Shadee Elmasry – NBF 14 The Prophet Said that He is a Wali + Q&A on Malaki Fiqh, Ramadan Prep, & More
AI: Summary ©
The speakers stress the importance of finding the right person for Islam and finding the right person for one's life, avoiding spreading behavior and promoting harm. They also emphasize the benefits of praying and not being in relationships with a woman, reciting a book, and avoiding "slack points" in writing. The segment emphasizes the use of a "slack circle" and offers various ways to prepare for the upcoming month of Maf, including preparing for "has" in writing.
AI: Summary ©
Amanda Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah
while he was so happy when Manuela
Allahumma Salli Salah TennCare Mira was salam Salam and ala
Sayidina Muhammad and Ludington Hello Bill occurred within Fareed.
You were caught up with Bobby at how age what you know to be a rah,
rah hostile.
While you're stressed, we'll be here to carry him while he was
happy with him to see him and Kathira alrighty Folks, today
we're going to talk about its stories of the odia and we're
going to talk about one of the greatest Ellia that we have in our
history. And his Wilaya is something extremely special. And
why it's special is because this Willie from Olia Allah, this man
of Allah subhanaw taala he has the endorsement of the Messenger of
Allah Himself, right? He has the endorsement of the Messenger of
Allah, his name is wase Ibn I'm Ella Qurani All right, his name is
waste, IB and I met CARDONE this is who we're talking about today.
And he there's an what we're gonna do is we're just going to read the
Hadith that has come about waste of binominal budoni and the
prophets I seldom spoke about him by name, even though this man had
never met the messenger peace be upon him. And so a Muslim it says
says here that
on jabber on will say it even Jehovah God can almost have been
caught up either I am dead helium and when when all my ricotta was
leading the hedge during his Khilafah the people of Yemen would
come and he would go to the to the people who came to heads from
Yemen and he would say Fe come away seven armor
until a waste would finally showed up. So every year all motor would
go to the hedge. And he would say to the people of Yemen, he says is
always have an almond amongst you. And sometimes I'd say no and
whatever and until finally had to add, always and until he finally
did meet wase. Okay, thank God and to always have an AMA or you
always have an AMA he said yes. A very, very tall, dark and poor
man. That's where we was a waste of anamod A man from Yemen very
tall, very dark, extremely thin and extremely poor.
He said yes, he said min Murad Thelma McLaren Are you from
Morocco and then cotton these are the different tribes because a
tribe is divided into clans and a clan divided into branches like a
tree. You have trunk branches and then the twigs off the branches.
Color for can become virus so by that I mean who you used to have a
skin disease and then you were cured from it except for the size
of a coin on your hand. He said yes. Okay, we're gonna see what
the what is the wisdom of this. What we're talking about a size of
a coin. Got a now gotta let go earlier you have a mom? He said
yes. He said that I have heard the messenger of allah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam say One day there will come upon you ways even I'm
it from amongst the people of Yemen. Okay, from Murad, then
Karan. His tribe is from Murad and Karan, the sub clan is cotton.
Can be he bought us soon for Baraka, Betty, I mean, who he used
to have a skin disease and Allah healed him from it. Except the
piece of a coin on his hand.
And he has a mother and he was very good to his mother.
He has other status with ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. If he tells Allah
what to do, Allah will do it.
Lo XML Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Who Kazama what does that
mean? We make dua to Allah. So Allah Please grant us such and
such, please do this for us. He's saying the opposite here. If he
tells Allah what to do, do this. Allah will do it for can you
imagine? And if he swears, awesome, I swear you're going to
do this, then he will do it. How has such a person reached such a
rank?
And why
fit in is still thought and yes, Delfield I like FFL if you can ask
him to seek forgiveness for you do so.
Ask him to seek forgiveness for you.
For so for sacrificially. So he said always said he said to always
seek forgiveness for me.
And he sought forgiveness for him.
For Karla Amara. Amara spoke to him, had they had some discussion
with him. They talked a little bit and then at the end of the
discussion say no Omar said where do you want to go? He's the
Khalifa he can read
had him a letter.
l Kufa. He said I want to go to Kufa. Kufa was the big Arab city
in Iraq.
That was established by Omar by he commanded Saddam who cos and
Salman Pharisee to go there and to establish the city. So they found
the flatland that was very similar to the Arab territory so that the
Arabs would, they would be physically capable of living
there. And so it will be similar to their environment. So they
established the city of Kufa
and there he says Kufa gotta act to laka Illa. Amelia, she said,
Should I write to you, or should I write a letter of reference to the
governor there to take care of you,
Carla, a corner via gabra in nursing hub in a year. He said I'd
rather stay in amongst the masses of people this is just I want to
be one of the people I don't want to be somewhat special that has a
letter from Khalifa than you're someone special.
But if I'm Mecanim, and I'm an unlockable Okay, now, the next
year in the next hedge, Alright, hi, Julian Ashrafi him
one of the nobles from this tribe from Oasis tribe came for Well
fuck off so he met Ahmad for Salah one always got to talk to Ross
sell beta Carnelian mutter. So he asked him about always how's the
way so currently doing? He said he is he has nothing in his house. He
is extremely poor. He's super poor.
Call us a mouthful. Rasulullah sallallahu sallam said Norma says
he tells him Why was Why did I have a special conversation to
waste because the man said on Walmart Why were you talking to a
waste of all people call the prophets I set him said a waste
bin Ahmed will come to you from the people of Yemen from the
family of morons and Karan can be badass he had a skin disease and
Allah cured him except for the peace of a coin. And he has a mom
with which he was good too. If he tells Allah what to do a low we'll
do it for initial thoughts and yes stuff that I like FFR if you can
ask him for it's too far for you do it
for it's always wapella stuff really well and that will then be
suffering Salah. So he said,
but so we said you you are you're the one who have come from a long
journey. So you seek forgiveness from me said no and then be
suffering in silence. So in other words
not then, when the the almighty recognized him, the chief of the
tribe recognized him then Omar, the event always became famous.
For 14, aloneness, the people started paying attention to the
waist. Now listen to this. This is really important because it shows
you that the odia Allah all they care about is loss. They just want
a relationship with Allah. They're sincere. That's all they want.
They want nothing else. And they're true about that.
theme is a wonderful thing that people think is great, but it's
not
funny and allow nurse good fun Bella Carla watchI the people wrap
started with all his special Let's go ask him for da let's go see
what he's all about. Fun. Takala watchI he disappeared right then
in there.
