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city of ray and the area around him. What can aniseed wacko wacko
feet is carted to Sonora Sana we read this but we'll read it again
he hated to Sonora with Sonora is the concept of the Sonora is the
idea that you are making a show of yourself and a lot of a bad a lot
of things. It's it's completely
making a show of yourself to be honest.
This always exists in every religious cult, everything you do.
There's there's there's two Sundar
which is making a show out of things, okay. And showing off. So
cannot he hated this to Sunday.
And he used to focus and there's a group that propped up in Islam,
that some of it is good and some of it is bad. And that group are
called the
what are they called a genre? That group
swannell, other names given my mind this group, malema, Tia, the
mullah Amity, the mullah Mattia, were a group of people that they
wanted to purify their intention so much that they want they made
themselves appear like regular people. That's where it started as
good, right?
When they would just not put anything on themselves that would
show that they're doing any extra about it mean, namely, they would
just do all their I bet at home, they would never wear anything
that would make people think they're devoted, right? That to
that had this fine. But they had extremists after that. And those
extremists went to the point of not doing saunas, and doing mcru
hats, right doing things out of my crew. And that's where we would
say no, that's not acceptable at that point. They haven't entered
the Haram
just the macro, right, and they left off certain Sunon right. So
that was also could in some meth hubs is unacceptable without a
reason. Sinful, okay, leaving off Santa Monica for no reason and
some methods of sinful believing.
So
there's a big discussion about that and
that's that group is called the Manasa T.
Right for some reason the TV is on some connection guide. Could you
just click off that thing?
So I can see the comments coming up.
He says, The NLQ Allah Allah be Jamia and Marcia Habyarimana Allah
will be better it's it's a sunnah to meet Allah with all the sins in
the world is better than to sunnah.
sunnah RIA worshipping Allah for other than his sake
we'll call it either eight and Movidius double barrel rockers
valen Manola juman O'Shea when someone just starts up in the deen
and the whole time and he was all with the rockets rocks, rocks,
rocks, rocks amines oh there's a real there's like a federal for
this. There's a federal for that there's a federal for this. He's
lazy. He has no commitment. He has no nothing. Okay? He has no
discipline he has no desire to make any sacrifices. This is not
the way of someone who's claiming that they want to draw near to a
long go to the path of Allah if it's a regular guy who just trying
to avoid haram in his life. That's his business but he's not that's
not a modied to regular common Muslim.
Right to Alpha it's a Sufi if you saw batil death Omar charlatan a
debt
the flaws of the Merida develop when they keep the company of
young people who are still into the dunya
people who
are seeking the dunya seeking the opposite. People who are not
interested in knowledge you keep their company too much you're
gonna get affected
what kinds of ll Junaid adakah low Tom and Tom enough sick of it and
Dr. herland to look bad. Bella, may Allah Allah not make you the
way I understand this is someone who tastes the sweetness of the
knifes the showing off of the neffs. Why? Because it can be so
tempting that you end up
getting addicted to that and never moving beyond that.
Ibrahima Ripley
Okay, and may I refer if that will help Kalama who have courage and
Colima home
metaphor of Allah to Allah, he says is based upon knowing the
truth and separating it from Elohim. I will have our beliefs
that people have that truly have no basis. These are called Elohim
Makala al Qudra VA Hera well i uni, you don't have to have. Well
I can Anwar all beside the cacao fats. Okay, Elko Dravo Hara Quadra
is their eyes are open, your limbs are healthy. But the inner eye is
weak, criticizing the situation in his time off with healthy mandava
the Android the ship the audition, at the weakest of the creation, is
the one who cannot repel his desires. And the strongest of the
creation is the one who is able to control his temptations.
Isn't that the truth? And isn't every destruction of people? Isn't
the destruction of all people? Good.
All right, the destruction of all people
all about
desires. How to presidents collapse desires?
Using the desire for ease at some point becomes desire, the one who
could bear the most hardship
who is the strongest endow Is it the strongest in knowledge? Not
necessarily. It's the one who is can take the most hits. That's the
one who will last the longest endow the one who could hits
doesn't have to be criticism from people could be failures. We tried
this and it failed, tried that and failed, tried this and it failed.
Next is our motive and I thought I ruined the berry.
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yaku Contura Keven gemenon I will he says I was riding a camel for a
while so read eulen
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foot of the camel sunk into the sent for call to jalala for kala
al jamberoo janela ajeeb Subhan Allah will peeler Kana Abu
Abdullah rue de berry AEMC Allah Averell Fukuro used to imitate and
he used to go in the paths of the poor
Yeoman kava Kennett, either to an MC Allah fre McCann William Duna
Illa Dawa for kala incent, then he was invited somewhere and one
person said how Allah al Musa Luna was a column ally and they spoke
ill and a man spoke ill of them, him and the poor people. Okay,
we'll call it Athena Academy him in our head the men whom got stuck
Corrado mini me at Durham Willamina Ruda Well, let's to edit
he ain't at Lobo fella. Medaka Lou Daraa Dawa call Abu Abdullah Ahmed
zip nada rue the very resaw heavy dar okay I mean Mohammed behead he
thought ever. So he's with the poor the poor were invited and one
man is bashing them. He said, Oh, this guy always be 100 gold coins.
They're no good these people.
So what that man who owes the 100 gold coins, he says to the
to the owner of the house who loves these people. He loves the
football and the poor and the worshipers and all that. He says
it didn't even it didn't come in, in the school Nickleby right? If
you want my heart to be at ease, give me 100 dirhams for adobea
immediately he's a rich man. He loves these port worshipers give
them 100 dirhams for color rebel, the US hobby mill had the
colorful and so he said to one of the people the youth go and give
it to the guy who we owe him the money and tell him heavy Hill
lettuce Takara Herman kebab wasabia So he said, This is what
you are owed by one of our people. So it wasn't the it wasn't the one
who owed who asked the money. The leader the shape of this group
asked the money and he said go pay and pay off the debt.
And tell him catwalk follow fit that really Beholder he had an
excuse he had a reason that he didn't pay you. What cut Bertha l
n FAAC Belotero so except his excuse and here's the money from
other rajulio will fall for a mirage Oh Mina Zhaohua
Mara Maru behind
so they pass by the call a second time. Okay, as they left the
invitation they passed by that shop a second time for alcohol
coffee met him. Now the buckle said these people are excellent.
Okay, how old are homeless two cots and Omona a Solahart. These
people you can trust them. So so much of our deen comes from
good business practices and what is good business practices? Pay
what you're owed, deliver the service you promised. That's how
simple it is. What is a good credit bad credit in our country?
Is it anything other than
you paid up on time? That's what good credit and bad credit is. I
know some people that have an issue happens they go out and they
fix their credit by buying something on credit and paying it
right away. And they keep doing this a couple times, right? Until
the credit gets score gets better.
But the idea of of of
of being an upright person in the community is very simple. You said
you'd fix you build me a wall build me a wall you said you'd
drop me off from point A to point B. I mean, how many how much did
these airlines
they have some bad business practice they overbooked the
seats. The planes
out a ticket one time this year. I got there. I was the first one out
the gate. I was the first one out the gate. I was there. So in
advance before even the lady that checks your your that checks you
into the plane before she even arrived.
I get there. And I go to on the first one there. They say come to
the side. I said what's going on? This is like two hours later. She
said we might not have a seat for you. So cow how that we overbooked
luckily Subhanallah just by some
situation, that one person didn't come on the flight. Then they let
me in. I was like, I explained this to me. Explain this to me. I
bought a ticket on the first one here. They said yeah, we randomly
pick somebody and that person has to be he's gonna get swapped out.
