Shadee Elmasry – NBF 58 Shama’il The Worship of the Prophet

Shadee Elmasry
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The speakers discuss various aspects of relationships, including books and publicity, Shema and the Shema of the Prophet, acceptance of the sacred law, and balancing religion and personal needs for healthy relationships. They emphasize the importance of acceptance and reward for physical and spiritual demands, as well as the benefits of skin to skin contact for healthy babies. They also discuss political and cultural dynamics of Islam, including the use of media to promote Islam and the potential loss of peace, legal framework for Muslims to avoid double marriages, and the rise of "mon tempas Christian" movement. The segment also touches on personal experiences with religion, including Facebook groups and YouTube videos, and discusses various sources and events, including a webinar and social media group.
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then there's coach Hafsa of man Faisal

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and a white

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you know today's the day for cemented in the beast of Allah

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when he was seven Sejal Kony. It's all about say they'll donate

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Doyle about Satan Kony today. Tuesdays God is Mondays Quran

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Tuesday Sejal ko name.

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Wednesday is affairs of the OMA and Thursday is only logical Yeah.

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So are we on for everyone all channels all right. Just give it

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two seconds until everyone starts showing up. Norfolk one is here

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noer

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we got so much love on the on the stream, you know that. It's been

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like we only we've been there two months and we generate it. It's

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all there's so much love on the stream.

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off man a queue.

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Of course, also known as Oz, Wizard of Oz.

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Some of the best seated books. One of the best is Sultan of hearts.

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It's two or three volumes long, but it's a really good Sultan of

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hearts.

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Ladies and gentlemen, let's begin Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al

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hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah early he will be he

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will Manuela ladies and gentlemen this Sofia society livestream is

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brought to you by

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like ebooks.

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You can get a lot of books from Mecca books on Sierra which is

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Shema and Sierra is

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the they have a whole section on Mecca books on summon and see it

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on one of the books he can get his Sultan of hearts.

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Shema eternity. Oh, this is like a nicer copy of the one that's in my

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hands. This looks good. Who's this by zamzam publisher who are they?

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Oh, it's out of stand. It's at a standard set of extant

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Yeah, Mecca books to very, very nice copy. I mean, this is my old

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I got the old fashioned copy is the same. It's the same book this

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with the same commentary, but it's much nicer copy. So well. That's

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the case. I might read from this today. Right. Okay, it's the same

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exact copy and Shema L of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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salam, okay.

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Is something that you gotta read all the time. And you have to have

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not just one, you never just have one book on a subject is no author

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gathers all the knowledge, right? So there's a saying in Arabic that

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we say let's shake up and shake. There's no concept. You should

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never have this idea that oh, I have this book. I don't need any

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other book. Oh, I have this shake. I don't listen to any other show.

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You should never have that. Because no one gathers the entire

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sun of the prophets is not a single soul will gather. Now it's

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what it's different if you're talking about a discipline

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Like if I'm learning technical knowledge of flip, that's a

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technical knowledge, right? Or I have a shift that helps me in

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spiritual matters gives me of God. Now, that's something that you

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don't go to another shift to not because of the idea that he has

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everything, nobody else has anything, no, but because that

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that will actually mess up your system. You don't go to two

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different doctors, right? You don't go to a doctor and say, Hey,

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listen, he's treating me for cancer on Tuesday, you're treating

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me for cancer, the same cancer on Wednesday, you don't do that don't

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mess up your body. So from that angle, we don't do that. If I'm

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studying, let's say,

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a certain subject matter, then a certain book, then I finished that

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book. With that shape. I can study the same book with another shape.

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I can study a different book with another shape. There is no shape

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on the earth that will make you say, I don't need any other shape.

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This is a trick of Iblees. Because then once you have a fall out with

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that one chef, or he's proved himself that he's not that what

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you thought.

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Now you're in trouble. You have what they call a crisis Eman

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crisis, they say this, who coined this ridiculous terrible term

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human crisis, none of us should have human crisis is our a man

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does not rest on a human being. Our event is supported by all

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human beings. Now, let me tell you something, a lot of people that

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have issues in relationships, because they go too little or too

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far. And I'll give you the flip of relationships, quite simply, is

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that the first relationship with the default relationship with

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people is horrible. He's already is a complete stranger. I don't

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know you. Right? And you don't know me? That's the first default.

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The second is that you simply have right is recognition. I recognize

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that person. That's it.

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Right? It's a it's a recognition. This is like a mad if the word mad

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if it means recognition. And we're not talking about mad if of Allah.

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We're just talking about recognition. I recognize someone

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so yeah, I recognize him from the mustard. I recognize him from the

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local bakery or whatever. It seems simply recognition, like the gas

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station next to your house, you probably recognize the attendants

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that pumped the guests, I have been pumping this gas with the

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same guy for like, 10 years. Same guy.

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It's terrible. We never thought once to actually have anything

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beyond a regular conversation. It's terrible. Every day. This our

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answers when you come in for the guests. You're all doing, huh? We

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never thought like this to say, Hey, by the way, it's been 10

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years you've been pumping my gas. What's your name? Are you okay?

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How's life? No, we should change that. But that's the beauty of

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local businesses to have relationships because one day I

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might actually like my card might be scratched doesn't work. Local

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businesses, though, I take the guests who pay me later, right? We

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do that all the time in local businesses. Anyway. SitePoint

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might have it's the third relationship level of a

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relationship

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is my favorite. We call a sub. Okay.

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So by means we populate the same location

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and do the same things. It's not like friendship. Okay? We just

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like when you go to the local masjid, there are going to be

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people there.

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I know them. We know each other. We love seeing each other. And

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that's the relationship. That's it. He's not at my house. I'm not

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at his house. It's just like, we pray together. We love each other

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because we're worshiping Allah together. That's it. There's

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nothing more. Right? That is my favorite relationship.

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It can't go bad. Right? It can't go bad. If I go to the masjid. I'm

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not in the mood to see him.

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Go to the other side of the messenger, no blame, no harm, no

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foul, right. If he's sick, I asked about him if he it's my favorite

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part of the relationship level of relationship. Now the next one up

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is called sadhaka. So DACA is now we're inviting each other. We're

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inviting to each other's homes. Good. Right, that's a different

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level of a relationship. Now you're at each other's homes.

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You're now you have each other's numbers, you text you have fun.

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It's nice to write. But I liked the sadhaka that is more cool than

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heated.

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The more space in this day and age that you have between people in a

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sadhaka relationship, the better.

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This thing can't go back. Right? If we want to have fun, we have

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fun. If we don't No harm, no foul, you never so close to each other

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and so inside of each other's business, that any little thing

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could be perceived as drama.

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And many, many people that go into that, like they become

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In French, they go immediately to what's called Sadiq. When Hemi,

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there's regular sadaqa regular friendship, then there's the idea

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of so Deepwood Hemi really tight friends. And then that higher

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level than that is

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a Khalil your Khalil, you are in each other's lives like this. I

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actually don't even have any of that.

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Right? I don't, I don't recommend you do that. Okay?

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If it happens, let it happen by itself, you know how it could

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happen by itself in the trenches, when a war happens, when a drama

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happens. And by necessity, you actually get close to each other

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by necessity, okay, you get close to each other, that's from Allah,

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then you know, it's something good. But for you to willingly get

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into someone's life, or let them into your life. Now, the chances

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of something, you know, bad happening is increasing. Like, if

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this thing goes bad, it's really bad. Right? Whereas sadaqa and a

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sofa

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it's almost like there's room now to read.

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There, the chances of it going bad is not that much. And the chances

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of it you know, being like so involved in your life is also not

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that much. So you're, you're putting in a little bit less, and

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the chance for harm is a little bit less. So to understand these

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levels of relationship. This is all based on the books that the

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ultimate wrote because of the relationship that Muslims had have

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with one another. Okay? How do we get into the topic at all of this?

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I can't even remember to be honest with you. Right? How do we get

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into that tangent of things?

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Can you remember, I'm gonna have to run back to tape on the run

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back to tape. I can't remember how we got into this. But this idea

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that it's friendships have levels, there's complete stranger, then

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there's, I recognize someone then me and him are our bodies are in

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the same building, doing the same thing. Like your colleagues at

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work, or you people in the masjid. Alright, then there's friends

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sadhaka.

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Now you have phone numbers, you go to each other's homes, you go out

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together. And then there's the

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the Hila is going to be like your mother in law, your father, you're

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going to be like so in each other's lives. Okay.

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And that's the big difference. Right? That's, that's a big

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difference. And, and in the old days, life was so much more

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predictable. Today, I tell people, Look, you guys, let's say your

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like two, three friends, that just coming in the dean. And you may

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imagine we're always going to be like this. Don't I'm telling you

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from experience? Don't imagine that. Right?

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It's not thinking Ill of other people or the future. It's, I'm

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telling you what is the best, what is the best is the concept of

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sadaqa. And stop it out there. And suddenly, it wouldn't mean you're

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increasing the chance. Now, if something happens bad between you,

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it's going to get really bad, like a divorce. Or we got into that

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because we were saying your relationship with your sheath.

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That's how we got into that you should not have a relationship

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with your she knew. That is such a thing that if something bad was to

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happen, your holy man would collapse. No.

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We don't have this dependency. In any event. That's why we said you

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should have a number of books. All of this was to say in any topic,

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you should have a number of books and never say, right, right.

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Yes, this was like a long Mecca books. So that you don't you don't

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just have one limited book. Why do you think one person can gather

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all this from out of the profit? You don't have one theater book,

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you should have a section in your library.

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And you should do public readings in your house. Like son get the

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book everyone gathered around, everyone put their phones away.

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Alright.

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pavers calling. Could you take this call, right?

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Yes, yes. Hello, Jimmy

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All right.

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All right. Brian will come and move the cars

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the cars and do you need the BMW moved to the red BMW? Yeah, yeah,

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I need to I need to for are coming inside for myself. All right,

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you're gonna need to knock on yoga pants and tell her to move. Okay,

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thanks a lot. Thanks.

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Yeah, and then lastly, we're

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We're gonna have Patreon, your support is what makes this happen.

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As you can see, we are getting better and better, right in our

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stream. What matters is the item. What matters is the intention. But

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Allah subhanaw taala has put us on the earth to test us of who will

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do the best of actions and we want to do the best of actions we want

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to do the we want to have a great live stream, oh, outwardly and

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inwardly, not just,

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you know, nice intention, we want to have a great great live stream.

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So with that, let us now turn to our chapter today on the Shema and

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of the messenger of Satan codename Adi Salatu was Salam while Ryan

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moves all the cars, because we're gonna have such a gorgeous

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backyard. You're not even going to imagine how amazing the backyard

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is going to be pavers lawn, a beautiful pink dogwood tree,

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right? A What do they call it?

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It's like, thing with a roof a little thing with a little cover.

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I don't even know what it's called. But it's gonna be I think,

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actually, people might come here for wedding pictures. I'm not even

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kidding you. Is that pretty? It's gonna be that pretty one. We're

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done with it. The backyard. And people are gonna say You know

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what? This was a good idea. after all. We doubted you. But

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you did put something together. That was amazing. So today we are

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on the a bed of Sayville. Kony nadie Salatu was Salam ala

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eosinophil.

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Allen.

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Okay, here we go. Number one. Let us now turn to

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the Hadith of the Prophet of his motivation for a bed. And this is

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so so important. If you want to love to answer your prayers, be

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ready to be a grateful servant. How do I be a grateful servant,

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very simple. Ask a lot to make you a grateful servant. I want to be a

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potential coder, I do not want to be a tick, tick, tick, tick, tick.

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Do you like to have a friend that it's all tick, tick, tick, tick

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tick. We call that an Egyptian masala.

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He even save it save his name on your phone as Miss La

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Vie Academy. Yes, it's like a canopy with a ceiling and the

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electricity in it to an event. So

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we call this person masala. What does Muslim mean? It means

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benefit. He only cares about you as long as you can give them the

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benefit. terrible human being terrible, terrible, terrible,

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terrible quality to have, but acceptable. And if you only turn

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to Allah and you do all your obligations, let's say

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hypothetically, you're like a regular average Muslim, right? You

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only do your obligations and your prohibitions, but when you're in

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need,

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you pray extra, you do extra, you remember extra.

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When the problem goes away, you forget Allah

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or opposite. You want something? Right. So you you remember Allah

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only when you want something.

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Okay. And then as soon as you get it, you sit there enjoying it and

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you forget about it. That is acceptable, but it's not a good

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quality. A lot of things are acceptable, but not good. Not

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great. Like if your son comes home to you with an ad for Honors

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Algebra to test, okay, it's not a C but do you like it? No. Is he

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going to you're you're outside the realm of sort of getting in

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trouble. Or like revising things. Now he comes home with a 63 you're

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revising life, right? We're, I don't know what you're doing, but

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we're revising everything. 84 you're sort of not I'm not

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smiling. And I'm not frowning. Okay. So that's that type of a

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bed. It's accepted. It's it's Amen. It's not something that's

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nice though. You want to be a potential Cora and that's what the

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Prophet SAW Selim said that it said about him. He used to pray so

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much night prayer. Okay.

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And then when he was said, You're doing this and Allah has given you

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everything already, and he's forgiven you. And he's given you

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when when when it says you've forgiven you means that he's

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forgiven your OMA Okay? As well, like the Shiva has been given to

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you the intercession has been given to you to the major centers

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of your Oma.

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What is his response? effort, a Kuhn who unbidden shakoora Shall I

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not be a thankful servant? And I'm telling you, if you want your

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Allah to answer your prayers, add in your prayers make me a thankful

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serve, and I want to be thankful. I want to reach the level in which

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Allah subhanaw taala has given me what I've wanted, right? Like more

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than I can imagine, my brain is going to blow up from how much

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Allah has given me and He will give you that when you purify your

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heart, because if you if you follow the Sharia,

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inwardly and outwardly and you struggle with this is not going to

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be easy, and you find it and you go with it. Your whims will

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transform your whim will move to a certain location under the

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heavens, where you will desire what's already written for you

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It will be pleasurable to you, it will be a dream to you. And then

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it's going to happen.

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And you will feel like my dreams have been fulfilled. Like my

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biggest if I had a wish list, it's been fulfilled, you're going to

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reach a point now. And you will say, Oh Allah, I'm finished. I

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don't want anything anymore. You have what you this is just more

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than you filled overflowed my plate, I want to spend the rest of

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my life paying

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sugar. for that. I want to spend the rest of my life in sugar. This

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is a huge MACOM This is called the MACOM of URL, the URL Moralia.

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Your ego has a number of macarons the first level of your ego is if

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you leave it alone. Now the human being has a good nature and he has

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a bad nature. Okay, so you leave a baby alone. He's gonna like love

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animals, for example. But you also leave a baby alone, the dunya the

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food, the indulgence, bad things will corrupt this nature. Okay.

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Bad interactions with other humans. There's no such thing as a

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human like in a lab. You exist with other humans, other humans

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can corrupt you that can ruin you. It will stimulate what we call an

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Epson Amara, it's your nefs it make it becomes Amara Amara means

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commanding to witness

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commands towards wiki. All right.

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That's the default. Because there's no such thing as this. How

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you have been yet then had this famous thought experiment of what

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happens if you had a child in a in an island? Like what would that

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child look turned out to be like? It's just an experiment. It's not

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real shitty, I always comes. Quran always speaks as what's real. The

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real truth of human beings, you're always alive with other human

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beings. If you don't, if those human beings are left, unchecked,

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if the neffs is left unchecked, you're gonna be a martyr.

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You start to learn what's right and what's wrong, and you

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recognize the truth of things. At that point, you're not you don't

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go directly from being a demon to an angel. There's a gradiation a

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gradation a gradient. Okay, a gray area. Okay. There's a time where

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you will follow what you believe in at a time when you won't.

