Shadee Elmasry – NBF 58 Shama’il The Worship of the Prophet

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The speakers discuss various aspects of relationships, including books and publicity, Shema and the Shema of the Prophet, acceptance of the sacred law, and balancing religion and personal needs for healthy relationships. They emphasize the importance of acceptance and reward for physical and spiritual demands, as well as the benefits of skin to skin contact for healthy babies. They also discuss political and cultural dynamics of Islam, including the use of media to promote Islam and the potential loss of peace, legal framework for Muslims to avoid double marriages, and the rise of "mon tempas Christian" movement. The segment also touches on personal experiences with religion, including Facebook groups and YouTube videos, and discusses various sources and events, including a webinar and social media group.

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			Smilla demanded Rahim salam ala
Camilla comb
		
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			H bas I didn't see H VAs yesterday
he was missing
		
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			okay
		
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			then there's coach Hafsa of man
Faisal
		
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			and a white
		
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			you know today's the day for
cemented in the beast of Allah
		
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			when he was seven Sejal Kony. It's
all about say they'll donate
		
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			Doyle about Satan Kony today.
Tuesdays God is Mondays Quran
		
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			Tuesday Sejal ko name.
		
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			Wednesday is affairs of the OMA
and Thursday is only logical Yeah.
		
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			So are we on for everyone all
channels all right. Just give it
		
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			two seconds until everyone starts
showing up. Norfolk one is here
		
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			noer
		
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			we got so much love on the on the
stream, you know that. It's been
		
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			like we only we've been there two
months and we generate it. It's
		
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			all there's so much love on the
stream.
		
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			off man a queue.
		
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			Of course, also known as Oz,
Wizard of Oz.
		
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			Some of the best seated books. One
of the best is Sultan of hearts.
		
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			It's two or three volumes long,
but it's a really good Sultan of
		
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			hearts.
		
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			Ladies and gentlemen, let's begin
Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al
		
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			hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam
ala Rasulillah early he will be he
		
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			will Manuela ladies and gentlemen
this Sofia society livestream is
		
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			brought to you by
		
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			like ebooks.
		
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			You can get a lot of books from
Mecca books on Sierra which is
		
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			Shema and Sierra is
		
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			the they have a whole section on
Mecca books on summon and see it
		
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			on one of the books he can get his
Sultan of hearts.
		
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			Shema eternity. Oh, this is like a
nicer copy of the one that's in my
		
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			hands. This looks good. Who's this
by zamzam publisher who are they?
		
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			Oh, it's out of stand. It's at a
standard set of extant
		
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			Yeah, Mecca books to very, very
nice copy. I mean, this is my old
		
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			I got the old fashioned copy is
the same. It's the same book this
		
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			with the same commentary, but it's
much nicer copy. So well. That's
		
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			the case. I might read from this
today. Right. Okay, it's the same
		
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			exact copy and Shema L of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			salam, okay.
		
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			Is something that you gotta read
all the time. And you have to have
		
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			not just one, you never just have
one book on a subject is no author
		
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			gathers all the knowledge, right?
So there's a saying in Arabic that
		
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			we say let's shake up and shake.
There's no concept. You should
		
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			never have this idea that oh, I
have this book. I don't need any
		
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			other book. Oh, I have this shake.
I don't listen to any other show.
		
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			You should never have that.
Because no one gathers the entire
		
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			sun of the prophets is not a
single soul will gather. Now it's
		
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			what it's different if you're
talking about a discipline
		
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			Like if I'm learning technical
knowledge of flip, that's a
		
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			technical knowledge, right? Or I
have a shift that helps me in
		
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			spiritual matters gives me of God.
Now, that's something that you
		
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			don't go to another shift to not
because of the idea that he has
		
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			everything, nobody else has
anything, no, but because that
		
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			that will actually mess up your
system. You don't go to two
		
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			different doctors, right? You
don't go to a doctor and say, Hey,
		
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			listen, he's treating me for
cancer on Tuesday, you're treating
		
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			me for cancer, the same cancer on
Wednesday, you don't do that don't
		
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			mess up your body. So from that
angle, we don't do that. If I'm
		
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			studying, let's say,
		
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			a certain subject matter, then a
certain book, then I finished that
		
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			book. With that shape. I can study
the same book with another shape.
		
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			I can study a different book with
another shape. There is no shape
		
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			on the earth that will make you
say, I don't need any other shape.
		
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			This is a trick of Iblees. Because
then once you have a fall out with
		
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			that one chef, or he's proved
himself that he's not that what
		
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			you thought.
		
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			Now you're in trouble. You have
what they call a crisis Eman
		
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			crisis, they say this, who coined
this ridiculous terrible term
		
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			human crisis, none of us should
have human crisis is our a man
		
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			does not rest on a human being.
Our event is supported by all
		
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			human beings. Now, let me tell you
something, a lot of people that
		
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			have issues in relationships,
because they go too little or too
		
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			far. And I'll give you the flip of
relationships, quite simply, is
		
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			that the first relationship with
the default relationship with
		
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			people is horrible. He's already
is a complete stranger. I don't
		
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			know you. Right? And you don't
know me? That's the first default.
		
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			The second is that you simply have
right is recognition. I recognize
		
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			that person. That's it.
		
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			Right? It's a it's a recognition.
This is like a mad if the word mad
		
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			if it means recognition. And we're
not talking about mad if of Allah.
		
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			We're just talking about
recognition. I recognize someone
		
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			so yeah, I recognize him from the
mustard. I recognize him from the
		
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			local bakery or whatever. It seems
simply recognition, like the gas
		
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			station next to your house, you
probably recognize the attendants
		
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			that pumped the guests, I have
been pumping this gas with the
		
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			same guy for like, 10 years. Same
guy.
		
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			It's terrible. We never thought
once to actually have anything
		
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			beyond a regular conversation.
It's terrible. Every day. This our
		
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			answers when you come in for the
guests. You're all doing, huh? We
		
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			never thought like this to say,
Hey, by the way, it's been 10
		
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			years you've been pumping my gas.
What's your name? Are you okay?
		
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			How's life? No, we should change
that. But that's the beauty of
		
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			local businesses to have
relationships because one day I
		
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			might actually like my card might
be scratched doesn't work. Local
		
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			businesses, though, I take the
guests who pay me later, right? We
		
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			do that all the time in local
businesses. Anyway. SitePoint
		
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			might have it's the third
relationship level of a
		
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			relationship
		
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			is my favorite. We call a sub.
Okay.
		
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			So by means we populate the same
location
		
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			and do the same things. It's not
like friendship. Okay? We just
		
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			like when you go to the local
masjid, there are going to be
		
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			people there.
		
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			I know them. We know each other.
We love seeing each other. And
		
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			that's the relationship. That's
it. He's not at my house. I'm not
		
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			at his house. It's just like, we
pray together. We love each other
		
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			because we're worshiping Allah
together. That's it. There's
		
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			nothing more. Right? That is my
favorite relationship.
		
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			It can't go bad. Right? It can't
go bad. If I go to the masjid. I'm
		
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			not in the mood to see him.
		
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			Go to the other side of the
messenger, no blame, no harm, no
		
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			foul, right. If he's sick, I asked
about him if he it's my favorite
		
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			part of the relationship level of
relationship. Now the next one up
		
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			is called sadhaka. So DACA is now
we're inviting each other. We're
		
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			inviting to each other's homes.
Good. Right, that's a different
		
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			level of a relationship. Now
you're at each other's homes.
		
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			You're now you have each other's
numbers, you text you have fun.
		
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			It's nice to write. But I liked
the sadhaka that is more cool than
		
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			heated.
		
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			The more space in this day and age
that you have between people in a
		
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			sadhaka relationship, the better.
		
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			This thing can't go back. Right?
If we want to have fun, we have
		
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			fun. If we don't No harm, no foul,
you never so close to each other
		
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			and so inside of each other's
business, that any little thing
		
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			could be perceived as drama.
		
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			And many, many people that go into
that, like they become
		
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			In French, they go immediately to
what's called Sadiq. When Hemi,
		
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			there's regular sadaqa regular
friendship, then there's the idea
		
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			of so Deepwood Hemi really tight
friends. And then that higher
		
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			level than that is
		
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			a Khalil your Khalil, you are in
each other's lives like this. I
		
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			actually don't even have any of
that.
		
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			Right? I don't, I don't recommend
you do that. Okay?
		
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			If it happens, let it happen by
itself, you know how it could
		
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			happen by itself in the trenches,
when a war happens, when a drama
		
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			happens. And by necessity, you
actually get close to each other
		
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			by necessity, okay, you get close
to each other, that's from Allah,
		
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			then you know, it's something
good. But for you to willingly get
		
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			into someone's life, or let them
into your life. Now, the chances
		
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			of something, you know, bad
happening is increasing. Like, if
		
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			this thing goes bad, it's really
bad. Right? Whereas sadaqa and a
		
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			sofa
		
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			it's almost like there's room now
to read.
		
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			There, the chances of it going bad
is not that much. And the chances
		
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			of it you know, being like so
involved in your life is also not
		
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			that much. So you're, you're
putting in a little bit less, and
		
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			the chance for harm is a little
bit less. So to understand these
		
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			levels of relationship. This is
all based on the books that the
		
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			ultimate wrote because of the
relationship that Muslims had have
		
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			with one another. Okay? How do we
get into the topic at all of this?
		
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			I can't even remember to be honest
with you. Right? How do we get
		
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			into that tangent of things?
		
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			Can you remember, I'm gonna have
to run back to tape on the run
		
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			back to tape. I can't remember how
we got into this. But this idea
		
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			that it's friendships have levels,
there's complete stranger, then
		
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			there's, I recognize someone then
me and him are our bodies are in
		
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			the same building, doing the same
thing. Like your colleagues at
		
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			work, or you people in the masjid.
Alright, then there's friends
		
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			sadhaka.
		
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			Now you have phone numbers, you go
to each other's homes, you go out
		
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			together. And then there's the
		
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			the Hila is going to be like your
mother in law, your father, you're
		
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			going to be like so in each
other's lives. Okay.
		
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			And that's the big difference.
Right? That's, that's a big
		
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			difference. And, and in the old
days, life was so much more
		
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			predictable. Today, I tell people,
Look, you guys, let's say your
		
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			like two, three friends, that just
coming in the dean. And you may
		
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			imagine we're always going to be
like this. Don't I'm telling you
		
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			from experience? Don't imagine
that. Right?
		
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			It's not thinking Ill of other
people or the future. It's, I'm
		
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			telling you what is the best, what
is the best is the concept of
		
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			sadaqa. And stop it out there. And
suddenly, it wouldn't mean you're
		
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			increasing the chance. Now, if
something happens bad between you,
		
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			it's going to get really bad, like
a divorce. Or we got into that
		
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			because we were saying your
relationship with your sheath.
		
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			That's how we got into that you
should not have a relationship
		
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			with your she knew. That is such a
thing that if something bad was to
		
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			happen, your holy man would
collapse. No.
		
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			We don't have this dependency. In
any event. That's why we said you
		
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			should have a number of books. All
of this was to say in any topic,
		
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			you should have a number of books
and never say, right, right.
		
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			Yes, this was like a long Mecca
books. So that you don't you don't
		
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			just have one limited book. Why do
you think one person can gather
		
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			all this from out of the profit?
You don't have one theater book,
		
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			you should have a section in your
library.
		
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			And you should do public readings
in your house. Like son get the
		
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			book everyone gathered around,
everyone put their phones away.
		
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			Alright.
		
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			And the remote control and read as
a chapter 10 minutes and you
		
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			publicly openly reads the chapter
or recitation so that's one thing
		
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			to go to All right. Professors
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			pavers calling. Could you take
this call, right?
		
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			Yes, yes. Hello, Jimmy
		
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			All right.
		
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			All right. Brian will come and
move the cars
		
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			the cars and do you need the BMW
moved to the red BMW? Yeah, yeah,
		
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			I need to I need to for are coming
inside for myself. All right,
		
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			you're gonna need to knock on yoga
pants and tell her to move. Okay,
		
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			thanks a lot. Thanks.
		
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			Yeah, and then lastly, we're
		
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			We're gonna have Patreon, your
support is what makes this happen.
		
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			As you can see, we are getting
better and better, right in our
		
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			stream. What matters is the item.
What matters is the intention. But
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala has put us on
the earth to test us of who will
		
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			do the best of actions and we want
to do the best of actions we want
		
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			to do the we want to have a great
live stream, oh, outwardly and
		
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			inwardly, not just,
		
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			you know, nice intention, we want
to have a great great live stream.
		
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			So with that, let us now turn to
our chapter today on the Shema and
		
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			of the messenger of Satan codename
Adi Salatu was Salam while Ryan
		
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			moves all the cars, because we're
gonna have such a gorgeous
		
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			backyard. You're not even going to
imagine how amazing the backyard
		
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			is going to be pavers lawn, a
beautiful pink dogwood tree,
		
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			right? A What do they call it?
		
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			It's like, thing with a roof a
little thing with a little cover.
		
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			I don't even know what it's
called. But it's gonna be I think,
		
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			actually, people might come here
for wedding pictures. I'm not even
		
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			kidding you. Is that pretty? It's
gonna be that pretty one. We're
		
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			done with it. The backyard. And
people are gonna say You know
		
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			what? This was a good idea. after
all. We doubted you. But
		
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			you did put something together.
That was amazing. So today we are
		
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			on the a bed of Sayville. Kony
nadie Salatu was Salam ala
		
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			eosinophil.
		
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			Allen.
		
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			Okay, here we go. Number one. Let
us now turn to
		
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			the Hadith of the Prophet of his
motivation for a bed. And this is
		
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			so so important. If you want to
love to answer your prayers, be
		
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			ready to be a grateful servant.
How do I be a grateful servant,
		
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			very simple. Ask a lot to make you
a grateful servant. I want to be a
		
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			potential coder, I do not want to
be a tick, tick, tick, tick, tick.
		
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			Do you like to have a friend that
it's all tick, tick, tick, tick
		
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			tick. We call that an Egyptian
masala.
		
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			He even save it save his name on
your phone as Miss La
		
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			Vie Academy. Yes, it's like a
canopy with a ceiling and the
		
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			electricity in it to an event. So
		
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			we call this person masala. What
does Muslim mean? It means
		
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			benefit. He only cares about you
as long as you can give them the
		
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			benefit. terrible human being
terrible, terrible, terrible,
		
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			terrible quality to have, but
acceptable. And if you only turn
		
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			to Allah and you do all your
obligations, let's say
		
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			hypothetically, you're like a
regular average Muslim, right? You
		
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			only do your obligations and your
prohibitions, but when you're in
		
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			need,
		
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			you pray extra, you do extra, you
remember extra.
		
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			When the problem goes away, you
forget Allah
		
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			or opposite. You want something?
Right. So you you remember Allah
		
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			only when you want something.
		
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			Okay. And then as soon as you get
it, you sit there enjoying it and
		
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			you forget about it. That is
acceptable, but it's not a good
		
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			quality. A lot of things are
acceptable, but not good. Not
		
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			great. Like if your son comes home
to you with an ad for Honors
		
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			Algebra to test, okay, it's not a
C but do you like it? No. Is he
		
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			going to you're you're outside the
realm of sort of getting in
		
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			trouble. Or like revising things.
Now he comes home with a 63 you're
		
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			revising life, right? We're, I
don't know what you're doing, but
		
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			we're revising everything. 84
you're sort of not I'm not
		
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			smiling. And I'm not frowning.
Okay. So that's that type of a
		
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			bed. It's accepted. It's it's
Amen. It's not something that's
		
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			nice though. You want to be a
potential Cora and that's what the
		
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			Prophet SAW Selim said that it
said about him. He used to pray so
		
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			much night prayer. Okay.
		
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			And then when he was said, You're
doing this and Allah has given you
		
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			everything already, and he's
forgiven you. And he's given you
		
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			when when when it says you've
forgiven you means that he's
		
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			forgiven your OMA Okay? As well,
like the Shiva has been given to
		
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			you the intercession has been
given to you to the major centers
		
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			of your Oma.
		
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			What is his response? effort, a
Kuhn who unbidden shakoora Shall I
		
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			not be a thankful servant? And I'm
telling you, if you want your
		
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			Allah to answer your prayers, add
in your prayers make me a thankful
		
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			serve, and I want to be thankful.
I want to reach the level in which
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala has given me
what I've wanted, right? Like more
		
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			than I can imagine, my brain is
going to blow up from how much
		
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			Allah has given me and He will
give you that when you purify your
		
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			heart, because if you if you
follow the Sharia,
		
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			inwardly and outwardly and you
struggle with this is not going to
		
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			be easy, and you find it and you
go with it. Your whims will
		
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			transform your whim will move to a
certain location under the
		
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			heavens, where you will desire
what's already written for you
		
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			It will be pleasurable to you, it
will be a dream to you. And then
		
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			it's going to happen.
		
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			And you will feel like my dreams
have been fulfilled. Like my
		
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			biggest if I had a wish list, it's
been fulfilled, you're going to
		
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			reach a point now. And you will
say, Oh Allah, I'm finished. I
		
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			don't want anything anymore. You
have what you this is just more
		
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			than you filled overflowed my
plate, I want to spend the rest of
		
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			my life paying
		
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			sugar. for that. I want to spend
the rest of my life in sugar. This
		
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			is a huge MACOM This is called the
MACOM of URL, the URL Moralia.
		
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			Your ego has a number of macarons
the first level of your ego is if
		
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			you leave it alone. Now the human
being has a good nature and he has
		
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			a bad nature. Okay, so you leave a
baby alone. He's gonna like love
		
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			animals, for example. But you also
leave a baby alone, the dunya the
		
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			food, the indulgence, bad things
will corrupt this nature. Okay.
		
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			Bad interactions with other
humans. There's no such thing as a
		
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			human like in a lab. You exist
with other humans, other humans
		
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			can corrupt you that can ruin you.
It will stimulate what we call an
		
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			Epson Amara, it's your nefs it
make it becomes Amara Amara means
		
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			commanding to witness
		
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			commands towards wiki. All right.
		
