Shadee Elmasry – NBF 197 Reading from Ghazalis Tafsir
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salatu salam ala Rasulillah early he was happy when Manuela welcome
everybody to the SOFIA society nothing but facts live stream as
we enter in on day what six of Ramadan so of acid Thursday,
Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday, day five month of Ramadan which
means tonight is night number six. And today I figured that month of
Ramadan should be different. And what we should do is we should we
should read from something different and that is the
thoughtful Tafseer of Satan at Imam Al Ghazali. And it begins
with something
that
the definition of Allah's love of aloneness and worship of Allah
subhanaw taala is the completeness of one's love,
desire and fear, commanded hope. And this is not just from Rosati.
This is a read from many different ones and they discussed this
commander hope will commando Raja will come out of both
completeness of the love of Allah. And also the
desire for Allah and fear of Allah and it drives us from pseudotyped
Fattah is when it says at hamdulillah al Amin, when you have
the concept, the sense in your mind that your Creator created you
directly
is also the creator of every other thing. You feel it all of a sudden
brings you such a harmony within yourself. And a connection between
everything and that connection is what
the whole civilization is based upon is that civilization is going
to be based upon mercy. How can you have mercy when you have no
connection? And connection
is the root of mercy. So if you look at the rahem, the Rama mercy,
it derives from this letters as it's famously said, and hat and me
which also indicates the womb. So the most connection you'll ever
have is to your mother, but and that's where there were there's a
most mercy That's why if people don't have mercy from their mom,
they become extremely cold they have issues
got boys who grew up without a mom, for example. They really
almost like it's too cold they lack softness of mercy. Okay.
Likewise, people who grow up without a father they lack
structure in general not in of course there's going to be
exceptions. But the connection to something is what builds mercy
okay, it that's where we're and mercy is what you need for society
more so you need justice of course, but mercy is so important
for society. So this Rama and that Allah Tada is your Creator and
everything else is created. It puts a love in a person's heart
for Allah subhanaw taala. And that's why all the creation loves
their Creator. Every single image shaitan Illa user behind will like
let's have Coronavirus we have Allah says there is not a single
thing, except it is constantly in the praise of Allah because it
loves its creator. That's the nature of everything you love your
creator, you love your mother, right? Your you love your father,
you have to have that because that's your origin. And it's not
something that you have to be taught. Every baby loves this bit
mum and loves it's done. And then will love it siblings. Why?
Because there's that's the next level of connection. So the
greater the connection. And the more that connection, the more the
mercy and the concept of having a creator is that above all these
intermediary causes such as parents, which would make let's
say me and someone like Oh, my Bessie, very distant, like, where
do you think our grandparents meet back? Like way back centuries? You
take any person, any two people on the earth? Eventually their
grandparents will meet back somewhere. Okay? They have to meet
spec somewhere, but it's going to be so far off. It's as if it's
nothing right? But what Allah doesn't suit us. In fact, yeah, it
says, For cancel all of that, because you have a direct creator.
Right, you're created directly.
And that's what brings you together. So that concept of Rama
and that concept of togetherness is what drives love for the
creator and love for everyone else. So that's the hub
of Rahman Al Rahim makes you hopeful.
So that's that a jet that he's merciful, with His merciful, then
he will let me be asking forever for something that I want for
myself. And every single creation, Allah has created it just as he's
created it to love its creator. He's also created it to desire
other things of the creation.
Right fit throat Hola Hola, Tiff, ultra Nasaan it's the fitrah of
Allah. Don't try to change it. Don't try to negate it. It's the
fitrah
of Allah that on which he created people. So a deer is born
immediately wants grass, it wants water, it loves water, it loves
grass and that is the medium by which Allah to Allah shows his
generosity to that creature shows his is is giving in his mercy to
that creature that he has made it desire water, and it will search
and search and search to find water. And once it finds water,
okay, it becomes happy. Likewise plants they have to have the sun
they have to find the sun somehow. Likewise, there's the opposite
now. There's fear every creation that's come that comes out that is
created there is something that it fears a rock would fear a hammer,
right? would fear something to destroy it? A plant would fear a
herbivore a herbivore would fear carnivore. Get
a carnivore would fear a human because we're we've dominated over
carnivores for a long time there was back and forth. But ultimately
humans have dominated carnivores. So everything fears something of
the creation and wants something of the creation. Through these
mediums, Allah Tala shows his generosity and shows his strength.
And Malik yo Medina.
Dean, and a Dane was just that woman gentleman, the debt and your
reward is in accordance with your deeds. So if you have bad deeds,
that this say this, I should put some fear in you. So that is both.
So you have muhabba and Raja and HOath muhabba. Love Raja desire
and hope is fear. So when you want to appeal to somebody, you go in
that order. But when you want to actually practically build
something, you go in the reverse order. When you want to build up
some, you want to build up your image and you want to build up
your, your action. Good. Nothing is a faster catalyst than fear.
All right, you got two people, one guy, you have $500,000 in a pot in
a back.
First one who gets there gets it. Another guy, he's got a lion
behind him chasing him. Who do you think's gonna run faster? The one
who's running to $500,000, or the one who's running from a lion.
Because running from a lion, it's not the line, it's your life. And
it's the sensitivity of pain. Those are far more powerful than
anything that you can desire logically, to enjoy $500,000 You
need to be alive, right? You What is the point of having $500,000
and getting eaten by a lion or getting chewed up by line? What
does that i How can I enjoy my money. So you can't even enjoy
good things, if you fear for your life. So fear is the fastest
catalyst to movement. Fear will cause everyone to pay attention,
it will cause everyone to change everything that you can do, you
can at this moment.
So fear, although it's the least in persuasive persuasion, it's a
fastest and change is you don't want to entice you can't it's hard
to entice somebody and keep them long, a long time on fear because
fear is something that we hate in our body. So we act to get rid of
the feeling of fear, and all the hormones that are popping out,
okay? That are that are that are shooting out of us in our bodies,
we all of a sudden we have to remove that. So we got to remove
the cause that triggered all those hormones from coming up. And all
that feeling of fear from coming out. And once you do that, you do
that quickly. So So So fear is a great impetus for change, but it
can't last. You can't be afraid for so long. Your body will
physically have a nervous breakdown and will shut down. Like
fear the emotion can not last for a long time. And that's why people
will will succumb to anything. And the oldest thing in the world is
that a government will come in create a boogeyman
and then make you give up your rights just to be at ease from
this Boogeyman. So we create a boogeyman great some fear, and a
government misuses this fear because he knows you can't
tolerate this fear. Right? Can't be afraid so long. Okay, what is
it? What do you need? Okay, sign this bill. This bill means that we
can spy on everybody in the country, so we'll make sure that
the boogey man doesn't attack us. Okay, fine spy on us, as long as
you take care of it. So fear is something that we have to get rid
of. And that's where there is no fleeing from Allah except back to
him. You can't get rid of this fear except by going back to Allah
to Allah and nothing else can save you from it. So fear is something
is extremely powerful, but it's its life, its shelf life and its
potency. It has a time limit.
And that's why we have to get rid of it quick. And that's why you
can't rely on fear for long term change only a short term, right?
Only short term. Now what? What is it that you can go for a long
time, but also has to have an end. And that is desire, right, the
next level is
a jet being desire. Desire is something you can carry it for a
long time. But it's all useless if it doesn't have an end in sight.
And that's the key. Like you can't desire something, you can desire
something and work on it for years and years and years and years.
But it must have an end. That's the nature of it. Get it if you
tell me at the end of this month, there's going to be a great word
or at the end of this year, or at the end of two years, there's
going to be a great reward. But there has to be an end in sight. I
can wait to Raja is hope, but is desire I can desire I can hope for
a long time. But eventually, if I don't get it, I'm gonna lose faith
in the person who made me the promise so, so that's the thing
with hope you can hold it for a long time because it's sweet. It's
beautiful. Right? It makes you motivated. It's almost the polar
opposite of fear.
You love hope you want and so you need constant promises. Okay,
don't worry, keep going. You're gonna get it and you're gonna get
it. You need constant promises, constant reminders.
But the nature of it, it must have an end.
Now the point is, if fear got you to move, hope got you to cruise
for for a period of time.
Those two things should produce for a person should produce a lot
of love for a person. That's what they should produce.
They should produce a hubbub
okay. And that love has no ends, no limits. And no ending. Like
fear has a limit, right? Like you can't be so scared you have to
have a limit. Hope also has a limit and it has an end. Okay, but
love has no limit and no end. Only when a person has been through
these three phases in their Dakhla and in their deen and their mom
and it with Allah subhanaw taala have they truly understood
properly? Because there's
the voting in the Quran does not only mean oppression, it means
Look, son.
Okay.
Right.
There there's a voted minimum volume only NFC woman who worked
at minimum seven computer Clara, Allah talks about three types of
people. One is Lolly Molina FC,
and the other is maakt acid and the other seven Bumble Hyatts.
Allah describes three types of people. These three types of
people is one, he's a believer, but he shortchanged himself voted
in this verse means he shortchanged himself. So if you
have only have fear of Allah subhanaw taala, then you only have
1/3 of the matter. Okay. Women who mocked acid, the mocked acid is
someone he did his job. He didn't do any more. He didn't do any
extra. He just did his idea of what is prohibitionist?
It's called mock test. This person is Roger Seiler. He's a righteous
person. But he didn't do anything more than theirs. So that is
someone like he has fear. He has enough fear, he has hope. But he
didn't do anything more. So he's two thirds of the way there. But
then Allah says woman who served at Gunbroker arroz than another
one, he surpassed everyone with his good deeds.
That's the one who completed everything. So if you ever if you
truly experienced a fear that makes you move, then you fear,
experience hope, and then you receive your reward in this life
first, then you will, by nature, two, two plus three must equal
four, five, okay, two plus one plus two must equal three, two
plus three months equal five, has to equal five.
You must then grow in your heart, Allah for Allah subhanaw taala.
And then that is even superior to Jack because it has no ending. No
one could take it away from you and you're not waiting for anyone
to complete it. Okay, that's a difference between fear and hope
and love. And all three of them. They actually come in this order
for most people, some people if you're born in the lap of Dean and
Imen.
Okay. It may be that you take some of that love right away, and that
hope right away. But for most people, you start off with some
with with fear than hope and love. All right. So this is what is
What is it fair to have begins and then you get the verse? That is an
oath between Allah to Allah and His worshiper. Yeah Can I will do
it yeah can stain.
The worshiper he says, Unto You, I worship
Unto You, I seek help. And then a Siddhartha was stuffy got to say
the right pets that Allah subhanaw taala says, My servant, praise me.