Why is it because when one of our United Airlines workers wants to
go back home, right?
We knock off a customer.
Just business is not that hard. Deliver what you said you deliver.
About homing kuliah cobia and Sophie Shahi the most ugly thing
I've ever seen is a stingy Sufi why you're not supposed to love
the dunya he's supposed to give it away. How could you be stingy and
call yourself a person? Sophie here just meaning not like some
kind of weird tariqa that's floating around and go into
claiming that he's flying around and writing carpets? No we're just
talking to someone someone trying to draw near to Allah that's what
they mean here when they say that so head good
Could you tell the browser browser is asking the question of how he
can keep a miss whack overnight. What do you mean Yeah, and he's
gonna run away
What do you mean how do you keep it overnight you put it on the on
the dresser
there's no secrets about it
right this explained to me maybe I'm missing something
you only dip it it tip of it in water the day that you need to you
get it to moisten it up so you can cut it right and then you chew it
open
and then that's it every once in a while you clean it out and every
once in awhile you chop off the extra thing
you know the excess that's it
it's gonna dry out
the miswak is not going to be moist forever. Okay, we need to
keep mine in a safe
for brother got got got made fun of some of your sins came off
that's a good
event then says another one Ahmed Mohammed Rhoda very well, so Allah
Abu Ali,
on many estem Island Mala he someone who listens to go to
listens to musicians and so
he li halili and he was sold to Ala Daraa jet lagged to assert VFT
Lefortovo Alpha kala Nam Cadore. Salah kanila soccer. All right, a
man said to him, said to him there was a man.
He says that he can listen to music because it doesn't affect
his state. He has been he says I have arrived at a station where
I'm not affected anymore.
So they said what do you say about this? He says yeah, he arrived to
jahannam with that statement say that
once you get to the point that the Haram has become halal for you
because I'm a Sufi has not affected by this.
Whatsoever ill and to solve for color. Have collegiate. It is the
way of everyone's serious about the dean. Fella tackling to wish a
minute has
right this is for seriousness don't mix it with silliness.
silliness, meaning cutting corners of the dean,
mean Allah metal etc, and to see and to see for your sin Allahu La
Subhan Allah, the sign that you're being duped by a police, you
commit sins, and then all of a sudden you see good things
happening to you.
So you say then I'm good. I don't need to make Toba for that through
kotoba well Inaba, so we're human and NACA, NACA to Sam, Phil. Phil
have a word. So you say Allah doesn't mind that stuff for Allah,
you're off. You're completely astray at this point. Well, why is
all this good thing happening to me? If I'm committing sins, good
sins is not determined by what happens to you. Since it's
determined by the book and the Sunnah. That's it. And you may be
receiving a lot of kairos
as a test.
I remember shaking her head was telling a story about like a guy
who, every time he would commit a sin, something bad would happen to
him, like right away. And then eventually he would commit the
same sense. And it stopped happening and you got really
worried. And I was like, why Matoba Subhan Allah, the opposite,
because
they should be worried if you commit some Masia and then nothing
happens like you don't get fined.
You don't like lose something that's precious to you. Like
nothing bad happens that seemed that would compensate that sin.
Take away that sense. Even sometimes feeling miserable is
what it is, right? This is to drudge. It's what it's called when
life goes really good. At the same time, your dean is going really
bad. And you're not recognizing it. You're not making Toba. If
you're making Toba, you could say that's Allah generosity is still
being generous to you. And also, let's talk about something else.
The generosity Allah may be giving it to you, is for your kids. We
have to consider that to Allah may be giving being generous to you.
For the simple reason that you're helping other people, let's say
someone who cures cancer, let's say our main man who does eye
surgeries, and let's just put his thing up on the screen for a
second there. Let's say it's Ocean County, retin.
The man has responsibilities. He goes and he fixes people's eyes,
right? Now Allah to Allah will then therefore for their sake,
always ensure he's healthy. His arms work, his eyes work, his feet
work. Allah has always guarding him from from ever having to not
go to work anymore. Okay.
For other people, so the generosity that's coming to you
don't think Oh ALLAH is being nice to me. Maybe maybe not. Okay.
So it could be for other people that Allah is enriching you
because you help other people. And that's why khidmat to other people
is the best source of forgiveness. Okay. So, halal and haram is known
by the by the Quran by the book by the Sunnah by the law, not by
how Allah's being good to you or not.
And tilba is required from every okay for every sin regardless of
how you feel about it, regardless
of how
things are going in your life, all that stuff. Okay.
It is, it is a big difference between the cassava it that are
sung by the voice and our method of inculcating remembrance of
Allah and lessons, those cassava it the only time they are mcru is
when a person
is distracted from the Senate Quran by them. That's the only
time we smoke. Other than that is how that all times and even men do
because you're remembering Allah, you're learning lessons, it
touches the heart. It's good for you to do that in the time of the
prophets I send them to Allah Matt said was the mcomber poetry has
sent Ben Savitz would he
recite poems How would he recite poems with with the melody and it
would move people's hearts? That's acceptable and good? As long as it
does not do Moza humma which means displace the Quran then we'd say
your knocks and this is now you took and taken something good and
pushed out something better. The best of speech that's a problem.
Good
can stir the soul waffle Junaid will fill 50 I will Abbas ignition
right we will add the Vita Allah
Philadelphia Ibrahim Al harbi he says into so if I had to know
stuff in FIP I had a shift in in literature Adam and Arabic
leadership in Hadith I had a shift
next is Mohammed Zhu Jaggi entry number 45. So Illa Abu Ammar
Maribel Luca taka year in the tech beer rattle Gula Phil, I see that
you change completely at the first ticket veto in the obligations. He
says Leon knee AXA and after Jeffery Dotty Bickle aphasic I'm
afraid to open up my obligation, not having said so before he opens
up his ticket to the Haram his salah. They see him changing, so
he's cleaning his intention centrally.
For men Yeah, cool. Allahu Akbar. What vehicle Vijay Akbar minimal.
Someone says Allah Akbar. In reality, something greater is
bigger in his heart. Oh Kabara che ncwa who Allah Moodle Alcott over
time, something else besides Allah is bigger in your heart. And
therefore, hypocrisy in your tech
to cut cut the benefits to Hualalai Sani and he betrays his
own neffs with his own tongue when he says a lot, but it's a lie.
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will call them into Kalama and Harlan let me also delay Kalama
who fits pneumonia smell why there are words that a wallet vehicle
boo hoo wah, wah ha Rama hola hola, hola. Minute, also the
electrical hull. Now listen to this. If you're talking about a
spiritual state, that you've never experienced, that speech is a
fitna to somebody else. And it's a Akyuz. It's a claim that you're
making that Allah will test you on. Okay? It's a claim that you're
making.
Right? And Allah will test your claims. And Allah forbid you from
entering into a state that you showed off about without a
training, right? This is why you don't make claims. Now, if you
actually have experienced a state of spiritual station and a state,
when you talk about it to people, you will make them understand it
with ease. Okay? Now,
let me give you an example.
If I come to you, and I tell you how to make it into med school,
that talk is nonsense. Because I never did.
If a doctor comes and tells you,
it'll be easy, and it will be true. Okay, so that's the
difference. You can only really truly speak about what you've
done. Talk is means nothing. Okay? Talk means nothing. All that
matters, is what you've actually done. Okay?
If you've done it,
okay. If you've done it, then you can explain it to people.
If you have trouble explaining to people, then you haven't done it.