But it will say it will walk you swear to Buddha his clothes was
just like a he had like a wrap around his thought around his
waist and a Buddha for Ken Aquila Mara, who in San column in a net
waste head of the border. So now listen to the story. Well, he had
a skin disease. He was so poor. So miskeen he did not have a debt all
his life. Of course he had a father but he didn't live with his
father's father. Maybe he died. It was him and his mom in extreme
poverty and his mom was blind on top of that. His mother was blind.
So that's how he lived. And he would hurt a sheep's for people
and they would throw him a couple of dates. At the end of the day.
He lived such a simple and bland life. Unbelievable. But all of his
time would be contemplating Allah. And he asked hola hola que my skin
disease. But leave me a little bit on my hand that I could see every
day and remember that your favor upon me. So that's why he had a
little bit of skin disease on his hand. He said Leave it there.
Leave me a little peace so I can remember your fuddle upon me. Now
Wasel Kearney, he heard about the prophets of Allah he was salam has
come and he wanted to go see the Prophet and the people from Yemen
had come. And they had spoken to the people that there's a new
message, there's Quran, there's Dean, etc, etc. And so Awais then
became very interested in this and he started doing exactly what the
teachers are saying. So he started to pray. He started to do all
these things.
And he loved it. And then he thought, I want to go see the
Prophet myself. So he wants to see the messenger. So boy sent him but
his mother said, How could you leave me when I'm blind? have
nobody else.
She said, Go, but if you don't find him come right back.
And so he went, and lo and behold, the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa
salam was not in Medina.
So he went right back home. He didn't say, Well, this is my only
chance. No, he stuck to his word. He had an agreement with his mom,
go, if you can't find him there, come right back. Don't wait.
Because we don't back in the old days. You don't know when
someone's going to come back. Nobody knows. So he went back. So
he did the whole trip up to Medina came back and never met the
prophets. I said, but the prophets I sent him was informed by Satan
to Gibreel that there is a special human being and the province I
sent him said, My soul and his soul meet.
And we have a hadith in Bukhari, that when a person sleeps, the
souls move around. What's the difference between death and
sleep? Is that in sleep, your soul comes out of your body, but it's
still connected to your body with a little bit of a like a string,
imagine that. But when you die, it's completely separated from
your body. So to prophesy centum said, My soul and his soul meet,
and he's my Faline. He's my beloved lead. It's like a very
close friend. But he never met the prophets and Prophet never met
him. But the prophet is telling Abu Bakar and I'm not an Alpha
Man, and it tell him the Sahaba because all the Sahaba were there.
If you meet this man, seek forgiveness for him from him, ask
him to make a dua for You for Your forgiveness of your sins. How is
it that a person could reach the rank that the greatest people in
our deen and the Sahaba whom look at the rank of this harbor and
look at what they did and look at the route said about them prophesy
centum said about saving Alma lo Kernan, a BM Batula can Amara, if
there was ever a prophet after me will be saved in Alma and yet he's
saying to him things say NAMA, you go and seek forgiveness from this
man. In other words, ask ask him to make dua for you for
forgiveness. And this men never memorize the Quran.
He he didn't do have the accomplishments he didn't attend
better or how to conduct he didn't attend any of these things. He
never even met the prophets lifetime. What this should tell
us. You never know who's close to Allah subhana wa Tada. This is
such a heavy heavy you walking around, there may be a person who
just took shahada. That's it. And they're barely scraping by in
their religion, like they may not know any Arabic. That's what
happened aways. He's no tafsir is no Hadith. There's no anything.
But Allah knows how pure his Islam his his heart is. And his intent
is so pure for Allah. He doesn't have the circumstances he doesn't
have. Maybe you can even say the genetics or the talent, or the
ability to study to get learned. So we in Islam,
it's you never know who Allah loves isn't there's no favorites
here. If someone's heart is pure, that's what the rank is. That's
what Allah cares for the purity of intention. It's otherwise that's
the only thing that we all have. Otherwise, it's about what family
you came in.
You could born into a family that speaks Arabic so you're lightyears
ahead of everyone else. You can come into a family to memorize
Quran by nine year old you memorize Quran. A convert comes in
at 50 years old. He doesn't even know if and bet. All right, so you
say of course he's going to be closer to Allah because it was
family. It doesn't work like that. It's all about your loss to Allah
subhanaw taala say normal in other narrations, he said always I'll
make you a judge. Because if the prophet said all this good things
about you shouldn't be a judge. He said no, no, I don't want any
positions. He said I make you to teach you will teach the people
who did not want to be known by the people.
The word about the way spread around the OMA and the Shabaab of
the Ummah, the youth, they would all travel around searching for
always looking for a man who was tall, dark, extremely poor and
full of a bed. Once the hobby one tab a found a ways. He said I
found him in bussola.
He was in the mosque, and I saw him praying and I said wait till
he finishes to rock as soon as you finish to Rock as he started
another rock has finished out to rock a stone and other trackers
until I have the day passed by.
I was so exhausted I left. Next day I tried to find he kept doing
this. He said all I would see is always making dua and praying the
entire day. Then finally at night, one day I saw him at a river at
the bank of a river. So I sat next to him. And we talked and we
talked
until I said are you always right? He wasn't happy. He said I never
saw him again. Next morning voice was gone. anytime, any moment.
The people found out who he was he leave. Another man spied on him
and thinks he's like, I think that's always like a sighting.
Right? Like there's a sighting. He said, I saw him on a garbage heap,
a heap of trash where the people put their trash sifting through
the trash for pieces of bread and food.
Then a dog came barking at him. And he said, Oh, dog.
Let me take this half of the garbage. You take that half of the
garbage? You're not better than me. And I'm not better than you.
Because if I've passed the cigarettes, then I'm better than
you. If I don't pass the Senate, which is the bridge over * do
you go to paradise? Then you're better than me. Right? It's true.
So therefore, we don't know who's better than who. So we split the
garbage 5050 Is it the dog then wagged its tail? And went took a
TEF says, if the dog understood what he's saying, This man is a
waste of crummy. He had nothing in his life except TA and you now.
Now let's go to the question of what does it mean? That he tells
Allah what to do when we know that things only happen by the will of
Allah, things happen because Allah wills it not because some human
wills it. So how do we make sense of that? We make sense of that.