He's thanked, he's thanked me, he's praised me, he's glorified
me. And now he receives whatever he asked for. That means if you
fulfilled all three of the conditions of the states, then
your door will be answered. These are all just opening comments on
the nature of suitors and fats, and how it links with love.
Raja desire, hope and fear if a person is finding weakness in
their Amen, they need to just look at one of these three things. Some
people, they grew up so strict, they have a weakness in the remed
because they don't realize how Allah generous, how generous
unless they don't realize it. They may have not been taught that if
you grew up with someone stingy. For example, if you grew up with
somebody who everyone who has something that they must find a
they must blame them, they must find fault in them. Right? They
must say, oh, yeah, they have a lot of money, but their kid is a
mess. Right? Oh, yeah, they have. They're very handsome. But he's
the dumbest guy in ever met. Oh, she's very beautiful. But her life
is a disaster. Right? So you meet some people like this. They cannot
see anyone with any fire in their life, any goodness in their life,
except they must shoot it down. Now, if a kid grows up like that,
what is he going to think about generosity is they think that now
you can have good things in this life. Okay? Can't be any
generosity in this life. There. If you get something you got to lose
a ton of things. Or the opposite. is the case where
when it comes to do the same thing, but the corollary to that
when it comes to Deen, oh, look at these people. No, they were never
jailed for the sake of Allah. What kind of religion is are they on?
They're all comfortable and happy and everyone loves it. They were
never jailed for the sake of Allah that if you weren't tortured, if
you weren't
if they weren't
punished if they weren't mistreated, oppressed, then
they're not righteous. Only the righteous people, those who get
killed, those who get jailed. So that's righteousness. Oh, look at
these people laughing and smiling. wearing nice clothes. That's not
the right way. The right way is these people with rough hands from
so much to do. forehead is miserable from so much sujood.
Right? rough clothes. Everything is sloppy poor. That's the
righteous person. So be careful, those little comments that people
make, and parents, they really don't realize it. Sometimes they
make little comments here and there. Right? They make comments
here and there, not just parents, anybody that is influential,
right? make little comments here and there. All of a sudden, a
person doesn't believe that. Allah subhanaw taala is generous. Now
believe that, oh, there's got to be some misery involved. All
right. So
the man is incomplete. Because they don't believe Allah's
generous.
They may end up miserable, and making other people miserable,
too. That's the thing. When they become leaders, what did they do?
Gotta be miserable. If you're not miserable, you're not on the right
track. If you're not so strict, that your life is just unbearable,
you're not on the right religion.
So that's one side. Now you can look at, if you remove this
ingredient list. It's like having a meal. If you remove the burger
from a hamburger, the patty
you know, what do you have? Right? If you remove the bread, yeah, you
got a meal, you'll be nourished, but you won't enjoy it. You need
the bread, right? So if you removed the generosity, you get
this mean religion. But you're gonna burn out of it. It's not
practical.
It's not it's untouched art. Now you can do the opposite, though.
You're gonna have the opposite. You can have a concept where
constant non stop is just always generosity. But that's very bad,
too. Because that leads to somebody with no structure.
So and this is in Tobia, of the mother and the father. They are a
reflection of the divine attributes. Okay. Which is that?
The father, he has got to put limits, these limits are for your
benefit. They're not a that's not against you. When a dad says no,
there's limits here. You're not going on this trip. Right? There's
limits here. There's work sometimes there's study sometimes
there's there's limits you
Are these limits are guardrails there for your benefit? You're
driving down a mountain or up a mountain. And
if you do that in the third world country, there's there's no
there's no one, no government came and put barriers there. Right? You
do that in California, they got barriers, right? I don't think
there's a windy road up a mountain in America anymore. That doesn't
have big metal barriers, at least, that if you were to accidentally
swerve, you just hit the barrier rather than fall off the cliff.
That's what limits are for.
And when you got youth, for example, raised on mercy, mercy,
mercy, mercy, mercy, mercy, that kid does not know how to control
his emotions, you will never fulfill a duty in his life.
Okay, the moment his emotion goes one way, it's extended. There's no
one stopping it. And you'll never achieve anything in life. If
you're, if you don't have a sense of duty. Sense of like, I don't
want to do this, but I have to do it. But then again, when I kept
doing stuff that I have to do, I look back and I find an orderly
life. And I enjoy that orderly life now I can build upon that
orderly life. Okay. And that's all by the concept of responsibilities
and duties. Anybody who is always allowed to do whatever they want,
and that's just Rama, Rama, Rama, Rama, generosity, mercy,
compassion, no sense of obligation. That's the opposite of
the one who was raised upon the stingy god. Okay. That's the
opposite. Alright, so
you see people there's a shock of their life when they're told
something's hot. I'm,
like, shocked. I can tell right away how you were raised. Right
away. I could tell how you were raised. You were raised more
dominant female attributes by your mom, mercy from your mom then
rules by your debt. I know exactly how you were raised. And also I
see some people they're like
the opposite side. More on the fear side. Hey, us Why are you
bringing luggage?
Oh the goods Masha Allah, Masha, Allah good. I thought you're
traveling or something. All right, I was here today. So likewise, I
could tell somebody who sees like rich people or happy people and
immediately has a negative view of them
to send you this raised upon stinginess, so you got to have
these two balances
of the attributes. And because as he calls it, fat you had to Jana.
This is miffed our agenda, that first you have and we've dealt
with Jana.
Okay. It is a Fatiha What is it opening up fat? Yeah, fatty acid
kitab. Obviously, it's opening the book is also opening Jana. Good.
It's also opening paradise for it. Okay.
Well, Jana Semenya were my annual fatty acid ammonia was it says the
meanings of the doors of paradise are eight, the meanings of Fatiha
he's going to count them for us. Right? They're also eight. Okay.
They are eight. The meanings of Facha are eight. All right, let's
see what he wears. Where does he say them or does he summarize
them?
Well, mine in fact, yeah, tell John 11 ilithyia Manaea fadem
cotton and Nicola Kurzman minha NIFT.
Wearable Jana, every one of these meetings will open one of the
doors of Paradise. That means if you put that in your heart, and
you act upon that meaning you will earn in the sight of Allah to be
able to enter Paradise from one of these of course, Paradise is only
earned is only gained by the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala the levels
within paradise though are earned by your deeds.
Then Quintella to Sarge a fee called beacon Amen. What does deep
water love it's a fee and Manasa fidanque For him to whom and Jana
Fela Lake and Nicola Chrisman Yifter hubbub was if the whole Bob
was standing in Bessette Dean is mad if so each one of these doors
these meanings opens a door for you to understand Allah in a
different way. In a better way. This is my differ is to recognize
who Allah is. Right? So you want to complete your recognition. So
for example, I you can know who somebody is as a colleague, but do
you know them as a neighbor? No. Do you know them as a wife? No. Do
you know them as a husband? No. Do you know how the mother as a
mother know as a son as a daughter? No. You only know them
from one angle. Okay, so you're mad if it is? It's there? Yes, but
it's not complete. Okay, we're learning method.
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a natural. It's in the middle of the surah. So that's a number.
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fear and hope and love.
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hovering more than something else.
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the we say that it is the alum Allah that Allah Allah. This is
something you should write down on the UN. If you have any piece of
paper or your phone, the what do they call?
How do they describe the name Allah? Say it is Allah mon Allah
that Allah Allah or Holloman Allah legible will Jude it is the item
the item is the proper name. And it is not a compound word such as
El isla.
Allah's name is not a compound word of Allah. As many people say,
it means it is merely it is a name. That's it. Okay, and the
names.
Not every word in Arabic language is most stuck. was stuck means
it's a derivative. So it's not always a derivative of a root
let's say the word shut out up.
Sheen Jeem Rob,
this three letters gives you have different meanings. The meaning of
branching off
the meaning of tree, the meaning of argument. All the meanings
refer to something that started as one and became many. A shujaa is
we started as one group we argued to become different groups.
A Shudra. It's a plant that starts with one. It starts with one
trunk, then it branches out in many. Okay? So that's what we call
like a word that is much stuck.
But this is right in which the name Allah subhanaw taala is right
and we're stuck, it is not mushed up. It is as it is. It is an item.
It is just an indicator and a sign and the proper name of the one who
is the highest essence, a vetted ally, or you could say it is the
proper name as some of them would what's the ketamine have said upon
the one who exists by necessity?
I don't we're not a vetted, Alejo, Allah, Allah, where jib and would
shoot then
the Allah has described himself in many other names, but the name
Allah subhanaw taala is encompasses all of His Names. So
you don't say
you said that Allah is a Rahmani Raheem. Okay, but you don't
describe a Rahman Rahim as being Allah. Right? I don't know mana
Rahim is the description of Allah but not vice versa. Okay, so Allah
is the name. And Ramana Rahim are names which are attributes and we
could go to the meaning of Rama, you can go to the meaning of
Kadeem with Jeep, all of those things, you can go to those
meanings, they have meanings, whereas Allah himself than the
name itself is a proper name. And that's it.
Right? And that's the difference between the lawful jalala The net
proper name of Allah subhanaw, taala, and all of the other
attributes.
Okay, and these are Rahmanir Rahim are the two greatest and the two
most beloved Names of Allah subhanaw taala. And hence the
prophets I said them said, the best of names are those that refer
to hand N and in a bed, which are the Hamed being like Ahmed Mohamed
Mahmoud Hamad names regarding the praise of Allah subhanaw taala.
And then the other collateral Esma Mr. Homido. an arbiter is that you
refer to yourself as Abd Allah, Rahman Abdur Rahim Abdul Malik,
Abdul Quddus Abdus Salam, Abdul Majeed, Abdul Majeed, all these
different you know, why is it that Hemd is greater than why did the
province say that haven't is a greater name than the opposite
names? Reason is that Hemd it lasts forever.
Hand is the vicar that continues in Jannah.
Whereas La Banda does not continue in June. Of course, we're a bad
Allah, but we don't have to do a bad engine. So while the province
has sent us my Muhammad robot,
and if you notice,
very few, do we have any prophets? Well, we don't know all the names
of the prophets. But prophets tend not to be named
something their attribute is that of course, but their name is
always something else. Why it's something that will last forever
to us doing servitude to Allah subhanaw taala as fasting
observing Halal and Haram has an end to it. Whereas praise has no
end to it, you will praise Allah will ask you to Dawa home and
hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen. The end the final sate statement of
the final call of people in Paradise is said hamdu Lillahi
Rabbil Alameen. So as a result of that Hemd is greater than anything
else hand is praise, mixed with gratitude. That's what Hamed is
I'm praising you out for the with the intent of gratitude. Okay
well not to send ASA it'll sieverts
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here's the thing about Merci,
merci.
