Shadee Elmasry – NBF 212 Seerah of the Prophet SAW Pt.1
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Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah early he was up be human Well
welcome everybody to the Safina society nothing but facts live
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in the month of June,
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on a day in which as you can see here, misplaced my turban this
morning and my cap and everything and came here without anything. So
here we go. We're gonna go without anything today. But I want to kick
it off. Of course Monday we always talk about the prophets of Allah.
But just to get stuff certain things out of the way.
Professor doctors arena Greevil, whom
I know from Connecticut days, lived there had dinner at her
house.
We were small group of people off everyone was friendly.
She noted about yesterday. kadhi is talk the pitfalls of Muslims
align with the progressive left. She says I don't make prescriptive
religious arguments fatawa out of respect for the ultimate
good.
I don't either. I don't get fatawa either.
She says yes. So Cody, though.
And at all, meaning all his Imams I guess, have zero respect for
political expertise to make this argument, which is that the
pitfalls of aligning with the progressive left.
All right, good. So what do I have to say about that?
She's saying basically, I don't give fatawa You stay out of
politics.
Sounds fair and on its face. But let me tell you why it's not a
problem. It is a problem. Because a religious community, their
political agenda has to be both grounded in worldly pragmatics and
the religion.
Am I right or wrong?
All right, it is a religious group.
Their agenda, their political agenda has to be aligned with both
the religion
and the real world.
So this way, I said in response to this, if you want a cohesive
political agenda for a religious community, it has to align with
both the religion and the world. So he does have the right to say
what does and doesn't align with the Sharia. I don't see a problem
and all this. So does it make sense to me? To you should be,
right? It makes sense, right? Like, I cannot give political
advice to an athlete. This is how you're going to navigate this
political and politics and sports intersect all the time. Right?
Like the kneeling part, right? In the NFL, the kneeling was
political. So if I'm going to give advice to an athlete about that,
or to a team or to an owner, I have to give him advice that
actually doesn't harm his his team, either.
His sport, you're gonna go give political advice to the NFL, that
advice cannot harm the actual NFL.
The purpose of the NFL is to provide good football into living
rooms. That's the job of the NFL provide awesome games in living
rooms. Well, that's not even a great example, because Islam is
not a service to other humans only where we have a creator. So it's
more better off to be an example of when you owe when you have when
you owe loyalty to somebody, and we owe a loyalty. Our Amen is a
loyalty to Allah subhana wa Tada. So forget analogies aside, because
we're not going to give analogy about our status with ALLAH
SubhanA wa Tada. But that's the idea. So I don't see anything
wrong, nor does he have to be
a political expert to be able to say,
or there's no voice. There is voice. Yeah, I see the thing
moving. Nor 74 is saying the voice is not coming in. And what's
coming in.
Okay.
Voice is fine, right.
Someone told me on the stream that's voices. Okay. They can hear
good. So voice.
Nora 74. May have be on unmute.
So that's the point. So if do I need if I need to know what that a
political party is all about? And they're all about let's say, as we
know, let's just give an example in India. This political party
involves the
supportive, supporting Israel and it involves
they spend a lot of their time and money aggrandizing you know,
different priests in the Hindu religion? All right, that is on
the agenda.
How then, as as an Imam, I could say, what is it, we can't be in
with that, that part we can't be. And I don't know about the other
stuff that's happening on the ground. I'm not dumb, but it's not
my everyday thing. I could learn it if I wanted to. But it's not my
everyday thing. So, but I definitely can tell you, this is
unlawful to support that, to be part of those marches. To
celebrate that aspect to wave that flag is unlawful in this religion.
simple, as simple as that. I don't need to be an expert in this in
anything else. But that's all I'm saying. Right? So I, that's it's a
very secular mindset to say you do religion. Let me learn how to
purify manage acid from you. That's all you can talk about.
Tell stories. Teach us how to purify our digestive from the
bathroom. That's you guys. That's what they're saying. And then us
we'll figure out the political. Now, if that doesn't work like
that. Islam doesn't work like that. Because political is action
action has rulings from Allah. We don't really separate between the
two. In a clear cut separation, there could be a separation in
expertise, no problem.
So that's the idea here. And that's why I wanted to start off
and kick off with that it was a busy weekend. And yes, of course
he getting piled on is the highlight of last night and this
morning. And he also got piled on for another reason he used the
word woke pejoratively
meaning demeaning, like it's a bad thing. And somebody will. Isn't
that the way that the origin of the word woke was somebody who has
a sensitivities towards racism. Apparently, that's what
was a good thing in the past. But you use a word on how it's used
now. I'm gonna go into his the history of it, right? What
difference does it make to how it started 2030 years ago?
So it's like, no, the word woke stands for a lot more than merely
sensitivity towards race. Okay, sorry to tell you that, but that's
what it is. It's not just about
race at this point in time and just look around, wake up. Look
around. Look how everyone uses the word. So what Okay, find another
word that progressive. blue haired m&ms Whatever these people are a
Smurfs? Alright, blue haired, whatever you want to call them.
Okay. So I mean, this is not another thing
that I want to talk about. I don't know who this guy is. But I
totally agree with him. Who is this guy? I have no clue what this
there is a guy out there. released a video.
Okay.
He basically brought the point out, he said,
All of what the world is doing and why it's so coordinated that the
trans and LGBT support is so perfectly coordinated. And so
onpoint from the highest level up, there's no way you're selling me
that this is an organic worldwide movement. There is no way it's
worldwide. The White House is in it, the State Department is in it.
The Vice President is involved. Every company is involved. They're
going to Africa to throughout the world. to peddle this thing.
There's only one real explanation. It's from the highest level of
population control operation. Think about the math.
Right? If you can spread a movement where people sterilize
themselves, and if they don't sterilize themselves, they spill
their seed where it doesn't benefit or they never put seed
inside their womb, their stomachs at all.
You will have a stagnation of the population.
And isn't that what globalists have wanted? From day one? They've
been reading about this from the 90s they wanted this from the 90s
when this was crackpot cuckoo talk, but I was into that stuff. I
was I'm secretly still into that stuff. Right? But
I actually believe they're probably more on point than anyone
else. Right? These are like men and black what it's all about. You
see men in black. Okay, where the crazy newspapers is the actual
truth, right? But it is true. I do believe that there are people
there are loosely oriented groups at the top who want population
control. And those guys at the top are ridiculously powerful. We
don't understand. Things haven't really changed too much. Where in
the disparity of power and I think the world will always generally
maybe
Be like this, especially with technology, I think it makes it
worse doesn't make it better makes it worse. But because when you
tell me that there's a guy out there who owns
250 new stations,
and you're telling me that we're have a democracy of power, right?
Just because you went and vote, are you serious, you are believing
in that, right?
You got a god, there are individuals, there are companies
that own hundreds of local news stations. And they take the story.
And they will then basically clip that story. And they will show you
how hundreds of new stations are reciting the same story. And you
think that we're in like a democracy of ideas? Not we're not
you got people who have a massive amounts of wealth and power, gut
that Ken with their decision, if they put their mind to something,
they can sway the minds of millions,
if not 10s of millions and hundreds of millions of people, by
simple, just persuasive methods.
Let it rain, the same news story repeated over and over and over
and over and over and over and over and over. Get this pop stars
to support it, get these people to support it, blah, blah, blah. And
then all of a sudden, and let people imagine that they came up
with this idea themselves, right? Let people imagine that, that it's
their idea.
So we're not living like that. And we're living in a world where it's
very plausible that this whole thing is a population control
operation.
That to me is the best.
It's the best analysis. Okay. It is a best analysis of the whole
thing.
What listen to this, listen to the Huffington Post, The Huffington
Post as a reverse view of it, they are essential. Coleman Lutz is
essential to the harmony of society, because it is the natural
method of population control. Yeah.
That's like, my goodness, let's talk about spinning something
inside out. Okay.
That's insane. All right. Let's get to our business today. Okay.
Let us get to our business. And our business today is
the Syrah of the messengers of Allah what He was saying, we read
something from the Prophet peace be upon him every Monday. So let's
dwell into that, or delve into that, I should say,
now see it, it's even a Hashem. And this is part of something that
I'm working on, which is
gonna take a while because I don't have a lot of time to write, to be
honest with you. But I have to make time, a seed a book, my first
theater book, that's what I want to call it. My first theater book,
which could be for kids could be for adults, right? But or it could
be like for, I would say, high school, middle school upwards.
Simple language, probably 20% of it will be geared concepts that
will go over the head of youth, but adults can grasp it like that.
Well,
let's just see.
What the first thing that he begins with Ignatian then he
begins with the story, the narrative of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then the Rukia of Robbia. In
another.
The backstory the context of the Sierra is oftentimes ignored.
Okay, it's there. It's ignored, but it's important. What cannot be
ignored another medical Yemen. Main a DA fi Moluccas suburbia. He
was the king of Yemen.
Farrar UIA her lads who were fought the Obeah he saw a dream
that startled him for lumea Dhaka Hinden Walesa head on Walla
Walla Mana Gem admin Nima Malacca T il Gemma who la
there was no ort law and order or guidance on Dream Interpretation
back then. He sees an amazing dream he doesn't know what to do.
This is why prophecies so we are so lucky. We have prophethood we
would be so lost without Nivola Okay, we will be so lost without
any concept of Naboo prophethood and without the teachings he saw
an important dream so he got the sorcerers the medicine anyone
weird basically, all the alternative people good and all
anyone who's into this, this stuff and why do I say weird because you
can't prove anything. A rational person give me some
until I can prove spirituality for rational people is provable,
through Naboo through prophethood. Go.
And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never lived the way the
magician's and these types of people lived. They never lived
like that. Right? They lived with the people with families upright,
healthy. You've never seen one of these medicine men physically fit,
right? There's always something wrong with them. You've never seen
one of these odd types in society, except that they're, they're
slightly off something about them's off. And that's one of the
major difference between charlatans and prophets. Prophets
come, they live upright, live with the people, okay? They look
normal, their body is normal. They have families, they're in society,
they do jobs, they buy and sell. So they're not like the sorcerer's
or anything like that.
So he gets all of them felt at home in the UK that I took her Let
me wait for that to be. I've seen a dream and a vision
I've seen a dream and a vision and
I need your advice. Fat could only be between you interpret it for
me?
God hula hoop. Sosa Elena No, but it could be Twilio tell us. And
we'll tell you by the way, human beings, while Allah says the
revelation may have been cut from them, nonetheless, the Mercy of
Allah is there. And there are people
receiving help from angels, if not for them personally.
It's so Allah has Rama. Don't ever buy into the idea that human
beings are like Neanderthals and grunting and, and just like living
this miserable, decadent, this miserable life? No, Allah has
always been there for people.
From the start of Adam II, they Salam he didn't leave them alone.
There was God that a synonym giving Satan to Adam, a help
coming in human form helping Adam so don't ever buy into and believe
in that concept that only now like we have technology and we're able
we've evolved to be able to be help ourselves and before this
human beings were in misery, no. People were not in misery. The way
that you know, it's sometimes portrayed, people are always
receiving divine help. And divine help does not mean that Allah is
pleased with everything either upon but Allah has mercy.
Allah is very merciful and people really sometimes don't realize how
merciful that Allah is, even with somebody who is a non believer,
does not do not non believers also have
you know, they invent things to improve their life. Does not Allah
Tata himself move the world through humans. And people say all
this next generation, no good is ever going to come from them. No
good will come to him, I guarantee you. And the reason is that Allah
wills good for the world. And if Allah wills to bring things out,
he's gonna bring it out through these people. Steve Jobs was one
of the biggest bums that you'd ever seen. Rude, mental case,
horrific human being.
But Allah nonetheless, he put himself in a position where Allah
inspired him. Or he received I'm not gonna say Allah and Spartacus
sounds like almost spiritual, religious, but he received
inspiration to to fulfill God's will. That is, Allah's will. All
this technology is Allah is real. It doesn't mean that that is where
the riddle of Allah is the will and the contentment of Allah is
different. You come to Allah say, Oh Allah, I invented a phone Yamo
template, this means nothing, right? So the content, the
pleasure of Allah and the will of Allah to different things. And the
will of Allah is always running through people. Okay, so for the
for the advancement of his plan on the earth. Anyway, let's get back
to this. So there was always ways to find out what the dream meant
back in the days but there was, there was still not the way we
have it now with Christmas efficiency, reason, rationality,
evidence, and then it's widespread. For them, it was few
and far between.