Because the soul of the person who was submitted to Allah subhanaw
taala,
when he submitted to Allah to Allah fully, completely, his whim,
and his thoughts have almost also been transformed. It's as if they
are completely right under the color of Allah. So anytime they
get a thought, It is inspired directly from Allah cutter, if
they get a desire, it's inspired from Allah because he submitted
his soul. But by submitting his body by submitting his action by
submitting his tongue by submitting all of his limbs, to
the Sharia so well, and then submitting his heart to the way
the heart shouldn't be. He submitted so well that his his
soul and his heart and his desires are now residing right under the
divine decree. He does not get a single inspiration, except that
comes from the Divine Decree, therefore, it's something that's
going to happen. That's how we understand the concept of the one
who's DA is understood or is accepted granted, and the one
who's like these little XML Allah Hila Bara because something enters
his heart. Right? And immediately he tells, he prays for it, it
would not enter His heart unless it was something like tube.
All right, let's stop here. That was on wastell Kidani. And let's
go to your questions and your comments now and open it up,
inshallah. We'll go for another half hour or so. John Smith.
Somebody asked, How are we supposed to live by the names and
attributes of Allah? That's a good question. How do we live by the
names and attributes of Allah Tada. We live by the names and
attributes, depending on what they are sometimes. If it's something
called the Giamatti attributes, we act upon them. For example, the
generous we try to be generous, but the Jalali attributes we do
the opposite.
If Allah is in which a cupboard we be humble, okay? Allah is, for
example, the creator and then we attribute everything that we do to
his creation. We don't say like I created this invention, no, by the
permission of Allah, I was able to make this thing. So some names you
do the opposite, and some you fulfill them.
There is
a weak Hadith or some say it's a fabricated Hadith that says,
at a taco loco, the Aquila, Aquila, take on the qualities and
the character of Allah. This is a fabricated Hadith, or a weak
Hadith, but the meaning is, fulfill the attributes of Jamal
that we can fulfill. For example, Allah describes the prophet as an
OLFA Rahim. compassionate and merciful Alright, so
in the province is the more accurate one is say that he says
the Prophet was as if he was the Quran walking. So that's how we
act upon the attributes of Allah subhanaw taala and we bring them
into our lives or we make we make a
what our dua should be in accordance with the Divine Names.
So if I'm feeling constricted or stingy, then I must constantly
remember Yeah. Oh, Allah is that as he could make everybody, he'll
he'll support everybody. He'll sustain everybody. If I feel
limited. My dog is with us. Yeah. Allah's vast. You might, your mind
is limited, but he's vast.
And so on and so forth. If I'm sick, yeah. Shafi, the chef, he is
the one who heals, and so on and so forth. So we would call upon
the name that we need for ourselves.
Next question.
Can you please explain what it means for all of us?
I'm Hannah horadada to be a Cebu.
Good What is the name for Allah to audit to be a Cebu it means that
Allah to Allah, there, there is no limit to his ability to, to to
wait for you to make Toba. That's the meaning. Unlike us, we have
agenda and we have a minimum lack of patience. That means if you
hurt if you hurt me once, and you hurt me twice and you hurt me a
third time, eventually I'm going to be considered
some I'm going to run out of patience with you write Allah is
the opposite of that. He has several There's a famous Hadith in
which said or a story from satan to Ibrahim Ali Salaam. He never
used to eat by himself. He's always eat with somebody else.
This time, he couldn't find anyone except a pig. And so the man said
in the name of my pagan god, and Satan, Ibrahim said, Okay, that's
it, no food for you leave. So the men left. Then Allah subhana wa
Tada spoke to him as far as his art. He said, Oh, Ibrahim,
this old men. He's been a pagan worshipping other than me for 70
years, and I have had supper with him.
But you can't sit with him for one meal.
St. Abraham ran out, he called the man back. And he said, My Lord has
spoken to me. He said, he has had patients with you and your shirt
for 70 years, and he has commanded me to have patience with you for
this meal. So the man said, Your Lord spoke about me. My Gods never
spoke about me. So we took the head on the spot, said that, you
know, hey, Lola, became a Muslim.
Let's take one of these questions here. And it says here that can
Satan always be called the cause of of his time Allah maybe.
Sense and Medic says does reciting short dua from Quran on repeat,
count a vicar or Quran both sounds as recitation of Quran and the
right.
So somebody asked, How do we pay Zika? On 401k, which we don't have
access to how do we pay Sucka on 401 K, which we do not have access
to the day that you take it out and claim it to yourself, you pay
one times. And in another opinion, there's two opinions. That's one
opinion. The other opinion is that you willingly put it in. Therefore
you look at the number every year and you pay zakat on that since
you willing, that's two opinions on that. Because it's not like
it's well that's out of your possession.
involuntarily, it's voluntarily out of your possession, or your
control.
So you owe it every year. Next, Mr. J. H asked, I know we're
supposed to generally hide our good actions. But what about
incidents in life such as health, loss of money? Can we share these
to show the mercy of a lot of people? In general, we're supposed
to hide our actions. But what happens if there's a lesson to be
learned? Then if you don't fear that people will either NVu or
that people or that you will become arrogant you can share your
own personal life achievements and stories, you can share that I was
so poor and I was down but I worked hard and I made it in life
or that ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada healed us. You can share those
things on these two conditions that you feel that you will not
increase in Kibana from that or self love. The self love that is
that would make you feel better than conceded essentially, self
love itself itself is not a bad thing. Everybody loves themselves,
but we're talking about his conceit or logic or that other
people won't get jealous of you. Right? And say like and feel bad
about themselves. This is always something really bad. You
shouldn't make other people feel bad. Like, feel that their their
life stinks and yours is amazing. Or that Allah helped you and he
doesn't help us or you got something special with Allah.
you'd ever want to make people feel that way.
Um, Noreen says can you please tell which prayers we can recite
loudly? Fudge, Maghreb? Aisha, which, tada we
Eclipse,
lunar eclipse solar eclipse I eat. These are the prayers that are
done out loud.
Next question.
To add you can be out loud the no effort of the night can be out
loud.
Someone asked should we ask for sober? They've always been told
that asking for patience means you're asking for tests.