It actually, to study or it encompasses, it implies many, many
other attributes. Think about this. Mercy implies.
Mercy implies power over you. So if I think I'm having mercy over
you, that by necessity, I have power over you. I could hurt you.
I could harm you. By necessity Am I have what you don't have which
is power. By necessity. I'm being generous to you.
Now you can't have power over somebody without having a will
without having knowledge without having
existence. So a Rama a member of Azad he goes so far as to say to
send a sir a sci fi thriller okay.
He remembered it was early even go so far as to say that
Mercy. The implication of mercy is that it implies all the other
attributes of Allah sama and that's why he put it first. Okay?
And that's why he says My Mercy encompasses my wrath.
And Hadith could see.
And he says that a rahmatu to show WICO home, ie, it makes you love
your creative when you know he's merciful. Well, mercy isn't mercy
only when I'm in pain. And when I'm in hardship, then I get mercy.
No, not at all. Not only that, Mercy
also implies generosity. Because asking for something is painful.
having hope. Hope is a type of pain if you think about it. It's
almost a type of pain that we put ourselves through willingly
thinking about hope.
When I want something, wanting something, you know, some people
who have who've been disappointed early in life, they never want to
have hope. Right? They know the pain of an unfulfilled hope. So
hope has a type of pain to it. Desire has a type of pain to it.
Desire is extremely painful. Until you're reminded, don't worry, it's
coming. It's coming. Then what happens to your pain? It goes
down. Alright, so you have hope for something. Someone comes to
you says don't worry about it's come it's on the way. It's on the
way. All right, like I'm gonna get paid, what am I gonna get paid,
then the boss's daughter about it's coming, it's coming, the pain
goes down. So hope is a wonderful thing, but it is also a painful
thing.
So if Allah is merciful Rama and he's also generous because your
hope for something will eventually must be answered. Otherwise you're
extending someone in pain. And if you never answer them at all,
forget extending them if you never answered them at all, you break
them completely.
You break them completely.
And so hence he says this mercy is filled with Raka and it won't
move. It's what moves the person to the thaw of Allah subhanaw
taala and that's as we said earlier, fear is a faster and
stronger impetus but it has a shorter shelf life. Because it's
pain is greater the pain of fear, the nerves that are going in the
hormones, you're going to be shocked. You can't have it too
much. Okay. Can not have it too much hope though. You can have it
for extended period of time and just a reminder every once in a
while it's coming.
And you we would love to have it but it must have an end to and
that's why love is even greater than that because love doesn't
have an antelope must have an IT.
Got
it luck was Phil other bill low the carova Dylan and Rama in the
Delica yo he's in Morocco with welcome yoke Bill Kalba Wilaya
Shah, who, and he says notice that there is no mention of divine
wrath and suited Fatiha. Because that would have in it got it is
hated by people. It is something that will sat in them, scare them
and constrict them. So there's no mention of divine wrath. There is
merely an ishara to the Day of Judgment, just to mention of the
Day of Judgment.
That He is the Owner of the Day of Judgment, he did not say you will
be judged. He would not say seek my forgiveness. So it's important
to notice that these are important themes, but they're not mentioned
Fetta is fatty is a myth, Danny, it's something to be recited all
the time. Metheny, it has a meaning of two but also has the
meaning of again repeated seven. So a sub l Metheny, well, Quran
and all the the seven oft repeated now if you notice, Every book has
an oft repeated surah
the Christians have one right.
The Lord's Prayer, if I'm not mistaken, the Lord's Prayer is
their version that they repeat that all the time and facts and
for us is repeated all the time, the core and essence of all of
what will earn a person mad if it's Allah and Jana, and this
summary of the Akita is in this sutra, and not only summary of
okay, the summary of our purpose of life,
you cannot lose your purpose of life. If you're hearing ie
economic Dewey, I can Stein dentists often stuffy.
Good, that there is a path of worship, there's a right path,
there's a wrong path. We want to stay away from the people on the
wrong path and be with the people on the right path, like we have
struck gives you a very broad structure, the SUTA in life,
purpose and structure. So there is no mention he meant he notices
here of punishment of seeking forgiveness of anything, because
it's so oft repeated, that its themes are all inspiring.
except one mention of the day of Day of Judgment now, do you think
what you want to know?
Now unhemmed and the chakra Lilla either if a near Aminullah all
blessings are from Allah subhanho wa Taala and all praiseworthy
qualities are possessed by Allah. So that's where Hamed has two
meanings chakra has one meaning, Hamed has one, two meanings, which
is that all praiseworthy qualities belong to Allah. And that's why
whenever somebody says, can a human have something that Allah
can't we say yes, and praiseworthy qualities?
That doesn't. Is there something that you did that? Michael Jordan
didn't do? Yes. Not make it to the NBA. Right? So you don't say that
that's a decrease in his qualities. You don't say that you
have something that he doesn't have. Okay. So that's where many
people make this mistake. Uh, we can't have something we can't be
able to do something that the divine can't do. Yes, we can do
everything on praiseworthy. That's what we may possess, and the
creator only possesses that which is praiseworthy. Hence, we can
What does Allah say to separate between Jesus being a god and a
human? He says Jesus and Mary, what did they used to do can yet
cool and
they used to walk in marketplaces and eat food. Why would you walk
into a marketplace because I have a need? Does God have needs no. So
human could have something that God doesn't have and that is a an
praiseworthy quality, a weakness.
That's the meaning of HEMT all praiseworthy quality Well, what is
the meaning of tests via a Subhan
Annie, meaning of tests vs Subhanallah bit out of spawn that
a bit all them spawn a lovely MD, that TSP has the opposite. In our
motto, aka dinar belief that we're removing any on praiseworthy
quality from his description, from my belief system, from my belief
about Allah subhana, which I am removing any unpaid worthy
quality, any quality that does not belong to the Creator, and is not
appropriate for the Creator, to be described with. I'm removing that
and that's the meaning of to speak.
So at to severe Wilhemina they go hand in hand. And that's why you
want to combine them Subhan Allah will be handy. You combined it.
You did 10 Z of all attributes that don't belong to Allah to
Allah, or on praiseworthy things. I don't believe them about Allah
and all praiseworthy things I do believe them about Allah Subhan
Allah he will be empty.
So, that is the meaning of tests via So, Hamed is that Allah has
all qualities within him all praiseworthy qualities, but also
he is the source of all blessings. Okay, he is the source of it all.
Hence you say Alhamdulillah you don't say Alhamdulillah Poulin so
and so you don't say Hamza to say to another person because no other
person is the source. Another person may be the means so you can
give sugar. Now remember in everything that we have, there is
a source and a means Allah is the source, we are the means okay?
We are the Allah is the source and the people who give you things are
the means. So, the means to this to Shiva to a cure is this
Blackseed oil, but the source is Allah subhanaw taala now shook her
in certain ways you are allowed to speak about the source and the
means in the same way.
Peaceful Rekluse wants me to address if I didn't malubay him,
Yes, we're going to address it. But notice that it's it's in a
passive voice and malubay Allah him is those upon whom is Allah's
wrath, it's in a passive voice.
And it's almost like they earned it, they went and they earned that
so we will, we'll touch upon that. But first this hunt and the
concept here is that
you may say thank people with sugar, this you say sugar Allah
and you can say sugar is to a person, you may also attribute
action, okay, to a to you may attribute action to a means and
the source. Allah subhanaw taala says yet to affect Allah takes
your souls. Allah also says, What do you have to affect the medical
mode, the angel of death takes your souls. Therefore, there is I
can attribute an action to the means and the source at the same
time, I can attribute it to the means the cause with a different
belief about the cause, then when I attribute to the source, so if I
say the angel of death is coming to take your salt
We all understand it's by Allah's permission. By Allah's Leave, by
Allah's command.
Nobody imagines that the angels that's gonna take your soul angels
that's the some autonomous creature that is outside of
Allah's control. So we say the same words but we believe
different things about it. That's a very important concept. When you
ask ALLAH SubhanA which Allah when you make dua for Allah and you ask
a human being for help to different things, so if I say,
hey, I need your help today. Nobody should said no, you only
need Allah's help. No, because I'm saying I need your help today with
the belief that you can only help me by the sake of Allah but I
really need to express that every single time Okay, so that's why I
haven't
is only for Allah subhanaw taala but sugar
sugar can be for people too. Okay
woman is why he says your woman yet I'm gonna buy it Allah He now
I'm at an O Yuxin right Allah subhanho wa Taala will be sugar
lemon high through a normal sacrament Allah for fetus Mia tea
with me the knocks on the
LT fatty elaborated Allah. Okay, if you believe that somebody is
helping you independently from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada, that'd be
right. But when we thank people, we thank them knowing that or
believing that they are the cause whom ALLAH chose for us. Allah
chose for you to do this for me. And because of that, by itself,
you deserve sugar.
Well, here must Jameela Allah if Bertie doru will come early that
he will see fatty for Mecanim and Esma immortal Domine. And if
that's Kaleem will Kadir was Semia will will see foam and that is
Satyam?
How can Allah have mercy upon you? When you're when if he doesn't
know everything about you?
That's what mercy is incomplete. And that's why our mercy is
incomplete. Sometimes we make this very important. We make
conclusions of mercy that are essentially invalid and baseless.
Why your conclusion is based upon a lack of knowledge. It's
incomplete knowledge. Oh my gosh, she's such a nice guy.
believe he's gonna go to *. He's such a nice guy. He she was
so nice. Okay, that's how do you know who she is? From what? From
what a few interactions that you had? Oh, she's my friend. Okay.
But you don't know what happened in her private life, how she
teaches her husband, how he she treats her kid, what happens in
her heart. Okay, when bad things happen.
Alright, so you our mercy
is not actually sounds, believe it or not. It's based upon an
estimation. It's based upon part knowledge and part ignorance. So
that's why our mercy doesn't mean nothing. Oh, I don't think it's
kind this that this, this rules here? Oh, I don't I don't want
them to be punished for that. Wait a second. You're making a
judgment? on very little knowledge. Allah has all the
knowledge. So who's going to have a better judgment at the end of
the day? This is why nobody should worry about other people. Yeah,
you should worry about them if you can talk to them and convince them
but tell us if you can't. Were you worried about them for Allah six
careful, he knows their state. And he's more merciful than you. So I
don't understand why anyone would worry. Right? You the punishment
can be far worse. Yeah. The strike these if you disbelieve, this is
your punishment should be worse. Yeah. I don't know if anyone heard
me.
