Shadee Elmasry – NBF 133 Humility of the Prophet (pbuh) pt.2
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The Hela generation of Muslims has created unique clothing items with the use of animals and "will" as tools for protecting against evil behavior. Prayer and caution are emphasized, along with the need for people to be humble and considerate. The speakers also discuss the use of words like "help" and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful" in relation to the use of words like "help," and "helpful
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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala
Rasulillah who here was happy women Well, welcome everybody to
the Safina society nothing but facts live stream where we are
going to try to do this pull off the stream with a crying baby in
the background and hopefully someone will quiet him down.
But we are on the humility of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
aalihi wa sahbihi wa salam
and here we go
Hadith number 320 In terms of the Bab, it's Bab number eight
anakata and NSF Numerica Raja lo Giada and o kala kala Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lo o de la kura on lockable to Willow
do a to La he led up to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam has taught us by his actions, as well as other things
is that the we should accept the invitation regardless of how lofty
and not the invitation is
a hobby have to set up can you take him downstairs into line
comes? Just sit with him in the other room.
Maybe
he says even if I'm given the foot of a goat and invited to have
dinner on
with a dinner of a foot of a goat I would attend
my death and Mohammed Ivanova Shah had death and Abdurrahman her
death and so if Jana and Mohammed had minimal care that actually
bring him bring them to me. Just bring him to
Yeah, just bring him to me
Carla any Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa early he was salam laser
Iraqi been buckling wala
baritone, and we got an app consider it and Africans for that
runny nose picked up a little bad boy right here, okay
all right.
All right, this hadith states that the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam would not always be seen riding something
luxurious or what you would imagine a king or or a ruler to
ride. Okay? So sometimes he would come on a mule, sometimes on a
horse and sometimes walking. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, from his humility is that he went the opposite ways of kings
and all these types. He would walk.
He would ride a humble mule when he came to Mecca one of the
signals that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is not
going to come in as a king that's going to kill everybody and take
over is that he came on a mule.
He came on a mule. He didn't come on a big dark black horse saying
okay, this is conquest or a white horse saying Look at everyone.
Look at me. I'm your chief here. Kim on a mule. And that was a
signal. This is coming with humility. This is a FET. That is a
necessity. A FET is a victory without violence. No. Surah Innes
is victory after that there's after violence, in other words,
after war after struggle. So that's the difference in the word
FET. And the word pneus pneus is victory after fighting, that is
victory without fighting. It's peaceful. I want to point to
different words like there's n'est and there's feta. Good, what is
it? What is another difference between nefs and Huwa?
Totally separate from this discussion, and nefs it reflects
the desires of the human being that is born with that exists from
the time of Adam all the way until today. Every man has lust anger,
hunger, laziness, love of power, love of fame, from the time of
cartoon and all human beings, every the desires of the neffs can
be used for good or can be used for bad.
So the just all the desires of the neffs. They can be used both ways.
So it's up to shed Shinya is the one that
It gives us to VB okay for this deep. So
that's the neffs we all have it, you can't control it. Right? Now
what about the hello, hello is something that you make up.
It's an idea that that someone conjured up that has never come
before. So it's not like you can find a precedent in the 1800s, or
the 1700s, or in the time of newer, or the time of Ibrahim at
the time of the Sahaba, something totally new.
Okay? That's what we call a Hela. And then Hello, is something that
we conjure up in our minds, it's not something that's a Jamila.
Jamila means like you're created with it. Okay. That's the
difference. So, Alcoa
is is something that it comes to a generation and some people make
things up. And of course, the HELOC can be with all the rulings
it could be permitted. And it could be forbidden or could be
discouraged, or it could be recommended. Okay, so for example,
a tool by which you can keep in touch with your parents. It's
recommended, right? Well, that would even be held with us just
like an invention. But how about for example, for the Muslims that
were fez caps, a while back, the whole Ummah was wearing these,
these tall fez caps. It's a permissible hula, there's nothing
wrong with it. Right. But how, for example, getting earrings, or
wearing tons of jewelry for men. That's how I was Muharram. It's
something that people like, but it's how to sew. That's the
difference between a neffs Well, hello. Now here's something else
about enough's world, however, is that the neffs, because it's not
from you, people who find it easy to admit that they're stuck on it,
or they're guilty of it. If people easily admit them, I can't stop
alcohol, I can't stop looking at when people can easily admit them,
and they know what's wrong. And they try to get away from it. They
repent from it, it could find a lot of people repenting from these
types of sins.
But the Hella, because it's your invention, and it's your idea.
People like people insist on defending their ideas. So that's
why one of my teachers told me, it's very rare to find saw him
however, apart from his innovation, once once a person
gets onto some innovation, some crazy idea, it's very hard to get
them off of it. Why? Because he invented it. So he stuck to it.
Right? No matter how much evidence you give him, he's he'll cling on
to it for dear life. So that's just a difference between nefs and
Hela. And that's also the difference between
what we said here is the facts and the nuts. I also want to point to
a difference between two wild dog with little
to all DA is is humility.
The wildlife humility, and it's, it's that you have the
opportunity. The difference is you have the opportunity to rise, you
have something that would make you maybe be arrogant.
But you don't be hard. You you humble yourself. So required into
although is the ability to be arrogant. A vocal is the inability
to ever rise up. You're down. You're meek.
That's what loaded is. So the difference is that the someone who
has no money, no
wealth, no knowledge, no looks, no lineage. He's got absolutely
nothing.
This person cannot be humble.
Right? There's nothing to be humble about. You have to have
something to be humble about. Okay? That's what you need. You
need something to be humble about.
Okay, so that person is meek. That's a vote is meek. Okay, so
that's the difference between a total dork with voted the prophet
had a lot to be able to, to be arrogant about No, no, no, no, no,
don't touch that camera. Jot it
down and before we put you back in the cage,
back in the pigpen.
Okay, so that's the difference between these two terms. Then you
have for example,
faqeer Mysskin.
For deer, his hand to mouth. He's got nothing, right. The miskeen is
somebody who he has, but it's not enough. And what do we consider?
Not enough? He doesn't have a year security of provisions. So example
you got a full time job and you got to someone who's telling you
he's gonna give you a salary every month. That's like security,
right? Or the days of the farmer for example. He's got, he looks
outside and he's gonna eat food for like a year and a half, two
years, three years, right. That's security. So the one who doesn't
have any of that, okay.
He doesn't have any of that.
That's someone who is miski and you can give him his he doesn't
have one years provision or security that's the idea of the
miskeen okay. So
that those were some you know, little Arabic vocabulary
alright right next Hadith, on the humility of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa salam.
sermanni Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam. This is similar
to Yusuf ibn Abdullah hipness Alam called some many Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa Earley was a llama USofA was a god then if he
hit God, he will masala ROTC Subhan Allah.
