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Oh, earlier he was gonna be human Well welcome everybody to the
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are back in our old position. And Tuesday's a Deaf tough scene. And
of course last night was native to news stream, and Shaban and
unfortunately, we didn't weren't able to stream about that last
year we did stream a whole stream. And every year I do the same thing
I read a a book, traditional book written by one of the sad scholars
on all of the ahaadeeth that
come regarding the latest in this Shimon Chavez and hamdullah. We
had a great evening last night in the masjid, evening of dua, and
vicar, and Salah and a bad and there's no specific a bad in
Shabbat and there's nothing Mr. Shaban has nothing specific. But
it does have the specificity of removing Shanna removing any evil
from your heart towards anybody else. And I love what I was I said
and you remember Jose he has them which the head of a Shem I love
what he said in that he said that Shana is that is not that you
don't talk to somebody at the Alamo Shaheen or not those who
aren't talking. It's those who have ill will towards one another.
So you could avoid somebody, like you could not talk to somebody for
the simple reason that they bother you, or that you just don't get
along. Right. That's all permitted. But the idea that you
hate them, and you despise them, that's the problem. And that's
what's unacceptable. So
from that aspect, it's that specific element of that is
mentioned Hadith, that they don't get any of the thought or the
giving or the rewards that are distributed on later in the stream
in Java. Secondly,
the DUA and it is answered, it's one of the blessed nights in which
dua is answered. And those blessed nights are the first night of
Rajib led in this room and Shaban led us will cover
the two nights before the two aids lay the tail aim. And on top of
that, that's the annual those are the five annual nights in which
dua is accepted and that is many of the ultimate and the salah Hain
used to spend the entire night in a bed and, and, but then there's
the weekly, which is every Thursday night, which is we call
an Arabic little Juma. But in English, it's Thursday night. And
then of course Wednesday between Doha and Austin, you can never
forget that. I know people whose lives have changed because of the
DA on Wednesday between the whole analysis and a brother today, he
messaged me and he said that, you know, we, the Dalai Lama have not
have had an answer
for the political problems of the OMA, what is that? Letter?
Okay,
it's a good bookmark, the ultimate have not had an answer to the
political crisis that we're in.
And so long as the political apparatus is against is not
promote is promoting something other than Islam. Then naturally,
you will continue to lose people, right? Because they're going to
fund ideas, fun practices that will tarnish people's faith, and
they will eventually you'll lose out. So what I told them as I
listen, there's a Hadith from MCT.
If you obey, I give you well, that hadith is not even that important.
But there's a more importantly, there's a Hadith of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that's stronger than the one moment suit.
The one I was gonna mention from him as soon as he says that, it
Allah was told the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
The Prophet asked, How long is my Oma? And Allah replied, If they
obey, I give them one day
and a day with Allah is 1000 of our years, since 1000 years, if
they disobey, then I only give them half a day. That means there
are two situations in the in the OMA that there are two halves of
our OMA and these halves are either the first one is obedience
because the first time he says if they obey, I give them 1000 years.
Then if they disobey, I'll give them 500 years, that means there's
two halves. There's the first half we know that 1000 years because of
course the first half of them obeyed. Second half will be either
1000 years or or half a day, which is 500 years. All of this of
course the hadith is very weak and threat
Bear. And as soon as he mentioned that, but he just mentioned it for
the sake of mentioning the Hadith, and he has a whole epistle on it,
talking about if we were to ever estimate the lifespan of the Ummah
it would be around 1500 years. That's what he said. But that's
irrelevant to what I'm saying.
What I told this brother I said, Look, when the OMA collectively
disobeyed Allah and that hadith is important because it does point to
a collective obedience and a collective disobedience. If the
Ummah does, collectively disobey its creator, it's not going to be
blessed, and there's no minority that can alter that. It's going to
be an unblessed. nation, a nation that does not get success a nation
that has not given tofield
at the large scale,
yet, a nation that the prophets I send them said, Today I Lake Como
Omen, command today, Allah to Allah matambi, which means that
the nation's will gather around against you, just as people gather
out for food, right eaters gather around for their plate of food or
their tray of food. That's that's the era that we're in right now.
We're in an era that there is you can clearly see collective
collectively, there's disobedience, you can't deny that
there is a collective turning away from the dean. And as a result of
that, there is a nonstop failure at every political level. A small
group of scholars and Muslims cannot alter that. Okay? They
can't alter that they can't change this.
Alright, right. Is your mic on?
Okay?
They can't change this. What Altima is what they're doing in
the way all their institutions are passing out lifeboats. And there
are some bigger lifeboats than others. And there are some there
like it's in the middle
of a raging sea. Some people have a strong boat you can get on and
there's food and shelter and water there until you die. Right? But
it's basically saving individuals. And it's not this, this political
dream, to return a philosopher. It's not even within sight. To
correct the problems of the world is not even within sight. You're
literally just saving individuals. And that's the status that we're
in right now. So that was an interesting
lead in to our topic today. Our the bIllahi min ash shaytani R
rajim. via your leadin Avenue Gu full circle mwah Li coonara worku
Hannahs Well, haidara
guard yourselves and your family from the fire. There was a time
where yes, you could say the you didn't have to worry about your
family, the society raised your kids. And you could go off like
Muhammad, the conqueror, Muhammad Fattah and these others Allah had
deen and you could actually worry and do things in the world? Well,
that's is that really the case? Right now if if we went out on
Cluj Dow, and we went get the Dow and we worked 18 hour days, and we
came home to sleep and eat and then went out again. You lose your
kids, right? Your kids will be astray. There's no doubt about
that. So you're not we're no longer safe in our homes. And
Salahuddin a UB and all these other grades. And there are many,
many, in our OMA people who gave their whole life to the dean. And
they would see their kids Allah on him one, but they didn't have to
worry about raising them. Right? Like that wasn't it was worried
about raising them to a level? Of course everyone does. It's
everyone's responsibility. But you never feared that your kid was
going to become?
Or is any or anything close to that. Am I right? Or am I wrong?
That was That wasn't the case. Like my parents generation. I
don't think my grandparents worried a bit one moment that
their kids would not be Muslim. Well, that's what a parent has to
worry about today.
So the idea of going out and doing it 20 You know, 18 hour days to
the online save the OMA.
You can't even save your own family. Right? So this is what
this is says this is this is for our time, glue and poster como
Alikum Nara, and I'll tell you why this is actually more effective.
Because in trying to save yourself and your family.
You realize you can't do this alone. You have to have a
community. You have to have a group of friends.
Anytime someone says they're having trouble doing Vicodin, Eva,
the answer is very clearly. Do you have friends who do this? And I've
seen people who with major accomplishments in one field and
no accomplishments in another fields. Right. Let's just take a
simple example. How many people out there are extremely well
accomplished but they can't lose 10 pounds.
How many people out there like they
Can list their accomplishments. They could be doctors, they could
be lawyers, they could be engineers of some sort. Right? But
they cannot shake for the life of them 20 pounds. Well, why is that?
Well, how did you become a lawyer or a doctor is by going to a
medical school where you hang out
with people of that profession? For nine hours a day, right? For
5678 years, right? No wonder you became a doctor. You became a
surgeon, you became a cardiologist, or a shake or a half
of or a lawyer or an entrepreneur, because you went to a place and
you hung out with those people. Okay, you took courses, you hung
out with them
for about eight hours a day.
For four years,
then you became one of them.
And then say, Okay, well, how are you trying to lose weight? Man, I
try every diet. I saw a diet on YouTube, I saw another one. I got
this other diet on the internet and I went out and I got all this
stuff and and then a year passed and didn't lose any weight. Well,
it's like you're never applying any Sava.
You're never hanging out with other skinny people. Like weight
loss people. You're not workout people. You're not hanging out
with these this crowd at all, let alone like every day for four
years. Not at all. But show me the ones who did succeed.
I have a bunch of runners, friends of mine who are runners.
These people are all toothpicks. They all hang out. They know how
to apply for the marathons they go to the marathons, they do all this
stuff. They are toothpicks. What's in common with them all they hang
out with each other. They it's motivation and it's also the
habits and it's knowledge. Like really refined knowledge about how
your body works. Okay?
They succeed.
So when you're trying to save file this area, oh and foster como
Alikum. Nada, you realize you can't do it alone and your family
can't do it alone. Okay.
And your kids don't need lectures as much as they need good Muslim
kids to play with.
Just to hang out with that's so important every Masjid today is
has to be a community center. And that community center has to be
must
without any hesitation have an a play area for little kids and from
teenagers. There's no hesitation there's no D sanctification of
this
there's no D sanctification of this. Okay?
You're not desecrating a master to doing a bit by adding to it. All
these other things you're adding to you're not doing in the masjid.
Now there was a
video in the Arab world recently, where an imam
he was just I think like between McCullough Venetia. There was a
kid playing with a ball. So the Imam just like taps the ball at
the good
kid passes it back and then like they make two chairs in the masala
and the Imam is like shooting on the kid.
It's so innocent, right? There was not planned or anything.
But we could say okay, he did something mcru He's an old man
till he's not like some young Imam. And it was just so innocent.
And it was just some third party was there filming it? And it
caused a big like, people really went after the shape.
I would say I don't think the shape had any mal intent but at
the same time that's not you know, I supposed to do that in my
surgeon. But there's nothing wrong with like you don't think de
sanctify the masala of the Masjid. But you can build onto it. Every
community I see I said to them before you even think about the
masala. Think about the gym.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because there's no other space. So what do you think people are going
to do? Right? What do you think people are going to do? People are
going to be bored out of their minds, and they're going to go
somewhere else. And it's not feasible. Right? It's not it's not
something feasible that you just say to teens and youth just sit
there and listen to lectures. So it's listen to lectures attend to
VIP kid for a little bit and then go off on your way like into the
other part of the of the complex at least you'll be be with other
kids who are doing the same thing. So that's just that's how it is.
