Shadee Elmasry – NBF 68 Clothing of the Blessed Prophet

Shadee Elmasry
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The speakers discuss the negative impact of dressing up during events and the importance of avoiding offense. They also touch on the negative impact of divorce and the use of big beards. The conversation shifts to clothing and the loss of parents' jobs, as well as the importance of finding a person to work with and respecting their parents. They end with a brief discussion on the loss of parents' jobs and the need for forgiveness in public settings.
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We got some louder Amanda Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala

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Rasulillah. Li was VE Woman Well, welcome everybody to nothing but

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facts, episode number 68, where we're going to cover da alhaja.

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And we're going to discuss that and we're also going to cover a

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lot of other things. So we'll just give it a minute for everybody to

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log on and see what's going on here.

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All right.

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There's a lot of things to discuss today.

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All right for either con while they consider V.

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Center now.

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Yeah, we got a lot of things to discuss today, so we'll just give

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it a second. Viva the strangers is on. Aisha macdon was a marathon.

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Ryan please add timestamp says he always adds

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he has them but sometimes he didn't always

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put it into the blurb but he always

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he's a time stamping machine

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Okay,

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what else we got here? Sarfraz Manzoor Mansoori.

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I will buckets, Z

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buckets. I like that name mobile buckets. What kind of buckets like

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he's a basketball player? I think he's he's, that's is that the

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reference? All right, we're ready to go.

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First announcement

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is that

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if you're from Connecticut, then I'm going to be headed to

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Connecticut where a state where I lived for a number of years. But

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the Stanford folks they always viewed themselves as a little bit

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different. Maybe they never interacted with the rest of the

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Connecticut folks. So Friday, June 24. It's going to be at Stanford

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insha. Allah at the masjid there, and as you could see on the

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the flyer that's on the screen, right. They got the flyer on the

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screen, right? Yeah. The flyer on the screen here. You'll see that

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you can now we can we can

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meet up. I've never been to this Masjid. But there's a brother

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named Raj, who's invited me there. So I'll be there for Juma. And

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then there's a Holika. after that. I think they said it's a women's

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Holika. Right. Right, says that and then there's a general public

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Holika and a dinner. So it's gonna be really nice. So that's going to

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be June, Friday, June 24. If you're in the Connecticut area,

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and we'll announce this again at the end of the stream because

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different people beyond. So that's the first announcement. Second

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announcement regards our

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sponsors, Mecca books, me and Mecca books. We are very very, we

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were really sad yesterday. And I even heard that some veteran hedge

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leaders in these companies were crying.

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They were literally weeping and crying. Okay, because of what

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happened. And what happened was that there was a rumor that was

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not even a rumor It was basically

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it was a fact that the Saudis wanted to get involved directly

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with the hedge. Pilgrims with the people who are attending hatch,

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they wanted to have a direct way that you can go to hedge directly

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through them, not through a middleman. Okay.

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So we knew that was coming. Everyone knew that was coming. But

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we also I think a lot of people also thought that the companies

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would also be having their hedge ability to have their to do the

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things their way to, you mean that in other words, go through a

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company for the simple reason that that's what people want. People

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like to go with an imam that they know and they trust. Now, of

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course, some people want to go by themselves, but I think a lot of

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people if you ask them, would you like to go with a group of like

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minded friends and a shape that you respect, right and that you

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want to listen to and you want to be in a hotel room with people

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that you know, at least

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so much

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See what I've said yes. Plus, like these companies have been running

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hedge groups for like 2530 years.

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Nobody, I don't think anyone expected that they would actually

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completely undercut all the companies. But this is the second

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piece of news that we have for today is that the hedge companies

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are cut out of heads completely. Right. And I had a phone call

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yesterday that there was one of these veterans, literally, at his

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kitchen table crying. Because it's not just his business, it's what

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he loves. Right? And it's his relationships. And she, you they

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go,

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they go

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on these hedge trips, imams, like most of the local Imams, they

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can't afford to go on and regular HUD stuff. But if he's is he know

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how to teach, he knows how to guide. So he goes like every

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three, four or five years, right? That's done with no. Okay. So

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there are no more hedge companies.

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Saudi will only give hedge or give hedge visas directly to

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individuals. Now, this is a very negative, there's a negative to

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this, namely that people don't know how to make hedge, you're

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gonna get there a complete stranger from the Ministry of

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hedge is going to be your guide. And your people that you make Hajj

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with are complete strangers, this never used to be unless you wanted

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it to be groups in the past, come from Syria come from Egypt, you go

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with your ship and your group. Right?

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You may be you have a method, right? Maybe you have an approach

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to things. Now you're going to be stuck with some complete stranger

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leading you your hutch, who wants that? Now you're going to be

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rooming. And being in a tent in Mina with complete strangers,

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right? And don't think say Oh, well, I suppose me for a bed only,

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no, you're actually sharing a lot of intimate space. With these

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people, you're on buses with them all, all the time you're on,

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you're on what happens if you're like, you just don't want to be

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with those types. You want to be with people like yourselves,

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right.

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That's why it was a really sad day. In my opinion, it was one of

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those like things that I didn't really get over it very quickly.

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And I don't want to get over it. It's you know, one of those things

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that's like at the appropriate response is just to sulk in it and

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be upset about it. And I'm pretty upset about it, that there are no

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more of these hedge groups. And so, and also, first of all, for

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your own benefit, are you going to roll out a brand new software,

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which by the way, is all out sourced from a Hindu company, not

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like Muslims are running it all Hindus in the Emirates. So you're

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gonna put out this new platform, which has never been used before,

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right away for hedge.

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And on top of that, three weeks, and on top of that, you just

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cancelled the trips of everyone who's been sign up and waiting for

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you for sometimes years, because they were like waitlisted, during

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COVID, then weightless and the next one that finally they get in

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this year, and everyone's looking forward, and you start your new

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program, by breaking the hearts of all these other people who would

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just now they're gonna get refunded and stay home.

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Because Because number one, they you can't just switch over to go

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to hedge on their portal, which I'm going to tell you what the

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portal is because, so that you could try to make hedge. It's by

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lottery.

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So it's not even first come first serve. How's that? Fair? It's by

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complete lottery. So you sign up, there's no information, there's no

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like pricing.

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You don't know what you're gonna get you this, plug in a whole

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bunch of information, they will send you if you got it or not,

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who's going to do this three weeks out.

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So, and this applies, by the way only to the English speaking

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countries America, England, Canada, Australia.

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Rest of the World, they on normal

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hedge in their own way, their through their hedge mission of

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their nations. So just tell me if you want to profit and you want to

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defeat the hedge companies and you want to take the money out of

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their hands and keep it all for yourself, cut out the middleman.

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Why would you do this three weeks in advance? How does this make any

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sense? Like no one is signing up to this three weeks in advance

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except for a handful of people. The other smart thing to do would

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be alright, let's use this software for a random ombre in

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Jamaica Lula. Right? That would be the smart thing to do.

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incentivize, hey, you go sign up for this. Use this website from

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now on, like for this period of time, use this website, then you

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could see if there are glitches. If there are challenges, there's

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something called a soft opening for everything. There's a beta

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version. Okay.

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And then you and then you inform the heads companies.

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Listen, I know this is not good news.

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As for you, but we're phasing you all out, we want it all for

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ourselves, give the guy a year or two, to adjust his business,

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right? Because Leah's headroom NFE Allah whom it is permitted to make

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money off of the process of Hajj. Allah says in the Quran, Leah

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shall do man f Allah so that they can have enough why? Because going

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heads cost money. So it's reasonable that the people who are

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going to go to hedge will need to do some T Jarrah at hedge to pay

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for the way back that was in the old days. So in the old days,

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let's say you're coming from Morocco, that's pretty far right.

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It's not like Egypt or Syria, where it's not that bad. You go to

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Morocco, you go there, it might take you a couple of months to get

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there, because you're gonna have a lot of stops on the way you get

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there. You finally get to hedge, you might need to stay there a

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little bit, do some trade, right trade your nice beautiful goods

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from Morocco, sell it to the people in hedge who are coming

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from all different countries that are interested in your goods,

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that's going to pay your your way back and put some more money in

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your pocket. Right? It's HUD services is not free, giving

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people rides giving people a place to stay feeding people. So it's

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completely valid form of, of business have to Giada. Now you're

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taking it from if you had a right intention, wouldn't you be

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considered to these people? Right, not on the very hedge that they

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planned. Okay.

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They already planned it. It's not like you telling them three years

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out, by the way, you're out in three years. So that means you got

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one two Hodges left, that's it, that would be fine. Because then

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we at least we can prepare ourselves, we'll just we'll

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recalibrate our entire lives, right? As a company, and we'll

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just start focusing on ombre, we'll just start focusing on

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little trips to end the Lucy or something like that. Not not,

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you're not gonna have a line out the door. When people say a chick

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trip to Turkey, why would I pay for a trip to Turkey? I can go to

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Turkey myself, why would I pay for a company to go to enter Lucia?

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Right? It's whatever. Okay. So these types of people.

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It shows their intention to me, that you started this off by

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literally breaking the hearts and breaking the banks of a whole

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bunch of people. Right? With no concern. And you had no problem

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given millions of dollars to this Hindu company, and to run company

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out of the Emirates travel easy, not their fault, right. But it

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doesn't make sense as a Muslim to use the hedge. Let's pay Hindus

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for the services. And let's because we want to cut out

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Muslims.

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It's just not the way that stuff should be the way things should be

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done. But who are we kidding when we're talking about a group of

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people that their track record is not exactly that great? Right, and

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Hamdulillah that, you know, if this if you are an Arab and you

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said this on TV, they banned you from Hajj completely.

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Now, there are some other ridiculous rules a woman can't go

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with a Muslim, we know that because there's no groups anymore.

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Now a woman could go technically to Hajj without a Muharram.

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Because it's so fun to define her. But the Saudis don't allow this.

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So

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it used to be you go with a group. Now you go on with the group from

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your msgid you're going to group from of pious people that you

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know, and they serve as your group, your your your your

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guardians, is that and that if there's any issues? Now, you have

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to go with a guardian, within your family?

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What happens if a woman doesn't have family?

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The group was her family. You don't think there are many

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converts that don't have this? Right? A ton of converts have no

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family? No mom to go with? What happens if the mom is an all men?

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Now on top of this, there are two more rules to your Muharram. Rule

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number one, he's got to be under the age of 65. No one over 65 is

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gonna hedge. What if the guy is saving up and he could only make

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heads when he was 66?

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What if he just looked just made Toba? So you're cutting him out of

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hedge? Ridiculous.

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Rule number two.

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Your maharam cannot have made hedge for five years. So no one

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can you can't you can only go every five years to hatch

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according to this rule.

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That's the rule.

