Shadee Elmasry – NBF 31 Holistic Hypocrisy (Surah Maun + Open Q&A)
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he was off the woman Well, welcome everybody to the subpoena society,
nothing but facts live stream on this Monday morning the 14th of
March. And I just came back from Michigan to one day ago. And that
community is really they're really nice. You guys got to check out
Michigan, Detroit Dearborn. So Dearborn is a city right next to
Detroit. It's bordering with Detroit. And then Ford back in the
50s. They were getting stuff supplies from China. And they
needed, I guess, cheap labor. But that spoke English. So the
cheapest labor on the way that spoke English was Yemen, because
the British had comments. So I think the Yemenis had a clue about
English enough to work, right? To hammer and screw and stuff like
that on the on the factory assembly line, or the
instructions, made to read the instructions or see the
instructions. So they did that, right. And then I think they made
it really easy for them to bring in the relatives. So they kept
bringing in the relatives. And then the whole Michigan Avenue now
and all of Dearborn it's all people from Yemen, right. But they
have all different cities within Yemen. So all sorts of cities, you
know, people from Yemen, working in Fort and they still work in
Fort Sill now. Right? And they work a lot of them work now. And
like the more management level positions, for example, my host,
he's a project manager, right for the traffic app that they have for
Ford. C Ford is one company, I would love to rebrand completely.
Like they got the best truck, the absolute best truck, and the worst
everything else. Everything else is trash, but they got the best
truck. So I would say take all your trash, put it under another
label, like create a label some other junk old brand, right? Put
your escorts and your whatever stuff in there. Am I right or
wrong? Ford Escort.
That's what it's called? Escort.
Stretch, right? All the other cars are not i popping cars and put
them under another label, you still make money from them, but
doesn't ruin your brand, then you have to change that terrible blue
old fashion brand. And you got to make it like black letters gray on
black. And your f150 is your car, right? And then it's got to your
brand becomes this mean? Truck, right? That's your brand and then
everything goes from there. Then you make like, let's say an SUV
version of it. Right? For the moms. Like for the rich works,
right? You make your bets that's how you're gonna do it. But
they're their company now that the innovator, obviously Henry Ford,
he's all you have now is a bunch of people in my opinion, that just
want to make sure that it's safe, everything they'd rather be safe
than to transform anything or have any guts to do anything that they
believe. That's why it's a lame old company. My belief Yes, me.
Yeah, they make a lot of money. But it's there's no excitement.
Right about the company. So anyway, but everything is for you
go to Dearborn Ford High School, Ford. What? Even the whatever.
There is a place that fixes cars, Ford, they sponsored everything.
They sponsor the whole town.
Everything is sponsored by Ford when you get there when you go to
Michigan Avenue. But there I went. And I said I saw
some amazing cafes because the m&e culture, it's essentially their
biggest cultural thing is coffee. Right? And some say that they
started there was discovered in Yemen. Some say it was discovered
in caption Ethiopia. But it was Yemenis who brought it over and
popularized. So there's competing stories on who actually were the
first coffee beans. But because of that history, it's linked coffee
is linked to him. Right? And so they have two or three cafes.
house cafe was the best, right? The design of this place. It's
like curated is like a museum, because they've got awesome
information like like, when did it first come to America? When did it
first go to Europe? What's the origin? What's the story than the
picture of the dude who discovered this out of the other? Right? And
then every inch of that place is designer. Right? And a unique
design all related to coffee though. All right coffee and the
honeycomb image because they also serve a Yemeni dish like it's it's
like honeycomb shaped but bread filled with cream and covered with
honey and sesame. Alright, so the honeycomb is also part of the
theme. So there was that one then there was go house which is the
big deal, but how was this better? No doubt about it. Oh, who else
is the big deal. Right? So he's got three, he's got one in
Brooklyn, the big one on Michigan Avenue. The location is better
than Ross's location. Right? The location is amazing for Cabo
house. But when I get there, it's a it's an A, but hot Oz is an A
plus. And then he's opening Budweiser opening in Brooklyn.
Then there
is the food. Yeah. Yeah. Man Cafe is coffee or food.
Yeah, well, he's opening up a whole house. Yeah. So it's an A,
but how does isn't a plus. Then there was another place that
there was another place to be honest, it was miskeen. And he's
gonna go out under, I think, because it just, it wasn't
working. The style, everything wasn't working. But then the third
place was non Muslim owned, but a lot of people go to the fourth
place I went to, it wasn't what Simone. But it was working. It was
the best in terms of it was big. It had food. That's the
difference. This place was called The Great komen or something like
that some weird name, maiden name that makes no sense. No Brent, the
called the Great commoner or something like that. But the place
it looks great. And the difference was, it was a coffee shop, but it
had food and had a big chill space and a meeting space even in the
back. So it's a different model. And that place was popping. All of
them were popping right out whilst was popping.
But I was just dropping. The great commoner was the most often
because they have food. So we have to look at it. Do you put food in
a coffee shop? Or not? If so, how much and the great commenter had a
better chill spot? So it had a more relaxed seating in the back?
Like you want to have coffee and go you could you want to sit and
eat and have coffee, you could you want to just actually sit for like
two hours and have a meeting or talk to somebody. There's a couch
area in the back. And there's also a glassed off area where there's a
nice meeting table, not like corporate looking like a cool
looking meeting table, that you can actually shut the door and
have a private meeting. And you rent that place out.
That's the most an office also it had the best location to was a
corner spot, right on top and location. So that's basically what
I did. And the reason I did all that is because I actually we got
Blizzard it in. And there was some winds and stuff. And we had a lot
of cancellations. I wanted to meet shake up the premiere here. But it
was so
it was an unpredictable moment because it was like you got a half
hour delay, then you got a five hour delay, then you got another
half hour delay. So I'm like back and forth to the airport, like
three times. Right? And so I couldn't really, you know, meet
anybody, but I could I had enough time to go check out these little
spots because there's no, you'd have to make an appointment.
Right? So I'm just kidding me out here. He has data Rama if anyone's
out in Michigan.
I didn't check it out. But I want to check it out. I wanted to see,
I want to meet him and see. And he has right next to the main master
there, which is called they called the IDC I hate these acronyms,
right? They call it some center of Detroit ICD or something like
that. But it's basically a huge strip mall
that they bought, and they put in the masjid and they put the
Islamic school. Right. And they have an industrial kitchen, where
they feed tons of people to have a men's masala, a woman's masala, an
auditorium. I mean, they got everything right. So they did a
good job. So and most importantly, the hosts they're the guys that
the Yemeni people, I would say the Yemeni and the Sudanese are from
the most easygoing no to color of the caliph is like formality.
Right? Like if you were invited to let's say, by, let's say other
cultures, they're known for their format, they have a reason for
being formal. Right? And sometimes the reason for being formal is
that you have your your geographic location is a place that many
people want to conquer, or make money off of. So you don't assume
the best from people. You assume people are coming for a reason.
Amongst them the Syrians, right? There's their former for a reason,
the Romans that were in in there, then the Persians probably want a
piece of that. Everyone wants a piece of that, right? So they have
formality for reason. They don't trust everybody. Okay. Then you
got places like Yemen, no one's come in for a malicious intent.
