Shadee Elmasry – NBF 68 Clothing of the Blessed Prophet
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The speakers discuss the negative impact of dressing up during events and the importance of avoiding offense. They also touch on the negative impact of divorce and the use of big beards. The conversation shifts to clothing and the loss of parents' jobs, as well as the importance of finding a person to work with and respecting their parents. They end with a brief discussion on the loss of parents' jobs and the need for forgiveness in public settings.
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We got some louder Amanda Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala
Rasulillah. Li was VE Woman Well, welcome everybody to nothing but
facts, episode number 68, where we're going to cover da alhaja.
And we're going to discuss that and we're also going to cover a
lot of other things. So we'll just give it a minute for everybody to
log on and see what's going on here.
All right.
There's a lot of things to discuss today.
All right for either con while they consider V.
Center now.
Yeah, we got a lot of things to discuss today, so we'll just give
it a second. Viva the strangers is on. Aisha macdon was a marathon.
Ryan please add timestamp says he always adds
he has them but sometimes he didn't always
put it into the blurb but he always
he's a time stamping machine
Okay,
what else we got here? Sarfraz Manzoor Mansoori.
I will buckets, Z
buckets. I like that name mobile buckets. What kind of buckets like
he's a basketball player? I think he's he's, that's is that the
reference? All right, we're ready to go.
First announcement
is that
if you're from Connecticut, then I'm going to be headed to
Connecticut where a state where I lived for a number of years. But
the Stanford folks they always viewed themselves as a little bit
different. Maybe they never interacted with the rest of the
Connecticut folks. So Friday, June 24. It's going to be at Stanford
insha. Allah at the masjid there, and as you could see on the
the flyer that's on the screen, right. They got the flyer on the
screen, right? Yeah. The flyer on the screen here. You'll see that
you can now we can we can
meet up. I've never been to this Masjid. But there's a brother
named Raj, who's invited me there. So I'll be there for Juma. And
then there's a Holika. after that. I think they said it's a women's
Holika. Right. Right, says that and then there's a general public
Holika and a dinner. So it's gonna be really nice. So that's going to
be June, Friday, June 24. If you're in the Connecticut area,
and we'll announce this again at the end of the stream because
different people beyond. So that's the first announcement. Second
announcement regards our
sponsors, Mecca books, me and Mecca books. We are very very, we
were really sad yesterday. And I even heard that some veteran hedge
leaders in these companies were crying.
They were literally weeping and crying. Okay, because of what
happened. And what happened was that there was a rumor that was
not even a rumor It was basically
it was a fact that the Saudis wanted to get involved directly
with the hedge. Pilgrims with the people who are attending hatch,
they wanted to have a direct way that you can go to hedge directly
through them, not through a middleman. Okay.
So we knew that was coming. Everyone knew that was coming. But
we also I think a lot of people also thought that the companies
would also be having their hedge ability to have their to do the
things their way to, you mean that in other words, go through a
company for the simple reason that that's what people want. People
like to go with an imam that they know and they trust. Now, of
course, some people want to go by themselves, but I think a lot of
people if you ask them, would you like to go with a group of like
minded friends and a shape that you respect, right and that you
want to listen to and you want to be in a hotel room with people
that you know, at least
so much
See what I've said yes. Plus, like these companies have been running
hedge groups for like 2530 years.
Nobody, I don't think anyone expected that they would actually
completely undercut all the companies. But this is the second
piece of news that we have for today is that the hedge companies
are cut out of heads completely. Right. And I had a phone call
yesterday that there was one of these veterans, literally, at his
kitchen table crying. Because it's not just his business, it's what
he loves. Right? And it's his relationships. And she, you they
go,
they go
on these hedge trips, imams, like most of the local Imams, they
can't afford to go on and regular HUD stuff. But if he's is he know
how to teach, he knows how to guide. So he goes like every
three, four or five years, right? That's done with no. Okay. So
there are no more hedge companies.
Saudi will only give hedge or give hedge visas directly to
individuals. Now, this is a very negative, there's a negative to
this, namely that people don't know how to make hedge, you're
gonna get there a complete stranger from the Ministry of
hedge is going to be your guide. And your people that you make Hajj
with are complete strangers, this never used to be unless you wanted
it to be groups in the past, come from Syria come from Egypt, you go
with your ship and your group. Right?
You may be you have a method, right? Maybe you have an approach
to things. Now you're going to be stuck with some complete stranger
leading you your hutch, who wants that? Now you're going to be
rooming. And being in a tent in Mina with complete strangers,
right? And don't think say Oh, well, I suppose me for a bed only,
no, you're actually sharing a lot of intimate space. With these
people, you're on buses with them all, all the time you're on,
you're on what happens if you're like, you just don't want to be
with those types. You want to be with people like yourselves,
right.
That's why it was a really sad day. In my opinion, it was one of
those like things that I didn't really get over it very quickly.
And I don't want to get over it. It's you know, one of those things
that's like at the appropriate response is just to sulk in it and
be upset about it. And I'm pretty upset about it, that there are no
more of these hedge groups. And so, and also, first of all, for
your own benefit, are you going to roll out a brand new software,
which by the way, is all out sourced from a Hindu company, not
like Muslims are running it all Hindus in the Emirates. So you're
gonna put out this new platform, which has never been used before,
right away for hedge.
And on top of that, three weeks, and on top of that, you just
cancelled the trips of everyone who's been sign up and waiting for
you for sometimes years, because they were like waitlisted, during
COVID, then weightless and the next one that finally they get in
this year, and everyone's looking forward, and you start your new
program, by breaking the hearts of all these other people who would
just now they're gonna get refunded and stay home.
Because Because number one, they you can't just switch over to go
to hedge on their portal, which I'm going to tell you what the
portal is because, so that you could try to make hedge. It's by
lottery.
So it's not even first come first serve. How's that? Fair? It's by
complete lottery. So you sign up, there's no information, there's no
like pricing.
You don't know what you're gonna get you this, plug in a whole
bunch of information, they will send you if you got it or not,
who's going to do this three weeks out.
So, and this applies, by the way only to the English speaking
countries America, England, Canada, Australia.
Rest of the World, they on normal
hedge in their own way, their through their hedge mission of
their nations. So just tell me if you want to profit and you want to
defeat the hedge companies and you want to take the money out of
their hands and keep it all for yourself, cut out the middleman.
Why would you do this three weeks in advance? How does this make any
sense? Like no one is signing up to this three weeks in advance
except for a handful of people. The other smart thing to do would
be alright, let's use this software for a random ombre in
Jamaica Lula. Right? That would be the smart thing to do.
incentivize, hey, you go sign up for this. Use this website from
now on, like for this period of time, use this website, then you
could see if there are glitches. If there are challenges, there's
something called a soft opening for everything. There's a beta
version. Okay.
And then you and then you inform the heads companies.
Listen, I know this is not good news.
As for you, but we're phasing you all out, we want it all for
ourselves, give the guy a year or two, to adjust his business,
right? Because Leah's headroom NFE Allah whom it is permitted to make
money off of the process of Hajj. Allah says in the Quran, Leah
shall do man f Allah so that they can have enough why? Because going
heads cost money. So it's reasonable that the people who are
going to go to hedge will need to do some T Jarrah at hedge to pay
for the way back that was in the old days. So in the old days,
let's say you're coming from Morocco, that's pretty far right.