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Do they basically not want people to go because you actually made it

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a lot harder. At any event? It's just

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that let me give you the website just in case you guys want to make

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hedge and you want to try this out? Do it make hedge I mean, I

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mean, if you this is the only way you could do it. Okay, Ryan write

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this down for us. mot Aw, if moto with and, you know, bothers me,

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irks me when they transliterate things wrong. mot aw if should be

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immune, but it's alright. Dot CLM

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That SA

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and that's that's the website you want to go make heads go make

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catch. So let me put it for the, for the people on Insta, because

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that thing only puts the comment on Facebook and.if You want to

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make ads there it is Mattel with.com.sa. Let's take a look at

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what their website even looks like because we can't tell the prices

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from it. It's not like they're just giving you a package and then

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like some kind of

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where they give you like, okay, basic intermediate.

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Okay, we'll tell with is the exclusive online platform

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authorized by the Saudi Ministry of hedge phenomena, to offer hedge

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services to Muslims in all of Europe, the United States of

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America and Australia. Oh, wait a second. Where's Canada? Maybe

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Canada is not even worth mentioning. But, I mean, if

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Canada's out of this and groups are allowed to go to Canada when

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they probably just forgot it. Okay.

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All right, owns the platform and has offered services to the

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building for more than 40 years. Applicants Register Your Interest

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This looks like a sock.

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You know, like a youth soccer league application first name,

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last name, email, phone number, and the CAPTCHA. Okay, captcha,

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whatever country of origin

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Okay,

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your heads is only five steps away moto F is the online official

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portal. To plan and initiate your heads journey in five simple steps

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fill in your application, submit your documents, they're going to

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give you a headache on the documents. Draw selection after

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submission a draw will be carried out electronically to select

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candidates to perform hajj, Zane, get an email, I guess. And if it

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goes to spam, you're out. Make the Payment How much does it cost? How

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am I signing up for something I don't know it's cost. Once you

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have been selected, you will be contacted to choose your package.

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Does this make any sense to you? That what if I have no clue what

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it costs then I get selected. And I say hey, I'm priced out of this

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I can't charge I pay I can't pay any of this

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and then and then someone spot is taken. So you make the payment and

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you select the package after you have inquired of your inch or put

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in your interest. Then you get an E visa from hedge for from the

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hedge ministry.

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Okay,

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man,

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such an upsetting thing.

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Tech partner Travie Z. Let's go to the website of see who what who

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who is that the partner

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Travie Z let's see the names of these people. It's not their

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fault, but it's our people who were essentially done who are have

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no loyalty like to the like keep the money within the OMA.

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All right, the founders and the people behind Travie Z let's see

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who they are. Where are their names.

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Travie Z group is the group that runs this thing. All right, the

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team

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get Behala

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Rajat Panwar

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Aakash good Aarthi

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RT good Gauri?

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Abdul Khan will good one Muslim of Jai Kumar Gupta.

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Okay.

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A couple Muslims not bad

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All right, it's mixed. But

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the ownership is mainly is one Emirati and the rest are Hindus.

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So it's amazing

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it's just something that's

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so that's the news people. If you want to make hedge Get ready, go

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and I'm sorry for the you know what right if you could actually

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do this the draw as the whole screen or put it in the middle or

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something like that. Where the Instagramers Can

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you There we go. Can see the whole thing so that the IG errs can see

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the whole thing. All right.

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All right. What do we have here? Da ad has many, many people have

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asked how do we do do alhaja look at your screen.

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And within a second it's going to be on the screen dwad Hajah Raja

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is extremely extremely important. Why is that? Simple reason that a

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DA is mocha a burdah a DA OMO coolibah

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there is nothing more important than dua there is nothing

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more beneficial to your heart than to supplicate to your Lord. In the

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same way that food is easy is the most important thing for your body

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waters. Dua is the most important thing for your body. Okay, free

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for your soul. Okay, and today we're going to look at how to do

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dot Hajah and you do it as follows.

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You pray to it because you make wudu and you pray to tuck us

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all in your mind is the need

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that you have. Okay for for ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. And then the

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matter that you are a

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good you're seeking or fearing. Because every dua is either a

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desire or a fear

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and then you're going to recite this dua La Ilaha illa Allah al

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Halim will Karim.

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Subhan Allah He Rob Bill Arshad all them Alhamdulillah hear of

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Bill Alameen

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it hasn't come up on YouTube yet. There's a delay I guess.

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As Alka Mooji Bertie rhotic was imamo ferritic well of aneema

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termin colibra was Salah MetalMan Cooley F. Learned to dolly them

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been in love Africa, while Manila for Raja wala hagit And he Aloka

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ribbon Illa crudite

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are hamara he mean Okay there it is on YouTube. Let me read you now

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the translation for this.

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There is no god but Allah the Clement the wise, there is no God

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but Allah, the high in the mighty

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Glory be to Allah, Lord of the tremendous throne all Praise to

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Allah, Lord of the Worlds I ask you

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everything that leads to your mercy

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and your tremendous forgiveness, enrich enrichment and all good and

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freedom from all sins. Do not leave a sin of mine except that

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you forgive it nor any concern except that you create for it and

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opening nor any need in which there is Your good pleasure except

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that you fulfill it. Oh most Merciful. Of the merciful let me

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read it again. La ilaha illallah wa Halima al Karim Subhana Allah

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Hara Bellagio Adim Alhamdulillah haram Bill al Amin as Aluko Mooji

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bertera hermetic waza Mr. Erotic well of aneema term equilibrium,

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which is the success of all good deeds

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was salam Ataman Khalif

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learn to dolly them and Illa Florida wala hum and Illa for Raja

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wala Hajj and here like a ribbon electrolyte

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or hamara he mean

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you make this draw in Arabic.

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And you can then read it again in English but you must say the

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Arabic and from after right after that you make your prayer and your

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DUA

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of what you are looking for and what you need.

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Okay,

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that's how you do do alhaja.

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Any questions on Dr. Hagee before we move on?

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You can do it in English after you say it in Arabic first, you got to

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say it in Arabic, but you can do it in English afterwards.

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All right, folks.

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So

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another question got so with these doors

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Similar to a staccato two, if we do it in the Salatu was even count

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as doing the Sunnah prayer.

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A person could say this dua at the end of Salah.

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It's not going to be exactly the same as if they did it into Eid

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Hajah as a separate will do separate Scylla but it is still

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a.be accepted.

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Okay.

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Can you share it as a post? Yes. And so I'll share it as a post.

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How often should I do it? You continue to do it non stop you do

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this dua, nonstop. We don't ever stop making a dua until I get my

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answer from my Lord. And I'm certain I'm gonna get the answer.

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So that's it. Good.

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All right, now let's we've completed the dial hija. And now

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let's now move on to our reading of from our continuation from the

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Shema of the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And

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then we're going to do a little bit of q&a, we're going to do a

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little bit of q&a. All right, so again, you make what do you pray

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to duck as you recite that da, which you can just rewind and see

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it?

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And then you make the DUA that you're looking for, on the

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condition that you are certain that you're gonna get your answer.

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Absolute certainty that you're gonna get your answer. What is the

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best time of day to do it? last third of the night, but really at

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any time.

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And you can do it every single day until your need is fulfilled.

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There's no limits to how much you can do it.

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Okay,

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we now look at the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he

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used to work on

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the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to apply on

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his eyesight. And he said, It's called estimate. And it used to

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say that it strengthens the eyesight and it increases the

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growth of the eyelashes with the profit care about growth of the

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eyelashes because it's beautiful. It's also protects your eyes from

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dust and things. So eyelashes both have form and function. Now,

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there's an interesting comment on this and he would have he would

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apply this on his eyes each time

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each eye according to this narration three times now, when

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you're applying, there's a little bit of the pink area on your eyes.

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That's where you apply the code. Now here's the thing.

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We do have some comments on this. Although this is a Sunnah 110

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person

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but it is also has become a symbol

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of common roots like what guy wears eyeliner these days? Right

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in the United States what guy What kind of guy wears eyeliner? So the

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only time that I would find that it's completely fine and okay to

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wear eyeliner is in the situation where you're wearing other Islamic

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clothes that people don't know that you're not calling Lutz and

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that they know that you're a Muslim this must be part of your

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dress. You understand this difference is a very important

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difference. Which is very the concept that something was of the

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Sunnah

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it is of the sun, but it's now the Muslims didn't use it. And now a

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group of festa Fein use it we call that she artificer a symbol of

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Fiske now so the sooner has becomes your office. Okay?

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Because it's a whole different country it's not like it it

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transformed amongst the Muslims right? So you have to wear it. If

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you're gonna wear it, you're gonna wear it in a way that does not

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make you seem like she outfits so you don't wear a t shirt. You got

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a buzz you got like a fade a t shirt and then this is the sooner

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that you want to keep up right? It doesn't make any sense people are

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going to think you're calm Lutz

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Okay, so it's very important to avoid shout Fisk

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wearing anything that is sheer artifice can be between mcru and

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haram. Okay, so if you were in cahoots with something else that

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is a garment of

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clearly making you not cottonwoods Colin was going to have a big

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beard and a goofy may be for example, and a soap? I don't think

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so.

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So at that point, it shouldn't be a problem.

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So that's the use of Khan on the eyes and the Hadith in Arabic says

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that a Kadima narrates Ruben Abbas I can imagine when I cut him up

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from Lebanon best means it's a crema at Debbie, not a creamer,

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even Abby Jen, this hobby son of Abuja No Not him, the other

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agreement and then the VSL Allah it was Sunday makalah extra Hello,

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Bill estimate. He said where are you?

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estimate put go along with estimate for no yet diluted

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bizarre. It improves your site when you get your shot and it

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grows your eyelets

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was an abuse of Allah who it was it was suddenly mechanical

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homework halogen he had a a quart container illumine Aquila Leila

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lecithin pod with that Atherton fee heavy three in both eyes.

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And also from it I can imagine if not bus can have sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam a ACTA Iluka Bella and e&m before he slept. You would put

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it in so before he slept, that means it's the nighttime obviously

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we do would have washed it out right if you make would do it many

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times. Okay.

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Then you're gonna wash it out. So the Prophet put it on when he

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slept too. So that's another thing to consider about the sadhana. Is

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that you're putting it on? I would assume that if you make what do

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you wash it off? It's going to

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it's going to smear down your face. Am I right? Right? Do you

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have experience with this? I know that like when women cry like you

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can see the girl coming down

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I'm assuming that when you wash your face for will do some of the

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coconut is gonna come down I don't know because yeah, it would sweat

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out right? Or if you sweat Yeah, if you're if you're working hard,

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right? It was the sweat would come out so

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that then equally I'm three in each eye

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on a combined estimate and the know it is upon you to put God on

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when you sleep. So you see what the Sunnah is when you sleep.

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Okay.