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So when you don't what happens when you're back and forth,

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bouncing back and forth.

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That's the human condition. Right. And that's called Toba. So I did

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good. I went back. I fell off Why did you fall when you know you

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shouldn't do that because you're a human. So cool it a little bit but

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with sinners, sinners. It's not that it's a bad thing, but it's

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not something to be totally angry with because you're a human being

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good.

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Now, you have to bounce back we call that Toba and that stage

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you're called enough's, Aloma. You keep blaming yourself, that's a

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good thing. Enough Scylla wema we hope Jana for it. And Allah

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subhana wa Tada says, Some souls they have mixed good deeds and bad

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deeds. It may be that Allah has mercy upon them, it means Allah

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will have mercy upon them. And Nuff said Allah wham. The third

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level is that finally, finally, you have discipline this ego of

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yours, which is yourself. We're talking to ourselves here you've

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discipline this ego, okay? Like a dog. You train the dog? Well,

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that's why horse breeding, even training a dog for hunting, things

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like that. You may learn a little thing about yourself, okay, how to

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train a wild beast. And the neffs is no different. Right? What does

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the dog want? It wants to eat, procreate. Okay, and just be sleep

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when you want to do the same thing. So you've learned how to

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discipline this thing and you've learned how long it takes. And you

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finally have reached the shore of safety. And you don't fall into

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those sins again. Yes, maybe you fall into a minor sin here or

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there. But you don't fall into the sins again. Right? That's the

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beauty of it.

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That's called the knifes and movement in your you have left the

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raging sea. You've landed on the beach, you're alive.

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The raging sea will not drown you anymore.

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Imagine a every time you walk down a path a dog comes out and fights

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you and bites you and scratches you every day. You got to deal

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with this dog. What misery I'm hurt, I'm bleeding here. Finally,

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the day has come. You've changed that dog.

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You can pass safely you put a muzzle on it you pass peace and

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quiet in your ears. You're no longer you're going to get bitten.

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You cannot imagine the sweetness and the relief of that neffs and

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once you have enough smoke in it

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Now you can be entrusted and given gifts. If can you be given a nice

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piece of meat? If there's a dog, a Rottweiler, right, coming out, you

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know, you can't be given you'll lose it. Okay? So your knifes once

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you've tamed it, and that's the importance of if you have a kid

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raise him upon that kiss a shortcut in life. Right, rather

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than letting his neffs go crazy. And then coming back. Alright, so

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you finally reached this this amazing, amazing state of enough's

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al Muthanna. In it's at peace. This is what I believe in. And I

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do the same exact thing. My ego is no longer waging a war against me.

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My ego has accepted. My your ego is you have accepted the divine

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law. Now usually what is it that makes someone accept the divine

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law in many, many cases? It's not just discipline, its reward.

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Right? You're a human being. You don't are not motivated just for

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the sake of discipline. Yes, I believe I shouldn't be doing this.

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But what's going to make me not do it, which is the idea that there

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is a reward. And my Eman has now reached a point I believe Allah

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will give me that reward in this life before the next Lahoma Bucha

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filha to dunya they get the good news in this lab for the neck.

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Which leads us to the next level of the Soul or Alia, between

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Allah, Allah worm or movement into Denis Radhiya rather pleased,

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pleased, why is da has been answered, it's wishlist has been

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given to him and more.

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Because the low the neffs lawanna, the person that keeps going back

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and forth, when he sees what possibly Allah can give him in

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this world. He goes to what's my in

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and then He strengthens in that state and then Allah Allah bestows

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upon him to gifts, you don't go straight. There's a middle level

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where you have to wait a couple of years. And then Allah to Allah

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gives you what you

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did, the way that the she will have described it is what you have

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dreamed and not even dreamed

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will become something that is given to you as a gift, graduation

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gift from Allah subhana wa Tada. And the way that we understand

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that is that by moving my neffs in to alignment with the sacred law,

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I have also altered my desires. And my nature now is I only have a

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craving and a desire for what is already written for me. Okay. And

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so it appears to me, as it plays out that my dua has been answered

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in reality, I have moved my knifes to what Allah has already written

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for me, right? And I crave something that's destined for me.

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So your DA is most of the job, but that's how the ODS doctor is Mr.

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Job. Okay, how do I understand the difference between destiny? What's

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destined for me called the uncut data, and is to Jabba to Dawa.

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When you're aligned with the sacred law, and you follow it

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properly, okay.

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You will only desire what's written for you.

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And you will sort of it'll come into your mind as a desire.

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Right, but in reality, it's also written for you. So that's what's

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called enough's. Aradia. It's pleased, it is so happy with what

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Allah has given it. So pleased that now it moves to another level

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that says, All I want know, is to be grateful. And that's what Allah

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says here. But what they say about the, what the Prophet said, Should

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I not be grateful servant? That's enough set of model the model the

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it's pleasing to Allah, because Allah loves the grant the grateful

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Does he love the penitent? Yes. Does he love the

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perfectly obedient? Yes.

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Does he love the one who is worthy of his gifts? Yes. But his

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greatest love is for the grateful servant Shikou

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at this point that says what you've given me at this moment in

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time, based on what you anything that gets thrown my way, I'm

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accepting it. He is completely shocked, who is not just grateful

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for what he likes, he is grateful for what he doesn't like.

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Think about the level of generosity that Allah bestows upon

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these odia that makes them reach the point. Naturally, they will

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say, anything that comes to me at this point afterwards from this

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Lord, I am accepting it happily. Okay. I'm accepting it because of

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how you've treated me. Imagine that right there. What has the

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love given him?

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All right. What has Allah given him that made him so happy and so

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pleased with his existence that he says to Allah, anything at this

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point? I am pleased with it. So

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That's called enough's Alma Leah. And in the Quran is called

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chakra

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I met who Allah that chakra

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vocally Ilan Mineva dia chakra, very few reached this level call

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Ilan

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and with Tajweed column in a body a shocker. Few of my bed reached a

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level of being shackled. Okay.

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And then finally beyond that is a nested Kameelah it's complete what

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does it mean it's complete? Didn't the prophets I said I'm c'est la

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you want me to I had to come Hatta. None of you truly believes

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until it's that means this person there is not a virtue of the

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virtues that is taught by the Quran and the Sunnah, except that

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he possesses it. A share of it. So he's complete. There's no holes in

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this person's character. There's no holes in their Deen doesn't

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mean he won't occasionally come into a synth or a fence. Well,

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that's a mistake. It's possible. Okay. But overall, he's filled in

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all the holes. These are the seven levels of what are the stages of

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our ego? Okay, it's still called an ego but it's perfected neffs.

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Next, Hadid says her dad and her family have a job and doesn't show

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up on IVs have an S words if New Year's Eve Karla sell to Asia? I

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asked I Suraj Allahu anha Ancelotti Rasulullah sallallahu

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alayhi wa salam belaid Sokka let's Ken a enamel a with a late he

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sleep early in the night, the first portion of the night he

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sleeps in it. So my Akumal then he would get up until for either can

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I'm in a Sahadi outer. Once the end of the night has arrived. He

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makes with some atrophy Russia who? Then he go back to bed,

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saying Can Aloha John Allama Bialy if he had a need, he pulled over

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his wife.

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Faye that sent me out. Then what about when he hears the then he

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gets up in Canada joven.

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If he was going up, he goes into a tub and he pours the water on

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himself. Takes it will do what Allah to what the avocado Jayla

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Salah and if not if he's not Jonah, he goes out to the prayer.

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What do we have here? We have our version of the bad of a Muslim

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is not monasticism. If you happen not to be married fine. But if you

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believe that that's better wrong.

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Here you have the message is that I'm worshiping Allah. And

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this wife of his this human being also has needs

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to have needs and desires. fulfilling them for them is a

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blessing for you. And it's a fulfillment for them. It's a bad

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okay.

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I think this is the first religion that's come down that's basically

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said that this human desire is worshipped. I don't know what

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the previous you know, dispensation said. Say Nadeau

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Buddha said he had 100 wives and 3000 concubines but

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point being is our religion is one that has to be balanced. Okay.

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And Trent chances the balance is never going to be in lack of

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worship, we never have to temper people's a bad these days. That

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the type of people you have to temper their a buddy, you can

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count them on your fingers. Right? We have to encourage more a bed,

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right? But here you have the messenger slice of them being a

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complete full human being. He sleeps a little bit, he prays a

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little bit, and he sleeps with his wife. And there's no shame in this

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at all say that. It's just saying it. Okay. You might ask how did

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say that it's just speak to the Sahaba Her room was adjacent to

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the mosque. It was a like an extension. Imagine a mosque and a

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room right outside the masala

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she lived there, right? So there was a curtain up between that,

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okay, or a door or a door and a curtain whatever it was different

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people say different things. And when she would come out to the

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people, there would be like someone making maybe like an

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announcement. She's ready to take questions and she would say behind

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the curtain they would never see her. Why wouldn't they ever see

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her because if they saw her, and they found her attractive, that is

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a major issue with your heart that you are find a show who have a

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desire for the way for the profit. It's not any any person's wife,

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that's the life of the prophet, whatever the prophet is your

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mother

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spiritually if you have if you if you ever looked at your mom and

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became sexually attracted to your mom,

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what do we tell with this person Ryan?

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Something's that must be something terribly wrong. Now. It's one

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thing that my mom is beautiful. She's pretty in the same way that

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I find artwork. You don't have a sexual desire to an artwork, right

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piece of artwork. It's gorgeous. You can see a guy very handsome

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There's no sexual attraction there. Right? So likewise, you

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could say my mom Oh, look at her old pictures met she was

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beautiful. There's no sexual attraction if there is the fitrah

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has been warped up. in a spiritual sense, you cannot go and have an

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attraction to the wife of the Prophet Seisen it will mess you

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up. Say no, I'm gonna blow up. Once before the women of the

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Prophet were fully covered. He saw us a hobby, have an extended gaze

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and or just exposed the wife of the Prophet was exposed her face

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was exposed to a Sahabi

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Prophet say Norma said commend there to be a barrier between your

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wives and the people. And Allah subhana wa Tada proved that

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correct. And it came down si se and almost his soul was so aligned

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with the truth that he would sense the sacred law before it came

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down. 22 Times says a CLT 22 Times said no more thought of something

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had a claim to a conclusion. And that ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada made it

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law. How does that happen? Does Allah make law based on say nama?

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No, it's the soul of Satan. Ahmed was in full alignment that he's so

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his his mind was perceiving what was was already Allah's decision.

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And said, mmm CLT says that 13 of these times, almost spoke with an

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utterance, which was revelation before the revelation came down 13

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times.

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Okay, the actual UTTERANCE OF SATAN Amara

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was a verse. That's how inline his soul was, with the truth that he

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was inspired with the law that Allah has hasn't even yet

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revealed.

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It's as if there's souls up in the heavens and in the sky is

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witnessing without us realizing the future and then coming down to

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us and we're processing it as our own decision. It appears to us as

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to my own judgment, it's not your own judgment you're inspired now

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your your Milham you're inspired

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her death and applets a bunch of new say,

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non melachim the Ennis quotes a business aid narrates from medica

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bananas. And what had definite in it anytime you reading a chain of

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transmission as his had death and had done it, and then it says what

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had death he adds the well there that means a new chain of

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transmission. What had done tonight is Hakuna Musa Ansari had

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given a man on medic

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say nearly mimetic, and Maka Rama Edna Sulaiman and Kure and Ben

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Ibis anytime you see a medic in a chain pay attention anytime you

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see memorable karate and a chain pay attention and Muslim in a

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chain pay attention that chain is say

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the many other Allamah have gathered between the here and the

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life. Right? Many, but the three and the four pinnacle is a METU.

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But the four the three main ones that if his name is in a chain,

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pay attention to the names after that chain, they're all sound of

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the highest level of authority. Okay, so this is MK Rama Ignis ole

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man crib and now does one of the highest has gears is that medic

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chose to narrate from somebody because he was such a meticulous

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transmitter, and he would only transmit you know, it came to the

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point that say that Malik went to Mecca, and there was a transmitter

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there. Everyone was taking from and he observed him and he refused

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to take from him.

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Okay. And they asked him, Why don't you never take from him you

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never sit in his class. And he wouldn't answer until finally they

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did see him taking his from his class. And then they said why? He

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said I saw him narrate a hadith about the prophets description and

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weeping.

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He wept. So I knew he's a righteous man. And I said, he took

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from him after that.

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says that even outbursts? acabado and Abeta in the Maimunah the

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prophets I seldom slept. Sorry, even I best slept over in the

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house of Maimunah Why would he do that? Because that is his aunt.

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Maimunah Bintan hateth she's the aunt of Ivanov, Bess. Okay. Her

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his dad and her brother and sister. So that makes her his Ent.

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Sorry. The I think is from the mom's side. Right if I'm not

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mistaken.

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Yeah, I think it's from the mom's side. If I'm not mistaken, but

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it's his color. Yes, it's his color.

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Maimunah and even our best his mom. They're sisters. So he's

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sleep over house. He can see her without hijab. Good. God. He said

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for the job to fi auto did we said so the

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prophets I seldom Maimunah and he slept across them.

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Well today Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam Fotolia Okay, he

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slept long ways. For now my Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa

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salam had to eat and cassava Lane he slept from the beginning of the

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night to the middle of the night.

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Oh come bloke basically or before the middle of the night by a

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little bit, oh, by Jehovah's colleague or after it by a little

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bit. So, hovering around the middle of the night. First day of

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Goddess Allahu alayhi wa sallam. Fajr Allah Yun says oh no man

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watch it. First thing the Prophet got up wiping the sleep off of his

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face, while Qatar al Ashraf al Hawa. tema min Surah T Ed Imran

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and he recited the last 10 verses of Eddie and Milan is one of the

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Sunon to recite those last 10 verses from students at a Milan

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film, calm up Illa Shannon walloping photobomb and then he

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got up to a goat skin and they used to take skins and make use

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them as water bags, essentially.

00:41:05 --> 00:41:09

He made Fastenal will and he did a nice slow, good will do.

00:41:10 --> 00:41:14

thermocol move slowly. Then he got up to pray. Ca Abdullah nobis he

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continues. I got up to Okay, and stood next to him. For the artists

00:41:20 --> 00:41:23

who Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam Yeah, the whole Yumna Allah see,

00:41:23 --> 00:41:29

from aka the balloon iliamna Fidella. Then he put his hand on

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my head, He rubbed his head and the end he held his right ear and

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he just touched it like this. Okay.

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What is that?

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The boy getting up pretended he's young boy. At this time. He's

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showing him approval without talking, showing him love and

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approval of what he's doing without talking. Okay, he is not

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the time for chit chat. 200 is not the time for chitchat. But by

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touching you can show approval and anyone who has kids knows this

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right? Or husband and wife you know this you can say a lot by

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just touching them and a touch with love. That's what the prophet

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is going to touch for approval signal of approval. Okay, and an

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affection

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it's important to show this because it shows that you're

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pleased with what they're doing. And there's also something very

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special about touching so why touching is haram between men and

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women skin to skin contact, you can't underestimate you know what

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there isn't that right that between husband and wife it can

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cure a lot of maladies of the heart.

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We know physically that as soon as a baby comes out of the mother it

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there has to be skin to skin contact. Right there's it does

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something there was a report then that you can look at that there

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was a baby that

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twins one was very healthy one was very sick.

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And they separated them and they tried to treat the sick baby

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right. But at one point they ended up there was only one little baby

00:43:00 --> 00:43:03

baskets so they put the baby in not a basket you know these

00:43:03 --> 00:43:09

bassinets so they put the two together at somehow the healthy

00:43:09 --> 00:43:17

baby reached up and held a put his arm on the sick baby the twin and

00:43:17 --> 00:43:21

there was no shirt on the sick baby so it was a skin to skin

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and the nurses noticed the vital signs of the baby improving over a

00:43:26 --> 00:43:29

period of time they said hold on to that leave it like that.