It's not like Egypt or Syria, where it's not that bad. You go to
Morocco, you go there, it might take you a couple of months to get
there, because you're gonna have a lot of stops on the way you get
there. You finally get to hedge, you might need to stay there a
little bit, do some trade, right trade your nice beautiful goods
from Morocco, sell it to the people in hedge who are coming
from all different countries that are interested in your goods,
that's going to pay your your way back and put some more money in
your pocket. Right? It's HUD services is not free, giving
people rides giving people a place to stay feeding people. So it's
completely valid form of, of business have to Giada. Now you're
taking it from if you had a right intention, wouldn't you be
considered to these people? Right, not on the very hedge that they
planned. Okay.
They already planned it. It's not like you telling them three years
out, by the way, you're out in three years. So that means you got
one two Hodges left, that's it, that would be fine. Because then
we at least we can prepare ourselves, we'll just we'll
recalibrate our entire lives, right? As a company, and we'll
just start focusing on ombre, we'll just start focusing on
little trips to end the Lucy or something like that. Not not,
you're not gonna have a line out the door. When people say a chick
trip to Turkey, why would I pay for a trip to Turkey? I can go to
Turkey myself, why would I pay for a company to go to enter Lucia?
Right? It's whatever. Okay. So these types of people.
It shows their intention to me, that you started this off by
literally breaking the hearts and breaking the banks of a whole
bunch of people. Right? With no concern. And you had no problem
given millions of dollars to this Hindu company, and to run company
out of the Emirates travel easy, not their fault, right. But it
doesn't make sense as a Muslim to use the hedge. Let's pay Hindus
for the services. And let's because we want to cut out
Muslims.
It's just not the way that stuff should be the way things should be
done. But who are we kidding when we're talking about a group of
people that their track record is not exactly that great? Right, and
Hamdulillah that, you know, if this if you are an Arab and you
said this on TV, they banned you from Hajj completely.
Now, there are some other ridiculous rules a woman can't go
with a Muslim, we know that because there's no groups anymore.
Now a woman could go technically to Hajj without a Muharram.
Because it's so fun to define her. But the Saudis don't allow this.
So
it used to be you go with a group. Now you go on with the group from
your msgid you're going to group from of pious people that you
know, and they serve as your group, your your your your
guardians, is that and that if there's any issues? Now, you have
to go with a guardian, within your family?
What happens if a woman doesn't have family?
The group was her family. You don't think there are many
converts that don't have this? Right? A ton of converts have no
family? No mom to go with? What happens if the mom is an all men?
Now on top of this, there are two more rules to your Muharram. Rule
number one, he's got to be under the age of 65. No one over 65 is
gonna hedge. What if the guy is saving up and he could only make
heads when he was 66?
What if he just looked just made Toba? So you're cutting him out of
hedge? Ridiculous.
Rule number two.
Your maharam cannot have made hedge for five years. So no one
can you can't you can only go every five years to hatch
according to this rule.
That's the rule.
Do they basically not want people to go because you actually made it
a lot harder. At any event? It's just
that let me give you the website just in case you guys want to make
hedge and you want to try this out? Do it make hedge I mean, I
mean, if you this is the only way you could do it. Okay, Ryan write
this down for us. mot Aw, if moto with and, you know, bothers me,
irks me when they transliterate things wrong. mot aw if should be
immune, but it's alright. Dot CLM
That SA
and that's that's the website you want to go make heads go make
catch. So let me put it for the, for the people on Insta, because
that thing only puts the comment on Facebook and.if You want to
make ads there it is Mattel with.com.sa. Let's take a look at
what their website even looks like because we can't tell the prices
from it. It's not like they're just giving you a package and then
like some kind of
where they give you like, okay, basic intermediate.
Okay, we'll tell with is the exclusive online platform
authorized by the Saudi Ministry of hedge phenomena, to offer hedge
services to Muslims in all of Europe, the United States of
America and Australia. Oh, wait a second. Where's Canada? Maybe
Canada is not even worth mentioning. But, I mean, if
Canada's out of this and groups are allowed to go to Canada when
they probably just forgot it. Okay.
All right, owns the platform and has offered services to the
building for more than 40 years. Applicants Register Your Interest
This looks like a sock.
You know, like a youth soccer league application first name,
last name, email, phone number, and the CAPTCHA. Okay, captcha,
whatever country of origin
Okay,
your heads is only five steps away moto F is the online official
portal. To plan and initiate your heads journey in five simple steps
fill in your application, submit your documents, they're going to
give you a headache on the documents. Draw selection after
submission a draw will be carried out electronically to select
candidates to perform hajj, Zane, get an email, I guess. And if it
goes to spam, you're out. Make the Payment How much does it cost? How
am I signing up for something I don't know it's cost. Once you
have been selected, you will be contacted to choose your package.
Does this make any sense to you? That what if I have no clue what
it costs then I get selected. And I say hey, I'm priced out of this
I can't charge I pay I can't pay any of this
and then and then someone spot is taken. So you make the payment and
you select the package after you have inquired of your inch or put
in your interest. Then you get an E visa from hedge for from the
hedge ministry.
Okay,
man,
such an upsetting thing.
Tech partner Travie Z. Let's go to the website of see who what who
who is that the partner
Travie Z let's see the names of these people. It's not their
fault, but it's our people who were essentially done who are have
no loyalty like to the like keep the money within the OMA.
All right, the founders and the people behind Travie Z let's see
who they are. Where are their names.
Travie Z group is the group that runs this thing. All right, the
team
get Behala
Rajat Panwar
Aakash good Aarthi
RT good Gauri?
Abdul Khan will good one Muslim of Jai Kumar Gupta.
Okay.
A couple Muslims not bad
All right, it's mixed. But
the ownership is mainly is one Emirati and the rest are Hindus.
So it's amazing
it's just something that's
so that's the news people. If you want to make hedge Get ready, go
to Mattel with.com.sa and good luck with your life after that.
So that's Mecca books, who was the owner of via tourism has shut it
down now and I was just gonna do homeless, right it's gonna be all
MREs and then maybe what else trip to Jerusalem?
Who knows? All right, next subject.
Is professors wants one.com If you're
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society. All right. Now let us turn to the next topic of the day
and I'm sorry for the you know what right if you could actually
do this the draw as the whole screen or put it in the middle or
something like that. Where the Instagramers Can
you There we go. Can see the whole thing so that the IG errs can see
the whole thing. All right.
All right. What do we have here? Da ad has many, many people have
asked how do we do do alhaja look at your screen.
And within a second it's going to be on the screen dwad Hajah Raja
is extremely extremely important. Why is that? Simple reason that a
DA is mocha a burdah a DA OMO coolibah
there is nothing more important than dua there is nothing
more beneficial to your heart than to supplicate to your Lord. In the
same way that food is easy is the most important thing for your body
waters. Dua is the most important thing for your body. Okay, free
for your soul. Okay, and today we're going to look at how to do
dot Hajah and you do it as follows.
You pray to it because you make wudu and you pray to tuck us
all in your mind is the need
that you have. Okay for for ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. And then the
matter that you are a
good you're seeking or fearing. Because every dua is either a
desire or a fear
and then you're going to recite this dua La Ilaha illa Allah al
Halim will Karim.
Subhan Allah He Rob Bill Arshad all them Alhamdulillah hear of
Bill Alameen
it hasn't come up on YouTube yet. There's a delay I guess.
As Alka Mooji Bertie rhotic was imamo ferritic well of aneema
termin colibra was Salah MetalMan Cooley F. Learned to dolly them
been in love Africa, while Manila for Raja wala hagit And he Aloka
ribbon Illa crudite
are hamara he mean Okay there it is on YouTube. Let me read you now
the translation for this.
