Shadee Elmasry – NBF 56 Why Someone Cannot Create A New Religion
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We're on
Okay, so
I got on for some reason I said, you know, let me get back on
Twitter because I haven't been on Twitter for a long time. Like I've
been on Twitter in terms of the team putting stuff out. But I,
myself haven't had the app, the Twitter app on for like,
no more like years, two years, almost a while. I got off Twitter
some periods of time because it was just so annoying to me. Right.
So it was just like taking up so much time and I would get myself
into these fights, right.
So I got on like three days ago, and I'm already in a fight.
I can't help it to my knees index on this platform. This platform is
terrible. It's like all is in Deeks was one of the professor.
Yeah. So I'm on this platform with this professor who comes up with
this absolutely epic, most absurd and ridiculous
assignment. And Muslim professor from Harvard. Okay. By the way,
Harvard means nothing anymore. Just me It literally means
nothing.
So he's, the assignment is create your own religion. That's
create your own religion.
As if to say that humans can govern themselves, right? Like you
couldn't.
We always have checks and balances, right? But see, so
something like a religion has to come from outside the human being.
Anyway, I love what someone said is that if you're gonna say create
your own religion, then create your own brain, create your own
Nebula, create your own universe, create your own creation, right?
Because the prerequisite of a religion is that there's a
creation, right? So that's the first thing that he said was
really smart. But then I said, I just off the cuff. And that's why
I got rid of Twitter because they stay stuff off the cuff without
thinking. And I retweeted the guy and I said, well, the Jedi would
be really proud of this assignment, right? Then he goes on
to oversensitive thing. This is academic work and investigation,
and we shouldn't be so closed minded, bla bla bla, bla bla,
these guys, academics is all a bunch of yep, yep, that means
nothing. On top of that, it's contradictory. So I said, Look,
uh, recently, I had a little back and forth about a university
assignment, that ask students to create your own religion. When I
scoffed at the idea, one guy, Sue said, you're supposed to be open
minded. Okay, that's what they say to all Muslims who get upset about
anything, be open minded. Okay. The prerequisite of open
mindedness is that you're not certain about something, you have
a little bit of a doubt. Right. Now, that's not always a bad
thing. For example, in the field of science, it's trial and error.
So if I do 10 trials, and I get the same results, it's still
speculative until I do like 1000.
In the summer, in the winter, in different climates with different
people. And if I did 20,000 experiments a year, over 100
years, you know, the scientific community, then you could say,
this is like an absolute fact, like gravity exists. It's an
absolute fact. But until then, I can be I'm pretty certain that
this is what it is. I'm confident about it. But there's speculation
so we can have that. I think all of us for our political views,
every decision we make, there's speculation, right? Any decision
that we go about, there's going to be some speculation, right? So we
should be open minded to that. But there are certain things that just
that type of thing is when there is human effort involved, when
your mind is going to something and it hasn't yet reached
absolute, an absolute level.
But core religious beliefs are on Absolutely. That's what the idea
of a religion is, is like, what are your absolutes? Were
speculated about ton of things, if you're if you're intelligent, and
you understand the difference in the absolute and speculative,
right? You have to be open minded about everything. But the idea of
a religious belief is like, this is where I draw my line. There is
a red line here, we're not passing this line. Why
would everyone religions gonna differ, some religions will
provide you with rational basis, spiritual basis. Other basis,
that's a true religion would do that. A cult is just following a
person. People make up red lines because they love a person. That's
it. That's a cult. Like we love the prophets, I send them the
prophets I send them and Allah to Allah has furnished us also, with
evidence that he's a prophet, not just because we want to believe
he's rough. There's a difference between a cult and a religion.
So that's what a religion is. Now, once you make a red line, and you
start with this is my principle, this is who I am. This is my
belief, right? You don't question it again. Like the idea of
questioning it is what we call blasphemy because now you're going
to our sanity level here, right? Why?
You questioning these these these things that are religious beliefs
and religious beliefs. And that's the difference between a religious
belief that is taken on examination.
As well as faith. You see that a shadow and because it said, like
you, we don't have tech lead and religion just because you're born
Muslim, you still have to investigate your unbelief on your
own. So it's not they both can coexist. I can, I can believe I
have no problem. I believe I pray I fast and I'm going to make sure
my deen is solid by studying Arpita study until eight studying
proofs in prophethood and then genuinely being convinced, so we
could all four of us here in this room be genuinely convinced it
just so happened. Ryan was not born into it. We were born into
it. But we all studied the same things were genuinely convinced.
Well, that's the made that my decision clear. And that's why a
lot of us would get along with a sincere a devout convert than a
born Muslim who's lukewarm. Right? He's lukewarm thing. It doesn't
work at all. Anyway. So then I go to him. And I said, Look, in
matters of intellectual investigation.
Okay, are invested in intellectual investigation in Islam, we'll be
on the transmission. It was this hadith sound, right? Is it knife
is a weak is a fabricated? That's where our intellectual
intellectual go, then it will go in interpretation. Did we
understand it properly? Right? Is this the correct understanding?
And that's why we have never had some of them go outside the fold.
They're wrong. Right. But not Cofer. Just incorrect opinions.
And so that's, if we're gonna go that route, the numbers matter
wherever you put your mind in the number of people not because I'm
not the first person to ask this question. I'm not the smartest
person to ask this question. Right? The question has been asked
by 4000 years, and smarter people than us, like modern people think
because we have technology where the smartest, where do we get the
technology from? From all the advancements of our priors,
previous nations previous people, and how it is me and all those
people, right? So those people we look at the numbers too, because
they have brains. And they all lived in different is not like
that the people of the past were in like one camp. No, they were in
Africa.
Persia, nothing to do with each other centuries separated them. So
if they all came to the same conclusion, pretty much that's
true, right? of Islamic interpretation, because they had
nothing to do with each other, different geography, different
locations, all the biases would be moved away. They lived in
absolutely different societies. W A man from West Africa in let's
say 1300.
Common Era, which would be like, let's say 600 Hijiri. Then someone
from 300. Common Era? No, what am I saying? 300. Hindi, which would
be like 1000. Common Era
in Persia? Completely different, right? There's absolutely nothing
related in their society, Persia Africa 500 years apart 600 years,
or 1000 years apart. And they came to the conclusion that this is
Hadith. And it means x.
That's probably what it means, right? There's no reason to
collude. They couldn't even collude. They speak the same
language except for Arabic. So that's that. Now today, if someone
the proof that every society has to have religious literacy go
crazy. And that open mindedness about This is blasphemy.
A professor imagine a do it like a mental exercise. A professor today
says, students today we will have an open dialogue on the validity
or invalidity of racism.
Right?
And then tomorrow, we're going to push the envelope even more
because they love pushing the envelope. And we're going to
revisit the narrative on Hitler. Was he really that bad? Did he
know what was what was his origin story? And maybe he was abused as
a child? Right? Maybe there was a Jewish bully who abused the heck
out of him. And you would see the scene in front of you and a Jewish
gang beat the life out of them. Right? raped his mom killed his
dad, you don't know the story? Why don't we produce a background
story right? For Hitler that you were crying watching this? Okay.
So all that he was doing was a natural reaction that anyone else
would have done that he watched his mom get gang raped by a bunch
of rabbits.
Okay, all right. How many seconds? Do you think this professor is
going to last? Right?
You wouldn't even get it off your lips. You'd be afraid to think the
society has inculcated you in the same way we Muslims and like
sympathetic thought bliss, use get out of your mind completely stuck.
Don't even think about it write a thought a sympathetic thought
towards Hitler. You need think about it. Okay.
So the speed
by which this guy is fired, would be considered a sign of progress
or close mindedness which one progress, right? Society would
say, look at how quickly we got this guy fired for sympathizing
with Hitler and sympathizing with racism. Right. So why is that
progress? But thinking about everything and shutting down other
discussions is closed mindedness, because your update is different.
That's simple as that. So all these universities, they have to
actually start having declaring their either their creed,
liberal creed woke creed, whatever want to call it, the problem is
it's fluid, the roaming around, they don't actually declare what
creed they're upon.
And then they say their objective, right.
But then you look at their actions and it's all one huge
inconsistency. Like nobody would ever go and have an open minded
discussion on racism, Hitler,
okay.
But yet the Quran, the Prophet peace be found in the cartoons of
the Prophet peace be upon play literally playing games with Dean,
you get hired for that. You say the other stuff, you get fired.
Right? They're epistemologically fluid, whereas we have an
epistemology and we don't vary from that. They they're they're
epistemological. Is he on? This is Micah, this Dr. Harris. I mean,
folks,
we don't have cameras, we're gonna get cameras, right for everybody.
These guys are epistemologically fluid, right. But they're not
fluid on the majority. They follow the Jumbotron. Even if jumbo does
wrong, wherever the whatever the Hollywood and business, wherever
they go, guarantee you academic academia will follow academia is
not in the lead, right? They're not in the lead.
Hollywood business is really the determinant. Because once the
corporations go with something and something sells, that's, that's
the decision is made a loss for the society, in a capitalist
society. They are the arbiters there are the Supreme Court of
ultimately what gets a green light and what so you can all talk you
can make your art you can make your academic things. If we cannot
sell this to the public, if our shows will get cancelled.
Because we do this greenlights off, if Nike can't, if a Nike
athlete says it, and Nike gets a reaction, he's out. Right? So
China cannot question China. Why? Because Nike said so. Right? I
mean,
what was the joke that I think Dave Chappelle made about, if Nike
sponsored the shoes that Martin Luther King marched in, we'd get
nowhere.
So LeBron James go says something about China. He gets a call from
his agent, I just got to call centered method from agent from
LeBron James to his agent, to, to to Nike, from China, right? From
the Nike ambassador to China, okay, from whatever who he deals
with in China, direct chain of transmission that call between the
first call and the last call is like, two minutes. With these
guys. You don't when your agent calls, and he's got message from
China, you pick up that call? If you're LeBron James Right.
Zipit stop tweeting, he stops tweeting, right? Why billions of
dollars of his whole lifetime contract with Nike. Billions of
dollars are on the line. Right? So he stops everything else. He got
the go, right, you want to talk about woke, you want to talk about
police brutality, you got to go, right, in fact, do it itself.
Kneeling by Kaepernick sells, um, I had a friend, I went through
with him, I grew up with him once the rockers together, right? He
has a shipping company, they ship or sorry, a web company there.
They deal with all of the international transactions of
companies. He ends up sitting in and he's he gets a Nike contract.
So he knows their inner workings because they're dealing with them
all the time. burners. And are he they're one of his clients. So we
told me that, uh, we knew about this, this Kaepernick thing,
they're gonna support it, because they did the data analysis. And
70% of their buyers are like youth with all the attributes of who
would be woke. Right? So they weren't, they knew they're going
to lose 30% But that 70 will like double right. So that like they it
was a no brainer, and they they knew that what the cost is and
what the gains are to support Kaepernick. And then you had all
these like, right wing guys like burning their Nikes and never
going to wear Nike again. Probably did it for six months, right? Like
vegans.
syrup, how many vegans are actually really Vegan? Vegan for
like six years? That is so sick and frail and skins of terrible no
one wants to date you, right? That yeah deets and red meat, right?
Well, like I saw the hardest core, gluten free vegan all these
people, they'll stop after five, six years. They don't have to come
upon it right? Like how many Muslims deleted Muslim Pro and
then read down? Oh, of course yeah.
So
all these guys talk about objectivity yet or open mindedness
on matters that they have already agreed on. But when it comes to
their real red lines that close it down, right and the society is
going to do that. But they're a pistol Knology is all through,
it's a capitalist epistemology if this sells, we do it right. If it
the majority in general go with it.
But our epistemology is not based upon
what everyone's doing good, or our roots are voodoo, or maybe on our
scholars, that's there's a difference. So majority to us does
matter, on scholars, right scholars interpretation, that
doesn't matter. But the roots of the matter when you contradict
certain things that are from the roots of the matter, doesn't
matter if 99.9% of the people contradict those things, if 9% of
the people today, told you, um, you could be in a hospital, and
99% of the people will tell you that a trans woman is a woman,
right? Just doesn't make a difference if 100% of you guys
said, right, because that's there's some things here that
don't aren't questioned.
That's the idea. What do you think? I think that if we go even
deeper, yeah, it really comes down to and I know, he talked about
pistol knowledge, which is true. But I think ultimately, what this
is really a reflection of is the reality that we see today across
the globe, that the self has been elevated to the position of, of
God, itself, the ego, the world has become completely egocentric.
So yes, there are going to be differences of opinion, with
respect to the manifestation of the ego and the desires of people.
But what has happened is that I remember Sheikh Hamza saying this
before, he was talking about a Native American tribe, or First
Nation tribe, and how they had created this,
this ground where they were trying to reflect the the nature of the
stars, and they said, As above, so below, okay, because that was
their understanding
of cosmology that there you know, there is a Creator, and there is
an order to the universe. What has happened now, is that we flipped,
the world has flipped it, as below, so above, yeah. So
basically, what has happened is, we have seen that what I feel
should is what God should be doing. And so and so basically,
what it comes down to every single
facet or element of society, part of society, it's all tied to the
notion of the elevation of the self. Because Islam is predicated
on submission to Allah subhanaw taala, they do not believe in
submission at all, they believe in submission to the Self Only. Yeah.
And that's why you have a lot of conflicts, because ultimately, the
end it leads to chaos. Because when you have divergent views, and
everyone is tied to the ego, it's going to lead to conflict. I
remember visiting Japan 25 years ago, and one of the things that
was so fascinating about that country was that
it was the cleanest society I'd ever been to. There was a level of
honor and respect among the people. And every, every country,
every society has issues, but the thing that stood on my mind.
You know, the reason behind that was because it was a very
homogenous society. I agree with that. And when you have people who
look, I'm not saying we should do away with diversity, but what I'm
saying is that the beauty of our deen is that we have the framework
and the foundations and the principles that we can apply to
every aspect of our society. And there are enough, there's an
allowance for variance, because there's different clothes,
different food and the light. But there are parameters we do not go
beyond. Yeah. And so there is order instead of chaos and show
that you know, we don't go with us via we go with the debate,
dedication, Allah subhanaw taala. But when you have those barriers
removed, yeah, it leads to a type of chaos. And that's why in the
academic world,
it's actually a promotion of that. That's an elevation of self. It's
an embracing of the self. And one other quick point I want to go on,
but you were talking about trends. You know, I've worked in the
animation industry for quite some time. And I remember going to one
of the top animation conferences in the world, we had developed an
intellectual property based on or centered on female characters.
Yeah. Okay. And I remember presenting to Cartoon Network, the
executives at Cartoon Network about this was again, this was
like, five, six years ago, and I remember it was a female
executive. And I'll never forget the conversation I had she said,
This is an incredible project. But we are a boys network, not a not a
girls network. Which Which one was it?
