Shadee Elmasry – NBF 97 Surah alQadr
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He said that in Egypt 14 doctors
are quitting. Wow that's like in 15 years renal no doctors and love
it. Yeah because these things
when they swing badly when you when you when you do something
badly, the swings back badly and you end up never getting that
middle that you're looking for
our life
Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala
Rasulillah, who other early he was happy woman wala welcome everybody
to this opinion. So I did nothing but facts live stream.
After which we were off for what was supposed to be
three weeks, three days, four days, which turned out into to
being two full weeks.
And the reasoning behind that was something that I'll tell you the
full story and other time
when it's not so fresh in a lot of our memories, the people who were
involved. But it was basically an what we could call a series of
unfortunate misunderstandings and miscommunications. Because of that
series of unfortunate events, misunderstandings and
miscommunications, that series of ended up being stuck out of the
country for a long time. Which six days for me is a long time. And
I'm not even I don't even take, I'm not even a vacation type.
Vacation to me is work, right? To work. If you give me a vacation,
to me a vacation is to is to do more work, right? That's what I
enjoy doing. A vacation for me would be to go for
some sort of an enum or something. That would be a vacation.
Rest and relaxation on my couch.
on my couch, order a pizza, right? Don't make noise.
I did lose weight. Do I look like I lost weight? I think I did lose
weight. Right? Because of the situation. And the thing is that,
yeah, to me, when you get older, here's the thing. You have so many
responsibilities on your shoulders. It's not that I don't
like it. I enjoy it every minute of it. Right? And even if I didn't
enjoy it, I would keep telling myself I enjoy it and find a way
to enjoy it because that's the only way to get through it. Right.
And it's easier said than done.
I think he's can raise his raise that whole camera.
But when you get older you realize the great joy of silence.
Right? The great joy of just literally no one's texting you
pinging you calling you talking to you. And just get me a grandma
pizza. You know, the grandmas where they slop the pasta? And it
I mean the sauce. And they plop some pieces of white cheese on it.
Not the regular pizza. It's called the grandma. It's also known as a
Brooklyn pie. Right? Throw some herbs on that. Get me an ice coke.
Because if you're on vacation, and you're relaxing, I don't want to
be healthy. I want to be unhealthy, right?
That's the whole point of being
on vacation. Right? I can exercise later. But that's the idea here.
And it ended up being a lot longer because of a as we said already,
you know, right, we could bring that right in front of you.
Yeah, so it's a straight shot. We have with us our guests his back
from Jordan, as basically that was your pilot program to study in
Jordan, right? You were just examining what you're going to
start testing the waters testing the waters. So what you could do
and so we're gonna get to check Murad off, man, he's going to be
your he's going to be your op ed teacher for ArcView which we are
revamping actively revamping ArcView. He's going to be your
updated teacher next year. Okay. For adults. He's teaching adults
next year.
Okay, Ryan, and Rod, you're actually relieved from youth
duties next year. The youth classes online moving on. Yeah,
we'll be Sister Helen is now doing youth. Right? Every time we have
someone teach kids at Parkview
like kids kids. That's good, right? They end up saying you know
what? The kids don't pay attention. It's very hard for kids
to learn online. Unless it's a video that they could rewatch over
and over, but live online doesn't work. So they always want to go up
to the teenagers. So sister Hannah, she was doing kids. Now
she's going to be doing teenagers Jolla,
which relieves you you guys and Maureen same thing. Maureen is
doing teenage Yeah, like middle school and teenagers.
Okay, so hey, I've actually you'd be a good fit for those kids to
one day. We'll keep him on the on the bench for that are in the in
the relief in the bullpen.
shift my rather shallow be teaching the Arcada classes
for it's going to be a one year course how can you go once a week
I'm telling you you will learn, right you will learn
you're gonna learn a lot so that's gonna be on ArcView basic vnla
Tata we're revamping the entire thing when you see the new ArcView
website, you're gonna be like, Wow, I need to take these classes.
Alright, so today we resume our schedule Mondays we do we look and
read some tafsir
Tuesdays we read Shimelle of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi
wa sallam, Wednesday affairs of the Ummah, Thursday stories of the
odia. And this week, before the law, we have a full week and
pretty much I don't see that there's that being any days off
for another while there's not going to be any time I'm ready to
be like going straight shot to Thanksgiving break in the data
with nothing effects straight shot. And that's when America
works. America works to September, October, November, Thanksgiving
break, everything slows down until December. After December, people
are so slow and heavy and sick from eating too much food and, and
having the vacation. Gluttony, you slowly moved through January, you
don't even know how you get through February, right. And then
spring break March you start smelling spring break, right?
March, you start smelling the spring. And then after that it
becomes summer break and you don't work again. So we really only work
seriously in America for three months a year. And then we get
through three months a year. And then spring and summer is always
spotty. And for us of course we have the month of Ramadan is
moving up now. I think it's into March this year. Yeah. So March
and then half of and then eventually my favorite. And I
think everyone's favorite memories. If you don't have this,
it's really great to have this especially as a teenager or a
college student and Ramadan in the winter break. Or when you have the
whole winter break and you have at least a week off if you're in high
school, but in college the whole and then the nights are really
long and the days are really short. So you can you can have if
you can wait like an hour or two, rest, relax, digest, then you go
to Tata we're like full of energy unlike now you'd have to have if
dot when you're famished because you've been fasting all day. So
you probably overeat a little bit. You gotta go to the total weight
right away. You're heavy, you're miserable, you might have to go to
the bathroom. It's terrible. So but now the nights are going to be
so long imagine what we're going to do in the masjid. Like with all
the youth, and especially if it's winter break, we're gonna be off
when it was summer break, and they were off we didn't even close the
mustard. Youth just stayed the whole day is passed out into have
to hold in the master we just ordered to hold in the masjid. And
just pass out right there. Your mom picks you up, you're getting
out is your business. Right?
And that was that was how it is and that's how it's going to be.
And when it started moving into the into the square I remember the
whole messaging was in August, like two years in a row three
years in a row. Once you started moving into September. We're like
wow, it feels so weird. Like the kid no one's coming out for the
weeknight data when it's quiet. And it was like sort a little bit
depressing.
In any event, here we go.
Sorta to cut through. So to cut the first of all,
is a Makita Of course. And it refers to the Revelation we read
from
our favorite Tafseer in Bucha. We remembered had dad recommends it
as the best of deficit Why did he call it the best of deficit?
Because number one neither is it maracas normal bustle, nor is not
it's not to wedgies like for example, a CLT. Right, generally,
barely one word for one word.
Nor is it so long that you you fall into it and you can never get
them any thumbs up because it's too long such as a Rosie,
who you read a Razzie when you have time and you want to really
get into something, because Rosie will say in Anza, no philia little
cards. On inner there are five points. On the first point, there
are four points, and he's very logical, but it will take you a
while to get the thumbs up. So that's the first thing secondly,
he is a chef. He is a Persian chef and SRT so his points in the work
are wonderful. Thirdly, he covers longer, but not so much longer
that you know when you get into the logo, and eventually you want
to just skip that section.
He doesn't get so much into love it but you
We'll learn about what he does get into almost more than
many others. He's a
he's an expert in the field of art. And he tells you, you learn a
lot and I remember
when he gave he used to have give a Monday night Tafseer I don't
know if he still does in public and Teddy
right and, and he used to read from Beverly and he used to give
all the credit. Okay, and that is a beautiful thing. When you see
the different dialects upon which the Quran was recited by the
prophets of Allah revealed to him and recited by the messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you get a lot of different
nuances in the tafsir. Okay, so that's why tafsir Bowie is
preferred by Mehmet had dead is preferred. Also, it was referred
to me also but my flip teacher Sheikh Muhammad should be but in
Maliki, and in terms of the
like a contemporary scholar also still referring luckily, it's it's
a shame that it hasn't been trends, translated, and it would
be a great project for four or five brothers to get together and
do it over the span of three years, but they would really need
someone to crack the whip
to make sure it gets done, because these big projects are very hard
to get done.
In the end, Zillah houfy, later to recover, we have brought it down
Newzoo Enza no
meaning it was brought down by somebody else Nasrallah means it
came down. So for example, and as a implies that something came down
itself, and Zetta implies someone brought it down, which is correct,
because the Quran did not just fall from the sky, it was brought
down by saying the Djibouti how was it brought down? Well, it was
in the heart of Sedna, Djibouti.
And then he recited it to the messengers of Allah when he was
sending them.
Or he impressed it into the heart of the prophets of Allah what He
was sending every one of us we need to have a good literacy in
our religion. How was the Quran revealed from satan to Djibouti to
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, the Sahaba asked this
question and the Prophet said, in two ways, answers two ways. Sana
Djibouti, it comes in the form of a man, that man looks like the
companion Danielle Kelby, it looks like
and he simply recites the Quran to him, and the Prophet remembers it.
That was the easy way in which the prophets I send and receive the
why,
then there was a difficult way.
And that way was that saying that God did not come in a visible
form.
But the prophet would feel a pressure upon his body that was so
heavy that a camel would have to sit down. Or that a Sahabi once on
the Prophet just barely had his
imagine two people sitting like Indian style. Your knee is barely
touching someone else's knee, barely. That happens all the time.
If you're crouched up your knee is a little bit over someone's knee.
While the messenger is nice to Lulla what he was saying was over
the hobbies knee when the when he came upon him.
That man said he felt his femur, the thigh bone was gonna that's
your strongest? I think it's the strongest bone in the body. The
femur, definitely one of the strongest it is it's it's
terrible. If you break it. That's not it. That would be to snap that
is quite a lot effort. Yeah, the amount of healing takes because
your whole body is on that 50% of your weight is on that.
He felt that his femur bone would break. Right? That's how heavy it
was. Furthermore, if it was cold, the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam would sweat
from the pressure, if it was a cold day. And the desert cold is
really bad. Because there's no buildings, trees or mountains to
stop the cold. So the wind would just come in.
And the sahabi, one of the Sahaba he wished that he could see what
Revelation looks like. So one time the Prophet was sitting with the
Sahaba some of the lava he was Solomon say Norma knew that the
Sahaba Sahabi wanted to see what Revelation look like. So the
revelation came in the messenger. So I said, No, I'd say no, Omar
said
Furlan come, this is what you want to see. And they watched the
revelation come down on the prophets of Allah and it was
Sunday.