Alright, Ryan has another split screen for us. We'll go up in a
second.
Waka Jawaban Marchesini in Kathira waldameer Tata Harville haram.
Belkin acreage, l Hill leeway to toe Harvia Rahman Al haram.
He used to make his taharah outside the Haram not in the
hunter, out of respect to it.
Abu Bakr raka ZocDoc
What did he say? He was one of the companions of Geneva Sadek to
Lima Mata Abu Bakr is a cop in Qatar, who had just tuned for
Karachi, we're to call him miss.
When Abu Bakr is the COC died.
A lot of Fukada could no longer make Hajj or visit Egypt, because
he was paying for it the whole time.
He was paying for it.
Got him and let me just have put duck a took off he fuckery he Kal
el haram Alma. If you do not have Taqwa while you're poor, what's
going to end up happening with you? You will eat the Haram you
will commit sins to gain your disk. Okay.
Well, Carla,
Tahiti FET heat Benny Israel, it comes to Ashura. Yeoman, Toto.
Toto. I was lost in an area of Benissa eat for 15 days.
Finally when I got back
to the road is stuck. Belani jhandi For Sacani Sherpa met when
I finally got back to the road I saw there a soldier and officer he
gave me water
for that
Cause what we call Viva la Athena Santa.
Good. And that cause a rusts over my heart for 30 years.
Why is that? Perhaps that the wealth taken by the government was
Honam.
That's why he's saying, announcement today we are going to
be with Chucky acid family. This is going to be online. Look it up.
Where does it say?
Okay, prophetic living is the website. We're going to be here.
Which if you acid family, again, prophetic living is the website.
The YouTube channel Sorry youtube.com forward slash
prophetic living it's going to be a day. It's an event that he does
every Thursday called thicker and thicker. Okay.
All right, Victor and Victor
zyk well fix how's that? Yeah.
All right, let's start taking your q&a and your comments. What do
people have here today?
The deal of has cemeteries all over the setup.
No, it wasn't singing it was melodiously saying the poetry the
poetry was always said melodiously the poetry was never just said.
In a regular tone, it was always said with some melody to it.
Occasionally, that could be that it has melody. Yeah. It's not just
speech, it's a rhythm or whatever, it is a scale or whatever.
They they also term it like when they when they would travel. They
would, they would say a poetry in a melodious way that would make
the camels move. Okay. And that's how they would recite poetry.
Poetry was not recited. Just like the way we're talking. Like this.
Was not recited like that. It was recited it was stated it was
setting up melodious metal
I saw this thing somebody sent me that a bear kills a moose in a
nature wedding. There was a nature wedding at a pond. A nature
wedding. Yeah. You know, like some people get married in nature. Oh,
no, no.
So
they ended up across the street. A moose got mauled. And, and a bear.
Bear Bear wants to eat. Right.
Moose are huge. And made a lot of noise. Okay.
And you should see the shock on these people's face as if they did
you know that animals have to eat each other. Like they're shocked
you want for a nature wedding nature showed up? Right? You got
an eight year wedding, right? That's what you asked for. Okay.
For the people who take my Thursday night class
we are still going we're just taking the class
at shift Yes.
The link will be sent out to ArcView okay
yeah.
You should you should literally see, it's as if, like, have you
ever watched an intro channel? Do you think that they're faking it?
Animals eat other animals right? Like the oh my god I can't believe
what's happening. What what did you think is going on?
Yeah.
Oh?
Is his hypnosis and psychotherapy permissible?
I don't know what they do to be quite honest with you. I really do
not know someone says Sit down at the table and listen to these
you know tones or something and talk about your problems. I really
don't know what they do to be quite honest with you.
What was the miracle of profit? No. Since all profits should have
miracles as proof his prediction of the flood is the biggest one
that's its prediction of the flood.
Yeah, and his that is the biggest one because it the flood didn't
happen overnight. It will happen over the day.
With light rain that got heavier and heavier. Why does that is to
give people last chance to believe and he's man prophet has been
saying that there's going to be a flood for years.
Okay, how many years? So much so that uh,
loss of Hannah which Allah in order to make sure that everyone
hears it. He told said he told Satan to know that you
you will build,
you will build the ark from wood of trees that you will grow
yourself. How much wood Do you think that took? How many trees?
How long does that take for a tree to grow? 50 years 100 years. So,
for that long, he was telling people that there's going to be a
flood.
Okay?
So when it finally starts flooding,
that's a miracle. Now you all get onto your
get onto your Ark.
If one has a lot of sloth to make up from when you were a teenager,
and you didn't know how to pray, should you only pray or makeup so
and leave off Sunday? Yes.
That was questioned by ex four slash forward slash Mohammed
Chicky.
How do you know has an authentic assessment avid used to recite the
casita? Yes, with the melody.
If you look into the books that they will talk about, there was a
way in which they used to when they recited poems, they said, Do
I have a direct pneus? I'll have to look it up for you. But it's
sort of one of those things that's well known. What is Flickr, we
know about Zikr. But what is FIQ? Thought, contemplation,
contemplating learning,
contemplation, mainly more contemplation than learning?
Learning is?
Is a transmit it's a transmission from a shift to you that's Taleem
flicker is you yourself are thinking about
it you thinking about
the you know the revelation and things. Where can I find the dua
after the hood on Wednesday.
It's called his Ben Nussle. Immerman had that by the way we
read it
at that time, that dua is meant to be read every day after the
so the it that is not specifically related to the dua of the hood in
Austin on Wednesday,
you make any dua, but that one that you want is called husband
pneus.
And you will have to make that clear to people regularly.
As I was waiting for the stream, I saw this clip from him feed from
people saving a woman from the rubble and she refused to get out
without her hijab unbelievable so the rescue team had to get her one
spot a lot of them unbelievable. days later and they still care
about the Shut up.
What God's laws
I don't know what sense and Medic what your what you mean by that. I
don't have no knowledge about that.
Muneeb have I met from the next Monday Haqqani? No, I've never met
one of them.
No, it was not too late for them to Sam is saying if the miracle
was the flood prediction, isn't it too late? No, it's not too late.
It didn't just suddenly get flooded, right takes time. And
he's there. They know where he is word spread. We all know where he
is. And he said to his son come on to the ark, which means there's
still time for him to believe but his son chose not to
get
how do you stay motivated to keep making dua The door itself should
be a source of relief for you because you're talking to your
Creator. And he wants this he wants you to keep going. He loves
for you to keep going
and know that things take time.
The more you keep going the chance, the greater your chances
of a job.
How can we make Dawa to non Muslims at college and make them
interested in this lamp? Invite them to Muslim gatherings so that
they can meet Muslim people and see that across the board these
people they lie less they backbite less you know their life without
alcohol is that's what it looks like. Like they don't have those
problems. They may not have also the problems related to
romantic dramas that happen. Right? I had a youth the other day
say to me that the life of a Muslim just by the fact that they
cannot you can't touch the opposite gender. That eliminates
and this was a middle schooler telling me it eliminates literally
like 70% of your problems. The just the fact that you cannot ever
touch the opposite gender means that in
Your mind this relationship will not you know it's not going to a
certain limit. So sometimes you don't even get involved in if that
was your motivation right so
yeah
yeah.
Gambling, alcohol A WOMAN
Yeah. So, but here's the evidence How do you if I could say that to
somebody means nothing to them, but they live and they hang out
with Muslims for a period of time, then they go hang out with their
non Muslim friends then they go back to the Muslims they will see
by themselves a difference that this religion regular people who
practice this religion do not have these problems. Right? This is not
a theory this is practice that's to me I think is the best source
of doubt.