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			That's the default. Because
there's no such thing as this. How
		
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			you have been yet then had this
famous thought experiment of what
		
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			happens if you had a child in a in
an island? Like what would that
		
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			child look turned out to be like?
It's just an experiment. It's not
		
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			real shitty, I always comes. Quran
always speaks as what's real. The
		
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			real truth of human beings, you're
always alive with other human
		
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			beings. If you don't, if those
human beings are left, unchecked,
		
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			if the neffs is left unchecked,
you're gonna be a martyr.
		
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			You start to learn what's right
and what's wrong, and you
		
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			recognize the truth of things. At
that point, you're not you don't
		
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			go directly from being a demon to
an angel. There's a gradiation a
		
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			gradation a gradient. Okay, a gray
area. Okay. There's a time where
		
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			you will follow what you believe
in at a time when you won't.
		
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			So when you don't what happens
when you're back and forth,
		
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			bouncing back and forth.
		
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			That's the human condition. Right.
And that's called Toba. So I did
		
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			good. I went back. I fell off Why
did you fall when you know you
		
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			shouldn't do that because you're a
human. So cool it a little bit but
		
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			with sinners, sinners. It's not
that it's a bad thing, but it's
		
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			not something to be totally angry
with because you're a human being
		
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			good.
		
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			Now, you have to bounce back we
call that Toba and that stage
		
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			you're called enough's, Aloma. You
keep blaming yourself, that's a
		
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			good thing. Enough Scylla wema we
hope Jana for it. And Allah
		
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			subhana wa Tada says, Some souls
they have mixed good deeds and bad
		
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			deeds. It may be that Allah has
mercy upon them, it means Allah
		
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			will have mercy upon them. And
Nuff said Allah wham. The third
		
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			level is that finally, finally,
you have discipline this ego of
		
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			yours, which is yourself. We're
talking to ourselves here you've
		
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			discipline this ego, okay? Like a
dog. You train the dog? Well,
		
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			that's why horse breeding, even
training a dog for hunting, things
		
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			like that. You may learn a little
thing about yourself, okay, how to
		
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			train a wild beast. And the neffs
is no different. Right? What does
		
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			the dog want? It wants to eat,
procreate. Okay, and just be sleep
		
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			when you want to do the same
thing. So you've learned how to
		
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			discipline this thing and you've
learned how long it takes. And you
		
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			finally have reached the shore of
safety. And you don't fall into
		
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			those sins again. Yes, maybe you
fall into a minor sin here or
		
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			there. But you don't fall into the
sins again. Right? That's the
		
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			beauty of it.
		
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			That's called the knifes and
movement in your you have left the
		
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			raging sea. You've landed on the
beach, you're alive.
		
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			The raging sea will not drown you
anymore.
		
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			Imagine a every time you walk down
a path a dog comes out and fights
		
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			you and bites you and scratches
you every day. You got to deal
		
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			with this dog. What misery I'm
hurt, I'm bleeding here. Finally,
		
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			the day has come. You've changed
that dog.
		
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			You can pass safely you put a
muzzle on it you pass peace and
		
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			quiet in your ears. You're no
longer you're going to get bitten.
		
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			You cannot imagine the sweetness
and the relief of that neffs and
		
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			once you have enough smoke in it
		
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			Now you can be entrusted and given
gifts. If can you be given a nice
		
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			piece of meat? If there's a dog, a
Rottweiler, right, coming out, you
		
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			know, you can't be given you'll
lose it. Okay? So your knifes once
		
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			you've tamed it, and that's the
importance of if you have a kid
		
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			raise him upon that kiss a
shortcut in life. Right, rather
		
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			than letting his neffs go crazy.
And then coming back. Alright, so
		
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			you finally reached this this
amazing, amazing state of enough's
		
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			al Muthanna. In it's at peace.
This is what I believe in. And I
		
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			do the same exact thing. My ego is
no longer waging a war against me.
		
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			My ego has accepted. My your ego
is you have accepted the divine
		
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			law. Now usually what is it that
makes someone accept the divine
		
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			law in many, many cases? It's not
just discipline, its reward.
		
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			Right? You're a human being. You
don't are not motivated just for
		
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			the sake of discipline. Yes, I
believe I shouldn't be doing this.
		
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			But what's going to make me not do
it, which is the idea that there
		
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			is a reward. And my Eman has now
reached a point I believe Allah
		
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			will give me that reward in this
life before the next Lahoma Bucha
		
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			filha to dunya they get the good
news in this lab for the neck.
		
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			Which leads us to the next level
of the Soul or Alia, between
		
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			Allah, Allah worm or movement into
Denis Radhiya rather pleased,
		
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			pleased, why is da has been
answered, it's wishlist has been
		
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			given to him and more.
		
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			Because the low the neffs lawanna,
the person that keeps going back
		
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			and forth, when he sees what
possibly Allah can give him in
		
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			this world. He goes to what's my
in
		
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			and then He strengthens in that
state and then Allah Allah bestows
		
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			upon him to gifts, you don't go
straight. There's a middle level
		
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			where you have to wait a couple of
years. And then Allah to Allah
		
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			gives you what you
		
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			did, the way that the she will
have described it is what you have
		
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			dreamed and not even dreamed
		
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			will become something that is
given to you as a gift, graduation
		
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			gift from Allah subhana wa Tada.
And the way that we understand
		
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			that is that by moving my neffs in
to alignment with the sacred law,
		
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			I have also altered my desires.
And my nature now is I only have a
		
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			craving and a desire for what is
already written for me. Okay. And
		
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			so it appears to me, as it plays
out that my dua has been answered
		
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			in reality, I have moved my knifes
to what Allah has already written
		
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			for me, right? And I crave
something that's destined for me.
		
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			So your DA is most of the job, but
that's how the ODS doctor is Mr.
		
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			Job. Okay, how do I understand the
difference between destiny? What's
		
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			destined for me called the uncut
data, and is to Jabba to Dawa.
		
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			When you're aligned with the
sacred law, and you follow it
		
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			properly, okay.
		
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			You will only desire what's
written for you.
		
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			And you will sort of it'll come
into your mind as a desire.
		
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			Right, but in reality, it's also
written for you. So that's what's
		
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			called enough's. Aradia. It's
pleased, it is so happy with what
		
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			Allah has given it. So pleased
that now it moves to another level
		
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			that says, All I want know, is to
be grateful. And that's what Allah
		
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			says here. But what they say about
the, what the Prophet said, Should
		
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			I not be grateful servant? That's
enough set of model the model the
		
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			it's pleasing to Allah, because
Allah loves the grant the grateful
		
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			Does he love the penitent? Yes.
Does he love the
		
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			perfectly obedient? Yes.
		
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			Does he love the one who is worthy
of his gifts? Yes. But his
		
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			greatest love is for the grateful
servant Shikou
		
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			at this point that says what
you've given me at this moment in
		
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			time, based on what you anything
that gets thrown my way, I'm
		
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			accepting it. He is completely
shocked, who is not just grateful
		
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			for what he likes, he is grateful
for what he doesn't like.
		
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			Think about the level of
generosity that Allah bestows upon
		
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			these odia that makes them reach
the point. Naturally, they will
		
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			say, anything that comes to me at
this point afterwards from this
		
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			Lord, I am accepting it happily.
Okay. I'm accepting it because of
		
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			how you've treated me. Imagine
that right there. What has the
		
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			love given him?
		
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			All right. What has Allah given
him that made him so happy and so
		
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			pleased with his existence that he
says to Allah, anything at this
		
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			point? I am pleased with it. So
		
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			That's called enough's Alma Leah.
And in the Quran is called
		
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			chakra
		
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			I met who Allah that chakra
		
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			vocally Ilan Mineva dia chakra,
very few reached this level call
		
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			Ilan
		
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			and with Tajweed column in a body
a shocker. Few of my bed reached a
		
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			level of being shackled. Okay.
		
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			And then finally beyond that is a
nested Kameelah it's complete what
		
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			does it mean it's complete? Didn't
the prophets I said I'm c'est la
		
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			you want me to I had to come
Hatta. None of you truly believes
		
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			until it's that means this person
there is not a virtue of the
		
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			virtues that is taught by the
Quran and the Sunnah, except that
		
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			he possesses it. A share of it. So
he's complete. There's no holes in
		
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			this person's character. There's
no holes in their Deen doesn't
		
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			mean he won't occasionally come
into a synth or a fence. Well,
		
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			that's a mistake. It's possible.
Okay. But overall, he's filled in
		
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			all the holes. These are the seven
levels of what are the stages of
		
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			our ego? Okay, it's still called
an ego but it's perfected neffs.
		
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			Next, Hadid says her dad and her
family have a job and doesn't show
		
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			up on IVs have an S words if New
Year's Eve Karla sell to Asia? I
		
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			asked I Suraj Allahu anha
Ancelotti Rasulullah sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa salam belaid Sokka let's
Ken a enamel a with a late he
		
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			sleep early in the night, the
first portion of the night he
		
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			sleeps in it. So my Akumal then he
would get up until for either can
		
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			I'm in a Sahadi outer. Once the
end of the night has arrived. He
		
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			makes with some atrophy Russia
who? Then he go back to bed,
		
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			saying Can Aloha John Allama Bialy
if he had a need, he pulled over
		
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			his wife.
		
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			Faye that sent me out. Then what
about when he hears the then he
		
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			gets up in Canada joven.
		
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			If he was going up, he goes into a
tub and he pours the water on
		
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			himself. Takes it will do what
Allah to what the avocado Jayla
		
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			Salah and if not if he's not
Jonah, he goes out to the prayer.
		
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			What do we have here? We have our
version of the bad of a Muslim
		
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			is not monasticism. If you happen
not to be married fine. But if you
		
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			believe that that's better wrong.
		
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			Here you have the message is that
I'm worshiping Allah. And
		
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			this wife of his this human being
also has needs
		
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			to have needs and desires.
fulfilling them for them is a
		
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			blessing for you. And it's a
fulfillment for them. It's a bad
		
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			okay.
		
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			I think this is the first religion
that's come down that's basically
		
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			said that this human desire is
worshipped. I don't know what
		
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			the previous you know,
dispensation said. Say Nadeau
		
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			Buddha said he had 100 wives and
3000 concubines but
		
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			point being is our religion is one
that has to be balanced. Okay.
		
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			And Trent chances the balance is
never going to be in lack of
		
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			worship, we never have to temper
people's a bad these days. That
		
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			the type of people you have to
temper their a buddy, you can
		
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			count them on your fingers. Right?
We have to encourage more a bed,
		
00:33:33 --> 00:33:36
			right? But here you have the
messenger slice of them being a
		
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			complete full human being. He
sleeps a little bit, he prays a
		
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			little bit, and he sleeps with his
wife. And there's no shame in this
		
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			at all say that. It's just saying
it. Okay. You might ask how did
		
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			say that it's just speak to the
Sahaba Her room was adjacent to
		
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			the mosque. It was a like an
extension. Imagine a mosque and a
		
00:33:55 --> 00:33:57
			room right outside the masala
		
00:33:58 --> 00:34:01
			she lived there, right? So there
was a curtain up between that,
		
00:34:02 --> 00:34:06
			okay, or a door or a door and a
curtain whatever it was different
		
00:34:06 --> 00:34:10
			people say different things. And
when she would come out to the
		
00:34:10 --> 00:34:13
			people, there would be like
someone making maybe like an
		
00:34:13 --> 00:34:16
			announcement. She's ready to take
questions and she would say behind
		
00:34:16 --> 00:34:19
			the curtain they would never see
her. Why wouldn't they ever see
		
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			her because if they saw her, and
they found her attractive, that is
		
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			a major issue with your heart that
you are find a show who have a
		
00:34:26 --> 00:34:30
			desire for the way for the profit.
It's not any any person's wife,
		
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			that's the life of the prophet,
whatever the prophet is your
		
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			mother
		
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			spiritually if you have if you if
you ever looked at your mom and
		
00:34:39 --> 00:34:41
			became sexually attracted to your
mom,
		
00:34:43 --> 00:34:44
			what do we tell with this person
Ryan?
		
00:34:45 --> 00:34:49
			Something's that must be something
terribly wrong. Now. It's one
		
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			thing that my mom is beautiful.
She's pretty in the same way that
		
00:34:52 --> 00:34:56
			I find artwork. You don't have a
sexual desire to an artwork, right
		
00:34:56 --> 00:34:59
			piece of artwork. It's gorgeous.
You can see a guy very handsome
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:03
			There's no sexual attraction
there. Right? So likewise, you
		
00:35:03 --> 00:35:05
			could say my mom Oh, look at her
old pictures met she was
		
00:35:05 --> 00:35:09
			beautiful. There's no sexual
attraction if there is the fitrah
		
00:35:09 --> 00:35:13
			has been warped up. in a spiritual
sense, you cannot go and have an
		
00:35:13 --> 00:35:16
			attraction to the wife of the
Prophet Seisen it will mess you
		
00:35:16 --> 00:35:21
			up. Say no, I'm gonna blow up.
Once before the women of the
		
00:35:21 --> 00:35:27
			Prophet were fully covered. He saw
us a hobby, have an extended gaze
		
00:35:28 --> 00:35:31
			and or just exposed the wife of
the Prophet was exposed her face
		
00:35:31 --> 00:35:34
			was exposed to a Sahabi
		
00:35:35 --> 00:35:39
			Prophet say Norma said commend
there to be a barrier between your
		
00:35:39 --> 00:35:43
			wives and the people. And Allah
subhana wa Tada proved that
		
00:35:43 --> 00:35:49
			correct. And it came down si se
and almost his soul was so aligned
		
00:35:50 --> 00:35:55
			with the truth that he would sense
the sacred law before it came
		
00:35:55 --> 00:36:03
			down. 22 Times says a CLT 22 Times
said no more thought of something
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:08
			had a claim to a conclusion. And
that ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada made it
		
00:36:08 --> 00:36:12
			law. How does that happen? Does
Allah make law based on say nama?
		
00:36:13 --> 00:36:18
			No, it's the soul of Satan. Ahmed
was in full alignment that he's so
		
00:36:18 --> 00:36:22
			his his mind was perceiving what
was was already Allah's decision.
		
00:36:23 --> 00:36:29
			And said, mmm CLT says that 13 of
these times, almost spoke with an
		
00:36:29 --> 00:36:34
			utterance, which was revelation
before the revelation came down 13
		
00:36:34 --> 00:36:35
			times.
		
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			Okay, the actual UTTERANCE OF
SATAN Amara
		
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			was a verse. That's how inline his
soul was, with the truth that he
		
00:36:47 --> 00:36:50
			was inspired with the law that
Allah has hasn't even yet
		
00:36:50 --> 00:36:51
			revealed.
		
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			It's as if there's souls up in the
heavens and in the sky is
		
00:36:56 --> 00:37:02
			witnessing without us realizing
the future and then coming down to
		
00:37:02 --> 00:37:07
			us and we're processing it as our
own decision. It appears to us as
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:10
			to my own judgment, it's not your
own judgment you're inspired now
		
00:37:11 --> 00:37:13
			your your Milham you're inspired
		
00:37:16 --> 00:37:18
			her death and applets a bunch of
new say,
		
00:37:19 --> 00:37:23
			non melachim the Ennis quotes a
business aid narrates from medica
		
00:37:23 --> 00:37:28
			bananas. And what had definite in
it anytime you reading a chain of
		
00:37:28 --> 00:37:31
			transmission as his had death and
had done it, and then it says what
		
00:37:31 --> 00:37:34
			had death he adds the well there
that means a new chain of
		
00:37:34 --> 00:37:37
			transmission. What had done
tonight is Hakuna Musa Ansari had
		
00:37:37 --> 00:37:39
			given a man on medic
		
00:37:40 --> 00:37:45
			say nearly mimetic, and Maka Rama
Edna Sulaiman and Kure and Ben
		
00:37:45 --> 00:37:50
			Ibis anytime you see a medic in a
chain pay attention anytime you
		
00:37:50 --> 00:37:53
			see memorable karate and a chain
pay attention and Muslim in a
		
00:37:53 --> 00:37:55
			chain pay attention that chain is
say
		
00:37:56 --> 00:38:00
			the many other Allamah have
gathered between the here and the
		
00:38:00 --> 00:38:06
			life. Right? Many, but the three
and the four pinnacle is a METU.
		
00:38:06 --> 00:38:10
			But the four the three main ones
that if his name is in a chain,
		
00:38:11 --> 00:38:14
			pay attention to the names after
that chain, they're all sound of
		
00:38:14 --> 00:38:18
			the highest level of authority.
Okay, so this is MK Rama Ignis ole
		
00:38:18 --> 00:38:23
			man crib and now does one of the
highest has gears is that medic
		
00:38:23 --> 00:38:28
			chose to narrate from somebody
because he was such a meticulous
		
00:38:30 --> 00:38:34
			transmitter, and he would only
transmit you know, it came to the
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:38
			point that say that Malik went to
Mecca, and there was a transmitter
		
00:38:38 --> 00:38:42
			there. Everyone was taking from
and he observed him and he refused
		
00:38:42 --> 00:38:43
			to take from him.
		
00:38:44 --> 00:38:48
			Okay. And they asked him, Why
don't you never take from him you
		
00:38:48 --> 00:38:52
			never sit in his class. And he
wouldn't answer until finally they
		
00:38:52 --> 00:38:56
			did see him taking his from his
class. And then they said why? He
		
00:38:56 --> 00:38:59
			said I saw him narrate a hadith
about the prophets description and
		
00:38:59 --> 00:39:00
			weeping.
		
00:39:01 --> 00:39:06
			He wept. So I knew he's a
righteous man. And I said, he took
		
00:39:06 --> 00:39:06
			from him after that.
		
00:39:08 --> 00:39:12
			says that even outbursts? acabado
and Abeta in the Maimunah the
		
00:39:12 --> 00:39:16
			prophets I seldom slept. Sorry,
even I best slept over in the
		
00:39:16 --> 00:39:22
			house of Maimunah Why would he do
that? Because that is his aunt.
		
00:39:22 --> 00:39:27
			Maimunah Bintan hateth she's the
aunt of Ivanov, Bess. Okay. Her
		
00:39:27 --> 00:39:33
			his dad and her brother and
sister. So that makes her his Ent.
		