Interesting
prophets of Allah man, so sabe by the name of use of Ibn Abdullah
Abdullah salah.
And of course, Abdullah Abdullah Salam was the Jew who became
Muslim, right? He was he was he was a
rabbi, very honest rabbi, he entered Islam. When he gave birth,
he submitted his boy he so his voice to the prophets of Allah
while he was telling one of the prophets I set him to do, he said,
he selected the name use of for me, he put me in his lap, and he
used to rub my hair head.
So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had the humility to
handle and to treat
children, you know, to be nice to children, this is something that a
busy CEO would never do. A king would never had time for this,
right? And that's not his son. It's not his grandson. It's
someone else's. But he took care of doing that. And here the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, in this hadith, it shows
from that humility. It's a type of cover, just so I don't deal with
that class of people, right? Like little kids. Okay.
So he had no problem put an infant on his lap. Got today, we do have
some, you know, this is the time where they trusted each other
today, you touch on other, you know, baby in the masjid, and
people are gonna get
worried. So you have to keep that in mind, too. You can't touch
people's kids anymore. Like in touching in the sense of holding
him etcetera. You know,
doing all those things, like holding a child, you have to be
very careful. You got to know the parents, just to give you some
information. I know that sometimes we get guests or shoe or some
elders, they come from other countries where everyone trusts
everybody, like they don't have, they never had a crisis of
molestation. Now, maybe they had molestation, right. They may have
had problems. But it was never a movement. That's the difference.
Like it was never something where there was a tension raised, which
is that's not good. It should be. If it's happening under the rug,
someone should, you know, expose it so that everyone's careful to
stay away from this. But in a lot of countries, that's of it, it
exists. But it has never come to the surface as a social movement,
where now we're all aware, and I don't want anyone touching my
kids. I don't trust anybody. Like that's how it is here in America.
So you got to keep that in mind too. As much as you want to
emulate emulate the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was
practicing in a certain he was doing this in a certain
circumstance where it was totally acceptable not only acceptable,
they, they wanted him to hold their babies, etc. If you trust
somebody, no problem. But if you don't know the parents, and you
don't know that they're okay with this state, keep your hands off
people's kids. So you have to understand that there's a time and
a place and a circumstance for all these Hadith and they all have to
be put together. Daydreaming of autumn says that is asking you
about that meekness is Lulu Ville is meekness. Okay? So, remember,
in order to be humble, you need to have something to be humble about.
Good. surgeons need to be told to be humble. This is they have what
they call a god complex. Philosophers have a god complex
that it's so smart surgeon literally cutting people up and
sewing them together. So they have like an arrogance. So the more you
have all the real estate, guys, oh my gosh, these are really arrogant
guys, right? Because they got a boss around contractors all the
time. They got workers that they like, construction workers are not
easy. When you deal with these people. And I saw a guy he's a
very pious Muslim. But I saw when I saw him at work, almost like was
laughing from shock of how nasty how vicious he talks to these
construction workers. Right?
If he's like, there's no other way to talk to them. You got to become
basically a gang leader and a killer. Okay, so I actually had
ended up asking for him how much he could curse in the city because
he was like, he cannot possibly you can
had not worked with these people except every three words has to be
a curse. They would just won't respect you. And believe it or
not, the answer I got was that as long as the curse does not involve
an accusation of Zina, like mother this or that, because that implies
Zina, and you're not allowed to accuse someone of sin. Or we have
a very practical religion so mandala that that in that
situation is like a bottle of dire necessity that's out of that
culture of people. That's how you have to be. So
I mean, he was going to probably going to curse whether I told him
or not because he's a pragmatist, but nonetheless, I did share with
him and he said he's going to refrain from the curses that are
accusation of Zina, I
find this hadith interesting because I was just literally in
this predicament
with with my son here who has a runny nose.
Yes, ha.
Imagine imagine if I had read that hadith while leaving him to cry,
and be like, alright, wrap up number facts, where I'm gonna fix.
We're not practicing what we preach here.
Oba Thank you.
So, by the way, have you I am very close to coming to a decision that
we may ask the tenants to move on
their cooking, you know, it just
as soon as you walk in, even there was a child that walked in is at
all the data center smell, right? I don't want that smell. So I'm
actually very close to asking them maybe at a certain time, you know,
I'll give them notice and find yourself a place and I'll give
them money to like, I'll give them
a pay the down payment for what they have to do.
Now with these guys, I'll just tell them, you know, by the end of
the summer or something like that, and I'll tell them I'll help you
with the downpayment because I don't want them to leave with bad
you know, bad feelings. Yeah.
But first, we're gonna have to do with a couple of November
fundraisers first, so that we don't need their rents anymore.
So we go on to the next one, someone is asking what is all all
of? It is the customs of the pious Muslims, which means that it's
things where it's Shinya has not said halal or haram.
It's up to the judgment of people.
And the people that we trust their judgment are the people who are
near to Allah subhanaw taala, meaning simply, they pray in the
mosques. They show up for the mosques, they're in for the
prayers in the masjid. Things like that.
To hear
Thanks.
Next Hadith says an NSF numeric in Anara Jhulan que ya open the Arasu
Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a so a
sower? What's the word for a sower? A tailor? A tailor? Someone
who? Who makes clothes. Very tough job by the way. Oh, what did he
do? Well, while Muhammad Are you just taking over the entire live
stream today.
Okay, so he's, he's a tailor that invited the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa salam Fokker Fokker Raba Minh who theory then la he did.
So he brought the Prophet peace be upon him. Third Eid, which is like
I guess it's like
bready a bready.
Mix. And on top of it was squash.
squashes, it's a starch. I guess. Starch is a branch of vegetables
if I'm not mistaken.
Got a third button for Samia to Anna Sonya Cole. firmare Sonia,
Sonia Lee Taman, aka Dhiru Allah and usno IV to buy to burn a
lasagna.
So he then as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam loved
to eat Dubba which is gourd or squash.
And he began eating it. So Anna said after that, I put squash on
all my food. Right? I wanted to put squash on all my food 30 it he
says is its bread that is wet with a gravy. And then on top of that
you put squash gut.
So it is
was is it it's another prophesies that have said this is sunnah No.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that you have reward
if you eat this No, but the Sahaba they did not need this to motivate
their actions. They loved everything.
About the Prophet peace be upon him and as a result of that
imitated it and ate exactly what whatever he whatever the Prophet
ate, they wanted to eat it once a hobby even said that
he said that I know the Prophet eight watermelon, but I didn't eat
watermelon because I didn't know how. Like how did the Prophet eat
it? Did he cut it up in pieces and eat it because they had knives?