So why was this the case? Why what is the wisdom? First of all,
there's no Why asking why about this, we can only say what are the
wisdoms of this? One of the wisdoms of this is that
by seeing this demonstration, that the prophet is sweating in the
cold. So it was he's sweating in the cold, the camel, you cannot
conspire with a camel to do tricks to do anything, right. The camel
is not a trick a type of animal like a horse that you can train a
horse to
Sit down, do these like little things. There's a type of dancing
with horses where the driver of the horse, the rider doesn't look
like he's moving. But he's just tapping the horse so gently, you
can't see the tapping. This is a special type of dancing with
horses. Just show you how sophisticated the horses as an
animal that you can do these types of things with it. You can do this
with a camel. You can't conspire with a camel to make it sit down
like that. The camel is such a stubborn animal. It's never going
to sit down by just a tapper or whatever. So to see that they see
the camel struggling. They see a man he's about to break his bones,
you cannot make this stuff up. How it Okay, so tell me exactly how is
the messenger. So I said, I'm going to put so much pressure on a
person that he's going to break his bone without a few physically
seeing him do that. So that demonstration of the way that the
Sahaba saw it with their own two eyes, it removes, of course it has
to have it don't have any doubt in the first place. But Amen, can be
strengthened, right, you can have immense you can be certain about
something, but there's different levels of certainty.
I have a level of certainty. Let's say that you're back from Jordan,
because a brother texted me. But what are the chances that the
brother made a mistake?
It's ahead. Right? He could have made a mistake he could have
misunderstood. There's a lot of things that an honest and smart
brother can make a mistake, right? But I'll say okay, I believe you.
But that level of belief is not the same as when I see him with my
own two eyes. So the levels of certainty are different. Okay.
When the Prophet was receiving ye in this manner,
removed all of man was happening. Good to see you a man. Take a
seat.
The whole gang is here today Hamdulillah.
Absolute certainty that they had with the messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam
removing all doubt and also giving them something to see. Right? It's
one thing that I totally believe you but I never see your workshop,
right?
By the way, who is it that said that Santa Gibreel used to look
like to him Kelby the Sahaba themselves, right? They know it's
not to him Kelby. They said he looks like him. So the revelation
was something that the Sahaba used to see. And this is so important.
Because if you go and invent something, you go produce
something, I'd never see your workshop. It's so different than
when you always see the workshop, like you're working in public.
That's why restaurants when there was doubt
when that when doubt developed about the cleanliness of
restaurants. What did they start doing? They innovated something
that never used to exist in the past health certificates, death
certificates. They also put a glass you could watch them cook
right?
He could by the way, don't have health certificates in the
countries that we just went to. I just came back with a bug did you
come back with something? Maybe
it's always there. They have microbes in those countries also
that good dose of you build your immune system strong Yeah, build
it up, like keeping things
but what they started developing these restaurants if you go you
see the guy making the pizza right in front of you, or cooking right
in front of you. They put the kitchen right there for you to
see. So you can trust that it's clean. Yeah, like the sushi is
always made in front of you because fish is very, you worry if
it gets rotten or not. So the idea that there's something for you to
see
is an amazing also added
level and layer of the truthfulness
of the deen that it's out there in the open the Sahaba you want to
see Revelation you can look at it. This is so nobody could ever think
in his mind. Well what's really happening when this revelation is
happening now you see it right in front of you. And there's only two
ways in which it happens. So So ha This is where the
in hola hola esta Haman and this is such an important verse. Allah
is there is no hesitation about the Huck. What does that mean?
That means what are the meanings of Samira is asking who is dead
Kelby, Delia and Kelby is the name of a companion. Danielle Kelby his
tribe is Kelby because they used to train dogs. So
in Hola Hola, esta human and Huck. Why? Because sometimes the truth
may hurt someone we love or somebody that we don't want to
hurt them. Right or somebody that we hope to have a good impression
of Islam. So we don't say the truth, right? All of it. We may
say for example, you get a some kind of
polished executive, right? Oh, what is Islam? You're not gonna
say well, the first thing we do in Islam we cut off next rival
apostates. You're gonna have like, a bunch of craziness and leave
right
That's what he's gonna say. We're not gonna say that we're gonna say
that's quality control, sir. Don't your company have quality control?
Right? You got a bad bagel? You're gonna sell it. Dunkin Donuts you
have a damaged donut. What are you gonna do separate the wheat from
the chaff we separate right we don't want you hanging around with
our community right? With your monitored and your whatever your
apostasy
What do you do with your phone when you got too many files?
Delete close. Alright, we got a apostate in a moto did we delete
it?
Okay, delete it. Difference in hola hola. Esta human ad hoc Allah
is not ashamed. It not what's the best word? Hi, hat for us is I'm
embarrassed. I don't want to really hurt this guy's feelings. I
don't want to say something that's gonna offend them. That's us.
Allah, Allah is to him and
Allah has not has none of that.
We have of hesitation about the truth. Furthermore, there's
nothing to hide about the truth. The truth is out there. The sun is
out there. The moon is out there. So the revelation is out there.
And the Sahaba were able to see. Okay, the revelation. So
el corte Anza now Villa editor Qadiani, Quran Kena and very much
cool.
Okay, so here is something can I unhide them of course, means when
you have something that's so lofty,
you immediately go to the pronoun
or Ismail ishara. Here in Tanzania who
the Who here is a pronoun, we have brought it down, doesn't mention
what it is. And if la meme then he can pick it up that great book.
Okay. Velika is the first word describing the Quran that which is
for something far, or it's for something grant. Okay? Which
abstractly, physically and it is Grant it's grant number one, but
if it is physically far, because where was it revealed? First, and
the law and my food then in
beta is, which are physically far from us, these are physical
places, and is physically was far from us. Okay? And it is far
abstractly.
In that you'll never encompass all of its meanings. So it has all
these meanings combined.
Okay, so when you go straight to the pronoun that you're actually
aggrandizing something. And Zella who Joomla and we're headed then
feel a little Kadri min. A low Helma food ilus a summer, a dunya.
A summer dunya means the lowest heavens, which is that above us or
our heavens, that are different from paradises, there are seven
paradises, nobody enters paradise until the Messenger of Allah when
he was selling, it is open for him, say they're going in on a
slip some that's why you're lucky to be a Muslim, because every
group will be with their prophet, right? And all the prophets we'll
be looking for the messengers of Allah when he was on their email,
the Imam of the prophets, is the most of you may be asking,
oh, we're lucky to have this great OMA but I look around at the OMA
of Islam. It's a mess. Number one, their groups their *, the
countries are dirty, everyone wants to be in the West, right?
We're saying to you, this is as if you are meeting the greatest
athlete or model in in history without comparison,
when they're 80 years old,
right. Imagine meeting Tom Brady, Michael Jordan, right? Or some
other great when he's 80 years old? Does it change the fact that
he's the greatest in his field, Muhammad Ali, Muhammad Ali?
Right? At 80 years old, he can barely move, because he's so old.
You never had a religion vibrant. For 1500 years, it's never
happened in history. There's going to be a downfall of the people,
the vibrancy of it, not the truth of it, or the dean itself, because
there was a sense that Islam is the highest and nothing will be
ever higher than it. That means it's it's it's caught the
concepts, the ideas, the belief, the the teaching itself, but the
vibrancy of course, the vibrancy dies down, every generation that
prophesy centum said is less than the one before it
until you get to a level of decay that's just is not every single
athlete. At a certain point. When he raised let's say he reaches 30.
The year after is going to be worse than the year before. You're
not improving. You're not getting younger, getting older. So
according to the
History of religions most history by 1400 years 1500 years are dead
completely. They're just words. That's it no one actually lives by
them. What we're witnessing here is the exact opposite with Islam
politically it's there's nothing there.
There's no military but no in terms of individuals.
No, there's there's tons. There's tons of solder in and odia and the
OMA there's just tons more more fit in Investopedia. The ratio is
different. But the amount of solder in never decreases. The
amount of Olia never decreases. Right? Because that would be a
almost an a claim against the messenger. So I sent him but the
percentage does decrease. So in Mecca, what was it 100%? What
mean, once they went to Medina, were there more money or less,
there were more, but was the percentage more or less less,
because there was 15 in Medina had one FFP. So if you had, let's say,
let's say 100 through a 300, if you add the women and the men and
the women and the children 300 Muslims, no hypocrites in Mecca,
you went to Medina. And let's say what was the population of Medina
10,000.
Now you have, let's say, 10,000 believers, but you have a number
of hypocrites too. So the percentage goes down. Now the tab
you're in, you have all these conquests way more money, way more
solder in than in Medina and then in Mecca, in numbers, but also way
more than one at 15 confessedly. So the percentage may go down. So
we may feel that we're so few that's only relatively but the
number of solder in and odia in the home of Mohamed Salah when he
was sending was constantly on increase constantly on what to
sell for your DECA book of
Allah, these are all meanings of that. Okay, what is to come is
always better for you. That means the salah and the Salam on the
messenger, so I sent him is in constant increase what I thought I
know like a Decra. That means there are more people mentioning
the Prophet praising the Prophet every generation than the
generation before.
Okay, of course, the quality is never going to be the same as the
sahaba. And the Debian tablets have been, but the numbers are
always increasing.
So that's something to understand that the numbers are always
increasing, but the percentage is decreasing. And you'll never have
you can never be at full vibrancy all the time, there's going to be
a drop off. And now we're in a situation you have to understand
youth converts. You have we have a dean, that if you look at the 1000
years after the Prophet, show me one teaching, one teaching that
dominated its world for 1000 years.
One teaching because the brilliance of Islam is it never
pinned itself to a land or a culture.
It has a Holy Land, of course, and it has a sacred language because
it has to have something to unify it. But as soon as the Arabs went
down who started picking it up?