Here's a question does swearing cursing cause you will do to be
broken no it does not it's sinful but this year we'll do is talk
about
what's the best protection against negative thoughts from others
regarding ambitious plans when working for Allah sake keep your
plans to yourself say naughty said this. Keep your plans to yourself.
Did not tell it to anyone except those who are going to help you?
Should protein powders come from a halal source? Yes, they should.
Protein powder that you take. Is it you must come from a halal
source. Okay.
Yeah.
What's that? Vegan Protein powder, which is what made it like beans
or legumes? By the way, there's another thing I'm on to these
days. You got to try it next time we go to a DC restaurant. There
chickpeas. Desi chickpeas.
Yeah, with the with the curry. Yeah. How good was those? Oh,
stuff was amazing.
Yeah.
You had a whole pack of gum afterwards. But still?
What's your advice to young Muslim women today?
And what was the best advice given to me in my life?
Okay, that's a very good question.
First of all,
because I'm not a woman,
it's going to be limited what I have to tell you, but just just
because I'm not a woman, doesn't mean I can't speak on their behalf
because I I have relatives who are a woman I have a wife who's a
woman and I have a daughter who are becoming women and I'm seeing
what they're going through and what benefits them
and from what I've heard,
and essentially what my wife hammers in
you know,
when she talks about this hammer has a meaning like she repeats
what she thinks is that this is the best advice the strong friend
group from when you're a little girl the righteous friend group
and I see her sifting through people this one no
that one
not we're not gonna hang out with that family.
This family Yes, I would like you to hang out with that family.
Right.
And, and I think that that that that to me is the best advice for
young Muslim woman
makes Islam easy, and it makes it with your friends.
something enjoyable to do and it becomes just your DNA.
After a few years, you physically can't do anything else like your
your fitrah will reject it. I think that is the best advice for
for most women. I would say for a Muslim man today for Muslim men
is the master of life. When I see guys deviate from the master, like
they never show up anymore. It's never a good sign. And when I see
people come to the master lot, their life always gets better.
And the best advice I personally got was seek knowledge. That's the
best advice
ignorant ignorance.
Ignorance of Dean
ignorance of Dean okay.
No, it says this is the worst thing. Knowledge of the dean is
the best asset you could ever have in your life. I guarantee you that
my urine will be clear and effective if it did for Allah
Juan's good for him what good?
Did Allah say If Allah wants the good of the afterlife for him?
If Allah wants the good of the deen for him, no good if Allah
wills good for tea gives them knowledge and the deep that
knowledge of Dean will let your house home life be good your work
life be good, your spiritual life be good your emotional life be
good, your physical life be good everything will be fine.
to life, everything will be good.
If you practice what you learn, but you got to have something to
practice, you got to know stuff. You cannot have piety. If you
don't know what's haram, you cannot have be pious if you don't
know what's obligatory. Right? And then sunnah and then mcru cents
and Matic says if beef gelatin is in a vitamin tablet, is it
permissible?
I would just stay away from all that stuff.
I would stay away from all that stuff.
What's the best way to learn knowledge of the deen? It seems
maybe it's heavy for some people imagine someone came up to you say
listen, you need to learn Japanese.
I personally would not be able to learn Japanese.
I will find it too heavy. But if you tell me there's a Japanese
community center there and they're doing these fun things.
All of a sudden it's easy. Right? becomes easy I go hang out with
those people eat with them hang out. I'll pick up Japanese
that's what the message is all about right? Learn the Dean go to
these
and not every message is going to be to your fitting that's why
there's it's good to have many massages in a city. One Masjid
Nah, it's something that's not my vibe. Okay, Masha, Allah the
wonderful group, it's not my but
you go somewhere else that is your age group, your mentality, your
everything else. Right. That's how that's that's who you're going to
vibe with.
To use the terms of the youth right now.
I know picking another methods opinion,
says Aw. fatuous shopping is blameworthy, however, is it
blameworthy to pick a weaker opinion within your own method for
ease? Yes, it is.
It but if the opinion has strength to it.
It's not the opinion but it has strength to it, then it's less of
an issue. less of an issue. And M says is financial stability,
important overclock of a person in a matter of accepting a marriage
proposal. Like he's 30 presents financially stable 70 resident
good character, go to go for the dean and the o'clock and the
potential the ability in the future to earn
it doesn't have to be set right now. The province I set him said
Yo, can you come Allah Allah will make you
a Quran unique from Allah Who fondly Allah will
increase your risk. So but what he should show is the ability the
potential the skill, like Does he have a skill? Does he have a work
ethic? That's what you look for. He doesn't have to be a maid man
now or even near that.
That's what if it as a future inshallah
father who's receiving husbands or suitors, I would look at the
o'clock on the Dean as a prophet said,
I would look at the family, I would look at the work ethic and
the the skill that he has. Right? If he comes in, he says, Oh, I got
a PhD in Shakespeare. Okay, what the heck? Who's going to hire
that? Write your answer speech? She could be that she's the wife.
Right?
With who?
Yeah, we're playing the whole. Are you serious?
She's friends with an actor. Interesting. That's why she could
be a Shakespeare. Professor Shakespeare doesn't have to pay
for anything. Right. So that's what I would look for the
potential it doesn't have to have it now. But I see like you have a
track in mind. Yes. Do you have a skill in mind? Have you learned?
Alright, yes. Then I would say okay, you've checked off that box.
Let's see Phil Isla he can we gravestone get gravestones? Are
they Haram are there limits? The stone that does not have in it?
Showing off it does not have access in it? It's just a piece of
slab of stone or marble that has the name. It's acceptable. I did
not I don't recommend people putting Name of Allah on it. Birds
will come animal can come on that. That doesn't make any sense. The
elevated ones. There's probably some questions in fic about that.
And there may be starting out competing people in the
gravestones, the Muslims, the Sunnah, as we know, is flat. They
used to put like little gazebo rows attached to the grave because
so people could sit there in the shade. That's fine as a gazebo,
right. And in the Shafi school at the end towards their history,
they used to honor the scholars with a dome over his grave
debatable, right
What is the wisdom of sending the final messenger to the Arab
people? So some,
some Allah what He was saying, well, first of all, as you said,
wisdom, wisdom, we all speculate what the wisdom is. Allah did not
tell us exactly, but the wisdom is, is that number one, that the
messengers, the Arab people were so basic, they're the lowest
common denominator of human life, the way they lived was so basic.
So the Prophet has to come to the most basic of people. Okay, and if
they can get it, and they could practice it, then those above them
in civilization can definitely get it and practice it. That's number
one. Number two, the they're easy to change. If you come to like, if
someone came to America, how could you change America right now? How
could you change the Romans? There are too many institutions, it's so
difficult. So you cannot put a whole lesson of transformation in
one lifetime for them 23 years but you can with ABS that's what one
of the things six items on a booty says one of the wisdoms is that
they
they were so easy to change, because their life was so simple
not to say it was easy. But they didn't have the trappings of
institutions and governments and things like that, that would make
it impossible to change in one generation.
So it was hard, but it was doable in one generation. And the other
thing they said is that the the Arab, the Arabs had essentially a
language and the book The miracle, the Prophet was a book, it was
words, the Arabs had the most expressive language. Secondly, it
was about transmission.
So you come to people that don't use pen and paper, their memories
are extremely strong. So mass transmission became very easy with
them. They all memorized everything right away.
They were able to transmit.