00:43:29 --> 00:43:31

Something about the skin to skin

00:43:33 --> 00:43:37

you can look this up I'm not making it up. Okay, someone on the

00:43:37 --> 00:43:41

stream look it up and give me a link to type up. And when we do

00:43:41 --> 00:43:44

the q&a We'll read that story. The skin to skin is very important. So

00:43:44 --> 00:43:48

here the prophets I send him has a very gentle like touching of his

00:43:48 --> 00:43:50

ear and his head. Okay.

00:43:52 --> 00:43:57

So then he says for Salah raka chain from Morocco Jane from

00:43:57 --> 00:44:01

Morocco, Jane from Morocco, Jane from Morocco, Jane Doe Morocco,

00:44:01 --> 00:44:08

Jane. Then the Prophet SAW Selim said six prayed 12 Arcus tu tu tu

00:44:08 --> 00:44:16

tu tu tu tu 12 raka thumb Oh Tara, then one raka total of 13 doctors.

00:44:16 --> 00:44:17

Then he slept again.

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Or he laid down again had deja vu for karma for some Lara Catania

00:44:23 --> 00:44:26

fever, but he laid down without falling asleep.

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Good.

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Alright.

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When whatever then came, he got up and he prayed to very shortly like

00:44:35 --> 00:44:39

us. Then he went out to the masjid, to pray with the people.

00:44:40 --> 00:44:44

Salah to fetch it is called surpass the time is called Fetch.

00:44:45 --> 00:44:46

But the prayer is called soup.

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That is a beautiful to hedge it of the messengers of Allah. I'm

00:44:51 --> 00:44:54

telling you, and I could swear up and down about this.

00:44:56 --> 00:44:59

I don't know how problems persist. If you have

00:45:00 --> 00:45:00

100

00:45:01 --> 00:45:07

If you have to hedge it will lie by Allah. Good, it will be a

00:45:07 --> 00:45:11

relief of all your problems. Even if the problem persists, your

00:45:11 --> 00:45:13

perception of it will transform.

00:45:14 --> 00:45:17

Well, so it's so that you don't think oh, we're selling some

00:45:17 --> 00:45:22

magic. So magic guaranteed either the problem will be solved or your

00:45:22 --> 00:45:26

perception of it will shift and so it will shift so much that the

00:45:26 --> 00:45:28

same problem you may start viewing it as an advantage

00:45:29 --> 00:45:30

to 100

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but we got to be fighting sins in the day and we got to make sure

00:45:34 --> 00:45:35

our income is high the

00:45:37 --> 00:45:41

next heavy then show about an epi genre. I live now Bess

00:45:43 --> 00:45:48

got her death in Abu Qure Muhammad Allah doesn't have a Kia and show

00:45:48 --> 00:45:52

a Barnaby Gemorah and if not best can be solo anywhere he was

00:45:52 --> 00:45:56

selling you suddenly Mina Layli Falletta Asha Raja Raja that's

00:45:56 --> 00:45:58

what he witnessed. He witnessed Thirteen's like us

00:46:01 --> 00:46:05

when one I send an ABS Lulu What are you Ernie was Ella McKenna

00:46:05 --> 00:46:10

either Lemieux Salib Lael mana whom in dedica No. Avila Bettina

00:46:10 --> 00:46:14

Solomon in the Hertie thin Dr. Shara Taraka, if the Prophet

00:46:15 --> 00:46:20

salallahu alayhi wa salam, and showing us an example, that there

00:46:20 --> 00:46:25

were days, so exhausted, he slept through the whole night.

00:46:26 --> 00:46:31

Why? Because it happens, right? He's showing he that happened to

00:46:31 --> 00:46:34

him to show us that it will happen to you too. I mean, I'm sure it's

00:46:34 --> 00:46:36

possible that you maybe traveled half a day maybe you worked

00:46:36 --> 00:46:40

overtime, whatever it is, you slept through the whole night. But

00:46:40 --> 00:46:44

what would he do? He get up his Doha salah, he would make up his

00:46:44 --> 00:46:50

200 Whatever it was 12 because in this case, and that's why Doha is

00:46:50 --> 00:46:54

also the makeup of tahajjud if you miss your gadget make it up in so

00:46:54 --> 00:46:54

lots of

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her death and I put a business agent had Davina Abu Alana Caja

00:47:03 --> 00:47:06

and Zara and sat in the Hisham

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and I Isha Allah one and then the BSL Allahu Allah. You were early.

00:47:12 --> 00:47:15

He was ALLAH McKenna either Lemieux Salim Elaine Menachem

00:47:15 --> 00:47:20

Angelica Norma Albertina, Solomon and herdy Sentosa raka one Abu

00:47:20 --> 00:47:24

Hurayrah and then the VSL Allah when he was a llama Kala is a coma

00:47:24 --> 00:47:29

I had documented Lael Foley after salata Who berocca 2015. If you're

00:47:29 --> 00:47:33

going to do many other many records, then you start off with a

00:47:33 --> 00:47:38

small short like us warmup. Even in a bed has warmup right you go

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

into big a bed or like that you can hurt yourself. You don't go

00:47:41 --> 00:47:43

lift, weightlifting and lift something big you can hurt

00:47:43 --> 00:47:49

yourself. Okay, so if you're going to do many rockers start with too

00:47:49 --> 00:47:51

short Caracas. Okay.

00:47:52 --> 00:47:55

All right. So now how long have we been going right

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alright, let's stop here. 48 minutes is good. Oh shoot. Well

00:48:02 --> 00:48:05

you guys did you guys have the bookmark? Shoot sorry about that.

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I just took out your bookmark

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okay, you can take the bookmark back but I just accidentally put

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my own bookmark in

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my own bookmark in here and then I'll and you guys can put your

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bookmark

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let's go to the article about the skin to skin

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here it is. Okay.

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Elegant Adams

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Cleveland Clinic All right, let's go to that Cleveland Clinic.

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Article 15 to 76 Let's go to that. All right.

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Cleveland

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Clinic

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what number is 15 to 76 to 76 Skin to skin and it should come up.

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Here it is. Skin to skin contact for you and baby not just you and

00:49:27 --> 00:49:30

maybe you and every you know who else whoever else you need to be

00:49:30 --> 00:49:34

close to skin to skin means your full term healthy baby is placed

00:49:34 --> 00:49:38

belly down on your chest right after birth.

00:49:39 --> 00:49:42

Which is pretty much what every civilization was probably doing in

00:49:42 --> 00:49:45

the old days, right? Because number one, they probably didn't

00:49:45 --> 00:49:48

have as much cloth and that's what you did. And that's it. Wouldn't

00:49:48 --> 00:49:51

that be what Every mother wants to do anyway? Right?

00:49:52 --> 00:49:56

Puts a hat on him or her covers him or her with a warm blanket and

00:49:56 --> 00:50:00

gets your baby settled on your chest. The first hours of

00:50:00 --> 00:50:04

snuggling skin to skin. Let you and your baby get to know each

00:50:04 --> 00:50:06

other and they are important health benefits. What are we

00:50:06 --> 00:50:11

reading here Cleveland Clinic not some kind of hippy vegan website,

00:50:11 --> 00:50:11

right.

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If your baby needs to meet the pediatrician first.

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Or if you deliver by C section you can unwrap your baby and cuddle

00:50:21 --> 00:50:22

shortly after birth.

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If necessary, your partner can do the partner. Your spouse can do

00:50:28 --> 00:50:33

the initial skin to skin. Newborns crave skin to skin contact, but

00:50:33 --> 00:50:36

it's sometimes overwhelming for new moms. While it would be

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overwhelming for the new mom, I have no experience being a mom but

00:50:39 --> 00:50:41

why don't you want your baby in front of you?

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Okay, let's look at the health benefits.

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They got to infuse their their their lifestyle in these articles.

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They tell me

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partner rescuing hug. This is another article rescuing hug.

00:51:03 --> 00:51:05

Baby Twins Brielle and Kyrie

00:51:07 --> 00:51:12

in 1995, a pair of twins Brill and Kyrie Jackson were born 12 weeks

00:51:12 --> 00:51:19

premature. Each weighed only two pounds like a little mouse. And

00:51:19 --> 00:51:23

one of them was expected to die not to survive. At three weeks,

00:51:23 --> 00:51:28

one twin went into critical condition. Her heart was soaring,

00:51:28 --> 00:51:33

her oxygen level dropping, and she was turning blue. The nurses tried

00:51:33 --> 00:51:36

everything but nothing worked and they were about to lose her. Then

00:51:36 --> 00:51:38

one nurse Gail Kasparian.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:44

Armenian decided to put the stronger twin next to her sister

00:51:44 --> 00:51:48

in the same incubator. Where did she get to? I think she got to do

00:51:48 --> 00:51:52

this from her instincts. fitrah instincts maybe Ill him or an

00:51:52 --> 00:51:55

angel that wants to save this baby. Just like it was not a

00:51:55 --> 00:51:56

procedure. It's not something that's to be done

00:51:58 --> 00:52:02

in the standard procedure is to put them in separate in incubators

00:52:02 --> 00:52:05

to avoid risk of infection, right which makes sense to

00:52:06 --> 00:52:07

then what happens

00:52:11 --> 00:52:15

once the twins were together, the baby snuggled up to carry

00:52:16 --> 00:52:20

the stronger twin. As soon as Kyrie put her arm around her

00:52:20 --> 00:52:24

sister. The vital signs including breathing and heart rate of the

00:52:24 --> 00:52:29

weaker twin instantly stabilized. They call this the rescuing hug.

00:52:29 --> 00:52:32

So the nurse I think that the that nurse did it by instinct.

00:52:33 --> 00:52:36

Without the rescuing hug that weaker twin would not have been

00:52:36 --> 00:52:40

able to survive. The hug helped change medicine in the US.

00:52:40 --> 00:52:40

Amazing.

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Okay,

00:52:47 --> 00:52:48

amazing. Thank you, right.

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So that's the idea here about

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it's not just skin to skin to skin for babies, I think it's for

00:53:03 --> 00:53:06

I don't give marriage advice. But

00:53:07 --> 00:53:11

instinct and common sense says if a husband and wife have an

00:53:11 --> 00:53:14

intimate moment, it's going to erase a lot of their issues.

00:53:14 --> 00:53:18

Right? It's going to erase a lot of what may be between them of ice

00:53:18 --> 00:53:22

Enos of distance of misunderstanding. Instinct is

00:53:22 --> 00:53:26

telling me that better sleep quality after skin to skin

00:53:26 --> 00:53:30

confidence in handling the baby for the mom ability to learn how

00:53:30 --> 00:53:31

your baby sleeps.

00:53:33 --> 00:53:38

Identification of cues by the baby and the mum.

00:53:39 --> 00:53:43

Less infant crying and distress, less sadness. I don't know what

00:53:43 --> 00:53:48

baby blues is. Oh for the mom, less baby blues being for the mum.

00:53:48 --> 00:53:49

Postpartum depression for the mum.

00:53:51 --> 00:53:54

Alright, postpartum depression happens because this woman has a

00:53:54 --> 00:53:56

baby usually. And they don't have a support system around them in

00:53:56 --> 00:53:58

the United States the way we live in England, America and all these

00:53:58 --> 00:54:00

places, Western countries you don't live with like

00:54:04 --> 00:54:08

many a lot of family around you. Okay. You need you need family

00:54:08 --> 00:54:11

around in this day and age in this economy. I've tell you, you need

00:54:11 --> 00:54:15

family around you. I mean, the idea that this nuclear family is

00:54:15 --> 00:54:19

an innovation in human history that you live mom, dad and the

00:54:19 --> 00:54:23

kids. It was always mom, dad, the kids and around the village was

00:54:23 --> 00:54:27

neighbors were family. You need the support system.

00:54:29 --> 00:54:32

Even financially these days, you need the support system, who can

00:54:32 --> 00:54:35

avoid everyone. Everyone now has a home by themselves not

00:54:35 --> 00:54:36

impractical.

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Paying a babysitter every time you want to get some breathing room.

00:54:40 --> 00:54:42

It's not practical. You need a family around you.

00:54:44 --> 00:54:45

If you can, you know

00:54:46 --> 00:54:50

have that. Parents are better rested and more relaxed by the end

00:54:50 --> 00:54:53

of the first week home because the baby's more relaxed. increased

00:54:53 --> 00:54:57

opportunity for skin to skin contact contact produces all these

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

likes more stable body temperatures.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:05

All right, less crying, more contentment, even the blood sugar

00:55:05 --> 00:55:09

so somehow becomes better. Good.

00:55:10 --> 00:55:16

Stress hormones decrease. These people they have to sign defies

00:55:16 --> 00:55:19

everything. There's no sense of fitrah right? instinct tells you

00:55:19 --> 00:55:22

to do this. I guess it's good because it proves the instinct to

00:55:22 --> 00:55:23

be correct.

00:55:25 --> 00:55:30

Babies get exposed to the bacteria on the mother's skin, which helps

00:55:30 --> 00:55:32

the immune system and makes them

00:55:33 --> 00:55:38

protects them from being sick to other harmful germs. So all of

00:55:38 --> 00:55:41

this from the skin to skin and we got that because as the prophets I

00:55:41 --> 00:55:45

said them had touched it been best from his ears, just sick,

00:55:45 --> 00:55:49

signaling to him and affection and a love and an approval. And that's

00:55:49 --> 00:55:55

where eventually essentially we took off from there. Okay. All

00:55:55 --> 00:55:58

right. Let us now go to

00:55:59 --> 00:56:03

the q&a. Today, we're opening up for q&a. And generally the topic

00:56:03 --> 00:56:07

of a bad and whatever we've been talking about. It's not a general

00:56:07 --> 00:56:10

open q&a. So as if we touched up on something you can bring up the

00:56:10 --> 00:56:11

question for it.

00:56:13 --> 00:56:16

We have a message from Brother Harris. I mean, what is it?

00:56:19 --> 00:56:22

Okay, we restart that I got you on the mic now.

00:56:23 --> 00:56:24

Raise your volume up a little bit

00:56:28 --> 00:56:32

in the baby's mouth immediately after birth. And they're starting

00:56:32 --> 00:56:36

to realize that now putting a bolus of sugar in the baby's mouth

00:56:36 --> 00:56:39

immediately after birth of the baby. So that's also something

00:56:40 --> 00:56:43

traditionally been done for over a century. And we're just finding

00:56:43 --> 00:56:44

out that that's kind of

00:56:46 --> 00:56:47

repeat because I couldn't hear

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I'm putting a date

00:56:51 --> 00:56:55

there scientifically realizing that this is beneficial. Okay.

00:56:56 --> 00:57:01

Good. So, what Harrison mean said Is he brought another Sunnah of

00:57:01 --> 00:57:04

the messenger peace be upon him, when you when a baby's born, you

00:57:04 --> 00:57:06

take a bite from a date, okay?

00:57:08 --> 00:57:10

A little bite off the tip of a date.

00:57:11 --> 00:57:14

And then you rub that inside of that date inside the mouth, and

00:57:14 --> 00:57:19

the gums of the baby. And even the tongue if you can, so that

00:57:19 --> 00:57:22

immediately some sugar comes into the mouth of the that's some of

00:57:22 --> 00:57:25

the prophesy sentiment, apparently now that's a practice. And

00:57:27 --> 00:57:29

I'm sure we can find articles for that too.

00:57:31 --> 00:57:35

Muhammad mahiya Dean, my daughter is nine years old, what is the

00:57:35 --> 00:57:39

lenient position in terms of hijab in the method do I have to mandate

00:57:39 --> 00:57:45

it should not mandate it until blue. But there is a middle period

00:57:45 --> 00:57:51

between when a girl is no becomes sensible and understands. And then

00:57:51 --> 00:57:56

when she reaches blue. And in that middle period, there may be a

00:57:56 --> 00:58:00

gradation of how she dresses now, she may no longer wear short

00:58:00 --> 00:58:04

shorts, right? Or tank tops, but at the same time not wearing a

00:58:04 --> 00:58:09

job, you're gonna go through a gradation, and then a job when the

00:58:09 --> 00:58:14

time comes of blue, and maybe even slightly before blue so that it's

00:58:14 --> 00:58:18

not like Okay, tomorrow, right? So there may be times where it goes

00:58:18 --> 00:58:21

out with hijab a couple of times. And you can ask the Muslim women

00:58:21 --> 00:58:23

how they treat their daughters with that. But I have I'm also

00:58:23 --> 00:58:27

witness, right, because I have two daughters. So my testimony is not

00:58:28 --> 00:58:33

illegitimate either. It's very legitimate testimony, right? Where

00:58:34 --> 00:58:37

that's how I've seen things go. So there's a gradation from let's

00:58:37 --> 00:58:42

say, age nine, maybe two more years, that maybe from age eight,

00:58:42 --> 00:58:46

the clothing change a little bit, right, not like the kiddie shorts

00:58:46 --> 00:58:49

anymore, the tank tops will start decreasing.

00:58:50 --> 00:58:51

And then eventually,

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they start dressing fully like they're, you know, sisters and

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moms if their moms wear hijab, right and again,

00:59:00 --> 00:59:03

the mother is ultimately the best teacher in the family. She's the

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moral source of the family.

00:59:07 --> 00:59:12

Turquoise vase, I sometimes think why not Turkish mosques, massage

00:59:12 --> 00:59:15

and work like Western one. When you ask question to Western

00:59:15 --> 00:59:19

Muslims, they say that talk with Imam if you want to marry go ask

00:59:19 --> 00:59:23

Imam. When you want to find friends go to Masjid. It is cool.

00:59:23 --> 00:59:25

There are a lot of mosques here and you can find a lot of big

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mosque and walking distance but I don't know why doesn't work as

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Westerners say about their message. I can tell you the answer

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for turquoise vase.

00:59:34 --> 00:59:38

The Masjid in America and England in all these non Islamic countries

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is the only place there's Islam. These masajid are not just masajid

00:59:42 --> 00:59:47

This is our OMA our community centers. Everything is there.

00:59:47 --> 00:59:52

That's why in the East it is totally reasonable for this idea

00:59:52 --> 00:59:54

that women don't go to mosques. She doesn't need to go to the

00:59:54 --> 00:59:59

masjid. She's got Islam all around her. In the old days now it's

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changed

01:00:00 --> 01:00:03

I think all of the world now is becoming a western world in that

01:00:03 --> 01:00:07

respect, that there's no slum, except in the mosques. But mosque

01:00:07 --> 01:00:10

used to be government buildings for the obligatory rituals and the

01:00:10 --> 01:00:13

prayers. That's it. All right.

01:00:14 --> 01:00:17

You can, if you want to get married, there are people your

01:00:17 --> 01:00:20

family can help you. If you need friends. Your family circles can

01:00:20 --> 01:00:24

help you with that, right? There used to be Zoe's like private

01:00:24 --> 01:00:29

centers by Sue that did not rival the mosques. So what is his Elia

01:00:29 --> 01:00:34

azalea is a sheikh he's got his own building. It's private, right?

01:00:34 --> 01:00:38

It's his it's his building. Right? They teach classes, they do

01:00:38 --> 01:00:41

everything but they do not rival the activities of the mosque.

01:00:41 --> 01:00:45

We're actually having something like that here. Right? We have

01:00:45 --> 01:00:49

this building that we're in right now. We're in the third floor. We

01:00:49 --> 01:00:52

got a second floor. We got a first floor, we got a basement. It does

01:00:53 --> 01:00:58

a lot of things, none of which rivals the Masjid. Right. If we

01:00:58 --> 01:01:00

have five prayers here, it's only for the people that are here.

01:01:01 --> 01:01:04

Right? We're not advertising it. The anyone could eventually

01:01:04 --> 01:01:07

probably people could stop by and pray. But it's not a masjid. In

01:01:07 --> 01:01:10

that sense. There's not going to be drama here. There's not going

01:01:10 --> 01:01:13

to be eight here. There's not going to be Tada, we're here.

01:01:13 --> 01:01:17

Okay. The it does not revive all the things that the masjid does.

01:01:18 --> 01:01:21

But it does what the masjid cannot do, like have a permanent setup

01:01:21 --> 01:01:25

for the studio. You did not know the headache of having to set up

01:01:26 --> 01:01:29

something every single time and break it down every single time.

01:01:29 --> 01:01:30

Right?

01:01:31 --> 01:01:36

The classroom space when we have our Mount Hood, right and our

01:01:36 --> 01:01:40

seminary, it's not gonna change the setup will remain as it is.

01:01:40 --> 01:01:43

Right? You don't have to, you're not gonna have strangers coming

01:01:43 --> 01:01:48

in. Right and misusing the building. Things like that. We're

01:01:48 --> 01:01:51

gonna have people off the streets coming to eat and coming into the

01:01:51 --> 01:01:54

center. You don't want that at the community mosque. We did that one

01:01:54 --> 01:01:59

time people stuff was stolen. Weirdos were like, Hi. All right,

01:01:59 --> 01:02:02

looking at you. We like you don't want your kid walking down the

01:02:02 --> 01:02:05

hall anymore. So we're like, that's not going to work. There's

01:02:05 --> 01:02:10

a space for Dawa for online production for

01:02:11 --> 01:02:15

specialized classes that are not for the public. Good.

01:02:16 --> 01:02:20

In other words, it's for beloved LM only it's Azalea. But it's a

01:02:20 --> 01:02:24

modern Zoja with a studio with a soup kitchen like the ancient

01:02:24 --> 01:02:25

Turks used to do.

01:02:26 --> 01:02:33

All right, and with a man a madrasah in it. So in Turkey in

01:02:33 --> 01:02:37

Egypt in these places. You didn't need a community center you had

01:02:37 --> 01:02:42

the whole country you had Islam everywhere. We here only have

01:02:42 --> 01:02:46

Islam within the four walls of the mosque. So everyone needs to come

01:02:46 --> 01:02:48

to the masjid that's the only place you're gonna find Islam

01:02:48 --> 01:02:53

right public place so that's why turquoise let me know if you're

01:02:53 --> 01:02:56

still here and if you understood my question, or if you got the

01:02:56 --> 01:02:59

answer because she she brought up a very good question and that's

01:02:59 --> 01:02:59

exactly what

01:03:04 --> 01:03:06

Mahmud Morehead Jean, May Allah help us with our desires. What

01:03:06 --> 01:03:12

about Muslims demonizing secret second marriages. But Western

01:03:12 --> 01:03:17

culture has demonized polygamy and made and if made public family

01:03:17 --> 01:03:17

will be destroyed.

01:03:19 --> 01:03:21

The liberal culture

01:03:23 --> 01:03:29

if you notice, is against everything. Family and Children.

01:03:30 --> 01:03:32

Children they want to abort them.

01:03:34 --> 01:03:37

Sexuality have * that doesn't produce children.

01:03:38 --> 01:03:42

Okay, * that destroys a marriage.

01:03:44 --> 01:03:50

Promote it. * work, legitimize it, marriage make fun of it.

01:03:52 --> 01:03:54

A father raising his daughter and having a relationship with his

01:03:54 --> 01:03:57

daughter and teaching his daughter what the limits are of Islam.

01:03:58 --> 01:03:59

oppression and patriarchy.

01:04:02 --> 01:04:03

oppression and patriarchy if it's my rules,

01:04:05 --> 01:04:07

come and bring me my slippers. As soon as I walk in the house,

01:04:07 --> 01:04:11

scratch my back, make me a snack. You could say fine. This is like

01:04:11 --> 01:04:16

what if that happened? I'd be like, what? It's not our culture,

01:04:16 --> 01:04:20

but the rules of Allah and His messenger. So my rules, right?

01:04:20 --> 01:04:23

That's what I that's what I say in my household. It's like, Can we do

01:04:23 --> 01:04:27

this? No. Why can we do it? I don't know. It's not my rules,

01:04:27 --> 01:04:30

right? I'm just giving you who provides us the sustenance don't

01:04:30 --> 01:04:34

we live in peace with a great amount of peace is never fighting.

01:04:35 --> 01:04:38

There's never drugs. There's never depression. Where's this peace

01:04:38 --> 01:04:41

coming from? The Sakina is coming because we follow the laws rules.

01:04:41 --> 01:04:45

So Allah gives us a schema. So whatever is in this law book of

01:04:45 --> 01:04:50

the Maliki method, that's the law of this house. Why? It's because

01:04:50 --> 01:04:53

that's the law. We can look at the wisdoms if you want. Why do we

01:04:53 --> 01:04:55

have to stop at red light because it makes sense. Okay, fine. You

01:04:55 --> 01:04:57

can make sense what about to in the morning just to stop at the

01:04:57 --> 01:05:00

red light. No one's there. You still stop at the red

01:05:00 --> 01:05:03

Light, I stopped, I don't do it anymore. I just go through the red

01:05:03 --> 01:05:06

light, right? But don't tell people that I probably wouldn't do

01:05:06 --> 01:05:09

it in front of my kids either. Because they might miss apply the

01:05:09 --> 01:05:12

rule and get hit by a car, right? Or they may misinterpret the rule

01:05:12 --> 01:05:14

and do it at seven at night and then get hit by a car. So

01:05:16 --> 01:05:18

there's a lot of rules. Okay?

01:05:19 --> 01:05:22

That don't make sense to you. I don't care if it makes sense or

01:05:22 --> 01:05:28

not. Why is it that water hydrates and not coffee? Coffee dehydrates?

01:05:28 --> 01:05:31

I don't know the bodies created that like that, because that's it.

01:05:31 --> 01:05:34

Who cares? Just if you need hydration, drink water, don't

01:05:34 --> 01:05:37

drink caffeine. Caffeine will dehydrate you, water will hydrate

01:05:37 --> 01:05:41

you. Do you ask why? Oh, if Allah created the body like that, hello.

01:05:41 --> 01:05:45

So that's it. So that's it. So

01:05:48 --> 01:05:53

answer that question was there against everything that is family

01:05:53 --> 01:05:58

Tobia, producing children raising children, and they want to steal

01:05:58 --> 01:06:03

it from you and take it into the schools and have the schools raise

01:06:03 --> 01:06:05

your kids to schools teaching your kids about sexuality.

01:06:06 --> 01:06:10

Right? Absolute strangers can do it you can't. Okay

01:06:12 --> 01:06:15

Nothing says I posted on the Patreon community page just to

01:06:16 --> 01:06:20

check if I'm on the correct one. Can someone confirm that it is

01:06:20 --> 01:06:23

yes, we can confirm for you right now. If we go on to our own

01:06:23 --> 01:06:27

Patreon page, and see if we have a post let's see.

01:06:28 --> 01:06:30

A post let's see where

01:06:32 --> 01:06:34

I don't see it posts.

01:06:36 --> 01:06:38

Our Patreon page looks

01:06:40 --> 01:06:43

like this. It says Safina society. I don't know if you can see this.

01:06:43 --> 01:06:47

It says nothing but this is one of the prettiest

01:06:48 --> 01:06:53

pages no not to like boast about our own page. Oh, is Your Name

01:06:53 --> 01:06:57

Zen? Yes. Is this the right page? Yes, it is the right page. Let's

01:06:57 --> 01:07:00

post her yes it is. Okay, so

01:07:01 --> 01:07:04

that is Zen. I guess

01:07:05 --> 01:07:11

her name is nothing or his name is nothing on YouTube. Gotta wait.

01:07:11 --> 01:07:15

You're not making it up. We did. We do this skin to skin with all

01:07:15 --> 01:07:20

premies Thank you very much. All right. We got backing from a nurse

01:07:20 --> 01:07:24

here. Maha Massoud I found countless stories of life saving

01:07:24 --> 01:07:27

stories of newborns thanks to skin to skin

01:07:29 --> 01:07:31

UNICEF has an article on skin to skin

01:07:33 --> 01:07:35

and it's also known as the kangaroo method

01:07:39 --> 01:07:44

Eglinton Adams says I've heard somewhere that even when we make

01:07:44 --> 01:07:46

we do and touch our bodies it has a healing effect you know what

01:07:46 --> 01:07:50

else touches you really well Allah had already met will cure you

01:07:50 --> 01:07:56

mentally cold water with us multiple times a day will lead to

01:07:56 --> 01:08:01

your mood if you're in a like a low any upset mood you're a little

01:08:01 --> 01:08:06

bit off make a wood with regular room temperature water or cold

01:08:06 --> 01:08:11

water okay if you're and then if you're still like that make

01:08:11 --> 01:08:14

another will do will do upon will do or every time you go to the

01:08:14 --> 01:08:16

bathroom make will do continue to make will do

01:08:18 --> 01:08:22

there's something physical and spiritual. They will say to you oh

01:08:22 --> 01:08:25

it's the cold water effect and we have this guy from Iceland is

01:08:25 --> 01:08:29

swearing his whole project of health is about breathing and

01:08:29 --> 01:08:33

taking cold baths okay, maybe you're right because we have hola

01:08:33 --> 01:08:36

is Rahmani Raheem. mando dunya Rahim will occur, there is a

01:08:36 --> 01:08:40

material value, and there's a spiritual value. There's two

01:08:40 --> 01:08:44

values. They're only taking the material you benefit from that

01:08:44 --> 01:08:48

good for you. But we're doing it by the Sunnah. We're gonna get the

01:08:48 --> 01:08:51

material and the spiritual value of it.

01:08:53 --> 01:08:56

Flowers star says apparently in America, you have to pay extra for

01:08:56 --> 01:09:03

skin to skin contact with my own kid. Unreal. Unreal. Mason Haix.

01:09:03 --> 01:09:08

What is the streaming schedule? If Ryan has the streaming schedule,

01:09:08 --> 01:09:12

we could put that up for a second. No, not yet. Okay, but automatic

01:09:12 --> 01:09:16

put it up Monday through Thursday 130 Eastern Standard Time. Flower

01:09:16 --> 01:09:21

star says might also might be also linked to the makeup handshake

01:09:21 --> 01:09:24

teachers make children do after a fight an argument Yes, the

01:09:24 --> 01:09:27

handshake after a fight an argument and we have the test lien

01:09:27 --> 01:09:33

menorah, Majelis. So we have a vicar for example. After the vicar

01:09:33 --> 01:09:36

all the brothers come to the right and the sisters they all come to

01:09:36 --> 01:09:40

the left of the of the first person in the Methodist let's say

01:09:40 --> 01:09:43

the person sitting at the front of the Methodist everyone comes to

01:09:43 --> 01:09:46

the left and then we make a line and we do it to Salim you're

01:09:46 --> 01:09:50

making eye contact you're making dua for Salam is dua for one

01:09:50 --> 01:09:52

another and you're touching their hands and then that person stands

01:09:52 --> 01:09:58

next to you. Next person comes in salaam, okay. And sometimes the

01:09:58 --> 01:10:00

second person and he becomes the third person

01:10:00 --> 01:10:02

The next person comes sometimes the first second and third and

01:10:02 --> 01:10:06

becomes the fourth person in that way everyone in the room salaams

01:10:06 --> 01:10:07

everyone else

01:10:09 --> 01:10:13

that Salam it building brings the hearts together brings iContact

01:10:13 --> 01:10:17

together and when you do it repeatedly, eventually you say

01:10:17 --> 01:10:20

well what's your name? Right? You get to know each other. The

01:10:20 --> 01:10:21

brothers do this the sisters do that.

01:10:24 --> 01:10:28

Good. Halloween to hedge it to tacos is enough. Yes, it is

01:10:28 --> 01:10:32

enough. And by the way, if you want to improve it, recite

01:10:32 --> 01:10:34

something from the Messiah recite a page or two from the Quran,

01:10:34 --> 01:10:36

three, four or five pages from the Quran.

01:10:37 --> 01:10:40

Kinda white days still put the full term baby on the mommy's

01:10:40 --> 01:10:42

tummy in Denmark. Are you from Denmark?

01:10:44 --> 01:10:47

Masha, Allah. Caitlin, Joe ham says, If you pray all night

01:10:47 --> 01:10:51

without sleeping first. It's the same reward, but it's not the same

01:10:51 --> 01:10:56

effects. When you asleep, you erase the memories of the day, the

01:10:56 --> 01:11:00

stresses of the day, you're gonna wake up and it's as if you're, you

01:11:00 --> 01:11:06

have like a metal rod like this. And the day has made it rusty.

01:11:07 --> 01:11:12

Right? So it's not going to receive the signal as well. But

01:11:12 --> 01:11:16

it's as if the night when you sleep, you put it down you, you

01:11:16 --> 01:11:19

clean it out, you put it down, and then your wake of retention. You

01:11:19 --> 01:11:23

pull it up again, and it's now fresh. It's going to receive

01:11:23 --> 01:11:27

signals that are much better. You guys know what this is? It's our

01:11:27 --> 01:11:32

shadow. Like take a look. Let's see if you see a difference. Red

01:11:36 --> 01:11:36

cayenne.

01:11:38 --> 01:11:43

What is this a Cayenne when it sort of turquoise? Green.

01:11:43 --> 01:11:46

Interesting. I love this little remote control. I like remote

01:11:46 --> 01:11:48

control things. Pu what's pu

01:11:50 --> 01:11:50

purple.

01:11:52 --> 01:11:55

I love purple and blue. I don't know who would do yellow. Right.

01:11:56 --> 01:12:00

Green not so much. So what do you guys say? What should we put here?

01:12:01 --> 01:12:01

Yeah.

01:12:03 --> 01:12:03

Throw it

01:12:05 --> 01:12:05

here we go.

01:12:07 --> 01:12:08

Do this. Yeah.

01:12:09 --> 01:12:15

the vicarage this is it's green. Yeah, it rotates. Oh, it rotates

01:12:15 --> 01:12:19

we do a green sometimes nice but it's one oh alternating colors.

01:12:19 --> 01:12:22

Let's let's put it wrote let's keep it on road. Should we keep it

01:12:22 --> 01:12:23

on Rotate today?

01:12:24 --> 01:12:26

Let's keep it on Rotate. It's nice.

01:12:33 --> 01:12:39

All right, next question comes from Shazia 2805 at hamdulillah

01:12:39 --> 01:12:43

May Allah reward us and may Allah reward you and my love to Allah

01:12:43 --> 01:12:47

keep us upon the state of humility and a state of staying in the

01:12:47 --> 01:12:50

masajid living our entire lives and chakra of Allah subhanho wa

01:12:50 --> 01:12:55

Taala with humble service to the OMA in the masajid not just me l

01:12:55 --> 01:13:00

the DUA the dropouts and all those who who helped with that. And may

01:13:00 --> 01:13:03

Allah try to increase our brother Ryan for doing the the

01:13:05 --> 01:13:08

timestamps, a lot of people talk about how much they benefit from

01:13:08 --> 01:13:09

the timestamps, right.

01:13:11 --> 01:13:15

Ryan insha Allah maybe someday, as he seeks knowledge he'll be giving

01:13:15 --> 01:13:18

some of the live stream to good

01:13:19 --> 01:13:24

can you advise on dua for let restlessness due to a time of

01:13:24 --> 01:13:24

trial

01:13:27 --> 01:13:28

Allahumma iliamna Sobor

01:13:29 --> 01:13:31

ask Allah for a Sabra

01:13:33 --> 01:13:36

Allah made him to sub O Allah give us the sub write

01:13:37 --> 01:13:41

anything that you need go to that direct thing for a lunch I just to

01:13:41 --> 01:13:42

give you that sub.

01:13:44 --> 01:13:44

What

01:13:46 --> 01:13:49

are the secret? Is a beef between Medic?

01:13:50 --> 01:13:54

Medic isn't Hanafy is our briefing on Instagram. I'm scrolling

01:13:54 --> 01:13:56

through I haven't gotten there yet. So I'm interested to see

01:13:56 --> 01:13:59

we've said please take this discussion elsewhere email.

01:14:00 --> 01:14:05

We never even talked about the HANA fights did we know I think

01:14:06 --> 01:14:08

did we mentioned Hana fight law today?

01:14:09 --> 01:14:15

I saw someone asked a question. Yeah. Why? Which which method is

01:14:15 --> 01:14:19

closest to the core and which method is closest to the Quran and

01:14:19 --> 01:14:22

the Sunnah? Well the Hanafi method is closest to the sun, not the

01:14:22 --> 01:14:25

Maliki method is the sun right? Because whereas madaket method

01:14:25 --> 01:14:30

coming from Madina, Munawwara right, and all of the LE Kufa what

01:14:30 --> 01:14:34

would they love, they would love they would consider, like

01:14:34 --> 01:14:36

honorable and noble, the one who studied in Medina.

01:14:37 --> 01:14:42

No discussion on that. Red Rose says a friend argued hijab came

01:14:42 --> 01:14:45

down as one of the last commandments and is arguing for it

01:14:45 --> 01:14:48

not to be a priority when marrying a spouse.

01:14:50 --> 01:14:55

The idea that the commandments are in order of importance based on

01:14:55 --> 01:14:58

the revelation is not correct. What's worse?

01:14:59 --> 01:14:59

What's worse

01:15:02 --> 01:15:03

river,

01:15:05 --> 01:15:11

the river or back or backbiting? You're gonna go to Allah with one

01:15:11 --> 01:15:16

sin on your record river backbiting which one are you

01:15:16 --> 01:15:16

choosing?

01:15:19 --> 01:15:21

You want neither, right? But gun to your head, you have to make a

01:15:21 --> 01:15:22

choice.

01:15:23 --> 01:15:24

Right?

01:15:25 --> 01:15:28

Okay, backbiting is less, right. The prohibition of backbiting was

01:15:28 --> 01:15:32

way early. The prohibition of river was the last prohibition.

01:15:32 --> 01:15:38

It's one of the worst of sins, that the 15th methodology of red

01:15:38 --> 01:15:41

rose is friend is incorrect.

01:15:44 --> 01:15:48

If a job is such no big deal, then why not do it? Right? Never see

01:15:48 --> 01:15:52

this. Oh, hijab is no big deal. Then do it then. Right? By the

01:15:52 --> 01:15:54

way, I'm not a woman. So I don't know the pressures of hijab. But

01:15:54 --> 01:15:58

the logic of it's no big deal. forget anything. Oh, it's no big

01:15:58 --> 01:16:02

deal, then do it? Right. I think if if, you know, I'm not in

01:16:02 --> 01:16:05

position to give any advice. If somebody's caught up in that

01:16:05 --> 01:16:06

mindset, yeah, take him to

01:16:08 --> 01:16:12

walk around and you'll see nobody see nobody's hair some of this

01:16:12 --> 01:16:16

stuff. Come back and you're not gonna want to at some point. Yeah.

01:16:19 --> 01:16:22

That's the value of the sort of being around solder Heenan,

01:16:22 --> 01:16:26

everyone's assaulted at ombre acting like Assad at least. So you

01:16:26 --> 01:16:32

get used to it. So in some Muslim countries, non Muslims greet each

01:16:32 --> 01:16:35

other by kissing each other on the cheeks. How to avoid such a

01:16:35 --> 01:16:37

situation COVID

01:16:39 --> 01:16:42

cough all over them wear a mask or tell them

01:16:43 --> 01:16:46

I have a religion note, by the way, right? And we don't do this.

01:16:46 --> 01:16:50

But it's going to be you're gonna have to treat it differently.

01:16:50 --> 01:16:54

Because, you know, it is true that some of these cultures have taken

01:16:54 --> 01:16:57

on French and European greetings where

01:16:58 --> 01:17:01

like, let's say two couples are coming to have dinner to another

01:17:01 --> 01:17:05

couple. The husband, the wife of the other guy will greet with a

01:17:05 --> 01:17:09

handshake and a kiss on the cheek. Right to the other dude.

01:17:10 --> 01:17:13

It's a European culture that has spread into the Arab world through

01:17:13 --> 01:17:17

copter colonization. And they got to figure something out.

01:17:19 --> 01:17:24

Yes, ma'am. You're going to be able to fly over from England. And

01:17:26 --> 01:17:30

you know what we should do Ryan. We also should buy a couple of the

01:17:30 --> 01:17:34

apartments across the street and make them hotels. Make one of them

01:17:34 --> 01:17:38

a hotel room. Anyone in the world wants to come bring your family

01:17:38 --> 01:17:42

cheap. It'll be you know, you're gonna pay, but not as not a lot.

01:17:42 --> 01:17:46

We one thing we can't do, though. We can't do what the Jews do in

01:17:46 --> 01:17:50

Brooklyn, which is what? What's it called? Gentrification.

01:17:50 --> 01:17:55

Gentrification. Only cheap for Muslims. Oh, yeah. That's nasty.

01:17:55 --> 01:18:00

Yeah. You mean it's basically it's oppressive. They read all the

01:18:00 --> 01:18:03

prices for everybody else who lives there. Yeah, that's lower it

01:18:03 --> 01:18:06

all for the family. Yeah, that's oppression that you end up hated?

01:18:06 --> 01:18:10

Yeah. Is there predestination agenda? Everything's everything is

01:18:10 --> 01:18:11

in Allah's knowledge.

01:18:12 --> 01:18:15

Which men have is more in line with the authentic sunnah. That's

01:18:15 --> 01:18:21

it is the question that brought up the beef. What are the benefits of

01:18:21 --> 01:18:26

weds Latif? It protects you from hazard of people it protects it

01:18:26 --> 01:18:30

helps forgive sins, it strengthens your your Amen and your your your

01:18:30 --> 01:18:34

leaf and Allah. It gives you the rewards of all the earth god and

01:18:34 --> 01:18:38

it protects you from it protects you from a lot of bad things.

01:18:41 --> 01:18:45

Carla White says she's not a nurse but a mom of two premiums. So

01:18:45 --> 01:18:51

that's how she knows about the skin to skin. All right, Imam Abu

01:18:51 --> 01:18:56

Hanifa is the name of the Lincoln that's where their dispute is.

01:18:56 --> 01:19:03

Yes, all the muda hip are valid to be followed. Okay. And it is just

01:19:03 --> 01:19:08

of merely joking. In a halal way when we say one is better than the

01:19:08 --> 01:19:11

other. Okay. We don't come who are we to compare the

01:19:12 --> 01:19:17

Abu Hanifa a medic and Chevy and Ahmed Zipit who are you? You don't

01:19:17 --> 01:19:22

even know how to make will do until two weeks ago. Okay. So we

01:19:22 --> 01:19:25

don't compare between the Imams and if anyone does it's just like

01:19:25 --> 01:19:27

a mere just okay

01:19:31 --> 01:19:33

why wow she's almost a nurse because she had to stay in the

01:19:33 --> 01:19:36

hospital for two months for each kid. You know those kids sometimes

01:19:36 --> 01:19:38

they have some kind of a bucket to them because everyone's making out

01:19:38 --> 01:19:41

for them. You know that like whenever a baby's born and

01:19:41 --> 01:19:43

straight in the hospital, the whole community whole family is

01:19:43 --> 01:19:48

making dua for them. Okay, they that's a Baraka because they have

01:19:48 --> 01:19:53

that DeWanna regular baby gonna have that drop. So should we redo

01:19:53 --> 01:19:57

our Salah if we forget to receive it recite a sutra After Effects

01:19:57 --> 01:19:59

and one of the first two Rakas you need to do

01:20:00 --> 01:20:00

In

01:20:02 --> 01:20:08

such the day, a sell to sujood. So, after when you remember, but

01:20:08 --> 01:20:13

if a long time has passed, okay? And then call us it's it's past,

01:20:14 --> 01:20:19

but in the future if you forget the sutra, after Fatiha, you owe

01:20:19 --> 01:20:21

to Soho before you Salam al

01:20:22 --> 01:20:23

All right.

01:20:25 --> 01:20:30

Nothing says also wanted to say I always watch the stream later on

01:20:30 --> 01:20:32

but I hope to still get the reward of being in the gathering

01:20:32 --> 01:20:37

Mashallah. And we want to come to the UK, we would love to come to

01:20:37 --> 01:20:41

the UK. I want to come to the UK. I also want to go to Singapore. I

01:20:41 --> 01:20:45

was scheduled to go for Singapore, a tour in Singapore, Singapore, as

01:20:45 --> 01:20:47

the Arabs call it Singapore that

01:20:49 --> 01:20:54

were COVID hit in March. So that canceled the whole summer tour.

01:20:55 --> 01:20:58

But I really want to go to Singapore and Indonesia and

01:20:58 --> 01:21:02

Malaysia. Now single fora is a state in Malaysia, but it was so

01:21:02 --> 01:21:07

successful that it cut themselves off from the rest of Malaysia from

01:21:07 --> 01:21:09

not mistaken about it's Malaysia it's connected to Malaysia and I

01:21:09 --> 01:21:13

think Indonesia is separate use of sets can you explain in detail how

01:21:13 --> 01:21:16

we can make for Miss tahajud if you missed 100 You prayed again in

01:21:16 --> 01:21:20

the morning, you pray what you were routinely praying you pray

01:21:20 --> 01:21:21

that in the morning.

01:21:23 --> 01:21:28

App workflow says was Maria Katya Mohammed's wife, please answer

01:21:28 --> 01:21:30

yes, say Jill Conan.

01:21:32 --> 01:21:34

He freed her and to graduate.

01:21:35 --> 01:21:39

She was given to him as a gift a slave woman that was a thing in

01:21:39 --> 01:21:41

the past. And then he freed her and made her with

01:21:42 --> 01:21:46

Solomon how to reconcile the fact of repentance at any time. Is this

01:21:46 --> 01:21:50

an encouraged to sin now and repent later? The only repentance

01:21:50 --> 01:21:54

that is not accepted is the planned repentance. Okay, let me

01:21:54 --> 01:21:58

go out with this girl. And I'll make Toba next year. I'm going for

01:21:58 --> 01:22:03

Ramona in December. That gives me some leeway to have some fun in

01:22:03 --> 01:22:07

November. Right? That's the repentance that is considered a

01:22:07 --> 01:22:08

mockery of the dean and it's not allowed.

01:22:11 --> 01:22:16

Licks says, Do you guys allow donations on YouTube? I didn't

01:22:16 --> 01:22:19

know that was a thing. But no, only on Patreon. But if it's a

01:22:19 --> 01:22:21

thing on YouTube, we'll figure it out.

01:22:22 --> 01:22:26

Flower star Subhanallah exactly why I want to homeschool, the fit

01:22:26 --> 01:22:29

and I'm witnessing my younger siblings and cousins go through

01:22:29 --> 01:22:32

this crazy if we didn't have a summer school at homeschool, and

01:22:32 --> 01:22:35

my version homeschool would be different. It will be a lot of

01:22:35 --> 01:22:39

hands on. It would be let's say you wake up from nine to one you

01:22:39 --> 01:22:43

do subjects read a bunch of books do a bunch of math problems. I'll

01:22:43 --> 01:22:45

get you a math tutor. You take a break.