There's nothing to take, right? If you were a thief, you would pass
up on Yemen, right?
All the greats Alexander the Great, they all passed up on the
Arabian Peninsula is nothing there. So why would you need to be
formal, right? There's no one's stealing anything from us, right?
So they were completely informal. And they were completely there's
no pretension when you deal with the many people. So that's why I
had a great time. And the event was, I think, I think the event
went well. From my perspective, it went well. And
so if you ever are traveling through
You gotta go to Dearborn checkup Michigan Avenue and check out the
spots there in the events there. And the only teacher that I saw or
that I heard of who's teaching Akita and FIP and doing vicar is
getting your hair. Then they have another veteran. He's like, he's
they're done. They're their Imam is shipping mess muddy? Like he's
the one who's put in his whole life for that community. Right?
And he's somebody who's he's the real deal.
Like, I've never met him. I've never even heard his lecture. But
when you hear someone's name and people vouching like he's, he's
there, he's always helping us. That's all I know. Right? So, from
that perspective, that's impressive. When you see someone
2030 years, I think he's been there. Right, doing his thing. And
may Allah reward him continue him, so I wanted to meet him, but he
was away too.
Anyway, next up is in two weeks Tampa. Right. Now Tampa, of course
is going to have the weather but we'll see what else he does. All
right today. So if you want to put in anything before we start, can
take me to tap. I'm ready with the weather. Yeah. Oh, come with us
booked the flight. I'll ask ask man, where he booked a flight will
lead you come with us to get some sun before you go to Seattle.
Everyone can come to Tampa. All right, get some sun. We're only
staying from Friday morning leaving Saturday morning.
All right, here we go. Which is the purpose of this live stream is
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All right, here we go. Students Elma owner, right the lady you can
do with Dean for that he can lead the don't only a team when I heard
Bala, Tom and miskeen.
This surah is about some of the enemies of the truth and how you
can identify some of the enemies of the truth. Okay, is that those
who are lying about the truth, they also have other
characteristics, amongst them cruelty of heart. Alright, so
it's talking specifically about the enemies of the Prophet,
because not everyone who is against Islam or not a Muslim is
necessarily the same level of cover. So we know conference
cover, right? But not all levels of conference the same. If you are
in the presence of the Messenger of Allah, your COVID is at another
level. Then if you just read about Islam in a book and say, No, thank
you, right. So that COVID are both covered, but they're at a
different level. And Allah subhana wa, tada is telling the believers,
when you look at the enemies of the Prophet, don't just look at
their position, visa vie the Prophet, look at their entire
character. And you will see their cool hearted, what's a sign of
their girl guarded, they do nothing for the most vulnerable
person in the society is the orphan at that time, and maybe
even today, I would say even at all times, the orphan is the most
well known person in society, like your number one person that's
supposed to care for you, that's supposed to love you, that's
what's to physically take care of you, protect you and feed you, and
clothe you and educate you, as your parents. When a person
doesn't have a parent, or they have an absentee parent, or they
have
just a parent who's not going to be an apparent that person suffers
the rest of his life.
They suffer from habits that they're not taught to weed out,
and those habits bother everybody else. But nobody else has to care.
Right? Nobody else has to care. So the first thing is that when you
have a bad habit, your parent has to weed it out from you. Let's say
you eat poorly. You wash, you don't wash, right? Your your
hygiene is bad. Or your your way that you eat is bad, or the way
that you talk you interrupt everybody, or you talk too loud.
That person, your parents can weed that out. Unfortunately, today,
many parents are afraid of their kids. That's a problem. Right?
So secondly, if your parent doesn't weed that out, all right,
then other people, they're going to talk about you behind your
back. And on top of that, they also don't care enough to tell you
they're gonna talk behind your back and they'll cut you off. No
one's going to tell you the truth like your parent. And the reason
is, Allah has attached the child's repeat the parents or mutations of
the parents to there's a reason for that attachment. But when
Allah Allah attaches when you feel there's a selfish nature of why a
parent fixes his kid, right? It's because that roof
That's about the on me too. So I care about you, I also care about
me, right? But that's the incentive and the motive
motivation to change your kid. Because if you're not altruistic
enough or charitable enough to care about your kid, at least care
about yourself, yeah, right. That's how Allah gets parents to
to fix their kids. Because if you're not good enough at taking
care of the amount of the trust that Allah gave you at least care
about your own reputation, which is not that great, but at least
it's a motivation for you to do the right thing. So I think it's,
it's time to announce the Safina society, parenting class, the
parenting operation? Well, it's sort of for kids.
And there is parenting involved. That were so one of our
initiatives that's down the road. And hopefully, you know, not too
far down the road is an entire silo, I learned all this
terminology from us.
It's an entire silo. And also, there's a brother named Alia,
right? Maybe he doesn't want me to mention his name, so I won't
mention it.
He's educated me a lot on this and showed me how important it is this
segment. And there, there's a husband and wife at Hamdulillah
that are helping me with this too. Okay, they're there. They're in
Virginia. So it's going to be a whole silo dedicated to children
and parenting, with blogs, courses, classes, everything,
right? Related to this subject, because it's so important. This is
the root of society, and what are organizations called Safina
society? It's about the society, right? So what is the sort of
foundation of the psyche of the individual? Well, how does an
individual exist with a family? So that has to we have to put
emphasis on this? And how many people have tons of hours studying
their profession, but zero hours studying how to be a parent?
Doesn't make sense, right? Or how to be a husband, how to be a wife.
So all that field is something that we want to go into. So Allah
is describing these people look at the entire character trait of
somebody, not just their position on one thing, right?
And it says, look at though, have you seen the people who are lying
about the Prophet? Yeah, so in general kofod In general, but in
specific those who are aggressive against the messengers of Allah,
what He was selling them for, that he can let it get on your team,
people who are faithless, why would they? What would move them
in maths to take care of the weak. And that's true that you're gonna
have a guy every once in awhile, who has no faith, but he's very
charitable. Is that the exception to the norm of atheists, let's say
of Kufa is the exception to the norm. Right? I wanted to do a
cross section like a sociological analysis. Let's just look at
people's charitable like donations. Yeah, yeah. Who has
more like religious believing people or, or otherwise, I wish
you could sit here but it's too late.
Because this this lamp is always I gotta fix my glasses. I gotta get
glare free glasses. Yeah, are you if you put on that side, because
I'm always looking at him. So but if you don't if you can't move it,
you don't have to either? Yeah.
What was it? What's the result? No, I said I want to do I know the
results and funding. Oh, I know the results right? Yeah, no,
there's Christians, the Christians and the Muslims are the most
charitable to groups. Yeah, the Catholics again. Yeah, I don't see
where the other like you know, I can't imagine he's there even a
category you're gonna put atheists as a category and then look at
their charitable donations even if even when they do half the time
it's like out of politics, like if they're in cancel those right,
because real charity is seeking out the poor and giving even when
you have a need. Yeah, that's the real levels of charity. Right? So
they have no heart the audio team, not saying all atheists have no
heart I'm saying in general this versus saying the general quality,
specific to the enemies of the prophets. I send them in Mecca,
but in general, they abandon the weakest link what I hope to
automata scheme they don't need courage, or they're involved in
charity work.
