Shadee Elmasry – Pakistan Fiasco – NBF 404
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The speakers discuss various cultural and political settings related to "med strict" and its use in various settings, including marriage and family members. They stress the importance of avoiding shame and ego in various cultural settings and emphasize the importance of cultivating love in modern Muslim households and human teachers. The conversation includes tips on language and language support, and briefly touches on a man who may help with marriage and a wedding. The speakers also mention a book and a GRT event.
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Bismillah ar-Rahman ar-Rahim.
Alhamdulillah wa salatu wa salamu ala Rasulullah wa
ala alihi wa sahbihi wa man wala.
Welcome everybody to the Safini Sa'idi, nothing
but facts live stream on a Wednesday.
Beautiful day actually.
Crisp autumn day.
One day off from the break that everyone's
going to be taking.
And today we have the soup kitchen.
We got the dinner at six o'clock.
All the set up starts at five o
'clock.
And this is the dinner that we inshallah
plan on having seven days a week before
the year 2030.
It may happen way before that and it
may happen at that time.
But that's the goal, seven days a week.
This place will be busy, action.
And we're at the third story, the third
floor of this house.
That's where the soup kitchen, that's where the
studio is.
Second story, living quarters for people.
First story is split.
People live in one half and then our
soup kitchen's the other half.
Then we have a basement for there for
storage.
And then we have another basement which is
being built out and will soon, hopefully by
one month, be approved for tenants by the
city.
We're going by the book.
We're not doing, we don't do this illegal
stuff and then you feel nervous all the
time that anything could happen, any little thing
could happen and then you get audited and
then you get all messed up.
So we're going official.
It's one of the prettiest basement apartments and
four students will live there.
I mean it's tiled.
There's like, you know, that brushed gold look,
all light colors.
And four guys will live there and that
will be revenue for the soup kitchen, right?
Four guys will live there inshallah.
And you're an hour off from Bob Wood.
That means if one of them is a
resident, I want a resident.
You know why I want a medical resident?
All they do is sleep, eat, take a
shower and go back for another 20 hours
or something, 18 hours or 36 hours into
the, I don't want them in the building.
I don't want them making a mess.
I don't want, you know what I'm not
going to take?
Political science students, liberal arts students.
You know why?
Because they're not doing anything.
They're going to sit home all day and
have parties and have their friends over.
No, I want people who are busy.
They're the people who don't mess up the
apartment, right?
I want a bio major, right?
IT engineering, I don't think they study, right?
They don't really study.
But maybe, I'd say that they're 50-50.
But I would really want a medical resident,
maybe a nurse, maybe one of these new
positions.
Is it me or every decade there's like
a new layer?
It used to be you had doctors and
you had nurses.
Now there's a doctor, nurse practitioner.
What is that?
What's the difference between a nurse practitioner and
a nurse?
Then there's physician's assistant.
What is the difference between that and a
nurse?
I'm sure there is a difference, I just
don't know it, right?
What is the difference?
Why are all these layers?
In any event, whatever they are, those are
the people I want.
We're a mile off.
That means you could walk in the summer
after work.
You could take your car and be there
in literally 60 seconds.
I get to Bob Wood in 60 seconds.
So that's what we're looking for.
And the community has put this together, by
the way.
It's this community here at the live stream
at Nothing But Facts.
And all these guys are the ones who
put this, plus our donors here at New
Brunswick.
At the Masjid.
They're the ones who put this house together.
But I promise them one thing.
We do not use the funds that you
raise for programming.
We don't use it for that.
We use it for assets.
Building out this apartment.
Then I want to ask this tenant to
move.
Now they see the tenant downstairs, we have
a good relationship.
The tenant upstairs, not good, not bad.
You know when a tenant passes you by
and he doesn't say hello?
I'm done with you.
You don't have akhlaq.
I have no reason now to be nice
to you.
Now the guy downstairs, also equally was hesitant
about us.
But he has basics, like he smiles.
So I'm going to be very nice to
him.
So this tenant up here, yeah, the lady
is good.
But the son, I don't know if it's
the son or the nephew.
There's thousands of people living there.
There's new people living there every day.
But one of them always comes.
He knows me.
He sees me.
And you just walked by and you didn't
even say hello.
Not even hola.
And he's like a cool guy too.
He's not a mesquite.
This tenant is not a mesquite.
He's a gym buff.
I think he's a physical trainer.
But you're actually going to walk down the
steps.
I'm coming up the steps.
And you're not going to say hey, hello,
after I said hello.
So I'm done with you.
You know what I'm going to do with
him?
You're not getting that extra mile that a
landlord can go with a tenant.
Simple as that.
That's why you've got to be nice in
life.
You've got to know how to act.
Because people don't have to deal with you.
So when it's an at-will decision and
I have to make a call one way
or the other, then I know how to
make the call.
And I'm not going to do it.
So I've already asked them, come on, let's
go on.
I want you to leave.
Because I want to house hack that one
too.
I want to refurbish that and hack it
to a bunch of people working in the
hospital.
Because you get more rent out of that.
I'm trying to break it down apartment per
meal.
Like how many apartments, how much rent produces
for us a dinner.
And that's how you mathematically do it.
That if we have this many tenants, we
have this much rent, we could do three
dinners a week.
If we did this much, we could do
five a week.
So on and so forth.
That's how it works.
Okay.
Excuse me.
I just coughed in your face.
Let's go to the dua.
Ali, what's happening?
All right, so we have Ali from East
Orange.
No, no, no, Newark.
Newark.
Sean from Woodbridge.
He's supporting the W.
Parlin, which is a little under Newark.
And then we have Taha.
And then we have?
Ryan from Edison.
We got the Edison crew here.
Let's go to the dhikr.
Let's do, inshallah, a few minutes of dua.
All right, ladies and gentlemen.
First order of business is we're going to
change this color because right now we're about
to talk about Pakistan.
All right, come on, my moment here.
Here we go.
Ready?
Let's try again.
There we go.
Now we can talk about Pakistan.
I'm taking this like sort of a joking
matter because I really don't know what's going
on.
I should probably not joke about it, but
what is going on in Pakistan?
Why is it?
Hey, you're into Pakistani politics.
All right, come with.
Come with and speak it and tell us
what exactly, why am I getting messages?
How could you possibly stream without talking about
Pakistan as if a calamity or crisis occurred?
I don't know.
Now we're going to know.
All right, so what's going on in stand?
On a watch, right?
Watch gate over a watch.
Of course, it's all nonsense, right?
Yeah.
Okay.
I just saw a video this morning.
There was a guy preying on a trailer
and the cops or like the military people
just threw him off as he was like
in his position.
So it just goes to show you.
So there's like a massive.
Now the difference between Bangladesh and Pakistan why
Bangladesh was successful because it was more of
a political outage versus a military outage in
Pakistan.
Military controls Pakistan politics under the guise of
democracy.
So let me ask you a question.
So these guys look at SHQ was like,
how do you not know what's going on?
That's how every nationality thinks when there's a
coup in their country.
I'm sorry, having a coup in Pakistan isn't
really news, right?
And this isn't even a coup, but.
Okay, check this out.
I haven't publicized it.
But now listen to this.