01:22:47 --> 01:22:51

After that, I'm going to call each of my friends. Hey, can my kid

01:22:51 --> 01:22:54

work in your restaurant? In your doctor's office free labor? I want

01:22:54 --> 01:22:58

him to see professionals. I want him to know Okay, a doctor's

01:22:58 --> 01:23:01

office. This is what it's like a dentist office. This is what it's

01:23:01 --> 01:23:05

like a restaurant, this is what it's like a gas station, this is

01:23:05 --> 01:23:08

what it's like. And it's good for the economy free labor for all

01:23:08 --> 01:23:13

these people. Right? So I want them to see. And that will also

01:23:13 --> 01:23:15

help them choose, hey, I want to do this when I grow up.

01:23:16 --> 01:23:20

I want to be that job when I grow up. Right. So that's that would be

01:23:20 --> 01:23:24

my version of homeschooling. Unfortunately, the state has these

01:23:24 --> 01:23:28

like ridiculous minutes, 55.5 hours of geography

01:23:31 --> 01:23:34

60 hours of English, why can't geography and English be one

01:23:34 --> 01:23:38

subject? Right? Read the story of Ibn Battuta. I went from Morocco,

01:23:38 --> 01:23:42

then to Algeria, then to Africa, then tomorrow. That's geography,

01:23:42 --> 01:23:45

isn't it? Alright, history and English? How are they different?

01:23:46 --> 01:23:48

Why should they be different? I understand English may be slightly

01:23:48 --> 01:23:51

different from history at some points. Sometimes it can overlap.

01:23:52 --> 01:23:56

Right? Education to me is reading a bunch of reading as much as you

01:23:56 --> 01:23:59

can, and doing as much math problems as you can. Because what

01:23:59 --> 01:24:02

they do is like it's like maths education, you need to do that

01:24:02 --> 01:24:07

just exactly, exactly. It's fine. And then it's also what happens if

01:24:07 --> 01:24:09

I have a kid who,

01:24:10 --> 01:24:13

at a certain point in time is become obsessed with a certain

01:24:13 --> 01:24:17

book. Why don't we go with it? Right? Well, we'll make up the

01:24:17 --> 01:24:20

math hours later on in the year. All right, but go with it, go deep

01:24:20 --> 01:24:24

into it, and then come back out for math instead of cutting his

01:24:24 --> 01:24:27

interest because it's a factory cutting the cookies like this,

01:24:28 --> 01:24:34

right? So there has to be a little bit of an enforced balance. But

01:24:34 --> 01:24:36

there also should need to be breathing room. That's that would

01:24:36 --> 01:24:41

be my version of homeschooling. Right? There would probably also

01:24:41 --> 01:24:46

be a lot of blood pressure. Having all these kids around, probably

01:24:46 --> 01:24:48

couldn't do the stream. And if I did the stream, you know what I've

01:24:48 --> 01:24:51

admitted that they will be working. Right? I'd make them

01:24:51 --> 01:24:54

attend the stream working vacuum. Right. Set up the cushions. Learn

01:24:54 --> 01:24:57

how the mic works. Learn what Ryan's job is. Learn what I'm

01:24:57 --> 01:24:59

saying here, right now.

01:25:00 --> 01:25:02

Maybe I had my daughter come the other day and she was reading off

01:25:02 --> 01:25:07

the questions till she vomited or that flower star

01:25:08 --> 01:25:11

she said we answered We talked about that homeschooling Solomon

01:25:11 --> 01:25:14

says what is your advice for those who are trying their best to not

01:25:14 --> 01:25:17

commit sins but are still not satisfied because they're not

01:25:17 --> 01:25:21

fitting in are living their lives like others?

01:25:23 --> 01:25:27

answer to your question is you need companions. You can't try to

01:25:27 --> 01:25:29

practice his Deen by yourself is gonna be too much pressure. You

01:25:29 --> 01:25:35

need friends who are also not doing this the sense so that it

01:25:35 --> 01:25:38

helps you gives you support, right? You need to go to the

01:25:38 --> 01:25:42

masjid and make yourself a little crew. Find a little crew of pious

01:25:42 --> 01:25:44

kids that are just like you youth

01:25:45 --> 01:25:48

and hang out with them. They'll give you support let's go to Insta

01:25:49 --> 01:25:52

Imam and book it according to Muhammad Massoud never was seen

01:25:52 --> 01:25:57

without will do Subhanallah amazing, amazing reef says the

01:25:57 --> 01:26:03

surah is sunnah Malacca. So you do a cuddly to learn up sign up to

01:26:03 --> 01:26:06

our medically fit class. Yes, we have a medically fit class, which

01:26:06 --> 01:26:10

we start up again next Tuesday. But in the online, what is the

01:26:10 --> 01:26:15

company? Our company is so sujood so who? To sujood? Before salaam

01:26:15 --> 01:26:17

Kabul, before Sinha

01:26:18 --> 01:26:22

Sarcone How do you deal with pride from excessive praise praising you

01:26:22 --> 01:26:24

on your knowledge and articulation?

01:26:25 --> 01:26:29

If someone praises you so much, you realize that that person is

01:26:29 --> 01:26:33

praising you relative to somebody else? And you know, other people

01:26:33 --> 01:26:37

who do 10 times better than you? Right? Like those MSA kids who

01:26:37 --> 01:26:41

said how do we avoid RIA

01:26:42 --> 01:26:44

After organizing these events?

01:26:46 --> 01:26:50

First time I ever saw you speaker two years ago, I just became

01:26:50 --> 01:26:54

Muslim. I told them but uh yet from what what did you guys do?

01:26:54 --> 01:26:58

Exactly? You invited a couple people by email and text and you

01:26:58 --> 01:27:01

put out some chairs and the rest of the time you spent making

01:27:01 --> 01:27:04

excuse to flirt with the sisters. So what's the real there? Right?

01:27:04 --> 01:27:07

You have done anything. So by comparison

01:27:09 --> 01:27:12

you know, that's why I love created the likes of mmm and Noah

01:27:12 --> 01:27:12

we

01:27:13 --> 01:27:18

for scholars who are what are you even in compact? You can if you

01:27:18 --> 01:27:21

read his works in your lifetime? That's an achievement. Imagine the

01:27:21 --> 01:27:26

one who wrote them. Anyone? Oh, I'm doing Dawa. What about all the

01:27:26 --> 01:27:29

people who the entire country of Indonesia entered Islam under

01:27:29 --> 01:27:30

them?

01:27:31 --> 01:27:33

And you're happy because you got to shudders.

01:27:34 --> 01:27:36

So comparison, we've done nothing.

01:27:37 --> 01:27:41

We haven't. I was in I was in this meeting the other day. Yeah. And

01:27:41 --> 01:27:43

like I always had this perspective, like, anytime someone

01:27:43 --> 01:27:46

that compliments you or anything, you have to be like, Oh, I don't

01:27:46 --> 01:27:51

deserve this. That's like part of it. But my friend mentioned like,

01:27:51 --> 01:27:53

how often do we make dua that Allah preserves these

01:27:53 --> 01:27:57

characteristics for us, we have to say, May Allah make it true? And

01:27:57 --> 01:28:01

keep it true? And keep us humble? Right? Relative to you may be a

01:28:01 --> 01:28:06

big deal. Right? That, and I remember a time that we weren't

01:28:06 --> 01:28:09

always religious. I remember that first year of starting to go to

01:28:09 --> 01:28:14

massage and stuff. Anyone who had a beard, I looked up to them like

01:28:14 --> 01:28:17

this, right? Because we didn't have beards in our family. Right?

01:28:17 --> 01:28:20

We didn't have a job in our family. Anyone who had wore hijab,

01:28:20 --> 01:28:24

like the woman, she wears that outside the house, right? We

01:28:24 --> 01:28:28

looked up to them, like the biggest deal in the world. Right?

01:28:28 --> 01:28:32

Would it possibly ever be a day where we're like that right?

01:28:33 --> 01:28:39

Family with beards and hijab and prays out loud, right? And read

01:28:39 --> 01:28:44

the Quran. That's how it was. And then you did that, and you

01:28:44 --> 01:28:46

couldn't believe you're doing it. And then all of a sudden, three

01:28:46 --> 01:28:49

years later, you're accustomed to it all. It's normal now, then you

01:28:49 --> 01:28:50

meet a scholar.

01:28:52 --> 01:28:55

And you're like, is it possible one day that we could say Abu

01:28:55 --> 01:28:58

Hanifa said this, and Bukhari says this and this hadith, but Malik

01:28:58 --> 01:29:01

says that, so intimidating, right?

01:29:02 --> 01:29:05

Then you keep going, keep going with them. That one day you're

01:29:05 --> 01:29:10

doing that, right. And then you've seen the solder Hain who have

01:29:10 --> 01:29:14

transcended their sins and they pray at night. You're like, man,

01:29:14 --> 01:29:17

that's never be like that. Right? You keep hanging out with them,

01:29:17 --> 01:29:20

then Allah makes you one of them. So it's always like that climbing

01:29:20 --> 01:29:21

up and up and up and up.

01:29:22 --> 01:29:25

All right, next question says.

01:29:32 --> 01:29:33

Next question is a

01:29:35 --> 01:29:36

lot of questions coming in here.

01:29:47 --> 01:29:49

Self is, I was winner.

01:29:50 --> 01:29:53

They have far too many contradictions themselves. Yes, of

01:29:53 --> 01:29:56

course they do. There's an epic Arpita

01:29:58 --> 01:30:00

post about the different

01:30:00 --> 01:30:02

The things they all contradict themselves.

01:30:03 --> 01:30:08

We don't study with selfies. We don't even have selfies and MBSE.

01:30:11 --> 01:30:12

Next,

01:30:14 --> 01:30:19

and if they are, by the way they like they'd like us to add MBSE as

01:30:19 --> 01:30:23

we have added, with our elders, if they're Salafi, we have added with

01:30:23 --> 01:30:25

their elders we don't make assumptions we don't get in their

01:30:25 --> 01:30:30

face. We don't look down on them. That's why they like us at MBSE

01:30:30 --> 01:30:31

even when they come

01:30:32 --> 01:30:34

what is the Hadith about entering the empty the house and saying

01:30:34 --> 01:30:38

salaam the prophesy centum said if you enter your house, a man said O

01:30:38 --> 01:30:42

Messenger of Allah, I want to be rich prophesy sentences enter your

01:30:42 --> 01:30:45

house say a cetera and why they come, whether someone's in the

01:30:45 --> 01:30:48

house or not in the house, and then recycled who Allah had. The

01:30:48 --> 01:30:51

man said, I did that within a short time. I had a lot of wealth

01:30:51 --> 01:30:52

and even had to give some to my neighbors.

01:30:54 --> 01:30:57

Gotta wait says we ever come to Oakville, Canada? Where's that?

01:30:57 --> 01:31:01

Alberta? Nuts? Sounds like it's Ontario, right?

01:31:05 --> 01:31:08

Okay, um

01:31:10 --> 01:31:12

next question here.

01:31:13 --> 01:31:18

Tsar Cody and reef are discussing and Abu Hanifa are discussing.

01:31:19 --> 01:31:22

Some just some things are never says tips and improving your

01:31:22 --> 01:31:24

relationship with your parents smile at them.

01:31:26 --> 01:31:29

Every time you make eye contact, smile at them. You think it's

01:31:29 --> 01:31:31

weird in the beginning? So what?

01:31:33 --> 01:31:36

Every time they make eye contact, smile at them. Never bring up a

01:31:36 --> 01:31:40

subject in which you differ. Don't bring up any subject in which

01:31:40 --> 01:31:42

there's argumentation or difference of opinion.

01:31:44 --> 01:31:47

Abby Kay, I have a question. It might come off random. But you

01:31:47 --> 01:31:50

talked about Olia and miracles, have you witnessed any and

01:31:50 --> 01:31:53

happened to yourself? I think from the miracles

01:31:54 --> 01:31:59

that I would say that I had witnessed was a number of us at a

01:31:59 --> 01:32:04

certain we were all like 1819 20 years old. And we had no money,

01:32:04 --> 01:32:08

like to have our own no autonomy of our own. And we wanted to go

01:32:08 --> 01:32:09

visit these odia.

01:32:11 --> 01:32:13

And we all had this sincere intention. But a lot of us didn't

01:32:13 --> 01:32:17

have the means some people didn't have their parents permission. And

01:32:17 --> 01:32:20

some people just didn't have the money. But we all were able to

01:32:20 --> 01:32:24

make it and I find and the chances, the chances were

01:32:24 --> 01:32:28

extremely bleak. I'll tell you one example, I was applied to go to a

01:32:28 --> 01:32:30

trip to Morocco to study.

01:32:31 --> 01:32:35

And I'm waiting and waiting and waiting and didn't get any

01:32:39 --> 01:32:42

response from them at all. And I just waiting and waiting and

01:32:42 --> 01:32:46

waiting. And finally, and this was all the old days before email,

01:32:47 --> 01:32:50

phone and mail Papermill

01:32:51 --> 01:32:54

I was working in the hospital and a guy pulled me over he saw a

01:32:54 --> 01:32:57

little Quran that I had. And he pulled me over. And he starts

01:32:57 --> 01:33:01

preaching Christianity to me. And I start talking to him back. I

01:33:01 --> 01:33:06

call a convert friend of mine who was involved in this trip to

01:33:06 --> 01:33:06

Morocco.

01:33:09 --> 01:33:13

And he said, Oh my gosh, we have been looking for you. You wrote

01:33:13 --> 01:33:17

your phone number wrong on the application. Today's the last day

01:33:17 --> 01:33:21

the passports are going out. Right. I called him to ask him

01:33:21 --> 01:33:24

about this dowel question. He said you wrote your phone number on,

01:33:24 --> 01:33:28

we've been trying to reach you, we can't reach you. Today's the last

01:33:28 --> 01:33:31

day. All right for you to get accepted to this program. To me,

01:33:31 --> 01:33:34

that's like a little act of a major act of generosity from

01:33:34 --> 01:33:39

Allah, not cut off in the sense of gravity was reversed or something

01:33:39 --> 01:33:44

like that. Right. But to me, that was divine intervention. And I

01:33:44 --> 01:33:46

never saw that Christian guy again. He was just another worker

01:33:46 --> 01:33:51

in the hospital, right? I never saw him again. But he said, Forget

01:33:51 --> 01:33:54

this Christian conversation. You're about to miss your spot.

01:33:54 --> 01:33:58

This is the literally the last day, right? And the visas are

01:33:58 --> 01:34:01

gonna go out and you're not and the plane tickets are going to be

01:34:01 --> 01:34:04

purchasing, you know, you're gonna miss the trip. So I immediately

01:34:04 --> 01:34:08

called the organizer clarified everything. All right. And then I

01:34:08 --> 01:34:11

was able to make it on the trip to me. That's one of the things that

01:34:12 --> 01:34:12

I would say.

01:34:14 --> 01:34:16

And certain things where

01:34:20 --> 01:34:23

where you go to somebody for help? And the answer your question

01:34:23 --> 01:34:26

before you ask the question. This has happened a number of times,

01:34:27 --> 01:34:30

you go to a chef for an issue. He answers your question before you

01:34:30 --> 01:34:32

even asked it happens to a lot of people

01:34:34 --> 01:34:37

hanging out with these Sheoak enough you'll see but have a class

01:34:37 --> 01:34:41

and don't look for the Kurama just have Nicholas you'll see the

01:34:41 --> 01:34:44

comments here I remember at that one decode when I tell a long

01:34:44 --> 01:34:47

story of the prophesy Salam and the youth were having an event in

01:34:47 --> 01:34:51

the back room they were watching like Nemo or something. Yeah. And

01:34:51 --> 01:34:54

right when I was about to say like what actually happened. I was like

01:34:54 --> 01:34:59

and the prophets I said to him said and in the back room in the

01:34:59 --> 01:34:59

gym

01:35:00 --> 01:35:07

The movie aligned to the suspense beat. Dun, dun, dun. Right? It was

01:35:07 --> 01:35:11

so loud. Everyone heard it and we all got goosebumps, right? That's

01:35:11 --> 01:35:13

the bulk of talking about the Prophet sallallahu. And he was

01:35:15 --> 01:35:20

read Sheikh says, Why are a lot of ex Muslims from Muslim countries,

01:35:22 --> 01:35:28

but not the non Muslims, the X Muslims. The Dawa has been so

01:35:28 --> 01:35:30

corrupted in Islamic countries,

01:35:31 --> 01:35:34

especially in Saudi Arabia when they're peddling a doctrine that

01:35:34 --> 01:35:38

is rejected by Allah. And as a result, the sweetness of Eman is

01:35:38 --> 01:35:40

not entering into the hearts of people.