Did he slice it and eat it like this?
So he said, Look, he's searching for how did the Prophet he did so
he could imitate that somehow none of this is shitty I rulings this
is it's their love, they love the Prophet peace be upon. That's it.
That's all it is.
And And isn't that maybe even greater of a motive than doing
something just because you're personally going to benefit?
Because we're admitting there's no has an earthen eating squash.
But you're doing it because you love the profit. So you're doing
it for someone else. You're not doing this for yourself. Whereas
if I recite the test to be 33 times, that's for myself. So that
followership of the Sunnah is for myself, and the followership of
what is not listed as a righteous deep. It's just something that
Prophet did in this world.
That's going to be rewarded with love back from the prophets of
Allah what He was what he did his own Senate lesson. And Elijah
Zelman, Jensen, Amma, there's a famous principle the reward has to
be to be from the same category as the deed. So if we're province I
sell him loves us. Okay, all right. If we were doing an act
just for the love of the Prophet, do you think he's not going to
reciprocate that is not the reward of excellence, excellence. Okay,
which is our lesson the lesson? So that's the concept and the idea of
imitating something the Prophet did as a worldly thing not as a
good deed Muhammad has
started
next
clearly Isha, a woman named ombre said, She is a friend of Seda
Isha, she said, it was said to isha medica Ania Mailloux
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa he was salam, Muffy Beatty. What did
the Prophet peace be found to do in his house? She said cannabis
Rahman Al Bashir, he was just a person. Yeah, nice Manohla. He was
a human being. Okay. Cannabis in a minute, but yeah. fleeth elbow?
Way. Yeah. LuBu Shatta Wale demo NAFSA Subhan Allah. He was a
person, like anybody else. Okay.
He removed lice from his clothes. He milks goats,
lice from schools. Okay.
And he did all the work for him himself. Good.
Yep, the Mona Lisa. He did work for himself. So this means that
his behavior in his house was the normal behavior anyone else would
do. So this is not a king that had people serving Him. Again, the
prophet contradicted that he did not want to live like these elites
who don't do anything. There's also a lot of weakness in that.
First of all,
there's weakness. If you never do normal things, how do you relate
to normal people? So you got to do normal things. At a normal
schedule. You never went and bought milk.
Most millionaires out there don't buy milk they have someone takes
care of the whole house for them. Good. So how do you know what
regular life is like? You don't know what life is like. Right?
If you don't actually do normal life things, he did not have pride
or feel ashamed to do housework, or fulfill needs.
In some ahadeeth exam, examples of the chores are also given, such as
mending
a garment, mending shoes, repairing sandals. Right, it also
mentioned removing bugs or lice from clothes.
So all of these things, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam used to do without any concern, without any fear that
this is going to decrease from his rank in the eyes of people,
because he is not the creator of that rank in the eyes of people
that's understood the point, all other modes of bidding. They are
currently they're the creators of their image. They want to create
an image they want to create for themselves like a status they want
to create this for themselves. So they have to maintain it on to
create for people. Okay?
You know this.
This aura, the prophets I send him did not do any of this had no
concern for this. The aura that he had with the Haber was created by
Allah
The status he had in the hearts of people was created by Allah.
Therefore, all he has to do is obey Allah. And this is how Allah
wants us to live
is not like the way of them with the Cambodian and the arrogant,
just live like anybody else. Right? All right, let's
now turn to YouTube, open up Instagram, Facebook, all of these
things, and see what's going on.
We are live on everything. So let's see
who you have you open up your q&a right now, anyone who wants q&a,
you want to bring up a discussion point. You can bring it up now.
Let's go to the Facebook and see what is going on on Facebook.
There are already two comments on Facebook because we always ignore
the poor Facebook guys. I'll tell you why is because Mark Zuckerberg
made it really complicated to the open it up. There's 1000 little
gadgets and buttons. Okay, and your eye just just gets
overwhelmed.
All right, so let's go to
what do we got?
So hey, how do I look?
Oh.
So he was just being funny, I guess. Bina says, are there things
that are haram to ask in a DUA? And the answer to that is yes,
that there are certain things that are forbidden to ask him to do.
And there are certain things that are forbidden in themselves and
forbidden in
maybe not in themselves. But the fact that you're asking it, and
I'll explain that when you're making dua it is, of course
forbidden to ask for something that is forbidden to do.
It's also forbidden to ask for harm against somebody else. Right.
Now, what is not forbidden is that if if it's like implicit that
there's harm on somebody else, like for example, when Ahmed bin
Abdulaziz said I wanted to become the Khalifa, how's he going to
become liquid? If it doesn't somebody have to die first? Yeah,
people have to die in order for him to be the Khalifa. Right? So
that being the case, you don't have to worry about the middle.
All that matters is, is what you what you're asking for that that
beep something permitted and how to, for example, if there's one
job and you're making a lot to get that position, but there are 20
other applicants does not not imply that 19 applicants won't get
the job. Right? You're not accountable for that aspect of
things. You're only accountable for the end goal that you're
asking as a DA. Okay. So of course, it's horrible harm on
people and the the Haram mean, you can't make dua that one day I want
to drink wine one day, I want to accidentally think it's grape
juice and drink wine because I want to taste what it's like. I
want to one day think it's appetizer, but it's actually
champagne. So I get to taste and feel what drunkenness means
without getting sense for it. So that would be haram for doing I
don't think anyone really does that. But that is haram for
somebody to do. Well, sometimes we do sort of pray to see somebody to
meet somebody and it may be a minor sin, it may be Kahlua or
something like that. So that is something to keep in mind. Now
what is not haram in itself, but it's a mockery of dua, and it's
just it's like null and void. And that is making dua for something
that is most to heal additon what is what does that mean was to heal
additon means that in the what we call laws of nature, or the ways
in which Allah subhanaw wants out of created the world, that we try
to negate those. Right so for example, we ask we make dua that
we can levitate or something like that, like I want to be able to
defy gravity or or live without sleeping or live without eating or
live without drinking. So these things are Mr. Hale additon. I
understand meaning in the common creation of Allah subhana wa Tada.
We don't see any of this. We need to do the opposite. So to make dua
for those things, is it's a type of mockery, it's a type of
nonsense and nonsense is not appropriate when you're speaking
to Allah subhanaw taala.
But that's it. What can you make dua for something that you have no
clue how it would ever happen. You're allowed to make that dress
and as a cadet made that dua you're allowed to make to offer
something where I cannot fathom or see what has to happen.