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For Innovia Julian busted away am William B to A shot when you sleep

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in the Clara callicoon and escmid the best of your call is it mid so

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now let's look at the commentary. It mid is a special type of Gohan

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which has a redness to the black producing like a maroon, like a

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brownish Maroon. It's obtainable in eastern countries some of the

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learned say it is from Isfahan Persian and others say it is from

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to tear.

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Some automat say this means for those who have good eyesight to be

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used with those whose eyesight agree with it so this is a general

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statement of the Prophet not for every single Muslim Muslim is the

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one who's I agrees with it right

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otherwise a sick person could be hurt by be harmed but so here's

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another important thing because more than learning about Kohan

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you're learning about how to mom Anna with Hadith and why Mala with

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like as we mentioned she odd Fisk the concept of the the the symbols

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of Ephesus. But notice the prophets I said and then know when

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you sleep not walking around with it in the daytime. But secondly,

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when there is a general commandment, there is always the

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exception of if it harms you then you don't use it. Right so that's

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what the ultimate are saying here is that if you know that you're

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sick then don't use it.

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Get so why did the Prophet say before sleeping so it remains in

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the eye longer.

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And it penetrates deeper into the force.

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Good began also there's not like you're not awake, opening your

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eyes so that it would like evaporate away or dust would come

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into it. There are different numbers mentioned in different

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headaches, sometimes three in each eye another three times in the

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right eye two times in the left eye. It is believed that there are

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variations due to different times that the Prophet did it and

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different narrations people saw him doing it different differently

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mainly even our best sets if not best used to sleep over. Even our

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best asleep over the prophets house because the Prophet had

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married me Munna which was his maternal aunt, its collar or

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maternal aunt, the sister of his mom, maternal aunt, and our Shinya

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is like a mom. Like the one when you look at mothers and fathers,

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there's a list, which actually goes to show that it takes a lot

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of people to raise somebody up this way that we live now only mom

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and dad raised you and like mom and dad raising you against the

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world. It's not healthy. It's not the norm. It's too stressful. In

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the olden days, the whole family raised everybody. Okay, of course

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the main responsibilities upon the biological parents.

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Half is even 100 Alaska, Annie, he quote a Mullah Oliver curry and

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other Allamah they preferred the first method three and three at

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night before you sleep. So that's the sun to put on three and three

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before you sleep. It's also narrated from Satan, if not Bess,

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that the Prophet he had a small container like this and he would

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always do it before sleeping

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and that he said it's good to you

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use for the growth of your eyelashes and for your eyesight.

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And of course he mentioned here unless you have a medical

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condition, right, next chapter is on beb Libous Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So, let's talk about this when when we

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talk about the Sunnah there are three levels of the Sunnah, or I

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should say four levels of prophetic commandments. There is

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one prophetic commandment that is an obligation. How do we know it?

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How do we know that man? That's an obligation another that is a

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sunnah. Another that is a sunnah FIFA and another that is nothing

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at all.

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Number one,

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good not a commandment. The fourth one is not a commandment, it's his

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actions. Number one. Whenever the prophets I send them makes a

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commandment, and then links it to punishment that do this or else

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XYZ punishment in Accra.

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Then we know it's an obligation. For example, the province is

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settled, commanded for as it gets it fits. And why do we know it's a

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it's a it's an obligation. It gets in fifth it is not in the Quran.

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It's in the Hadith only came from the Sunnah from the prophets, I

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send them but it's an obligation because he said your son, your son

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will not be accepted, which is a punishment. Right? So whenever the

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prophetic command is linked to a punishment, we know its

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obligation.

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If there is a prophetic command, and no punish, no pun punishment

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is mentioned.

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You have terminal Allah, or UML. Sorry, I should say, Ireland, it's

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considered

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a recommendation. Okay. This is one of the evidence that a chef a

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when he counted all the Hadith to the beard, there are 10 Hadees on

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the beard, the chef, a considerate sunnah. There is no punishment

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mentioned for someone who leaves off the beard, right? So they

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considered some the other men have considered it funny because of how

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many times the Prophet said it. And the edge man that all the

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Sahaba had beards. Right, which is maybe not the strongest evidence

00:37:03 --> 00:37:08

because some people say, well, all Arabs had beard as well as off,

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and the Somali might have made that comment.

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But

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there's a retort to that. That can't be the case. What's the

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proof of that? If all the Arabs had beards, then why would the

00:37:20 --> 00:37:23

Prophet keep repeating it? So clearly was that there was some

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times if people didn't have beards, they shaved that

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completely. So when the Prophet gives a command, but there is no

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link of a punishment mentioned to it, then it's considered alright.

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You feed a net it we understand that it's recommended. Now when

00:37:42 --> 00:37:45

the Prophet SAW Selim Salah when he was salam makes a

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recommendation of something and points to a worldly benefit. Then

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it's considered sunnah FIFA because it's he's basically

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telling you, this is a matter that's good for your life. It has

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nothing to do with Deen. Right? But it's good for your life.

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Okay, so in that respect, we do still consider it sooner because

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anything that Prophet gave us is Dean, but it's a matter of Dean

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that is something of our of this world as opposed to Africa. In

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other words, the province did not say whoever puts God has thought

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of Farah

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there's no thought of mentioned to the ACA, there's only really a

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benefit of the what it says if he's giving you medical advice.

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And then the fourth layer of the Sunnah is that which the Prophet

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did but never commanded. And we consider that from his debts, his

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habits, the prophets, habits, and the prophets habits. Allahu alayhi

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wa sallam, the ultimate have said about Whoever imitates them out of

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love of the Prophet then

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has just as any lesson, so that I know that the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam just in a certain way but never commanded that the

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we Muslims wear this garment. I know it's not religious law, but I

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want to wear it so that I could be like the Prophet peace be upon.

00:39:04 --> 00:39:08

Then we the person that person is told what he does, I will send you

00:39:08 --> 00:39:12

a lesson you will not take a step towards the love of the Prophet

00:39:12 --> 00:39:16

except the prophet will also love you in return. So yes, there the

00:39:16 --> 00:39:20

angels will not write has an ad on your book fine. We accept that

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because there's no nothing said that that's has in it, but you

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will have it will be written this person took an action in the

00:39:27 --> 00:39:30

attempt to love the prophets I send them or reflecting his love

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of the messenger PSP bottom, and for that reason, it's so low the

00:39:33 --> 00:39:34

prophet will love him back.

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So that's your four levels of at matters within the son.

00:39:40 --> 00:39:43

Ryan everything good with that or anything should be clarified. That

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was good, good.

00:39:46 --> 00:39:50

Oh, Michelle, Emma said can I have Bucha be Illa Rasulullah

00:39:50 --> 00:39:55

sallallahu alayhi wa salam al Camus, the most beloved garment of

00:39:55 --> 00:39:59

the Prophet peace be upon him. Was the commies know what is the

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commies look like?

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Like the commies is a shirt that it's like buttoned up, and it goes

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all the way down, hovering around the knee. And the people who wear

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the same type of shirt that the profit were wore at that time.

00:40:14 --> 00:40:17

It's basically the subcontinental shirt.

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The Bengalis wear it, the day seen wear it, and the Arabs don't no

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longer wear it.

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The Arabs wear the shirt that is all the way down to the ankles

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which is the Pope. But the commies when they say the word kameez, it

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means a shirt that had no buttons on the sleeve it was open up the

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sleeve, no buttons loose. And it was it had one button at the top

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and it would go all the way down and hovering around the knees.

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Okay, what's wedge IP to err in the in Islam is any clothes that

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is layer Schiff well as if means it is not transparent. And it is

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not form fitting. Tight close is forbidden. Because you're not

00:41:04 --> 00:41:10

considered covered if it's on what is our. So for example, the ankles

00:41:10 --> 00:41:12

tight from the Cavs

00:41:13 --> 00:41:17

for a min it's acceptable, right tight around the cuffs like that.

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But anything tight around like the private parts in the OTA and these

00:41:23 --> 00:41:27

things, then to the degree that it's tight, like that is

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forbidden. You're not considered covered. Right? Yoga pants, for

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example. And then like a shirt on top of that.

00:41:37 --> 00:41:40

By the way, we were getting sins now that men wear yoga pants

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

that's the Fatah of sins. If you see a woman when we go bad now you

00:41:42 --> 00:41:46

see a man wearing yoga pants. It's good fodder for this in previous

00:41:49 --> 00:41:52

Alright, right so now what else did the Prophet where? Prophet

00:41:52 --> 00:41:58

salallahu alayhi wa sallam used to wear the sarong, or the footer or

00:41:58 --> 00:42:03

the lunghi, which is the bottom part would simply be a wrap. That

00:42:03 --> 00:42:07

it's almost like a piece of cloth that's sewn together. You get into

00:42:07 --> 00:42:12

it, you and then you. You wrap it up, okay, and you fold it up.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:19

It's called an izhar. In Arabic. The Arabs today call it footer.

00:42:20 --> 00:42:24

And the Indonesians call it Saddam. And the subcontinent calls

00:42:24 --> 00:42:28

it lunghi. Good. That's another that's the garment that the

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

prophets I send them used to wear at the bottom.

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So today, the people whose everyday dress everyone in the

00:42:35 --> 00:42:39

whole society is closest to what the Prophet used to wear are the

00:42:39 --> 00:42:40

people of Bangladesh.

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Because the the puck in Pakistan and Afghanistan, they were the

00:42:48 --> 00:42:51

commies, but they were the silhouette, which is the pen,

00:42:52 --> 00:42:57

essentially the baggy pant, that person baggy pant. Okay, pairs of

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pants. Those are, that's what they were, which also that has a

00:43:02 --> 00:43:05

precedent. And of course, there's nothing sinful about any of this.

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

What's the only thing sinful?

00:43:08 --> 00:43:13

Is the tight pants. Shahir just saying what about my chest and my

00:43:13 --> 00:43:19

bicep? He did all that work in the gym. And he's wondering now, oh,

00:43:19 --> 00:43:21

what's the value of this work? If no one's gonna see that. How am I

00:43:21 --> 00:43:25

gonna get married? Right? So he's basically asking you about that.

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

And we would say that.

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No, for the men. That is not going to be sinful for him. But it may

00:43:34 --> 00:43:38

be lacking moolah. And it may depend on when he wears that if

00:43:38 --> 00:43:39

he's wearing that

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out with some people, okay?