That's the way our life is nowadays. Okay. It should be
separate from the masala that's the compromise same complex but
different part of themselves even our best says
caller I thought and if not best eight, Bill interior Amanda How
come Allah Allah Allahu Allah? Will I'm on with it. It's very
simple. How do I save myself and my family from the fire is we
collectively make sure that we're all not disobeying Allah, that
none of us are disobeying Allah, that's the correct grammar of it,
and that we are all fulfilling the obligations that Allah gave us.
Okay.
And the beauty of our religion is that we have the fodder then we
have the Sunnah. So I know what if you if you leave off the font,
that's when we're blameworthy. If you leave off the Sunnah. Less
blameworthy, you're not blameworthy, but it's not good.
Okay. You have the haram. If you if you practice, if you do the
Haram, you're blameworthy. If you do the mcru. less so. Okay. But it
gives everybody a baseline. Because otherwise, how do I please
you? Like the kid may be saying, Okay, what's the limit here? Okay,
don't do this. Don't do this. Do this do this. What's the limit?
Like, where is it? Where do I get to stop? And we were talking the
other day about the the environmentalists. Their biggest
problem with the environmentalists and all these people is they don't
have limits. Like they went when is enough? When are you pleased?
When are you satisfied? Right? They don't have that. As a result.
It's just like a one way street. It's a runaway Street, and has no
end to it. Okay. So as soon as you like, what's the first thing that
environmentalist wants to do?
Don't use it. That's the first thing I remember.
Yeah.
Yeah.
We have a computer, the computer screen, the case on your phone. I
remember I'm telling you, there was a Muslim, Muslim woman. She
used to be into the White House. Iftar. Right. She's so happy to go
to the White House. Iftar. Now, George W. Bush at this time was
the president. And she went to the White House Iftar in the name of
we have to dialogue, we have to have dialogue. You think here
you're there as like a pet. You're just like, be patted on the head
and move on. Right? It
just like no, we gotta go and dialogue. And George Bush had just
done the Iraq War. Right. He had just announced it. And then the
Ramadan. Iftar came about White House Iftar. And, and she goes to
the White House if Darren she took a picture with George Bush, right.
Now I'm sitting with them at a gathering one time.
And one guy goes, Oh, I know. So and so after Get her a glass
because she refused to drink out of a plastic bottle. It's a great,
so that's what she refuses. But the Iraq War. Like you don't
boycott that guy. That guy doesn't get a boycott. Right? George W.
Bush doesn't get a boycott. But the plastic bottle, that's the
issue. And he's like, Well, I don't want to say anything. I was
like, I will because that's ridiculous. It's like I don't want
to comment and get country controversial. I'm like, That's
not Controversial. Controversial is something that we can discuss.
It's debatable. That's not debatable. So you're against the
plastic bottle. And that's what all the environmental is do. They
begin the crusade on the plastic bottle, switch, you go to hedge
gym rats. Everyone collects the jumbo rods and plastic but
they're, they're pebbles and plastic bottles, and the whole
thing is plastic bottles. Now I hate plastic bottles too, right? I
hate plastic bottles. So in my daily routine. I got my own
plastic cup, but it's one plastic cup, right? It's like a plastic.
What do you even call it? Not a jug. It's like a cup. It's a cup.
It's like a plastic cup with a straw in and a cap. And I use that
to drink from right. So that I don't cup using Poland spring
bottles all day long. All right, fine. So the environmentalist will
begin and get you on a crusade of possible what's next then? What's
next then? What's next? Like? When is the environmentalists pleased
with you? That's the problem. Beauty of
their never
die. Right? Save the Earth kill yourself. That probably will save
the Earth though. Right? But
beauty of Islam is that we know when your interest in Islam and
when you're outside of Islam, we know when you are, you know what,
let me address this point because it sort of got on my nerves the
other day.
We know when a person is in Islam when they're outside of Islam,
when they're fulfilling when they are good in the community, in the
sight of the community in the sight of Allah. Like when is
somebody righteous? Somebody good. We have very clear lines for this.
Right? And that makes your mind relax. It's not constantly moving
and changing. Okay, let me give you this picture that bothered me
last night.
It bothered me because I actually thought it was pretty ignorant.
All right, this picture says as follows. There is a gentleman out
there.
I guess he's a nice guy, but he's sort of
his name is Craig. Constantine.
Very nice guy, right? Loves the Prophet.
Okay. wouldn't love of the Prophet peace, peace be upon him? If it's
true? If it's in here? Wouldn't it eventually come out? Like if I
have stuff in here, right? And I pour it out? Wouldn't it come out?
That's our understanding that what's in your heart,
genuinely should come out of your mouth. So a guy says, You have a
very beautiful post on African brothers sends him and says, do
really cool boo says, Please take the showerhead and be a Muslim. We
are ready to welcome you. Right? Because the guy said a very nice
thing about the Prophet. So this Gibreel gentleman says, take your
head. Now he says, Thank you for the invitation. But my religious
leaders are much much much deeper than a single declaration. Well,
what is in your heart? Why don't you declare it?
Right, in our in our understanding? If something is in
the heart, okay, then it should easily come off the tongue if it's
truly in the heart, right? And what greater love of the messenger
peace be upon him than recognizing that he's a prophet? And saying,
like, you do something bad to somebody, and you buy them roses,
you buy them gifts, you invite them for dinner, but you say
everything except that I apologize for what I've done. That's why
Toba? It's not accepted with ALLAH SubhanA which are
until you have you say stuck for Allah, you must you cannot have
the arrogance of saying I seek Allah's forgiveness. Okay, you
have to seek Allah's forgiveness. So it's got to come off of your
tongue. So he says, I don't mean to cause any offense here. But
certainly saying the shahada is not enough for a Muslim to be a
Muslim. Well, how does somebody? How does anybody know? Firstly,
what is a Muslim? The Muslim is the social element of things. As
for your Eman, your heart that's between you and Allah, we will
never know that. I will never know if all my best he is. Most of them
were never meant. Who knows? I don't know your heart. Right? So
we all only know our outside.
And how do we know one another's external except with the words
that we utter? Okay.
Very similar to citizenship. In the country, you go in and you
take a swearing an oath, right? I don't know what's in your head.
Nobody knows what's in your heart. So then he says, so the answer is
yes. Saying the shahada is the line that puts you from outside
this community to inside this community? As someone that and it
also it can and should, but not necessarily. It can and should but
not necessarily indicate true faith because not everyone's
honest. Right? But in in the perfect world, people are honest.
And what comes out of their mouth is what's in their heart. So if
it's in your heart, it should come out of your mouth.
Alright? He says, this seems very shallow. Well, here's the thing
who's judging? You respect the Prophet? Is this not the method of
the Prophet? Is it not the method of the messenger sallallahu alayhi
wa salam that the sign the demarcating the line, the
objective measure between us is the Shahada. Right? That's the
objective measure. Because we have to have an objective measure. I
can't be made to just have to try to read signals from you. Right or
put you in a vague category? No. Because this Amen. As much as it's
a spiritual reality, it ends up in a legal reality and legal
realities need objective measures. Like I think we talked about the
other day, like, we can never vote, you can never put a value to
a life, but you definitely can put a financial worth to a life
because in the court of law, everything has a value. It has to
have a number. So in the spirituality of Islam, the truth
of the belief in Allah and His act and the afterlife, and all those
wonderful things
that touch your heart does settle in the real world, which need
objective measures to know who is a Muslim who was not. What did
how, what better of an objective measure than the Shahada. Well,
what is Marriage Marriage is very similar. All trade transactions
are very similar. Okay?
A transaction is an oral that's all we need in Islam writing it as
afforded or Asuna, maybe depending on the focus, but
if I say, I have gifted you this pen, right, that's enough. It's
your pen now, with one word, if I let you use it for a year, and I
Sarah, give me my pen back.
Okay, so I've given you all the signals that it's your pen, but I
never said it's your pen, then it's not your pen right now.
So the word that we utter is what's important.
Marriage is, I have married you unto Myself, I have accepted your
marriage, or the that's the bride, the groom to the bride or the
father of the bride, I have married my daughter Unto You, I
have accepted the responsibility of your marriage to your daughter,
or I've accepted your daughter in marriage ability. That's it. Those
two words, that's marriage. Okay, that's it, you are married. If you
didn't have witnesses, then consummation is not permitted.
Until you have a shot and witnesses. If you didn't talk
about us adopt a dowry, a Maha. We could deal with that later in
Sharia you could deal with that later, when she asked for it. You
either agree, and if you dispute, then she gets the average of three
or four of her friends who got married, whatever the average
people like her have her similar status in society.
What else do you need? That's how simple it is. So a man could take
care of a woman his entire life.
And she's willingly with him. And we in our Shall we call that Zina.
Although he's taking care of her, he loves her. He takes her for
anniversaries, but he refuses to say the word I have married you
unto myself, and she refused to have accepted, because there has
to be an objective measure, to things to relationships. She says
he continues, it's very shallow, it's not shallow, you don't get to
decide. It's the prophet who decides, right? You don't judge
the prophet, the prophet tells us what is guidance? He says, not
very different. And here's where he really messes up. It's not very
different from a Christian who thinks they're superior. Wait a
second, who ever said that? The outward behavior of people makes
anyone superior.
Right? No, yes, you are. Now you have done a better deed who says
the shahada has done a greater deed in that respect. But we still
don't know how you're going to end? Right? Fee faith needs to be
deeply rooted not superficial and surface level, okay? Well, if it's
deeply rooted, if my tree is deeply rooted, and it never hits
the surface, though, at the same time, right, then it's dead. It's
not real. You cannot tell me here's, here's a, here's an oak
tree, here's an apple tree, put the seed in, Alright, hey, I put
the seed and I watered it, it never came up. So anything that is
truly in the heart eventually must overflow above the ground, it must
come above the ground, right? It must overflow out of the cup.