Right. You're allowed to make that drop. You're allowed to make a dua
of something that you could not possibly have
ever achieve with your own power as it is now? You're allowed to
make that kind of drawn. So I hope that answers the question on what
is forbidden to make it or what else is forbidden into.
We can't say forbidden as in sinful, but it's the inappropriate
way it is mcru. And it is a negation of dot, which is
essentially, to give up on a prayer,
or to make a prayer with your tongue, believing that Allah won't
won't do it or can't do it.
That's actually forbidden. If you're going to turn to the
subject of dua, and you're going to turn to dua, you have to have
the absolute certainty by the command of the Prophet peace be
upon Modolo into more community job joining us to Djibouti. pray
to Allah Tada, while certain of the answer call on me and I'll
answer you, Allah subhana wa Tada said this, the default of dua is
that Allah answers it. And
the the preconditions of the preconditions of DA is that you're
certain that Allah will answer it, and you believe he has the power
to do it and the generosity to do because you can believe he has the
power but not the generosity.
You can believe that.
It's possible, but he won't give it so you can't have any you have
to be absolutely certain have no doubt about it.
Yet at the same time, in the process of drop.
What we're saying is that
you have to have certainty out. At the same time, you have to be
absolutely absolutely consistent in your drop the Prophet peace be
upon him said if you quit, that is only time when you're done is not
answered. Because you quit the DUA. You said, I prayed I didn't
get an answer. You quit. So you said jab, Willie, I had dico mela
myalgia, you will get an answer. As long as you don't rush it. They
said what is rushing, they said to quit the draw.
Now as for the topic of how DA is answered? So we know that draw is
answered in three ways. It's answered by giving you what you
want. It's answered by removing a harm. And it's answered by that
Allah keeps it for you on the Day of Judgment. And that's the
greatest one of them. But it's it what's important to know is that
whenever your prayer is answered, You will know because you'll be
happy, and you will no longer be attached to what you're seeking.
Either you get it, which is fine. That's what we all want, right? Or
something else, we get something else or saved from something
worse, in such a way that we ourselves admit, I would rather
have this than have what I asked for. So you're you yourself will
be satisfied. So when you are answered in one of these three
ways.
Then at that point, you're the job is your happiness that you're
satisfied. I'm totally satisfied. Now, what about that you don't get
it, but it's safe for you on the Day of Judgment. Those are usually
the prayers that we make that we're not fully attached to it
right here for or that we've moved on from it. Okay, that Allah has
diverted us away. How many of us in our night when we were 19 years
old, we made a DUA, do you even remember what it was? And maybe it
wasn't answered, Allah has diverted you away from it. So
Allah will not leave someone who's praying for something. He will not
leave them to be unsatisfied for life. So he diverts you away from
it. You forgot about it completely. That's his Rama
because he saved that draw out for you for later. Also, if a dua is
is made, and accepted, if you made a draw 10 times
it's answered on the 10th time, nine times that is saved for you
on the Day of Judgment. Okay, so don't think that because my
daughter's answered, I got nothing on the Day of Judgment, no,
nine times not, there's nine other prayers that you made. They could
be used to expiate sins to block something bad from happening to
you, or to be saved for you on the Day of Judgment. Okay, another
point is that
there are certain dots people make without much attachment, and
they're saved for you on the Day of Judgment like what? Oh, Allah
Free Palestine, it yes, we're attached to it emotionally. But
it's not something like I have to have it right now. Or I can't
survive. The way that people make dua for a husband or a wife. Like
it's, I actually need this physically for my life, I need
this. Whereas do art for the OMA draw for the Khilafah do art for
Philistine do art for the Uyghurs those are things that we from far
away, we we don't have it's not the same absolute dire necessity
so that Allah subhana which will save before us on the day of June,
that's an example. So don't ever imagine that when Allah says I'm
gonna save it for you on the Day of Judgment means that I'm going
to be disappointed. Just not like that. I think most of them when we
pray for Palestine, we all know in the back of our heads, we may see
that day we may not okay. And as I mentioned before, that you may
make a DUA, where
you're diverted from it. Like we wanted something I no longer want
it. Why don't you no longer want it Allah subhanaw taala is cool
cooling your home
Apart from it, save that draft for you for the Day of Judgment. Good.
So what's another thing?
What is forbidden and do is to do the opposite of what the prophesy
sent him said, and start asking yourself this shaytani question,
which is, well, maybe it's not good for me. That's not your
business. That's your business afterwards, not before. If you do
that in the middle of a DUA, you've guaranteed your dog will
not be answered, you have caused it. And some people say that, Oh,
don't be deceived. I don't want you to be disappointed. Maybe it's
not good for you while he's making the dog. No, you should say that
after the dog. Okay, after making the DUA.
You should say that after after the result, I mean, sorry, after
the result has come. So I didn't get the job. Now I can start
believing Oh, it was bad for me, it was not good for me. Or there's
no other option? Well, you could apply again next year. As long as
there's room for action, you don't stop. When it's a when is it that
we say that? Oh, it wasn't good for us, or it wasn't meant to be?
It's something terminal, something that can there's no, the door of
action is permanently closed.
Like death, oh, Allah saved my grandma from Dyk cure her from her
sickness, then she dies of cancer, okay, that's something that Allah
had wilt, the door is closed for that, that's when you can say that
was better, her death is better than her living. That's where you
should say that. Okay. But you shouldn't say that as long as the
door of action is open. If the door of action is open, then the
door of drawers should stay open. And you should act. You shouldn't
be some simply just prank. For example, many people ask I want to
marry a sister. Okay? Did you go talk to her dad? Did you ask her
sister to have your sister talk to her sister? Right? Do you go to
the same place that she was at. So at least you can cross paths she
knows who she who you are, like, there's no action here. You can
draw is not just something that Allah is going to send an Angel to
do the work for you. So that's the important things of that important
concept that if the door of action is open, that is the answer for
your DUA. Right? Go act upon it, go do something. So it's very
important not to fall for this trick of bliss of while you're
praying that you say something like
if it wasn't meant to be, and maybe it's not good, good for me,
right? At that point, you're, you're replacing the sun or the
sun is making out with certainty you're making out with doubt.
And one last thing that I'll say is the coda here are the
discouragement for a dua in things of chance.
Unless it's necessary, what's necessary. For example, many
countries, they can only do hedge by lottery system. Let's say the
Saudi allows the country to Saudi allow, Whoa, don't just set
camera.
stake. For example, Saudi allows 7000 people to come from a country
to make Hajj. So if there's 10,000 applicants, it's by lottery.
10,000 People 7000 People 3000 won't get it. So you have to make
dua, you can make dua for that, because that's lottery and chance.