00:43:44 --> 00:43:47

That are playing some sports. That's very different than going

00:43:47 --> 00:43:52

to gym. I like that. It would be considered perhaps

00:43:53 --> 00:43:57

what they call cortical Marula. It's not what the people consider

00:43:57 --> 00:44:03

to be upright and noble dress. Okay, or modest dress. And then

00:44:03 --> 00:44:07

what do you what's bother with the other guys all the skinny guys now

00:44:07 --> 00:44:11

you're showing them up? So Shahir a jazz if he's in the building let

00:44:11 --> 00:44:14

me know big so I can go somewhere else. Because this guy he wants to

00:44:14 --> 00:44:18

come in with his biceps and his chest. Okay, want to show the

00:44:18 --> 00:44:22

whole world? You're not the only one who lifts we left to right but

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but

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that's the issue with those. It's it's a judgment call. There's not

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going to be sinful for them either way, but around the OTA then

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that's an issue. And these tight jeans now you can't even I one

00:44:37 --> 00:44:41

time had an embarrassing situation. I had a job. I was to

00:44:41 --> 00:44:46

go teach in New York City. I'm driving to New York City. And I

00:44:46 --> 00:44:49

have my nice big cup of coffee. And lo and behold I spill it all

00:44:49 --> 00:44:54

on my pants. So I have to stop right and this is like literally

00:44:54 --> 00:44:59

right before class is not not enough time to dry. Mu so

00:45:00 --> 00:45:04

Mudra is modesty and gentlemanliness, basically. So I

00:45:04 --> 00:45:08

go to I stopped by a drive around the masjid in lower Manhattan.

00:45:08 --> 00:45:13

There's not a lot of closed doors in lower Manhattan. So I I find a

00:45:13 --> 00:45:16

joint. I parked the car I run inside I have a long jacket on

00:45:16 --> 00:45:20

it's winter. I have a long jacket. I bought my jacket because it's

00:45:20 --> 00:45:21

wet everywhere.

00:45:22 --> 00:45:27

I run inside I find my size I pull a pair of jeans off the rack. I

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pay for them.

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Because I'm late.

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I got the jeans. I go into the bathroom. I go back so nobody can

00:45:36 --> 00:45:41

see me. And I go into the men's room and I change lo and behold

00:45:43 --> 00:45:48

these jeans, there's like 50% elastic in the jean.

00:45:50 --> 00:45:52

Put them on painted on.

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There is absolutely no way I'm wearing these right.

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So I what I had to do was actually wear those pants and keep my

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

jacket you know when you wear that long jacket, no one buttons it up.

00:46:06 --> 00:46:10

Especially indoors no a buttoned it up the whole class. And they're

00:46:10 --> 00:46:13

like looking at that I took my scarf and put it on top of my is

00:46:13 --> 00:46:18

painted on. Right. So that's default now of jeans, you have to

00:46:18 --> 00:46:24

look skinny, whatever, slim fit regular. It's hard to find regular

00:46:24 --> 00:46:27

clothes. They're basically taking the fashion of comb Lutz and

00:46:27 --> 00:46:30

trying to make us all wear it. That's essentially what it is.

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35

Essentially, it's the it's the fashion of comunes that they want

00:46:35 --> 00:46:36

us all wearing that.

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Get

00:46:40 --> 00:46:44

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he used to wear his shirt,

00:46:45 --> 00:46:51

his sleeve on to the risk, which is the wrist. So the profit they

00:46:51 --> 00:46:54

didn't have at that time short sleeves, they never had short

00:46:54 --> 00:46:58

sleeves. They would have it to the sleeve and you make what do you

00:46:58 --> 00:47:02

wrote when you wanted oxygen to go in back in the old days? Okay, so

00:47:02 --> 00:47:05

they didn't wear short sleeves. Not that it's necessarily wrong to

00:47:05 --> 00:47:09

wear that, but that's what they were. Okay. And one time someone

00:47:09 --> 00:47:12

got him a Roman garment, the Prophet peace be upon him never,

00:47:13 --> 00:47:18

in fact said no to a garment. It would be type of Kibera. Right?

00:47:18 --> 00:47:22

Someone got him a Roman garment. So he it had a button. This is not

00:47:22 --> 00:47:26

normal for that. How did they have buttons, that cloth? And then they

00:47:26 --> 00:47:31

would? What would the button be made out of? Wood? Maybe? I don't

00:47:31 --> 00:47:33

know. What would the what do you think the button would be made of?

00:47:33 --> 00:47:37

In the olden days? Maybe if it's like fancy. Yep. Pearl if it was

00:47:37 --> 00:47:43

fancy, probably a jewel, but maybe just wood. piece of wood. Maybe? I

00:47:43 --> 00:47:45

don't know what the button would be made out of? Well, what was the

00:47:45 --> 00:47:49

button people have been wearing buttons way before plastic was

00:47:49 --> 00:47:54

invented. So right, could you look that up buttons before plastic was

00:47:54 --> 00:47:59

invented. Sometimes a button would be just a very thick piece of

00:47:59 --> 00:48:04

cloth. Right? Wrapped up. So we'd like a heart hardened piece of

00:48:04 --> 00:48:11

cloth wrapped up bronze, a bronze he says okay, so metals, probably

00:48:11 --> 00:48:16

metals, maybe maybe you know, things like that. So, and the

00:48:16 --> 00:48:20

province, I send them that shirt, he would pull his sleeve, his arm

00:48:20 --> 00:48:24

in from his sleeve, go under his shirt and make wudu like that,

00:48:24 --> 00:48:27

because the sleeve was too tight. Here's something about the profits

00:48:27 --> 00:48:31

I sent him is that he wore what the people wore. He did not have a

00:48:31 --> 00:48:34

special garment that everyone said, Okay, that's the profit.

00:48:34 --> 00:48:37

Well, where's the profit, we'll look at that garment. Sometimes he

00:48:37 --> 00:48:41

did have some garment that people didn't have, because it was a

00:48:41 --> 00:48:46

gift. And he never had a garment for long. Anytime that someone

00:48:46 --> 00:48:49

came, he would give him something from his government. Of course,

00:48:49 --> 00:48:52

the Sahaba wanted that because they wanted for the bulk of the

00:48:52 --> 00:48:56

profit one time a man came and he saw the Prophet wearing a shirt.

00:48:57 --> 00:49:00

And the man said, Oh, Mr. of Allah, that's a beautiful shirt.

00:49:00 --> 00:49:04

So the Sahaba said, Why would you say this? And now the Prophet got

00:49:04 --> 00:49:09

up, went home, changed the shirt came back and said you now you've

00:49:09 --> 00:49:13

made the profit. You've hassled him. Now he has to get up, go and

00:49:13 --> 00:49:17

change and bring it back. So the Sahaba blames him for hassling the

00:49:17 --> 00:49:20

messenger. sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And then he explained, he

00:49:20 --> 00:49:25

said, I'm leaving, leaving here. And this may be the last time I

00:49:25 --> 00:49:29

meet the Prophet. I wanted to be buried in his shirt. Okay, so he

00:49:29 --> 00:49:33

wanted to be buried in the shirt of the prophets of Allah it was.

00:49:35 --> 00:49:38

So they wanted it for tomorrow, but it's also a common sunnah

00:49:39 --> 00:49:43

of people of Allah. They give out gifts of their own stuff, like

00:49:43 --> 00:49:47

right off the bat. So someone says, oh, that's a beautiful ring

00:49:47 --> 00:49:50

you're wearing takes it off. He gives it to him right away. Right?

00:49:50 --> 00:49:53

And it was considered like an intimate friendship. Like we're

00:49:53 --> 00:49:57

like I have something from him. And that's a good habit between

00:49:57 --> 00:50:00

friends. Right? Right off his scar.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:03

I give it to him. Right sometimes I'm telling you when you're with

00:50:04 --> 00:50:07

if you're with the item who knows the Shema and they'll never praise

00:50:07 --> 00:50:09

anything he's wearing he'll give it ticket right off and give it to

00:50:09 --> 00:50:10

you. Okay

00:50:12 --> 00:50:16

I'm talking about the real ultimate that will do that. I one

00:50:16 --> 00:50:21

time said man your your your saw matches the another person's dope

00:50:21 --> 00:50:24

the shift took it right off I was like, Oh, why did I speak? Right

00:50:24 --> 00:50:27

shifts Wallahi or not go I'm not taking it back. He swore and he

00:50:27 --> 00:50:30

gave it to that other brother. So they're like that because they

00:50:30 --> 00:50:31

know that's the Sunnah.

00:50:33 --> 00:50:36

The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sometimes would wear the

00:50:36 --> 00:50:39

clothes of the very poor. What was the clothes of the very poor?

00:50:39 --> 00:50:41

Merely a sheath?

00:50:42 --> 00:50:46

So that so poor, they didn't even have the ability to sew sleeves

00:50:46 --> 00:50:46

into the shirt.

00:50:48 --> 00:50:51

So it was a sheet that they will just wrap around almost like,

00:50:51 --> 00:50:53

okay, almost like

00:50:54 --> 00:50:58

Abdulhadi saying, Oh, nice hat and scarf. I'm not one of those nice

00:50:58 --> 00:51:00

scholars. I'm not one of those good scholars. Regular Good, come

00:51:00 --> 00:51:02

on Muslim. So I'm keeping my stuff.

00:51:04 --> 00:51:07

It was a sheet that would just wrap it around. That was the cause

00:51:07 --> 00:51:10

of the poor. And the Yemenis were very famous for striping

00:51:10 --> 00:51:14

everything that stripes. So when they say Yemeni? It's all stripes.

00:51:14 --> 00:51:19

Okay. So that was one of the garments of the Prophet in our

00:51:19 --> 00:51:23

time, we have to keep the spirit. There is a spirit to this, that

00:51:23 --> 00:51:27

the prophet could not always be differentiated. There's also the

00:51:27 --> 00:51:30

spirit that every Nabhi wore loose clothing.

00:51:31 --> 00:51:37

So we have to keep up both this the Sunnah of MBs all of the MBS

00:51:37 --> 00:51:41

war, loose, flowing garments, they all did.

00:51:43 --> 00:51:46

So that is also from the good things that we should keep up

00:51:46 --> 00:51:50

loose, flowing garments, which is all of the ethnic clothes of

00:51:50 --> 00:51:54

Muslim countries suits that sunnah. Okay.

00:51:55 --> 00:51:59

It's like a symbol. Yet at the same time, if you're in a society

00:51:59 --> 00:52:02

that doesn't wear that clothes, but where's the regular Halal

00:52:02 --> 00:52:06

clothes that oftentimes have keep up the Sunnah, that you look like

00:52:06 --> 00:52:09

everybody else too. It does something good for your knifes.

00:52:09 --> 00:52:13

Whereas when you're always standing out, it reminds me so

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

much of a of one of the self.

00:52:16 --> 00:52:20

He was doing something good for so long, but he didn't realize it was

00:52:20 --> 00:52:23

becoming a like a brand for him.