There is no god but Allah the Clement the wise, there is no God
but Allah, the high in the mighty
Glory be to Allah, Lord of the tremendous throne all Praise to
Allah, Lord of the Worlds I ask you
everything that leads to your mercy
and your tremendous forgiveness, enrich enrichment and all good and
freedom from all sins. Do not leave a sin of mine except that
you forgive it nor any concern except that you create for it and
opening nor any need in which there is Your good pleasure except
that you fulfill it. Oh most Merciful. Of the merciful let me
read it again. La ilaha illallah wa Halima al Karim Subhana Allah
Hara Bellagio Adim Alhamdulillah haram Bill al Amin as Aluko Mooji
bertera hermetic waza Mr. Erotic well of aneema term equilibrium,
which is the success of all good deeds
was salam Ataman Khalif
learn to dolly them and Illa Florida wala hum and Illa for Raja
wala Hajj and here like a ribbon electrolyte
or hamara he mean
you make this draw in Arabic.
And you can then read it again in English but you must say the
Arabic and from after right after that you make your prayer and your
DUA
of what you are looking for and what you need.
Okay,
that's how you do do alhaja.
Any questions on Dr. Hagee before we move on?
You can do it in English after you say it in Arabic first, you got to
say it in Arabic, but you can do it in English afterwards.
All right, folks.
So
another question got so with these doors
Similar to a staccato two, if we do it in the Salatu was even count
as doing the Sunnah prayer.
A person could say this dua at the end of Salah.
It's not going to be exactly the same as if they did it into Eid
Hajah as a separate will do separate Scylla but it is still
a.be accepted.
Okay.
Can you share it as a post? Yes. And so I'll share it as a post.
How often should I do it? You continue to do it non stop you do
this dua, nonstop. We don't ever stop making a dua until I get my
answer from my Lord. And I'm certain I'm gonna get the answer.
So that's it. Good.
All right, now let's we've completed the dial hija. And now
let's now move on to our reading of from our continuation from the
Shema of the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And
then we're going to do a little bit of q&a, we're going to do a
little bit of q&a. All right, so again, you make what do you pray
to duck as you recite that da, which you can just rewind and see
it?
And then you make the DUA that you're looking for, on the
condition that you are certain that you're gonna get your answer.
Absolute certainty that you're gonna get your answer. What is the
best time of day to do it? last third of the night, but really at
any time.
And you can do it every single day until your need is fulfilled.
There's no limits to how much you can do it.
Okay,
we now look at the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he
used to work on
the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to apply on
his eyesight. And he said, It's called estimate. And it used to
say that it strengthens the eyesight and it increases the
growth of the eyelashes with the profit care about growth of the
eyelashes because it's beautiful. It's also protects your eyes from
dust and things. So eyelashes both have form and function. Now,
there's an interesting comment on this and he would have he would
apply this on his eyes each time
each eye according to this narration three times now, when
you're applying, there's a little bit of the pink area on your eyes.
That's where you apply the code. Now here's the thing.
We do have some comments on this. Although this is a Sunnah 110
person
but it is also has become a symbol
of common roots like what guy wears eyeliner these days? Right
in the United States what guy What kind of guy wears eyeliner? So the
only time that I would find that it's completely fine and okay to
wear eyeliner is in the situation where you're wearing other Islamic
clothes that people don't know that you're not calling Lutz and
that they know that you're a Muslim this must be part of your
dress. You understand this difference is a very important
difference. Which is very the concept that something was of the
Sunnah
it is of the sun, but it's now the Muslims didn't use it. And now a
group of festa Fein use it we call that she artificer a symbol of
Fiske now so the sooner has becomes your office. Okay?
Because it's a whole different country it's not like it it
transformed amongst the Muslims right? So you have to wear it. If
you're gonna wear it, you're gonna wear it in a way that does not
make you seem like she outfits so you don't wear a t shirt. You got
a buzz you got like a fade a t shirt and then this is the sooner
that you want to keep up right? It doesn't make any sense people are
going to think you're calm Lutz
Okay, so it's very important to avoid shout Fisk
wearing anything that is sheer artifice can be between mcru and
haram. Okay, so if you were in cahoots with something else that
is a garment of
clearly making you not cottonwoods Colin was going to have a big
beard and a goofy may be for example, and a soap? I don't think
so.
So at that point, it shouldn't be a problem.
So that's the use of Khan on the eyes and the Hadith in Arabic says
that a Kadima narrates Ruben Abbas I can imagine when I cut him up
from Lebanon best means it's a crema at Debbie, not a creamer,
even Abby Jen, this hobby son of Abuja No Not him, the other
agreement and then the VSL Allah it was Sunday makalah extra Hello,
Bill estimate. He said where are you?
estimate put go along with estimate for no yet diluted
bizarre. It improves your site when you get your shot and it
grows your eyelets
was an abuse of Allah who it was it was suddenly mechanical
homework halogen he had a a quart container illumine Aquila Leila
lecithin pod with that Atherton fee heavy three in both eyes.
And also from it I can imagine if not bus can have sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam a ACTA Iluka Bella and e&m before he slept. You would put
it in so before he slept, that means it's the nighttime obviously
we do would have washed it out right if you make would do it many
times. Okay.
Then you're gonna wash it out. So the Prophet put it on when he
slept too. So that's another thing to consider about the sadhana. Is
that you're putting it on? I would assume that if you make what do
you wash it off? It's going to
it's going to smear down your face. Am I right? Right? Do you
have experience with this? I know that like when women cry like you
can see the girl coming down
I'm assuming that when you wash your face for will do some of the
coconut is gonna come down I don't know because yeah, it would sweat
out right? Or if you sweat Yeah, if you're if you're working hard,
right? It was the sweat would come out so
that then equally I'm three in each eye
on a combined estimate and the know it is upon you to put God on
when you sleep. So you see what the Sunnah is when you sleep.
Okay.
For Innovia Julian busted away am William B to A shot when you sleep
in the Clara callicoon and escmid the best of your call is it mid so
now let's look at the commentary. It mid is a special type of Gohan
which has a redness to the black producing like a maroon, like a
brownish Maroon. It's obtainable in eastern countries some of the
learned say it is from Isfahan Persian and others say it is from
to tear.
Some automat say this means for those who have good eyesight to be
used with those whose eyesight agree with it so this is a general
statement of the Prophet not for every single Muslim Muslim is the
one who's I agrees with it right
otherwise a sick person could be hurt by be harmed but so here's
another important thing because more than learning about Kohan
you're learning about how to mom Anna with Hadith and why Mala with
like as we mentioned she odd Fisk the concept of the the the symbols
of Ephesus. But notice the prophets I said and then know when
you sleep not walking around with it in the daytime. But secondly,
when there is a general commandment, there is always the
exception of if it harms you then you don't use it. Right so that's
what the ultimate are saying here is that if you know that you're
sick then don't use it.
Get so why did the Prophet say before sleeping so it remains in
the eye longer.
And it penetrates deeper into the force.
Good began also there's not like you're not awake, opening your
eyes so that it would like evaporate away or dust would come
into it. There are different numbers mentioned in different
headaches, sometimes three in each eye another three times in the
right eye two times in the left eye. It is believed that there are
variations due to different times that the Prophet did it and
different narrations people saw him doing it different differently
mainly even our best sets if not best used to sleep over. Even our
best asleep over the prophets house because the Prophet had
married me Munna which was his maternal aunt, its collar or
maternal aunt, the sister of his mom, maternal aunt, and our Shinya
is like a mom. Like the one when you look at mothers and fathers,
there's a list, which actually goes to show that it takes a lot
of people to raise somebody up this way that we live now only mom
and dad raised you and like mom and dad raising you against the
world. It's not healthy. It's not the norm. It's too stressful. In
the olden days, the whole family raised everybody. Okay, of course
the main responsibilities upon the biological parents.