Okay, Finola, out of 11 out of a half cobbler and oak Berra, who
beat her for Karla hoorah gentlemen home thing canon medical
you read to her failure bath Illa se in worship and for no Elisa, I
don't Allah min min Houma. So he said here
none of us is going to know better than Cynthia and ship so get
Cynthia and ship. These are two people. They will tell you what
you ask about. For batha Ely Hema for Kajima la he sold the Johan
Kubla ship Satya came first then ship for Carlo in your kodra it
roja let me offer the to be the naevia I saw a dream that scared
me and shocked me.
Inform me about it's a petition for a
NECA en us up to her a subset that we got
good.
If you understand if you know it
you will know its meaning. So the the the first group said go to the
interpreters. They would tell you what the dream is first,
then they'll tell you the meaning. So he brings the person and says
this first person and he says, Tell me what the dream is first
you should know what I drempt Okay, you should know what the
dream is first. And if you do then I know you'll know the meaning.
Okay, so I don't know how they would know but let T's are all
dealing with the gym these people got and who knows. So he says
Carla, a fellow. I will do it. You saw her eita homearama Cara
Jasmine Volmer for Walcott's B rld Tehama. For ACCA. Let minha Kula
thaty Zhang Juma
you saw
a flame Kittleman and nar
cryptominer Not came out of a dark space
and fell into a low land a lowland and ate everything in it.
It it ate up everything and it burned everything.
So that's what he was scared of. That's why he was scared.
Carla
and Malik man, them in her shape. shape. You didn't make one mistake
100% Perfect. Okay. 100% Perfect.
For my index indica, fita Weili her. So what is your
interpretation? All up? Get this man Cynthia Khalifa Bhima banal
hora de any mineral. Hanson Manhattan I swear by something I
don't know what letter B Thun otto.com al hubba Chu,
fellow fellow human economic bein, A be an alleged rush.
He said the interpretation is as follows.
The Ethiopians will land in this country and take it all over the
fire is the Ethiopians and fire tends to be in the dream and
negative right and all human experience if it's out of control,
it's negative.
What did fit I don't see fit Island saw a flame.
A fireball coming from Palestine, landing in Egypt burning it all.
They told him a boy from the Hebrews has been born in your
country.
And he's going to take it over. He is going to be the end of Egypt
this boy right when that case it's good because Egypt was a
oppressive and corrupt land. So here this king got a VI and
another he saw that the habit she is going to come
and conquer Yemen. East Africa used to be they used to be the
power in that low in that era. Egypt the power of North
and what's now Ethiopia. Props to you, Noah
and his people.
Were the power of the South
call Hola. Hola. Malik.
By your father. Yes, I'll do
in her the Lavon illan muda This hurts. For meta Hua ihnen ofis
Imani her the ambassador who? He said now that we know the
interpretation now tell me when is this going to happen now? Or later
on? Karla built by the WHO behind after your time by a long time. I
wonder why he said the accoutrements of Dino Sabine
Yandina Messinian this is after 6070 years it'll happen. Okay, how
did he know that? We'll see.
If they are doing with elica min. Mulki him? Um Yakata. Will their
rule last or will it be over soon? Got
caught up
Yakata. It's not going to last?
Less than
the bid. There was Sabina Minister Nene. They're not going to last
more than seven years.
Then they're going to be fought and they're going to be expelled.
Woman nearly nearly came in cutely him with Roger him who was going
to kill them? Who's going to fight them? Carla Yeah, Lee Aram Ibni V.
Asan? Yeah, Kuru jolly him in Haddon for
If I hadn't been home Bill Yemen,
Iran son of Yazan is going to come from iden and fight them on.
Kala FA do Modelica min Soltani Amin kata will his rule last
ihrem
Bella, you cut that? No, it's going to be cut off. And who's
going to cut it off? He said Nebby unes a key he says a profit will
cut will end the rule of this people. Yet Do you hear what you
mean early, you will receive revelation from on high.
Women have an OB. From whom will this prophet come out of he says
Allah Allah Julian Manuela de gras Libnah fish, a boy from the
children of God a big benefit of nomadic. In another year, Kunal al
Malik who feel Comey he elected to death he will be the king of this
people until the end of time. That means he's not going to be a
temporary monarch. He will rule to the end of time and that's how it
is Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam rules meaning that there is
no person honored in the OMA we don't take our marching orders in
this OMA from anyone but Mohamed Salah Lodi seven meaning his
Sharia meaning that whenever Muslims do such as we have
socialists and we have capitalists and we have people who were
capitalists and we have all those people that come and go, you have
to borrow they do temporary damage but they come and go
What have you done even after? He says does he's you said from now
until the end of time? Is there an end of time? He says yes. So maybe
this mystic was learning a little bit from the Jews little bit from
the Christians a little bit from the you know, so he came to know
information. Good. Okay, Mohammed has joined
kala Nam
yo, my huge Malfi Hill Aluna will occur when there is a big day of
judgment. Everyone will be gathered resurrected. Okay, yes, I
do fi hidden Masino unawares ca see him we'll see on the good.
We'll be happy that you won't be miserable. How could magic Virani
is this really true? What you're saying? He says now?
Got?
I have not told you anything except the truth
from Nakajima. Allyship. So that was Sophia. Next comes ship.
Susan, this is an awesome opening chapter for the book, right? I
mean, who doesn't let see all these like Disney stories where
there's a wizard, and he tells them the old prophecy? That's
actually the truth, right? They got those ideas from the truth.
Right.
And they find this person
this dream and like this legend legends written in poetry. Like
they probably wrote it in poetry, then another person wrote it in
poetry. So became like, what's your what's your sort of that this
happened?
I know as far back. Yeah. I mean, it's not as far back as let's say
Jesus and Moses. And they had that. Now ship comes.
And he asks him
what happened? He said, I had a dream that was so dramatic. If you
if it's real, you would know it, sorcerers would know these dreams
are like reflections of
almost like what's in the law. It's like what's in the law and
muffles so if these people are in it for the on the unseen and all
that use this is big news. Okay, that this has been ordained in the
heavens, you should know it. And back then we know that as soon as
Jen says in the Quran says the jinn used to go up to the heavens
listen, to see what new will has been ordained or what new creation
is about to come out integration, then they go tell people that
that's what the Quran tells us. And that's cut off now. That's why
there's the world of wizards and sorcerers and all that's done with
it's finished.
Because Allah tells us in the Quran, it's been the these
Gen are no longer allowed. There's the security system now. They're
no longer allowed to go listen to what's happening.
Sec tells him the exact same thing.
What cuts a mole makalah South Johan jandola A typical American
telephone fan. He didn't tell him what se says. And ship ends up
saying the same exact thing. Call Anambra a to Hamama Cara Jackman
Dolma he says I know what you saw. He knows what he saw. Because
these Missick saw the same thing. Let's if you if you're in the
stock market, right, and you're fully in the stock market
Right.
The experts in a field will know the update of that field. Right?
They'll know what's coming. Right? They'll know what they're both
observing Same idea here. won't matter what subject you're in.
Your colleagues, your peers will pretty much all see things the
same way.
I hate your Hama Cara Jetman Volmer for Walcott, bein origin
will Acoma Colette minha Kula that and Osama every saw has been taken
by this fire that came in and took all of Yemen for the Makala that
HIQA Arafa and the Hummer because it difficult they both said the
same thing. Okay, so this is
toa Tararua there is the word two audits in the Hadith there's
towards until audit meaning and this happened to the prophets of
Allah he was settled that he asked the Sahaba what dreams they had
and then each purse different people said I saw that yesterday
was
I saw that yesterday was it was I saw that yesterday I was thinking
like that. Two out of the prophets I said and said when one person
has multiple dreams are on the same subject, or many different
people have malt, same similar dream or the same exact dream
then it's very strong evidence of the truth. Yeah, because you can't
if a dream is just your thoughts
okay, how could another person see the same dream? Right.
So he that He then found that they both agreed, okay, and that
kolomela had their statement is one except Silvia had added an
extra he said that Walcot to be LG Tahoma for accurate minha COLA
that Jomo Cara Shep workouts been erode our ACMA FATCA admin Aquila
that an asthma so they they just separated in the language that
they use, but the meaning was the same. The king said, you ship your
you haven't made a single mistake. What do you think of its
interpretation? He said I SWEAR TO
LIVE will be my banal harati in a minute in Cernan lands Ilan
Docomo, Sudan, the Sudanese will come close East Africa, Sudan,
Ethiopia. In other words, you will be invaded from East Africa and
then they were come.
Failure globin Allah Cooley Tov lateral Bennani William lacuna
Urbina, Urbina, Ilana giran they will conquer all of Yemen. Okay,
he says, What about? He says, this is hurtful? Is this? This is
scary. Is this in my lifetime? Or after? He said no, after your
lifetime by a long time,
then
you will be saved by a man from Yemen will rise up and save you
from and save Yemen from this. Okay.
Okay.
And then he said was, would that person solt on rule lasts forever?
He says, No, it will be cut off by a prophet and a messenger that
will come with the truth.
That's the why this in the Cedarbrook because the dream of
Robbie and another leads to their conclusion that tell they're
telling him a prophet is coming. And He will establish justice, and
he will have a dean of virtue.
Dean will follow your Kunal and medical field call me Illuma
Foster, he will be the king of his people until the day of
resurrection. And he says and what is the Day of Resurrection? He
says, Every person will be resurrected and get the good that
they earned in this world or be punished for the bad that they
earned.
He says, Is this truly the truth? He says yes.
By the Lord of the heavens, it's the truth and the earth. It's a
truth.
For walk off enough, CRB, amakhala Robbie, I became extremely moved.
By all this with a man is asking where's my hat? I misplaced my
turban and my cup.
Have to find it tomorrow. Today.
I came here and I looked in the trunk and it wasn't there. For Joe
has a beta who were available at 11 o'clock.
He said I'm leaving him and I don't want any part of this, even
if it's after 60 years.
Okay.
He wrote to one of the Persian kings named Sabu. He said I'm
coming to your country. Make me a place to live. Just like all the
Pakistani presidents end up moving to like Jeddah or the Emirates,
right? Hey, I tapped I gotta tap out, take my millions and hit the
road. Live in Jeddah. send my kids to Swift schools, right. Let me
tap out, made my money.
That's what every other Pakistani President ends up doing right now.
The Egyptians don't do that.
Just wait till they die. They just sit president until they die.
That's the difference. The only difference whiffs are people are
more docile than the Pakistani people. At least you kick out the
guy.
Anyway, that is that's the first story
in the theater of amnesia. All right. That's the first story. The
end he lives I wonder though
I wonder if the
his offspring ended up entering Islam.
I got to look that up. There's the answer to snow.
So over 150 years, yeah.
150 years.
People, process. That's, that's, that's that's what it is like,
like right now in the world right now. Is there not a talk in the
world like, it's it's mainstream talk. Okay.
It's mainstream talk, right? To say when n times is not mainstream
talk is a mainstream talk saying America, it's like killing itself.
It's destroying itself. It's not going to be when when we're
grandparents, we will have to tell our grandkids.
America used to be the top country in the world, you walk around with
American passport you are, it's still going to be strong country,
right? But there's going to be China, there's going to be maybe
Russia,
African nations are going to rise up because their population in
comparison to the rest of the world is going up. And always that
high population produces a big economy. It's usually though it
is. So
let's wrap that. So that's it for today. In terms of what we're
doing now, we because we didn't do much q&a last week at all. And
that's what we're going to do today. We're going to do a lot of
q&a. Okay. We're doing a lot of q&a today. All right.
So let's now turn to everybody here with the q&a. Live Chat. What
is the chat over all about the hat today?
