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did not

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cause this delay, but nonetheless we do have the intent to continue

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for today. We will do half an hour reading stories of odia and half

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hour q&a with everybody

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Bismillah R Rahman Rahim

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Yusuf evenin, Jose Hosanna. Razi, well here we are coupe Yusuf Al

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Hussein Razi can a che a re well debelle few up to he meaning the

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city of ray and the area around him. What can aniseed wacko wacko

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feet is carted to Sonora Sana we read this but we'll read it again

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he hated to Sonora with Sonora is the concept of the Sonora is the

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idea that you are making a show of yourself and a lot of a bad a lot

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of things. It's it's completely

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making a show of yourself to be honest.

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This always exists in every religious cult, everything you do.

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There's there's there's two Sundar

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which is making a show out of things, okay. And showing off. So

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cannot he hated this to Sunday.

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And he used to focus and there's a group that propped up in Islam,

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that some of it is good and some of it is bad. And that group are

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called the

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what are they called a genre? That group

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swannell, other names given my mind this group, malema, Tia, the

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mullah Amity, the mullah Mattia, were a group of people that they

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wanted to purify their intention so much that they want they made

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themselves appear like regular people. That's where it started as

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good, right?

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When they would just not put anything on themselves that would

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show that they're doing any extra about it mean, namely, they would

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just do all their I bet at home, they would never wear anything

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that would make people think they're devoted, right? That to

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that had this fine. But they had extremists after that. And those

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extremists went to the point of not doing saunas, and doing mcru

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hats, right doing things out of my crew. And that's where we would

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say no, that's not acceptable at that point. They haven't entered

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the Haram

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just the macro, right, and they left off certain Sunon right. So

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that was also could in some meth hubs is unacceptable without a

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reason. Sinful, okay, leaving off Santa Monica for no reason and

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some methods of sinful believing.

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So

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there's a big discussion about that and

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that's that group is called the Manasa T.

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Right for some reason the TV is on some connection guide. Could you

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just click off that thing?

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So I can see the comments coming up.

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He says, The NLQ Allah Allah be Jamia and Marcia Habyarimana Allah

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will be better it's it's a sunnah to meet Allah with all the sins in

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the world is better than to sunnah.

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sunnah RIA worshipping Allah for other than his sake

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we'll call it either eight and Movidius double barrel rockers

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valen Manola juman O'Shea when someone just starts up in the deen

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and the whole time and he was all with the rockets rocks, rocks,

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rocks, rocks amines oh there's a real there's like a federal for

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this. There's a federal for that there's a federal for this. He's

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lazy. He has no commitment. He has no nothing. Okay? He has no

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discipline he has no desire to make any sacrifices. This is not

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the way of someone who's claiming that they want to draw near to a

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long go to the path of Allah if it's a regular guy who just trying

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to avoid haram in his life. That's his business but he's not that's

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not a modied to regular common Muslim.

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Right to Alpha it's a Sufi if you saw batil death Omar charlatan a

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debt

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the flaws of the Merida develop when they keep the company of

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young people who are still into the dunya

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people who

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are seeking the dunya seeking the opposite. People who are not

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interested in knowledge you keep their company too much you're

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gonna get affected

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what kinds of ll Junaid adakah low Tom and Tom enough sick of it and

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Dr. herland to look bad. Bella, may Allah Allah not make you the

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way I understand this is someone who tastes the sweetness of the

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knifes the showing off of the neffs. Why? Because it can be so

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tempting that you end up

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getting addicted to that and never moving beyond that.

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Ibrahima Ripley

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Okay, and may I refer if that will help Kalama who have courage and

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Colima home

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metaphor of Allah to Allah, he says is based upon knowing the

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truth and separating it from Elohim. I will have our beliefs

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that people have that truly have no basis. These are called Elohim

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Makala al Qudra VA Hera well i uni, you don't have to have. Well

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I can Anwar all beside the cacao fats. Okay, Elko Dravo Hara Quadra

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is their eyes are open, your limbs are healthy. But the inner eye is

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weak, criticizing the situation in his time off with healthy mandava

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the Android the ship the audition, at the weakest of the creation, is

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the one who cannot repel his desires. And the strongest of the

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creation is the one who is able to control his temptations.

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Isn't that the truth? And isn't every destruction of people? Isn't

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the destruction of all people? Good.

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All right, the destruction of all people

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all about

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desires. How to presidents collapse desires?

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Using the desire for ease at some point becomes desire, the one who

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could bear the most hardship

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who is the strongest endow Is it the strongest in knowledge? Not

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necessarily. It's the one who is can take the most hits. That's the

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one who will last the longest endow the one who could hits

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doesn't have to be criticism from people could be failures. We tried

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this and it failed, tried that and failed, tried this and it failed.

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Next is our motive and I thought I ruined the berry.

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Yaku Ali, Agnes aid and mercy sumio to Alma Janata Ruda Barry

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yaku Contura Keven gemenon I will he says I was riding a camel for a

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while so read eulen

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For Vasa to religion as Gemma LUFA rumley

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For us at original Lu l Germany, there's a mistake here. So the

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foot of the camel sunk into the sent for call to jalala for kala

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al jamberoo janela ajeeb Subhan Allah will peeler Kana Abu

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Abdullah rue de berry AEMC Allah Averell Fukuro used to imitate and

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he used to go in the paths of the poor

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Yeoman kava Kennett, either to an MC Allah fre McCann William Duna

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Illa Dawa for kala incent, then he was invited somewhere and one

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person said how Allah al Musa Luna was a column ally and they spoke

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ill and a man spoke ill of them, him and the poor people. Okay,

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we'll call it Athena Academy him in our head the men whom got stuck

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Corrado mini me at Durham Willamina Ruda Well, let's to edit

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he ain't at Lobo fella. Medaka Lou Daraa Dawa call Abu Abdullah Ahmed

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zip nada rue the very resaw heavy dar okay I mean Mohammed behead he

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thought ever. So he's with the poor the poor were invited and one

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man is bashing them. He said, Oh, this guy always be 100 gold coins.

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They're no good these people.

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So what that man who owes the 100 gold coins, he says to the

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to the owner of the house who loves these people. He loves the

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football and the poor and the worshipers and all that. He says

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it didn't even it didn't come in, in the school Nickleby right? If

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you want my heart to be at ease, give me 100 dirhams for adobea

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immediately he's a rich man. He loves these port worshipers give

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them 100 dirhams for color rebel, the US hobby mill had the

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colorful and so he said to one of the people the youth go and give

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it to the guy who we owe him the money and tell him heavy Hill

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lettuce Takara Herman kebab wasabia So he said, This is what

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you are owed by one of our people. So it wasn't the it wasn't the one

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who owed who asked the money. The leader the shape of this group

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asked the money and he said go pay and pay off the debt.

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And tell him catwalk follow fit that really Beholder he had an

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excuse he had a reason that he didn't pay you. What cut Bertha l

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n FAAC Belotero so except his excuse and here's the money from

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other rajulio will fall for a mirage Oh Mina Zhaohua

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Mara Maru behind

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so they pass by the call a second time. Okay, as they left the

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invitation they passed by that shop a second time for alcohol

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coffee met him. Now the buckle said these people are excellent.

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Okay, how old are homeless two cots and Omona a Solahart. These

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people you can trust them. So so much of our deen comes from

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good business practices and what is good business practices? Pay

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what you're owed, deliver the service you promised. That's how

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simple it is. What is a good credit bad credit in our country?

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Is it anything other than

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you paid up on time? That's what good credit and bad credit is. I

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know some people that have an issue happens they go out and they

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fix their credit by buying something on credit and paying it

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right away. And they keep doing this a couple times, right? Until

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the credit gets score gets better.

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But the idea of of of

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of being an upright person in the community is very simple. You said

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you'd fix you build me a wall build me a wall you said you'd

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drop me off from point A to point B. I mean, how many how much did

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these airlines

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they have some bad business practice they overbooked the

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seats. The planes

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out a ticket one time this year. I got there. I was the first one out

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the gate. I was the first one out the gate. I was there. So in

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advance before even the lady that checks your your that checks you

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into the plane before she even arrived.

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I get there. And I go to on the first one there. They say come to

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the side. I said what's going on? This is like two hours later. She

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said we might not have a seat for you. So cow how that we overbooked

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luckily Subhanallah just by some

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situation, that one person didn't come on the flight. Then they let

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me in. I was like, I explained this to me. Explain this to me. I

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bought a ticket on the first one here. They said yeah, we randomly

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pick somebody and that person has to be he's gonna get swapped out.

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Why is it because when one of our United Airlines workers wants to

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go back home, right?

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We knock off a customer.

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Just business is not that hard. Deliver what you said you deliver.

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About homing kuliah cobia and Sophie Shahi the most ugly thing

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I've ever seen is a stingy Sufi why you're not supposed to love

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the dunya he's supposed to give it away. How could you be stingy and

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call yourself a person? Sophie here just meaning not like some

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kind of weird tariqa that's floating around and go into

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claiming that he's flying around and writing carpets? No we're just

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talking to someone someone trying to draw near to Allah that's what

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they mean here when they say that so head good

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Could you tell the browser browser is asking the question of how he

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can keep a miss whack overnight. What do you mean Yeah, and he's

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gonna run away

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What do you mean how do you keep it overnight you put it on the on

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the dresser

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there's no secrets about it

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right this explained to me maybe I'm missing something

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you only dip it it tip of it in water the day that you need to you

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get it to moisten it up so you can cut it right and then you chew it

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open

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and then that's it every once in a while you clean it out and every

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once in awhile you chop off the extra thing

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you know the excess that's it

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it's gonna dry out

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the miswak is not going to be moist forever. Okay, we need to

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keep mine in a safe

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for brother got got got made fun of some of your sins came off

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that's a good

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event then says another one Ahmed Mohammed Rhoda very well, so Allah

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Abu Ali,

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on many estem Island Mala he someone who listens to go to

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listens to musicians and so

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he li halili and he was sold to Ala Daraa jet lagged to assert VFT

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Lefortovo Alpha kala Nam Cadore. Salah kanila soccer. All right, a

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man said to him, said to him there was a man.

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He says that he can listen to music because it doesn't affect

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his state. He has been he says I have arrived at a station where

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I'm not affected anymore.

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So they said what do you say about this? He says yeah, he arrived to

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jahannam with that statement say that

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once you get to the point that the Haram has become halal for you

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because I'm a Sufi has not affected by this.

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Whatsoever ill and to solve for color. Have collegiate. It is the

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way of everyone's serious about the dean. Fella tackling to wish a

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minute has

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right this is for seriousness don't mix it with silliness.

