friendly, nice relations with those who are open
adversaries to God and His Prophet. Allah knows better than
us, we can get affected by that. Do not assume you're immune. And
you are offending Allah by that. So if a if a person calls your
mother a sloth
and your daughter a little horror,
oh, he's still family, let's still be around him, or is that
relationship cut right away? Tell me the truth. That relationship is
done with, right? Until you apologize. But okay, yes, he still
believes, you know, he called my daughter's like this or that and
my mom's like this or that. But you know, this a family let's keep
together. No, you're not taking into account that Allah is angered
by the one who mocks His Prophet in his religion.
And who angers and who mocks him, because he's the source of all
life and all goodness. So that's one aspect. The second aspect is
that
if you truly love to be together, and Janna and you love them, then
you will stop them as fast as possible.
If you had a baby, two year old baby doesn't know any better
walking right towards
the steps of the basement. And you know, these basement steps
unfinished basement steps are tough, rough bottom is concrete.
Don't you do anything it takes to stop this from happening even if
it means diving and pushing him away, and he hits his head and he
cries. But that's far better than going down the steps and maybe
cracking his head.
You stop it at any way shape or form immediately
if you truly claimed that we want to love each other and be together
and then stop it immediately.
And we're the way to stop it immediately. Allah is telling us
we're done with we have no relationship if this continues.
That's how you stop that immediately. Not let them indulge
in poisoned Glug, glug, glug, glug on the poison and you were looking
mashallah, we're a good family. We'd like to be each other. May
Allah help him? No, he stopped immediately. Right? And if he
pushes you back, you punch him. And if he punches you back, you
get a broom stick. You all saw that? That clip
of that guy who was robbing stuff.
And those Hindu guys come with the broomstick, right? If he pushed if
he's insisting glugging down poison, right? It's not poison,
it's good. All right, you stop him by any means. So you don't sit
there watching. But the difference is we haven't Malcador Allah Kadri
we have we have realized the extent the magnitude of Islam and
the magnitude of Allah and His messenger
and and how going against them is worse than downing poison.
It is 10 times worse than someone downing poison or a baby falling
off the steps into the basement. It's it's your life will be
altered, permanent alteration if we go that route,
that is Cooper that is essentially wage war with Alon his message.
And I'd like to hear that person's thoughts after that.
All right. Malcador Allah but they don't realize how huge it is what
they're doing. And many Muslims that when they accept it, it's
only because they don't realize like you're actually just those
are fighting words with the heavens. Right? The angels are
cursing you now everything about you is going to be cursed wars
being waged on you
keep going down
alright, here's another question what
keeps going down other way other way? Hmm no other way Yeah. Keep
going down.
Keep going down.
We did this okay.
Did the Prophet ever divorce any of his wives? Yes, he did.
All right, how do you balance between being detached from the
dunya the good and the bad that happens to you and wanting to have
a good dunya for your family? And to be able to give that up?
You separate between what is for me, and what is for them?
Okay. And so for example, detachment of the dunya as long as
you're not the dunya is not causing you to leave off your a
bad and your deen then you are detached from the dunya you're
you're detached to a to a sound and workable degree. Right? We're
not talking to the detachment of those who had who, when he
desired, a type of date. He denied
had him himself that date for 30 years.
Those are another level those are like the body builders of
spirituality. They're another level, we need a workable
we need a workable
detachment. So what is my A bad? My obligations and my Neville?
Some people have a level of nephila that they always do. As
long as my dunya seeking the dunya does not take me away from that.
Awesome, good to go. What about what people say about us and
stuff? All right. How do I measure that? What are you doing? Let's
say I'm running a charity operation.
Alright, if people praise you, okay, do you take your foot off
the pedal?
If yes, that means you're affected by it.
Right? You like you got what you wanted? If people criticize you,
do you pack the shop, pack it up and go home? Or do you show up
next day and still do it? So you, you prove by your actions that
you're not affected? And that is how we measure if our attachment
is sound, or it's on sound? So it's not, although it's something
inside it has an external scoreboard? That's how we measure
it.