00:39:34 --> 00:39:37
			Sorry. The I think is from the
mom's side. Right if I'm not
		
00:39:37 --> 00:39:37
			mistaken.
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:41
			Yeah, I think it's from the mom's
side. If I'm not mistaken, but
		
00:39:41 --> 00:39:44
			it's his color. Yes, it's his
color.
		
00:39:45 --> 00:39:50
			Maimunah and even our best his
mom. They're sisters. So he's
		
00:39:50 --> 00:39:57
			sleep over house. He can see her
without hijab. Good. God. He said
		
00:39:57 --> 00:39:59
			for the job to fi auto did we said
so the
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:04
			prophets I seldom Maimunah and he
slept across them.
		
00:40:05 --> 00:40:10
			Well today Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa salam Fotolia Okay, he
		
00:40:10 --> 00:40:13
			slept long ways. For now my
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
		
00:40:13 --> 00:40:17
			salam had to eat and cassava Lane
he slept from the beginning of the
		
00:40:17 --> 00:40:17
			night to the middle of the night.
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:22
			Oh come bloke basically or before
the middle of the night by a
		
00:40:22 --> 00:40:24
			little bit, oh, by Jehovah's
colleague or after it by a little
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:29
			bit. So, hovering around the
middle of the night. First day of
		
00:40:29 --> 00:40:33
			Goddess Allahu alayhi wa sallam.
Fajr Allah Yun says oh no man
		
00:40:33 --> 00:40:37
			watch it. First thing the Prophet
got up wiping the sleep off of his
		
00:40:37 --> 00:40:43
			face, while Qatar al Ashraf al
Hawa. tema min Surah T Ed Imran
		
00:40:43 --> 00:40:46
			and he recited the last 10 verses
of Eddie and Milan is one of the
		
00:40:46 --> 00:40:51
			Sunon to recite those last 10
verses from students at a Milan
		
00:40:51 --> 00:40:56
			film, calm up Illa Shannon
walloping photobomb and then he
		
00:40:56 --> 00:41:01
			got up to a goat skin and they
used to take skins and make use
		
00:41:01 --> 00:41:03
			them as water bags, essentially.
		
00:41:05 --> 00:41:09
			He made Fastenal will and he did a
nice slow, good will do.
		
00:41:10 --> 00:41:14
			thermocol move slowly. Then he got
up to pray. Ca Abdullah nobis he
		
00:41:14 --> 00:41:20
			continues. I got up to Okay, and
stood next to him. For the artists
		
00:41:20 --> 00:41:23
			who Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam
Yeah, the whole Yumna Allah see,
		
00:41:23 --> 00:41:29
			from aka the balloon iliamna
Fidella. Then he put his hand on
		
00:41:29 --> 00:41:32
			my head, He rubbed his head and
the end he held his right ear and
		
00:41:32 --> 00:41:36
			he just touched it like this.
Okay.
		
00:41:37 --> 00:41:38
			What is that?
		
00:41:39 --> 00:41:43
			The boy getting up pretended he's
young boy. At this time. He's
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:46
			showing him approval without
talking, showing him love and
		
00:41:46 --> 00:41:49
			approval of what he's doing
without talking. Okay, he is not
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:53
			the time for chit chat. 200 is not
the time for chitchat. But by
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:56
			touching you can show approval and
anyone who has kids knows this
		
00:41:56 --> 00:42:00
			right? Or husband and wife you
know this you can say a lot by
		
00:42:00 --> 00:42:05
			just touching them and a touch
with love. That's what the prophet
		
00:42:05 --> 00:42:09
			is going to touch for approval
signal of approval. Okay, and an
		
00:42:09 --> 00:42:10
			affection
		
00:42:11 --> 00:42:13
			it's important to show this
because it shows that you're
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:17
			pleased with what they're doing.
And there's also something very
		
00:42:17 --> 00:42:20
			special about touching so why
touching is haram between men and
		
00:42:20 --> 00:42:25
			women skin to skin contact, you
can't underestimate you know what
		
00:42:25 --> 00:42:29
			there isn't that right that
between husband and wife it can
		
00:42:29 --> 00:42:31
			cure a lot of maladies of the
heart.
		
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			We know physically that as soon as
a baby comes out of the mother it
		
00:42:36 --> 00:42:40
			there has to be skin to skin
contact. Right there's it does
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:44
			something there was a report then
that you can look at that there
		
00:42:44 --> 00:42:47
			was a baby that
		
00:42:48 --> 00:42:51
			twins one was very healthy one was
very sick.
		
00:42:52 --> 00:42:55
			And they separated them and they
tried to treat the sick baby
		
00:42:56 --> 00:43:00
			right. But at one point they ended
up there was only one little baby
		
00:43:00 --> 00:43:03
			baskets so they put the baby in
not a basket you know these
		
00:43:03 --> 00:43:09
			bassinets so they put the two
together at somehow the healthy
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:17
			baby reached up and held a put his
arm on the sick baby the twin and
		
00:43:17 --> 00:43:21
			there was no shirt on the sick
baby so it was a skin to skin
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:26
			and the nurses noticed the vital
signs of the baby improving over a
		
00:43:26 --> 00:43:29
			period of time they said hold on
to that leave it like that.
		
00:43:29 --> 00:43:31
			Something about the skin to skin
		
00:43:33 --> 00:43:37
			you can look this up I'm not
making it up. Okay, someone on the
		
00:43:37 --> 00:43:41
			stream look it up and give me a
link to type up. And when we do
		
00:43:41 --> 00:43:44
			the q&a We'll read that story. The
skin to skin is very important. So
		
00:43:44 --> 00:43:48
			here the prophets I send him has a
very gentle like touching of his
		
00:43:48 --> 00:43:50
			ear and his head. Okay.
		
00:43:52 --> 00:43:57
			So then he says for Salah raka
chain from Morocco Jane from
		
00:43:57 --> 00:44:01
			Morocco, Jane from Morocco, Jane
from Morocco, Jane Doe Morocco,
		
00:44:01 --> 00:44:08
			Jane. Then the Prophet SAW Selim
said six prayed 12 Arcus tu tu tu
		
00:44:08 --> 00:44:16
			tu tu tu tu 12 raka thumb Oh Tara,
then one raka total of 13 doctors.
		
00:44:16 --> 00:44:17
			Then he slept again.
		
00:44:18 --> 00:44:23
			Or he laid down again had deja vu
for karma for some Lara Catania
		
00:44:23 --> 00:44:26
			fever, but he laid down without
falling asleep.
		
00:44:27 --> 00:44:28
			Good.
		
00:44:29 --> 00:44:30
			Alright.
		
00:44:31 --> 00:44:35
			When whatever then came, he got up
and he prayed to very shortly like
		
00:44:35 --> 00:44:39
			us. Then he went out to the
masjid, to pray with the people.
		
00:44:40 --> 00:44:44
			Salah to fetch it is called
surpass the time is called Fetch.
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:46
			But the prayer is called soup.
		
00:44:48 --> 00:44:51
			That is a beautiful to hedge it of
the messengers of Allah. I'm
		
00:44:51 --> 00:44:54
			telling you, and I could swear up
and down about this.
		
00:44:56 --> 00:44:59
			I don't know how problems persist.
If you have
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:00
			100
		
00:45:01 --> 00:45:07
			If you have to hedge it will lie
by Allah. Good, it will be a
		
00:45:07 --> 00:45:11
			relief of all your problems. Even
if the problem persists, your
		
00:45:11 --> 00:45:13
			perception of it will transform.
		
00:45:14 --> 00:45:17
			Well, so it's so that you don't
think oh, we're selling some
		
00:45:17 --> 00:45:22
			magic. So magic guaranteed either
the problem will be solved or your
		
00:45:22 --> 00:45:26
			perception of it will shift and so
it will shift so much that the
		
00:45:26 --> 00:45:28
			same problem you may start viewing
it as an advantage
		
00:45:29 --> 00:45:30
			to 100
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:34
			but we got to be fighting sins in
the day and we got to make sure
		
00:45:34 --> 00:45:35
			our income is high the
		
00:45:37 --> 00:45:41
			next heavy then show about an epi
genre. I live now Bess
		
00:45:43 --> 00:45:48
			got her death in Abu Qure Muhammad
Allah doesn't have a Kia and show
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:52
			a Barnaby Gemorah and if not best
can be solo anywhere he was
		
00:45:52 --> 00:45:56
			selling you suddenly Mina Layli
Falletta Asha Raja Raja that's
		
00:45:56 --> 00:45:58
			what he witnessed. He witnessed
Thirteen's like us
		
00:46:01 --> 00:46:05
			when one I send an ABS Lulu What
are you Ernie was Ella McKenna
		
00:46:05 --> 00:46:10
			either Lemieux Salib Lael mana
whom in dedica No. Avila Bettina
		
00:46:10 --> 00:46:14
			Solomon in the Hertie thin Dr.
Shara Taraka, if the Prophet
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:20
			salallahu alayhi wa salam, and
showing us an example, that there
		
00:46:20 --> 00:46:25
			were days, so exhausted, he slept
through the whole night.
		
00:46:26 --> 00:46:31
			Why? Because it happens, right?
He's showing he that happened to
		
00:46:31 --> 00:46:34
			him to show us that it will happen
to you too. I mean, I'm sure it's
		
00:46:34 --> 00:46:36
			possible that you maybe traveled
half a day maybe you worked
		
00:46:36 --> 00:46:40
			overtime, whatever it is, you
slept through the whole night. But
		
00:46:40 --> 00:46:44
			what would he do? He get up his
Doha salah, he would make up his
		
00:46:44 --> 00:46:50
			200 Whatever it was 12 because in
this case, and that's why Doha is
		
00:46:50 --> 00:46:54
			also the makeup of tahajjud if you
miss your gadget make it up in so
		
00:46:54 --> 00:46:54
			lots of
		
00:46:58 --> 00:47:03
			her death and I put a business
agent had Davina Abu Alana Caja
		
00:47:03 --> 00:47:06
			and Zara and sat in the Hisham
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:12
			and I Isha Allah one and then the
BSL Allahu Allah. You were early.
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:15
			He was ALLAH McKenna either
Lemieux Salim Elaine Menachem
		
00:47:15 --> 00:47:20
			Angelica Norma Albertina, Solomon
and herdy Sentosa raka one Abu
		
00:47:20 --> 00:47:24
			Hurayrah and then the VSL Allah
when he was a llama Kala is a coma
		
00:47:24 --> 00:47:29
			I had documented Lael Foley after
salata Who berocca 2015. If you're
		
00:47:29 --> 00:47:33
			going to do many other many
records, then you start off with a
		
00:47:33 --> 00:47:38
			small short like us warmup. Even
in a bed has warmup right you go
		
00:47:38 --> 00:47:41
			into big a bed or like that you
can hurt yourself. You don't go
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:43
			lift, weightlifting and lift
something big you can hurt
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:49
			yourself. Okay, so if you're going
to do many rockers start with too
		
00:47:49 --> 00:47:51
			short Caracas. Okay.
		
00:47:52 --> 00:47:55
			All right. So now how long have we
been going right
		
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			alright, let's stop here. 48
minutes is good. Oh shoot. Well
		
00:48:02 --> 00:48:05
			you guys did you guys have the
bookmark? Shoot sorry about that.
		
00:48:05 --> 00:48:06
			I just took out your bookmark
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:12
			okay, you can take the bookmark
back but I just accidentally put
		
00:48:12 --> 00:48:13
			my own bookmark in
		
00:48:18 --> 00:48:20
			my own bookmark in here and then
I'll and you guys can put your
		
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			bookmark
		
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			let's go to the article about the
skin to skin
		
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			here it is. Okay.
		
00:48:46 --> 00:48:48
			Elegant Adams
		
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			Cleveland Clinic All right, let's
go to that Cleveland Clinic.
		
00:48:57 --> 00:49:02
			Article 15 to 76 Let's go to that.
All right.
		
00:49:07 --> 00:49:08
			Cleveland
		
00:49:10 --> 00:49:11
			Clinic
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:22
			what number is 15 to 76 to 76 Skin
to skin and it should come up.
		
00:49:23 --> 00:49:27
			Here it is. Skin to skin contact
for you and baby not just you and
		
00:49:27 --> 00:49:30
			maybe you and every you know who
else whoever else you need to be
		
00:49:30 --> 00:49:34
			close to skin to skin means your
full term healthy baby is placed
		
00:49:34 --> 00:49:38
			belly down on your chest right
after birth.
		
00:49:39 --> 00:49:42
			Which is pretty much what every
civilization was probably doing in
		
00:49:42 --> 00:49:45
			the old days, right? Because
number one, they probably didn't
		
00:49:45 --> 00:49:48
			have as much cloth and that's what
you did. And that's it. Wouldn't
		
00:49:48 --> 00:49:51
			that be what Every mother wants to
do anyway? Right?
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:56
			Puts a hat on him or her covers
him or her with a warm blanket and
		
00:49:56 --> 00:50:00
			gets your baby settled on your
chest. The first hours of
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:04
			snuggling skin to skin. Let you
and your baby get to know each
		
00:50:04 --> 00:50:06
			other and they are important
health benefits. What are we
		
00:50:06 --> 00:50:11
			reading here Cleveland Clinic not
some kind of hippy vegan website,
		
00:50:11 --> 00:50:11
			right.
		
00:50:13 --> 00:50:16
			If your baby needs to meet the
pediatrician first.
		
00:50:17 --> 00:50:21
			Or if you deliver by C section you
can unwrap your baby and cuddle
		
00:50:21 --> 00:50:22
			shortly after birth.
		
00:50:23 --> 00:50:28
			If necessary, your partner can do
the partner. Your spouse can do
		
00:50:28 --> 00:50:33
			the initial skin to skin. Newborns
crave skin to skin contact, but
		
00:50:33 --> 00:50:36
			it's sometimes overwhelming for
new moms. While it would be
		
00:50:36 --> 00:50:39
			overwhelming for the new mom, I
have no experience being a mom but
		
00:50:39 --> 00:50:41
			why don't you want your baby in
front of you?
		
00:50:42 --> 00:50:44
			Okay, let's look at the health
benefits.
		
00:50:46 --> 00:50:50
			They got to infuse their their
their lifestyle in these articles.
		
00:50:50 --> 00:50:51
			They tell me
		
00:50:54 --> 00:51:00
			partner rescuing hug. This is
another article rescuing hug.
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:05
			Baby Twins Brielle and Kyrie
		
00:51:07 --> 00:51:12
			in 1995, a pair of twins Brill and
Kyrie Jackson were born 12 weeks
		
00:51:12 --> 00:51:19
			premature. Each weighed only two
pounds like a little mouse. And
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:23
			one of them was expected to die
not to survive. At three weeks,
		
00:51:23 --> 00:51:28
			one twin went into critical
condition. Her heart was soaring,
		
00:51:28 --> 00:51:33
			her oxygen level dropping, and she
was turning blue. The nurses tried
		
00:51:33 --> 00:51:36
			everything but nothing worked and
they were about to lose her. Then
		
00:51:36 --> 00:51:38
			one nurse Gail Kasparian.
		
00:51:40 --> 00:51:44
			Armenian decided to put the
stronger twin next to her sister
		
00:51:44 --> 00:51:48
			in the same incubator. Where did
she get to? I think she got to do
		
00:51:48 --> 00:51:52
			this from her instincts. fitrah
instincts maybe Ill him or an
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:55
			angel that wants to save this
baby. Just like it was not a
		
00:51:55 --> 00:51:56
			procedure. It's not something
that's to be done
		
00:51:58 --> 00:52:02
			in the standard procedure is to
put them in separate in incubators
		
00:52:02 --> 00:52:05
			to avoid risk of infection, right
which makes sense to
		
00:52:06 --> 00:52:07
			then what happens
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:15
			once the twins were together, the
baby snuggled up to carry
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:20
			the stronger twin. As soon as
Kyrie put her arm around her
		
00:52:20 --> 00:52:24
			sister. The vital signs including
breathing and heart rate of the
		
00:52:24 --> 00:52:29
			weaker twin instantly stabilized.
They call this the rescuing hug.
		
00:52:29 --> 00:52:32
			So the nurse I think that the that
nurse did it by instinct.
		
00:52:33 --> 00:52:36
			Without the rescuing hug that
weaker twin would not have been
		
00:52:36 --> 00:52:40
			able to survive. The hug helped
change medicine in the US.
		
00:52:40 --> 00:52:40
			Amazing.
		
00:52:45 --> 00:52:45
			Okay,
		
00:52:47 --> 00:52:48
			amazing. Thank you, right.
		
00:52:52 --> 00:52:55
			So that's the idea here about
		
00:52:56 --> 00:53:00
			it's not just skin to skin to skin
for babies, I think it's for
		
00:53:03 --> 00:53:06
			I don't give marriage advice. But
		
00:53:07 --> 00:53:11
			instinct and common sense says if
a husband and wife have an
		
00:53:11 --> 00:53:14
			intimate moment, it's going to
erase a lot of their issues.
		
00:53:14 --> 00:53:18
			Right? It's going to erase a lot
of what may be between them of ice
		
00:53:18 --> 00:53:22
			Enos of distance of
misunderstanding. Instinct is
		
00:53:22 --> 00:53:26
			telling me that better sleep
quality after skin to skin
		
00:53:26 --> 00:53:30
			confidence in handling the baby
for the mom ability to learn how
		
00:53:30 --> 00:53:31
			your baby sleeps.
		
00:53:33 --> 00:53:38
			Identification of cues by the baby
and the mum.
		
00:53:39 --> 00:53:43
			Less infant crying and distress,
less sadness. I don't know what
		
00:53:43 --> 00:53:48
			baby blues is. Oh for the mom,
less baby blues being for the mum.
		
00:53:48 --> 00:53:49
			Postpartum depression for the mum.
		