Maybe things could be worse things could be
thinks could be worse. If you knew the realities of people. Right?
You may have had less mercy than what Allah is already showing
them. This is why a concept of ever imagining that you have more
mercy than the Creator. First of all, you can't because you don't
have knowledge. Right? You do not have knowledge of the person
cannot call a Sayville Jaleel will enamel Hatfield, olive Nebuta. Low
shipped and
Walker of the era Melkonian Hamdulillah. He left alto, I could
break the back of a camel. He said
just by writing a tough CF and Hamdulillah.
The amount of scrolls would break the back of a camel.
Say naughty he said that. If I had if I was to give it a seat, right?
It's a theater of suits. In fact, it would take 70 camels to carry
it.
Alhamdulillah thinner is to praise somebody was shook Athena is to
praise somebody
And sugar
is to thank them for the blessing.
So we're doing complete Allah subhanaw taala and then
we're giving him gratitude sugar for what He's given us and that's
why it's so important to have namah
to have blessings and Nam is extremely important to pull the
thing out of you. So say not even be taught it was famously one time
seen by his son drinking a cold fruit juice one time and that was
something that the ascetics never used to do.
So they he said, Father, you drink this he said, I want to spring the
things out of my heart. How NEMA got anyone who's a bit down and
depressed Alright, why don't you take some blessings from Allah
it'll move you ask for some blessings
acts for it have some have a goal have a mission have an adventure
something to I'm going to do this almost gonna give me this they
don't move you
he says it's why I said handle terrorism but it's better to
follow Bill Carmel was followed. Welcome, min Allah Marathi and
welcome at the highest way to praise someone is to say that
they're complete.
So the most generous, okay, but the most generous guy amongst us,
but he also must, might be the weakest. Right? He's so generous.
Yeah, he's such a nice guy. But he's also weak.
All right, how about the strongest, but he's not nice.
The strongest if I tell you, the strongest man is about to enter
the room? Do you have hope of generosity from him? Not
necessarily. You have hope of protection. If I'm telling you the
most generous man is going to walk in this room, chances are, he's
not going to be the guy that we call on to protect us, right?
attributes in humans are imbalanced. So the greatest
quality is to say, the best men is we're going to walk in this room
when he said the best okay, that means everything, he's going to be
the best to protect us the best to, to be generous to us the best
person to sit and hang out with and and be intimate with. Right so
that's why as it says here
and hand it's it indicates command completeness. Right have all
attributes that are good, and that's the greatest way to to that
is the greatest way
to praise Allah subhanaw taala is by his commit
was Surat Al Mustafa cream
is as we're gonna see.
It is the most important thing to be grateful for hamdulillahi
rabbil Alameen Ramallah Rahimi Malik Yeoman Dean as he's going to
say, He's saying what is the most important thing to be thankful
for? It says it is a so often was study, but he's gonna get to that
later.
What is greater sugar or Sabra? No sugar
just as a Rama is stronger than a condom.
As we said, it's hope is a higher level than fear. Fear is a faster
and it's a cure for everything. Okay. But hope is greater hope is
far greater. Right? Why it could last long but like so likewise as
a result of that sugar is greater than suburb.
Because when you have suburb you have suffered for the sake of
Allah but you hate what you what you're being patient on. Right?
You hate it.
You have poverty, you have whatever. You hate it, just
dealing with it.
For the sake because it's the will of Allah. But sugar is something
you love. You want it to stay you want to last. If you're in the
state of somebody, you never want to stay in the state of sub.
Right? If I told one of you, you're going to be in the state of
suburbs. You're going to be in a state for six years. suburbs are
sugar of course sugar. Sugar is it's it's a worship of Allah with
your heart. That is sweet.
Saba is a worship of Allah in your heart that's better. So clearly
sugar is greater than sub gratitude is greater than
patients. suka is gratitude and somebody's patients
because sugar yes sir Anil Aritzia
was show when
she sugarcoat it derives out of it derives out of
comfort, relaxation.
What
Last summer it comes out of the will of Allah fear good dislike
All right hardship so people do not like somebody and they like
sugar and sugar is a greater worship than sub although southern
often patience
is actually
a prerequisite to sugar
you can't be grateful unless you know your first know how to be
patient because sugar does require some patience
and I mean is divided either some say that an island mean is only
the living things and other said it is all things
and chances are
it is the most likely it is all things not just the living things
okay
all right let's stop here and go to our q&a session for today
should we not pray for separate ourselves then? No, you should
pray for ease you should pray for ease
okay pray for ease more than some
pray for a lot to make things easy for you
I
look at when I was teaching
video or video teaching I think it's oh it's a video Yeah. that
moving is that moving? Or is it a watch again
that's that's a great Morava tell hedge who I never got to meet but
our Senate goes back to him through first check comes use if
then check Sadek then check Rami then Chicago man before that. Son
of whatever tell hedge never met motivated hedge.
But everyone here owes a debt to him. Everyone here owes a debt.
When you know that when we finished in 2015 I think when we
finished the reseller, we talked the whole reseller I took that
from ship Sadek. We took it from whatever judge got the whole
reseller and mbsc the day the Sunday before the class Emma. I
had a dream and when I was in touch smiling and he was happy he
said you did well
I was so happy Subhanallah he was happy with the that we finished
reseller so that's when you have that you never met the chef but at
least he's having a dream like that it's
it's really nice
look at this concert. Interesting for a lot of people here
Syria or turkey? Something a lot of people
Wow, these are they're good.
Oh, there they go everywhere. And they do this. They just stand in a
row. Yeah.
Like 50 Guys
Wow, that's beautiful. That's beautiful.
Add real to your story. Just a segment is going through
Instagram.
yeah
here's how the bomber So how have you been going to make so do
to see how a bomber makes her do properly.
There's a lot of benefit from Instagram to be honest with you.
The one thing you just have to you just have to you just have to not
be shared in any other. You can't subscribe to anything else. Yeah,
like if you i subscribe once to Steph Curry shots. Yeah, I got all
the junk. That's sports guys watch too. Yeah. Right. Always sports
guys. If people watch sports, they tend to watch other things too.
Right? So I got those suggestions. Only when I canceled everything.
Everything else and like random stuff all the time. Yeah. No, the
algorithm is
it's just what it thinks you watch because of other people last eat
last night they
they did the title we in Times Square which is always I think a
controversial issue. It's controversial but hey, it's a
thing now look.
Props to the Cape.
So they did it.
All
right. So,
I mean, now that they're doing it, right. Hello Is Dr. Fudge Hasson
is the one who led the salon.
Now that they're doing it, we support it. Why not?
You? They say, oh, there's a lot of fiscal there. Okay. People know
about it across the world, though. Yeah. And people in Egypt asking
me, yeah, probably done with it.
I'm done with it.
It's terrible. So not Yes, it is, of course.
And the number of records, but the massage it is sooner for the
massage to establish 20 for that with this I've established but if
they establish more or less, it doesn't matter.
Can you finish what's on our plate during the event of Soho? No,
nothing, not even what's in your mouth. If the event of soda goes
at than a fetch,
and you're have food in your mouth, you can swallow this whole
thing of finished what's in your hand finish? What's on your plate?
No way. People have these like misplaced priorities where they're
like, oh, no, but we can't waste the food. Yeah, well, you know,
what do you want to waste you wanna waste your faster you want
to waste your food. And you should have thought about that before you
took out such a big plate or before you're eating. This is why
we do em sack to begin with, you should have observed him sec. M
SEC has to stop eating. Back in the old days of ancient times in
the 80s, there used to be a calendar. And that had two
columns. Before the column that says fed, there was a column that
said stop eat.
That's what the that's what the column was stopping the press
didn't even know speak English. Right? Yeah, stop, eat. Okay. And
that's called him second as about 15 minutes before fetch.
I couldn't concentrate entirely at all last night, because two people
next to me and many others were uncontrollably coughing and
sneezing. Should sick people discouraged from nothing, they
should sick the sick, who can make noise or making noise or coughing
or getting other people sick? should stay home?
What did they say on Instagram?
What do you mean by there as we
hope must have an end.
When you hope for something you are hoping to attain something to
see something to look at something to to have something. So don't you
need it to end? It has to have an end. And that's the difference
between hope and love. And that's why the superiority of Hope
overlap of love over hope is open to love. No president, you love
something forever. But hope has to have an end. Right?
When you're hoping for something I need to get it.
Right.
One day I have to achieve I have to have it.
Does that make sense?
All right, read this that long question there.
He's saying I have a Jewish coworker who is one of the loss of
handles added changes laws, he told to stick to the commands
you're given Why would He change them? Why do we have different
differential because the life is changing? Okay. 1281 012 that is?
Life is changing. That's why right? Life changes. And people
change. So Subhanallah we have one when we have one law, what do they
say? They say, Oh, but times changed. We're going to follow a
law from the ancient times, right? And then when the laws do change,
they say, Oh, well, why change? Why not just have one law because
the nature of human beings changed. So think about this.
For the long time in human history, in the beginning, namely,
up to what maybe one or two generations insists the
prohibition was to marry your twin, but you can marry your
sister. Right? Allah created the human being to have a desire for
his sister, but not his twin. That's what was forbidden. So
Adam, and however they produced twins.
Okay.
20 pregnancies, okay, all with twins. And then the final
pregnancy was one child, which is who scheef Why?
Because Abel kills Cain, Cain killed Abel. Right. So that
decrease the human population down. And that was a time when the
human population needed to be even. So she was, was born by
himself. And he the prophethood came to him. So
every set of births for her what was a boy and a girl, the
prohibition was to marry your twin.
Later on, it became so that sister men could marry two sisters like
who say
Now I could for example, say now who he had fled from his brother.
Boom.
You know the story. Yeah, you told it to us before once you told it
to us.
He married two sisters.
And there were also two slaves that he married from those four,
he produced the 12 Sons of Israel.
But sisters, they have great envy to one another,
have a lot of envy towards one another. So when
Raheel
the younger sister, she died.
She was the mother of Joseph saying they use it. So because of
that, saying they are cool, give more love to use if and Binyamin
compensating for the death of Rohit, who died giving birth to
Binyamin
Benjamin.
So as a result of that, the mother of the his older sister became
jealous of that. And that jealousy transmitted eventually to the
boys. So oh, he's showing more love for your group for use of
okay, we have because he lost his mother. That's why.
So that even though she was the mother, she was the aunt.