Half is even 100 Alaska, Annie, he quote a Mullah Oliver curry and
other Allamah they preferred the first method three and three at
night before you sleep. So that's the sun to put on three and three
before you sleep. It's also narrated from Satan, if not Bess,
that the Prophet he had a small container like this and he would
always do it before sleeping
and that he said it's good to you
use for the growth of your eyelashes and for your eyesight.
And of course he mentioned here unless you have a medical
condition, right, next chapter is on beb Libous Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So, let's talk about this when when we
talk about the Sunnah there are three levels of the Sunnah, or I
should say four levels of prophetic commandments. There is
one prophetic commandment that is an obligation. How do we know it?
How do we know that man? That's an obligation another that is a
sunnah. Another that is a sunnah FIFA and another that is nothing
at all.
Number one,
good not a commandment. The fourth one is not a commandment, it's his
actions. Number one. Whenever the prophets I send them makes a
commandment, and then links it to punishment that do this or else
XYZ punishment in Accra.
Then we know it's an obligation. For example, the province is
settled, commanded for as it gets it fits. And why do we know it's a
it's a it's an obligation. It gets in fifth it is not in the Quran.
It's in the Hadith only came from the Sunnah from the prophets, I
send them but it's an obligation because he said your son, your son
will not be accepted, which is a punishment. Right? So whenever the
prophetic command is linked to a punishment, we know its
obligation.
If there is a prophetic command, and no punish, no pun punishment
is mentioned.
You have terminal Allah, or UML. Sorry, I should say, Ireland, it's
considered
a recommendation. Okay. This is one of the evidence that a chef a
when he counted all the Hadith to the beard, there are 10 Hadees on
the beard, the chef, a considerate sunnah. There is no punishment
mentioned for someone who leaves off the beard, right? So they
considered some the other men have considered it funny because of how
many times the Prophet said it. And the edge man that all the
Sahaba had beards. Right, which is maybe not the strongest evidence
because some people say, well, all Arabs had beard as well as off,
and the Somali might have made that comment.
But
there's a retort to that. That can't be the case. What's the
proof of that? If all the Arabs had beards, then why would the
Prophet keep repeating it? So clearly was that there was some
times if people didn't have beards, they shaved that
completely. So when the Prophet gives a command, but there is no
link of a punishment mentioned to it, then it's considered alright.
You feed a net it we understand that it's recommended. Now when
the Prophet SAW Selim Salah when he was salam makes a
recommendation of something and points to a worldly benefit. Then
it's considered sunnah FIFA because it's he's basically
telling you, this is a matter that's good for your life. It has
nothing to do with Deen. Right? But it's good for your life.
Okay, so in that respect, we do still consider it sooner because
anything that Prophet gave us is Dean, but it's a matter of Dean
that is something of our of this world as opposed to Africa. In
other words, the province did not say whoever puts God has thought
of Farah
there's no thought of mentioned to the ACA, there's only really a
benefit of the what it says if he's giving you medical advice.
And then the fourth layer of the Sunnah is that which the Prophet
did but never commanded. And we consider that from his debts, his
habits, the prophets, habits, and the prophets habits. Allahu alayhi
wa sallam, the ultimate have said about Whoever imitates them out of
love of the Prophet then
has just as any lesson, so that I know that the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam just in a certain way but never commanded that the
we Muslims wear this garment. I know it's not religious law, but I
want to wear it so that I could be like the Prophet peace be upon.
Then we the person that person is told what he does, I will send you
a lesson you will not take a step towards the love of the Prophet
except the prophet will also love you in return. So yes, there the
angels will not write has an ad on your book fine. We accept that
because there's no nothing said that that's has in it, but you
will have it will be written this person took an action in the
attempt to love the prophets I send them or reflecting his love
of the messenger PSP bottom, and for that reason, it's so low the
prophet will love him back.
So that's your four levels of at matters within the son.
Ryan everything good with that or anything should be clarified. That
was good, good.
Oh, Michelle, Emma said can I have Bucha be Illa Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa salam al Camus, the most beloved garment of
the Prophet peace be upon him. Was the commies know what is the
commies look like?
Like the commies is a shirt that it's like buttoned up, and it goes
all the way down, hovering around the knee. And the people who wear
the same type of shirt that the profit were wore at that time.
It's basically the subcontinental shirt.
The Bengalis wear it, the day seen wear it, and the Arabs don't no
longer wear it.
The Arabs wear the shirt that is all the way down to the ankles
which is the Pope. But the commies when they say the word kameez, it
means a shirt that had no buttons on the sleeve it was open up the
sleeve, no buttons loose. And it was it had one button at the top
and it would go all the way down and hovering around the knees.
Okay, what's wedge IP to err in the in Islam is any clothes that
is layer Schiff well as if means it is not transparent. And it is
not form fitting. Tight close is forbidden. Because you're not
considered covered if it's on what is our. So for example, the ankles
tight from the Cavs
for a min it's acceptable, right tight around the cuffs like that.
But anything tight around like the private parts in the OTA and these
things, then to the degree that it's tight, like that is
forbidden. You're not considered covered. Right? Yoga pants, for
example. And then like a shirt on top of that.
By the way, we were getting sins now that men wear yoga pants
that's the Fatah of sins. If you see a woman when we go bad now you
see a man wearing yoga pants. It's good fodder for this in previous
Alright, right so now what else did the Prophet where? Prophet
salallahu alayhi wa sallam used to wear the sarong, or the footer or
the lunghi, which is the bottom part would simply be a wrap. That
it's almost like a piece of cloth that's sewn together. You get into
it, you and then you. You wrap it up, okay, and you fold it up.
It's called an izhar. In Arabic. The Arabs today call it footer.
And the Indonesians call it Saddam. And the subcontinent calls
it lunghi. Good. That's another that's the garment that the
prophets I send them used to wear at the bottom.
So today, the people whose everyday dress everyone in the
whole society is closest to what the Prophet used to wear are the
people of Bangladesh.
Because the the puck in Pakistan and Afghanistan, they were the
commies, but they were the silhouette, which is the pen,
essentially the baggy pant, that person baggy pant. Okay, pairs of
pants. Those are, that's what they were, which also that has a
precedent. And of course, there's nothing sinful about any of this.
What's the only thing sinful?
Is the tight pants. Shahir just saying what about my chest and my
bicep? He did all that work in the gym. And he's wondering now, oh,
what's the value of this work? If no one's gonna see that. How am I
gonna get married? Right? So he's basically asking you about that.
And we would say that.
No, for the men. That is not going to be sinful for him. But it may
be lacking moolah. And it may depend on when he wears that if
he's wearing that
out with some people, okay?
That are playing some sports. That's very different than going
to gym. I like that. It would be considered perhaps
what they call cortical Marula. It's not what the people consider
to be upright and noble dress. Okay, or modest dress. And then
what do you what's bother with the other guys all the skinny guys now
you're showing them up? So Shahir a jazz if he's in the building let
me know big so I can go somewhere else. Because this guy he wants to
come in with his biceps and his chest. Okay, want to show the
whole world? You're not the only one who lifts we left to right but
but
that's the issue with those. It's it's a judgment call. There's not
going to be sinful for them either way, but around the OTA then
that's an issue. And these tight jeans now you can't even I one
time had an embarrassing situation. I had a job. I was to
go teach in New York City. I'm driving to New York City. And I
have my nice big cup of coffee. And lo and behold I spill it all
on my pants. So I have to stop right and this is like literally
right before class is not not enough time to dry. Mu so
Mudra is modesty and gentlemanliness, basically. So I
go to I stopped by a drive around the masjid in lower Manhattan.