00:53:51 --> 00:53:54
			Alright, postpartum depression
happens because this woman has a
		
00:53:54 --> 00:53:56
			baby usually. And they don't have
a support system around them in
		
00:53:56 --> 00:53:58
			the United States the way we live
in England, America and all these
		
00:53:58 --> 00:54:00
			places, Western countries you
don't live with like
		
00:54:04 --> 00:54:08
			many a lot of family around you.
Okay. You need you need family
		
00:54:08 --> 00:54:11
			around in this day and age in this
economy. I've tell you, you need
		
00:54:11 --> 00:54:15
			family around you. I mean, the
idea that this nuclear family is
		
00:54:15 --> 00:54:19
			an innovation in human history
that you live mom, dad and the
		
00:54:19 --> 00:54:23
			kids. It was always mom, dad, the
kids and around the village was
		
00:54:23 --> 00:54:27
			neighbors were family. You need
the support system.
		
00:54:29 --> 00:54:32
			Even financially these days, you
need the support system, who can
		
00:54:32 --> 00:54:35
			avoid everyone. Everyone now has a
home by themselves not
		
00:54:35 --> 00:54:36
			impractical.
		
00:54:37 --> 00:54:40
			Paying a babysitter every time you
want to get some breathing room.
		
00:54:40 --> 00:54:42
			It's not practical. You need a
family around you.
		
00:54:44 --> 00:54:45
			If you can, you know
		
00:54:46 --> 00:54:50
			have that. Parents are better
rested and more relaxed by the end
		
00:54:50 --> 00:54:53
			of the first week home because the
baby's more relaxed. increased
		
00:54:53 --> 00:54:57
			opportunity for skin to skin
contact contact produces all these
		
00:54:57 --> 00:54:59
			likes more stable body
temperatures.
		
00:55:00 --> 00:55:05
			All right, less crying, more
contentment, even the blood sugar
		
00:55:05 --> 00:55:09
			so somehow becomes better. Good.
		
00:55:10 --> 00:55:16
			Stress hormones decrease. These
people they have to sign defies
		
00:55:16 --> 00:55:19
			everything. There's no sense of
fitrah right? instinct tells you
		
00:55:19 --> 00:55:22
			to do this. I guess it's good
because it proves the instinct to
		
00:55:22 --> 00:55:23
			be correct.
		
00:55:25 --> 00:55:30
			Babies get exposed to the bacteria
on the mother's skin, which helps
		
00:55:30 --> 00:55:32
			the immune system and makes them
		
00:55:33 --> 00:55:38
			protects them from being sick to
other harmful germs. So all of
		
00:55:38 --> 00:55:41
			this from the skin to skin and we
got that because as the prophets I
		
00:55:41 --> 00:55:45
			said them had touched it been best
from his ears, just sick,
		
00:55:45 --> 00:55:49
			signaling to him and affection and
a love and an approval. And that's
		
00:55:49 --> 00:55:55
			where eventually essentially we
took off from there. Okay. All
		
00:55:55 --> 00:55:58
			right. Let us now go to
		
00:55:59 --> 00:56:03
			the q&a. Today, we're opening up
for q&a. And generally the topic
		
00:56:03 --> 00:56:07
			of a bad and whatever we've been
talking about. It's not a general
		
00:56:07 --> 00:56:10
			open q&a. So as if we touched up
on something you can bring up the
		
00:56:10 --> 00:56:11
			question for it.
		
00:56:13 --> 00:56:16
			We have a message from Brother
Harris. I mean, what is it?
		
00:56:19 --> 00:56:22
			Okay, we restart that I got you on
the mic now.
		
00:56:23 --> 00:56:24
			Raise your volume up a little bit
		
00:56:28 --> 00:56:32
			in the baby's mouth immediately
after birth. And they're starting
		
00:56:32 --> 00:56:36
			to realize that now putting a
bolus of sugar in the baby's mouth
		
00:56:36 --> 00:56:39
			immediately after birth of the
baby. So that's also something
		
00:56:40 --> 00:56:43
			traditionally been done for over a
century. And we're just finding
		
00:56:43 --> 00:56:44
			out that that's kind of
		
00:56:46 --> 00:56:47
			repeat because I couldn't hear
		
00:56:49 --> 00:56:49
			I'm putting a date
		
00:56:51 --> 00:56:55
			there scientifically realizing
that this is beneficial. Okay.
		
00:56:56 --> 00:57:01
			Good. So, what Harrison mean said
Is he brought another Sunnah of
		
00:57:01 --> 00:57:04
			the messenger peace be upon him,
when you when a baby's born, you
		
00:57:04 --> 00:57:06
			take a bite from a date, okay?
		
00:57:08 --> 00:57:10
			A little bite off the tip of a
date.
		
00:57:11 --> 00:57:14
			And then you rub that inside of
that date inside the mouth, and
		
00:57:14 --> 00:57:19
			the gums of the baby. And even the
tongue if you can, so that
		
00:57:19 --> 00:57:22
			immediately some sugar comes into
the mouth of the that's some of
		
00:57:22 --> 00:57:25
			the prophesy sentiment, apparently
now that's a practice. And
		
00:57:27 --> 00:57:29
			I'm sure we can find articles for
that too.
		
00:57:31 --> 00:57:35
			Muhammad mahiya Dean, my daughter
is nine years old, what is the
		
00:57:35 --> 00:57:39
			lenient position in terms of hijab
in the method do I have to mandate
		
00:57:39 --> 00:57:45
			it should not mandate it until
blue. But there is a middle period
		
00:57:45 --> 00:57:51
			between when a girl is no becomes
sensible and understands. And then
		
00:57:51 --> 00:57:56
			when she reaches blue. And in that
middle period, there may be a
		
00:57:56 --> 00:58:00
			gradation of how she dresses now,
she may no longer wear short
		
00:58:00 --> 00:58:04
			shorts, right? Or tank tops, but
at the same time not wearing a
		
00:58:04 --> 00:58:09
			job, you're gonna go through a
gradation, and then a job when the
		
00:58:09 --> 00:58:14
			time comes of blue, and maybe even
slightly before blue so that it's
		
00:58:14 --> 00:58:18
			not like Okay, tomorrow, right? So
there may be times where it goes
		
00:58:18 --> 00:58:21
			out with hijab a couple of times.
And you can ask the Muslim women
		
00:58:21 --> 00:58:23
			how they treat their daughters
with that. But I have I'm also
		
00:58:23 --> 00:58:27
			witness, right, because I have two
daughters. So my testimony is not
		
00:58:28 --> 00:58:33
			illegitimate either. It's very
legitimate testimony, right? Where
		
00:58:34 --> 00:58:37
			that's how I've seen things go. So
there's a gradation from let's
		
00:58:37 --> 00:58:42
			say, age nine, maybe two more
years, that maybe from age eight,
		
00:58:42 --> 00:58:46
			the clothing change a little bit,
right, not like the kiddie shorts
		
00:58:46 --> 00:58:49
			anymore, the tank tops will start
decreasing.
		
00:58:50 --> 00:58:51
			And then eventually,
		
00:58:52 --> 00:58:56
			they start dressing fully like
they're, you know, sisters and
		
00:58:56 --> 00:58:59
			moms if their moms wear hijab,
right and again,
		
00:59:00 --> 00:59:03
			the mother is ultimately the best
teacher in the family. She's the
		
00:59:03 --> 00:59:06
			moral source of the family.
		
00:59:07 --> 00:59:12
			Turquoise vase, I sometimes think
why not Turkish mosques, massage
		
00:59:12 --> 00:59:15
			and work like Western one. When
you ask question to Western
		
00:59:15 --> 00:59:19
			Muslims, they say that talk with
Imam if you want to marry go ask
		
00:59:19 --> 00:59:23
			Imam. When you want to find
friends go to Masjid. It is cool.
		
00:59:23 --> 00:59:25
			There are a lot of mosques here
and you can find a lot of big
		
00:59:25 --> 00:59:29
			mosque and walking distance but I
don't know why doesn't work as
		
00:59:29 --> 00:59:31
			Westerners say about their
message. I can tell you the answer
		
00:59:31 --> 00:59:32
			for turquoise vase.
		
00:59:34 --> 00:59:38
			The Masjid in America and England
in all these non Islamic countries
		
00:59:38 --> 00:59:42
			is the only place there's Islam.
These masajid are not just masajid
		
00:59:42 --> 00:59:47
			This is our OMA our community
centers. Everything is there.
		
00:59:47 --> 00:59:52
			That's why in the East it is
totally reasonable for this idea
		
00:59:52 --> 00:59:54
			that women don't go to mosques.
She doesn't need to go to the
		
00:59:54 --> 00:59:59
			masjid. She's got Islam all around
her. In the old days now it's
		
00:59:59 --> 01:00:00
			changed
		
01:00:00 --> 01:00:03
			I think all of the world now is
becoming a western world in that
		
01:00:03 --> 01:00:07
			respect, that there's no slum,
except in the mosques. But mosque
		
01:00:07 --> 01:00:10
			used to be government buildings
for the obligatory rituals and the
		
01:00:10 --> 01:00:13
			prayers. That's it. All right.
		
01:00:14 --> 01:00:17
			You can, if you want to get
married, there are people your
		
01:00:17 --> 01:00:20
			family can help you. If you need
friends. Your family circles can
		
01:00:20 --> 01:00:24
			help you with that, right? There
used to be Zoe's like private
		
01:00:24 --> 01:00:29
			centers by Sue that did not rival
the mosques. So what is his Elia
		
01:00:29 --> 01:00:34
			azalea is a sheikh he's got his
own building. It's private, right?
		
01:00:34 --> 01:00:38
			It's his it's his building. Right?
They teach classes, they do
		
01:00:38 --> 01:00:41
			everything but they do not rival
the activities of the mosque.
		
01:00:41 --> 01:00:45
			We're actually having something
like that here. Right? We have
		
01:00:45 --> 01:00:49
			this building that we're in right
now. We're in the third floor. We
		
01:00:49 --> 01:00:52
			got a second floor. We got a first
floor, we got a basement. It does
		
01:00:53 --> 01:00:58
			a lot of things, none of which
rivals the Masjid. Right. If we
		
01:00:58 --> 01:01:00
			have five prayers here, it's only
for the people that are here.
		
01:01:01 --> 01:01:04
			Right? We're not advertising it.
The anyone could eventually
		
01:01:04 --> 01:01:07
			probably people could stop by and
pray. But it's not a masjid. In
		
01:01:07 --> 01:01:10
			that sense. There's not going to
be drama here. There's not going
		
01:01:10 --> 01:01:13
			to be eight here. There's not
going to be Tada, we're here.
		
01:01:13 --> 01:01:17
			Okay. The it does not revive all
the things that the masjid does.
		
01:01:18 --> 01:01:21
			But it does what the masjid cannot
do, like have a permanent setup
		
01:01:21 --> 01:01:25
			for the studio. You did not know
the headache of having to set up
		
01:01:26 --> 01:01:29
			something every single time and
break it down every single time.
		
01:01:29 --> 01:01:30
			Right?
		
01:01:31 --> 01:01:36
			The classroom space when we have
our Mount Hood, right and our
		
01:01:36 --> 01:01:40
			seminary, it's not gonna change
the setup will remain as it is.
		
01:01:40 --> 01:01:43
			Right? You don't have to, you're
not gonna have strangers coming
		
01:01:43 --> 01:01:48
			in. Right and misusing the
building. Things like that. We're
		
01:01:48 --> 01:01:51
			gonna have people off the streets
coming to eat and coming into the
		
01:01:51 --> 01:01:54
			center. You don't want that at the
community mosque. We did that one
		
01:01:54 --> 01:01:59
			time people stuff was stolen.
Weirdos were like, Hi. All right,
		
01:01:59 --> 01:02:02
			looking at you. We like you don't
want your kid walking down the
		
01:02:02 --> 01:02:05
			hall anymore. So we're like,
that's not going to work. There's
		
01:02:05 --> 01:02:10
			a space for Dawa for online
production for
		
01:02:11 --> 01:02:15
			specialized classes that are not
for the public. Good.
		
01:02:16 --> 01:02:20
			In other words, it's for beloved
LM only it's Azalea. But it's a
		
01:02:20 --> 01:02:24
			modern Zoja with a studio with a
soup kitchen like the ancient
		
01:02:24 --> 01:02:25
			Turks used to do.
		
01:02:26 --> 01:02:33
			All right, and with a man a
madrasah in it. So in Turkey in
		
01:02:33 --> 01:02:37
			Egypt in these places. You didn't
need a community center you had
		
01:02:37 --> 01:02:42
			the whole country you had Islam
everywhere. We here only have
		
01:02:42 --> 01:02:46
			Islam within the four walls of the
mosque. So everyone needs to come
		
01:02:46 --> 01:02:48
			to the masjid that's the only
place you're gonna find Islam
		
01:02:48 --> 01:02:53
			right public place so that's why
turquoise let me know if you're
		
01:02:53 --> 01:02:56
			still here and if you understood
my question, or if you got the
		
01:02:56 --> 01:02:59
			answer because she she brought up
a very good question and that's
		
01:02:59 --> 01:02:59
			exactly what
		
01:03:04 --> 01:03:06
			Mahmud Morehead Jean, May Allah
help us with our desires. What
		
01:03:06 --> 01:03:12
			about Muslims demonizing secret
second marriages. But Western
		
01:03:12 --> 01:03:17
			culture has demonized polygamy and
made and if made public family
		
01:03:17 --> 01:03:17
			will be destroyed.
		
01:03:19 --> 01:03:21
			The liberal culture
		
01:03:23 --> 01:03:29
			if you notice, is against
everything. Family and Children.
		
01:03:30 --> 01:03:32
			Children they want to abort them.
		
01:03:34 --> 01:03:37
			Sexuality have * that doesn't
produce children.
		
01:03:38 --> 01:03:42
			Okay, * that destroys a
marriage.
		
01:03:44 --> 01:03:50
			Promote it. * work, legitimize
it, marriage make fun of it.
		
01:03:52 --> 01:03:54
			A father raising his daughter and
having a relationship with his
		
01:03:54 --> 01:03:57
			daughter and teaching his daughter
what the limits are of Islam.
		
01:03:58 --> 01:03:59
			oppression and patriarchy.
		
01:04:02 --> 01:04:03
			oppression and patriarchy if it's
my rules,
		
01:04:05 --> 01:04:07
			come and bring me my slippers. As
soon as I walk in the house,
		
01:04:07 --> 01:04:11
			scratch my back, make me a snack.
You could say fine. This is like
		
01:04:11 --> 01:04:16
			what if that happened? I'd be
like, what? It's not our culture,
		
01:04:16 --> 01:04:20
			but the rules of Allah and His
messenger. So my rules, right?
		
01:04:20 --> 01:04:23
			That's what I that's what I say in
my household. It's like, Can we do
		
01:04:23 --> 01:04:27
			this? No. Why can we do it? I
don't know. It's not my rules,
		
01:04:27 --> 01:04:30
			right? I'm just giving you who
provides us the sustenance don't
		
01:04:30 --> 01:04:34
			we live in peace with a great
amount of peace is never fighting.
		
01:04:35 --> 01:04:38
			There's never drugs. There's never
depression. Where's this peace
		
01:04:38 --> 01:04:41
			coming from? The Sakina is coming
because we follow the laws rules.
		
01:04:41 --> 01:04:45
			So Allah gives us a schema. So
whatever is in this law book of
		
01:04:45 --> 01:04:50
			the Maliki method, that's the law
of this house. Why? It's because
		
01:04:50 --> 01:04:53
			that's the law. We can look at the
wisdoms if you want. Why do we
		
01:04:53 --> 01:04:55
			have to stop at red light because
it makes sense. Okay, fine. You
		
01:04:55 --> 01:04:57
			can make sense what about to in
the morning just to stop at the
		
01:04:57 --> 01:05:00
			red light. No one's there. You
still stop at the red
		
01:05:00 --> 01:05:03
			Light, I stopped, I don't do it
anymore. I just go through the red
		
01:05:03 --> 01:05:06
			light, right? But don't tell
people that I probably wouldn't do
		
01:05:06 --> 01:05:09
			it in front of my kids either.
Because they might miss apply the
		
01:05:09 --> 01:05:12
			rule and get hit by a car, right?
Or they may misinterpret the rule
		
01:05:12 --> 01:05:14
			and do it at seven at night and
then get hit by a car. So
		
01:05:16 --> 01:05:18
			there's a lot of rules. Okay?
		
01:05:19 --> 01:05:22
			That don't make sense to you. I
don't care if it makes sense or
		
01:05:22 --> 01:05:28
			not. Why is it that water hydrates
and not coffee? Coffee dehydrates?
		
01:05:28 --> 01:05:31
			I don't know the bodies created
that like that, because that's it.
		
01:05:31 --> 01:05:34
			Who cares? Just if you need
hydration, drink water, don't
		
01:05:34 --> 01:05:37
			drink caffeine. Caffeine will
dehydrate you, water will hydrate
		
01:05:37 --> 01:05:41
			you. Do you ask why? Oh, if Allah
created the body like that, hello.
		
01:05:41 --> 01:05:45
			So that's it. So that's it. So
		
01:05:48 --> 01:05:53
			answer that question was there
against everything that is family
		
01:05:53 --> 01:05:58
			Tobia, producing children raising
children, and they want to steal
		
01:05:58 --> 01:06:03
			it from you and take it into the
schools and have the schools raise
		
01:06:03 --> 01:06:05
			your kids to schools teaching your
kids about sexuality.
		
01:06:06 --> 01:06:10
			Right? Absolute strangers can do
it you can't. Okay
		
01:06:12 --> 01:06:15
			Nothing says I posted on the
Patreon community page just to
		
01:06:16 --> 01:06:20
			check if I'm on the correct one.
Can someone confirm that it is
		
01:06:20 --> 01:06:23
			yes, we can confirm for you right
now. If we go on to our own
		
01:06:23 --> 01:06:27
			Patreon page, and see if we have a
post let's see.
		
01:06:28 --> 01:06:30
			A post let's see where
		
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			I don't see it posts.
		
01:06:36 --> 01:06:38
			Our Patreon page looks
		
01:06:40 --> 01:06:43
			like this. It says Safina society.
I don't know if you can see this.
		