00:52:25 --> 00:52:29

He never missed a lot in the first row ever. He said for 20 years in

00:52:29 --> 00:52:34

the tuba mask. I never missed a lot in the first row. And so one

00:52:34 --> 00:52:38

day I was late for a shot in the first row and they started without

00:52:38 --> 00:52:43

me. And I prayed and I had to pray in the back rows. He said I was so

00:52:43 --> 00:52:46

embarrassed, I didn't even want to pray. Like I want I didn't want to

00:52:46 --> 00:52:49

be seen like better to be not praying at all then then he

00:52:49 --> 00:52:53

realized all that time it wasn't yet. I was showing off. It was

00:52:54 --> 00:52:58

increasing me in arrogance, that this good deed is like this is my

00:52:58 --> 00:52:59

thing. Okay.

00:53:01 --> 00:53:04

And that's one of the things that close could do to somebody. So

00:53:04 --> 00:53:07

that's why every once in a while, why don't you just appear like

00:53:07 --> 00:53:12

everybody else. And the scholars sometimes do say that if somebody

00:53:12 --> 00:53:16

becomes the symbol of religion than that person, it is

00:53:17 --> 00:53:21

recommended for him to wear the Islamic clothes or the whatever

00:53:21 --> 00:53:24

the Sunnah of Allah Matt to wear all the time. So that's why for

00:53:24 --> 00:53:30

example, the scholars of Shem and and Yemen as the oftentimes you

00:53:30 --> 00:53:33

will never see them outside of their clothes of scholarship.

00:53:33 --> 00:53:36

Right? There's a reason for that. But for regular people like us,

00:53:36 --> 00:53:41

sometimes this and sometimes that there's that's the wisdom of of

00:53:42 --> 00:53:44

establishing both Sooners.

00:53:47 --> 00:53:53

When you're in an environment of temptation, it's better to have

00:53:53 --> 00:53:56

the garment that will keep you away from temptation. So if you're

00:53:56 --> 00:53:58

a college kid on campus,

00:53:59 --> 00:54:02

if you're dressed like with a soap or a Koofi,

00:54:04 --> 00:54:07

the women won't chase after you. Not that you're like flattering

00:54:07 --> 00:54:11

yourself or anything. But it's possible that you would fall into

00:54:11 --> 00:54:16

fitna one guy I knew he was very handsome guy. And he would always

00:54:16 --> 00:54:17

go to the gym.

00:54:18 --> 00:54:23

He said, But he had a heavy heavy, heavy Indian accent. Like the kind

00:54:23 --> 00:54:28

you even the Indians would laugh so heavy, but you would never tell

00:54:28 --> 00:54:32

because on the outside he was just look like a regular. You knew he

00:54:32 --> 00:54:36

was ethnic, but he wasn't dark or looked Indian or you didn't know

00:54:36 --> 00:54:39

what he was he could pass for Italian maybe even right.

00:54:40 --> 00:54:45

So he looked like almost like the Kashmiri look almost. And then he

00:54:45 --> 00:54:50

would say women at the gym. He's like a magnet. If he's at a

00:54:50 --> 00:54:53

treadmill, all of a sudden the all the treadmills around will be

00:54:53 --> 00:54:56

surrounded by women. He goes to drink all of a sudden all the

00:54:56 --> 00:54:59

women go to drink, he says until I open my mouth

00:55:00 --> 00:55:06

They flee, like, like a rat came out, right? Because his accent was

00:55:06 --> 00:55:10

so heavy and they're not attracted to that right? It would flee from

00:55:10 --> 00:55:15

him. So he said my accent has saved me from fitna so likewise if

00:55:15 --> 00:55:21

you're in a situation like you're in college and you're exposed to

00:55:21 --> 00:55:25

that where women do come to to Georgie when and instigate things,

00:55:26 --> 00:55:29

then it would make sense to wear your Islamic clothes have a little

00:55:29 --> 00:55:32

bit of a scruffy beard that keep them away All right

00:55:34 --> 00:55:36

now we're gonna have all the guys doing that right?

00:55:37 --> 00:55:40

Say oh, I need to keep the women away. Be careful from flattering

00:55:40 --> 00:55:44

yourself. Some of you don't need it by the way, you're fine as you

00:55:44 --> 00:55:44

are

00:55:50 --> 00:55:53

but look what it doesn't tell you something when the Sahaba were

00:55:54 --> 00:55:57

talking about how the Prophet justice everything they knew

00:55:57 --> 00:56:00

everything about the Messenger of Allah when he was okay

00:56:02 --> 00:56:06

Alright folks, let's pause here in terms of our Shimon

00:56:08 --> 00:56:11

and let's open it up for q&a. Let's see what we have from

00:56:11 --> 00:56:13

Instagram. Good

00:56:18 --> 00:56:24

saying Masha Allah and giving sadaqa to expel to remove another

00:56:25 --> 00:56:30

yes and not showing off so much to Nether is has it basically. Okay.

00:56:31 --> 00:56:32

Acid it

00:56:33 --> 00:56:37

is not just Yes, you say Masha Allah, you recite suits and

00:56:37 --> 00:56:40

Philip, you give sadaqa. But also,

00:56:41 --> 00:56:44

that's for something that you can avoid. Also, you don't show off as

00:56:44 --> 00:56:50

much. Okay? Let's say you're a mom, she has wonderful babies. And

00:56:50 --> 00:56:52

some women, they can't produce babies, right? They just can't get

00:56:52 --> 00:56:57

pregnant. Or they have a baby that is not as endowed as yours. So you

00:56:57 --> 00:57:02

don't go and dress her up and take her to where it's going to ignite

00:57:02 --> 00:57:07

the envy of other women. That's that's not wise. Okay, I'm gonna

00:57:07 --> 00:57:10

say there's a ruling on that. But it's not wise. You have to think

00:57:10 --> 00:57:13

of our Mi igniting the envy of other people.

00:57:14 --> 00:57:18

Right? So some people they should not they shouldn't fund maybe

00:57:18 --> 00:57:23

network Fembot. Maybe NEMA did a big if I did. As for the benefits

00:57:23 --> 00:57:26

of the Blessings of your Lord, make it shown. It's not for all

00:57:26 --> 00:57:29

it's not all the time. Sometimes you should or shouldn't do that.

00:57:29 --> 00:57:32

If it's going to ignite the envy of people, then you shouldn't do

00:57:32 --> 00:57:32

that.

00:57:35 --> 00:57:38

And that's one of the reasons probably why the Prophet

00:57:38 --> 00:57:41

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not aggrandized himself, he's

00:57:41 --> 00:57:45

already to be, he's ready to suit. Now if he aggrandized himself if

00:57:45 --> 00:57:49

he regret if his kids say now he has all the best of clothes, say

00:57:49 --> 00:57:53

the Fatima has all the best of clothes, and the best of lives and

00:57:53 --> 00:57:56

then he puts them in positions of power, it would bring so much

00:57:56 --> 00:58:04

envy. So to crush that envy, okay. Was one of his Sunon that say to

00:58:04 --> 00:58:09

follow him up, you will not get you're not getting a servant. So

00:58:09 --> 00:58:12

she had to work herself no servant for say to fund some everyone else

00:58:12 --> 00:58:17

got servants and slaves and and prisoners of war right? Not for

00:58:17 --> 00:58:24

say to Fatima say an ally. Lot of money coming in from conquest. He

00:58:24 --> 00:58:30

doesn't get any. They lived simple life. No envy, they're all the

00:58:30 --> 00:58:33

profits household very simple, no envy. So you want to make sure you

00:58:33 --> 00:58:37

always killing the envy of people. Before we get into the q&a, let's

00:58:37 --> 00:58:41

go back over some announcements. If And is anyone here from

00:58:41 --> 00:58:44

Connecticut. If you're in Connecticut, I'm going to be in

00:58:44 --> 00:58:49

Stamford, Connecticut, which is the south of Connecticut, to Allah

00:58:49 --> 00:58:52

to Allah. So come to so you could come to that event. There's going

00:58:52 --> 00:59:00

to be a a hookah, womens Holika and then a general Holika. And

00:59:00 --> 00:59:05

then at dinner, that's going to be on Friday, June 24. Are you going

00:59:05 --> 00:59:11

to family? Am I going to family? No, we can go up together. We'll

00:59:11 --> 00:59:12

go together.

00:59:14 --> 00:59:18

Who's the email? Yeah, I don't know. To be honest with you. I

00:59:18 --> 00:59:21

know that he mentioned his name and I watched one of his videos,

00:59:22 --> 00:59:24

but I don't know his name actually.

00:59:25 --> 00:59:26

Okay, next.

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this. Go to patreon.com backslash stuff inside. JJ says, What's your

01:00:12 --> 01:00:15

opinion about big beards and English clothes? It used to be

01:00:15 --> 01:00:18

very odd. But now it's actually very popular. First of all, if you

01:00:18 --> 01:00:21

look at all the old presidents of the United States, they all had

01:00:21 --> 01:00:25

big beards. Go look at Karl Marx got a bigger beard than all the

01:00:25 --> 01:00:27

stuff he's put together. Right?

01:00:28 --> 01:00:32

Now, it's popular again, this ever Julian Edelman?

01:00:34 --> 01:00:39

Was the Red Sox have one year the baseball their Red Sox that one

01:00:39 --> 01:00:44

year? They're all look like? That was my favorite year. 2004. Right.

01:00:45 --> 01:00:47

2011 Yeah.

01:00:48 --> 01:00:51

A lot of people now in pop culture, they have these huge

01:00:51 --> 01:00:54

beards. And I don't think it's a problem at all. Right?

01:00:56 --> 01:00:57

No problem at all.

01:00:58 --> 01:00:59

Next question here.

01:01:04 --> 01:01:08

Khadija, for the DUA mentioned earlier is the dua said within the

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prayer after the CENTUM after the salam

01:01:11 --> 01:01:15

caramel Karim tour, is it allowed to wear cologne that has alcohol

01:01:15 --> 01:01:17

in it different upon between the methods?

01:01:18 --> 01:01:21

What are the some conditions considered it now just some

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considered it not just what are the conditions for a man to

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divorce his wife?

01:01:27 --> 01:01:28

She should not be on height.

01:01:29 --> 01:01:32

She should not be on height he cannot divorce your wife on

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height. If you do, it counts as one divorce. You have to take her

01:01:35 --> 01:01:39

back, rescind it and divorce her again. So it will be two divorces.

01:01:40 --> 01:01:43

That's the condition where can I get the soma and whose author and

01:01:43 --> 01:01:48

if it is an English Mecca books.com is go to summit get get

01:01:48 --> 01:01:50

the Shemitah from Mecca books.com.

01:01:51 --> 01:01:52

Mecca books.com.