And the very basic of that is the head. And that's why the outward
elements, that's how we understand them visa vie the inward.
You cannot possibly person cannot possibly tell me that something is
in a cup than when you spill the cup out. It's not there. Right?
You cannot possibly love someone and not say it. You're not and
refused. This is not like you can't say like I'm awkward. I
don't know how to express my love. No, you refuse to say?
So it's not there, then that submission is not there. And that
commentary of what shallow and what's not shallow indicates
you're not fully submitted to the way the Prophet
it's not for you to judge the messenger if that's how shahada is
an Allah says, say it.
Say it.
How many times is they'll say say this because number one, when you
say it over and over you actually impact your heart
it actually works both ways. If you say something over and over a
victory Allah reliance upon Allah one day your heart will actually
rely on Allah
right? If you say something over and over one day you're actually
it will absorb it as it says one day it'll settle so the outward
influence the inward and if it's truly in your heart then you
should actually just say you'll have no problem saying it that's
the way we understand things in our religion okay
that's different the relationship between the inside and the
outside. So all of this is in the concept that weird saying that we
need family support we need constant support and our massage
it needs to be complete community centers with everything they're
really everything their wedding hall, party Hall
graveyard.
We need a graveyard because I'm telling you why we need a
graveyard. If I Was it have a dream complex. Like can you give
me like 50 acres in Texas? Right? That's where everyone's going
these days. But they're also coming back because it's getting
too expensive.
I would have domesticated the school.
From pre K to high school to the mothers of higher ed
Case for Mattoon and produce a you can her father and all that
you'd have to have a gym area
and you should have a graveyard even if you don't have it's not
massive for everyone but it's got to be enough that
it reminds us all where we're going right?
It reminds us all were gone and if you read the signs of the pm and
death and the grave you will reach a point that you don't want to
mess around in this head to dunya it's not worth taking the risk
and and it's not worth leaving the great profits and the great
rewards that's available as soon as you die. Like I want it right
now I don't want to have to go through misery and then maybe on
the resurrection find some no I want something nice right away
when I die. Right? So you got to keep your focus. Good. And this is
not the era of the OMA Rise of the OMA or anything no this is save
individuals
giving out lifeboats and rafts.
Baku Johannes will hijack the fuel of this fire.
The fuel of this fire is stones and and people
okay.
Okay.
I lay him Allah acre. There are angels that rule this fire. Angels
are not all just
lovey dovey there are they have different jobs. One of them. Some
of them are the angels of the Hellfire. They are Malik smiled
once in his life. The angel of the Hellfire who's in charge of the
Hellfire His name is Malik. He smiled once in his life but upon
it are harsh angels okay love she does strong
guy. Strong angels guards that you're not messing with last one.
Hola. Hola. Amo. If Aluna Mayo Maru,
they don't disobey Allah what He whatever he told them and they do
what they're told they're not gonna you're you're not going to
cry tears to them. They're not going to change for you. Okay.
Yeah, you're Alladhina Capitola chata wo in the metro Zona quantum
talmid own you're letting me know to boo it Allah He told me that
and those who have and has an Abu Bakr and ask him now souhan What
is Tabata? NASA
Toba that nose dancer dancer who Sahiba be Terkel out the
illimitable Minho, it's a Tober that makes you leave off what
you've done. That is a sign of toe button NASA Toba? NASA is not I've
done 10 O'Meara's I did this that in the other note Toba na sua
is that which actually works it makes you stop committing those
sins. That's it.
What Allah foofy mana, they differed on its meaning.
Karla amaro obey when more Earth Amara and obey and wild said
October two Nasu and yeah, Tuba from Malaya. Oh, the ill of them.
As we just said he, he it's the one that makes him not returned to
the sin. That's what matters.
Come Allah eau de Laverne Illawarra just like you can't put
milk back in the utter of a cow. It hasn't said here and yet Kunal
Abdu nadelman Allah Ma Ma Ba, he is full of regret. What happened?
Would you man Allah, Allah, Yahoo the fee, he has collected his
intent never to return. Kelby says and yesterday that I bill Disseny
when Bill called it is to seek forgiveness with his tongue and
regret it with your heart. Okay, and abstain William sickle Bill
burden, He abstains with his body. Goddess aw Musa toe button.
Tony Danza Hona BIA Amphoe circumcised no save said it's a
Tober that makes you advise others to make this tilba tahona BIA
Paula Cora the edge malha Autobahn to Russia. There are four things
connected to this repentance or consists of four things is to
kofod with your tongue.
We stopped doing it with your body at Moto Terkel, Audi Bilgin en
intending never to return to it. Okay, when we'll have a say one
and to abandon leave off permanently bad friends. Okay, Bad
Company. You can't possibly hate us in and love the people that you
used to do it with. And love the old those good old days right when
we used to go to bars and clubs. Wait a second. That's that's not
Toba
as a booker manuka Frank come see it come with the killer come join
Get in touch with him in tactical and her yo Mala yo Zilla who
nebbia will let you know I'm an uma
la Yuka Zilla who Nabil will Lilina. Amman, Omar that on that
day Allah will not humiliate the prophet or let him down, nor those
who believed with him
that he will not punish them
he will not enter them the fire
if you do this tilba that Allah will forgive all your sins and
enter you into paradise under with under which there are Gardens
running
or rivers running sorry
no to him Yes, I've been ad him will be a man him on the slots.
This is the point of the salon Noura home. Yes, I've been ad him
will be a man to him. So when do we need a light? We need a light
when we're on the set off. Part of the Day of Judgment is that you
have scales. You have a book that is your receipt.
You have the spirits overhead, which is a bridge over the
hellfire. And then if How do you pass by that bridge your own
light.
So it's very interesting. You can have two people let's say sitting
on a bus in this world. One his heart is illuminated the other his
heart is darkened. But nobody knows this, right? You feel you
what you feel he feels what he feels. But nobody knows this.
Nobody knows what anyone's stain is. Okay. So
on the Day of Judgment, there will be a situation where your heart is
filled with light.
And you can see your light and it could illuminate the path. But the
person next to you cannot benefit from that. Likewise, there will be
harms
coming to a person and you will be right next to him. You may see his
harm coming to him but it will never harm you. So it's outward.
All of what's in the hearts in this life becomes outward in the
next life. And in this but in the same way that what was in your
heart is only for you. No matter how close you are to another
person, they won't benefit from what's in your heart.
Likewise, on the Day of Judgment, all this stuff is outward, but it
will not affect cannot benefit the other or harm anyone else except
you. So that's something that regarding the bridge, some people
will pass by it because they have a light. But not everyone else can
benefit from that line.
Got
that whenever 15 The hypocrites.
Their lights are off.
Roberta extreme Lana neurona work for Lana in a category Shannon
studied. This area right here is some said it is from the
prayers of the believers and some said it's the words. It's the vain
hopes of the manette 15. Okay, the hypocrites and for the believers
it's it means Oh ALLAH complete our light. So a person may have
light but it's not full.
He still had some sense. So Allah complete us our SMM, Lella,
norrona. Why
are is our light not complete? Because we have since so they
said, Well, could Atlanta, forgive our sins, forgive our sins, then
we have complete light. Okay, so like someone's got a dimmer light
than somebody else to have light, but it's dimmer, the other tafseer
that is that it's the hypocrites, the hypocrites. They practice
Islam and those practices for them, bequeath them or gave them
in only an external light they only practice Islam externally. So
they only got an external light that faded away on the bridge and
all of a sudden it's all darkness. So they're making dua. Of course
at that time. There's there's no changing things. Yeah, you and EBU
Tjahaja kufr Wellmune FFT NovaGold la hemo, Jahannam obits and we'll
see you Oh, Prophet O Messenger. Yeah, you're nibio Prophet. strive
against the disbelievers and the hypocrites and be harsh with them.
The prophet had to be told to be harsh with them because his nature
was not harsh. His nature was kind and his nature was gentle. But he
was told be harsh with them. Well, what is the harshness of the
Prophet? It's his policy. Its policies towards them. That's
what's harsh. Okay.
harshness, if you're if you notice we are told when to be harsh and
when not to be harsh. We are not supposed to be harsh with
believers.
And a sign of misguidance is that a person is harsh with believers
or soft
with enemies of truth.
Right, Malik disapproved and disallowed softness
With people a bitter,
okay, people have different sects and groups. Why? Because you, you
soften the line, if you soften to them, you'll soften to their
beliefs too. And as we see people who are who have a lot of loved
ones from outside of Islam, right, they oftentimes also have a very
hard time. You know, with the idea that that belief is false. They
want everyone just, we all want to be in heaven together. Like they
have that mentality. And that's always a big problem. And that's
why anytime that people they live in a type of
anytime people live with, with with in a multifaith environment,
they have a very hard time with the reality of there's truth and
falsehood. And there's something that will be
something that will people be punished and people won't they
have a very hard time with this. You Never Noticed that no one ever
had time has a hard time with that when they're living amongst their
own people. Like nobody ever has a hard time with the idea of of of a
devil worshiper being punished because we don't live around a
note. You're not married and to devil worshipers. Your mom's not a
devil worshiper, your best friend was not a devil worshiper. Right?
But soon as a a Christian, or a Jew. We have a lot of that. So
they have they have trouble with that. Right? People do have issues
with that. So but harshness is only with the enemy of faith, not
the disbeliever just believer may not be an enemy of your faith. He
just he's not a believer, right? The enemy of faith. He is your
enemy. They're trying to mislead you. They're trying to harm you.