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silliness, meaning cutting corners of the dean,

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mean Allah metal etc, and to see and to see for your sin Allahu La

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Subhan Allah, the sign that you're being duped by a police, you

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commit sins, and then all of a sudden you see good things

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happening to you.

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So you say then I'm good. I don't need to make Toba for that through

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kotoba well Inaba, so we're human and NACA, NACA to Sam, Phil. Phil

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have a word. So you say Allah doesn't mind that stuff for Allah,

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you're off. You're completely astray at this point. Well, why is

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all this good thing happening to me? If I'm committing sins, good

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sins is not determined by what happens to you. Since it's

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determined by the book and the Sunnah. That's it. And you may be

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receiving a lot of kairos

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as a test.

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I remember shaking her head was telling a story about like a guy

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who, every time he would commit a sin, something bad would happen to

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him, like right away. And then eventually he would commit the

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same sense. And it stopped happening and you got really

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worried. And I was like, why Matoba Subhan Allah, the opposite,

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because

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they should be worried if you commit some Masia and then nothing

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happens like you don't get fined.

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You don't like lose something that's precious to you. Like

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nothing bad happens that seemed that would compensate that sin.

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Take away that sense. Even sometimes feeling miserable is

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what it is, right? This is to drudge. It's what it's called when

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life goes really good. At the same time, your dean is going really

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bad. And you're not recognizing it. You're not making Toba. If

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you're making Toba, you could say that's Allah generosity is still

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being generous to you. And also, let's talk about something else.

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The generosity Allah may be giving it to you, is for your kids. We

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have to consider that to Allah may be giving being generous to you.

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For the simple reason that you're helping other people, let's say

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someone who cures cancer, let's say our main man who does eye

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surgeries, and let's just put his thing up on the screen for a

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second there. Let's say it's Ocean County, retin.

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The man has responsibilities. He goes and he fixes people's eyes,

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right? Now Allah to Allah will then therefore for their sake,

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always ensure he's healthy. His arms work, his eyes work, his feet

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work. Allah has always guarding him from from ever having to not

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go to work anymore. Okay.

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For other people, so the generosity that's coming to you

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don't think Oh ALLAH is being nice to me. Maybe maybe not. Okay.

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So it could be for other people that Allah is enriching you

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because you help other people. And that's why khidmat to other people

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is the best source of forgiveness. Okay. So, halal and haram is known

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by the by the Quran by the book by the Sunnah by the law, not by

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how Allah's being good to you or not.

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And tilba is required from every okay for every sin regardless of

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how you feel about it, regardless

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of how

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things are going in your life, all that stuff. Okay.

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It is, it is a big difference between the cassava it that are

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sung by the voice and our method of inculcating remembrance of

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Allah and lessons, those cassava it the only time they are mcru is

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when a person

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is distracted from the Senate Quran by them. That's the only

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time we smoke. Other than that is how that all times and even men do

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because you're remembering Allah, you're learning lessons, it

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touches the heart. It's good for you to do that in the time of the

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prophets I send them to Allah Matt said was the mcomber poetry has

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sent Ben Savitz would he

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recite poems How would he recite poems with with the melody and it

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would move people's hearts? That's acceptable and good? As long as it

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does not do Moza humma which means displace the Quran then we'd say

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your knocks and this is now you took and taken something good and

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pushed out something better. The best of speech that's a problem.

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Good

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can stir the soul waffle Junaid will fill 50 I will Abbas ignition

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right we will add the Vita Allah

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Philadelphia Ibrahim Al harbi he says into so if I had to know

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stuff in FIP I had a shift in in literature Adam and Arabic

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leadership in Hadith I had a shift

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next is Mohammed Zhu Jaggi entry number 45. So Illa Abu Ammar

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Maribel Luca taka year in the tech beer rattle Gula Phil, I see that

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you change completely at the first ticket veto in the obligations. He

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says Leon knee AXA and after Jeffery Dotty Bickle aphasic I'm

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afraid to open up my obligation, not having said so before he opens

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up his ticket to the Haram his salah. They see him changing, so

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he's cleaning his intention centrally.

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For men Yeah, cool. Allahu Akbar. What vehicle Vijay Akbar minimal.

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Someone says Allah Akbar. In reality, something greater is

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bigger in his heart. Oh Kabara che ncwa who Allah Moodle Alcott over

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time, something else besides Allah is bigger in your heart. And

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therefore, hypocrisy in your tech

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to cut cut the benefits to Hualalai Sani and he betrays his

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own neffs with his own tongue when he says a lot, but it's a lie.

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society

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will call them into Kalama and Harlan let me also delay Kalama

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who fits pneumonia smell why there are words that a wallet vehicle

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boo hoo wah, wah ha Rama hola hola, hola. Minute, also the

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electrical hull. Now listen to this. If you're talking about a

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spiritual state, that you've never experienced, that speech is a

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fitna to somebody else. And it's a Akyuz. It's a claim that you're

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making that Allah will test you on. Okay? It's a claim that you're

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making.

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Right? And Allah will test your claims. And Allah forbid you from

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entering into a state that you showed off about without a

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training, right? This is why you don't make claims. Now, if you

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actually have experienced a state of spiritual station and a state,

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when you talk about it to people, you will make them understand it

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with ease. Okay? Now,

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let me give you an example.

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If I come to you, and I tell you how to make it into med school,

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that talk is nonsense. Because I never did.

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If a doctor comes and tells you,

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it'll be easy, and it will be true. Okay, so that's the

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difference. You can only really truly speak about what you've

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done. Talk is means nothing. Okay? Talk means nothing. All that

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matters, is what you've actually done. Okay?

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If you've done it,

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okay. If you've done it, then you can explain it to people.

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If you have trouble explaining to people, then you haven't done it.

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Alright, Ryan has another split screen for us. We'll go up in a

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second.

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Waka Jawaban Marchesini in Kathira waldameer Tata Harville haram.

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Belkin acreage, l Hill leeway to toe Harvia Rahman Al haram.

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He used to make his taharah outside the Haram not in the

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hunter, out of respect to it.

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Abu Bakr raka ZocDoc

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What did he say? He was one of the companions of Geneva Sadek to

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Lima Mata Abu Bakr is a cop in Qatar, who had just tuned for

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Karachi, we're to call him miss.

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When Abu Bakr is the COC died.

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A lot of Fukada could no longer make Hajj or visit Egypt, because

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he was paying for it the whole time.

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He was paying for it.

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Got him and let me just have put duck a took off he fuckery he Kal

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el haram Alma. If you do not have Taqwa while you're poor, what's

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going to end up happening with you? You will eat the Haram you

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will commit sins to gain your disk. Okay.

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Well, Carla,

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Tahiti FET heat Benny Israel, it comes to Ashura. Yeoman, Toto.

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Toto. I was lost in an area of Benissa eat for 15 days.

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Finally when I got back

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to the road is stuck. Belani jhandi For Sacani Sherpa met when

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I finally got back to the road I saw there a soldier and officer he

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gave me water

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for that

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Cause what we call Viva la Athena Santa.

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Good. And that cause a rusts over my heart for 30 years.

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Why is that? Perhaps that the wealth taken by the government was

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Honam.

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That's why he's saying, announcement today we are going to

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be with Chucky acid family. This is going to be online. Look it up.

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Where does it say?

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Okay, prophetic living is the website. We're going to be here.

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Which if you acid family, again, prophetic living is the website.

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The YouTube channel Sorry youtube.com forward slash

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prophetic living it's going to be a day. It's an event that he does

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every Thursday called thicker and thicker. Okay.

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All right, Victor and Victor

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zyk well fix how's that? Yeah.

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All right, let's start taking your q&a and your comments. What do

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people have here today?

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The deal of has cemeteries all over the setup.

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No, it wasn't singing it was melodiously saying the poetry the

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poetry was always said melodiously the poetry was never just said.

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In a regular tone, it was always said with some melody to it.

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Occasionally, that could be that it has melody. Yeah. It's not just

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speech, it's a rhythm or whatever, it is a scale or whatever.

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They they also term it like when they when they would travel. They

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would, they would say a poetry in a melodious way that would make

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the camels move. Okay. And that's how they would recite poetry.

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Poetry was not recited. Just like the way we're talking. Like this.

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Was not recited like that. It was recited it was stated it was

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setting up melodious metal

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I saw this thing somebody sent me that a bear kills a moose in a

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nature wedding. There was a nature wedding at a pond. A nature

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wedding. Yeah. You know, like some people get married in nature. Oh,

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no, no.

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So

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they ended up across the street. A moose got mauled. And, and a bear.

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Bear Bear wants to eat. Right.

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Moose are huge. And made a lot of noise. Okay.

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And you should see the shock on these people's face as if they did

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you know that animals have to eat each other. Like they're shocked

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you want for a nature wedding nature showed up? Right? You got

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an eight year wedding, right? That's what you asked for. Okay.

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For the people who take my Thursday night class

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we are still going we're just taking the class

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at shift Yes.

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The link will be sent out to ArcView okay

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yeah.

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You should you should literally see, it's as if, like, have you

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ever watched an intro channel? Do you think that they're faking it?

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Animals eat other animals right? Like the oh my god I can't believe

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what's happening. What what did you think is going on?

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Yeah.

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Oh?

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Is his hypnosis and psychotherapy permissible?

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I don't know what they do to be quite honest with you. I really do

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not know someone says Sit down at the table and listen to these

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you know tones or something and talk about your problems. I really

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don't know what they do to be quite honest with you.

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What was the miracle of profit? No. Since all profits should have

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miracles as proof his prediction of the flood is the biggest one

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that's its prediction of the flood.

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Yeah, and his that is the biggest one because it the flood didn't

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happen overnight. It will happen over the day.

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With light rain that got heavier and heavier. Why does that is to

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give people last chance to believe and he's man prophet has been

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saying that there's going to be a flood for years.

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Okay, how many years? So much so that uh,

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loss of Hannah which Allah in order to make sure that everyone

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hears it. He told said he told Satan to know that you

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you will build,

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you will build the ark from wood of trees that you will grow

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yourself. How much wood Do you think that took? How many trees?

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How long does that take for a tree to grow? 50 years 100 years. So,

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for that long, he was telling people that there's going to be a

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flood.

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Okay?

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So when it finally starts flooding,

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that's a miracle. Now you all get onto your

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get onto your Ark.

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If one has a lot of sloth to make up from when you were a teenager,

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and you didn't know how to pray, should you only pray or makeup so

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and leave off Sunday? Yes.

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That was questioned by ex four slash forward slash Mohammed

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Chicky.

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How do you know has an authentic assessment avid used to recite the

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casita? Yes, with the melody.

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If you look into the books that they will talk about, there was a

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way in which they used to when they recited poems, they said, Do

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I have a direct pneus? I'll have to look it up for you. But it's

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sort of one of those things that's well known. What is Flickr, we

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know about Zikr. But what is FIQ? Thought, contemplation,

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contemplating learning,

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contemplation, mainly more contemplation than learning?