01:01:54 --> 01:01:58

How to stop associating a certain person with a certain sin. You

01:01:58 --> 01:02:01

know they have committed, it sucks. Well,

01:02:03 --> 01:02:05

if they've made Toba

01:02:06 --> 01:02:10

then you would know that or maybe they announced that they may tilba

01:02:10 --> 01:02:14

or something of that nature, then you should we should respect their

01:02:14 --> 01:02:18

Toba. But if it's hard to shake the memory of that, then the more

01:02:18 --> 01:02:22

we interact with the person, their new actions will displace their

01:02:22 --> 01:02:27

old memories. So if I met somebody way back in, let's say, the 2010.

01:02:28 --> 01:02:33

And I was interacting with this person from 2010 to 2015. And all

01:02:33 --> 01:02:36

I remember is he would do certain since then I lost touch with them.

01:02:37 --> 01:02:40

Alright, so from 2015 onwards, my mind is that he's he's this

01:02:40 --> 01:02:45

terrible person. He does this terrible thing, let's say, but it

01:02:45 --> 01:02:48

that's because I don't interact with him anymore. Now if he comes

01:02:48 --> 01:02:50

back on the scene, and he's totally different, the new

01:02:50 --> 01:02:53

memories will displace the old memories and Allah knows best.

01:02:55 --> 01:02:58

Ryan Hilliard, does that good luck and may Allah Allah accept from

01:02:58 --> 01:02:58

you?

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Someone is saying that, how do I get off of

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*?

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And I saw it tell you that.

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And one of the best ways is to create one of the best ways to

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change any behavior, * or not *, is to create

01:03:20 --> 01:03:21

for yourself in your mind.

01:03:23 --> 01:03:26

A simple question, ask yourself a simple question. What reward

01:03:27 --> 01:03:31

that Allah would give you in this life before the next. Next life is

01:03:31 --> 01:03:35

very hard to imagine this life? If Allah said, Okay, listen, angel

01:03:35 --> 01:03:40

comes and says, this piece of paper is a blank check. Write down

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what is it that you would want so badly?

01:03:46 --> 01:03:51

It would be worth conquering your desires, the reward would be worth

01:03:52 --> 01:03:52

lowering your gaze.

01:03:54 --> 01:03:59

Alright, that think about that. It should make you feel so excited

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and happy that it will be 100 times worthwhile lowering my gaze,

01:04:05 --> 01:04:07

I will lower my gaze if I can have this.

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And mostly it will be related to the sin that you're committing. If

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a man is doing Ribba what does he love? He loves money. He loves

01:04:17 --> 01:04:22

business. If a man is drinking, why do people drink? I think that

01:04:22 --> 01:04:23

people drink mainly

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because they have problems, anxiety. So peace of mind is what

01:04:29 --> 01:04:35

he wants, right? If a man is doing Zina is he loves women. If a woman

01:04:35 --> 01:04:36

is doing Zenit, she loves men,

01:04:37 --> 01:04:40

so on and so forth. So it's usually going to be something

01:04:40 --> 01:04:44

related to that. But you put that down on a piece of paper, and you

01:04:44 --> 01:04:45

really start to believe.

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I'm going to make a trade with Allah and use that as your

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motivation to now stop looking at what you're looking at.

01:04:57 --> 01:04:59

But if you simply say it's hot

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If you're gonna go to * it that may not always work for everybody.

01:05:04 --> 01:05:08

Sometimes a positive motivation is better than a negative motivation.

01:05:11 --> 01:05:13

What's the ruling on a man divorces his wife because she's

01:05:13 --> 01:05:14

sick.

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It may not be nice, but it's Hello for him. But it's just not nice.

01:05:22 --> 01:05:26

He's not gonna get sense from that. That means a man marries a

01:05:26 --> 01:05:29

woman. They're living five, six years together. Then she says, I

01:05:29 --> 01:05:34

have a sickness. I can never have kids, or I can't walk anymore. Oh,

01:05:34 --> 01:05:37

that's not the life you signed up for. Right? Oh, she I'm blind. I

01:05:37 --> 01:05:41

can't see anymore. Now, it's not nice for him to say okay, well, I

01:05:41 --> 01:05:45

can't do this. But it's understandable. Number one. And it

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may be something that is from the

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least beloved of Allah's of the halal thing to Allah is that type

01:05:53 --> 01:05:55

of divorce, it would not be something that he committed some

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kind of terrible, major sin. It's just it's not pleasant. I totally

01:06:00 --> 01:06:03

understand that. But we can't say that he's committed some sin

01:06:03 --> 01:06:07

because without the sickness, he's allowed to divorce her. Right.

01:06:09 --> 01:06:10

And she's allowed to seek a hold on to

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it If a man goes and gets he's got terminal cancer at the age of 23.

01:06:18 --> 01:06:21

Let's say the doctors es you got only a couple more years you're

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gonna live. And the woman is like, well, I'm in like the prime of my

01:06:24 --> 01:06:25

life here.

01:06:26 --> 01:06:29

I need to have a regular husband on a regular life, and she

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divorces him. Our Cydia

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does not hold that divorce means hatred. Divorce does not mean

01:06:35 --> 01:06:40

oppression. It's an at will agreement if you don't want to be

01:06:40 --> 01:06:41

part of it. You don't have to be part of it.

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So this is not to say, okay, just go and divorce everyone you want.

01:06:46 --> 01:06:50

But there is not something that is haram for

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unlike Catholicism. What if the people are your friends, and

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you're still in doubt about hesed and when your friends are giving

01:06:59 --> 01:06:59

you hazard

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you kids keep getting sick

01:07:10 --> 01:07:13

maybe if your friends are giving you hazard you find net time to

01:07:13 --> 01:07:18

find a better friend group. Maybe because you moved on in life, you

01:07:18 --> 01:07:22

got richer, you got better in life than they are. So they're very

01:07:22 --> 01:07:27

upset at that. And so it's time to move on in life into a different

01:07:27 --> 01:07:31

group. That's what it seems like to me. What do you think, Ryan?

01:07:33 --> 01:07:37

And isn't it something that happens all the time? Someone

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moves on in life and others don't? Right? So they may start like, I

01:07:43 --> 01:07:46

mean, think about like if it happened to us, right? If we're we

01:07:46 --> 01:07:51

got our own friend group, all of a sudden a guy becomes let's say,

01:07:51 --> 01:07:55

Hey, I'm the Minister of the king of Brunei. Like you're not in our

01:07:55 --> 01:07:59

friend group anymore. Like you're living differently now. Oh, I get

01:07:59 --> 01:08:03

picked up in a special aircraft. The sushi is waiting for me.

01:08:03 --> 01:08:08

Right? I'm a sous is is is rubbing my shoulders on my way to work

01:08:08 --> 01:08:12

every day to the work for the Sultan of Brunei. Um, so yeah,

01:08:12 --> 01:08:15

that's really nice, but we're not friends anymore. Like we cannot

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relate to that lifestyle. Normal stuff for you is not normal for us

01:08:19 --> 01:08:23

anymore. So you got it you go and do that. And we'll go and we'll

01:08:23 --> 01:08:25

stay here with all the regular people

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is the Imam Bosnian where I'm going and Connecticut? No, he's

01:08:30 --> 01:08:31

not his Pakistani.

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But I know what you're talking about.

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Yeah.

01:08:37 --> 01:08:41

I can't remember his name off the top. I remember his face but he

01:08:41 --> 01:08:44

remembers name. Muhammad says you should believe in the power and

01:08:44 --> 01:08:50

the words of Allah. Yes. Were there any prophets who only

01:08:50 --> 01:08:56

married one wife says strangest? Yes, there have been if my memory

01:08:56 --> 01:09:01

serves correct or certain that one of them is atomized right. So to

01:09:01 --> 01:09:05

add a married one wife, if I'm not mistaken, no.

01:09:06 --> 01:09:11

Married one wife lute married one wife. Use of at a salon had one

01:09:11 --> 01:09:15

wife if I'm not mistaken, they had one wife. All of them

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from not mistaken.

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Miss haram and Miss misura Misha Rockman I got it. Misha Rockman

01:09:28 --> 01:09:31

where can I learn the differences in rulings as a young female who

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recently became an orphan in that

01:09:34 --> 01:09:39

very sorry to hear this but I'm telling you that you can learn the

01:09:39 --> 01:09:41

rulings basically that

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for all these basic things from our sister Halamish she can teach

01:09:47 --> 01:09:51

you she's really good at this stuff really good. Had a hammer

01:09:51 --> 01:09:56

and you could do this by if you just want to ask questions. Fine.

01:09:56 --> 01:09:59

Hella dot amor, as if he decided that orgy

01:10:02 --> 01:10:06

otherwise you sign up for ArcView basic, and you take her classes,

01:10:06 --> 01:10:08

and she teaches the preteen level

01:10:09 --> 01:10:12

to enter the teenage level. And she teaches puberty classes,

01:10:12 --> 01:10:13

everything.

01:10:15 --> 01:10:20

Posh international tells us the Red Sox they kept rolling their

01:10:20 --> 01:10:24

crazy beards, just to be the opposite of the Yankees. So you

01:10:24 --> 01:10:28

see, we're not so different when the prophets I said, I'm says, the

01:10:28 --> 01:10:30

Christians do this. So you do that the Jews do that you do this.

01:10:31 --> 01:10:33

We're gonna do this because the Persians do that everyone wants to

01:10:33 --> 01:10:36

be different from their adversaries and the rivals. So the

01:10:36 --> 01:10:40

Red Sox, they want to have these crazy wild beer beards, because

01:10:40 --> 01:10:43

the Yankees have a clean shaven policy and the Yankees and they

01:10:43 --> 01:10:46

shouldn't hate each other anymore because the Red Sox have really

01:10:46 --> 01:10:51

put themselves on the map in the last decade and a half. From 2004

01:10:51 --> 01:10:57

that epic epic 2004 was just like insane. Anyway, if you're

01:10:57 --> 01:10:59

interested in baseball, you know what I'm talking about.

01:11:00 --> 01:11:04

Abby says I'm scared of trimming beard I feel oh Abby's a min.

01:11:04 --> 01:11:08

Okay. I feel like if I cut too short, I don't want it look

01:11:08 --> 01:11:13

scuffie advise me on what I should do. The Sunnah of the beard is

01:11:13 --> 01:11:15

that it's a thing of beauty. And there's two beauties in my opinion

01:11:15 --> 01:11:19

of the beard. Like the beard in itself is a thing of beauty, but

01:11:19 --> 01:11:23

also from another perspective. Sometimes the scruffy Enos of the

01:11:23 --> 01:11:27

beard is a spiritual beauty and it depends some scruffy beard to me

01:11:27 --> 01:11:33

it looks dirty, and other scruffy beard, it's beauty zoo head and

01:11:33 --> 01:11:37

BIA have big beard them yet. I'm not sure if MBS had the trimmed

01:11:37 --> 01:11:40

beards, right? The profits of maybe the Prophet Muhammad

01:11:40 --> 01:11:43

Sallallahu Sallam because he's to put oil in his beard, so it looks

01:11:43 --> 01:11:47

clean. But when you think of profit new prophet Musa these

01:11:47 --> 01:11:50

prophets have fought wars and battles, right and they were so

01:11:50 --> 01:11:53

hurt. Of course all the prophets are so head but saying the sword

01:11:53 --> 01:11:56

Amen is not like say no, no. Good. And the Prophet Muhammad

01:11:56 --> 01:12:00

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he did oil his beard, so it looked

01:12:00 --> 01:12:02

kept it looks clean, it was thick and clean.

