Shadee Elmasry – NBF 176 Surat al Tahrim
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Padilla who earlier was Army woman, hello, welcome everybody to
the Safina society nothing but facts live stream, where we are
today on a day where unfortunately, very sad news that
the death toll continues to count in Turkey. And that's going to be
the first thing that we mentioned. And the first thing that our
hearts are connected to, is that terrible situation. And that is
now passed 4000 deaths. Unfortunately, it's now passed for
4000 deaths. May Allah subhanaw taala bless or give Rama to all
those who are suffering, right? Are we on on Instagram to, okay?
May Allah try to give them
and, and some of the images now we're not supposed to see these
images
without moving our hearts moving because it's
I saw one image yesterday, where it will look like a husband and
wife or a father and a daughter, I couldn't really tell because
there's so much cement dust on their heads, but their heads were
sticking out. And he was literally holding her like this.
And their heads were sticking out, covered in cement in dust. And
that's how they died. He died holding whether that hits his
daughter, or it was his wife. I don't know what it was. But it
just
images that you can imagine now that in the age of cell phones
where everyone's got images and ability to take any quick images,
there was an image where people were driving. And they literally
saw about a seven storey building.
Maybe six, five or six, seven storey building, literally just
collapse
it right in front of their own eyes.
It's scary stuff. And it's it's stuff that is when these things
happen. It's almost like a little bit of human sign of lpm. That's
what it's going to feel like when people are resurrected. There's a
while Korea, people are resurrected, and it's utter chaos.
And that chaos though, is all the sins of people. When we're
resurrect. We're told this and this is transmitted knowledge. We
believe it based on a habit of Sadhak it's transmitted knowledge
to us prophesy Salim said that the pm has a world calamities and
those calamities, what are they they're the sins of the people,
right? Coming in forms. And the Prophet said that, for example, a
person will be thrown into it, there'll be a river of blood. Now
we may see it, and not be affected by it. But it will nonetheless
scare us. We live today with people and we don't see their
sins. We just see flesh and bones, it's covered up. You come on Yom
Okayama. And those sins are out there. And everyone's sins are
there. They might not hit you. But you will see them
and you'll be scared. Right? It will be scary. And that's and then
the actual meaning the end of time.
That's that's only happens to a select few right that are on the
earth and no believers will see that the last day on earth is a
massive earthquake. But that's only a few people will see that
relative to humanity. Yokoyama is seen by everybody, right, everyone
will see will experience this, and you'll be next to somebody, you
will see their good and bad in manifest form.
Good and bad of that person, but it will only be striking them. So
you may see a wild beast, chasing one individual going through
everyone else that wild beast has no business with anyone else with
that person. And you're seeing that. So you're in a complete
state of fear seeing those sent? Well, that's what sins are.
They're extremely ugly things. There's lack of drama.
Because Allah's command leads to drama. And the opposite leads to
the absence of drama. There's not like an it's the polar opposite.
There's no neutral anymore. You're either in sins or you're in or
you're in thaw. So we ask Allah to add offensive lineman from that
there is a type of desensitization is always a topic when people talk
about this. Now, my my take on this is as follows. The
desensitization, desensitization that's bad for us is when we see
calamities happening to people and our heart doesn't move,
or we see Masia and our heart doesn't get affected. That's
the one desensitization that's about there is a desensitization
that I think is important, at least for guys whose job it is in
life to protect their families should not be you shouldn't be
desensitized and you should not be so sensitive to
that which relates to defending your family. So I remember I
probably told
will destroy million times. But
I was with a man from Connecticut. We were driving from New Haven up
to Boston, Massachusetts, about two hour two hour trip. And I was
like falling asleep. And I said to him, tell me stories talk to me
about your past. This man became Muslim in the 60s or 70s.
And then cleaned up the community. And he was, you know, like a type
of guy who was a gangster, essentially. And he turned into an
upright leader of the community. So I asked him, like, how did you
clean up the community, he went on talking about how his whole life
was fighting. His whole life. He never lived in the law, never
lived within the confines of the law. And he said, in order to
survive in this world, that his world,
you can't have any hesitation.
Everything that you look at is a potential weapon. So he picked up
his keys, right? He said, like you see something like this, like this
key here. And he said that you're in a fight with a guy.
If you have any queasiness if you have any hesitation at sticking
this key inside of his eyeball and twisting it, and then flicking it
out. You're dead. Like you can not hesitate. I'm sitting there in the
in the van.
And I'm asking, I'm looking in the rearview mirror and you guys
awake, I feel like being alone with this conversation, right? And
I'm driving down Highway 91 In the middle of the night. And he's
telling me this story, but then again, I thought, well, that's
important. Anything that requires a fight a physical fight, and your
job by city is to defend your family.
And in the in the city, I says when there is a suspicion that
you're going to be attacked,
that's enough grounds to attack. Okay? When you have a suspicion
that someone is going if the guy comes into your into your your
house, right, a thief? Now the law in New Jersey says you can't kill
somebody
until they show they show evidence that they're trying to kill you
now, am I going to wait?
So I don't have the law makes no sense. I think they made this law
for the mafia, right? Because the mafia would just like guy comes
in, they kill them. And they say, Oh, he broke in the house, they go
break the door, and they say he broken out. So he killed him. I
think they changed the law for that reason. But think about this,
am I going to sit there and wait until a guy shows evidence that
he's going to harm me so I don't have to kill the guy but there can
be debilitating harm to stopping him from harming us. And that
stuff is part of to me it's a part of the job of any husband and the
father that you you looked at and if you're single and you want to
defend yourself and you want to be you know peaceful and woke and all
that stuff, okay, go get smacked around and killed yourself. But
you are responsible now for a husband for wife and kids. There
has to be a sense that you're not there's no hesitation now, when we
ever going to do that? Rarely, but at least we can prepare by seeing
so I actually believe that it's pretty good it's good to to for a
man to to be decent says all the past they fought wars all the
time. Go to he says he can't be the Khalifa if he's queasy.
Because he has to establish Oh dude, and he has to go to war. If
he's going to be queasy about these things, he's not suitable to
protect his family. So this is not about like being tough and
watching like a gruesome movies. It's practical to me and my
believe it's practical. If you are nervous about inflicting harm on
somebody you cannot protect. You can can't be a protector. Some
people excruciating pain must be delivered to them. Anyone who's
trying to harm you, okay.
harm your family. How are you going to respond back? And I got I
bet you like a lot of people, they have never inflicted any harm on
anybody because they lived such a peaceful life. And what did all
the philosophers say? And common sense tells us
good times. They create soft men. A man who has never been in a
fight. He's never had to inflict pain upon somebody.
It's a problem. Now it's a little aside there on the issue of
desensitization. desensitization is not for everything or everyone
there are certain things you shouldn't be desensitized to.
I know it's probably like
not a popular topic amongst women, but it doesn't have to be because
you're not the protectors. You You can be
sensitive to that, but a guy who is the protector and that's our
Cydia, whether people like it or not your husband, we have roles.
It may not be like the old night American 1950s role where the
woman is always in the apron. Right and making you know cookies
for the husband and bringing him his slippers. That's what they
think gender roles right. That's what they imagined gender roles.
That's what they think. No, we don't really have it like that the
gender role for
US is a man, he has to do everything that's that's, that's
violent and dangerous. And the women don't do the things that
require some more compassion. The man supplies the wealth.
Right? The woman doesn't have to supply any money. These basic
things, that is what
our gender role is, and you're going to tell me a woman is going
to be attracted to a man who can talk about, you know, love and all
that stuff until some other dude comes and smacks him around.
What's the value of all that poetry and all that love and all
that romance? Look, look at all you want to know what true nature
is one of the best reflections of nature is, is economics. Go and
find me one of these romance novels, dude, I don't know if you
remember this stuff. Do you remember when romance novels were
a thing? And women would read these romance novels? Right? And
there was a section, we'd all like make fun of it. A section of
romance novels. Okay. Like Nancy Roberts, I think her name was she
was the author that made millions off of this. All right, let's go
and look at all the guys on the romance I was because that's what
women are paying for. They're paying for it because they love
it. Right? You see a skinny poet. Right? Have you ever seen one of
them on the cover? Or is it some guy who can protect right with big
hands, and he's tough. That's what was on the covers. That's what
women are paying for. So fitrah, the fitrah of people is women
would want to get into prayer that protects her. What's wrong with
that? Okay, so I really don't care about what the world culture tells
us today. Actually, I want to know what they say because the truth is
probably the opposite. And they're always portraying a guy who's
effeminate, who's weak, right? Who gets made fun of who gets used
unable to ever harm a fly. Okay. And that's like, that guy is to
borrow some from modern talk. He's always in the friend circle. And
that friend circle never passes a certain other limit. Right. So
that's a little take on sensitization and desensitization.