The the Turks were Persians, the Persians picked up the knowledge
side who picked up the muscle, the Turks, if you go from the time
very early on, they were being hired as, as as mercenaries as
soldiers. They are the ones who actually did all the heavy lifting
physically armies. What were some of these empires? The name
escaping my mind, the Seljuks. Right? The Seljuks all these these
people came in very early on, to do all the Arab stuff fighting
after 100 years. They did not have an army, the Arabs did not have a
Besitz did not you did not have Arabs in the army, like an Arab
army is done with after 100 years. It's all Seljuks okay, then you
had the Persians rise up with the knowledge side of things, right.
And so after that, when that things waned down there, then you
had a great Andalusi and Empire. Right. So it's like, wherever you
go with drops in one place, rise in other place drops in other
places rising. Firstly, you have no other idea, religion that has
this flexibility of culture and geography. Where Wherever you
look, any century at any given time, there's 234, great,
wonderful kingdoms. Right?
Dominant, safe, flowering,
flourishing, spiritually and fit materially, politically,
financially, militarily, everything at any given time, even
India, China, you go so far, Indonesia. I mean today, in this
day that we live in Malaysia is one of the safest Muslim countries
to go live in. Right. cleanest they're proud of Islam. Right. You
look at the internet and they are digital.
One of the some of the biggest organizations, some of the biggest
online operations, all coming from Malaysia and Indonesia, they
weren't even a thing to be mentioned. For the first 1000
years of the OMA didn't even know they existed. Guarantee you
guaranteed go to average, even a scholar, even a scholar in one of
the heartlands of Islam in the year 700, after the hijra, don't
even know Indonesia, Malaysia exists, right? And here they are.
Really one of the bastions today of Islam. 100 million Muslims are
there. When I look at the organizations I was discussing
with an Indonesian front, he's like, Oh, this is doubts ie such
and such doubts such and such. These are like the ISNA in the
econo of Malaysia,
Indonesia. And he's like, Oh, this organization is a small
organization, only 50 million members.
That's how it is over there in those countries. Yeah. That's how
it is in those countries in that country. Right, Indonesia and
Malaysia. Amazing. So when you're looking at the religion of Islam,
and you're wondering, how is this the prophet is the greatest
prophet and you're saying all this stuff, and your eye is telling you
something else? I'm telling you, we're telling you, Muhammad Ali is
the greatest boxer had ever lived. Go look at his footage in the last
few years, you can see an old man, right? That's what Islam has
become. The OMA of Islam, I should say, is an old civilization. It's
ancient. And yet at the same time, everyone's still afraid of it.
Right?
That's actually the biggest proof right?
So the Quran was brought down Joomla Tanwar header in one
complete the entire Quran from a local mouthful to bait Eliza so
there are seven heavens, and seven paradises leave the Paradises
aside that has nothing to do with that. The Seven Heavens are abodes
of existence that we cannot fathom what's happening in them, we
cannot even fathom the size because the prophets like Selim
said, it is like a ring in the desert by you throw this in a
desert, right?
That's how small this entire universe that we're living in. And
it's we have light years to the sun. And we haven't really reached
the edges of the universe yet, right? We don't even know our
coordinates. So like, the Apple sign here, you could say is
coordinate 50? Here and 50 here, right? Because we know the edges.
Planet Earth, we don't know where we are. Are we in the middle? Are
we in the corner, we have no clue where we are. Because we still
haven't discovered the edges of the universe. Right?
And that's dunya. That is a dunya. That means that this all of this
vastness of this universe and Hubble telescope and all those
pictures that you see, is a small ring in comparison to the lowest
of the seven heavens. Don't don't say it's like 20,000 light years
to the nearest star. It's numbers that don't even even at this point
even make sense to you are hard for the human mind to grasp. Yeah,
human mind can't even grasp it. Now if you notice.
Allah has given us from His as his from his signs of His power. He's
given us things that are so massive, your mind can grasp it,
but it is 20,000 light years. What does that mean? Right, that number
your brain would blow. But also now we're discovering something
also unique, which is the quantum level, right? Quantum is the
reverse. It's almost like all of that massiveness also exists in
smallness. That's what the word quantum means. It means so
infinitesimal. Many people misunderstand this. There's a guy
who's given a seminar to help boost your career. He's calling it
quantum leap. That's, like, much, right? He doesn't understand what
he's saying, right? A quantum leap is the exact opposite. It's very
miniscule. So when people say that, that's one of those words,
you know, quantum is you could just say it anywhere you want, you
sound like you're
sophisticated and mystical and everything and it means it just
means that as vast as the universe is that vastness exists within us,
in terms of at a very small size, right? So this from the signs of
Allah subhanaw taala that He's given us
something so huge to look at something so small to look at and
see his signs.
Now, the Quran, all of the heavenly books were revealed to
their profits in one.
One Joomla isn't all Joomla 10 wide. So all of this profits
received they're having the book right away. Our messenger Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa Salam is the only one to receive it. Okay, in
parts, but so that the prophets do not Receive it.
Receive a gift that he didn't receive than the messenger. So
Have Allah when he was selling them received it both Joomla 10
and over
I looked at a mcmains over time, so he received it to the summit
dunya all at once. So that's the Quran was has been revealed all at
once but then the individual verses came to the Prophet saw a
set of them
apart by part so that the Sahaba could feel that they're living
with the word of Allah coming down to them all the time.
So McKenna NZ Luigi de la la salaam, new German when Najmi
either hola does not just mean the shooting star it means the
revelation when it comes down.
This is
CD Ahmed and Allah we talks about this new German means part by
part. So when Nigeria either Hawa.
When the quote one of the verses of the Quran, come down, come have
a meaning coming down.
When NEJM either Hello, Mel Bella Sahaba, como Maga, your companion,
the Prophet salallahu Salam did not make a mistake. Nor was he
tricked. This is suitor to nudge.
What do they claim about the prophets I sell them on the
Satanic Verses?
Where do they say that shaytaan whispered a couple of verses in
the ear of the Prophet and snuck in.
They say happened in certain niche that Allah to Allah preempted you
all, knowing some people would say this, about Sudha about these
Satanic Verses.
He begins the SUTA use they say it's at the end of suitors in
Nigeria. When no no god * Allah insha Allah Tahuna torture.
That's the verse in the Honda alojado new Corolla we're in
Nashua, 200 liturgia these are the two Satanic Verses.
Okay, coming at the end of certain legend, they say that as the
Prophet was receiving suited to nudge, then IBLEES snuck these two
words in
and it means these idols, the 360 idols that they had around the
Kaaba are like beautiful birds, like doves and their intercession
is to be desired. And that when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam the according to this false story, he said this
then celebration happened, unity and peace has occurred. We've have
a deal now. We have a deal. We're Cipolla, but we use the idols as
intercessors.
Oh, ancient ancient Walker, the walker do you think was one of the
first to transmit it? Okay, which is of course why all the Orientals
love him or Angeles love any deviation? Right. Any deviation?
So
welcome, he says it's some scholars repeated it. And then but
anyone who has any sense, they say you set it in suit they set it
ends a certain edge, okay. And then the reality is suited to
najem preamps. All this says when Najmi the Hawa means and why he
when it comes down? Mal De La Cibulkova. Well, my take on it,
and he doesn't speak from himself. Okay. Al Hawa the power of an
individual is the receiving panel of a shaytaan. Good,
especially in the Quran itself. Well, my whole issue. My whole bit
code is shaped on the regime, Faina tebboune.
The woman who will be a coda shaped on is not the word of a
shakedown regime. So where are you going?
You guys know that. You know that. Why this is in the news lately,
The Satanic Verses, because the guy got stepped, right? Some?
What's his face again? Salman Rushdie. He's in his Indian all
the time. I thought he's Persian. Turns out he's
14 itself who is gentle Bella mustache.
So they said about this suited to nudge and that there was
celebration, and then WORD OF THE CELEBRATION reached at Habesha.
And they said, Okay, there's no reason to be migrating anymore to
Ethiopia, the first migration so let's all come back. All that is
not the case. And it is not true at all, that the prophets of Allah
when he was salam made a mistake in the way and where's the
correction? Right? One of the proofs, there is not a single
thing, that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did,
that Allah subhana, which Allah brought something different. And
there's wisdom behind this, many people don't realize this is to
give Tisha to both things. So why is it that the Prophet would do
something? Yet the Quran would come with the opposite. Doesn't
that make the Prophet look that some people will say, No, no, both
are Mushara. That's why because the Quran is giving Allah is
basically saying you
have options. The prophets I send them decided one thing and Allah
said no do the other thing. Both of them are options. For example,
they always say, the Quran corrected, Allah corrected the
prophets. I said I'm in Sudha to abba, abba to Allah. First of all,
since one is frowning, a sin,
frowning is not sinful.
In fact, I Messiah was a wala, that is the right thing to do, as
opposed to cursing somebody out, yelling at them saying bad words
to them. So Abba Tola, that's what you're supposed to do. It's a
natural human response. That's a natural human response and the
province I send them did not say, Why are you interrupting us? Why
are you bothering us? So I'm having a meeting. Any any person
is having a meeting with a big shot. Good. Now we, we give people
their dues, right? This is even in our books in our works have to So
Wolf is part of it's a branch of humility, give people their dues.
If a judge comes in, let's say a judge says, Hey, I'm learning
about Islam. I want to learn and attend about facts. A judge called
me from northern New Brunswick. I always say okay, brother, come sit
here. No, you have to treat him with the respect that he deserves,
even if he's not a Muslim, because that's what he's used to. Right.
And Zillow, nessa Mina, Zillow home, that's the prophesy said,
I'm teaching. It's an Have you bought his book on to solve, to
respect him as part of humility. Now I'm having a meeting with a
judge. Now, some guy comes in and starts interrupting and asking
about, you know, questions of Dean with a good intention, but he's
interrupting his body. He doesn't know, we're having this meeting
here. Right. And he doesn't know that which was respect this
person.
The fact that Prophet never said anything, that's from the oluwo of
the clock of the prophets, I send them because 99.999% of the human
beings would have this person shooed away and would say
something I don't see him having a meeting. Right.
So that's the first thing to say. It is completely 1,000%
permissible. If it's permissible.
Then how's the problem being corrected? He's not being
corrected. He's being shown something easier for him to do.