That's necessary. But like you're playing games, right? And, and
it's just chance, the DUA and that thing is, it's a low out of if
that's something that's acceptable, Allah knows best. Why
because you're rendering some very high spiritual thing, good, da to
a game. And that's there's it's doubtful about that. And you can
ask other other people about that.
All right, that's a quick summary because we haven't talked about da
in a long time. So that was a quick summary on da. And if you
want to see how close you are to Allah to Allah, one of the
measures is how much are you making dua?
Does it mean it's not absolutely necessary to have a Khilafah in
this day and age? No, it is always necessary as far as I am at all
times. But what I meant to say was that we're making dua for
Khilafah, we probably in the back of our minds, we know that we may
not see it in this day and age, in our lifetime.
Okay. So that's something where it's a type of dua where the
attachment to it is not so immediate in our personal lives.
That's the type of dog that we may say that is going to be
saved for us on the Day of Judgment.
What is the best time to pray to hedge so set your alarm for
4045 30 minutes before Fajr and try to to recite the Quran like
from from the front long Suez. So the way you do it is you pray to
shortcuts. Let's say Kulu Allah article or the Buddha will follow
up in the next to it because you make them long, like 567 pages of
Quran recited per America. And then after that you pray your
which one raka
And then you do some squats on the prophets of Allah when he was on
them, then you lay down
and then you wait until it's absolutely certain that Phaedra is
in Okay. And you made slightly doze off and that look very light
sleep does not require will do in the medical method, very light
sleep.
And then you get up and pray to it because of EBA and then slotted
fetch,
or Aviva in the Maliki method is not with a suta it's just certain
Fatiha that's it.
There's no Surah after Surah still Facha
All right questions now? Is it okay to do do that you want to be
brought back from the dead?
If ASA comes to help him
that is what we're saying is making dua for what is Mr. He
Lachlan, Mr. Hill additon. It's very important to understand this
these concept was to heal additon, additon, it's impossible or it's
not from the the Sunon and the habitual ways in which Allah
created the world, which the secular world may call laws of
nature. We don't say their laws, we because there's nothing a law
about it. It's just how Allah created things, right? He could
not have created it that way. And he can suspend it, we believe that
so we believe in miracles, but to be asking for that is not the way
of the prophets of Allah when he was on them. Okay, so we don't ask
for things like being resurrected from the dead. You're not allowed
to ask something like that.
When you make a dua in dire necessity, it's basically to keep
going you, when you make a DUA, you have to continue. So when you
enter the realm of dua, and you say, I'm going to go, I'm gonna go
into number one, you have absolute certainty, Allah is going to
answer you, you have no doubt about that, and you continue, you
don't stop. If you stop, okay, then that's the reason. Now, if
you lose interest in the thing, that's fine. But I don't like the
concept of losing interest in something good. Because next time
you get really interested in something, maybe you're gonna
become whimsical again. So the most successful people are people
who make up their minds pretty quickly, right? But when they make
up their mind, they never leave it. Like they never leave. You
want to be that type of person, when you make up your mind to do
something, you never leave it off, even if it takes years.
Dino says, Hadith mentions a test on the Day of Judgment.
Allah will come in a sutra other than the suta, which they saw him
the first time
are all the suit as a test and also, this means that Allah to
Allah will create will create an image of a form. Good, that's what
it means. It does not mean that Allah will transform himself in
the form because that's impossible.
That is, it's contradictory to what we know explicitly about
Allah subhanaw taala, which he does not do hula, he does not take
on forms. shapeshifting So when Allah says he comes in an image
means his command.
Yes, his commands comes in an image that they're not used to or
he creates for them an image. Same with the sound when when Allah
speaks, do we not hear Him? We will hear him. But what we will
hear is a created sound.
Next question.
I've been trying to talk about my parents about her job, she says,
and they have pointed to sad DNL Hillary Don't listen to him is
she's Egyptian, and they're listening to Egyptian TV. And
that's why it's misguidance it's misguidance telling you
he says it's not fun.
Every scholar that I know
in Egypt,
all the scholars that I know,
good,
they dismiss all of his Fidella
good
you will have to disobey your parents in this but you have to
disobey them in the respectful way. Okay.
disobey your parents in a respectful manner, learn this
concept of civil disobedience, because the disobedience of the
parent is funneled in a manner that Allah made for it. Okay, so
you find a way and learn just like you're learning Islam today and
you're learning how to wear hijab, etc. And your parents learned the
federal upside and Hillary and you learned what is actually the
ruling in Islam. You also must learn something new, respectful
disobedience
and it is farted upon you in a manner that Allah has explicitly
in all them or that have made an obligation. There is no opinion on
this.
If someone says I don't want you to pray fudge, your mother says I
want you to study for you have SATs tomorrow, or you have an
essay T or you have a
an MCAT. Tomorrow, I don't want you spraying fetch
you, you bring a bottle of water in your room, a towel, you set
your alarm on vibrate, so she doesn't hear it. You pray without
disrespecting her.
This is civil and it is the only time
the only time that it is forced upon you at or even permissible,
but this case is not permissible. It's funded. So this sister here,
NZ, you're obligated, at this point to respectfully disobey them
in this matter.
And I don't go with the route of well, I'll just wear it outside
the house and sneak it. It's not going to work. Just openly say it.
Whether that means you're waging World War Two world war three,
whatever you want to wage, you just very politely, I'm informing
you. You want to send in a letter you want to put an email because
you're it's very hard to awkward to confront your parents. But you
tell them that
I will from now on
be wearing hijab, hijab right now. And I just letting you know, and I
don't want to hurt your feelings. So you do a bad news sandwich.
Which means I love you so much. You're my parents, I respect
everything, but I'm afraid of Allah subhanho wa Taala and all of
the Allamah have said that this is fought saddle hillbillies fetch
what is rejected?
Very simply, there is no federal when we have enough. Good we have
an explicit command and I wish that you would have supported this
and I believe that you will support me okay.
And then you close your letter like that. But you just you be
aware that you're obligated to go that route in life and by the way
I know many people who did that I know many women not like I know
them but I know of them in the community their parents were
against each other
and waged World War Three they did it their flesh and blood no
different than you so you can do it too
I wouldn't go the secret route. I'll go the secret route. Right.
Be open about things
their argument is that it's not funded so by doing I'll be
disobedient to them. No, they are incorrect about that. It is first
with each map
is it okay to look up at the sky when making dua? Yes, it is.
Did you do your PhD under Muhammad Abdul Halim? Not directly he was
not my direct supervisor but he was essentially him and Gavin
pickin were the real people that I learned how to do a PhD from
because my PhD supervisor she was she she got really sick. And so
she wasn't coming in as much
honey for us doesn't the Quran mentioned as in multiple students
and notice auditor?