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Learning is?

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Is a transmit it's a transmission from a shift to you that's Taleem

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flicker is you yourself are thinking about

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it you thinking about

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the you know the revelation and things. Where can I find the dua

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after the hood on Wednesday.

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It's called his Ben Nussle. Immerman had that by the way we

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read it

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at that time, that dua is meant to be read every day after the

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so the it that is not specifically related to the dua of the hood in

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Austin on Wednesday,

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you make any dua, but that one that you want is called husband

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pneus.

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And you will have to make that clear to people regularly.

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As I was waiting for the stream, I saw this clip from him feed from

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people saving a woman from the rubble and she refused to get out

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without her hijab unbelievable so the rescue team had to get her one

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spot a lot of them unbelievable. days later and they still care

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about the Shut up.

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What God's laws

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I don't know what sense and Medic what your what you mean by that. I

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don't have no knowledge about that.

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Muneeb have I met from the next Monday Haqqani? No, I've never met

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one of them.

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No, it was not too late for them to Sam is saying if the miracle

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was the flood prediction, isn't it too late? No, it's not too late.

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It didn't just suddenly get flooded, right takes time. And

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he's there. They know where he is word spread. We all know where he

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is. And he said to his son come on to the ark, which means there's

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still time for him to believe but his son chose not to

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get

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how do you stay motivated to keep making dua The door itself should

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be a source of relief for you because you're talking to your

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Creator. And he wants this he wants you to keep going. He loves

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for you to keep going

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and know that things take time.

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The more you keep going the chance, the greater your chances

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of a job.

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How can we make Dawa to non Muslims at college and make them

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interested in this lamp? Invite them to Muslim gatherings so that

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they can meet Muslim people and see that across the board these

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people they lie less they backbite less you know their life without

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alcohol is that's what it looks like. Like they don't have those

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problems. They may not have also the problems related to

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romantic dramas that happen. Right? I had a youth the other day

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say to me that the life of a Muslim just by the fact that they

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cannot you can't touch the opposite gender. That eliminates

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and this was a middle schooler telling me it eliminates literally

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like 70% of your problems. The just the fact that you cannot ever

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touch the opposite gender means that in

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Your mind this relationship will not you know it's not going to a

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

certain limit. So sometimes you don't even get involved in if that

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was your motivation right so

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yeah

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yeah.

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Gambling, alcohol A WOMAN

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Yeah. So, but here's the evidence How do you if I could say that to

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somebody means nothing to them, but they live and they hang out

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with Muslims for a period of time, then they go hang out with their

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non Muslim friends then they go back to the Muslims they will see

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by themselves a difference that this religion regular people who

00:35:42 --> 00:35:46

practice this religion do not have these problems. Right? This is not

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a theory this is practice that's to me I think is the best source

00:35:49 --> 00:35:50

of doubt.

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Here's a question does swearing cursing cause you will do to be

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broken no it does not it's sinful but this year we'll do is talk

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about

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what's the best protection against negative thoughts from others

00:36:04 --> 00:36:07

regarding ambitious plans when working for Allah sake keep your

00:36:07 --> 00:36:11

plans to yourself say naughty said this. Keep your plans to yourself.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

Did not tell it to anyone except those who are going to help you?

00:36:24 --> 00:36:27

Should protein powders come from a halal source? Yes, they should.

00:36:28 --> 00:36:32

Protein powder that you take. Is it you must come from a halal

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

source. Okay.

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Yeah.

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What's that? Vegan Protein powder, which is what made it like beans

00:36:41 --> 00:36:46

or legumes? By the way, there's another thing I'm on to these

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days. You got to try it next time we go to a DC restaurant. There

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

chickpeas. Desi chickpeas.

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Yeah, with the with the curry. Yeah. How good was those? Oh,

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stuff was amazing.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:02

Yeah.

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

You had a whole pack of gum afterwards. But still?

00:37:07 --> 00:37:10

What's your advice to young Muslim women today?

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And what was the best advice given to me in my life?

00:37:18 --> 00:37:20

Okay, that's a very good question.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

First of all,

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because I'm not a woman,

00:37:27 --> 00:37:31

it's going to be limited what I have to tell you, but just just

00:37:31 --> 00:37:34

because I'm not a woman, doesn't mean I can't speak on their behalf

00:37:34 --> 00:37:38

because I I have relatives who are a woman I have a wife who's a

00:37:38 --> 00:37:42

woman and I have a daughter who are becoming women and I'm seeing

00:37:42 --> 00:37:45

what they're going through and what benefits them

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

and from what I've heard,

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

and essentially what my wife hammers in

00:37:54 --> 00:37:55

you know,

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when she talks about this hammer has a meaning like she repeats

00:37:59 --> 00:38:03

what she thinks is that this is the best advice the strong friend

00:38:03 --> 00:38:07

group from when you're a little girl the righteous friend group

00:38:09 --> 00:38:12

and I see her sifting through people this one no

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that one

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not we're not gonna hang out with that family.

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This family Yes, I would like you to hang out with that family.

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

Right.

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And, and I think that that that that to me is the best advice for

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young Muslim woman

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makes Islam easy, and it makes it with your friends.

00:38:33 --> 00:38:36

something enjoyable to do and it becomes just your DNA.

00:38:38 --> 00:38:41

After a few years, you physically can't do anything else like your

00:38:41 --> 00:38:45

your fitrah will reject it. I think that is the best advice for

00:38:45 --> 00:38:51

for most women. I would say for a Muslim man today for Muslim men

00:38:53 --> 00:38:59

is the master of life. When I see guys deviate from the master, like

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they never show up anymore. It's never a good sign. And when I see

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

people come to the master lot, their life always gets better.

00:39:07 --> 00:39:11

And the best advice I personally got was seek knowledge. That's the

00:39:11 --> 00:39:11

best advice

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ignorant ignorance.

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Ignorance of Dean

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ignorance of Dean okay.

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No, it says this is the worst thing. Knowledge of the dean is

00:39:26 --> 00:39:30

the best asset you could ever have in your life. I guarantee you that

00:39:34 --> 00:39:37

my urine will be clear and effective if it did for Allah

00:39:37 --> 00:39:38

Juan's good for him what good?

00:39:39 --> 00:39:42

Did Allah say If Allah wants the good of the afterlife for him?

00:39:44 --> 00:39:48

If Allah wants the good of the deen for him, no good if Allah

00:39:48 --> 00:39:51

wills good for tea gives them knowledge and the deep that

00:39:51 --> 00:39:55

knowledge of Dean will let your house home life be good your work

00:39:55 --> 00:39:57

life be good, your spiritual life be good your emotional life be

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

good, your physical life be good everything will be fine.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:01

to life, everything will be good.

00:40:03 --> 00:40:07

If you practice what you learn, but you got to have something to

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practice, you got to know stuff. You cannot have piety. If you

00:40:11 --> 00:40:15

don't know what's haram, you cannot have be pious if you don't

00:40:15 --> 00:40:20

know what's obligatory. Right? And then sunnah and then mcru cents

00:40:20 --> 00:40:24

and Matic says if beef gelatin is in a vitamin tablet, is it

00:40:24 --> 00:40:25

permissible?

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I would just stay away from all that stuff.

00:40:29 --> 00:40:30

I would stay away from all that stuff.

00:40:33 --> 00:40:35

What's the best way to learn knowledge of the deen? It seems

00:40:35 --> 00:40:38

maybe it's heavy for some people imagine someone came up to you say

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

listen, you need to learn Japanese.

00:40:40 --> 00:40:42

I personally would not be able to learn Japanese.

00:40:44 --> 00:40:48

I will find it too heavy. But if you tell me there's a Japanese

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

community center there and they're doing these fun things.

00:40:52 --> 00:40:55

All of a sudden it's easy. Right? becomes easy I go hang out with

00:40:55 --> 00:40:59

those people eat with them hang out. I'll pick up Japanese

00:41:00 --> 00:41:04

that's what the message is all about right? Learn the Dean go to

00:41:04 --> 00:41:04

these

00:41:05 --> 00:41:08

and not every message is going to be to your fitting that's why

00:41:08 --> 00:41:13

there's it's good to have many massages in a city. One Masjid

00:41:13 --> 00:41:15

Nah, it's something that's not my vibe. Okay, Masha, Allah the

00:41:15 --> 00:41:16

wonderful group, it's not my but

00:41:17 --> 00:41:22

you go somewhere else that is your age group, your mentality, your

00:41:22 --> 00:41:26

everything else. Right. That's how that's that's who you're going to

00:41:26 --> 00:41:26

vibe with.

00:41:28 --> 00:41:31

To use the terms of the youth right now.

00:41:33 --> 00:41:36

I know picking another methods opinion,

00:41:37 --> 00:41:40

says Aw. fatuous shopping is blameworthy, however, is it

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

blameworthy to pick a weaker opinion within your own method for

00:41:42 --> 00:41:43

ease? Yes, it is.

00:41:47 --> 00:41:50

It but if the opinion has strength to it.

00:41:51 --> 00:41:54

It's not the opinion but it has strength to it, then it's less of

00:41:54 --> 00:42:01

an issue. less of an issue. And M says is financial stability,

00:42:01 --> 00:42:06

important overclock of a person in a matter of accepting a marriage

00:42:06 --> 00:42:09

proposal. Like he's 30 presents financially stable 70 resident

00:42:09 --> 00:42:15

good character, go to go for the dean and the o'clock and the

00:42:15 --> 00:42:19

potential the ability in the future to earn

00:42:20 --> 00:42:23

it doesn't have to be set right now. The province I set him said

00:42:23 --> 00:42:25

Yo, can you come Allah Allah will make you

00:42:27 --> 00:42:31

a Quran unique from Allah Who fondly Allah will

00:42:34 --> 00:42:41

increase your risk. So but what he should show is the ability the

00:42:41 --> 00:42:45

potential the skill, like Does he have a skill? Does he have a work

00:42:45 --> 00:42:48

ethic? That's what you look for. He doesn't have to be a maid man

00:42:48 --> 00:42:50

now or even near that.

00:42:51 --> 00:42:55

That's what if it as a future inshallah

00:42:58 --> 00:43:03

father who's receiving husbands or suitors, I would look at the

00:43:03 --> 00:43:05

o'clock on the Dean as a prophet said,

00:43:06 --> 00:43:10

I would look at the family, I would look at the work ethic and

00:43:10 --> 00:43:16

the the skill that he has. Right? If he comes in, he says, Oh, I got

00:43:17 --> 00:43:21

a PhD in Shakespeare. Okay, what the heck? Who's going to hire

00:43:21 --> 00:43:26

that? Write your answer speech? She could be that she's the wife.