On top of that, allow them there are other some other wisdoms such
that the Arabs for example,
the simplicity of the life, they there, they represented the
primordial human being, life is so simple basic needs is all they go
for. Right on alone as best.
It's also Arabia actually is the center of the world. If you look
at you have Africa to the to the west
Shem, which leads you to Europe,
Anatolia in that area, to the north, northwest Persia to the
northeast, Indians right there to southeast. So it's a very central
location.
It's also a place that had no prior
legacy. Nobody goes to Arabia except for Islam. Nothing raised
up the Muslims, the Arabs except Islam. So you don't want to go to
Rome. Okay, you're wrong. Right? We expect you to rise up, right?
That's idea. Yeah.
There you go place that is a zero, complete and utter zero.
Then these people rise up, you know, for sure they rose up
because of Islam.
How can I advise a friend who was going through depression and
anxiety about their future? What I mean is they don't know their
goal?
How can we improve our patients and get motivated? I think that
these things are to be honest with you a lot simpler than people
think. Which isn't to belittle the situation. But close your eyes,
and daydream. That's sometimes the best way to get out of a funk. I
close your eyes. And imagine somebody says, your mind right now
is a canvas, it's a movie screen. Play the movie, that that you
would get you excited, like movie of your life, like what would your
life look like that would get you excited?
Immediately start feeling better, just thinking about it. Right?
Just thinking about it.
Start feeling great. And keep thinking about it, keep thinking
about keep thinking about it, keep playing that and develop that
movie. That's all fake in in the imagination. But that's isn't that
where everything starts to play that movie in your mind, immediate
start feeling better. Now.
Nothing exists, except that is composed of simple parts in Mantap
Ulma novelry, which occur when Minilite Maruti write a complex
idea like a complex mathematical equation, what is it consists of
simple things, write very simple things. Very simple mathematical
formulas.
So that dream that you have. It may be extremely complex in your
mind.
And but it is composed of very simple things. So you start
working on those simple things and when you work towards a goal
that's the best way to remove your depression that's my that's that's
my two cents as a non psychiatrist or psychologist
Emma says Hana fees and Chevy say when reading Quran and Salah your
own ears need to hear that is correct. If it is an outlet out
loud prayer that's the bare minimum of outlet
Okay, every let's say five people are praying, slots, and out loud
prayer. Everyone should hear themselves. As long as you hear
yourself you fulfill the function of being out loud. That's it.
Dino says is the story of Gabriel filling frowns mouth with mud? So
here? Yes, it is. If so, isn't repentance in the heart? What's
the point of preventing the utterance?
He prevented other people
from believing. So he's now earning his punishment.
Okay, and
the question of repentance in the heart?
Yes, it is. But the shahada is not. The testimony of faith is not
it has to be on the tongue. So that was the beginning of his the
idea that the door being closed that few minutes or that few
seconds is not what would have made the difference.
He had 40 years according to some versions of the story said that
Musa spent 30 years being raised by the Pharaoh 10 years in Midian,
40 years back, negotiating with phenomena and calling him to
Allah, then 40 years in the desert with the bene of surah. Al died at
age 120.
Lucy says my family member has a disability is not getting out of
his feelings. Okay, that's one of those new expressions right? What
does it mean right getting out of his feelings and experiences as to
why he is disabled? How do I tell him? Beliefs are not based upon
your feelings or experiences?
Why do some disabled people try to justify things like how can
syllabi photos upon me? Yes, they have a long term disability but
they drive play games etc. Why the justification?
To be quite honest, this is a heavy question. I don't want to
say something that's not going to be really beneficial to you. I
never had somebody that I had to talk to in this situation. But I
do believe and I do have seen that people go through phases where
they are full of anger and they're in denial about their situation.
And I have seen that they eventually that goes away. They
just get accustomed to their new life. And oftentimes if they have
a positive clean heart, they start talking about it in the good like
this has saved me from so much this has saved me from a life that
I would have led otherwise etcetera, etcetera. So
it depends where they are in that face. If it's fresh, I will
probably be very sensitive how to talk if it's later on. Okay.
Right really would ask someone with more experience with it. May
Allah protect all of our families from from from having those Bella
it's not easy tribulation, it's a very difficult tribulation.
How to stop yourself from feeling demotivated if to hedge it does
not result in fulfillment to us. It's not a vending machine, have
submit, have edit, have submit, have some persistence to your
personality, have some sandpaper to your personality, have some
grittiness keep going, that's what's going to give you success.
It's not going to be an automatic result. Right? And blame
ourselves, maybe we are the ones with a lot of rust in our hearts.
That needs to be washed off by a decade.
A year, two years, three years, four years it take remember it
takes four years to get a high school diploma. Not even a big
achievement, right.
These days, the kids have little ceremonies every every two steps
they take, right? What What's the ceremony for moving from fifth
grade to sixth grade just stayed alive. Everyone's moving from
sixth grade to sixth grade. You stayed alive. That was the real
that's all it takes. But we do it just for the fun of the kids and
appreciate the teachers and stuff. Eighth grade to high school. Okay,
maybe, right? Maybe high school to college. Ask anyone right now in
their 40s If getting graduating high school felt like an
achievement. They said no, it's just a day. Everyone have
graduated from high school.
Right. But it took four years. So if you value something more than
high school diploma, and it takes more than four years, it's
justified. So have something have grittiness have a type of Junkyard
Dog mentality.
If your parents * do and gave you
everything you wanted all the time right away. That's the problem.
Don't go that route in life. Toughen up. Be be somebody who
will just not take no for an answer. And trust me, I have seen
people who were in situations and I said, there is no way you're
achieving the what you're saying you want to achieve. And they
possessed 00
of the attributes that it would seem for them to need to achieve
their goal. And then I looked back and years past didn't see them for
a while, and they achieved it. I couldn't believe it. I'm telling
you I've seen and let's just say in the dunya if they're doing it
for the dunya imagine for the dean. I have seen it get a kid.
This kid is the biggest nerd socially awkward goofball had ever
seen.
I'm telling you, he would be in our gatherings, and we're trying
to be decent Muslims. Couldn't help laughing at this good. All
right.
But as high schoolers, we just could not believe a human being is
so weird. Right? We couldn't believe it.
Biggest goofiest, weirdest person because because he never had
siblings.
Right? And they never had American parents, that immigrant parents,
and he's all alone all day, just weirdo. And he got in his head
that he wants to be buff.
Rich,
built a he wants to have a Porsche and wants to go to Harvard.
Some dude, you are so far off from all of that. Okay.
And I'm telling you, he got obsessed.
And fast forward 10 years, he had all of that. All of it. Got he got
into Harvard. He got a Porsche.
He got into med school. And he was obsessed with the gym. And he was
buff. He had all of that stuff. Okay. And we saw him at a phase
when he was just a complete goof.
Right. But none of that mattered what mattered was the strength of
his desire number one.
And it fueled a type of personality that was just like he
wanted it so badly. You hit his head against the wall. He's not
going to stop you put a brick wall in front of it. He will not steal
just keep his hitting his head against the wall. He will knock
down every obstacle. And he did. He did I could not believe he got
into Harvard.
Your hardest against Harvard I thought they thought like you are
so weird. You're like an exotic you know, they liked the exotic in
these the some of these schools they got so all the posh kids,
right? Then they need someone exotic.
And then he went and he saved up. And of course, he took some of his
parents didn't have a lot of money. But he saved up he did it.
He got a push.
went to med school. He's gonna be rich.
And he became obsessed with the gym started saying no to
everything. Jim, Jim, Jim everyday Jim, Jim, Jim. He did, right. And
it just goes if he's doing that for the dunya why can't we do
that? And we should be able to do that from the Most Generous of the
creators. So good for him. He proved us all wrong. And on those
fronts that don't do it better than all of us on those fronts.
Zara, the story of Satan the Musa, being a means for the shortening
of Salah from 50 to five, is this a hit? Yes it is.
Showing the Rama
of Allah subhanaw taala through Musa that the Prophet our Prophet
did not ask for the decrease. You say no Musa said the Musa dealt
with people before he was a leader of of a nation so he knows.
Okay.
What is your advice for Muslims going abroad for studying or to
live so that their Eman stay strong? is not about the country
you go to. You can go to Mecca Medina and suffer it's about the
company you keep and the intention you made. And if you believe and
if your mentality
is that, being in this country, I can take my foot off the pedal off
the metal. I can take my foot off the pedal and
The country being here is going to save me, you're in trouble. You're
in trouble.
You have taken the ASVAB. As the Musab know,
what's going to save you is Allah subhanaw taala
answering your DUA and seeing your efforts. So the person who
believes that Allah is only my savior, if he's in Alaska, he will
do better than someone in Medina.
Or, let's say, not say Madina, Munawwara, let's say,
a Muslim country with you
that that person goes there and says, I'm here and they should
save me now. Right? I don't have to do anything. I'm here. Being
here is what should save me? No, you're in actually in big trouble,
really big trouble. Because you've made the sub as the most sub dip.
Right? And that's a problem. So my advice to them is just keep
working as hard as you were working before, don't expect all
these, these this support now, to be able to lift you up, you have
to do the work. And whether you're in the Islamic countries, or you
could be here in New Jersey.
If you're directed to Allah that's what really what benefits you
it's the samba it's the the scrapping mentality
I cannot get rid of a trial says Muhammad that I'm currently
facing, it just doesn't seem to get better. I make constant dua,
repentance, give sadaqa any advice? Check, check all it see if
any, there are prohibitions, okay? And sometimes there is no
solution. Allah is teaching you to be gritty, to be tough to have
sandpaper in your personality.
Okay.
Okay.
Maybe that's what Allah is teaching you.
So sometimes Allah does not elevate a trial, especially if
let's not saying about him. But if it's a trial of like, someone like
someone's bothering you, or a temptation, Allah will keep that
to test to make you learn. What
sits actually means, what it means to have sub what it means to do
certain things cannot be taught as concepts. You have to live them.
That's it. So
what do you do when you lack ambition? Well, like I said, when
you feel like you're totally lacking ambition, that's when you
have to shut your eyes, skin, your heart, and see what makes me feel
good. Feel great on the inside. That's what's going to motivate
you. Right? What would make you feel like I want to get up and go
get it right now. You have to paint that
image in your mind in your imagination. That's what's gonna
get you out of a funk.
Right?
Okay.
What is the difference between being analytical and emotional?
Or intuitive or rational?
Well
analytical
is your brain emotional and intuitive? Is your heart
analytical and rational is your brain emotional and intuitive is
your heart. Right? And I think that the relationship is that you
need your heart to create desire. But then you need to use your
brain to achieve the desire.
Right? And when you start giving up, you need to tap back into your
heart. Why do I Why do I do this? Why do I love this, remind
yourself, do what you love. And then keep going. And the heart
that swings from one thing to the next. That's a person who never
achieves anything. So now he's into Islam. Two weeks later, he's
into like real estate. A year later, he's into No, you can be
into all these things at once, but
you don't like unstirred instability.
Right? If like you're into something, be into it. If it's
serious, a serious matter like the dean, this is serious matter,
right?
It takes your whole life to be part of this. You don't waver on
this. You may have strong days and weekdays but I would not trust
somebody. Oh, he's all into the Dean this year and all of a sudden
next year he's
Yeah, next year. He's like into something far off.
doesn't make any sense to me. Like, if you make an intention,
make that intention, you're only going to really truly reap the
benefits of anything you do after about 20 years. That's the truth,
even medical school, you want to be a doctor, you want to be rich,
alright, good, you're probably going to be paying back all those
loans for the first 10 years of your your life, right?
Of your work life, 10 years to become a doctor 10 years to pay it
all off. Now you start reaping the fruits of it after it's paid off,
right? Don't ask me about the loans and all that there's no
solution for that
you can't have you if you're emotional, slash intuitive.
Only,
your life's not going to work. If you're analytical and rational
only your life's not gonna work. If you want to learn both. This is
one of the wonders of how Allah gave us a mother and a father.
Right? One will be tend to be more intuitive and emotional than the
other. And by the way,
for sure, for sure.
I believe that women have in general, a more of an emotional
intelligence of sensitivity how to talk to people, right? than the
guys do.
Right. But that doesn't always mean that the guy is the rational
one, the woman's emotional one. Intuition or the ability to coax
people to be sensitive is different sensitivities. Different
sensitivity is I believe, is different than emotional. A man
can be emotional and rash. Okay, and make terrible decisions in his
life. Why whereas the woman Allah granted them suburb to think
things through first, I've seen that firsthand.
So don't always confuse it, that it's 100% Always along gender
lines. What I believe is always along gender lines is the natural
sensitivity that a women will have in communication. Like they read
body language better they see when people got upset, they know that
this word upset them. And sometimes us guys may not see
that, right? We just like railroad over people with facts and reason.
And no realize that they got upset that I think is there's more
universal to be able to say, than to simply say that men are just
purely rational and women are emotional. I think that there can
be many men who do make destructive emotional decisions to
while many women can make sound logical decisions and a lot of us
but I think that's driven by Takotsubo
okay.
The person says I committed some wrongs and I feel embarrassed to
make dua to Allah das shaytaan keep going back to Allah make Toba
and keep going back. Never be embarrassed to make dua and say, I
don't deserve it. No, no, make Toba and go back to a law a term
woman and then become a law them by law that is a bliss trying to
get you off the path of alotta.
And if you lost your motivation, like go back to what we said that
meditation of and you have to be in touch with how you are
actually, motivation is from the heart. Right? So how do I get
myself to be excited about something again, you shut your
eyes and you paint that conclusion. The best business
advice that someone gave me it's actually life advice. He said, I
said, Hey, give me some advice on how to run things. He said, Okay.
Tell me right now, if you had all the resources in the world, what
would your product look like? What would your business look like? I
was like shocked. I never thought about it that way. Always think
about the limitations you have. He said no, no, forget all that. Tell
me what your goals are. And I'm like well, what's the point of
that when I don't have the resources? Just tell me because we
don't have a direction if you don't paint this picture for us.
We don't know where we're going. We don't have an address.
Yes.
Yeah, he's got that down. He's got that down. We have to have that
picture first.
Then we could actually go there. So that's the idea sometimes you
have to go to the backend first. What is the conclusion look like?
How do you deal with the inner turmoil of a city trying to bring
bars clubs I'm politically involved but I'm trying not to
feel intimidated by powerful by the powerful in this situation. I
think you got to keep fighting. You got to make alliances. Try to
make alliances try to find people who can support you as a group.
Try to get maybe the the Conservatives with you.
A sister asks, I have been having many nosebleeds lately and I'm
worried about accidentally tasting the blood during Ramadan would it
break my fast Yeah, and I know the impossible situations do not break
your fast like let's say I'm walking around without
have an umbrella and the rain is coming down guarantee at some
point some rain will enter your mouth. You're not taking for that.