The collar of use of and the stepmother of use of, but
something inside of her had some envy. And what's the proof that
she was righteous, and she was good to use of, but she couldn't
withstand the envy that he's getting more attention than her
own sense is that Allah subhanaw taala describes them the parents
as the sun and the moon. In the dream of use of profit use of of
course has a dream
of 11 stars. And the sun and the moon
are 11 planets and the Sun and the Moon prostrating to me the sun and
the moon are the mother and the father. But the mother had died.
So who is the mother? The stepmom?
His color? It's his color Raheel sister. Okay.
So after seeing that one of the mercies in our Sharia is the
prohibition.
The prohibition of men marrying two sisters, one of the reasons
behind that is that the great envy that would occur between the two
of them
a great envy and competition competitiveness that would rise
between the two of them. And that's why it was forbidden.
Okay.
So there's always constant changes in laws, based on how things how
human human life change, but doesn't change is the beliefs.
That's what's more important. The nature of heaven, the nature of
*, the nature of these things, that's what never changes.
US man's obeyed. He said, I read and see without sure that those
who seek sainthood don't achieve it. No, those who seek seek it for
the wrong reasons don't achieve it. Those who seek Wilaya for the
magic or seemingly, you know mystical powers and attention
you're going to get for the wrong reason. But no, we are. It is an
act of worship to seek it. Otherwise, why didn't Allah tell
us about it? But why did Allah tell us about as he doesn't want
us to seek it? Allah gave us MCOM SN he gave us Wilaya he gave us
signs of Amen. So that we could seek those things he told us about
them. So we can desire them, but for the right reason not for the
wrong reasons. So what he must have meant and see without Sure.
See without short is seeking we lie up for the wrong reason. But
Aloma journeyman odia you should just seek to be from Lodi Allah
How do you know, says Abdulhadi when you gain Wilaya?
Well, there are some ways that the ODI used to know is by dreams seen
by them or by somebody else. Right? For example, there was one
person
that's that a youth came in.
And he said that his wife, his newly married wife had a dream
that she was on a mountain. Right.
She was on a mountain
and then he gave her tafsir later on he told other people though,
that that you
that's Wilaya because the mountain is Wilaya Okay, that's what a man
alternates in the dreams. So sometimes it's seen by the
President even know it. It's only seen by others or seeing someone
wearing a white turban. There are visions that are done that but
also most importantly, that there is being answered now. Anytime
that they have a fear or concern, it's quickly allayed anytime they
have a desire it's quickly attain, the DA is answered.
Didn't even full doc say that? Oh, well, he can't know he's already.
I think they argued about that. But it's minority opinion. That's
not the right opinion. No, he confirms that he can. No, he's
only and what's the proof? The Sahaba knew they were suffering.
And that's how it was a greater rank than Willow.
Plan. See, some people in India say that's a lot of times aren't
that set to the minute. So they eat a few minutes after fetch? Why
not stop a few minutes? Why? Why Imagine that? It's not set in the
direction forward, not backwards. Yeah, so maybe the prayer calendar
is wrong. backwards to right. So stop eating earlier. That's what
he's saying here.
Is a justification to stop eating earlier.
Makes sense? If it's not set, if it says on the calendar 510? Yes,
we don't know who wrote these calendars and how they wrote them.
So these calendars are not like explicit knowledge or something.
Okay.
It's not certain knowledge, these counts by the way.
You don't know who made them, or how they made them.
So therefore, you have to have a safety buffer five minutes before,
fetch at least five minutes, if not more inset Mark, I weighed a
little bit as well. Also, what is certain knowledge is if you know
the prayer times and you see outside the sky that Maghrib is in
at that point, I don't care what the calendar says, if I see that
Magnum is in my present, I know how been looking at the sky for so
many years. Now, if it's not a cloudy day, if it's a clear day, I
know when Maghrib isn't, right.
That's takes priority over a calendar.
So But if all I have to go with his calendar,
then what I'll do from Alberta
is wait a little bit.
Three, four minutes.
And I'm telling you the difference, honestly, the
difference between the army and the Taliban is the understanding
of the sources of knowledge. And what the claims yields. The claims
may yield
speculative knowledge, certain knowledge, what is it yielding?
Okay. I told him brother this. And he said,
he's not gonna present I said, How do you know he's at the app?
I said, okay, just wait to the app says it's in.
Which one of the app as if it's like revealed from heaven?
It shattered him. He was shattered the idea that the apps not
reliable. Right? And the thing is that I actually sort of
envied him for the blissful ignorance that he was in. Right?
That he's like a regular Muslim guy. He's not into knowledge or
anything. He's pious guy, but he's not into knowledge. And he wants
to be pious. Okay, what am I going to do? I'm going to get the app.
Okay, as if like, all perfect, pious Muslims that make no
mistakes have made this app. Right. And in his eyes. Everyone
who is involved in Islam knows better than him and is more pious
than him. I actually missed that. Right? There was a time period.
I'm sure everyone went through it that if you saw somebody with a
beard, that guy that was person was here, and you're here, right?
And that's how he viewed the world. The Muslims, its Muslim
Pro, they made the app, right. They made that app, right.
Yeah, specifically, that app is a problem. But he had the shock of
his life that I doubted the app. And I said, Yeah, I had to teach
him though, because you can't leave people in increments, like
your app is made by human beings. You don't know how they made it,
they do have a percent chance that they can make a mistake. This is
not the Catholic Church here, whatever they say is the law.
Right? We don't have that here. Right. So he got the shock of his
life. But that is essentially one of the big differences between the
common Muslim and
the astute seeker of knowledge, a seeker of knowledge will
interrogate the sources of knowledge, and will ask now, what
type what degree of certainty it will yield. That concept threw him
out for a loop suit, because once he got over the denial, once he
got over the fact that the apps aren't do not can have mistakes in
them or they don't yield certain knowledge. He brought me he
brought the next question of
Oh, wait a second, then all our fasts have been wrong. The know
then all of our faster invalid. So I said no, it said, because
mistakes in timing does not break your fast. Mistaken timing will
definitely does not require confidence. If you know about it,
for sure it's a mistake, it requires a lot but not a fraud. So
the gray area or the middle, the gradation of error was also
something new to him. It was like
eight I was I've been using this forever. Does that mean my fast is
invalid? Now my fast doesn't count No, all my fast don't count. Like
he jumped. He has his white or black. That's it? No, there are
there's a gradation here. The first one is, you didn't even know
that you made a mistake. So we can't even say you made a mistake.
Because I don't know when you broke your fast and one bucket it
was number two, if you made a mistake, and then you you discover
that you made a mistake, then it's invalid but not sinful. Okay,
there's a big difference between invalid and sinful, that is a
whole new world for him.
Okay, so that's where you start seeing the value of knowledge, but
also honestly,
the bliss of ignorance. But you can't unfortunately can't keep
people in ignorance if they're if they don't know things.
A red cheeks here saying I didn't even know the apps were
unreliable. Yeah. Because why? Because we have no actual
knowledge, how they process this? What's it? Why would they be
reliable? Yeah. Why is the standard that they are reliable?
Yeah. And also because the claim, but but also this two red cheeks?
How do you know that when they made the app, or whenever the
calculation was made, that it was aligned to the same clock you're
using? Right?
Now, that might be of less of an issue, because we can get the
official US time. But then again, they made you know that, you know,
that times changed by a couple seconds and a couple minutes just
by driving, just by driving, just drive up to North Jersey, right?
The time changed, right? Just drive south a little bit time
changed a little bit. So when it says that it's the app is made,
right? It, it's going to need to actually know exactly where you
are at your coordinates. But anytime you use one of these apps
for a major obligation, such as fasting, just give it a buffer,
that you're not going to lose anything for three, four minutes,
then you look outside your apps. If it's not cloudy, you become
certain that it isn't.
You're not losing any facet. 18 hours, right? That's how it's
supposed to be anyways.
to procrastinate, yeah, it's supposed to be with your eyes.
Yeah. It's meant by they're supposed to do the HD hide
yourself. Yeah. And look outside and see what's the direction of
the Qibla? What's the direction? Oh, you know, isn't it from time
to time? You're supposed to do that. Like, there's no point in
going to this if you have the ability to do so. Well, here's
another thing.
A brother here says that a certain shake went out and camped out in
the deserts of California and verified that 15 degrees.
is the most accurate for fetch? Well, let me tell you this. Why
can't we accept this because out in England, a group of scholars
not one or two, a whole group went out. And they said we're going to
spend the entire month observing fetch and documenting our
findings. Okay.
So they found that when they their first few weeks, that they did
this, their documentation of fudge it was telling them that it's 15
degrees. By the end of the second by the second week, it was
matching aligning with 16 degrees by the third week or something by
the fourth week with 18 degrees. Well, guess what happened? There,
I got better at seeing the light.
The first time they went out there, okay, there, I could not
see the light. Well, they weren't trained by the end of the month,
they could see the light earlier than before. And that's why they
confirmed 18 degrees for federal coming in, which is the earlier
time. Now if you're totally confused about what 15 and 18 is,
there are two opinions on when fedrick the first light even comes
in. Okay. And
you have the horizon here. And you have your sun here. Okay, so the
sun
is at 18 degrees when the first light comes in, and other
calculators have calculated as 15 degrees. So that's different.
That's the point of difference. And there are there is support on
both sides. I can't say that there's no support on either side
and that your face would be invalid. I won't say that.
memoriam has a lot of questions. So let's see this. Also motorcycle
is mine. What is Willa? Willa is what is hula? And can you America
as you can get your cousin's? Yes. What is Wilaya It is the highest
level of Eman that a Muslim can shoot for and it has a lot of,
there's a path for it and there is a lot of reward for it. The reward
of the life of the wealthy is different from the life of the
common believer because Allah treats them differently. And Allah
treats them differently. He treats the deen differently.
He treats a bed differently.
Alright, let's let's take a millenniums question. Asking for a
friend.
You know it's going to be good now. If husband loves his wife, I
told you it's gonna be good. husband loves his wife and he
cares for her. And he wants to save the marriage. Oh, it turned
sour.
But the river wife feels she and her husband are have totally
different outlook on life personalities cultural difference,
oh.
And a part of her wants to leave the marriage due to emotionally
being drained. And her past depression is recurring by saying
in this marriage, can she leave the marriage to these grounds,
they're both practicing Muslims, she can leave the
she can
leave the marriage if she is unable to fulfill her obligations
to her husband. Because of the lack of feeling towards the
husband. She recognizes the husband loves me dearly, but I'm
not happy in this marriage. She cannot fulfill the
responsibilities of the marriage because my heart is
unable to then she can seek a hula but she would have either he would
let her go willingly. And if he doesn't want to do that, then she
gives back the dowry or something's to adopt or something
similar to that and
and then he can divorce her so it's sad situation but if she's
I'm not a fan of somebody just staying in a marriage
for the sake of it now if there are kids their mates another
question. That's another issue. But if there are no kids or or you
don't fear that the divorce will be draining on them on the kids of
course it always is. Then
being miserable and depressed to that degree because you realize
the cultures are so different the way we live life is different. And
you don't want to live with this person.