Allah subhana which Allah wants to make the matter easier for the
Prophet salallahu alayhi wa salam, how my saying, oh, messenger,
whenever you have the pressures of the debates and the discussions
with these elites, and you have a pious Muslim coming, like which
one is the easier fruit? The low hanging fruit the pious Muslim,
the Dawa is the harder part, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada saying, is making
defeat for the Prophet. He said, In fact,
when you have to choose go with the pious Muslim, teach him, he's
the one who wants to benefit, right? Oh, the one yes, he's a big
shot for dunya only. He's a big shot here in this I had to dunya
outwardly only, but as hard as away from from Allah. So go to the
one who wants Allah. So it should not be that people say these
things like
Quran is correcting. Allah is correcting the prophets of Allah
when he was salam, as if to say that this is a regular person
making mistakes like me and you, right people really they this is
they lose their edit with sudut Ababa as soon as the law or do
like a ball and for Heather Berlin, Berlin means searching
does not mean astray in this area. If he's astray, what's the sin
that he did? Did he worship and I don't know, did he drink? No. So
that ball at all profit was not ball from the respective astray?
They love these things. Well, I think the Nefab the hypocrisy in
the hearts of some people is is it magnetically attracted. I want to
speak about sources of law so I can say something bad about the
Prophet. So I heard that one of the signs of the Monica clean
Yeah, Medina is they would always intentionally recite every single
Salah sort of opposite promises. Intentionally Subhanallah not like
you're caught on man. It's just you reached this surah Yeah.
recited or you know, every once in a while, but they say I remember
hearing a while and that was one of their signs they would
intentionally recite opposite there is there there are a by
debt. There are actions in Islam, that can be done
with expressed purpose of, of something that's sinful or
hypocrisy hypocritical. What's the proof of that? Did not the
hypocrites build a mosque? All right, and Allah called that Mr.
Crawford will draw with a freak benomyl Meanwhile, Southern limit
Harab Allahu wa salam public for things Allah called this mosque.
It's a mosque of Kufa.
Right it's a mosque of there are harm they want to offend the
prophets Allah send them and they want to hurt the OMA and conspire.
And it's a message of message Khufu well there are or we say
where saw the demon horrible Allahu Allah SUTA homak
Double and it's a safe haven for everyone who is against this Deen.
Right? If they're plotting with the pagans, man cupboard,
WomenHeart of Allah Allah McCubbin means the pagans. They make deals
with the masjid again in this mosque, right? So you can recite
Quran with the wrong intent. You can remember her dad calls Ahmed
Onsala, who read the B button, write a good deed, but he means by
it, but we say about the whole Wahhabi movement and the will to
make the Ottomans Mushrikeen. It's looks like piety. Oh, we want to
protect the deen. But in fact, the result of it is to free that was
the third one that we missed to free separation. And it's just an
excuse to rebel against the ruler. And now who was the biggest one
about the ruler, the ruler, the ruler, is that right? So the
effect of these people showing up
what time is it now? How are we doing on time? We're not going to
finish this today for sure.
It's 230 Right now
the majuba
and then we
will rock Leila to cut to show something is great ALLAH SubhanA
wa Tada says
to show something is great. He asks and who will make you know
about Leila
like what is going to make you know about limiter
so me at Laylatul Kadri the Leila tuck deal and more will come some
have said that your destiny for the next year finalized on this
day.
Your cut did Allah fie her
am Rossana
the affair of the entire year.
Why because you're a badass
your ama etcetera
have possibilities that they can be lessened em hula Mesha with
Bitcoin Dawn will catch up, they can be lessened or increased.
So what's an example? If I do a bird and sadaqa and Doha,
Qatar, Bella tribulation is destined for me, okay. But if I
did a bird and I did and I did many things, either one of two
things happen either that a bird will act like arrows that will
chip away and break away that cutter
right because the prophets I said them said that the DUA it is
continues to be that the DUA and the cutter of a believer yet any
journey for summit they wrestle in the sky. So it either breaks it
up. So I get small tribulations not one big one or
the other meaning of is that a bad and the drought will literally be
so strong. It will the color will come down but it will never hit
me.
It will come down Yeah, at any journey for summer in a normal PM.
What did the Prophet mean? It means you you live past it and
die. And that got the leverage. It did come down. It was willed to
come down it did come down. But you blocked it in the same way,
don't we? We build roofs and we blocked the rain. Do we say that
the rain doesn't come down. The rain comes down but you don't get
what?
That's one of the wisdoms of it Alright, so that's one of the
meanings of that. That little cards if you're
the disc destinies
and they also say that this night is FIA you Franco Kulu Amarin
Hakeem Surah dokkan It is said that that refers to NIS for Shaban
later to nurserymen Shaban and later cutter, there's two
different statements on that.
So
here he says here called that Allah Who che it bit duck fief
that ALLAH SubhanA which autumn may declare a decrease in this
matter or an increase in it increases it as decreases
sickness, things like that
it is said to Hussein if not for a laser cut cut that Allah will
knock out the Euro Kubla and Yak Luca, similar tool has not Allah
decried decreed everything before the heavens in the earth or even
created called uno de la. He was told from our manner and then what
is the meaning of letters of God?
The color is driven to whomever it was destined for. Right it begins
to be enacted for that person manifestation, the manifestation
of that.
And we can say that as Al Qaeda, al Qaeda, al Qaeda is the decree.
Al Qaeda is a manifestation of it or call it as sorry
well
A electoral automa was shut off and coldness the fallen and the
Emir. Cut. So when you say cause it does not always mean the issue
of divine decree and destiny it means greatness cut that
yes, God drew of him. His worth is great. It status. Elijah Waldman,
Zilla
Kadar to Falana I have been to God Allah Allah Mercado Allah. They
didn't give Allah the
do that he is worth as they that he deserves. They really take it
lightly, and they're gonna see
they're gonna take it, they're taking it lightly, but they're
gonna see because we're all gonna die. And that's where it's going
to be cold and fossil at that point, complete. So every
atheists, I read you guys about that atheist who right at the
moment of his death, he was talking to beings.
There was an atheist who lived entire life
against God, right? arguing for atheism against God. Good. And
then he grows. And you know, when these they just see we grow old
with so much dignity. When a chef grows old, it becomes a Baraka.
He's surrounded by people, when you're surrounded by people that
removes a lot of the natural sadness of aging, like when you
get really old, but you're surrounded by people, right? So
this man, he had nobody anymore except his wife. He had a
grandkid. That's
his wife dice. Now he lives 25th 1015 years after his wife
dies, now he's completely lonely.
Now, in this loneliness, his mind changed. Right? He's like, there's
no way all this life that I live can be meaningless. It's got to be
a reason.
So he slowly started to go away from atheism, until his son, his
grandson said, to make a video of him, like give us a video of your
last few days, etc, etc. He said that,
like in the last day of his life, he was talking to unseen things.
That's also recorded. With a lot of you moms that passed away.
Yeah, like 101 is, his son told him say Allah, Allah, Allah,
Allah. And then he heard his dad say, No. And then he was passing
in and out of consciousness, email him.
So he passed, he lost his consciousness, and then he
regained consciousness. And you look at his son, he said, what's
wrong? And it's sunset, I told you say, Leila, and then I heard you
say no. And he said, I wasn't talking to you. touchy thing I was
talking to ship on ship. I was trying to maybe that was slam at
the last moment. I cheated. No, I'm not gonna that was sprouted.
And that is from the things that were warned about at the last
moment. shades on comes and gives doubts. Right? Which is just
something Subhanallah
tries.
Until your last breath. Probably something like chiffon was saying,
Oh, you finally vanquished me.
Yeah, he said, No, not yet. Subhan. Allah subhanaw taala. What
was the one? Who was it? There was a great what's the Kalam?
Yeah.
Yes. Tell us about
magic within and Cobra. Yeah. So it was certainly MAMARAZZI Rahim
Allah was on his deathbed. shaytaan came to him
and said to him, give me a proof for the existence of Allah. Say
Mama rasa give him a proof. Yeah. And then the chef answered
something to counter.
Then he memorized to give them another proof. And she answered
something, a counter and then another. And every time he
memorized he was giving a proof, the chef on would say something to
counter it. So then his chef knew what was going on. Chef manager
didn't do it alone. And he told the MAMARAZZI to say Just Say,
Amen to Allah and be quiet. Just say I believe in Allah and stay
silent. So when he said that, the shaytaan asked him for proof.
Chef African was he said, I believe in Allah, and you just
remain silent and the chips aren't gonna say anything.
So
I'm telling you, sometimes the old folks
and they always talk about the religion of the old lady, you man.
Yeah. And the religion of the old lady does not contradict theology.
The religion of the old lady means she has no doubts about the
basics. That's what they mean by the religion of the old lady. This
old lady doesn't get into theology, right? Does that mean we
shouldn't? When they say the religion of the old lady, what
they mean is, she knows the basics, and she's solid on the
basics. That's what they mean about the men and Jews. They don't
mean that she doesn't debate issues. She doesn't get into
issues. But one of the things about the elders, there are some
of these just common most
Sometimes they just go with their gut, you're a bliss, you're full
of nonsense, you're lying. Everything that comes out of your
mouth is a lie. I'm not even talking to you. The scholars have
to, it's fun to dine upon a phunki failure upon the ALMA, so much of
the show, because we're here to set if you bliss wrote a book, one
of the moods Academy would have to respond to it, he would have to
read it and respond as a foreign key failure on the class of
automatic. Right. But that doesn't always mean that that's always the
best strategy of dealing with the bliss.
And when we say dealing with the bliss, we mean all the bliss, the
movements that that are out there, their bliss, the movements,
they're at least the people who will suggest stuff to you. You
don't always have to answer them. Sometimes you just have to set
your I'm not I'm not even discussing anything with you. I'm
not talking to you. Sometimes the best response to silence Yeah,
sometimes there's a fitna, the best thing is to not talk about
it. Yeah, it dies out and dies down. So it dies out some fitness
you need to address because otherwise it'll spread. But
sometimes there's fitna there just someone who wants attention. Yeah.
And if you give them attention, the fitna only grow. So it's
better not to give them anything and just let it die and just show
the Shoom away. And that's one of the wisdoms of that phrase, the
man of the old lady.