Yes, there is a statement The question is if I make dua, O Allah
grant me Sabra Am I not not way saying oh Allah grant me
tribulations to have somebody with? Well, the answer is that
patience is of different types. The first patience is of patience
with the people that they harm you and you have somebody with them.
And sometimes they don't harm you. They're just burdensome. For
example, a man with many responsibilities like a guy with
six kids, that's they're not harming you. In fact, you love
them, right? It's amazing thing with kids. When they're healthy,
they exhaust you. That's the good blessing. Imagine if they weren't
healthy. When they're good. They take up a lot of time and money.
Imagine when they're bad. So kids, either way, good or bad, it will
drain you, right? So there's somebody with that it's not always
harm. It's not always a tough Secondly, there's the subject of
doing a bad subject of fasting sub love getting up for two hedges
praying fetch, staying on wudu, reciting the Quran, and then
there's sub on avoiding temptations.
So sub it on lowering the gaze, so but I'm not listening to music,
sober on not backbiting with people. Sabra on avoiding
gatherings where they just talking nonsense.
That request sub sub unresisting, taking her interest loan interest
loan is extremely lucrative, but you don't take it. That's a
different type of sub. So when you say, oh, Allah grant me sub, you
may specify which sub right or you may simply put the claws feed
player will look for Apphia in goodness, and in gentleness and
protection, so that you're not asking something bad. And we don't
believe that Allah is someone one who plays tricks on us. So that I
said sub, and then something bad happened to me. You said it? No,
this is like children, or it's someone who's wicked. And we don't
believe that about Allah.
So just following up on that, because that's like beautiful
patients, right? So what would ugly patients look like? Ugly, so
there's beautiful patients, there's not beautiful patients.
And then there is must be ugly patients. So if there's beautiful
patients, which Allah call sub balloon, Jimmy, then there must be
sub
kabhi bad patients. And there must be sub which is not a chronic
term, but we're saying it must exist. And there is also subject
which is neither Jimmy nor clubby.
The beautiful patience is the patients in which you do not
complain.
You know, you believe that you feel if I complain about this,
it's as if I complained about Allah.
That's called Southern Jimmy.
Saba, that is kabhi
is Southern upon sins, right? Like that, for example.
A thief the first moment that the thief steals for the first time,
he's got butterflies in his stomach, his nervous system tells
him Don't do this. This is bad.
Yet he he he has the he fights through that. Okay? He fights
through that.
Okay? Same with Zina. Zina, you feel guilty? Is that No, I'm gonna
fight through it. So that in a sense, you are carrying a burden,
but you're carrying the wrong burden, you're carrying the burden
of bliss, and you're carrying the burden of a curse from Allah.
So that's the type of somebody that's bad.
And then you have somebody that is neither good nor bad. And that is,
you get a tribulation that comes upon you. And you complain about
it, but you don't lose your obedience to Allah. So that will
wipe away your sins but not necessarily elevate your rank.
Alright, a tribulation comes and you can't stand it you hate it.
You keep complaining about it, you you don't you neither increase in
a bad but you don't decrease either. So therefore that type of
person
that tribulation, and that sub earned him forgiveness of sins but
did not earn him increase in rank. These are the three types of sub.
Is it permissible to recite Quran at the graveyard says Chima? The
answer is yes. Not only permissible, it's good. It's good
for the debt to hear the book of Allah. Does Allah forgive us
immediately whenever we ask for his forgiveness if there is
sincerity in the Toba and its conditions are fulfilled. The only
Toba that is not accepted is the planned Toba. That means I'm going
to do this sin tonight and I'll make tau but tomorrow
what ox says any tip to grip on Arabic grammar stuff and now read
read read read as much as you can. And review the grammar books
and come come to my Ark view.org will teach Arabic My org view dot
o RG there's some Arabic classes there that you can read along with
the famous book club this wouldn't have been
Tasneem says do you have to pray right away when the event starts
without to delay the prayer within its timeframe is a good question.
fetcher is actually recommended to delay it enough that you know it's
absolutely fetch the heart as well. You can delay it if there's
work or if it's too hot to go to the restroom. Also you should not
delay
Maghrib you should not delay
Isha
You should not delay it past half the night. The first delay is
okay. First half of the night is okay pass half the night you
should not delay. So again, that's three. Also pray right away.
Mother to pray right away. Or Aisha, don't pray it pass half the
night your sinful if you delay it to have pass after night for no
reason. Of course, if you have reason that it's not considered
delay,
right. Okay from our dear brothers, so hey, yes, if one has
made a verbal slash handshake agreement, for work to be done,
such as like an interior design job or something like that, and
one, but one finds a better deal later on? Can he take the other
deal basically, going against the handshake? If you have a handshake
agreement, or a verbal agreement or a written agreement? And then
you get a better agreement? Can you break it? The first agreement
Firstly, in the Sharia, the verbal, the handshake, and the
written, it's all the same for us.
They are agreements, your word is an agreement.
And then you get a better deal later on. You have to you can own
the Sharia between two parties is the agreement between them, right?
That's the shitty out for you. This contract, whether it's verbal
or oral, verbal or written.
If you get a better deal, only if the other party in the contract is
accepting that you pull out
if you tell him listen, I'm a poor guy. I took this deal because I
had no better deal, but I got a better deal. Do you mind if I take
that first and takes your second? If he accepts that fine? If he
says no I needed this job done, then you have to do the job.
So the
shutter open which acted as an act, the idea of two parties that
have a contract is the contract
tantum says
What should I do when I feel like I'm being tested beyond my limits?
You have to do much remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala
yes Cebu
much calling upon Allah yes Cebu so that you can have more sub
Mohammed 7861 Calling upon Allah with his different names does l
needed to be added? No, you say yes. Shafi not yet a Sheffy. No.
Yes, Chef. Yes. Afiya Shafi, not yet alsef. Yes, Fe? It's a good
question. How do you have faith? What are the conditions of Toba?
Number one regret? I regret having done this. Number two, you admit
not having
you take responsibility? You don't say no. Allah made me do it or at
least made me do it. No, take responsibility have regret making
stuff up.
Ask Allah forgiveness. Some people have too much kibble. They may
regret it, but they'll never see this too far. And sometimes you
have to seek your forgiveness of the person that you harmed. Number
four, you never returned. You make the intention never to return to
it, even if you do fall into it again. But you made the intention
to return here. These are the four conditions of job.