There's a reason Allah made divorce permitted
should I make intention for Kedah if I miss Salah by one or two
minutes according to the event calendar if you are certain that
you prayed ahead of the time or it sorry, let me put it this way. If
you are not certain that the time was in you have to have certainty
that the prayer time is in
okay.
You can't have speculation or doubt you must be certain then you
repeat that prayer
what are the benefits of lowering the gaze?
Lowering the gaze It benefits that you will not desire what you
cannot have desiring what you cannot have is torture.
Also the benefit of lowering the gaze is that like the gaze that is
haram it puts a black.in the heart the more you look the more you
keep getting black dots in the heart until they become covered
the whole heart
and what is the punishment of Swen the hardest covered the intellect
doesn't work properly.
Your intellect will not work properly so I love Call Centers
left and when the intellect does not work properly.
Okay
Sophia says I want to say with kofod I looked for videos
regarding what to do when you missed fast deliberately. And
Allah Inca Farah is the question Yes.
between Canada and California, Kedah means you just have to make
one day Cafaro means you have to make up one day and you have to
feed 60 Different poor Muslims and you have to make repentance three
things in Cafaro
okay Kafala is only do upon us when we
brazenly disrespect the month of Ramadan by breaking the fast or
even if we use an excuse that is far fetched. Right there is a
concept we do have a concept of the far fetched excuse. We recall
two wheeled died. A far fetched excuse is one that
is
A
No, no, it's sort of tied in reality. It's not tied to reality.
Yeah, that's the best way to put it is not something tied to it
like what is a an acceptable excuse? Someone who, in the middle
of the day starts traveling, then breaks their fast and says when
I'm traveling, they didn't realize that if you start the day at home,
you must finish the day. They didn't know that. It's an
acceptable excuse. far fetched excuse. I heard that when the then
Professor goes off, we can finish what's in our hand, or what's in
our plate. That's far fetched. Someone says I heard that we could
still swallow what we have in our mouth. That's not far fetched.
That's reasonable excuse is wrong, but it's reasonable. I thought
we're allowed to just because they may interpret eating as outside
the mouth to inside the mouth. Now, eating is determined by
swallowing,
not putting something in your mouth so that so we separate
between far fetched misunderstandings, and reasonable
misunderstandings. And the far fetched misunderstanding is
treated as a brazen disrespect of the month.
Some people say a sign of Willa is that you have to do higit up from
the homelands, not not at all. Making Hijra has nothing to do
with Willow.
Can I use the inhaler puff while fasting? If you use the inhaler
puff? Yes, there, I'm telling you there are fatawa for it. But I'm
not I don't give those fits. Oh, you can get the Mufti to give this
without but the ruling would be that. If it's the regular inhaler
puff, then no, you cannot take it. If you can't live without the
regular inhaler puff, then maybe you don't fast you're sick. Okay,
if it's the emergency inhaler, puff, that you have to take again
fed to a said that's permitted. That's a fatwah, but others.
According to the ruling, no vapor is going into your throat. And as
a result of that passed your throat, whichever whether it goes
esophagus or goes to the breathing tube is irrelevant for the Shediac
going into your throat. Then you're sick so you owe a day.
Okay, that's got reminded kind of video where the guy called in and
he was like, oh, Chef accidentally swallowed the whole gyro. Yeah.
Apple is my fast. And then he says, did a live feed me and
breaking my fast
Should we stop cold turkey with phones? TV entertainment? I think
entertainment is not the place in Ramadan.
Like I don't send like even for kids. Like they don't need to
watch movies or and Ramadan.
It's just not the vibe. It's not the time. This is from J. Perez.
These are activities.
Yeah. Yeah. And doesn't always have to be fun all the time. Like
life doesn't always have to be fun. We're just like interesting
activities. Yeah, there's stimulation other than
entertaining. The master is enough stimulation, his look forward to
just spend all night until two three in the morning and the rest
and then last 10 nights and so much. They can't they can't get
enough of it. And then they go out. They go they go eat with
their friends somewhere. Right? You can't get enough of this.
My mom encouraged it. To Drink Coffee during okay. Yeah. Just was
enough for us. Yeah. Yeah.
Now, look, if the let's say a person is married to a woman who,
or a man who is just getting in Islam, right? And that fasting by
itself is enough of a achievement, then you have to use your judgment
call. If you are at a certain level of expectation and
discipline, and devotion. You're married to somebody who's at a
different level, you have to use your wise judgment call. Okay? So
don't take that answer from me take the answer from yourself.
Right? You are the one tested with that situation. So you're the one
who makes the decision and inshallah whatever pious piety
you're putting into it a low accept from you, but you have to
make that decision.
All right, eye drops, no eye drops can break the fast because they
they can't possibly it is potentially go into the tear duct
from the tear duct down down. It is possible
and brushing the teeth while fasting is my crew. Yes, because
you could swallow something and and definitely should not be
brushing your tongue that energizes and that would notify
you, but there will be nullified by going down into your throat.
red cheeks says what about paying kofod money or some people have
Fidelia they can never fast so they have to pay 150 per day. What
if I can do it to another country which is more affordable? Is that
permitted? The answer is yes. It's always better to give it in your
country because that's where you committed the infraction. But if
they have exists
more abundant amounts of money dude against you because of yours
without fasting, then the answer is yes, you may you are permitted
to translate it to another. Let's say hypothetically, let's say
rupees, right? You can do that just permitted and you could do a
lot of Glyfada at one time.
All right, let's see this question here. Sarah said, a family member
sent a message to recite a specific suitor X number of times
for a benefit.
There will be no harm in doing it number one. As for the benefit,
yes, you may believe you are allowed to believe that there
would be that benefit, if that is someone's experience. For example,
if a scholar said
that reciting yes in three times will let you get X, Y and Z. And I
tried it and it worked for me. We are allowed to believe that but we
don't believe that it's sunnah. That's the difference. We believe
it's in the realm of nephila not sunnah of the Prophet size center
so that's the difference
can you use a miswak confessing yes the entire time
dry miss work not the moist fresh one
oh yeah you can order
you definitely can't get you can't get definitely got meant meant to
miss whack or anything Yeah, no no
definitely can't get artificially flavored
if I stopped eating by the end of the minute of the event is my fast
still acceptable
if you are in a masjid, you have to go by the prayer by that you
have to respect that prayer time. If he calls then you have to stop
eating. If you're in a masjid and he calls that then for Fudger you
stop eating
do oh yeah, get inspiration of events are happening in the future
when they meet people? Maybe maybe not. Not necessarily.
By the way, not necessarily. It's not like a thing is dry miswak
allowed what was not Franco's question over there on Instagram.
Dry miss work allowed for brushing during the day? Yes, you can use
during this like all day
here all day.
But the chef is I think they have to stop sauce. Whereas Ryan Ryan
has graduated from Safina side. He will come back in sha Allah to
help out and to teach with us and to be part of our program of Dawa
later on in sha Allah after a couple of years
is it permissible for Muslim who receives a jury summons to serve
on a jury? Try to excuse yourself?
But kind of hard to excuse yourself? No, the opposite
is very rare to actually get chosen as charity.
They always ask you what kind of bumper stickers you have. Yeah,
because that shows your political leanings.
Oh yeah on Zoom Yeah. And so
yeah.
Like do homework for the whole time. Yeah. Like you can go
are extended release caffeine pills. okay to use Yes. They're
amazing. Yeah. Is it food extended release right. Yeah, right. Like
Me is extended really my my sister she was like telling my auntie
about this. They don't know too much about Islam. And they were
like, you know, doesn't that defeat the purpose of fasting?
What is that?
Extended.
Ventrilo man says I'm oh can you expand on the concept of baraka
and how it relates to the attributes of Allah and manifested
in our life. Baraka means increase.
A Baraka is an increase and increase in everything increase in
time increase in good things increase in good relationships.
Baraka is gained by doing good things to parents
to the poor, to the vulnerable.
And by doing a lot of a bed and thicker, it increases Baraka Okay.
Calling upon Allah subhana wa Tada increases in Baraka. All of these
things increase.
So, Baraka is an increase.
Maryam Jami says, When getting to know a person for the purpose of
marriage should a woman involve her what Lee from day one
I would think so. And I would also think that if the man isn't asking
for the presence of the Wali or that the way he knows that we're
meeting, then he's suspect.
Am I right? Like, yes, you're gonna get to know the what he but
but would demand would if he's a prized and upright Muslim man,
which not everyone knows the rules. Not everyone knows things
so he could be a good guy. But people just may not know. But it's
expected, I would expect if a Muslim is going to get to know a
woman who had never been married before. Right? She doesn't know.
Right? You've never been married before is your first time?
Wouldn't he? Also say, hey, you know, does Can I meet your dad?
You know,
he should take that initiative to. If he doesn't, then you tell him
Listen, do you want to talk? Do you want to sit and get to know
each other and come over to my house and talk? Here's my dad's
phone number. I have well, like, I I've seen people do this and they
gain so much respect.
They've done it and they get so much respect. I've also seen some
guys see the dad's phone number and run away like they like they
saw a lion why? You don't come doing something wrong. Right? You
do something? Right.
I think a lot of fathers nowadays also like are not going about it
the right way. Oh, the fathers are they she What else? What how? I
see like when the guy like asked for the number of the Father, your
father kind of sees it. And like he doesn't look from the Islamic
perspective. Rather, he kind of sees the guy as like, Oh, why are
you asking him like he sees a kind of disrespectful? I don't know if
that's bizarre. I don't know if you agree with that. That's
bizarre. And also, well, you know, what's easier is have the mom
called the mom. That's another easier thing.
And there are circumstances where none of that may work.
In which case you do not want to prolong any intimate conversation,
or any setting of an intimate conversation. Right? You don't
want to prolong that at all. I think I think it seems old. Maybe
that's the word. So a lot of I've seen it happen like we're fathers
like, what are you doing? Like, so okay, what's, what's the other
route? What is the other route? That's bizarre. So we need to have
now father in law classes. We need to teach the father laws by the
way, my wife had the famous mods if Darla Sunday.