01:06:43 --> 01:06:47
			It says nothing but this is one of
the prettiest
		
01:06:48 --> 01:06:53
			pages no not to like boast about
our own page. Oh, is Your Name
		
01:06:53 --> 01:06:57
			Zen? Yes. Is this the right page?
Yes, it is the right page. Let's
		
01:06:57 --> 01:07:00
			post her yes it is. Okay, so
		
01:07:01 --> 01:07:04
			that is Zen. I guess
		
01:07:05 --> 01:07:11
			her name is nothing or his name is
nothing on YouTube. Gotta wait.
		
01:07:11 --> 01:07:15
			You're not making it up. We did.
We do this skin to skin with all
		
01:07:15 --> 01:07:20
			premies Thank you very much. All
right. We got backing from a nurse
		
01:07:20 --> 01:07:24
			here. Maha Massoud I found
countless stories of life saving
		
01:07:24 --> 01:07:27
			stories of newborns thanks to skin
to skin
		
01:07:29 --> 01:07:31
			UNICEF has an article on skin to
skin
		
01:07:33 --> 01:07:35
			and it's also known as the
kangaroo method
		
01:07:39 --> 01:07:44
			Eglinton Adams says I've heard
somewhere that even when we make
		
01:07:44 --> 01:07:46
			we do and touch our bodies it has
a healing effect you know what
		
01:07:46 --> 01:07:50
			else touches you really well Allah
had already met will cure you
		
01:07:50 --> 01:07:56
			mentally cold water with us
multiple times a day will lead to
		
01:07:56 --> 01:08:01
			your mood if you're in a like a
low any upset mood you're a little
		
01:08:01 --> 01:08:06
			bit off make a wood with regular
room temperature water or cold
		
01:08:06 --> 01:08:11
			water okay if you're and then if
you're still like that make
		
01:08:11 --> 01:08:14
			another will do will do upon will
do or every time you go to the
		
01:08:14 --> 01:08:16
			bathroom make will do continue to
make will do
		
01:08:18 --> 01:08:22
			there's something physical and
spiritual. They will say to you oh
		
01:08:22 --> 01:08:25
			it's the cold water effect and we
have this guy from Iceland is
		
01:08:25 --> 01:08:29
			swearing his whole project of
health is about breathing and
		
01:08:29 --> 01:08:33
			taking cold baths okay, maybe
you're right because we have hola
		
01:08:33 --> 01:08:36
			is Rahmani Raheem. mando dunya
Rahim will occur, there is a
		
01:08:36 --> 01:08:40
			material value, and there's a
spiritual value. There's two
		
01:08:40 --> 01:08:44
			values. They're only taking the
material you benefit from that
		
01:08:44 --> 01:08:48
			good for you. But we're doing it
by the Sunnah. We're gonna get the
		
01:08:48 --> 01:08:51
			material and the spiritual value
of it.
		
01:08:53 --> 01:08:56
			Flowers star says apparently in
America, you have to pay extra for
		
01:08:56 --> 01:09:03
			skin to skin contact with my own
kid. Unreal. Unreal. Mason Haix.
		
01:09:03 --> 01:09:08
			What is the streaming schedule? If
Ryan has the streaming schedule,
		
01:09:08 --> 01:09:12
			we could put that up for a second.
No, not yet. Okay, but automatic
		
01:09:12 --> 01:09:16
			put it up Monday through Thursday
130 Eastern Standard Time. Flower
		
01:09:16 --> 01:09:21
			star says might also might be also
linked to the makeup handshake
		
01:09:21 --> 01:09:24
			teachers make children do after a
fight an argument Yes, the
		
01:09:24 --> 01:09:27
			handshake after a fight an
argument and we have the test lien
		
01:09:27 --> 01:09:33
			menorah, Majelis. So we have a
vicar for example. After the vicar
		
01:09:33 --> 01:09:36
			all the brothers come to the right
and the sisters they all come to
		
01:09:36 --> 01:09:40
			the left of the of the first
person in the Methodist let's say
		
01:09:40 --> 01:09:43
			the person sitting at the front of
the Methodist everyone comes to
		
01:09:43 --> 01:09:46
			the left and then we make a line
and we do it to Salim you're
		
01:09:46 --> 01:09:50
			making eye contact you're making
dua for Salam is dua for one
		
01:09:50 --> 01:09:52
			another and you're touching their
hands and then that person stands
		
01:09:52 --> 01:09:58
			next to you. Next person comes in
salaam, okay. And sometimes the
		
01:09:58 --> 01:10:00
			second person and he becomes the
third person
		
01:10:00 --> 01:10:02
			The next person comes sometimes
the first second and third and
		
01:10:02 --> 01:10:06
			becomes the fourth person in that
way everyone in the room salaams
		
01:10:06 --> 01:10:07
			everyone else
		
01:10:09 --> 01:10:13
			that Salam it building brings the
hearts together brings iContact
		
01:10:13 --> 01:10:17
			together and when you do it
repeatedly, eventually you say
		
01:10:17 --> 01:10:20
			well what's your name? Right? You
get to know each other. The
		
01:10:20 --> 01:10:21
			brothers do this the sisters do
that.
		
01:10:24 --> 01:10:28
			Good. Halloween to hedge it to
tacos is enough. Yes, it is
		
01:10:28 --> 01:10:32
			enough. And by the way, if you
want to improve it, recite
		
01:10:32 --> 01:10:34
			something from the Messiah recite
a page or two from the Quran,
		
01:10:34 --> 01:10:36
			three, four or five pages from the
Quran.
		
01:10:37 --> 01:10:40
			Kinda white days still put the
full term baby on the mommy's
		
01:10:40 --> 01:10:42
			tummy in Denmark. Are you from
Denmark?
		
01:10:44 --> 01:10:47
			Masha, Allah. Caitlin, Joe ham
says, If you pray all night
		
01:10:47 --> 01:10:51
			without sleeping first. It's the
same reward, but it's not the same
		
01:10:51 --> 01:10:56
			effects. When you asleep, you
erase the memories of the day, the
		
01:10:56 --> 01:11:00
			stresses of the day, you're gonna
wake up and it's as if you're, you
		
01:11:00 --> 01:11:06
			have like a metal rod like this.
And the day has made it rusty.
		
01:11:07 --> 01:11:12
			Right? So it's not going to
receive the signal as well. But
		
01:11:12 --> 01:11:16
			it's as if the night when you
sleep, you put it down you, you
		
01:11:16 --> 01:11:19
			clean it out, you put it down, and
then your wake of retention. You
		
01:11:19 --> 01:11:23
			pull it up again, and it's now
fresh. It's going to receive
		
01:11:23 --> 01:11:27
			signals that are much better. You
guys know what this is? It's our
		
01:11:27 --> 01:11:32
			shadow. Like take a look. Let's
see if you see a difference. Red
		
01:11:36 --> 01:11:36
			cayenne.
		
01:11:38 --> 01:11:43
			What is this a Cayenne when it
sort of turquoise? Green.
		
01:11:43 --> 01:11:46
			Interesting. I love this little
remote control. I like remote
		
01:11:46 --> 01:11:48
			control things. Pu what's pu
		
01:11:50 --> 01:11:50
			purple.
		
01:11:52 --> 01:11:55
			I love purple and blue. I don't
know who would do yellow. Right.
		
01:11:56 --> 01:12:00
			Green not so much. So what do you
guys say? What should we put here?
		
01:12:01 --> 01:12:01
			Yeah.
		
01:12:03 --> 01:12:03
			Throw it
		
01:12:05 --> 01:12:05
			here we go.
		
01:12:07 --> 01:12:08
			Do this. Yeah.
		
01:12:09 --> 01:12:15
			the vicarage this is it's green.
Yeah, it rotates. Oh, it rotates
		
01:12:15 --> 01:12:19
			we do a green sometimes nice but
it's one oh alternating colors.
		
01:12:19 --> 01:12:22
			Let's let's put it wrote let's
keep it on road. Should we keep it
		
01:12:22 --> 01:12:23
			on Rotate today?
		
01:12:24 --> 01:12:26
			Let's keep it on Rotate. It's
nice.
		
01:12:33 --> 01:12:39
			All right, next question comes
from Shazia 2805 at hamdulillah
		
01:12:39 --> 01:12:43
			May Allah reward us and may Allah
reward you and my love to Allah
		
01:12:43 --> 01:12:47
			keep us upon the state of humility
and a state of staying in the
		
01:12:47 --> 01:12:50
			masajid living our entire lives
and chakra of Allah subhanho wa
		
01:12:50 --> 01:12:55
			Taala with humble service to the
OMA in the masajid not just me l
		
01:12:55 --> 01:13:00
			the DUA the dropouts and all those
who who helped with that. And may
		
01:13:00 --> 01:13:03
			Allah try to increase our brother
Ryan for doing the the
		
01:13:05 --> 01:13:08
			timestamps, a lot of people talk
about how much they benefit from
		
01:13:08 --> 01:13:09
			the timestamps, right.
		
01:13:11 --> 01:13:15
			Ryan insha Allah maybe someday, as
he seeks knowledge he'll be giving
		
01:13:15 --> 01:13:18
			some of the live stream to good
		
01:13:19 --> 01:13:24
			can you advise on dua for let
restlessness due to a time of
		
01:13:24 --> 01:13:24
			trial
		
01:13:27 --> 01:13:28
			Allahumma iliamna Sobor
		
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			ask Allah for a Sabra
		
01:13:33 --> 01:13:36
			Allah made him to sub O Allah give
us the sub write
		
01:13:37 --> 01:13:41
			anything that you need go to that
direct thing for a lunch I just to
		
01:13:41 --> 01:13:42
			give you that sub.
		
01:13:44 --> 01:13:44
			What
		
01:13:46 --> 01:13:49
			are the secret? Is a beef between
Medic?
		
01:13:50 --> 01:13:54
			Medic isn't Hanafy is our briefing
on Instagram. I'm scrolling
		
01:13:54 --> 01:13:56
			through I haven't gotten there
yet. So I'm interested to see
		
01:13:56 --> 01:13:59
			we've said please take this
discussion elsewhere email.
		
01:14:00 --> 01:14:05
			We never even talked about the
HANA fights did we know I think
		
01:14:06 --> 01:14:08
			did we mentioned Hana fight law
today?
		
01:14:09 --> 01:14:15
			I saw someone asked a question.
Yeah. Why? Which which method is
		
01:14:15 --> 01:14:19
			closest to the core and which
method is closest to the Quran and
		
01:14:19 --> 01:14:22
			the Sunnah? Well the Hanafi method
is closest to the sun, not the
		
01:14:22 --> 01:14:25
			Maliki method is the sun right?
Because whereas madaket method
		
01:14:25 --> 01:14:30
			coming from Madina, Munawwara
right, and all of the LE Kufa what
		
01:14:30 --> 01:14:34
			would they love, they would love
they would consider, like
		
01:14:34 --> 01:14:36
			honorable and noble, the one who
studied in Medina.
		
01:14:37 --> 01:14:42
			No discussion on that. Red Rose
says a friend argued hijab came
		
01:14:42 --> 01:14:45
			down as one of the last
commandments and is arguing for it
		
01:14:45 --> 01:14:48
			not to be a priority when marrying
a spouse.
		
01:14:50 --> 01:14:55
			The idea that the commandments are
in order of importance based on
		
01:14:55 --> 01:14:58
			the revelation is not correct.
What's worse?
		
01:14:59 --> 01:14:59
			What's worse
		
01:15:02 --> 01:15:03
			river,
		
01:15:05 --> 01:15:11
			the river or back or backbiting?
You're gonna go to Allah with one
		
01:15:11 --> 01:15:16
			sin on your record river
backbiting which one are you
		
01:15:16 --> 01:15:16
			choosing?
		
01:15:19 --> 01:15:21
			You want neither, right? But gun
to your head, you have to make a
		
01:15:21 --> 01:15:22
			choice.
		
01:15:23 --> 01:15:24
			Right?
		
01:15:25 --> 01:15:28
			Okay, backbiting is less, right.
The prohibition of backbiting was
		
01:15:28 --> 01:15:32
			way early. The prohibition of
river was the last prohibition.
		
01:15:32 --> 01:15:38
			It's one of the worst of sins,
that the 15th methodology of red
		
01:15:38 --> 01:15:41
			rose is friend is incorrect.
		
01:15:44 --> 01:15:48
			If a job is such no big deal, then
why not do it? Right? Never see
		
01:15:48 --> 01:15:52
			this. Oh, hijab is no big deal.
Then do it then. Right? By the
		
01:15:52 --> 01:15:54
			way, I'm not a woman. So I don't
know the pressures of hijab. But
		
01:15:54 --> 01:15:58
			the logic of it's no big deal.
forget anything. Oh, it's no big
		
01:15:58 --> 01:16:02
			deal, then do it? Right. I think
if if, you know, I'm not in
		
01:16:02 --> 01:16:05
			position to give any advice. If
somebody's caught up in that
		
01:16:05 --> 01:16:06
			mindset, yeah, take him to
		
01:16:08 --> 01:16:12
			walk around and you'll see nobody
see nobody's hair some of this
		
01:16:12 --> 01:16:16
			stuff. Come back and you're not
gonna want to at some point. Yeah.
		
01:16:19 --> 01:16:22
			That's the value of the sort of
being around solder Heenan,
		
01:16:22 --> 01:16:26
			everyone's assaulted at ombre
acting like Assad at least. So you
		
01:16:26 --> 01:16:32
			get used to it. So in some Muslim
countries, non Muslims greet each
		
01:16:32 --> 01:16:35
			other by kissing each other on the
cheeks. How to avoid such a
		
01:16:35 --> 01:16:37
			situation COVID
		
01:16:39 --> 01:16:42
			cough all over them wear a mask or
tell them
		
01:16:43 --> 01:16:46
			I have a religion note, by the
way, right? And we don't do this.
		
01:16:46 --> 01:16:50
			But it's going to be you're gonna
have to treat it differently.
		
01:16:50 --> 01:16:54
			Because, you know, it is true that
some of these cultures have taken
		
01:16:54 --> 01:16:57
			on French and European greetings
where
		
01:16:58 --> 01:17:01
			like, let's say two couples are
coming to have dinner to another
		
01:17:01 --> 01:17:05
			couple. The husband, the wife of
the other guy will greet with a
		
01:17:05 --> 01:17:09
			handshake and a kiss on the cheek.
Right to the other dude.
		
01:17:10 --> 01:17:13
			It's a European culture that has
spread into the Arab world through
		
01:17:13 --> 01:17:17
			copter colonization. And they got
to figure something out.
		
01:17:19 --> 01:17:24
			Yes, ma'am. You're going to be
able to fly over from England. And
		
01:17:26 --> 01:17:30
			you know what we should do Ryan.
We also should buy a couple of the
		
01:17:30 --> 01:17:34
			apartments across the street and
make them hotels. Make one of them
		
01:17:34 --> 01:17:38
			a hotel room. Anyone in the world
wants to come bring your family
		
01:17:38 --> 01:17:42
			cheap. It'll be you know, you're
gonna pay, but not as not a lot.
		
01:17:42 --> 01:17:46
			We one thing we can't do, though.
We can't do what the Jews do in
		
01:17:46 --> 01:17:50
			Brooklyn, which is what? What's it
called? Gentrification.
		
01:17:50 --> 01:17:55
			Gentrification. Only cheap for
Muslims. Oh, yeah. That's nasty.
		
01:17:55 --> 01:18:00
			Yeah. You mean it's basically it's
oppressive. They read all the
		
01:18:00 --> 01:18:03
			prices for everybody else who
lives there. Yeah, that's lower it
		
01:18:03 --> 01:18:06
			all for the family. Yeah, that's
oppression that you end up hated?
		
01:18:06 --> 01:18:10
			Yeah. Is there predestination
agenda? Everything's everything is
		
01:18:10 --> 01:18:11
			in Allah's knowledge.
		
01:18:12 --> 01:18:15
			Which men have is more in line
with the authentic sunnah. That's
		
01:18:15 --> 01:18:21
			it is the question that brought up
the beef. What are the benefits of
		
01:18:21 --> 01:18:26
			weds Latif? It protects you from
hazard of people it protects it
		
01:18:26 --> 01:18:30
			helps forgive sins, it strengthens
your your Amen and your your your
		
01:18:30 --> 01:18:34
			leaf and Allah. It gives you the
rewards of all the earth god and
		
01:18:34 --> 01:18:38
			it protects you from it protects
you from a lot of bad things.
		
01:18:41 --> 01:18:45
			Carla White says she's not a nurse
but a mom of two premiums. So
		
01:18:45 --> 01:18:51
			that's how she knows about the
skin to skin. All right, Imam Abu
		
01:18:51 --> 01:18:56
			Hanifa is the name of the Lincoln
that's where their dispute is.
		
01:18:56 --> 01:19:03
			Yes, all the muda hip are valid to
be followed. Okay. And it is just
		
01:19:03 --> 01:19:08
			of merely joking. In a halal way
when we say one is better than the
		
01:19:08 --> 01:19:11
			other. Okay. We don't come who are
we to compare the
		
01:19:12 --> 01:19:17
			Abu Hanifa a medic and Chevy and
Ahmed Zipit who are you? You don't
		
01:19:17 --> 01:19:22
			even know how to make will do
until two weeks ago. Okay. So we
		
01:19:22 --> 01:19:25
			don't compare between the Imams
and if anyone does it's just like
		
01:19:25 --> 01:19:27
			a mere just okay
		
01:19:31 --> 01:19:33
			why wow she's almost a nurse
because she had to stay in the
		
01:19:33 --> 01:19:36
			hospital for two months for each
kid. You know those kids sometimes
		
01:19:36 --> 01:19:38
			they have some kind of a bucket to
them because everyone's making out
		
01:19:38 --> 01:19:41
			for them. You know that like
whenever a baby's born and
		
01:19:41 --> 01:19:43
			straight in the hospital, the
whole community whole family is
		
01:19:43 --> 01:19:48
			making dua for them. Okay, they
that's a Baraka because they have
		
01:19:48 --> 01:19:53
			that DeWanna regular baby gonna
have that drop. So should we redo
		
01:19:53 --> 01:19:57
			our Salah if we forget to receive
it recite a sutra After Effects
		
01:19:57 --> 01:19:59
			and one of the first two Rakas you
need to do
		
01:20:00 --> 01:20:00
			In
		
01:20:02 --> 01:20:08
			such the day, a sell to sujood.
So, after when you remember, but
		
01:20:08 --> 01:20:13
			if a long time has passed, okay?
And then call us it's it's past,
		
01:20:14 --> 01:20:19
			but in the future if you forget
the sutra, after Fatiha, you owe
		
01:20:19 --> 01:20:21
			to Soho before you Salam al
		
01:20:22 --> 01:20:23
			All right.
		