If my Arabic is not good, well, Celebi accepted Yes, as long as
you pronounce it closely to the correct pronunciation.
How do you deal with living in a community that is not upon the
same message year upon? Join them in what is acceptable and what is
in agreement with us? And don't join them in what is not. And
don't argue, speak about only what you agree upon. FTX says, Good
theater book I again my philosophy on theater books, buy all of them
and read all of them. Because what one covers will the other will not
cover and so on. So one may cover a lot. But if you have bad style,
one might have a great style, but not cover a lot. Right? And you'll
get to see where the mistakes are, too. All right, what was that one?
What should I say to my sister?
What should I say to my sister who's losing faith and living a
haram lifestyle? It's tough situation. But mainly you don't
want to talk a lot. You want to expose her to a new friend group
somehow. Right? That's what that's really what you want to do. All
right, where are we at on launch? Good. The question is asking, we
are at 12,660 $688. What are we doing on automata? For youth,
we're trying to send these young people
to camera in the wintertime when that's the only time really high
schoolers can go in a moderate temperature.
Okay, because you don't you can't underestimate the heat. And if
you're not used to the heat, and you take some high schoolers,
they're from America, they're, they really won't benefit that
much. They will be really suffering, right? So we want to
try to take them in the wintertime, but it's very
expensive. So we're slashing $1,300 off of all, J. Our off of
all the ometer packages. Okay? And then we are if you want to see
what we all look like after we shaved our heads, um, they're
right in the middle there with the shaved head at the top and then at
the bottom there. Alright, you can see the before and after. Right?
And we're at 12 688 and all ask people is their Penny? pennies,
coins, nickels, dimes. The least you could do as $1 According to
launch goods, so $1.01 Okay, that's all we're asking people to
just nickel and dime here and there. Right. Dink and dunk and
we'll get our way to $25,000 That's what we're going to $25,000
Yeah.
You can All right, next question.
What are the guidelines and conditions for following an
opinion in the Maliki school that is not mature it's hardship. If
you find difficulty in following the mature then you may follow the
weaker opinion okay.
If it's if you find a Chaka
Chaka is the next level down so the Rura Life and Death Hajra loss
of limb like losing a limb or being homeless like life will
fully altered machaca is the next level. It's just hardship. It's
like a hassle. Right? unnecessary hassle that will allow you to take
the lesser opinion.
Does a woman need to cover her head if she's making Vicodin,
private? It's better but it's not necessary but it's better to do
so.
Okay, what's the proof of that is that more angels come when the
head is covered? When Gibreel on a sitcom came to say to Khadija she
had some knowledge about angels. She uncovered her hair. He left
She covered her hair he came so there they say that if you want to
attract more angels, you cover your hair.
But of course with Allah is going to be accepted and valid. No doubt
no difference. Do you have any plans
I'm visiting South Africa. I want to visit all these lands,
countries of Muslims, South Africa.
What else is the one that we haven't gotten to yet?
While Toronto, Dallas?
What else? Singapore and Malaysia and Indonesia?
Earlier ban? I don't know what I'm going to do there, though, who's
going to translate for me? How many people are going to be there?
In Japan? I'll go to Japan, I'll sit in one mosque, and I'll do a
one week intensive.
Will go Yeah. But the key would be to what is better to sit in one
masjid and sit with them for a long period of time? Or to bounce
and go to like, 10 different massages?