For Whelan animal, suddenly now it shifts to the second enemy of the
prophets. I send the hypocrites of yesterday of Medina.
Right the hypocrites of Medina. So woe to the people who pray, but
not everyone who prays, obviously, those who are they're forgetful on
purpose,
about the prayer, not in the prayer, but in doing the prayer.
So who does this talk about the hypocrites they had no interest in
the prayers where they won't be seen.
And that's why what's the remedy for Islam if you want to have
sincerity in your heart? The remedy for a class is do a bad and
secret
private a bad if the only good deeds that someone does a republic
that's really bad.
Right. Is that an additional reason? Because they were only
interested in the first that they wanted to be seen? Correct. So we
know also that one of the characteristics of the mafia was
that they didn't go to federal donation. No point. Yeah, it's not
only is it tiring, but also it's dark. They didn't have it wasn't
illuminated the mask then. Yeah, no one's gonna see your face.
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, no one's gonna see your face
in federal Nisha, so that didn't go to federal NASA for that
reason, no one's gonna see them there. But then also, they would
be present at all risk free public events. But as soon as it got
risky, like the Battle of
the moon, I've been said, no, no, this is a bad idea. Let's all go
home. But the prophets, the Quran tells us we're FICO, Simone, Allah
whom some of you listen to them. There are very innocent good
Muslims out there, but they listened to the hypocrites. They
don't know the difference. They don't know the difference, you
know, a sincere person and a hypocrite. So 300 Muslims went
back. Some of them were one FF and some of them were most most of
them were not, they were just, they were part of that tribe. They
listened to their tribal leader, and they were influenced by a
hypocrite, and how many of times that happened in the OMA, where,
um, whenever it starts out with something, but he sways innocent
people, and ruins it for them. So that's the problem with when
they're 15. That's why we are meant to fight against that stuff.
Because they're gonna harm many innocent people. And today, it's
all ideological. Yeah, like different ideologies. And the
monastic always sides, when there's a conflict between the
Muslims and otherwise, some other group then whenever he, it's all
about the word NEFA.
And that is nothing because not just paying it the one meaning of
it is about that money that you pay to take care of someone, the
other meaning of it. It's a tunnel. Right? It's a tunnel
between two things. They have to have a tunnel, because they are
scared by nature, creatures by nature. Their essence is that
they're scared. Okay? So instead of taking their fear to Allah to
Allah, they don't believe properly and ALLAH, so they don't take
their fear to Allah because then you would just be a believing
coward. You're a believer, still. The Prophet was asking a coward be
a believer. He said, Yes. So they what they want to do is seek help
from the worldly sources. So if the Muslims look like they're
winning, they go and they make sure that you all know that I'm
one of you. So when the Quran says, The Mona Lisa clean say, Oh
Mr. Allah, we believe in Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah, what would
you need to say that you took shahada like 10 years ago? Right,
who cares? Right? What Why are you saying that? Because they had
negated it previously. They took the shahada with the province eyes
on them, and every few months, it's out loud in front of everyone
La ilaha illallah, Muhammad Rasool Allah Wait, why are you saying
that? Because subconsciously, they know that they contradicted it.
They went to the masjid again of Quran or to the hood of Yathrib.
And they plotted against the Prophet and the Muslims. Right? So
they feel subconsciously they need to remind everyone that we are
Muslim still, because they negated their Islam and core dolo is the
one ethics in etheral he's the one after character, he will side with
the Christians if necessary. I don't know if the Mongols it yet
had come on to the show or not. But he goes on both sides. Okay.
He goes on both sides. And so that's what the one FF does enough
of that is a tunnel underground tunnel unseen. So, they only pray
because they need to be seen right now. This is an ephah Akbar. This
is the greater in effect, which has mentioned as soon as in
Bukhara. But the lesser in effect can affect all of us. And that is,
we have no doubt about our deen. But we may preach something and do
the opposite. That's a Celestron effect and that this just it's
categorized as sins. Reason being is because Allah says, Yeah,
you're letting me know Oh, you who believe? Why do you limit up
aluminum relative? I don't why do you say what you don't do? Right?
So he calls them believers. They say what they don't do. So that
hypocrisy we all may have some of that. But that major hypocrisy of
students in Bukhara is the hypocrisy of someone. He is not
even a movement. He's just playing both sides because he doesn't know
where to go. And so regarding the Salah, it says on Salah to himself
on regarding the prayer itself, they may do some and not do
others. But that's why is every Tafseer it will mention that they
praise Allah that Allah did not say feasts Allah to Ahimsa Hoon in
their prayer, they're forgetful. That's forgivable. That's not
hypocrisy. That means in the prayer itself. I even may have
just accidentally forgot to pray or in the prayer itself. My mind
wandered. Right shaytaan came and reminded me of my dunya my affairs
This is actually a trick if you want to remember something that
you couldn't remember
If you want to unlock, you know, a math equation and homework that
you couldn't do get up, Nick, would you pray today? Cuz? Right
the mental block will go because shaytaan would rather tell you,
right what you forgot of your dunya than to have you pray to it
because it's a famous thing, right? Oh, honey, first of all
right. I never said that. I didn't know that. Yes, there was a man
who lost lost a bag of gold. He's gonna pray to it. Okay. Yeah. And
while He was praying, he remembered where it was right? He
came back. He said, How did you know?
I haven't survived yesterday. She she thought would not want you to
pray. So he'd rather you remember where your money is or where your
wallet is. So
Canada sort of lost a little low and it was on the ACO. So what's
the proof that it's not about forgetfulness? insula is this has
nothing to do with so that we know in FIP of forgetting insula
because it happened to the messenger solid sort of Allah when
he was salam. And it happened so that he could teach us so the
province I sent him said I only forget or I made to forget so that
I could send a sunnah an example. Okay, well, Mira to move that one.
So there
for an animal Selena Xena, masala Simpson, Ella, do your own. So
he's saying here that their real motive isn't yet ready yet is not
showing off your car or your home or your clothes. That's bad
manners. Maybe maximum. Ria is doing an act of worship so that
other people can say you're a good Muslim. Okay. But there's also
another type that is not considered yet where you would be
embarrassed to be seen doing something mcru Or even haram or
not fulfilling the Sunnah. That's not a yet.
If the original intent and he mimetic talks about this, if the
original intent is a clause, right, let's say
I have an original intent to go and pray I shot in the masjid I go
pressure in the masjid. Then I'm about to leave then. Wait.
Everyone's praying the Sunnah. It's not good character to
abandoned. The Sunnah. Well, let's say they had was we Malachy we
don't have a stone after a show anyway, but let's say
hypothetically, so you say okay, well, I'm going to that's not yet.
That's a good shame. Right? That's a good peer pressure. So that's
you shouldn't confuse those two.
He then says
well
suited person if someone has an idea in their heart and is
worrying, am I praying for Allah sake? Or for the people sake? Or
am I doing charity for Allah sacred that people say, Am I doing
this stuff for why am I doing this? Maybe I'm doing it for for
showing off out. So I shouldn't do it. That you shouldn't do that. If
you don't do it. It pleases one. He's convinced you not to do it.
So you have to do it and fight the potential of RIA. That's the
answer in our shittier you in the souk, you do the good deed, and
you fight the possibility of doing the
odds you have any time.