The Cartoon Network Oh, really? Oh, go but then you fast forward
the clock. Yeah, Wonder Woman comes out in the theaters. Yeah, I
go back the next year to the same the year after Wonder Woman's
released
70% of projects, or the focus of the students was finding projects
that centered on strong female characters. Why? Because that film
made so much money. Same thing with Black Panther demographic,
Black Panther. Yeah, I remember talking to some African American
creators about this. And I said, Listen,
your project, just stay the course don't sell your intellectual
property to a third party because this movie Black Panther is coming
up next year. Yeah. And I know the African American community, the
black community as a whole wants this type of content. Now, I
didn't know the numbers were going to be as huge as they were. But
then Black Panther became this, you know, incredible success. I
got nominated for an Oscar for Best Picture. And then the
studio's again, flipped, they moved on. Okay, now we're looking
for African American creators, Disney actually has signed a deal
with a very small independent studio that focuses on African
content. Why? Because there's money to be made. Again. It goes
which goes back to the it is accurate to say that capitalism,
in a sense is a dean in that it is the final arbiter of what gets a
green light. And what gets a red light. Right. And if you go to
find, you know, capitalism is is based on the notion of the carnal
of the central of the physical. Yeah, consumption, the consumer
yourself consumption that's not really focused on the
metaphysical. Yeah, or the unseen. And that's the one thing I think
that they don't understand what that took the question that that
professor asked is that for us, the unseen world is as real, if
not more real than the seen world. Yeah. And, and one guy, he said,
Listen,
you get an upset of it. He retweeted bla bla bla dramatic.
He's one guy said, Listen, you're getting upset at him. But you are
you offered for people to create their own religion? What if that's
his religion? What if his religion is to follow another religion?
Right? So why would you get upset at anything at that point? Because
you offered people make your own faith? What if I make a faith
where you're the digital? That you're the devil? Right? Well, I
mean, you said make your own faith. Right? What if I made it
man, Hitler's is a prophet in this in this fake religion, right? He
was just saying that you you open the door. But you now want to
selectively close certain doors that you don't like, you know,
your, your your university is going to fire you for that's why
you're not gonna get a paycheck anymore for certain things. So
this whole thing of the diversity point that you made was also a
really good point. You know, the point for people just joining? Is
that what so he just said is, Today's guests are so Haven one,
and Dr. Harrison me. So everyone is a lawyer, but he's in the
entertainment business. And he's helped us so much with this. And
he's the link that got us. Our promo that we're going to have a
promo now an introduction, you'll see it maybe next week, we'll
finalize everything, we'll put a little video to it. We'll have the
credits and everything. But he said that our society is so
diverse. And we're promoting decided promotes your desires. If
300 million people 350 million people in the country, you're
gonna have tons of, you know, desires. It's not like you're
gonna have, like certain African countries that like 50%, most of
interesting Christian, the max dispute is going to be doing like
two parties right? Now, you got so many different desires out there,
that we don't live in a peaceful society anymore. The culture clash
is so huge.
That sometimes I'm like thinking to myself, I'm so exhausted. I
wish sometimes I wish I lived in a society that was homogenous. Even
if I was the 1% on the side that was going against the majority,
you know, for like, 90% of the issues. At least this culture war
is not there anymore. It's so sick of it. Everything like it. You
can't turn on ESPN without politics. Like sports used to be a
getaway. I'm not even 110% a promoter of just watching sports
all day, because there is a type of level at some point. It will
disrupt your spirituality if you overdo it. Right. But it is good
for youth born Muslim. We're told that 1000 Things are haram you
don't need to 1001 things to be haram. Let him have one thing.
That's how that went. Right. But
I can't even open that anymore. And if the political discussion,
and everything is political, and cultural wars and everything, so
so sick of it. So Japan, Japan, Egypt is very homogenous. They do
have some political differentiation, but overall, you
go north Egypt, South Egypt, East West and make the same jokes. They
pretty much look the same. Everything's homogenous, right. So
in that respect, there's some
There's a positive element to that. We've celebrated diversity
so much, but sometimes at some point you realize like, it's like
chaotic now. Right? Well, I think that that's where we as an OMA
have failed in one sense and meaning that I do agree that on
the surface, it would appear that having a homogenous society would
make things easier. Yeah. But a little bit about my background.
You know, this is not a confession or revealing anything on the show,
but I actually grew up in southwest Virginia. That's crazy.
Okay, I grew up in the coal mines of southwest Virginia, while we
were the only Muslim family for pride 400 square mile for a long
time. I mean, in the beginning, I remember when my father first
started working in southwestern James likes a comb. This is dating
so you might remember this, or maybe you won't, there wasn't we
called Coal Miner's Daughter, they filmed in that area. Spacing, I
thought the coal industry was in Pittsburgh is that the steel
industry is the steel. And so okay, but what's interesting is
that my father still lives there. And
even though he was the minority in that area,
his understanding of Dean and his presentation of the fundamentals
of the and his dedication to the dean in at a high level, not in a
superficial way, you know, being very strong and under, you know,
with respect to not compromising on what's important, but
explaining why it was important to the people that region, he became
beloved in that area. So, and I and every time I go there to this
day, I still remember when I was in high school.
Now, I don't know if this would be the case. Now, I remember when I
was in high school, I was only Muslim boy in high school. And I
used to, you know, high school, you go to high school basketball
games, or football games, I remember that I, you know,
articulated my fate to people, I stood by my dean. And I explained
it in a way that made sense that when it was time for me to praise
the law, I'm not making this up. I had friends who wouldn't who are
not Muslim, who would walk out with me a job, and stand and guard
upon me while I was outside. So literally in the parking lot,
because we're no other places to play. crazies. So what that and
even to this day, I mean, the people in that area,
my father's never had an issue with so now there's always going
to be you know, listen, there's going to be tension, there's going
to be a little bit of racism in every corner of the globe. But my
point is that people can live civilly and in peace with one
another and our deen is predicated on if we present our way of life
in a way that's not only based on
believe this, because we believe but there's an actual intellectual
heritage to this. And that's what your books on either about all the
books or like either
when you present it to these people, and you stand by that
there's a level of respect, which is again, why Muhammad Ali was one
of the most respected athletes. Yeah, the most respected athlete
in the history of modern sports, even though people didn't, you
know, believe in his religion, and he was Muslim. Why was this man so
beloved, you remember the funeral? Your father was able to? I'm gonna
go?
Yeah, so he was there, Chef Hamza was there. And I know a couple
other people were there as well. But, you know, I was a gay
basically was there, you know, prayed for him and his family and
did the janazah. But my point is, here was somebody who lived the
faith. And I remember you mentioned this yesterday, I think
during the show, which was a such a great observation that
Islam is not an academic pursuit, just like you were talking about
these professors. It's a lived
it's a way of life. Yeah. So if you can, you can talk or what you
can do is you can pray. And that's a wonderful thing. But if you are
not actively improving the world, you're in Yeah.
You're it's not worth not just promised the last point. Our
company, our mandate is our images, your story. So that's
great. And my thought process behind it was this. If we are
going to be producing content and stories for create for audiences
and consumers around the world, you never go to someone's house,
if they invite you dinner without bringing something to them. 100%.
So being included? Yeah, I'm not I don't I don't believe in
inclusivity, unless you're contributing and improving the
area in which you're in. Yeah. And that's what we want to do as much
as we actually want to improve. The society is all humanities all
everything that is that is important to us should be
important. Everyone, I think the best is a great story. Yes. And it
does not have to be explicit, right? It doesn't have to be
explicit, right? It just because it's a great story. But I wanted
to mention something that you were saying is that
you were making a point about
standing up for something. In our day and age, you stood up for
things outside of yourself. Like you stood for a principle that was
outside of yourself, the shift that happened very slowly without
us realizing it's people standing up and being bold, courageous
heroes, for your desires, right?
Just for just because my desire if something, whereas the past
paradigm was always at
Your desire is a lonely thing. And that's actually the easy way out
in life, the easy way out in life. And it's a harmful way out, is to
go the route of my desires, right? To rise above your carnal self or
your lower self. This is a whole Christian paradigm, which is we
agree with this paradigm. Right? All the monotheistic religions
have this paradigm, even the ancient religion that was lost of
the what they call the Hyksos. These were the people who were
descendants of this hop that took over the pharaohs. And Zuleika was
one of them. Right? And they had lost the revelation time pass,
they didn't know much. But they had this concept and Zuleika says
enough amount of a suit. So they were people that had idea of
angels, when they saw use if they said this is an angel. So they had
certain ideas, just like the Christians have certain paradigms,
they have angels, demons, ego. We agree on all that, right?
Because the Christian society was taken this idea that you rise
against yourself for a higher principle, and you sacrifice
yourself. Right. So he sacrifices his gold medals. I don't know if
it's a myth or it's true. He throws the medal. He doesn't go to
the Vietnam War. He goes to jail, sacrifice his freedom for three
years. He lost the belt. I think he had lost everything right. And
he said that if you calculate how much he had lost at that time,
yeah, it would be equivalent today at about $300 million.
Well, for that for that. So something above his desire. He
even said that, look, I won't go into the military and fight
because they were saying, Look, we don't need you to fight. Yeah, you
can just just go just do exhibition boxing matches. Yeah,
that's it. Yeah. He said, Look, no, there's still supporting No,
I'm not I cannot because of my faith fight for political reasons.
Yes. Innocent people. Yeah, we periods do not fight for political
reasons. So then, so then, but today's heroes though, they're the
complete frauds. They're like.
They're like fighting. Firstly, no one attacked you. Right? You
notice, it's like, today, I'm, uh, I'm coming out, blah, blah, blah,
and we're victims, but no one attacked you. You invented this up
in your head most of the time, right? And you're courageous for
following your deepest and darkest desires. When you're, you're the
one that you're going to get is really just in your imagination,
or my total right? To believe that that's wrong, right? And my total
right to say it,
like so how are you how you victim? How you courageous? You
want to get someone who's that's his right to do that. Right. So
that's one point I want to make. The other point I want to make is
regarding the epistemology, our epistemology being a prophet and
his the book revealed to that messenger size
and get the most correct understanding what should be the
current understanding that has soup? What's the word transcended
time and place? Right. What we can call a Sona is that this is an
understanding that transcended geography, geographic limits, and
centuries, it's transcendent time in place. So that's the correct
we're gonna say that's the correct understanding with certainty.
Okay.
With all those opinions, if I, if we went on that, if we live by
that,
and your great grandfather in India, live on that, and your
great grandfather, let's say also India, right, lived on that, but
not Kashmir it or anything, because we know, Pakistan or
India. And so you're indebted when he was an Indian that he went to
Pakistan. Okay, so subcontinent? Yes. And my great grandfather, and
then all of our great grandkids, and who knows where our great
grandkids are gonna be, maybe your kid will be in Australia, maybe my
three generations down, my kid will be back in the east. Maybe it
will be further west in Hawaii. Who knows? But let's say they also
follow books on normative as they call it, an academic we call
Edison right form of that. Okay. How much is different between
them? What's different between them from the subcontinent, in
year forefather, let's say in the year 1800, in the subcontinent,
practice Islam, and my great grandkid in the year 2200, let's
say 100 years from now, 80 years from now, what year are we in the
years past and so quick? I don't even know. It's 2022. So, let's
say 180 years from now and 180 years before us right, what is
different?
I can tell you what they agree on. I can tell you that the way that
they believed in sexuality is the same. They would have proposed in
a similar manner, certain things you would have they would have not
done and certain things they would have not done with their body and
similarly they would have done with their body could tell you
what they consumed, what their contracts would not have looked
like. Right? We know that we wouldn't know what they're buying
and selling
Right, anybody buying and selling things that they never seen
between Hawaii and Pakistan, 400 years apart, but we know there's
not going to be Ribbit in the contract, right, we would have
known that they is not going to be rubber on purpose. So much is in
common, we wouldn't know that what they're doing when the sun's
rising. They're both making the do
they're both reciting the same, if not the same. And then, so this
gives the human beings such a feeling of, like, oneness with
life with the universe existence, because I know that the melodica
at that time, we're doing the same thing that I could do, right. And
our enemy Iblees, same thing, he's doing the same thing he's doing
here, he's gonna lead him astray. Same way is going to lead your
forefathers astray. It's the same. So what's different is that things
that are like fun to be different. They're nice to be different, how
you cooked your meeting, how you cook your food, the styles of
clothes, the things are nice to be different, right? There are styles
of things that changed that have to change, or else we will go
crazy flavors, the flavors of life have to change, like this whole
setting. This whole set these plants these things in 30 years,
they better be different, or else you go crazy, right? Everything's
got to change those certain flavors of life have to change,
certain things don't change. So let's say if I go to Australia,
here, I've been to Australia, it's really great. Sydney is a Rip City
go to. So I got Australia, I see birds I've never seen before, big
white birds tall with black beaks, like hooks like this, then hooks
like this walking around. Like we've never seen birds like that.
It's tall to maybe like this high. And it's white. And it's got a
black face and a black beak that goes like this. And black legs.
Like we've never seen a bird like this. And it's it's common over
there. Right. So that's the flavor of it. But I know like how that
bird recreates what it eats. Like, I know, it's not carnivorous, for
example, a falcon or Hawk, I know how to eat it, or that how they
reproduce. So certain things, Allah has kept it the same. Like
how they reproduce this, I know that there's gonna be a male and a
female version. And that it flaps its wings is gonna go up, not
down. There's not there's not going to find a bird in the world
that flaps its wings and go forward, right? Or walks forward
and goes backwards. No certain laws would make us crazy if they
changed. But certain things in the creation. If they say the same, we
go crazy. You notice that? This is amazing thing from Allah subhanaw
taala, like oxygen, oxygen, if it goes, you're a doctor, you have to
have oxygen in your lungs. But oxygen, if it goes up to the
brain, into the brain from outside the body, you can, what would
happen? What would happen if I drill down, if you drill the hole
in someone's skull,
something bad's gonna have come up not because the outcome is not
going to be good. If I just poked a hole in anywhere randomly in
your body and I stopped pumping oxygen wouldn't you get sick. So
the oxygen we need it so badly. But it has to go in once but food,
there's two ears, one mouth, that to esophagus and the trachea,
right? Food has got to go in the esophagus. If it goes in the
trachea Oh, you're in trouble. You die, right? So ALLAH SubhanA,
which Allah has made certain things like the fine fineness of a
hair, but they have to be in opposite directions. One is always
changing. And one always staying the same.
You know, I wanted to say I was listening to shift a boomerang.
And he was, you know, he talks about me, so I only can capture a
little bit, but he was talking about how in the western concept,
there's some painting or something of a creature that's looking
backwards, but walking forwards, and he said that, like, that's a
reflection of humanity, right. But Islam kind of gives you your for
just what you were saying. But that, you know, we know where
we're going, you know, not only in what we do in our home a lot, but
also what the Prophet told us how the world is going to be and what
we have to look out for. The second point was that, you know,
taking away God frees up your ego to do things. So that kind of
society longterm only succeeds until under an authoritarian,
100%. Right? Like, China, like you can think whatever you want
doesn't matter, the Communist Party will tell you what to do. So
we'll see how long that sort of because a guy like a guy, like
let's say, Marx comes up with an economic system, that's he thinks
is equitable to society. It's his idea, right? So the only way for
them to enforce it, they cannot preach it, and get us to be
convinced they can't write. They have to force it by law. And then
if you're gonna force it, what what's the limits that you guys
have? You have no limits. Marx never wrote a book and he said,
Okay, look, if the people rejected, then the first category
of people are sinners. The second category is innovators. The third
categories are conquered peoples, the fourth category, there's no
such thing as that. Right. So when it comes time for Stalin to
actually execute this thing, there's no direction on what to do
with people who are going
It Gulen forcibly. Right cool. And no separation between Stalin Are
you upset because you reject Marxism? Or that he offended you
write that concept too? We haven't Shinya we have an inner in a
divine religion, there's a way to convince people. And then there is
a time to use force. There is an aspect where you can use force.
And there is an aspect you cannot use force. Right? And it's all
written in stone and set for us. So we know when can we use force?