What qualifications would you need to go out and give Dawa to their
community? What qualifications you need to go out and give Dawa? The
answer to that is that you do need a qualification that you
understand the appeal of Islam, and you understand the priorities.
Not everyone actually should be giving though. Some people they
don't know they and they do harm. A person becomes Muslim and they
start telling them everything about the fit of Daraa and Salah
and Jihad and Nikka river.
And then they put the person out of the deen because they're like,
Whoa, this is way too much. This is beyond no prophets, I send them
said to my other bingeable Go to the people call them to Salah to
the to the shahada to amen. If they accept it, then inform them
about the Salah. If they accept it, then inform them about the
Zika by a PS by analogy, you only give one layer at a time to a new
Muslim and the Johari the ignorant.
They value they may overload a new Muslim with tons of stuff. The
person's like oh this is way too much. I'm out of here. Secondly,
they may not look at the foundations of a person's Eman.
What is the foundation of a person's you men is that they did
this willingly from themselves because they truly believe it. If
you pressure somebody into entering Islam, you deprive them
of having their own will you can't pressure someone into Islam. Right
this is not like signing a making a sale.
Right? When you get like some businessman sell pressuring you to
buy a trinket or something no has to come from themselves. So you
have to
make them love the whole Dean in the environment.
Mohammed gold Shan says is it permissible to read Quran aloud
during tagit? Yes, and you can physically hold the most half or
the tablet you may do that.
Okay.
How can I get unstuck in life says so this is a great question. She
says she's stuck in life.
How do I get unstuck in life? I have a very simple formula for
you.
Allah subhana wa Tada. He says, Only a searchable accom asked me
I'll grant you
paint the picture. How would you like your life to be and believe
nobody can get it to you except Allah.
And then go about obeying Him and doing worship and striving for
your goals with DUA and with hard work will love it but that's what
I think you can get unstuck in life. Henna says is it God needs
to be paid on gold store stored in the bank and not being used?
I don't know about the 100 free methods to be quite honest with us
number one, but number two
gold if you're not if you are intending it as a currency
you owe zakat on it
if you are not intending it as a currency and it's your jewelry but
you're keeping it somewhere you don't know then then then you do
not it was a cat on it
was a MILCON it is it said in Hadith that the time between
Havana calm is a time of history Jabba That's correct. So for
making dua at that time, is it compulsory to go to the masjid?
No, it's well, it is best in the masjid. That's what is meant by
that.
That is what is meant by that. But if the event goes off in your
house and someone calls the event,
then you can make dua and then they call your karma for the
salah.
What are your thoughts on credit card to use? Credit card may be
necessary for person to have if they need to rent a car, or other
purposes. But the fees are a river. So if you pay it off right
away, it's good. But if you feel if you're tempted if the idea of
having a credit card will tempt you into overcharging and then
falling into debt and then having to pay extra, you're blameworthy
for that idea faces How do you know if your job is accepted? If
you keep making it, that's a sign of its acceptance. You keep making
Toba for something that is a sign of its acceptance and Allah knows
best
how yeah Allah Salah is it sunnah to stand when the karma is said at
Ayala salah. There's different the when that when the Imam says the
karma to Salah that's when you get up.
All right.
Do you know how to read the questions from there? Let's see
what you got.
So I have a question from Sarah. She said how do we address members
of the LGBTQ community that are interested in accepting Islam
Sidra says how do we dress people who are from the LGBT queue that
are interested in accepting Islam?
Then we will we will just teach them Islam as it is. And if they
are interested in the shahada, we give them the Shahada. But we
cannot wait one what we cannot do is affirm something about Islam.
That's false. Okay, we can't affirm something that is false.
You don't always have to say everything. But we do not affirm
something that's false.
Okay. You cannot mislead them and say, oh, yeah, Islam accepts
for you to do this, that and the other which is haram. Okay. But
you don't always have to say
or you cannot you cannot mislead them. That's essentially the
answer to that question. But let them enter Islam, it's their HAC.
And it's Allah's duty for him to be to be believed in. I mean,
stuff that Allah it's Allah's right to be believed in and is
their duty to believe in Him.
So will when the topic is broached that if you fall into some sin,
God is forgiving, but you can't believe that that's in his right.
That's what we would say when that aspect of the topic comes up.
FJ free says, Can you shed lights on the report that amendment Sid
repented from the Creed he had called for it that is completely
false.
By the way, 99.999% of every time, someone from let's say the setup
fee or some other group, they love any ma'am and they need
To quote him,
but then they don't agree with his data. They say he repented on his
deathbed. as false. There's no records of these things. Okay?
That you make him part of your meth hub and say he repented on
his deathbed. In fact, the one person who did repent at the end
of his life was given to me from all the tubs. Yeah, he did have
that Asha IRA. All right. And he writes that at the end of his
life, his federal on them changed. So this concept of he repented at
the end of his life is is almost like an American When you love
somebody and say, Oh, he's a closet Muslim secretly took your
head.
That's not true. Is it permissible to take opinion of a certain
method and then another matter from another method, only if
there's a hardship? It will be valid if you do it, but it's not
the practice of scholars to dip like, as if it's a buffet. It's
not the practice of the righteous or the scholars find me one
scholar who went around doing that right.
What should the objective of the student of knowledge be in this
world so they can have success and after the, the objective, what
should the objective of student of knowledge be in this world so we
can have success in the afterlife? Very simple.
study from the correct sources of knowledge act upon it and spread
it.
I am so Luke Tao, I am learning. So Luke, acting upon it. Dawa,
spreading it to somebody else. Next question, is there a special
dua for finding a job quickly? Is there a special draw for finding a
job quickly? And the answer to that you can use the draw of
Satana Musa be in Neelima and delta ilium and hired and fapy it
it's not just for marriage that da rugby in Neelima and delta Illa
Yemen Hiren familia why because they know Musa What did what
happened as soon as he said that, the girl came walking out
modestly. And she said, My father calls for you so he can compensate
you for what you did for us. He had gotten water for them. And
there were a bunch of guys there and they couldn't get to the well
because the guys were hogging up the space. He went in there. And
he said, Why don't you give these women some room and he got them
the water. So she then they he went to the Father and some people
say the father was the prophet Schreib and he immediately gave
him a wife and a job.
But of course the wife he can only get after he pays the dowry,
what's the diary? Eight to 10 years of labor.