They're trying to
affect your life. And then whatever is the innovator and the
political trader.
He may be a Sunday but he's a traitor. Right? He abandoned his
OMA and he sold us the OMA out like all of those and ended loose
they were all political traders. In Andalus they're all political
traders.
If you read the history of Andalus you would see the mercy of Allah
that he kept them that long because they you would think to
yourself
that they deserve far worse.
You'd save yourself they deserve far worse is there's been what
that way in advance and they were saved only because of the kids and
the children and the righteous amongst them. It was delayed so
that they could all flee to Morocco, which they many of them
did.
Time checks two o'clock
What is this beautiful gifts?
We had some amazing what is this? An artifact?
Look at this rug. This is an artifact from the ancient Islamic
world. Look at that. That is gorgeous.
Bro.
This this this paper. Okay, this thing? Oh, is this like the size
of them? Maybe you can hurt someone with this. This is for
self defense. Like look at listen to how hard it is.
You can injure someone with this.
Firstly, it's it's all this is this is from the Islamic West.
This ated kursi
and other things.
This is amazing stuff.
It's just that we're going to need to bring somebody who did to take
all these things and design it all up. Like where to hang it where to
put it.
People on the if you're listening to this on Spotify
you're gonna
I'll just describe it. It's like a bolt coming out of a museum or
something. Oh, and this is a beautiful rug from a masjid and
never we I believe.
Piece of the rug. Maybe from the road or even we'll see. We'll have
to read because there's like provenance. You know what
Providence is? It's the evidence of a piece of artwork. Like where
did a piece of artwork come from? It's the Senate. It's called the
provenance.
provenance. Everyone has to have a provenance. Where do you come
from? Why should we trust you?
And here's another beautiful one. So we have a lot of these things
now. From the Rumi's garden company gifted to us
from Australia.
Is that open that up?
It's a massive Chrissa Amara Bessie is going to be the
inheritor of Ryan as Ryan is on his. He's about to graduate from
Safina society.
Brian and Amara. Bessie is going to be filling in
you got to know
what is that?
Yeah, there's a lot of taxing.
Oh, this is a bowl for rokeya. Is that Quran in it? That's what they
said. Yeah.
Yeah, and this is like the replica of the profits and wood.
There's a lot of provenance like the evidence is of what stuff not
provenance like these are. It's not of the rugs. Yes. provenance
of the rugs. So what where's the
ultimate adult places is going to be better
than fiber, the
Astra de says, What do you think of using healing for Tibetan
bowls? No, no.
No, and I'm still not buying the numerology stuff in the hitters.
Like, I've been having some discussions with some brothers.
If I open a hairs and it has numerology and hieroglyphics, I'm
shutting it down. I want words that I understand. What is the
numerology? How does that benefit? I don't understand that.
What is this horn? It's like a bullhorn. No idea. It looks like
let me just show everyone what you're opening because look at
this. Look at what he's opening here.
Is it a bullhorn like for the stump? Look at this it looks like
that head of a cattle or something?
Yeah.
In the Indo Pak each Sunni group fighting others and consider them
enemies such as Alibaba stay away from all these argumentations and
just study your own Aki that Johanna to toe hate this book
right here.
Well, if you're in the Indo Pak, you're gonna have to read the
Masood Ed equivalent of this shot and visually.
Some people say best jewelry and some simple beige jewelry. But to
offer to married Allah Johanna to toe he is more.
There's more packaging. All right.
There's a ribbon around there. Okay, well, we'll see.
On the money and what's the name of the shop? The shop the store is
called Rumi's garden.
Essentially, all of our our whole studio is now Rumi's garden stuff
everywhere. Right? Courtesy of the Australians which means we have to
go to Australia eventually. The can't get all this love and not
give it back.
But the next trip on the next country is England has to be in
well, Australians gonna come and meet us in England. Halfway right.
Canada, I don't even consider Canada like a national
international. He does international but
I remember are when I lived in Hartford when I was doing time
essentially living in Connecticut and
Hartford, they have an airport there. And they made a huge
campaign. We have become an international airport. They
renamed it Hartford International Airport. So it's like okay, this
is great. We have an international airport. So I would like wanted to
go visit do ombre go to cuts out or something like that to visit
family.
And I was said like let's check out Harford now it's International
Airport. Like oh, no, we only Service Canada.
But that's what made you an International Airport.
International
Yeah.
So yes, the other day I was saying where is SR CE Mina
that said that she was going to marry
so she did get married. And the final opening might be something
that
okay, this is the handgun must be the actual that's the actual piece
listen to Bessie Coleman.
He's never cut those much in his life before.
Lily Rose says hypromellose eyedrops, oh she's talking to
somebody else. Med
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Ocean County Retin A PC they don't do LASIK surgery for your eyes but
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and laser of course you know in their world they know that but we
didn't know that.
Like oh now I know what it is now I know what it is.
Now I know what it is. Yep, no no we didn't get that from the shape
no Yeah, I don't know how we did it. Yeah
it's not that bright. I mean, what stopped out Friday?
Yeah, the way you were putting in was kind of came over from so far
away. Yeah, that's true. What's the wisdom Sophia says fine not
revealing the names of the hypocrites of Medina. That is
because there is nothing that we could legally do about them and
there is no way to prove it. Okay. So in order to take legal action
even the messenger of Allah is required by the Sharia to have
proof and evidence the unseen will not be evidence in court now let
let us do it all my best if it's so much work Gee. And let's take a
look at what we have here. It is the bow of the wow did you think
it was a ship for a second? Or is a boat I knew it was a bow This is
like the shape of wow look at this and it's got this famous it logo
on it to look at that right up here.
I have never seen anything like this at all. Who painted this with
calligraphy
okay
it's a boat for you know what I thought it was for a second was
like the beginning of a ship. I knew it was Yeah. Oh, and that I
guess is the that's what makes sense. Now that makes sense.
That's what makes sense because we do have a security guard now. By
the way. Right? You know that we have a security guard at Donna's
house has a security guard when Wednesdays and Saturday nights.
Imagine this. Yeah. Imagine this. Oh man. See?
This?
This is This is amazing.
Who who has the craftsmanship to make this stuff? This is gorgeous
stuff unboxing I guess this whole episode is unboxing because he's
not stopping. Almost got the knife. And this leather is
gorgeous. The logo is gorgeous.
And everything about this is really something else.
Really something else?
All right, so while while we are unboxing the next thing did you
imagine our security guard outside he stands he holds a bow and
arrow.
I guess there's a bit I wonder if there's laws about that. Like if
he's got it's legal to have arrows in his back like Robin Hood,
Robin Hood and a boat around his chest.
Imagine that. Now we got him a really nice jacket the security
jacket
Okay, let's see what else we got here.
Polar Bear run oh I love these rocks. No you give me this you
give me this this is this is not this is this is coming straight to
me I'm a big fan of sheepskin and US Australian sheepskin is insane
okay I'm a big fan of that stuff like all natural sheep skin and
bare skin and all that stuff yeah this for the environmentalists and
the animal rights activists look animal rights activists we love
you we are preserving the animal if it was for you Adam would have
rotted and this thing have been rotted in the woods but we are
preserving it like an eighth row this is I can smell this
Oh, it's real, huh?
Wow SEPA
so this is going to be almost sold on our we're going to pray right
now. And this is another one.
A gray ones. Oh my goodness. This is you can smell here. You can
smell it smells like a deer. Honestly smells like eight you
know?
You ever ever go for slaughter? For eight
Okay, so but do you ever go like when everyone's slaughtering
there's like 1000s of sheep hundreds of sheep.
Okay, so when you go to the farm, it's it's when do we only go and
eat right? So like we ever go. So
the smell of sheep now to me. I smell I eat All I smell is eight.
Right? We recommend only spot cleaning this this is a all
natural Merino sheepskin rug. Pure animal right here. Okay.
I hope to actually put maybe one of these to hang it up here
because I'm a big fan of animal skins. This is Oh my goodness.
Kangaroo. This is a kangaroo. I have to show my kids this kids.
Look at this. Kangaroo. Look at that tail.
Oh my goodness kangaroo. Yeah, it's a whole gangly kangaroo too.
And that's the Native American name for it or the native
Australian you can
look at that. That is
I didn't realize kangaroo was a thing in Australia like they
actually deal with it but this is kangaroo skin right here. And that
must be tough to kill the face while you're trying to hold it
down. How did they kill it?
I wonder if they eat it? Right
I wonder if they eat kangaroo to do the Muslims eat kangaroo?
Which I mean
it's not a predator just because it punches people
and even if it was a predator be my crew only right? Only be my
crew.
They were
I need to eat kangaroo. Right?
Well when we go to the ER we're going to eat kangaroo
what was it so that no one would feel secure? Maybe Sophia saying
why the hypocrites who were not mentioned by name
is that so everyone could maybe not feel secure? Yes, that's
possible. Okay. That's possible.
Yeah.
The supermarket as far as saying what are you serious?
Is the most men are allowed to marry Christian or Jewish woman.
It's my crew. And in Donald Cofer extremely mcru in the Maliki
Maliki method
do you know anyone named called them Jose Andres do we know what
although we are the we becomes Rizvi? No I do not know him. I
never heard him before. Okay.
This bowl is a replica. Let me tell you something about Romania.
We believe that Rokia is in drinking water and reciting upon
the water then drinking it or splashing it around the house or
putting it on the pain. And this is a replica bowl of say to Conan
at acela to a synonyms bowl. And on top of it has been written out
of courtesy which is freshly fat. Okay, so it's bull to drink out of
for Autopia tomorrow Kyani
This is an become an unboxing day. That is a most householder or a
day.