Yeah,
that's true. Do you gotta go more than once to have an impact? It's
certainly a good place for a Taliban and Hijra. The answer is
yes. And you have to go. Alright, some of the answers. Yes. And we
have our guy there. We got our correspondent there. If you want
to you send a message to info Safina site.org. And we'll connect
you to him
or all of the Hadith. And then what up Mottola to I don't know
about mucho answer, but they're very they're all solid and strong
and widely known Hadith. But I cannot tell you that every single
one is Mottola today in itself. Hey, oh my
almost spot. Is it ready for us to to share stuff?
is celebrating the mole at a manually a bidder? Yes. A good
bitter? No, it's not even a bitter, it's permissible. It falls
under Is it permissible? It can be it's a permissible thing. It can
be rewarded. How is that all celebrations fall under the
category of what you're celebrating and how you celebrate
it. So there's not a single scholar in Islam that says
celebration is haram. They all said it's about what you celebrate
and how you celebrate. So what is being celebrated in the moment?
The prophets is done that Allah made him our Prophet that he came
into this world. Okay, everything about him. That's the subject How
is it being celebrated by going to the masjid by singing because he
does by making dua by doing that
by feeding people, so you get rewarded for those things. So
overall, it's a rewardable. Okay.
Bidda
Okay,
next question. This is not a hippie question. But why are
Qadiani so active nowadays? My uncle had a Kalyani follow him
home from a restaurant tried to invite him to his cult.
They're not even Muslim, give them Tao.
Qadiani believes in prophethood after the prophets of the Lord he
said
If My Arabic is not good, will Salah be accepted? We answered
that one yes, it will be as long as the
the Arabic the Quran is recognizable what you're reciting
any blessings in money made from cooking haram? Nope. That money.
You have to give it away and it's not going to be charity. just
unload it. How do I unload it? You unload it for other people to
benefit from something dirty. For example, toilet paper for the
mosque. That's what you do. Let's say I made a sale through an
unlawful item that I sold. Right? I came upon a bottle of wine in
the streets. I sold it. I got back, I don't know. 100 bucks.
Right. So what do I do with that? $100 I go and I order toilet paper
with $100 from Amazon.
Okay.
Or I physically buy it from the store. Okay.
And then I go to the masjid and I drop it off there something that
will be used for dirtiness.
is a bit have made a big deal since America is technically a
Christian country.
Since we're getting technical, please inform us where it says
it's a Christian country.
That's number one. And secondly,
where does it ever say I'm not saying you really to this person
but where you got that information? Where does it say
that we may eat the food of a country? Does the country produce
food or do private companies produce food? Who produces the
food?
I never seen the US government
meant
Christian slaughterhouse. No Tyson's makes chicken. Different
companies make chicken right?
Released chicken to the population. So the concept of
Christian country is a mistake that was promoted by
your own what's his name? Osman hacking.
Masha Allah, he's a really nice brother. And he has some knowledge
but he has a lot of mistakes too. And we have to say
that that is a mistake. Okay.
That's a mistake. So we say about that. It's not really good
to that he released that festival because firstly, you didn't even
live here. Secondly, all right.
All right.
Where is it say America is a Christian country
thirdly, the countries don't produce chicken people produce
chicken people slaughter chicken. Right? People are the one who
slaughter this stuff
and plays it safe and they just stay away from
stay safe. No, that's excessive. Yeah, that's excessive. Nobody
does it and all of that don't do that. She looked down to that they
eat the meat and the chicken that Muslim says hello. And the thing
is that if you want to
it is important because Allah has commanded that the slaughter that
the meat has to be slaughtered. That means the vein has to be cut.
A Christian can do it a Muslim could do or a Jew can do it. But
you have to ensure that the the vein is cut. That is the key. The
jugular vein is cut
in the shaft a school it's only three hairs that has to be cut for
ombre Okay, thank you for that. Can shaytaan take a form very
close to the form of the Prophet in our dreams to trick us? No, I
don't think believe so. Cannot take the form of the prophet or
anything close to it as long as bests.
Okay.
Even if the current of America was a Christian country, they negated
their Christianity by loving the liquid to kill us. They did rid of
Christianity.
Last question, regarding being a picky eater, some autistic people,
people struggle to eat foods of certain textures and struggle with
certain smells.
Is that wrong? For them? I think they have a different judgment.