So essentially the Imran Khan's party went to
protest his fake imprisonment, which from what I
read, it's fake, right?
They made up stuff.
And then they opened fire on them.
And how many did those guys go armed?
No, his people, they're not armed.
They're peaceful types.
Okay, and.
And then they fired on them and killed
how many?
150, they killed 150 and dispersed the whole
thing.
And it's done for.
Everyone went home?
Are they pitching tents?
Palmer, put pictures up.
Okay, let's read it.
Imprisoned former Prime Minister Imran Khan has urged
his supporters to fight to the end.
Yeah, I like that.
Yeah, he has so much supporters they could
just walk on January 6th the whole operation,
right?
Just walk on the Capitol and January 6th
the thing, right?
Walk on the Capitol.
He has so many followers.
I'll tell you what the problem is.
His followers are the educated latte types.
These kids can't do anything.
They can't do anything, right?
Yeah.
Okay, but don't.
So wait, you got the fat cats who
are the business elites.
Those are not with him.
But the new generation Westernized speak perfect English,
right?
And drink lattes.
They love him, right?
But they're useless, those people.
That's the established money, right?
They don't believe in it.
There's an elite class.
There's a poor class.
But then there's this Westernized swath.
The hip class.
The Westernized class is the elite.
They don't like him, okay.
Alright, so I mean in that case they
should go out there and go off and
march.
And that's what he's encouraging them to do.
Alright, let's sit and read here for this
hard-hitting analysis on what's happening from Pakistan
from myself, yours truly, an Egyptian.
Alright, security forces on Tuesday not that I
know anything about Egypt either.
Security forces on Tuesday clashed with supporters of
Khan's Pakistan Pakistan Tahrik al-Insaf which is
action and justice, correct?
Tahrik al-Insaf They broke through barriers They
marched towards the center of the lockdown capital
Islamabad to stage a sit-in.
The protesters are demanding the return of what
they call a stolen mandate.
Why are they doing this now after all
this time?
It's been a long time.
But it was a false election.
And the current government, they try to do
all these tactics to eliminate whether it's replacing
the ballot system and all this kind of
other stuff.
Overall, the overwhelming majority of Pakistanis First of
all, to get Pakistanis Omar, is your mic
on?
To get Pakistanis to come out and vote
is a big thing.
So now the fact that there was an
overwhelming majority of people who were actually just
tired of this current situation and went out
to vote against the current establishment of vote
for PTI and Imran Khan showed that Imran
Khan had some support so now they added
more allegations to his imprisonment charge.
You've been part of PSA, right?
No.
I don't do that.
PSA, I'll tell you why it's fake.
Every president of the PSA at Rutgers has
finished his term.
You're not real Pakistanis at that point, right?
You cannot finish your term if you're a
Pakistani president.
So here's my suggestion for the PSA.
To make it truly the Desi Pakistani experience,
there should be a secret and you get
an alumni, he chooses two secret people.
And these secret people, they can do things.
No one knows who they are.
Such as, for example, you know Model United
Nations?
Model United Nations they wake you up at
like 12 midnight and they say, hold on,
president of France has been killed, right?
Then you have to come and chaos, right?
That's what the PSA should be like.
There should be two people who select, who
are the agents of chaos.
Nobody knows who they are.
But they get to make an announcement at
any random time, right?
There's been a coup.
The treasurer is now the president, right?
And the president is now, and then you
have to have PSA meetings to figure what's
going on.
This is far more representative of the Pakistani
experience.
Okay, so the protesters are demanding the return
of what they call the stolen mandate.
And the government in the meantime is calling
for the army to implement law and order.
Imran Khan, posting on social media, how's he
posting in jail, but forget that, to remain
peaceful and united.
And saying their struggle is for survival and
true freedom.
As tension rose, the government dismissed prospects of
further dialogue with PTI and accused Khan's wife,
Bushra Bibi, of orchestrating unrest.
Now, you know the saying, if you shoot
at the king, you better hit, you better
kill.
You know that saying?
Same thing here.
If you're going to do this, you better,
this better work.
Because now, his prison sentence probably just got
50 years longer.
Right?
The loss of life and economic damage over
the past few days lies squarely on one
person's shoulder, says Minister Mohsin Naqvi.
She is wholly responsible for this chaos.
Yeah.
So, Bibi released a statement.
Wait, she's in jail too?
Why is she in jail?
Isn't she like a mystic or something?
She's like a mystic or something, right?
She's like a spiritual leader of some group.
Despite facing a number of obstacles, including highway
closures and shipping containers blocking roads, hundreds of
PTI supporters on Tuesday morning reached Dichok, a
red zone.
It houses government offices, including the presidency, the
prime minister's office.
Initially, the security personnel present at the site
withdrew.
As night fell, authorities shut off the streetlights,
plunging the area into darkness.
Internet connectivity has remained patchy throughout the day.
Bibi, who has so far maintained an apolitical
but influential presence in Khan's life, delivered a
number of short speeches throughout the day.
Our protests will not end until Imran Khan
is amongst us.
Earlier in the day, the Interior Minister Naqvi
hinted at Bibi when he alleged that a
hidden hand was sabotaging this anti-state agenda.
Who's here?
Salam.
Full house.
Do you come by yourself or do you
come bearing tea?
Without chai?
Astaghfirullah.
Okay.
So that's good.
So, Khalas, I mean, you're not defeating the
Pakistani army, right?
Who's defeating the army?
Look, we've become a news station here.
Who's defeating the army?
Right?
But, I mean, I guess spirited attempts, not
bad.
But is there anything else to read about
this story?
They tried.
They're shutting them down.
And that's it.
Your family is with Imran Khan, right?
Everyone educated seems to be with Imran Khan.
Where?
Oh, there's a Times Square protest.
Didn't know that.
Didn't know that.
But the older guys are not.
In the masjid, the old guys are not
with him.
They're a minority.
Alright, so that's the news.
I think Imran Khan, I mean, I guess
it's a good attempt, but it didn't work
out.
Fortunately for him.
I guess we go to the next segment.
We do news of the Ummah, affairs of
the Ummah.
This is the affairs of the Ummah.
They protested, and the military shut it down.
Just like Egypt, but Rabia was far worse.
In Egypt, Rabia Square was far, far worse.
First of all, no, Tahrir Square was the
original, but then after it was, they elected
Morsi.
Then the government, the Mossad, the CIA, the
elites didn't like the decision.
So they start, like, messing with him, cutting
the power, all that stuff, and then they
found someone on the inside who could take
the position in his place.
So they then did a coup, basically, and
then when his supporters protested the coup, they
fired live ammunition at them and killed hundreds
upon thousands.
And that's why the Rabia became like a
symbol for that.
Because that's the square that they were in
when they protested.
But this is not nearly as much as
that.
This is 150 days, people in one day.
That was like thousands over the span of
weeks.
Yeah.
But this is not strong enough.
Right?
It's not strong enough.
Right?
They need to really like...
Did they go into the capital?
Did they go onto the capital?
Like, they need to go for the neck.
You need to go for the throat.
You gotta do that on the first try.
Now they're prepared.
Right?
Not that I have like, coup experience, but
if I was to do it, I would
be like, listen, we only got one shot
at this.
You got one shot, but then...
You need generals on the inside.
You need a general on the inside.
Hmm?
But Pakistan is run by generals.
Not the people.
So you need a general on the inside.
That's it.
This stuff is gonna be more likely to
be done in back office talks.
Yeah.
In any event.
One of the most common arguments that Christian
missionaries pose.
Today, next segment.
We go back to...
We're gonna talk about the scriptures.
Somebody asked a question yesterday.
The Quran says there is no replacement for
God's word.
Therefore, how do you also simultaneously say the
Bible has been altered?
Or the Torah has been altered?
When there's no changing, no replacing God's word.
Well, firstly, the meaning is that there's no
alteration, there's no replacing God's word in meaning,
in value.
You see what I mean?
You cannot bring something better than God's word.
You cannot come up with a better idea.
You cannot come with better guidance.
That's one of the meanings.
Secondly, God's word is placed into different books.
One of these books, of course, is the
Quran.
Another one of these books is the Torah.
Another one of these books is the Injil.
Another one of these books is the Zabur.
And so many, so many other books that
we don't know about.
And sometimes they weren't even, they're not given
names.
Such as the scrolls.
Suhuf of Ibrahim.
The Suhuf.
Scrolls.
And the word of Allah is not limited
to these books.
The Quran says, if all the trees were
used to make pens, here's the size of
a pen, if all the trees were made
pens like this, and all of the oceans
were ink, you would finish the trees and
the oceans before you finish the word of
Allah.
I mean, think about this.
The knowledge of Allah is infinite.
Paradise goes on forever.
And yet Allah is all knowledgeable about what's
going to go on eternally, forever.
So the knowledge of Allah Ta'ala and
His words, as He is infinite, they are
infinite.
There is no end to what Allah Ta
'ala knows and will say.
So, the question is asking how is the
Bible altered if it's God's words?
Well, it's not God's word that gets altered.
It's man's attempt to preserve it.
That's what gets altered.
And He only preserves the Quran.
Because that's the guidance at the end of
time.
One of the most common arguments I'm reading
here from Bassam al-Zawadi, Hanbali scholar.
If I'm not mistaken, I think he's a
Hanbali scholar.
Everything I read out of him is strong.
He's very knowledgeable and solid.
One of the most common arguments that Christians,
I didn't read everything by the way, I
didn't read everything, but a lot of times
when I read his stuff, I know he
put thought into it, and he studied, and
he's grounded.
One of the most common arguments that Christian
missionaries pose to the Muslims is that Islamic
teachings allegedly affirm the authenticity and the divine
nature of the Bible that Christians follow today.
Okay.
There seems to be a misconception among Christians.
They think that Islam teaches that there once
was an original Bible, and then the Bible
got corrupted.
Okay.
Islam does not teach that there was an
original, this is not what Islam teaches, because
the Bible and the Injil are different things.
Islam does not teach that there was an
original book of Philippians or Corinthians, which later
got corrupted.
We don't even believe that these books are
divine in the first place.
So the Bible that we have today is
simply works of Sira, almost you could say,
just descriptions of what happened.
That's different from the Torah.
Islam teaches that parts of the original revelation
sent down to Moses, the Torah, and Jesus,
the Gospels, still exist in the Bible today.
Islam teaches that people came and wrote things
on their own and claimed it was from
God, then mixed their writing with the original
revelation, and removed and added.
It is important to note that the Quran
and Hadith of the Prophet, peace be upon
him, Hadith is the sayings of the Prophet,
could use the words Torah and Injil differently,
depending on the context.
For example, Ibn Kathir says the Torah refers
to what was revealed to Moses.
Surely the word Torah is found in the
Hadith and is used more broadly there.
In Western academia, and the book, by the
way, Al-Kitab, refers to all of the
prophetic messages and revelations collected.
So for example, Moses, the first five books
of the Torah were given to Moses.
Then the next Prophet came and he received
books that was added to that.
Another Prophet came, was added to that.
And that's why it's called Al-Kitab, the
book, right?
And so it consists and comprises of all
of these books.
And it was supposed to also comprise of
the Injil, the Zaboor to David, and so
on.
Western academic Camilla Adang states the same.
Although the Quran, in the Quran the name
Torah is mostly used in its proper sense,
i.e. the books of Moses, or the
first five books, or the Pentateuch.
It is often applied in the post-Quranic
Islamic literature to the entire Hebrew Bible.
And even to Jewish extra-canonical literature.
The rabbinical literature too is sometimes called the
Torah.
Which is not surprising considering the fact that
Judaism considers these sources to be the oral
Torah.
The Arabic word most commonly used in the
Quran and Hadith to state that the Christians
and Jews distorted their book is called Tahrif.
This ties into the thesis that we demolished
yesterday, that Jews and Christians are exempt from
following the Prophet Muhammad and are good to
go based on their religions.
And one of the logical reasons for that
is that their book is not even preserved.
It's Muharraf.
It's completely Muharraf to begin with.
The original meaning of the word Tahrif is
to lean from the pen in a certain
direction.
Or to twist words to correspond to your
own desires, according to Raghab al-Isfahani.
Al-Shahristani remarked that Tahrif means changing the
written word to an alternative to give it
a corrupted meaning.
This is Tahrif.
So in this meaning, they are altering the
word of Allah.
Whichever way they do it, they alter the
word of Allah.
Altering the words with no change of meaning.
Meaning changing etc.
Al-Baji says in his commentary on al
-Muwatta, they, the Jews, wanted to distort the
words of Allah out of their places, just
as Mosai described them.
Instead of saying Assalamu Alaikum, they would say
Assamu Alaikum.
So slight alterings of meanings.
Here we see that Imam Baji speaking about
how the Jews used to say Assamu Alaikum,
poison be upon you, to the Prophet, instead
of Assalamu Alaikum.
And that peace be upon you.
And then states that they're changing the letters.
It's Tahrif.
So Tahrif is not just misinterpreting a statement.
It's actually changing the letters.
Or adding or removing.
What I'll be doing in this article is
presenting evidence from the Quran.
Authentic statements of the Prophet.
Statements of the companions.
Christians and Jews.
That Christians and Jews textually corrupted the revelation
of Allah.
Okay.
So let's take an example from the Quran.
Allah says, therefore, woe be unto those who
write the book with their hands and say
this is from Allah.
That they may gain a small purchase a
small gain therewith.
Woe unto them from what their hands have
written.
Meaning they physically change it with their hands.
Here we see that Allah is warning those
Jews who write the scripture from themselves and
say it's from God.
Meaning they said their own words.
They put their own words in there.
Not all of them are alike.
Says the Quran.
From the people of the book, there are
upright people.
They recite the signs or verses of God
in the night and bow down worshipping.
They believe in God in the last day.
They command what is just and forbid what
is wrong.
And they hasten in good works.
And they are of the righteous.
Who are these?
These are the people who practiced this before
the Hujjah or Islam.
And those who practiced it afterwards submitting to
the messenger Muhammad like Abdullah bin Salam.
Therefore all of their Ibadah was acceptable.
It was good.
The sign that their Ibadah was accepted is
that Allah guided them to the truth.
So they get the reward of that.
And they get the reward of Islam.
That's why the Prophet said they received two
rewards.
Laysusawa.
Abdullah bin Salam and his like.
And there are certainly Surah Al Imran among
the people of the book, those who believe
in God and that which has been revealed
to you.
Meaning they are converts.
They believe in God and they converted.
In that which was revealed to them bowing
in humility to God they will not sell
the sign of God for miserable gain.
And selling the revelation to them it meant
lie to people about what the revelation says
about Muhammad.
So they had signs of the Prophet.
But in order to make sure that they
stay in their position and don't have to
submit to these Arabs and these non-Jews
they had to lie about what was in
the book.
They will not sell the signs of God
for a miserable gain.
For them is reward with their Lord and
God is swift in account.
We said this yesterday but we'll say it
again.
The praises of the Bani Israel of the
Yahud in the Quran is from either before
the message or after converting to Islam.
That's how they're being praised.
Even today if a Christian scholar became Muslim
which we do have one here.
He was a Russian Orthodox monk or whatever
and now he's studying it at Maqasid.
So you say about this here is a
Christian scholar understood his scripture obviously was sincere.
God accepted him.
The sign of the acceptance is guiding him
to the truth.
Same thing here.
So the people of the book being spoken
about in these ayats above refer to those
who believed in the prophethood of Muhammad and
recited the Quran at night.
Talking about the recitation at night is not
the recitation of their books after Islam.
No.
It's the recitation of the Quran after Islam.
It refers to those people who believed in
the prophethood of Muhammad and were not afraid
to speak about it and refused to alter
the scripture to cover up the description of
the prophet.
In no way do these verses suggest that
the people of the book who believed in
the prophet Muhammad had the complete correct text
of the Torah when Allah describes as standing
in the night reciting his word.
It's the Quran.
It's not the old word or it's that
in their time when it was not corrupted
and before an updated message had come.
And it shows that they understood the text
correctly and were aware what the true Torah
contained through oral traditions.
The Quran does not state that there was
a Torah corrupted textually and a Torah that
was not.
Nor does it say that the righteous people
of the book ever participated in the corruption
of the Torah.
It does not require that all of the
people of the book came to corrupt it.
A few with great authority and power they
can achieve this task and nobody could stop
them or no one stopped them.
The Quran says the Jews wrote the book
with their own hands.
The book in this verse is the book
being mentioned throughout several verses regarding the Jews.
The Quran states that the Jews after writing
the book from their selves then claimed it
was from God.
Allah then says and they're saying surely we
have killed the Messiah Jesus son of Mary
apostle of Allah and they did not kill
him nor did they crucify him but it
appeared to them as so and most surely
those who differ therein are only in a
doubt about it and they have no knowledge
respecting it but they follow conjecture they killed
him not for sure.
The verse makes it clear that the crucifixion
of Jesus is conjecture and corruption the crucifixion
of Jesus is taught in the Gospels that
we have today thus the Quran is clearly
in an indirect way saying that those Gospels
are corrupted it's not true.
It is amazing amusing he says how some
Christians try to argue back that the author
of the Quran probably did not know that
the crucifixion was mentioned in the Gospel and
if he had then he probably would not
have denied it.
Here's the thing anytime you see anything about
any Hebrew prophet in the Quran guarantee you
it's said specifically to correct something in the
Bible.
We said yesterday Suleiman has not committed kufr
now just think about this how is that
a praise of a prophet like why would
you praise a prophet with that.
You can praise prophets in many different ways
right but to say that he didn't make
kufr that is not what comes to mind
when you're thinking about a prophet being praised
and the reason then for this okay is
that the Yahud said they said he is
a pagan and died a pagan so that's
why the Quran is correcting that the Quran
is everything they say about every single prophet
is a correction how about this.
Prophet Isa bin Maryam that he was good
to his mother وبرا بوالدتي it's assumed right
it's assumed he's the greatest worshipper of Allah
on the earth at that time.
How is he not going to be good
to his mother because there's a verse in
the Bible where Mary brings out water to
guests and he said go get us some
wine woman that's in the Bible and so
the Quran is correcting that.
So he was good to his mom he
wouldn't have said go get us what is
this water go get wine woman look that
up go get wine woman it's a verse
so everything in the Quran about the Hebrew
prophets it's a correction okay there go up
again yeah it's right there in the Bible
Jesus tells Mary to get wine at the
wedding in Cana in Galilee Mary asks Jesus
for wine when the wine runs out Mary
tells Jesus they don't have any more wine
Jesus replies don't tell me what to do
oh my gosh Jesus replies my time hasn't
come don't tell me what to do hold
on I'm still reading Mary instructs the servants
do whatever Jesus tells you to do Jesus
instructs them to fill six stones stone waters
jars with water and then draw some and
take it out Jesus performs his first miracle
okay some say that Jesus' response to Mary
is the most perplexing verse in the Bible
about Mary others say that the dialogue between
Jesus and Mary is either meaningless or impossible
to understand because it's too short give me
what you found Tom on the third day
a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee
Jesus' mother was there and Jesus and his
disciples had also been invited to the wedding
when the wine was gone Jesus' mother Mary
said to him they have no more wine
Jesus says why are you involving me in
this woman * his mother said to the
servants do whatever Jesus wants nearby stood six
water jars and Jesus filled them and then
he did his first miracle okay and that's
why this is in what chapter what John
2 1 1 to 11 read that and
the actual verse is John 2 4 John
2 colon 4 woman don't get me involved
in this what imagine that that's why Allah
says in the Quran because he knows people
read that verse and they see that verse
and he's correcting this the Quran is sent
for the Christians and Jews to correct what
would be in any Christian kid's mind wow
Jesus said that to Mary I thought we
were supposed to be good to Mary watch
out for all these cables and cords the
prophet what happened Omar are Christians seriously asking
us to believe that none of the Muslims
during the prophets times knew that the gospels
taught that Jesus was crucified yet at the
same time throughout throughout that Islam told them
to believe that the gospel in possession of
Christians were pure and undistorted couldn't the prophet
have easily been exposed by Christian converts such
as Salman and or Maria the Coptic slave
girl who would have known that the gospels
taught crucifixion while at the same time Islam
taught the gospels were undistorted how about being
exposed by Christians and Jews at the time
by the way stop crisscrossing the camera something
bad is going to happen alright I mean
the Quran clearly no Christian can argue that
Muslims believe that there is an uncorrupted book
it's obviously a corrupted book and the corruption
of the book isn't on us to prove
their own scholars have proven it their own
Christian Bible scholars have went on and on
about how unknown the authors of these books
are like they have code names for the
authors because they don't know who the names
are but they could tell this style of
writing matches up here here here here so
they call that like the D school right
the D school like Deuteronomy was written by
that group of people and then another group
of people wrote another set of books Al
-Hakim narrates this hadith with a chain of
transmission and then it gets to Mu'adh
ibn Jabal told us that he went to
Sham and saw the Christians prostrate to their
bishops and priests and Jews prostrating to rabbis
and scholars he said why do you prostrate
to them they said this is the greeting
of prophets I said we better do this
to our prophet Allah's prophet said they lied
they didn't do that to their prophet their
prophets never taught them to prostrate they lied
about their prophets just as they distorted their
book the Quran is doing Christians a favor
in removing things that you know in your
gut is wrong every Christian child and priest
really has a problem with the trinity nobody
says you know what the maximum they say
we can explain it if you think and
sit still for a little we could probably
explain it no one says oh this is
so relieving right no one looks at takes
the trinity and says wow it just settles
so well and it's so nobody ever says
that the maximum they'll say is A it's
a mystery or B it's not a mystery
it's a contradiction there are a lot of
mysteries right a mystery is just something you
don't know a contradiction is very different so
don't mix words here it's not a mystery
it's a contradiction nobody ever the maximum they
ever say is either it's a mystery we
just have to accept it don't think about
it or listen there's a book this big
that if you get through it you'll understand
it okay tell me what person can understand
the trinity without technical terms the actual definition
of an essence and all that stuff right
so how's a farmer how's a regular nomad
it wasn't Peter a fisherman how's he supposed
to understand this doctrine isn't Peter the first
convert to Jesus and he was a fisherman
regular person not going to understand this stuff
so nobody says about the trinity oh what
a relieving doctrine so simple so crisp so
easy to understand a child can get it
no one ever says that they say a
lot of other stuff but they never say
that and so the Quran is come to
relieve you of this lie this just cooked
up falsehood fabrication that is not sitting well
with any of you it's come to relieve
you of monasticism which has caused all this
* and all the child molestation is a
result of taking the human being and unnaturally
treating him I mean forcing stopping him from
doing something he has to do he must
do he should do he learns when he
does these things he's grateful to God when
he does these things and then telling us
subhanallah how you have a revelation that's never
been preserved you have people who are thumping
the Bible in the evangelical countries in the
south that are very pious I would say
pious in quotes they're trying to be pious
in their religion they're trying to be good
in their religion but don't you ever think
you in Texas with the Bible what connection
do you have to Jesus you don't read
the word that he wrote or he recited
you don't know what he said you don't
even know what the language is ask any
evangelical regular church going person Baptists here of
New Jersey or in the south or in
Alabama or wherever what language did Jesus speak
they'll say Hebrew which is false right it's
not even Hebrew it was Aramaic can you
tell me what Aramaic sounds like have you
ever even heard what it sounds like I
don't even know if it exists in the
world academically or something maybe who speaks Aramaic
find me a YouTube video with Aramaic you
guys are how did Jesus worship God definitely
not going to concerts because the churches have
become concerts now definitely it definitely did not
look like a Joel Osteen event which is
a self help event Joel Osteen is self
help in the guise of Christian the guy
is a businessman don't ever think he's a
pastor he's a businessman right and he took
self help and he took the prosperity gospel
and he couched it those lessons sprinkle a
couple biblical verses on it sell tickets sell
books sell TV contracts and you got it
what do you got here Aramaic I want
to hear what Aramaic sounds like no it
doesn't exist anymore they speak Aramaic alright show
me the evidence show us the evidence I
guarantee you it's their speaking Shammy dialect that's
so bad they could pass it off as
Aramaic it's so strong who get an example
what kind of claim is that some guy
in a university who said two words I
want to know a husband and wife chit
chat in Aramaic someone talking in Aramaic hey
Omar put that up there so we can
all hear what Aramaic sounds like and it's
by the way we have nothing to judge
it against by the way he could be
totally butchering everything when Israelis speak Hebrew he
butchered it this is all butchered this does
not sound Semitic at all we know what
Semitic languages are let's listen to this not
by any means it's Persian he's speaking half
Persian half Hebrew alright
maybe maybe a handful of people still speak
Aramaic a handful that's it and they're in
Iraq and Syria that whole Sham area alright
maybe ok but that sounded like like yeah
the next generation anyway like the distance between
what a practicing Christian in Texas and his
actual prophet that he's supposed to believe in
there's no connection you don't worship like him
you don't dress like him you don't live
like him there's no connection it's not the
same language who knows about the book you
got nothing alright the Quran has come for
them to relieve you of these stresses that
you're stressing yourself on top of that you
have no law your law is weak it's
so weak the woke-ism is destroying you
like woke-ism is completely mowing the lawn
with you guys how do you protect from
that stuff is a law that we all
believe in some fundamentals that we all believe
in we cannot shake they got law at
least they got too much law and then
they circumvent it so I'm like do you
guys want law or you don't want law
you make so many laws but then you
circumvent them all it's such a contradiction this
other group they love God so much but
they don't want to do anything there's no
law where is the law like you love
God so much but there's no law so
what I'm saying here is that Christians in
Texas practicing Christians you're trying you're putting out
a great effort but you're just exhausting yourself
and you will fail at the end of
the day the Quran is not coming to
be against you it's coming to help you
out right and you will get all the
reward of loving Moses and Jesus but properly
right that's our message to them that's if
you read the verses of Ahlul Kitab that
we read yesterday it's all we're coming we're
revealing this book for you to you that's
what it's a feel it's a feel good
thing now yeah yep and
that's what it is 100% alright let's
who's in the chat Ryan G as Sheikh
Murad likes to call him Goldilocks yeah Ryan
from YM hey Ryan your whole YM crew
is here from Edison but not your Highland
Park oh wait not Highland Park what is
it Hillsboro yeah Ryan no not that Ryan
Goldilocks Ryan Mashallah Ryan's here and by the
way we're all coming to see Ryan alright
let's go to the Q&A Q&A
time please make dua for the martyrs of
Pakistan ok I mean I don't know if
they're martyrs but maybe they are they're fighting
for a lawful election ok I don't know
if elections are lawful to begin with but
nonetheless they were robbed but may Allah give
them Jannah I mean they died anyway may
Allah have mercy upon them whether they're Shaheed
or not they're not guilty of anything marching
in the street you're not guilty of anything
unless you're a Madkhali then yes then thinking
about it is you're guilty but yeah rapid
fire let's do rapid fire Q&A may
Allah give those people Jannah someone's asking can
a Christian from like El Salvador go to
Jannah if they didn't have a good representation
of Islam well if you didn't learn about
Islam and we're just going to leave it
vague like that you're innocent in the sight
of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala if you
did bad things in your life your fitrah
does tell you something right the fitrah of
the human heart and the ancient morals that
have been passed down they still have some
weight but going against them will cost you
your own spiritual comfort moral comfort and you
may have some suffering in your grave as
a result of that but on the day
of judgment you will not be guilty of
hellfire condemned to hellfire because you had no
knowledge so again it's not that we're saying
you're 100% scot-free if you don't
know about anything you never received the message
of Islam but then you raped and killed
and stole knowingly you know that's wrong you
harmed yourself and in your grave you may
suffer from that and in your life you
may suffer from that but on the resurrection
when you stand in front of God you
have an excuse president of El Salvador I
heard he's like an Arab in origin ok
next chess in general games in general is
makrooh and sometimes they even deem it haram
for adults in the medical school but in
Andalus they used to use chess as aptitude
test for kids they used to use chess
as an aptitude test and so they actually
encouraged it from that perspective ok adab and
akhlaq is best improved by being around people
who have adab and akhlaq and not being
around people who don't have it it's not
gonna be zina, well who?
the woman or the man no if the
man if the man does that then she
will inshallah he will inshallah be a valid
marriage if a woman does that it's zina
I don't know anything about El Salvador say
again no you don't fast everyday that's too
much for you, you can't even do that
you wanna get out of a contract you
wanna get out of a contract um yeah
you have to negotiate yourself out of a
contract you gotta negotiate yourself out of contracts
because the sharia between two mutaqidain is al
-aqd you know that the sharia between two
people in a contract is their agreement yes
I can't really talk about him he's too
busy being in love right now well
we have in the madaki method pretty strong
condemnation of men wearing any jewelry except one
ring and it has to have a certain
weight it's one ring maximum silver ring maximum
certain weight at a time, you can own
ten but you only wear one ring at
a time and all other jewelry they deem
it to be forbidden because of Allah saying
right that because of that verse of Quran
and I think the Hanafis they deem it
makro all jewelry except the ring is makro
a watch is not jewelry tools that you
put around your neck is not jewelry next
next is it permissible to write fantasy fiction
but with islamic elements don't mix the two
shapeshifter, werewolves, vampires but don't mix don't bring
in islam in this you can write a
fantasy novel right but don't bring islam in
it don't confuse the two things you want
to tell a story about a werewolf tell
a story about a werewolf but don't make
it an islamic werewolf what?
no, don't mix the two things what
is it?
it's traveling through life yeah wallahu anam cash
does not supply certainty cash yields to speculation
and therefore speculation will never override certainty and
that's how we can have a lot of
spiritual experience without going astray because you don't
have epistemology epistemology tells you that spiritual experiences
unveilings, mukashifat, events happening in life will maximum
maximum ever reach the level of speculation it's
a personal affair and it's the best between
two halal things either way you're fine, you're
good to go either way and it can
very well be true but it's just not
authoritative 100%, it could be true but it's
not authoritative so that's how the more spirituality
a person is exposed to the more knowledge
of sharia they need to have and the
more awareness of epistemology they need to have
what yields certain facts, certain knowledge and what
yields speculation next ...
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they have epistemology ...
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not only that in the modern era when
they discovered that miraculous happenings which we would
call simply ...
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happened to Buddhist, Hindu monks their faith shook
and they assumed immediately these people must also
be on the truth if a occurs meaning
a seemingly miraculous supernatural event occurs to a
Hindu a Muslim who has his fundamental knowledge
of this stuff will say big whoopty literally
big deal it's probably a jinn or something
or a test from Allah but our truth
is never determined by these types of events
you're not going to alter you're not going
to override the revelation with that event like
I remember I told you that story about
in India a guy was a guru who
was causing a lot of fitnah and he
was levitating in front of the mosque and
the Muslims were just villagers and they're following
him right there they became Hindu with him
so the ulama they realized it's fard kifaya
for one of us to refute him but
how are you going to refute a levitator
not with words words are not going to
do the trick to these common people so
he sat or his Sheikh said to him
you have to go his Sheikh wrote him
a letter you have to go he said
well how what do I do he said
really leave it to Allah and he went
and he started making dua and when he
started to do that he put his head
down all of a sudden while his head
was down he heard a big commotion and
takbir he looked up so what happened he
said you didn't see what happened your your
flip-flop went up and then went over
his head and start knocking him down right
how do we how would we perceive that
or understand it so simply for us jinn
is one jinn is lifting the other guy
up and the other jinn hit him with
a ship ship that's it we believe in
the unseen this unseen realm is so vast
we're not shaken up by that when the
dajjal comes and read if he was to
resurrect the dead if he was a split
a man in half and put him back
together we with our guidance from Allah Ta
'ala and firmly established in this knowledge we
should say big whoopty is not going to
change to eat you're not going to change
anything the Quran is fabulous hadith is fabulous
and a lot on top of that you
know what we're gonna say we're gonna say
you actually increase this any man because the
Prophet said this would happen Quran said all
of this misguidance can occur at the hands
of Iblis at the hands of shayateen you
just increase this in it so the Catholic
Church in the other hand is a huge
crisis the idea that supernatural things happened to
other people and they they literally seeded their
truthfulness they said we're not the only truth
anymore Wow yeah that's how flimsy this Aqidah
is next question all right I think it
should be good that's why my mic was
low because uh to avoid echo but I
think it's better next question let's see what's
the ruling of cats can I drink from
my glass of water if the cat has
drunk from it yeah we yes in trauma
should not be a problem from the text
you see you still want to do it
of course no it doesn't mean you should
would do it but from the text you
have been seen from Imam Al-Ghazali as
well as neoplatonic well if he said what
he said which is also what I said
last week if two weeks ago if he
said what he said that heaven and *
are not physical that they're just of the
spirit realm that's kufr because it was one
of the things he established or it's alleged
about him that I remember personally okay okay
how does a Muslim not get impatient when
trying to achieve a long-term goal keep
wanting it keep remembering it keep keep thinking
about it keep thinking of the reward doesn't
Allah Ta'ala what's the longest term goal
going to Jannah it's the longest term goal
you still got to live you got to
die you got to get resurrected there's a
long way it seems to us right but
the prophesy Sam said everything guaranteed is near
because it's guaranteed it's not going anywhere it's
only getting closer to you but you think
about the reward you always think about the
reward right and you think of the shortness
of life you don't think of the longness
of life think of the shortness of life
also one line that sticks with me that
like you've met is a talk about a
little agile like that's like kind of a
summary of our team leaving the now for
them not only is that for the Dean
it's for all success is somebody who's able
to put off short-term pleasure for long
-term gain deferring pleasures yes all
right here's the thing this is a very
good question because you're asking how do we
objectify something subjective I mean it's so subjective
right so subjective it's really simple every thought
that we get you have to weigh it
in the scale the Sharia all right you
have to wait in the scale the Sharia
angels will only whisper to you to do
nowhere fill in good deeds Allah subhana wa'ta
'ala in puts into your heart the feelings
that Islam is true the Quran is true
Allah is real Muhammad is true we have
many hadiths the prophets I said them would
say I testify that Allah is haqq and
I am haqq and the Akhira is haqq
Jannah is haqq not as haqq these essential
haqqidas when they enter in our heart that's
from Allah subhana wa'ta'ala and there's no
turning that away the thought from an angel
to do a good deed I may do
it or may not do it then the
devils are to the devils that call to
sins to darken your heart and the devils
that after your heart is darkened call to
doubts is this really true his prophets really
our prophets really real those that's from the
big shouting that's the real goal and the
nefs though now what is the difference between
the thought that comes from the ego versus
the thought that comes from a devil a
Shaitaan a Shaitaan will call you to anything
bad anything bad he'll throw everything at the
at the board and see what sticks but
your nefs tends to have habits and will
call you to the same thing that is
a sign of the nefs so how do
I know the difference if something is from
my nefs I need to deprive myself I
need to fast I need to skip a
meal I need to shrink my eating my
stomach if something is from Shaitaan I need
to remember Allah if something is from a
big Shaitaan a doubt I need to study
aqeedah that's how it works and what is
the difference between alhawa and nefs there's the
Quran talks about the whims and the ego
the nefs calls to your classic temptations wealth
fame anger desire all of these temptations are
actually necessary parts of life and excellent good
things if they're in the right tubes if
they're controlled if they're wild it's like a
house where the electricity is live live wires
water pipes have leaks gas is leaking stove
is on with nobody watching you're gonna ruin
your house in real real fast but if
you didn't have any of these things you
don't you can't live in the house either
right you have to have a little bit
of greed you have to have a little
bit of desire you have to have a
little bit of a little bit of stinginess
helps you not waste your money a little
bit of greed helps you wake up in
the morning and work a little bit of
desire makes you want to have a woman
in your life a little bit of hunger
makes you want to go eat and benefit
a restaurant a little bit of laziness makes
you want to rest your body and take
care of your body a little bit of
all these things in the right time and
the right location is necessary for life so
that's the nets the hella the whimsical aspect
of a human being it doesn't make any
sense at all it doesn't have any function
like this like why would people in the
70s wear bell-bottom jeans there's no function
to it it's just their whim why are
people today dressing the way they are every
time I go to a barber he just
chops the sides off of my head before
well before I even looked I didn't say
anything you know that that happened to me
the other day I sat down I said
just trim off in the little bit from
the side he didn't take scissors he just
went now I'm stuck looking like a 16
year old right and then my kids liked
it they said keep it I said so
I could look like I'm in high school
right it did turn out to actually be
pretty efficient but why are the haircuts the
way they are today that's what like that's
it why is the food certain ways in
certain nations now whims also have to be
judged there are whims that are huddled there
are haircuts that you guys all have that
are huddled and there are piercings and types
of haircuts that could be hot on so
whims have to then there are intellectual whims
so now you have the whole umma at
some point went into socialism right now the
whole the the the umma is now going
it no parts of it's okay and parts
of it's not nine now the umma's a
lot of the umma are going into this
Abrahamic all religions are good type of thing
right that's deadly then before that they went
into Arab nationalism right Syria for the Syrians
Libya for the Libyans how did that work
out for you that's unlawful for us too
yeah you're allowed to be happy about your
nation but you're not allowed to say there's
a line between us Libyan Muslims and you
Egyptian Muslims we're not allowed to do that
all these lines should be dotted lines that's
a state right it's a state you guys
have your own ways and you're separated by
a desert that makes sense you govern yourself
but you can't say it's a two different
countries though Muslims are supposed to be one
nation right and they're gonna it's gonna come
back to be one nation because where are
people who believe in the signs of the
end of time we're not like some modernists
who don't believe in the signs of the
end of time but any event that's the
answer to your question so the whim whimsical
nature right is like that the whimsical nature
it doesn't have any benefit and it has
to be weighed in the Sharia whereas the
nefs the desires of the ego it's the
age old from Adam until the end of
time all humans will have these desires greed
power lust money food sleep all we'll all
have that it's just a matter of honing
it in next what the odds are best
to recite a deceased child's grave any drop
there's no specific job for a child's any
drop someone's asking about the Pakistan segment you
can just rewind the timestamp after it's uploaded
well people of Jannah have their own planets
in universe yes whatever you desire you want
to be an astronomer in general and see
planets is it haram to not participate in
boycotts is it haram to not boycott well
it could be possibly defense open this gentleman's
mic speak it how what are you humbly
or you bought fish okay I did sue
a thun on the brother thought you bought
a Big Mac or something okay good well
you know what's his name awesome I can
be very happy with you right now because
he's all he's all with that so is
rabbi Ferris they're also against boycotting too listen
we got a simple rule if a group
with explicit facts explicit facts not maybe maybe
no we know for sure they're sending money
to the it's Israel we don't buy from
them like if it's that well known and
it's something that's doable to avoid right I
don't think anyone is getting rid of their
Amazon Prime I don't know what Amazon's policy
is but people need Amazon like some people
some some households run on Amazon right by
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I would look at like Starbucks was easy
to give up I mean that's not bad
habit in the first place to buy Starbucks
if you bought yourself a machine a reasonably
priced machine what is it called I can't
remember the name yeah but what company there's
a different there are different ones sometimes 500
bucks right and then you buy your beans
you don't you'll actually save yourself money from
this this habit of buying Starbucks on a
whim $3 $4 $5 summertime hot cold drink
$8 it's just it's actually bad economic practice
for a person to buy yourself a machine
and do it yourself it's for a better
no
you have to use your mind you don't
have a leader to tell you boycotted no
boycott but you have your brain well you
just ask yourself is it like facts factual
100% that this company supports that company
that sports Israel in their politics if the
answer is yes and it's not gonna like
be life-altering not to buy from them
anymore let's don't buy from them right that's
it well
you're definitely sort of kind of helping them
you're in the cog but let me ask
you another question is McDonald's actually on that
list down that list that not a branch
the McDonald's okay corporation all right Starbucks is
on that list man I never see these
two you shouldn't eat from anyway for health
reasons number one number two Starbucks for your
financial health so this is actually good for
you anyway you're not losing anything you're increasing
what else did you want to eat from
is is Pizza Hut on the list I
don't I'm yeah there's a lot of alternatives
and these things yeah there's there's no we're
getting off of Wix and that's looking a
headache that's took a long time do you
know how many websites we run I don't
know it's been a headache to get off
Wix but we have to do it I
have to do it Darussalam hey do you
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we're gonna probably take a van of 15
people see the thing is that we wanted
to bring a van of the brothers and
a van of sisters but there's no sister
accommodation there except in a hotel so we're
not gonna do that we're just gonna take
the brothers all right because at the cost
would be high I'm basically trying to give
Darussalam a little hint here use the sister's
dorms like if I have a brother and
his sister wants to go his sister has
to stay in a hotel with Ghuraba right
Ajanib why don't you oh maybe the the
the dorms next time but anyway let's take
a look at the event it's December 21
to December 23rd now of course if you're
a family the women could just stay with
you in the hotel room that's a possibility
too the subject is harmony within cultivating love
and unity in the modern Muslim household the
brothers intensive looks like this they recite Quran
at 945 they have a halaqa and Fajr
from 615 to 7 then they have a
break then recite surah Yasin from 945 to
10 then it's me from 10 to 1055
I give a talk and then there's a
break and then I go again and talk
from 1135 to 1245 on strong men noble
women Islamic role in marriage upholding marriage and
morals in an evolving world then there's a
lunch break then door then they recite Quran
for a few minutes again and then Sheikh
Musa Sugarpunk will be speaking from 2 to
3 then Salatul Asr then Mawlana Uthman Akhtar
from 345 to 430 then Salatul Maghrib okay
then Mawlana Uthman Akhtar again mastering family boundaries
without drama and and you do this for
three days in a row so again it's
from 6 a.m. to 6 p.m.
that's it 12 hours and then you chill
after that you can go maybe check out
the city right deep dish pizza I'll do
a deep dish pizza it's not gonna be
a good review and I'm not paying for
it this is just yes this is December
21 22 23 if you want to get
a bus or you just talk to me
we'll put you on the bus Musa Sugarpunk
myself Fahd Khan should say pronounce things properly
Fahad Khan sorry about that Khalil Center Mufti
Minhaj of course Dar Es Salaam Mufti Azim
Dar Es Salaam Uthman Akhtar Mawlana Uthman Akhtar
Dar Es Salaam where's Farhan so the courses
or the talks beyond the spectrum upholding marriage
and moral works and morals in an evolving
world strong men love in the Sunnah tying
the knot in law insight mastering family boundaries
without drama parenthood on the horizon raising the
next generation marital communication intimacy in Islam the
juggling act work kids marriage safeguarding marital bonds
now let's look at the sisters initiative intensive
citizen ends of also six to six okay
and the top subject of tying the knot
a roundtable discussion pre-marriage tips and tricks
wait I need to I need to attend
I need someone to record this one premarital
tips and tricks so what tricks are you
teaching the sisters to do on us this
is the sisters intensive it says premarital tips
and tricks where we have I've been tricked
have people been tricked into this you know
like in the Malcolm X movie Malcolm X
overheard I think one of the sisters saying
she got him right when he got engaged
and he's like wait a second I thought
I was proposed I thought I was going
after her turns out she was actually doing
tricks on me and and he says in
his book he said maybe she did get
me anyway but that's message DS org go
to the winter intensive you have a lot
of benefit you'll love Darussalam and you got
all evening by the way to to check
out Chicago and see there are other events
going on other things going on so it's
not like they're squeezing you too much okay
next question let's wrap up with two more
questions then wrap up for the day live
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what happened to all these guys that was
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now now transferring Palestinian I saw something that
was sort of blasphemous clarified mensaf you know
mensaf Palestinian mensaf given the treatment they
gave it the treatment they dacified it and
I thought this is one a whole nother
level some lines should not be crossed yeah
you cannot clarify the world right leave sir
leave us some foods at least let us
have something let us keep something clean and
pure I went and I was at a
daisy masjid or daisy community basically and there
was Egyptian macaroni bechamel famous thing I go
to take it clarified but it was good
though it was what do you guys call
it keema like the really minced meat but
spicy in the macaroni bechamel they got you
yeah everything I had a true dream what
do you know about it if you have
a true dream about someone you should let
them know if it's a good dream let
them know about it and hopefully it'll be
it'll be a bushra for them right yes
it's gonna
die out by the way because people don't
have that much energy and it's so negative
but I think that people should spend more
of their time studying with a shaykh with
a teacher rather than engaging in those things
too much because they're they're elevating issues that
really aren't gonna fully benefit you 100%
right and getting back to the bare-bone
basics and and really the summary is get
yourself a living human teacher can a man
shave his chest hairs yes he can he
can shave any hair he wants in his
body except for his beard and his eyebrows
should not be trimmed like a woman if
he has excess he can remove the excesses
but he should not shape it like a
woman fasting the six days of show well
it's any time of the year it doesn't
have to be how to contact you info
at Safina society dot org is how to
contact us info as the Venus I did
not work for Matt for a magnetic it's
any time in the year that's also what
I got you study the water cotton it's
commentary our marriage predestined everything is predestined everything
is predestined but that doesn't mean you take
no action and no responsibility that's the difference
when I I want to put a post
out one time it said stop saying marriages
no see because what people are doing with
that is they're basically saying I'm not responsible
whatever happens happens right you it's your action
and it's your responsibility and there's no one
to blame but yourself right now yes there
could be an aspect of no see that
you can't control in that case you're not
blameworthy such as she changed afterwards yeah but
maybe you also influence the change and maybe
you could still change her right like two
people get married they're getting along after five
years one of them's here and one of
them's there that doesn't necessarily mean you didn't
cause that and you can't fix it that's
why I'm almost against this concept now see
is it's just fate but what everything is
fate but what they're saying is you can't
control it and you're not responsible for it
that's what I'm against totally it's a cop
out word ah it's my destiny no yeah
but you may have caused that and you
can fix it so where's human willpower Allah
doesn't put us in situations where there's no
human willpower next subject there's a
question resources for Spanish-speaking new Muslims our
chef doesn't speak Spanish and the brothers English
isn't fluent Spanish Spanish resources for the Quran
or Islam in general hmm no whose lectures
are out there lectures directly from Spain yeah
why did medic he held that the horse
meat is forbidden well he held that for
a number of reasons number one surahs and
a hedge mentions and I'm number one the
grazing cattle goats sheep cows of course cattle
is not let's just say cattle and what's
goats and sheep whatever they're called in English
well and I'm khalaqa lakum fee had if
one woman a fair woman had a cologne
these grazing animals you can get warmth from
their other benefits and you eat from it
well I can feel a gemelon he not
to reach one or he not just a
home and you have beauty for it's they're
beautiful to look at they relax you that's
why I gotta go but they took it
away from me okay what I mean what
I've got a comb and it carries your
your weights it carries your burdens in a
better than them to come about a video
that was two countries you couldn't reach lands
you couldn't reach without hard effort in that
of Beckham Lara for Rahim but then next
I says well Kyle will be gone well
Hamid horses donkeys and mules a mule is
the result of a marriage or a union
or cohabitation but they don't get married cohabitation
between horses and donkeys they produce a mule
a mule is medium-sized but it cannot
give birth so mules there's no lineage of
mules but there is lineage of horses they
trace them all the time to get the
best kind of horses so what does Allah
say about them he says about them litter
caboo how was enough for you to ride
and to look at their beauty so therefore
he did not mention eating and as a
result of that Malik said cattle is for
eating and carrying loads and everything else but
horses are for use but not eating and
that's the reason so that is a prohibition
based on HD heads whenever someone says is
it haram or this is haram this is
or not the question the first question you
should ask to be an educated person in
Sharia and fiqh are you saying it's haram
based upon us or HD head the Hana
fees hold lobster and crayfish should be haram
we hold horses to be haram in our
method but these prohibitions are not at the
level of the prohibition of pork right prohibition
of pork is nuts not fit it's nuts
it's not as she had these prohibitions are
as she had that means if you say
I don't agree with that you're good up
to you we eat it yeah I personally
am NOT doing it but the Shabab are
doing it all right ladies and gentlemen we
got to stop here it was a good
two streams I think there's a * laude
and everybody highly disappointed says as long that
you didn't answer my questions sad face sad
face sad face sad face all right let's
you want to see these sad faces look
at that sad face okay let's go to
Aslan's question he's a Turk Aslan give us
your question it's coming right out of Narnia
Aslan can I here's another question says can
I you'd ism if mid to clear my
improve eyesight yes Aslan you got to repeat
the question you're you need to become a
seasoned go ahead he's not a Turk
because what's in the end well first of
all you know there's to weed on it
they say that it happened already and that's
gonna happen so I can't give you a
full answer I want to read up a
little bit more on that they say there
are different Hadiths on it some saying pointing
that it already happened and others that it
hasn't happened yet all right
we will see you all Monday Tuesday Subhanakallahumma
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wa natubu ilayk wa al'asr inna alinsana
la fee khusr illa allatheena amanu wa aminu
as-salih wa tawasubul haq wa tawasubul sabr
wassalamu alaykum
Alhamdulillah