01:12:04 --> 01:12:07

So there is a type of beard where the beauty is in the beard itself.

01:12:07 --> 01:12:11

And there's another beauty of the beard of the spirituality of the

01:12:11 --> 01:12:15

beard desert. Like he's said he's like completely out of the world.

01:12:15 --> 01:12:18

Like you cannot imagine it without really fatty.

01:12:19 --> 01:12:22

He's like a complete set. You can't imagine him with like a nice

01:12:22 --> 01:12:26

perfectly kept beard. But we know even our best did and they've been

01:12:26 --> 01:12:30

Amato us he's the one who initiated the Cubs up and many

01:12:30 --> 01:12:34

Sahaba took from the sides. So an updraft member now have an

01:12:34 --> 01:12:38

automatic now fed you know that they had a nice Kemp's up beard.

01:12:38 --> 01:12:42

So there is the zoo hood look, which I love. And then there is

01:12:42 --> 01:12:47

the regular clean beard which I love. But that which shouldn't is

01:12:47 --> 01:12:51

looks like you're just you have hairs scrappy Yanni.

01:12:53 --> 01:12:55

I don't think there will be issue for you if you clean that up.

01:12:56 --> 01:12:57

Shouldn't be issue for them.

01:12:58 --> 01:13:01

Not I'm not saying I don't think I know for sure that there is no

01:13:01 --> 01:13:05

issue in that. In all the mothers I have even seen the Jordanian

01:13:05 --> 01:13:09

right, have a Hanafy book. Sorry, Jordanian Hanafy have a book on

01:13:09 --> 01:13:13

the beard showing that how the setup trimmed up and clean their

01:13:13 --> 01:13:15

beard says absolutely know how to do that.

01:13:18 --> 01:13:23

Okay. And that's an opinion. Is it she had the opinion, do you have

01:13:23 --> 01:13:26

other opinions? Don't touch it at all. I have full respect for that

01:13:26 --> 01:13:26

opinion too.

01:13:27 --> 01:13:28

Okay.

01:13:30 --> 01:13:34

Shockwave the X Men says Do you know many scholars that are well

01:13:34 --> 01:13:39

versed in political science Imam Zaid Shakur, Abu Bakar. Shed does

01:13:39 --> 01:13:42

the SID view that those who have not heard of Islam are forgiven.

01:13:43 --> 01:13:45

Does this include oppressors Yes.

01:13:46 --> 01:13:47

Who is everybody?

01:13:48 --> 01:13:51

Does lying in business make the income haram it makes that

01:13:51 --> 01:13:52

transaction haram?

01:13:54 --> 01:13:57

Yes, it does make that transaction haram so if I lie to make one

01:13:57 --> 01:14:02

sale, that sale is forbidden for me to have. Nabila says,

01:14:04 --> 01:14:05

you mentioned that

01:14:06 --> 01:14:08

if you've been making dua for something for a long time in the

01:14:08 --> 01:14:10

process, you increase

01:14:11 --> 01:14:14

and the process makes you increase your good deeds and get rid of

01:14:14 --> 01:14:18

your sins. Usually that is a good sign. Yes, it is a good sign. 100%

01:14:19 --> 01:14:22

What does it mean when challenges start showing up towards the end?

01:14:22 --> 01:14:26

Does that mean you're close to the job being accepted? Allahu Allah.

01:14:26 --> 01:14:31

We have no knowledge about the time of when Allah Tada will

01:14:31 --> 01:14:35

answer somebody. All we know is what we're commanded to do, which

01:14:35 --> 01:14:36

is

01:14:37 --> 01:14:41

to be optimistic, so much so that the ultimate segment only him at

01:14:41 --> 01:14:43

dua, Lima Jabba

01:14:45 --> 01:14:48

whoever is inspired to make a dua for something for men only met dua

01:14:48 --> 01:14:53

fucka al Allahu lowly job. If you are inspired to make a dua for

01:14:53 --> 01:14:57

something. You're always making it in different ways, different deeds

01:14:57 --> 01:14:59

to get it accepted. That means that Allah has prepared

01:15:00 --> 01:15:00

for you in the job

01:15:03 --> 01:15:06

if we don't know if a person has made Toba and they continue doing

01:15:06 --> 01:15:10

the sin, if they are sinning publicly if a person is sitting

01:15:10 --> 01:15:13

publicly, you may speak about that to warn other peoples of this

01:15:13 --> 01:15:19

person. He's not ashamed of it. So he's no longer got the privilege

01:15:19 --> 01:15:24

of us hiding it for him. Someone sells liquor. Right he's got a

01:15:24 --> 01:15:28

liquor store. There's a group of Lebanese in Ohio now they're all

01:15:28 --> 01:15:33

gonna get upset if they hear about this. They like sponsor massage at

01:15:33 --> 01:15:37

Islamic schools and they have nightclubs and strip clubs and

01:15:37 --> 01:15:40

bars what all this money is haram

01:15:41 --> 01:15:45

and you can say it because he's not ashamed of it. So if he's not

01:15:45 --> 01:15:48

ashamed of it, then the city is no longer do to him

01:15:49 --> 01:15:50

sit there as the covering

01:15:51 --> 01:15:52

okay

01:15:55 --> 01:15:58

Abby, is it in NYC so why don't why don't you ever come down?

01:15:59 --> 01:16:02

Yeah, Abby is a guy by the way. Okay,

01:16:04 --> 01:16:05

maybe it's short for ebook.

01:16:07 --> 01:16:11

Okay, lead says if somebody has been sleeping through fetch on a

01:16:11 --> 01:16:15

regular basis, what kind of sins could be contributing to that

01:16:16 --> 01:16:20

many types of sins but we should talk more about the solution to

01:16:20 --> 01:16:24

that which is do a bad during the day make would do before you sleep

01:16:24 --> 01:16:29

and sleep early. Sleep early. I think like overeating to right

01:16:29 --> 01:16:33

over eating is a great one. Overeating is a great problem. If

01:16:33 --> 01:16:36

you want for health and for fetch don't eat late at night.

01:16:37 --> 01:16:40

That's why popcorn sales are through the roof because that's

01:16:40 --> 01:16:42

what people eat. It's light.

01:16:44 --> 01:16:48

Question is medical method includes Yes, Knut is a formula

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in Sultan fetch second raka silently before the core and

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that's it.

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What if What if you're leading the prayer in a masjid and people are

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going to be confused

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you can leave it off you leave it off.

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Revd you one says can their hazard still reach you after you moved

01:17:11 --> 01:17:14

on? Oh I missed the must have missed the front part of the

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question whose hazard the host said has said of somebody in the

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past

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and by the way you know it's not necessarily always since sometimes

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you could just oversleep fudge it's not necessarily always that

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it's a sin.

01:17:34 --> 01:17:38

Ken has said reach a person I have heard well lo data alum that has

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said is always in person has said is not something that is from far

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away it's in person will live on

01:17:49 --> 01:17:53

garage door praying with clothing that has letterings and words fine

01:17:53 --> 01:17:58

even if it has an animal face on it is fine. And if it has a full

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animal body is just mukou but the slot is valid

01:18:02 --> 01:18:03

good

01:18:08 --> 01:18:11

oh someone says can you make Do I have a rash May Allah subhana

01:18:11 --> 01:18:13

which I had to remove that rash from you should do it okay for

01:18:13 --> 01:18:18

yourself and recite some Quran for that and and as some of the self

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did recite upon water and rub that water on if that is okay.

01:18:24 --> 01:18:24

Good.

01:18:25 --> 01:18:28

Abby says so that got him tired but not all the time. It's the

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case of sometimes it could be a love protecting you remember,

01:18:31 --> 01:18:35

there is a period and I missed this as a conversation apparently.

01:18:37 --> 01:18:37

Good.

01:18:38 --> 01:18:42

Misha Rockman. I'm subscribed to ArcView and I'll check out her

01:18:42 --> 01:18:46

classes. Excellent. Yeah, her class is just type in Hello, Ahmed

01:18:46 --> 01:18:49

as teacher, and you'll learn so much from her and you can email

01:18:49 --> 01:18:51

her directly. She's very thorough and getting back to everybody.

01:18:56 --> 01:19:01

Things having LGBT colors, can we buy them? No. No. Everything's

01:19:01 --> 01:19:05

LGBT these days. Everything toys. LGBT kids are trying to get your

01:19:05 --> 01:19:07

kids because they don't have kids. So were they going to preach to

01:19:07 --> 01:19:11

they gotta preach to your kids? Right? So no, I wouldn't buy any

01:19:11 --> 01:19:13

of those for my kids. shift from

01:19:15 --> 01:19:18

Kuwait made a video and said Kay, don't buy our kids these toys.

01:19:18 --> 01:19:22

Everyone made fun of him. I totally support the chef in that.

01:19:23 --> 01:19:26

Chef Camus. I think his name is why didn't make fun of the guy.

01:19:27 --> 01:19:30

They're all this is what he's talking about. And it's not I

01:19:30 --> 01:19:33

don't I think that's a huge deal. You're gonna give kids all sorts

01:19:33 --> 01:19:36

of LGBT colored toys and then you wonder why they love it when they

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grow older.

01:19:40 --> 01:19:43

Combining prayers during the summer month like Megadeth and

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Asia.

01:19:45 --> 01:19:48

The the Mufti is of your country can answer that we don't have that

01:19:48 --> 01:19:50

problem here. I know they have that problem in England and in

01:19:50 --> 01:19:53

Scandinavia, where medicative is so late.

01:19:55 --> 01:19:58

Right that in order for them to stay up for a shot, there's

01:19:58 --> 01:19:59

sometimes staying up until like 11th

01:20:00 --> 01:20:04

45 And they got to work the next morning at 5am. And they got to

01:20:04 --> 01:20:07

prefetch at like 3am. So I'll leave that for the most days of

01:20:07 --> 01:20:09

your country to answer that question

01:20:17 --> 01:20:22

Nabil says, do you think has said his social media accounts? I

01:20:22 --> 01:20:25

definitely think Well, that's a good point. I never understand

01:20:25 --> 01:20:31

that. He's Instagram superstars that, Oh, we're so handsome. My

01:20:31 --> 01:20:33

wife is so pretty. Let's make a video. How does this make any

01:20:33 --> 01:20:39

sense? You're igniting like, at least if not envy. At least many

01:20:39 --> 01:20:42

many people will start to feel that

01:20:43 --> 01:20:47

less than you. And they'll feel bad about it. So I just don't

01:20:47 --> 01:20:50

understand the logic of people who go around making these videos him

01:20:50 --> 01:20:54

and his wife, right making little prank videos and stuff like that

01:20:54 --> 01:20:57

or little cute little videos. Look how cute we are. Right?