01:20:25 --> 01:20:30
			Nothing says also wanted to say I
always watch the stream later on
		
01:20:30 --> 01:20:32
			but I hope to still get the reward
of being in the gathering
		
01:20:32 --> 01:20:37
			Mashallah. And we want to come to
the UK, we would love to come to
		
01:20:37 --> 01:20:41
			the UK. I want to come to the UK.
I also want to go to Singapore. I
		
01:20:41 --> 01:20:45
			was scheduled to go for Singapore,
a tour in Singapore, Singapore, as
		
01:20:45 --> 01:20:47
			the Arabs call it Singapore that
		
01:20:49 --> 01:20:54
			were COVID hit in March. So that
canceled the whole summer tour.
		
01:20:55 --> 01:20:58
			But I really want to go to
Singapore and Indonesia and
		
01:20:58 --> 01:21:02
			Malaysia. Now single fora is a
state in Malaysia, but it was so
		
01:21:02 --> 01:21:07
			successful that it cut themselves
off from the rest of Malaysia from
		
01:21:07 --> 01:21:09
			not mistaken about it's Malaysia
it's connected to Malaysia and I
		
01:21:09 --> 01:21:13
			think Indonesia is separate use of
sets can you explain in detail how
		
01:21:13 --> 01:21:16
			we can make for Miss tahajud if
you missed 100 You prayed again in
		
01:21:16 --> 01:21:20
			the morning, you pray what you
were routinely praying you pray
		
01:21:20 --> 01:21:21
			that in the morning.
		
01:21:23 --> 01:21:28
			App workflow says was Maria Katya
Mohammed's wife, please answer
		
01:21:28 --> 01:21:30
			yes, say Jill Conan.
		
01:21:32 --> 01:21:34
			He freed her and to graduate.
		
01:21:35 --> 01:21:39
			She was given to him as a gift a
slave woman that was a thing in
		
01:21:39 --> 01:21:41
			the past. And then he freed her
and made her with
		
01:21:42 --> 01:21:46
			Solomon how to reconcile the fact
of repentance at any time. Is this
		
01:21:46 --> 01:21:50
			an encouraged to sin now and
repent later? The only repentance
		
01:21:50 --> 01:21:54
			that is not accepted is the
planned repentance. Okay, let me
		
01:21:54 --> 01:21:58
			go out with this girl. And I'll
make Toba next year. I'm going for
		
01:21:58 --> 01:22:03
			Ramona in December. That gives me
some leeway to have some fun in
		
01:22:03 --> 01:22:07
			November. Right? That's the
repentance that is considered a
		
01:22:07 --> 01:22:08
			mockery of the dean and it's not
allowed.
		
01:22:11 --> 01:22:16
			Licks says, Do you guys allow
donations on YouTube? I didn't
		
01:22:16 --> 01:22:19
			know that was a thing. But no,
only on Patreon. But if it's a
		
01:22:19 --> 01:22:21
			thing on YouTube, we'll figure it
out.
		
01:22:22 --> 01:22:26
			Flower star Subhanallah exactly
why I want to homeschool, the fit
		
01:22:26 --> 01:22:29
			and I'm witnessing my younger
siblings and cousins go through
		
01:22:29 --> 01:22:32
			this crazy if we didn't have a
summer school at homeschool, and
		
01:22:32 --> 01:22:35
			my version homeschool would be
different. It will be a lot of
		
01:22:35 --> 01:22:39
			hands on. It would be let's say
you wake up from nine to one you
		
01:22:39 --> 01:22:43
			do subjects read a bunch of books
do a bunch of math problems. I'll
		
01:22:43 --> 01:22:45
			get you a math tutor. You take a
break.
		
01:22:47 --> 01:22:51
			After that, I'm going to call each
of my friends. Hey, can my kid
		
01:22:51 --> 01:22:54
			work in your restaurant? In your
doctor's office free labor? I want
		
01:22:54 --> 01:22:58
			him to see professionals. I want
him to know Okay, a doctor's
		
01:22:58 --> 01:23:01
			office. This is what it's like a
dentist office. This is what it's
		
01:23:01 --> 01:23:05
			like a restaurant, this is what
it's like a gas station, this is
		
01:23:05 --> 01:23:08
			what it's like. And it's good for
the economy free labor for all
		
01:23:08 --> 01:23:13
			these people. Right? So I want
them to see. And that will also
		
01:23:13 --> 01:23:15
			help them choose, hey, I want to
do this when I grow up.
		
01:23:16 --> 01:23:20
			I want to be that job when I grow
up. Right. So that's that would be
		
01:23:20 --> 01:23:24
			my version of homeschooling.
Unfortunately, the state has these
		
01:23:24 --> 01:23:28
			like ridiculous minutes, 55.5
hours of geography
		
01:23:31 --> 01:23:34
			60 hours of English, why can't
geography and English be one
		
01:23:34 --> 01:23:38
			subject? Right? Read the story of
Ibn Battuta. I went from Morocco,
		
01:23:38 --> 01:23:42
			then to Algeria, then to Africa,
then tomorrow. That's geography,
		
01:23:42 --> 01:23:45
			isn't it? Alright, history and
English? How are they different?
		
01:23:46 --> 01:23:48
			Why should they be different? I
understand English may be slightly
		
01:23:48 --> 01:23:51
			different from history at some
points. Sometimes it can overlap.
		
01:23:52 --> 01:23:56
			Right? Education to me is reading
a bunch of reading as much as you
		
01:23:56 --> 01:23:59
			can, and doing as much math
problems as you can. Because what
		
01:23:59 --> 01:24:02
			they do is like it's like maths
education, you need to do that
		
01:24:02 --> 01:24:07
			just exactly, exactly. It's fine.
And then it's also what happens if
		
01:24:07 --> 01:24:09
			I have a kid who,
		
01:24:10 --> 01:24:13
			at a certain point in time is
become obsessed with a certain
		
01:24:13 --> 01:24:17
			book. Why don't we go with it?
Right? Well, we'll make up the
		
01:24:17 --> 01:24:20
			math hours later on in the year.
All right, but go with it, go deep
		
01:24:20 --> 01:24:24
			into it, and then come back out
for math instead of cutting his
		
01:24:24 --> 01:24:27
			interest because it's a factory
cutting the cookies like this,
		
01:24:28 --> 01:24:34
			right? So there has to be a little
bit of an enforced balance. But
		
01:24:34 --> 01:24:36
			there also should need to be
breathing room. That's that would
		
01:24:36 --> 01:24:41
			be my version of homeschooling.
Right? There would probably also
		
01:24:41 --> 01:24:46
			be a lot of blood pressure. Having
all these kids around, probably
		
01:24:46 --> 01:24:48
			couldn't do the stream. And if I
did the stream, you know what I've
		
01:24:48 --> 01:24:51
			admitted that they will be
working. Right? I'd make them
		
01:24:51 --> 01:24:54
			attend the stream working vacuum.
Right. Set up the cushions. Learn
		
01:24:54 --> 01:24:57
			how the mic works. Learn what
Ryan's job is. Learn what I'm
		
01:24:57 --> 01:24:59
			saying here, right now.
		
01:25:00 --> 01:25:02
			Maybe I had my daughter come the
other day and she was reading off
		
01:25:02 --> 01:25:07
			the questions till she vomited or
that flower star
		
01:25:08 --> 01:25:11
			she said we answered We talked
about that homeschooling Solomon
		
01:25:11 --> 01:25:14
			says what is your advice for those
who are trying their best to not
		
01:25:14 --> 01:25:17
			commit sins but are still not
satisfied because they're not
		
01:25:17 --> 01:25:21
			fitting in are living their lives
like others?
		
01:25:23 --> 01:25:27
			answer to your question is you
need companions. You can't try to
		
01:25:27 --> 01:25:29
			practice his Deen by yourself is
gonna be too much pressure. You
		
01:25:29 --> 01:25:35
			need friends who are also not
doing this the sense so that it
		
01:25:35 --> 01:25:38
			helps you gives you support,
right? You need to go to the
		
01:25:38 --> 01:25:42
			masjid and make yourself a little
crew. Find a little crew of pious
		
01:25:42 --> 01:25:44
			kids that are just like you youth
		
01:25:45 --> 01:25:48
			and hang out with them. They'll
give you support let's go to Insta
		
01:25:49 --> 01:25:52
			Imam and book it according to
Muhammad Massoud never was seen
		
01:25:52 --> 01:25:57
			without will do Subhanallah
amazing, amazing reef says the
		
01:25:57 --> 01:26:03
			surah is sunnah Malacca. So you do
a cuddly to learn up sign up to
		
01:26:03 --> 01:26:06
			our medically fit class. Yes, we
have a medically fit class, which
		
01:26:06 --> 01:26:10
			we start up again next Tuesday.
But in the online, what is the
		
01:26:10 --> 01:26:15
			company? Our company is so sujood
so who? To sujood? Before salaam
		
01:26:15 --> 01:26:17
			Kabul, before Sinha
		
01:26:18 --> 01:26:22
			Sarcone How do you deal with pride
from excessive praise praising you
		
01:26:22 --> 01:26:24
			on your knowledge and
articulation?
		
01:26:25 --> 01:26:29
			If someone praises you so much,
you realize that that person is
		
01:26:29 --> 01:26:33
			praising you relative to somebody
else? And you know, other people
		
01:26:33 --> 01:26:37
			who do 10 times better than you?
Right? Like those MSA kids who
		
01:26:37 --> 01:26:41
			said how do we avoid RIA
		
01:26:42 --> 01:26:44
			After organizing these events?
		
01:26:46 --> 01:26:50
			First time I ever saw you speaker
two years ago, I just became
		
01:26:50 --> 01:26:54
			Muslim. I told them but uh yet
from what what did you guys do?
		
01:26:54 --> 01:26:58
			Exactly? You invited a couple
people by email and text and you
		
01:26:58 --> 01:27:01
			put out some chairs and the rest
of the time you spent making
		
01:27:01 --> 01:27:04
			excuse to flirt with the sisters.
So what's the real there? Right?
		
01:27:04 --> 01:27:07
			You have done anything. So by
comparison
		
01:27:09 --> 01:27:12
			you know, that's why I love
created the likes of mmm and Noah
		
01:27:12 --> 01:27:12
			we
		
01:27:13 --> 01:27:18
			for scholars who are what are you
even in compact? You can if you
		
01:27:18 --> 01:27:21
			read his works in your lifetime?
That's an achievement. Imagine the
		
01:27:21 --> 01:27:26
			one who wrote them. Anyone? Oh,
I'm doing Dawa. What about all the
		
01:27:26 --> 01:27:29
			people who the entire country of
Indonesia entered Islam under
		
01:27:29 --> 01:27:30
			them?
		
01:27:31 --> 01:27:33
			And you're happy because you got
to shudders.
		
01:27:34 --> 01:27:36
			So comparison, we've done nothing.
		
01:27:37 --> 01:27:41
			We haven't. I was in I was in this
meeting the other day. Yeah. And
		
01:27:41 --> 01:27:43
			like I always had this
perspective, like, anytime someone
		
01:27:43 --> 01:27:46
			that compliments you or anything,
you have to be like, Oh, I don't
		
01:27:46 --> 01:27:51
			deserve this. That's like part of
it. But my friend mentioned like,
		
01:27:51 --> 01:27:53
			how often do we make dua that
Allah preserves these
		
01:27:53 --> 01:27:57
			characteristics for us, we have to
say, May Allah make it true? And
		
01:27:57 --> 01:28:01
			keep it true? And keep us humble?
Right? Relative to you may be a
		
01:28:01 --> 01:28:06
			big deal. Right? That, and I
remember a time that we weren't
		
01:28:06 --> 01:28:09
			always religious. I remember that
first year of starting to go to
		
01:28:09 --> 01:28:14
			massage and stuff. Anyone who had
a beard, I looked up to them like
		
01:28:14 --> 01:28:17
			this, right? Because we didn't
have beards in our family. Right?
		
01:28:17 --> 01:28:20
			We didn't have a job in our
family. Anyone who had wore hijab,
		
01:28:20 --> 01:28:24
			like the woman, she wears that
outside the house, right? We
		
01:28:24 --> 01:28:28
			looked up to them, like the
biggest deal in the world. Right?
		
01:28:28 --> 01:28:32
			Would it possibly ever be a day
where we're like that right?
		
01:28:33 --> 01:28:39
			Family with beards and hijab and
prays out loud, right? And read
		
01:28:39 --> 01:28:44
			the Quran. That's how it was. And
then you did that, and you
		
01:28:44 --> 01:28:46
			couldn't believe you're doing it.
And then all of a sudden, three
		
01:28:46 --> 01:28:49
			years later, you're accustomed to
it all. It's normal now, then you
		
01:28:49 --> 01:28:50
			meet a scholar.
		
01:28:52 --> 01:28:55
			And you're like, is it possible
one day that we could say Abu
		
01:28:55 --> 01:28:58
			Hanifa said this, and Bukhari says
this and this hadith, but Malik
		
01:28:58 --> 01:29:01
			says that, so intimidating, right?
		
01:29:02 --> 01:29:05
			Then you keep going, keep going
with them. That one day you're
		
01:29:05 --> 01:29:10
			doing that, right. And then you've
seen the solder Hain who have
		
01:29:10 --> 01:29:14
			transcended their sins and they
pray at night. You're like, man,
		
01:29:14 --> 01:29:17
			that's never be like that. Right?
You keep hanging out with them,
		
01:29:17 --> 01:29:20
			then Allah makes you one of them.
So it's always like that climbing
		
01:29:20 --> 01:29:21
			up and up and up and up.
		
01:29:22 --> 01:29:25
			All right, next question says.
		
01:29:32 --> 01:29:33
			Next question is a
		
01:29:35 --> 01:29:36
			lot of questions coming in here.
		
01:29:47 --> 01:29:49
			Self is, I was winner.
		
01:29:50 --> 01:29:53
			They have far too many
contradictions themselves. Yes, of
		
01:29:53 --> 01:29:56
			course they do. There's an epic
Arpita
		
01:29:58 --> 01:30:00
			post about the different
		
01:30:00 --> 01:30:02
			The things they all contradict
themselves.
		
01:30:03 --> 01:30:08
			We don't study with selfies. We
don't even have selfies and MBSE.
		
01:30:11 --> 01:30:12
			Next,
		
01:30:14 --> 01:30:19
			and if they are, by the way they
like they'd like us to add MBSE as
		
01:30:19 --> 01:30:23
			we have added, with our elders, if
they're Salafi, we have added with
		
01:30:23 --> 01:30:25
			their elders we don't make
assumptions we don't get in their
		
01:30:25 --> 01:30:30
			face. We don't look down on them.
That's why they like us at MBSE
		
01:30:30 --> 01:30:31
			even when they come
		
01:30:32 --> 01:30:34
			what is the Hadith about entering
the empty the house and saying
		
01:30:34 --> 01:30:38
			salaam the prophesy centum said if
you enter your house, a man said O
		
01:30:38 --> 01:30:42
			Messenger of Allah, I want to be
rich prophesy sentences enter your
		
01:30:42 --> 01:30:45
			house say a cetera and why they
come, whether someone's in the
		
01:30:45 --> 01:30:48
			house or not in the house, and
then recycled who Allah had. The
		
01:30:48 --> 01:30:51
			man said, I did that within a
short time. I had a lot of wealth
		
01:30:51 --> 01:30:52
			and even had to give some to my
neighbors.
		
01:30:54 --> 01:30:57
			Gotta wait says we ever come to
Oakville, Canada? Where's that?
		
01:30:57 --> 01:31:01
			Alberta? Nuts? Sounds like it's
Ontario, right?
		
01:31:05 --> 01:31:08
			Okay, um
		
01:31:10 --> 01:31:12
			next question here.
		
01:31:13 --> 01:31:18
			Tsar Cody and reef are discussing
and Abu Hanifa are discussing.
		
01:31:19 --> 01:31:22
			Some just some things are never
says tips and improving your
		
01:31:22 --> 01:31:24
			relationship with your parents
smile at them.
		
01:31:26 --> 01:31:29
			Every time you make eye contact,
smile at them. You think it's
		
01:31:29 --> 01:31:31
			weird in the beginning? So what?
		
01:31:33 --> 01:31:36
			Every time they make eye contact,
smile at them. Never bring up a
		
01:31:36 --> 01:31:40
			subject in which you differ. Don't
bring up any subject in which
		
01:31:40 --> 01:31:42
			there's argumentation or
difference of opinion.
		
01:31:44 --> 01:31:47
			Abby Kay, I have a question. It
might come off random. But you
		
01:31:47 --> 01:31:50
			talked about Olia and miracles,
have you witnessed any and
		
01:31:50 --> 01:31:53
			happened to yourself? I think from
the miracles
		
01:31:54 --> 01:31:59
			that I would say that I had
witnessed was a number of us at a
		
01:31:59 --> 01:32:04
			certain we were all like 1819 20
years old. And we had no money,
		
01:32:04 --> 01:32:08
			like to have our own no autonomy
of our own. And we wanted to go
		
01:32:08 --> 01:32:09
			visit these odia.
		
01:32:11 --> 01:32:13
			And we all had this sincere
intention. But a lot of us didn't
		
01:32:13 --> 01:32:17
			have the means some people didn't
have their parents permission. And
		
01:32:17 --> 01:32:20
			some people just didn't have the
money. But we all were able to
		
01:32:20 --> 01:32:24
			make it and I find and the
chances, the chances were
		
01:32:24 --> 01:32:28
			extremely bleak. I'll tell you one
example, I was applied to go to a
		
01:32:28 --> 01:32:30
			trip to Morocco to study.
		
