Shadee Elmasry – NBF 32 How to Attain Sakeena
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really special topic. All right, we got the topic of Sakina, which
we're going to talk about Sakina is important. Okay, you cannot
imagine how important it is.
This topic of stickiness, so it's a little bit crooked. Yeah.
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All right. So
by the way to start off as like a disk, not a disclaimer, but just
as technically a correction, the Hadith of the prophets of Allah
when he was setting with the sahabi, whose nickname was an EMR
was the correct actual wording with this hobby says May Allah
curse you. And apparently I slipped up on and I said make sure
it's on Chris you because actually confuse two narrations in my mind.
One of them the promises I sent him said, Don't help his shaytaan
against him. Okay, so I was about to say that then, so I was my, my
I slipped up. Anyway, that's not the words of the Prophet either
way. That was the words of the hobby. And it was something that
the Prophet corrected. And then
I just paraphrase the Hadith, you're allowed to paraphrase
ahaadeeth. Right. So so nobody should flip out. And if you're
gonna flip out on this, this guy flipped out so badly and Jahangir
you're not going to believe what he said to God. John here John
said, excuse me to tone it down a little bit because your page
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applauded for that. But you say said the worst thing to Jehan
after that. He said, You know, I'm gonna leave this. I don't know
what he said. But I prefer to spend more time with your own
meat. I mean, what the heck? How do you go correcting a hadith and
say something like that to somebody I that degree of mixup? I
don't understand. Right? I can understand. Okay, you got upset?
Fine. All right. But how could you say something like that somebody I
just don't get this new generation, the old generation of
this stuff. Today we're talking about a Sakina. And first of all,
we got about seven things to talk about on Sakina Sakina did we even
begin with so on the Prophet because people don't know all the
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ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada through His Messengers has really blessed us
with the ability to inject take in for ourselves an ingredient that
is going to transform our lives. This was my talk in Michigan. And
I'm going to say it again, that's how important it is an ingredient
that's going to completely transform ourselves and our lives
if we take if we intake and this ingredient is an unseen
ingredient. But in the same way that if you turn on a microwave
and the food gets hot, then what do you have, you know that there's
something going on, if you turn on a radio and put an antenna and the
feed comes out of the radio or the voice comes out of the radio, you
know that something's connected to that antenna right or wrong.
If rays of the sun are coming on you and you feel really hot, then
you know that something is coming on you even though you don't see
it. So likewise, when we do a bad and when we do a lot of victory
love and when we calm ourselves down, and we remember Allah
subhanaw taala then a great amount of tranquility comes upon us.
There's no denying this at all. Nobody can deny this. And
sometimes if we don't experience that it's because of sins that are
that are on the heart and you need to scrap away scratches, scratches
that
you keep scrubbing away at those sins. Like you're scrubbing on a
mirror and then the new reflects off of that off of that mirror and
you feel it
and you even feel it on your physical body as the Quran is
going to tell us right now. What is happening is the substance is
being poured upon a person and that is stickiness. Sakina is a
substance it is an unseen substance and it will transform
you
No, this substance cannot come. And there can't, there cannot
possibly be anything bad mingled with that substance. Once it
comes, it washes away all bad feelings inside dark. Whether you
have problems, whether you have anxiety, Sakina will wash it all
away. Now, some people said, well, that's not going to solve my
problem, yeah, but it's going to put you in a mindset, and a mood
that is powerful, and creative, and think outside the box, and
you'll be able to solve your problems. That's the value of the
16. You can't solve your problems. You're all nervous and upset and
negative, right. But once again, it comes down upon you, you've
transformed your way of thinking, Now, you may be able to receive
inspiration, you may be able to receive an idea that can help
solve your problem. And sometimes, especially when it relates to
people, you have this anxiety inside, you're an anger towards
people, when the Sakina goes, all the anger goes away. And all you
have is love for people and forgiveness. And you have a very
open spirit, like a like, like a really beautiful spirit about you
that you just want to forgive everybody, let's let's let's just
move on completely. Let's just forget about it. And a lot of
times people when they have issues with others, they want everything
to be fixed. Every 510 points, they want redress. But when this
Sakina enters your heart, you're like what, like, what is the point
of this? Is there really a value to this, let's just erase the
whole thing and move on. Start from fresh, okay? And that's what
the prophets I send them used to do when he was upset with
somebody. He would he would get upset with people and say that he
even says that some one time she did something that upset the
Prophet peace be upon him. She did something because it did dangered
hurt. See, even the upsetness of the messenger is not for himself.
The province I sent him said stay here she in the prophets, I send
them went out.
And he spent a long time making dua at nighttime at the graveyard.
Seda is worried for him. So she went out and she fell asleep on
the road. And when the problem came back and the problem was
upset for her because if you sleep on the road, you can get hit by a
scorpion and dog can attack you a man or horse maybe walk in and
come upon you. So he became upset with her for her safety.
And then as she tells the story, then the prophets I said that he
never brought it up again. That was what she said he didn't bring
it up and Okay, now we need redress for this. No. So just wipe
these things away. If you look in the Quran, Sakina is mentioned six
times. And Allah two out of five times he says ends ends at Allah
Who Seki Neto that Allah brings his Sakina doubt that's the key
know what is it Sakina is either it's a creation on its own it's a
substance on its own or Sakina is actually the result of not being
descended. Okay light being descended down upon somebody and
that light may be a separate light or it may be the descent of angels
the effect of angels so when the angels come down we know the
prophesy send them said that when there's a gathering of thicker the
angels and shroud them with their wings, okay the in Shroud them
with their wings, but when this happens, it's the angels
themselves love Victrola. So they themselves are enjoying the
declutter, and they're getting what is the food of the angels?
Is that so? Could it be that the angels by attending the gathering
of liquor themselves are being nourished? It would make sense
because if their food is thicker, why are they in shrouding them
they're in shrouding them, to give them Sakina maybe also to absorb
from their thick right and so when the angels and shroud the
gathering of they could or the single individual making vicar
that the maybe it is that the angel himself is being nourished,
and also he's giving sticking upon the individual himself. Good. And
one of the Sakina comes down. It comes down on your whole body or
lady and zealous Sakina feel global movie Nina, Leah's dead,
inanimate human in that
it increases their image, the stickiness and on top of this, he
says
tuck shy Roman would you lose? Adina? Yeah, Shona a bone so much
Alina julu What? Kulu boom, Illa decorilla. Okay, so the first
location of the Sakina when it comes down, it's literally coming
down from the heavens and it comes all over you. And that's why Allah
subhanaw taala. So the first thing that is affected when Sakina comes
out is your skin, because it touches you first, and then it
goes into your heart. And when it goes into your heart, then your
heart softens to the liquid. What does that mean to lean julu makuu
boom Illa decorilla that means their body is able to now sit for
a long period of time. It means that their heart is not finding
any difficulty. Now I guarantee you if you come home from work,
and all you have the dunya is on your mind all day. Dunya is not
always a bad thing. By the way. It's just necessary thing
sometimes it just means like my bills accounts, if you whatever my
work my job. So when we say that it's distracting your mind and you
sit down for the remnants of Allah, you're gonna have
difficulty. You're gonna find some rust there, right? You're gonna
find it's not exactly easy to remember
lot of data and shift from the from work from dunya to
remembrance of Allah. But after a while, once the stickiness starts
coming down and it penetrates through the LaFollette of the
heart, which the halal raw palate is like a cloud
and the sinfulness is like a rust. So the cloud, you just have to
push it aside. But the rust you have to scrub it out. Okay? Once
that Sakina enters the heart now, this is what the ultimate goal
alpha. Alpha has now that you can you find ease doing that. And
that's what allows us to lean module kullu julu makuu Illa
decorilla. That Nica hood, Allah, this is the divine guidance,
right? This is how Allah guides people that their heart finds it's
so easy to continue with this. Okay, so easiest thing, and that's
why short spurts of thicker are not as beneficial as a long
session of the can. Because in a long session, you're you can you
go deep into it, and the Sakina penetrates you deeply. And so your
experience is going to doing let's say two hours, is going to be much
deeper and stronger and memorable. Then if you did 20 minutes, 20
minutes, 20 minutes, 20 minutes, 20 minutes, and interrupted by by
matters of dunya and LaFollette. Okay, so that's how Sakina enters
down inside of our hearts. Now, what are the benefits of Sakina
most important is the benefits. Number one, it cures illnesses.
Quran is a cure for illness
Sakina itself cures mental illnesses, it cures physical
illnesses. And there was a psychiatrist in Saudi, who he had
done a favor for some from one of the Royal Guards of the king. So
the king became very happy. He said, sponsored him, let him go
and do his psychiatry, and have an office blah, blah, blah. He went
and he ended up doing Quranic psychiatry, on people, or Khurana
killing, I should say, the rakia and he had his own method, and his
entire method is ingredient was Sakina. How does he bring about
the Sakina on these people who maybe they're not fit to do the
remembrance of Allah, he said, you put the Quran on headphones, on
headphones, and you play it for 15 minutes while looking at the name
of Allah. Because we know that looking at the must have
is a bad prophesy. Sam said that, if looking at the Messiah is a
better than clearly and naturally, then the name of Allah is also a
bed. So that's why we put the name of Allah places after buttermilk
with the name of ALLAH. So he put the name of Allah on a card and he
said, you look at that it says Allah Muhammad on a card, like the
ring of the Prophet, Allah Muhammad. So we put that on on a
card and listened to the Quran for 15 minutes and just look at the
cart. That's it, you're bringing this note in and down upon you.
And you do nothing, you're literally just sitting there,
right? And then do that again in the middle of the day. And do that
again, at the end of the day for 40 days straight. Now he's dealing
with people who are sick days, some of these people, they don't
pray, some of these people got fit to pray, whatever the situation
is. And then he gets regular psychiatrist to come and examine
them before and after. And then he published all of these results in
a book where secular psychiatrists actually
changed
some cases letting them home, sending them home, just from
Sakina Sakina is it is the ingredient that cures so that's
the first thing is that it cures. The second thing that it does, is
it's a source of victory.
If you're
in a struggle with somebody Sakina is a source of victory. What's the
proof of that? Right? That Allah subhana wa Tada talks about? The
taboo, it's fi Sakina get inside of it is a Sakina and that taboos
is a source of victory. Right for the for the believers. All right,
when Zella Jerusalem, Tarawa, and he also sends out soldiers with
it. So the source of victory for the bene of Surah Eid was the
taboos why because it has a keen and what's what's in it. Buffy
attune min Metallica, Allah Musa will add her own at Milan Mala.
Angels are carrying this taboo. It's a box who knows how big it
was, but it has the remnants of Musa and Haroon and their families
like what it had whatever tablets that were revealed to sit and like
the Roman remnants of those tablets that he had smashed
against the walls against the mountain, and it has his staff,
the staff of Satan and Musa and it had in it the garments of heroin
and Musa and their families. Why? Because the Sakina that came down
upon a prophet when he's speaking to Allah is not like other Sakina
like that is the most intensive unit. So that that that itself now
Musa is gone but his closes there his
staff that staff is something special this is to buttermilk.
So also on top of that, we have saved the use of, for example,
that he must have done some great a bed in his shirt that he
believed and knew it profits don't act by speculation. He knew that
it had a baraka to it. The Sakina comes down like this. So he took
and it comes on everything.
So he took his shirt and he said, Give this to my father rub it on
his eyes, good paraphrasing, and he rubbed it on his eyes, say the
apple, and he was healed from blindness. So Sakina is a large
okay when Zulu Mila Quran, Emma who is Shiva, we bring down from
the Quran, what is a Shiva, which from the meanings of this is that
the recitation brings us Akina which is the Shiva. Okay, because
if you take the verses of Quran, and you were to do this, you're
not gonna get Shiva. It's the recitation. And it's the Sakina
that comes down with the recitation. That's the source of
Shiva. That's how it works. She fat means a cure.
So Hina has in it
a mood lifting Sakina has in total, the shaytaan Sakina brings
with it the hub
the hub of the era of the dunya distractions and the temptations
of their dunya go away. When Sakina comes down, can you imagine
doing like a laser cutter? And then as soon as you walk out,
somebody comes up to you with worldly news. Like it's not
something that matches with the experience that we're having right
now. Right? It contradicts that so you don't want that. So so the
nature of Sakina is that actually repels dunya. We
thinks it repels it.
It has in it. It's a breed the shower to make it cools down the
desires of a person. If a person's desires or satellites are in
flames, if he was to sit with a vicar of Salah and the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his words would decrease right it
would cool down okay, it is Jenna and oh hub you pushes away oh ham,
what is it? What is it? Well, it's a false idea.
A worm is a false idea. So in Sakina once again, it comes down
feed gelatin, it pushes away wins and false ideas, ideas that just
aren't true. So that you see the truth as truth and you want to
follow it and you see false that is false and you're disgusted by
it and you you push it away. Okay, it works again is McCosh refer to
with a with a rassada prophets lie Selim said in a tafsir of love and
will Butcher of inherited dunya that is a ruya sila habitat de la
Raju, Asana, a righteous man he receives a righteous dream. So
these are all the impacts and the effects of Sakina now what about
an AMA and Mujibur? Nina zoo to Sikkim? What about
actions that bring about the coming down of Sakina the number
one action that has no discussion on it is the could Allah
but it must be done in large amounts. All right, how do I get a
large muscle by exercising that muscle? So if I just Okay, let's
exercise the muscle one lift a day.
Not gonna do it's not gonna do anything for you. It's completely
useless. Right? All right, studying all study for 15 minutes
a day, useless. Certain things need a lot. Certain things don't
need a lot. For example, fasting does not need a lot. And prophets
I send them a Yemen model that and the prophets I send them said
Whoever fasts Yanni his month, and there's many Hadees in which it's
just just if you just do your photo then maybe some Santa Monica
class is good to go Hajj, something once in a lifetime or
once every five years, something like this, right? The five years
has been mentioned in a thought and a hadith
that you don't need a lot of hedge, but Vickery Allah in the
Quran always comes with the kufra next to it was good Allah the
Quran cathedra Cain was dedicated on Earth Kurapika theory. How
about saving the winner 15 It said about lay of Quran Allah Allah
galena. And Allah blames the hypocrites by they don't remember
Allah except very little. So it didn't cure them of their
hypocrisy, right? So so it's the way of hypocrites, and so there
must be much.
It has to be a lot in order for it to have an impact. Now, let's say
I can't do that. Could I do 10 minutes I got exhausted. Fair
enough. Because there are some people physically that have that
we can understand that physically. Right. You can understand that a
guy jogs. He never jogged before he's jog for five minutes. He
can't do anymore, right? There are people who are like that. Okay, so
the best thing for them and it's to be a Calvin winnower which is
to unify and to meet and to be in the companionship of somebody who
does a lot of the work
why their light will come on to you. What's the proof of that in
the Quran for McKenna Matan? Who is better one who was dead for a
year you know, we gave him life which I didn't know neuron and we
gave him a light meaning Eman europeen, Sakina emca fineness, he
walks in it, he walks with that note into the people. That means,
literally by keeping the company of someone whose heart is filled
with Sakina, nor you will receive that subpoena and nor just by
being in the same presence of them. All right now, if somebody
comes in the room, from a worldly sense, because there's there are
worldly things, and there are other unseen things. Second is an
unseen thing. There are worldly things that it's, I should say,
it's a heavenly thing. Okay? There are worldly things that we can
understand this with. If somebody comes in and is extremely
agitated. Doesn't that affect our whole mood? Like we're four guys
here in the studio? If someone comes in here really happy?
Wouldn't we? You start getting optimistic about life, right? If
someone comes in here really depressed without saying a word.
What did you also get? Right, get that so a samba. It has devalue
that literally what's as if what's in his art is coming out,
pulsating out, and you're receiving it. Like if I work with
perfume all day, and I smell really nice. Yeah. And you know,
I'm spending time with other people. They're gonna smell that's
exactly what the website says. The perfumer you spend all day in the
perfume shop, you're naturally going to be trying stuff on,
right? It's, it's going to come on you the sense is going to come on
you and then you walk into another room. Everyone smells your
perfume, the exact opposite being the one who works with like, a
blacksmith, right? And there's ashes everywhere or a mechanic
Aren't you gonna go home smelling like gas, right? So you're gonna
start smelling like, you know, oils, grease, gas, all that stuff.
Someone goes home and this happens in many Muslim homes. It's not
good, by the way. Because the Prophet did not like bad smells
and domestic if you cook in the house, like your jacket is there
your clothes is there you have to open windows, or you have to put
some food afterwards because we smell that in the masjid. You come
in the masjid for Aisha evident, and we smell the cooking. Like off
your jacket. You don't smell it because you're in the house, but
we smell it and it's it's an offensive smell. The Prophet did
not want the negative association, the offensive smell in the house
in the masjid because it's a negative association. Next,
from the sources and the ways of having Sakina come down. It is a
plus year.
Because you okay, because the Quran tells us Russia is a source
of Sakina. Akasha is in awe of Allah, you're standing in front of
the king and the creator. So you have to have all and all that
fascia is a combination of love. It's a combination of fear. And
it's a combination of desire, you have desire for what he has you
fear for his for, for falling out of his favor. And you're in awe of
the beauty of His creation
and his power. So that's combined all that is what we call Kusha.
All right, having kushy of Allah is One, it's a state of the art.
It's not a word that you say. It's a state, you can remind yourself
by remembering all his powers, remembering his beauty of His
creation, remembering his thought his willingness to give the amount
that he has to give, and also remembering that it's not just a
one way street, if we fall on the opposite side of things, the
punishment is very vicious. You don't want it. So that's all of
the the Ahmed and Mujibur this Sakina. What about
news, Ellicott Missoula Sakina, the times in which Sakina is
stronger than other times Sakina can come down at anytime. Anytime
that you sit and recite yourself a joke or two of Quran, you're going
to you have to feel this, or else there are sins in the heart or if
there's a God, there was a ship actually, I think it was shut up
that I managed to Hootie. And he had a man in the hallway.
In the huddle, well, it's it's an intensive that that they do. It's
like a rent they have like a room or an apartment and the person
sits there and they just do the cut for like two days, or three
days or four days, whatever it is. And the shift goes in. And he
speaks to them. And he and he advises him and he looks at his
states examines his state.
And this man, he was doing all this digital, but he was not
getting any effect.
And the ship could see that there was no effect on this person. So
we asked him
and he finally came to the conclusion is about his beliefs.
He finally found a problem and that this man, he had something to
get in his heart against a debate. Like he was like, Well, why would
it be why are they so special? Right? Well, why is human beings
special? Right? Why was Adam special? Why did Allah elevate
Adam, do you think there is no, nothing that Adam said not at
least had done at that time? Right?
Allah Tada elevated Adam because of his knowledge that his
offspring, okay would in fact be believers and mbf okay and
righteous people. So Iblees had a problem with that. So this man, he
had a little bit of that disease. He didn't like this idea that
elevates our favorite just by their birth. Now Elevate, they're
not allowed to do injustice, their sins also count double against
them. As the Quran tells the wives of the Prophet if you do good
double the reward if you do sins double the punishment, right? So
it's a two way street for added bait. So it is fair. Okay. So, but
secondly, Allah favors whom He wills and you submit to whom he
favors you never had a problem when he favorite the human over
the jinn.
The human over the dock, the human over the moment, human over the
angel, Angel serve us, we don't serve angels, right? So he fixed
that up.
Once he fixed that up EDA, all of a sudden the unwashed of the
decoder were flowing beautifully in his heart. It's as if there was
a lock that was not done right. Okay, that was locked in close. So
the unwashed were not coming into his heart. So correction of RP
that is before all of this. Okay. And then removal of sins, of
course. So, the Oh God, the times is anytime, number one. But the
greatest time that Sakina comes down is the last third of the day.
And then on top of those last third of the nights, it's the
night between Thursday and Friday.
After that is the first of origin because there are some thought and
a hadith on the first of
the night before the first image. And then there is the
nights before the two eights. And then there is the night of Mr.
Shaban which is March 17. And then there is the greatest is Laylat.
In terms of the day times, it is the hour before method on Friday,
every Friday, that period of time before method, it is a blessed
time, Wednesday between Dawn and Oscar is a blessed time. And the
most blessed of all days are the nine days of the ledger. And the
greatest of all days is your modified that is the greatest it
is the latest of cousin of the daytime. So little cousin of
Ramadan is at night. And the version of that if the daytime is
the Yom out of which is the day in which all pilgrims in the Hajaj
are there at out of
seeking forgiveness for the sins and we here are fasting that we
fast to modify as one of the greatest Sunon of fasting. All
right, so this is the idea and the concept that Sakina is a
substance. And it's something we have access to at all times. And
it's a healing for our mental states or emotional states, but it
cannot be accessed. If there are a lot of sins, you're gonna have to
fight through them. And if there's a false, you know, concept in a
conception in our Arcada, then that Sakina will not shine through
that noodle, it'll just, it'll be locked. It's like a wall. It's no
different than a wall, I can have the biggest light in the world.
And it's not going to penetrate through the wall between me and my
neighbor.
Simple as that. All right, that's uh, let's stop here. And let's
take a look at what we got going on. Today's topic is the Sakina.
And we talked about a lot of things regarding Sakina. We talked
about the nature of Sakina how it comes down, how it's something
that physically comes down through your clothes through your skin
through your heart, or into your heart and the effects of Sakina
and then the AMA the deeds that bring a subpoena and the times
that bring us Sakina Fatuma. jpg says, Can you please repeat those
times for the evenings for the in the 24 hour cycle. It's the last
third of the night is the greatest time for Sakina to come down.
In the weekly it's the night between Thursday and Friday, which
we call a little drama The night between Thursday and Friday.
In the daytimes, Wednesday between Dr. Nasir
Friday, the greatest of the weekly is Friday between all sort of
Muslim
in terms of annually in the year, it's the night before the first of
the night before the two aids the night before the 15th of Shaban
and labors of Qatar,
later to Qatar, okay, which is hidden
and the from the daytime, annually, it's your modify your
modify is the ninth of the ledger. And then of course, Eid is the
next day 10th of their hedge. And that way you never feel like
you're missing anything if you miss one day, then you know your
weekly cycle say there's something always to look forward to exactly
there's there's so there's always something in your weekly cycle. So
Wednesday is in the middle, right? And then you have Thursday night
and Friday. And then even if when you pass that into sunset
Saturday, Sunday Monday you have the last word of the night. Right?
We should always be profiting in our deen and in our dunya because
when you're when you're going to the king, you're going to ask for
both right you're gonna ask for your deen May Allah bless our deen
and keep us on is to karma until the day we meet Allah to Allah
without ever having fallen to false a bit out of our Theta movie
clouds major sins or misguided FIP like misguided decisions that
let's say it's not Aki, the mistake I didn't deviate from the
Sunnah. But I had a judgment call and I chose a terribly misguided I
made a terribly misguided decision. It's why Allah said the
prophesy isms Aloma Alemany Rushdie inspire me, to my
guidance, right. Rushed what is correct? There's a lot of times a
scholar in the past, they've criticized other scholars not on
the fact that he left the Sunnah
is that he had a fatwah or a ruling or a decision with a
politician with a ruler, a decision in the world. That was a
misguided decision. Right. So
cozy, Chloe says, Did the prophets I send them also gathered with his
companions to do with vicar for a few days in seclusion, besides in
anti KEF.
So, did the prophet ever have a time where he well remember the
prophet is at war, right. So we would say that in Mecca they used
to do a bad Inderal article that was the private lead in the
outcome. In Medina, it was during the anti KEF and were there ever a
time where he was in seclusion Abu Bakr De La Hoya and on the way to
hit on the way to the higit of
openings at that time I have the video yet I
play it
Brian is gonna play a video for us your your mother you want to just
I was just thinking
every single time that companions are with the Prophet saw some
isn't that they could have Allah.
By the way, if you're with the Prophet, you don't go in
seclusion. You stay with the Prophet peace be upon so that's
good observation. All right, let's hear
it Tony Soto who FATCA doesn't Asada
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was a beautiful recitation, the what Ryan just played, you can
catch it on the YouTube stream was the a of Sakina. And how that a
that verse of Sakina was a source of victory for Alana as messenger
for the messenger slice sediment specifically with Satan that will
buck and at the Battle of better. So what you were saying about
saying Abacha, the prophets, I send them for sure. What was
transmitted to say Neville Bucha was something so special and so
cos and the buckets and that Fuchu had that Allah has bestowed upon
Saint Abu Bakr in that era, it must be something that can be
described. And there's other examples or the
like, what he told the Buddha or the Allahu Anhu where he mentions
it's a Muslim. Allah has given me two vessels Travato and one that
I've shared with you and the other if you knew my throat, yeah,
meaning that you know, this is private information that the
Prophet drops and I'm sure and same with how they thought of the
law and the Secret Keeper of the Prophet. Yes. So there are other
examples in terms of secrets between the Providence and Sahaba
that he says that they favor the A man was a secret keeper. So the
prophesied said and told him a certain of knowledge they didn't
tell others saying that Abu Huraira the allow China that the
Prophet told him, he gave him two vessels, one that I give to
everybody one if I give it you cut my throat, which means that it's
it's private between him and and the province I sent him was
something that would not be shared to everybody else. So those are
examples of that.
Let's take some other questions. Rama Sinha, says this vicar is a
very broad term. Is there a Preferred vicar of the province I
send them like how you mentioned preferred times the day
are various of God that have various effects according to the
Allama number one, and according to the hadith of course, the
recitation of the Quran solidifies the person's Iman and puts a
barrier between them and hypocrites and disbelievers.
Right?
This is in the Quran itself. Okay. Secondly, the prophets I send them
said that salah upon him removes anxieties, and sadnesses meaning
anxieties about the present grief about the past. Right? So anxiety
is always about the future actually. And grief is about the
past. So different earth god have different
results, has won alone amateur rookie is a victim that's to be
done and when you have an enemy,
law, electronic any consumer of value mean is when you have a
grief are a misery that comes upon you. And you have to do this all
day. Okay.
La ilaha illallah is when you have doubts in which to us.
Masha Allah is when you want a lot to open the risk for you. And of
course, all of the 99 names. So if you're feeling for example you
need or you wish that Allah would be generous to you call Yeah,
Cody, Cody, Cody.
Alright, if you wish that Allah to not punish you because of
something terrible that you did you have a four Yeah, Helene. So
you have to read the 99 names and call upon them, the one that is
appropriate to your situation right now. And this is why the
word Latif and the roster were so listen to right because they then
had that combined all of the morning as part of the Profit
System. And so you want a multivitamin? Right. So let's say
I'm a regular guy, I don't know all this just give me something
that I could do every single day that will protect me that will
give you ease my risk that will forgive my sins that will guide me
to the right path. So Satan Imam had dead he gathered from the
Sunnah and what is the Latif one erotica here
and what is the Latif the gentle daily remembrance of Russia here,
the route the daily
but rather being something you always do and Shaheed is famous
based on the most famous of God. And so you can get those two on
Safina cited.org, backslash witted Ryan, if you could punch that in
there for us, please. Safina sided.org backslash lowercase
would so when you go into these, you recite one one of them every
morning and one of them every evening if you whether you swap it
or not. Doesn't matter. Usually people recite it what is it Latif
in the morning and overachiever Shaheed at night. You can just
play it in your car on your commute, or you can play it in the
car. Yeah, we have it on mp3 video, and PDF download on that
page. So Ryan, what do you have any questions so far? I have
another question here.
How does one manage fear of Allah born out of guilt, especially not
knowing what kind of standard you have in front of them? This is a
good question. This person says how do I manage my fear of Allah
based on guilt? I'm so I feel so guilty. Right for my sins, I'm so
afraid. The thing is this, you are not dealing with one that you
cannot communicate with. This is not a human being who's angry at
you who's out to get you. This is not a disease that you can't talk
to you when you can't find it in your body and you're afraid of
when you deal with Allah, you are dealing with one who has given you
exactly if you do this, you will get this result from me. And
that's the difference between Allah, the Creator and the
creation, the creation is weak, and hence whimsical and
unpredictable. You can't predict human beings, and they're
whimsical. So I can might have a guy who says listen, I listen to
all those debts you owe me, you know, $5,000 Forget about then
that the guy comes home at night.
And he gets and he realizes he gets a bill for 3000 He calls you
backups and you know what? Maybe not forget about all of it. Give
me at least 4000 Right? Humans are whimsical. Okay, but Allah subhana
wa Giada is he's made predictable formulas. If you do this, you will
get this result. So you should not have anxiety when dealing with
Allah subhanaw taala because he's given you an way out of this. If
you have angered Allah, then your solution is to far, much much is
too far and Toba and you will find the result that Allah promises in
the Quran. So the Quran is a book filled of promises. So go into the
Quran and it's not you're not dealing with someone difficult.
You're not dealing with someone who has anything to gain or lose
by this. So a list of a list of forests so far it will come this
down and you will continue with this is to farming repentance
saying stuff that Allah make we do pray give sadaqa sadaqa puts out
the anger of Allah.
If you feel you've angered Allah with something gifts that
make you suffer if you don't have money to give sadaqa smile at
people. The smile is the replacement. It's the setup of the
port. The smile is the setup of the port because he doesn't have
money to give out. So go around being nice to people, right
smiling at people, helping people, et cetera, et cetera.
Alright, let's take this question here that says
Yeah, who's who's going crazy answers?
Who is the bounty hunter? The Bounty Hunter. Yo, I want to talk
to him. Guys. We live in this house, right? The previous owner
must have done something wrong. Right? And there's a bounty hunter
coming.
Bring him up. Let's let's put them on the live stream. He comes and
he talks a tough game. But like we're totally like having nothing.
Right. It was saying that like he was taking notes. Yeah. Like being
like, oh, like recording.
Yeah, Ron was saying like, he was taking notes. And then Ryan looks
over.
Like a retired cop, or maybe he's not. But he's basically like,
squares and circles. Talking to Ryan, like, he's some official,
like you're in trouble, right? As if Brian's like, I'm taking notes
on you. And it's like, listen, you're asking me for what's his
name? Enrique. Or whoever? The previous owner of this house,
right? Where we're at right now? Like, what do I care about my
business? Right? So we were not to be scared of this. So they have
it.
Too bad. Next time. Could you pull your pull your phone out and
record it? Yeah, cuz he's not an officer of the law that he has
absolute zero off. The best thing was, I was telling him like, Yeah,
I'm just like a cleaner. Yeah.
And he's like, they're what law school? Did you go to?
Law school. He's like, alright, good, because you need to get your
money back.
Is that supposed to be like, I'm supposed to like feel bad about
that? Oh, really rough. Just they're crazy.
I dealt with one bouncer in my life before this. It was a guy who
was serving papers. Well, I guess not downtown too. But see, he's
got to serve papers. Right? To to a landlord that I had at one
point, who was a Colombian dude who was a builder, who he couldn't
pay for any of his equipment anymore. And so he defaulted on
all those payments to the bank. And he fled back to Colombia.
Right. And he
he was a wreck this guy. He was a wreck. He was on drugs. He had
punched down and punched walls. He was he was a wreck. But his house
was really nice because he was a builder. All right, the
procrastinator at work, you're procrastinating, but if you watch
a live stream, it's good.
Sakina comes down ALLAH SubhanA, which Allah says that Sakina
comes down, your liquid goes up. He's saying, wouldn't it go up?
He's it No, your liquid goes up. Your deeds go up, right? Allah
raises your deeds up to the heavens so that they can be
received. But ever the five of the six eighths of Sakina says what
ends at Allah Who subpoena to who Allah brings down his Sakina. And
what is the sacred space, the sacred spaces that location where
Sakina has been coming down for a long time? Right. Sakina has been
coming down for a long period of time, to the point that that
location is now filled with sickie and and that's why in, if you go
to a city, and you need to pray somewhere, pray in the oldest
mosques, because there's the most baraka and Sakina. Allah has been
worshipped there for decades, upon centuries upon centuries upon
centuries, what about your homes, your homes? Yeah, you can make
your home and fill it with Sakina Inuit by regular of God or they're
out loud, especially the Quran of children, the recitation of
children, and there's anti Sakina there cannot be Sakina except that
there's also a darkness. Darkness is brought down by sins by anger
by greed, the opposite of caccia everything negative in the heart,
and it's also brought down by it's nullified by music. It's notified
that there's some music that is headed for example by the voice
only. Right? It's it's is is ruined by a buffalo. Nonstop
buffalo buffalo buffalo. Buffalo means empty, he lists empty
calories, but in terms of deeds, right empty deeds. So you've been
asleep to being asleep, waste of time or it's like eating junk
food.
Like technically it's not haram. Right? It's not haram for me to
see you sit down and watch, you know, some someone talk about
whatever, anything on YouTube but it's after a while the gauntlet
becomes harmful, so much of the halal, too much of something
halal, that it starts to that Allah is not remembered anymore.
It becomes harmful. Ryan Europe.
Can you elaborate on the 16 I mentioned in marriages in surah.
Tarun
Sakina mentioned in marriages in Surah, a room that type of Sakina
is the Sakina between two believing servants that Allah has
placed when they get married as a
close to the Lana the curse on people when they are in Zina. So
just as Zina is punishable, punishable marriages rewardable.
And this is why when people wonder, well, how do we? How do we
be happy in marriage? It's not something that you always try to
do yourself. Why don't you have Allah do it for you? How do X have
a bed with your wife, have Taqwa with your wife have do acts of
generosity towards her and she does acts of generosity towards
you, you will get Allah subhanaw taala sick enough to come down
upon you. Okay, who will lead the gyla The verse says he is the one
who placed
so therefore that Sakina is something we cannot buy it, you
cannot hold it, you do certain acts and deeds for the sake of
Allah and it comes down and all of a sudden, you get along, she may
have been a complete stranger before we got married. In the
olden days, they had arranged marriages, right? You ever see
these arranged marriages, but you're like, wow, Grandpa never
even saw grandmother until like 15 minutes before the Nikka. That's
how my grandparents and then they came into the room one day, and
they show us a black and white picture of a girl like this. Who's
that?
That's your wife. Right? And then they showed the picture of the
husband's Okay, to the girl who's that? That's your husband? What do
you mean this my husband? Yeah, you're getting married, I don't
want to get married. Well get dressed, because we're going now
to get married. That's how they got married in the back. I'm not
advocating for that. But that was the world they lived in. But guess
what, 70 years past, they make it work. They make it work because
Allah subhanaw Now, not all of it. So romantic, but I'm sure some of
them, they made it happen. Because they had tuplets or he had
suffered towards her. She heads up with towards him. They both feared
Allah and Allah made it work. Right now, by the way, you can
investigate a woman
or a man can can be investigated by his wife to be and you can get
every test done on this person. And you could sit with them a
million times and do everything that you could do. Well, guess
what? When you get married in 10 years, you could change. You still
can't control that. What happens? Okay, you married a guy. He's good
guy. He makes 75 grand a year and he's a nice guy. You don't know
who he's going to become if he gets fired. He's never been fired
before. He's never been poor before. Right? You may be starting
off and all of a sudden, now you make 200 grand a year and he got
fired. You don't know who he's going to become when that happens?
You need Allah subhanaw taala in marriage. The opposite could be
the case. He's a really nice guy. He's very humble. But all of a
sudden he makes it big. He can become a tire. What if he makes it
big and you start becoming out of shape? Right? He's like, What Why
am I tolerating this, right? Some people get like this right? All
these midlife crisis they have no Taqwa. They don't have Taqwa.
Okay. So if you marry a guy without taqwa, things could
change. Right? Divorce could happen. personality changes can
completely happen, right? But we have tequila. And when you have
tough when you have knowledge to that sweetness of life is not by
the flesh. Of course, the flesh is nice, and it's wonderful. And
there's a lot of NEMA there, right? And what the I see of
beauty is wonderful. We don't deny that. But there is a greater
source of happiness for a moment and that is a seeking of that
comes down so that if a person looks around him and says, Man,
this everything stinks here my house stinks. Not happy in my
marriage. My kids are you know, they're annoying. my boss's
annoying, everything stinks. That could lead a person to either
being an alcoholic start to go to alcohol, go to drugs, or just go
crazy and leave the family it happens right? But we as what we
need what we promote and preach here. Take your problem to Allah
asked for that. Sakina to come down. Once this Akina comes down
it's I can't tell you the experience how it is everything
that you look at becomes blessed. It's almost like everything you
look at it's wonderful, right? You feel so optimistic about
everything that you see. That is what Sakina does for a person but
you have to go do it you can't just listen to me talking about it
you got to go and sit and remember Allah subhana wa Tada for extended
periods of time and watch the Sakina do its job and if you want
the strongest the most effective on your mood is Salah on the
prophet the most effective on your iman is some people say what's
greater the Quran was found the province different things if you
have issues with your Eman is the Quran. If you have issues like I'm
a strong woman, but my mood is terrible. I'm so upset with life.
Okay, so on the messengers lesson, it will change everything. You'll
be looking at something that you hated two minutes before you'll
see everything good about it. You'll be seeing somebody that you
loathed
the day before you have so much forgiveness and generosity towards
them. How does it happen? Here's how it happens. It happens right
happens because
If that's what Sakina does,
Ryan, you're up.
If you're listening to a foot spa, and sleep comes upon you during
it, can this be assumed that it's sticky? Next? If you are listening
to a cookbook and you fall asleep, could it be Sakina it's funny
because they do mention that falling asleep during vicar is a
result of a novice receiving schema. Right? It is they do have
said that it is also the result of somebody tired, simply physically
they slept. It is also the result of somebody who simply just does
not necessarily, you know, have the stamina for the Cordilla. And
his mind is accustomed to racing, right, and scrolling. And that's
in the sense of sort of a negative, but it's a face, but
some have said yes, it is again. Now, I don't know about the
football. I really don't know about the football. It could be
there's the tone of the boys, the person is monotonous. Might have
to make it quick, right? Yeah, if it's a heavy sleep, you have to
make your will do the Maliki method. I remember from the Sierra
the prophesies during what I heard was that the falling asleep that
happens before a battle. That was the stickiness yes and the
prophesies. And if you'd raise his head so much that his cloak fell
off, and like you know, they started falling asleep and it was
as if like, their swords were falling out of there.
That's how Mr. King Okay, that's that's a great confirmation by by
Aza when he says here that at the Battle of bed that for I don't
know if the Instagram has heard it. So I'm just going to repeat
it, that the battle of whether that it was the Sakina was so much
they all fell asleep right before the battle who falls asleep right
before you about to, you know, have a great battle. Usually you
can't fall asleep the night before. But the Sakina was so much
they've had a deep sleep. And that's the key that came into the
hearts and remove all the fear from their hearts. That's what
Sakina does. It removes all the fear from a person sorry, all the
anxieties.
Alright, more questions on Sakina there's a question on
procrastinator at work says is sulla on the Prophet thicket, of
course, it's one of the greatest things what is the short salatu
read Allah on the Sunday was Sunday Monday. You can begin with
any Salah on the Prophet, let's say slightly Brahimi just so that
his name is mentioned because we're going to the short they
could only mentioned the pronoun. So you start with Salah Ibrahimi
and then you could say Allahumma salli wa salam ala as much as you
want.
Is it necessary to have a specific daily Vica from a chef it's good
to it's good to and if you want that then it's where the roads
even the morning rods proceed at night.
Can we have the name of the reciter in the video on a it's a
16 Orion who was recited? Heavy tour Oh, that's the reciter that
also recited about
the verse of students usif right, which I played before.
Car aristocrat says if you sin constantly, can that prevent duat
from being answered? If you don't make Toba? If you make Toba in
between, then no then and shortly then it will make them become
another Milla. The one who repents from a sin is as if he's a person
with no sense. And on top of that,
you have to remember something that the Shetty does recognize
addicts. And the addict just has to make sure that he or makes Toba
and he tries every single time to be that to be his last time.
Can someone repeat the name of those to us that he just mentioned
La ilaha illa Anta Subhanak iniquity middle value mean is for
somebody who has a grief upon him has to win alone. Ammo heat is for
somebody who has an enemy.
Okay.
Now, how Lola Illa is when you have weakness?
La ilaha illa is when you have doubts as stuff for Allah is for
somebody who has sins, right? And hamdulillah someone who has now
and he wants more, the capitalists is sugar. Right, the capitalist
who wants to gain more and more and more, then check out from the
president Exactly. Well, in Chicago president if you're
grateful for what I gave you grateful does not means it's with
the heart but also with the body. If Allah gave you, you know, a
wonderful kid, and you want another kid, that's fine. But be
grateful for the first get means give him his dues.
Higher
was Embleton what is Hatton? The yerba, it's exactly what we just
said that those people who do a lot who obey Allah and do a lot of
that they have had on top of it, which means that their perspective
of everything is a blessing. And I'm telling you sometimes when you
go in, in certain environments, and when I was younger, I
Hamdulillah I had the
the blessing of being able to travel to a lot of places and we
would travel, you know, sometimes friends and stuff and sometimes by
myself, to people to places where it was with you, and you're on the
wavelength of that shift.
long as you're with them, as long as he says when the day with the
chef, right? That whole day is a bed. And even if like we're
studying, we're doing enough God, it's a bet. And then at the end of
the day, we get some any, you know, piece of chicken served with
some potatoes on a cheapo plate. Some of them aren't rich, right?
But well, Allah, you eat that food and you're like, this is like I'm
in heaven, right? Something comes upon a person, when they're in a
Sakina, everything is good. They view everything as wonderful.
That's what it means is hatha yoga. Whereas the opposite is
called My Isha Bunka, which is whoever Menara than decree,
whoever goes away from my remembrance, and he remembers the
things of the darkness, sins, etc. You wake up the next morning, and
it's just all misery, everything, you're miserable at everything.
The sin is covering your heart and your mind. You're just nothing
could make you out of this, this mood. And those people fall into
that rut, the only thing that picks them up is now the darkness.
There'll be miserable all day, until about eight 9:10pm 10:30pm.
That's when they start perking up, and they get excited. And now
they're happy. Why? Because now you're you're fed by the darkness.
Right? And they go into sins, and they go into nonsense, and they
they become creatures of the night.
Is it true that if you repeat the name a specific name of Allah
without guidance of emotion, or a chef, that he could harm you? I
believe so. I don't have much knowledge on that. But I do
believe that is possible and excessive amounts in excessive
amounts, not like you know, in a regular amount, like if you're
purposely doing it, right, you have to really purposely do but if
like, I need a lot to be done. So every once or once a Yakety Yakety
Yakety Yakety. Right. Then no.
Caitlin says when once you know to stop making dua to marry a certain
person and to move on to another marriage prospects.
I'm always split minded on the question of do I marry a specific
person, but I think that the person should say, that person or
someone like them, because you never love a person. You love
their qualities. Right? It's not the person you love. What happens
is the person comes in tomorrow apostates tomorrow, right? We used
to want to marry them? Probably not right? So it's not the person
it's the qualities of that person. Right? So you ask Allah to Allah,
Oh, Allah, let me marry that person or someone like him?
Or her? Right? If it's a guy seeking that for a woman? How do
you know when to stop? Well, you can go by the the actual, the
worldly realities.
You've put yourself in you realize, okay, I'm not going to
wait until this age, or why why? Why not take the initiative? Even
if you're a woman, you could take initiative, but you're going to do
it through a proxy that goes and say, Hey, what do you think about
so and so? He doesn't say that she's she's the one who's pining
over you. And she wants to marry you don't say that. But you say
something like, Hey, someone has suggested such and such for you?
Right? Who suggested it? Oh, they want to stay anonymous, right? Or
you say me, okay, but so the girls for a girl to to initiate, she can
initiate it anonymously. And there's nothing wrong with that.
This is how say to Khadija initiated, okay? She initiated in
anonymously. So why sit around and wait, take action, then the
worldly events will make it clear to you whether you have to move
on, or you can move forward.
But I really do believe that a lot out of will never leave someone
disappointed. If they're getting up in the last night avoiding
sense
doesn't necessarily mean you're going to get
you know, we're never it's never it's not advertised, especially in
marriage because there's another person involved that it's exactly
that but it will be something very much that makes you happier even
either that or happier. So you're going to be happy no one you ever
see someone just sit disappointed? Yeah, I tried. We invested a lot
of money. We did everything possible. We failed we lost all
our money, right? That will never ever ever happen in da you will
never sit and say you know what I did some I did on what I did had
to give sadaqa you know I made a lot of dua just wasted all my
time. Right? That will never happen unless you choose for that
to happen. It will never happen you just continue with the DUA and
can you the better than Allah will open it for you. Eventually it
just takes time as its sole said in the podcast and many other
times takes four years to get a rotten old high school diploma
which nobody cares about takes four years right so your dua you
know, give it time. Let it marinate. let time pass. Ryan what
you got?
Once you have received sick enough from Allah, and we lose it as
quickly as we received
can you lose your Sakina as quickly as he received that? The
answer is yes, there are things that cause you to lose Sakina from
people's experience. This is not from the Sunnah it's not from the
deed but it is from
experience of that if he is that when they got down cold water
it says if it puts out this again, but if they take warm or hot
drinks, it actually improves it. Right? It doesn't put it up. It's
that's experience. But since of course a golfer heedlessness so
they said you come out later to come and say hey look at this
highlights of Steph Curry. I don't want to see this right now it's
not the time it's going to negate my Sakina right. It negates their
subpoena
All right, if you can make an oath to Allah not to repeat a sin but
then you did. Do you have to be you have to explain it Yes. Don't
make don't make posts like that. When you're when you're in a
situation where you're constantly committing the sin when I was
younger, I would always say like well like this will tell you that
oh yeah and then so essentially like and you know, like my friends
they would prove me wrong and you know, I'd say I'm sure 21 days I
had too fast in high school my
experience mushy.
Masha, Allah Leila, or Lady Oh 500 Allah, My Allah subhana wa it's
out of protect and preserve you. My question is about making up
fast in the month of Shaban as much as possible make up all of
your fast because if the next Ramadan comes,
if one or more years lap you in terms of your makeup, then you owe
the cola and Vidya Vidya is feeding one poor Muslim. And you
could do that the mosque will tell you how much the fovea is they'll
say $10 Put an envelope in your right figure, okay, in capital
letters, and so that they make sure that they give it in the
right place. So if and then and then if your labs whether it's one
year or 10 years, it doesn't matter. It's 1/5 yet per day, in
which you are left in your cola labs, meaning a whole year past
and you didn't make up your fasts a lot is makeup fest. And Vidya is
a financial payment of sadaqa in lieu of not doing something
properly That's what the word video means.
Is there a cut off date where you can fast can't fast in the month
of Shabbat? No, you can fast anytime in the month of Shaban if
you're making a pull up, even if you're making up even if it's the
last day of shutdown, but you want to do the product you can do that
there's it's not an error invalid. Can you tell us about fasting on
Fridays? Is that permissible resting on Fridays in the medical
system has no heritage and first thing I've read is there's no
problem except if someone is intentionally trying to imitate
the Jews, which I don't think anybody else. But that's the only
time it'd be mcru. But you can fast anytime I find the only time
it's haram to fast are the days of eight. And you don't have to like
fast on Friday and then Saturday as well or Thursday and Friday.
You don't have to double it up Friday, Saturday, Thursday,
Friday. You don't have to do that.
Tonya says how do you remove anger towards your parents regarding the
past? They could still be alive or has passed. It is blockage in
receiving Eliza Hama it is very difficult. Yes she you have to
have time has to pass and you have to think about something else. And
you have to try to see you're going to try to be played jujitsu
with yourself. You know spiritual jujitsu or jujitsu with the world
is by a something absolutely terrible happens to you. You have
to ask yourself, How can I grow? How can I profit from this? How
can I grow from this? How can I get better? So you have to insist
that there is a way to get better that this is going to make me
stronger. You have to insist on it. You can't say no no so
terrible. That's your choice. You have to choose and you have to
insist I'm actually gonna get better from this. Right this
terrible thing is going to be the source by which Allah is teaching
me a lesson. Right? What are the lessons it's like a lot threw you
in a ocean or a lake go into the bottom of the lake there's
something there I guarantee you there's something there a lot data
is Hakeem in his actions is not do something for no reason. There is
wisdom. at that bottom of that lake, you're gonna find something
valuable. Might find gold at the bottom of the lake. bottom of the
ocean, you might find a pearl. Okay, it's crazy, dark ocean, go
to the bottom. Search, Search Search. How was this making me
stronger? Until you realize you can do jujitsu with everything?
Anything that comes your way. Allah is Al Hakim. He does
everything for a reason. There's no Abbath in his creation, no
meaninglessness and it's crazy. There's no There's no toying with
the with the believers you don't toy with the believers like a kid
may toy with an aunt or a cat. So everything that comes towards your
way towards your you from from the world around you
can be you can do jujitsu on it and find the pearl at the bottom
of the ocean. You have to have that mindset. And that's my advice
to Tanya.
How do you know okay, we got that question before what is the key to
look like after losing someone I
See people asked for Sakina for those who lost their loved ones,
and that is that you see that insha Allah that the person is not
committing sins, but rather they're doing greater acts of
obedience after their their severe loss. That's the difference.
That's when she said, Well, what's the sign of it? That's the sign of
it, that they're actually doing more. They got better. They got
less attached to the dunya. They realized we're all going to die,
we're all going somewhere, they made more dua for the person they
excavated for their sins. They visit the graveyard now to make
dua for their loved one. And that affects you it has a good impact
on you. That's the sign.
Sam says Can the wiggle teeth be recited after fajr? That's the
time for it. It's after fetch.
And what is it Latif razza machine is
after Aasif towards method or after method. Ryan Europe will
take two more but Ryan Europe how does the parents feel sick enough
when their son or daughter is in is in love? How's the parent feels
sukeena when they know that their son or daughter is in
this Akina there is that there's always a chance for people to make
Toba and that many, many, many, many people make Toba in their
20s, or their 30s or their 40s. Right. So what what we have to be
is we have to be good examples. We just have to be good examples and
make sure that there's a tie between us and them. And then we
have to be righteous, we have to have Taqwa. Right, so that they
could have a reference point. So that time is gonna pass. That
person is going to be a young adult someday.
And they're going to mature up. And hopefully, hopefully,
hopefully, they will look back at their childhood and say, Yeah, I
did learn a lot of good things here. I can make use of these
things. That's the Sakina in the tribulation of having a difficult
child.
Last question here that we're going to take from
from Instagram.
Oh, can you hit the Close button on the low better, please? Oh,
yeah. I think it was.
All right, let me be tender, says how can you develop self
forgiveness? I don't think that we have a concept of self
forgiveness, either a love forgives us or
other the people that we harmed forgive us, or that you realize
your mistake must be you know, let's say you make a bad decision
in life. Oh, I never checked the question box the whole time. I
tell everybody do question.
Sometimes you just realized something. You said something so
stupid to somebody. Right, and lost an opportunity. Plus, it
happened. Right. It's so Allah's Will, is something you regret, you
learned your meaning from your mistake, and you move on, I think,
one way of putting the question rather than self forgiveness. How
do we know that like the science, or delta has been accepted? How do
you know that Toby has been accepted oftentimes that you keep
making the job?
That's oftentimes and that after keep making the till but you
forgot about
after many years of job, that's one of the I'm gonna read these
questions from the question box really quick, rapid fire. What's
added bait the lineage of optimal setups grant lineage of optimal
club, Benny Hashem and specifically the sons of Hassan
and Hussein
procrastinate procrastinator works on the province. I said what type
of Thinker The answer is yes. What's the difference? What's the
best way to bounce between Salah and Decker they're synonymous so
you don't have to worry about that. But everyone should recite
their portion of Quran every day that's for your iman and your
portion of Salah and the Prophet that's for your your your mood as
we said the prophets I said them said that it relieves anxiety and
stress DNX tour says if sins block it is okay how does one make up
for it tilba tilba tilba tilba will remove the blockage of sense
is much much is to FIP will do setup Shahida says I want to know
if one can stay awake all night so fragile to catch 200 it will count
for you yes but it's better to sleep a little bit in the night
because that erases all the thoughts of the day and then wake
up so for and this was Shaban what we're going to have is pm, then
sleep dental hygiene. So we're going to have everything and we're
gonna have a good to hedge like one hour to hedge and go by 18
degrees.
We can probably ask keep MBSE open all night but we're going to have
pm for sure and MBSE will ask about keeping it open all night.
But one thing that we should have is we should have that
when you look at your your apps on your phones for the sake of so I
highly advise okay and to hedge it. Make sure you stop you make
catch your show use Hulu and your 200
At the 18 degree mark, okay, why just to be safe because the most
of the world operates on the 18th degree mark. Right? Which means
that the sun is 18 degrees below the horizon when federal comes in,
that's what we're talking you might be like, What the heck are
you talking about? Go to your settings, have your prayer
timetables. Okay.
And click on federal, and you'll see options. So click 18 degrees
to be safer, right? I can't say that it's your your CME will not
count that 15 degrees. I will say that but when they're calculating
when federal actually comes in, does any one of us go out and see
the light coming up? We don't see it. So go out and put it at 18
degrees and stop your support at 18 degrees and catcher to hedge it
before 18 degrees, then you could rest right before slots and
federal a little bit because most masajid will pray at 15 degrees.
Okay, so we can talk about this again a bit later. All right,
tomorrow's episode we have Mustafa Briggs will be joining us from
Cairo, Egypt, talking about his book on lives of Sahaba tebbit in
and scholars that hails from the continent of Africa. He wrote a
wonderful book on this topic, and we will have him with us in the
later either and that will be tomorrow at 1:30pm Eastern
Standard Time. Does that come along here and everybody please do
not forget, remember Allah much and make a lot of DUA and ALLAH
SubhanA which will make give us a higher than a good life and a good
living. And may Allah subhanaw taala bless everyone and forgive
us our sins Subhan Allah Moby Dick, necessarily Allah Elantra
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