And Allah knows best they may have a different judgment. But let's
also take into consideration there's a whole new generation of
no offense but moms. That inculcate in their child the love
of allergies.
Right. And I call you know, the they they just believe in it. More
so then it's like a fact. Right? One little thing happened. Maybe
you're allergic, right? And then it gets in his head and now he
gets actually gets a reaction. Right. But it's psychosomatic at
some point. But you see that there is a culture among some moms. It's
a whole culture. It's a whole hypochondria type. What are they?
Aren't they called that? Or look it up hypochondriac. were
obsessed with sicknesses. And allergies, right? are filled with
medicine. Yes. And you have attention deficit. You have this,
you have this. Don't dare to eat this. And they have saran wrap the
kid's life. Right? And he cannot breathe. Alright.
It's something that people mock all the time because it's the
comedians have caught on to it because it's actually something
that
we all see in society. And you see these kids, they never turn out,
right? That'll turn out good. They turn out extremely, extremely
fragile, and made fun of by the other kids.
made fun of by the other kids. Absolutely mocked. What's wrong
with you, man?
COVID COVID I think baited a lot of these people out. Yeah, like
after the pandemic ended whoever was still like going crazy with
the masks and stuff. Yeah. So you can tell you can tell. Like, why
are you still wearing a mask? Like yeah, and I know some people were
still wearing a mask. I'm talking weeks ago, right? And I'm telling
you that allergies Yeah. I have one or two allergies here in
there. Right? But laundry lists, write lists, to the point that
they never sit with us they don't like and now it's like something's
wrong here. It's kind of productive because like our immune
systems are built so that the more you're exposed to it, the stronger
you become Thank you. The more you're exposed to things as long
as it's not toxic, like spray or something right. You know, this
spray all over the floors. That's the difference right? There's a
difference between a man made
The chemicals and actual natural stuff out there. And the more you
expose, logically, the stronger your immune system gets. Do you
know that boogers strengthen your immune system? And kids are always
there, boogers are entering their mouth. And then they eat their
boogers. There's probably some wisdom behind that, right? You
look at little kid and he'll be playing for an hour with the snot
coming down into his mouth. And he's licking, right? He's just
licking. He has no clue. Right? Going at it now. Subhanallah after
all, that time, Allah has the wisdom in that it strengthens his
immune system. Okay. And the position of the buggers? Exactly,
it automatically automatically goes down. If it was nudges or
something, look where the Ninja is down, right? Then the Jazz is all
down in the human body. The boogers is here, right? So it's
naturally like meant to come down for children. Right? And the
children gets stronger from them. Right and eating food off of the
grass or off the floor. As long as you don't know that there's some
toxic manmade thing there either off the ground, not five second
rule. Five days, five weeks, right?
I know I'm sure, I'm sure. But those are those are some methods.
Those are my own. Everyone's got their own. What did they call
them? Like? grandma's old techniques? Right? I got my own
techniques. Right? Get grimy. early in life. You have a better
immune system. Right? The old generation like they wouldn't be
sick.
Shouldn't be bedridden. Yep.
They move right.
Take a day off. Yeah.
I don't know what a day office. They don't know what a day office.
No, I call the peanut gallery generation to tell me I told you I
had practice the other day and one kid is lagging behind. But what
are you what's wrong with you now? Every time it's time to run? Oh, I
have this. My kneecap is that my ankles? This I was like Okay, tell
me what else peanut allergy ADHD? What's up with you? Right?
Listen, if we get invaded, orange shovel. We are if there's ever a
ground, put my hands up force again against the United States,
anytime in the next 10 years. And we gotta rely on some of these
kids. Oh, the guys are gonna be in the trenches and gets the food
daddy in three days. He's gonna read the ingredients. Can't eat
this is a peanut allergy.
Oh, my kid's gonna like shoot like it's called Daddy.
Oh, yeah, they're gonna have that. Oh, dang. We're gonna go to war.
