Shadee Elmasry – None Can Harm You if You Are Guided

Shadee Elmasry
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The importance of honoring parents and caring for them is highlighted, along with the use of "has" in Arabic language to signal discomfort or disappointment. The speaker also discusses the pride of Islam and the need for everyone to act in a certain way, particularly those who are older than them. The transcript explores the concept of parenting and parenting in the context of COVID-19, and how it is used to signal pride. The speaker also discusses the need for parents to be mindful of their children and their grandparents, and mentions a law requiring parents to be mindful of their children and their grandparents.
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Nothing can harm you if you are guided or you believe guard your

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own souls, if you follow right guidance, no harm can come to you

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from from those who are stray.

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So Allah subhanaw taala is telling us that if we follow the path of

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Allah subhanaw taala, which is also me following the path of the

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messenger of allah sallallahu sallam, the initial to Allah

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Allah, Allah subhanaw taala will keep us on the straight path and

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we will not be misguided by those who are misguided.

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We die as a team but Taqwa is loving friends are the pious,

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the last month Allah in order to become the friend of Allah, Allah,

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you have to be of those who have Taqwa.

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Because Allah subhanaw taala excuse me, the Messenger of Allah

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so Salem, he said in a hadith, and again, we always have to equate

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the Quran with the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah wa salam,

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because the Sunnah of the messenger will also sum up is the

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ultimate tafsir of the Quran. This is why Aisha Radi Allahu anha

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described the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam as the walking

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Quran. So In another Hadith, the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam

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he said in regards to taqwa,

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he said, or in two Hadith, and I want to relate them how they

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relate to this verse of Quran, the Messenger of Allah so southern one

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Hadith he said that kohona

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Any point to his chest three times, he said, that tuck was

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here, and he pointed to his heart three times it's just

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and then in another Hadith, the most of them will also said them

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said, enough, he just said,

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just to do Kulu, we the faster the faster, the faster to just do Kulu

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allow him. The Messenger of Allah Salam said that in the body is a

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morsel of flesh, it is sound than the entire body of sound. And if

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it is corrupted, then the entire body is corrupt, it is not but the

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hearts

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so in order to be a person of taqwa, you have to have the

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tougher has is going to resonate in your heart, and at that point

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is going to manifest upon your limbs. And last month, Allah here

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is saying that his ODR his friends, are the Fein those people

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who have Taqwa and in other verses of the Quran, Allah subhanaw taala

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mentions his love for the pain, where AleSmith Allah says in other

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verses of the Quran that you know, in the law, you hit them with the

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pain and other such verses.

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Now going on to a different subject, family, society and

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politics, honoring parents and caring for them and senior and

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seniority in their seniority.

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Your Lord has decreed that you worship numbered him, and that you

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be kind to your parents, whether one or both of them attains the

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old age, you say not to them a word of content of as long as

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Potala mentions, nor repel them, but address them in terms of

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honor. So when it comes to the parents, Allah Swatara has placed

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him on a very special rank. And the other man mentioned about this

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that Allah subhanaw taala, in order to show us the high rank

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that last month Allah has placed the parents in, he first says

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about him, will rob Booker, Madhu Illa, who the he says in the very

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beginning, that we have decreed that you worship none but Him

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meaning Allah subhanaw taala.

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And then right after that, he tells us about being good to our

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parents.

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And so Allah showing us the seriousness that he's put with the

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parents. And so this is why you always have to be in a state of

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kindness to your parents, Allah subhanaw taala has put this in the

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Quran for a reason. And last month, Allah has also said, to not

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even say a word of oath. So for example, in the translation, they

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say a word of contentment, but the scholars mentioned, that's all

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what I thought I'd say off, he used pretty much the lightest way

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of showing dissatisfaction to your parents, you know, the Arabic

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language to say off is akin to, you know, showing some type of

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displeasure to your parents. So, for example, here in America, you

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know, it might be something like, you know, saying sucking your

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teeth or rolling your eyes, or something of that to show that

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you're not pleased with what your parents have asked you for. And

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last month, I'll say don't even do that. Meaning that that is

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something minor, so don't even go above that. And for example,

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Sheikh Mohammed mo Lu Rahim, Allah Tala the Great's Mauritania

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scholar. He has a poem that he compiled on the hero of the day,

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who's called a wonderful Murat.

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For the very bitter very watch that the rights of parents

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are referred to refer to Murat you know, the rights of the

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rights of the

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the parents and the grandparents.

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When ended he says that when it he has a certain chapter, the chapter

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where he actually talks about what it means to be righteous to

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parents, and he talks about certain concepts so he says that

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hockey cutter bobotie Akiko burrowed even McCauley, what can

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be we'll just see what I'm wildly for Coca Cola cola Lena has Murphy

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decretive Jarmo Bayona the Colin Abdon de Janette and Anil Benny

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they say he said it he fugly jelly and so, Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud,

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he says in this particular beginning He says that you know,

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the realities of the RT hockey got to borrow the bid Macaulay the

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realities of having righteousness to your parents or having kindness

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of your parents is in your speech, the Macaulay or Calbee will just

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do it and also with the hearts and the body and with your wealth.

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And then he goes on to say welcome to undergo lockdown and Lena

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hospital mafi Vickery, Zhao, Zhao, javelina, and he says at first

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speech it is to speak to them a kind word

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for Coca Cola cola and Lena has Murphy degree Jamel Bayona and

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this is what has come down to us in a clear proof.

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Customer mafia decree jam Oba Yuna

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cuckolded, Abdun degenerate in the LIN bene, they say the founder

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Julian, the way that a slave will be in front of a king in front of

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his master, who was a harsh and cruel master.

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So this is the way that Sheikh Mohammed Mahmoud is, you know,

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telling us that how we're supposed to act upon this verse, that we're

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supposed to be in such a state that we will be as if, for

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example, just imagine that you are a slave, and you did something

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wrong. And you had a harsh and cruel master it how would you talk

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in front of that harsh and cruel master? If you are a slave and you

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did something wrong? So this is a way that Sheikh Mohammed will

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allude to saying that we should be with our parents. And later on in

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that same chapter, he says, you know, that part for all sorts.

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Latifah SOTA, Allah Hema Wallah that Ohama this mayhem Mellish

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Allah McKenna who yawata de Well, yeah, when that million dollar to

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Milan Juba, he says later on in that chapter that do not even

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raise your voice to them. Let's start from SOTA Lee Manuela.

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automap is mayhem are many other and don't call them by their names

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except in their place. Yeah, why did the

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Locanda who yawata D Well, yeah, but except in their place, say

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something like Oh, my father or Oh my dear parents? Yeah. Why did the

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Well yeah, but

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when that woman that when that was in Mirage, Baba, or other, or

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other colleagues like that, that are of respectful manner.

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And so this has to do with their parents. Now, when we're talking

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about kindness to the parents. This does not necessarily mean

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that you're going to obey your parents and everything that they

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tell you. For example,

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and again, God quoting from Sheikh Mohammed mo Luke's poem, he says

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later on in his in his, in his poem, he says that, you know, I'll

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tell him feature me and maybe here, you have their element that

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they actually obey them and everything that they command you

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as long as it is free from harm or death or detriments.

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And so, in general may the scholars will put kindness akin to

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obedience. And as long as your parents are not calling you to do

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something that's going to harm you or or something that is haram,

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then inshallah Tada, you should obey them. But it is not an

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absolute obedience. However, even if this thing Well, you're not

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going to obey them. For example, if they're calling you to do

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something haram, even in that particular case, you still have to

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deal with him unkindness and this is what's this verse is alluding

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to that even in such a state, you still have to approach your

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parents in a calm manner even if they're calling you to do

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something that is haram.

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