So that is a quick summary on sudut l mt. Oh, we actually
skipped l COVID. Right. Yeah, we should have done it. We did it
last week. Okay, so we did my own. And now we are on Quraysh.
Tomorrow we'll be sued. It's Quraysh or not, not tomorrow, but
next week we'll be sued as Qureshi and let's go to CL DS as Bevan
uzun, really quickly read what he said about a suit. It's unknown he
only cites one Hadith that
call and so that's been one ever been again, you're not gonna move
me Nina Bisola team are the harder way to corner the web. Now
malaria. So then when I 15, they used to just pray when they would
be seen by the moneyed. Alright, so
we're now shifting to open QA with everybody here. Today's the only
day we do open QA. So if you have some, ring it
all right. Let's
go now.
To that, here we go. All right, open QA. We have a question here.
That's here. It says, Can we read from the fortune cookies? Can we
read fortune cookies?
It's a good question comes up a lot. Yeah, some of these sorts of
cookies. Just tell you a nice Chinese wisdom. That's fine.
Right? But if they're telling you what the future holds, then the
answer is no. We're not allowed to read that. So can you see what
that phone says, Oh, we scrolled up plus. By the way if you put
questions in Instagram, I can't see I didn't see them because I my
iPad wasn't open. So put the QA in the box, copy and paste your
question and answer in
The boxes ticked. The first question here is from Wanda, he
says, Is there any dispensation for women to travel without a
Muharram, for studying in the form of hubs,
they,
in the form of hubs, the henna fees, according to 15 years, he
did say that if it's a large group of women, and it's safe, then
there is a roster for that.
Okay, there is a roster for that. And then the chef, they have
something where they separate between the travel and the state.
Right. And some of the contemporary issue have said that
it's all about safety. The question is actually about safety
of travel. So if there's safety, then that changes things, that
there is a there is safety. However,
from what I have remembered, what what I definitely know, in the
medical school, the dominant opinion, is that a Muslim is
needed in the traveling portion. For, right. And then as for if she
stays there, then
there is Muharram there also certain, you know, let's say her
aunt is there, right? But, so her aunt would would like to be a mom
because another woman, but if Stan or her son with her grandmother or
something like that, because there are cases where a woman lives
alone. Right. So
so i But though and these are fatawa fatawa and Fidel was not a
ruling, but there are fatawa that that, that she may do that.
However, I cannot tell you that that's the ruling. Right, it's
photo and there's rulings. Even some of the big more genuine
muftis have said that a lot of the hadith is on travel has Allah and
that is safety. So but it has to have a need and then now you come
to the question of how long why because
even still, when it's even if it's like there's police there's things
are in public, like you're not you're not traveling alone in the
dark anymore, but there still may be some harm. Right? And it's
still not something that we can just throw it all out and say
yeah, because it's all public and there's police and there's
security guards etc etc. So
that's the basically non answer to the question basically told you
there's the ruling says has to be at my home, and then there's some
photo that discuss it, but I don't know the chef and one of the
opinions on this day. I know about the travel, but the stay is
something else.
So maybe we should look that up and get comments from the
different muda hip scholars that have methods and then we can
present it properly. You want to do that research.
Yeah, sure. Okay, please then you could come on tomorrow and talk
about it if we're anytime that you're here. Is it correct that
the middle to shut hood insula is optional
means your you can only be forgiven if you forget it. You
cannot intentionally leave it I remember the sun and we're gonna
have several
the eighth Santa Monica of
if you forget these things, then you can make it up with to sujood
afterwards, okay, out loud, silent. What's out loud has to be
out loud what solid has to be silent. The sutra the sitting for
the slim. The first the two Tisha hoods and the tiki bead and the
tummy saying Allahu Akbar me alone him how many minus of course the
first technique is font. These are the eight pseudonym okay, if you
forget them, then you may make up but you cannot intentionally omit
it. Now it official says advice for someone trying to study
Islamic knowledge and with what mindset should we study? The
winners mindset. Right? The successful mindset is just started
with the mindset of slow and steady wins the race. Right Slow
and steady wins the race. Don't try to just rush it. Go slow and
steady. Pick a curriculum and be stable be a stable person. Right?
Which means you pick a curriculum you stick to that curriculum.
Right? The the best curriculum is the one you finished the best. The
best book is the one you finish.
Yes, Ryan, you're up.
Okay brother, how are you is asking for a do our request for
his family. He said it's not without reason that he's asking.
Draw requests for his family.
May Allah subhanaw taala
give them protection and make them and push away all of the sources
of harm. And anyone who may do harm to them and recite the old
odds morning and evening. That's Sophie incited.org backslash with
we've put them up there for you lowercase with W IRD. Lowercase
the odogwu will be a protection for you from shouting and NCWorks
and people are so obsessed with Jen shouting in Star Wars. Yeah.
Ryan next question. What is our rulings? What are the rulings on
intersex persons? Can they marry an intersex person? Can they marry
the intersex person? If they are
unknown what gender they are they can or, for example, they don't
have any genitalia or genital organs they cannot marry because
it's not known whether they're male or female. Yeah, but if
somebody is a male, but he has the other organ, I want to double
check before I say anything like if they if one organ dominates,
such that he urinates as Amanda's right. But he has both organs,
then I have to double check.
But I do know for sure that if he has no organs, and it happens,
these these die young, but today medical advancements have allowed
them because their bladder would burst, right.
But there is a type that has no sexual organs.
And that person cannot marry and they cannot lead the prayer.
But they will choose a gender and live by that for the rest of their
life. They choose male or female and live by that for the rest of
their lives, but they cannot marry.
So Nora Abdus Salam or Nura a de Soluz. She says what is stability?
Stability means that you pick a curriculum. Let's say I'm going to
study the Shafi method.
That's a curriculum. We stick with that book, one book, next book,
next book, next book, and I'm gonna jump in tired of this, let
me study something else. You get tired, you get bored. It doesn't
work like that. You never advance in anything. If you just get bored
quickly, and I forget I'm not going to do it. stability means
for years, you've been on one track, and you're going to finish
it. That's what I consider stability in our studies. Rather
than someone switching all that stuff, know what I just said
loose. You blocked me quick. No, we didn't block her. Maybe someone
else did, but not. We did not block anybody. Mustafa breaks. I
met with stuff it brings, by the way. We actually should have him
on the podcast for his book one of these days. Hey, Ryan, what do you
think of that? He has a book. Okay. So Mustafa Briggs. I met him
in Detroit, because we both got snowed out. And both of our
flights were canceled. So we got to have him on for the book.
Right? In Charlotte. Maybe we can can you please somebody can
arrange that for us and Shona. And we'll talk about his book. That
will be a nice thing for Muslim affairs. Maybe Wednesday. Cello
Morrow bloco says
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over what you can eat. While it was obvious, it's called salata
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and then salats to Jean Allahumma salli wa salam ala Sayidina
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of hopefully that will add the inner Subotica Mr. Payne
sallallahu alayhi wa, aka the name of Daniel alim. Some people said
that that's originally would say not even a thought. And then it
was emem a TJ who made it popular but it's in denial Clara, who's
before he met me to Johnny. So remember to Johnny
he's one who made this very popular. Right? So these are three
Salawat that have combined Salah withdraw. Some people say do we
are we allowed to do that when you're making dua, that's all it
is. It's a drop, you're making to opt for these things. And you've
mingled it with salah and the prophets of Allah when he was on
them. So
they're, I can't, I can't
say which is best, all of them are best. I think the one that touches
your heart is the most effective for you. That's what's important.