01:35:41 --> 01:35:46

That's the reason Iran and Saudi Arabia, they both promote

01:35:47 --> 01:35:51

doctrines and unacceptable as Edison. This Sakina the sweetness

01:35:51 --> 01:35:54

of men does not enter there with a doctrine is invalid like that.

01:35:55 --> 01:35:58

Bolted like that. So the kids are getting dry. Amen.

01:35:59 --> 01:36:03

So they rejected atheism is on the rise. And it's been said a study

01:36:03 --> 01:36:05

one of these studies that

01:36:06 --> 01:36:09

the two countries that are on the fastest route to absolute

01:36:09 --> 01:36:13

secularism, like England and America, and France and Germany,

01:36:14 --> 01:36:17

Saudi Arabia and Iran, the two countries that are furthest from

01:36:17 --> 01:36:18

medicine.

01:36:20 --> 01:36:24

It's like Christians here. Yeah, everybody. Like is like an ex

01:36:24 --> 01:36:27

Christian like, Oh, I was born Christian. But now Yeah, exactly.

01:36:28 --> 01:36:32

Everybody that calls himself a Christian is drinking alcohol. And

01:36:32 --> 01:36:34

they do it they all they have like to divorce, they have all these

01:36:34 --> 01:36:38

like, issues, negative things in their life. It's, it's, yeah,

01:36:38 --> 01:36:42

you're bound to leave. And it's like in this, anybody, any person

01:36:42 --> 01:36:44

who was born and most of them, they're not gonna, they're gonna

01:36:44 --> 01:36:47

stop identifying as the most. So take the goofy off 100% Right

01:36:47 --> 01:36:51

here. And what keeps you first person in a slump. Knowledge is

01:36:51 --> 01:36:56

the foundation base. companionship is the security guards. But

01:36:56 --> 01:37:00

ultimately, the reason you're in the house is it feels good, right?

01:37:01 --> 01:37:06

The path of purification of our souls to so Wolf and vicar brings

01:37:06 --> 01:37:11

honey into your heart, wallet all the money, right? And you could

01:37:11 --> 01:37:14

literally say I can say nothing other than pure honey is entering

01:37:14 --> 01:37:16

inside of my heart when I do this thicker. And when I do this,

01:37:17 --> 01:37:20

that's the product we have to offer people. You'd never trade

01:37:20 --> 01:37:23

that in. And then you realize Hold on. When I listened to music that

01:37:23 --> 01:37:26

honey, I can't taste it anymore. Stop listening to music not

01:37:26 --> 01:37:32

because just because a fifth and fetch Well, no, because of

01:37:32 --> 01:37:35

experience. If you touch something, a hot stove, you get

01:37:35 --> 01:37:40

burned. What do you do? Stop touching a hot stove. If you eat a

01:37:40 --> 01:37:44

beautiful Rita's ice cream, you got readers in England. Ice with

01:37:44 --> 01:37:49

the cream on top, on a hot summer day, and especially when the ice

01:37:49 --> 01:37:54

starts melting a little bit into the cream. Right? Oh my gosh, this

01:37:54 --> 01:37:57

was so good. What are you going to do the next day by another

01:37:57 --> 01:38:01

readers? Right? Because it feels good. When you drink coffee in the

01:38:01 --> 01:38:04

morning first thing and you're like, Wow, I feel like zapped like

01:38:04 --> 01:38:08

I'm on Hillel drugs. What are you going to do? Buy another cup of

01:38:08 --> 01:38:12

coffee, right? It feels good. We're human beings. We're animals

01:38:12 --> 01:38:17

at some point. This vicar, Allah subhanaw taala and purify your ego

01:38:17 --> 01:38:22

so that the vicar can come in, right? It's like honey is coming

01:38:22 --> 01:38:27

into my heart. That's what's gonna keep us in a slump. Right? That's

01:38:27 --> 01:38:29

what's gonna keep us going. And that's what's gonna keep the kids

01:38:29 --> 01:38:34

in go and not just knowledge and discipline. No. Knowledge and

01:38:34 --> 01:38:37

discipline doesn't do enough. It's definitely part of the process.

01:38:38 --> 01:38:39

What is Americana?

01:38:40 --> 01:38:44

Americana? Is these awesome cultural things we've exported to

01:38:44 --> 01:38:50

the world. McDonald's, Coca Cola, Michael Jordan, NBA, right,

01:38:50 --> 01:38:55

Hollywood. That's Americana. People love it. Good. What is

01:38:55 --> 01:39:00

backing it? Nice thing called the US military, right. But the US

01:39:00 --> 01:39:05

military is not why people at least in the 1980s and 90s. craved

01:39:05 --> 01:39:10

America when I went to Egypt. Oh my goodness. The kids I'm talking

01:39:10 --> 01:39:15

to 80s ran to my luggage, opened it up to look at American stuff.

01:39:15 --> 01:39:20

ran into my luggage. Look at the shorts. Look at his sneakers. This

01:39:20 --> 01:39:23

is before exporting really got there. Right.

01:39:24 --> 01:39:26

And they would go and we were just like the regular Egyptian families

01:39:26 --> 01:39:29

go to my sister's? Oh, look at this cassette. Who is this? Billy

01:39:29 --> 01:39:33

Joelle? Right. Who is this mic? And they will be? Where's your

01:39:33 --> 01:39:36

Michael Jackson? Do you have Michael Jackson's cassettes? They

01:39:36 --> 01:39:43

loved Americana, right? So it's a love. It's a feeling. This Dean

01:39:43 --> 01:39:47

has a product and the product is what people are truly seeking

01:39:47 --> 01:39:52

after Sakina it's not just again, its sweetness, its energy. You

01:39:52 --> 01:39:56

wake you come out after the sick, right? You just feel like you're

01:39:56 --> 01:39:58

glowing and you want this glow to spread on everyone else and you

01:39:58 --> 01:40:00

want to just tell everyone

01:40:00 --> 01:40:02

You love them. That's how the sweetness you feel inside

01:40:02 --> 01:40:07

yourself. And that's the result of falling our shoe, purifying our

01:40:07 --> 01:40:09

egos and doing

01:40:10 --> 01:40:14

any dollar that does not have a heavy heavy heavy molasses. Right?

01:40:14 --> 01:40:18

You ever see a kid pour syrup on their waffles, right pouring it

01:40:18 --> 01:40:25

on, right? That's how our the code has to be. Pour it on. No

01:40:25 --> 01:40:29

hesitation every day that could one run one of our agendas. We

01:40:29 --> 01:40:32

have to take it everyday. Now we have two buildings. Right? We got

01:40:32 --> 01:40:35

this is Alia. And we got MBSE. And one thing that we could share

01:40:35 --> 01:40:39

between them as they occur. Monday we have monday, wednesday the code

01:40:39 --> 01:40:42

here. We have Thursday at the masjid we have every other Friday

01:40:42 --> 01:40:43

at the masjid.

01:40:44 --> 01:40:48

We had three Buddhism nights last week, we need to pile on the vicar

01:40:48 --> 01:40:51

like you've never imagined and I'm telling you

01:40:53 --> 01:40:54

the happiest thing that I've ever seen

01:40:56 --> 01:40:59

high schoolers and you know high school is they turned dark. Right?

01:40:59 --> 01:41:05

When kid goes ice with turns dark. High schoolers come up to me. Once

01:41:05 --> 01:41:09

the next day or night I need a dose. Right? I need my dosage

01:41:09 --> 01:41:09

right?

01:41:10 --> 01:41:13

When's the next thicker night and I'm looking at them well, light

01:41:15 --> 01:41:19

12/10 grade 11th grade ninth grade. I'm looking at them in the

01:41:19 --> 01:41:24

vicar circle. He's gone. He's got his eyes shut a high schooler. And

01:41:24 --> 01:41:26

you those these kids are into something else. A high school is

01:41:26 --> 01:41:31

got his Aisha doing this because He's God that's coming down that

01:41:31 --> 01:41:35

vicar right. That's what we need Subhanallah them. Anybody can do

01:41:35 --> 01:41:40

that. Do a lot of it. You get good at it. And learn just as you learn

01:41:40 --> 01:41:42

to be in mo Salah learn to be mm of the

01:41:44 --> 01:41:48

spine, a lot of the that's that's our product. And that's why where

01:41:48 --> 01:41:51

they don't have that you have apostasy in my book, you only

01:41:51 --> 01:41:56

really have to two lanes, there's only two lanes. If you're in the

01:41:56 --> 01:41:59

middle. I don't like the middle, I cannot stay in the middle. It's

01:41:59 --> 01:42:02

either alcohol drugs and Las Vegas.

01:42:04 --> 01:42:07

Or Wall Street if you're smart, right?

01:42:09 --> 01:42:12

Or is to sell off earlier.

01:42:13 --> 01:42:19

MBA Shediac. All right, there's only two paths, the middle to me,

01:42:19 --> 01:42:21

you're shortchanging yourself, you're coward. If you're in the

01:42:21 --> 01:42:24

middle, pick one and go that path all the way.

01:42:26 --> 01:42:30

You cannot have a society except that it has faith or alcohol.

01:42:31 --> 01:42:33

Because you guys don't might not know because you're young, you're

01:42:33 --> 01:42:38

gonna hit 3040. And life is going to start hitting you in different

01:42:38 --> 01:42:42

capacities, right, your body starts changing, your hormones

01:42:42 --> 01:42:45

start changing, people get depressed, you're either gonna go

01:42:45 --> 01:42:49

your outlet is going to be a man, you're either going to respond to

01:42:49 --> 01:42:51

this by digging deep and having you met or you're going to respond

01:42:51 --> 01:42:58

to this by alcohol. Okay. And that middle life that most people are

01:42:58 --> 01:43:02

living neither on the path of God nor the path of Las Vegas in

01:43:02 --> 01:43:03

Hollywood.

01:43:04 --> 01:43:07

To me, they're cowards, right? And we're gonna go one of the two

01:43:07 --> 01:43:10

paths, and we know that that other path is straight to *, they're

01:43:10 --> 01:43:13

all on depression. They're all on drugs. They're all in suicide.

01:43:15 --> 01:43:17

Where's the highest suicide rate in the world, whereas the highest

01:43:17 --> 01:43:20

depression rate in the world, it's probably also going to coincide

01:43:20 --> 01:43:25

with the highest rate of drugs, alcohol, Zina nakedness, it's all

01:43:25 --> 01:43:28

one package. So definitely go in that realm.

01:43:30 --> 01:43:33

Is it okay to feel feel tired of waiting when making dua says

01:43:33 --> 01:43:38

Shahida Is it okay to have a dip? Then go back up. It's not okay.

01:43:38 --> 01:43:42

But it is normal. It's not okay that like we're accepting but it's

01:43:42 --> 01:43:46

normal. When you have a dip, you have to ask yourself, Why am I

01:43:46 --> 01:43:47

here? What am I doing?

01:43:48 --> 01:43:53

I'm here, because I want something from Allah. I love this thing. And

01:43:53 --> 01:43:56

I know Allah is generous, and he will give it to me. So keep going.

01:43:57 --> 01:44:01

So when you dip you come back. It's natural to have a dip, but

01:44:01 --> 01:44:06

don't accept it for yourself. Susan says, What do you do if

01:44:06 --> 01:44:09

domestic women section is empty most of the time and your friends

01:44:09 --> 01:44:11

aren't really religious go to a different Masjid. Try to go to

01:44:11 --> 01:44:13

different message and until you find a group.

01:44:17 --> 01:44:21

Cloak Tuck says if someone hypothetically stole merchandise

01:44:21 --> 01:44:24

from a Nike store online, how should they fix that after

01:44:24 --> 01:44:24

repentance?

01:44:26 --> 01:44:30

So, to rephrase the question I sold from a massive Corporation

01:44:34 --> 01:44:37

someone's responsible for that theft, right? Someone is going to

01:44:37 --> 01:44:40

be there's going to be a manager accountable, right?

01:44:42 --> 01:44:43

For that theft,

01:44:44 --> 01:44:47

if that manager is still in the job, maybe you cause him to get

01:44:47 --> 01:44:51

fired, right? Because there's missing merchandise, but if he's

01:44:51 --> 01:44:55

still on the job, I think that you may owe it to them say listen, I

01:44:55 --> 01:44:59

nabbed something from you incognito email address right now.

01:45:00 --> 01:45:06

A Nike thief 120 [email protected] Hey Chris, I'm one of your former

01:45:06 --> 01:45:10

employees I stole from you and it's probably on your spreadsheet

01:45:10 --> 01:45:11

and you're maybe got in trouble for it

01:45:13 --> 01:45:16

and I'm here to give it back because what you want to do is

01:45:16 --> 01:45:19

avoid the harm if the manager is going to get in trouble for that

01:45:19 --> 01:45:20

you have to give it back

01:45:21 --> 01:45:24

now it's been like many years later and Occulus everything's

01:45:24 --> 01:45:27

turned over and the company doesn't even know that the theft

01:45:27 --> 01:45:30

happened you just make a so called a generalist so far

01:45:31 --> 01:45:35

and probably don't even wear those shoes stolen property right

01:45:41 --> 01:45:45

are clear majestic my Muslims there's an indica a clear majestic

01:45:45 --> 01:45:45

Emma

01:45:47 --> 01:45:50

10 seem like that clear to seem.

01:45:51 --> 01:45:55

Good. Well said. Yeah, one more just simmer one or the other guy.

01:45:55 --> 01:45:59

Let's go to YouTube. See what's going on. Questions. Go ahead.

01:45:59 --> 01:46:03

Keep going down from me you can read get funded. Okay fine. All

01:46:03 --> 01:46:07

right. flotsam have been tab the row says do you do is to photo

01:46:07 --> 01:46:10

when you are unsure? No, you're doing this is Takata when you're

01:46:10 --> 01:46:13

pretty much sure on a decision, and you want to love to strengthen

01:46:13 --> 01:46:18

your conviction and show you signs in this world where

01:46:20 --> 01:46:25

it's, it's good for you or bad for you as Nika 3d drawings on a

01:46:25 --> 01:46:30

screen. It's considered to be if it's a full creature mcru

01:46:31 --> 01:46:37

If it's 3d on the screen mcru Only when we talk about 3d 3d In real

01:46:37 --> 01:46:38

life, not on the screen.

01:46:40 --> 01:46:45

I live in San Okay. All right, y q says how's the ArcView semester

01:46:45 --> 01:46:47

started yet? No, it hasn't started yet.

01:46:49 --> 01:46:51

Next week, it's not a full semester. It's the remnants of the

01:46:51 --> 01:46:55

classes that didn't finish from the spring. But all the

01:46:57 --> 01:46:59

all the pre recorded classes are up.

01:47:01 --> 01:47:04

Why are you against selfies? Aren't they essentially people who

01:47:04 --> 01:47:07

follow the way of the setup? That's the claim but they haven't

01:47:07 --> 01:47:10

No, they have went against the

01:47:12 --> 01:47:16

leader of Islam in many ways. And there are many different types of

01:47:16 --> 01:47:20

selfies. That's the problem. But no, they are not they're not they

01:47:20 --> 01:47:23

haven't fulfilled what they've claimed, which is we went all the

01:47:23 --> 01:47:27

way back right and follow the setup and they have many mistakes

01:47:28 --> 01:47:31

in the conclusions that came through that's why we don't have

01:47:31 --> 01:47:31

that.