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the job of this live stream is that to take the person who
would not generally have access to these types of books and read a
little bit from this book a little bit from that book. So you get an
idea of what our tradition on our Dean says our goal is
our goal was is to take the person who's at zero and take him to
intermediate even people who are at intermediate may have not even
known the story that there was a street vision of Robert even
another right.
Question here says How was the event shook acid for me, it was
amazing. He is setting up you know, our spot in the north to be
honest with you. In North Jersey, that's our that's our home. What
he's setting up there.
There is inshallah a rich retreat center. There is a Thursday night
or a retreat site basically that they're trying to get. There is a
watch and we'll call it they do things every Thursday it's called
prophetic living. Check it out.
Khadija Asif as a very good question, how do we develop good
intuition? And how do we know whether or not we can follow it?
So this is really good question. And the gut, the intuition of a
person is more and more chakotay one has joined by the way
is the intuition of a person is, is better, the more they
contradict their knifes. The more you find yourself indulging, the
more dull your intuition becomes. And when we say indulging verse
contradicting in the neffs, it means
contradicting the knifes in what pleases Allah. So there's no value
and there is maybe value as practice but let's say I really
want to drink the rest of this coffee, I'm going to contradict my
knifes and not drink it. That's not really where the main value
is. The main values contradict the neffs where it contradicts Allah
subhanaw taala
allow the neffs room where Allah has allowed you room. So let the
the standard be the shittier point contradict my knifes in this but
if a nice looking you know person crosses the street, I'm going to
stare at them. What's the point? No value in that guy.
I'm contradicting the knifes in laziness from thought is number
two.
So the second struggle,
I'm lazy in fulfilling Sunon, I'm lazy in fulfilling a bad debts,
I'm going to contradict my neffs in doing acts of worship that I
otherwise would not have done.
That's where contradicting the knifes we have ODOT. And by the
way, you know, someone told me,
some of you may be very shocked by this, I didn't really talk much
about this, but someone has been telling me this lately, a lot of
stuff that we bring up is actually to be oriented, right? To be a
means like you take a human being, and you try to improve that person
overall.
And they said that, you know, you the language of Tobia today is not
the language of the three cars anymore. It's the structure of TV
is not the structure of that it's the structure of wellness and
counseling.
And I never thought about it. And I was sort of almost repulsed at
the immediate sound of it, because it's not my thing.
But they sat and they kept telling me Listen, that all of most of
what you're saying people seek it out
in the form, a lot of the vast majority of people seek it out in
the form of counseling, wellness and life coaching.
Is that true?
Because they said like you say a lot of things about for example,
the way in which you do something is by doing a little bit of it.
But do it every day? The wooded system, right? The system of ODOT.
Okay, so the system of old rod, where you have an act of worship
that you're doing, you don't stop it, you live, you hold on to it
like a junkyard dog. But it has to be so thin and small that it
doesn't alter your day. Right? It shouldn't, you shouldn't feel like
my life has has to change. Alright,
use shouldn't feel like this thing is like disrupting my whole,
you know, routine, you should feel that it's not. It's not even
affecting my routine. But if you do that, and then you stick with
it every single day, it seems like it starts getting louder and
louder and louder. Right? It's like dropping water in a sink.
Okay. It seems like it's getting louder and louder and louder.
All throughout the night.
That's the system of old rod. And it's a system of how to create any
habit, not just the ODOT. And that's why, you know what they
told me, they said, what you need to do is set up an operation.
Where is it? You it is this wellness and counseling stuff. But
it's Dean.
It's rooted in Amen. And Dean. So a lot of people are actually
saying that
they want to change your life from their life stinks.
And they imagine that taking a course in I don't know some course
is gonna help them really what they need is some some better,
they need to live better. And for us, we don't separate that from
Amen. And Dean, we don't separate it. So something where the
wellness and the counseling is not divorced. From Dean. It's infused.
And that is almost the new way the language of Tobia today.
Who knows? Tell me what you all think. mm is sad has a q&a start
and answer is yes.
But that's basically what someone told me and I was started getting
me really thinking about it. Because when I travel with a lot
of people like I traveled
or not just travel when I deal with a lot of people in Shabaab,
sometimes what they need is not necessarily like religious
instruction, per se, but their lives just need help. They don't
know how to talk, they don't know how to dress. They know how to
shake hands. full grown. I mean, we just dealt with some people,
full grown adults, maybe 28 years old. Would you were you parented
at all?
mumbling when you talk, you shake hands like this limp. There's
nothing there.
mumbling when you talk, you came out you didn't comb your hair,
you're wearing sweatpants, there's a wrinkle in your clothes,
everything is
wrinkled.
You don't put your head up. You sleep in your everything is a
disaster with this person. Then you wonder why, you know the
nothing's working, not Dean nordonia.
And I feel like when I see those people I'm like
I have all wheel solutions that you need. And it's not hard. It is
really not hard. And you could be literally like, a solid. Like I
love the Marines, like solid and everything. They're not there.
They're in the body of a Marine. Neither is this. You can't say
it's sleek, like a biker. Like bikers and runners, they're very
thin. You can't say he's a bodybuilder.
You can't say he's a boxer. But he's like, perfect and everything.
He could walk around like a civilian, like a marine could walk
up here, you don't think he works out. But he's more is his lungs,
there's better off his lungs are as strong as a swimmer. He's got
this, he's probably got greater strength, then he could fight
better than a boxer. And he's probably got as good strength as a
weightlifter. Right? And he's got endurance. That's you see that
like all around package.
And that's exactly what I think that I see these Shabaab and I see
these youth. And I'm like,
I don't want to say something bad about your parents. But they
wronged you.
This stuff is basic stuff, basic stuff. And I'm looking you know,
where they go to Jordan Peterson.
And they're like, Wow, he says, make my bed. Make your bed. What
this is like, this is like what happened to the fatherhood here?
And why are you going to these people. And then of course,
there's the other camp,
which is a bunch of liars that Haroon talked about and made fun
of them on one tweet, and he said, these guys are liars. They come in
with a Bugatti or Lamborghini and trying to create an image that
they could make you into this. This is the pin Dawn type of guy.
Right? And that's all a lie. And some of the Muslims have taken on
that. And I'm telling you, I'm not even joking with you. One of these
websites said, by the end of this course you will be
okay. You will know how to become a millionaire. And you will have
three to four wives. What are you talking about men? What kind of
lies are these? Don't tell lies to people. Wallah the same dude had a
GoFundMe for his studio. I'm telling you. Same dude. same
month, he has a good hey, GoFundMe helped me start up my studio.
Why do you have a GoFundMe? Where's you and your millions and
your five wives and six concubines? You're a liar. Okay,
don't sell. So I'm not into that I'm more into like you're a
regular dude. But you need help on the basics of stuff. You know,
when we do that to slim.
That Tasleem. Okay, people don't know what that Slim is, when we
sat for images of God, after the Mejlis it may be an hour or
something. We all the guys come to the left and the women do it for
the women.
And you walk in a line you shake hands.
I'll be the first person right there. We'll all come shaking
hands. But then it was first shakes, my hand comes stands next
to me. Next person shakes my hands and the next person's hands and
stands next to him. Third person comes shakes my hand next person
and next person hand stand next to them. And so the line then
basically
forms like that in a way that every person shakes every other
person's hand. You know, one of the things that I've made it a
point now to do it because I can't help myself. Like I can't help
myself. When I see this stuff. I have to fix it right away. When
you're shaking hands, the strength of your handshake. You look the
person in the eye, you smile, you say something, right? People don't
have to do that. And after if they do this every liquor that we do,
they get it right eventually. And I'm telling you sometimes their
arch back like this, especially the youth they don't know. They're
like arch back like this straight, left hand. Limp hand arch back
mumbling no confident straighten your back. But this basic stuff,
right.
And so that's why I'm thinking about really what the person said.
And in the beginning, I was like, No, I'm not doing no counseling
thing. I'm not a counselor. I don't like problems. I want
optimism. Success, victory, conquest, but they're like, Yeah,
but it is going to be that. But
you know, you got to put it in the form, structure it and I'm like, I
don't have time to counsel people who said no, you you get the
counselors and train them.
Youth night is that basically all of this you know what all is? It's
the aggregate of the hours would have spent with your dad, with
your uncle with your older cousin, older brother, grandpa, when you
were born in the old days. He didn't go to school. You got a
tutor here and there. Be spent the whole time with
Your male family members, and the female with the female family
members, they trained you in life, you got the 80 years experience of
your grandfather trickled down to you from the start. The two
decades of experience of your older brother and cousin trickled
down to you. You didn't even need your dad's advice, right? You got
your many men of the family. And back in the old days, every
person, every male, did have a right to give some advice to
everybody else, or stop a kid from doing something. But if you ask
around in all the old world, if if a boy in the in the community who
we know we know his we know his face, we know his father was seen
doing something bad, it was expected. You can fix it, you can
say stop doing that behave properly. Like if you saw a boy, a
teenager abusing an old men, and you are an adult, and you
recognize it, you could stop it right then and there. And you
could take him by the ear and drag him to his dead. Right. And this
was socially acceptable. So all the Tobia,
all the Tobia was happening by everybody. Now, the cumulative
cumulative
hours of that sort of be gone. And the kid is actually in public
school with a bunch of other kids like him. So actually, it's all
going negative. Now, you're learning all these bad habits, and
things that are becoming big in your mind that are not a big deal.
Okay? In the old days, you're out farming with your dad. Okay. And
the idea of like, little fashions and fads is no big deal. We need
to farm here, or else we're gonna die. So you learned these the
priorities of life, you go to the other school, you want to spend
eight hours a day, with other kids your age, the priorities of life
are totally imbalanced.
All these are parts of the problems as I've observed, the
thing and many others have observed these things. So I
personally think that
I personally think that it is something that I'm willing to
think about. And
like,
a different community, like where they
are compared to like another community, or like, like, very
proud.
Yeah, but another community is like, no, they're actually doing
the work. Yeah, kids are doing. Yeah.
Like casual level. And you know, what it is, is that it's not one
massive thing to do. It's regularly being there, regularly
being there Friday nights, regular being there. So that if you're
right, because people aren't going to come all the time, people are
going to come one out of 10 times, right, let's say an average of our
community member comes to one out of 10 vicars. But that's five a
year, right? That's maybe five acres a year, five sessions a year
they come. But if we're only there half the time, all of a sudden,
that's two out of two times a year.
Right. But some people come more, much more intensely. So the point
being is that if if we're regular at the masjid, it gives an
opportunity for people to be irregular in their attendance and
still benefit. That's what I'm trying to say. But if I if we were
irregular in holding the gatherings, and they're irregular
in attendance, they wouldn't attend at all, they get very
little out of it. And the benefit of the community is when a lot of
people are at the middle level. A lot of people so that's where the
standard the baseline standard is much higher when you are regular.
And that's the importance of local life. That's why one thing I said
is like if I do this, I'm not gonna it's not going to take away
from my local like life and the actual counselors will be other
people that I trust that I know who have who have degrees in
counseling, and who share the same vision that I have. Right? And
Allah knows best we'll see I'm just toying with ideas and want to
see what the reaction of people is.
Can a husband use his right says double m
m to the fourth power
use his rights to cause his wife hemorrhage.
What do you mean by that?
Haram?
Causing one's wife hemorrhage? What are some practical example of
causing what please explain to me what you mean by that using
causing your wife's cottage? Why would you want to do such a thing?
Hardship
awkwardness
Can you Joseph says I think it's good to have righteous friends
that hold you to account
Okay, that's all it is is Samba Samba
Abdullah us a wife suspicious phone use sleeping with it,
turning it over.
Some very suspicious forces man to check to find there has been
exchange of texts with the man and receiving bad photos. was the man
justified in spying? Yes, of course.
What the heck you got issues man suffered a lot of the motive
lameness. He only regrets divorce because there are kids involved.