Let's stop here, because
this is a longer suitor. And we will stop here. And let's go to
the today. We have comments questions. We have Chef Mirage
with us. We have us man Wizard of Oz with us. We have Ryan at the
mic. We have Sohei is with us too. So let's stop here. Let's turn to
Instagram.
We have an hour, less a little less than an hour.
We have a little less than an hour about 45 minutes to do an open QA
today. Okay, is the Instagram fuzzy or is it just my download
hasn't downloaded clearly.
It's crisp good. All right. Well, we let's see. All right. Put your
questions in now remember, I don't like to scroll up because it can
oftentimes mess up the the feed. Good. Lily Rose.
I think someone else's mum wasn't too good. But my nephew's weren't
too well with COVID.
The mum that's British for mom mun English was our towels that are
used to clean private parts nudges. And there's a difference
between nudges by Sharia and disliked by you personally. So no
Jessa we know what no Jess is. blood flowing blood, *, urine
defecation, vomit, acid reflux,
liquid intoxicants. Okay. All that's not just. But so sweat is
not not just right, dirt is not notice. So there may be something
disgusting to you. But it's not my shitty on ledges, and stains and
colors since
we're not taking to account for so there may be blood. Let's say
there's blood flowing off a person onto a towel. So that's an
adjuster. When you wipe it out with water, and the moment the
water comes off cleanly, there's not an address anymore, even if
it's still red. So there's a big difference between what disgusts a
person and what isn't addressed. Likewise, in the medical method,
there's a big difference between what is disgusting an uncommon to
eat, and what is hot on tea. So whenever the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam forbade eating something,
the mannequin FIP takes it as that's out of disgust and it's
uncommon to eat not haram to eat. So for example, Lion Tiger dog
is forbidden. Not a pro for prohibition, but a cut off a
prohibition for forbidden for to Hareem. But he forbade it for
Coteaux here.
It's just mcru to eat these
Suba Z predator animals to eat a predator in magic effect is what
is feeling like life is passing you by and you are living the same
year with no progression of sign of idleness. You always want to
feel like you're progressing. I think that progress is something
you feel it has signs it has you always feel that you're
progressing and if you feel like you're not progressing, then
number one that doesn't necessarily mean you're not you
couldn't be progressing so slowly
but surely
It is possible that you are progressing but number you always
want to you don't want to feel that way too long you want to feel
that you are progressing so sometimes put a little more weight
on the bar
and whatever the it is that you're doing put some more time into it
put some more intensity into it.
Ah VAs three
May Allah bless the whole crew, we miss you last couple of weeks
hamdulillah it's glad to hear that
see these nice prayers from people?
May Allah also accept from you.
100 Allah says is yes, Eden Jana. It's not for us to discuss use it.
Right. We know what he did. And we know that Quran has established
Lana and many harsh punishments on murders. And we know the prophets
I sent him establish Lana on those who instigate fitna in the city of
Medina. So that we know and did he die upon Toba? Allah Allah, we
don't know that right? So there's no record of that. So he did not
die in a good state. He died upon revolute revolting on to Mecca.
That's what he died upon. He died. Having just sent his army to
revolt to quell sorry not revolt but to crush Zubair sin is aware
of the loveliness of me. Just not a good death. honest with you.
Ah, VAs three, starting law school. Allah Tada give you TOEFL
HBS. Where are you starting your law school? IE, are you out of
England? Are you here?
Man Massoud says I read a post on Instagram which said that every
woman is made from her mom's rib.
Interesting.
or Muharram being like her dad, does does he mean like her like
her husband? Husband what? And that she gets and then she gets
married to him but a woman may marry for money. Husbands more
than one husband by death and divorce.
I don't know about that. We don't have any of that in religion or
religion doesn't pass away or divorce or like we don't have that
in our religion. Maybe some other people have that but we don't have
them. What are some good books on too so we'll start with heavy
almost introduction to to so we'll
start with heavy bombers introduction to to self is
congregational vicar haram. No congregational vicar is different
upon in the OMA in terms of the Unison of it with the high nebula
holding that Subhanallah not all the 100 and some of the early
scholars in different methods that they could in unison all the
voices together would be bid on my crew, my crew and others the
latter ones all deeming it
when dupe.
But Victor out loud, many people doing it out loud, is never been
an issue has never been an issue in any method. It's one voice is
the issue. Okay, one voice. And by the way, in practical real life,
the idea of the all allowed all of us doing thinking out loud, is not
to think
you would leave such a gathering, like all of us doing out loud.
Separately, you would leave like I was thinking.
Yeah. And he's reciting Surah Surah Baqarah. And he's reciting
the Buddha. Right? And Ryan's reciting Jannatul credit and so
hey, is just saying Allah Allah, Allah Allah. He will leave such a
gathering. You can't focus. Okay, so for those who say yes, it is
mushroom, flicker out loud in a group, but not in unison. Is
mushroom they say that
means it's part of the Cydia
show me one gathering of such Nikkor. It's not physically
possible.
It's a cacophony. And when it did happen, by the way, here's here's
the biggest proof when it did happen. What did the Sahaba do?
Number one, when did it happen? Tada. We
they were all praying totally separately. This one's praying out
loud. This one's praying from suitors and hundreds and other
Sahabi praying from spirits at Bacara. Everyone's praying
taraweeh out loud. What did the Sahaba do is it this is not
fathomable anymore. We can't do this anymore. It's a cacophony of
sound, he can't focus. So one of the Sahaba brought them all upon
one, amen. Right. So what goes was separate to be unified. Alright,
so even those who say yes, it is much true but not in unison. Then
at that point, we say show me one such gathering in practical real
life doesn't exist. The only types of group out loud gatherings of
liquor that exist are those with one voice. Alright, I have a
question. Yes. What about the
without putting in for ANA festa Mia hola who
like does that? Because that would indicate that you know if someone
is reciting you should be quiet and listen to them that's that is
used as one of the proofs for why the Quran specifically should not
be recited in a group.
There are early Malik guides that have that an early Hana fights
that happen that and it is emetics futsal is he heard that there are
people there are gatherings they recite the Quran together. He did
not make in caught of it as a prohibition. But he said that's
not the way it's done. One person recites everyone else listens.
A chef aka said no who said this because the Quran Quran for STEMI
Allah who wants to if the Quran recited then listen to it and pay
attention. That means do not pay attention to something else. The
chef Hey You said this.
But if you're reciting the Quran aren't ships paying attention
right? So you are paying attention to so they permitted it for that
reason. So they use the same verse, But they took the total
opposite route ruling because you are reciting Quran so you are
paying attention to it. So the chef a Imam and know his book on
DAB how medicinal Quran he has a chapter on this, in which he in a
sense debates the other opinions and he says that group recitation
of the Quran all of us are said in the same sort of outloud is mundu
been mature and valid. And if that's the case with the Quran,
it's it must be the case with all tests. Right? It must be the case
because it's just because in the Quran, right? So better, smarter,
bigger and we all say the Subhan Allah because we all say that
together in the Quran, and the Quran has said is the greatest of
the group so you can find it in a small passage of Imam and know his
book. homiletic Quran very good. It's a very good book. Everyone
should have it. All right, now let's go to
my OB MOA
from
Moby Dick. Isn't his name Moa. And Moby Dick.
Ahab sorry.
Opponents of Assam criticize the practice of * slavery. What
happened to women to have defeated soldiers? On the opposing side
after Muslim? What do you talk? Why start talking about the
Muslims? Let's talk about the whole world at that time. What was
the world doing? And then what kind of rules did Islam bring the
entire world at that time?
Listen, you guys came to kill us. We are killing you. If we don't
kill you. Now, this is known and accepted law of human behavior.
You tried to kill us, we are now allowed to kill you.
If we capture you, we have the right to kill you. If we don't
kill you, you should be thanking us. Okay? Should be thanking us.
Because we can either kill you sell you back to your people as
ransom,
or make you work for us your body's hours. If I can kill you, I
can definitely make you work for me. Right? That's less. That's
what the old world used to do. Or I could jail you which is useless
because now I'm just spending money and time keeping you in a
box. That's useless. So I'm going to do one of these three things.
Now, if women were involved with that,
then what happened in the old world was raped left and right.
Right.
I don't know what the laws were. But they definitely weren't what?
They weren't laws that were anything friendly. That's for
sure. It was a wild world out there. That's why so many people
related to gangs come every other day CIC he says, Well, I'm gonna
say it on my dad's side. And on my mom's side, we're from Jingis
Khan, as if this is an achievement, that means one of
your great grandmother's was raped, right? As if it's an
achievement to be related to this mushrik. Okay.
It's not just that not true. The Desi culture and Indian culture
are related to Kangaskhan. Okay, well, I mean, the Apple has fallen
far from the tree. Because you ain't conquered nothing, right?
You are far from that you'd like scrub barely.
So the what they used to do in the entire world was modified by the
world of Islam. And you people have to be practical. You can't
just come and erase an entire thing. It's as if coming today.
And we discover, let's say that some practice that we have, like
using paper money, we discover that that's going to lead to some
great harm in the year 4000.
And they come around Oh, the year 2001 And they just eliminate paper
money. You can't just do that. Right? It's not how the world
works. The Quran, the Sharia of Islam came to actually mitigate
things and
give them some edge of civilization until they can be
altered slowly and that's the case with slavery men and women's
slavery. It's also the case with with polygamy
The four you can marry for women is a downgrade from limitless
women. All right?
Jews and Christians going crazy about us. And they hate polygamy
so much. What do you on about your own profits, David and Solomon
had over hundreds and 1000s of wives of slaves. And you're coming
to us, right? When the prophesy centum said marry four, right? Or
the Quran says marry up to four, and you're coming to us go look at
your own books. Alright, so the Quran actually decreased this
same thing with the matter of slavery.
And when a,
a woman was taken as a slave of a person, then there were some cases
where she was still married,
then the slave or owner can't touch her.
Right? So there's a lot of stuff in those chapters on the
interaction with slaves.