01:47:33 --> 01:47:37

Is the next a Bundy. Sect misguided you have to look at what

01:47:37 --> 01:47:40

they do. Just the name Natasha Bundy will not make someone

01:47:40 --> 01:47:41

misguided. It's what they do.

01:47:44 --> 01:47:48

It's what they do and what they believe and how they practice. The

01:47:48 --> 01:47:51

form of their him are those as Shahida says are those who are on

01:47:51 --> 01:47:51

the set of

01:47:55 --> 01:47:59

please expound what you said about salah to Doha, making up for to

01:47:59 --> 01:48:02

hedge it. If the prophets I send them slept through his tahajjud

01:48:03 --> 01:48:07

because the day was so exhausting, he would make up his prayer in the

01:48:07 --> 01:48:07

hot time.

01:48:09 --> 01:48:12

Alright, we're looking for I 11 tines

01:48:13 --> 01:48:14

paragraph

01:48:15 --> 01:48:17

Okay, let's go down

01:48:24 --> 01:48:26

Mohammed shared a nice story of a Kurama

01:48:41 --> 01:48:45

Yeah, have the two Hort, the Hadith of the two horn of Nigeria,

01:48:45 --> 01:48:48

they tried to throw it on Iraq. They want to say Nigel Iraq, it's

01:48:48 --> 01:48:50

not true. It's an edge Nigeria.

01:48:52 --> 01:48:57

Okay, a elevens on Why did Allah send us to this world, when all we

01:48:57 --> 01:49:02

have to do is suffer and then die? He wanted us to worship Him if you

01:49:02 --> 01:49:05

want to. We could have stayed in heaven and done that. And why do I

01:49:05 --> 01:49:07

get punished for what a prophet?

01:49:10 --> 01:49:11

Adam did?

01:49:12 --> 01:49:14

It's a great question. You're not punished at all. You're honored by

01:49:14 --> 01:49:17

what Prophet Adam did. And he was honored by being sent down here

01:49:17 --> 01:49:21

because the angels are worshipping Allah in the heavens.

01:49:22 --> 01:49:24

But they're worshipping Allah without temptation, without

01:49:24 --> 01:49:28

enemies without anything. So Allah wanted a greater worship. Not all

01:49:28 --> 01:49:33

worship is the same. He wanted to greater worship, a worship, in

01:49:33 --> 01:49:37

which you had to fight through things to truly show your class

01:49:37 --> 01:49:39

and your sincerity May Allah make us sincere and humble all the time

01:49:39 --> 01:49:40

and upon the Sunnah

01:49:42 --> 01:49:43

by putting us in this world,

01:49:45 --> 01:49:50

it allows us the possibility of forgetting about the heavens and

01:49:50 --> 01:49:52

forgetting him and being distracted from Allah

01:49:54 --> 01:49:59

by giving enough space by having a neffs it allows us to be whispered

01:50:00 --> 01:50:01

To do something wrong, right?

01:50:03 --> 01:50:07

To have desires that we have to fight against, every time you go

01:50:07 --> 01:50:12

against nature, okay, against and you struggle, your worship is

01:50:12 --> 01:50:16

purified even more, and it is at a higher level. What is better?

01:50:17 --> 01:50:18

Tell me what is better.

01:50:20 --> 01:50:24

You play soccer, and everyone at the end gets trophy

01:50:25 --> 01:50:29

for participating. Or you had to go through 16 teams.

01:50:30 --> 01:50:35

And you had to play a series until there were eight teams left. And

01:50:35 --> 01:50:36

then you had to play another game.

01:50:38 --> 01:50:41

And win that game until they're four teams left and win another

01:50:41 --> 01:50:43

game until there's two teams left and the winner of the game until

01:50:43 --> 01:50:48

you're the champion, which trophy is more meaningful and sweeter to

01:50:48 --> 01:50:53

you more memorable? Here's another question from which one will you

01:50:53 --> 01:50:57

learn more, you can't learn if everything is given to you on a

01:50:57 --> 01:51:02

silver platter, there must be a journey. And a journey is not a

01:51:02 --> 01:51:06

journey if there's no struggle. So all the struggles are peeling the

01:51:06 --> 01:51:09

layers of an onion to see something great that Allah has

01:51:09 --> 01:51:13

created. And that is the human being who strives in the path of

01:51:13 --> 01:51:20

Allah against the four enemies neffs how well wins Shavon dunya.

01:51:20 --> 01:51:24

And even there's a fifth one of the humans that struggle against

01:51:24 --> 01:51:28

us by struggling. We learned so much about ourselves and we attain

01:51:28 --> 01:51:31

ranks that we could not attain. And that's why the righteous

01:51:31 --> 01:51:33

Muslim human is higher than an angel.

01:51:35 --> 01:51:38

All right, let's take with maybe one or two more questions. Okay.

01:51:39 --> 01:51:44

Is it correct that the dunya was not a punishment for is not a

01:51:44 --> 01:51:50

punishment. Allah said we created for the earth a believer. He was

01:51:50 --> 01:51:54

meant to be on Earth, being in heaven was merely his dry run, to

01:51:54 --> 01:51:58

see if he's going to react properly. And he passed the test

01:51:58 --> 01:52:02

on the first try when it was made to appear to him that he disobeyed

01:52:02 --> 01:52:06

God. And that Allah was angered with him. It wasn't the case it

01:52:06 --> 01:52:09

was appeared to me because he forgot. He didn't come it seemed

01:52:09 --> 01:52:12

as though disobey Allah. He disobeyed Allah outwardly, but not

01:52:12 --> 01:52:17

inwardly. So he passed the test, he blamed himself and he sought

01:52:17 --> 01:52:19

forgiveness. He passed the test.

01:52:20 --> 01:52:23

When Allah deem that you pass the test, now you go to fulfill your

01:52:23 --> 01:52:25

real mission on this earth.

01:52:26 --> 01:52:30

So Yan says, nice HD camera. Well, that's thanks to you all for

01:52:30 --> 01:52:32

supporting us on Patreon.

01:52:33 --> 01:52:36

None of us asked to be here. And we didn't eat that forbidden

01:52:36 --> 01:52:39

fruit. So why are we in the dunya we're in the dunya as a benefit

01:52:39 --> 01:52:46

for us. Right? We're in this world as a benefit. This is how we're

01:52:46 --> 01:52:49

going to make our ranks and you want to prove that you want proof

01:52:49 --> 01:52:51

that every human being wants to be in this world.

01:52:52 --> 01:52:55

Let's take you and slice your neck see how you're gonna react. You

01:52:55 --> 01:52:59

want to live don't you? Some people's I never asked to be here.

01:53:01 --> 01:53:06

Then let us drown your drown you in in a tub of water. Let us slice

01:53:06 --> 01:53:09

your neck. Are you going to allow it let us hold your breath till

01:53:09 --> 01:53:14

you die when you sleep. We'll put a syringe in you that you will die

01:53:14 --> 01:53:18

Do you want it? Use fight to live you will fight to live life is

01:53:18 --> 01:53:20

such a gift Spatola

01:53:23 --> 01:53:27

susu says going to different massage and isn't really an option

01:53:27 --> 01:53:30

as they are all far away oh that's that's really rough then you're

01:53:30 --> 01:53:33

going to have to have an online friendship. You're gonna have to

01:53:33 --> 01:53:36

be friends with this crew right here of people have wonderful

01:53:36 --> 01:53:40

people because we have so much love on our streams that you know

01:53:40 --> 01:53:43

I guess you're gonna have to suffice with that and WhatsApp

01:53:43 --> 01:53:46

groups that we have through through Safina society.

01:53:47 --> 01:53:50

Che K says Dr. With Salah during the last third of the night

01:53:50 --> 01:53:54

without Salah yes it still counts as a major major dua Muhammad

01:53:54 --> 01:53:57

Rasool Allah says when you say Doha is time for making up 200 Do

01:53:57 --> 01:54:01

we just pray so lots of Doha or pray extra cuz you pray what you

01:54:01 --> 01:54:05

would have prayed in 200 time flower store I finished my degree

01:54:05 --> 01:54:08

a few days ago hamdulillah dua requests for figuring out what

01:54:08 --> 01:54:12

comes next. May Allah subhana wa Tada open the door for you

01:54:13 --> 01:54:15

to show you what's good for you.

01:54:17 --> 01:54:21

And everyone else who's in that situation Kara Gyu says Kira gear

01:54:21 --> 01:54:23

salaam from Sweden mashallah

01:54:24 --> 01:54:30

Sweden Ryan's homeland maybe related old cousins as well

01:54:30 --> 01:54:32

they've got what 3 million people in Sweden anyway

01:54:35 --> 01:54:38

who asks you is the question Can we watch yes of God the sera

01:54:38 --> 01:54:41

series I think it was from a sudden few days. I didn't know I

01:54:41 --> 01:54:44

didn't watch it but a lot of people watched it. I don't know

01:54:44 --> 01:54:48

about all the details of it. After main says I hope in the future we

01:54:48 --> 01:54:50

will have Islamic schools with curriculums that are in line with

01:54:50 --> 01:54:53

the Cydia jolla we will and they're getting there some of the

01:54:53 --> 01:54:58

some of their again their good. Muhammad Abdul Hakim schools in

01:54:58 --> 01:54:59

the United States are basically

01:55:00 --> 01:55:03

indoctrination and indoctrination. Of course.

01:55:05 --> 01:55:08

Mason Haig says I heard that YouTube takes 40 to 50% of live

01:55:08 --> 01:55:12

donations, forget them then Amira Glover? How do I stifle my

01:55:12 --> 01:55:15

competitive nature when it comes to non obligatory acts of worship?

01:55:16 --> 01:55:19

How do I suppress the need to show off? Compete against yourself?

01:55:20 --> 01:55:21

Compete against yourself?

01:55:24 --> 01:55:28

Should we ask for shellcode and not sub, you asked for sub when

01:55:28 --> 01:55:33

you need sub. So Nimra says I was told not to ask for sub. But as

01:55:33 --> 01:55:38

for ease, yes, that's a good idea. But I mean, if you're in a

01:55:38 --> 01:55:43

situation you need the sub than you asked for, but ask for ease

01:55:43 --> 01:55:45

asked for Allah to make the journey easier for you very wise,

01:55:45 --> 01:55:48

and thank you for making those comments. Okay.

01:55:51 --> 01:55:54

Thank you for all those comments. Is there a Safina site his

01:55:54 --> 01:55:57

sister's Whatsapp group? It's not a sister's only Whatsapp group.

01:55:58 --> 01:56:02

And it's for our classes if you sign up for ArcView. Ryan, do you

01:56:02 --> 01:56:06

have the website there are a few are basic or ArcView scholarship.

01:56:07 --> 01:56:11

You get to sign on to a WhatsApp group. And we get to put the

01:56:11 --> 01:56:16

students on a WhatsApp group. And and from their front, you know

01:56:16 --> 01:56:21

people can make friends and they get to talk. Right? So how do you

01:56:21 --> 01:56:25

sign up for the medical fake if Mason hates if you're in ArcView

01:56:25 --> 01:56:31

you go into arcview.org you log in, you're going to find medically

01:56:31 --> 01:56:34

fit. We're on a webinar should click on it. You'll get

01:56:35 --> 01:56:39

the links on the information we start up next Tuesday. The Zoom

01:56:39 --> 01:56:43

link should be there. Next Tuesday evening. We start up so Mason

01:56:43 --> 01:56:48

takes make sure you communicate with us. Email us and make an Ryan

01:56:48 --> 01:56:49

will

01:56:51 --> 01:56:55

help you walk through it and get you on to MC by the way Mason

01:56:55 --> 01:56:56

Hicks Where are you from?

01:56:59 --> 01:57:01

Sounds like Midwest type of name.

01:57:02 --> 01:57:08

Yep. Sad Zed archy with a K right now there it is. Ryan put it up

01:57:08 --> 01:57:11

take our classes [email protected] That's where we

01:57:11 --> 01:57:13

give our classes. Okay

01:57:14 --> 01:57:16

last question from soap hate

01:57:21 --> 01:57:24

if I'm traveling and doing the travelers Salah should I do my

01:57:24 --> 01:57:26

vicar of God at the appropriate time.

01:57:27 --> 01:57:31

Together completing the tour doc goes back to X door Ross.

01:57:33 --> 01:57:35

When we're out when we're traveling, you do the Epcot if

01:57:35 --> 01:57:38

you're capable. Like if you're in the traveling and sometimes

01:57:38 --> 01:57:40

traveling difficult you do the O rod if you're able to.

01:57:43 --> 01:57:45

Kinda White says what are your thoughts on shikantaza mille

01:57:45 --> 01:57:49

Haqqani and his wife Amina, I didn't I shouldn't ask him was

01:57:50 --> 01:57:53

when he was on Allison. But his methodology was a little bit

01:57:53 --> 01:57:57

different. There was there was less, I would say, of 50

01:57:57 --> 01:58:02

parameters observed sometimes sometimes, like there was less of

01:58:02 --> 01:58:06

an emphasis on that. And as a result, sometimes you may see

01:58:06 --> 01:58:09

something here or there that was not in line with it, but he was a

01:58:09 --> 01:58:15

Sunday. And in his arcade, it was sound. And in general, he was a

01:58:15 --> 01:58:20

Hanafy. But this there was less influence in emphasis on the study

01:58:20 --> 01:58:23

of FIP. And that's why sometimes you might see something here or

01:58:23 --> 01:58:26

there that the focal hub may have condemned or the people condemn.

01:58:26 --> 01:58:31

Right, but otherwise, and there today. I don't know much about I

01:58:31 --> 01:58:35

can't tell you anything about the insides of the Haqqani group. I

01:58:35 --> 01:58:37

can't say anything about that. I never experienced it.

01:58:38 --> 01:58:43

But in general, I would say consider his his written works

01:58:43 --> 01:58:48

have benefit of a lot of benefit in them spiritually. Caitlin jimei

01:58:48 --> 01:58:51

have paid week off of work what would be the best advice to use

01:58:51 --> 01:58:55

the time to reconnect spiritually and high in Egypt of Jah?

01:58:57 --> 01:59:00

If you have the ability to travel, right,

01:59:02 --> 01:59:06

if you have the ability to travel right to a place that has some

01:59:06 --> 01:59:11

spirituality to it, like Fez, Morocco and go to the gatherings

01:59:11 --> 01:59:13

there if you have that ability, right.

01:59:15 --> 01:59:16

Go Go take a spiritual vacation

01:59:18 --> 01:59:18

you know

01:59:20 --> 01:59:25

to somewhere where you can get some re ignited right

01:59:28 --> 01:59:30

Alright folks, I wish we can continue on

01:59:34 --> 01:59:37

Shazia says sadaqa is magical sadaqa does so much. It's

01:59:37 --> 01:59:37

unbelievable.

01:59:39 --> 01:59:42

Right? I wish we could continue on but we have to stop here. Does

01:59:42 --> 01:59:45

that come along here and everybody? Subhanak Allahumma webI

01:59:45 --> 01:59:51

handicap Nisha do Allah Illa illa Anta nests of Furukawa one or two

01:59:51 --> 01:59:56

with a call us in Santa Fe Of course. Ill Alladhina amanu Amina

01:59:56 --> 01:59:56

slider

01:59:58 --> 02:00:00

whatsoever so but Huck Oh,

02:00:00 --> 02:00:05

Once a while so the suburb was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa

02:00:05 --> 02:00:05

barakato to

02:00:07 --> 02:00:11

Mason Haix trauma communicate with Ryan who gets you

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