There's not a lot of closed doors in lower Manhattan. So I I find a
joint. I parked the car I run inside I have a long jacket on
it's winter. I have a long jacket. I bought my jacket because it's
wet everywhere.
I run inside I find my size I pull a pair of jeans off the rack. I
pay for them.
Because I'm late.
I got the jeans. I go into the bathroom. I go back so nobody can
see me. And I go into the men's room and I change lo and behold
these jeans, there's like 50% elastic in the jean.
Put them on painted on.
There is absolutely no way I'm wearing these right.
So I what I had to do was actually wear those pants and keep my
jacket you know when you wear that long jacket, no one buttons it up.
Especially indoors no a buttoned it up the whole class. And they're
like looking at that I took my scarf and put it on top of my is
painted on. Right. So that's default now of jeans, you have to
look skinny, whatever, slim fit regular. It's hard to find regular
clothes. They're basically taking the fashion of comb Lutz and
trying to make us all wear it. That's essentially what it is.
Essentially, it's the it's the fashion of comunes that they want
us all wearing that.
Get
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he used to wear his shirt,
his sleeve on to the risk, which is the wrist. So the profit they
didn't have at that time short sleeves, they never had short
sleeves. They would have it to the sleeve and you make what do you
wrote when you wanted oxygen to go in back in the old days? Okay, so
they didn't wear short sleeves. Not that it's necessarily wrong to
wear that, but that's what they were. Okay. And one time someone
got him a Roman garment, the Prophet peace be upon him never,
in fact said no to a garment. It would be type of Kibera. Right?
Someone got him a Roman garment. So he it had a button. This is not
normal for that. How did they have buttons, that cloth? And then they
would? What would the button be made out of? Wood? Maybe? I don't
know. What would the what do you think the button would be made of?
In the olden days? Maybe if it's like fancy. Yep. Pearl if it was
fancy, probably a jewel, but maybe just wood. piece of wood. Maybe? I
don't know what the button would be made out of? Well, what was the
button people have been wearing buttons way before plastic was
invented. So right, could you look that up buttons before plastic was
invented. Sometimes a button would be just a very thick piece of
cloth. Right? Wrapped up. So we'd like a heart hardened piece of
cloth wrapped up bronze, a bronze he says okay, so metals, probably
metals, maybe maybe you know, things like that. So, and the
province, I send them that shirt, he would pull his sleeve, his arm
in from his sleeve, go under his shirt and make wudu like that,
because the sleeve was too tight. Here's something about the profits
I sent him is that he wore what the people wore. He did not have a
special garment that everyone said, Okay, that's the profit.
Well, where's the profit, we'll look at that garment. Sometimes he
did have some garment that people didn't have, because it was a
gift. And he never had a garment for long. Anytime that someone
came, he would give him something from his government. Of course,
the Sahaba wanted that because they wanted for the bulk of the
profit one time a man came and he saw the Prophet wearing a shirt.
And the man said, Oh, Mr. of Allah, that's a beautiful shirt.
So the Sahaba said, Why would you say this? And now the Prophet got
up, went home, changed the shirt came back and said you now you've
made the profit. You've hassled him. Now he has to get up, go and
change and bring it back. So the Sahaba blames him for hassling the
messenger. sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And then he explained, he
said, I'm leaving, leaving here. And this may be the last time I
meet the Prophet. I wanted to be buried in his shirt. Okay, so he
wanted to be buried in the shirt of the prophets of Allah it was.
So they wanted it for tomorrow, but it's also a common sunnah
of people of Allah. They give out gifts of their own stuff, like
right off the bat. So someone says, oh, that's a beautiful ring
you're wearing takes it off. He gives it to him right away. Right?
And it was considered like an intimate friendship. Like we're
like I have something from him. And that's a good habit between
friends. Right? Right off his scar.
I give it to him. Right sometimes I'm telling you when you're with
if you're with the item who knows the Shema and they'll never praise
anything he's wearing he'll give it ticket right off and give it to
you. Okay
I'm talking about the real ultimate that will do that. I one
time said man your your your saw matches the another person's dope
the shift took it right off I was like, Oh, why did I speak? Right
shifts Wallahi or not go I'm not taking it back. He swore and he
gave it to that other brother. So they're like that because they
know that's the Sunnah.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sometimes would wear the
clothes of the very poor. What was the clothes of the very poor?
Merely a sheath?
So that so poor, they didn't even have the ability to sew sleeves
into the shirt.
So it was a sheet that they will just wrap around almost like,
okay, almost like
Abdulhadi saying, Oh, nice hat and scarf. I'm not one of those nice
scholars. I'm not one of those good scholars. Regular Good, come
on Muslim. So I'm keeping my stuff.
It was a sheet that would just wrap it around. That was the cause
of the poor. And the Yemenis were very famous for striping
everything that stripes. So when they say Yemeni? It's all stripes.
Okay. So that was one of the garments of the Prophet in our
time, we have to keep the spirit. There is a spirit to this, that
the prophet could not always be differentiated. There's also the
spirit that every Nabhi wore loose clothing.
So we have to keep up both this the Sunnah of MBs all of the MBS
war, loose, flowing garments, they all did.
So that is also from the good things that we should keep up
loose, flowing garments, which is all of the ethnic clothes of
Muslim countries suits that sunnah. Okay.
It's like a symbol. Yet at the same time, if you're in a society
that doesn't wear that clothes, but where's the regular Halal
clothes that oftentimes have keep up the Sunnah, that you look like
everybody else too. It does something good for your knifes.
Whereas when you're always standing out, it reminds me so
much of a of one of the self.
He was doing something good for so long, but he didn't realize it was
becoming a like a brand for him.
He never missed a lot in the first row ever. He said for 20 years in
the tuba mask. I never missed a lot in the first row. And so one
day I was late for a shot in the first row and they started without
me. And I prayed and I had to pray in the back rows. He said I was so
embarrassed, I didn't even want to pray. Like I want I didn't want to
be seen like better to be not praying at all then then he
realized all that time it wasn't yet. I was showing off. It was
increasing me in arrogance, that this good deed is like this is my
thing. Okay.
And that's one of the things that close could do to somebody. So
that's why every once in a while, why don't you just appear like
everybody else. And the scholars sometimes do say that if somebody
becomes the symbol of religion than that person, it is
recommended for him to wear the Islamic clothes or the whatever
the Sunnah of Allah Matt to wear all the time. So that's why for
example, the scholars of Shem and and Yemen as the oftentimes you
will never see them outside of their clothes of scholarship.
Right? There's a reason for that. But for regular people like us,
sometimes this and sometimes that there's that's the wisdom of of
establishing both Sooners.
When you're in an environment of temptation, it's better to have
the garment that will keep you away from temptation. So if you're
a college kid on campus,
if you're dressed like with a soap or a Koofi,
the women won't chase after you. Not that you're like flattering
yourself or anything. But it's possible that you would fall into
fitna one guy I knew he was very handsome guy. And he would always
go to the gym.
He said, But he had a heavy heavy, heavy Indian accent. Like the kind
you even the Indians would laugh so heavy, but you would never tell
because on the outside he was just look like a regular. You knew he
was ethnic, but he wasn't dark or looked Indian or you didn't know
what he was he could pass for Italian maybe even right.
So he looked like almost like the Kashmiri look almost. And then he
would say women at the gym. He's like a magnet. If he's at a
treadmill, all of a sudden the all the treadmills around will be
surrounded by women. He goes to drink all of a sudden all the
women go to drink, he says until I open my mouth
They flee, like, like a rat came out, right? Because his accent was
so heavy and they're not attracted to that right? It would flee from
him. So he said my accent has saved me from fitna so likewise if
you're in a situation like you're in college and you're exposed to
that where women do come to to Georgie when and instigate things,
then it would make sense to wear your Islamic clothes have a little
bit of a scruffy beard that keep them away All right
now we're gonna have all the guys doing that right?