This nut Illa official is basically saying Where did you get
this hat but that's I'm saying this I'm actually answering this
because I'm hoping someone out there connect
you reproduce it for us because you have a design designer who
sews it seems like getting the Lage tired didn't want to do it
anymore. I need someone to make this I want someone to make it
hard to like the shape but you know those fez cups those filthy
ones I want someone to make this but hard like one piece rather
than soft
custom India
I'm running a seam says How was this German commemorated in
various parts of the Islamic world in current times, it should only
be basically don't suffer
any way shape and form have gotten thicker and so far as coming March
17. Thursday night so you have to have your mind ready to ask ALLAH
SubhanA wa Tada. And to believe what you ask on that nice what's
going to happen? John Locke, John Ryan, Europe. This is a statement
but we'll answer it. Okay. Beard shorter than fistful assin? No.
Is the beard shorter than a fist length? Is it sinful? And the
answer is no. In the medical opinion, it I've read in the books
and I've discussed with the scholars that there are two
opinions. There is one opinion where medic obligates the beard,
and it's the fifth length, but no longer should not be longer than
the fifth leg. Right? And then the other statement says it's what
called the yard statement, whatever is called the beard.
And maximum fist length any more than fist length is mcru. It's
like showing off is the fist length does it start at the bottom
of the chin are on how you grab your fit your beard? Right How you
grab your beard. So you grab your beard and cut who did this first,
even Omar Abdullah bin Omar, grab and cut. That's it.
Desmond says what is the best way for my job to get answered? It is
to pray with absolute certainty but with absolute poverty
in the Messiah because before Quran, Allah says charity is given
to the poor, if you want a lot to give you charity, right
have to be Fakir also, am Aug when will either da Allah always
answers? Is it not? He who answers the desperate when he prays? You
have to have desperation. That's the real key. And you have to then
seek out the blessed times in places
seek out the blessing times of places but you have to have
desperation and you have to have fervor so your dog could pierce
through the heavens.
The car aristocrat that's his name and he's got like an orange
sportscar here. He says if we come across a scene of fortune telling
and fictional TV show and watch that portion, are we sinful? Is
this Gabriel shovin. I think Gabriel Shaban, it might be
Gabriel Salman.
Are you sinful if you watch something sinful? Well,
technically, I believe you are right. If you intentionally
watching something sinful to do, then yes, we should not watch
something that was sinful to do. Right?
Technically, that's the answer. Is it safe to say at Salon the
province I sell them on all humanity was sent as a Mercy tool
to the world?
Is it safe to say that Salawat on the private side is like sending
blessings on all humanity since he was sent as a mercy to all
prophesy sent in was sent as a mercy to all
and all people benefit from the town or the place or the home in
which Salah on the Prophet occurs? Because that must come and down.
Because the prophets I sent him said
Allah gives and I distribute, okay.
Allah is the multi, right okay and I am the distributor. Okay, Allah
gives and I distribute. So, Allah gets a lot from Allah to the
prophets, I seldom is his him dead to the messenger
peace be upon him, him dead, what is him dead is giving sustenance,
nourishment of what kind, all kinds all kinds of Rahama mercies
and blessings and our Salah on the prophet is pulling that down, who
then whoever we interact with, right will also have a share in
those blessings. Okay, he's a blessing comes on you. It's almost
like wealth. If a person in the town gets rich, everyone else gets
rich because that he's gonna buy stuff, right? And so likewise,
when the Romans come down on a person, whoever interacts with
that person will will will get a benefit from that. And that's
what's the proof of that? is in the Quran says FM and kind of make
them fit here now which unknown autoneum cb fineness, who's better
the one who was dead or the one who we gave him life, which means
spiritual life, the life of his heart, and he walks when we gave
him light, and he walks with that light into the people.
So by interacting, it's about saving armor, and everyone else
who's like, who has light in their heart.
By interacting with these people, they benefit, right so
but they have to their heart has to be willing to accept it. Right?
Misbah Celerina says can't Is it permissible to write the meaning
of the different suitors of the Quran while we are reading it?
Right tafsir I guess meaning of the different suitors that we're
going to write to see it while reading it the double task?
I guess you must see she means or he means to misbehave the guy. He
means to double task. We shouldn't double task with the Quran unless
it's another type of Quran like what is what double tasking with
the Quran. The only double testing with the Quran that's permitted,
that I've seen this you could do is recite their own Jews while
taking testimony from the students. So Karissa had for
example, in our heads Academy, he has three four students reciting
their sutras and he's reciting his own jaws.
That's a double otherwise the Quran says the Quran Quran okay.
vistadb Eliminate on the regime and another as if the Quran is
recited, seek refuge from Allah subhanaw taala and another ifs
Demio. Allah wants you to listen.
What about if you're memorizing
while you're driving? If you can memorize while driving is not a
distraction. We're not driving is on autopilot. Okay, yeah, it's
like walking. Yeah, it's like walking. Yeah.
What else we got Ryan?
Check if one med hub differs from say three other mazahub? Must one
the not go with what? So if if one differs with the other three, do
we follow the one or do we have to follow not it's not a vote like
that? If the if there's three methods saying one thing and one
other method saying another thing? Do you have to follow the three?
Of course not.
I don't know. You have some? It's not probabilistic. It's not a
probabilistic thing. It's based upon their methodology. Yeah.
Well, either for Al Quran istemi Allah who answer to
you have something to say Lakota? Yes.
Yes. So
carry weapon mistake. Are you learning to
conceal obviously.
Okay, he's saying, if it's permissible to have a weapon and
carry a weapon in a certain state, if it's legal, I should say not
permissible just to
terminology. Can you carry that weapon in the mosque? Yes, you
may. If the masters have a rule against it, right? Of course, if
we're gonna have East Coast, West Coast mosque, they will have rules
against that. But if it's concealed, how will they know?
Right? That the Hareem of weapons is pointing it at somebody people
came to the mosque of the Prophet with weapons all the time. But if
it's concealed, how would they know anyway, so it's a moot point?
They're not allowed to search you in Philly. You go to the masjid
everyone's strapped. Everyone's strapped?
Yeah. My sister she works at the public defender's office. Yeah.
And she says like 90 to 100% of the people in Philly have that.
The government doesn't care. Like they can't do anything. So it's so
prevalent, they can't do anything. My friend was driving in Philly,
he had a client or something. And he's driving a failure that a nice
car. And my friend had a goofy on and he's Pakistani. So he looks in
the rearview in the sideview mirror and he sees at a red light.
He sees a guy walking up to him really suspicious, middle of the
day. Right? And then the guy comes up to the window. And my friend
does startle but the guy says oh, you're Muslim. Okay, it's about to
Jack You go on
crazy crazy crazy.
Good. Next we got ottoman. He asked again, how what how do we
make dua the best way for it to be responsive. Make much Salah on the
Prophet SAW Nice. before, during and after your prayer. Be thankful
to Allah have absolute faith that you are talking to the king.