01:32:31 --> 01:32:35
			And I'm waiting and waiting and
waiting and didn't get any
		
01:32:39 --> 01:32:42
			response from them at all. And I
just waiting and waiting and
		
01:32:42 --> 01:32:46
			waiting. And finally, and this was
all the old days before email,
		
01:32:47 --> 01:32:50
			phone and mail Papermill
		
01:32:51 --> 01:32:54
			I was working in the hospital and
a guy pulled me over he saw a
		
01:32:54 --> 01:32:57
			little Quran that I had. And he
pulled me over. And he starts
		
01:32:57 --> 01:33:01
			preaching Christianity to me. And
I start talking to him back. I
		
01:33:01 --> 01:33:06
			call a convert friend of mine who
was involved in this trip to
		
01:33:06 --> 01:33:06
			Morocco.
		
01:33:09 --> 01:33:13
			And he said, Oh my gosh, we have
been looking for you. You wrote
		
01:33:13 --> 01:33:17
			your phone number wrong on the
application. Today's the last day
		
01:33:17 --> 01:33:21
			the passports are going out.
Right. I called him to ask him
		
01:33:21 --> 01:33:24
			about this dowel question. He said
you wrote your phone number on,
		
01:33:24 --> 01:33:28
			we've been trying to reach you, we
can't reach you. Today's the last
		
01:33:28 --> 01:33:31
			day. All right for you to get
accepted to this program. To me,
		
01:33:31 --> 01:33:34
			that's like a little act of a
major act of generosity from
		
01:33:34 --> 01:33:39
			Allah, not cut off in the sense of
gravity was reversed or something
		
01:33:39 --> 01:33:44
			like that. Right. But to me, that
was divine intervention. And I
		
01:33:44 --> 01:33:46
			never saw that Christian guy
again. He was just another worker
		
01:33:46 --> 01:33:51
			in the hospital, right? I never
saw him again. But he said, Forget
		
01:33:51 --> 01:33:54
			this Christian conversation.
You're about to miss your spot.
		
01:33:54 --> 01:33:58
			This is the literally the last
day, right? And the visas are
		
01:33:58 --> 01:34:01
			gonna go out and you're not and
the plane tickets are going to be
		
01:34:01 --> 01:34:04
			purchasing, you know, you're gonna
miss the trip. So I immediately
		
01:34:04 --> 01:34:08
			called the organizer clarified
everything. All right. And then I
		
01:34:08 --> 01:34:11
			was able to make it on the trip to
me. That's one of the things that
		
01:34:12 --> 01:34:12
			I would say.
		
01:34:14 --> 01:34:16
			And certain things where
		
01:34:20 --> 01:34:23
			where you go to somebody for help?
And the answer your question
		
01:34:23 --> 01:34:26
			before you ask the question. This
has happened a number of times,
		
01:34:27 --> 01:34:30
			you go to a chef for an issue. He
answers your question before you
		
01:34:30 --> 01:34:32
			even asked it happens to a lot of
people
		
01:34:34 --> 01:34:37
			hanging out with these Sheoak
enough you'll see but have a class
		
01:34:37 --> 01:34:41
			and don't look for the Kurama just
have Nicholas you'll see the
		
01:34:41 --> 01:34:44
			comments here I remember at that
one decode when I tell a long
		
01:34:44 --> 01:34:47
			story of the prophesy Salam and
the youth were having an event in
		
01:34:47 --> 01:34:51
			the back room they were watching
like Nemo or something. Yeah. And
		
01:34:51 --> 01:34:54
			right when I was about to say like
what actually happened. I was like
		
01:34:54 --> 01:34:59
			and the prophets I said to him
said and in the back room in the
		
01:34:59 --> 01:34:59
			gym
		
01:35:00 --> 01:35:07
			The movie aligned to the suspense
beat. Dun, dun, dun. Right? It was
		
01:35:07 --> 01:35:11
			so loud. Everyone heard it and we
all got goosebumps, right? That's
		
01:35:11 --> 01:35:13
			the bulk of talking about the
Prophet sallallahu. And he was
		
01:35:15 --> 01:35:20
			read Sheikh says, Why are a lot of
ex Muslims from Muslim countries,
		
01:35:22 --> 01:35:28
			but not the non Muslims, the X
Muslims. The Dawa has been so
		
01:35:28 --> 01:35:30
			corrupted in Islamic countries,
		
01:35:31 --> 01:35:34
			especially in Saudi Arabia when
they're peddling a doctrine that
		
01:35:34 --> 01:35:38
			is rejected by Allah. And as a
result, the sweetness of Eman is
		
01:35:38 --> 01:35:40
			not entering into the hearts of
people.
		
01:35:41 --> 01:35:46
			That's the reason Iran and Saudi
Arabia, they both promote
		
01:35:47 --> 01:35:51
			doctrines and unacceptable as
Edison. This Sakina the sweetness
		
01:35:51 --> 01:35:54
			of men does not enter there with a
doctrine is invalid like that.
		
01:35:55 --> 01:35:58
			Bolted like that. So the kids are
getting dry. Amen.
		
01:35:59 --> 01:36:03
			So they rejected atheism is on the
rise. And it's been said a study
		
01:36:03 --> 01:36:05
			one of these studies that
		
01:36:06 --> 01:36:09
			the two countries that are on the
fastest route to absolute
		
01:36:09 --> 01:36:13
			secularism, like England and
America, and France and Germany,
		
01:36:14 --> 01:36:17
			Saudi Arabia and Iran, the two
countries that are furthest from
		
01:36:17 --> 01:36:18
			medicine.
		
01:36:20 --> 01:36:24
			It's like Christians here. Yeah,
everybody. Like is like an ex
		
01:36:24 --> 01:36:27
			Christian like, Oh, I was born
Christian. But now Yeah, exactly.
		
01:36:28 --> 01:36:32
			Everybody that calls himself a
Christian is drinking alcohol. And
		
01:36:32 --> 01:36:34
			they do it they all they have like
to divorce, they have all these
		
01:36:34 --> 01:36:38
			like, issues, negative things in
their life. It's, it's, yeah,
		
01:36:38 --> 01:36:42
			you're bound to leave. And it's
like in this, anybody, any person
		
01:36:42 --> 01:36:44
			who was born and most of them,
they're not gonna, they're gonna
		
01:36:44 --> 01:36:47
			stop identifying as the most. So
take the goofy off 100% Right
		
01:36:47 --> 01:36:51
			here. And what keeps you first
person in a slump. Knowledge is
		
01:36:51 --> 01:36:56
			the foundation base. companionship
is the security guards. But
		
01:36:56 --> 01:37:00
			ultimately, the reason you're in
the house is it feels good, right?
		
01:37:01 --> 01:37:06
			The path of purification of our
souls to so Wolf and vicar brings
		
01:37:06 --> 01:37:11
			honey into your heart, wallet all
the money, right? And you could
		
01:37:11 --> 01:37:14
			literally say I can say nothing
other than pure honey is entering
		
01:37:14 --> 01:37:16
			inside of my heart when I do this
thicker. And when I do this,
		
01:37:17 --> 01:37:20
			that's the product we have to
offer people. You'd never trade
		
01:37:20 --> 01:37:23
			that in. And then you realize Hold
on. When I listened to music that
		
01:37:23 --> 01:37:26
			honey, I can't taste it anymore.
Stop listening to music not
		
01:37:26 --> 01:37:32
			because just because a fifth and
fetch Well, no, because of
		
01:37:32 --> 01:37:35
			experience. If you touch
something, a hot stove, you get
		
01:37:35 --> 01:37:40
			burned. What do you do? Stop
touching a hot stove. If you eat a
		
01:37:40 --> 01:37:44
			beautiful Rita's ice cream, you
got readers in England. Ice with
		
01:37:44 --> 01:37:49
			the cream on top, on a hot summer
day, and especially when the ice
		
01:37:49 --> 01:37:54
			starts melting a little bit into
the cream. Right? Oh my gosh, this
		
01:37:54 --> 01:37:57
			was so good. What are you going to
do the next day by another
		
01:37:57 --> 01:38:01
			readers? Right? Because it feels
good. When you drink coffee in the
		
01:38:01 --> 01:38:04
			morning first thing and you're
like, Wow, I feel like zapped like
		
01:38:04 --> 01:38:08
			I'm on Hillel drugs. What are you
going to do? Buy another cup of
		
01:38:08 --> 01:38:12
			coffee, right? It feels good.
We're human beings. We're animals
		
01:38:12 --> 01:38:17
			at some point. This vicar, Allah
subhanaw taala and purify your ego
		
01:38:17 --> 01:38:22
			so that the vicar can come in,
right? It's like honey is coming
		
01:38:22 --> 01:38:27
			into my heart. That's what's gonna
keep us in a slump. Right? That's
		
01:38:27 --> 01:38:29
			what's gonna keep us going. And
that's what's gonna keep the kids
		
01:38:29 --> 01:38:34
			in go and not just knowledge and
discipline. No. Knowledge and
		
01:38:34 --> 01:38:37
			discipline doesn't do enough. It's
definitely part of the process.
		
01:38:38 --> 01:38:39
			What is Americana?
		
01:38:40 --> 01:38:44
			Americana? Is these awesome
cultural things we've exported to
		
01:38:44 --> 01:38:50
			the world. McDonald's, Coca Cola,
Michael Jordan, NBA, right,
		
01:38:50 --> 01:38:55
			Hollywood. That's Americana.
People love it. Good. What is
		
01:38:55 --> 01:39:00
			backing it? Nice thing called the
US military, right. But the US
		
01:39:00 --> 01:39:05
			military is not why people at
least in the 1980s and 90s. craved
		
01:39:05 --> 01:39:10
			America when I went to Egypt. Oh
my goodness. The kids I'm talking
		
01:39:10 --> 01:39:15
			to 80s ran to my luggage, opened
it up to look at American stuff.
		
01:39:15 --> 01:39:20
			ran into my luggage. Look at the
shorts. Look at his sneakers. This
		
01:39:20 --> 01:39:23
			is before exporting really got
there. Right.
		
01:39:24 --> 01:39:26
			And they would go and we were just
like the regular Egyptian families
		
01:39:26 --> 01:39:29
			go to my sister's? Oh, look at
this cassette. Who is this? Billy
		
01:39:29 --> 01:39:33
			Joelle? Right. Who is this mic?
And they will be? Where's your
		
01:39:33 --> 01:39:36
			Michael Jackson? Do you have
Michael Jackson's cassettes? They
		
01:39:36 --> 01:39:43
			loved Americana, right? So it's a
love. It's a feeling. This Dean
		
01:39:43 --> 01:39:47
			has a product and the product is
what people are truly seeking
		
01:39:47 --> 01:39:52
			after Sakina it's not just again,
its sweetness, its energy. You
		
01:39:52 --> 01:39:56
			wake you come out after the sick,
right? You just feel like you're
		
01:39:56 --> 01:39:58
			glowing and you want this glow to
spread on everyone else and you
		
01:39:58 --> 01:40:00
			want to just tell everyone
		
01:40:00 --> 01:40:02
			You love them. That's how the
sweetness you feel inside
		
01:40:02 --> 01:40:07
			yourself. And that's the result of
falling our shoe, purifying our
		
01:40:07 --> 01:40:09
			egos and doing
		
01:40:10 --> 01:40:14
			any dollar that does not have a
heavy heavy heavy molasses. Right?
		
01:40:14 --> 01:40:18
			You ever see a kid pour syrup on
their waffles, right pouring it
		
01:40:18 --> 01:40:25
			on, right? That's how our the code
has to be. Pour it on. No
		
01:40:25 --> 01:40:29
			hesitation every day that could
one run one of our agendas. We
		
01:40:29 --> 01:40:32
			have to take it everyday. Now we
have two buildings. Right? We got
		
01:40:32 --> 01:40:35
			this is Alia. And we got MBSE. And
one thing that we could share
		
01:40:35 --> 01:40:39
			between them as they occur. Monday
we have monday, wednesday the code
		
01:40:39 --> 01:40:42
			here. We have Thursday at the
masjid we have every other Friday
		
01:40:42 --> 01:40:43
			at the masjid.
		
01:40:44 --> 01:40:48
			We had three Buddhism nights last
week, we need to pile on the vicar
		
01:40:48 --> 01:40:51
			like you've never imagined and I'm
telling you
		
01:40:53 --> 01:40:54
			the happiest thing that I've ever
seen
		
01:40:56 --> 01:40:59
			high schoolers and you know high
school is they turned dark. Right?
		
01:40:59 --> 01:41:05
			When kid goes ice with turns dark.
High schoolers come up to me. Once
		
01:41:05 --> 01:41:09
			the next day or night I need a
dose. Right? I need my dosage
		
01:41:09 --> 01:41:09
			right?
		
01:41:10 --> 01:41:13
			When's the next thicker night and
I'm looking at them well, light
		
01:41:15 --> 01:41:19
			12/10 grade 11th grade ninth
grade. I'm looking at them in the
		
01:41:19 --> 01:41:24
			vicar circle. He's gone. He's got
his eyes shut a high schooler. And
		
01:41:24 --> 01:41:26
			you those these kids are into
something else. A high school is
		
01:41:26 --> 01:41:31
			got his Aisha doing this because
He's God that's coming down that
		
01:41:31 --> 01:41:35
			vicar right. That's what we need
Subhanallah them. Anybody can do
		
01:41:35 --> 01:41:40
			that. Do a lot of it. You get good
at it. And learn just as you learn
		
01:41:40 --> 01:41:42
			to be in mo Salah learn to be mm
of the
		
01:41:44 --> 01:41:48
			spine, a lot of the that's that's
our product. And that's why where
		
01:41:48 --> 01:41:51
			they don't have that you have
apostasy in my book, you only
		
01:41:51 --> 01:41:56
			really have to two lanes, there's
only two lanes. If you're in the
		
01:41:56 --> 01:41:59
			middle. I don't like the middle, I
cannot stay in the middle. It's
		
01:41:59 --> 01:42:02
			either alcohol drugs and Las
Vegas.
		
01:42:04 --> 01:42:07
			Or Wall Street if you're smart,
right?
		
01:42:09 --> 01:42:12
			Or is to sell off earlier.
		
01:42:13 --> 01:42:19
			MBA Shediac. All right, there's
only two paths, the middle to me,
		
01:42:19 --> 01:42:21
			you're shortchanging yourself,
you're coward. If you're in the
		
01:42:21 --> 01:42:24
			middle, pick one and go that path
all the way.
		
01:42:26 --> 01:42:30
			You cannot have a society except
that it has faith or alcohol.
		
01:42:31 --> 01:42:33
			Because you guys don't might not
know because you're young, you're
		
01:42:33 --> 01:42:38
			gonna hit 3040. And life is going
to start hitting you in different
		
01:42:38 --> 01:42:42
			capacities, right, your body
starts changing, your hormones
		
01:42:42 --> 01:42:45
			start changing, people get
depressed, you're either gonna go
		
01:42:45 --> 01:42:49
			your outlet is going to be a man,
you're either going to respond to
		
01:42:49 --> 01:42:51
			this by digging deep and having
you met or you're going to respond
		
01:42:51 --> 01:42:58
			to this by alcohol. Okay. And that
middle life that most people are
		
01:42:58 --> 01:43:02
			living neither on the path of God
nor the path of Las Vegas in
		
01:43:02 --> 01:43:03
			Hollywood.
		
01:43:04 --> 01:43:07
			To me, they're cowards, right? And
we're gonna go one of the two
		
01:43:07 --> 01:43:10
			paths, and we know that that other
path is straight to *, they're
		
01:43:10 --> 01:43:13
			all on depression. They're all on
drugs. They're all in suicide.
		
01:43:15 --> 01:43:17
			Where's the highest suicide rate
in the world, whereas the highest
		
01:43:17 --> 01:43:20
			depression rate in the world, it's
probably also going to coincide
		
01:43:20 --> 01:43:25
			with the highest rate of drugs,
alcohol, Zina nakedness, it's all
		
01:43:25 --> 01:43:28
			one package. So definitely go in
that realm.
		
01:43:30 --> 01:43:33
			Is it okay to feel feel tired of
waiting when making dua says
		
01:43:33 --> 01:43:38
			Shahida Is it okay to have a dip?
Then go back up. It's not okay.
		
01:43:38 --> 01:43:42
			But it is normal. It's not okay
that like we're accepting but it's
		
01:43:42 --> 01:43:46
			normal. When you have a dip, you
have to ask yourself, Why am I
		
01:43:46 --> 01:43:47
			here? What am I doing?
		
01:43:48 --> 01:43:53
			I'm here, because I want something
from Allah. I love this thing. And
		
01:43:53 --> 01:43:56
			I know Allah is generous, and he
will give it to me. So keep going.
		
01:43:57 --> 01:44:01
			So when you dip you come back.
It's natural to have a dip, but
		
01:44:01 --> 01:44:06
			don't accept it for yourself.
Susan says, What do you do if
		
01:44:06 --> 01:44:09
			domestic women section is empty
most of the time and your friends
		
01:44:09 --> 01:44:11
			aren't really religious go to a
different Masjid. Try to go to
		
01:44:11 --> 01:44:13
			different message and until you
find a group.
		
01:44:17 --> 01:44:21
			Cloak Tuck says if someone
hypothetically stole merchandise
		
01:44:21 --> 01:44:24
			from a Nike store online, how
should they fix that after
		
01:44:24 --> 01:44:24
			repentance?
		
01:44:26 --> 01:44:30
			So, to rephrase the question I
sold from a massive Corporation
		
01:44:34 --> 01:44:37
			someone's responsible for that
theft, right? Someone is going to
		
01:44:37 --> 01:44:40
			be there's going to be a manager
accountable, right?
		
01:44:42 --> 01:44:43
			For that theft,
		
01:44:44 --> 01:44:47
			if that manager is still in the
job, maybe you cause him to get
		
01:44:47 --> 01:44:51
			fired, right? Because there's
missing merchandise, but if he's
		
01:44:51 --> 01:44:55
			still on the job, I think that you
may owe it to them say listen, I
		
01:44:55 --> 01:44:59
			nabbed something from you
incognito email address right now.
		