What is resilient jujitsu? Exactly? Turn your mic on and tell
us like BJJ is basically just as a martial art with like, chokeholds
and, you know, taking people to the ground and wrestling style.
It's more than hitting wrestling. But yeah, it's not hitting. I
understand. But we should have something like this in the masjid.
Yeah. You know, I should monthly program. I actually believe that
gym class in schools canceled foot martial arts. This is what is the
point oh, and all this stuff. Waste of time. absolute waste of
time, no life skill. So we're going to spend one month playing
basketball one month running the mile one month playing volleyball
one month playing floor hockey. Waste of time. I was at this
basketball game. Yeah. My dad and basically I was looking at it.
Yeah. And they got both bands on both sides of the court. And I go
back and forth plan. I'm like they're just pretending to be at
war. This is like a fake fluffy, colorful war. Sports is our
replacement for war. Sports is the replacement for right. And that's
why that's why people love to be on tribes. They they're faking it
because we're too rich. We have no actual real wars here.
So we're too safe. So but we have to as human beings, we need to to
fake it. Because we love it guys love it. All right. Only thing
that's not nice about war is some of the results right? And you
realize afterwards why Prophet said never Oh is seek to meet the
enemy. Right? You think that it's all great when you go into it? But
how are you going to feel when you come out without a nose? Without
an eye? Without an arm? Right? So not it's worse than you we
imagined it is?
Who is who was?
Who is joy? Diego Guadalupe. Oh, he can provide classes. Well,
where does he live? Communicate with Ryan? And if we want to set
it up, we should set it up.
Kaktovik we've we've wanted we want it to be a mastery program.
Yeah, and personally, I want to I think gym classes should be
eliminated and have martial arts classes. But at least the
wrestling part not the anything that would cause black and blues.
And the problem with like, whether or not we go to a judo class, we
go up like drive an hour, but this guy was just like, you know,
making sujood the pictures of the founder of judo. And like we were
like, I think you remember this we were asking about like we told him
we don't want to bow Yeah, like I've had Muslims here and they
don't ever say none of this. And so we just stopped going because
it was a waste of time. You know all these karate schools. They're
treated like to Rica's they have chains. They got the karate master
up there, right. And they and they it's like, all these things, but
I'm totally all for
a military
Ristic streak for all of us. Right? And I'm telling you you
want to know and uh, no offense to you
get out of California. They produce what he said. No offense
to be honest with you. shikigami is an exception
or AMI is an exception. Sheikh Abdullah Abdullah bin Hamad it is
not really from there he's from he's from Philly. There are
exceptions, I'm sure. But that vibe out there these are the
techie boys and stuff. And they're I mean
Yeah.
Yo Mama says Sheikh Abdullah adoro came don't you meet him last week
right before
he came to our messenger he spoke about masculine and modesty you
mentioned that all kids should learn combat skills. It's it's up
here first, it all starts up here. Right? It starts up your you can
be the least the least physically capable. But if you up here
understand the requirement and you put the put it where it belongs.
It's not just a raw instinct. Let's go and be tough guys and MMA
that's tough. It's actually haram. Right? So but it you have it up
here, why am I doing this? You will be successful, right? Even if
you don't if you lack all the physical capabilities and
qualities, you can pick them up in different ways. Who can't be a
fighter? What could be a sniper?
Right.
And another life I wouldn't mind have been an assassin. Right? An
assassin I've to.
Yeah, I've been assassin. Listen, I'm not I want to do the thing in
a suit. I'd be a pirate. Pirate, I'd be the opposite. No, I'd be
down to be an assassin. I'm in the app. Give me the assignment. I
don't want to see anybody. Give me the assignment. When the
assignment is done. I take a picture for you or you'll see it
in the media. I want that 75 grand in my bank account. I don't have
to work for another month. I take another assignment next month.
Right so low. I'm at peace. I go to a five star hotel, drill a hole
in the window. Do the shot, right take the shot pack up in a suit. I
don't want to get blood on me. Right. That's that's how that's
how I would operate.
All right, here we go.
Tough see it.
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Allah Allah if not best an eye and if not best able into her yeah,
man her como la Huzzah. Allahu Allah, Allah.
When I'm ready with law to
protect yourself and your families from the fire.
Far more important, you want to protect them and we all believe
okay.
That
we have to protect your family from of this life. We know that
and we haven't really been tested. We haven't been tested. But
we also the job of a husband, a job of a man the job of a father
is to protect them from fits into shape on from Shubo. hurts from
shallot from entering the house. You don't want you wouldn't accept
for a stranger to enter the house. Right? No father would
would you accept for 1000 strangers to enter your your kid's
room? And isn't that what your kid's doing on the laptop in his
room at one in the morning?
You would not accept for one stranger to enter the house, would
you?
But why are you accepting for 1000 guys and girls to enter your kid's
bedroom with them? And it's as if they're there. The only thing that
and don't say it but they're not physically being harmed? Yes, they
are. * is a physical harm.
That is a physical harm. It's spiritual harm. It's a physical
harm everything else. Would you allow a stranger to come in and
say let me entertain your kids all night while you're asleep? In the
house alone, but I won't touch them. That's all I'll do. I just
won't touch them. It's ridiculous. This That's your job. That's to
me. That is a harder job these days. Living them in the western
life than physical harm, physical harm. It rarely happens. We'll
probably live our whole life. Never once. Did we ever have to
actually lift a finger to protect our family, right? Chances are
chances are
but every single day we're being attacked by bliss.
Every single day, your kids or people are coming to attack you
and the amount of the amount of imagery the amount of sites right
now that are that can come through. It's past how many how
many websites are there out there and
The millions upon millions majority of the web is that is
suffer it's lewdness and it's it just goes to show that human
nature is never changes. We create this amazing technology what do we
use it for the bear instinct the base instinct of humanity right?
That if humanity it has to rise above that we have an amazing
accomplishment here what are we going to do the same old thing as
as we've always been doing? Right. So spiritual power in this day and
age is greater of a need and physical power right.
greater need no doubt about
it means here mudo humble higher command the good forbid the wrong
in your own homes while limo Home Depot home okay
to cool him be daddy Canara teach them guide them you will there be
thereby be protecting yourself from the fire and protecting them
from the fire will go to her nurse who will hijack or lay hemella
kids on whether or not she dead soon Alana Amara will
get you think that everyone's got different skills some people will
advance in physical I feel bad for the guys who are advanced in the
physical realm today.
Because there's there's no room for there's nothing for you to do
to be quite honest with you. Right? There is literally nothing
Okay, so you got all the guns, and you your your 10 time black belt
in jujitsu
and you live in in a cul de sac? No, that ever gonna happen. All
right.
Spiritual power is far more important in this day and age.
Now, if you tell me that you're living in Syria, you want me to
check the email, right? Okay.
If you're living in Syria, if you're living in Iraq, and ISIS is
roaming around, then you need a garage, you need a closet full of
guns. And you need to be a gank. Right you need to have, by the
way, it doesn't even work like this. Okay, so seven guys come at
you. A roving Gang of Seven comes to you during some crazy power
outage and they need supplies. And you have a wall of guns. You can
only shoot with one finger, right? And they got seven fingers. Right?
You need a gank
and we don't have that in the in the suburban life.
Right? Everyone lives like five minutes away from everyone else
doesn't work like this. So I would say
Good. Spiritual power is far more important these days. Because
chances are you will need your spiritual power you will need to
fight these things.
Every single day. You fight yourself every single day. Whereas
physical labor physical fighting physical stuff. It's if it comes
90% of the people won't be ready.