There's absolutely no limit on the kink. Don't say Oh, but I can't
because I have my kids. Oh, but it's not going to work out because
I have my family. Oh, it's not gonna work out because there's no
time in the day. Remove these limits because you are putting
that limit on Allah. It is a lack of faith and his lack of Ed have
to put your limits on Allah subhana wa, if Allah wanted to
make anything out of you, he can write, he can do that. Because
your existence is a greater miracle than anything that you
would ask about. Okay, your existence is the the base, right?
That's the base he already gave you that everything that he adds
on to you is extra. Okay. So do not say oh, it's not possible.
You're Are you saying that Allah's powers weak are limited. So you
cannot have those limits? And that's why people had they have
these limits. So they just put a ceiling over their head.
Then they get depressed. Allah has come to free us from the shackles.
Next question is by Safa or Suffolk, depending if she's
Egyptian or Desi
is the time before Magnum a time of each other every day or only on
Friday, mainly is on Friday, mainly, it's on Friday. But the
daily time of the job is after, at the end of every obligatory
prayer, which is before or after sometime it's unknown, so we do
both.
And it's in the last third of the night, a window of time opens up
for the answering of prayers.
That's the daily does making the same dua Allah make the dot more
likely to happen 1,000%
Allah loves those who persist on the DUA. And the fact that you
keep saying something, oftentimes mean Allah wants it for you. Many,
many, many, many, many scholars have said that the fact that you
keep praying for something is Allah telling you he wants to give
it to you. And that's why if you give up that's the sign he doesn't
want to give it to you. If you stop praying for it. That is a
sign he doesn't want to give it to anyone. So don't stop praying for
it do not make and Allah does not get bored the way we get word.
Right? I could ask someone for help. Hey, would you think that's
gonna happen? One or two times we'll be encouraging, right? Yeah,
we could do it. You could do this. I'll help you out. But on the
fifth six times a minute you're like obsessed, you have issues.
But Allah does not do this today. But that's the difference between
Allah and humans. The human will say listen, you you you want this
too much. You have issues that are unresolved maybe from your
childhood, and you need to stop Okay? with Allah subhanaw taala we
are told the a bed of Allah they get sick of you and Allah never
get sick of you. Right? That's the beauty of and and Allah in the low
headwind, mula Hannaford, right, there's not a hadith, but it's a
statement all scholars they consider is true. Allah loves the
one who does not stop in the DUA. And Allah does not get bored until
you get bored, get bored, meaning dismiss your prayer. He did not
dismiss your prayers.
Unless you yourself are just saying that you're bored of it and
you're just saying, no, if it's in your heart, that's a sign that
maybe that's a sign Allah wants to give it to you. He keeps putting
in your heart. There's a saying from one of the early setup and
get
it says that
man Hampton, it's so hard for me to switch from to the Arabic here.
It led to Rene Lama or Juma al Hampton Itala. If you did not want
Oh ALLAH if you didn't want this for me, you wouldn't have inspired
me to keep going with this dua.
Isn't that beautiful thing? In LEM Turid Naila are jus if you had if
you did not want me to have what I want. You wouldn't matter Hampton,
Bolivar you would not have inspired me to ask for it. Now you
make dua for something for like a year, two years, three years, four
years. That's all that takes a lot of work. Hard work, belief,
desire, commitment. Where did that come from? It came from Allah
Tada, because he wants you to have.
And anyway, if you have a goal and a desire, like, probably you have
two options, now you give up crying, be depressed, or just keep
making up for it and imagining and pretending it's a true, right.
Even from that standpoint, if you just look at it from that worldly
standpoint,
I'd rather not be depressed and realistic. I'd rather still stay
to stay hopeful. I'll die hopeful. Right? Because the state of hope.
And the state of desire is a better state than giving up.
Giving up it's not a macloan. Exactly. That's a great saying
Rajat desire and prayer is a MACOM. If I'm making dua, and I
want something that's a Macomb, either I'm gonna get it or
something better, or Allah gives it to me on the afterlife, like
something greater in the afterlife. So I'm getting it's a
MACOM it's an act of worship, giving up and being depressed and
realistic. It's not a McCobb there's nothing praiseworthy about
that. And that's why it feels miserable.
So good job for autism and 99. Sounds like he's Turk, for asking
that question. And getting us on this topic. It he says in the
Hanafi school. What are the rulings around Oregon and blood
donation? We have to get the Hanafi resident Hanafy so that I
can answer that for you. Literally resident Hanafy we have often
dazzled her net. How does one make Toba says moral Blanco for one of
the major sins slash Keba is if you have a major sin, you you get
forgiven by
get forgiven by intending that I did this and I asked Allah forgive
Miss kabbah is worse Quebec
uh Sorry. Yeah major since that's about I was thinking more because
the movie cuts are seven, and they require life altering Toba and
hedge or hedge if you can make that's the movie Gods like doing
black magic murder those these are movie cuts fleeing from the
battlefield accusing a chase a woman eating ryba good
committing an act of ship Yes, a Muslim can commit an act of shift
for example, let's say he is you know with some Hindu friends and
they say let's do some shit
you're like all right, I don't want to embarrass I don't want to
say no
like if you don't really like samosa
or something
like Christians around him, and he like he has peer pressure and
becoming Christian, and then they die. Yeah, you see, these are
pretty much at sunset against the bottle. I see there's a show that
the peer pressure to become a Christian Right? Peer pressure to
do something of a Shinki nature, right? And that's going to
increase by the way Wallahi is going to increase in our day and
age. You're gonna have a Muslim kid. He's in college and then
someone starts with the gemstones right horoscope horoscopes, right.
horoscopes, gems, stones, magic, thinking all this nonsense, which
is eventually one day it's going to be a straight up ship. Like now
you're flirting with ship, right? You're flirting with it, then one
day is gonna be real shipped. It's going to be some statue, some
prayer, some affirmation to state to the statue. Nonsense, right?
Absolute other nonsense that people are falling into. So these
are the movie cuts that requires life altering Toba and Hutch.
Seven, Christmas called Deadly sins we call the movie caught,
they stay they stay in your heart and badly and they stay on your
record for a long time. But the kabbah are a lot more. And the
diversity of majors and minors in a major sin requires you to intend
to the repentance for it. That's it. Okay. But the sign that you're
actually forgiven for something is that you persist in the Toba? You
remember to make Toba and you persist upon the Toba. Okay,
that's one of the signs of forgiveness.
Am I sinful to listen to the deobandis? And are they from
Edison?
They are from Edison, they have done an amazing job preserving the
hips of Quran preserving many shots of the deen. Okay. They
preserve the Hanafi method in many ways. Okay, so there's some of
this those discussions that we've had and they get they get upset
every time I bring it up. I never blame their scholar for saying
anything. I never, I didn't research. I didn't care to
research it. I said if they're scholar anyone would say Do you
wonder otherwise XY and Z? This would have been a shadier
mannequin ruling on it. That's all I said. They got upset with me.