00:43:26 --> 00:43:26

Right?

00:43:30 --> 00:43:31

With who?

00:43:33 --> 00:43:35

Yeah, we're playing the whole. Are you serious?

00:43:38 --> 00:43:41

She's friends with an actor. Interesting. That's why she could

00:43:41 --> 00:43:44

be a Shakespeare. Professor Shakespeare doesn't have to pay

00:43:44 --> 00:43:48

for anything. Right. So that's what I would look for the

00:43:48 --> 00:43:51

potential it doesn't have to have it now. But I see like you have a

00:43:51 --> 00:43:54

track in mind. Yes. Do you have a skill in mind? Have you learned?

00:43:55 --> 00:44:00

Alright, yes. Then I would say okay, you've checked off that box.

00:44:01 --> 00:44:06

Let's see Phil Isla he can we gravestone get gravestones? Are

00:44:06 --> 00:44:12

they Haram are there limits? The stone that does not have in it?

00:44:14 --> 00:44:17

Showing off it does not have access in it? It's just a piece of

00:44:17 --> 00:44:23

slab of stone or marble that has the name. It's acceptable. I did

00:44:23 --> 00:44:27

not I don't recommend people putting Name of Allah on it. Birds

00:44:27 --> 00:44:31

will come animal can come on that. That doesn't make any sense. The

00:44:31 --> 00:44:35

elevated ones. There's probably some questions in fic about that.

00:44:36 --> 00:44:38

And there may be starting out competing people in the

00:44:38 --> 00:44:43

gravestones, the Muslims, the Sunnah, as we know, is flat. They

00:44:43 --> 00:44:47

used to put like little gazebo rows attached to the grave because

00:44:47 --> 00:44:50

so people could sit there in the shade. That's fine as a gazebo,

00:44:50 --> 00:44:54

right. And in the Shafi school at the end towards their history,

00:44:54 --> 00:44:57

they used to honor the scholars with a dome over his grave

00:44:58 --> 00:44:59

debatable, right

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

What is the wisdom of sending the final messenger to the Arab

00:45:06 --> 00:45:07

people? So some,

00:45:08 --> 00:45:11

some Allah what He was saying, well, first of all, as you said,

00:45:11 --> 00:45:14

wisdom, wisdom, we all speculate what the wisdom is. Allah did not

00:45:14 --> 00:45:19

tell us exactly, but the wisdom is, is that number one, that the

00:45:19 --> 00:45:23

messengers, the Arab people were so basic, they're the lowest

00:45:23 --> 00:45:27

common denominator of human life, the way they lived was so basic.

00:45:27 --> 00:45:33

So the Prophet has to come to the most basic of people. Okay, and if

00:45:33 --> 00:45:37

they can get it, and they could practice it, then those above them

00:45:37 --> 00:45:40

in civilization can definitely get it and practice it. That's number

00:45:40 --> 00:45:46

one. Number two, the they're easy to change. If you come to like, if

00:45:46 --> 00:45:49

someone came to America, how could you change America right now? How

00:45:49 --> 00:45:52

could you change the Romans? There are too many institutions, it's so

00:45:52 --> 00:45:57

difficult. So you cannot put a whole lesson of transformation in

00:45:57 --> 00:46:01

one lifetime for them 23 years but you can with ABS that's what one

00:46:01 --> 00:46:04

of the things six items on a booty says one of the wisdoms is that

00:46:04 --> 00:46:05

they

00:46:07 --> 00:46:11

they were so easy to change, because their life was so simple

00:46:11 --> 00:46:15

not to say it was easy. But they didn't have the trappings of

00:46:15 --> 00:46:18

institutions and governments and things like that, that would make

00:46:18 --> 00:46:20

it impossible to change in one generation.

00:46:21 --> 00:46:26

So it was hard, but it was doable in one generation. And the other

00:46:26 --> 00:46:30

thing they said is that the the Arab, the Arabs had essentially a

00:46:30 --> 00:46:34

language and the book The miracle, the Prophet was a book, it was

00:46:34 --> 00:46:40

words, the Arabs had the most expressive language. Secondly, it

00:46:40 --> 00:46:41

was about transmission.

00:46:42 --> 00:46:47

So you come to people that don't use pen and paper, their memories

00:46:47 --> 00:46:51

are extremely strong. So mass transmission became very easy with

00:46:51 --> 00:46:53

them. They all memorized everything right away.

00:46:54 --> 00:46:55

They were able to transmit.

00:46:57 --> 00:47:01

On top of that, allow them there are other some other wisdoms such

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

that the Arabs for example,

00:47:04 --> 00:47:09

the simplicity of the life, they there, they represented the

00:47:10 --> 00:47:15

primordial human being, life is so simple basic needs is all they go

00:47:15 --> 00:47:17

for. Right on alone as best.

00:47:19 --> 00:47:22

It's also Arabia actually is the center of the world. If you look

00:47:22 --> 00:47:26

at you have Africa to the to the west

00:47:27 --> 00:47:29

Shem, which leads you to Europe,

00:47:31 --> 00:47:36

Anatolia in that area, to the north, northwest Persia to the

00:47:36 --> 00:47:42

northeast, Indians right there to southeast. So it's a very central

00:47:42 --> 00:47:42

location.

00:47:44 --> 00:47:47

It's also a place that had no prior

00:47:48 --> 00:47:53

legacy. Nobody goes to Arabia except for Islam. Nothing raised

00:47:53 --> 00:47:58

up the Muslims, the Arabs except Islam. So you don't want to go to

00:47:58 --> 00:48:01

Rome. Okay, you're wrong. Right? We expect you to rise up, right?

00:48:03 --> 00:48:05

That's idea. Yeah.

00:48:06 --> 00:48:09

There you go place that is a zero, complete and utter zero.

00:48:10 --> 00:48:13

Then these people rise up, you know, for sure they rose up

00:48:13 --> 00:48:14

because of Islam.

00:48:15 --> 00:48:18

How can I advise a friend who was going through depression and

00:48:18 --> 00:48:20

anxiety about their future? What I mean is they don't know their

00:48:20 --> 00:48:21

goal?

00:48:23 --> 00:48:28

How can we improve our patients and get motivated? I think that

00:48:30 --> 00:48:34

these things are to be honest with you a lot simpler than people

00:48:34 --> 00:48:40

think. Which isn't to belittle the situation. But close your eyes,

00:48:41 --> 00:48:45

and daydream. That's sometimes the best way to get out of a funk. I

00:48:45 --> 00:48:49

close your eyes. And imagine somebody says, your mind right now

00:48:49 --> 00:48:55

is a canvas, it's a movie screen. Play the movie, that that you

00:48:55 --> 00:48:59

would get you excited, like movie of your life, like what would your

00:48:59 --> 00:49:01

life look like that would get you excited?

00:49:02 --> 00:49:06

Immediately start feeling better, just thinking about it. Right?

00:49:07 --> 00:49:08

Just thinking about it.

00:49:09 --> 00:49:12

Start feeling great. And keep thinking about it, keep thinking

00:49:12 --> 00:49:15

about keep thinking about it, keep playing that and develop that

00:49:15 --> 00:49:21

movie. That's all fake in in the imagination. But that's isn't that

00:49:21 --> 00:49:25

where everything starts to play that movie in your mind, immediate

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

start feeling better. Now.

00:49:28 --> 00:49:34

Nothing exists, except that is composed of simple parts in Mantap

00:49:37 --> 00:49:42

Ulma novelry, which occur when Minilite Maruti write a complex

00:49:42 --> 00:49:46

idea like a complex mathematical equation, what is it consists of

00:49:47 --> 00:49:52

simple things, write very simple things. Very simple mathematical

00:49:52 --> 00:49:53

formulas.

00:49:54 --> 00:49:59

So that dream that you have. It may be extremely complex in your

00:49:59 --> 00:50:00

mind.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:04

And but it is composed of very simple things. So you start

00:50:04 --> 00:50:08

working on those simple things and when you work towards a goal

00:50:08 --> 00:50:12

that's the best way to remove your depression that's my that's that's

00:50:12 --> 00:50:17

my two cents as a non psychiatrist or psychologist

00:50:21 --> 00:50:24

Emma says Hana fees and Chevy say when reading Quran and Salah your

00:50:24 --> 00:50:29

own ears need to hear that is correct. If it is an outlet out

00:50:29 --> 00:50:31

loud prayer that's the bare minimum of outlet

00:50:40 --> 00:50:45

Okay, every let's say five people are praying, slots, and out loud

00:50:45 --> 00:50:48

prayer. Everyone should hear themselves. As long as you hear

00:50:48 --> 00:50:51

yourself you fulfill the function of being out loud. That's it.

00:50:54 --> 00:50:58

Dino says is the story of Gabriel filling frowns mouth with mud? So

00:50:58 --> 00:51:02

here? Yes, it is. If so, isn't repentance in the heart? What's

00:51:02 --> 00:51:04

the point of preventing the utterance?

00:51:08 --> 00:51:10

He prevented other people

00:51:11 --> 00:51:14

from believing. So he's now earning his punishment.

00:51:16 --> 00:51:18

Okay, and

00:51:23 --> 00:51:26

the question of repentance in the heart?

00:51:27 --> 00:51:32

Yes, it is. But the shahada is not. The testimony of faith is not

00:51:32 --> 00:51:37

it has to be on the tongue. So that was the beginning of his the

00:51:37 --> 00:51:42

idea that the door being closed that few minutes or that few

00:51:42 --> 00:51:44

seconds is not what would have made the difference.

00:51:46 --> 00:51:51

He had 40 years according to some versions of the story said that

00:51:51 --> 00:51:55

Musa spent 30 years being raised by the Pharaoh 10 years in Midian,

00:51:55 --> 00:52:00

40 years back, negotiating with phenomena and calling him to

00:52:00 --> 00:52:04

Allah, then 40 years in the desert with the bene of surah. Al died at

00:52:04 --> 00:52:05

age 120.

00:52:08 --> 00:52:12

Lucy says my family member has a disability is not getting out of

00:52:12 --> 00:52:17

his feelings. Okay, that's one of those new expressions right? What

00:52:17 --> 00:52:21

does it mean right getting out of his feelings and experiences as to

00:52:21 --> 00:52:25

why he is disabled? How do I tell him? Beliefs are not based upon

00:52:25 --> 00:52:27

your feelings or experiences?

00:52:29 --> 00:52:32

Why do some disabled people try to justify things like how can

00:52:32 --> 00:52:35

syllabi photos upon me? Yes, they have a long term disability but

00:52:35 --> 00:52:38

they drive play games etc. Why the justification?