Also of
if their men died in battle, and nobody was left except the woman
and children, what would you have them do? Go back down, but go back
out on the streets? They imagine a world as if there's social
security system, and safety net programming, on the street, or on
the street? Have you seen the Book of Eli? Do you need to watch the
Book of Eli? Oh, you just fast forward through the movie, just
take a look at what the world was like. That's what the world was
like. If you didn't have a protector and a man, you're out
there in the wilderness, you could not survive one day, right? And a
man could not survive without a tribe either. He'd be ganged up on
and you'd have to join the tribe. People just don't understand what
the world used to be like. Right. Women were never expected to work
either. Not to get into the discussions whether they're
allowed to yeah, there's just never no society ever expected
that women were going to be breadwinners, that they're going
to be earners, that they're going to have careers. Yeah, some did.
But that wasn't the principle. It's a principle with that, you
know, they're taken care of, yeah, the cradle to the grave. Their
fathers, their brothers, their husbands, their kids. Yeah,
they're the ones who are taking care of the women. That's, that's
correct. And also physically speaking, like it practically
speaking, I mean, it wasn't even possible. I remember reading a
book about West African life. What is life like? West Africa, this
was around two, year 2000 to 2003. The book was just written in the
90s. So we're talking about 9095 9697. What is West African
lifelike.
And most of the people in West Africa at that point were were
like in tribes and villages. And what they would say is you wake up
in the morning,
you do what you can do when the sun is soft, right. And then you
rest again, because when the sun is harsh, everyone goes home to
sleeps. So from that time, then you wake up again.
It takes all day to prepare dinner
all day,
right to prepare a meal. And the women in the tribe, they get
together and they prepare this. So practically speaking, it was not
even something possible. If we're going to eat today, someone's got
to prepare that food. Today, we can prepare a dinner and an hour.
I can go to the supermarket, buy a couple of things that'll take me
25 minutes, go home, throw it all in a pen, and boom, we have dinner
in one hour. That was not possible. Not too long ago,
impossible. Dinner was a four or five hour operation. On top of
that.
Changing a baby and doing laundry.
Nursing. In other words, yeah, how long it would have taken? I cannot
imagine.
They used to have cotton diapers. That means that things got to be
washed all the time. And we just took the foot thrown in the
garbage get a new one, right? No, they had to wash that thing all
the time.
Yeah, piece of ice to watch. Wow, it's crazy. And then what about
hanging the life just living? My point is just living took so much
time and effort. It's unbelievable. We just don't
understand that in the modern times. And a woman in our
religion, we do have a concept of gender. We shouldn't shy away from
it. We have a philosophy of gender, things that have to do
with labor and danger, or the duty of the mill. Things that have to
do with compassion. And care is the role of a woman. Allah wants
the woman to be soft in that regard, and wants the man to be
hardened in that regard. You cannot certain things are soft,
certain things are hard in nature in life. That's how it is. Right?
And that's what he wants. That's what Allah wants. There's only one
gender that is called upon to kill the spider in the room.
Subhanallah it's I can fit it in reality, right? One gender, that's
how it is. In reality we saw we were somewhere one time we saw a
cockroach this big, right?
You imagine that? I killed yesterday's cockroach. 5050 years
ago today's cockroach. So my point is to we're gonna
By are we going to live by one which philosophy we're going to
live by when it comes to gender, you know, by Islam than we live by
Islam, live by secular ideas on masculinity and femininity, live
all of it by that. And don't come saying I'm going to do whatever I
want. And then, oh, I was abused, you didn't protect me. How can I
protect you? You don't listen to me, right?
I can't protect it. My son goes, runs across three as don't run
across the street. Right? Any road runs across the street, and then
it gets hit by one of these drivers. What am I going to
encounter? I told you, right? You don't get sympathy.
You don't get sympathy I told you not to run across the street. So
you don't listen to me. Okay, you're gonna get armed. So the
point is not to be a dictator. But the point is, if you are the
protector,
you have the right to make certain decisions. Because I'm responsible
for you, right?
I want to go off to Washington State all the way across the
country live in a dorm and study the arts.
No,
I can protect you there. Can I protect you there? No, I can't. So
then something bad happens. Don't come crying to me. Because if you
want to play that game, I'll do it too. Right? That's only sounds
like a bit rough. But the only way to actually get the message across
if you don't want the, what Allah has given us. That the father, the
husband has to protect his wife and children. And you say no, no,
we don't want any of that. That's all the old world. And the
patriarch. We want to just go do what I was. Okay. Maybe I should
just use it. Alright, okay.
It can be an up raped can call me. Right? What goes? He's a man. He
has own agency. He goes, Oh, I got beaten up in Jordan. If, right,
like under the law happened? What? Sorry about that?
He would by the way, he will say he will be embarrassed, right?
Because I felt right.
I say I got beaten up.
You know, embarrassed, right. So what sort of fighting I ended?
That's a good one. This is circadian blood. But the point
being is that we just have to have one system that we live by. Right?
And it's a generous system.
I say, Oh, should a woman work? Well, I mean, there are certain
things that she's not completely not wrong for her to do. Right. So
we can't restrict it so much that what did that what else are they
going to do?
What else are they going to do in the day? They got to do something?
Right? to pass the time to do that. Also, they have brains they
have? Will they have ideas? Right? Did they not get educated in these
some of these great school systems and universities? You can't just
take that all education and sit there and do nothing. You have to
be practical about things. So some of the other brothers that Okay,
now this put her in a box, right?
And that's the Islamic living. No, it's not. How's that Islamic
living? I don't see that.
Anywhere.
Go ahead with you guys. So yesterday, we went to like family
friend's house, they have like their daughters all grown up
there. Her family, like her husband and her together are
bringing in over $750,000 a year. And they're just like talking
about their kids. Like they have a three, two or three year old kid.
And they're saying yeah, you know, like, he says things to parents,
like, oh, you know, moms and dads are supposed to be nice, but you
guys don't ever let me do what I want to do. Where's this three
year old getting this idea from? And it's, you know, like, they're
talking about nannies and things like that. They're like, Oh, we
got the best of the best. We got a Korean nanny. And, you know, but
the thing is, is that the food is different. And you know, they're a
little strange. This lady, you know, like, obviously, like, you
know, everyone's situation is different. This lady is going out,
bringing almost a million dollars a year to pay for someone to do
the job that Allah created her to do. And she's outsourcing the job
to someone from a different culture from like, just, it was
just so strange and weird. Like, you know, these kids, all they do
is watch TV nowadays. Yeah. And they just pick up on these ideas.
How is the three year old? How do they even have this conception in
their brains? You fast forward and 20 years and see what the regret
is like, because even for me, personally speaking, I can't stand
missing out on any of my kids things out for two reasons. Number
one, the world is crazy out there that needs to be there needs to be
like some presents. There's ideas floating around right now. If you
want your kid to have a slump, there's effort needs to be put
into to the number one. Number two.
When time passes, youth is the never comes back. Right? Childhood
never comes back. So I could miss out on a friend for a decade.
Nothing will happen. Right? He's still there. But you can't miss
out on a childhood for a decade. I always feel bad every time I miss
one thing because you never know
couldn't be the last one. Right? You just you want to be I want it
you want to grow old. And this is just general advice, life advice,
nothing to do with the dean. You want to grow old, you want to be
40 and 50 and say I didn't miss a thing and hamdulillah as much as
possible. Right? That's what you're going to feel good about.
You're not going to feel good about, you're not going to feel I
made a million dollars a year, I could have made 2 million. I don't
think anyone says that. Right? You're not going to regret having
not made 2 million. Right? I've only made a million. So you do
need to make your money. That's one thing. You cannot can't go
without money. But you don't want to miss your kids childhood. And
that's where I feel like these ideologies are fooling us. Right?
Even there. There are some business coaches that are demons.
Yeah, they're like, Alright, I want to test you. You're about to
go on your family vacation. You're about to go to your girl's
graduation, your daughter's graduation. Right? Your wife says
she planned a great dinner for you.
And then you get a business call that there's an emergency in the
office, which one do you choose? Right? So some of these business
coaches do a deal with the devil in the sense that they will
sacrifice absolutely everything, including the hearts of their own
kids and their own wives for the sake of their career. There's not
like careerism goes one way goes both ways.
A man could have how many shoes? Do we know?
They're careerists. They put their Musyoka and their position as jobs
especially the dot and the storytellers in the sauce and the
speakers. They put their career above their family
even if he's just local Imams do this sometime to put the message
in in the community as number one
but then you see the kids shake is like the worst kid
it's terrible, right?
How does one's skin fast?
There is a fast thing of the skin. Maybe you could say that the it is
in the magic method mcru to put on perfumes and to sniff it okay. Is
also mcru to sniff perfumes because it's a pleasure. So they
consider
what is the murder of a woman in front of a woman
an older magala which is the private parts right in front of a
woman in front of the woman private parts dies
and
do the Hanafi says from the shoulders to the knee
I know it's I know the thighs
well you basically would not be allowed to show except to your
husband. Yeah your baby to you know you have to do do your
business shower things. Yeah, a woman's not allowed to see that.
What about breastfeeding woman in front of woman
after double check I'll have to check that out.
This is this movement is disgusting by the way. I was in
the airport the other day one just breastfeeding right in front of
everybody. No shame. I saw I don't know if you
watch the video but apparently there's a woman on the brain
on a plane breastfeeding.
There is a woman on a plane. I don't know if it's true.
Apparently she was breastfeeding her cat.
Yeah, it was
it was great. No, I think I think no the video No, the video was
real. The cat was fake. I don't know why she
but the video was real though. It wasn't a it wasn't a skit. But she
had a toy cat I toy cat Yeah. That she was bringing to her *.
Yeah. For what reason? I have no idea is the weirdest thing. That
also is weird. Some there's mental issues like with a lot of people.
Fictional frontiers says.
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Watermelon 786? Do you advise marrying someone who falls short
in terms of practice, but he's willing to improve? No, no. As as
they are expect them to be forever. Okay, so you have to
accept them, expect them not to change, not someone who's trying
to improve. But what I mean by that is in obligations and
prohibitions, not within the realm of obligations and prohibitions,
right? So if a guy is he's just a general Muslim,
but he doesn't do anything.
And he fulfills his obligations, then fine, then that then the
claim, I want to get better fi except that claim, and no problem.
But if he's false, or I pray three times a day or two times a day,
and I'm just trying to get there, then expect him to stay there.
Right? You so you should you should not have expectations of
change.