Scary stuff, man really scary stuff. Dean ID in the pharmacy,
the meditate medications we dispense are to treat internal
turbulence due to imbalances. therapeutic counseling based in
truth corrects many imbalances, therapeutic. So this is mica
therapeutic imbalance. Let's say that exists. So sorry, chemical
imbalances. Now the medication issued by a psychiatrist would in
fix that imbalance, correct that imbalance I should say
reengaged, that equilibrium, then now the person is capable of
sitting and talking, because some people regardless of how they got
there, who knows how they got there, but they did get to a point
of that their depression is so bad, that they actually need help.
Medical
medicinal help? We don't have a problem with that what we do have
problem with is divorcing it
from
the cat therapeutic counseling, talking and spiritual help. That's
the problem I see. Because all in Islamic history. Got the idea of
mental institutions started in Islam. How about this? When I'm
feeling groggy and down and not great? And I go and say, I need I
know I need to do some thicker than I need to do some exercise,
then I need to do some work. Right? Then I need to go and check
out what's happened in my family and up and help out with that. But
I can't do I need to get a cup of coffee first. So what am I doing?
I'm recognizing that I know that at what I have to do morally, but
I also need to get my buddy there. First,
I need to have a nice tall glass of water like this, you know that
Starbucks one that I carry around that huge one. It's like this
tall. Right? I need to have that. I need to have a nice hot cup of
coffee, then I'm ready to go.
So what am I doing, I'm correcting or I'm acting upon some chemical
situation in my body. Getting that to an optimal level, then now I
can, I'm able to think I'm able to help myself. That's where we the
psychiatrist can come into play and helping people out. It could
very well be that people, they have bad thoughts. Whatever it is,
that makes them prone to that chemical imbalance and makes it
worse. So they're they're physically prone to that. And now
on top of that a bad thing happens triggers a bad set of ideas in
their mind, that takes them far down. And now they need a little
bit of a boost
to come up. And then now we can talk. And now the talking can take
over. And now the positive lifestyle living makes them not in
need of the medicine anymore. That's what I'm talking about. And
that's where we'll see you came in. I don't know if you're
listening on YouTube. Well, you know something about depression
sounds like yeah, we're talking in some someone had said to me that
so much of what you're talking about that of what I talked about
here is the like tibia oriented stuff, of just how to be an
upright human. Right, right. Yeah, exactly. And they said to me that,
but you talking about it in like within a context of Sita or FIP.
It could stand alone simply as like a wellness and counseling
operation. This is a whole but the language of today's people is
counseling and well, it is yeah. But But is there out there
something where it's we're saying we're ruining it in Islam. It's
counselling of us rooted in Islam directly. Yeah, that's that was
the idea. So I figured I want to hear what everyone has to say
about that and toyed with the idea. There is I mean, like now
there's a lot of one of the burgeoning field or subfields in
psychology is Islamic psychology. Really? Yeah. Maybe you know that,
like in Cambridge, there's Abdullah Rothman. He's one of the
big like, leaders or luminaries in this area. There's also Rashid
Skinner.
No way BF Skinner's.
Isn't his name BF Skinner?
Isn't he this first guy who would ring a bell? This could ring a
bell and then give the dog food. Have love Pavlov. Well, what about
Skinner? Skinner? There was somebody scared like one of the
behavioral BF Skinner? BF Skinner? Yeah, right this? This guy there.
He's like Nora.
Northern European Muslim or something, okay, es que Jn en er,
oh, that okay. Yeah. Yeah, they're both really helpful. I've talked
to both of them, but they're trying to bring more people in.
And like the regular, I guess secular atheistic psychologists, a
lot of them do have a lot of interest in supporting work in
this field because it's like, the premise of it is uprooting the
premises of like standard psychology. Because we come from a
different worldview. So we have a different worldview. We thank you.
We approach like schizophrenia totally differently. We don't dis
affirm it's reality. Yeah, there are people that have actual
problems. We say like, maybe the way that we deal with it is kind
of different. And maybe there's different forms. You may also
differ on the origin of it. Yeah, exactly. That's what they say.
Yeah. And you telling me that someone sees and hears voices
fact? No. to Freud, Freud meanest, the Mallanna. And Pakistan will
give you different reasons why they're seeing that. What's
irrelevant to us, right? In a sense, he is seeing something.
That's the fact the Freudian said it's a hallucination. What is it
illumination, your mind is creating ideas what? Now the other
guy says, It's Jin's, okay.
Well, which one is true? Okay. But in a sense, we have to say, at
some point, we have to say, Okay, well, it's we'll never know, maybe
we'll never be able to certainly know, I really don't buy into this
just, what is hallucination? In a sense, my mind is portraying, how
do you know that?
That's not a fact. That's a theory. That is a theory, right?
Likewise, someone saying it's a gin. I can't You can't prove that
either. Okay. So who knows who's watching, but it needs to be
treated. Here's why the gender might be a little bit better.
Yeah, like, so the hallucination thing, we don't even have to sower
of the mind. So we're affirming descriptions to something we don't
have to so we don't hear you're affirming. You're you're basically
saying that a subject is doing something you don't have a
concrete establishment what the mind is, yeah, but yet you're
attributing action to it, there can't be too steep before to
Sower. So brilliant. I'm telling you, man, our dean teaches there
our Dean teaches alchemy yet. And what he just said, is an example
of taking athlete, you basically just did the first basics of
karate, and you did it on the whole field, you cannot establish
that a mind did something when you don't know what a mind is. Yeah.
Right. Which is basically what we're saying with the social thing
is that
we can't do women's empowerment in the West if we can to find what a
woman is.
Alright, sorry to go there.
But, and why am i Hola que says, here's a question from Instagram.
If someone requires therapy, does going to Muslim therapists
outweigh a non Muslim therapy. That's where we do want to
establish an Islamic form of this therapy, where a man
is involved to the degree that the person is religious right? First
is not religious, he could still give them therapy. Right. But if a
person is in the dean, if you check off that box, okay, then
we we should be able to give you that we should be able to give you
the rod Majan therapist that gives out odds.
They used to have that. Yeah, yeah. Like, to be honest. You
know, I don't even see why they have to be religious because like
the other people that are not religious, they're taking a chance
on an SSRI. Oh, my God. Thank you. You're taking a pill and you just
accepting it. Right? Why don't you take a listen to the Quran for a
little bit. And here's the thing we know Prozac, for example, a lot
of these antidepressants. Yep. The funny thing is, they seem to work
very well. While the patent is still active. After the patent
expires. Yeah, suddenly, it's not working anymore. No, the famous
thing,
which is it's a business operating and that's it. Foster Mimosa says
it's called Neff Sia, the concept of the soul and the neffs to
redefine psychology. I'm totally in with that. Totally.
Mohammed Minh M says some automa are against women scholars
speaking up mixed gatherings. What's my opinion on that?
Firstly, I don't give fits out like that. But I do have an
opinion on that. My opinion is I do follow what Shaka Amin said in
which in which if a if the clock is being kept to also set a Bootsy
mentioned this to if the whole environment is an Islamic
environment and the person is not, you know, softening their voice or
doing anything inappropriate, then it should not be inshallah there
shouldn't be an issue with someone giving a presentation, a woman
giving a presentation in a respectful manner. Alright, which
I think that I'm okay.
With that opinion seems to me that's right. A fair opinion and
assessment these days. You know, it's like in the world of so many
opinions. Why do you need to make up your own opinion in Islam?
People do this. They've come up with this stuff, right. Let's look
what they said first, and then align ourselves with it. If
schicken Bulte says that I
And he's okay with that. If shikigami is fine with that,
right? I'm fine with it too. I like that opinion. Seems like it
makes sense to me.
Cambridge Muslim college does a diploma in Islamic psychology and
Dr. Rania teaches with is that diploma online or not? If you can
please answer if because if doc, if Dr. Daniela does on it, is it
oh, what are our wet?
If she's on it, then clearly it's an online diploma.
The Cambridge Cambridge Muslim college should be online. But
like, it's pretty intensive. And you gotta wake up for UK time.
Yeah, wake up for you. Good. Wait.
Yes, that's true. That's true. Blue skies. I'm in love with a
Hindu. I can't be with him in this dunya can I make dua that I'd be
with him in Jana? You should say someone like him, you should say,
okay, but
if you say Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, I believe that
and you and you rectify yourself a lot.
You know, I don't want to say this is a rule of thumb, but it will be
hard for a moment to love someone who was far off from the deen. But
I can't make a rule for that. Right? I can make a rule like
that. But someone who was very strong in their Deen would, would
would, there will be a wall between us an unseen wall because
the Quran says this right. John Boehner aka ouabain alladhina Lai,
maneuverable accurately hijab and mistura whoever recites the Quran
much there is a wall.
Okay, that is unseen.
Between them and those who don't believe in the accurate like you
could not bring yourself you know that there's going to be a limit
there. So maybe and Allah knows best that will ameliorate some of
that loves.
There they have, what's the name for it? When you're totally in
love with somebody they call it? infatuation, infatuation, thank
you. We got the word Smith here. infatuation. That's it is a type
of sickness, not a sickness, but it's like a state that occurs.
You're infatuated with someone. So a lot of recitation of Quran
should come that dump but you should say May Allah grant me a
husband, like him or better. Next question, how do I practice
chivalry? Chivalry, usually tends to be in the relationship between
you and those who are,
you're obligated to be responsible for. So chivalry is in
relationships.
So you can learn this by getting a book called The Book of chivalry
by Abdul Rahman is Solemate. Single, it's an English, but
what's your relationship to your mom, to your daughter, to your
sister? To your wife? That's where chivalry begins. What's your
relationship to the poor? That's where chivalry begins. Chivalry is
all about using your strength to help those who either a you're
obligated to help, or though or be like those who need your help.
That's usually what chivalry is all about. Okay, how do we
understand the sake of the prophets of Allah when he was
setting them? The worst of people are those we need to be nice to in
order to avoid their harm? Yes, that means that a person these are
the worst of people. You want to be nice to them, because you're so
afraid of their shameless and vicious attacks. These are the
worst of people that everyone tiptoes around them. Because they
are shameless bullies. Right? And they are the worst of people.
Because we have gotten to the point that we won't speak out
against them.
We will actually be nice to them because we're so scared of them.
So they they have scared everybody with their attitude and their
viciousness.
What's your advice to someone in financial crisis? Subhan Allah?
It's a bit of a broad question. And I think the philosophy of
financial well being we do have one in Islam, and I've talked a
lot about it. That's why the person said, Listen, you need to
put all this in a separate silo. That's relates to counseling,
right? Where, because financial counseling and Islam like there's
general principles, that if a Muslim observes and I'm all about
general principles, not a book of this big, I don't want to book
this big person is already depressed. Right? He has a tweet,
right? Okay.
Part of it is wake up early, make us so far. Give subtle cuts to the
poor, you begin to win. For make sure your wealth is high, then you
begin to win the Mercy of Allah and the compassion of Allah.
Wake up early.
Just because distributed in the morning.
Make us so far. give sadaqa
of course purify your wealth.
As a
person,
your job whatever your job is, if it's your job is haram, leave it
completely
and then
start selling something.
The prophets lie Selim said, nine tenths of risk isn't sales. Are
you selling anything?
start selling something.
What's the learning? What are the vibes from the GC? What is the GC?
Group Chat? Group Chat, I think but what is this a group chat?
Yeah, I guess that he's talking about the YouTube chat.
Okay.
Okay
So Lily Rose says that this is involves empaths facing
narcissists.
I don't, I'm not exactly sure on the technical definition of an
empath, but I believe that is someone very sensitive. And those
people get abused badly by narcissists. Or you see, like a
woman who's extremely sensitive. She never wants to hurt anybody.
Right? She's sensitive to others. The narcissist is only sensitive
to himself. So they came together because she is always sensitive to
others. He is only sensitive to himself. So she's convex, and he's
concave. Right? And they fit perfectly together in an abusive,
toxic, terrible relationship. Right. But he's the perfect
abuser. She's the perfect victim.
Right? Does that make sense? Yeah. And you need the willie to pull
you out of that. Because as soon as this narcissist cries, one
tear, and sends one beautiful text and brings one box of Russell
Stover chocolates. She's called us. Let's give him a second
chance. Everyone needs a second chance. And this is the abusive
wife syndrome.