00:52:45 --> 00:52:48

To be quite honest, this is a heavy question. I don't want to

00:52:48 --> 00:52:50

say something that's not going to be really beneficial to you. I

00:52:50 --> 00:52:55

never had somebody that I had to talk to in this situation. But I

00:52:55 --> 00:52:59

do believe and I do have seen that people go through phases where

00:52:59 --> 00:53:03

they are full of anger and they're in denial about their situation.

00:53:04 --> 00:53:10

And I have seen that they eventually that goes away. They

00:53:10 --> 00:53:13

just get accustomed to their new life. And oftentimes if they have

00:53:13 --> 00:53:17

a positive clean heart, they start talking about it in the good like

00:53:17 --> 00:53:21

this has saved me from so much this has saved me from a life that

00:53:21 --> 00:53:24

I would have led otherwise etcetera, etcetera. So

00:53:27 --> 00:53:31

it depends where they are in that face. If it's fresh, I will

00:53:31 --> 00:53:35

probably be very sensitive how to talk if it's later on. Okay.

00:53:37 --> 00:53:41

Right really would ask someone with more experience with it. May

00:53:41 --> 00:53:44

Allah protect all of our families from from from having those Bella

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

it's not easy tribulation, it's a very difficult tribulation.

00:53:48 --> 00:53:52

How to stop yourself from feeling demotivated if to hedge it does

00:53:52 --> 00:53:55

not result in fulfillment to us. It's not a vending machine, have

00:53:55 --> 00:53:59

submit, have edit, have submit, have some persistence to your

00:53:59 --> 00:54:03

personality, have some sandpaper to your personality, have some

00:54:03 --> 00:54:06

grittiness keep going, that's what's going to give you success.

00:54:06 --> 00:54:10

It's not going to be an automatic result. Right? And blame

00:54:10 --> 00:54:13

ourselves, maybe we are the ones with a lot of rust in our hearts.

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

That needs to be washed off by a decade.

00:54:17 --> 00:54:20

A year, two years, three years, four years it take remember it

00:54:20 --> 00:54:23

takes four years to get a high school diploma. Not even a big

00:54:23 --> 00:54:24

achievement, right.

00:54:25 --> 00:54:29

These days, the kids have little ceremonies every every two steps

00:54:29 --> 00:54:33

they take, right? What What's the ceremony for moving from fifth

00:54:33 --> 00:54:37

grade to sixth grade just stayed alive. Everyone's moving from

00:54:37 --> 00:54:39

sixth grade to sixth grade. You stayed alive. That was the real

00:54:39 --> 00:54:43

that's all it takes. But we do it just for the fun of the kids and

00:54:43 --> 00:54:46

appreciate the teachers and stuff. Eighth grade to high school. Okay,

00:54:46 --> 00:54:52

maybe, right? Maybe high school to college. Ask anyone right now in

00:54:52 --> 00:54:55

their 40s If getting graduating high school felt like an

00:54:55 --> 00:54:59

achievement. They said no, it's just a day. Everyone have

00:54:59 --> 00:54:59

graduated from high school.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:06

Right. But it took four years. So if you value something more than

00:55:06 --> 00:55:08

high school diploma, and it takes more than four years, it's

00:55:08 --> 00:55:13

justified. So have something have grittiness have a type of Junkyard

00:55:13 --> 00:55:14

Dog mentality.

00:55:15 --> 00:55:18

If your parents * do and gave you

00:55:20 --> 00:55:22

everything you wanted all the time right away. That's the problem.

00:55:23 --> 00:55:29

Don't go that route in life. Toughen up. Be be somebody who

00:55:29 --> 00:55:32

will just not take no for an answer. And trust me, I have seen

00:55:32 --> 00:55:36

people who were in situations and I said, there is no way you're

00:55:36 --> 00:55:39

achieving the what you're saying you want to achieve. And they

00:55:39 --> 00:55:42

possessed 00

00:55:43 --> 00:55:49

of the attributes that it would seem for them to need to achieve

00:55:49 --> 00:55:54

their goal. And then I looked back and years past didn't see them for

00:55:54 --> 00:55:58

a while, and they achieved it. I couldn't believe it. I'm telling

00:55:58 --> 00:56:02

you I've seen and let's just say in the dunya if they're doing it

00:56:02 --> 00:56:05

for the dunya imagine for the dean. I have seen it get a kid.

00:56:05 --> 00:56:11

This kid is the biggest nerd socially awkward goofball had ever

00:56:11 --> 00:56:11

seen.

00:56:13 --> 00:56:17

I'm telling you, he would be in our gatherings, and we're trying

00:56:17 --> 00:56:21

to be decent Muslims. Couldn't help laughing at this good. All

00:56:21 --> 00:56:21

right.

00:56:23 --> 00:56:29

But as high schoolers, we just could not believe a human being is

00:56:29 --> 00:56:32

so weird. Right? We couldn't believe it.

00:56:34 --> 00:56:38

Biggest goofiest, weirdest person because because he never had

00:56:38 --> 00:56:39

siblings.

00:56:40 --> 00:56:45

Right? And they never had American parents, that immigrant parents,

00:56:45 --> 00:56:50

and he's all alone all day, just weirdo. And he got in his head

00:56:50 --> 00:56:52

that he wants to be buff.

00:56:53 --> 00:56:54

Rich,

00:56:55 --> 00:56:59

built a he wants to have a Porsche and wants to go to Harvard.

00:57:01 --> 00:57:06

Some dude, you are so far off from all of that. Okay.

00:57:08 --> 00:57:11

And I'm telling you, he got obsessed.

00:57:12 --> 00:57:18

And fast forward 10 years, he had all of that. All of it. Got he got

00:57:18 --> 00:57:21

into Harvard. He got a Porsche.

00:57:22 --> 00:57:27

He got into med school. And he was obsessed with the gym. And he was

00:57:27 --> 00:57:34

buff. He had all of that stuff. Okay. And we saw him at a phase

00:57:34 --> 00:57:38

when he was just a complete goof.

00:57:39 --> 00:57:43

Right. But none of that mattered what mattered was the strength of

00:57:43 --> 00:57:44

his desire number one.

00:57:46 --> 00:57:51

And it fueled a type of personality that was just like he

00:57:51 --> 00:57:54

wanted it so badly. You hit his head against the wall. He's not

00:57:54 --> 00:57:57

going to stop you put a brick wall in front of it. He will not steal

00:57:57 --> 00:57:59

just keep his hitting his head against the wall. He will knock

00:57:59 --> 00:58:05

down every obstacle. And he did. He did I could not believe he got

00:58:05 --> 00:58:05

into Harvard.

00:58:07 --> 00:58:10

Your hardest against Harvard I thought they thought like you are

00:58:10 --> 00:58:13

so weird. You're like an exotic you know, they liked the exotic in

00:58:13 --> 00:58:16

these the some of these schools they got so all the posh kids,

00:58:17 --> 00:58:18

right? Then they need someone exotic.

00:58:20 --> 00:58:24

And then he went and he saved up. And of course, he took some of his

00:58:25 --> 00:58:28

parents didn't have a lot of money. But he saved up he did it.

00:58:28 --> 00:58:29

He got a push.

00:58:32 --> 00:58:33

went to med school. He's gonna be rich.

00:58:34 --> 00:58:37

And he became obsessed with the gym started saying no to

00:58:37 --> 00:58:42

everything. Jim, Jim, Jim everyday Jim, Jim, Jim. He did, right. And

00:58:42 --> 00:58:46

it just goes if he's doing that for the dunya why can't we do

00:58:46 --> 00:58:49

that? And we should be able to do that from the Most Generous of the

00:58:49 --> 00:58:55

creators. So good for him. He proved us all wrong. And on those

00:58:55 --> 00:58:58

fronts that don't do it better than all of us on those fronts.

00:59:04 --> 00:59:09

Zara, the story of Satan the Musa, being a means for the shortening

00:59:09 --> 00:59:13

of Salah from 50 to five, is this a hit? Yes it is.

00:59:16 --> 00:59:17

Showing the Rama

00:59:18 --> 00:59:22

of Allah subhanaw taala through Musa that the Prophet our Prophet

00:59:22 --> 00:59:27

did not ask for the decrease. You say no Musa said the Musa dealt

00:59:27 --> 00:59:31

with people before he was a leader of of a nation so he knows.

00:59:32 --> 00:59:32

Okay.

00:59:33 --> 00:59:37

What is your advice for Muslims going abroad for studying or to

00:59:37 --> 00:59:41

live so that their Eman stay strong? is not about the country

00:59:41 --> 00:59:44

you go to. You can go to Mecca Medina and suffer it's about the

00:59:44 --> 00:59:48

company you keep and the intention you made. And if you believe and

00:59:48 --> 00:59:49

if your mentality

00:59:50 --> 00:59:55

is that, being in this country, I can take my foot off the pedal off

00:59:55 --> 00:59:59

the metal. I can take my foot off the pedal and

01:00:00 --> 01:00:04

The country being here is going to save me, you're in trouble. You're

01:00:04 --> 01:00:05

in trouble.

01:00:06 --> 01:00:09

You have taken the ASVAB. As the Musab know,

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what's going to save you is Allah subhanaw taala

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answering your DUA and seeing your efforts. So the person who

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believes that Allah is only my savior, if he's in Alaska, he will

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do better than someone in Medina.

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Or, let's say, not say Madina, Munawwara, let's say,

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a Muslim country with you

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that that person goes there and says, I'm here and they should

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save me now. Right? I don't have to do anything. I'm here. Being

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here is what should save me? No, you're in actually in big trouble,

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really big trouble. Because you've made the sub as the most sub dip.

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Right? And that's a problem. So my advice to them is just keep

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working as hard as you were working before, don't expect all

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these, these this support now, to be able to lift you up, you have

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to do the work. And whether you're in the Islamic countries, or you

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could be here in New Jersey.

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If you're directed to Allah that's what really what benefits you

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it's the samba it's the the scrapping mentality

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I cannot get rid of a trial says Muhammad that I'm currently

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facing, it just doesn't seem to get better. I make constant dua,

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repentance, give sadaqa any advice? Check, check all it see if

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any, there are prohibitions, okay? And sometimes there is no

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solution. Allah is teaching you to be gritty, to be tough to have

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sandpaper in your personality.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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Maybe that's what Allah is teaching you.

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So sometimes Allah does not elevate a trial, especially if

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let's not saying about him. But if it's a trial of like, someone like

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someone's bothering you, or a temptation, Allah will keep that

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to test to make you learn. What

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sits actually means, what it means to have sub what it means to do

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certain things cannot be taught as concepts. You have to live them.