But also 95% of chance is not going to come in our lifetime. I
would say 5% chance we're going to need it and I do believe we should
be planning we shouldn't be playing I want to buy a farm and
under that farm
have a massive basement like a
bunker essentially and that bunker should be loaded with supplies. It
should be loaded with everything.
I really believe that that day make up 5% chance maybe 2% chance
it may come but I know for sure 100% chance and it has already
come the spiritual fight. That's already here. That's far more
important than the physical fight. Okay
okay.
Well, old uns will Hijra Johanna jahannam. It's the fuel of the
fire is is human beings and rocks. Okay, that's the fuel of the fire
upon it, our angels. Okay. These angels are managing the fire and
they're called xebia Ania.
We're talking about suited to Hareem Allah describing the fire
and he's saying protect your family from the fire.
Lay as soon Allah humma mo were found on a mountain model. They do
not disobey Allah, what He commanded him with them. And they
do what he was. They're told, and some have said about them. They're
blind, they're deaf, they don't have noses.
They don't have ears and they don't have eyes. Because if they
did,
they would have no ability to it would be so gruesome what they're
doing, that the natural Rama that Allah creates and everybody
they wouldn't be able to do it. So Allah has created them.
Allow them this is some set blind
are deaf, and they have no sense of smell either. Because the smell
of the skin burning off the smell of the site, the sound of the
screams of grown men
in the fire and women in the fire.
Yeah, you're already in a cover letter today William, in the metro
Zona quantum Domino, yeah, y'all Edina avenue to a little lighter
button as well. Some of them say this is the saying of the angels
on Allah knows best. Or it is simply a command of saying of
Allah. Oh, you who disbelieved. You had your whole life, to fix
yourself. You had your whole life to do this. And what did you do?
You chose to live that life, Alan Cooper. Right. And what happens in
this life is a microcosm of what you would have done for eternity.
That is our belief. What you do in this life in terms of your Arcada
it reflects what you would have done if you had lived eternally.
Some people, they only get 30 years of life. But that 30 years
minus the first 10 years of life, he's a child, take off another
three years, maybe he didn't reach below yet. So 15 years, that 15
years, your position regarding God and His messenger
and belief and hypocrisy. And all that
is a microcosm of what you would have done for eternity. If you
were to live, not 15 years, but 15,000 years, same result.
That's that is what we believe about life.
So don't say that, Oh, I'm only getting 15 years, but I'm living
in eternity. Know that 15 years, whatever you live when you're
given 80 or 70 years, that's what you would have done eternally.
Okay. And that's why the reward of it or the punishment of it is
eternal.
I saw it he says here tow button Nasu habia and full circle tow
button tonsa horna via InfoSec calm. So tau betta na Suha. What
does that mean? It means a life altering tilba It also means a tow
by by which you advise other people not sue. I mean, nasiha is
involved in this. Okay.
All right. And coterie says yeah, Jamel Hill Tabata, Shia there are
four things needed for this tub a list of four with the tongue will
will
build up don't stop doing it with your your body. Stop doing this in
Okay, well it mar Terkel I Woods build genuine, internally, you
make the intention
to not do it again.
And you regret it. That is the sign of the real job. And the
automat said the prophesy centum said in the Matoba tuna dama dama.
Explain that by saying that, if you possess regret, that's the
essence of Toba. Like you regret doing this, if you fall into some
sins and everyone's gonna fall into sense.
You just simply you simply say, Oh Allah, I have no excuses. I'm
making no excuses. I'm 100% responsible for this. You have
been extremely generous to me and I fell short of being a right a
thankful and a righteous abs. And I asked for a second chance. I
smake is too far. This is exact This is how to do tell but once
you burn, take the burden on yourself. I'm the one who did
wrong, no excuses.
Have you Vollmer says when you say that then Allah says no my update
was this it was that he might it Allah says oh it was it will maybe
it was because of some friend maybe it was because of you are
tired. The moment you say the opposite though, said no, no, I
couldn't help myself. It's not me it's SO and SO made me do it so
uncertain maybe. Then Allah says no, you have your own free will.
So have you almost tells us how we approach our sins than Allah
approach it the opposite. Okay.
When you try to make the put the blame on someone else like a
bliss, that Allah subhana wa Tada says, you had your own freewill.
blame anybody else. But when you put it on yourself, then Allah
comes to you with the Rama. And he said, It's okay. It was more than
Allah. It was written for you to do this. This was not something
that happened that was covered for you. So we have to take it on
ourselves. No excuses. And that's why I believe the righteous and
pious Muslim who understands Toba will do well in life, because Toba
is taking on responsibility. I'm responsible for this. So if I'm if
I'm taking on this big issue of a moral matter, then when it comes
time for like bills, or from a job or from other responsibilities, be
easy to take in on hey, I screwed up. There's no There's no ifs,
ands or buts. I screwed up. Right
now
I saw a book a manual Catherine consider to come as here means for
sure it will be that Allah to Allah will remove all of your
sins. If you have a Toba, a sincere life altering Toba lay
them you Toba to Nasu okay. Is that you insist not to go back to
it. Okay?
Got it hasn't here and yeah Kunal Abdu Nederman Alhama, Madame
Wajima another layout
you have you regret having fallen into it. God Kelby and you're
stuck for Bill listen when the biblical way I'm sick Bill burden
with your heart you regret with your tongue you seek forgiveness
and with your body you don't do it again. That's Toba. And that is
how we're going to live our lives.
Doing this until we die, and a less Allah subhanaw taala puts us
in the mahkamah. If we should ask Allah to put us in McCammon which
is a MACOM in which we don't fall into these sins anymore.
If someone still has regret after they do Toba or they are worried
about losing Baraka in the future, what can you do? You do the Toba
and you say, Well, I don't want to lose the baraka. I don't want to
lose the support.
That is the Toba the fear of losing the support is the fear of
Allah's punishment connected to since I'm going to battle in life.
I need your support. I can't afford to have my sins ruin it for
me. You make Toba at Ableman have them become a let them be
the one who makes tell but from his senses as if he has no sense.
Okay?
That's why I say yet that has an attempt to follow the bad deed
with a good deed or to wipe it away. We'll call it the NASA will
hold open hasn't treat people well. That is the best deed you
could do to wipe away your sins.
treating people well.
You will come jannard entitlement mentality and her he will enter
you into gardens.
under which rivers will flow unfortunately my debate
interlocutor coming next week. This is a metaphor for him. He's
not going to enjoy it, inshallah we can enjoy it in the love but
for him, he'll just have a metaphoric garden. Are you okay?
You go enjoy that metaphor garden will actually go to the real guard
so you're holding either metaphoric to. Right. Everything's
metaphoric to you. So what's the point? Okay, that's another
religion.
Yo Mala yo Zilla, who nubby on that day, Allah will never let
down the Prophet, anybody whom the messenger of allah sallallahu
alayhi wa salam makes Cefa for will be given the Shiva that's the
meaning of Yom Allah you can see lo Nabi until everyone in his
ummah is out of the fire.
How do you soon Alikum the prophet is described as Hadees he is
watching guard and he's covetous to make sure none of you
are suffering. Good
Yeoman lay of the land zielona be well Edina M and Omar who
and Allah to Allah will not This is the sign that the believers
also have Chevelle les because Ilona be a fisher for it. What
what Levina M and o Mau and the other believers with him will also
have their suffer.
They will have Schiff meaning that for example, we know the Quran
memorize Quran you have Shiva for his film, memorize. Shaheed Allah
assigned him you can have Jafar for 70 people, so and so you can
have Shiva with many other people.
Different you can make stuff out and pull out your friends, your
community members, all those things. This is an honor for the
for the for the followers of the Prophet sites,
that it's not just the prophet is he is the main Shafia the
intercessor. But to get honored for ourselves,
Allah honors us
by letting the regular believer go make some fat for his family.
Right, so that his family could thank him. Now why doesn't Allah
just forgive them because they had done terrible things. And for
Allah to directly forgive them is a high level that's a high MACOM
and they didn't earn that. So Allah will allow someone else to
go and pull them out of the fire on top of that, it may be that
also Allah holds them loves them, for sure he loves them if he's
allowing someone to remove them from the fire but Allah also wants
to give an honor to their relative so that they will always be in
gratitude for eternity to that relative you, Allah brought you to
pull us out of the fire. Couldn't Allah have created you by
yourself? He didn't but he could have but he created you through a
mother and a father that is Allah's way of honoring that
mother and father. Guide because now this young, this little
creature will honor you forever. Even in Jannah you will have to
honor
Your mother and father, they're not just like a regular guy, it's
still your mother and your father.