Enzi, you don't have to push it, and keep showing them videos, you
just simply say, this is fought. This is what I'm doing.
This is what I believe this is what I'm doing. But you have to be
very respectful about it.
I would say that writing it is probably easier. And then they're
gonna call you for a meeting and have interventions. But I'm
telling you,
many women have done it in the past. They're flesh and blood just
like you. They have nerves just as you do. They have feelings just as
you do. If they could do it, you could do it.
And if you and this is something that Allah will help you and by
the way, I'm telling you something that I've never done before, but
I'm telling you firsthand that I know people who went that route in
life, and they were sat down and we have meetings and bring in the
uncle and bring in this and bringing that person and bringing
the grandma I've seen it all like I've heard it from people directly
who had that they did it
Dino says when I'm praying to hedge it and want to make the pray
lot prayer long can I read from the phone? But can I read the
transliteration
don't believe that that will invalidate your prayer because it
is permitted to read from the must have. So if you have an aid, and
you're capable of reading but you
What you do have to know is that what you're reading, you know how
to know what you're reading. It shouldn't be like it's the first
time I'm reading it because that will cause extra hesitation and
action in the prayer that may invalidate the prayer
I have done Allah who have been a lady adapt in a fee
how to make prayer long if we don't have much Quran memorized
says Lily Poppy, you can recite from the most half. So you should
have a table next to you a respectful location next see like
a table or a nightstand or whatever. And you open the most
have like this to the page that you want to write, recite from
before you open the prayer. And you keep so you don't flipping
through pages. And then after students if that's how you pick up
the more stuff and you read from it, then you then you put the bind
the bookmark, you close them off and you put it back then you go
into the course of June. And then you come up again and do it again.
Tony if you want to be beloved to Allah to Allah do 200 and make the
200 Strong by reciting from the Quran. Like a couple of pages each
raka
anybody who's out there in New York or Long Island
I'll be in Long Island
this week, jolla this Friday, so if we
any of your from Long Island, let me tell you exactly where it is.
All right, the Masjid is called
mess masjid and newer in Long Island, Masjid.
And Nora, the Well technically, it's called Masjid note which, how
I don't know but it's Masjid EndNote it should be. And it is on
1032 Park Ave. in Huntington, New York. 1032 Park Ave in Huntington,
New York. And I'll be there for Juma then brothers Holika six
o'clock then.
Some 45 Community talk. You want to come? Yeah. Are you coming? You
got the brothers thing? You had the youth thing? You got the
youth? That's good. That's No, just Friday. Yeah.
Okay, that's good. Used to stick to the thing. It's really
important. And you need to train the Python. You know, the Python.
Oh, isn't he your friend? Oh, he's rugby's friend up here.
On the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam receiving our solo ads
immediately. Since we say the Salawat in our prayer in our
obligatory prayer or an orphan? Are they also presented to him?
Yes. Yes. And can we pray?
Make the effort in the prayer?
As if the prophet was watching us? Yes. You may do that, because it's
a hobby did that. It's not the federal that we can give about
salah except from transmission, right? And it's transmitted, that
it was one of the Sahaba who prayed he heard the prophets I
send them he heard the prophets I seldom say the tech Viet and enter
the prayer behind him. So he then said I beautified My prayer for
the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam meaning that he
beautified his prayer to Allah in the way that would be pleased the
prophet would not the prophet be pleased if he saw you praying to
Allah. Well, that's the idea. That's a concept.
So that it's completely separate from it has nothing to do with it
yet.
All right, this question says Why do women tend to be more
materialistic? I don't know is that their filter? I don't think
that women are more materialistic in their sense, but I do think
that they are more inclined to security and caution. And that has
to do with them having having to be the main child's caregivers of
children. And that begins they have like a nine month head start
on men on that. Because you might say, well, the dad, it's the dads
can too. Yeah, but the dad didn't carry his womb. So he's not
accustomed to caution. Right, right up until the baby's born.
He's got no, we go skydiving for all he cares, right? Whereas a
woman when she has a baby now she's got to be cautious how she
drives how she bumps into things, right? Things like that. What she
eats what she consumes. So the caution part is my if you ask me,
it's related to that aspect of things that we have to protect
these because babies are so small, and so they're so vulnerable. That
when if you ever had a baby you check in the middle of the night
if that if he's still alive, right? Like you, you don't know a
pillow could have fallen on his head. There's so many so many
little things that could go wrong in the crib. Okay, maybe I don't
know some there was
a toy left in there that's on his neck or something like that. You
just never know. When they hit one.
There are like I mean, look at what this little thing is. Who the
heck knows what this thing it's like comes the little plastic
cover of a USB. It could swallow that and choke. Okay, it can open
Have this chocolate and swallow on a joke when they're one and a
half. It's constant nonstop making sure this creature is alive.
Right? So that's the the origin of that caution comes from there, you
start looking at everything from that now you start looking at cars
instead of driving fast driving safe, right? Traveling. You look
at safety, everything, you just look at food, whatever every
single thing that's in the house, all the Legos. You have five year
old kid who plays with Legos, not anymore when there's a new one
baby, right? Back up those Lego Legos, put them in a Ziploc bag,
put them in the basement, there's no Legos, when there's like a
eight month old, because he could swallow and choke. So that's more
important than your fun. So you see how the child and the baby is
something that creates caution and a person. They even say that the
family is the coward maker.
Right? You talk revolution and talk change the world until you
have responsibilities that are of that are vulnerable, right and
weak. Now all of a sudden, you have to guard them, you can't take
risks anymore. So that's probably mean that so that, so I don't
think it's materialistic. I think it's, it's
it's that caution. So if you're talking about materialistic, maybe
you, it may have to do with beauty, too. Because that is a
power and a strength. And that's a God given gift to one gender more
than the other. Right? So if a guy's not handsome, right? He's
not going to care when he wears or anything, you can't make it. You
can't. He already does not. He's behind the eight ball. But if you
created beautiful and you're the agenda that's pretty by the your
creation, now you have to augment that you got to make sure that you
keep that up. So maybe that's the other aspects of and I'm looking
at it from a positive light because you can't really I think
these things that I just said are almost universal. You can't really
say who's more materialistic, and chooses loves the dunya more than
they love anything else? Because that's so relative, right? It's
very relative.
I don't think it's gender based. I think it's just the nature of
people in their upbringings.
advice for a young adult who has to perform every morning
well if he has to perform less than he's a male every morning.