Yeah, so this one but let's save them for
whoa
next time we go to the MCMC cookbook, where this on my head
They get kicked out
Subhan Allah
and it smells like
no that's got some serious misc on it and it's got a serious holder
like a counter. I mean, you know the it's 100 with with the counter
for 10s but a serious counterfeits you know the counter for 10s when
it gets flimsy
Yeah. Oh, this is some serious stuff. Something this is some
serious stuff well
Oh yeah.
Oh yeah. And your thumb starts hurting
Yeah, the ring is still survived with me by the way the ring has
survived I didn't think the ring would I thought I would lose it. I
lost it on the first day Believe it or not, then I found it Subhan
Allah
subhanaw taala
Manuel Garcia that's the that's where the roomies cave is
the roomies garden is. So this is this is basically going to be the
decoration of data set with all these things. And these brothers
and husband and wife will get the all the reward. Right? Because
they express their love for us. So we are expressing our love back to
them. And they're going to be the this is we're going to have to get
somebody who was like, uh, knows how to decorate well and put the
stuff up. Right?
Yeah, we got everything. We got everything. Oh, we're praying on
this one. One of them.
Yeah. And the kangaroo. Kangaroo.
Such a unique creation of Allah, isn't it? You've never expected it
looks like a person. Yeah. Yeah. You never expect the kangaroo.
Dream says it's playing the piano permissible. It's a string
instrument. Some people said it's a percussion maybe I doubt it
though. It's a string instrument. Look at this. The footprint. This
is the footprint of say the coney nowadays salatu salam I believe
Subhan Allah. No, no, this looks like a foot. And it's mixed up.
This is definitely going to be
Yeah, this is definitely going to be part of our ornament rotation
of the abductor FET the footprint of say the Kona and any of the
assault, what's his name? And he's got all the like the the history
behind like, where did he get that? Where do you get the idea or
where to get the evidence that that's what it looks like etc. Han
a lot of
this room is garden place. Stuff is gorgeous.
You
we are really very, very close to revealing what the outside of our
building now looks like because that was phase one the outside of
the building.
We're not in a pretty area. The area is rough. There's trash in
front of the street all the time. We got to broom it every day. It's
a rough area, but that's where Allah chose for us. Right. And
the donation came and I was happy to accept it. Right.
And I liked this area because it gives some humility to we're not
in some posh area, and I'm not comfortable with the Super posh
super passionate I get uncomfortable. Right.
No one talks to each other. Everyone's putting on airs. You
know that concept of putting on airs. Everyone's like showing off
problems.
Yeah, yeah. What is that? That is a poster. The next one is a
poster. Is that like, what is that?
Is this like a Oh, is it an auction?
Description of the profits
and
we're gonna be able to read it more clearly.
Right? I think it might be a letter
well let's open these up.
opening these up because this has all the explanations. Okay. And
let me show you something else. This is actually from Haroon
which is
this is a copy of them what
with my wit printed bound, right in a gorgeous gorgeous
good
a very clear print of the water.
Supply
Allah very beautiful clear prints of them What have ematic
for yeah, here open these up to see what the what they say about
them. Is that something? What's that there's more
up there person always asks where we get meat from
boobs.
person always asked where we get meat from at family events. That's
haram. If you accept it to enter the house, then you shall not
question their meat you've accepted to enter the house, eat
what they give you. Now, if you doubt the family, don't enter the
house in the first place.
You understand? That's how it works. Okay, if you accept it to
enter the house in the first place, do not go ask for the meat.
You're not allowed to do that.
You're not to go in someone's house and insult them. Where do
you get your meat? If you don't like it? Don't go in the first
place. If you doubt them, why are you accepting their invitation to
begin with? So this is Jonah Hill. This is Johanna. Cee Mina Al
Hamdulillah. By the grace of Allah I got married indirectly while
listening to nothing but facts. Now I have converted into a
subpoena sided listener as well, so much I love that she got
married hamdulillah and she is a convert out from Seattle.
I believe right? Seattle, and may Allah bless your marriage. And
it's always good to see marriage because that's basically one of
the, in my opinion, if you ask me. It's a hallmark of how you choose
to live. Okay? It's a hallmark of how you choose to live you choose
to live by the natural way that God's religion has established for
us.
Okay.
Well done what he said here.
It will be beautiful to be here. Some large
shadow boxes.
Yes, yes.
Okay, so you're so the sister who made that comment. She's a local
yet she's got one who's going to do it? Right. Now she'll do it.
She knows what she's doing here. She'll be the one who's gonna put
all this stuff up but where we're going to put everything
go Galileo says what to say the codename means It means chief, the
master of this life and the next or the humans and the jinn has
both meanings.
Saw that's all he says. Can you repeat that I need to screen
record from my lamp. You should be able to rewind but what I don't
know what remind me what it was that I said
about the marriage. I think he's just messing around. But I'll
repeat whatever you need. Sister in law wants to separate sexes
during close family events
guide because of non Muslims. So in family events.
You do have some room. Why? Because the Quran says Laguna had
a comb and tag Kulu Jami, an otaku a statin. And that means,
according to what our teachers have taught us, what it means is
that when the families get together, provided there is no
touching, excessive looking, staring at somebody excessive
pneus when the family comes together, and there's like an in
law
all right, in laws to each other, or one brother's wife, and another
brother's wife and another sister's husband, and they're
coming to have dinner at the grandparents house,
there is no harm to eat together or to eat separately gender
separate or all at the same table. And that is one of the toughest
theater that I was given on that provided that there the limits of
excessively gazing at somebody
touching of course, is not observed. But it is not a
necessity to in the homes when the family comes together and there
are some non Muharram it is it is legend a heartache. There is no
harm in either way. That's how I understand it. If I'm wrong, you
could tell me but that's how much you've taught it to me. Okay,
provided that there is no excessive looking and gazing.
So Allah knows best, but that's how I understand it. And that's
how I've seen shoot live. And that's how I've seen them do
things in their homes, right? Because there are certain parts of
the homes that's shared in the first place. It's not very clear.
Like you're gonna come and get the food from some area, someone's
gonna go to the bathroom, you're gonna cross paths, it's almost
becomes really not even possible. It's in some homes, to have gender
separation. So um,
If you have gender separation probably that's all the better
right? Probably all the better but if it's not something that your
family does it doesn't have to be forced upon them. If it gets to
the point that the mingling is excessive
then you have to just excuse yourself
family things yeah
they if they go late night and they become excessive and to
becoming too comfortable with each other
haram
Oh, well.
Okay, here is the blurb about this bowl.
Very heavy.
The honoured bowl is a replica
recreation of the existing bowl that belongs to say Devonian it
Salatu was Salam this bowl that they have in Topkapi Palace, in
which is in a stumble
they have a Senate for it. Okay. And this is a replica of course,
they have a Senate for that bull.
Okay, that that is the prophets bull. One day the prophets of
Allah when he was sent him and his companions on their way to Medina,
stopped for a rest in the territory of the bene say that
tribe. He asked liveness to get some water, sir. Lhasa, the
companions to die in Medina
kept the bowl with which he gave water to the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, and years later, he gave it as a present to Omar
Abdulaziz, who eventually became the seventh Khalifa.
Okay, he respected the Prophet greatly, and he followed his
footsteps as a governor in Medina, praying exactly in the same places
that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had prayed before. He
preserved all the relics of the prophets of Allah when he was
sending them, including the honored bowl that he the prophet
had drank from and made wudu from including a leather pillow stuff
with date leaves a robe a velvet quilt and a quiver.
The bowl so maybe the bow is the same size of the Prophet's bow,
the bowl, you know that bow that we got? The bowl was kept by some
time by the renowned Kalka shandy family. Yes, this is a famous
family
among whose members were prominent scholars. When I was in my
master's, my professor made me read a crescendo he was obsessed
with what Alka Shandy, so secretly was handed over to Amir disobey
governor of Hashem Damascus in 1515 of the Common Era. Throughout
these 900 years, the ball had become worn and therefore it was,
it was covered with silver to protect it.
Quranic inscriptions were made to adorn the bowl the history of the
bowl until the time of amused debate is written in small
characters on the brim.
The mold of the honoured bowl was designed professionally by an
associate of Rumi's garden and was sent to craftsmen who specifically
make cast free museum small adjustments have been made for the
calligraphy to be visible in the replication process. I've met Syd
Mead founder of ruins got we need him on the stream to talk about
like the relics of the messengers that love what you sell them as as
a historical element
like as a historical
facet of that.
Okay.
Mohammed Mona M says some refuse to attend the kids birthday party
of close family because Robert said there are two aids there the
Prophet said there are two aids for the OMA
for the OMA the birthday celebration is neither recommended
in religion nor is it forbidden to religion it what happens in it may
be recommended permitted forbidden, sharing food with
people recommended.
spoiling a kid may be discouraged. spoiling him and but making him
feel some love and appreciation that he's loved. That's good.
Bringing friends good, embarrassing friends sort of
making
sort of making the the people have to buy gifts. That's how much mcru
It's my crew that aspects of things. So I'd like to have can
you talk about the halal meat. If you enter someone's home you're
not allowed to ask about where they got their meat. It's
forbidden for you to do that. Okay. You have to understand that
you have accepted to enter his home. Hello us
What he puts on your plate you eat it.
Do not ask about the meat once you enter someone's home if you have
doubts about their meat don't add to their home. Don't accept an
invitation.
When I pray, I don't feel like it please tell me about it. No man
Rasm you don't have to feel it. You don't have to enjoy it. You
have to do it because that's your god your Creator so you stand in
front of him you recite what he asked you recite you bow and you
prostrate.
But how could you not feel some? All
when you contemplate who you're standing in front of?
Where are you standing in front of Subhan Allah and what does he have
to offer?
What did he do?
Look at his creation
aren't you in awe and what does he have to offer you?