There's a way for Allah to honor someone said, How does Allah honor
people? Oh, he makes him go grow old. And eventually more people
every year are younger than you. Until reaches a point where you're
one of the oldest people in the community, everyone honors you.
When you walk in, everyone tries to help you. And that's the sign
of a good can be if you want to see a sign of a health, the
spiritual health of a community, the Islam of a community, let's
just watch when an old person walks in. Our people are the youth
going to hold the door, taking their backs, bringing them a
chair, that's a sign that the dean is transmitting from generation to
generation.
Like one of the things that to me is one of the most important
things we haven't we have some elders that work in the masjid.
And most of them will love Mr. Young.
Yet, when the elders are working, they get up they leave, I don't
care what it is one or two of the Shabaab will get up and they'll
help others elderman Even though that's his job, that's Dean, this
is the sign of health in the dean. They get they'll get up and
they'll never see an old person doing something. Okay.
physically taxing except they get up and help them never seen old
person come the cognizance to see an old person has walked in the
room, they don't have a comfortable chair. Give them a
chair.
That's a sign.
And it's also a sign that Allah has honored though Shabaab because
they're doing that means someone will do it for them when they grow
older. If you if you want to be honored when you grow older, honor
the elders. Simple. If you want to see people who are worth nothing
in the sight of Allah, look for people who don't honor their
elders, which is the entire western society. They just throw
their parents into nursing home. There was a man who had to go to a
nursing home one time, not a nursing home, but like one of
those hospice not hospice, that's when you die. They like a Care
Center. He had a stroke. So after the stroke, couldn't go straight
home had to go to like some care center. He had roommates. The
roommate, one roommate, was a cop who got shot on duty.
And it was paralyzed. It was an old men.
He said he hasn't seen a relative for 27 years. Nobody's visited him
for 27 years. And his his the of course the state or the city. They
pay for that? Because he got paralyzed on the job. So they pay
for it.
He hasn't had a visitor for 27 years now what did the when he
found when the Muslim family found out what did they do? They started
visiting swaddler How can we see any see became uncle so and so is
like whatever his name was Uncle, right?
This is why the poverty I said yesterday, the poverty of the
Muslim world is not the same as the poverty of the non believing
world.
The poverty of the non believing world it's poverty. And there's no
like real generosity in the hearts of people. But a Yoda this Samak
word there's poverty but you still have this feeling that you're so
closely connected to everybody. Right.
Nor to whom Yes, I've been at him.
There is a light that these believers have on the day of
judgment that is a result of their tilba
tilba produces a note and that comes when they need it most when
the Muslims need the * most when they cross the spirit. We
cross a spirit that is a very fine bridge over the hellfire and you
need a light it's dark it's all darkness and you have a fire
underneath you yet
you're gonna not have been an extreme learner. neurona Oh ALLAH
now complete our light. Why because are we weren't complete,
we may have had some good deeds, we have a light by that. But we
had bad deeds. So we had a deficiency in our light. So they
call out on the Day of Judgment at swimlane and norrona. For complete
our light now, like we have light we can see we're crossing the
dots, but it's not enough node.
We need more node.
Work for Allah forgive us our sins, because it's the sins that
is blocking the node.
And the node in this life is to know right from wrong. That's the
end to be able to follow the right and avoid the wrong that is the
node of this life. What's the note of the next life it's physical
node that allows you to cross the bridge. Everything of this life
that's hidden that's That is spiritual and its nature in Africa
is physical and its nature. There's no right and wrong in
Yama. There's Heaven and *, the light will guide you across away
from * towards heaven, physical light.
So he asked forgiveness in that God acquittee Shame credit.
Now Allah to ALLAH turns and tells the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam Yeah, you wanna be
Oh messenger. Oh Prophet J Dilla kufr? Well, Munna 15 Well, hello
dolly in Walmart. Welcome, gentlemen. So, let me say this.
This is extremely important that puts the limit with who with whom
are we allowed to be harsh hypocrites
and enemies of faith.
Hypocrites here has two meanings. The first meaning are the scholars
of sectarian groups who know the cuts a versus, and purposely go
against them
to consider that NIFA Okay, and Malik said it is forbidden
to fraternize with them. An imam who was upon a bid to amorphous
silica. He contradicts clearly in his theology in his belief system.
An explicit verse or hadith
is Moqtada
and that is a bit odd that removes you outside
someone's asking what verse we're on we're on suited to tidy verse
10.
Okay,
that puts them outside of Allah so not their good deeds don't count.
Their good deeds are not except
that's what a good day is. J Dilla. co founder Wellmune Alpha
pain well hello dolly. So we are commanded to be harsh. What is
harshness means no smile.
No nice soft words. You don't see a person who is offending God in
his profit by rejecting their something in Islam in the Quran in
so he has sunnah. How were you? What's happened? Let's have
interfaith Let's just be friends. Let's unity of the ummah. That's
not in his place. It's forbidden. Because now you confuse everybody
on what the truth is. Okay.
Who else is the one at 15? Whenever 15 is also political
traders, like an electoral season one. What's the uncle called
Cardozo?
As a political trader, he is is no he's a he doesn't know business
and the dean could. It's not the monastic of the sects. He is the
monastic of he is a trader. He's selling out his own money to the
enemies.
Who is not mentioned which not which one does does not refer to
the moon Alpha who fails, who's in one epoch of deeds. He fails to
live up to his preaching how many fathers tell their kids be good,
be upright, don't do this. Don't do that. And he does it. That's
the hypocrisy of actions that comes out of weakness.
Right, could you prepare a video because I'm going to take a
breather in a second?
Okay, that is the Mona the hypocrisy of, of weakness.
Secondly, and Cofer which Kaffir are we supposed to be enemies? Or
are we supposed to fight and show harshness to them? The cofe the
Cofer who are
the golfer here who are openly trying to fight you trying to
offend you, okay. They're trying to hurt you. That's the kaffir.
They're trying to harm your dean. And it's mentioned it's got to be
mentioned in this Joe's. They're trying to remove you from your
homes they're trying to remove you remove your religion from you.
Okay. All right. Let's take a quick commercial breather. And we
will come out not a commercial but it's a short break, and we'll be
back with your q&a.
All right, hold on.
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After this he's gonna give you examples, but the examples are
related. He's gonna give you the example of the wife of new and the
wife of a loot. What is the relationship here because the ISS
cool and physical. Nico Nara, guard yourselves and your families
from the fire. Here you have the wives of a prophet. They were
married to a prophet and messenger and it still didn't benefit them.
The Cofer still got to their heart. Nobody's immune. The kids
of imams are not immune. The wives of schewe shield themselves are
not immune. Okay, nobody's immune. And let me tell you this. This guy
right here is the source of all community building. guard
yourselves and your families of the fight.
Fire.
Because very quickly, you're going to realize, I want to guard my
family, my friends, my family, my spouse, and my kids. But your
spouse and your kids, your kids need friends, your spouse needs
support. Don't we all need friends.
We all need a community. So if I want to garden, myself and my
family, the best way is to be part of a community and to strengthen
that community. Because the community will then strengthen
you. The OMA is like a building, you're not alone brick, you and
your family, it cannot just be a home by themselves, you have to be
part of a group. And that's the impetus of why every young mom and
young dad goes to the messiness is let me contribute, because I'm
really here to benefit myself, but you cannot benefit yourself. You
can't live as a silo by alone, you need to be part of a group.
So your concern for yourself and your family is what's going to
drive a person to say I need to be part of a group. We have to be
part of a group. And I think that is best place for best way for
people to make a decision of where to live is not necessarily like
where to work.
But it's more like what community are we going to park be part of
then we'll find work there. Or remotely. That's the idea. All
right, let's open it up.