Second Chance, third chance, fourth chance with Jensen. 30
years of pest.
Isn't that how many times have you seen that? 2030 years of pest
I have a short fuse for this type of stuff. Pull the plug right
away. This person has is is is a vacuum. suck suck. suck suck.
Meanwhile, you are becoming depressed. You're miserable.
You're now overweight. You're you have no dreams anymore.
Forget dreams. Forget ambitions. I'm talking about dreams as in
have a dream to do something in life. That's gone completely. It's
all about their dreams. It's all about damage control. This is
life. You need you need an extraction. You need Liam Neeson
to come in and extract you. Okay.
So firebomb the place and extract the subjects. Okay, and deliver
you back to your Willie's house. Good.
Oh, you see in our show Leta has joined us in I don't know if this
is something you want to talk about. But let me know if you want
to talk about your your event. He has a special event coming this
September. It's so I wish I could go.
I don't know if it's public yet. We'll see if he has seen Archer
letter replies on Instagram because it's actually related to
the other excellent. Yeah. Oh, how many Archer letters can there be?
Right.
So you see what I'm saying about the empath and the narcissist?
Yeah, if I was the counseling, I'd be like, pack your bag. Right?
pack your bag. This is a note. Eight, you are a wife, not a
counselor. Right?
Okay.
You cannot be in a marriage that's supposed to offer Sakina yet you
find yourself a counselor.
You know, a therapists use Did you sign? Hey, you're seeing Can I
talk about it?
Because I would love to tell people about it. Yeah, want to
hear about it.
You cannot sign up to be a wife, then find yourself to be a
therapist. That sign has to be counseled. If you if you sign up
to be a wife or a husband, and you find yourself. Let's say the
person got injured, and you find yourself I'm a nurse half the
time. That's acceptable. Like no one will blame you. It's your
choice. You want to stay married with the guy or you want to leave
the guy. Okay? It's your choice. And by the way, in the shittier in
Islam, it's a valid reason to leave for a wife. In Islam, you
get married a guy, he gets his car accident. He's a paraplegic. There
is no disloyalty. There is no nothing bad about the woman who
says he cannot fulfill his job as a husband anymore. He can protect
me. He can't give me a happy life anymore. Yeah, we can't have kids.
He can't.
He cannot
physically, intimacy husbandry is gone. I just made up that that
adjective the husbandry part of it to be. What is? Well, husbandry?
Yeah, is what? Meeting animals right? I guess that's just taken
care of.
Being a husband, he can't do any of these things that she says, you
get the choice you can leave. You can leave this marriage with don't
go to these rom coms. Where the actress I'm staying with him for
life. It's rom coms. No one's doing that. Like in real life, if
she wants, and it's like, they just got married, like two months
ago. No, they're and then if she leaves, she's not bad. She's not
wrong. If her mother says leave, if her father says leave, they're
correct in doing so, to tell her her options, and there's nothing
wrong with her leaving
things like
I was gonna say shit yet. It tries to protect Alright, it's designed
to protect every type of security, nobody emotional security, which
is like includes ambitions, like, you know, aspirations that
includes physical security includes like, you know, your
husband can't fulfill his rights, your rights and yeah, tell us your
husband can't fulfill what the law says marriage is for Sakina in the
homes. Marriages for skinning homes. Let's see. So here the
narcissists, you cannot you're not a therapist, you can't change you
can't go from victim to therapist, okay
all right. Welcome. Salaam Ahmad, give out what's happening, champ.
Good. You cannot go from victim to therapist.
It just doesn't work. extract yourself from such a situation. So
hey, what's happening Eunice? What's happening?
We have Sahib Yunus and Sohaib Yunus Yes.
They say the more names that you give to something that the more
praiseworthy it is right. So that's true. Yeah. And Africa,
kids born he gets a name from each relative. So one brother has nine
names in our community. In our community, one brother has nine
names. That's that's like my community that comments like, I
have one, one of my friends. He's like the third. So like, the like,
his middle name is like the third because it's like, oh, well, so
he's like, number.
Now listen to this. What if your mom is the narcissist you give her
her rights? And that's it? What is her rights in the Sharia? That's
why should he tells us where justice begins and ends? That's
the difference between Islam and the social justice movements. So
let's just move it where does it end? Where does it end? Okay,
like, why are we on it? First wave feminism, let's say those things
were achieved.
So why isn't it over? It's never going to be over. Because there's
no revelation saying this is where it ends. It becomes a mindset. I'm
always a victim. I'm not saying it just for women, specifically, in
all these social justice movements, you are always
perpetually in the state of needing to get more and more and
more. Well, it's just Cydia. And Islam says no, this is enough for
you. This is enough for you. This is your limits. So we can easily
achieve an equilibrium because we know what the targets are. And
look like in reality there were there.
Their momentum is based on disempowerment. Yeah, there was
victimizing themselves. Yeah, right. It's us we get to a
conclusion, which isn't empowering. Exactly. Exactly. We
have a place where we say that's it. And that's why one of the you
know, the rich also need counseling.
One of the best things that a rich guy said, he said, I'm very rich
and very happy. And my family is great. She said, The reason is,
every time I get into an endeavor, I put a number.
This is the number that's I don't know anymore. What soon as the
company gets that number, he unloads it, right? Or a stock or
whatever it is, like what isn't Holmes, he puts a number for
himself. Right? And that cars a number, there's a number of cars
that we don't need anymore. This is all we need. Right? So he's
very rich, but he often that his secret, he says he puts a number
to everything. Like at what point am I happy?
At what point
is enough? Enough, right? At what point is
are we going to pack up and go home? That's really the question.
When do you pack up and go home? And that's that's a great mindset.
Like you're gonna go on Twitter. Like for when how long? Like three
tweets.
Five Tweets. Like how long are you gonna stay on this social media
platform? For the day? Two tweets gonna call it a day? You don't
need to answer every single tweet. When do you say no? Right?
Double A sm 83 Can you give some suggestions for twin boy names?
Yes. Hasn't Hussein Musa unhealed own alright he says a curry yeah
he yeah here an ASA yeah here the older one I used to the younger
one. Like that twin boy names you can find those.
You can name for example, what else or or? That went like
If that were pears in the in Islamic history, that's insane.
Hassan Hussein. Okay, all right.
How Ronan Musa Musa yeah here an ASA
doll has not really but they were because they were both
there was mentioned they were they killed they were killed at the
same time or no very close together I think right
you know don't do sad inside because everyone would be confused
I know people I know people who took one route and named all their
kids on the route right and ever the whole world is confusing the
use of and Binyamin does no Muslim name has been its maiden is Huck
Ali and Jaffa you're on a roll? All these people?
No one name is Binyamin anymore. So they just said to me and that's
why he said Yeah, I mean, well, that makes sense. Use if you mean,
you don't need to say Ben You mean you mean? Shabbat on Shabbat
Shalom Shabbat on Shabbat is has an Hussein of Hebrew. Brahma
abdur-rahim too close.
Too close.
Imagine that instead of the elementary school teacher who has
them in the same class, met, she's going to be tortured. And then if
she says anything, it's racism.
For lady I'll do ramen AbdulRahman. Wait, you guys have
the same name.
Okay.
So LA, and
Notre Dame, Notre Dame Salahuddin. There'll be a good one. Notice the
slide didn't come up. That's your grandkids name. No DNS law Dean
should be it should be because it should be useful basically because
somebody's name is Yousef so I you have to name use of
the better he better be a champion with with name lineage like that,
because Allah had Dean's father is that you and his father's shed,
right? So that's the lineage of names. He better not like be a
dentist
or an accountant, right.
So let's see what else excellent summary of the narcissists abuse.
Gotta leave man just leave, you're wasting your life, wasting your
life with the narcissists. That's not my job to be your therapist.
Okay?
It's never sinful to leave your wife, you take your mom with to
leave your mom, you take your mom with you. I'm moving here, here's
your room. That's the shittier if you are the caretaker of your,
your, your mom
I read about automa speaking about love and dunya
love of dunya but in essence dunya and its attractive thing distracts
us from Allah sacrificing for the hereafter. Well, here's the thing
is that you can possibly seek something of the dunya and make it
an act of worship by saying justify why is it that you want it
is because the fitrah of the human being, we are created to desire
certain things, the fitrah of the human being is created to desire
let's say
it fits over human being is desired to to create it to desire
security, which is through wealth.
through other human beings, your Allah created you to love beauty.
All those things you say My Lord, I'm seeking it because it's not my
fitrah. But I'm seeking it through you through the hello with sub,
and I want to be grateful for it. And I want to help others with it.
Right enjoy it myself the bulk of it, but yet I'll help others with
some of it. And that's that is how you turn a desire into dunya. Many
stars here and I met her mother and her. They were at the UK
events.
Movies have ruined our perception of what marriage actually is.
That's true.
What if someone has a narcissistic mother? Yes, we mentioned we
answered that. See, Mina says what to do if I see obvious toxic
relationship and community that the husband is choosing not to
work and provide for over a decade and actively cussing out their
kids with the effort. So if you see those problems and other
families do not be at the wedge. This is a no no to go and learn
that from experience. Not that I did that. But I observed. And it's
all very wise men named Jimmy Jones in the New Haven community.
And when a person had seen had discovered that a husband was not
being loyal to his wife or to the marriage doing something haram
faithful as they say. He said don't go to the wife and tell her
right do not do that. Rather threaten him. Tell him Listen, I
know all about this. Get your act together. I'm not gonna tell you
why but I could. Right he got his act.
together, right? And she also went to the other woman said, Listen,
he's married. I'm breaking this thing up that you guys got going
on. I'm blown it up right now. Right. But I'm not going to tell
the other woman, so comply with respect now, before it gets nasty
that one head for the hills, the guy got scared. And the wife never
knew.
Fast forward. You saw they have happily married. So the guy
screwed up a little bit. But it was fixed without destroying that
family. So don't be the source to destroy family. If a woman comes
to you, this is advice to women. I'm giving you advice to women
that I took centered from other women. If a woman comes to you to
complain about her husband, don't listen.
Because the soon as you listen to it, you become associated with the
fitna. And as soon as she makes things right, you're the first
Frenchy kicks to the curb. This is so many women have experienced
this. Okay, you Oh, listen, oh, okay, husband's bad. Let's talk
and let's
you become associated with that fitness. As soon as she makes
things right with her husband, you're the first one to go. So if
you care about that friendship, don't do it, chiefly chiefs that I
signed a contract for work, saying that I could not get a second job.
Is it a valid clause under the medical method? You signed it
already? You signed it? Are you planning to not do it? May I get a
second job under the table?
Yes, let's ask Jeff Karami. Let's see if
you know what we have to say about that?
Is it a valid SEC clause? That's a good question.
You mean, the clause should be
if we discover you have a second job, this contract is invalidated?
Correct. That's because if we say in a marriage and Islamic
marriage, which is a contract to Islamic marriage, you cannot say
that you will not take a second wife, you can say if you take a
second wife, this marriage is invalidated. This marriage is done
with. That's what you can say. So the correct verbiage should be if
we discover that you have a second job, then we reserve the right to
end this contract. That should be the language of the contract.
I also was confused when we got a cat that gave a contract that you
have adopted the cat but you cannot neuter the cat or spade,
the cat whatever it's called, or declaw the cat. So I'm thinking
myself this can't be a valid contract because it's my cat. I
could do whatever I want with it. Right at this point, like what are
you going to do about it? So but apparently legally, it is a valid
clause. And they could have taken us to some kind of court.
Actual kangaroo court kangaroo court completely.
Can you leave your spouse to study the deen abroad if the spouse is
not want to join, this is not a good marriage. If the situation is
going on like this, the particular spouse struggles with the one out
of five salah, but provides and protects, has great o'clock.
Hardly prays, and but the other side wants to go study. This is a
severe imbalance that you need help with. Honestly, there's more
justification for the counseling operation, right to be honest with
you, because this needs conversations. This needs marriage
coaching. You can't be at this level of imbalance.