So he got home he got a job and he got a wife by saying that da so
therefore the scholars say that Da is for any needs that be in
Neelima and delta em and 150 which is the best Dr to make for the OMA
then that's the best off for the MC for the OMA Yeah, because
it's basically open ended.
And the other ones to make for though, for the OMA
the job for Salah la masala. Mata Muhammad is one of the best to up
and there is Yara Muslim welfare Wester Wafaa what the job was
unsafe to Almighty Mohammed it's a bit long. It's not a sunnah,
derived from the Sunnah, but it's Dr the sleight of hand
or they're recommended or specific times to do thicker is erect. Are
there any specific times where it's greater to do thicker than
others? Yes, there are. The middle of the night is the best thick
after fetch is from the best time to do that. Before you sleep is a
sunnah the prophesy said I've never slept just like that. He
would always remember Allah for a period of time and then go to
sleep. Those are the three best times to make the
Tasneem says what Wait, what are ways we can remain humble, but not
put ourselves down in the process. You never put yourself down by the
way, say naughty sub says mentioned never humiliate himself.
You never put yourself down. Humility is about achievements.
Okay, the person who has no achievements in life is not
humble, they're meek.
They're meek and weak. Human in order to be humble, you need
something to be humble about. Right?
So you have to have some achievement, but you don't
attribute your achievement to yourself. You attribute the
achievement to Allah subhanaw taala and you believe in your
heart and you know in your mind in one moment,
Allah can make you swap places with people. If you despise the
person and you look down on them, then it may be now or later that
the days will turn
and pass and you will end up like them and they will end up like
you. We have to believe that at any moment that could happen.
Allah has all the power to do that.
Insecure says.
related to an above question, what is the meaning of the Hadith that
the believer doesn't humiliate himself? You don't
out speak things that Allah hid for you. Allah hid your sins,
don't expose it.
Allah hid your flaws, don't expose it.
That's the meaning of that. Do not speak about something that
embarrasses you. This is not humility for us. You do not bring
pain upon yourself thinking that this is humility and devotion.
There are some Catholic groups, they were nails. They were tacks
and nails. Right? And they bleed.
And these some of these people are like bankers and educated people,
but they believe that they're taking a portion of what Jesus
suffered. We say that Allah did not Firstly, he did not
do that from the first way. Secondly, it doesn't benefit you
at all. That will be a documented look. You don't harm yourself and
Islam we don't harm that's not our deen to do that. Even like long
prayers are long, fast to the point where you're torturing
yourself. That's not our religion, prophesy. centum said, if one of
you is praying to hedge it, and he's too tired, let him sleep,
then get up with energy to pray. So that our deen is one of
balanced it's not self harm is not something that helps us self
humiliation is not something that we do. We don't confess our sins
to anybody.
Unless you're seeking help, where you say listen, I'm a drunkard, I
need you to help me. But we don't have confession in our religion.
Keep your self respect and yourself your reputation by not
spilling your sins to people. Next question.
What is Utah? And how should we implement it in our daily life?
What is Vera? And how do we implement it? Riera is for every
man for the women of his family, and for the dean, and for every
woman, and for the women of the men for the men of him and for the
dean. So that is you don't want
it's a natural feeling that needs to be enhanced, and we need to be
educated about it. It's a natural feeling that if I have a daughter
or wife or a mom, I don't want some strange guy looking at her. I
don't want any guy looking at her. If you want to be with them in
some way come respectfully ask for marriage.
That's called the Veda. No woman wants her husband hanging out with
other women. And if that happens, and she becomes acceptant I'm
accepting of that.
Then we say about it that her fitrah has been warped. The
society has warped her fitrah she needs to fix that. Likewise for a
man.
If he thinks that, that this Libra thing is some old fashion and it's
a sign of your weakness, then he needs to be fixed. Lira is it is
rooted in a fear of weakness, fear and weakness because we do
recognize that Iblees can play games. We do recognize I trust
people, but I don't trust the police. If police can whisper
prophesy centum said Lackawanna Raju umbra. Willow can its money
can you add them? Well, Quran Willow qanats Marina been
temporadas de
la effluent. Rajaram Zimbra, ottesen
good. No man should be alone with a woman. Even if he's teacher the
Quran. Even if it's muddy, I'm the daughter of Emraan the Siddiqa why
I trust you, I don't trust the bliss. I trust your good side, I
don't trust your neffs we don't even trust I don't trust my neffs
This is a actual pillar of understanding. I don't trust my
own neffs. And if you trust your neffs, that's a false, you're
going down the wrong path. If say Neville buckless Did himself who
the Prophet said you're going to paradise directly face to face
statement from the Messenger of Allah.
Saying the Gibreel told him the first 10 people to walk into this
garden upon you give them the glad tidings of paradise. So he did
because Santa God knew who was coming.
He said if I have one foot in Paradise, and my other foot is out
out I still don't know what's gonna happen. You can't trust your
knifes and our in our psychology, we have a good side that is
wonderful.
And which is the fitrah and good good to have hosted and done but
we also have an ego we have enough's
la FC in enough Salah Amara from Bisou Zuleika said, I never defend
my neffs the neffs commands to evil. That's what we say about
ourselves. We all have enough's, it commands to evil. There's a
bliss, he's a gift I don't want to be in as the Quran says, there's
higher to dunya which is data guru. It's a place of temptation.
I don't trust that I could be tempted and bliss could come to me
at the same time.
So men and women relations have Riera there to separate you from
any chance that you can get close to a woman.
Even if it takes 10,000 steps, let's say in an average
person who doesn't have Islam, right? They have interactions with
women all the time. And they don't commit Zina. Yes, that's true.
Let's say hypothetically it takes 50,000 steps and interactions
before the thought. Of Zina comes up. Hypothetically. Islam comes to
cut the fifth the first step. It doesn't wait all the way until
Zina becomes a possibility then makes a rule that's too late. By
that time. It's too late. Because human momentum on passions is
unstoppable. When a man falls in love with a woman or a woman falls
in love or it's not love, it's just passion that is unstoppable.
Nothing can stop it. And that's why the the dimension of the
Hellfire is so vicious. It's that it's a fair word to say vicious.
The angel that punishes it is said, Well, lo Adam, I heard from
15 years ago, none. He is narration saying the angels that
punished in the Hellfire are blind and deaf.