And some of them by the way, not all other ones say do we
understand what you mean? We're against that stuff, too. That's
actually the majority. Right? And they say, Yeah, we're against that
stuff, too. So I lost what's the issue? So there
have we you would be a lie and a disservice and dishonest not to
uphold and be honest about what they have preserved for the OMA
show me who else has competed against them? In the west of hips
of Quran of keeping Islamic identity? Okay, even the form of
an Islamic identity. Show me who's kept it up? All right, bear with
me, huh? He's doing better with Mitch better does with me, who
better does better in separating between men and women? Yeah. Okay.
We believe in that. I'm proud of that. That's our belief. I love
that. Right? I love that. I don't feel it's not against women at
all. Why would a woman want to be with me? Right? Why would they
want to be with Gods they're happy. I'm telling you. I had a
Holika one time and so us England. And there was some God at this
room was so small. And we had the the masala was packed. And it was
very movingly. It was too close. So then we said we're the only
solution is to rent the second room and then put a speaker. Okay.
Everyone said, Oh, this is the worst thing ever. This is we're
going back into the dark ages, blah, blah, blah.
So as
we did it, our tendons shot up through the roof. Reason being the
guys loved hanging out with guys. Yeah. And the women were like,
this is like a hangout for the women. Right? We could just be
ourselves. So I love it. I know that tons of women love it too.
The only time when they don't like it, which makes sense is when
they're part of the messenger to some junk, right? It's some junky
place with roaches and not updated and the lighting is terrible and
everything's terrible right there.
So
next question. Let's go to Ryan.
For the Wednesday, each other
is we have to make dua from the beginning of October all the way
to the end. Or is it one moment the Wednesday it Jabba to Tao up
between an dua between Dora and Astra of negative as we said, in
all these, Whenever the Prophet gives that space of time, there is
a window in that space of time, which will change every week. The
window
opens up what is the window is it 20 minutes, 30 minutes an hour,
Allah Allah, the length is up to Allah and the timings of job
decided by Allah. So if you were to do all the whole time from
Wednesday, door to us, which in the winter is easy, it's like two
hours and a half.
Okay? Summertime, it's a lot longer. But if you were to do the
whole window, you will certainly get it. Likewise, if you were to
do the whole last third of the night, of any night, you would get
it. Likewise, if you did the entire night in Ramadan last 10
Nights, very likely, you're going to have later
in the last 10 nights because it's not have to be in less than it's
likely in the last 10 Nights.
It could technically, later it can be any night of Ramadan. But most
likely the prophets I said, said we hope to find it in the last 10
and we hope the odd nights. So let's say the whole last 10.
Because sometimes, you may have a difference of when you started off
with one from somebody else. So your odd night is maybe an even
night, blah, blah, blah. So let's just say the whole lesson nights,
you should take off the lesson that's from work.
Right? That's when you should take your vacations. Because it's
valuable, right? You can't miss that and do the whole night of
Ramadan. Right from negative all the way to fetch.
After repenting, should one make up for the salah that he has been
neglecting for years. You must not after before or after? Yes, but
he's saying in general when a person comes back into the deen
again. Yes, you must make up all your Miss prayers. Ryan Europe.
In from a question from his wisdom, His wisdom, Lola is
confident we should be asking her questions. Yeah, we shouldn't be
regarding attending invitations where music is played. washroom
has limited facilities for Whoo, no prayer facilities available.
Women are dressed up including makeup and a lot of the prayers
are missed. That's a long list.
So she's going to a gathering a dinner gather. Now this is this is
very normal. Like let's say you have like a cultural group. I'm
not gonna say what culture all cultures have the Egyptians have
this. Syrians have this daisies have this. But they're not
religious, but they're family oriented. Right. And they're
community oriented. But they have these gatherings and there could
be all sorts of monka monka things that are haram. Right? So do you
go to these gatherings? And the answer is it depends how old you
are. If you're like 11 year old with your Mom, do you have a
choice. If you are, for example,
an adult
like you're 1617, you still may not have a choice, but you can go
outside, right, you can step out a little bit from the monka. You
could go in a room where there's lowering the gaze, you could if
you're older than that, then you have no excuse.
You have no excuse. You want someone to pull your dean down, go
hang out with people who don't respect, okay, health and diet,
and they eat all sorts of junk. And then don't say that I want to
be physically fit. You're hanging out with people who are against
what you believe, say you want to have. I want to be successful. I'm
really rich. Okay, so let's hang out with people who are
unemployed, and just watch sports all day long. You're contradicting
everything you say you want, by who you hang out with. So if you
want Dean and purify your art and you want your draw to be answered,
like some of these people asking, why would you hang out with
someone disobeying Allah? There's only one power. Why would you hang
out with him in disobedience with those types who are disobeying
Him? So what you want to be is all about who you hang out with? Who
do you choose to hang out with? Right? I choose to hang out with
fitness, you know, conscious people, you'll be fit, you'll be
physically fit someday yourself, just by hearing what they say.
Observe, absorb absorbing their beliefs, their values, their
loves. You want to hang out with people who do all sorts of monka
Listen, may Allah forgive them. They might be wonderful people but
they're just not on the same wavelength of the deen that you
want to be in. Right? So thank you for the invitation. You're a great
guy. I'm on a different I'm in a different headspace right now.
Right. That's what they all say. Right. I'm I'm just in a different
space right now.
So, so related question. Yeah. I think has an unpopular answer. And
I think related Q Okay. I think you're the guy to give the I'm
talking about here. So a lot of these types of events, their
weddings, wedding. Yeah, all the weddings are like 99% like monk
goes yeah, yeah.
Sometimes it's not the things that are happening in the wedding, but
the what the marriage itself. That's haram. The marriage itself
is haram. Yeah, you can't go. There's not a marriage then. It's
a union of sorts, just not a marriage. Yeah. Like, for example,
you're saying that, let's say most of them women in Hindu men, it's
not a marriage. Yes. Most of the men and Hindu woman right. It's
not a marriage in Islam. It's their unifying in some way that is
in we in our religion, we don't make up the laws and our religion
by the way, we just follow them. Right. The dean does not consider
that a marriage period.
Okay, yeah, I can't I can't update that. From what we're not allowed
to celebrate something that Allah forbade sins inside of a halal
celebration. Mara will Lima marriage wedding is a halal
celebration, but they're doing it sinfully. So you don't attend the
part that has the sinfulness in it. But the celebration overall is
that it's actually renewed, unless there's wastage of money. And
unless there is like we're isolating the poor, then that's
part of it is haram. Right? What about to non Muslims getting
married, though?
We recognize the city recognizes the marriages outside of Islam,
for example, irregular, Christian, sexual. Yeah, heterosexual
Christian man and woman. Okay, that's a recognized marriage so
that when they become Muslim, their kids are not kids out of
wedlock. There they are married right there in they can still live
together. But they just have to make up what part of the marriage
contract was missing? If any, let's say there was no dowry. You
got to give a dowry. Right. Let's say there's part of the marriage
contract that is forbidden in Islam, right? Then they would
nullify that. But there they are married. Hindu still, like a Hindu
man, that husband and wife, married in the Hindu religion came
into Islam became Muslim, we would simply say just update the
contract, make sure that that's valid. That's it fulfill any
missing conditions, and erase any forbidden clauses that are
invalid. That's it, but they were considered marriage. Race for
pagan anyway, brace for pagan and anti Islam. What about the
atheists? Atheists couple gets married atheist couple gets
married.
Why would they get married? Yeah. That's the real question. Right?