The woman cannot be the Imam of the marriage. That's not what you
signed up for when you're a husband. You are also
the protector, the provider but you're not just like a secure ADT.
ADT ATM. That's not else. You have to provide love, physical
intimacy, spiritual leadership, you're the Imam of that house. How
is it that Imagine now that a woman is like an MMA fighter and
the guy is extremely weak. There's an imbalance there. So she defends
every time that someone insults you guys, she defends you. That's
an imbalance. Right? Well, you wouldn't accept that. You would
say that's off.
No difference between that and the spiritual aspect where when it
comes to the deen, she is far more so the point that she's going to
study abroad overseas, and he is still struggling with the five
daily prayers.
That's an imbalance there
that you need to find a meet somewhere, you know in the middle,
but you don't want to tell someone decrease your dean.
Right and he can't come up to the point of being thought of as him
if he doesn't pray five times a day.
You need to talk to somebody for weeks and weeks and weeks.
okay
am I actually justified in saying that there's plenty of need for
this kind of Islamic? I get about this recently? Actually, I thought
it would be perfect for it by the way, a counselor. Yeah, I told him
to do really? Yeah. You need to tell me who they are. Okay. I'll
tell you if I want to pass them on.
Tomorrow Boston, write his name here. Okay. If I do I know that
you definitely Oh, write the name right there. Now, I can't I can't
deal with someone who says I'll tell you later. I need to know now
right? We can say we can say as luck of Alia Alia It's just luck
of a book cute. Oh.
Okay.
I didn't know that. Oh, yeah. I didn't know this. Like, tap skills
you're joking with Okay, that's good. I talked to a number of
people about the same issue. Okay. He was like, his his, like, his
counseling for the person that he or she was like, amazing to go to
anybody else. That's excellent. That is really good. Okay, good.
So here you see the situation where that that severe imbalance
it needs you need to talk to somebody I'm not.
I'm not getting you. You need to talk somebody.
Let's go to Instagram and see what's going on.
Guys that first question when we go to someone's grave, can we talk
in any language? Yes.
Yes, it's the meaning that's transmitted and Allah knows best.
Allah knows best.
All right, let's go to Merriam says Cambridge offers
Islamic psychology. What's your opinion? I don't, I didn't. I
didn't look at it. Nor am I probably really equipped to.
Nor am I really equipped to assess such a curriculum. UI design says
you're my teacher at Yale, masha Allah, a Yale student. You went to
you all these years now you're on Instagram Live watching. All
right, why shouldn't you be banking or something? You went to
Yale? Since you be printing money.
I wish I knew which student it was, but they say here you are my
teacher at ELC have the social proof that I actually did teach.
Right. That's actual proof that is not a scam. When I say to visit a
teacher, yeah. So very good. Nice. I wish I knew who it was exactly.
But then again, they're probably at some kind of fancy board
meeting and they can't put their name they're on Instagram.
You most of the Arabic students were either like Pakistani youth
who wanted to learn the Quran, or Indians who wanted to learn Arabic
to do banking in the Emirates
or Jews who wants to learn Arabic to be involved with Israel and
Palestine? Oh, yeah.
So UI designs does that. I'm going to click on there. Oh, I can't
right now.
Oh, Munis is the name.
Boom, another unit, bada Unisys. So Mashallah.
Let's now go to the next question on Instagram here. Do you feel a
lot of marital problems happen as a result of both parties not
knowing the rights of one another? Yes. When I get involved in
something as complicated as marriage, you need guidance,
right? It's not trial and error. I want Allah to give me put a line
in the sand, you do this, you do this. This is where you fulfilled
your rights. Everything else use common sense. Because the goal of
the marriage is seeking as the Quran says its tranquility. You
have to do this, you cannot do this. In the middle, make the
person feel tranquil. If my household if my kids doesn't want
to be in the house, they want to leave the house. There's a
problem. I'm the something's wrong. Okay. If the wife is not or
the husband, either side is not tranquil, as the Quran says,
marriage is for tranquility, there is a problem, we have to look what
the problem is. But in terms of
obligations, I need to know where is the line in the sense that you
have to do this, you cannot do this. And in between use your
judgment.
Yes, we need a mic here. They have this little one here. And by the
way, we need they want the guys next Friday, or maybe this Friday.
I can't remember which one. They want to do an old school podcast
with.
Oh, those Yeah, it's been a while. Oh, by the way, did I tell you
that? Romanians a Romanian family
came to the UK tour. Yeah, Romania. They came.
And there is right, yet a husband wife Oh
came Romanians. Yep.
You're gonna say some so I've got one of my recommendations because
I've been married for 22 years. So Masha Allah 22 years.
I think it was
possible that you've been saying I think the one thing that has
always been my advice to anyone who
is looking to have a successful marriage is that you have to
have the foundational principle that the dean will always be the
tiebreaker. That's that, thank you. There's just the when we have
a problem, where do we go? Who's the referee here?
Is this show to the sun? Okay, keep going. So I think that's,
that's so important, because they're, you know, especially if
you have a mixed cultural background in your marriage, my
wife is Pakistani, but I came from a mixed background. So I didn't
know all of the different cultural nuances and expectations that came
with like, weddings or other social functions. And so at the
end of the day, we came to an understanding from the very
beginning that if there was an issue, the default was always
going to be the way of the problem.
That's number one. And then number two,
obviously, you have to learn the rules. I've always felt that the
one thing that's never seen enough is that the key is this alone. So
if it's cliche, but the family that prays together stays
together, yep, you pray that your FISA law as much as possible
together, oftentimes, you won't even have to discuss what needs to
be done. Because you'll just come to a happy medium regardless, and
you won't have any fitna at all. Because when you pray together,
and when you eat together, you all get on the same wavelength
together, you share politics, you share religious beliefs, you share
expectations, you share norms. So it becomes a recentering. To
everybody, so much so that you eventually reach a point where you
can be honest in your, in your criticisms of the other person in
a joking fashion, that becomes a point of love versus a point of
Yeah. Also, if you if you have a lot of time together, to the point
that you have so many memories together, when something bad
happens between the two, it's just washed away. Like I know, some
people talked about how they have so much their parent did so many
bad things to them. But they laugh it off, because there were so
many, far more good things, right? Like they would say stuff that
that the parent did that are so abusive, right? So bad, yet, why
are they healthy, normal, and they laugh it off, because the amount
of good things that happened were far more that it washed away all
the bad things. And that is the importance of spending time
together. There was one guy who built a house for us back in
Connecticut. And this family was an old man and five boys. All five
boys were in the business and their friends, buying selling
homes, building in some homes. And so we ended up asking, like, in
this day and age, you got five boys who all want to work with you
and your company and
get along and everything. So how did you do it? How did you raise
your kids like this? He said, No, I didn't do much, except I always
spend time with them.
We always spend time with each other, we're always together. So
there are again, that's something again of counseling for the
family, right? Spending time together. I like the simple
prescriptions. There was a guy one time he he sought out the advice
of a guru in business. He said, Man, I have a printing business.
Things aren't going well. I really need your advice. I need your
mentorship. He said Alright, let me swing by. He swung by his
company, his business. He
sat there listened to him listen to him, says Alright, you ready to
listen to me? You do everything I'm gonna tell you. Right? He
said, Okay, fine. I'm ready. You said,
your office and your shop, the office and then the printing, like
where they do the printing is is really messy. Can't do business
like this cleanup.
And he gets up and he starts helping him clean. And he's like,
no, no, but I need like business advice. He said, listen, am I a
millionaire? Yes or no? He said, Yes. You're a millionaire. He
said, are you ready to listen to me? Yes or no? Do you think I know
what I'm doing?
He said yes. He said, Are you a millionaire? He said no. Right. He
said that who knows how to make millions. Me are you? Right? So he
then said, Oh, no. Okay, you. He said then do exactly what I tell
you. Okay, this is a more read
into genre. So he said, let's clean this place up.
Right, and he started cleaning the office.
And that was the beginning of everything. And then he took off,
but it actually did work. So that's where
certain basic things the I liked the single line prescriptions. Let
me let's look at another another example that I think one of the
first times I realized about how the single prescription single
line prescriptions, what is it prescriptions or prescriptions?
prescriptions? Spell? Pe.
prescription. PRT. Yeah. Like a prescription. So it was it was
about a boxer. Boxer was down and out. Great Depression knocked him
out,
out of business out of everything. And then he
he gets
a chance to fight again after three years
out of boxing. And there's,
there's, there's a guy on the card, you know, these they have
like five fights, one of them drops out, and they can't find
anyone else. They have to reach back and call this guy up. Hey,
you want to fight? Get yourself like a couple of bucks. He said
fine. He goes in and knocks the guy out in one minute.
So that's pretty impressive, right? People like you give them
another fight. So he's he was out of the whole thing. Right? Because
he was no good. He was failing.
Comes in knocks next guy up. First round. What the heck is going on
with this guy? You haven't been training? hadn't even been
training. Next guy. He continues when until he gets the belt, the
whole heavyweight? And back in those days in the 30s. The boxer
look like regular guy, right? The shorts all the way up to here.
Right? So it's not like today where the boxer it's like
computerized machines, right? So they said, look, we got to get to
the bottom of this. So how the heck does a guy go from being a
boxer? And then he was good. And he started losing, losing, losing
losing to being out of boxing. For three years. No training comes
back and goes like five and over six No, and holds the belt. What
happened in between. So they said what happened with the guy is that
he injured his punching hint. In his first career. As a boxer, he
injured his punching it.
So
when he became broke, and he went and he joined,
he got a laborer job. His laborer job was moving rice sacks. And the
bulk of his moving of the rice sack was with his left hand. And
he just balances with the right hand. Right. So his left hand got
extremely strong. And that's why now he punches with both hands.
Right? His his left shot is as strong as his right shot. But it's
the idea that things you do not knowing the value of it. But you
were doing it all this time is the actual ends up being the
difference. Right. Another one of them is
they did a study of who lives the longest. And they found that it's
like a town in Asia. Like their lifespan is the highest. And the
people who love these things, you know, they care about living long.
Firstly, I don't think that living long is really always a great
thing. Unless you're winning. If you're a dunya. We got we have
Africa, right? We let Allah Allah choosing either way, right? But we
submit a note what Allah chooses is best for each one of us. But
for the materialist, why do you want to live log? You should not
live past if you're purely a materialist, right. Dunya is all
we got? Why would you want to live past like 75?
You can't even look in the mirror anymore.
You do not look good? Right?
No one finds you attractive unless you have 75. By the way, it's like
you gave it up all the way probably gets to 69.
So if you're a materialist, why would you want to live a long
life, everything is uncomfortable and miserable and unhappy. After a
certain age. We as Muslims say, we're not materialists, so we can
live wherever Allah wants us to live. But for those people, they
found that the certain Asian town lives the longest. So now they
spent all this money trying to do study, study, study studies, what
do they do differently? They said, Oh, there's one type of plant that
grows there. And they just eat it in everything
on unknowingly, because they consume it in their tea and their
salad. They just despise almost herb or whatever. They put it
everywhere. And that's what keeps their blood pressure regulated,
their sugar regulated. So it's unknowingly they did all this
stuff. That's it. Those are the type of things that I find to be
like the most useful, right? They as Bella check, they asked him,
What was it that put you over the top in 2016
And, oh, we have a shower.
So 2016 That's when they beat the Falcons. Right? And they were like
this game was done with in the third early third quarter. If not
first half there should have been done with, right? It should have
been. Anybody could have coached to protect that lead.
What was it? He said that it was, there was one thing that every
practice, there was a decision, what should we do it or should we
not do it. And he decided every time to do it, no cutting corners.
And that was like running hills. There was a hill, or around where
the stadium is the practice stadium. And he said that every
practice, at the end of the practice, it came in his mind,
should we do it? Or should we skip it. And it was like they run the
hill like 10 Times up and down the hill. And he said every time I
just said like, I don't want to cut corners, let's do it.
And they ran those hills and running the hill after practice.