Well, it could be for two reasons either one he this person has a
problem with for example, he has not a problem but he has constant
what dreams so he's totally innocent for that. The other one
is somebody who he has a habit of pleasuring himself and requiring
himself to take what's so you have to fight that there's no other
solution to that you have to fight it you have to learn better
habits. That's there's no there's no solution accepts struggle.
More lobby was says Ted seem I'm not going to speak about any
scholar in particular unless I see the pneus of what they said then
we can comment on it.
But touch seam is to imply that the Creator has a body or is made
of matter or is in time or is in a place
physically
at that point that is such seem and that is go for
him Hamid okay.
Well
alright, five comments here.
Let's go to Facebook and see what they have to say. Can you do a
dose on because what we'll agenda Dane and Yarmouk, undercard of
invalid Yes. Why not?
Is it forbidden, says Bob Owen to * and abuse?
Women it is permitted?
Of course it is forbidden. I don't know what that must be a
maybe he's sarcastic. I'm sure that no one actually thinks that
it's not forbidden. But
Bob Owen in England is talking about that there was a gang of
Muslims who were kidnapping British girls and like, basically
selling them as slaves. Right? So that's obviously
that doesn't need comment that that's forbidden in Islam and It's
haram completely.
Do animals have a soul? It's not like our soul at all. It's not
like our soul. They do have a soul that makes separates them from
plants and rocks. So the rock has level of consciousness because the
rock may just be in the hands of the Prophet. The plant has a
higher level of consciousness. The the animal has a higher level of
consciousness. The Jinn is above that, and the human is alongside
with the jinn. And the angel has a soul but no knifes
They have they don't have ego. So, yes, animals do have something of
life. But it's not the same as a human soul.
Allah subhana wa Tada says, when a philosophy he met a Rohit, I blew
from my spirit, which means the spirit that I own.
And he doesn't Allah own everything, yes, but it's to honor
the soul. When Allah wishes to honor something.
He says that he says that he owns it.
That's how he speaks to honor something where of course, he
already owns everything. But he attributes it to himself, my soul.
In other words, a soul that I created and I made, that's how
valuable it is that he attributed its ownership directly to himself.
So that's the meaning of that.
Lily Poppy and Snake juice in the comment section going back at it
IOI Bros is asking about enemy. I just cartoon. I don't know what
the content of it is. I know that enemy is a style. But
you can't really ask me. I don't think that watching cartoons. In a
sense. It's the content that matters, right? So what's the
difference between that and watching the show? It's the
content. If the content is haram, then it's haram to watch the
content is Hello, and it's helpful to watch.
So that's that's what I would say about that.
So, NZ back to your question I don't think you should focus on
you should focus on who could harm you more disobedience of Allah or
your parents. Right? the disobedience of Allah is always
attached to harm,
which is worse, that harm is worse. So if you fear somebody,
the only way to get over the fear of somebody is to fear something
more.
Watermelon 786 when Allah says that he is preserving the Vic, Is
that referring to the Quran? Or is it more encompassing than that?
The answer is yes, it is the Quran and all of the Allume or knowledge
is required to understand the Quran such as Al Qaeda, Al Hadith,
a local Arabiya
and all of the things that are required to preserve the meaning
of the the understanding of the Quran.
Ibrahim Khan, we answered that question about the food. The
materialistic, yes, Ibrahim Ahmed is beautiful food coloring halal.
It is.
So So bugs are halal for us to eat.
But there's a difference of opinion. First of all,
first of all, the
the way in which
you slaughter, you kill a bug, it does not require slaughtering. It
is this the way in which you kill a bug to eat is whatever would
take its life away. Got there is no way in specific whatever would
end the life of the bug is all you need. But where there's a
difference of opinion
is that the chef iya said that
it's it is pure, even when dead. So therefore, whether you kill it,
a Kaffir kills it, a cat kills it, the bug is halal for you to eat,
you can eat it dead.
The medica had a different opinion said no death makes it not just
therefore
you must have the intent to eat it.
So that before killing it, you have to have the intent that I'm
going to eat this. So all the the bugs that are used in food
coloring, or whatever it is,
is hello and Shafee standards. And I would highly recommend people
use utilize that because there's food coloring and everything. And
our Sharia is not one where we're going to be, you know, every
little thing. We're going to have to look at same futsal I took it
that from one of my Maliki scholars on vanilla and vanilla
extract and things that have in it alcohol. We take the Hanafy ruling
on that. Why? Because for us that would be not just the whole thing
is what's an edge just now
But the Hanafy say no, not all alcohol is not just only grape and
one grape and date one is nudges.
Okay,
so we have to we this is why the, this is something where I believe
10 feet is useful and is not
something that is from the neffs because life will become so
impractical Mahamadou
life will become so impractical because every, like this little
thing right here,
it goes around, everyone's in everyone's house piece of
chocolate, who knows what the heck's in it? Right? You go to the
get the ingredients, there's paragraphs, upon paragraphs upon
paragraphs. It's not practical way to live. Okay? Make sure your meat
is how to avoid pork and alcohol. Keep it simple, right?
If a parent doesn't price as Anza Gemma, what do we do? Well,
there's nothing really for you to do to be honest. Just be a good
child and make dua for them. But outwardly, you don't want to push
them here. We I don't. I follow because early on this, where he
said, We don't give the nasiha to the parents or the elders, we just
be a good example and pray for them. Let their peers give them
the nausea.
Of course, though, Prophet Ibrahim. He did though.
But look at how he did it right with such gentleness and
affirming their authority.
And I'm Jim shade says, I read Islamic books too deeply and it
takes me a long time to complete one book.
There's nothing wrong with that. Take your time. What's the rush?
If someone proposes healing with astrology, is that haram healing
you with astrology? Like how you'd have to give me an example? Like
if they say to you that on when the sun when the full moon rises
drink three cups of water? Well, that's not necessarily that's just
we would we would not say that. That's something that is haram.
But we would just say that it's like science. It's like
pseudoscience unless they could prove otherwise. Right? And their
science is here. pseudoscience is here. Science can be demonstrated.
Okay? That's a difference.
pseudoscience is a belief that something will work in this world
but it's never been demonstrated. It's just like a belief. That's a
difference. So acting upon pseudoscience would maximum be
discouraged
Can you write the Long Island information here? Sure thing
Masjid noon, and the address for that is 1032 Park of Huntington
que msgid Newer 1032
Park of
Huntington, New York
so that is Longo Hamza Hussain if I'm not mistaken.
The Hanafis do not allow reading from the most half in Salah and
you are correct about that Hamza Hamza Hussein is correct about
that they are not allowed to
open the most have insula.
In no effort. We're talking about no effort extra prayers.