01:20:59 --> 01:21:02

It's just not something that I would I would be very, very upset.

01:21:03 --> 01:21:07

If my my own daughter and her son in law or my son and his daughter.

01:21:08 --> 01:21:10

His wife did that. I would be like

01:21:11 --> 01:21:16

stop because other people don't have what you have. Yes, there may

01:21:16 --> 01:21:18

be hesed over the internet Allah on them.

01:21:20 --> 01:21:24

If you wrong someone says ally and they don't forgive you, but you

01:21:24 --> 01:21:29

make dua for that. All that you can do is your your own effort at

01:21:29 --> 01:21:30

Toba.

01:21:32 --> 01:21:36

Will. I'm not here 911 What's the best place to learn edip the best

01:21:36 --> 01:21:39

place to learn edit is to keep company have learned Muslims

01:21:39 --> 01:21:41

educated Muslims keep their company and learn from them.

01:21:42 --> 01:21:43

That's the best way

01:21:44 --> 01:21:47

alright, we just aren't if you have a class on an edible Mulford

01:21:47 --> 01:21:50

we do but we never finished it. We just started actually, I don't

01:21:50 --> 01:21:52

even know if it's uploaded. You have to see

01:21:58 --> 01:22:04

how do we develop love of Allah by regular sitting down and doing

01:22:04 --> 01:22:08

much remembrance and also reading about his answering of DA

01:22:10 --> 01:22:13

and his promises? To answer the door. Have a moment a couple more

01:22:13 --> 01:22:15

questions before we wrap up.

01:22:16 --> 01:22:21

If one wants to respect his mom, this is ABCDEFG. And his dad he

01:22:21 --> 01:22:24

wants to respect his dad but they act like they're always in a

01:22:24 --> 01:22:28

wrestling match with him. Okay, but want the child to lead?

01:22:30 --> 01:22:33

Also want to push him of leading? What to do?

01:22:34 --> 01:22:36

Leading what the salah

01:22:37 --> 01:22:43

or leading the family? Clarify. Nora says is it permissible to own

01:22:43 --> 01:22:47

clothing store that sells clothing for women? That's revealing? Yes,

01:22:47 --> 01:22:48

it is.

01:22:49 --> 01:22:54

It depends on your intent. Right? If you're intending it for fiscal,

01:22:54 --> 01:22:57

but if you're intending it for holiday usage, as not your

01:22:57 --> 01:23:00

business, what they sell it for what they use it for. Now, if it

01:23:00 --> 01:23:04

becomes so obvious that you are the source of something like that,

01:23:04 --> 01:23:06

that's haram, who's ringing the doorbell like that?

01:23:07 --> 01:23:07

Then

01:23:09 --> 01:23:13

then you may want to, you know, ask yourself if you want to be

01:23:13 --> 01:23:17

involved in that. However, we do know that

01:23:19 --> 01:23:22

you're not responsible as long as the item is a halal item

01:23:29 --> 01:23:30

All right.

01:23:32 --> 01:23:37

Nimra lying on the resume regarding work experience. That

01:23:37 --> 01:23:41

action is haram. I don't know if it would make the entire income

01:23:41 --> 01:23:43

haram but the action is

01:23:45 --> 01:23:48

last question said Muhammad. Daniel. Are there any reports

01:23:48 --> 01:23:50

showing how the messengers of Allah when he was telling me to

01:23:50 --> 01:23:54

train physically, I think their entire lives. They didn't really

01:23:54 --> 01:23:57

need training because their entire life was a physical struggle. Go

01:23:57 --> 01:23:58

get water. Oh,

01:23:59 --> 01:24:03

right. Imagine you had to go get water by walking down the block

01:24:03 --> 01:24:06

and carrying two gallons of water back. Like everything was physical

01:24:06 --> 01:24:09

for them. They didn't have to have physical training. Their training

01:24:09 --> 01:24:15

was sword fighting, horseback riding, shooting arrows swimming

01:24:15 --> 01:24:18

in some cases, but they didn't really train the way we imagined

01:24:18 --> 01:24:23

training to be. Like, there was no jogging until like, I think the

01:24:23 --> 01:24:27

50s there was no concept of jogging, even taking walks. Sultan

01:24:27 --> 01:24:32

Abdulhamid his father, he imitated the British and the Europeans, the

01:24:32 --> 01:24:35

Europeans were the first people to do this idea of walking. Take a

01:24:35 --> 01:24:40

walk. You know that? So he started doing it. So it's on abdulmajeed

01:24:40 --> 01:24:44

Taking a walk. It was a scandal. What are you doing? Why are you

01:24:44 --> 01:24:47

walking? Where are you going? Now? Just taking a walk. This was a new

01:24:47 --> 01:24:51

thing. There's no such thing as go take a walk. People didn't need

01:24:51 --> 01:24:52

physical exercise back in the day.

01:24:54 --> 01:24:58

Nona says I work in health care what's the ruling on treating

01:24:58 --> 01:25:00

patients of the opposite gender

01:25:00 --> 01:25:00

Are

01:25:01 --> 01:25:05

you have to it's it's healthcare is a Hillel job and if there's

01:25:05 --> 01:25:08

something haram that you're being asked to do you have to try to

01:25:08 --> 01:25:09

avoid that one certain thing.

01:25:11 --> 01:25:14

Really cool guy are the Hanafi fiqh classes on ArcView for the

01:25:14 --> 01:25:16

first level yes they are beginners

01:25:20 --> 01:25:20

all right

01:25:23 --> 01:25:24

let's stop here

01:25:28 --> 01:25:31

does that come look good and everybody Bartok Lo Fi comm Jimmy

01:25:31 --> 01:25:36

on May Allah subhanho wa Taala except from us this action

01:25:37 --> 01:25:37

jet

01:25:42 --> 01:25:46

and in sha Allah What is your opinion on lady of heaven the

01:25:46 --> 01:25:48

movie we never got a chance to talk to the about that. But you

01:25:48 --> 01:25:52

can see as you see the British Muslims got it. I guess it was

01:25:52 --> 01:25:56

going to show in one specific theater there and they got it shut

01:25:56 --> 01:26:00

down by marching and raising up a storm which I guess is a good

01:26:00 --> 01:26:03

thing. Because they got that movie to be

01:26:04 --> 01:26:07

not shown and that movies insulting the Sahaba

01:26:08 --> 01:26:10

to see a movie by

01:26:12 --> 01:26:17

a guy who who enjoys insulting the Sahaba so they got it shut down.

01:26:17 --> 01:26:19

What Hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen I'm

01:26:20 --> 01:26:25

not always a fan of like yelling and screaming in marches. It's

01:26:25 --> 01:26:28

just not my thing. But I'm happy that they did the job and got the

01:26:28 --> 01:26:33

movie shutdown. Right. So that's good. I kind of like experiencing

01:26:33 --> 01:26:36

time. So we don't have a war or anything. Yeah, like we don't have

01:26:36 --> 01:26:39

war. I mean, check this out mean people yell and scream at games

01:26:39 --> 01:26:42

all the time. Yeah, and nobody says anything. Yeah, like people

01:26:42 --> 01:26:45

yell at scream at a player for not kicking a ball. Right? Like,

01:26:45 --> 01:26:48

that's weird. I think that's weird. And but nobody finds out a

01:26:48 --> 01:26:53

problem where other TV they break their TVs. It's so funny watching

01:26:53 --> 01:26:58

the certain playoffs, like NFL playoffs. When a guy misses like a

01:26:58 --> 01:27:02

kick to to win the game. The next day, you see all these TVs broken

01:27:02 --> 01:27:06

on Twitter, people recording them breaking their own TVs and stuff

01:27:06 --> 01:27:09

like that. But when it comes to actual Dean and a Muslim gets

01:27:09 --> 01:27:09

upset

01:27:11 --> 01:27:14

over matter, their religion was sacred to them. Then the reaction

01:27:14 --> 01:27:18

is oh, why are you guys overreacting? Why can't you relax?

01:27:18 --> 01:27:22

Well, you guys can't relax on less than that. Right? Subhanallah No,

01:27:22 --> 01:27:25

we're not going to relax on we're not going to relax. But when you

01:27:25 --> 01:27:29

tell us to relax, we're relaxed on our own terms. So these guys they

01:27:29 --> 01:27:33

totally went all out. And they got the movie canceled she a movie.

01:27:34 --> 01:27:36

Does that come lock in and everyone we ask Allah subhanaw

01:27:36 --> 01:27:40

taala to accept from us. May Allah subhanaw taala make us people of

01:27:40 --> 01:27:44

dua that people have humility and people of st. Java and we ask

01:27:44 --> 01:27:48

Allah to Allah to make us people of Addison, Noah, Gemma and people

01:27:48 --> 01:27:51

of kedma to the OMA people of masajid from today until we meet

01:27:51 --> 01:27:55

him upon that state of people of masajid far from multilateral fits

01:27:55 --> 01:27:57

and fits in that lead people astray. We ask Allah for our

01:27:57 --> 01:28:00

children that he makes them love Amen and make it sweet in their

01:28:00 --> 01:28:02

hearts and make them hate go for it make it better in the hearts We

01:28:02 --> 01:28:05

ask Allah to Allah to never deprive us of the milk of liquor.

01:28:05 --> 01:28:08

And for all those whose hearts are closed from the taste of dhikr May

01:28:08 --> 01:28:11

Allah try to open the floodgates of the sweetness of his

01:28:11 --> 01:28:14

remembrance into their hearts. We ask Allah if we have ever looked

01:28:14 --> 01:28:18

down upon any Muslim that we seek your forgiveness. If we have ever

01:28:18 --> 01:28:20

belittled any Muslim we seek your forgiveness, we ask you not to

01:28:20 --> 01:28:24

punish us with what we have belittled them with We ask Allah

01:28:24 --> 01:28:28

subhana wa Tada to make us love the deen and make us always love

01:28:28 --> 01:28:32

what is of the dominant opinion of the deen so that we may be safe as

01:28:32 --> 01:28:35

the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says,

01:28:35 --> 01:28:39

not coming near the grazing grounds of the king so that we can

01:28:39 --> 01:28:42

be safe in our deen and in our reputations in this life. And our

01:28:42 --> 01:28:46

Dean's in the ACA wa sallahu wa barakaatuh Seaton Muhammad wa ala

01:28:46 --> 01:28:49

alihi wa sahbihi wa salam Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen

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