It gave them a stamina. And that's why by the fourth quarter, the
Falcons were guest the Falcons defense was basically there. There
was no defense. There was literally no defense. Right? They
were guest whereas all the Patriots were like in in their
stamina was amazing. They also bought it to the US hockey team
1980 What was it that put them over the top same thing. It was
the stamina. So that's the idea of of, of what puts people over the
top. It's usually a habit they say they came about
families that stay together and families that separate.
one thing in common they had dinner together. That's it. That's
so you got to break it down. In the blood brothers podcast, one of
the things I said is like, I like to find the binary of things. Like
everything hidden things are vague. But if you look at him hard
enough, you will find the separation. What separates the
gray until a black pixel and a white pixel. All gray is a mixture
at a very small level of black Lakeland what pixel you got to
figure out where it is? Like this microphone looks gray right here.
But from my standpoint, seeing it cause I see where it's silver and
where it's black.
So
I'm not what do you have to
you bring a binary code and
binary code because he's a mathematician.
What is it meaning that dua changes cut out.
The meaning is that there is a two colors, there is one color. That
is with a law, nobody knows it. That is the final say of what's
going to happen. There is another law that is in another book called
the law and muffles.
And that is the cutter that the angel see and that is your update
of what's going to happen to you this year, you can change that
book you can change. So it's written this is what's going to
happen to you this year. If it's good, you versity we know it's not
like we can see it. But it is it's a meaning to show the human being
Do not be hesitant to try to check to use your willpower that Allah
gave you to alter things do not fall into this thing where
everything is written. And that is an invalid claim anyway, in the
sense that, yeah, everything is written but you don't even know
what's written. So what difference does it make you live as if
nothing's written?
In your actions, you live as if it's not written, you can change
because you don't know what you're in. So what is the point of
anything? Only when a bad thing happens then you say it's written?
That's some of the meanings of that.
It can I pray in a mosque that has a grave in it. Yes, as long as the
grave has the
a barrier around even a small fence. So you don't pray on top of
that. Mighty use of 303 team Romania here, and he gives a
salute. It was him and his wife, and I think he said his wife
sister couldn't make the trip. Right? But they watch the
livestream all the time.
When you come back to UK, well, maybe every other year, who knows
we should make a regular routine to the UK because we need
brotherhood between the two.
They should come here the other year. Every other year you go
every other year they come
who should we invite? All of them all the UK errs? Yeah. They can
stay here in the studio.
Recitation of the casinos in England. There are Molad men on on
SoundCloud. Go to Mel
Did men channel on SoundCloud? And and a lot of the procedures that
we do were put up there? Do you know the identity of most men?
Yeah. You don't know? No, it's been a big secret. You've seen?
You know, I'll tell you who it is. Okay.
Yeah, he's traveled the world in Dallas, like, from iPhone one to
like iPhone 11. I guess. Thoughts on economics abunda Kadri. Do
thoughts on those is that what you want to do is you want to start
practicing Shinya, you want to start practicing the sun, you want
to start doing it with God, and you sit around and you benefit
from people, what opens your heart to somebody, if that person is
upon the city, or your heart is leaning towards that person to
benefit from them, then you're then you can think about following
that person. Okay. Also.
It's essentially, you know, most of the talk today, the best thing
that they will lead you to, is
as Hubballi mean, right? Like that you become an upright Muslim who
enjoys thicker, and kedma.
Alright, so I don't know who's out there, in where she's writing
from. So
all right, this is nicotine from Romania. This is the young lady
and she was like the younger cousin. Like, she's in middle
middle school, basically. And it was, I guess, her sister and
brother in law. So she couldn't make the trip. So I recorded
something. Right message there. How was it? Oh, saying why the
goofy I just misplaced my turban? And I couldn't find it. It'll
it'll show up. I know. It's somewhere right? where's it gonna
be?
It's gotta be somewhere. But sometimes, honestly, you get tired
of covering your head. It's just like, straining your head gives
you headaches sometimes. Okay.
permissibility Oh, Medicare don't have a thing like, yeah, Hamza
sorts. This is here on Instagram Live. Let's see what he has to
say. Much love and salaams likewise much love back and salaam
back. We had a good time in
in England, and I go and one of my travel partners. I'm not gonna say
who it is.
I don't want to embarrass anybody. I'm not gonna say who it was. That
was traveling with me. We go there for the lunch with Hamza Stuart's
and Muhammad hijab, right? And we get there and everyone's shaking
hands and this
brother comes. He said, Muhammad hijab, some lady come. And he
says, She's six Hamza shorts. His hand says it sounds like
I'm Hamid and your name is? Oh my god. I'm just a mom. My name is
Muhammad. What's your name? Right. Gosh.
Where are you living?
At the address, believable?
Where are you living to go to how you go? I wonder. I was I was
wondering if Mohammed says it looks at me like who what are
these guns?
It's traveling for women to learn more about Islam and increased
knowledge of Deen permissible. The ruling of the women traveling is
that if it's going to be like a distance, there has to be a model.
Unless there is a dire need seeking learning a lecture or
attending a lecture may not be a download.
Some of the Mauritanians have given a federal that the idea of
traveling is safety. So if it's safe, they permitted it. Right.
But I have to tell you, that is a Feds what? Not the ruling. The
ruling is you need a minimum. Okay. But the feds will is if
there is safety, that that hill of the ruling is that for example,
it's public. You're not be driving at one o'clock at night in the
road staying in a hotel all alone at one o'clock at night. Okay.
That is that. Alright, so, that is a festival that's what is between
you and Allah to take that or not, but is a festival of some of the
reliable scholars of today.
And the ruling is something different. Okay.
All right. Here it is. Look at it. Yes, in arch Allah He has given us
the go ahead to talk to us about this. mela 2023 He goes to
Muhammad ibn and Habib's Zoja we recite his class he does all day
long, every Friday and they will be part of it.
The direct chain of transmission of those munches will be part of
it. And it's an eight day tour during Robbie had a will to go
from Molad demoted, demoted, demoted in Morocco, spiritual tour
of Morocco, attending the real events, not some stage fake no
real events with tea cups and you know, like chaos. You know, those
the the real deal, the real deal, mullets, yeah, all right.
What
if the Djinns ability to hear from the heavens was cut off by the
rock of the province does that mean there had been no accurate
predictions of people do black magic? No they don't predict
anymore because they're shot they can't that's why the the fortune
teller type of thing is out of business anymore there's no more
Oracle's there are no more medicine men there are no more
of these of these fortune tellers. It's gone it's done within
humanity ever since you know that was
that time okay.
What someone dreams about Mecca precisely the cab the cab of
sometimes means the Imam of the time. Okay.
Very clever way of getting my attention to read the thing by
repeating the same lever, sometimes that kappa means the
Imam of the time or the Imam have a certain area and sometimes it
just means going to head your ombre it has many different
meanings but they say that massage it always means something good
there is no dream of a masjid that's bad. Okay.
What for lovin salam from Watford England, hoping to come again
soon. All right, let's wrap it up with a couple more quick
questions, advice, a practical advice on seclusion. 20 To 40
minutes a day to recite Quran and Salah on the Prophet and make dua.
That's it. That's it. 2020 minutes first part of the day, soon as you
wake up 20 minutes to read some Quran recite some Mossad.
Make some dua, that's all you need. You don't need any more than
that.
If you're living a normal, regular life, anything else would be an
exception. Okay. Fortune tellers tarot cards on YouTube. Right?
I did talk to a fortune teller one time. You know what I said? She
said, Hey, can I have your name? Please? I said you should know.
She hung she cursed me and hung up.
Right. Am I right? You should know if you know my How could you know
my fortune and not my name? Right?
Yeah, but you have a limited amount of time. So you're
extremely busy schedule. And you have a lot of books you want to
read?
Is it better to do
or to read or to read the alternate or something? Knowledge
is always preferable to the you should read. Yeah, reading is
better. Reading FIPPA nakida. And fifth and Logan Arabic is better.
What's your opinion on niqab?
No, we don't we're in a club in the West. In terms of in terms of
practice, practical, everyday life. When I look at this, you
shed phase, I'm not saying about niqab. I'm saying what do the
scholars and their families do? Right. The scholars the chef a
scouts the how many scholars whose wife's wore niqab in Egypt?
Or wherever a seer chef A's in Syria? They come here they don't
wear in a club. Right? So if you're thinking about the knot, do
somewhere in the club. Yes. But I'm telling you about what is
acted upon by the scholars who affirm niqab as part of their
method. We don't affirm it as part of our method in the first place.
medica we do if we would affirm we do have it in the books. If it's a
fitna if she would experience fitna All right, and people with
the chasing after her, then she has to cover her face, right? But
absent of that set aside that the the I'm just telling you what to
the chef and the HANA Villa do. I don't see their wives were in the
club
here in Jersey, habra there I seen their families and their daughters
and their wives then went up, and it's in their fifth.
So if they're not doing it, the way of a Western Muslim in the
world today, most most countries is to wear hijab, right? And Allah
knows best but that's and it doesn't belittle niqab if it was
the opposite. If we're in Saudi Arabia, Yemen we that's a city mod
that emotes we're not going to stand out either. Right, is that
their whole city wears niqab in certain parts of Yemen.
I would say to my family, we're not going to stand out a whole
cities wearing niqab. Right?
Same thing. We don't always work movies. If we go to Pakistan to
pray. Me and my son are wearing coffees the the straw one right,
that you get from the from the mosque from the doorway of the
mosque room. Now it's plastic, right? Because it's there. It's
not just about FIP it's about living with the society if that's
how everyone prays, right, and that's the norm for them and their
method was
can you come to Atlanta
is the chief Latif talking, talking about football and that
team in that calamity that they had unbelievable
that the Atlanta Falcons
How do you vent to someone but not backed by?
What is venting? Essentially, it is why don't you transform the
venting into getting advice,
transform it into getting advice, then, maybe it's not backbiting. I
need to get your advice on this situation. This is what they did
this what they did, blah, blah, blah. If you keep repeating a sin,
does that mean the Repentance isn't accepted? No. It just means
that Allah wants you to do more and more and more Toba and
struggle. Okay, until it's See, this is another thing that many
people don't realize. Yet another poor point that we really would
fit in the counseling thing. Things need to marinate. It's
extremely important.
Does one workout transform you know,
in Iman, a lot of people won't do anything unless they have been
attacked. Okay, by shaytaan, then they make Toba. So that's the
toboe is what Allah wants from you. Okay? Tell us what Allah
wants from you. So it may not be one Toba that gets you to the
level that you need. Likewise, one workout doesn't get you you need
to marinate in the gym. Right? You need to marinate in the gym. on
the treadmill. You need to get thin. You need to marinate on that
trip, it needs to be hours, months, years before you break
through. Likewise, in spiritual matters, and Allah knows sometimes
if our life is good, we're not going to turn on Tim, we're not
going to turn to him. Only when things go bad. We will turn to
him. Only when we're attacked where we're most vulnerable.
Right? And sometimes that requires for us Allah to Allah to
allow temptations to exist in the world we fall into that
temptation. We feel miserable about ourselves. We make Toba if
we had not fallen into that we wouldn't have made would do went
to the masjid you only made would do went to the masjid because you
screwed up.
So but Allah wants repetitions of that action until you would do it
without having fallen into the sin.
So that's why you just have to have something and keep doing it.
But the key the only thing about a
Toba or a I should say addiction the only cardinal sin is giving up
on the Toba and believing that Allah Allah
cannot alter your state. He can but he is
he has a will and a wisdom for everything he wants to check your
he wants to to build up your your willpower. Okay.
All right, let's see what is this thing here?
Okay
what else do we have here?
How to Stop rethinking a decision after you made one F following us
to Clara? Continue that is Takara keep doing that is to count on to
become strong in it. What's your opinion on the Liberals on
Twitter? A lot of them having a meltdown? Because the mainstream
of Muslim Imams have now turned against the left?
How could you not turn against the left if you're a human? Right?