Because if they could see what they're doing, they would never do
it. How vicious that viciousness, that. harshness is the thought of
it can put out your temptations, it could move you away from
temptation. So that's idea of later is separation. So we cut off
the first step. We don't wait until the momentum develops
between a guy and a girl. And they love each other. And they say
well, oh, this is backwards. What do you mean backwards? It's not
backwards at all. It's our deen, it's our identity. It's who we
are. It's what we love. The society should accept it. Isn't
society all about diversity? This is some really good diversity for
you. Because you're not going to get this opinion everywhere.
Right? So accept it, and be proud of it. I'm very proud of our
religion that we separate between genders. I'm very proud of it.
Because it it when you see the results.
I'm not embarrassed by it at all. And our separation is balanced,
will lie of the separation of the Turks of the North Africans. It's
a balanced separation. It's not something so rigid, that you can't
live and you feel weird. It's not. It's a it's one that's healthy.
Okay, it's a perfect balance. The Mediterranean by the way, if you
ever want to know well, what were the most balanced area in the
world is the Mediterranean, Mediterranean, everyone goes
there, they meet everybody, at least back in the olden days,
right? They meet everybody. Everyone goes does trade there. So
they end up representing a little bit of the mix of all the cultures
of the world. Okay.
And even in Islam, and even today, that area, the Anatolia in the
north, and then North Africa and Syria to have the best, they have
balance because they interact with everybody they have ports, so they
deal with everybody.
Next question. Rapid Fire fix time rapid fire fit. Let's, let's hear
it. Okay, first question comes from our brother Orth man,
straight out of biology exam probably. Do we do a take a second
to childhood after doing such the so idiomatic if you do such that?
So if you forget one of the eight, so num will act gudda. Then you do
Oh, something called sedge. It's a so the frustration of
forgetfulness. And you do that prostration to prostrations and
then you say the first half of the day. And then you sit out.
Next question Can someone who is travelling 30 to 40 miles for
recreational purposes such as shopping, can they can bind pairs
come combining prayers can happen you can combine your prayers if
the journey is how to it does not have to be a journey of necessity
or worship. If the journey is permissible, such as shopping, or
skiing or or visiting a friend as long as more than 36 Miles
according to it. I mean, the sooner the Autobots boots forebode
Roman mail posts has been calculated as nine miles per
that's nine times four is 36. And that's what we go by 36 miles. You
may hear 48 miles because they calculated the board as being 12
American miles. And I'll go with chakra Minnesota, which he said
it's nine per that's nine times four is 36 miles. So if you
traveled 36 miles you can shorten and combine. Next question, is it
permissible to hold the translation of the Quran without
Can you hold the translation of Quran without will do yes.
Okay, what are the benefits for reciting it's the last 10 times
the benefit of service at a class 10 times according to hadith is
that it gives a palace in Paradise. And you can intend that
palace to someone who died upon Islam.
You can intend it for somebody else. So I intend the reward of
this 10 recitations.
To go to someone else, as long as that person died on us them like
my grandmother, my grandfather, et cetera.
How would you respond to Muslim parents that believe putting your
kids in HIV is oppression? How do you are applied to most apparent
that believes that putting your kids in a hips program is
oppression?
Oppression? Maybe that's not the right word. Maybe they should use
the word too difficult, maybe maybe a little bit stressful a
little bit, but they can't I don't think the word oppression is a bit
too much. And secondly, you know, leave other families to do their
thing. Who are you? What's your business? Maybe their norms are
different than your norms. You know that the norms of a kid who
grew up upon something, and his mom did it, his dad did it. His
norm is very different from your norm. So if there's a family out
there that the mom did his program, the dad did his program.
They all did it. They're all fine. They're gonna put their kids
through his program. It's all fine. You grew up watching Mickey
Mouse and eating cereal in front of Saturday morning for four
hours, right? So yes, for you. The concepts may be too difficult. So
don't judge don't don't project your norms to other people's
norms. Simple fact. I know a guy
is a young guy in a shaker. His grandma was dying. The grandma.
Now in any society if your grandma's dying,
you know, tell us that this is the deathbed we know the deathbed
death.
What did you drop everything in come? Well, this guy was out doing
Dow.
They got the word to Grandma's dying. What did the grandma say?
The grandma said she was such a pious woman and she grew up on
down her dad did die, her husband, a doe. She said, Stay where you
are. What's the value of coming to me when I'm about to die? Right?
So you're going to see me for a few more minutes. I'll make dua
for you go do Allah's work. Don't come and see me. So people have
totally different families are totally different cultures. And I
know people, I don't care. Well, if you're making hedge if the mom
trips and falls, cancel your head, don't come and see me. Right? Some
moms are demanding like that they that's their version of Bidwell
again, that's their expectation.
Okay, I don't care if you're doing a surgery, if I trip and fall come
and visit me. That's the expectation. So don't project
yourself and your norms on other people.
Next question, how do we explain and strong deja vu in Islam? I've
never seen any explanation of deja vu in Islam.
I don't know what the answer is to that question.
Next question.
Okay, this is a follow up from What's the objective of the
student of knowledge? Yep. They continue to they asked, What
should one do if they feel depressed when they look at the
state of the Ummah, and they feel like there's no point in even
striving for what this question says, What happens if I feel
depressed when I look at the state of the OMA and I say, there's no
point, stop looking at it and look at only what you can do. That's
called sphere of concern and sphere of influence.
There's no point spending too much time on sphere of concern. And
looking at all the bad things and even the prophets. I said, you're
only one man, a man came and said, I want to spread the word, the
prophesy some said you're only one man,
spread about me even one thing. So look at your sphere of influence,
instead of your sphere of concern. Don't look so much at the negative
things. The news is meant to spread negative thoughts in the
minds of human beings. So everyone's thinking is negative.
And when you think negative, you attract negative. So get yourself
some momentum by doing one good thing to the person next to you or
to yourself until you get some momentum. Next question. In
whistle, do you have to wash every single part of your skin? What's
the dominant opinion about the back in the whistle, you do have
to wash every part of your skin by rubbing
and the back you can use something and there is the Egyptian opinion
in the medical method that wherever your hands reach is what
you have to wash, but it does have to get wet for sure. Next,
what are the best practices and there was to get someone out of
depression who tried medicine they tried physicians but it's still
not working. What is the best medicine to get yourself out of
debt, you tried doctors you tried everything. First of all, it could
actually be something chemical imbalance allow them we're not
going to discount that. But the spiritual side, there is nothing
more powerful to uplift the spirit of a human being. Then salah upon
His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, upon Allah's Messenger
why? Because Allah loves His messenger, and he loved and he
loves those who were who, who he who remembers His messenger and
then
Therefore, it has been said and have been tried and tested that
much Salah on the Messenger of Allah sigh send them will cure all
spiritual ailments, all capital A ll no doubt. Next question.