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That's it. So

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what do you do when you lack ambition? Well, like I said, when

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you feel like you're totally lacking ambition, that's when you

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have to shut your eyes, skin, your heart, and see what makes me feel

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good. Feel great on the inside. That's what's going to motivate

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you. Right? What would make you feel like I want to get up and go

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get it right now. You have to paint that

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image in your mind in your imagination. That's what's gonna

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get you out of a funk.

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Right?

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Okay.

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What is the difference between being analytical and emotional?

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Or intuitive or rational?

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Well

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analytical

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is your brain emotional and intuitive? Is your heart

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analytical and rational is your brain emotional and intuitive is

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your heart. Right? And I think that the relationship is that you

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need your heart to create desire. But then you need to use your

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brain to achieve the desire.

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Right? And when you start giving up, you need to tap back into your

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heart. Why do I Why do I do this? Why do I love this, remind

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yourself, do what you love. And then keep going. And the heart

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that swings from one thing to the next. That's a person who never

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achieves anything. So now he's into Islam. Two weeks later, he's

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into like real estate. A year later, he's into No, you can be

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into all these things at once, but

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you don't like unstirred instability.

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Right? If like you're into something, be into it. If it's

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serious, a serious matter like the dean, this is serious matter,

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right?

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It takes your whole life to be part of this. You don't waver on

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this. You may have strong days and weekdays but I would not trust

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somebody. Oh, he's all into the Dean this year and all of a sudden

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next year he's

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Yeah, next year. He's like into something far off.

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doesn't make any sense to me. Like, if you make an intention,

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make that intention, you're only going to really truly reap the

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benefits of anything you do after about 20 years. That's the truth,

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even medical school, you want to be a doctor, you want to be rich,

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alright, good, you're probably going to be paying back all those

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loans for the first 10 years of your your life, right?

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Of your work life, 10 years to become a doctor 10 years to pay it

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all off. Now you start reaping the fruits of it after it's paid off,

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right? Don't ask me about the loans and all that there's no

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solution for that

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you can't have you if you're emotional, slash intuitive.

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Only,

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your life's not going to work. If you're analytical and rational

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only your life's not gonna work. If you want to learn both. This is

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one of the wonders of how Allah gave us a mother and a father.

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Right? One will be tend to be more intuitive and emotional than the

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other. And by the way,

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for sure, for sure.

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I believe that women have in general, a more of an emotional

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intelligence of sensitivity how to talk to people, right? than the

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guys do.

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Right. But that doesn't always mean that the guy is the rational

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one, the woman's emotional one. Intuition or the ability to coax

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people to be sensitive is different sensitivities. Different

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sensitivity is I believe, is different than emotional. A man

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can be emotional and rash. Okay, and make terrible decisions in his

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life. Why whereas the woman Allah granted them suburb to think

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things through first, I've seen that firsthand.

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So don't always confuse it, that it's 100% Always along gender

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lines. What I believe is always along gender lines is the natural

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sensitivity that a women will have in communication. Like they read

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body language better they see when people got upset, they know that

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this word upset them. And sometimes us guys may not see

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that, right? We just like railroad over people with facts and reason.

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And no realize that they got upset that I think is there's more

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universal to be able to say, than to simply say that men are just

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purely rational and women are emotional. I think that there can

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be many men who do make destructive emotional decisions to

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while many women can make sound logical decisions and a lot of us

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but I think that's driven by Takotsubo

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okay.

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The person says I committed some wrongs and I feel embarrassed to

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make dua to Allah das shaytaan keep going back to Allah make Toba

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and keep going back. Never be embarrassed to make dua and say, I

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don't deserve it. No, no, make Toba and go back to a law a term

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woman and then become a law them by law that is a bliss trying to

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get you off the path of alotta.

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And if you lost your motivation, like go back to what we said that

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meditation of and you have to be in touch with how you are

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actually, motivation is from the heart. Right? So how do I get

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myself to be excited about something again, you shut your

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eyes and you paint that conclusion. The best business

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advice that someone gave me it's actually life advice. He said, I

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said, Hey, give me some advice on how to run things. He said, Okay.

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Tell me right now, if you had all the resources in the world, what

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would your product look like? What would your business look like? I

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was like shocked. I never thought about it that way. Always think

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about the limitations you have. He said no, no, forget all that. Tell

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me what your goals are. And I'm like well, what's the point of

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that when I don't have the resources? Just tell me because we

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don't have a direction if you don't paint this picture for us.

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We don't know where we're going. We don't have an address.

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Yes.

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Yeah, he's got that down. He's got that down. We have to have that

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picture first.

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Then we could actually go there. So that's the idea sometimes you

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have to go to the backend first. What is the conclusion look like?

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How do you deal with the inner turmoil of a city trying to bring

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bars clubs I'm politically involved but I'm trying not to

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feel intimidated by powerful by the powerful in this situation. I

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think you got to keep fighting. You got to make alliances. Try to

01:09:38 --> 01:09:41

make alliances try to find people who can support you as a group.

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Try to get maybe the the Conservatives with you.

01:09:45 --> 01:09:50

A sister asks, I have been having many nosebleeds lately and I'm

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worried about accidentally tasting the blood during Ramadan would it

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break my fast Yeah, and I know the impossible situations do not break

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your fast like let's say I'm walking around without

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have an umbrella and the rain is coming down guarantee at some

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point some rain will enter your mouth. You're not taking for that.

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Except if you're sloppy about it, let alone intentionally we know

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but if you were sloppy about it so you know in Ramadan, you can do

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this right? Likewise if you get nosebleeds have always have

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tissues with you while you're fasting so you could stop it.

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If you're walking in Ramadan and some dust enters your mouth,

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you're not. If you're cognizant of it, you can spit it out. But if

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you're not even at it's completely impossible, otherwise you're not

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taking into account for them.

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Proper gender interactions for an unmarried person who has married

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friends and generally online. There's really, you just ask

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yourself the business what's my business with this person?

01:10:44 --> 01:10:47

What is my business with this person? And don't create business?

01:10:47 --> 01:10:50

Fake business? Oh, I have to text them for demo purposes. No, you

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know,

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oh, I need to make sure I share this video with them. Later.

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Someone else will do the other Mani sisters to do that. Well,

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you're not have to be the Savior here. That shaytaan tricking you.

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Oh, we have to work on the homework assignments together.

01:11:07 --> 01:11:10

Since when do you do homework in the first place? Right now all of

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a sudden you have to do homework.

01:11:13 --> 01:11:16

Sheets Andres is desperate to do business with this person. If it's

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business with this person it should be out in the open above

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board doesn't have to be private.

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How can someone be become wealthy according to the dean,

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you make the intention you ask Allah to show you the way many

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wealthy people in the community that's how they do it

01:11:37 --> 01:11:40

does it mean anything if suddenly Allah opens the path to visit many

01:11:40 --> 01:11:43

Sikh family or those giving birth or random family like traveling

01:11:43 --> 01:11:45

somewhere and suddenly also their

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question got off

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I don't know if it means something that suddenly you're able to visit

01:11:52 --> 01:11:54

people I guess you can learn something from them and maybe

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they're gonna learn something from you

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remember tonight is little drama is the night of Salah on the

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Prophet so get busy with that, especially as my video comes in.

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It is said that the final messenger was sent to a people who

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that didn't receive a messenger before no they did receive

01:12:10 --> 01:12:13

messages before they did receive messages before.

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How can tumor cells get to know each other in a non Muslim country

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through intermediary through an upright family couple that can

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facilitate the meeting and sitting together a number of times without

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necessarily being in and doing anything close to haram or

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suspicious or that people could say something bad about you.

01:12:47 --> 01:12:51

Sniffing water in your nose for hustle for will do rinsing your

01:12:51 --> 01:12:53

mouth and fasting Yes, it's permitted.

01:12:55 --> 01:12:58

Can I eat KFC? That is Khaled Yes. If it's truly halal, why not?

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Okay

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yeah, not say Bismillah and eat halal not it's a Christian country

01:13:08 --> 01:13:12

halal. There's no such thing as a Christian country. Okay, and the

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Christians are slaughter.

01:13:16 --> 01:13:22

You said shahada must be on the tongue. Why? The only reason that

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you have justification not to c'est la ilaha illAllah Muhammad

01:13:26 --> 01:13:30

Rasul Allah is that if someone else will die or you will die, or

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they will cut off someone else's limb or cut off one of your limbs,

01:13:33 --> 01:13:36

then you may say keeping my Shahada secret is hard for me.

01:13:38 --> 01:13:42

Of course for now, what is he? He's the he's the kink. So there's

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no one going to harm anybody else by him saying the shad

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good.

01:13:52 --> 01:13:55

Ibrahim Khan says motivation is overrated discipline is

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everything. They got to go hand in hand for someone who doesn't have

01:13:58 --> 01:13:59

discipline to get disciplines

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can a Muslim

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add their pronouns on social media? No.

01:14:09 --> 01:14:13

That's like having a haircut that only the Philippine have or

01:14:13 --> 01:14:15

wearing a badge that only fess up enough

01:14:19 --> 01:14:22

I'm done with them. Right there on the spot finished. I have no

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relationship with you.

01:14:26 --> 01:14:29

Here you go. I don't know who you keep who you hang out with. I know

01:14:29 --> 01:14:34

what kind of company keeps on done with you. Some of you out there

01:14:34 --> 01:14:34

might have to

01:14:36 --> 01:14:40

deal with those people but I don't have my lucky but that doesn't

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help because smell break your fast. Yes, inhaling before someone

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breaks your fast because it could come from a drop of liquid that

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could go at your throat

01:14:58 --> 01:14:59

What else we got here?

01:15:02 --> 01:15:03

Yeah, what did they say?

01:15:07 --> 01:15:08

Which one is that?

01:15:13 --> 01:15:17

Is it possible to say that the wife is always right?

01:15:22 --> 01:15:23

In real life,

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in real life, in the heat of the moment,

01:15:29 --> 01:15:33

there is pretty much no point in telling your wife, she's wrong

01:15:37 --> 01:15:38

there is no point,

01:15:39 --> 01:15:40

what you need to do

01:15:42 --> 01:15:46

is that you need to deflate that situation right away. Later on,

01:15:46 --> 01:15:48

when the mood is better when the mood is changed, when you earn

01:15:48 --> 01:15:52

some credit, you may introduce the new idea that you're trying to

01:15:52 --> 01:15:52

say.

01:15:55 --> 01:15:56

Mufasa set,

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right, that is a big enough set. There are some relationships, you

01:16:01 --> 01:16:05

don't want to have any of this ever, right? So if that bull is

01:16:05 --> 01:16:09

coming at you just get out of the way, right? Oh, yes, fine, that's

01:16:09 --> 01:16:09

fine.

01:16:10 --> 01:16:14

Later on, when the mood is better, when people are

01:16:15 --> 01:16:21

in a open minded situation, vibe, mode, mood, whatever you want to

01:16:21 --> 01:16:26

call it, then you may implant in a very nice, gentle way. You got to

01:16:26 --> 01:16:31

watch the movie Inception and put into incept the idea of the

01:16:31 --> 01:16:35

opposite of what you believe is written in a nice way that can be

01:16:35 --> 01:16:41

swallowed, right? So and Allah knows best, every husband will

01:16:41 --> 01:16:44

have their thing every wife will have their thing so there are no

01:16:44 --> 01:16:45

set rules for this stuff.

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Except the rules of actually what actually works and what doesn't.

01:16:50 --> 01:16:54

And that's why rational people who only deal with books they don't

01:16:54 --> 01:16:58

they don't succeed in marriages until they hit walls and then they

01:16:58 --> 01:17:01

start to learn how to talk how to deal with each other

01:17:06 --> 01:17:10

what kind of meditation a bad did the Prophet doing? Devote Hara

01:17:11 --> 01:17:13

Hello Adam. We know maybe some of the old a Baghdad at the time of

01:17:13 --> 01:17:17

Prophet Ibrahim some thick things like that. Couple more questions

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before we wrap up

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you talked about keeping your shahada secret for the same reason

01:17:27 --> 01:17:31

and mbf 98 Coincidentally, I listened to it today. Subhanallah

01:17:31 --> 01:17:34

you see that and my Imam at the masjid also talks about it

01:17:34 --> 01:17:37

Subhanallah so now we all know the ruling right?

01:17:43 --> 01:17:44

know he's not a Muslim.

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That he's not a Muslim.

01:17:49 --> 01:17:49

non Muslim?

01:17:52 --> 01:17:56

Can someone be extravagant when it comes to fragrances? And shallots?

01:17:56 --> 01:18:01

The Prophet did say that money is not wasted on fragrances. I

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believe that means that

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within a set of norms, I believe because other people benefit from

01:18:09 --> 01:18:10

the fragrance. That's why

01:18:13 --> 01:18:16

can a woman wear something with animal prints? Yes. Why not? You

01:18:16 --> 01:18:20

can wear a cheetah fur if you want salad for us. We're not one of

01:18:20 --> 01:18:20

those people.

01:18:22 --> 01:18:23

No, we're not we were first.

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But we should make use of the animal too by eating it if it's an

01:18:28 --> 01:18:32

edible animal. So Native Americans, how do they keep warm?

01:18:32 --> 01:18:37

They have to eat? They have to cut things and we're first we're not

01:18:37 --> 01:18:41

vegans and vegetarians and animal rights activists here. They go to

01:18:41 --> 01:18:43

an extreme they have no limits. They don't know when to stop you

01:18:43 --> 01:18:46

notice that the secular movements never know when to stop. Alright

01:18:46 --> 01:18:49

feminists first wave feminism Okay, got that you're those

01:18:49 --> 01:18:52

rights? What's the second wave feminist third wave you okay? You

01:18:52 --> 01:18:55

got those rights? They don't know when to stop. We know when to stop

01:18:55 --> 01:18:59

we as Muslims, we would know when to stop. Right? Huh? Yeah, it's

01:18:59 --> 01:19:01

the fasten the fears, they don't know what to stop

01:19:02 --> 01:19:05

it they don't know when to stop making the movies, right? They

01:19:05 --> 01:19:07

don't know when to stop making the movements.

01:19:08 --> 01:19:13

So first wave, second wave, third wave, fourth wave. The animal

01:19:13 --> 01:19:19

rights people. When do you stop? You don't know when is the HUD of

01:19:19 --> 01:19:22

where's the animal to be used? What is it not to be used? We have

01:19:23 --> 01:19:26

a very simple rule. The animal is meant to serve the human beings

01:19:26 --> 01:19:30

benefit. The animal may not be

01:19:32 --> 01:19:36

tortured. You cannot destroy their life. I mean, like they're their

01:19:36 --> 01:19:39

habitats. All we have they have rights. But we also have rights

01:19:39 --> 01:19:42

when we need to use them. We are allowed to slaughter them.

01:19:45 --> 01:19:50

Simple as that. Beyond that, they should be fed they should be

01:19:50 --> 01:19:52

treated if they're bothering the human being the human being takes

01:19:52 --> 01:19:55

priority. So if there's all sorts of roving wolves and coyotes,

01:19:55 --> 01:19:59

we're going to shoot them right. We are going to shoot them

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They're human takes priority.

01:20:03 --> 01:20:07

All right, you have a situation that's very unfortunate Hammurabi

01:20:07 --> 01:20:10

or whatever that monkey that gorilla was called. What is it

01:20:10 --> 01:20:12

called? Haram? B.

01:20:14 --> 01:20:17

It's terrible what happened but guess what in Islam caging him

01:20:17 --> 01:20:19

would be haram in the first place. How's that?

01:20:21 --> 01:20:25

Why are you caging, an animal that has testosterone and needs to move

01:20:25 --> 01:20:29

and get stuff and mover, this is not some kind of peacock that you

01:20:29 --> 01:20:31

just is happy in the zoo.

01:20:32 --> 01:20:36

You're doing him a favor, zebra, you're doing them a favor. All the

01:20:36 --> 01:20:39

herbivores, you're probably doing them a favor to have them in a

01:20:39 --> 01:20:41

habitat and will be eaten.

01:20:43 --> 01:20:49

But lions and tigers and bears this all this hump for us. Leave

01:20:49 --> 01:20:53

them alone. If they bother us, we will shoot them. If we need to use

01:20:53 --> 01:20:56

their first to get to stay warm. We will slaughter them and have

01:20:56 --> 01:20:59

their first if I want to wear their first because it's

01:20:59 --> 01:21:05

beautiful. I will wear their first right. So at so secular movements,

01:21:05 --> 01:21:10

they don't have a limit. It will just keep going. Right? And that's

01:21:10 --> 01:21:13

the problem with these things. When is it going to stop for these

01:21:13 --> 01:21:14

secular movements?

01:21:18 --> 01:21:21

This may seem like an odd question, but I keep seeing people

01:21:21 --> 01:21:23

online saying women are not allowed to work.

01:21:24 --> 01:21:27

They say that there is too much fitna. Nowadays

01:21:29 --> 01:21:31

not all places have

01:21:34 --> 01:21:38

fitna an Islamic school for example, when I have a fitna

01:21:40 --> 01:21:42

that there could be fitna there that could be fitna in a hospital.

01:21:43 --> 01:21:46

But it's it's about the permissibility of the work and the

01:21:46 --> 01:21:50

modesty that has that takes place in the work that you think Dawa

01:21:50 --> 01:21:51

doesn't have fitna.

01:21:52 --> 01:21:56

Right. You think Tao doesn't have fitna you think you working in an

01:21:56 --> 01:22:00

Islamic organization like Islamic Relief? You think she you don't

01:22:00 --> 01:22:02

have fitna they have a lot of fitna.

01:22:03 --> 01:22:07

When when a student of knowledge gets inappropriate when a

01:22:08 --> 01:22:13

volunteer doesn't know their limits, when an employee becomes

01:22:13 --> 01:22:21

too interested in the shape, right, or the Imam or the day or

01:22:21 --> 01:22:24

whatever, what have you. You don't think there has been fitna in hip

01:22:24 --> 01:22:25

schools.

01:22:26 --> 01:22:30

fitna is everywhere. Of course, it could be more places than others.

01:22:30 --> 01:22:36

So it's about the collapse. It's about the HIA and it's about the

01:22:36 --> 01:22:39

taqwa of the people. And at the same time, there are certain

01:22:39 --> 01:22:40

things that totally hunta

01:22:42 --> 01:22:46

where are the jobs that will revolve level, the jobs are by so

01:22:46 --> 01:22:47

much traveling alone.

01:22:50 --> 01:22:51

What is Chief Latif saying about LinkedIn?

01:22:56 --> 01:22:59

How do you deal with a coworker trying to have you call them by

01:22:59 --> 01:23:01

their preferred pronouns?

01:23:03 --> 01:23:07

All right. Sometimes I would just I would have to just I'm not going

01:23:07 --> 01:23:10

to lose my job for that. I wouldn't lose my job.

01:23:12 --> 01:23:15

If you doubt having to do yes, you have to redo it in the medical

01:23:15 --> 01:23:18

school. Yeah. cannot have doubt about what were you gonna say?

01:23:18 --> 01:23:21

Right? My dad was saying that his work, there was a

01:23:23 --> 01:23:27

South Asian guy who changed his gender. He became a woman. Wow,

01:23:27 --> 01:23:30

there was one co worker who would always call him by his old name.

01:23:32 --> 01:23:35

They refuse to accept but he would like make it seem like it's an

01:23:35 --> 01:23:35

accident. Oh.

01:23:39 --> 01:23:42

I don't understand the pronoun thing because you're not there

01:23:42 --> 01:23:45

when I use your pronoun, right? You are not there unless you

01:23:45 --> 01:23:48

change your name to Allison or something. You are not there when

01:23:48 --> 01:23:51

I when you change when I talk to you about your pronouns

01:23:53 --> 01:23:53

is it

01:23:55 --> 01:23:58

the burden is very hard to do. How to you need to index and

01:23:58 --> 01:24:01

everyone's pronoun it's not practical at all. It's not

01:24:01 --> 01:24:04

practical. I don't even know your name first of all, now you want me

01:24:04 --> 01:24:07

to know a call use a different pronoun behind your back. I'm not

01:24:07 --> 01:24:12

doing that. No, I'm not doing that behind your back. I need you to

01:24:12 --> 01:24:17

call them refer to so that's like me saying hey guys, Sabina side

01:24:17 --> 01:24:20

announcement from here on I want you when I'm not here referred to

01:24:20 --> 01:24:21

me as

01:24:22 --> 01:24:28

a shaker quick bit of both. What is ridiculous is ridiculous.

01:24:31 --> 01:24:34

Can we watch movies the cartoons about Satan the Musa etcetera

01:24:34 --> 01:24:35

Tada. No.

01:24:37 --> 01:24:41

And I'm Lodi saying I showed the prince of Egypt about the story of

01:24:41 --> 01:24:44

Moses apparent send me an angry email because I showed the movie

01:24:44 --> 01:24:47

of the students. Yeah. So on your fire to

01:24:48 --> 01:24:50

pink slips animality

01:24:51 --> 01:24:55

permanent file. No, just kidding. But yeah, you shouldn't show that

01:24:55 --> 01:24:56

movie to an Islamic school.

01:24:57 --> 01:24:59

Right. Are there more Malachy.