01:45:00 --> 01:45:06
			A Nike thief 120 [email protected]
Hey Chris, I'm one of your former
		
01:45:06 --> 01:45:10
			employees I stole from you and
it's probably on your spreadsheet
		
01:45:10 --> 01:45:11
			and you're maybe got in trouble
for it
		
01:45:13 --> 01:45:16
			and I'm here to give it back
because what you want to do is
		
01:45:16 --> 01:45:19
			avoid the harm if the manager is
going to get in trouble for that
		
01:45:19 --> 01:45:20
			you have to give it back
		
01:45:21 --> 01:45:24
			now it's been like many years
later and Occulus everything's
		
01:45:24 --> 01:45:27
			turned over and the company
doesn't even know that the theft
		
01:45:27 --> 01:45:30
			happened you just make a so called
a generalist so far
		
01:45:31 --> 01:45:35
			and probably don't even wear those
shoes stolen property right
		
01:45:41 --> 01:45:45
			are clear majestic my Muslims
there's an indica a clear majestic
		
01:45:45 --> 01:45:45
			Emma
		
01:45:47 --> 01:45:50
			10 seem like that clear to seem.
		
01:45:51 --> 01:45:55
			Good. Well said. Yeah, one more
just simmer one or the other guy.
		
01:45:55 --> 01:45:59
			Let's go to YouTube. See what's
going on. Questions. Go ahead.
		
01:45:59 --> 01:46:03
			Keep going down from me you can
read get funded. Okay fine. All
		
01:46:03 --> 01:46:07
			right. flotsam have been tab the
row says do you do is to photo
		
01:46:07 --> 01:46:10
			when you are unsure? No, you're
doing this is Takata when you're
		
01:46:10 --> 01:46:13
			pretty much sure on a decision,
and you want to love to strengthen
		
01:46:13 --> 01:46:18
			your conviction and show you signs
in this world where
		
01:46:20 --> 01:46:25
			it's, it's good for you or bad for
you as Nika 3d drawings on a
		
01:46:25 --> 01:46:30
			screen. It's considered to be if
it's a full creature mcru
		
01:46:31 --> 01:46:37
			If it's 3d on the screen mcru Only
when we talk about 3d 3d In real
		
01:46:37 --> 01:46:38
			life, not on the screen.
		
01:46:40 --> 01:46:45
			I live in San Okay. All right, y q
says how's the ArcView semester
		
01:46:45 --> 01:46:47
			started yet? No, it hasn't started
yet.
		
01:46:49 --> 01:46:51
			Next week, it's not a full
semester. It's the remnants of the
		
01:46:51 --> 01:46:55
			classes that didn't finish from
the spring. But all the
		
01:46:57 --> 01:46:59
			all the pre recorded classes are
up.
		
01:47:01 --> 01:47:04
			Why are you against selfies?
Aren't they essentially people who
		
01:47:04 --> 01:47:07
			follow the way of the setup?
That's the claim but they haven't
		
01:47:07 --> 01:47:10
			No, they have went against the
		
01:47:12 --> 01:47:16
			leader of Islam in many ways. And
there are many different types of
		
01:47:16 --> 01:47:20
			selfies. That's the problem. But
no, they are not they're not they
		
01:47:20 --> 01:47:23
			haven't fulfilled what they've
claimed, which is we went all the
		
01:47:23 --> 01:47:27
			way back right and follow the
setup and they have many mistakes
		
01:47:28 --> 01:47:31
			in the conclusions that came
through that's why we don't have
		
01:47:31 --> 01:47:31
			that.
		
01:47:33 --> 01:47:37
			Is the next a Bundy. Sect
misguided you have to look at what
		
01:47:37 --> 01:47:40
			they do. Just the name Natasha
Bundy will not make someone
		
01:47:40 --> 01:47:41
			misguided. It's what they do.
		
01:47:44 --> 01:47:48
			It's what they do and what they
believe and how they practice. The
		
01:47:48 --> 01:47:51
			form of their him are those as
Shahida says are those who are on
		
01:47:51 --> 01:47:51
			the set of
		
01:47:55 --> 01:47:59
			please expound what you said about
salah to Doha, making up for to
		
01:47:59 --> 01:48:02
			hedge it. If the prophets I send
them slept through his tahajjud
		
01:48:03 --> 01:48:07
			because the day was so exhausting,
he would make up his prayer in the
		
01:48:07 --> 01:48:07
			hot time.
		
01:48:09 --> 01:48:12
			Alright, we're looking for I 11
tines
		
01:48:13 --> 01:48:14
			paragraph
		
01:48:15 --> 01:48:17
			Okay, let's go down
		
01:48:24 --> 01:48:26
			Mohammed shared a nice story of a
Kurama
		
01:48:41 --> 01:48:45
			Yeah, have the two Hort, the
Hadith of the two horn of Nigeria,
		
01:48:45 --> 01:48:48
			they tried to throw it on Iraq.
They want to say Nigel Iraq, it's
		
01:48:48 --> 01:48:50
			not true. It's an edge Nigeria.
		
01:48:52 --> 01:48:57
			Okay, a elevens on Why did Allah
send us to this world, when all we
		
01:48:57 --> 01:49:02
			have to do is suffer and then die?
He wanted us to worship Him if you
		
01:49:02 --> 01:49:05
			want to. We could have stayed in
heaven and done that. And why do I
		
01:49:05 --> 01:49:07
			get punished for what a prophet?
		
01:49:10 --> 01:49:11
			Adam did?
		
01:49:12 --> 01:49:14
			It's a great question. You're not
punished at all. You're honored by
		
01:49:14 --> 01:49:17
			what Prophet Adam did. And he was
honored by being sent down here
		
01:49:17 --> 01:49:21
			because the angels are worshipping
Allah in the heavens.
		
01:49:22 --> 01:49:24
			But they're worshipping Allah
without temptation, without
		
01:49:24 --> 01:49:28
			enemies without anything. So Allah
wanted a greater worship. Not all
		
01:49:28 --> 01:49:33
			worship is the same. He wanted to
greater worship, a worship, in
		
01:49:33 --> 01:49:37
			which you had to fight through
things to truly show your class
		
01:49:37 --> 01:49:39
			and your sincerity May Allah make
us sincere and humble all the time
		
01:49:39 --> 01:49:40
			and upon the Sunnah
		
01:49:42 --> 01:49:43
			by putting us in this world,
		
01:49:45 --> 01:49:50
			it allows us the possibility of
forgetting about the heavens and
		
01:49:50 --> 01:49:52
			forgetting him and being
distracted from Allah
		
01:49:54 --> 01:49:59
			by giving enough space by having a
neffs it allows us to be whispered
		
01:50:00 --> 01:50:01
			To do something wrong, right?
		
01:50:03 --> 01:50:07
			To have desires that we have to
fight against, every time you go
		
01:50:07 --> 01:50:12
			against nature, okay, against and
you struggle, your worship is
		
01:50:12 --> 01:50:16
			purified even more, and it is at a
higher level. What is better?
		
01:50:17 --> 01:50:18
			Tell me what is better.
		
01:50:20 --> 01:50:24
			You play soccer, and everyone at
the end gets trophy
		
01:50:25 --> 01:50:29
			for participating. Or you had to
go through 16 teams.
		
01:50:30 --> 01:50:35
			And you had to play a series until
there were eight teams left. And
		
01:50:35 --> 01:50:36
			then you had to play another game.
		
01:50:38 --> 01:50:41
			And win that game until they're
four teams left and win another
		
01:50:41 --> 01:50:43
			game until there's two teams left
and the winner of the game until
		
01:50:43 --> 01:50:48
			you're the champion, which trophy
is more meaningful and sweeter to
		
01:50:48 --> 01:50:53
			you more memorable? Here's another
question from which one will you
		
01:50:53 --> 01:50:57
			learn more, you can't learn if
everything is given to you on a
		
01:50:57 --> 01:51:02
			silver platter, there must be a
journey. And a journey is not a
		
01:51:02 --> 01:51:06
			journey if there's no struggle. So
all the struggles are peeling the
		
01:51:06 --> 01:51:09
			layers of an onion to see
something great that Allah has
		
01:51:09 --> 01:51:13
			created. And that is the human
being who strives in the path of
		
01:51:13 --> 01:51:20
			Allah against the four enemies
neffs how well wins Shavon dunya.
		
01:51:20 --> 01:51:24
			And even there's a fifth one of
the humans that struggle against
		
01:51:24 --> 01:51:28
			us by struggling. We learned so
much about ourselves and we attain
		
01:51:28 --> 01:51:31
			ranks that we could not attain.
And that's why the righteous
		
01:51:31 --> 01:51:33
			Muslim human is higher than an
angel.
		
01:51:35 --> 01:51:38
			All right, let's take with maybe
one or two more questions. Okay.
		
01:51:39 --> 01:51:44
			Is it correct that the dunya was
not a punishment for is not a
		
01:51:44 --> 01:51:50
			punishment. Allah said we created
for the earth a believer. He was
		
01:51:50 --> 01:51:54
			meant to be on Earth, being in
heaven was merely his dry run, to
		
01:51:54 --> 01:51:58
			see if he's going to react
properly. And he passed the test
		
01:51:58 --> 01:52:02
			on the first try when it was made
to appear to him that he disobeyed
		
01:52:02 --> 01:52:06
			God. And that Allah was angered
with him. It wasn't the case it
		
01:52:06 --> 01:52:09
			was appeared to me because he
forgot. He didn't come it seemed
		
01:52:09 --> 01:52:12
			as though disobey Allah. He
disobeyed Allah outwardly, but not
		
01:52:12 --> 01:52:17
			inwardly. So he passed the test,
he blamed himself and he sought
		
01:52:17 --> 01:52:19
			forgiveness. He passed the test.
		
01:52:20 --> 01:52:23
			When Allah deem that you pass the
test, now you go to fulfill your
		
01:52:23 --> 01:52:25
			real mission on this earth.
		
01:52:26 --> 01:52:30
			So Yan says, nice HD camera. Well,
that's thanks to you all for
		
01:52:30 --> 01:52:32
			supporting us on Patreon.
		
01:52:33 --> 01:52:36
			None of us asked to be here. And
we didn't eat that forbidden
		
01:52:36 --> 01:52:39
			fruit. So why are we in the dunya
we're in the dunya as a benefit
		
01:52:39 --> 01:52:46
			for us. Right? We're in this world
as a benefit. This is how we're
		
01:52:46 --> 01:52:49
			going to make our ranks and you
want to prove that you want proof
		
01:52:49 --> 01:52:51
			that every human being wants to be
in this world.
		
01:52:52 --> 01:52:55
			Let's take you and slice your neck
see how you're gonna react. You
		
01:52:55 --> 01:52:59
			want to live don't you? Some
people's I never asked to be here.
		
01:53:01 --> 01:53:06
			Then let us drown your drown you
in in a tub of water. Let us slice
		
01:53:06 --> 01:53:09
			your neck. Are you going to allow
it let us hold your breath till
		
01:53:09 --> 01:53:14
			you die when you sleep. We'll put
a syringe in you that you will die
		
01:53:14 --> 01:53:18
			Do you want it? Use fight to live
you will fight to live life is
		
01:53:18 --> 01:53:20
			such a gift Spatola
		
01:53:23 --> 01:53:27
			susu says going to different
massage and isn't really an option
		
01:53:27 --> 01:53:30
			as they are all far away oh that's
that's really rough then you're
		
01:53:30 --> 01:53:33
			going to have to have an online
friendship. You're gonna have to
		
01:53:33 --> 01:53:36
			be friends with this crew right
here of people have wonderful
		
01:53:36 --> 01:53:40
			people because we have so much
love on our streams that you know
		
01:53:40 --> 01:53:43
			I guess you're gonna have to
suffice with that and WhatsApp
		
01:53:43 --> 01:53:46
			groups that we have through
through Safina society.
		
01:53:47 --> 01:53:50
			Che K says Dr. With Salah during
the last third of the night
		
01:53:50 --> 01:53:54
			without Salah yes it still counts
as a major major dua Muhammad
		
01:53:54 --> 01:53:57
			Rasool Allah says when you say
Doha is time for making up 200 Do
		
01:53:57 --> 01:54:01
			we just pray so lots of Doha or
pray extra cuz you pray what you
		
01:54:01 --> 01:54:05
			would have prayed in 200 time
flower store I finished my degree
		
01:54:05 --> 01:54:08
			a few days ago hamdulillah dua
requests for figuring out what
		
01:54:08 --> 01:54:12
			comes next. May Allah subhana wa
Tada open the door for you
		
01:54:13 --> 01:54:15
			to show you what's good for you.
		
01:54:17 --> 01:54:21
			And everyone else who's in that
situation Kara Gyu says Kira gear
		
01:54:21 --> 01:54:23
			salaam from Sweden mashallah
		
01:54:24 --> 01:54:30
			Sweden Ryan's homeland maybe
related old cousins as well
		
01:54:30 --> 01:54:32
			they've got what 3 million people
in Sweden anyway
		
01:54:35 --> 01:54:38
			who asks you is the question Can
we watch yes of God the sera
		
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			series I think it was from a
sudden few days. I didn't know I
		
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			didn't watch it but a lot of
people watched it. I don't know
		
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			about all the details of it. After
main says I hope in the future we
		
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			will have Islamic schools with
curriculums that are in line with
		
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			the Cydia jolla we will and
they're getting there some of the
		
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			some of their again their good.
Muhammad Abdul Hakim schools in
		
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			the United States are basically
		
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			indoctrination and indoctrination.
Of course.
		
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			Mason Haig says I heard that
YouTube takes 40 to 50% of live
		
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			donations, forget them then Amira
Glover? How do I stifle my
		
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			competitive nature when it comes
to non obligatory acts of worship?
		
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			How do I suppress the need to show
off? Compete against yourself?
		
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			Compete against yourself?
		
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			Should we ask for shellcode and
not sub, you asked for sub when
		
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			you need sub. So Nimra says I was
told not to ask for sub. But as
		
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			for ease, yes, that's a good idea.
But I mean, if you're in a
		
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			situation you need the sub than
you asked for, but ask for ease
		
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			asked for Allah to make the
journey easier for you very wise,
		
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			and thank you for making those
comments. Okay.
		
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			Thank you for all those comments.
Is there a Safina site his
		
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			sister's Whatsapp group? It's not
a sister's only Whatsapp group.
		
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			And it's for our classes if you
sign up for ArcView. Ryan, do you
		
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			have the website there are a few
are basic or ArcView scholarship.
		
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			You get to sign on to a WhatsApp
group. And we get to put the
		
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			students on a WhatsApp group. And
and from their front, you know
		
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			people can make friends and they
get to talk. Right? So how do you
		
01:56:21 --> 01:56:25
			sign up for the medical fake if
Mason hates if you're in ArcView
		
01:56:25 --> 01:56:31
			you go into arcview.org you log
in, you're going to find medically
		
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			fit. We're on a webinar should
click on it. You'll get
		
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			the links on the information we
start up next Tuesday. The Zoom
		
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			link should be there. Next Tuesday
evening. We start up so Mason
		
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			takes make sure you communicate
with us. Email us and make an Ryan
		
01:56:48 --> 01:56:49
			will
		
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			help you walk through it and get
you on to MC by the way Mason
		
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			Hicks Where are you from?
		
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			Sounds like Midwest type of name.
		
01:57:02 --> 01:57:08
			Yep. Sad Zed archy with a K right
now there it is. Ryan put it up
		
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			take our classes
[email protected] That's where we
		
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			give our classes. Okay
		
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			last question from soap hate
		
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			if I'm traveling and doing the
travelers Salah should I do my
		
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			vicar of God at the appropriate
time.
		
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			Together completing the tour doc
goes back to X door Ross.
		
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			When we're out when we're
traveling, you do the Epcot if
		
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			you're capable. Like if you're in
the traveling and sometimes
		
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			traveling difficult you do the O
rod if you're able to.
		
01:57:43 --> 01:57:45
			Kinda White says what are your
thoughts on shikantaza mille
		
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			Haqqani and his wife Amina, I
didn't I shouldn't ask him was
		
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			when he was on Allison. But his
methodology was a little bit
		
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			different. There was there was
less, I would say, of 50
		
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			parameters observed sometimes
sometimes, like there was less of
		
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			an emphasis on that. And as a
result, sometimes you may see
		
01:58:06 --> 01:58:09
			something here or there that was
not in line with it, but he was a
		
01:58:09 --> 01:58:15
			Sunday. And in his arcade, it was
sound. And in general, he was a
		
01:58:15 --> 01:58:20
			Hanafy. But this there was less
influence in emphasis on the study
		
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			of FIP. And that's why sometimes
you might see something here or
		
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			there that the focal hub may have
condemned or the people condemn.
		
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			Right, but otherwise, and there
today. I don't know much about I
		
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			can't tell you anything about the
insides of the Haqqani group. I
		
01:58:35 --> 01:58:37
			can't say anything about that. I
never experienced it.
		
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			But in general, I would say
consider his his written works
		
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			have benefit of a lot of benefit
in them spiritually. Caitlin jimei
		
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			have paid week off of work what
would be the best advice to use
		
01:58:51 --> 01:58:55
			the time to reconnect spiritually
and high in Egypt of Jah?
		
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			If you have the ability to travel,
right,
		
01:59:02 --> 01:59:06
			if you have the ability to travel
right to a place that has some
		
01:59:06 --> 01:59:11
			spirituality to it, like Fez,
Morocco and go to the gatherings
		
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			there if you have that ability,
right.
		
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			Go Go take a spiritual vacation
		
01:59:18 --> 01:59:18
			you know
		
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			to somewhere where you can get
some re ignited right
		
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			Alright folks, I wish we can
continue on
		
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			Shazia says sadaqa is magical
sadaqa does so much. It's
		
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			unbelievable.
		
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			Right? I wish we could continue on
but we have to stop here. Does
		
01:59:42 --> 01:59:45
			that come along here and
everybody? Subhanak Allahumma webI
		
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			handicap Nisha do Allah Illa illa
Anta nests of Furukawa one or two
		
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			with a call us in Santa Fe Of
course. Ill Alladhina amanu Amina
		
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			slider
		
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			whatsoever so but Huck Oh,
		
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			Once a while so the suburb was
salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa
		
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			barakato to
		
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			Mason Haix trauma communicate with
Ryan who gets you