Shadee Elmasry – None Can Harm You if You Are Guided

Shadee Elmasry
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The importance of honoring parents and caring for them is highlighted, along with the use of "has" in Arabic language to signal discomfort or disappointment. The speaker also discusses the pride of Islam and the need for everyone to act in a certain way, particularly those who are older than them. The transcript explores the concept of parenting and parenting in the context of COVID-19, and how it is used to signal pride. The speaker also discusses the need for parents to be mindful of their children and their grandparents, and mentions a law requiring parents to be mindful of their children and their grandparents.

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			Nothing can harm you if you are
guided or you believe guard your
		
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			own souls, if you follow right
guidance, no harm can come to you
		
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			from from those who are stray.
		
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			So Allah subhanaw taala is telling
us that if we follow the path of
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala, which is
also me following the path of the
		
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			messenger of allah sallallahu
sallam, the initial to Allah
		
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			Allah, Allah subhanaw taala will
keep us on the straight path and
		
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			we will not be misguided by those
who are misguided.
		
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			We die as a team but Taqwa is
loving friends are the pious,
		
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			the last month Allah in order to
become the friend of Allah, Allah,
		
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			you have to be of those who have
Taqwa.
		
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			Because Allah subhanaw taala
excuse me, the Messenger of Allah
		
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			so Salem, he said in a hadith, and
again, we always have to equate
		
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			the Quran with the Sunnah of the
Messenger of Allah wa salam,
		
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			because the Sunnah of the
messenger will also sum up is the
		
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			ultimate tafsir of the Quran. This
is why Aisha Radi Allahu anha
		
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			described the Messenger of Allah
Azza wa sallam as the walking
		
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			Quran. So In another Hadith, the
Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam
		
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			he said in regards to taqwa,
		
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			he said, or in two Hadith, and I
want to relate them how they
		
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			relate to this verse of Quran, the
Messenger of Allah so southern one
		
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			Hadith he said that kohona
		
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			Any point to his chest three
times, he said, that tuck was
		
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			here, and he pointed to his heart
three times it's just
		
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			and then in another Hadith, the
most of them will also said them
		
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			said, enough, he just said,
		
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			just to do Kulu, we the faster the
faster, the faster to just do Kulu
		
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			allow him. The Messenger of Allah
Salam said that in the body is a
		
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			morsel of flesh, it is sound than
the entire body of sound. And if
		
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			it is corrupted, then the entire
body is corrupt, it is not but the
		
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			hearts
		
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			so in order to be a person of
taqwa, you have to have the
		
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			tougher has is going to resonate
in your heart, and at that point
		
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			is going to manifest upon your
limbs. And last month, Allah here
		
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			is saying that his ODR his
friends, are the Fein those people
		
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			who have Taqwa and in other verses
of the Quran, Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			mentions his love for the pain,
where AleSmith Allah says in other
		
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			verses of the Quran that you know,
in the law, you hit them with the
		
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			pain and other such verses.
		
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			Now going on to a different
subject, family, society and
		
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			politics, honoring parents and
caring for them and senior and
		
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			seniority in their seniority.
		
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			Your Lord has decreed that you
worship numbered him, and that you
		
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			be kind to your parents, whether
one or both of them attains the
		
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			old age, you say not to them a
word of content of as long as
		
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			Potala mentions, nor repel them,
but address them in terms of
		
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			honor. So when it comes to the
parents, Allah Swatara has placed
		
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			him on a very special rank. And
the other man mentioned about this
		
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			that Allah subhanaw taala, in
order to show us the high rank
		
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			that last month Allah has placed
the parents in, he first says
		
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			about him, will rob Booker, Madhu
Illa, who the he says in the very
		
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			beginning, that we have decreed
that you worship none but Him
		
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			meaning Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			And then right after that, he
tells us about being good to our
		
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			parents.
		
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			And so Allah showing us the
seriousness that he's put with the
		
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			parents. And so this is why you
always have to be in a state of
		
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			kindness to your parents, Allah
subhanaw taala has put this in the
		
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			Quran for a reason. And last
month, Allah has also said, to not
		
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			even say a word of oath. So for
example, in the translation, they
		
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			say a word of contentment, but the
scholars mentioned, that's all
		
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			what I thought I'd say off, he
used pretty much the lightest way
		
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			of showing dissatisfaction to your
parents, you know, the Arabic
		
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			language to say off is akin to,
you know, showing some type of
		
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			displeasure to your parents. So,
for example, here in America, you
		
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			know, it might be something like,
you know, saying sucking your
		
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			teeth or rolling your eyes, or
something of that to show that
		
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			you're not pleased with what your
parents have asked you for. And
		
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			last month, I'll say don't even do
that. Meaning that that is
		
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			something minor, so don't even go
above that. And for example,
		
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			Sheikh Mohammed mo Lu Rahim, Allah
Tala the Great's Mauritania
		
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			scholar. He has a poem that he
compiled on the hero of the day,
		
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			who's called a wonderful Murat.
		
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			For the very bitter very watch
that the rights of parents
		
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			are referred to refer to Murat you
know, the rights of the
		
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			rights of the
		
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			the parents and the grandparents.
		
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			When ended he says that when it he
has a certain chapter, the chapter
		
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			where he actually talks about what
it means to be righteous to
		
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			parents, and he talks about
certain concepts so he says that
		
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			hockey cutter bobotie Akiko
burrowed even McCauley, what can
		
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			be we'll just see what I'm wildly
for Coca Cola cola Lena has Murphy
		
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			decretive Jarmo Bayona the Colin
Abdon de Janette and Anil Benny
		
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			they say he said it he fugly jelly
and so, Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud,
		
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			he says in this particular
beginning He says that you know,
		
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			the realities of the RT hockey got
to borrow the bid Macaulay the
		
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			realities of having righteousness
to your parents or having kindness
		
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			of your parents is in your speech,
the Macaulay or Calbee will just
		
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			do it and also with the hearts and
the body and with your wealth.
		
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			And then he goes on to say welcome
to undergo lockdown and Lena
		
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			hospital mafi Vickery, Zhao, Zhao,
javelina, and he says at first
		
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			speech it is to speak to them a
kind word
		
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			for Coca Cola cola and Lena has
Murphy degree Jamel Bayona and
		
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			this is what has come down to us
in a clear proof.
		
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			Customer mafia decree jam Oba Yuna
		
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			cuckolded, Abdun degenerate in the
LIN bene, they say the founder
		
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			Julian, the way that a slave will
be in front of a king in front of
		
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			his master, who was a harsh and
cruel master.
		
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			So this is the way that Sheikh
Mohammed Mahmoud is, you know,
		
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			telling us that how we're supposed
to act upon this verse, that we're
		
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			supposed to be in such a state
that we will be as if, for
		
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			example, just imagine that you are
a slave, and you did something
		
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			wrong. And you had a harsh and
cruel master it how would you talk
		
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			in front of that harsh and cruel
master? If you are a slave and you
		
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			did something wrong? So this is a
way that Sheikh Mohammed will
		
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			allude to saying that we should be
with our parents. And later on in
		
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			that same chapter, he says, you
know, that part for all sorts.
		
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			Latifah SOTA, Allah Hema Wallah
that Ohama this mayhem Mellish
		
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			Allah McKenna who yawata de Well,
yeah, when that million dollar to
		
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			Milan Juba, he says later on in
that chapter that do not even
		
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			raise your voice to them. Let's
start from SOTA Lee Manuela.
		
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			automap is mayhem are many other
and don't call them by their names
		
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			except in their place. Yeah, why
did the
		
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			Locanda who yawata D Well, yeah,
but except in their place, say
		
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			something like Oh, my father or Oh
my dear parents? Yeah. Why did the
		
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			Well yeah, but
		
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			when that woman that when that was
in Mirage, Baba, or other, or
		
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			other colleagues like that, that
are of respectful manner.
		
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			And so this has to do with their
parents. Now, when we're talking
		
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			about kindness to the parents.
This does not necessarily mean
		
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			that you're going to obey your
parents and everything that they
		
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			tell you. For example,
		
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			and again, God quoting from Sheikh
Mohammed mo Luke's poem, he says
		
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			later on in his in his, in his
poem, he says that, you know, I'll
		
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			tell him feature me and maybe
here, you have their element that
		
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			they actually obey them and
everything that they command you
		
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			as long as it is free from harm or
death or detriments.
		
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			And so, in general may the
scholars will put kindness akin to
		
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			obedience. And as long as your
parents are not calling you to do
		
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			something that's going to harm you
or or something that is haram,
		
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			then inshallah Tada, you should
obey them. But it is not an
		
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			absolute obedience. However, even
if this thing Well, you're not
		
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			going to obey them. For example,
if they're calling you to do
		
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			something haram, even in that
particular case, you still have to
		
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			deal with him unkindness and this
is what's this verse is alluding
		
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			to that even in such a state, you
still have to approach your
		
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			parents in a calm manner even if
they're calling you to do
		
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			something that is haram.
		
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