That's the philosophy and here's a better philosophy. You want to
marry somebody? Alright, in 20 years, that's your son? Are you
happy? Or not? That same guy that you see right in front of you?
Who's proposing to you?
That's your son and 20 years? Are you happy with that? Marry him?
Are you not happy with that? Don't marry him? Because that is very
likely what's going to happen? Right?
If anything, the challenges of life, they etch away at our
religion in a sense, I have to say, yes, people sometimes get
better but the challenges of life and especially we're not living in
an era that's neutral. The fits in are getting worse. So the edges
away at religion.
So
that's, that's my opinion on it the way that you want.
When you see someone proposes to you,
man proposes to you, you tell yourself that's my son and 20
years, are you accepting it or not? Alright, are there that's my
son in 30 years, or daughter? Ma'am says do you advise marrying
someone who falls short? Yes. Okay. So that's the answer. So if
he falls short, only in no effort, for example, he doesn't attend
classes or he but he prays and he fasts, then that should not be the
reason to reject a guy, right? Or a woman.
falls short in nowhere fill in extra things.
Okay, but he is halal. His finances are halal. His job is
halal. He prays any fast. What else do you want from the guy?
Going back to the question you asked I have here in the hunter
phase, yes, it is prohibited for women to expose their * to
other women. Okay, so breastfeeding in front of women to
women is forbidden, let alone women to men.
I have to double check. To be honest with you.
What about someone has a doubtful past of major sins that we judge
them by their now and their recent past? That's how you look at a
person and we don't ask around did you go commit major sins and even
if a person did do some mistakes in his past and you know about
them, you should really otherwise you're just going to eliminate too
many candidates. You go by the recent past. Why? Because Allah
accepts job. If the person's Toba is apparent in the community.
Meaning that we all know him. We all know he's good. Now he's
better now. Maybe he had some
of them. Yeah, a table one of them become another biller. Like his
recent past is good. Like last four or five years he's shown that
he's over that stuff in the past.
So I had all about if the husband was a good person, and the wife
not a good person, does she get to go into the same heaven as the
husband?
She can be forgiven. He can make suffer for her and she can be
elevated that is
based on the saying
with a letter now who Menominee him in shape and how can I be him
as already yet to whom and how can I be him literally yet Oh mama
Elena and the Maria here is the offspring we Britt we make their
offspring catch up to them in paradise and that includes the
wife to
strangest 14 Please make dua that I get married soon. May Allah
subhanaw taala give everyone here who is seeking marriage, the
tofield and the spouse that they're looking for make them
happy in this life and the next
Oh my resurgence Oh, it's marriage is so important. Allah knows what
is the first relationship
you should be you should also be saying
it's only love because the mic is in front of
marriage is one of those things is what is the first thing that Allah
created for say to Adam? Marriage. He didn't create the sun first.
didn't create he could have created a daughter first, have a
go to creative for him any relationship you got to create a
friend, right?
Like as a hobby, but he created for him the wife and that wife
that relationship is so powerful that it caused them to not be
aware to forget of bliss Hystrix or they didn't even know about at
least his tricks right? About the tree. Okay, so that's how much
they were. He said Adam fell asleep
when he was alone, and he was in Jannah. And he fell asleep. That's
why they say that the companion before the Abode pick your of
travel companion before you pick your destination. What's the point
of view get a trip to Hawaii by yourself? Right? Would you rather
go on a trip to Hawaii by yourself? Or a trip to let's say?
Like, one of our jersey shore with 10 guys send to your friends.
Which one would be better or a beautiful woman? Right?
Okay, listen, you get a hello wife. Hello. A beautiful woman
that you can marry and go on vacation with her to Philadelphia.
Philadelphia, a weekend with her in Philadelphia or a weekend by
herself in Hawaii.
You go by yourself? We got to get to know
I'll go to Philly. You go to Philly with your wife or go all by
yourself just like kids are gonna upset the people who are
listening. What's that? What are you gonna do by yourself? What are
you gonna enjoy?
Yeah, how do you enjoy anything? If the husband was a good person
we answer to heroes in Mecca Can you combine the 12 raka sunnah
with the son of tawaf? Well, Fred is asking because there is a
Hadith the prophesy seven said whoever recites praise 12 Because
he earns a palace in Paradise with a medic ESA that swell rock as of
tahajjud.
Not 12 freezes to 12 hitter to Overwatch, the total cause after
twofer wajib So, not the two rockers after 12 By the way, that
is not an effort. That's why when you make two off for Amara or
hudge make two off you go by Mokum Ibrahim, those two rockers are
forced upon you. Even if the entire Amara is another fella.
But it is fun to complete the Nevena it's sinful to abandoned an
ephah once you started to start any good deed that's enough allah
and You You're it's Why'd you have to complete it. It's wiser to
complete it.
hamdulillah says
is reward for an action based on quantity or quality. It's
different based on the actions hedge is the quality vicar is the
quantity. Fasting is the quality again, DUA and Dicker is the
quantity so certain things are quality certain things or
quantity, what are both a little bit of both the salah
sadaqa
is quantity, but maybe quality too, because there's the way of
keeping a secret keeping your set up a secret
Muhammad fake says math if this has been discussed already. Math
means what exactly my fault or what? What does math means?
Not Oh, it's an Arabic word.
Marfa Where's where's the one go Allah says to study abroad.
Well, second one. I just came from Jordan so you can talk to him.
He's got resources. Sharon is in Egypt.
You went to Turkey so we have resources in Turkey. We have
resources in
Jordan, do your research and press the Koran. There's Yanni maybe
it's a good place maybe it's a good place for someone else. Why
not a good place for you? Yeah, it's not a one size fits all kind
of thing. That's a good answer.
If I'm afflicted with a trial of health what's the best of the
critters zoo is a Salah at the BIA which you can find
on Salawat hub.com A Salah at the BIA some some say 300 times may
come out of Hong Kong. Hola Hola. Hola. Coachella villa. El Mirage.
Morabito says such gathering existed with Quran students
memorizing different suitors at the same time.
Yes, but they're not. That's true. They memorize Quran at the same
time everyone recites a little from their law.
This was in regard to us saying that the recitation of the Quran
all together, but that's not a gathering of vicar that's like a
school. That's like a loud school
that you're
rewind back maybe 20 minutes to just to see what we were
discussing about the and Ryan will have the timestamps
if solo odds on the Prophet according to the Quran is Salah
and Salem is Salah Ebrahimian not sufficient there's no sunnah
Malama Salah is there there is Salam isn't there alongside Nelson
Mohammed do it Muhammad wa Muhammad and Vatican
yeah correct there isn't.
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it better gotta Muhammad wa that can also later him to Baraka
librium Allah librium flan mean
the Salem is in the Tahoe area
and then Salawat is in solid Ebrahimian so the salam he's
asking where's there no Salam and Salah Ibrahimi
there's the Salam is in utter here
what is the wisdom behind the Prophet having more wives at one
time and others muscles were not allowed to do so because he needed
to make have pacts with those tribes. There was something only
allowed for him
to have pacts with those tribes.
Mango slicer inshallah I will have four wives with my first wife
allows me to
yeah, that's basically the brother is has got a gum
icon of a 12 year old so
the comment follows Alright guys, I mean,
not to make fun of the brother. There he is. 100% I mean
always definitely.
Is finding anime characters attractive. Haha.
No, it's not haram it's illness.
What if you were a preemie mom twice and the nurses came to check
if the baby is latching on properly and feeding properly.
Will you be held accountable for them? No, you're not accountable
for emergencies. You can reveal your Outre for emergencies. For
those who run hija. Can you wear earrings in the Maliki method? If
you're a woman?
Halloween, it says having massiveness you would obviously
have to have it checked out. Yes. Like if you're having a mammogram
or something so emergencies Yes.
In this day and age, can a wife help out financially? Yes, she
can.
I mean,
it it's a lot of households, they can't survive on one income
anymore. So that's why I said we as Muslims, we have a philosophy
of gender is flexible. But when we go about talking about gender, we
have to have one resource we can have two resources. Where's my
source of authority and teachings and morals here? Is it Islam or is
it some other ideology? That's all I'm saying on this?
Okay.
Lost in Translation. Interesting name here says is it permissible
to break vows made to Allah and seek forgiveness? In other words
vowing to fast a certain number of days. If I go back to this sin,
but I feel overwhelmed to make up the fests I would highly recommend
not to go that route of making a lot of vows like that.
Yeah, but if you do you're held accountable to it. Don't obligate
yourself with something you're not obligated within the first one.
Yeah, if you're not if Allah didn't obligate it, then don't
obligate yourself.
And Jim says he goes to a Hanafi Barelvi mosque they do loud dhikr
together in unison. It's not one voice but all out but they're
still trying to be in one voice that they're just not good at it.
Because sometimes it's not that good at it. Sometimes you have a
big masjid and it's impossible to get everyone to do it the same
way.
Hello seferovic says book recommendation Gu and Schiff Murad
Sheikh Zayed Al COVID his book on determinism and free choice,
please put the link
just the additional piece of information check Hamza do
circadian. Oh, I didn't know that he was recused from from the Shep
sock trial. I never knew that move the Abu layth Mufti
lave mentioned that Imam in a jar Assad surgical See, he is somebody
who goes and comes up with the conclusion he wants. Right? Then
he goes searching for the answer. That's not sincerity in religion.
That's not the way we do our religion. Right?
We go to what is the dominant opinion of the method? That's
what's correct. So any
time you see somebody coming up with the conclusion first, then
digging and digging in the books. This is a team that is against you
not for you
digging and digging in the books to find out a federal for it
bringing us some federal no
Will you ever come to the UK says my tip, maybe I really want to
come to UK but
let's go see what else we got on YouTube. Mohammed says is it
permissible to break vows made to a we answer this question?
Yes.
event of you? What are some good ways to check into your
spirituality about where you currently are and help you assess
yourself? Basically you look at yourself your friends, who are you
friends with? who you're attracted to be friends with? Who do you
want to be friends with? Who do you keep your time with? What is
your recitation of Quran? What is for example,
your relationship with tahajjud with service with kedma With all
these good deeds you you get with the masajid with will do you
always stay on whether or not you grade yourself if you if you if
you need to grade yourself that's how you do it. You compare
yourself with these good deeds.