When these people are the force of extinction
just do the math. If you want all the guys to sow their seed where a
kid doesn't grow
and you want all the women to not receive a seed and then you want
to take the kids you want to go further than that. Just in case
people stop quitting wanting to be gay lesbian. I'm sure this is
totally like against their worldview because they let's just
say that they didn't stop there. They want now to
take a kid before he even thinks about heterosexual activity
convince him he's a woman so we take we remove his reproductive
organs. Woman before you even think to become pregnant or to
have a heterosexual relationship. You're actually a boy let's take
your sexual reproduction xo is this nothing other than population
control? Like how else could you explain it? And now why are you
obsessed with this idea?
The fact that you're going to different continents to get them
to do this. And you're pushing this so hard. So calculated so
perfectly. Orcas
traded, okay. And all of a sudden this movement goes from zero to 60
in like three years.
Is this anything other than population control? I'm totally
convinced
are there fewer Ellia in our time due to widespread open sending,
though Elia and the OMA? The prophets I send them are always
increasing. They're always increasing. However, in
percentage, they're decreasing. By percentage, they're decreasing,
because the number of regular people are increasing in the hole
in the world. So by percentage or increase, but by the numbers are
always increasing.
Any thoughts on DHS comments? No, I didn't see any comments whether
there's something new. Oh, there's a chart. Is these talking about
the chart?
Hilarious to be honest with you. I got put on a chart row. You got to
look one side, right? No,
I'll tell you right. I'll tell you. The hilarious the I saw the
loop. I gotta say it's so wacky. He is this is the Trump playbook.
It's so wacky. You have to pay attention to it.
That's what it is. Let me see if I have this. This this, this wacky
chart. But it's Microsoft Hey, bro, like, what's going on? Okay,
so
we must oppose comb, Lutz, no ally ship, no rights support,
opposition to rights opposition to agenda? Does that sound like our
what we stand for are not
sound sounds like what we stand for? It? Sounds like the last
three live streams. Sounds like the last decade, right?
Every single, every single life to the point that I'm trying to fast
from it, but
I need I need therapy. I need counseling to stop talking about
it later. Yeah. But I did.
Not we should not support the rights. We shouldn't necessarily
oppose it either. Don't support it, but you don't have to oppose
it. And maybe you can ally with them. Does that sound like me?
Right? No? Okay. That's where he put me at.
That's where he put me at. which is it's it's a it's a way to
get somebody to repeat in what position they're on is to misquote
them. It's like a psychological tactic. Right? That's what it is
essentially. So to get you to say something like, say when If a wife
sister, her husband, you don't love me? Right?
It's a tactic to get him to say that he loves her. Right. So you
know that. So instead of saying, what how could you say that?
That's the first year husband does that? How could you say that? By
10 years, he's like he knows where this is going. This is just to
elicit back. Okay, the because you haven't said it in a long time, or
you haven't said it well enough or good enough. Here he is,
essentially, he does those things to people, right?
And puts them intentionally one click left of where they should be
or where they actually are just to get them to say it again, which
I'm fine with that. I'll say I've been saying it for 10 years now.
Right.
But one thing that he I think he either genuinely intentionally
mistakes is that when people say that we recognize what the
Constitution says it doesn't mean I believe in it. Right? Just
recognizing what the status quo is right now. It doesn't mean I
believe in it. That doesn't mean I support it. But I recognize that's
the reality of things. So if that's what you're talking about,
then
I love the end of this full blown convoluted support. That's like
the final left. Right and he has a bunch of politicians on there
good so anyway, a day in the life of Twitter. But I didn't see you
there is an is did he did the commenter say there's anything
else that I missed something new?
Because I don't follow his page until somebody said something.
Good, but he is though. Very good at getting your attention. Right.
And just poking you because it's so outrageous, right? That you
have to respond to it. Okay.
Oh, Maria is going to be the last question we take. We gotta go.
Gotta go got other things to do, unfortunately, or fortunately or
unfortunate, but we do have to go. All right. Is there a chance if
there is a chance that family member will squander the whole
inheritance into the Haram and will not divide it Islamically Can
you do it through the court in Islamic country?
So you're saying that
If you're saying that the person is alive, and he's, let's say old,
and he's not planning to
distribute his wealth, according to the shittier,
then you want to preempt that?
Yes, I suppose you there's nothing wrong with that. preempt it by
saying to what would you take them to court for that? How would that
work? Exactly? How would you preempt?
Would you take it to the court? Is that a case? So are you suing him?
Like, what's the structure of how you're doing it? Like, what is the
structure? are you suing? You can't sue someone for something
they didn't? Do you? I thought they were talking about like the,
what do you call it and test it? Or like the inheritance? Yeah, one
of the inheritors. They get, like, whatever they're gonna do with
their inheritance is like, like, I don't see where how was the
structure? But in general, yes, you can try to preempt and say,
Hey, Grandpa, you got to do this, how that got in the head by the
shittier.
But what is the structure by which you would do that? Officially? No,
I think they kind of say like, can you prevent one of the one of the
people from getting their inheritance if they're going to
use it improperly? Like if they're going to use it for the like, once
they get it? Oh, a valid inheritance. Yeah. Oh, I see. I
see. Is it so an inheritance is distributed validly. Now, one
brother says, As soon as I get this, I'm going to buy a
nightclub. Yeah, that's what I thought there's Can you stop that?
No, you cannot. You can't.
Like the court will not uphold that.
I don't even think a call they would uphold that.
Right? I'll call you. I don't I don't see how right to be honest
with you.
I don't see how to be honest with you.
You know, ESPN.
So like if you're on the treadmill or something and there's it's nine
in the morning or eight in the morning or six in the morning?
There's no games on right. But there are weirdos out there
talking about the game. That's next best thing. Right.
So watch finished the highlights. There's nothing else. Let's hear
what Stephen A Smith has to say. Let's see here. What? What kind of
debate is going on it just to fill the time while you're on the
treadmill? Right? That's what Twitter has become first love.
Right? People don't care about the ducks anymore. They don't care
about it. They want to hear the reactions, right. Hey, Steven a
Smith goes and Yellin at the top of his I can't believe they blew
the game right? Or cowboys. Alright, and he's so happy he's
giving it to the Cowboys, right fans and all that. And some
rational people are like, wow, why does he care so much about the
sport? Right? Why does he care? But it's like, because it's
entertainment. That's other people are just shooting the breeze.
That's why they want to shoot the breeze right? With that guy. I
want to shoot the breeze not with the good analysis with the wacky
reaction, right? That's what's fun about it. Right? That's what's
interesting about it. And he's only getting like, three minutes
of my time. Right? You're not watching the whole thing. You just
watching the Kooky part, right? And he provides you with one or
two cookies, like to
you know, one or two crazy reactions per event. That's all
that matters, right? And that's why he can up and up and up
because he realized that's what works that's what works. So there
are now ISBN Islamic speakers
programming network that's what Twitter is to me. Hi SPN so yes,
okatie says something I don't even care what he said. Let's look at
the reactions that's the mentality of people he gave a talk about
common Lutz are siding with the left no one listened to it we just
listened to the React the wild retweets quote tweets right?
That's what the world that we live in is all about now how many times
you go to an articles will read the first paragraph straight to
the comment section. Just to see the brawl right. And that's what
isn't that what Twitter has become justice for the brawl of it right?
For the bra. And liberal professors are in agree wall
throws their weight in right Wade's into it. Okay, he responds,
the brawl of it and that's how denigrate like degenerated. Okay,
all of our discourse has become because it it stuff appeals to
your base knifes in the old days. In the old days before Twitter
before all this stuff, there were very few brawls
in the society you may see one brawl in your life which may be
like a masjid fright, or a family fight. So one role in your life to
brawls in your life now, people the neffs loves brawls and now
it's just like every day you can't have
Have enough of it. Okay. And the people who go into that world,
just as a piece of advice, you know, you don't really want to get
so much into that as a Muslim, especially with other Muslims.
Right? If you really want a bra, why don't you bro with a real
enemy? Once you brought the Zionist? Why don't you brawl with
the
progressives don't bro with other Muslims that were embarked on the
close with us, we're embarking upon an amazing period of time,
where Islam is entering the hearts of Americans every single day. And
British people don't get what they say about people leaving Islam,
people fighting us as irrelevant, because the positive is far
greater, right? It's quieter, it's happening very quietly. And you're
going to see a whole different world when we're in 30 years, it's
gonna be totally different, right? But in the end, it's gonna be
something where we're happy to see. So being that Allah is doing
this, and we're allowed to be part of it. I want to go in with a
condition I want to go in not having feuds with another Muslim.
And that requires
a lot of hold your breath and swallow your ego. There was a guy
from traversing tradition. I don't know what his name is Wisam
something or something like that. Was seemed said terrible things
about. Okay. I'm not gonna answer back. I just sort of did answer
back. Right.
But, like the hadith of Abu Dhabi plus swallow your pride, right, I
sent a voice message. Listen, we could talk like through somebody
said, we listened, we could talk. And
a lot of people say terrible things, right. But the hadith of
Abu dumdum is best. Just don't get in Brawl and with other Muslims.
The authorities got upset because I said all the great armies were
SATs. Right. All right. They got upset because I did have a little
condescension towards the authorities when I said it. Right.
And that's like, a lingering thing. So I admitted, okay,
admitted. And then me, we Shibley is a man.
Like, I've never met him, but I know he's online. He's always
saints, you know, good things. But we did have some nice tweets back
and forth. And it's buried now. It's settled, we're at peace. And
he already was at peace. Like we were he was already friendly. He
just said this. This is ridiculous what you just said, Fine. You can
think that's ridiculous, right? But the key is, what the prophet
would love is when it comes with your with your family and your OMA
and your communities try as much as possible. We put our ego down
and not brawl with other Muslims. Okay. And brawl with the real
enemy. Jay kofod When one fop Muladhara him but beyond what mean
are over Rahim. So I want to go to Allah Tada with that having not
brought also, if we claim to we represent certain shield, we don't
represent them, by the way, but in the eyes of people we do. Unless
I'd be vamos that you represent me then you don't represent Him. But
people do associate. Eventually they come around to learn, and
they associate this platform with heavy vomit. All right, whether I
like it or not, I don't want to do injustice to him.
Okay, I don't want to do an injustice to that. Now you could
like Like or dislike other things. Stylistically, that's that's just
opinion, but content was something associated with him is not
brawling with other Muslims because that's one of their
principles. They don't backed by scholars, they don't talk
scholars, they don't compete. Right, and they just support as
long as it's within the broad frame of his sunnah. And that's
exactly where we want to be. So the hadith of I will dumdum
let's just close with the reading of Hadith availble dumdum and then
because many people I keep saying it, but many people don't know
what it is. And then we will read dua, Nora,
and then we'll close up but let's take a look at hadith of Abu
dumdum What is this mean? Okay
Bismillah
I would like to know if the hadith of Abu dumdum is sound this is a
question answer on a website. He says
Who of you can be like Abu dumdum the Sahaba said who is able Dum
Dum? Dum Dum recites the following dua every morning Allah him in
Nicaragua have to enough see what it'll be like?
Oh Allah, He says, I have given myself and my good name, my
reputation, what people say about I have given it unto Allah. He
would not retaliate or swear at those who swore at him oppressed
him or abused him. Okay Allahumma in Nicaragua, enough C word
allelic. Oh Allah have offered my life and my honor onto you. That
means I will not
I will not fight those other Muslims who attacked me
Who said bad things about me. And I will leave it to, if you're
leaving it to a lot, then don't do anything. Right? Not like what I
just did. Say I'm leaving it to Allah but also sneak in a little
jab, right?
That's because we're not there yet.
You're not there you have, it takes time to get there, to the
point that, you know, you're actually leaving it truly leaving
it. Not saying that so and so has bothered me and attacked me and
then saying, I'll leave it to Allah, You didn't leave it to
Allah, you just said it in front of all the live stream. So truly
leaving it to Allah is the hard part and that's where we need to
get to and that's where your heart will truly be at peace. Because
it's truly disliked by Allah and His Messenger we can flip the
screen now.
The fighting between Muslims it's not liked or disliked. Let's close
off withdraw a note here. And we will do a long longer question
answered tomorrow because we didn't get time to a lot of the
q&a here a lot of good questions here that didn't get a chance to
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