Good that should enter your heart. But ultimately, the first act the
first test of a youth is Salah and that means physically doing it in
this manner how you're doing it stand up right makes you do it
properly make you to go up properly do everything properly
okay
are we allowed to eat kosher meat The answer is yes we are allowed
to eat the Jewish slaughters
Carla White can you all make dua for me I'm going through some
hardships May Allah make it easy for you may Allah
bless you and
give you a Shiva
if it's a sickness and may Allah make your life easy and transform
all your hardships into ease
Can I press play suited to the bucket on the computer next to
water
yes but if you're excited is better can a single woman perform
ombre alone yes hi gentlemen and of us we
can you give some advice on how to perfect our will do do it slowly
and don't waste the water and
make it so far while you're making and of course study the FIP
today's Maliki fifth day
today after this stream we get a break we go down to the masjid we
teach we do vicar with the youth we teach the youth and then we
have the live stream I mean the fifth class Maliki
Okay, so study one of the methods on ArcView dot orgy study one of
the methods
and
learn how to make will do it properly.
And then when you make will do decrease the water make us to
faraway and making will remember the province I set him said the
sins come off with the water
and go slow if you make a good one Do you have a good Salah
North Korea says if I recite the first three verses of students had
cough is enough protection against the dead no the first 10 the first
10 minutes says I pray forever all the single brothers sisters here
to find a righteous spouse. Okay, so everyone here is congratulating
sister moment who came talked about me married disappeared from
the stream for a little bit. We didn't see her for a while. Now
she's back and she's married. Congratulations. May Allah give
you a blessed offspring. And may Allah bless your marriage and
remove from you all hardship has said Ill Will from anybody. And
separate avoid fighting. Let me give you advice for people get
married. Don't make jokes and banter about your spouse and with
your spouse, the husband and wife who do that their marriages are
never good. Like, I don't even believe I don't even like to do
that with my guy friends. Right?
You will naturally start to hate each other. That's the truth. If
you make jokes about people, right, you will naturally start
deep down you will start to dislike them very slowly, you will
start to dislike them. So I highly advise
married couples don't make jokes about each other. Don't make fun
of each other. Right? It's not a healthy banter. It's not good at
all.
Okay, don't do it.
Even competing against each other slowly, it creates like an it may
not be good to compete against each other. You should compete
with each other against something else.
Mina says I was just in Dallas visiting the in laws. My father in
law is a convert hamdulillah they were so accepting and welcoming.
Remember she This is a sister who said she had trouble because she's
a convert. So I said well marry the kid of a condom. Right and
that's what happened mashallah, she did it. Okay, congratulations.
Steve says, What should one do if for 15 years, they were mixing the
rules of the four schools because a Mufti said you're allowed to do
that.
Okay, but in a most normal Assam called me sinful No, you're not
sinful. It's not a good practice. The only problem is that you may
mix methods in such a manner that the matter
is no longer
valid, that a bed is no longer valid. That's the problem. When a
bed is no longer valid, that's your issue. Okay?
Okay
what is the ruling on Maliki's having fluffy masalas
now the magic here I like to prey on the natural earth, right?
But obviously,
they like to prey on the natural earth and they don't like to have
some fluffiness so that you
will be someone who is pretentious. However, I'll tell
you what is permitted if the earth the ground is hard for your knees.
And that's where this wool comes in. Right? For your knees. This
wool is something else. This sheep is gorgeous. It's pure white.
Mashallah.
Got it. So, all of the Islamic gifts were from a company called
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sent to us from Australia from some
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Look at this. Here's the tail. Kangaroo.
Right. Kangaroo becomes real because of the variation. Oh,
black and everything very very Yeah. Oh, you could definitely
tell it's real variation of even the thicknesses.
Gotta love the smell of leather. This is eat in advance for sure.
Okay, why all these gifts at once? Well, what happened was that we
were out of the studio for two weeks.
Ryan came back he's like there's male up to here. That's what
happens. He came to me said doctors male up to here a
lot of people liking in the comments. I'm catching up. They
loved the unboxing here. And all these these animal skins and the
green Muslims.
They're not so green anymore.
What would you advise your brother? Mohammed, Daddy, what
would you advise a brother who was literally living through the
McCafferty of giving preferences spouse over his now deceased
parents?
What did you mean by the word milk efforts?
And how does he give preference to his spouse over his deceased
parents? Because if his parents are deceased, so how was he giving
preference to his wife over them if they're deceased?
Good. That's the question becomes another question. How can you
watch these live? Recordings? Yes, you can watch the recordings on
Instagram, on Facebook, but best of all on YouTube. And we put
these slowly on Spotify or we caught up how many maybe we're
back. We're maybe behind by like 10 videos or something on Spotify.
got
most of them cowboy. Did you refute that guy? Rob Christian who
said that? Even Huff's was
a liar. No Imam Huff's have an awesome we recite the Quran by the
narration of Hassan awesome.
Imam Huff's was not a hadith. He was not a hadith scholar. He was a
Quran scholar. So in Hadith, some said yes, we take his need some
said no, we don't.
And as for the saying that even miss o did not have fetch, and
Philip and Ness in his most half. That is irrelevant. His most half
was for his own personal ease. He didn't need those. Memorize them,
right. He didn't he didn't put them in his Muslim Ed is
irrelevant.
The what is relevant is that his oral transmission sites fat to
have fun and thus, right the oral transmission of
of mms out of the Quran includes fatsia Filipinas. So this guy is
trying this guy, and name is Rob Christian is trying to put doubt
in the hearts of Muslims on their sources. Okay?
What if a relative on the medium asks,
one wants to
cut ties with you? What do you do if a relative wants to cut ties?
Okay,
what do we do with such a relative? All you can do is as
much as you can, you can
begin with the holidays and the occasions by calling them saying
As salam o alaikum
you know, the small talk like that, start with that and Allah
knows best and maybe what you can do also is you are allowed to have
some what's called white lies the halal like, which is
that when you see somebody you sell it, you tell them oh, by the
way, so and so sister lambs to you, so and so misses you, so and
so was asking about you.
And even though that's a lie, you're allowed to do that. Okay,
you are allowed to do that. Okay, because it brings people together.
Only those types of things that are that would bring people
together.
Okay, is it so not to read off at the end of any religious gathering
to my understanding any gathering at all? It is so nuts to say
subchronic Alaba him Nick Machado and Leila headland and it's
tougher to break the sins that happened in the gathering go away.
It is a practice of the Sahaba to recite Surah to lawcet after every
gathering Abu Dhabi that started that
one two men among the companions met they did not part until one of
them recited suit it's an awesome That is correct. Okay, that is
correct.
Chick Sally Gibbon Sidna passed away. May Allah have mercy on
chicks. Alec even said no, he did pass away. And he was sick for a
long time and hamdulillah
Yeah, all we can do is say that, in that Allah who were in LA Raja
own, may Allah give him Jana. Okay.
Last few episodes, the outro has not been shown. I'll tell you. Oh,
yes. Because we were away. That's wait.
Yeah, because we were away. That's why. Also, we have to tell YouTube
that that is our soundtrack. YouTube is sending me messages
saying your copywriting not copyright. Nothing. We own that
soundtrack. That is our soundtrack. Right. The Hawk Knight
got it made for us. He's got connections all over Turkish
Hollywood.
Yeah,
Enza Jama says I haven't heard the phrase putting on airs since
Victorian
books that I used to read. Yep. Showing off. Okay.
Dream says the percussion is a piano is a percussion instrument.
My question was more about whether or not it's just the fact that it
is a percussionist and makes it permissible. Some meth hubs many
meth hubs hold that all percussion are permitted all the time.
Others that like thematic method, only the duff for weddings.
Steve says What should one do? Or we talked about this
site says why don't people cite them what when it comes to Hadith?
They cite it but they but in Muslim Maybe Allah item one but it
is cited here in there.
Okay.
J Perez. Any details on the history of Turkish Muslims in the
US New Jersey in specific there's an old abandoned Masjid in
Northern New York. Unfortunately, someone took away the sign with
Turkish masjid. And with the Quran now, I really do not know any
history. But if anyone knows it's semi Kaktovik and let me know what
the name of the masjid is and he will check it as it's not Oulu
Jami that's in Paterson.
Okay.
Okay.
What is your view of Muhammad, Abdul Wahab and the Neji will have
the movement. It's the they've innovated in many ways. We have
nothing to do with them.
But they were started as Hannah Bella. But their tech fear
is not correct. It's not accurate the way they make duck feet.
So Muslim cowboy says My question is regarding taking money for Dow
especially if one is unable to get other work.
The art the money for Dawa is only forbidden insofar as it would be
an obligation for you to answer somebody's questions. So for
example, if somebody would say, came up to you and say, Hey, could
you please give me the shahada and teach me how to pray? That is
something that's in wedge of upon you, you can't take money for it.
But if you're releasing videos on YouTube,
you can take money for that.
There's a hadith in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam was sitting with some Sahaba. They mentioned a man who
had killed many people and done an amazing job in the battle. In
wars. He fought and and he, he was fought well. The people said,
someone said too bad. He's being praised. That would take away from
his reward. And the prophesy as Sam said, and who said this, he
can have praise and have his reward. Okay, so
others said that if you get if you earn money from something you lose
1/3 of the reward, the
truth of the matter is you can have full reward and the financial
compensation. The only thing you cannot be financially compensated
for in the deen? Is that what you're obligated to do? If someone
says, Please teach me how to make will do?
T teach me suited to Facha
I can't charge for that. This wasn't for me. All right. Teach
me. Ted's wheat. Oh, hold on a second. I'm not obligated to teach
you to eat. I'm obligated to teach you how to pray if you if you ask
about that.
I'm not obligated to teach you to eat. I can charge you for that.