Well, there was an even number of men and women. Okay. It was sold
out. We're not It's not sold out was registration but completely
packed. I didn't go but I saw people there that I had never seen
in the messenger before. Like I showed up after I showed up. What
are they 830 in the masjid. And there was still some people there
after the Iftar. Like I had never seen them before. But they had
like name badges and everything. Yeah. So I knew that there were
people that people need help to get married? Yeah, can you do
70 was 35 and 35.
So and then you would see them in taraweeh. Wearing the name badge.
You know, I would see them throw like, well, you could have
health insurance is haram, but made halal out of a diet. Because
the costs are so crazy. The costs of medical help is so insanely
these days. That's the only reason why health insurance is permitted.
So that's the answer to my name's question is that I think that the
guy should be asking that question. And
if not, if he doesn't know any better than Yeah, then
you should get have the parent and mother will evolve in some
capacity.
If somebody claims that you will get your answer of a DA in a
certain number of days, can we believe that? I don't think so.
I don't believe that.
I don't think we should take those numbers seriously. You can hope
for it. But no guarantees. The Prophet never spoke like that.
Right?
You should just have to be hopeful for each other don't say One day,
two days, 21 days. That's not how it works
all right, next question here.
This woman convert has no kids. She can't reciprocate the same
emotions. The husband's totally in love with her. Just because
someone loves you does not mean you're gonna love them or you have
to love them. This is very important. Someone may love you.
You do not have to love them back. You have to understand that.
All right, because now you have how much you have awkward
You have force here you have okay? So don't if she has to get the
divorce she has to get the divorce. It is not her business
that someone is pining over her or loving her so much and likewise it
goes the other way some women they chase after men they love the man
so much he doesn't love her back. That's it happens
there is no responsibility or no obligation to love everyone who
loves you.
It's just how it is
man hours his beard regimen is getting some propositions here.
When did they even see me? It's not right. They see you tell them
say stuff for lunch. Vert, your gates. No, there's a guy who is
what you thought it was a woman? No, either. It doesn't matter.
been slain man. I don't even know who this guy. It was. Probably the
little picture. You know the little. The little caricatures
that people could put up here. Are they gone or what? You know those
caricatures that you made them
those emojis click on one of those see that? Like it's can't really
see your beard on that. Yeah. How does one know they seek the Night
of Power. They a little clutter has signs. The sign of it is that
the sunrise is the next day.
Perfectly clear. No fuzziness
as thought a sister was praising his beard. That's like no even the
man you never know praising yourself. Yes, Oz is a popular
figure in the singles clubs. In the singles is an eligible
bachelor. He's in medical school. Okay.
So he's a very eligible bachelor. And maybe we need to start off
when is when are you ready? No, no, no, no, no. Why?
Let's make some money first, and we'll figure it out. Okay, he
wants to go there and make some money for Australia
does the kuffar apply to each day where the fast was broken?
Intentionally? Yes. Every day you broke the fast in terms of you.
Oh, if you miss the entire month, and the month is 30 days. You Oh
that? Not if you're hunting. If you're Hanafy doesn't fly it's
only one does it so the one who breaks one fast and 130 fast and
Hanif effect doesn't accumulate what? So it's like if you break
one, it's like you have obviously until the end of your life to make
up the 60 but if you if there's multiple it doesn't accumulate and
Oh, but you can't choose between fasting and feeding. No, you have
to I think you have to do you have to know but you have to fast Yeah,
you have to fast that's a difference. Y'all heard that mercy
I don't know I have to
find out until you have you have seen Hanifa it doesn't accumulate
but you have to fast in the magic you flip it accumulates but you
have the choice of feeding or fasting
and they all have to do one
and 16
Yeah, we have to do you have to make up the fast and you have to
feed 60 Different poor Muslims for each day. Okay, it's 60 fast and
leave for for Hanafy 60 Fast Yeah, so we have the choice in America.
You can choose between fasting or feeding. And that's only if you
intentionally break the fast if dramatic easy like if you miss you
said if you miss it it also is a fatter right every single day.
For us it's like even if you miss it's not
you don't have to do Kuffar even only if you break it intentionally
or you have * with counselors what you don't have to
make it up no then then that's good fodder. Yeah. You
intentionally when you have * intentionally like
take medicine or something intentionally yeah then you have
to do besides you don't have to
if you accidentally eat do you have to look at that and have you
know it the festival is still can't discuss fasting
as well you accidentally put in water while you're doing well
though for example, then you have to make it eating.
Alright, so you got your Hanafy pro tip there.
And if you
if you break many, many, many fasts for the month per month it's
one Kfar up but you do not have the choice. You must fast 60
straight days. I'm not sure about the video though. I'm pretty sure
it's what you're saying. You have to look into.
Okay, you got that?
That's the answer I have
for Northeast question. Now. Lily Rose says a good way to memorize
is putting on the wall. That what you want to memorize. Oh, totally,
totally. When I was young
I was putting the charts for grammar. All over the apartment
wall that we lived in was all charts.
And wherever you walked, you see a chart. You memorized it.
Couple more questions before we go. What are some tips that work
for nine to five? But they want to spend the night in worship? If you
Oh, what if you work nine to five? That's rough. Take your vacation
days in the last 10 Nights. If you can take your vacation days it's
worth it. Last, let's say you get 10 vacations. Okay, take five of
them in last 10 nights and five of them for another time of the year.
Right.
But you would probably only do a little bit of tearaway in the
masjid then go home.
You have to do you do not have to do all 20 to get the reward of
tearaway.
What's the best age to get married living in the West? I would say as
soon as you start. If you're a man, you start working and being
able to support a family. Young guy
with this, oh, this FIP is a medically fit book. That is all
charts. The whole thing is charts. Matic you flick the whole thing is
lists and charts. That's it was amazing work done by many
critical to have in your library. I think that people in this era
learn better from a picture because we've gotten dumbed down I
think, look at this, just the whole thing is just charts and
pictures. Right?
It flows downwards. Like one really amazing thing. Like
studying was just his whole mind is a flowchart. Yeah, everything
starts with there's some top level concepts and it just flows down
and down and down. It's crazy. Also church it could be broken up
into a chart Yeah. What about a minute?
You have this is wow
the whole thing here? Yeah, usually it's sold out on on the
Arabic bookstores but who? Whose author this?
A bunch it's
like a council collides will soon. Think of the family. How about two
jobs?
Mama that will Genia? Yes it does. And also when Mama told Jeanette
Excellent. Excellent. This is part of our library here. Right? Keep
the hair. Let anyone actually keep it keep it on my desk because I
want to be able to read it all the time.
I would say if you work nine to five, you fast you break your
fast. You're going to pray in total we come for us.
Right 2468 Whatever like us to be home at a reasonable time. Wake up
about 40 minutes before edge
to hedge it. So to hedge it. So now you're in a reasonable
schedule. Come home take a quick nap.
That's how it was I did work nine to five at some point in life.
So that's what I did.
You can't do four hours asleep consistently. It's too much
can you do a stream on later to record recent trauma?
Extended relief release spills we answered that. And we said yes
permitted for you. Where do you get this huge miswak This is
Puerto Rican.
The Puerto Rican store in New Haven Connecticut.
This I've
had this some swag since 22,009 2009.
Jamil Sanchez got it for me. From the Puerto Rican store in New
Haven, Connecticut.
Mr. Black is older than some people watching the stream that's
so true.
Is it Makrooh to constantly marry cousins know
if you cough up phlegm. If you have the ability to spit it out,
you must spit it out.
Can you brush your tongue with the miswak? Yes, as long as the miswak
is a dry miswak not a moist one.
If a sister enjoys drinking recreationally, and is pursuing a
righteous man for marriage, does the family have to disclose her
drinking to him?
The family has convinced you will change. I'm wondering if there's
sinful for hiding it.
What I know is what is sinful for hiding
is the
the sexual deficiencies such as inability to have a baby or
something like that? She did the family does not have to disclose
her bad habits. It is upon him to go and ask around about the
sister.
If he marries a woman, and he never asked about her, that's his
problem. Nobody has to go around disclosing their sins. Okay,
that's the truth.
And the opposite is the case to what you must disclose is anything
that would hinder the purpose of marriage which is the intimacy
element of marriage and the production of children element of
marriage.
Good
chocolate Wallace's divorce impact on kids is incalculable. I tend to
agree with that
can't use a wet miswak whether it's moist in itself or made wet
by water no don't use that
is it covered to refer to people by pronouns that are not true it's
not contributed cover as maximum is contributed as a lie because
you're just basically saying some that's not true
can a single woman perform ombre? Yes
yes, they permitted that. Especially if this the way is safe
and the group is safe, then yes. Hajin Amara is okay.
Oh, he's talking about the Saudi rules sedimented I don't know
about know that study rules allow it if you're going with a group
Yeah.
What is the shortest and best Salawat to recite Allahumma salli
wa salam ala. This is shortest invest.
We do not have any updates on how much no updates and here we are
entering into heat. We're going to be soon finished with Ramadan with
no updates.
What is it better preferred doing many short see as a vicar or less
law but longer see us whatever touches your heart
is love a prerequisite for a successful marriage?
You can't know if you love someone before you become you love I think
it's something that develops. Right? You can have that there is
a you can clearly see that there's attraction and I liked this person
and love will develop with piety both sides are pious to Allah and
towards each other. Right They fear Allah with regard to one
another the allow create the love between them.
BTW says What's your advice trying to bring back a brother that's
lost his way in being a day?
Okay, so this question is about a man a brother, he is a Dahlia. And
he lost his way as a dahlia than to keep the company of scholars
that he should keep the company of students of knowledge and scholars
knowledge, it was the pure in that case.
When should a child start fasting, they should really start trying at
678 and like a quarter of a day, half a day, then
I'll toss it. Right then also marketed by 910. They should be
physically capable to fast until the full day.
What's going on here a
lot of discussion back and forth that I have to sift through.
I guess it's good that people talk to each other.
She knows how to cook is well educated, but just drinks on
special occasions. Well, if I know that I would definitely not let my
son marry such a woman. Right?
And if it was if there was a guy who was a very good guy, but he
smokes weed every once in a while when he stressed out I would also
say to my daughter
I would say no find someone else.
Plenty of people out there. But
I tend to believe in the philosophy the view that how you
find the person is how they're going to be forever. Right? Of
course it's not everyone changes but when you when you come into a
marriage that's what you should expect anything if it changed,
they become better. That's good. But no, I mean, if the way that
they are now that's how you
there'll be and that's what your daughter will be like. So
the best advice is that's your daughter right now. In 20 years
that's your daughter your daughter is she is is cooks she's educated
and she drinks a little bit on special occasions Is that what you
want your daughter to be? Then marry this girl right? If not then
dope
How can a mom with little kids be closer
that to this Ramadan
let's say maybe single mother
with kids
then the put the kids asleep early.