Like,
yeah, like, where did you get this concept of marriage from? Right?
It without any revealed scripture? Why would you have some kind of
agreement of that sort at all? There's no reason for.
So why que wbn says, Isn't it a considered a phobia to carry a
knife in America? I don't remember that. To be honest with you. I
didn't know that much Malika.
Cycle 95. My colleague left Islam due to the striking of women being
condoned On arriving in Canada from Iran. Any guidance of this
well, is from Iran. So
where is it condoned? You're striking a woman in a matter when
is when is it ever condoned? You have some say?
Culture is something like, Yeah, welcome. Okay. Here's an Iranian
we actually have one.
He's a Sunni, Iranian. Yes. Allah, the local mullahs say,
subcontinent as well, like local mullahs will tell you like go hit
your wife, depending on where you're from, like be
in the medical method. And when I studied this mat, Miss Ella with
chicken AMI about divorce, when is when it when can a judge or even
any men separate a husband from a wife from a husband? Like we I'm
divorcing you to like a judge or any member of council of Imams
says if there's harm, what is the least of harm? That is for
a reason for divorce, that if she talks to him, and he gives her the
cold shoulder, and he doesn't talk to her, so if that's something
that's a valid reason for divorce, then this issue is also a valid
reason for divorce tucked lip, which means a judge would separate
the two.
And secondly, what is this another messenger Peace be upon
that the Prophet do this? Right? Was this a practice of a buckler?
Ramana Northmet and it of the great Sahaba but what Allah says
is new shoes, new shoes, then you physically may restrain her yes,
it is allowed. For example, you come in and your wife is on a cam
with somebody, right? And you're like, Oh, you're home early,
right?
You a physically restrain and end this situation. Or you may
physically do that you may take the person and just stop them from
that you're allowed to do that. And it's not the story of a lot of
men.
I mean, that's an example I think, what they're they might be asked
about in the incident they say the ayah says, Well, did you go home?
Yeah, the academics call it 434.
They do that right.
You don't take any I have Quran without
The look of looking at how the message of peace be upon implied,
right? So yes, if there is new shoes, if you have someone who's
doing drugs, if you have someone who is committing Zina, then yes
you are the man in this household in this relationship may
physically alter this situation. Okay? Whether it's your daughter,
your son, your wife, your mom, if your mom lives with you, okay? And
she is drinking, you may physically take these bottles you
have do not May and empty the mala. Right, physically, you're
doing this? Yes.
Times, there'll be time when mental physically how to restrain
Yeah, to end the time, they'll have to lock the doors because
they will be attracted to the digit.
Yeah.
So, right. What do you have?
Is the new question. Ready? Yep. Okay, when you understand how the
current money system works, what should I do Islamically sell my
second house, or rent it, since it will cover both mortgages, the
kids won't be able to buy in the future. They're asking because
their intention is to protect themselves from inflation, and
protect the family's wealth.
With so what kind of mortgages you have, like an Islamic mortgage? He
should refi to an Islamic mortgage?
That's the answer to your question. Let's say you got a
mortgage that's not held out from the bank, refinance it with
guidance or you if, right, but the contract has many of these and she
have signed off on it. If we accept that, and go do it,
refinance, and then
refinance both of them and rent out the one. And don't say my kids
can't Why did you say that? Did you know that? I admit I did he
say that? My kids can't buy it or something. They said they didn't
want to or something? What do you say my kids want to do? He said
kids won't be able to buy in future Wait, kids won't be able to
buy in the future? Why?
You know, the future. You know, they're some of the richest people
game rich during the Great Depression.
That's X that out of your thinking, my kids won't be able
to? If they don't, is because you planted that in your head, you're
gonna behave accordingly. Right? So don't say that they could be
richer than you. Who knows? You don't know. You know, some of the
richest people during depressions, comedians, right, because people
need to unwind themselves, right. And so they get paid a lot. So
anyway, which does get texts would you recommend taking from to
develop young children? The Kuzari series looks pretty good. By funds
vitae is only for children. Funds vitae. My wife has actually
contributed. Yep.
Question shoot, once you come sit here, actually, so you can be in
the mic. You're not in the camera. Okay. You
don't want to be on the camera. You don't want to get married.
So
it's because he missed. He didn't hear.
Yesterday, he was saying, if you don't wanna get married, there's
something wrong with you. Yeah. Oh, it's 309 I got a doctor's
appointment in 10 minutes. I gotta go. Last question. Yeah, yes. So
in the olden days, you know, legend had this
compliment. So we had some months. Yeah, so the question Oh, yeah. If
you're just wanting to get married, but he's asking about
coffee.
Okay, so a compliment, if she, of course get a compliment for the
reason of her being compliment, right? Okay.
If she says no, she doesn't want to, you know, engage in whatever.
You know what's going on?
When your concubine says no to you, then you can bring up that
question and we'll talk to her
otherwise, we don't take theoretical questions.
Is it haram to visit ancient Egyptian temples and tombs? It's
with tavini Wow, amazing, right amazing pagan temple then no but
if it's for if it's for contemplation Look Look how
amazing because great this was but look what Allah did with them then
that's okay like
that see them you know, because there's benefit Did they say that
No, I don't want those comb Lutz remains on my skin that see that
the scholars say that yeah. For eyelash. Yeah, so we're gonna put
the remains of comb Lutz on our skin and on our face. Yeah, I
guess so. But at the same time, I'm like the scholars of Jordan.
They say that okay, because they live so close by Yeah. So so the
scholars of Jordan have permitted the use of the Dead Sea Salt, the
salty basically even before it was always known to be a place just
because of the salts and the minerals. Oh, really? Yeah.
Has some health benefits. I didn't realize that the mud from the
health see has debts. He has health benefits. And you see the
Israeli selling the stuff in the stores in the malls all the time,
these little stands. Yeah.
is the book of illumination by Al Escandon book of illumination.
Which one is that?
I have to read that actually. No, I'm only accustomed to his Hichem
I only read his Hakan but I have to read the other one. All right,
vanilla extract yes how that you can use that is bovine gelatin
permissible? Oh Delos and basically
it has been please make dua for us about the cow gelatin.
Well, the extraction I have to ask about the extraction when when or
how the extraction is done.
We are not allowed to pray for the impossible. Okay. Yes, there are
things that are impossible in Sharia, such as becoming a
prophet, or things that are impossible in
that are impossible in either such as I want to be able to not
breathe ever. Right? And things that are just silly. It's a it's a
mockery of the deen. We're not allowed to ask for those. That's
correct. But you can ask drew I could ask for my buddy to become
Muslim. Yes, you may make that dua, but you can make dua for
something that you think in your world is very far off and
difficult. You may ask for that. Okay, all right. Unfortunately,
got a doctor's appointment. Gotta go. I love these live streams and
I would have continued before
or the rest of it. But
cozy Chloe says but the Islamic thing doesn't say restraint. It
says hitting. Yes it does say hitting right. It does say that it
doesn't say restraint. What are your thoughts on the opinions of
even claim that Hellfire is not lasting forever? That is
incorrect. It is lasting forever?
Okay.
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practice was endorsed by the official as her position before
Dr. Diane know that what I read from was not from Dr. Diane about
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the scholars did except it
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