Teach me What's haram in Islam. I have to teach you. I have to tell
you Congress haram rebels haram Zina is haram etc, etc, etc. Teach
me the evidence. Now I gotta teach you that. I can tell you the
Quran, right?
But What Sudha what I don't have to teach you that.
Come take my class.
Because we're not living in the old days where the government is,
or the elk off exist for that.
Got the oak off was an institution where the OMA
the scholars invested money, they had land and they promoted
knowledge they ran and they've made sure everyone was taken care
of. That's why all these institutions, column mocassin,
Safina society we hope to become a knockoff that expand like that. Do
the same thing. Typhoons are all says another affects 36 At our one
minute 44 Second 43. You said a wife could make it a condition in
the Nikka that it stays monogamous. If the husband marry a
second wife immediately divorce would occur. Yes, that is correct.
She cannot forbid him from another wife can't make the halal haram
but she can say and here if he agrees upon you taking another
wife. This marriage is not is voided with a divorce.
You can with those hardcore delete. So my question is, Can
contracts be made that contradicts men and women's rights? According
to the Sharia? No, you cannot make the Haram halal and Halal haram
but you can pull out of the marriage. That's what's halal. So
she can't she cannot say you can have a marriage contract that says
that you will not marry a second wife. No, you have a marriage
contract that says if you marry a second wife, this current marriage
is dissolved by divorce. And you are agreeing to that. Okay, both
sides are agreeing to that. If they want to agree, they don't
have to agree if they don't want then you don't have to marry her
either. And she doesn't have to marry you.
Okay.
Which side are you reading questions from? I'm reading from
both the Instagram and from
and from YouTube. Are we allowed to use astronomy versus Moon
sighting? When you start your fast you should always have
a sighting alongside with you. I know the institutions they have to
go by the astronomical calculation of the new moon birth, but for
your own sake for the fasting. Wait.
And we're lucky hamdullah in New Jersey Alhamdulillah. We're in you
know the West. So we get to see all the Islamic countries first.
And probably I would say 95 times out of 100 there is a sightings a
reliable sighting somewhere on the day that they say that there is
The astronomical birth of the new moon.
Donald hamady says what is the hikma behind Sunita Lawson recited
after every gathering and Allah knows best I really do not know
the answer to why they chose Sudha to last.
Nimra sad, is clarifying the question about the parents, the
deceased parents, now deceased parents and the wife he says, now
he is facing problems due to having preferred his spouse over
his parents when his parents were alive. That person what you need
to do is make Toba for having maybe offended your parents and
chosen your wife over your mom and and hurt her feelings. And you
just make Toba and not just make Toba but also
risk recite Quran and gift it to them hibbett To throw up, give
sadaqa and gift it to your parents and hopefully, they will receive
it and hopefully, then you will earn forgiveness and charlatan.
That's the good deed that you need to you make to make some towboats
and the Suha by giving sadaqa on behalf of your family,
your parents and visiting them and trying to rectify the situation.
Yes, you screwed up now you're paying the price. But you can
speed up the pay price payment process by by doing those kinds of
good deeds, can a man requests or force his wife to contribute to
paying bills? No.
If she has to, she can go to the judge or the Imam and say my
husband can no longer afford to take care of us. So divorce me
from him. And that is a valid reason for a divorce. The
My wife is essentially a historian. She's a historian. And
she taught history at university ensured degrees in history, are
PhDs in history. And she came upon a series of interviews a Syrian
court court case where a man left his wife
and came back left for like, months on it. Like year or two,
three years, came back found her married to another man.
Is it what's going on? This is my wife. She said, No. You abandon
us. You never left us no money. You left us no food and you didn't
fulfill the intimacy. Like you abandoned us.
So I went to court, and the judge gave me Taanach. My husband
abandoned me. He said you wait, wait for
know, I don't know how long he said. But once it was proven that
the husband had abandoned the wife, he's not providing food.
He's not providing protection. He's not providing intimacy. He
divorced her from him.
He can initiate the Ghazi can initiate the divorce.
Okay. And she waited the ADA. And she married another man.
Melody 21 says
what is the meaning of Rob bull Musharaka? Any wearable?
mkhwebane?
So that's an interesting question.
In the history of human mapmaking in the history of human geography,
the people differed on what's north and what's south, right. So,
if this is north to me, then this is West, sorry, east, and this is
West. But if this is south to me, then this is West, and this is
east, right?
So in these human civilizations, they differed on what what what
the cardinal points are. So half the population used to consider
the sunrise
or in the east and west to be different. So that's one tafsir.
Of the two Eastern the two West's right. And Allah knows best. But
that's one possible Tafseer of Mr. cranium and MongoDB.
Card Master, can you attend a family wedding and there's free
mixing
and all these things as soon as the mixing becomes, to the point
of
great discouragement, or prohibition.
Whereas the prohibition the touching, like you're so close,
you're touching each other, where's the great discouragement
that you're able to look at each other and get desire and just,
you're staring at one another and that once you're in that realm,
you enter the point of great amount of discouragement there. So
you should walk out of the room. Okay, if you can avoid that.
Music likewise.
It's insofar as you can avoid that by
Going outside, you can do that. We have become innovators in
weddings, I can guarantee you that, like everything's Islamic in
the person's life, once the wedding comes,
bring out all the bitter possible and the monkey runs. So I don't
know why we do that.
Muslim cowboy says another question. There was a question
about this on Twitter, because someone mentioned, dots are
accepting $30,000 For three day engagements.
Wow, that is, when does that become excessive? I'll tell you
when it's not excessive is when their presence elicits funds,
donations when they're when it's a fundraiser, and the presence of
that person is going to cause people to donate a lot of money
and he gets a cut of that. It seems to be okay. When is it? What
is he doing for $30,000? For three days? Because the scholar is not
like a celebrity, you know, like a celebrity endorsement? Is that
what it is? I don't understand that. When does it become
excessive is that I believe that at some point, you have to ask
your heart. What's going on here? What are we doing here? Is it
$30,000? Let's say five grand for him and 25 for his institution.
Right. At some point, we have to ask the question of what what
really he's right about that. He's correct about like, what what is
going on here? It's exorbitant? I would I wouldn't mind 30,000. But
not through teaching. I would rather Yeah, you're gonna make
some money through teaching by selling books. That's all fine.
But just to show up and Your Royal Highness and your royal presence
is worth is like that. Allow them that's number one. But I would
rather make money in a lit in a normal way. Like in a in a secular
world the way owning restaurants, owning apartments and renting them
out. Like that's your customary way to make your money. And I
believe that those dots
maybe better off doing that. Right. All right. So you got you
caught, you got a nice bite out of it. The whole Dow was seen now
transfer shifted. And let the Dow be for Allah sake as much as
possible. If you can't, then you charge right?
If you can't you charge, but once you can, and you can make your
tons of money through normal legitimate means and investments,
et cetera,
that I believe is better and Allah knows best.
What's the ruling on a person who kills a bless femur of Rasul Allah
if the state fails to do so? Well, I don't want to say the answer to
that because I may end up becoming, you know, maybe you get
prosecuted for that inciting violence. But they those people
are guilty for not following procedure. They should have
followed procedure.
How do we support the Afghans being oppressed by the Taliban?
To be honest with you,
you're asking the wrong person.
asking the wrong person would not know
is a vasectomy permitted if you had a couple children, only if
pregnancy would harm you later in life. If pregnancy the doctor says
hey, listen, if you get pregnant, you're going to get harmed again,
right? You're gonna have some harm, then yes. But if the
pregnancy if if getting pregnant, will not harm the person, then
they can only use temporary solutions, not permanent
solutions. Good. If your dad doesn't praise the luck and you
inherit from him, yes, you can.
Kind of Muslim woman get alimony after her divorce.
A Muslim. She's not. It's not her right to receive it. But the
Muslim husband is highly recommended to take care of his ex
wife, especially if they have children. And he knows that she
has no place to go.
Especially that she gave you years of her life. In those years, she
lost any ability to become relevant in the earning market.
It's highly highly recommended something called an Mata which
means to test to make sure they're okay. Especially if the raising
your children would make no sense that you let your children descend
and decay in poverty. So you're paying for your children anyway.
But also that should he says the teenage boys should go to the
debt. I'm a big believer in that teenage boys should go to the
debt. Now if your mom is raising you, you have to respect her and
honor some people say that yes, I should have went to my dad and now
he turns against his mom. Not that's
that's immature.
and how to write you're not, you're not. That's not your
decision to judge your parents in your role to judge your parents.
We're saying in general, in the shittier, teenage boy you hit blue
13 years old, go to your dad.
14 years old, go to your dad.
That's such a bit.
How can I get my data deleted on mawatha? Just email them and tell
them to remove you from the offerings in the medic or from the
candidacy in the medical school. What's your opinion on alcohol
cologne? For men? The dominant opinion is that it's it's not
pure.
You have to wash it off the mortality and say it evaporates
off so it's fine. And only the Senate remains is eating cats in
the Maliki method. It is Makrooh to eat a cat.
Okay, oh my best you know the answer to that well done.
If man can't provide for his wife who works but refuses to
contribute to the house, then he should downgrade to a smaller
house or simpler lifestyle and she shouldn't complain if she likes
him. Yeah, you're gonna live on his basis unless you both agreed
to to pitch in together.
Is there a North American Hala Hillel body?
Now there's a lot of websites. There's a lot of websites there's
I don't know the names of offense but Crescent watch for example.
Hillels Chicago Hillels citing there's a lot of websites.
Okay.
Can we start reciting that midweek or do we have to start Monday you
can start whenever you want. Monday is just the preferable day
because that's the day the Prophet was born.
Couple more questions. Can you hold a book circle on Satan
upheaval out Deus Islam and secularism?
Islam and secularism Yes, inshallah.