They're gonna give him a gun. None of my mom said no.
My guess. Anyway, I'm just messing around with these people.
I said I was a gym teacher. Literally everyone. I had one girl
who were constantly making excuses. I have cramps the whole
semester. I'm telling you. Right. And not only that, you insult
everybody. These people with allergies and the fake allergies
and the different the different pickiness about the food I'm I'm
sugar free. You just came to someone's house. They made you a
cake. Eat it. Um sugar free, sugar free. Right there sugar
everywhere. You can't be sugar free. We Muslims don't offend
people.
Good no matter what you have, unless you have an I'm telling you
like the actual true percentage of allergies has to be you know,
like,
probably like one out of 20 friends you have has one legit
allergy. Right? That's that's average. Not every single kid has
an allergy. The kids I would say I want to hire if I ran a school. I
would go and hire correctional officers from jail right from
prison. former military COMM And I give you an hour a day with these
kids whip him into shape. Running push ups. I don't want to hear a
word out of you. Not my kneecap is is I was born with a high kneecap
low kneecap. I got a cramp. Nah, toughen up
with love of course. Listen according to this person, you know
Russia all they need to destroy America. Come on America with some
peanuts. sneak some peanuts in the food that's it you know it's like
a guilty pleasure of mankind that like yes, you know that show? Be
honest here Scared Straight. Never heard of No. Oh, come on. You know
this. No. Never heard.
It's like the really bad kids program. So that like, Oh, that
one. They take him in the prison. Yeah, like insulted by the
prisoners.
And the guards like, Oh, you want to be bad and awesome. It's free
for the it's entertainment for the prisoners. Right? And it scares
the lights out of the kids. I love that. Yes, that's right.
Please don't offend people who legitimately suffer from ADHD
autism. Autism is something else. That's like we're not touching
that right? Because that's a real thing. But I'll
A lot of the stuff you have to you have to recognize to a lot of the
stuff is okay. It's really brought up upon by talking it up. It's a
lot of it's psychosomatic, I guarantee you guaranteed a lot of
it, not all of it. But where's the limit? Probably it's a fuzzy
limit, we can say. But I'm telling you, there are families with
cultures of this. It is a family culture.
It is part of the tibia, it's awkward and belief. It's a
sincerely held tightly grasped belief, in sicknesses, and in
allergies. Right. And in every possible thing that could be out
there diagnosis, luxury diet, what are they like? What is it called
the customisable diagnosis?
of stuff that really we can't see it? Where's the proof? Where's the
evidence for this stuff? Right? A lot of it anyway, not I'm not no
one's offended here. No, because you understand, like, what we're
saying there's a big difference between something that is a clear
mental illness and something that's like,
a customized, you know, what's the word for it? You know, you know,
diagnosis that it's like, really, where is it? Where is the proof of
this?
You shouldn't look, the parent shouldn't make an excuse for the
kid. Like, I can't do this, because it shouldn't be looked at
the other way. We're like, okay, ah, let me use it in a positive
like, yeah, get out. Exactly. Let's overcome it as a crutch.
Yeah, let's overcome it. Now, by the way, I'm not saying that this
stuff doesn't exist. Most of the foods that we eat are probably
killing us. That's the truth. And we don't even know it. It's
causing skin disorders, rashes, terrible intestinal stuff. But
what are you gonna do with it?
How is she going to combat this? There are best says designer
diagnosis.
That's what it is. There's a lot of designer diagnoses out there.
That which does not, is not supported by hard factual
evidence. It's just an explanation of or attempted theory. But is it
used as a crutch? Or is it something I'm going to get over?
Okay, because if it's something I'm going to get over the reaction
to it is I'm not going to go around telling everybody, right?
I'm not going to repeat it 10 times a day that I have this I
have this I have that.
I'm not going to talk about, right. And I'm going to actually
overcome it. All right. All right, ladies and gentlemen.
We got to run does that come along later on Subhanak Allah whom OB
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