01:25:00 --> 01:25:02

fit classes yes they will be

01:25:11 --> 01:25:14

remembered by happy said building flat Graves is a sign of people a

01:25:14 --> 01:25:20

bit maybe at that time when it was not needed but a flat grave that

01:25:20 --> 01:25:25

marks that there is a grave there right and marks the name so that

01:25:25 --> 01:25:27

people can visit them that is permitted that is acceptable maybe

01:25:27 --> 01:25:30

at that time only the people have been did that

01:25:35 --> 01:25:35

yeah

01:25:37 --> 01:25:41

but I guess he met a stone for that gravestone. Is that what you

01:25:41 --> 01:25:44

mean by that? I guess that yeah

01:26:02 --> 01:26:05

typhoon serais objecting because I'm not answering his questions

01:26:05 --> 01:26:07

let me go up and look for typhoon

01:26:10 --> 01:26:10

which one

01:26:13 --> 01:26:16

Oh, it there's nothing special about it. It's all just regular

01:26:16 --> 01:26:18

Islamic stores and shops and stuff.

01:26:20 --> 01:26:24

Not there's no secrets of location except my the Koofi that I have I

01:26:24 --> 01:26:28

need a factory by the way. Anyone who has a like a desi factory or

01:26:28 --> 01:26:32

anything that you want to do a favor for a Muslim brother. Okay

01:26:38 --> 01:26:42

give me a Pakistani factory or one of these factories so I can just

01:26:42 --> 01:26:45

send them one sample and they could just make me like

01:26:51 --> 01:26:51

yeah

01:26:59 --> 01:27:01

Can one follow Maliki lip moving in Salah?

01:27:03 --> 01:27:06

For the silent prayers, not for the out loud you have to hear

01:27:06 --> 01:27:07

yourself at the very least.

01:27:09 --> 01:27:12

Are women allowed to wear minimal jewelry? If it makes no noise?

01:27:12 --> 01:27:13

Yes.

01:27:15 --> 01:27:17

It's about the noise and the attention getting that's what it

01:27:17 --> 01:27:21

is about. It's about noise and attention getting. Typhoon says

01:27:21 --> 01:27:23

tomorrow Turkish mosques in the Netherlands are going to be

01:27:23 --> 01:27:27

praying that Janessa that the Prophet only prayed once for the

01:27:27 --> 01:27:31

Christians who became Muslim so coincidental. Subhanallah

01:27:32 --> 01:27:37

so that's about it basically, for all the earthquake victims exist I

01:27:37 --> 01:27:39

believe in the Shafi school I don't know what the Hanafi school

01:27:39 --> 01:27:40

I don't think so but

01:27:44 --> 01:27:47

let's go and move on to see what else

01:27:50 --> 01:27:52

we got to leave we got to go to Boonton

01:27:53 --> 01:27:53

right

01:28:01 --> 01:28:04

we not going to be for number one, but also, I really don't want to

01:28:04 --> 01:28:06

hit traffic, right?

01:28:09 --> 01:28:12

How do we know when to stop making dua for something when you stop

01:28:12 --> 01:28:16

wanting it? As long as it's possible, and you still want it?

01:28:17 --> 01:28:21

Go for it. If you don't want it you stop making dua for it. If it

01:28:21 --> 01:28:24

becomes physically impossible because someone died

01:28:25 --> 01:28:29

then you stop. You can't make dua for it anymore. But if it seems

01:28:29 --> 01:28:32

like there is a there are a million obstacles that does

01:28:32 --> 01:28:33

nothing nothing obstacles are nothing for Allah

01:28:35 --> 01:28:39

guess what a sheer Adrian Kirk posted on his Facebook that this

01:28:39 --> 01:28:44

man who was beaten to a pulp completely innocent.

01:28:45 --> 01:28:47

According to all the reports,

01:28:48 --> 01:28:53

Tyree Nichols after this he after that he was turned out he was a

01:28:53 --> 01:28:54

Muslim after all this time.

01:28:56 --> 01:28:57

He's a Shaheed

01:28:58 --> 01:29:03

as Shaheed he is a Shaheed be into a pulp for no reason whatsoever.

01:29:04 --> 01:29:11

Those Those officers, okay, and I'm the I'm the religious advisor

01:29:11 --> 01:29:16

for the Muslim officers here. I love them. I have nothing against

01:29:16 --> 01:29:20

the police. You commit a murder like that and you're supposed to

01:29:20 --> 01:29:22

be the law enforcement.

01:29:23 --> 01:29:25

You really should have a double punishment.

01:29:26 --> 01:29:30

Here it's got to be always got to be worse. It can't just be the

01:29:30 --> 01:29:30

death penalty.

01:29:31 --> 01:29:34

It's gotta be worse. I'm a proponent of the death penalty

01:29:34 --> 01:29:38

with the President actually committed the crimes if he

01:29:38 --> 01:29:39

actually committed the murder.

01:29:40 --> 01:29:44

I find I live for life but the inheritors get to choose not the

01:29:44 --> 01:29:48

state. Not the state, not the judge, not the jury. The

01:29:48 --> 01:29:52

inheritors, Tyree Nichols has a mom got a dad

01:29:53 --> 01:29:55

has does he have kids? I don't know. Does he have a wife? I

01:29:55 --> 01:29:59

don't. Yes, he did. He had a wife and kids and a mom and a dad. He

01:29:59 --> 01:29:59

had

01:30:00 --> 01:30:05

As for inheritance, he has one kid, one mom, one kid. And then

01:30:05 --> 01:30:08

wife, Mom, Dad, that's for inheritors. They're the ones who

01:30:08 --> 01:30:12

should choose. Do we want the compensation? Do we want?

01:30:15 --> 01:30:19

The one compensation? Do we want to forgive him? Or do you want the

01:30:19 --> 01:30:22

death penalty? If one person says raise your hand says no death

01:30:22 --> 01:30:26

penalty? Okay, then there's no death penalty. Now we ask them the

01:30:26 --> 01:30:30

question compensation. If the wife says I want compensation, the dad

01:30:30 --> 01:30:32

says forget I don't want the compensation. And everyone else

01:30:32 --> 01:30:37

says we want compensation, you get the compensation based upon the

01:30:37 --> 01:30:40

percentage that you would have earned. And and how many of them

01:30:40 --> 01:30:45

killed you killed them? There were what five guys beat him down. And

01:30:45 --> 01:30:48

two were involved. That seven you're all guilty.

01:30:50 --> 01:30:52

That said, Yeah, I'm just telling you what the sheer would look

01:30:52 --> 01:30:55

like. We know it's not gonna happen. But I know. I'm telling

01:30:55 --> 01:30:58

you what the shape would look like. Just to have an idea this

01:30:58 --> 01:31:03

justice is far better. That justice brings the victim's family

01:31:03 --> 01:31:07

front and center. Why would I have some Judge Jury and some judge

01:31:07 --> 01:31:08

decide the sentencing?

01:31:10 --> 01:31:14

How is that fair? This is not a crime done against the state. This

01:31:14 --> 01:31:15

is a crime done against a human being

01:31:16 --> 01:31:18

their family should decide this.

01:31:21 --> 01:31:25

What is your opinion on HIV sisters who record their workouts

01:31:25 --> 01:31:31

and posted online? If it's only for women's I would still be

01:31:31 --> 01:31:35

against it? Like a women's only? I would still be against it. You

01:31:35 --> 01:31:36

don't know who's behind these accounts?

01:31:38 --> 01:31:39

Yeah.

01:31:40 --> 01:31:43

Yes, we there's not, there's no need for this. If you want to do

01:31:43 --> 01:31:46

this, do it in person, where there's no written record for

01:31:46 --> 01:31:48

this. Because

01:31:49 --> 01:31:53

any guy could take his sister's phone or his wife's phone and go

01:31:53 --> 01:31:56

into these private Instagram accounts. By these private

01:31:56 --> 01:31:59

Instagram accounts. They're not so private. There's a guy who's

01:31:59 --> 01:32:03

bashing me. There is a guy who's raised a big threat against me.

01:32:04 --> 01:32:09

I'm gonna expose him I'm gonna we're gonna address him over

01:32:09 --> 01:32:12

something I said that was like totally normal. All the scholars

01:32:12 --> 01:32:15

agreed with it, right? He didn't like and he thinks that. I'm like,

01:32:15 --> 01:32:19

trying to attack his scholars by saying the opposite opinion. By

01:32:19 --> 01:32:24

the way, for this guy, he knows who he is. All of what you think

01:32:24 --> 01:32:27

is a private Instagram feed. It's gotten to me, it's gotten to

01:32:27 --> 01:32:31

everybody. Right? There's no point in private Instagram feeds. Right?

01:32:31 --> 01:32:34

And then being embarrassed when they're out there and exposed.

01:32:35 --> 01:32:36

Listen,

01:32:37 --> 01:32:40

I don't want to have some beef with another Muslim pious Muslim.

01:32:40 --> 01:32:41

Right? I'd rather

01:32:43 --> 01:32:47

smooth it over. I don't know what all the big talk is right over

01:32:47 --> 01:32:51

what? Literally over what but

01:32:54 --> 01:32:59

I'd rather smooth it over with every Muslim possible

01:33:02 --> 01:33:05

Be careful what you put online even if you think it's private.

01:33:06 --> 01:33:09

Right? Even if you think it's private, anybody could get it.

01:33:10 --> 01:33:12

Alright, let's close out with a note here

01:33:18 --> 01:33:23

last question, can we defend the USA if the home of the free is

01:33:23 --> 01:33:30

invaded? Any country that you're you're involved with right that

01:33:30 --> 01:33:31

you live in.

01:33:32 --> 01:33:34

You are allowed to defend it from invaders

01:33:42 --> 01:33:47

you are allowed to to protect it not only allowed to fight it

01:33:47 --> 01:33:48

because

01:33:50 --> 01:33:53

you're defending your home is fought and therefore defending

01:33:53 --> 01:33:55

your city becomes further than defending your country may be

01:33:55 --> 01:33:56

comfort to

01:33:58 --> 01:34:03

this villa Rahman Rahim Allah majali Nora Jacobi raffia claverie

01:34:03 --> 01:34:10

maneuver on face Am I wrong FIBA sorry one oran fee Shari one oran

01:34:10 --> 01:34:16

fee bestiary one oh Ron feel like one or run feed me one or run

01:34:16 --> 01:34:22

forever? I mean, one or run sob mono ramen Bay near the one or a

01:34:22 --> 01:34:28

medical fee one or an anime any one Warren and she merely one Oh,

01:34:28 --> 01:34:34

ramen filthy. One over mentality. Allahumma Zinni, Nora, without any

01:34:34 --> 01:34:38

Noura virtually no SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad

01:34:40 --> 01:34:41

Ali, he was happy he was

01:35:00 --> 01:35:00

The

01:35:13 --> 01:35:14

US

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