Shadee Elmasry – Stop Arguing! Let the Angel Respond on Your Behalf.

And that's what you see from the Companions, Abu Bakar has to do. A

man was haranguing him in the mosque of the Prophet after one of

the prayers, and Abubaker just sat there and the Prophet was smiling

at him. Then Abubaker answered back, when a robot could answered

back the Prophet Godot, the Prophet left Abubaker said, Why

would you leave your friend at this time? And the messenger

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, when someone, harangues a Muslim,

the angels defend him. But when you answer back now, it's an

argument, the devil's come and the angels leave. So when you argue

for your own self, okay? When you're arguing for your own self,

the devil's come in, when you're arguing for the religion the

angels come in, that's a difference. So you would we should

prioritize someone who deviates from God and His Prophet,

knowingly, not accidentally, we should have common sense and mercy

to you don't take someone from a non religious background 100% and

judge them on somebody who's born and raised with Sheila. Right? I

always have to tell my kids this all the time as part of the

education of religious people in this day and age. Keep in mind you

have a foundation that not everyone else has so don't be

hasty when you see another Muslim doing something that you know it's

not right but you don't be hasty with them and look ever look down

on somebody like that you can look down on the thing I know that's

wrong. But I'm

going to keep in mind their background. Okay, some people I

know them there they when they walk in the mosque, I was like,

What the heck is this have some like, they're allowed, they may

not be dressed appropriately, all these are the things

they say come in the message. I was like, What is going on with

this person? They got know.

A dab of the Masjid. But I know their background. Right? Their

background, this is is almost a borderline miracle. That's you see

it from that background. That they're coming to the masjid like

this. That's almost borderline like a miracle from Allah. The

fact that even stepping in the mosque, there was a man who made

Hajj

is about 67 years old. He was such a headache, the entire Hajj,

Lebanese Arab guy, right.

And my dad was on that hedge. And he just told everybody stop, let

him do whatever he wants.

He ended up not being able to fulfill the hedge

couldn't fulfill the hedge. He couldn't do it. He's like, I can't

this is too crazy. Everything about this, screw this. I can't do

this. Right. And he was so unreasonable and insane. Like he

went to him was Delica everyone was picking up the pebbles, right?

He's like,

Hey, guys, I have a business idea. Why don't we make

a vending machine that pulls out the pebbles was like, Are you

insane? is

not the time for this. Now, why did

this man my dad was advocate he would tell the 100 group leave him

alone. Don't say a word. This Lebanese men

was a Christian. His whole life. He converted to Islam at the age

of 65.

Do you know how rare that is? For a Lebanese Christian? They despise

Muslims. Well, though they like the dancing Muslims, the Muslims

at the club scenes that's fun. But they'll never become a Muslim.

It's so rare that you become Muslim.

So he he comes to 65 with all these crazy habits of his but he

fell in love without deposits. He listened to Quran day and night

became a Muslim. Okay.

Two years later, he wants to make Hajj he can't do it. Right.

You can't really expect him to because he was very obese and hajj

when you're with heavy. It's tough.

And at that time, it was hot.

Well, he came back

and he died three weeks later.

Right? So be very mindful of the non religious person who is

innocently not religious, innocently committing sins. This

is the big difference between us and many other conservative

groups. Conservative meaning like what's a half of badeen truly,

truly trying to preserve the religion. Not mincing words, not

cutting corners in religion. But we have to do it with mercy

because you got to look at people's contexts. He broke his

heads. That's one of the worst deeds you could do you know that

breaking your Hutch because I can't do this at home anymore. My

thighs are destroyed. I take a shower

Great and he's a businessman. They're always clean, proper,

sharp, well off. He died three weeks after he came back.

But the whole thing for him to become Muslim, go to Mecca go to

Medina, even if he failed his hedge,

okay? It's like a miracle, the fact that he and do you know how

much he had to fight his kids, his family, his ex wife? He had, he

had a Lebanese Christian wife with kids. He divorced her married a

non Arab woman. Right.

And, you know, there was more freedom for him to become a Muslim

with her, shouldn't she to really care?

Sometimes you'd see a thing that looks so

bad, but it's actually so good.

So be very mindful when we talk about leaving off sinners. How we

do it got to be very careful this part

of the application of the law, there's a law and there's an

application, that's public centers, that innovators