Say oh, I need to keep the women away. Be careful from flattering
yourself. Some of you don't need it by the way, you're fine as you
are
but look what it doesn't tell you something when the Sahaba were
talking about how the Prophet justice everything they knew
everything about the Messenger of Allah when he was okay
Alright folks, let's pause here in terms of our Shimon
and let's open it up for q&a. Let's see what we have from
Instagram. Good
saying Masha Allah and giving sadaqa to expel to remove another
yes and not showing off so much to Nether is has it basically. Okay.
Acid it
is not just Yes, you say Masha Allah, you recite suits and
Philip, you give sadaqa. But also,
that's for something that you can avoid. Also, you don't show off as
much. Okay? Let's say you're a mom, she has wonderful babies. And
some women, they can't produce babies, right? They just can't get
pregnant. Or they have a baby that is not as endowed as yours. So you
don't go and dress her up and take her to where it's going to ignite
the envy of other women. That's that's not wise. Okay, I'm gonna
say there's a ruling on that. But it's not wise. You have to think
of our Mi igniting the envy of other people.
Right? So some people they should not they shouldn't fund maybe
network Fembot. Maybe NEMA did a big if I did. As for the benefits
of the Blessings of your Lord, make it shown. It's not for all
it's not all the time. Sometimes you should or shouldn't do that.
If it's going to ignite the envy of people, then you shouldn't do
that.
And that's one of the reasons probably why the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not aggrandized himself, he's
already to be, he's ready to suit. Now if he aggrandized himself if
he regret if his kids say now he has all the best of clothes, say
the Fatima has all the best of clothes, and the best of lives and
then he puts them in positions of power, it would bring so much
envy. So to crush that envy, okay. Was one of his Sunon that say to
follow him up, you will not get you're not getting a servant. So
she had to work herself no servant for say to fund some everyone else
got servants and slaves and and prisoners of war right? Not for
say to Fatima say an ally. Lot of money coming in from conquest. He
doesn't get any. They lived simple life. No envy, they're all the
profits household very simple, no envy. So you want to make sure you
always killing the envy of people. Before we get into the q&a, let's
go back over some announcements. If And is anyone here from
Connecticut. If you're in Connecticut, I'm going to be in
Stamford, Connecticut, which is the south of Connecticut, to Allah
to Allah. So come to so you could come to that event. There's going
to be a a hookah, womens Holika and then a general Holika. And
then at dinner, that's going to be on Friday, June 24. Are you going
to family? Am I going to family? No, we can go up together. We'll
go together.
Who's the email? Yeah, I don't know. To be honest with you. I
know that he mentioned his name and I watched one of his videos,
but I don't know his name actually.
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opinion about big beards and English clothes? It used to be
very odd. But now it's actually very popular. First of all, if you
look at all the old presidents of the United States, they all had
big beards. Go look at Karl Marx got a bigger beard than all the
stuff he's put together. Right?
Now, it's popular again, this ever Julian Edelman?
Was the Red Sox have one year the baseball their Red Sox that one
year? They're all look like? That was my favorite year. 2004. Right.
2011 Yeah.
A lot of people now in pop culture, they have these huge
beards. And I don't think it's a problem at all. Right?
No problem at all.
Next question here.
Khadija, for the DUA mentioned earlier is the dua said within the
prayer after the CENTUM after the salam
caramel Karim tour, is it allowed to wear cologne that has alcohol
in it different upon between the methods?
What are the some conditions considered it now just some
considered it not just what are the conditions for a man to
divorce his wife?
She should not be on height.
She should not be on height he cannot divorce your wife on
height. If you do, it counts as one divorce. You have to take her
back, rescind it and divorce her again. So it will be two divorces.
That's the condition where can I get the soma and whose author and
if it is an English Mecca books.com is go to summit get get
the Shemitah from Mecca books.com.
Mecca books.com.
How to stop associating a certain person with a certain sin. You
know they have committed, it sucks. Well,
if they've made Toba
then you would know that or maybe they announced that they may tilba
or something of that nature, then you should we should respect their
Toba. But if it's hard to shake the memory of that, then the more
we interact with the person, their new actions will displace their
old memories. So if I met somebody way back in, let's say, the 2010.
And I was interacting with this person from 2010 to 2015. And all
I remember is he would do certain since then I lost touch with them.
Alright, so from 2015 onwards, my mind is that he's he's this
terrible person. He does this terrible thing, let's say, but it
that's because I don't interact with him anymore. Now if he comes
back on the scene, and he's totally different, the new
memories will displace the old memories and Allah knows best.
Ryan Hilliard, does that good luck and may Allah Allah accept from
you?
Someone is saying that, how do I get off of
*?
And I saw it tell you that.
And one of the best ways is to create one of the best ways to
change any behavior, * or not *, is to create
for yourself in your mind.
A simple question, ask yourself a simple question. What reward
that Allah would give you in this life before the next. Next life is
very hard to imagine this life? If Allah said, Okay, listen, angel
comes and says, this piece of paper is a blank check. Write down
what is it that you would want so badly?
It would be worth conquering your desires, the reward would be worth
lowering your gaze.
Alright, that think about that. It should make you feel so excited
and happy that it will be 100 times worthwhile lowering my gaze,
I will lower my gaze if I can have this.
And mostly it will be related to the sin that you're committing. If
a man is doing Ribba what does he love? He loves money. He loves
business. If a man is drinking, why do people drink? I think that
people drink mainly
because they have problems, anxiety. So peace of mind is what
he wants, right? If a man is doing Zina is he loves women. If a woman
is doing Zenit, she loves men,
so on and so forth. So it's usually going to be something
related to that. But you put that down on a piece of paper, and you
really start to believe.
I'm going to make a trade with Allah and use that as your
motivation to now stop looking at what you're looking at.
But if you simply say it's hot
If you're gonna go to * it that may not always work for everybody.
Sometimes a positive motivation is better than a negative motivation.
What's the ruling on a man divorces his wife because she's
sick.
It may not be nice, but it's Hello for him. But it's just not nice.
He's not gonna get sense from that. That means a man marries a
woman. They're living five, six years together. Then she says, I
have a sickness. I can never have kids, or I can't walk anymore. Oh,
that's not the life you signed up for. Right? Oh, she I'm blind. I
can't see anymore. Now, it's not nice for him to say okay, well, I
can't do this. But it's understandable. Number one. And it
may be something that is from the
least beloved of Allah's of the halal thing to Allah is that type
of divorce, it would not be something that he committed some
kind of terrible, major sin. It's just it's not pleasant. I totally
understand that. But we can't say that he's committed some sin
because without the sickness, he's allowed to divorce her. Right.
And she's allowed to seek a hold on to
it If a man goes and gets he's got terminal cancer at the age of 23.
Let's say the doctors es you got only a couple more years you're
gonna live. And the woman is like, well, I'm in like the prime of my
life here.
I need to have a regular husband on a regular life, and she
divorces him. Our Cydia
does not hold that divorce means hatred. Divorce does not mean
oppression. It's an at will agreement if you don't want to be
part of it. You don't have to be part of it.
So this is not to say, okay, just go and divorce everyone you want.