To 15 Let's open it up and we'll start with Dino. He says Is it
true that a prayer with a turban is worth 70 prayers I didn't see
that hadith I know that it's the hadith is a Salah to BC work
higher on min Sabina Salah Tenby ladies work
I wonder whether fasting every day was better than fasting every
other day? Of course, in good deeds, yes. But it's practically
speaking. No, that's called the waste. Cem, which is permitted
acts as long as you don't fast to eat. But it's the ideal is to fast
three days a month, because that's the first advice the Prophet gave
and it was off, off man and him alone. Who asked the prophets of
Allah what He said about fasting or was it Abdullah Abdullah ibn
salud. This is in the Sierra. One of the only times where you have a
father is named after his son. And many people get confused. Abdullah
ibn obey is the hypocrite. He named his son Abdullah. So he's
Abdullah bin Abdullah and obey.
Okay, that son of the hypocrite was was such a good believer. He
said to the Robin, I want to fast the Prophet said fast three days a
month. He said more. He said Monday and Thursday. He said more.
Is it every other day, but no more than that. So he fasted every
other day.
Okay.
In fact, he says maybe it's Abdullah binominal loss, it could
be yes.
But then he said later in life, he said, I wish I had listened to the
Prophet. So I said, No, because I'm an old man now and fasting
every other day is very hard for me.
So it goes to show that the Sahaba wanted the deed that they could
keep forever. So fasting three days a month. So let's say you
fasted every Monday, and at least three out of the four or five
Mondays, every every month, you're gonna have four or five, Mondays
in a month. Okay, so that gives you one or two off.
So every week, you fast one day, and you get one week off. That's a
great deal. It's easy to do.
Is it haram to work for a defense contract company?
It depends on the army and the nature of the
of that country? And what kind of wars they're in? I believe that
that's that would be the correct answer. If you know for sure
they're going to go for oppressive wars or they're already in
oppressive wars, then we would be contributors to that. If it's a
company that just makes weapons that anybody could buy,
then that's permitted. Right? Just they make weapons. That's it.
masscue says if one is not a sharp student, as a lot of questions to
a scholar, how to feel regret, and ask forgiveness, then
it's your job to ask students
to ask questions, you have to ask questions, and the ship should not
be upset about that.
Shake, they should love the inquisitive student.
But you can make it reasonable and you want to know when when to ask
forgiveness when you ask the question in the wrong time. Don't
ask the question when the ship is leaving the message going into his
car. I'm telling you from the adab of students, students should know
better he's
You're always with the show.
The regular people fine. They hardly come. They barely get to
see the shake. They think the shake doesn't live a normal life
and he's there for them to infer you know to be stopped at any
time. Okay, that's fine for the regular people.
Students of knowledge should should only
ask questions when the time is right. medio menos Kalani or al
Qasim is allowed for a woman to show her hair in another shadow
yet there is no such thing as another shadow in marriage. The
Shetty I look No, the Syria
Shetty I glanced it does not exist in Islam. That Oh, where he's at?
He's going to marry her. He's proposing we're getting close. So
she removes her hijab for him.
It's a big death. It is haram it is no no basis in Islam at all.
Okay.
Hmm. Take it one step further. This you can see anything. Mike.
Why don't you go and spend the night together? Right at that
point.
Leila Surya Oh my gosh. What I'll tell you what another Ashada is if
there ever was one first is not a thing but if there ever was one is
just looking at her as she is with her hijab on that is what you're
allowed. If you want to marry someone, you're allowed to look at
her face. That's it. Okay, and not all the time just to see that this
is yes, I want to marry this person. If you are married but
have unknowingly fallen in love with someone else but you don't
act on it you're not sinful but you are torturing yourself.
So recite a lot of Quran and do a lot of vicar so Allah removes that
from your heart
okay
so so that's the meaning of that concept that another a shutter?
Yep, that concept that you that you may look at the person that
you're going about to marry enough to know that yes, I am interested
in that person. That's it. There's no such thing other than that, go
up the right and Instagram. What's that question there? The one
that's a bit longer Yeah, keep going.
Musa Franco i No matter how about how do we understand that either
by hitting the face but when one is sparring with gloves and helmet
you hit the head in an effort to learn how to bob and weave. No, it
will be haram for us to do that. To be quite honest with you, the
martial arts that involve hitting people's heads
be haram to do that, unless it is a tap right and when you're
wearing gloves and helmets and it will not hurt someone but the
human head is not made for hitting
the human head is extremely
fragile, the neck is not have the support the brain does not have
that support. So that stuff we should Can you explain the meaning
of them because in Surah, Al Fett and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam is he does not even thought about committing sins. So
what does that mean? It means the sin that you are concerned with,
which is your own must sins or it means the things that you did when
they were Halal that Allah made them haram.
And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam felt that he had
a decrease. And that was the sin for the prophet at that time, for
in their minds it was, it was as if it was a sin. So that's the
meaning of that. Or it is a we have to say it is a Sunni
position. And so Nora, Jamal do hold that prophets may have
committed small minor, little tiny minor sins that would be wiped
away immediately. And Allah knows best but the best of the opinions
is that it is the sin of your Oma. The sin that you are seeking
forgiveness for is the sin of your OMA or it is simply the that
matter which was not forbidden at the time and the Prophet did it
then it became forbidden and the Prophet felt bad for having done
it or it was a decision of a good thing that the Prophet decided or
a prophet decided to do when there was a better option
and that Allah pointed him to a better option and they viewed that
as to be a sin will you be punished for the knowledge you
learn but did not implement because you could not retain it?
No, inshallah you will not be but it's a weakness is having low self
esteem a good thing and it's not no it's not the say no, I'm gonna
said walk with your back straight say naughty said never speak of
your flaws, this type of thing. Low self esteem is not humility,
not humility.
Remember,
humility requires something to be humble about. Alright? If you have
no achievements, you're not humble. You're meek.
You're meek. That Oh, look at that old man. You know, he achieved
nothing in his life. He smacked around his whole life. Look how
humble that's not humility. That's meekness. Humble is the
multimillionaire who
is having a conversation with that meek man. And you can't tell who's
richer than who. That's humility.
Humility is extremely powerful man who's having a conversation and
sitting at the same level and talking the same talk with a
regular person.
Such to the point that you'd never know he's powerful. That's
humility, you need something to be humble about. So we the meek and
the poor, they do not have the reward of humility. They have the
tribulation of poverty, of weakness. May Allah protect us
from that?
Is it true that some scholars will follow and endorse the digit? Yes
it is.
is sleeping on the floor sunnah does it have to be hard floor or
mattress on the floor of the province, I said them never spoke
of a specific reward on that. But if we want to emulate the profit
and everything he did, we will have the love of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa salam and it is something that is in general
rewardable by the love of Allah, there's not like specific hasin
that you get for sleeping on the floor, in the sense that there are
specific hasin that you get when you give charity for example, but
if you do it out of love for the Prophet, then the prophet will
love those who love Him. So that's the reward that you'll get. But
the prophet did not sleep straight on the floor. He slept on a fiber
mattress, a mattress that was leather, stuffed with fibers so it
softened it a little bit.
Good.
How do you combat hopelessness and reinstate belief in Allah's help
and mercy? It's by reciting the Quran and contemplating the
promises that Allah gives. Not only that He commands us to trust
him. We are commanded to trust Him, that we are forbidden from
having hopelessness. So
the repetition of those verses in our minds and hopelessness truly
only comes because of the darkness of sins. So remove sins. recite
Quran is the best way to remove your sense make a lot of Vicodin
DUA and sadaqa. That will remove the sins and the hopelessness will
go with it. So he says I have a friend who wants to learn to read
and recite Quran properly do you have recommendations for Quran
teachers who will for people with speech impediments so Pais in
North Jersey, so I would go to Clifton Masjid ICPC to and talk to
Sheikh Osama
if you're in Paterson Abdulhadi says how to best remind or advise
a man and woman in my family regarding Salah being a guy to
want to make it awkward if they can't pray. What you do is you
call them loudly you call this comma loudly and you call you say
out out loud it is time for a salon everyone comes to the salon
so it's in general for everybody. And
and that way you don't put anybody on the spot.
So pay you're in Ohio, I Jeep I always thought he was in okay,
you're in Ohio then you have who's in Ohio
Mandeep
and shake his maiden BOWERS So look up at Medina and his mate of
ours and their organization, which is called what it's like called
like some, they have an organization.