Except if you're sloppy about it, let alone intentionally we know
but if you were sloppy about it so you know in Ramadan, you can do
this right? Likewise if you get nosebleeds have always have
tissues with you while you're fasting so you could stop it.
If you're walking in Ramadan and some dust enters your mouth,
you're not. If you're cognizant of it, you can spit it out. But if
you're not even at it's completely impossible, otherwise you're not
taking into account for them.
Proper gender interactions for an unmarried person who has married
friends and generally online. There's really, you just ask
yourself the business what's my business with this person?
What is my business with this person? And don't create business?
Fake business? Oh, I have to text them for demo purposes. No, you
know,
oh, I need to make sure I share this video with them. Later.
Someone else will do the other Mani sisters to do that. Well,
you're not have to be the Savior here. That shaytaan tricking you.
Oh, we have to work on the homework assignments together.
Since when do you do homework in the first place? Right now all of
a sudden you have to do homework.
Sheets Andres is desperate to do business with this person. If it's
business with this person it should be out in the open above
board doesn't have to be private.
How can someone be become wealthy according to the dean,
you make the intention you ask Allah to show you the way many
wealthy people in the community that's how they do it
does it mean anything if suddenly Allah opens the path to visit many
Sikh family or those giving birth or random family like traveling
somewhere and suddenly also their
question got off
I don't know if it means something that suddenly you're able to visit
people I guess you can learn something from them and maybe
they're gonna learn something from you
remember tonight is little drama is the night of Salah on the
Prophet so get busy with that, especially as my video comes in.
It is said that the final messenger was sent to a people who
that didn't receive a messenger before no they did receive
messages before they did receive messages before.
How can tumor cells get to know each other in a non Muslim country
through intermediary through an upright family couple that can
facilitate the meeting and sitting together a number of times without
necessarily being in and doing anything close to haram or
suspicious or that people could say something bad about you.
Sniffing water in your nose for hustle for will do rinsing your
mouth and fasting Yes, it's permitted.
Can I eat KFC? That is Khaled Yes. If it's truly halal, why not?
Okay
yeah, not say Bismillah and eat halal not it's a Christian country
halal. There's no such thing as a Christian country. Okay, and the
Christians are slaughter.
You said shahada must be on the tongue. Why? The only reason that
you have justification not to c'est la ilaha illAllah Muhammad
Rasul Allah is that if someone else will die or you will die, or
they will cut off someone else's limb or cut off one of your limbs,
then you may say keeping my Shahada secret is hard for me.
Of course for now, what is he? He's the he's the kink. So there's
no one going to harm anybody else by him saying the shad
good.
Ibrahim Khan says motivation is overrated discipline is
everything. They got to go hand in hand for someone who doesn't have
discipline to get disciplines
can a Muslim
add their pronouns on social media? No.
That's like having a haircut that only the Philippine have or
wearing a badge that only fess up enough
I'm done with them. Right there on the spot finished. I have no
relationship with you.
Here you go. I don't know who you keep who you hang out with. I know
what kind of company keeps on done with you. Some of you out there
might have to
deal with those people but I don't have my lucky but that doesn't
help because smell break your fast. Yes, inhaling before someone
breaks your fast because it could come from a drop of liquid that
could go at your throat
What else we got here?
Yeah, what did they say?
Which one is that?
Is it possible to say that the wife is always right?
In real life,
in real life, in the heat of the moment,
there is pretty much no point in telling your wife, she's wrong
there is no point,
what you need to do
is that you need to deflate that situation right away. Later on,
when the mood is better when the mood is changed, when you earn
some credit, you may introduce the new idea that you're trying to
say.
Mufasa set,
right, that is a big enough set. There are some relationships, you
don't want to have any of this ever, right? So if that bull is
coming at you just get out of the way, right? Oh, yes, fine, that's
fine.
Later on, when the mood is better, when people are
in a open minded situation, vibe, mode, mood, whatever you want to
call it, then you may implant in a very nice, gentle way. You got to
watch the movie Inception and put into incept the idea of the
opposite of what you believe is written in a nice way that can be
swallowed, right? So and Allah knows best, every husband will
have their thing every wife will have their thing so there are no
set rules for this stuff.
Except the rules of actually what actually works and what doesn't.
And that's why rational people who only deal with books they don't
they don't succeed in marriages until they hit walls and then they
start to learn how to talk how to deal with each other
what kind of meditation a bad did the Prophet doing? Devote Hara
Hello Adam. We know maybe some of the old a Baghdad at the time of
Prophet Ibrahim some thick things like that. Couple more questions
before we wrap up
you talked about keeping your shahada secret for the same reason
and mbf 98 Coincidentally, I listened to it today. Subhanallah
you see that and my Imam at the masjid also talks about it
Subhanallah so now we all know the ruling right?
know he's not a Muslim.
That he's not a Muslim.
non Muslim?
Can someone be extravagant when it comes to fragrances? And shallots?
The Prophet did say that money is not wasted on fragrances. I
believe that means that
within a set of norms, I believe because other people benefit from
the fragrance. That's why
can a woman wear something with animal prints? Yes. Why not? You
can wear a cheetah fur if you want salad for us. We're not one of
those people.
No, we're not we were first.
But we should make use of the animal too by eating it if it's an
edible animal. So Native Americans, how do they keep warm?
They have to eat? They have to cut things and we're first we're not
vegans and vegetarians and animal rights activists here. They go to
an extreme they have no limits. They don't know when to stop you
notice that the secular movements never know when to stop. Alright
feminists first wave feminism Okay, got that you're those
rights? What's the second wave feminist third wave you okay? You
got those rights? They don't know when to stop. We know when to stop
we as Muslims, we would know when to stop. Right? Huh? Yeah, it's
the fasten the fears, they don't know what to stop
it they don't know when to stop making the movies, right? They
don't know when to stop making the movements.
So first wave, second wave, third wave, fourth wave. The animal
rights people. When do you stop? You don't know when is the HUD of
where's the animal to be used? What is it not to be used? We have
a very simple rule. The animal is meant to serve the human beings
benefit. The animal may not be
tortured. You cannot destroy their life. I mean, like they're their
habitats. All we have they have rights. But we also have rights
when we need to use them. We are allowed to slaughter them.
Simple as that. Beyond that, they should be fed they should be
treated if they're bothering the human being the human being takes
priority. So if there's all sorts of roving wolves and coyotes,
we're going to shoot them right. We are going to shoot them
They're human takes priority.
All right, you have a situation that's very unfortunate Hammurabi
or whatever that monkey that gorilla was called. What is it
called? Haram? B.
It's terrible what happened but guess what in Islam caging him
would be haram in the first place. How's that?
Why are you caging, an animal that has testosterone and needs to move
and get stuff and mover, this is not some kind of peacock that you
just is happy in the zoo.
You're doing him a favor, zebra, you're doing them a favor. All the
herbivores, you're probably doing them a favor to have them in a
habitat and will be eaten.
But lions and tigers and bears this all this hump for us. Leave
them alone. If they bother us, we will shoot them. If we need to use
their first to get to stay warm. We will slaughter them and have
their first if I want to wear their first because it's
beautiful. I will wear their first right. So at so secular movements,
they don't have a limit. It will just keep going. Right? And that's
the problem with these things. When is it going to stop for these
secular movements?
This may seem like an odd question, but I keep seeing people
online saying women are not allowed to work.
They say that there is too much fitna. Nowadays
not all places have
fitna an Islamic school for example, when I have a fitna
that there could be fitna there that could be fitna in a hospital.
But it's it's about the permissibility of the work and the
modesty that has that takes place in the work that you think Dawa
doesn't have fitna.
Right. You think Tao doesn't have fitna you think you working in an
Islamic organization like Islamic Relief? You think she you don't
have fitna they have a lot of fitna.
When when a student of knowledge gets inappropriate when a
volunteer doesn't know their limits, when an employee becomes
too interested in the shape, right, or the Imam or the day or
whatever, what have you. You don't think there has been fitna in hip
schools.
fitna is everywhere. Of course, it could be more places than others.
So it's about the collapse. It's about the HIA and it's about the
taqwa of the people. And at the same time, there are certain
things that totally hunta
where are the jobs that will revolve level, the jobs are by so
much traveling alone.
What is Chief Latif saying about LinkedIn?
How do you deal with a coworker trying to have you call them by
their preferred pronouns?
All right. Sometimes I would just I would have to just I'm not going
to lose my job for that. I wouldn't lose my job.
If you doubt having to do yes, you have to redo it in the medical
school. Yeah. cannot have doubt about what were you gonna say?
Right? My dad was saying that his work, there was a
South Asian guy who changed his gender. He became a woman. Wow,
there was one co worker who would always call him by his old name.
They refuse to accept but he would like make it seem like it's an
accident. Oh.
I don't understand the pronoun thing because you're not there
when I use your pronoun, right? You are not there unless you
change your name to Allison or something. You are not there when
I when you change when I talk to you about your pronouns
is it
the burden is very hard to do. How to you need to index and
everyone's pronoun it's not practical at all. It's not
practical. I don't even know your name first of all, now you want me
to know a call use a different pronoun behind your back. I'm not
doing that. No, I'm not doing that behind your back. I need you to
call them refer to so that's like me saying hey guys, Sabina side
announcement from here on I want you when I'm not here referred to
me as
a shaker quick bit of both. What is ridiculous is ridiculous.
Can we watch movies the cartoons about Satan the Musa etcetera
Tada. No.
And I'm Lodi saying I showed the prince of Egypt about the story of
Moses apparent send me an angry email because I showed the movie
of the students. Yeah. So on your fire to
pink slips animality
permanent file. No, just kidding. But yeah, you shouldn't show that
movie to an Islamic school.
Right. Are there more Malachy.
fit classes yes they will be
remembered by happy said building flat Graves is a sign of people a
bit maybe at that time when it was not needed but a flat grave that
marks that there is a grave there right and marks the name so that
people can visit them that is permitted that is acceptable maybe
at that time only the people have been did that
yeah
but I guess he met a stone for that gravestone. Is that what you
mean by that? I guess that yeah
typhoon serais objecting because I'm not answering his questions
let me go up and look for typhoon
which one
Oh, it there's nothing special about it. It's all just regular
Islamic stores and shops and stuff.
Not there's no secrets of location except my the Koofi that I have I
need a factory by the way. Anyone who has a like a desi factory or
anything that you want to do a favor for a Muslim brother. Okay
give me a Pakistani factory or one of these factories so I can just
send them one sample and they could just make me like
yeah
Can one follow Maliki lip moving in Salah?
For the silent prayers, not for the out loud you have to hear
yourself at the very least.
Are women allowed to wear minimal jewelry? If it makes no noise?
Yes.
It's about the noise and the attention getting that's what it
is about. It's about noise and attention getting. Typhoon says
tomorrow Turkish mosques in the Netherlands are going to be
praying that Janessa that the Prophet only prayed once for the
Christians who became Muslim so coincidental. Subhanallah
so that's about it basically, for all the earthquake victims exist I
believe in the Shafi school I don't know what the Hanafi school
I don't think so but
let's go and move on to see what else
we got to leave we got to go to Boonton
right
we not going to be for number one, but also, I really don't want to
hit traffic, right?
How do we know when to stop making dua for something when you stop
wanting it? As long as it's possible, and you still want it?
Go for it. If you don't want it you stop making dua for it. If it
becomes physically impossible because someone died
then you stop. You can't make dua for it anymore. But if it seems
like there is a there are a million obstacles that does
nothing nothing obstacles are nothing for Allah
guess what a sheer Adrian Kirk posted on his Facebook that this
man who was beaten to a pulp completely innocent.
According to all the reports,
Tyree Nichols after this he after that he was turned out he was a
Muslim after all this time.
He's a Shaheed
as Shaheed he is a Shaheed be into a pulp for no reason whatsoever.
Those Those officers, okay, and I'm the I'm the religious advisor
for the Muslim officers here. I love them. I have nothing against
the police. You commit a murder like that and you're supposed to
be the law enforcement.
You really should have a double punishment.
Here it's got to be always got to be worse. It can't just be the
death penalty.
It's gotta be worse. I'm a proponent of the death penalty
with the President actually committed the crimes if he
actually committed the murder.
I find I live for life but the inheritors get to choose not the
state. Not the state, not the judge, not the jury. The
inheritors, Tyree Nichols has a mom got a dad
has does he have kids? I don't know. Does he have a wife? I
don't. Yes, he did. He had a wife and kids and a mom and a dad. He
had
As for inheritance, he has one kid, one mom, one kid. And then
wife, Mom, Dad, that's for inheritors. They're the ones who
should choose. Do we want the compensation? Do we want?
The one compensation? Do we want to forgive him? Or do you want the
death penalty? If one person says raise your hand says no death
penalty? Okay, then there's no death penalty. Now we ask them the
question compensation. If the wife says I want compensation, the dad
says forget I don't want the compensation. And everyone else
says we want compensation, you get the compensation based upon the
percentage that you would have earned. And and how many of them
killed you killed them? There were what five guys beat him down. And
two were involved. That seven you're all guilty.
That said, Yeah, I'm just telling you what the sheer would look
like. We know it's not gonna happen. But I know. I'm telling
you what the shape would look like. Just to have an idea this
justice is far better. That justice brings the victim's family
front and center. Why would I have some Judge Jury and some judge
decide the sentencing?
How is that fair? This is not a crime done against the state. This
is a crime done against a human being
their family should decide this.
What is your opinion on HIV sisters who record their workouts
and posted online? If it's only for women's I would still be
against it? Like a women's only? I would still be against it. You
don't know who's behind these accounts?
Yeah.
Yes, we there's not, there's no need for this. If you want to do
this, do it in person, where there's no written record for
this. Because
any guy could take his sister's phone or his wife's phone and go
into these private Instagram accounts. By these private
Instagram accounts. They're not so private. There's a guy who's
bashing me. There is a guy who's raised a big threat against me.
I'm gonna expose him I'm gonna we're gonna address him over
something I said that was like totally normal. All the scholars
agreed with it, right? He didn't like and he thinks that. I'm like,
trying to attack his scholars by saying the opposite opinion. By
the way, for this guy, he knows who he is. All of what you think
is a private Instagram feed. It's gotten to me, it's gotten to
everybody. Right? There's no point in private Instagram feeds. Right?
And then being embarrassed when they're out there and exposed.
Listen,
I don't want to have some beef with another Muslim pious Muslim.
Right? I'd rather
smooth it over. I don't know what all the big talk is right over
what? Literally over what but
I'd rather smooth it over with every Muslim possible
Be careful what you put online even if you think it's private.
Right? Even if you think it's private, anybody could get it.
Alright, let's close out with a note here
last question, can we defend the USA if the home of the free is
invaded? Any country that you're you're involved with right that
you live in.
You are allowed to defend it from invaders
you are allowed to to protect it not only allowed to fight it
because
you're defending your home is fought and therefore defending
your city becomes further than defending your country may be
comfort to
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