How do we make the Muslim youth and young adults always remember
the consequences of their actions in the day of judgment without
making them feel like Islam is all about punishments? How do we make
people always remember the consequences of their actions
without making them feel that this is all about punishment, etc, etc,
etc.
I would go and reverse this, rather than moving people by a
fear, move them by motivation for reward. Human beings love
themselves right or wrong. We all love ourselves. And we all want
something good for ourselves. If you tell somebody, don't go over
there, because there's a fire over there, all he's going to do is be
very curious. Right? You see, there's a fire what do people do?
The deers all run away the human being run to the fire, let's look
at it. You make something more mystical sometimes, or fantastical
in their mind. But what you do, what human beings will always
respond to is something that they will benefit from. And as and the
benefit that's quicker is more moving to a person than the
benefits that's further so if I say to you, you will see the
results tomorrow if you do this a better today. And if you avoid
this sin today, and you will see an amazing benefit in your worldly
life tomorrow. You'll see him moving really quick. That's the
nature of human beings and and the prophesy. centum is the one who
confirmed that by saying love my family, for my sake love me for
Allah sake love Allah for the good things he showered upon you. So
he's telling us the psychology of a human being loves himself and
loves benefit for himself. That's the selfishness. That's okay. In
Islam. The selfishness that's bad is the one that takes other
people's rights. That's the selfishness that's sinful. Next
question.
Is there is the sunnah to let the entire beard grow or to trim the
sides and that the chin hair grow is the sunnah to let the whole
beard grow. In medical method, the sunnah to have a beard is whatever
the society the pious Muslims call a beard or the society calls a
beard. Okay? That's what the Sunnah is for having a beard,
whatever is called a beard. And from the Sunnah of Abdullah bin
Omar is that he would let it go a fist length and then cut
underneath underneath. He's the one who invented the concept of
fist length. He knows better than sooner than anyone else. And he
understood that the Prophet did not mean the beard down to belly
button.
He used to take his fist and cut from here and there were others
examples that that side can be tripped. And the Jordan there was
a Syrian or Jordanian scholar who wrote about the Hanafi madhhab.
The permissibility of trimming the sides, it is permitted to to
remove some hair from the side so it doesn't grow out like this.
It's against the fifth to see a person whose beard comes out like
this right or wrong, right? You look at it, what happened to him,
right? No, the Sahaba and the self and the tear bein they were
allowed to clean up the side of the beard. Okay, so that's the
answer to that.
What is the correct way of wording so the words on the Prophet
sallallaahu Salam can I say Are they salatu salam instead of Aloma
so he was sending it? What is the correct wording of Salon Saddam on
the Prophet peace be upon him there there is many different
correct wordings any expression which says i Li salat wa salam
Allahumma salli wa salam ala, whether you use the pronoun, R li
or you use the word Mohammed or sage and Mohammed, this is all
acceptable, but you should include Salah and salam. If you say Salah
that's past tense, then you should say salam, if you say so li which
is commanded then you should say said limb command tense.
Okay, next.
Okay, so this has a word that I've never seen before it does removing
the socks after doing a messa invalidate.
Removing socks after doing mess. First of all mess on the sock
wiping on the sock is only in the honey method. If you're aware, if
you're doing mess on your sock, you must make sure your entire
will do is according to the humbly method, go study it. Otherwise
it's invalid. You may bring a lawsuit that is neither valid in
the somebody's Hanafi Saffi or medical method. Therefore you
select invalid it's just that you say Oh, Allah should be forgiving.
Don't tell her what to do. Allah has wants the salon to look like
this. All right, and the answer to that question of what is Salah and
tada look like? It's been answered by the great scholars of the four
methods and what they've agreed upon. All right within their
method. So your your will do must be in accordance to one of the
four methods. So if you wipe on your socks, for example, but you
didn't do your nose, there's not a will do in any method because only
the henna biller allow wiping on the sock but they also demand that
you do
your nose and your mouth has fought it for them. The ear is
fought, maybe sooner for the other methods or it is sooner for that
other methods. But if you do wipe on a sock or a hoof, then you
remove that sock and Cliff you're out of windows.
You have to make wudu again.
Can you emotional trauma This question says by lgfa be cured by
rokeya vicar in general and Rockley as a branch of vicar,
vicar in general can can cure emotional trauma and other
thinking pure emotional trauma is charity work, helping other people
dealing with horses, being with the Muslims in general, right?
Being with your family and loved ones who love you and share with
you every time they share something with you. Some love is
happens there. Right? And of course they're members of
restriction of Quran one more question. Okay, this is a good one
to end on. All right, what is the best way to prepare for Ramadan?
What is the best way to prepare for the month of Ramadan if you're
somebody who has a physical physically a hard time to fast
then you should start fasting so that the month Ramadan comes and
doesn't give you headaches? And that you're totally out of whack,
etc. So to actually do CME is the best way for you to actually
get ready for sia for the month of Ramadan so that when the fast
comes the fast is easy for you. And then you could focus on your
other a bad debt and the greatest a bad in the month of Ramadan is
recitation of Quran no doubt about that. Just that can walk in and if
you want Subhanak Allah Who Moby Dick Nisha went into the stock
photo corner to boutique with us in Santa Fe of course Illallah
Medina, Amarillo middle side HURT What was awkward was sub sub.
We'll see you all Monday for our stream on next week, inshallah
Tada and you can subscribe to all these channels. My YouTube
Instagram page Facebook page Safina side of YouTube page. Did
you put that on tick tock today?
Under My name Dr. Saudia mastery duck just doctor said The Tick
Tock page is it called the pager and account account sorry I'm not
up to date with all this stuff. And inshallah you could
participate in all these are always they're left on Instagram
and they are on YouTube at the Safina society YouTube channel.
You can catch up on previous nothing but facts live stream
Thank you very much was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah catch