Zahara Mustafa says, Don't forget therapy. I've seen many Muslim
women who go to therapy to heal and end up being discouraged from
their Deen motherhood and marriage. I'll tell you where
everything gets messed up. If the so called protectors were saying
the Muslim, the man hasn't. He's got to give his wife daughters a
good life. Everything gets messed up. If he doesn't do his job, then
she doesn't trust anybody. And then she goes has to do her own
thing. Can you blame them? Now if a woman goes and says Oh, my
father was an absentee father. He never took care of me never did
anything. He never helped me. He never paid for anything. Then she
goes and does thing. How do you blame her?
Right? It takes two people to do the job. Right
Sofia says she said it was an emotional support animal but it
was fake. No.
I'm gonna like it was a doll though. No, I think like Steve saw
another commenter with the stage. The whole thing is that they did a
good job of acting then to be honest with you the acting was
like staged by one side of it or everybody because like the whole
thing? Yeah, Peter, all actors did a good job. So we're just glad
there was no cross breed. Trust Oh, my gosh. uka pen this is I'm
confused. What if wife studies in a field that is mostly men? Would
it be okay to let her work in that field? You have to look at the
what the what the work life is like, go travel eight hours work
eight hours with some dude, some boss or some manager. And then
they travel together go into cars. They're in office all day together
that stuff at that point, there's there are questions about that and
the shittier. And in general life likes to spend more time with that
guy than you comes home to UTC. He's really tired, right? And
there's a problem there.
Right?
If you really want to do something, can you make dua for
every hour? Yes, you can make every second if you want.
Our world Whirling Dervishes allowed, I think whirling is
allowed as a cultural dance. Is it a form of like a bed and they
could for us, it's more of a cultural thing, I would consider
that he has a cultural, you're allowed to have a cultural dance
of whirling dervishes on restaurants, like you're allowed
to have a cultural dance as long as for the men, they don't shake
their hips that call that Cust
moving their hips
to call the customers for a bit, because it's just above the knees.
But if the dance is merely with the feet,
right, the bottom half like the Debka, for example, that's
permitted. If a husband is capable of providing for his family, can
you force the wife to work? Of course not No way. If he's
planning to discard himself off of the wife, so he wants the wife to
start working, so that he can easily leave her?
He needs counseling.
Danna beneden. Are you here? I think there's a sister named Anna
that she's like a marriage counselor. They need you needs
counseling. Where'd she go?
No, he needs counseling service. He's got issues.
Honestly, we saw when we look at these things, you can't look at
one sided. There are people who they go the route that they go
sometimes for a reason. Sometimes Yeah, it is like evil doctrines
that are pushing certain things, but are evil ideas but there are
people who are really messed up and you wonder, you're gonna say
wow, it could have been a lot worse, the reactions could have
been a lot worse. What's the Hanafi position on joining Salah
and not praying sunnah. If one will miss the first rock a fudge.
Do you join this library? This one
As the Fajr the Sunnah fudges aka the Sunnah. sunnah, aka the Sunnah
means it's the most emphasized Sunnah prayer. Okay, so our folk
AHA say, and they took this from St. Abdullah Masood. That's if
you're confident that you can quickly pray the Sunnah of Fajr
and catch the fourth Salah Fajr even if you miss just one little
card then do so looking good. If you're however if you're if you're
confident that if you were to pray your son, you're gonna miss the
Salah, all of it all the fuss, Allah then just joined the fourth
solo. Okay, good. Thank you, ma'am. So it says how do we
encourage spouses to pray?
There's a couple of ways to look at it. Because sometimes people
are innocently they don't pray. In other words, a new convert, right?
He's innocent.
A woman can marry convert guy or convert met Muslim and he marries
a convert woman. And predator is new. She's an adult prayer is new
to her. The best thing is to constantly go to massage it right
until prayer becomes something normal. But if it is something
where the man he's born Muslim, he knows better, and he shouldn't be
praying. Then
ultimatums, prayer or divorce.
That's the best way to get things done quick ultimatums. But again,
there are situations where that five kids, right? Like life isn't
so clean and cut. When you're young you think it is.
But life actually can people make mistakes, they make timber from
those mistakes, they end up with a life that is not clean cut at all.
So you have to be mindful of that. How to handle it. If one is a
field, in a field where long urgent tasks are given that one
sometimes can not leave unattended and may or may miss a lot. For
example, a surgeon let's say
someone is in a type of very sensitive field of surgery or that
he cannot, or a pilot. Let's say you're flying through so lots and
fetch. Right? There's no travelers, Rosa for selected
fetch.
So you need for TSA for those for those because
if there may be somebody harmed, then it's like the situation of
the prophets. I send them when it was at war.
And they were at war and they miss a lot of us because their life or
other people's lives may be harmed.
That's
right.
And so you pray this call up afterwards, but it should not be a
regular thing. You should be able to schedule your life to be able
to pray five times a day.
I've been married 10 years says Mullah never gave wife her dowry.
As per our contract, on the day of the wedding, do my gifts I've
given over the years count towards this? If not, can she forgive the
dowry? She can she can forgive the dowry. She can agree to a lesser
dowry, she can do that. And but your gifts to her over the years
are not the dowry. It's different. So giving sadaqa before giving,
you're correct, because Maha is what's the ruling of Maha? It's an
obligation. sunnah does not take the place of an obligation in
an actions or by intentions. Good question. Sure.
So Can Can I be given like one person says this is the dowry, but
the wife doesn't agree to the diary that cannot happen. Like,
say, for example, I give a gift to my wife. And I think that oh, this
is the diary. But she doesn't know this.
She is the recipient of the dowry. She is the one who will declare
Yes, I've received it. No, I haven't received it. So she must
know.
She must know.
She has the right. If let's say a man doesn't pay his dowry. On
time, she has the right to refuse him now.
As men,
you really want something? Can you make dua for every Yes, every
single moment. You can tell her Amara, I must have missed your
question. What it's all had to say.
Tara hit us says
what it taught us?
I think I did answer your question. But maybe she didn't put
that.
Like maybe
if the husband was a good person,
and the wife was no good person. Yeah. So we did get to that
question. Yes, we have answered her question. If we miss the last
third of the night,
then in your sujood and after
the salam and before the salam of the salah is the best time to make
dua.
I have to go says Maha like masala and we are also wrapping up.
A couple more questions we'll take from Latif Yeah, he so to clear in
the Hanafi school is praying soon before Fajr do we finish the
Sunnah and join the salah late Yes, as long as you can catch the
raka he says at least one raka which is the record of the second
raka so if you put it all on what should a man look for in a wife
now
Today's a general guideline or principles, well,
you go out the woman of Dean, but you can also find her attractive.
Right? And that when you see this person that's going to be your
daughter and 20 years. Are you happy with that?
That's one of the best ways to look at things. How to advise
future spouse for them to stop using foul language ultimatum
divorce stop.
It's not realistic, but it does get the job done. I mean, not that
I would have experienced that either way, but
I'm just imagining that that would probably get the job done, but
there's gotta be some kind of like, I guess you're gonna go
through it with them.
Trying to help the guy out, stop cursing. It's probably listening
to stuff that makes him curse. Right or hangs out with people who
curse so it's all about your sock about the end of the day.
Everything is Samba everything is Samba
what is up with the deal with mango slicing here? What is that?
Is that podcast? Like three three weeks ago? What happened?
Circumcision?
That's what it is code word. No. So we have our own code words now,
which is good.
So I had a says In Islam, does the wealth of the country belong to
the ruling party? No, it doesn't belong to the people.
And the government is the manager of that wealth.
Can one pay Lilly says for someone else to do one's hedge if one
fears for one's health and Hutch
that a bad cannot be done on your behalf?
What should our view be towards Sharif Hussein of Mecca who
revolts against the Ottomans? He shouldn't have revolted against
the Ottomans? No, except revolting. What if his Takata
comes out positive. But you know, this marriage will always be
difficult because of the circumstances you should really
realize that is Takata is to make a matter easy
to make your decision known if this is the right decision or the
bad decision. It's not to make the decision for you. So you also have
to use your own sense. And don't be afraid to use your own
analysis of things that this is going to be good for me or bad for
me. Right? So sometimes we get worse flip minded on things. Keep
praying istikhara until the matter becomes clear. If you're split
minded, don't rush through the decision. You keep praying and
staccato and do is to shut up ask other people.
Right? Ask other people and respect their advice and that's
let things go on slowly. Right? Things go on slowly, until they
become clear whether it's good for me or bad for me.
Ma'am Mahmoud Zaini How is God be on time but actions are in time?
Well quite simply is that the actions are Allah subhanaw taala
HIS WILL manifesting all on you Vidya will able to do. So for
example, the creation of the microphone, for example, Allah
created the microphone through human beings right? Or whatever
you want to say.
We say that this was in the knowledge of Allah and His will
pre eternally but he manifested it in this time.
You want to add to that? That's a summary of Okay, one more
question. Never add them
never add them.
There's a lot of good questions here only consume she wants to
study in team but or someone she's just a woman and say herself, she
was studying Teddy but doesn't have a Muharram available for
travel
I know the chef you have rules that if you can get there if
you're settled.
Oh you want to go home?
So it was available. But
I know that there is the chef or you have rules that if there is a
group there that is safe that she could stay there at that group.
It's getting there as the issue so
allow them to be honest with you.
Especially that it's Yemen it's not like you're going to a city
that
is the travel that is the issue in Yemen itself. The chef a you have
rules and I use probably double check but I'm pretty sure certain
the chef or you have rules where if the sister is safe in a group
of Muslim women and a community then the staying is permitted
without a Muharram we have to double check that though
and nevers question was
go back to never good news
it's a two part question Is it okay for dis to distant a family
member who has changed in a way by adopting more haram actions? I
feel guilty
we don't cut people off but we protect ourselves and yes if
someone is an open sinner when ethic or they joined some cult or
some heck sect heretical group
yeah we do cut them off but if we if they're just going wayward
we protect ourselves. We do protect ourselves okay. By
keeping a distance
there are a lot of other questions we will have to get them later.
We would have to get them later and Joe Allah to Allah Subhana
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