But there is not something that is haram for
unlike Catholicism. What if the people are your friends, and
you're still in doubt about hesed and when your friends are giving
you hazard
you kids keep getting sick
maybe if your friends are giving you hazard you find net time to
find a better friend group. Maybe because you moved on in life, you
got richer, you got better in life than they are. So they're very
upset at that. And so it's time to move on in life into a different
group. That's what it seems like to me. What do you think, Ryan?
And isn't it something that happens all the time? Someone
moves on in life and others don't? Right? So they may start like, I
mean, think about like if it happened to us, right? If we're we
got our own friend group, all of a sudden a guy becomes let's say,
Hey, I'm the Minister of the king of Brunei. Like you're not in our
friend group anymore. Like you're living differently now. Oh, I get
picked up in a special aircraft. The sushi is waiting for me.
Right? I'm a sous is is is rubbing my shoulders on my way to work
every day to the work for the Sultan of Brunei. Um, so yeah,
that's really nice, but we're not friends anymore. Like we cannot
relate to that lifestyle. Normal stuff for you is not normal for us
anymore. So you got it you go and do that. And we'll go and we'll
stay here with all the regular people
is the Imam Bosnian where I'm going and Connecticut? No, he's
not his Pakistani.
But I know what you're talking about.
Yeah.
I can't remember his name off the top. I remember his face but he
remembers name. Muhammad says you should believe in the power and
the words of Allah. Yes. Were there any prophets who only
married one wife says strangest? Yes, there have been if my memory
serves correct or certain that one of them is atomized right. So to
add a married one wife, if I'm not mistaken, no.
Married one wife lute married one wife. Use of at a salon had one
wife if I'm not mistaken, they had one wife. All of them
from not mistaken.
Miss haram and Miss misura Misha Rockman I got it. Misha Rockman
where can I learn the differences in rulings as a young female who
recently became an orphan in that
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Posh international tells us the Red Sox they kept rolling their
crazy beards, just to be the opposite of the Yankees. So you
see, we're not so different when the prophets I said, I'm says, the
Christians do this. So you do that the Jews do that you do this.
We're gonna do this because the Persians do that everyone wants to
be different from their adversaries and the rivals. So the
Red Sox, they want to have these crazy wild beer beards, because
the Yankees have a clean shaven policy and the Yankees and they
shouldn't hate each other anymore because the Red Sox have really
put themselves on the map in the last decade and a half. From 2004
that epic epic 2004 was just like insane. Anyway, if you're
interested in baseball, you know what I'm talking about.
Abby says I'm scared of trimming beard I feel oh Abby's a min.
Okay. I feel like if I cut too short, I don't want it look
scuffie advise me on what I should do. The Sunnah of the beard is
that it's a thing of beauty. And there's two beauties in my opinion
of the beard. Like the beard in itself is a thing of beauty, but
also from another perspective. Sometimes the scruffy Enos of the
beard is a spiritual beauty and it depends some scruffy beard to me
it looks dirty, and other scruffy beard, it's beauty zoo head and
BIA have big beard them yet. I'm not sure if MBS had the trimmed
beards, right? The profits of maybe the Prophet Muhammad
Sallallahu Sallam because he's to put oil in his beard, so it looks
clean. But when you think of profit new prophet Musa these
prophets have fought wars and battles, right and they were so
hurt. Of course all the prophets are so head but saying the sword
Amen is not like say no, no. Good. And the Prophet Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he did oil his beard, so it looked
kept it looks clean, it was thick and clean.
So there is a type of beard where the beauty is in the beard itself.
And there's another beauty of the beard of the spirituality of the
beard desert. Like he's said he's like completely out of the world.
Like you cannot imagine it without really fatty.
He's like a complete set. You can't imagine him with like a nice
perfectly kept beard. But we know even our best did and they've been
Amato us he's the one who initiated the Cubs up and many
Sahaba took from the sides. So an updraft member now have an
automatic now fed you know that they had a nice Kemp's up beard.
So there is the zoo hood look, which I love. And then there is
the regular clean beard which I love. But that which shouldn't is
looks like you're just you have hairs scrappy Yanni.
I don't think there will be issue for you if you clean that up.
Shouldn't be issue for them.
Not I'm not saying I don't think I know for sure that there is no
issue in that. In all the mothers I have even seen the Jordanian
right, have a Hanafy book. Sorry, Jordanian Hanafy have a book on
the beard showing that how the setup trimmed up and clean their
beard says absolutely know how to do that.
Okay. And that's an opinion. Is it she had the opinion, do you have
other opinions? Don't touch it at all. I have full respect for that
opinion too.
Okay.
Shockwave the X Men says Do you know many scholars that are well
versed in political science Imam Zaid Shakur, Abu Bakar. Shed does
the SID view that those who have not heard of Islam are forgiven.
Does this include oppressors Yes.
Who is everybody?
Does lying in business make the income haram it makes that
transaction haram?
Yes, it does make that transaction haram so if I lie to make one
sale, that sale is forbidden for me to have. Nabila says,
you mentioned that
if you've been making dua for something for a long time in the
process, you increase
and the process makes you increase your good deeds and get rid of
your sins. Usually that is a good sign. Yes, it is a good sign. 100%
What does it mean when challenges start showing up towards the end?
Does that mean you're close to the job being accepted? Allahu Allah.
We have no knowledge about the time of when Allah Tada will
answer somebody. All we know is what we're commanded to do, which
is
to be optimistic, so much so that the ultimate segment only him at
dua, Lima Jabba
whoever is inspired to make a dua for something for men only met dua
fucka al Allahu lowly job. If you are inspired to make a dua for
something. You're always making it in different ways, different deeds
to get it accepted. That means that Allah has prepared
for you in the job
if we don't know if a person has made Toba and they continue doing
the sin, if they are sinning publicly if a person is sitting
publicly, you may speak about that to warn other peoples of this
person. He's not ashamed of it. So he's no longer got the privilege
of us hiding it for him. Someone sells liquor. Right he's got a
liquor store. There's a group of Lebanese in Ohio now they're all
gonna get upset if they hear about this. They like sponsor massage at
Islamic schools and they have nightclubs and strip clubs and
bars what all this money is haram
and you can say it because he's not ashamed of it. So if he's not
ashamed of it, then the city is no longer do to him
sit there as the covering
okay
Abby, is it in NYC so why don't why don't you ever come down?
Yeah, Abby is a guy by the way. Okay,
maybe it's short for ebook.
Okay, lead says if somebody has been sleeping through fetch on a
regular basis, what kind of sins could be contributing to that
many types of sins but we should talk more about the solution to
that which is do a bad during the day make would do before you sleep
and sleep early. Sleep early. I think like overeating to right
over eating is a great one. Overeating is a great problem. If
you want for health and for fetch don't eat late at night.
That's why popcorn sales are through the roof because that's
what people eat. It's light.
Question is medical method includes Yes, Knut is a formula
in Sultan fetch second raka silently before the core and
that's it.
What if What if you're leading the prayer in a masjid and people are
going to be confused
you can leave it off you leave it off.
Revd you one says can their hazard still reach you after you moved
on? Oh I missed the must have missed the front part of the
question whose hazard the host said has said of somebody in the
past
and by the way you know it's not necessarily always since sometimes
you could just oversleep fudge it's not necessarily always that
it's a sin.
Ken has said reach a person I have heard well lo data alum that has
said is always in person has said is not something that is from far
away it's in person will live on
garage door praying with clothing that has letterings and words fine
even if it has an animal face on it is fine. And if it has a full
animal body is just mukou but the slot is valid
good
oh someone says can you make Do I have a rash May Allah subhana
which I had to remove that rash from you should do it okay for
yourself and recite some Quran for that and and as some of the self
did recite upon water and rub that water on if that is okay.
Good.