When can we not use it's only what's hurting the external not
you can do whatever you want. Yeah, that's true. Only when
you're so the kink you're depriving people of though hate
Alright, you got three days waging war on you, the king only you
can't go into the towns * people and taking us just the king
and his army once that submitted this in the olden days, of course,
right. Once they're submitted, that's it. You can't go around
putting gun to people's head and say pray right. costume I believe
don't believe it's up to you. Right.
By the way, that Jersey has not even a lot of money, you know,
that will make domains they will these people. Just look at the
jersey and look at the tax that is occur.
Oh, Jersey, yeah. It's not jersey, it's hard. It's got a chapter tax
the property tax. You can't charge more than property tax, right?
Property tax because it's not a Muslim and we conquered your
territory. Chez Panisse, property taxes. Second state almost becomes
a Muslim. He doesn't pay property tax, but now it pays occur, but we
don't get this occur. So again, goes to the port staying on. Well,
that's what they did. And I saw this in one of the professors,
there was a guy called haunting Professor hiding it. So as we've
gone into bliss, right?
He went and he said, the Muslims omae had suppressed. I didn't know
about this stuff. They suppressed people from converting it to
Islam. I said, impossible. It's impossible. What Muslim would do
that? Then I get to the books and like, oh, they did?
And the reason was, they really care so much about Islam. They
wanted the money. So what's it what is it? That's actually a
proof of Islam? That's actually proof because your jersey has
nothing basically, it's not a lot of money. The hot rods, the
property taxes have conquered territories, that's what they
wanted. Now you become Muslim, we can't charge your property taxes
anymore. That's a problem. So they don't want you to come with us.
And they're becoming Muslim, because the Sharia is better for
them financially. So if the Republicans all would want would
love Islam, if they know about our tax laws, we don't allow these
texts, none of these taxes are allowed. All this Cayman Islands
will go out of business, right? Where they're all their Swiss
banks got to keep your money. Right. We're not taxing you except
for police. And we're checking for the military. Internal safety,
external safety. That's it. We're allowed to tax for them from the
left of the United Arab Emirates. Yeah.
So they would love all these tax laws. You have some people say,
some people approach taxes like they purchase a car because piety
is built into them. So he says, I don't know. It's my my accountant
says, this is a little bit of a loophole. Am I allowed to take it
in the shinier? Like, you're not allowed? You have to take it
protect your money. Right? Honestly, if there was a Cayman
Island loophole, I'd use it right? If it was legal, why not protect
my money? Uncle Sam, it's not his hack to take my money. Yeah, for
the north brunswick township, we have an agreement, they're going
to take my trash paved my roads, provide me water, I'm happy to pay
north brunswick township taxes. I look at the guy, the governors
that live in just like me, they're not the money's not being used
drunk, right? They're not doing any projects that are bad. Right?
So fine, I'll pay that and it's pennies anyway. But the federal
taxes with all you guys are doing? Why should I pay this? Right? How
is it that you're working six months out a year for them? And
you've given that to Uncle Sam? Right? So all these things that
are almost like, how do we even get to this topic? I can't even
remember right?
Well, no, I think you hit it on the head I again, it's it's an
evidence or proof that when the self is elevated, yeah,
ultimately, it leads to
conflict, it leads to situations which ultimately will lead to the
unhappiness of the human being. It doesn't help free prints, if
reasonably is right, give you your shot a lot. And then you just
pursue them in the name of you're not hurting anyone else. Exactly.
That's it you can do. And you know what they always say? Don't hurt
other people. Do what you want as long as you don't hurt other
people. Okay. What else is your principle of secular morals?
Don't be a jerk. Okay, so all of your stuff is don't be well what
to do? What should I do? Right? Like what what is the goodness
you're doing you? Okay, so then what if my I'm doing me and you're
doing you and Ryan Xun Ryan, and all of our doings come up to a
clash, right? I'm being sincere and I'm not wanting to hurt
anyone. He's been sincere does want to hurt anyone you to be
insincere. You don't want to hurt anyone. But we're doing the
opposite thing. Right? It's gonna be chaos and suicides are
cancelling each other. Yeah, it's chaos.
society. We actually never did our intro we have to do our intro
Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. Alhamdulillah how many minutes
into this before we do our intro?
Alright, Granta cinco 45 Oh, by the way all of Sofia and Saudi we
speak Spanish now Masha. Yeah. Brian How was the barbecue?
Yesterday's we who did it? What was his name?
Not Dennis. He couldn't make it so we put Oscar. We put it like
downstairs neighbors are doing it there. Everybody's cooking it up.
Downstairs neighbors came out to to eat corn. Yeah. Habib was like
cooking the corn and then all the Nicaraguan brothers are like he
pushed him away. Oh my gosh. So they took over and then what did
Edwin the neighbor do? Edwin? Everyone was just chilling around
and all his kids were like helping okay, but so they weren't putting
pork chops. Because he asked me you know, his son does because
they hardly speak English. And he does begins at all Edward is the
neighbor is a tenant. And then his son is like five years or six
years old either hardly speaks English either, right? daughter
knows. So Edwin asked me he said something Spanish. I said what
does it mean the Son he says, My dad, he wants to eat this ribs of
the pig, right? Oh, I said Oh, ribs.
So
So I said, Okay, you guys can use the grill for that will wash the
grill after us. They never used it. But by the way for insha Allah
he says don't eat the pig. But don't come near alcohol. Why
alcohol is addictive. Pork it's not addictive. Right? So it's not
a problem for me if the tenant needs pig, right? I'm not going to
support it. But he's asking us a gross and even my grill right? So
I don't lose grill it as it says grill we found in the backyard
when we bought the place. So I allowed it right go grow what you
want to grill him. Don't Ask Don't Tell. Right. But alcohol if Mark
it's mark, it's it's open grill for everybody.
But alcohol I'm not gonna allow him I'm not gonna allow any
alcohol so I said look and
grill would you want to grill but they're not allowed to have beer
on the premise. Like, I don't know what he's gonna bring his home.
It's not my business. But outside in the yard. You can't have come.
Right. And so but that's the thing about that. So we got the guys
grilling speaking Spanish. And
they're they're taking part in it. So what is exactly right and what
is Nicaraguan corn? Exactly? You know this, which means a lotus
what is a lotus? We like to make it nice and crispy and black. Oh,
okay. Like burn burn it. Put some cream on it. Butter. Not like sour
cream. Like sweet cream sweet cream. Okay, she using some hot
sauce cheese. Wow. Is it good? Did you eat it? Yeah. Was it good? I
have a good video of it. Yeah, it was great. So it was a great vibe
yesterday. I want CeCe we're doing our Wednesday dinners what we
promised and we said our first year of soup kitchen every
Wednesday we're having a dinner. Right that's it one time a week.
So we get good at it. Then we have the tilapia Adam from the summer
of the mahute Okay
now had his means like school seminary
they're going to be part of their job is you have to support one
another day for dinner because takes a lot of men but romping can
be there every day. Right? Take a lot of info. So by the way, Habib
amanecer Allah is going to name the mad for the bulk of it I said
you know what, get my mind and desires out of it.
Shift naman right, so we'll see what name whatever name it comes
up with is going to be a great name. Right? That's it. I've
decided it's a great name as it is. So and I don't care if it
translates well in English. If it's pronounceable in English
class, we made the intention that's it, the buck is more
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Who's Josh what is Josh Brolin want from us? Hardcore ADVC this
What are you saying? Oh, you want to make?
Like, like, just general hate or like Islam hates Islam. Okay, so
he hates Islam, but he's not a Muslim who's hating within us? I
actually have no problem with people who hate on us on all of
us, because that sort of brings us together. It sort of bothered. And
I have a limited approach to how we go to some of the dead. Yeah,
online. Because what we consider dead. Yeah, it looks like it's
infighting. And oftentimes it's destructive. Sometimes it has to
happen, right? Especially some of the way off and saying Cooper. So
the the syllabus or the parameters I put now is if it's like explicit
cover,
then we go all out. If it's explicit, like an innovation, then
like a more polite
critique.
So and if it's, but if it's a non you know, someone outside of Islam
completely, I have no problem going out with that. So if Josh
mayhem reported Josh, that's how bad it was. Wow, you're saying
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Mohammed says last time you said he wanted 50k Yeah, the number was
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That's true. That's true.
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RVD one, thank you for your DUA. May Allah Allah increase you and
give you Huck?
Okay.
Let's go to this guy who told me
one guy said, What in your belief system holds just to be
compelling? said nothing. I don't like it at all compelling, like,
moved by it. You think is this by choice? We're believing this by
some emotion, right?
There's a lot of things in our deen. Let's be honest, we would
not do it at all. openly. We will not do it. If Allah has said it,
right. And that's actually the proof of you men. Tell me exactly
how many women would wear hijab if Allah didn't say wear hijab. And
if all the Muslim Sahabi wore hijab, and they understood that's
why
To have is they all wore it the same exact way as it's worn today.
Okay, why would a Muslim woman do this? Right? Unless it's some you
go back to some Middle Ages where that was the fashion like the
elites and Royals they do not show themselves. You see it in the
movies even right? Even in England. When she goes out she's
completely covered. Right? That was the thing. But other than
that, why would you do it? How many of you will be honest with
yourselves would lower your gaze if Allah didn't say lower the
gaze? No, you wouldn't guarantee wouldn't What's the proof? You
Don't lower your gaze on course. Right? And you wouldn't if I
preached lower the gains on cars because it's dunya you want to
lower that you want to do it right so what a men love more cars are
women. Well, it's a probably up to debate but truth is though a woman
more right foods. Okay, no one's gonna go say all decrease your
foods, right? Don't eat these luscious foods. Because they're
all they taste good and it's dunya No, you're not gonna listen to
that. Right? You can eat what you want to eat. So
so many things in this deen is simply done. Because we believe in
Allah and those are the best of things say not even every thought
of this what is the best of deeds isn't the one you don't want to
do? The one you hate doing? Listening to your parents obeying
them being having this concept of family even now you grow up? I got
a responsibility now with wife and kids. Most guys, why would why
would we do that? Why would we lock ourselves in all these frat
boys that lock themselves in? Right? And all these guys with the
midlife crisis just says goodbye. Why? Right? Well, I'm gonna go
live and get rich and go live in Las Vegas and get a younger woman.
I will do that. So so much in our deen. But what happens is an
unnatural, supernatural. Think comes comes down. It's not it's
not something that's like natural. It comes down. Okay. And it puts
Sakina in your heart when you obey Allah. So when a person is saying,
No, I love lower my gaze. I love Bidwell again. I love so not to
defend it and to hedge it in the water hitting my face. He's not
lying, but it's not his his, his original self that loves it.
That's the reward of obedience, that Allah puts a Sakina that's
higher than carnal passions, remember, had dead said? What is
the least reward of that? He said, When you have done remembrance of
Allah properly, the least reward? Is that a sweeter than carnal
passions? Right. But at the outset of the person, the outset of your
deen, when you first started, someone told you, there's no
reward from Allah for this, right? There's no Sakina for this, okay?
You wouldn't do it. And Allah hasn't commanded that he wouldn't
do it. Alright, so that's the question.
You were talking about? Not doing things and doing things. And
obviously the deen precludes us from certain things allows us to
do certain things. Is it fair to say? Or what is the what are the
scholars say, with respect to
particular challenges that each individual faces that maybe that
an individual only has or someone has, you know, very bad temper?
It's just their nature? Is that something that every human being
has a there's one or two or a handful of challenges that are
unique to that individual that they have to overcome? Is that is
that in our tradition, or that everyone's going to have a
different temptation, for example, exactly. 100%? Some, so you have
different temptations? Who knows why, right? Who knows why that
certain people have, I guess the studies in alcohol alcoholism,
hold that you're altering your proteins by your behavior. Right.
And so therefore, when you produce an offspring, you may be
transmitting that craving. Right. And that's some susceptibility.
Maybe, right? Maybe wrong, who knows? Doesn't make a difference
to us, right? But there are going to be people who have different
cravings in life, and different flaws. There's anger, there's also
cowardice. It's not cowardice. It's like people's nerves are not
create are not set for confrontations. I know people like
this. Like physically, the person will get sick at the concept of a
confrontation. And I'm sitting there like, Wait, this is fun,
right?
And he's like getting butterflies and all that is his killer. His
creation is like that. So he has to do a lot to make sure he
doesn't fall into what Allah says, well, that's our kind of Ladino
varnamo Fatima seminar. Don't soften, do not soften to the
oppressors or else the fire that consumes them, it sparks will
touch you, because you soften to them. That's why
you have to every once in a while explicitly and openly
have animosity, animosity, meaning open conflict openly against
something that's cool for every once in a while. So I have a
widget because social media is
So, like are words is are all we have right now write words on the
pen, and the keyboard, once a year, something against all of
them upside down, and the kofod once a year, just to make sure
newcomers, who are just discovering, you know, the page
and stuff, they know where we stand. Exactly. That's idea.
It's funny, you know, you were talking about how God tests or
refines everyone, like I see it all the time in my own work is
that people that undergo retina surgery for let's say, a retinal
detachment, they're not going to see anything out of the eye for at
least a month, right? For people that are like so impatient about
everything. I'm like, you just gotta be patient. And I've even
told some people that look, this is God's way of teaching your
patients. Yeah, you just have to be patient, you'll get your site
back. So model, but you have to be patient. And if I'm not mistaken,
our dean, the victory, obviously, is with Allah subhanaw taala. The
success comes from him, but we are victorious, just by the nature of
struggling against those things. That's what makes us victorious,
because we may never overcome those. That's a beautiful thing.
You're not pious, because you're sinless. Right, your pies because
you reject the sin in your heart and in your behavior, and you
fight against it. There can be someone who's climbing the path of
Willa Hills even though it every week, he falls into his sins. And
then he makes taupe. Right? And he fails again. And he may do this
for 510 1520 years. And he doesn't realize his email is actually
increasing. Right? Because every time he makes Toba, he's, he's
believing that Allah can forgive him. And he's believing that Allah
has the power, right? And he's believing that Allah is simply
testing him, and testing his persistence and his perseverance.
That's Amen. Because he realizes the amount is growing. And in the
sight of Allah, he's growing, but Allah has unleashed a dog upon
him. And that dog will not let go until Allah calls him back. Simple
as that, who Allah will call him back when the test is over. That's
why when someone cries, I'm addicted to *. Listen,
wilayah to Allah, the Willa is not that you have no sense. We want to
get there. It's a wonderful quality. But nearness to Allah is
that you never accept for yourself, to be a sinner. And you
never stopped believing that Allah Allah can remove this from you.
You have to believe that and Iblees does not care that you
committed one sin, He cares that you get hopeless, then you believe
Oh Allah and Allah, even Allah can't get through this. That's
what at least wants you to believe. And once you don't
believe in The Quadra of Allah, that attribute is one of the major
attributes of our belief that causes you to have any image Your
man is just on the outside. No, put them.
Let's go to
I read Josh, I guess he was talking about did he make any good
points at least? Resist throwing throwing nonsense? Yeah, I think
you're standing up here to go sit down. Oh, it was just bla bla bla
bla bla bla bum. All right.
All right.
Let's see who else we got here.
I have a question. Regarding trans women. I want to attend a yoga
class for women only. But it's open to all who identify as women.
If the person in front of you appears as a woman, 100% Right. No
hair on the face.
Okay.
No hair like no deep voice.
By Sharia, you may treat them as a woman. Right? Chef we have in our
practice. Yeah, we have friends, women. And I have looked at them
up close. Oh my God, to find out. By the way, you know, I was
thinking the other day.
I was thinking the other day, some of our some women from our parts
of the world that could never be transmitted.
Like your body shape. Some women have body shapes, you can never
become a transit and you're like immune from ever being trans. If
you ever tried to be trans, these women are so they have such you
know, I'm not going to be graphic here. But you know what I'm
talking about, right? You can only be a trans man. If you have a
certain lean skeletal system. Most women in most parts of the world
to be honest, they don't have that. Have you seen like I have
not seen a trans man in real life in real life. They're all trans
woman. They're all men going trying to becoming women because
women have dominated Western society. So the men are like our
how do we counter feminism? Right? I guess join us, right, become
with and they've destroyed feminism. Right? Because there's
no such feminine. It's just whatever it is. Right? They just
That's why all the feminists are are what are they called? turfs
trans? By blah, blah, blah.
What are they? What is it? What's the target and what do they call?
I don't know. Yeah. Oh, okay. So it's basically transphobic radical
feminists.
That's what they are. One of the things that's so amazing you
mentioned this yesterday or the day before with the some of the
discussion related to abortion. He was a couple of days back. But one
of the other things that's amazing about our dean is that when it
comes to every one of these issues,
we're able to reach out and say relatively easily navigate
negotiate that. Yeah. But they're they're relatively clear
parameters in dealing with these things in a way that allows the
society to not get gummed up in the works and to move ahead. Like
you said, as far as, you know, belaboring the point, and fighting
back and forth. We said, Okay, you treat those individuals in that
fashion and you move on. It's unbelievable that Shinya actually
has a response to this. It's unbelievable how quickly the
ultimate came. They seem to have
came up with that.
Okay, let's see, shake. Kay, says how to differentiate between doors
opening and closing, closing.
When the door is closed, all your advisors will echo the same thing.
Remember, we don't do is to shadow without his Takata. So it's
Takata. Oh, Allah opened the doors or close them.
And your mind. Firstly, if it's something becomes impossible, like
literally impossible.
Like I want to buy that house. Someone else buys it.
It's become impossible. You may still want it, but it won't be
now. You can still get it in 10 years, maybe the guy sells.
All right. So there will be okay, because the middle once episode
timestamps on episode 54 and 55.
They're just in the description. They're there. They're in the
description there. Okay.
All right. Let's see if man says I feel that's why all the lines
chosen for the event is Come to success. Otherwise people won't do
it. You need a motivation? Because you're trading I'm buying and
selling. I'm doing work, then then comes Okay, halfway through, then
come to success. You realize, you think that this trade right here
is your success? No, this is just an illusion. Allah Tada is the
only real giver of success. Muhammad Ali says, a question for
the q&a. Is one deprived of both reward and effective decretive
done in Afula. Or just the effect? No, if you do the good enough law,
you will, there is still a reward to it. Both reward of ACARA and of
the dunya effect of the dunya but it's just watered down a bit. So
what's for example, one of the rewards of the extra your tongue
will be rewarded for saying the name of Allah, your tongue.
You're not backbiting you're not talking. Rafa.
hedgerow Mahmoud, she says
what's the best form of Toba? The draw of Yunus. Dr. Little per se
there is still far
Toba. In fact, all these dogs are powerful, but it's the one that
you say with the most effortless if you said nothing of those but
you had full Nicholas Stobo. So, these are merely means to express
your Eclass
will Willa is not equal to having no sins without equals nearness to
Allah irrespective of sins? Yes, correct.
Okay
what are you guys talking about? Yes, Ian Connor boy and Ahmed Ali.
What are they talking about?
They seen that the woman transition? Oh, the transition
fatwah? Like, have you seen Oh, switching back? No, I hardly see
that what I see is And the worst is is not even trying transition.
That's what I call not even trying transition. Right? You guys are
afraid. So I'm walking with my daughter the other day to the
hospital for medical procedures. We walk and we see a sister. We
think it's a sister. She's got to put on a Tabata. Okay, this is DC
trans. A button. And we're like, Hey, what's up? I said Who's that?
So we're thinking to say celebs because New Brunswick we pretty
much can probably get to know her.
Yeah, whereas as long ago, okay, we're gonna do that. But then this
is the end of the parking lot. Get closer, closer, closer. Okay.
And because there was they were in a mask, so we didn't see.
Then all of a sudden we see that it was a dude. All of a sudden
chest here's the Buddha
with makeup on. Like you could see that there was some eye makeup.
Okay, some Muslim woman do this right.
And the mask, so we thought it was woman from far away. She's like a
second gen Who is this? Because it's like, alright, it's like I
don't know. I think it may be
Is this there's no right yet there.
We get there
is thing, a full hairs on the nail polish and hairs right on the arm.
She looks at me.
I look at her right. And she's like, faces white, right? You see
that? This is what I'm saying you will never mistake them up close.
What I love about this thing, little kids, there's not even a
filter for kids. They're disgusted, right? And when I was
young, and the Liberals came around, there was a fitna of
liberals, liberals in my day, and your day in your day, liberals and
Americans really nice music. Really pretty women. Really cool
dudes. Those were liberals. Right. It's a fitna. This is not a fitna,
right. This is a nightmare from Allah subhanaw taala. Because even
kids are rejecting this stuff. She wants to go find that
non religious Muslims knocking on the door of Islamic schools these
days will light non religion Muslims, * let us get our kids
in. Listen, the guy doesn't pray. The woman doesn't care about
hijra, and I've been to a mosque for 50 years, right? No way in
*, my kid's gonna become a woman. Right? So now, it's it's so
bad. It's forced you to join aside? I'm telling you, it's
forced them to join us. But one thing one thing I want to point
out is that these people, ironically, are some of the
bravest people, and we as Muslims should not, you know, shy away
from our faith also, like if you're willing to dress as a woman
and look like a man and Manahawkin New Jersey. Yeah.
You can certainly say you're a Muslim and say, Well, that's
exactly what Haytham whatever his name was sent to him. I met him in
Hamburg, when he saw him a man who had been humbled the night before
the lashes. He was 40 lashes was from a hunt. And he was sitting
like this. Like, if you get 40 lashes, we'd be like shaking.
Right? Mohammed himself was just pensive. Right? You're just being
pensive. Haytham this famous criminal of meth that he walks by.
And he looks into it. Isn't that the famous? He said yeah. So how
many lessons he is he getting? 40 He looked at him like you're
upset. Like I said, Yeah. I have had over 400 lashes for Iblees you
can do 40 for Allah.
And Muhammad said, Allah made him speak. And Allah made him cross at
that moment that CMM method was pensive. Allah Allah are never
pensive and concerned except Allah comes quickly to them. So Allah
brought him Haytham to say this word it almost made him laugh.
I'll be left right. When you laugh, your your nerves go up,
right everyone left, right, because it's hilarious thing I got
philosopher at least you can take 40 for Allah. It's true. And it's
funny. And he's like a clown criminal. Right? All of the nerves
God. And you remember when he went for the lashes, he felt the first
one he passed up. And they saw him smiling while the lashes are
happening smiling. They said what happened? He said I got the first
lash. By the way. Lashes in Cydia are not transatlantic slave trade
lashes. First of all, the lash cannot break the skin or bone.
Secondly, no shoulder can go into the lash, you know that? You
cannot use your shoulder for the lash. You look at the trends. It's
96 They're full hip golf swing into the lash, right?
The lash in Islam. You can only use your elbow, you put your arm
out like this
doesn't even hurt, right? So why the criminals keep going. Right?
Right. That's it. So that's where they have to find someone big
enough to do it. And there's the thing cannot be with it's got to
be almost like a belt wide belt. Not so thick that it breaks your
bone and not thin that it breaks your skin and no shoulder let
alone hip action. In the less you turn up lashing like this, you
really like be cut up can do that. So it's like this bow bow. And
it's it's enough that you're going to be limping for about two three
days and everyone's going to be laughing at you and you're not
going to do it again. And all the kids were like Hey, I got I can't
even sit down right in the message it reminds me when a lot told
Prophet Are you a believer salaam that take 100
You know if 100 Wheat stalks Yeah, whatever. Yeah. So
here we go. Mohammed Azhar, what is Willa,
Willa,
is a rank given by Allah subhana which Allah in which you enter hid
his realm of love and the realm of love of Allah subhana which means
for us a constant and nonstop discovery of his secrets. And that
becomes a version of heaven on earth. Right? Not heaven on earth
necessarily. That means flasks and
do other things of wine and gold, but a heaven on earth in the sense
that your fears are constantly immediately allayed all the time
like you will have anxiety and fear but there'll be allayed
immediately and that's a further sign of divine love.
If you're constantly in discovery of Allah's mysteries in this
world, right, that's what we die is. I am your eyes with which you
see your ears with what you hear you will never stop discovering
you will never be bored.
That's what I that's our goal. Famous Hadith, Willa and have an
article on it, that he could look it up Wilaya the goal of every
believer Do you have any recommendations for online
homeschooling programs? My nod? Yes, legacy is the Islamic online.
All of our friends use it. Legacy if you want information, you just
email me my personal email Shadi Dotto, [email protected] I'll send
you to the people I know some board members on legacy and
Levantine she says I was reading Sudha to shot up and I realized
the magicians were saved from being crucified and the sea was
split for them along with Musa and those who are with him so miracles
are not only for prophets not at all. We have chromatic Olia All
right, so let me say is a was once asking it seems like any sort of
are given more favors than the home of the Prophet. That's not
true at all. No, OMA has been given more blessing than OMO
Mohammed sai Sena. And no OMA has been protected from hardship more
what the slaves went through transatlantic slave trade, what
the Jews went through pogroms and Russia.
And what Hitler did to them. The Muslims have never faced 1/10 of
that. Think about that. Right? When the Jews say, Don't even dare
say what we're doing in Gaza, is close to the Holocaust. We say
yeah, Allah would not do that to us, right? This is home of the
Beloved. Right? There is no yes, we will have hardship. Bad
hardship. Nothing close to that slaughterhouse. Good. So yes, we
have hardships but we never have the hardships that other nations
have got
the funnel, the bounty of this OMA compare the laws between the two,
compare the certainty, the idea that you don't have certainty that
the Torah is actually from Moses, like that book that Moses received
and the throw that you have now, that 250 We don't really know. You
go to academics, they don't know. Okay. So you look at the miracles
that have happened. And the comments of the Olia, I have a PDF
here. It's called syphilis suffer, we're gonna go through it. So like
pages and pages and pages, I can find you today, probably New
Jersey people have caught on it. That odia we can find earlier.
Anywhere. There's Muslims, I could find you odia. Right.
So I'm telling you that this idea of
like every 40, Muslims will have a, every board member will have a
warning. And that Willie will not necessarily always be a Kurama
Willie, but it will be a Willie type of Wali of istrouma. Could it
also be argued that
as we move ahead, technologically, yeah. From
you know, I guess you could say a virtual perspective, because
there's so much that we can develop online and offline, you
know, who knows if we'll be able to build holograms that like later
on, that the things that we actually see with their eyes?
There's going to be other rational explanations, which will do away
with a lot of the garmont that came in the past. Yeah. Whereas
and again, quoting Showhomes again, earlier, he said that one
of the that some have argued the greatest got a mA of the problem,
almost a little more his Sahaba. Yeah. And if you look, and there
is to come out, and if you look at the dean, and how you mentioned
this earlier, how every society every culture, in the world that
takes this Deen on Yeah, thrives and has connective tissue between
themselves. Yeah. That is the mercy that regardless of the
change in the technology requires that it's better because things
can always be explained by physics, physics and math, and
what have you. This How do you explain this? Unless it's
completely controlled by the unseen?
What is the biggest cut off of that? You could say someone flying
in the air?
The Wright brothers did it. Alright, what's the big deal? It's
not that big of a deal. If you think about it from that
perspective, right. And they made a multimillion dollar business off
of it. As well either flew in the air, no one believed him. Right?
On top of that,
if you someone offered you and your fly in the air, you'd have to
say no to it, right, because people think you're crazy to think
you're possessed. No one would want to be friends with you.
Alright.
Better off to be in the flight industry. You can make some money
off. It's kind of dating myself here. But if you watch the videos
on YouTube, yeah, you
We probably could all relate to this. I guess I'm a little bit
older. Maybe you're younger than me. But
if you see the young people today, just physically what they're able
to do, yeah. Whether it's athletically, whether it's the
people, we're doing the, what's it called? Maybe urban planning? No.
Peripera Oh, yeah, these jumpers.
Okay. I mean, back in the day, those people you know, 1000 years
ago would have been seen as athletes, they would have been
supernatural athletes. Now you're seeing just average people doing
the most amazing physical things because things have changed. The
human body has developed a body is developed sneakers have developed
so they're running faster all like compared like 100 years. Now that
we have like 100 years of Olympic data and stuff like that. They're
crushing everything, right? It's very painful when you look at the
old high school yearbook. So you know, yeah, and I was back and you
say, Okay, look at the athletes now. And you look at the athletes
you ever see like, basketball players from the 1950s and hockey
players, like this an athlete like looks like you and me, right?
Well?
Yes. famous baseball player. Right, Babe Ruth, Babe Ruth? Yeah.
Look at Chamberlain, they say, you know, he scored 100 points. But
look who he scored 100 points. Again. It's exactly plumbers and
firefighters as JJ Redick once again, as an ICA says, Sometimes I
make dua for something and it happens. But I keep telling myself
It happened because it was Allah's will not You're not my dog. It
happened. And Allah has chosen to make it happen through your dog.
Right? It's gonna happen either way, right? But Allah has given
you a gift to draw you near to Him, and to show you the power of
dua, that he has made it happen through your door, Allah is the
creator of the means and the ends. And when he creates your DUA as a
means, that means I'm going to give you this and I'm going to
draw you near and increase your Eman at the same time. So you
should be very happy when something happens because of your
DUA Allah has inspired your that dua for you from you, and created
it through your DUA. Good.
Or by means of your DUA or as your dog connected to it. So that your
Eman would increase? All right? So that you can have Dean and dunya
at the same time? What's a sign that I'm sincerely asking Allah
some for something? I really want it. I'm worshiping Allah, because
I want this thing but I also love a lot the same time what's the
sign of that? The proof is when you get it, you'll be thankful. If
you're sincerely say, Listen, I'm only getting a part 200 I want
something from Allah. Okay? Sometimes even you know, so my
kids, why are you doing this X ray bed, right? I mean, I've seen you
doing this. I want something from Allah. I just tell him, I want
some from Allah. But what's the difference between that and sort
of like being selfish? That proof is, number one, Allah accept
selfishness. We don't accept it. If I'll be friends with you. And
as soon as your benefit stops, I cut you off. You don't like what
Allah He accepts that Amen.
But then, in other words, I do try to hedge it until I get what I
want, then I sleep. It's accepted, but it's not good. What's the
proof that I'm truly have mingled Between Love of Allah, true love
of Allah and I want something from the dunya or for or something in
general, that when Allah gives it to me, I continue to worship Him
out of gratitude. Stop.
That's the same can can you memorize the answer of a dua as a
ishara for something else he wants to, for example, and this recently
came up is that a baby had an acute problem that needed surgical
surgery acutely, right? Yeah, so we all pray that Allah grant Shiva
for this baby and the baby was fine and we knew it within 12
hours, right? So can you say that Allah if you know if you save this
baby, let this be a good sign for this other person who has a more
chronic problem? They'll get shuffled here's the answer to that
question. If you make both draw at the same time, at the same in one
package bundle, that's why bundling your draw is good because
Allah never takes a bundle DUA and says this yes, this No. Okay. So
when a dua is bundled, if it is accepted, the whole thing is
accepted. Okay. And so that we proof of that prophesy Salam had
made a DUA, okay.
I don't and I can't even paraphrase it, but
he may do it for two things. Okay.
Then one of them happened. He said, This is the first thing now
we await the second thing why because he bundled into a it was
accepted. He made $1 for two things. They immediately it was
something like shelter and food because they were traveling,
right? And he said, we got the one thing now we await the second
thing. That's the concept and the idea
how many Solothurn is too far for a higher chance? of.is a question
by autism and 300 is so far today if let's say 100 is so far today
and 1000 Salawat today, that's the way of our path 1000 Salawat today
Right elf, Salah is found in all the mache all the odia you will
find the same one that where did they get it from Abdullah webisode
like it's thinking it has no it has no basis has a basis for him.
Abdullah msoa immunochemical Josias says, claim a mess huzzah
do not let Friday pass without doing the 1,000th set of what are
they started doing that and they said every day of the week, right?
ducked. So may Allah subhana which Allah give out his men make dua
for autism and give that Sophia to do this a bad there's nothing
better than 1000 Salawat a day as a habit. You'll find yourself
smoothed over your fights at home become like 20 seconds, not 20
days, some people their fights. Hmm. Because you're winning 20?
That's a good question. I don't know if your neffs just will say,
call us let's make a compromise. Let's make a deal. Let me let it
go. Let me be the first to initiate. Right. I love smooth
relations.
And then you become a person that no one wants to argue with. Right?
You become such a smooth person that people Allah subhana wa Datto
some at Attica to bring the two together. So how could you How
could you fight with such a person as such a woman? How could you
upset two Muslim? How could you upset some Muslim men like this?
Right? But I will do that by Nietzsche together. I think for
married people, the greatest fear is that your wife hasn't only have
a loss of just oh my goodness. That's a problem. It is a problem.
Let me tell you something about love. I'll give you a summary. And
I say this all the time because it's important people know the
love is of two types of love. There's the type of love that is
inside me which is your nature's, your nature's get along. Like we
click naturally. That is this is a very sweet love, but you don't
want to base a lot on it. And you true in truth. You don't need a
lot of it. Although it's very sweet when you have it. Right. You
love to have it. But you don't want to base a lot on it. Second
Love is the love the love that is a supernatural it's comes down
from ALLAH SubhanA which Allah as Allah says in suit, it's a room.
Okay? Why Jalna we placed the Sakina amongst you. Okay. And that
is when both parties have Taqwa.
Allah, Allah will glue them together, right? Even if they were
to wish West in themselves, and say themselves, I don't get along
with this guy. Like his nature is the opposite of mine. That will go
away. You will know it in your mind. Our natures are totally
different, but we love each other while this is a second type of
love. So there's two types of love. Right? So the love that you
find if any two anytime two people have Taqwa they're in any
situation marriage colleagues at work business, could be husband
and father and son, mother and daughter, brother and sister
biological. If they both have taqwa, Allah, Allah Allah will
create a love for them. That transcends nature. Astrology, like
these people say, some people first think when a god proposes
Are you an Aries? Are you a Leo? Because if you aren't, then we
can't get along. That's all nonsense. It's all nonsense,
right? You can get along 110% Caitlin says, How do we not get
discouraged by circumstances not changing while making continuous
dua for something you don't get discouraged by being practical.
Okay.
Rome wasn't built in a day, as they say, right. The whole earth
Allah could have created by saying configurable he created in six
days and six days a day in the Allah site of Allah's 1000 years.
Say now Adam, his body was created, it could have been
created on the spot like what what was created directly. While Adam
was taken up, he found a human being next to him. But Adam wasn't
created like that. And neither was all the other human beings are
created in nine months. Adam was created over a long period of
time.
Alright, so be practical. Be patient, compare what you're
asking for the value of it to other things in your life.
The value of whatever you're asking for, is it something worthy
of waiting eight years for 10 years for two years for your 20
minutes for right?
Different things. So be practical and be patient? do is you want
something to happen in the world, there are prerequisites for things
to happen, right? There's a prerequisite, you want this stuff
as a prerequisite.
Other things have to happen, you gotta go. Alright. So he's got to
do some adulting things take care. So I will talk about all those
other things in Java.
So far, it says when there is a Hadith saying if you do X, all
your previous sins will be forgiven.
Should we still doubt that so we don't fall into it yet. You never
doubt it. But you doubt but you you accuse your sincerity in doing
it. Right. But sincerity is also something that's not unknown.
I know when I'm being sincere, right. I know what it means it's
here when I'm not being sincere. I asked him to vomit about this
is a kind of person No, he's sincere he said yes, but you don't
think you're better than others for it? And I know when the action
is the Sunnah with the Sunnah is not a mystery. I know the photo of
Salah, the Sunnah of Salah. I know, I see it right in front of
me. I have eyes. This is an Arabic. It's the same language.
There's no no mysteries here. I know my own heart when I'm being
fake and want to be insincere.
So the question is, we ask that Allah accepted, right? And we have
absolute certainty, and you are allowed to have absolute certainty
that will lie, I was sincere, and I do believe my sins are forgiven.
That's, but you just don't think you're better than anyone else.
And you don't think oh, I can send again. That's
Ryan, anything from Facebook?
Because I only got YouTube and Insta here. From Facebook.
Facebook's not too chatty today. Yeah.
Facebook. Oh, all right. Islam, anti tax. So how are Muslim
governments supposed to raise money for infrastructure and
welfare projects, infrastructure and welfare projects? How does the
most Muslim government raise those funds?
There are certain things that go straight to the government, like
what resources? Right natural resources. This is something that
goes to the Emir. Right? He gave like Saudi, where did they get
their money from the oil, right? It goes to them the government.
These types of like in Turkey, they have boron.
Right? He studied this in the periodic table. It's a it's a,
it's using Gorilla Glass. There's boron on this here. There's boron
here. Turkeys like the 90% of the boron of the world comes from
Turkey. So they control that it's government controlled. So
resources, natural resources, like that are one of is one of the ways
that's for like roads and stuff like that. You can tax you can
put, for example, if you if you build the road, I think that tolls
is acceptable, right? Like we built this road, there's a debt to
it, we owe the company, how are the company getting paid? Right
for that? So there are those are ways for them to earn money. The
government can earn money like that, can the US can governments
open businesses? That's a good question. Why not? Right? I mean,
there's always partnerships between government and business.
Yeah. You know, somebody has to fund research and all that stuff.
So so if I'm king, if I'm Sultan, and we got some boron, and we take
the boron, and we invest it
a lot, I have to double check on, like, but we know for sure that
governments are always involved with private business, but also
like if you if you were to buy a property someplace, right, so that
property needs to be registered. Right. So the country can charge
whatever they want to charge. Like, if you're buying a million
dollar home, yeah, they can say, well, you have to pay, you know,
$10,000 to to register this property. Well, there's going to
be tax tax tasks, tasks involved, right? In everything that you do.
Human beings are going to do those tasks, they got to get paid. So
that's how you're going to get paid. We can put taxation for, as
we said, police and military. Now what about health care? Health
care should be people's endowment? The people have to have an
endowment for that. The government cannot take Dr. Harris's money to
give medicine to John Smith.
cannot do it. Now, what about luxury Texas? There is
permissibility for luxury texts. Let's say.
Do you need a private jet? You don't need a private jet. Right?
Why do you need a private jet? Who are you to need a private jet? 29%
tax us crazy, right? But tell it listen, if you could afford a
private jet 20% And that goes for health care, or for roads or
whatever like that, you'd love to do that. Because it's you know,
I'm not taking money from your pocket. It's your choice to buy
something you don't need. And there could be a scale of luxury
tax for example.
What's the what's the Mercedes it's like a big hoopty it's like
the SL follow the me back in the back. Right? You don't need to be
back right? It'll be like 11% tax. Oh, five, seven. We need me back.
Yeah, right. What about a yacht? You really need to yet Alright,
let's find your first job. Find second Yeah, you're right.
Helicopter, all that stuff. Watch for 20 Grant. You're paying taxes
on that, can you you can tell the time with less than that. So
things like that you're allowed to do.
Give us a DUA or liquor to overcome this state. Several years
of this dog chasing us for procrastinator at work.
Procrit yeah procrastinate Shaheed when this happens when I scroll my
finger refreshes the whole feed. And now I can't see what anybody's
Instagram Yeah. Read read to me everything after procrastinator at
work, but the procrastinator at work. You have to believe in The
Quadra of Allah
For any verse that states Allah's Quadra over things, you have to
stay stick with that. Right? Stick with the verse of Allah's power if
you have an addiction, because that's really where Satan wants to
get you. He wants to make you have doubt.
Okay, best way I've ever heard he says, to advise a Muslim of the
opposite gender to not attend the prom.
If she is not your sister,
then you don't really have business going give her an Asiya
right? If she's your sister, then you can give her an LC.
Okay.
And the CIA givers Hara, right? Alesund the Quran don't look at
them. Don't look at the opposite gender. That's a default. So
sometimes MSA has really simple.
I don't know what else to tell you.
We Pakistani have superheroic concept of Willy like ultra
powerful.
Okay.
But most of the conquerors are empty of these Korematsu odia. The
greatest Kurama Muhammad Azhar is, is to come on the dean and
sweetness of Eman through the basketball and spreading that to
others. I remember I was reading the book of resistance remember
her dad, and it was a chapter of yaki and he quoted earlier on, he
said, like if the veils of the veils were to be lifted from
Allah, you wouldn't grow any man even a bit. Yeah. SubhanAllah.
Thing is, you know what I love? I love seeing the Sheikh and then
looking at his kids and his family, and they love the deen.
That, to me, is the greatest of all Chromat What else can you
want? Right?
How'd you know Mahmoud? What is the fine line between accepting
Qatar being disheartened when a dua isn't immediately answered?
Between persisting and submitted the answer is somewhat Be patient.
Okay, as long as a sin is possible,
be patient that's what the Prophet said. This is not my words. It's
the words of the messenger so I sent him used a job will he or her
dico Miralem Yeah, you will get your history job as long as you
don't rush. And rushing means you give up. They ask almost Allah
what is what is rushing. Rushing means you stop making do I said, I
mean, don't and I'll let him answer. So Who stopped you
stopped? Okay? As long as you don't stop. You have to have
patience though.
Isn't Allah have been very patient with our sins for like decades. I
should move toward how do we reconcile the verse about Allah
does not burden a soul beyond this capacity and people who lose their
minds from severe tests. Excellent question. And the answer is what
Allah says this what he means is
Sharia does not burden you more than human should he does not tell
you to pray when you're in a coma. Right. Shetty does not tell you
fast when you're sick.
But human beings can as such fall in situations that are greater
than them.
You can put a guy in jail and he goes crazy. You can put a woman in
a mental hospital right she's gonna go crazy. And you can
oppress a man to the point that he has a nervous breakdown
a tree could fall upon a guy he dies so he was burdened with
something he is physically could not bear. Alright, so you can be
burdened with something you can't bear. The what the verse is that
Allah Shetty I will not burden you what you can bear. That's what it
means. Nobody can say I cannot bear not to look at women.
No you can you can train yourself to that. Problem is other people's
freewill gets in the way if the viewers and China course other
people's free will can burden you. But Allah's law does not burden
you more than you can bear. You can always bear Allah's law.
Stark fire says if something doesn't go your way, like a
relationship, how do you know if it was due to another?
Another?
Hasn't gin
that's beyond me to be honest with you, but go to advisors.
Sometimes there is hesed. Right? Sometimes there is but to be
honest with you. It's an unseen thing. So battle the unseen with
unseen battle that with Vicodin da Don't think too much about it. You
can't have this idea that there's this thing coming it's getting us
but what's the proof? We don't really know. You can't win. So
there's just don't even think about that. Really don't even
think about it. Do your oath god of Allah subhanaw taala and go out
and get advice from people right?
And change your behavior
on zgemma what is the best way to obtain forgiveness from people not
sure where they are? Or perhaps I might not be aware and prevent any
oppression of another's I'm scared to be asked now on the Day of
Judgment. If you oppress someone and that person has gone from your
life and you don't know where they are you make to offer them that
How you make up the oppression you make and happens? A man came to
him and I bet he said I killed he said then go pay the DIA to the
family. He said I don't know who the family is said make dua for
the men said I don't know his name. I was a stranger in the
desert. He was a stranger in the desert. We talked a little bit I
killed them. They had a fight. I killed him. I don't know his name.
I don't know where he's from. I don't think about him. So then so
how do I wash it away from my heart? He said go be good to your
mom. So sometimes there is a point where you can know that you can do
make dua for the person right
all right, let's go to the question Ryan who will read me the
question that's after I lost it. I couldn't I could try to find it
but there's Instagram is pumping with the pumping with comments
okay.
Caitlin Joe him if part of your day is accepted? Is it safe to
assume the rest is coming to if it was the same dua you should like
oh, I made one DUA and then that was accepted. It could be many
signs that show you me that was accepted.
You should believe the whole package will be accepted Allah
does not take some of the DUA and reject some it's not that that's
not the action of the
of the generous and while with every connector. Wow. Yeah, that's
true. The whole drought in one setting.
Dana 2020 says ever since childhood, I had a different
relationship with my mother. I now reached a point where I don't feel
it's salvageable.
The hedonic which will this cause Allah to block my thoughts and
prayers and blessings. It depends on how you feel about it, and what
you're doing about it. So the past is the past, but you have the
present.
There's no such thing as not salvageable. Allah is capable of
all things. You just take the step and trust in Allah. So it's all
about how you feel about it. And how you act upon it. Okay.
Go in with iman. And do it as best as you can with your own judgment.
Right and get advice from people to Mrs. Fat.
Beth Taqwa
All right? Allah's Mercy is bigger than his punishment. So Allah will
give us a chance to repent always. I probably butchered the name it's
Mrs. FET tube. Path outfit tube. For tube the verb repent. For to
path to Taqwa. Okay good. Nice name so far. What if we made a dua
for something that was related to something else and while making
dua It was intended as a bundle Allah accepted the first ones as
mean except yes when you make a dua that's why we make a dua in a
bundle. Okay.
Allah is more generous than to accept part and rejects part other
than doing Prophet Musa dua for a wife what they could do also
recommend do that do not do the DUA of Musa with a gloss this all
you need but any and all dua you should do Okay any and all dua
SAR Cody, maybe the second thing is not good for you. So it's not
being given to you maybe you're not you don't know any of that.
But you prayed for it, you want it? You should believe that Allah
is gonna give it to you be patient. Okay, don't second guess
and say maybe it's good. Maybe it's very good for you. Maybe it's
not good for you? Maybe it's very good. How do you know you don't
know any more than I know. Allah has said take this out of the
equation that's for Allah to decide not for you. What's for me
to decide?
pray to Allah while certainty sir with the answer. And make
istikhara Oh Allah, if this is something good for you make it
clear to me. If it's bad, I want it. If it's good, make it clear.
If it's bad, close the doors.
Okay, Tanya, is Alina, what do you do with a sibling who doesn't like
you and has been jealous of you since young? You tried to avoid
any situation where they would increase in jealousy? That's the
first thing
and you
make dua that Allah removes the hazard from his heart. Sometimes
people hate you, right?
And you can't do anything about it. You make to other look, who's
their heart just as Allah called the fire of Ibrahim as Nika? Is
polygamy recommended in Islam? Sometimes it is recommended. Why
when society needs it, like there are societies today, non Muslim
societies that are polygamous, very polygamous in Africa,
Christians in Utah, Utah, right. In Africa, in these societies and
I have direct evidence of this, from testimony from a brother,
he's blind. He's a Canadian convert. He married an African.
She was from a Christian con. She's a convert to she's African
convert from Christianity. The whole tribe is Christian in
Ethiopia.
And they're they mocked the men, they look down on them anyway.
areas one wife, why there's a lot of women need protection, right?
Need a husband need a household? Okay, so we hear, we look down on
it, and it will because so much fit in if someone did it in the
society, and someone says, Well, we need to do it. So listen,
here's my take on it.
And this is why they say, Well, would you allow your daughter to
have a polygamous marriage? I said, No, I wouldn't allow it.
I'll tell you why I won't allow it. And I 100% know, my Sheoak
might they many of them have multiple wives and their daughters
and their moms. And they come here to me, I said, I'll tell you why I
won't allow it. Because we have no reference point of what to do when
things go wrong. And I'm not going to use her as an experiment.
Right.
So all these people, they don't allow polygamous marriage. They're
not they're against the Sharia guys come up when they say they
want a second wife and the father in law is going crazy. The girls
going crazy. There is no reference point for this in our society in
New Jersey. Because when one of those let's say a woman had had
the remote, she says to her father, Oh, Father, my husband
seeking a second wife
can stop this? Do you see your mom? You see your sister? You see
your aunt? They're all second and third and one and the first and
fourth. They're all societies. So it's in the society. Right? So
there's reference points for our mental and emotional adjustment of
this. There is no such reference point here. Why would I
experiment? Right? Why would it be part of experiment? You want to do
it fine. I'm not saying that Zina. But don't get me involved in your
experiment of polygamy in middle class Central Jersey. Okay, you
can see the results and certain communities that have tried this.
Oh, my God, the fruits of that experiment are not thank you very
much. When I got to New Haven, it became a Fed someone came up with
this fed in New Haven when I got the New Haven the masjid was dead.
Dead. So the President of the mosque he explained to me what
happened. He's like we just got out of a fitna. So what's if it is
like a one to two year fitna that decimated the community, what was
issue we bought in the Imam, this Imam introduced this fad of
basically mail in import wise from Morocco. Okay. Go down to Morocco
literally became like, literally like Amazon shipment.
of women just want to get out of Morocco. doesn't care if they're
in New Haven or not. And so you had all of a sudden these guys
taken second wise, and it did small community. Six Seven guys
did this took second wife from rock
from these women, amongst them.
There were people who left Islam.
How far the Quran saw their mom saw this fitna, they broke
completely. Right. Broke completely, right.
It didn't work. It was really bad. Now, can you tell me that there's
a situation where it did work? I'm sure you can. I haven't I had
another friend yes to us have a couple of friends afterwards. It
works. That's good. But they're not necessarily from our part of
the community that I can say to people, hey, look, so and so has
to us. I don't even know if I'm allowed to say yes to it. To us.
It's working. But it's not something out in the open. That's,
that's clear to everybody. And can be pointed to. I don't even know
if I'm allowed to say Oh, my wife. It's not me though. It's not
Harris. I mean, by the way. So what I'm saying is that,
as long as there's no reference point, let them create if they're
bold enough, and they're successful in creating the
reference point, and creating good examples, let's see it when it's
95% a good example. And it's normal and it's successful, and
fine, right? But until that happens, and that's going to take
a couple of decades, it's not going to happen overnight. So we'd
be dead and our grandkids will be alive when that happens. So let
them deal with it. But I need to see a reference point for an
action even if it's Hello Okay.
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Sunday was suddenly you do your first Salah you mentioned the name
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suddenly might have said you know Muhammad when you saw the Senator
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10 minutes what you watch on YouTube video right is longer.
Average YouTube video is longer than that.
Why has missing salata acid intentionally got a grave
punishment missing all the Salah
is grave and why is it the only slight in the Quran mentioned not
to miss know all of them but also is one of those that's in the
thick of the day. That's why OS is in the thick of the workday, the
commute whatever, and so it's more likely to be missed.
Okay, Caitlin says use
said close the doors with this Takata but how do you reconcile
that with being allowed to make a thing good keep going. When I say
close the doors I mean something physically is closed. Oh Allah
keep my grandma alive she does. Right. Like that's what I mean by
that. But as long as it is rationally possible there is
nothing stopping you from making any says interest mortgages.
Haram. Yes. How do I go about purchasing a home in a halal way?
Well, you have to use as much as there's critique of them the
contract nonetheless is how that for you the universal you if and
guidance? Yeah, at least put it on the Mufti. Is that permitted it?
Is denial. Kairos good. Not good. Excellent. Maliki opinion on kofod
salata de Loup is no such specific salah but in general you pray to
it, because with the intent that your sins are forgiven.
Local rich guy is married to women and takes care of them a lot. Get
Rich then.
And the Jama I am from African community with polygamy broken,
lustful reason, second, third, fourth, no reference points. Let
us have the first marriage to be stabilized first on drum set
agree, right. Well, that's that's what she's seeing. Okay.
It's not I don't want I'm not gonna get into the weeds of
theory. I'm gonna get in the weeds of results. scoreboards give me
the scoreboard, right? How are the kids turning out? Hey, kids have
second and third marriages come so we can talk to you.
All right. Hey, wives, come and talk to the community and tell us
your experience.
If it's something that's going to be normal that I'm going to put my
own daughter in. That's what I'm going to do. And I want to see it
in front of me. Okay. And it's not something I want to even research
I want it to be so out in the open that it's like not even a
discussion. Okay.
Like a stranger book in his next state to Africa.
But go next flight to Ethiopia, bro. You know why? That they're
upset with Shinya in there in those those those women why
they're upset with the shittier limits for the women say that this
is not merciful. The man should be able to take care of 10 and 15 and
20 women, right? That's what a man does. He takes care of 15. So now
if our husband becomes Muslim, he's going to divorce six of us
and keep for only this is not merciful. That's their perspective
on things. I can't remember his name. He's blind. He's on Twitter.
He's from Canada. I wish that I'd have him on the podcast. He's a
hilarious guy. Right. And he's a great guy.
What is a fitna and community fitna and community is what breaks
up the community and what causes people a man to go down and
relationships to be broken up?
Some people say Khadija was 20 in that 40 This is the second time
someone brought it up. Kim brought up yesterday as Nika Britta I
don't understand where this is coming from so we got somebody had
a thing about this. It was several years ago that he had an episode
on this and I don't know exactly where it comes from, but there is
some thing you know, one thought is that look if she was 40 and she
had seven children after that, that's very unlikely for a woman
to get pregnant seven times after the age of 40. So there was
there's the sort of unlikely on what standards today's standards
Okay, so So girls get married at six nine years old. So bodies are
different back then.
Was that MILCON says please explain the total Hadith whose
last phrase is
K fetac. Qu fie with female two deeds.
Gone camera ot eight. Okay, the cooler they say you can fake one
is that what you mean? Or female two needs
to female to lead. What is he saying? Which one is it? Like if
you if you don't have any shame, do what you will.
Oh, I think what he's saying is there's a hadith that says
desire what you want, I will desire what I want. Nothing will
happen except what I want. It's a hadith klutzy Allah I can't
remember it's strong or weak. But it's handy because he says says oh
human being you desire what you want. I desire wanna nothing will
happen except what I want. Right? Desire what I want. I will give
you what you want. The hadith and the general teaching of the hadith
is don't try to go up against Allah submit to Allah you will get
your way afterwards. And the what is the actual reality of this.
When you constantly SUBMIT yourself to Allah subhanaw taala
in your outward actions by fic bathinda by a no effort by
everything, your nature will change.
Your nature will change to the point that you will start design
During what's written for you, and therefore you will live experience
will be whatever you want happens. That's what happens.
Someone's go can you smell that?
Alima
and your mama says a sedan what a gong. May Allah bless if he inside
and work that just thank you so much we need to draw. Khadija was
a business woman some say she did not trade in person. Of course,
yes, she inherited either inherited or had work in some way.
had money through inheritance or something. And then she employed
people to to work to sell with that money. She did not go around
haggling. And then she'd just sit at the head of a board meeting and
say, Mohamed you do this but stuff but a lot of the new people who
are blaspheming yourselves, right and putting yourself in such a
situation just to please the West. Right and Western culture. That's
not what happened at all. There's not even one narrations close to
that. She was a noble woman who had money that's all you know, you
did not know that she went around and bossing around people like
some boss woman and that's what you're trying to produce. And I
loved her for supporting the Prophet Subhan Allah him. Her
nobility is her support to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam.
Unbelievable these people.
What is the authenticity behind so lots of this via hits recommended
in all four month hubs?
That's from Mustafa VX.
Am I right? Says the saying sallallahu alayhi wa salam count
as an entire dude. Yes.
Some mulawa He was a Salah and a Salam and the pronoun of the
prophets I send can a man divorce with no valid reason and Islam.
Yes, he can
write,
he can divorce with no boundaries. Does that mean the effect will be
good? No. The effect on society on family community and children will
be terrible. Okay, so let's look at those communities with
polygamy. Yeah, same thing swapping the halal may not always
be wise, is halal for me right now to say, You know what? I don't
want to give Dawa anymore.
I don't want to be married anymore. Right? All this Helen
have incurred no sin with Allah. However I have incurred all of the
bad effects of the pain that I caused to people that I have
occurred. I've incurred all the trauma that have caused to like
it's
is there many types of each map? And if so, why? So many dairy?
Yeah, there are different types of mouth. There's a huge amount of
the Sahaba, that's the highest edema. There's the edema that is
that came later on, because of a fitna that's different from the
edema of others, right. So there are levels of engine mount and all
of them are law, but there are different levels of of a reaction
to someone contradicting that law. So the contradictory of that law
may be in Edison and outside Edison, depending.
How do you build unwavering Yaqeen into increase your iman by
reciting the Quran often and avoiding sins praying in the night
increase your Eman than what Allah says oh my god, call me I give you
when the Prophet says Call upon Allah wa certain in the answer
those promises of Allah, they will settle in your heart because the
sins have been removed, the soil has been cleaned, it will settle
in the heart and you will accept it. So if my belief and Allah's
promises wavers go make what do I committed sins stuck for a lot of
them start reciting Quran to wash away those sins, then I
look up and all of a sudden that promises of Allah have settled
again in my heart. And that's what we all do. So we all have to be
the Promise of Allah let us settle in your heart. Like a stranger
says my son since he was about five. He wants 16 kids. He wants
to play baseball. There's no one to play baseball with. It needs
two teams, right? He's 18 polygamy might be a necessity. His mother
approves it. hamdulillah Rohana evidently, they're accepting it.
Okay? As Nika if you have a halal action, and part of the reason
you're doing it has a haram element. As Nika I need an
example.
Like what like for example,
opening a restaurant, I want to open a restaurant, but some of the
things I sell is haram. No, the whole thing. You can't do that
what is the prophets I send them mean by obeying one's husband
in the studio husband has obligation to protect his wife and
his kids. How can you protect you if he doesn't know where you are?
Gotta know where you are. Right? Oh feminists, what do I care about
your your life think? Based on an exam, like again, give me out of
the means of theory. Let's look at the results. You want to live like
that. You want to
like that, on antidepressants, being a professor in some
university gave up on life, right? Look at you.
Okay? So I don't want that example. Let's just look at what
our son and our history is the man you have to protect your family.
It's your job. If there's a thief comes in this door. We don't go
5050 we go 100% me, right? If a guy says something to your wife,
right? Do you say, Oh, hey, have 50 He just said, Aren't you hot?
And that hijab, right? Or he just commented on your body? Go defend
yourself? Is that what you do? Or is it go? Like, did you just hear
what that guy said to me? Right? And then you go and do something,
right and get all out of them? Or you say, Wait a second. What is
No, I didn't hear what he said. What do you say? He said, Oh, you
look this that or the other. So let's have husbands done. Right?
Maybe you didn't hear him? Right. Right. Have 73 excuse now you go
and you pick a fight? Okay. You go pick a fight. Yeah, I love doing
this. Because when that happens, I know what I'm getting. Right? I'm
gonna get like that could last me like a good six months.
Okay, I love when this happens. And it's happened many times. So
if you're the protector, you have the right to know where she is.
I've done no such thing as hey, listen, I'm taking a flight and
taking three days off. What do you mean three days off? Where we have
rules on this in the Sharia. Right? How what happens? Something
happens there. So but if it's something like Oh, my grandfather
died, I gotta go. Yeah, fine. I got a disease. I gotta go book a
ticket, and go my old my doctor find my father's dying. Okay. But
there's
when we talk about the obedience, that's the main thing. How can I
protect you letting people in the house that I don't know about? So
the idea of the neighbor coming over like, Desperate Housewives to
drink coffee in the morning? No, that's not gonna happen. Right?
I'm not there. I can what if he aggresses upon you. So that's one
of the main what's that's one of the main things.
All right, who is the brother? That is my direct testimony. If
you don't believe me about Ethiopia, what I said about having
10 and 20 wives. His name is Abdul Hafiz. Abu Hafsah. Abdul Malik,
Claire, and he's on Twitter. Go find him.
Right. I love this brother. Is he the same brother that does the
Braille. Braille Quran? Yeah.
Sir Cody says if you don't know what's bad for you in terms of Da
then when do we know when to stop?
You don't assess and right and wrong and good and bad. You don't
know the future. So simply assess that you want something? Oh,
Allah, I'm presenting this, or praise to God.
Make it easy for me? Or make it hard for me. Right? If you want
it, go get it. Keep it simple. Why are you bringing in divine
knowledge and unseen, right? If you want to go get it? If it's if
your pious Allah will not allow you through dua to get something
bad for you. He will simply not allow it he'll turn your heart
away from it. Simple as that. But you don't get yourself involved in
those questions.
For what reasons can a woman divorce in Islam? First of all, a
woman can ask for a divorce for no reason. But
she has to buy out her divorce. Well, why? Well, we just did it.
She's taken dowry to get in the marriage. We obligated demand pay
her a dowry? What's the dowry in Islam? A WOMAN It's whatever you
agree on. She says $5,000 No, I'm not marrying this guy. Unless he
gives me 25,000.
You have the full right to name your price. Now you want to get
out of the marriage. He names his price, right? That's how it works.
It's called Hola. Hey, listen, you're a good guy. I'm not in the
mood anymore. I can't fulfill your rights. I don't love you anymore.
Why you gained weight? You didn't turn out to be who I expected. We
don't have any kids. I'd rather than move on. Hey, I'm really
upset about this. Okay, well, listen, she doesn't like you
anymore.
You gave a dowry to get into this marriage. Now you he gets a chance
to no name his price to get out of the marriage. And you agree on
that price. That's called the Hola. You pay it pay the guy. Have
your dad pay the guy and move on with life. So it's not the same
dairy that he paid? Not necessarily. No. It's not
necessarily the same dowry that he
paid to get in? Because things have changed, right? Five years
past maybe they're different. Yeah, inflation has changed.
And also what he's content with maybe different maybe we were both
poor when we started 5000 was a lot we got really rich. 5000 is
not there's nothing for me. It doesn't pay my bills. So that's
called Kula. But if the men abused the woman in any way, shape, or
form, or leaves Islam or become some dead or
even to the point that
He ignores her. This is what shikigami says all the time, the
least. It's not his fault, what's from the books of the Maliki
method, the least is that he she calls his name, he ignores her. So
as your when you have a someone who was like in your care, you're
obligated to pay attention to them, you're obligated as part of
the deal. So he doesn't take care of her. He doesn't listen to her.
He ignores her. She has the right to say, he ignores me. And a judge
can divorce them without her having to pay a penny.
And in the absence of a judge and Imam can do that. It is possible
for right now, we won't do it as any men, but we will do it as a
council, just to make sure that none of us are getting clouded by
the emotion of the situation. And we do want to form a council shake
around me and I hold on, we want to form this type of counsel that
we would pronounce these divorces. But it'll go through all of our
minds, so that our mind's not clouded. And it's not something
that is just we just talked about it. We didn't even make it counsel
like that.
Right, but we just talked about, okay.
All right. So we got here, if I fight with Hanafis, in a nice way,
no debate is fine, but not fighting. Debate is fine, but
that's it. But remember, we are all we have Subhanallah enemies,
and the mudah have within themselves should not take
themselves as enemies. Allah said,
Take
IBLEES as an enemy, take the enemies of Islam as an enemy. You
could take it as different upon we differ that's it. Alright, how did
I says
is it bad edit, endure to say yo Allah, I'm tired or to be saddened
by the state of things we're asking No, it's not you're allowed
to complain to Allah. Will a Christian will go ahead go to
heaven, not if he heard about the Prophet and rejected Him who said
that the Prophet himself no Jew or Christian hears about me. Okay,
and rejects me except that he is in the agenda is in the fire. So
not accepted?
Schiff Osman, who does Dawa in a park in America who went through
the evidence for headteachers age. Okay, so you he discovered that
all of the books of the seed of the past were wrong.
Good for him.
Anyway, bring your evidence.
Why is income tax haram Abdulhadi says income taxes haram because
you cannot take people's money.
By the way, income tax is not even legal. You know, that's not even
on the books in America. Just practice
your analytic people's money just because you're the Sultan.
Simple as that.
Nimra says, I think the reason why women get upset with obey your
husband is that it's been severely misused. Yeah, I don't come from a
culture that has that to be honest with you. Egyptians did not have
this Egyptians. Egyptian marriages is Masada. In most unless you go
down to the the farmlands or the Bedouin, but general Egyptian
culture the marriage is in Masada right? In many things like
furnishing the home financially, even. It's an Ashada culture. And
that's what I've seen growing up. But if it's abused, then that's
the problem. Obviously, obeying the husband in the shittier has to
do with knowing your whereabouts so he could protect you.
And it's all been modeled in a way that it's promoting the general
well being and happiness of everybody. That's the purpose of
these things, promoting the well being. That's what it's for. If
it's making someone miserable, it's not being applied properly.
Because Allah says in the Quran, marriage is Sakina. So if your
heart's not settled in marriage, someone's doing something wrong.
That's how it is. Okay. I have a growing interest in learning to
fit Elpida. But an acquaintance told me it's not from the self.
And that the closest understanding is the fit update. How do I deal
with this?
And what's the truth?
This is all answered in the book that I wrote on this subject
called key to paradise that you can get at Safina press.com.
Safina press, right, Could you kindly type that in for this
individual? Okay, so fina press.com showing you that they're
actually answering questions that didn't exist in the time of the
self. That's why there's things in nakida that are drawn from the
Quran and Sunnah. To answer questions that never happened at
the time of the setup. That's why same with flip open any of these
flip books, Chef, a somebody Fick, half of that stuff didn't exist in
the time of the sahaba. Right? These questions and answers that
didn't exist in the time of the sahaba. So that's why let's say I
want to go back to the 50s because the understanding of computers was
more
exactly in Athena and FIP there is new questions all the time
from the outside society so the scholars have to answer those
questions and that becomes law. Right? If it that the answer has a
basis Quran and Sunnah. But to say that just because it is that that
Fetzer didn't exist at that time and the time of the self is
nonsensical statement because the methodology of the self is they
would have come up with an answer. Say Norma has many photo. There
are many things in Islamic law is nothing other than the public
federal abominable, hooked up the Sahaba agreed to it.
And it's law law like what if a man does Leann accuses his wife of
Zina, he can never marry her again. Where did that come from?
Mama. So normally, his his his judgment, his intuition said that
he's he pronounced it as a fatwa, and as a law, because he is the
Khalifa. So all such judges are not to conduct such a marriage
again. So it's law, physically in the world, it's law. And the
Sahaba heard it, they accepted it, so it didn't matter. So
how to respond to being called them up dead after being tested
with Robbia l medically, he talked about an OB and medically if they
call your Muqtada chances are you're on the right track.
Yeah, it's a badge of honor. You want Yanni he's constantly
calling everyone as he's still alive? Even HIPAA says I miss
about so let's just Yeah, I said it's recommended min Dube and all
four methods.
And Zika says or as Nika says, What does it mean for etiquette
Muslim women should follow in the workplace.
The etiquette of men and women is that we don't look at a person
with desire. We don't do hello with them. We don't go to
alcoholic you know, gatherings with alcohol in them. We don't
trade in what is haram? We don't
you know, have extra work related communications by most tests,
mobile devices, et cetera, et cetera.
We dress appropriately. We don't say all this because the workplace
so we have to just just a different way. No metrosexuals you
see these guys? The suit is why don't you dress just spray paint
yourself. The suit is spray painted on right. The clothes is
the suit is now made with elastic like sweatpants like yoga pants
can't.
You cannot pray the beat. Ripped, right if you make sense. So all of
that's haram for the men and for the women. Right?
You know, they said some guy said
some sisters once asked why is it woman cannot pray when she's
menstruating? Right?
Is because blood is nudges. Right? If you get a cut and the blood is
flowing, you can't pray right? Does notice anyway, Allah is
giving you a breather, because he knows it's painful. Take the
reader and you don't even have to make it up. I mean, why is it that
you some of the women, I'm telling you the West is driving this? Why
would you want the ruling of a man? Right? Why did you get that?
I don't see men saying Hey, listen.
Why don't I can I get a federal for not praying for 60s? Hey, um,
emotionally, my emotions or whatever? Or My blood pressure's
high. So make the yes with hides and therefore not pray.
I've always wondered why is it that they're running after? Like
fairness is to be like a man. That's feminism? Yeah. Like I
don't think the yardstick is the male exam. Yeah, the yardstick is
the male example. Why would you want that? Yes. Okay, go be a
garbageman. Right. Go to jail like a men, if the numbers in jails is
predominantly men. Has anyone addressed this so that the cops
start for the sake of equality for skinned women start frisking women
start arresting women in the same way that we got diversity
employment, we're gonna favor bipoc Right, whatever people of
color, whatever it is, right? Okay, fair enough. I do get
there's discrimination but they're openly saying to diversify. We're
gonna favor minorities and hiring. No one has a problem with that.
But hey, listen, the jails and the garbage collectors. These
industries are all men oil and gas oil and gas. Go to a gas station.
I don't see diversity. Let's try him for diversity in the guest
room crews on the Jersey Turnpike. Yeah, road crews into in the
morning on the Turnpike, nastiest job you're gonna have are gonna
get how about the military who's dying in the military? It's call
for equality and these things you shouldn't want equality should
we have at hamdulillah a dean of us given us the virtue of both.
Okay.
They're different, but they're equal in the sight of Allah. Yeah,
they are equal in the sight of Allah. Right in their virtue,
Hebei of say that there was a time in
area where the spiritual axis of Sham was a woman. Right proves to
us that he truly is equal. I don't know if you mentioned it because I
was doing some chats. Yeah. But it's like, I feel like it comes
from the mindset. People think the prayer is like what is giving you
the reward Subhanallah beautiful thing Ryan said and it comes from
it is not the prayer that is giving you the road. It's the
obedience of Allah that gives you the reward. That means we get
rewarded when we obey the idea of not praying at certain times.
Let's say I wanted to pray staccato but it's the mcru time. I
have to wait. You get rewarded for that.
We have a question over here. Yeah, we should hit this one.
Someone is saying they have a rebirth river convert spouse
struggling with Eman they need some words of encouragement or a
reverse spouse struggling with Amen. I think he's watching too.
And he's watching to read Stories of the Prophets and read the Quran
with
with to double with with contemplation and keep good
company. Right a man wants came to shake. And he said when I'm in
this gathering my Eman is really strong. As soon as I go home, it
goes down. It's because you probably keep them about company.
They're they're the company that you keep the influences that come
to you outside of that gathering, pull you down, right just like
being in a warm environment and a cold environment. But a man once a
boy said that he was full of him. In my means energy and inspiration
to learn it to have Amen. And then he said oh shake, it's dropping.
He said recite the Quran, read the Quran with contemplation and read
stories of the prophets with contemplation. Okay, that will
enter put light in your heart and you'll move forward.
And Allah knows best. How do you build a high opinion of Allah is
by nonstop reading of the hadith of his promises.
And you can also you in order to accept the promises of Allah you
need your heart to be cleaned. So clear it out with will do with
with recitation of Quran etc.
I have this unrealistic dua that I keep making as long as it's
rationally
as long as a rational possibility, a rational possibility, like are
you trying to negate gravity, go back and go into the past as long
as it's rationally possible, right?
It's not contradicting itself, nor contradicting nature, for example,
then what is unrealistic to whom is unrealistic to you and to other
people, but it's not impossible for Allah. So you have to remember
the power of Allah subhana wa Tada. And you have nothing to lose
by keep going. But you have something to lose by giving up but
you have absolutely nothing to lose by just keeping going. Right?
Try to free your mind says and this is going to be one of our
last questions.
Is there a difference of opinion regarding the authenticity of the
hadith of Salah TestSuite.
There's some discussion on it, but all the meth hubs have concluded
that it sucks. So now,
how do I
Okay, so Cody
wants to give Tao How do you give Tao a study, study from the right
sources and make the intention to benefit people.
That's it. Make the intention. I want to benefit people, no matter
who they are. No matter where I am.
I want to benefit people. That's where that's that's how you do it
simple as that study from the right sources. study a lot. And
ask a lot to clean your heart. And you have to have love for the
dean, love for the dean and you want to spread it. That's it. That
intention and that goal, you'll learn skills, it will force you to
learn certain skills, it'll force you, right, because you want to
see the result. It'll force you to get better at things. That's how
it works. That's how you get a
question from a brother. She has a choleric wife. Explain.
Can he play with her emotions of the love of authority to balance
her out in the house? Explain. choleric wife. Does that mean
she's
four like once? I remember that. But I can't remember what it is.
Explain. What is it clerk with? She's She's She's fiery.
She's fiery. That's what choleric means
caloric choleric I guess we're gonna have to look it up. I don't
know if those are the people that are kind of sad. And oh, all we
said was yeah, looking on the you know, the downside of things is
half empty glass is half empty types. That's no good. You
Oh, I understand that that could have that could be, you know a
downer. She's a Debbie Downer. She's sadness in.
Inside Out. Inside Out was one of the best little kids movies you
can ever watch. Right?
Yeah. choleric is bad tempered or irritable, bad tempered,
irritable, maybe she should do so on the profit side. So, if you're
bad tempered and irritable.
You need to latch on the prophets. I send them right now. Sometimes
people are bad tempered, irritable, usually it's just to
me, it's a spiritual thing, not a physical thing. Right. And I think
that you can advise to certain good habits. Okay. choleric, where
the real choleric ism was active of the form four temperaments. The
choleric personalities are hot, dry, fiery creatures, at their
best, ambitious, brave and proud, but they can also be vindictive,
deceitful and violent. And without exception, they're irritable and
bad tempered, will lie. This sounds like me right on my
bedside, but was salam, the prophet has cured that. I'm
telling you salaam the Messenger of Peace be upon him. It is. It's
it's a it's a soothing thing. So if you could bring some of that
into your household. Okay, but he's saying here that choleric is
the love of authority. She wants to be in charge all the time.
Right? Is that what he's saying? I guess what he's saying she wants
to be in charge of things all the time.
Well,
I mean, you are in charge of certain things. She is in charge
of certain things, and you're in charge of certain things and
certain things have to be a deal. Right.
All right. porkchop Sufi
says bossy means bossy. The choleric wife is bossy. Okay?
It's a tough situation to bossy wife
we got to think about that one to be honest with you. I can't just
give you something without you know, some kind of thoughtfulness
to it.
Gotta think about them
can a Muslim woman work as an actress
because you have to be viewed I mean, I don't even think of men
you acting for men either.
Okay
How do you overcome fatigue says RVD one in dua. I make a lengthy
do I have to every salah but at times I get tired. Okay.
You have energy insofar as you have hope. And you have desire. So
stoke your desire. Habib Ahmed was asked about this and he said bit
to amole Tamil con visualization to em will contemplation and
morality Do you contemplate the matter that you want?
Right, otaku? yakun immediate and look out at a Munna whatever
you're desiring, if you put that image in your head, and it will
fuel your hope. Right. It's only when life comes happens and you
get busy and you dims that visualize that vision of what
you're shooting for dims. So let's say someone on medical school and
want to be one of these doctors that works in
Manhattan in the busy University, Columbia University Medical in the
hospital, that's exciting life, etc, etc. But the grind of medical
school is gonna get you down and you're in some miserable medical
school. What do you do you just keep remembering that image that
got you inspired in the first place? Right? How father of
Khurana like this to like really want to be her father and seeing
people recite for like, four hours straight from memory, or people
who are the things that people want in life, right? It could be
just normal could be marriage or how happy marriage you're you
visualize yourself in that happy marriage amole a che a lady today
do this What have you bomber said contemplation the matter that you
want. The more you contemplate it, it makes you fills your heart with
happiness, you get the energy again to do it. Energy is not
about the body energy is about hope.
Yusuf says how do you know if the act you're doing is worship or
not? If the Prophet described it, and the scholars explained that
this is an act of worship, than it's an act of worship, playing my
guitar is not a sunnah
playing your guitar, right to sing about Allah. The second marriages
in Central Jersey that I could say this is the reference point.
Use kindness and encouragement
That's true. I go for encouragement. If it's someone's
discouraging, I don't even listen to them. I don't listen to bad
news. Make it clear that you're on the choleric side, very important.
All right, we got to be a you got to know that you're on my side. I
don't need someone resistance. Avoid the appearance of a head to
head combat.
Get or else the choleric will be tempted in nature to fight and
defend you back, defend yourself, or himself.
Lucid Dreams is the question. We believe in dreams, we have a whole
we talked about dreams one time so much for like a month or so. But
true dreams are a symbol symbolic from Allah subhanho wa taala. They
come in symbols and the gem interpreters know those symbols.
And they come in symbols. So you know, it's from Allah. It's not
from your subconscious. Very rarely you get a dream of
something happening and it happens the next day. That's a subcategory
of dreams of true dreams. But most dreams, they come in the form of
symbols. You can't decipher the symbols that shows you that proves
to you. It's not your subconscious mind talking.
Then a dream interpreter will give you the symbols
Why is it a condition for a sin to be in real life? Yeah, scroll up
for this. I gotta scroll up. Lucid dreams aren't real life. If you
kill in a dream, then how would it be haram? It's not haram. Killing
someone in a dream may be a symbol.
Homosexuality may be a symbol. It may not even be bad in a dream.
Usually homosexuality means the conquest of your enemy. Because
you have put your influence inside of him, your body into him. So you
put your influence in him. You're the conqueror.
Zina is not Zina in a dream. You didn't commit any sense and you
cannot commit a sin in a dream
sounds like school so?
Who are these kids?
Lot of kids
that came from like Nicaragua, Honduras, Honduras. Reef, if you
know, are hat makers? Yeah, if you know hat makers, I myself need
like 100 of these to be made. It's harder than you think to make this
hat. I've had many people try it. The only one is she's Ukrainian
Ukrainian woman who works for Coach up in New York City.
She makes them I bother every once in a while for them.
Sure. All right, Sarah X says Please discuss the obligation of
hijab given the current climate in the West.
The obligation of hijab comes in the Quran many times. Not only it
comes in the Quran, we do need textual evidence for hijab. Did
not the sahaba.
Women wear hijab? Did they have kids? Did that boy look at his
mom, she's your companion of the Messenger of Allah. That's how you
dress, my aunt is a companion. That's how she dresses our
neighbor as a companion. That's how she dresses, it's mutilated.
And it's more to water. And it's explained and suited to nor fully
a bit of a human analogy when they should bring their humanoid or
their head coverings on their chest in the Arab times. And if
you go to the all the the farmlands of the different
countries, they tend to cover their head and throw it in the
back. Why to cover the head from the sun and the dust and protect
the hair from the dust. And to give breathing room for the chest.
Allah subhana wa Giada says bringing in front of your chest to
cover your chest.
The Quran didn't even say put it on, it's assuming that they
haven't already said bring it from the back put up front. Someone
says oh, I'm talking about women's bodies, and I'm talking about the
Quran. Okay, let's talk about women's bodies. What do I have to
do with you and your body? Right? I don't have anything to do with
it. I don't want anything to do with it. I'm telling you what the
Quranic verse says. Right? And the other objection is that Kumar is
the same as hijab. Today is a modern hijab. Kimata is head
covering, period full stop. Okay, it's going to the Tafseer and the
Arabs dictionaries, because that's the next section it'll say is that
you know, the prophets wives are commanded. prophets wives had to
cover their faces no one else was. They take your Kimata put it up
front. What is a Western woman wear hijab today puts a jab up
pins here or ties a knot here and it goes in front this same hijab
they were hobby actual wearing Muslim women today in St. Ann's
wearing right and the clothes should not be form fitting or
transparent. That's it baggy clothes. That doesn't show your
form and is not transparent that's it. And the hands face and the and
the feet is different upon that's the only thing is different upon
hands face can show. The prophets I sent him said that directly to
almost a new convert woman she came in. At Ibis is brother and
fuddle imminent Ibis is staring at her because she was so pretty and
further said
The Prophet took my jaw and he turned my face he commended the
wrong if you bid the wrong with his hands. His Quran says he
literally took the boys chin, and it's because it's his cousin
brother. And he pushed it over like that. And then the woman
asked, well, how do we dress, new Muslims from Mecca?
Said, cover everything except this. And this.
As you said, we don't need textual evidence beyond the textual
evidence. It's much awaited from the time of the Muslims. So
whether or not so what's the proof that Oh, some people say it's
impossible because you get discriminated against? Let's get
out of the weeds. Just look at the reality. grow these women on this
thing, they're all wearing hijab. They're all speaking English.
They're all living in New York and New Jersey and Connecticut and
Philadelphia, and Arizona and England.
Millions of people are doing it.
If it's bad, it'd be bad for everybody. Right?
Sit down with a comb, do you have to be asleep before to hedge it
you should sleep before it will to count us to hedge it you want to
sleep first and then wake up completely with a clear mind. And
then you will be able to insha Allah to see the effect and the
power of that to hedge it. And if you can hold the Quran on your
hand and recite long to hedge it that's even better.
Now ESA says there's nothing intrinsically wrong with telling a
woman what to do with her body. Everyone agrees on some form of
dress code, but seculars what to do with your body? What is all the
* companies doing? When she signs a contract? She's contracted
out her entire body for the worst of the worst of the worst of
actions. And that's what the liberal left they love this
* and they want to make it out in the streets. And they're
lovers of this * work. What does * work? He gets the contract.
Hey, you, we're gonna give you $10,000 For the next day for one
day of work. If 10 Guys urinating on you will lie to them. That's
I'm
urinating you find this pleasurable? You need mental help?
Right? And she's accepted it and you think this * producers
they're women and feminists for liberation?
You know, there was a recent thing about if you look at the *
companies and who's supporting this it's like the Chase Manhattan
Bank and this and that they're on reel all in the you know there's I
think the I forget the company's name but it's like some things
that you would never link to it but they all under the biggest
* sites. And really there's major money in this and the banks
in the Senate they're all They're all look if you're Comcast and
this right, you're, you're a purveyor of * because you're
you're allowing that stuff to go out over your network 110% and,
and and by the way, okay.
By the way.
The other thing is this.
As we said, capitalism, the deen is capitalism. It will be the
door. It will permit because as you said, What is the biggest
thing that's viewed on online more than the NFL, NBA?
NHL, Major League Baseball is *. It's just a matter of
time that Comcast wants to show it on their own TVs to get channels
to get views
Abdullah has a live an hour and a half away from family and visit
every weekend.
I'm in a state of travel in order to bridge since it's my former
home it's my crew to pray travelers in your the house that
you grew up in because it's a type of house of yours. But if it's
just a different family, then yes, you can pray shorten your prayer
last question
telling you reef is right it's custom.
Can you ask Allah to make your soul communicate to another alive
person so
you are allowed to say oh Allah send this message to somebody and
Allah Tada can relay that message to that person. If it's something
you know, been modeled, wholesome, why because it's a hobby did it
for the Prophet so I said he was about to be killed. And he said,
Oh, Allah, send my salaam to the messenger and Angel duty did that.
But if it's, for example,
something like, Oh Allah, I want to communicate that with this
woman because she's so pretty blah, blah. We wouldn't say that
that's been modeled for now.
What about the concept of being submissive?
submissive to God's law, submissive by following the rules.
So they're the idea of being submissive. This is a question
from Elegant Adams.
A Guerlain Tina Adams. England Tina. Okay, I'm not going to try.
But it's some what is some some
missive is there are rules of Sharia that Allah gave in every
relationship submissiveness is in that.
The idea of submissiveness, you know that you come in and here's
your flip flops already. And let me massage your feet. I mean, for
the old days when the guy is fighting wars, right, and you're
sitting at home all day, but in our day and age, what is
submissiveness? It's my own daughter says, oh, Baba, how do I
be a wife? I say, you follow the rules of Cydia. You respect. Man
Loves to be respected. Right? So respect to husband, okay, you do
stuff with shooter don't try to manipulate control in any
relationship. husband shouldn't do that. Why shouldn't do that? Like,
don't try to manipulate someone's mind. Alright, by the way, there's
many ways a woman could totally have her husband rely on a leash,
but she looks like she's submissive. Right? She looks like
she's, that's what they said about Johnny Depp poor guy would loom.
Right. He said that. I don't know if this is real or not, is
hilarious. He said that he would come home, and she would rush and
take his boots off and rub his feet. Right. And he comes on home
every day. Just takes his boots off. One day she was on the phone.
So he came home, sat on the couch, took his boots off, right? She
goes to him. Excuse me, what did you just do? And he's like, just
took my boots off. So that's my job. This is called love bombing.
And she has a narcissistic personality. Yeah. And this is
what they do. They kind of suck you in for finally. Yeah. So he's
like, What are you thinking? I realized, I'm in this
relationship. I can't even take my boots off, right? But it's like,
he's got he's already stuck in it. So the idea of submissiveness is
that
it's respecting the rules that Allah has put in this
relationship. That's the what I understand about it and respecting
the person in front of you that Allah knows best you know, beyond
that.
Is it okay to send Salah by saying Allah Sunday was sending Milena
Vienna Muhammad, that's an excellent song.
A great book, by the way at Hamdulillah. Which book? Are we
talking about?
Science If so, hey, thank you, Kim. I hope you got by the way I
hope I hope she got it. We had those that issue. Kim, could you
tell us if we got if you got your order, by the way.
So the company that owns all these * companies is called Mind
geek. Okay, those are the investors in mind. All right,
listen to this guys. Actually, kids shut your ears. * has
over 120 million daily visitors have more in New Jersey? It's more
than New Jersey. That makes this website this website bigger. Then
listen to this. Amazon, YouTube and Netflix. I'm assuming that's
combined? combined. Okay. Netflix is absolutely nothing in
comparison to how many souls this website ruins? Who are the
investment investors in the company that owns *?
JP Morgan Chase, Cornell University Fortress Investment
Group.
Man, when is the parent company of *. Okay.
Until telling you capitalism is the religion, if money can be
made, they will eventually influence the lobbyists. Right.
And I can imagine all the cable companies will be
rushing to get into this.
And then the politicians will make laws to make this * work. And
then the fake
Muslim types activists will say * workers Hello. Companies are
okay. So there's this this guy, awesome Tim Ferriss into and he's
a Lebanese Christian or something. He's the CEO of *. And his
brother serves as the vice president of mine geek.
represented and yeah, so And these guys looking at them guy on the
left, who's the CEO, this guy could not get, you know, in the
clubbing scene. He wouldn't even be awake. makes the point that if
you look at a lot of those people that are involved in this, they're
soulless, I mean, their eyes and everything. Like there's some hot
behind all this this whole thing. This is the worst 40 Women sued
mind geek for 80 million for lying about how they distribute their
videos on bla bla bla bla bla. Okay. And there's coercion,
intimidation, fraud. I'm in Subhanallah them unreal * child
* has now infested this stuff.
MasterCard and Visa pulled their services back to force * to
remove and by the way, no, the only only until it gets socially
acceptable because there were allegations of child *
on these sites and and they were gonna get a backlash there was
going to be a financial backlash on MasterCard. If that have been
That's it not any other consideration. Unbelievable. So
one of them
people
worse than Qureshi will love them worse than crush
compulsive * users brothers this is your don't talk
to me about the online Khilafah you can even do this. This is your
Jihad fi subete Allah and it's not going to count yes technically
it's not the jihad of the books
of fighting with their sword but this is will allow the as hard
this is your battle. Okay?
It eviscerates your brain he's got graphs were healthy people who
don't don't look at this stuff. Nothing's lighting up the *
brain just like all yelling debating so much of your you know,
it's it's tied into your emotions, your feelings and all that kind of
stuff. And that's a problem, right? Because this is the only
way you can make yourself feel good for that. Well, like anything
you can do to get out of this is your number one priority. If
you're Muslim men, your number one priority is to get off of this
this disease. Okay. Okay.
There are groups opposing this exodus cry trafficking hub
Christian groups. We need Where's Esna? Where's all the Islamic
groups? No, I am actually yeah, no, we need political we need
money behind this. Why am did all this it's unjust. Who is ancestral
Ville? Christian.
We're reading Twitter by the way. Quitting * is a lifelong
battle. The devil never sleeps, eats arrests. I think it's a
Christian. It's your duty to your fellow brothers and sisters to
reject this degeneracy never compromise on this topic.
That's why I told my kids when I when I'm when I'm talking about,
like cell phones and computers and all the computers in my house at a
certain hour of the day. I don't care finish homework and didn't
finish homework. First of all, there's no such thing as going to
the room with a computer. You do that? The living room, dining
room, kitchen table. Okay. And no such thing as you got it all
angled to the what? Why Why wait? Why is your computer angle to the
wall? Right? You're not angling to your wall, because you're looking
at MBA scores. No one's gonna care about that. No, angling the
computers out in the open. And they say, Well, why all these
rules, my friends don't do it. I'm my job is to make sure that you go
through life in this roof under this roof without this sin coming
into you. Because once it comes in, you're an addict. Okay? Once
it comes in, I don't know what's gonna happen. I'm not letting this
thing in. Allah has charged you fathers out there to make sure
this hasn't happened. And mothers to support the fathers in this in
his absence. You have to be the shepherd. And make sure this, I
don't care what your friends say. What parties you're missing out
on. All that secondary, we'll fix that. We'll find another way to
fix all that. I'm not even letting the chance happen. In the same
way, we don't bring poison, stick it in the fridge and say, kid, oh,
12 year old, old 15 year old use your best judgment. Put all stack
of playboys, son, use your best judgment? No, I'm taking that
decision out of your hands completely. Right. I'm doing you a
favor. Because now when you go on in life and move on in life,
you're going to have a feeling a reference point of purity. You're
going to know what it feels like to be pure. Right? And if you
stumble, your soul will tell you something is wrong here. I feel
something is bad. But how can you have that that's your driving
force. I feel something's bad. How can you have that when you don't
have a reference of many, many years of purity? So that cellphone
No, I'm not gonna give you one. And if I do give you one, which
eventually I'm going to give him one. It's going to be with so many
restrictions. I'm going to go to the Jews. I'm going to go to New
York, Manhattan. b&h, show me your rabbi give me that strictest
Orthodox, Hasidic Jew, I'll pay him. Give me the kosher phone
because they have some called Kosar iPhone, where they go in and
they make sure that no * can be accessed on this.
Okay?
He's gonna give me that. That's going to be a phone. Gonna have a
yarmulke on your iPhone.
Okay,
when that happens
when you need it.
But I'm also not naive. It's Taqwa. You have to instill the
taqwa the love of the Prophet, that love of the love of the deen
love of the Quran. Fear, belief. Talk. What's up? What's up? What
is the most important thing, okay.
Taqwa. But I'm also Allah has given me arms, hands and feet to
stop this poison from entering my house. You don't let poison in the
house and say use your own judgment or so that you can get
used to dealing with
it, right?
Because, well, someday you're gonna have to deal with it.
Likewise, someday my wife is gonna have to deal with like a jerk. Do
I bring jerks in the house?
Someday my daughter's gonna have to deal with a jerk. Do I bring
jerks in the house? Someday you're gonna have to deal with not
drinking alcohol? Do I go buy a beer and put it in front of my
thirsty sons learn to deal with no, I cut I don't even give them
the choice. So I have a lock. All the computers, they go into this
lock all my own iPads and computers, which he probably saw
the password and hacks me. Right? The government where I can see
them at night. Okay, so I can relax. I've taken the choice out
of your hands. Right? And I'm the bad guy. Your friends do this that
tell them my dad is crazy. I have no care. I don't care. The moms
might not want to do that. No. So the dad should do it. Once Once I
gave my son my phone. And there were 35 attempts to correct my
oh my god.
How many weeks was it? How many weeks was it?
Now Now you probably gotta been off, right? Because they lock you
out. Right? This was before that before? Wow.
Subhanallah them.
I don't know what happened. But as soon as we started to do this,
Ryan, you deleted all these messages on YouTube. I guess the
algorithm kicked in when we said the word. Right?
Tinder X stuff.
These releases. Now what happens when the * becomes through the
Oculus. It's going to be so realistic, the addiction will
happen like heroin the moment you experience it, right? That's the
nature of addiction. That's why Allah says Don't come near it.
Other things Allah says is haram, like kunzea pork. He just says
don't eat it. Right as prohibited for you. Zina Don't come near it
because it's an addiction, like alcohol. Alright, folks, thank you
all so much for being here because I had some adulting to do. Okay.
I had some adulting to do and now
that I didn't have it today. I was able to do this long session.
Okay. Can a Muslim woman go for adventure? Like diving, caving
gliding? Yes.
It's not with other dudes. But yes.
Okay. Students walked out after us.
And women get less good deeds in life because the prayers are
missed due to menstruation. No, because they have sub sub one of
the pain makes up for it. Of course they have less prayer when
they open their book they have less salah but they have more sub
right patients is sometimes greater reward than positive
action depending on the sincerity of the positive action unfortunate
we can't get to all the questions but I wish
that we could and we will simply just
any advice on the melancholic the sad
go out in the sun read the stories of Almighty
God and just one final scroll through here. All right, that we
will stop with that insha Allah
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