The Traveler says, I believe you remember my name from yesterday's
stream, please look up the recent earthquake and yes, we talked
about that. And may Allah try to help you all and, and give you sub
and inspire more nations to come out and pour money into Turkey
because they need it. They need a lot of help for 1000 people right
now. Lucy says can I eat lobster as a Hanafy? No, you cannot. I was
told to eat it with family but crave it now? How do I slaughter
it?
If you want to
eat lobster and you're dying to eat lobster, you have to ask
yourself, are you like a student of knowledge committed to the
Hanafi school? Or are we just general Muslims? If you're just a
general Muslim, and you're not following a method, you're just
doing whatever goes fine. In all the other methods outside the
Hanafi school you can eat lobster it does not have any way to be
slaughtered. If you find it dead you can eat it.
However the non believers or Muslims kill it and cook it you
can eat it does not need what's called it's the cat is not
necessary for it however you eat. You can find it dead. You can eat
it. Sometimes they hit it on the head. Sometimes they boil it.
Okay, they boil it alive. And if you hear the lobster like crying,
it's not the lobster. It's the air coming out of the shells. Okay,
some people say the lobster is crying. No, it's not crying at
all. The lobster does not vocal cords.
Okay, they don't even have a nervous system. They have no
feelings. You're watching cartoons. Good. No lobsters talk.
Little Mermaid maybe. But it's the Eric
Coming out of the steam coming out of the shells, the little edges
between the shells. That's what's making the noise.
If you feel gross about boiling it alive, which I would probably feel
gross, I mean,
it is crawling. I don't know if it's crawling because it's in a
confined space or it feels some heat. But we did. I did read that
there. They have no nervous system. They don't feel pain.
Okay. I don't know if that's true. We could look it up. Right?
Anybody could look that up. But if you want to cut that, you hit it
on the head, boom. That's what kills a lobster.
And you can eat it. What is a bid Mufasa says Tracy.
The Dymo first bidder is in three categories, mocha Farah, Mufasa,
and coffee. And is based upon the text that's being rejected. If the
text is explicit and widespread,
it's been around with us it can look at throw you out of Islam,
such as someone believes that there's another prophet someone
believes that you don't have to pray somebody's alcohols, hello,
no
big amorphous silica renders in in person to be an innovator. And
that's if they reject a an explicit verse. That is not
widespread. So what do we say about them? They are Muslims. Yes,
but they haven't completed their Islam properly. So their good
deeds do not count until they fix their beliefs. They're in limbo.
And then you have been DACA FIFA, which is an interpretive
text that has HTML upon it upon its meaning. It may only exist on
upon interpretive texts. Okay, consensus has been established by
the companions or the next generation to the next generation,
on the meaning of an interpretive text. Now, if a person goes
against that, then we say about them, they're Muslims, they're
upon Ellison, their do good deeds count for them, we can do anything
with them and befriend them and everything else. But on this
issue, they're innovators. They're wrong on this issue.
That's it. That's the three levels of innovation.
Are all earthquakes of punishment? No, not at all. Earthquakes is
natural thing of life. And how you react to it will indicate whether
it's a punishment,
or its
forgiveness of purification of sins, or if it's an elevation of
your rank, if you react with more Iman and submission, and you'd
become better, nearer nearer to Allah, as a result of the bad
thing happening, it's an elevation of your rank. If it's something
that you're just bearing, and you're neither deviating nor
getting better. Okay, then it's purification of your sins. If you
now start saying why does this happen? Where is God? Okay, that's
punishment for you. What do you mean? Where's God he'd ever told
you to build on a tectonic plate? What do you mean, where's God? He
never, it could have been 10 times worse. First of all. Number two,
did he did God come down and tell you build on a tectonic plate? Go
and build on a fault line? That's what they're called. Right? A mud
fault lines? Did he say go build on a fault line or you went and
built?
Earthquakes are almost like the Earth Cracking it's knuckles,
right? When we go and build a house, do you know how many
species we kill? How many animals we kill? To build a house?
When you go and hose down your driveway? Nobody bothers right.
Only when the human being dies. The one who's sick in his art.
Where is God? Where's God? What do you mean? Where's God? Where are
you?
When you've killed hundreds of millions to make a cup? How many
to make a piece of paper to release fumes in the air? How many
hundreds of millions of animals has modern man almost rendered
extinct and killed? What's happening man? Shorten your
thought there. So Allah
Yeah.
No, it's good. It looks great, man.
Have you got all sorts of new things when he went to Morocco and
went to Mecca and everything is set for the Ramadan? How many
animals have we killed then when we get killed? Because the Earth
moved? What the earth can't move. You move all the time. As a human
being you move. You run over stuff all the time.
You run over animals, you run over insects and don't even bat an eye.
Is this pest, right? Make sense or not?
So now you're coming because your species got killed? And you're
crying? Yeah, cry, but don't go and say oh, where's God and
where's the mercy? What does that have to do with this?
Go ahead, read it first. Someone was asking you about called
buffer fetch that for Fetch as soon as you as soon as you wake
up, the moment you wake up.
Yeah, don't delay it. Don't do the
Kumasi says how do we increase our young teen, contemplate the Quran
and contemplate the Stories of the Prophets. contemplation is how you
increase the opinion
the saying Jana is metaphoric until coffee
doesn't need just until covering, it tells a question of your
sanity,
that you read a book that is so crystal clear.
The internal logic of the Quran is very clear, right.
ABCD EFG says I stopped following the silver thresholds for Zika and
started following goals.
Do I need to feel something or following another opinion like
switching computer to laptop both are good, but I prefer the laptop.
That's not how we operate. Your it's not for you to prefer and to
choose the rulings. It's for you to prefer and choose the mm, the
methodology.
That's what your job to prefer.
And then follow what he says.
You see how Allah allows you to use your brain yet. He puts you in
a situation where you can have submission. We
non witch diets are it's jihad is studying the Imams pick an Imam,
pick a meth lab, use your brain. Just because you're a common
Muslim doesn't mean you have a brain. Right?
I don't know anything about surgery, but I can use my brain
and pick the best surgeon right reviews. His record what people
said immense go study the math hubs, pick the method then you
submit after that, because your Eman grows by submission.
And you're right now maybe in the halal but you're not in
submission. You're not gonna grow like this.
You're not gonna grow. All right, I don't want to eat lobster. I
want to be Hanafi okay, but I want to eat lobster. Oh, but I want to
be medically but I want to play traveler's and I want to wipe on
waterproof socks. To stop playing games. You are playing games right
now. Just because you're in the valid in the head. That does not
mean you're not playing games. You. You use your brain to choose
the methodology. Then you follow that through for the rest of your
life. You go into your family. And you say wife, kids see this book?
Chef a FIP This is our law right here. This is how we live our
lives. Okay.
Yo
Hanafi caduti How big is called duty? Is that isn't that the book?
Okay, there's caduti is one of the books there's hedaya is one of the
books this book this is our life all but Islam is vast. Okay. Yes.
This is the book we're following. Right? We're not picking and
choosing and playing games, right
so one octave aroma
sh says a hadith says nothing separates the one who recites it
till kursi after Salah from Jana except death. How do we stay
motivated to do any more than this? Am I misunderstanding? No,
you're not misunderstanding but you will need more to do this
because life will bring about depressions. That's the nature of
how to dunya so they could is not just to enter Jannah they could is
also to heal your heart.
Okay, so heal your heart.
The Hunter says I heard saying that there are eight sunomono AKQA
in Salah. Yes that's true in America.
I learned there are six plus two FIFA
that I don't go by that it's yes they do say that but sometimes
they say that. The reason they said that is this.
You're correct. And I guess it's not a hard explanation. The tech
of Utah and send me Allah halimun Hamidah
they are so nervous. And you are forgiven if you miss forget saying
that it could be it up once or twice the moment you stop saying
you didn't say it three times. Then you miss Sonoma kata here's
why I have an issue with that. The only thing reason is that is that
who's counting?
You forgot to say to your mind somewhere else do you think you're
gonna know how many times you forgot to say? So it's practically
speaking? Yeah, theoretically. Makes sense. Right? But
practically speaking, it's hard to keep track of this.
What is it? It's a meth hub? It's like a school of thought led by a
sheikh on how we just strengthen our heart and our way better, and
fight against our egos.