But the kids asleep early. Then you either a bright side away by
yourself or you
get a babysitter,
trustworthy babysitting you go to the masjid to pray totally.
If you feel like I need to go to the masjid to because it's hard
for me to pray today for myself. By the way too I can be prayed any
service, any length, any number.
There is no set number that you have to that counts to make it
count as Tada we maybe this the Hanafi method. It's 20 or bust in
the Hanafi school.
Okay,
but not in the medical school
I feel bad sometimes because I feel like I'm praising the Prophet
and not Allah. When I'm making Salawat This is a common mistake.
How when you're saying Allah Houma alone, you're saying Allah's Name
first Allah Houma. It is a dua to Allah subhanaw taala suddenly was
Soleimani number one, number two, is not Allah commanded you to do
this as a son
as an aphylla. So therefore you fulfilling Allah's command? is not
Allah, the Prophet, the Beloved of Allah? subhanaw taala. Okay.
So therefore,
you are pleasing Allah when you do this, and did not the prophets I
send them permit as a hobby, and tell him that and he will be
greatly rewarded if all of his extra liquor is Allah on the
Prophet.
So therefore, you should that's shaped on getting in your head.
Are the children obligated to fast at 10? No, they're obligated to
fast on puberty upon puberty, but they should be prepared well in
advance. Before that.
Sophia says we had this discussion in the WhatsApp group. They
discouraged this practice regarding the fasting of children.
Why did they discourage the half day and they discourage that how
else would they go into learn?
Someone asked me why I wear hijab. I have religious reasons. That's
it. There's no other reason. Let's be honest, there is no other
reason that a woman wears hijab except Allah commanded her to
that's it for religious reasons
there is no
other reason for that
Oh, no, no, no, he meant that they okay sorry I don't understand
Sophia saying that they discouraged that they not fast
until blue Yeah, so it's not obligatory until blue but they
should definitely be fasting well in advance why so that their first
year fasting is not their first their first year obligate
obligated to fast is not their first attempt at fasting. So they
should be fasting well in advance with that two, three years
Okay.
Chocolate wallow likes that piece of advice. It's very important.
You see the person that you're going to marry? That's your
daughter and 20 years. You see the guy that you're going to marry
that's your son and 20 years.
That's a solution.
What are they cooking down there? Fish tuna fish. They're cooking
something down there?
Is working at McDonald's haram. Yes. Because the the meat is not
halal. It's made
my kids fasted the whole fast that eight years old, not half a day.
Okay, so there we go, but should have begged them gives you an
example. That's the thing. That's why we have a community because
when you look around and say all the nine year olds are fully
fasting and my nine year old is still fasting until the right half
day. I know that I'm not putting enough pedal to the metal.
How many units of tearaway kinematic is any amount, but the
masajid is sooner for them to establish 20
recommended only lightly recommended not even like
supermarket or anything
I can't fast do to take medicine and I need
the medicine that needs to take what do I do if you permanently
can never ever fast ever for the rest of your life then you pay
video if you are only
can fast can't fast this year or or this week then you may call up
can Medicaid gift certificates and fits in money? Yes.
Or you can give it to a wiki like the masjid and we buy honey we buy
oil we buy rice it's actually one of the nicest days of the year you
should come to the US
when we take this gets it fits for us in the last 10 Nights. Right
honey oil, rice right sugar we
like flour. What else did they get into like all this stuff that it
will never rot? And it's everyone uses it salt everything that's the
daily usages of people in there
what is the best what is medical books you recommend having in your
home? Arabic or English? I need to know
I need to know Arabic or English we're weak in English medica it's
weak. Not Franco says what is the recommended route for someone who
wants to be a student of knowledge?
Start by studying start by studying after either an even
after that or before that
the lives of the four Imams and their methodologies
and then pick one and then study that phip Use your intellect to
study the lives and methodologies of the four Imams and see which is
most worthy of following go
and study there
that guy
Please let my Make dua my mom lets me come to attic F at mbyc this
month all right. Anyone wants to come and MBSE attic F last two
nights.
We have
last night we have we have a blast alright take care of something
else. It really is a blast. totally
natural. Karissa had about 2030 minute breather Okay, tea is being
sold outside these days you notice that? Tea and coffee stand outside
homemade Yeah.
You get that you get a drink. Walk around a little bit see your
friends a little bit and we do we have a series intensive dhikr
session one hour
then the food comes around the snacks come around some guys go
out too quick check
whatever
bring some snacks out.
Halal
restaurant comes get some wings
we eat that right in the masala take another break after that.
People can take a short sleep or pray on their own. Then there's a
jamaa of
pm Sajid and Gemma, then straight to Soho.
And depending on who's in control the menu the support can be
American Egyptian, Desi, right and then
the message
everyone
No, no, no the message administration will get it for
you. Yeah, prepared Attica. So every night full, full, full. And
full. If not, the more techie Finn. Get the whole thing.
Yeah, they can go for food chef, he can go for the show alpha can
go for food. Yep. You know that. So often go to restaurants?
Yeah.
I don't think so. If you step outside the boundary there.
All right. So we have a great last 10 Nights. How should one respond
when asked where I wear hijab? I? So We answered that but then said
they were curious about the religion you say yes, our religion
requires us to cover. I just not so much different from the Virgin
Mary have to dress like that.
women cover their hair.
Men grow a beard. Everyone wears loose clothes. We basically cover
our bodies in general in our religion.
Well, it's my personal choice.
Yeah, personal if that's your personal choice, you got to
choose. I'm saying like people nowadays, like they're not
accepting. No, they don't accept they don't accept that you have a
higher authority and a gut
But if you say, Oh, it's my personal choice is my identity.
I'm like, well, you're weird, then why would you do this? Right? So
many things. We only do it for the sake of Allah, then Allah makes us
love it afterwards, right? Truth be told, right?
By the way, you know, it really is one of the best things is a very
small Iftar
SmartStore right and have to be by accident two times in a row, like
just late couldn't do it, do it. Okay.
And the small if thought I thought it'd be upset about it, but I felt
like great. Then afterwards, you have a small snack after this.
After you know what the thing is.
Like, you're obligated to eat a lot. It's just like in your mind,
it doesn't make sense that you're mentally Yeah, you're just like
you haven't eaten all day. And it doesn't feel right if you eat a
little. So like you don't listen to your stomach. Oftentimes, like
if you eat just a little bit, then you go pray and then you come
back. You're you're kind of like you eat a couple bites. And then
you're like, I don't really need that much more. But your brain is
telling you no, no, I gotta eat. I gotta load. Oh, you know what else
it is to is that the hostess is putting out like,
a whole spread. I get hungry when you see it. Yeah, and also, I feel
bad. It's like you rolled all that mess up your head. I gotta eat it
now, right? You cooked all this meat? Like what's going to what's
gonna happen with all this food? Then the host is going to feel
like wasted their time and energy on this right? So that's one of
the
one of the
things that forces a person a little bit. You feel bad, leaving
them to cooked all this food, right? Should I put my kids in a
piano class?
We don't play those instruments. Is the gin Bedford says Lana? No,
it's not fun. As long as the clothes is loose, whether it's one
piece or two pieces doesn't mean it has to be loose. Okay, what if
it's like a skirt and a long show? Yeah, there's nothing wrong with
that as long as the clothes is loose in Islam, that's all that is
required. It doesn't have to be a certain type of clothes. Like a
gym bag doesn't have to be as long as it's loose. Okay.
Nori says about the med hubs. It's like choosing a doctor. Yes, it is
exactly right. With her analogy there or his analogy. It's you
choose the man most worthy of following. And you follow
likewise, you use your mind you investigate the institutes out
there, the online Institute's out there that are most worthy of
studying from and then once you make that decision, you stick with
it.
That's the right way to do things in life. You use your mind to
decide, okay.
Use your mind to decide which
teacher to take. And then you just stick with that teacher.
Okay, where can you we get this ring. I looked at your store. It's
iffy inside but couldn't find it. So we do have one left in the
masjid store.
Okay, one left, but you can look up zikr ring. That's what it
called Zik art.
Yeah, I love me saying what about chess? A chess no problem.
No problem, which is probably better just that teaches them
subject. Because they have to think in advance. I actually think
it's probably
probably maybe even better than some subjects at school. Because
it makes them think two three in advance. It makes me be patient.
All right, you got a piece here. I'm not just going to eat that
piece. I'm going to wait. I'm going to think. And that's a thing
that's lost in our day and age slow thinking. Of course the FDA
had rulings on this
What do you mean studying the four Imams methodologies? They're also
yes, because it also is rational. Also it is irrational subject. You
can study their biographies and the basic methods of their basic
methods, right? Of how they what their methodology was of deriving
rulings. You can study that. Yeah, you can you can learn that you can
study it. It's not going to take that long. You're not going deep
and also let's just what what differentiates Malik from Shafi
from Abu Hanifa from achmad that we can all know that it's not that
difficult
in the medical school, do they separate between what comes from
Ahmed and which comes from it she had yes on your present they
always separate Lana says what about the I in
So let's talk about jilbab I've heard that job described as one
piece that is not tight or seethrough
No
no, it's not. Well yeah Brebner be humara Hinata juubi hin
is that the ad that she's mentioning?
Yeah, I must she must be talking about a different I. But no, the
jilbab is not fudged. It does not have to be one piece what is one
piece
is
what what is the obligation in the Quran is that the head cover
covers the chest
today there's prophetic Iftar at the mustard by the way
you know the
prophetic you eat for headache after you go to prophetic Iftar
wow
what
pasta mac and cheese for Iftar It is disgusting
you have received the when you young people can eat as much pasta
as you want.
For us that's this game over if we do that stuff.
We're not doing that stuff. Surah Tila Zab
so just a little hijab and sawdust
Mr. start coming to my mind to have to look it up as officiated.
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not it is meaningly Simply saying the top covering head covering is
not saying a full garment top covering hair right all the way
around. That's what it means. Some of the face they interpret this
idea to mean that it has to be one covering all the way down which is
why you see some of the Malaysian ladies they you know they were
like One Piece Yeah.
Write in Iran. Iran thinks so too. It's probably the same
understanding. Yeah, yeah. But But
notice what the is saying
You Dineen Ali hindlimb Angela, baby hen.
Cover yourself with these long sheets. The loose the ruling
though is the loose clothes. That's the ruling. Whether it's
one garment or two, two garments, there is no obligation that it has
to be one garment.
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