Abby says so that got him tired but not all the time. It's the
case of sometimes it could be a love protecting you remember,
there is a period and I missed this as a conversation apparently.
Good.
Misha Rockman. I'm subscribed to ArcView and I'll check out her
classes. Excellent. Yeah, her class is just type in Hello, Ahmed
as teacher, and you'll learn so much from her and you can email
her directly. She's very thorough and getting back to everybody.
Things having LGBT colors, can we buy them? No. No. Everything's
LGBT these days. Everything toys. LGBT kids are trying to get your
kids because they don't have kids. So were they going to preach to
they gotta preach to your kids? Right? So no, I wouldn't buy any
of those for my kids. shift from
Kuwait made a video and said Kay, don't buy our kids these toys.
Everyone made fun of him. I totally support the chef in that.
Chef Camus. I think his name is why didn't make fun of the guy.
They're all this is what he's talking about. And it's not I
don't I think that's a huge deal. You're gonna give kids all sorts
of LGBT colored toys and then you wonder why they love it when they
grow older.
Combining prayers during the summer month like Megadeth and
Asia.
The the Mufti is of your country can answer that we don't have that
problem here. I know they have that problem in England and in
Scandinavia, where medicative is so late.
Right that in order for them to stay up for a shot, there's
sometimes staying up until like 11th
45 And they got to work the next morning at 5am. And they got to
prefetch at like 3am. So I'll leave that for the most days of
your country to answer that question
Nabil says, do you think has said his social media accounts? I
definitely think Well, that's a good point. I never understand
that. He's Instagram superstars that, Oh, we're so handsome. My
wife is so pretty. Let's make a video. How does this make any
sense? You're igniting like, at least if not envy. At least many
many people will start to feel that
less than you. And they'll feel bad about it. So I just don't
understand the logic of people who go around making these videos him
and his wife, right making little prank videos and stuff like that
or little cute little videos. Look how cute we are. Right?
It's just not something that I would I would be very, very upset.
If my my own daughter and her son in law or my son and his daughter.
His wife did that. I would be like
stop because other people don't have what you have. Yes, there may
be hesed over the internet Allah on them.
If you wrong someone says ally and they don't forgive you, but you
make dua for that. All that you can do is your your own effort at
Toba.
Will. I'm not here 911 What's the best place to learn edip the best
place to learn edit is to keep company have learned Muslims
educated Muslims keep their company and learn from them.
That's the best way
alright, we just aren't if you have a class on an edible Mulford
we do but we never finished it. We just started actually, I don't
even know if it's uploaded. You have to see
how do we develop love of Allah by regular sitting down and doing
much remembrance and also reading about his answering of DA
and his promises? To answer the door. Have a moment a couple more
questions before we wrap up.
If one wants to respect his mom, this is ABCDEFG. And his dad he
wants to respect his dad but they act like they're always in a
wrestling match with him. Okay, but want the child to lead?
Also want to push him of leading? What to do?
Leading what the salah
or leading the family? Clarify. Nora says is it permissible to own
clothing store that sells clothing for women? That's revealing? Yes,
it is.
It depends on your intent. Right? If you're intending it for fiscal,
but if you're intending it for holiday usage, as not your
business, what they sell it for what they use it for. Now, if it
becomes so obvious that you are the source of something like that,
that's haram, who's ringing the doorbell like that?
Then
then you may want to, you know, ask yourself if you want to be
involved in that. However, we do know that
you're not responsible as long as the item is a halal item
All right.
Nimra lying on the resume regarding work experience. That
action is haram. I don't know if it would make the entire income
haram but the action is
last question said Muhammad. Daniel. Are there any reports
showing how the messengers of Allah when he was telling me to
train physically, I think their entire lives. They didn't really
need training because their entire life was a physical struggle. Go
get water. Oh,
right. Imagine you had to go get water by walking down the block
and carrying two gallons of water back. Like everything was physical
for them. They didn't have to have physical training. Their training
was sword fighting, horseback riding, shooting arrows swimming
in some cases, but they didn't really train the way we imagined
training to be. Like, there was no jogging until like, I think the
50s there was no concept of jogging, even taking walks. Sultan
Abdulhamid his father, he imitated the British and the Europeans, the
Europeans were the first people to do this idea of walking. Take a
walk. You know that? So he started doing it. So it's on abdulmajeed
Taking a walk. It was a scandal. What are you doing? Why are you
walking? Where are you going? Now? Just taking a walk. This was a new
thing. There's no such thing as go take a walk. People didn't need
physical exercise back in the day.
Nona says I work in health care what's the ruling on treating
patients of the opposite gender
Are
you have to it's it's healthcare is a Hillel job and if there's
something haram that you're being asked to do you have to try to
avoid that one certain thing.
Really cool guy are the Hanafi fiqh classes on ArcView for the
first level yes they are beginners
all right
let's stop here
does that come look good and everybody Bartok Lo Fi comm Jimmy
on May Allah subhanho wa Taala except from us this action
jet
and in sha Allah What is your opinion on lady of heaven the
movie we never got a chance to talk to the about that. But you
can see as you see the British Muslims got it. I guess it was
going to show in one specific theater there and they got it shut
down by marching and raising up a storm which I guess is a good
thing. Because they got that movie to be
not shown and that movies insulting the Sahaba
to see a movie by
a guy who who enjoys insulting the Sahaba so they got it shut down.
What Hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen I'm
not always a fan of like yelling and screaming in marches. It's
just not my thing. But I'm happy that they did the job and got the
movie shutdown. Right. So that's good. I kind of like experiencing
time. So we don't have a war or anything. Yeah, like we don't have
war. I mean, check this out mean people yell and scream at games
all the time. Yeah, and nobody says anything. Yeah, like people
yell at scream at a player for not kicking a ball. Right? Like,
that's weird. I think that's weird. And but nobody finds out a
problem where other TV they break their TVs. It's so funny watching
the certain playoffs, like NFL playoffs. When a guy misses like a
kick to to win the game. The next day, you see all these TVs broken
on Twitter, people recording them breaking their own TVs and stuff
like that. But when it comes to actual Dean and a Muslim gets
upset
over matter, their religion was sacred to them. Then the reaction
is oh, why are you guys overreacting? Why can't you relax?
Well, you guys can't relax on less than that. Right? Subhanallah No,
we're not going to relax on we're not going to relax. But when you
tell us to relax, we're relaxed on our own terms. So these guys they
totally went all out. And they got the movie canceled she a movie.
Does that come lock in and everyone we ask Allah subhanaw
taala to accept from us. May Allah subhanaw taala make us people of
dua that people have humility and people of st. Java and we ask
Allah to Allah to make us people of Addison, Noah, Gemma and people
of kedma to the OMA people of masajid from today until we meet
him upon that state of people of masajid far from multilateral fits
and fits in that lead people astray. We ask Allah for our
children that he makes them love Amen and make it sweet in their
hearts and make them hate go for it make it better in the hearts We
ask Allah to Allah to never deprive us of the milk of liquor.
And for all those whose hearts are closed from the taste of dhikr May
Allah try to open the floodgates of the sweetness of his
remembrance into their hearts. We ask Allah if we have ever looked
down upon any Muslim that we seek your forgiveness. If we have ever
belittled any Muslim we seek your forgiveness, we ask you not to
punish us with what we have belittled them with We ask Allah
subhana wa Tada to make us love the deen and make us always love
what is of the dominant opinion of the deen so that we may be safe as
the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says,
not coming near the grazing grounds of the king so that we can
be safe in our deen and in our reputations in this life. And our
Dean's in the ACA wa sallahu wa barakaatuh Seaton Muhammad wa ala
alihi wa sahbihi wa salam Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen