Shadee Elmasry – NBF 52 Wisdom from the Tawrah
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The speakers emphasize the importance of learning and studying one's opponents' behavior, respecting God's presence, learning to be mindful of one's actions, and praying for the good of the church. They also emphasize the need for everyone to have their own flaws and avoid mistakes, avoiding negative language, and not sharing negative information on social media. The importance of respect for God, learning to be mindful of one's actions, and praying for the good of the church and parents' leadership is emphasized. The representatives also mention regulations on Instagram and Facebook and provide guidance on sharing information.
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today we're going to read on some Hichem that have come down from
Satan. Musa de Saddam in his toda I've always wondered what the TODO
sounds like I've never actually looked into it. But I heard
something really interesting that Moroccan Jews Morocco has Jews
they recite the Torah with the same melodies as the Quran, right
so that if you didn't know either way, like if you if you weren't
aware, you wouldn't know
what to listen to like if you didn't know Arabic. The Torah
might sound you'd like the same melody
That's how they recited because they're influenced by the people
around them. Everyone's influenced by the people around them and so
so were they. So it's interesting but today I'm going to read you a
hadith
very important one. It's it's not a hadith, we could say but it's a
statement from
week narration from the prophets of Allah when he was on them. What
are we on a Nabi? sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Jibreel are a
sunnah it's been narrated from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam from Jibreel. From Allah Hadith cutscene and the hook Allah
that He said, Yeah, Musa
comes to carry mirth and cut them to be hidden the Torah, five
words. In other words, words of advice, not just words, words of
advice of Kalama the word Kadima in Arabic language could also
refer to like a speech, or a piece of advice.
Not just a single word. Five things I've closed the total width
for in our military or military have been never aka l matura. If
you act upon this knowledge of the Torah will have benefited you will
and Tom will be hidden let me unpack and matura and if you
don't, then you don't act upon this then you haven't benefited
from the knowledge of the Torah. Now, I would a prophet not benefit
from the knowledge of the Torah. Anytime that Allah Tada speaks
to His Messenger or to His Prophet in his book, it's really a speech
to his ummah. So he's speaking to the leader but it really applies
to everyone else even though the leader of course he's immune from
it there's no way that said no Musa cannot benefit from the
Torah. Of course, he's benefited from the Torah, but it's a word
for his followers at the same time. So the first one I went to
one Yeah, Musa Khan worth if cranberries pale mug, Moon luck
Mal and Tara Casa any nephila Neffe that
oh Musa, as long as you see I have warehouses of, of, of
warehouses of cars and cars and his warehouses. That's all he
says. As long as you have the warehouses of benefit of things,
then be certain might as for you, then in other words, you're gonna
receive wealth, you're gonna see what you need in life.
As long as you understand look at look at what's going on around
you, how many deers are eating? How many lions are eating? How
many elephants are drinking water? How many birds are Allah feeding?
So why would you worry about Allah feeding you?
All of this goes back to not
treating things based upon your understanding of things but rather
based upon Allah has power, not your power, but Allah has power.
You see how much Allah is feeding how many birds Allah is feeding,
how many people are eating? How many animals are eating all this
stuff? Why are you worried now about your own self, your own
little stomach. That's it. That's what you're worried about. When
Allah Tada has fed all these elephants, with their huge
stomachs, and all these other animals are eating.
And all these other people are eating. So as long as you see that
my warehouses are full, then be rest assure that you also will eat
good, your risk is guaranteed.
So it's wonderful, like real, it's all relative, right? I need money,
how much money relative to what look at how much Allah has. Look
at how much Allah has been feeding people. How much of wealth is
going around the world. So what little you need is going to be
easy for a lot to fulfill.
Secondly, yeah, Musa Lurdes, aka phonesoap barnel or Nullam Tara
Supanova Illa.
Almost is my control over everything going away as you see
like a light losing control, if you don't see me losing control of
the world in the universe.
And why are you afraid of another Sultan? Why would you be afraid of
another king? Don't fear any kings of the earth? As long as you see
Allah Tada in control?
Do you see that the moon is doing its own thing. Now. You see that
the sun is coming up when it feels like sleeping in
being late. You see the sun doing any of these things? You see the
moon doing that stuff? You see the stars doing that stuff?
Everyone's behaving perfectly. All the creation is behaving
perfectly. You see the Lions have for example, they all of a sudden
become vegetarians and the zebras start eating meat and the
honeybees start producing vinegar instead of honey.
The bees so everything is is perfect. Cats they still chase
mice get dogs they still protect you.
Cats they still clean their litter.
Everything's being exactly what it
supposed to be the Sultan of Allah to Allah is unquestioned if Allah
is monarchy over the control of the world is unquestioned then
don't worry about any other assaults on on the earth have no
fear of anybody else on Earth
third, yeah Musa lotta justice and I be a hidden merlon, duck luminol
or you
spy and look for the faults of others. As long as you yourself
have flaws.
You got your own flaws. So why would you humiliate others for
their flaws? And by the way, there is a difference. There's a
difference. Number one, is that
when people do sins in public, in public, you are allowed to mention
that you don't heed, he himself isn't afraid of it. And you are
allowed to mention the sins that people do or the wrongs that
people do in public.
You are allowed to mention that in the name of protecting other
people. So if I, for example, somebody worked for me, for
example,
he worked for me on a job or he came to the masjid and he acted
all crazy. I'm allowed to now go to the next message over beware of
this person. He's acting all crazy. But if I have somebody come
up to me and say, Listen, I need to have a private meeting. I have
an addiction. I can't stop smoking marijuana or something like that.
Then I have to keep that secret. So there has to be a fifth of what
you have to keep secret and what you're allowed to disclose to
others. So but this one is about people secret sins. That's why he
says don't spy on the sins of people don't try to find the sins
of people and then humiliate them you yourself has sins you want to
be humiliated.
Fourth,
yeah Musa Allah Tada and Maha robata shape on EVA Damaru, hookah
t just a
human being, oh Musa,
never leave off waging war on shape on
as long as your soul is in your body. Remember,
the Muslim and the mean? Or the relationship must be awful with
them, if there must be a relationship of forgiveness, and
unless there are traders, open traders that means that they
supported the enemy against us, then there might have been their
traders and we wage war on them. But
there's certain things Allah to Allah has told us you have to have
animosity towards them forever. It never changes even the nonbeliever
who fights you and you fight them back.
There can be a time where you win them over as the prophesy sent him
did, he won them over, right. So, but one relationship is forever
will be animosity. And Allah is telling him, You take them as an
enemy permanently, not a shape on and everything he influences
take on and everything he influences he is always an enemy,
never trust him.
The whole thing about in Lord of the Rings Gollum is like a shape
on figure. He will always try to get sympathy from you. Right? He
gets sympathy from you, when he's weak. And then he wages he attacks
you when he's strong.
That type of figure was was symbolizes a lot of different
things symbolize the neffs but also symbolizes shaytaan.
Never let your guard down from Iblees. Gut and know his tricks
study because you have to study bliss. We need to we should
probably do a series of streams on all the tricks of at least an
ignorant Josie has a book on this. He has a book on all the tricks of
bliss, it's we got to read this next, you have to understand the
tricks of iblees because one of the things IBLEES uses. One of his
favorite things to wreak havoc is a little bit of religious
knowledge.
Allah benefits you a little bit. It messes you up
a little bit of misplaced religious knowledge. So there's a
lot of tricks of iblees messing up your priorities is a trick of at
least making you an extremist is a trick of iblees making you
procrastinate
is one of the tricks of least you must know him. You must study your
enemy all the time. You must know Iblees and you must wage war on
him. How do you wage war and uglies by knowledge dhikr and
saga?
Three simple things LM with Victor was saba. And the thicker the more
it is loud and together. It is thought of than the shaytaan as
say Norma was asked by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam. O
Omar, I passed by you at night and I found your reciting your Pm And
Lail extremely loud
and oh Abubaker I come upon you and you pray your pmla
Extremely silently.
So, Omar Why do you pray so loud? He said, to expel shades on and to
wake up the sleeper
he said Abu Bakr Why do you pray so silently, he says it's a
private when Agia
with Allah and so I don't disrupt the sleeper
two different perspectives, the prophesy sounds that I'm going to
decrease your voice a little bit, I believe I could raise your voice
a little bit
so that's the vicar that's loud is thought of than the shape on
expelling shape on.
But, there is one shaytaan that never gets expelled from you,
which is your cutting, you have every one of us has a codeine
which is protected from your of God. As codeine is protected. This
chlorine is somebody that is a jinn, his job is to lead you
astray, and they're protected from your liquor. As a result of that,
Corinne you can only fight him with knowledge. You can only fight
this padeen With knowledge. All right. And so that's why it's
knowledge. Thirdly, Prophesy seldom said
one person by himself Shakedown as a second two by themselves shut
down as the third three by themselves shutdown has no power
over them. So once you get through a group, you're stronger
fourth,
and we said that Mahabharata shaytaan fifth, yeah, Musa lert at
minicabee Well, our inf Secretary Jana, almost don't ever be secure
with Allah subhanaw taala always be on guard of doing the right
thing and that the wrong can come to you and that your neffs can
come out. But don't ever trust your neffs
don't ever trust your knifes but your knifes will play tricks on
you. Why? Because the neffs always is created with certain desires.
So be very aware of your ego and that the punishment of Allah Allah
can come to anybody there's no one above punishment
except the messengers. And anytime that you see in the Quran that
Allah Tada is saying like a threat to the to a messenger it's a
threat to his OMA it's not to the messenger it's to his alma
So what sort it's a marriage as well, such a threat. So does that
haka.
And so you have to realize that the false sense of security is the
downfall of a Moltmann. That's what it's called the false sense
of security. Never have a false sense of security, when it comes
to your relationship with Allah Subhana. Which I'd always be on
guard. Right. If you had an employee, no matter how good he
was, you would not want him to have this false sense of security
that has done an amazing job. I'm untouchable. Nobody is
untouchable.
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Italia Kola Who are you Ivy, well adjusted adult Virginia bar at
voodoo, whatever Allah may Allah is your statue, dill mouse Yeti,
well on your way Arlen will be where you are a little bit. He
says.
Now this is
it advice, age old advice, never looked down on anybody because of
a flaw that they have. Because I fear that Allah Allah will test
you with it, and cure the other from it. Don't look down on people
for the flaw that they have, as Allah can switch places,
rather than switching places.
Well, our tester Alpha did it by Harry Fujimura. However, if
someone is public about his sins, don't don't hide his sins. He's
public about it. This person is a cancer for society. You don't hide
the sins of someone who does sins in public? Why are you protecting
her? Why are you befriending them? While why? What's What's with you,
and then someone public in there, since you don't guard them,
they're public about it. He wants to be like this. You need to
people need to be protected from them. So you have to understand
that when people speak about others, the question is, were they
public? Or are they trying to keep it secret? That's the question. If
they were public, then speech about them is permitted as a
warning to others. Spread it. So if someone's sending in public
and everyone's protecting them, what's going to change them?
What's going to, but in the opposite, if everyone's speaking
against it, and speaking about it, if he doesn't fear Allah, maybe he
feels societal pressure. And that's a good type of peer
pressure. Right? Maybe societal pressure is what something that is
going to move him
to change his ways.
That's a good peer pressure.
What Allah Mala is set to do with mouse co2, you're a little bit
saturable
Masia he doesn't guard his sins and a movement. If he has since he
covers his sins.
Call us Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam.
La mejora la Euro Imran, in a key here our fair Suruga La La Yara
Imran minarchy Our Ratan fer studio la il at Hello lol John.
However, if your brother that he has a sin or he's exposed,
something that he was trying to hide, and you hide it except that
ALLAH to Allah will enter you in Ghana. Okay, so if the person is
trying to hide their sins, but Allah exposed it to you
specifically hide it for him. I will buckaroos asked, What if you
see two people committing Zina
and like their, their stick can be seen he said I cover them up so
they don't corrupt the society and they were trying to hide
themselves. But
they failed at hiding themselves. Allah expose them to me. I cover
them up because they were trying to hide themselves
will call up men a call a Muslim and arthralgia and a call Allahu
trata, who Jamelia whoever removes a hardship from a moment. Allah to
Allah removes a hardship from him. This is narrated through Abu
Hodeidah in Sunon.
That'd be Joe would anybody major yet?
Well, you calling in ever honey Farah, listen to this beautiful
story of of Hanifa.
Abu Hanifa was living next to he had a neighbor. And between them
was a thin wall. And this neighbor, he had a problem. He was
a young man, he used to drink drinks. But he used to bring the
drink inside his house and he would drink all night. And he
would sing the blues to himself. Apparently he was sad about
something. And he would sing the blues and he would said and he
said someone should do Home Depot home Jeff oni Abba, oni What are
you, although he would sing this line of poetry over and over and
over, right? He said I call upon them that they left me. In other
words, all my friends, you abandoned me. Right? And you left
me to be and who have you left to be right, you left me to be all
alone by myself. In other words, he's singing the blues about his
friends who abandoned him and Abu Hanifa he's interesting that
while you look through Tara Dude, we had a baby boy keep saying this
line of poetry for Ghana. Abu Hanifa yes, that needs to be
Konami. Here's Abu Hanifa working on his books and working on FIP.
And here's this young man singing the blues and Abu Hanifa is like
keeping him company even though he's drunk in the other room. He's
keeping him company. Right? One night lumea smila Who Abu Hanifa
his sir. One night he didn't hear this man's blues. This young men
for the Mikado Julissa lots of CityLine are when it came for
salata sub when it came for federal, he asked about him, it
was said, Oh, the police got him because he was drunk in public. He
was drinking more than he was drinking in public for hamadeh who
enlisted. So he's in jail now.
So when Hanifa prayed, he went straight to the house of the
officer, the chief of police
was then at A and he took permission what I'm hoping FCN is
I'm Abu Hanifa now
the man came out with no headcovering and no shoes is early
in the morning. IRIS will have Hatfield domain will cooperate. He
kissed the hand of Abu Hanifa. Abu Hanifa is here. He kissed the hand
of Hanifa. And he said in Egypt took a few cadets in Jordan Lee
Soo Gina Leila. He said I'm here about my neighbor, that person
that you collected for public drunkenness. That's my neighbor.
Good call. And the man said yes, AUD was here. Dukkha. And the bad
luck to Jimmy I'm in Sujin Fe typical Leila. He said just for
you visiting us. I'll send him home. Y'all put him in your care.
And everyone else who was with him going to jail that night. So they
all were released on the account of Abu Hanifa. So I never went to
the jail, picked up the boy, the youth and they were walking home
together
for months every day, then Abu Hanifa said, Now, did I abandon
you? You sing this blues all the time you sing the song all the
time? They abandon me and all my friends left me he said Did I
abandon you? Or did we fulfill your rights as a neighbor? Okay,
because you keep saying oh the only way you further although
right? They abandon me and what kind of what youth that they've
been at or what person that have they abandoned? The man said Allah
will lie, love to the year and you know, you never abandon me. And
you protected me to Zakah Okay, Iran. You're a great neighbor.
What will she do? GUP and Anita it won't be an hour
Begin my Toba for the sake of Allah, so by Allah begin my Toba
from now, because gentle these old yet where is the real focus? How
gentle they were with sinners Subhan Allah The God effort as
human even the story continues, he kept the company of the men,
wherever I wouldn't even go, he would go, never heard of a Pray,
pray, sit in the circle, he'd sit in the circle. What about Allah
had to hold up and he worshiped Allah subhanho wa Taala until he
became until his death Eliakim means until he dies, right? So
this isn't telling about that. It's in the famous book. Teddy
bears are dead. All right.
It's one of the books that has a lot of stories about any food but
the author was a chef a
who didn't agree with it or any visible soul.
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said yeah, about Hurayrah
in that and use V like Allah Who thin up has an L Jamil for dunya
with Accra, Who here would like to be praised
to be praised in this life and the next? Well listen up because of
rabbits, I started them
in a hadith of de la vie.
De la me and Muslim Wilfred dose and other books.
But he's saying, Oh, what do you want to be? Would you love to be
praised in this life and the next for Kofa li Sana Khan and
Muslimeen have good relations with the Muslims
have goodwill in other words, is actually to be accurate. It says,
don't speak ill of the Muslims. In other words, have good
relationship with your ummah. Speak don't speak ill of the
ummah. That's what he's saying.
Next Hadith man Assam and Bala kulula. humanness RWA who
okay, even ABI Shaybah in his Muslim andother by Elysee in his
Muslim
you're not fast and truly if you keep backbiting people
keep backbiting people. godless aids have been on a Nebby Mandara
julienne beer it is me Lana tune melodica when you call people by
names that they don't like the curse the angels curse you.
Messengers allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in an update your
Tiki turbo Yama Yama for your RV he has an earth welcome. Yeah,
Camila, we have got a person will be given their book of deeds on
the day of judgment. And he sees good deeds that he never did.
And he asks Yara mean ain't had it hasn't yet. Where are all these
credits from? And these good deeds?
I never did them.
Allah subhana wa says, the people back by Did you so you're given
their worth of the backbite in the form of good deeds, the
compensation you were taking? You took their good deeds, the value
of what they backed by Did you Allah has given it a value. So he
went and found from their good deeds, that value put it in his
book. So that means a man give $10,000 in charity, but then he
backed by to somebody. And Allah has valued that backbiting to be
$10,000 of sadaqa. That's the value of that backbiting. So Allah
took his $10,000 of sadaqa and put it He wakes he goes to the
Almighty I mean, he sees he gave $10,000 of sadaqa on this day at
that moment.
But he didn't do that. It was at that time at that moment that he
was backed by did the value of that.
So he receives those good deeds.
hurts him in some sense says the love that either couldn't have
imagined listen for Rama Tumen, Saudi Fatone, Anhu. Three things.
If they're present in a gathering, the Mercy does goes away. Number
one,
secret dunya non stop talking of dunya dunya dunya dunya.
Number one customers would like too much laughter. Too much
laughter will dunya Well, what we have in us and backbiting are
people. Guarantee is that's images get up. Excuse yourself, go to the
bathroom, call somebody. Get on a text, do something choke. Make
your self you need water. Leave. start coughing so you need fresh
air or something like that. While I'm Raheem McCullough, who and
then me met at Tufts, Deena with dunya with Toyota Kuru.
Now, nema is just talking about people. Even if it's not backed by
it, even if it's not what they don't like. It's just we're
talking about somebody. But even if that person like they don't,
they wouldn't mind. Or example. I start telling you the news of all
my neighbors and the news of the Masjid. But it's not something
that has any value to you or me. It's just gossip, even if it's not
bad about somebody, but it's it changes the hearts. Why? Because
you're putting all your focus on the creation now.
What to well what well they do a Buck Buck and it causes people to
hate one another. What self Kadima and even it could lead to war and
bloodshed. constantly talking about people
what so Allah Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Anil
Viva mer here. The proper was asked about Reba what is it? Carla
and Tiff kura Akaka Bina fee well who want to mention your brother
in a flaw that's in him while he's absent from you? Were in the car
Toby Malissa V pocket Beretta and if you mentioned him in what is
not in him, then that's but and
Hadith Muslim Sahih Muslim, but that's Colombini which is even
worse. 10 times worse.
Well call us Allah Allah who it was salam survivor dilla al Masha
Allah Bynum, Iman, the worst of people, the walking with the
backbiting and gossip and demeanor and Will Ferrell record a banal a
Himba in a way that it separates between people. You come to
someone that is a friend of mine and you start talking about them
and you separate between us you're the one of the worst people
lie the whole Jana cadet, such a person they don't enter paradise
This is it. It's Bukhari, and Muslim.
Well call us Allah Allahu alayhi wa salam and Masha bein with Nene
Bynum. Eema salaam, Allahu Allah, he now nonfuel Cobra, whoever
separates between two people, Allah puts a fire in his heart in
his grave to medical illness. It's he's gonna get burned from it
until the day of judgment. Why he burned the relationship. Right?
Didn't you burn the relationship? Didn't you burn a friend that I
had? Now Allah subhana wa Tada. You get that back in your grave?
Well, hi. Yeah. 1010 hasher who had died who not and in the Day of
Judgment.
He's going to end in his grave, there will be a snake,
a snake that bites at him. Why? Because that's him. You are that
snake, that coming in saying one word to this person, then go and
say another word to that person. Lo and behold, next thing you know
that person is suspicious of that person. They don't like each other
anymore. And they have a fitna. Why because of someone walking
around with Mimimi alright. And this also takes place on social
media too. It's not just everything that can be done with
the tongue can be done with the pen.
Right? message about this person here message about that person
there and all of a sudden they hate each other. Anything that can
be done with the tongue can be done with the pen, no difference.
Call up either hook him up, and then email to
de la Kulu will Baba Namie makes hearts hate each other. Woman were
jakka for cut shuttleq Woman Naka la Laker fuck Nicola Anka.
Whoever faces you know, the backbiting on faces you with it,
it's like cursing you. If he backs by to you, he'll back bite about
you. Oh, my knuckle Aleca Nakata anchor means he's transmitting to
you other people's news, guess what? You're also his customer.
He's gonna He's gonna take your subject matter. You're his content
matter. He's going to take from your information and tell other
people about it. He's a back biter. He's, you're not special,
you're not on his list. We'll lay it out. I've had three or four
schewe that our colleagues of mine. And they're like maybe
advanced students of knowledge. And they would call me and gossip
about you. Right? Gossip, stomach gossip?
About all the data, what's happening here? What's happened in
there? With no value. It's not like, I'm not going to work with
those people. I'm not asking for a reference. And I would get really
sick in my stomach. Because I would think like this person, it's
the middle of the day. Are you free for this? You have time for
this? And we're gossiping about others, you know, I would get sick
to my stomach because one day I'm going to be your subject matter.
Right? What, like if that person who I used to respect and you're
coming, bringing gossip to me about him,
right?
What who's to say one day, I'm not going to be your subject matter to
somebody else. So those those relationships, I always made sure
they're short lived relationships. Right? I don't want to get
involved with your drama and your juicy gossip. Okay, because one
day you're gonna run out of subject matter you're going to
bite on me now. Right You're going to eat up at me and it's true it
did happen in that this person their drama queens they just
happen to love knowledge at the same time and doubt May Allah Tada
you know cure them from the drama queen status but but that they are
nothing less than drama queens.
Get back onto the Instagram here for some reason it closed now.
It's drama queens.
Oh, too bad. My Instagram has
refreshed, I can't see all the comments that were being put
before. If you had a comment that you want to that you wanted to
put, just put it again on Instagram because my for some
reason my iPad, it refreshed, right. So when it refreshed all of
your comments of the past,
up to now were gone. So if you want to put any question that you
had, you can just put it again
Oh, yeah, they told me oh, this is sexist for St. drama queens
says an expression doesn't mean that women are more driven back
biters than men, even though they may have that reputation. I don't
know if that's the case, there are some men who really love to
backbite to write so they love to talk shop, there is the only value
of talking shop, that's good talking shop is a fine thing.
Talking Shop means the industry what's going on in the industry
that you work in. So let's say you're in, let's say the legal
industry. It's not it's not backbiting to talk about the news
related to that industry, like oh, so and so he was doing marketing
for that law firm, that didn't work out. So he's actually moved
on. If you want to hire him, you can hire him, or so and so has had
a fitna with that community. So be careful. If you ever work with
them, be careful, because there are some issues there. And by the
way, when you miss so and so and so and so and so they have an
issue. So when you're talking to him, don't bring up so and so's
name, he's gonna get really upset. So what we're talking about is
things that have a benefit. Because we're in a business here,
we're in an industry, that was what we call talking shop. And
that's okay. Because you're not necessarily you're just saying the
news is the news of what's happening in your field of
business, not in people's personal lives. That's what the big
difference is. You say, Oh, guess what? Well, my neighbor, the
police called the neighbor because their garbage was out too long.
And the neighbors complained. So the police came and blah, blah,
blah, that's you'd have nuts that your business there's no benefit
there. Right. So where there's benefit in an industry
that's allowed, but all that other type of gossip for no reason. It's
just gossip. Be careful because you're going to be next. Okay.
Call about the Viva dunk Kudo. Zancudo what have you saw him?
They said that nullifies the way he means here, it nullifies the
reward of fasting, and it nullifies the reward and the value
of whoop, as we'll do is a protection from say, it's on, but
now you're backbiting you're inviting. shaytaan right, you're
inviting the shade on it. And they're awesome. I said, I saw a
Bedouin woman who was full of wisdom. She's giving her son some
advice. Yeah. Bucha Yeah, I'm not okay. We'll see you at below where
we learned Sophia, I give you the gift of this, this wisdom, and
that Sophia is from Allah. For Yakko an amoeba beware of
backbiting fame that had too little Agia lien it results in
animosity between family members but to further the Cobain and more
have been and it separates between the loved one another. Well, yeah,
go watch the arrow Dylan, are you and be aware of looking at
people's flaws? FETs I'll see you I'll see it Allah Allah, then you
will become a recipient of those flaws. You love looking at
someone's flaws. You'll get that flaw yourself one day.
What a Yucca well do the BDA Nick, give out but don't give your dean
you don't sacrifice Dean. Dean is not something you give away. Okay,
well, Book Club generic and stinginess with your wealth. Now
the wealth is opposite. He's supposed to give that out and
preserve your dean. Not the opposite. Where methylene F
second, the third element of Eric for Mr. Center whom in a nurse for
a loop, take examples from other people what you love from other
people. Do it yourself. Why am I stuck back to who Minh home fetch
tenable and what you hate from other people. Avoid it yourself.
Go
for it yourself. In November, Allah IBFC because you never see
your own flaws. So what look at other people, and Allah may send
you somebody who has your flaw, and you don't like it, then
avoidance in yourself. You don't like seeing people get angry.
Maybe you get angry. So you yourself shouldn't get angry.
Right? You'd like people being gentle than you yourself. Be
gentle.
Okay
that she's ultimately said she stopped there. But I said Keep
going. Keep going. She said Oh son, beware of betrayal, and
abandonment. Don't abandon your friends. Don't betray people is
the worst way to deal with people is to betray betray them and
abandon them.
wedgemount bina sacaa You will combine between being
knowledgeable and being generous. What to all do I will help and be
humble and have modesty was still joke Allah and I leave your affair
to Allah wa Aika Salam. Alright, some some beautiful advice here
Spatola I think we'll, we'll stop here we've done about a half hour
right and run 40 minutes. Okay, let's stop here. And then
inshallah Tada, we will go to our q&a. Now again, there was a lot of
people talking, I stopped seeing comments in comments and comments
on the Instagram, but for some reason, all the comments on my
Instagram, on the iPad, it refreshed. So
I don't have any of your questions anymore. All right, so
next
Titi on Saudi is,
what if someone wrongs you and you're venting to a person?
There is value to that. Okay. There is in a sense, sometimes
there's value to that. But when is the question when? Why do I say
that there is value in that there was a man who kept abusing his
neighbor. And the time of the prophesy said, the victim, he came
to the Prophet. And people tried to advise this man. And the man
was stubbornly, stubbornly
he kept abusing his neighbor,
when the prophesy send them saw that advice didn't benefit him.
Meat into, you know, mediators didn't benefit. Nothing is
stopping this person. Then prophets, I seldom used public
shame against the person. He said, take all of your belongings, put
it outside in front of your house right at the edge of the street.
When people ask you what's going on? Tell him he's abusing me and
tell them the story. So the prophets I send them use the
concept of getting public attention and then directing it to
the cause that you want to direct it to. But when is the question
after the person has shown a stubbornness and doing this
persistence and abusing you? You should not do this. You should
not.
You don't need to do this right away. But after the person's been
stubborn
What if someone wants to talk about their problems with EEG you
have to keep people anonymous. And on the conversation, can you give
benefit of the doubt to the person being talked about? Our job here
is always to try to keep
relations together. And D de escalate the situation. Now people
may come to you and they want to escalate the situation. They want
blood.
It is technically it's our job, not to go there. It's our job to
sympathize with their pains but not to inflame.
I'm not much of a counselor to be honest with you. But But the city
tells us this write that don't inflame between two Muslims, but
sympathize sympathize with one but don't inflame giving benefit of
doubts is good, keeping people's names. If it's a private feud,
then the names better are better to be kept out.
Zana says is it okay to talk about someone in the sense that you want
advice and how to respond or handle their behavior, which may
be negative behavior. So we ask a friend for advice if that person
is repetitive in that and stubborn if it's a one off, don't ruin the
reputation on one mistake.
What if someone speaks about their problems about someone to you, and
you give the benefit of the doubt about that person and you say I'll
try to resolve the issue and talk to the other person. It's all
simply about trying to bring jamas together as opposed to away from
each other.
It's
just one of the cases where lying is permissible 100% Lying is
actually permissible in the case of
in the in the case of people who were at odds with each other were
actually allowed to lie. Bring them together.
Does that look like? It can be like to any extent? It should be
an extent that doesn't backfire? So for example, something simple
like oh, by the way, someone said, someone says there's no right.
That's okay. Someone sends their center company that's not gonna
backfire. Because if it does, then you it's no point. Something like
that will not backfire against you. But how do you stop feeling
jealous says
towards siblings for what they deem to be unwarranted parental
affection, and the feeling that they aren't getting equal
attention and affection.
It's really the moms problem.
If the mom or dad has favoritism,
they can't control what's in their heart, but they can't control
their actions. So
Every parent may, for example,
love one kid more than the other. Because some kids look like you.
They act like you. So you love them more than the one that
doesn't. Right? But that's in your heart, you have to keep it in your
heart, what your words utter, and what your
hands and your body does. And what the way you smile and everything.
And the way you come down hard on people. If you have kids, they
have to be equal. It's really the moms problem. Right? Not the
siblings problem. And but how do you handle it?
See, both sides are victims now, because of a parent was unjust,
both sides are victims, because one is not receiving the same
attention and affection, and the other is now getting hesitated for
it.
Right. So that's the problem with the mom, or the done. Katelyn
says. You said on the call with H bas. Yesterday, it's allowed to
put a time on asking Allah if there's a need, if there is a
need, if there is a need, right. And I think that it is permissible
for somebody to say
it is permission with some say, Oh Allah, give me a sign
and make it quick. But I wouldn't put a time unless the time was put
on you. You don't put a time unless that time was put on you.
So a job gave you a deadline, that it's not your fault. You didn't
choose that. So that that's what you're allowed to say all up
before the deadline. But if it's there's no deadline, you can just
say generally agile, agile. In other words, make it quick make it
quick.
The job of the Korean is to misguide you. Yes, that's correct.
Do we have anything to counter out that negative influence L L. L L L
Gemma Sonoma, essentially. So the Corinne he's immune from your that
his job is to misguide you, your solution will be knowledge keep
you the company of scholars and keep the company of the Muslims is
Muslims. Keep their company. Oh, we stay with them. We ask Allah to
Allah to let us live and die with the Jamaat and in the masjid. And
in humility to the scholars, because they have studied their
spend their time study, studying is not easy.
So that's the solution is knowledge and the GEMA they will
neutralize your chlorine.
Three cleaning questions go ahead. Who are they from? Meriam. Schiff
says what is chlorine? What is the Quran she said the chlorine is
chlorine literally means something that's attached. So every one of
us has been assigned to gin a shape on antigen that shape on his
gin he has a production your that he's immune to it. He doesn't get
burned by it. Every other shape on is burned by the butcher cadenas
not to your Corinne he whispers to you harm.
And then it goes back to the bliss any reports what he whispered to
you. Okay. And so the biggest the most important goal that they have
is to sow seeds of doubt.
Doubt in Allah and doubt in Amen.
And the way they do this, okay, is whether they do this is by getting
you in trouble. For example, a divorce is something that causes a
lot of heart break for people and their image shakes up sometimes.
I've seen it so many times, especially amongst converts,
because that's like the main Islamic relationship that they
have. The parents may not be most of them. Right. So they're gonna
they're going to have a divorce. They have such a trauma, right
that they even started moving away from them completely, especially
she's a convert and he's a born Muslim. So he represents Islam and
husbandry at the same time. So once that breaks, sometimes it's
them goes with it. So you have to be very mindful of the tricks of
bliss because he uses fitna amongst people to destroy your
iman.
Very well known. Yep.
Does the Korean become imprisoned during Ramadan?
Does is the Korean in prisons during Ramadan? And the answer to
that is yes, all of the shayateen are imprisoned in the month of
Ramadan.
Um, what happens to the Korean after we die? What happens you're
putting in after you die? I think they're cycled out they go get
another assignment. Right. And the jinns also die. Right? So
eventually they they would die too.
Because he closely what's the name of this? Of the wildlife plant
behind you?
This is a money tree. I think it's a Money Plant. They call it a
money plan.
Honey for Sook.
What if you are warning from an individual that's a majestic and
he keeps spreading his belief you have to do that. You have to warn
against
Someone who does public sense, someone who's doing damage to the
community in public, you must warn about it. You're not allowed to
hide this.
I remember one time Subhan Allah, someone who had does not have FIP
he does not have FIP.
knows a guy, that guy goes proposals to a woman.
He knows very well that this guy is a ms wedge type. You know what
the word ms wedges. Ms wedge is type person married, divorced,
married, divorced, married divorce. He doesn't keep one woman
forever. Or even. Who knows if he even attended. This guy's one of
those types. He's got
married for three, four or five months. Divorce. Right? You got a
secret wife over there. Another one tucked in over there. Right in
Morocco somewhere? Well, she doesn't have access to she'll
never be known. Then go divorce her by text message Mary and other
woman. He lives like that. Right?
He goes proposes to this woman and this family. And they're into the
marriage and they're engaged.
And they fall into it. And he married her, and within a few
months finished with her dumpster off. Right.
And that guy knew their friend knew about this. He said, I didn't
want to tell you because you guys were so in love. I thought I can't
tell you have to warn people
of what may harm them in something that is known publicly. Okay. This
guy was so bad. He's an Amen, by the way, right? He's so bad. When
he when he does marriage therapy. That's where he does his picks
women off. Because, yeah, a woman called Oh, you're the shit. I have
an issue with my husband. Next thing he knows. He increased the
division and married her. Unbelievable. And the end. The
parents were like, you're getting played girl. You're getting played
daughter. Wake up. Now she's the coolest. She's in love.
And then guess what happens? 678 months boom, you're done with to
know how to Lakota Riblah Ms. Wedge. Okay. This is what's called
Ms words.
Then he that Hanif says, I warn people that this guy is in with
Jessem and he says your back buddy. He's a gehad it's not
backbiting. If someone is a public preacher have something wrong. And
you warned about him. That's up backbiting. Backbiting is to say
he has a big nose. He's ugly, that's backbiting but he's
promoting this on the internet and be warned of him. That's not
backbiting
does the cream stay with you after you die now? Once you once you die
if your time of test is over,
Brian What do you have?
We have a scenario okay. How to deal with a person from the wife's
family that is addicted to talk and scream like since that person
wakes up he talks and talks bothering everything
right Could you show her what Instagram saying here? Yeah. Okay,
so this person is saying that
they have a family member that talks and screams all the time
Hey Ryan, why are some of these questions blacked out you did you
did that if if you use it said some of these questions are black
down
to black
What did they want? Help us confirm that you own this account.
Send us secure oh can you hit the X? Because my phone is in the car
just hit the X Oh
stupid thing.
Now they want us to log in again all right. All right. Let's like
YouTubers just give us some time because we
were they doing this to us
I can open up email here if you want. We started an
email. That's you Ryan Gillan hammer right
he said no chlorine log you out? Yeah, I think that's what
happened.
Nothing definitely isn't what happened
all right, YouTubers, just be patient with us for a second here.
Hey, I'll answer YouTube questions in the meantime. All right. So
YouTubers.
So Haven one says there any difference of opinion regarding
DACA
being imprisoned during Ramadan Yeah, I think there is some
difference of opinion.
I don't think that's my email. I want my email to be on your
Instagram. That's a good question. It's not coming up
that's that's our
registrar. Registrar incited that orgy
right yeah
but we don't have that can they send the text what can they send
the text to your phone? Yeah but my I love my phone downstairs in
the corner
my flip the day I didn't bring my flipper. Alright, well I'll just
answer you two questions then
the Instagram is frozen for some reason it's we talked so much
about this these leases maybe they they played around? Say it's
abroad Allah al Husseini
okay
now that's not a question that's just solid on the prophets. I some
sunshine says What if someone keeps complaining about the past,
and how they were not treated fairly time pass and they're now
living a different life. Every time this incident comes up, I
feel weird backbiting others how to help others move on and avoid
thinking of these incidents. Yeah, that's people stuck in the past is
a really bad thing to be stuck in the past.
might think that at some point, they have to be told hey, you're
stuck in the past. Everyone moved on. You need an intervention here.
Everyone's moved on. Right? Except you
and you're so on and on and on about this stuff.
Anyone else want to pitch in you can help out until sunshine you
know what what's your advice would be sometimes I think the advice
would simply be Listen everyone has moved on except you
let's see next question.
Sade Mohammed Daniel.
Okay, he had a question said Muhammad Daniel.
Okay, so what do these people want? They want the code
unit six one right. Yeah.
All right. 885-619-8056 19.
Yeah.
Okay,
say Mohammed Daniel says how to deal with a person from wife's
family, addicted to talking and screaming.
Okay.
Like since the person wakes up, he talks and talks and talks and
talks.
You're bothering your prayer or recitation of the Holy Quran, go
away from them. Go to a different room.
That's good.
All right. Thank you, Ryan for fixing that situation. What would
we do without this brother? We wouldn't have a live stream. By
the way since we are now opening the Question and Answer hit us up
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And hamdullah all this stuff is something that
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it takes a lot of time and effort. So hit us up there. Also check out
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dot o RG for our classes and everything. And you can be part of
our organization. Okay, so Instagram is backup. Thank you
very much. And for what poor? What's his name? Muhammad. Daniel
has a terrible family member. arrested twice. Pause. Well, we
got through his question. Read it. Oh, yeah. That's a really big
buildup.
Poor guy. He has a family member that talks too much. So step out
of the room, get yourself out of the physical space of that person,
if you can write
him a medic, when he was asked about a man. He said he's a great
he has great character, but he talks the talk of a month in a
single day. All right, so people who talk too much and they yell
and scream, get yourself out of out of that company, right? Go
somewhere else. Go to another room. You have to be in control of
your body. Right? There's no such thing as I have to be here. You're
an adult. You are in control of your body. No one can control your
body for you.
So, yeah, maybe the Koreans did mess around with our Instagram, as
some people are joking and saying, oh, yeah, there is a difference of
opinion some saying that codeine does not get locked up, but only
the other some other southing get locked up and Allah knows best.
This is a short week, we only have three streams this week, and then
we're off for the last 10 Nights. Last 10 Nights, we're just
completely focusing on a bed. And I hope everyone does that too. But
we will probably we may broadcast the of god of the evening on NBI
C's,
Instagram, or
MBSE. YouTube, or you could just join the Zoom station.
So
the Zoom link, so keep that.
Keep that on.
Go to nbc.org and you'll see the things that we're doing and it
will be on nbc.org If we choose to, to broadcast them
producer extraordinaire, you're being called Mashallah.
Yeah, so hey, because I mean, he's in the he's in the entertainment
business. That's why he knows so much. He like half the things that
he's doing here is from him.
All right, the sericin says, teaching young children how to
pray eight and 10. They fidget. They jostle. Did I set the example
of stillness and Hojo? Or should I correct them during the prayer,
hold them still add? I would say that that's all fine and good for
age four, or five, six, even four and five and six and seven, I will
start saying
stay still. It's only two because it's only three of us. Stay still
stop moving around. Get respect this Allah, here's something.
If you teach people to respect something, that's the foundation
for them to love it.
They cannot love a thing that they see that they're allowed to
disrespect. That's truly my belief. Okay. That's truly my
belief. Right? You have to respect something. You cannot cannot allow
this disrespect of the must must have of the Quran of the salah
of the deen, you see someone praying, you have to lower your
voice. Okay, your insulin, you don't move. Okay? You dressed
properly, you don't come we'll just like a slob to Scylla you
have to respect this thing. If you teach people to respect it, then
they could love it. But if you just are so afraid that they're
not going to love it. You're on the wrong track? In my opinion.
That's my personal opinion. Okay.
Will you be streaming in the morning federal of God? Yes.
Federal Earth God is on last two nights, no doubt about it. Fajr of
God and that short talk that's on mbsc channel in the last 10
nights.
We are doing that.
Okay, so I'm all about
that you have to respect it first. Okay. And we respect I think is a
greater emotion even. Right? Like, do you people people go to the
opera.
I mean, I've never been to the opera or any of these things. But
from what you see, they're sitting like this watching the opera.
Nobody would dare you don't even dare sneeze in the opera. You
wouldn't even think about you wouldn't get close with your baby
coming and making noise and screaming and stuff like that in
the opera. Right? The people in the opera, care what you love it
whether you love us or not, you're going to respect this operation.
Right? So I actually find there's so much so much more power in
teaching people to respect the sacred, have respect for the
sacred then love can grow out of that as opposed to just be so
afraid that they're not going to love it that we don't say anything
to them.
By the way kids, they're flexible, their mind is flexible. They might
be upset at for a moment that you you know, said something that they
don't like or maybe even scolded them to forget about it later on.
This cheaper sometimes I think are too sensitive that the kids are
going to be full of resentment. It's not the case. I think they
understand that they they're being set straight which is fine.
Would you
explain says shuns at ease? She's says Could you explain the concept
of modality
so what is motor vehicle? This must be something in DC that I
don't understand. I don't understand what macdaddy cordless
All right, so I have emailed to ask I don't receive
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I'm
Is that to NBFC? Ma'am? If it is then I will follow up for you
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how to discern save up
says it means owner of all owner of all that is Allah's attribute.
Right. That's Allah's attribute. Owner vol is that what they mean?
Or the owner of the highest rank of creation? That's the attribute
of the prophets I send
a macabre Mahoto.
No way Johanna says By the way, no is coming. I'm gonna know what
he's visiting. I think Friday. You're gonna miss him. Yeah, I
think he's coming Friday morning. Yep.
How do you discern between intrusive thoughts and Baccarin.
intrusive thoughts
are the same, right? Usually, if it's from your neffs it's usually
the same thought. And if it's from Shaytaan
it's usually a new thought. That's one perspective. Another approach
to it is that
the shower a desire from yourself. If it's a doubt about Arpita and
Dean,
like doubts about Allah, doubts about the Quran, doubts about the
Prophet, that's from Satan, or begins from Satan
is by nature, the human being just wants to desires fulfilled, right?
It's these these inquisitive thoughts, that theological
thoughts,
sowing doubts about them that's from Shaytaan.
So that's a gazelle, he talks about thoughts and he said, That
which is a passion is from yourself. That which is about a
good deed is from an angel, that which is doubt about Allah and His
Messenger is from Shaytaan. And that which is certainty about
Allah and His Messenger that's from Allah, and the, the one that
is from Allah cannot be resisted. In other words, when you feel that
certainty in the deen and trust and Eman and you have been, that's
from Allah to Allah, and it settles in your heart. Everything
else it comes into your mind you can expel it or you can accept it.
Sade Muhammad Daniel says,
This person is so loud his noise reaches my room.
Now, I have to ask you a question. Do you work and live on your own?
Because if you do you have the right to move out.
Okay.
You do have the right to move out
and you have the right to move on with your life Shadia has given us
rights for a reason. We should use them. Okay.
Schengen is a Oh Shan zhu li ze the French road that's what it's
her name is her that's what she the sons of huize Okay the the
French that that main wrote you know about this run the main road
in France. Okay, the Shan zhu li ze it's a main path and main road
highway. Not a highway. It's like
one of these roads where all the famous stores are there and I
think at the end there's the famous arch in France so she's
named after that. They use it for the Prophet Mohammed Salah when he
was sending that he has authority over MK Luke but some people say
should
we know the DUA the prophesy Saddam is accepted.
So from that aspect maybe
I don't know what their what they mean by that. To be honest with
you.
Yeah, it's like Strongsville is a is like Saks Fifth Avenue.
Basically. It's like one it's a main corridor in France for
tourists to come and shop and and pay for used to be Oxford Street
used to be really nice. When I got there. It's starting to get
trashed. I don't know the status of Oxford Street right now. But
that's like that basically Saks Fifth Avenue, for example.
So that's the Schengen visa.
Anyway, Eunice was asking about
book recommendations for Sierra Sierra and the other
book recommendations for the Sierra, the Sultan of hearts is
really good. And for the Companions,
men around the messenger is a good starter. It's a contemporary work.
It's two volumes, and it gives you like a nice two to three page
two to three page biography, right Ryan you read from that book? I
read from that book. It's really simple. And then I also got this
three volume 10 book compilation called Hi at the Sahaba Okay, had
to Sahaba is by category. So it will go on like asceticism and
then it'll give you all the things about asceticism of this prophet
of
of the Sahaba or, or their whatever quality generosity, all
this so it's by not by biography but by the qualities alright say
Muhammad Daniel we're walking him through this he says
I'm about to leave the country because I'm completely fed up a
lot so he's leaving the whole country, not just the house the
whole country because he works and he studies call us, you remember
you have
completely control over your body you have the right to do this
Allah has given you this right so that you don't face a pressure
that you can handle it. So that says Can we give a FARA to Safina
society
we Sofia site itself does not accept it Farah
it will not accept it because Kufa has to go to a Muslim and our
wealth. Our program goes to non Muslims, however, there is a
school that we help out.
But you would have to get me that communicate with that with me,
because I can't I am able to get that money over. You'd have to
communicate with me and I can tell you exactly where the money's
going. There's a school in Egypt where they feed poor Muslim kids.
So they teach FIP they teach Quran okay, it's in the guise of a Quran
school because that's what's legal but upstairs they teach Akita and
FIP and they feed the kids they feed about 1000 Kids in the month
of Ramadan poor kids coming in and I have the videos I have
everything and
and if you communicate with me I can get that money over I could
basically be the middleman and send you the receipt that the
money arrived
cyka Farah, Vidya, etc. Can you write the name of the book in the
comments Sultan of hearts, this is on Instagram.
Sultan of hearts and then the other one is men around the
messenger
and you know exactly where to get it. And you know where to get it
from?
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All right, what else we got Ryan, you have something?
Oh, yeah, this is a pretty blunt question. Okay. What about
backbiting Kaffir bitter, bitter and grow leader backbiting and
Kapha bit eight and a cruel leader. No, I don't think that we
would go that route only what they're Cofidis
only what they're what they're what they're doing wrong in the
society. Because yet only what they're doing wrong and the
society will Lozada on right a lot. I don't know if there's
another opinion about that. But a calf and a bidet a enemy of Islam.
That's what we're talking about here when we say the word Catholic
what's public about them what they release in public and what their
confidence that will allow them but that's what I think. And
that's what I've seen from the salah when Caitlyn says Is there
any truth to smelling the sweet scent out of nowhere? Meaning
something special Yeah, I've heard from the odd they say that they
smell a sweet scent. And that is something from the unseen type of
mocha Shiva and unveiling but of the olfactory senses
appeal Mohammed 22 has joined by the way after you got a package
yeah hmm And as your aid closes here Akio your Hnm packages here,
because I feel used to be one of the guys who lives in this data
center. And he still gets packages here so I guess that's maybe
that's his eat clothes?
Or maybe it's something else that he could wrap his man bun it
might show a lot of men Medwin.
Okay, what else we have here?
All right. Can Yep. Should we refrain from speaking ill of
politicians, politicians, if not necessary?
Should we refrain from speaking ill of politicians
you're allowed to speak about what they do that's harm harmful to the
community
you're allowed to do that.
If this if they're spreading harm, you're allowed to mention it. But
there comes a point where it's just negative energy is useless
talk. So it's not that they have some kind of sanctity to them, but
it's just useless after a while like we know that they're bad. We
know that they're it's it's trash, what they're doing. So there's
it's we're almost at a point of waste of time.
Sofie says
what about holding the must have during SATA we're here allowed to
recite from the south if you're alone.
or you're the Imam. But if the Imam is reciting, you're not
allowed to follow along,
you have because you have no need.
And we speak about issues about people within our family.
Again, it all goes back to the simple question of benefits and
harms all about benefits and harms. That if there's a benefit
in bringing up, let's say, someone in the family has a serious
problem, and we need to do an intervention, then if there's a
benefit there, but if it's just venting for the sake of it, and
then then No, it's about are you benefiting the person in that? Or
are you harming them? I close my eyes while praying. It helps me
focus feel good, is it okay? It's my crew. Why? Because we only pray
the way the messengers of Allah when he was sent and prayed. The
Prophet never prayed with his eyes closed. So it's mcru discouraged,
and Allah is not worship with the Magoo, we don't worship Allah
intentionally doing mukou your prayer will be valid, but it is
mcru The only time you're allowed to do that
is is when
there's something haram in front of you. So if you're praying in
public, I'm sure those Times Square it's not a we had to shut
their eyes a couple of times.
It's my Abdullah says, Why does the Quran speak about mankind and
jinn but not animals, because animals, they don't have a moral
conscience. They don't have morals, there's no morality tests
to them. There's no test of morality to animals. They're not
McAuliffe. They're just being as they are. And he had luck does
mention them.
Showing that there are qualities for example, you mentioned the
ENT. So it should trigger us or stir in Assam. curiosity about the
end. You mentioned the bees. So it should trigger some curiosity for
us on the value of bees. What's Why would Allah mentioned them
over other things? He mentioned the nap.
The mosquito? I mean,
that's the mosquito. You mentioned other things like that. And so
that's enough for us to go look at them but to speak at length on
them. There was no reason they're not. They're not responsible moral
creatures, the humans and the jinn are
alright,
does doing hedge forgive to Titi Ansari says all of our debts owed
to a love Miss fast prayers, etc. No, had forgives all sins, you
must believe that, contrary to the insane clip of someone who I
think, you know, I used to really listen to but he's gotten so off
the deep end, unfortunately, that you should not listen to him
anymore.
Now, if I say his name, everyone's gonna go listen to it, right? So
let me just keep it at that. But he says that hajj does not forgive
sins, and that this was just an omitted lie, so that political
assassins could feel not guilty about what they do. What an insane
theory. All right, what a ridiculous theory that he's
saying. The entire Ummah knows that heads forgives sins. What's
the point of doing it then? Just to get just what was the point,
Salah, forgives the sins between each prayer, the minor sins,
Ramadan forgives the minor sins and some of the major sins too. If
you make a sincere Toba right from year to year from the whole year
to the whole year, jump off from week to week.
And hajj for the lifetime. Right for tire lifetime. But no not
debts. So if you owe Salah you still ossola If you owe Zeca cm or
you owe people money, or you owe Kufa, you still owe those it does
not wipe away your debts.
Okay, there was a question from the freeze he says, Is it fine to
do excessive liquor? Where do we find the sweet spot you are that
there is no such thing as excessive vicar there is simply
something which is foregoing other responsibilities. For example, you
wouldn't be doing vicar to the point that you're abandoning your
kids and you're not teaching them that would we would consider that
it's the vicar is not excessive but your priorities are not right.
You wouldn't be doing a bad all the time and then leaving the
community and you're not supporting the community in any
way shape and form you can't meet deadweight you need to help out so
there's no excess and Dhikr there's there is no excess there
is simply not fulfilling your your other duties.
And that's where sometimes you would have to put your a Betta
down and go help out. And you should believe that that's greater
right. Allah's worship the way he wants to be worship, not the way
we want to worship. Oh Would love to sit all day and recite the
Quran right? And not worry about anything.
But no, there's there's there's Mashenka there's problems in the
society. There's probably
was in the community, there's people who need help. Right?
There's family that needs financial support. So there's all
these other responsibilities and you fit in, you're a badass in
that. So that's what you have to think about. Ryan, what do you
have? Two questions. Someone's asking if they don't have any
husana. Massage it around. And they have some young kids, how are
you going to get them close to where you're scared bringing them
to the masjid is going to feed them, either. There are some towns
according to this brother, that he's saying basically, that
there's no Ellison. In the town. There's like one or two masajid.
And they're not upon Edison, what do we do?
And I don't want to mix with those people. He's saying, well move.
Out of the law, he was out for 200 Eurovia.
What's more important your job that you have now or your kids
that you're so worried about the dean?
Well, let's say he retorts, it says, shit, my parents are here, I
take care of them, take them with you. They refuse. If they refuse,
then you can move a little bit and go back and forth. If they're if
they're independent, they're telling you they're independent.
But Allah says right about the parents that it is almost there,
right? If they want to come in and move in with their kid, because
they're old, he's responsible to do that. If they want to be
independent, he's independent. He can be independent, all that if
they want to be independent, but I would say start thinking about
moving. I don't see how anyone could live in this world. Without
a community, you're going to be eaten up.
Right? So I thought we'll just surround you and eat you up. Gotta
have a community. Okay.
In the meantime, you can go and be part of their maybe their social
events, maybe. But then if their people have maybe that you don't
trust in their Deen, you don't want to even be friends with them,
then you're I really think you should move. But of course, people
moving it's a very, very complicated and difficult and
there's so many factors. I understand that. But
why not think about it.
This one says, or RVD one says what's the best way to focus on
Salah is to think about the greatness of the one before for
whom you stand.
That's the best one. Think about the generosity be giving
power of the one before whom you're standing. Right.
How do you tell elders to stop gossiping without being
disrespectful? How do you tell elders to stop gossiping without
being disrespectful senate members early he says we don't give commit
we don't command right and forbid wrong to our elders. So you just
walk away you try to get out of it in some way, shape and form
without making them feel that you're forbidding them from rock
kaitland says what's the significance of repeating things
40 times with 313 times? Well, if it's from the prophets of Allah,
when he was setting them, remember had dead says when the Prophet
says 100 It's it means 100 around number. But if he says a specific
odd number like 3333 33, then stick to the number. There's some
secret to it that we don't know in the same way that there's
milligrams when you take medicine, you're supposed to take only this
amount of milligrams, right? Only this amount, two pills, not three
500 milligrams, not 600.
Right. So you have to respect that now when a chef says that it's an
itch to head from himself based upon some
reason that he come up with that number. And it's not the same as
if the prophet said something along when he was
colored white says Kyla White says Can I please know who we should
not listen to so that I'm sure I'm not listened to that person
please?
To be honest with you, fellas, I will fall I think he's gone off
the deep end.
No offense, but I liked I liked the personality of the men. I
really liked them in but his saying that hedge is not does not
forgive all sins. I'm sorry. That's that's just gone too far.
Right? That hedge is something that does not forgive all sins,
every Muslim that there's inch mat upon this probably huge amount of
cross Sunnis and Shiites upon this right.
Probably have run Sunnis and Shia Islam coverage. And if all these
who are branch of Hermitage
and probably the modernists too, right? I mean, there's definitely
a huge amount upon there's a hadith upon this. He can't tell me
that Bukhari and Muslim and all these people were just dominated
by the authoritative figures, then why would why wouldn't we say
that? Because that's his theory that all the early scholars of
Hadith were dominated by the Omega will the will of the Omega
caliphate, or the Omega monarchy, to invent such Hadees Well, then
why don't we say that your analysis is also
bending to the dominant culture. So yeah, we don't have a dominant
dictator, for example today. But Western culture is dominant, the
culture is dominating, right? Liberal culture is dominating over
this. So why don't we blame your ideas on that, and say your ideas
are also just a reflection that you're dominated by a greater
culture.
It's an insane theory, it doesn't even need a discussion. But that's
what I'm bringing up here because it is out in public.
I really do like the personality of the man to be honest with you.
He loved the dean, he talks so much about the dean, but this is
not acceptable. Right? This kind of statement, I'm sorry to say
that.
Right. And it's that they made up heartbeats about forgiveness of
sins, all the Hadith about forgiveness of sins, was made up,
were made up so that the Omega IDs could tell political assassins go
kill so and so go do so and so and your sins will be forgiven?
How many people how many centers in the world are political
assassins? Right. Give me 1000 centers, you won't find a single
political assassin. Alright, this, what percentage of the population
has political assassins?
Most centers or centers, regular centers like regular people like
us, right. And these Heidi's came for our mercy from forgiveness,
right. Not for political assassination. I mean, it's a far
off theory.
Again, you know, I wish him all the best, but that theory is not
it's not right. And I have respect for the elders. He's he's an older
Muslim. He lived in New Jersey at some period of time. Good. Even
used to come to mbsc. Before I was got there, right, when it was
still a little
storefront on Remsen Avenue. And
I have a lot of respect, sometimes for his political views, too. I
agree with his political views. On the Emirates, for example. I'm in
total agreement with him on the Emirates.
Okay.
But on something like this, I have to say the answer is no.
What advice would you give a brother who is scared to pray for
goodness because he read that when God wants good for someone he buys
them? The brother is scared of the pain and difficulty.
Well, there's a lot of other wonderful benefits to being a
person of Taqwa Anguilla, such as your DUA is answered, right? Your
dua is answered, and you should have hosted abundant Allah. When
Allah tests somebody, he tests them with what will benefit him
with something that will benefit him and Allah can make the tests
easy. It's just because it's a test does not mean it's going to
be painful, maybe partially painful. But there are some ways
in which way a child hasn't either shake the silence Allah, Allah to
Allah makes hardship easy. And all that hardship is something that
you need to go through in order for you to benefit in order for
you to rise up and for your prayers to be accepted for your
dreams to come true. For your dreams to come true things have to
happen. Some of these things are too difficult if your Eman
increases, you can handle it. So it's for your benefit. And as part
of your increase.
Okay, part of your benefit is part of your increase and it doesn't
have to be very painful.
I'm sorry, Ryan, could you hit this button? I don't know what is
going on with the Instagram today. We limit how often you can use
Instagram. Oh, I know. I know why. Because I posted Israel stuff.
That's why okay, because I posted Israel stuff. That's why they're
causing trouble. They're gonna keep doing this.
We're gonna probably have to close off Instagram soon. Because I
posted something about Israel. That's what IDF
do we need to make intention before each call that prayer?
Yes, you need to cut in that prayer has to be done with an
intention.
All right, one more question from Ryan. All right. It's from my dear
brother. I'm
asking if we're not allowed to give advice to elders. What about
the story of Ibrahim and his father? Well, yeah, he that was
number one. But look at the adab that he had and telling that
story. You It's not that you're not allowed. Right. He's calling
him to Islam. That's different from forbidding wrong commanding
right and forbidding wrong, but look at if you're going to do what
you're going to do with that. That great sensitivity.
Okay, one more question I'm going to take from Shahida before I
close down on Instagram because because I posted something about
the IDF does the women's fit class by SR had to have one fixed
schedule I checked, if it clashes with my other courses if I want to
join, are there any accommodations or is it always Sunday 9am Well,
all the classes are recorded and you will have access to talk to
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on WhatsApp to ask her questions and know her or class usually
does, you know slightly changed from semester to semester.
Feel a little sort of lost I sent him a specific draft for us if we
asked him to his sending said about the best way to request for
him to make to offer us
and if the ultimate say that the answer is yes, such as Chef
Abdulaziz or even his father he narrated stories about his father
and his co author, with the messengers of Allah who it was
suddenly him that but and ultimately Allah knows best but if
you want to convey a message to the messenger, salallahu alayhi wa
salam, that is a dua O Allah convey this message to the
messenger. So if you're making a dua to Allah for that, and why
because we had the Sahaba one time say, oh, Allah conveyed to the
messenger my Salaam.
And in saying that God did convey, Salam to the messenger, so
there is room for that.
Okay, so we have to close unfortunately, because Instagram
is going to probably give us a headache for the next few days
just because, you know, Mark Zuckerberg, he's got to protect
his people, essentially. And I check out the picture that I put
though, that is an old Arab men sitting like a king, with no
concern in the world with the IDF walking with their guns right
in front of him.
All right, Ryan, you have any questions?
Any final things?
menzi asked me to address your question, which I'll do that in a
second. Let me go find her question. menzi menzi 20 Let me go
back
Murad. How's it going?
Good. Good. What's happening?
Almost
Subhanallah last last 10 days. This starts this Thursday night.
Hey menzi Could you put your question in? I don't see it. Could
you just copy and paste it?
Or type it in again?
Yeah, menzi I need you to put your question in again Mende 20.
will just wait for that run. In the meantime, Ryan, do you have
any questions? I will ask one can we make multiple Nia multiple
intentions when praying Chataway for instance adding salt cola. Now
tarawih is an aphylla and the only intention for that is nothing you
cannot intend to pray for Oracle about Antara we had the same time.
So you can intend like,
for example is Takara. In it, you can attend sunnah,
things that are so nice such as Takata. Or that it's a it's an
msgid. But you cannot intend it to be a five door or?
Alright, menzi 20. I'm going to give you
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