I read that you can read me something about
from Instagram if you get a chance, because I mine is frozen
for some reason.
Can you talk about if there are different styles of motivation
Allah uses in poker and outside of rewards and punishment, its reward
and punishment.
It's the reward and punishment that are very that are various
rewards of the dunya rewards of the punishments of the dunya.
punishments of the ACARA. Right.
Those are the ways Allah motivates people. But it's always something
that I like, and something I don't like. And sometimes all of the IT
fina villa, they know that the punishment of Allah is not just
over there in Accra, it's here.
There is punishment here in this life. Every sin is attached with
it a certain punishment.
And you can see that punishment sometimes. And sometimes it's far
delayed, such as what? Oh, cool, cool. Well, again, going against
your parents is usually delayed.
That punishment doesn't come right away. That punishment comes when
you have kids, and they no longer respect you. That is your
punishment. Okay? So that's a Google validate, for example, or,
for example, let's say, the sins of the eye, they go directly to
the heart. Right? They they affect you right away. So different sins,
they come back at you a different way. That's also it's a form of
fear. We fear though that punishment and those those
reactions, okay. Kyla White says, What books for the four Imams you
can go to Abu Zaharias book.
On the four Imams Muhammad was Zara, or Gibreel had dead GF had
did two books on the 40 memes. And there's probably more. And there's
probably YouTube video playlists that you could watch. Okay, on the
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You've already made your decision now submit to that school of
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What are the major benefits of Salah on the messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa salam in hieght dunya The first benefit is the removal
of your your your concerns, your anxieties and your fears prophesy
some said this and that is the first rung and you will attain
that as soon as you are described as someone who consistently does
Salah on the Prophet Much, much meaning 300 minimum, right? That's
what the ultimate say what is cathedra 300?
Why do women have a hard time grasping the idea of holidaying
because they're human beings and they don't like to share their
husbands. And that is fitrah. And even in the time of the self, the
second wife is called the Daraa which means the harp
excuse me,
and said I Isha is the greatest of the wise and most beloved wife of
the Prophet salallahu salam after say to Khadija
and she was extremely jealous to the point that she would knock
over foods she would plot against the other women and the Prophet
and the Quran never become angry with her for this. The yes the
went when when was the Did Allah reveal verses about the wives of
the Prophet when they asked for the dunya
when they asked for the dunya
but when the Prophets when said I Isha and say to have sub plotted
against the Zetas Zina and said all the honey smells bad and don't
eat it and why did they do that? For they wanted the Prophet? So
Allah forgave that that was never blamed they were never blamed for
that. Except that Allah revealed it's a scheme and I don't want my
prophet not eating honey, because then it will be a sunnah for his
OMA right? His Alma would think that that's something we shouldn't
eat honey or something like that. So fertility purposes, and that he
protects His Prophet, even you know when if this is some,
something that his, his wife said.
But they loved the Prophet, it was out of love of the Prophet,
therefore it's forgiven for
for them, they were forgiven for that they weren't he was
overlooked. Profit even left one time when she knocked to play the
food over. When one of the wives of the province I said them
brought food on her day. She said, This is my day, the prophet. I'm
the host on this hostess on this day, who was bringing food knocked
it over? Oops, what did the Prophet in front of people to What
did the Prophet do? He laughed. He said, Your mother got jealous. The
it's out of love of the Prophet.
So that was accepted.
The wives of the Prophet women, they don't want to share their
husband. Right? And that so they don't like the concept of holder
lean.
Okay, that will be removed from their hearts in the Day of
Judgment afterwards will be removed from their hearts
do women have hooded aynd of men? No, I'd never heard that they do.
I've never heard that they do. No husband would accept that.
But Allah Allah may be something that we can imagine. That's why
Allah said there are things you don't imagine, but I don't imagine
that. It's going to be like that
even though claiming to Josie I mentioned 41 benefits of Salah on
the Prophet in his book Jilla f him
beautiful, we should read them. Is that is that Jared going to be
born he has he Well, he's like a shapeshifter. He takes different
shapes at different times because we know that he we are told he's
born yet at the same time we were told he was alive in on the in the
island. So it seems to be that there's a theory out there it's
like a another year Nether. They're pondering the evidence
isn't trying to make it work and understand evidence. And they the
conclusion and Abraham OCF it talks about that he's almost like,
like a shapeshift like almost like a type of person who take over
bodies and alone his best. Everything about the jet is very
odd.
He's unique.
In evil sense. He is the dark side say Nisa is unique.
How do you ever have a human being who goes up to the heavens and
comes back down and has no father? Amazing Things would say Nisa he's
the unique force of Allah on the light side, that God is on the
darkness. He's like the vacuum of hypocrisy and kofler. He sucks it
all to himself. How do we know if we are in the saved sects of the
73 in the Hadith, and that means
that is the safe sect is the largest sect and they are the
people of the Hadith. And there they are the four methods.
medicine in general, they're the largest group.
Okay, because the Prophet described them as being the
largest group, there are the gym out the gym out.
Is it blameworthy to memorize books of FIP without being gauged
of his Quran? No. Memorizing books of FIP is just a method, a method
of studying that book and retaining it in your mind because
you need to know those rulings. So you need at least the motor come
of him that you can pray with on a regular basis.
How do you know if you failed a trial you've given up and you have
accepted it for yourself? If there's a trial, how do I know
that I failed? I've given up Toba. Let's say the trial is a
temptation. I've given up an accept it for myself. Or I know I
start going away from Allah and away from Iman because of this
drug.
Does alcohol leave it? Does alcohol on skincare products make
them impermissible to use? No it would that's one of the ones we
can use the Hanafy opinion on that that is not not just that type of
alcohol is not not just
and the Americans have a fatwa on that too.
Should we love life and hate death? No, you should love life
and you should love to meet Allah you should want to live as a
normal said in many quotes and in claim
even Abby's aids book on the Sunnah, he quotes medic saying
that Amata loved life he did not want to die. He kinda you need to
block out your habit because he wants to live in this life. And
say normally used to say we sow our eternity in this life. We sow
our happiness in this life, right? So he wants to live but you also
want to meet the love to meet Allah subhana wa Tada. So when you
sleep at night, imagine yourself this is it last night, and I'm
going to meet a lot tonight. It's a great feeling. It removes all
your anxieties or removes all of your home and your concerns.
And that's what what is the meaning of Vicodin Moats?
That is the qremote it is the concept that I'm going to meet
Allah subhanaw taala
All right.
Should we forgive everyone? Is vengeance Halal in some cases.
It's like this. It's not vengeance. It's justice is halal
forgiveness. Many people confuse removing,
removing bitterness from your heart with forgiveness. You cannot
forgive somebody unless you first have the opportunity to exact
justice from them. Okay?
You can plan in your heart that if that opportunity comes, I'm going
to forgive him. But that's not forgiveness. What most people are
talking about is removing the anger from my heart.
So someone oppresses you and moves on in life. It's I'm sure it's
happened to all of us. Okay.
I'm sure it's happening to all of us.
Forgiveness can only happen if justice can be exempted from that
person. Then while the
you know,
proverbial boot is on his neck is throat, then you can say okay, I
forgive him. So long as that hasn't happened, you cannot
forgive him. But what you can do is remove anger from my heart. And
that's what you could do. And justice is not vengeance.
Is the medical method largely based on say Norma Yes, and Seda
Isha and say, neighborhood IRA.
What about the other methods? I will Hanifa is from say, 97
Abdullah bin Massoud, mostly, most of all,
and a chef a and Chef A is made distinct by accepting the solitary
Hadith. He accepts the Hadith as law and affirmative and humble. He
is unique by accepting anything that has a narration to it as diff
all sunnah.
Good, and
that he prefer a weak Hadith overpass. These are some of the
basic things you and read, read from the books and go into deeper
detail in those books.
I repent from sins, but my problem still doesn't go away. That's
okay, keep keep fighting. You don't stop fighting. Stop fighting
and don't put your sins in the forefront of your mind. Put some
reward at the forefront of your mind. That's the problem many
people have.
They wake up in the morning, say don't commit this sin. So what
goes in your mind the sense, right? You wake up in the morning
say go for this reward. Go for the reward. You have to lower yourself
if to create carrots.
Put them in front of you go for this reward. How am I gonna go for
this reward by obeying Allah today?
That's what you need to put in. If you wake up in the morning, you
start saying I don't drink again. You are going down the bad path.
You're now mentally going down. Okay, you you lower yourself and
you change your focus to something good.
Right?
What is a level? That was waste of time? Essentially?
What's the year no question.
Yes, it's permissible if there's it's some of these toilets on a
highway or something. There's all sorts of diseases on there. Right?
And it's disgusting and no Jessa you may urinate standing up but
you should take a pull and spring bottle with you a loader and you
should clean the ninja off of you. You make sure that if you
splashing the Jessa on you, you clean it off. Better to
go the woods way better. Yeah, go in the woods. If you can sit down
and you could take off or you know your clothes and sit up.
Level is no chit chatting.
Nice spelling there is it's okay if there's a function to it.
Playing games. Okay, maybe sometimes it's hilarious. It's
okay to take a breather sometimes. So sometimes adults it is not
always haram but excessiveness of it is is permissible take a
percentage from donations like some influencers do without
disclosing it to their fans. Yes, it is permitted for them. Because
sadaqa and Zika the
the the distributor, it suits you by the way you need to fold it.
Here. Let me fold it for you. This is East African. Yeah.
The distributor of South Africa and Zika does have a right to it.
And that right should be what is acceptable. The right that if it
was publicized, there should be no harm. So if someone's sending
musica for example, or sadaqa and I physically like I can't go to
the person without getting guess. I don't have to pay for that. I
you can use
Is this occur to in the process of transmitting it to that person?
That's what the meaning of what I mean. Right. Okay. And so, but
what is the number it should be the number that is agreed upon by
common sense and people who,
that if you were to release it to the public, you would feel fun.
Look at heavy the East African added bait.
That's how it is. Okay, if you fear prior sin, punishment
manifesting. How do you stop it? Make Toba? Make Toba, sincere
Toba, that punishment that's coming, that that result of that
sin will become something good for you. Even if it's the outward is
bad, but the end result is good. Allah will transform it, but you
have to have to make the Toba
good.
By the way, some of these influencers, they're just they
live off of these charities, they fake there, they live off of them.
Every little thing that happens, let's raise money and he's living
off of that that's not and an acceptable amount is fine. To run
the website to get guys to get food find.
Any tips on staying consistent in waking up for fetch? Have your
practice in the day should be good and just leave early? You're a bad
to in the daytime should be good and you should sleep early. I was
once asked what would happen if the devil repented? But I didn't
have any answer. There's no point in answering questions that are
absurd like this because Allah has already told us he is cursed
forever. It's most to hate shut on by Sharia. It's impossible, or by
reason. There's no contradiction. It's possible, rationally, but by
Sharia, Allah has told us it will not happen. And that is the case
for everything that Allah said about his creation. As for Allah
has attributes
there they do not fall into this category as a nation that it's
possible, rationally possible, but by surely not possible. Okay?
Because Allah has this concept that is rationally possible but by
God's will. And command is impossible. That is relative that
is restricted to the creation, the Creator Himself.
There are no possibilities with them. We don't say for example, is
it possible that Allah was be stingy, but it's not possible he's
cutting good
if he's going to be generous to a person, not not his attribute, but
his action, to be generous to a person that's his will to be
generous to one person and not to the other that's his will.
Dino says some people are taking 40% of the charity. That's it to
me.
Sinful to be honest with
Senate says what is trials and hardships are getting worse? Does
that mean Allah has forgiven us it means more sins are being purified
or sins are the result of those sins are coming back? Okay, are
coming to you and that's okay.
And you just fight through it. remain close to Allah subhana wa
Tada.
Why is it that when we start practicing, we start seeing the
benefits very quickly, but after we become more consistent, we
don't notice it as much. I don't want to be ungrateful and the
answer comes from Abu Hasina. Cheveley.
I wouldn't ask Him to show the complaint to Allah subhanaw taala.
And he said, Oh Allah, I feel that
I don't want to I don't want to say incorrectly, right? I don't
want to say it incorrectly.
But he was basically told afterwards, he's like you would
Hudson, or like a perfume,
perfume
in the presence of the perfume store.
When you go to the perfume store, in the beginning, you smell it,
it's amazing. But after a while, you stop smelling it. Right? It
just becomes normal.
And that's, that's, that's the likeness of somebody who comes
into this world of Allah subhanaw taala. In the beginning, you see
the complete transformation of everything, but after some, some
time, you don't. But that doesn't mean it's not there just means you
got used to it.
And that's why Tao i think is very good. Because when you do Dawa,
you see the other lives of people and you do your cut you it reminds
you how much Namur that you have
what's more important is to foster Salawat to start with some subtle
a semester fought and then to do more silhouettes.
Should you move to a city for a potential spouse if only one
person is willing to
compromise. I think if it's the Woman Yes, but if it's the man I
don't think so. They always end up in resentment when they move to
for the sake of their wife, and they're surrounded by their wife's
things. And you're like a lackey. No, you she is supposed to be
dependent on you. Not you depend on her. Is it hilarious is valid,
but from observation, they end up being full of resentment. They end
up being unhappy. Right? They feel like them some kind of lackey when
you're supposed to be the leader, not the follower. But it is
harder. And it may happen. People may do it, and it may work out. A
friend told me he was wary of becoming too pious because the
trials become harder. No, those trials are elevations for you.
Right? And yes, the trial may become alright, let me ask you
this. Who pays more taxes?
Who pays more taxes? You are Jeff Bezos. Would you rather your
economic situation be yours? Or Jeff Bezos is right. Yes, he pays
more taxes, but he enjoys more blessings to more money too. So
yes, the Elia they have harder trials, but they have far more
benefits that the ratio is not even close. 360 days
of amazement, five days of tests and and empires one good day, and
two days of tests and everything else is a blood day. So
100 kilowatts, Ibrahimi or 1000. Of course, 1000 is better.
But it's that's a long route. So you can shorten it if you need.
Do we have to tell the person that money would give them Zika? No,
you don't have to tell them it's sicker.
As you just give them the cash and they have they take it's not
permitted permitted to give them Zika in another form, though, you
have to give it as its do. You always occur on gold, silver or
cash. You have to give it in cash. You can't say here let it take a
shot right card. What if he wants to buy something else with the
money? You give it in cash? Sadaqa. You can give however you
want. Is it permissible to play board games that involve dice It's
haram in the Maliki school? Or mcru? Maybe they say
the Maliki madhhab? A rival Hadith it's al Hadith. Now when they say
Allah Rai, within a headed Hadith, what they mean by that raw A being
the ability to bring two seemingly opposite ideas and make sense of
them. Explain why they are not contradictory. That's the array
within a hadith and that was Roberto Rai, who was Maddix.
teacher. He taught him also.
I feel lost and can't sink anything in to remember what I
learned. Please, can you help me what to do? Yes, I think it's
impossible not to remember things based on the Mauritanian method,
which is to take a short passage five areas or something and repeat
it 300 times, how could you forget something, you repeat it 300
times. Now, if they still don't remember, they do it another 300
times 600 times. You got to remember it after that.
My cousin lived in Saudi.
And he said the teachers what they make them do is each line repeated
75 times 75 times on one line, and then repeat it again without
looking 75 times. And then that's how they like it. You literally
cannot forget it. If you repeat it 75 times, then you read it, make a
test Tamiya 75 times it's impossible. I had a kid, he had a
hard time memorizing anything I can't memorize can't memorize. I
said stuff saying this. Everyone can memorize. When you see a big
accomplishment. Every accomplishment is composed of
simple things. So you want to memorize this pseudo. First we
break it up into parts. After we break it up into parts. Next step,
read that part from the book 50 times 100 times whatever, let's
say 100 times. Now recite it to me 100 times. Now repeat that for all
the other parts. It's not that hard. Every skyscraper is nothing
other than No, it's no different than doing this.
Right? I just put a phone omnibox that's all it is. Except bigger
and more times. Literally a skyscraper is that right?
It's, it's if you can build a shed, you've theoretically all you
have to do now is scale it right. And so major things seemingly
massive accomplishments are composed of simple accomplishments
repeated over and over and over. That's it.
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