Archie has a book club
I don't even know if that book is on sale anymore Is it? I'm sure it
is malady 21 If a woman hasn't reached a scholarly degree but
wants to marry a man who was well learned, is it a suitable match?
Yes. Why not? When not every scholar marries another scholar.
browser says Do you reckon the cane in Topkapi is is actually
Musas? I doubt that the stick of Musa data
what do you think of the term convert or revert?
You person was born on the fitrah not Muslim. The hadith says good
Lumo Luden EULA do Allah fitrah every child is born on a natural
God given creation way of being then his parents warped that
through Christianity or Judaism
so that the argument is that when you become Muslim you're actually
reverting back to Islam.
That's why people say that the Convert is someone who is changing
into something whatever satisfies you
you can
you can call them what you want.
You want to call them convert revert doesn't matter to me.
All right, we answered the question on the second wife. We
answered that
from Typhoon when a woman reaches 40 says Lily
and marriage proposals come to her is a independent of her decision
making like guy apparently can be or is she still under the parents
terms
of their blessings and acceptance if she now takes care of herself
and she is
no longer she's older now and she's not in need of and she can
make decisions for herself. Then she does need a Willie but she
makes the decision herself on a yes or no to the marriage
if she's still living under her parents roof
then and she doesn't know the world of men then she needs to
her well he needs to sign off on
that's if she never married before on the on the convert things shake
out on mentioned something that was good one time yeah. Like in
Arabic There's no word for this type of thing. Or like that
because this person asked about the Sahaba he said there's most of
them were included right like there's new Muslims are talking
about convert revert. Yeah, okay, I just started this. Yeah, like
when someone's convert to Islam.
that's been like 25 years. Yeah, you're not gonna still call him a
new Muslim. That's true to the point where it doesn't matter to
be cold anymore. So the point what he was saying is that
in the time of the prophets, I said them, they didn't have a
concept of converts the word convert, they had the word new
Muslim or not. And that makes sense. So after 40 years, are you
a convert anymore? Right after 20 years you will convert I guess
you're technically a convert, but they just use the word new Muslim
or
are not new Muslim. That's already angry if his permission is
requested at any later stage. That's the second part of the
question. So okay, first part of the question if Is it the Father's
right to require being consulted? Whenever a trip is considered for
his teenage son who lives with his mom? Well, that's a problem why
you worried about the consultation? He should be living
with the debt. But let's say the situation is that okay? Even
less so. So teenage son living with the mom
if the trip is law is a long journey that the father should be
consulted Yes. Even if it's Mecca and Medina.
The Mani sob Yes. We mentioned chicks addicts passing and may
Allah have mercy upon him.
In a lie when they had our job, he was very sick. And he was
apparently taken to a hospital in Morocco in which he passed away
there but he had been sick for a long time. And
in that Allahu ala Hara Jonas Allah and yo Fernando Allah, may
Allah forgive us in Him and have mercy upon us and him.
I did studied that he set up an episode with schicke Sadek, back
in 2003 2000 to 2003 2004 Yeah
good times
if family follows Saudi Moon sighting What should I do family
disputes start always during Ramadan because of this all I can
tell you is that you need to fast as long as you need to have known
that someone cited the moon reliable person cited the moon
and Saudi they claim to have cited the moon right so what we're not
going to say that they're lying about that I don't think they're
lying.
They should be by Moon sighting. They claim to know they claim to
be physical Moon setting
anyone can kind of call them to tell them that they saw someone
The rumor is that is a reward for them
I don't know
Can you can you look it up look into it
look into it get like actual citation that we could use rely
upon them? Does eating your nails or biting your nails break your
fast if you swallow it? Yes. If it goes into your stomach right
that's a terrible way to break your fast don't the Hanafi is make
the woman wait I think 80 years if the man goes missing and four
Yeah, that's if there is if she is hoping for his return. Now that's
usually for the inheritance but the moment the man is no longer
taking care of the woman okay. And she wants to move on and be taken
care of she can get a divorce
How can you gently respond to people who claim that group that
could have been a group that could is in sale body? So that's the
first thing if not best says I used to know the funfair is over
when I arrive at the masjid.
Okay.
And I hear the victory loudly.
Okay, it's in Sahih Bukhari to Hadith sinner ro. Tt on Saudi NBF
is now on Instagram. Now. We just were in the masjid for two weeks
where we didn't have access to our computers. So that was just
temporary.
What's the best way to avoid Rhea and Guru? Showing off?
What is your advice for making friends and maintaining long
lasting relationships and not fall out with people? Making friends
and having long lasting relationships is all about
humility, and for going your rights and fulfilling other
people's rights but it's really humility. Humility is the key.
A humble person
who is agreeable with others and don't don't bring up issues of
disagreement. Right and be humble. You should have long lasting
friendships. When it comes to how to avoid a glute and showing off
and RIA look at the a band of people who do better than you and
you'll realize that your worship is very weak. Your knowledge is
very weak everything
is very weak.
Esta continues with their question they live in Jeddah so it's not
long. And he's always informed beforehand, but he demands to be
informed at the very first stage of the trip being considered, is
that his right?
For the dad for the teenage son that he pays for and takes care of
he has far more rights than this. If we're going to tell the truth,
he has the right of custody. Forget being knowing where you
are, where you are, he has a full right of custody.
So I hate to give that bad news to the people but he has the full
right of custody over his teenage son
is there a deeper meaning of Google L? Burb and sudut Zoomer
Al Bab are those who who have deep penetrating insight into matters.
Okay, with knowledge
of arcade and Cydia and mantra.
One commenter saying many, many dads don't care and they don't
want their kids, it doesn't matter if you want them or not. And you
take them you drop them off at the house, ring the doorbell and leave
like say, to hedge and was left in Mecca. Because by the command of
Allah subhana, WA Tada, this is Command of Allah. Man has to take
care of his kids.
And if he's not, then you then you're innocent. Let's say the the
dad doesn't take care of the kids.
He's one of these guys. He's just he does not raise his kids. And if
you were to bring the kid there, he wouldn't get raised, you
wouldn't go to school he wouldn't.
First of all, is that the truth? Is it true that a guy is going to
have his teenage son there? And he's never going to care to raise
him? How do we know that for a fact?
But hypothetically, let's say hypothetically, it was a fact. And
we have evidence, what's his evidence, the previous kids, he
had other kids, and he let those teenagers just go astray. He
doesn't care about anything. At that point, the mother now is in
her right to raise the kid. That's her. Now she is free from the
guilts
of on the issue of custody.
That's how it works. But we need to have some kind of proof that
the guy does not raise his kids, such as a previous kid, or to
where he, he just puts no effort in and he lets them do whatever
they want.
And he lets them harm themselves in their Deen in their dunya.
At that point in time, if that can be proven, then we say yes. Now
you as a mother have the right to now raise him upon Islam and take
him and you're totally innocent. And at that point, he's forgotten
his rights. Whether I go to Mecca, or I go to New York, that's you
forego You for what You're right. I don't have to tell you anything.
You have forgotten your rights.
You have forgotten your right.
So, does that make sense? I hope that makes sense. To everyone
asking you about the women's What do women have to tell the debt?
Okay, it's more binary than anything else.
Can you put lip balm during during when you perform it up for medical
purposes? Yes, you may. And if it has no scent, you're absolutely
you can do it without medical purposes.
Would you recommend a Muslim psychiatrist for a teenage girl?
And would the mother have to tell the father about the taking the
girl to a psychiatrist. Of course she's have to tell the father it's
his right to know that and his right to allow it or disallow it?
And which Muslim psychiatrists is the question?
Okay.
Which Muslim question psychiatrist is the question someone who's
going to advise based upon the book and the Sunnah. And the deen
as a baseline, then yes. Or at least that we believe in. We're
going to not everything is going to be religious ruling right.
The counseling may have nothing to do with Islam. But at least we
have a concept that we have a god we're answerable to that Lord, we
go by Islam, right as a baseline
couple more questions for you log off
if one kept a child away from the father, because he walks out of
the house unknown and tells the kids I left because of you kids,
he got everything is that not gaslighting?
It may be gaslighting, but at the same time, if he's given the
responsibility of the kids, he may still fulfill them. He may be
A terrible guy. But once he has a teenage son in his presence, he
may start raising him properly. We don't know that right? So we can't
make him guilty of not being able to raise a teenage son. before
he's even have ever had a chance. I would say that you can only make
him guilty. If he's telling you, I'm not going to teach him how to
pray, I'm going to allow him to do everything. And or he has another
son where he did that.
So some kind of evidence that he is not going to raise the kid in
well, either Indian or dunya. Like I'm going to just let them play
video games don't have to study, things like that.
What would be the best course of action for a Sunni Muslim marrying
a Shia Muslim, for raising kids and household practices?
I don't see that there's much of a win win here. Your only way that
you're going to avoid argumentation is that neither one
one or both are not don't really care about their religion. To be
honest with you,
if you both care, you have some mutually exclusive so you have
opposing
ideas here.
Don't recommend it man I have to tell you to is forbidden to marry
an innovator.
Is a father obligated to pay for his kids college education? No.
No, not obligated.
But
your son's gonna you're harming him if he if he if your son
doesn't have a skill to earn him a livelihood.
It is a type of harm but you're not obligated to pay that.
College education
none of the divorcing men want to take care of their children and
they want to marry someone who doesn't have kids then the sin is
on them and the mother has the reward
she has all the reward and the sin is all on the debt
do we follow local or world global Moon sighting global?
Is LASIK and laser considered cauterization No, it's not
cauterization it uses heat but it's not cauterization
Is there a hadith that says when Syria falls there is no good in
any of you? I don't know about this hadith.
Can you please look it up and give us the exact reference. And with
that, ladies and gentlemen
we will pause your stop here and pick up tomorrow. Just come along
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