Should it shouldn't we change our entire view on food from honeybee
to Shafi?
I was told we cannot just pick and choose from different Yes, we
shouldn't just pick and choose him different with that hip. But when
the matter becomes absolutely like impossible to figure out and there
there's just big requires too much nitpicking that is a hija it
becomes a dire need life does is not the same anymore. I'm not
saying that my shoe have told me that Furthermore, even more so
check had demean this son, or the
the one who inherited the position on what I was at hedge in that
area in Mauritania, what did he say about a Maliki ruling on
leather? Right madaket What is the medical ruling on leather is that
tanning permits us to use leather, but it's still nudges. So we have
to remove it in Salah. So that if the tanning when you use leather,
it has to be the big leather. So if I get a belt or a wallet, it
has to be Livia. The leather has to be the beer.
If it's not the tanning of it, it allows us to use it as a rasa but
we can pray with it. Well, she had had demean what others had demean
said the leather of the world's market today is all mixed up. You
can have Italian Leather sold in Saudi you can have Moroccan
leather soles in the Netherlands.
It's all mixed up. It's impossible to know what's what he said.
Therefore, it's all Hello
You can pray with it. So he lifted that. That's it. That's what from
him. Why? Because the circumstance of the world has mixed it all up.
Likewise, when it comes to food, the chef, a mother is not the
easiest and all things. Okay? For example, in El Kitab, you actually
have to trace back the lineage of the Jew and make sure that he was
a Jew, that descended from Jews that existed in the time of the
Prophet. So couldn't convert from paganism to Judaism from the time
of the Prophet till now, they don't count as Al Kitab. That's
also impossible to navigate. Right? In this day and age. Yeah,
you had a Jew,
where your great grandfather's in the seventh century Jews, because
if not, I'm not going to eat this, this kosher sandwich. It's not
happening, right. So there are certain rulings that we should be
able to follow. Medically from ruling on prohibiting horse, mule
and donkey it's unique in the in the form of hubs, but there's no
hardship in avoiding horses, mules and donkeys. Right. They don't
have to eat them.
He's avoiding crayfish, and lobster and crab. If you're
dedicated to your method. That's not a hardship. Like, right, it's
not something that is present in all food.
It's not something that's present in every single item of food.
shakur AMI told me that vanillin is something that has alcohol and
he was one time in the bed. Yeah, the bad idea of mirage of
Mauritania, the deep desert in Mauritania, and there was a
package of cookies there. And I had vanillin in it, right? And the
shoe who were eating it, right, it's impossible to avoid.
Likewise, for example, should have demeaned also on colognes.
Cologne, it's as alcohol in it right? So therefore, it's not just
and therefore, it cannot be used, what did she have had the means
that he said, No, we're not using it as drink. And on top of that,
it evaporates away. So it's it evaporates away. So therefore he
permitted that. So we're not a religion of nitpicking, we have to
keep this in mind. That's not the fitrah. That's not the way of the
Sahaba lived, that is, in fact, the way of Allah hood. This the
way of the hood, this to have hairsplitting FIP is not our way.
Okay, so when we look at
when we look at Tofik, mixing between methods, where it's not
acceptable,
is when you're doing it without a justifiable reason. You just
totally for your desires, that's where it's not acceptable, or that
you're putting your mind ahead and say, No, I think this opinion is
better than that. One, there's no hardship in life, you could
practice it, but you put your mind ahead of right, everyone else's
mind, and you think you know, better. That's not a good
practice, either. Right. So that's the idea of when it is actually
permitted to do to do to the field. And by the way, I'm sure
that within the muda hip themselves, there are it's not
always borrowing from another method, right within them, or they
have themselves there's probably a ruckus in these things. For
example, if the bug, the ninjas have the bug has been heated,
right mashed up and heated as an ingredient and cooked,
then, and it's no longer a bug.
Then that, like you look at it, you don't say that's a bug, it's a
bunch of powder, at that point. Good. It's, it's to * has
happened.
Good. You have removed and adjusted with fire, or you already
have altered the substance completely, not what you can
remove and adjust with fire in the medical school, you can in the
Hanafi. In the medical school with an adjustment is removed by water,
or by heat, a great amount of heat that has completely altered the
substance is completely altered. And then you put it into the
ingredient. So there's nothing that just about that. So even
within the medical method, we could probably find a way where if
these ingredients, these bugs were mashed up, millions of other
ingredients are added and heat was applied, then it was placed inside
of a substance like a cookie or whatever. That wouldn't be not
just for us, be permitted for us to eat
Ibrahim Khan on a scale of one to 10 How important is looks for a
healthy marriage.
It's gonna be between seven to 10. And when I say that, I mean by
that
you need to take care of yourself like you should, it should be a
high priority to make sure you're presentable to your spouse because
she may never tell you that she's not attracted to you anymore.
But she will never say it and she might start convincing yourself no
he is attractive. She just convincing herself because you
have nice other nice qualities so she has to but that's not a good
place to be and so you should wear
work on making sure that you're presentable. Right? And
attractive. What if someone says here, they're insecure about their
looks? Well,
I believe that a person, you know,
can be tested with something that they're insecure about. And
you have to compensate with something else. Right? You got to
compensate and make yourself feel good about yourself that you have
something else I can, okay, maybe I don't have that, but I got
something else to compensate for it. And by the way, a lot of
things about looks can be changed.
weight can be changed, scrawny got a weight machine, there's a lot of
things that can be changed about your looks.
But just make the right intention about it. And the intention
shouldn't be that I'm vain about myself. Even if it's right
yourself. There's some permissibility on there's a fitrah
that people like to look decent, right? That that fitrah is
acceptable. The Prophet used to look in the mirror, the Prophet
told another Sahabi Allah is beautiful, and he loves beauty, so
fitzer of a human being that's acceptable for them.
What about 100 feet become medically just to eat lobster? I
don't think that. I don't know that. To me. That's not something
that is I don't would never say it's a misguidance. But it's not
technically the tech field. That is acceptable. Right? Because but
then again, you know, I'm not gonna get too deep into that,
because they're going from something that is an opinion
that's valid to an opinion, that's valid, right? And maybe in their
family, that's all they eat. So maybe they
have a reason to do that. But even if you didn't have a reason at the
maximum, I would say it's it's not what's preferred, but it won't be
sinful for you either, but it's not the preferred way of going
things. What's preferred is we pick a methodology and we try to
stick to it as much as we can, unless there's a dire need or a
necessity Okay.
Halloween is actually in Denmark very, or she goes to Denmark and
she's in Canada. Interesting. Nice to know where people are.
Random user says, What's the best first step towards repentance?
Toba
regret
regret your action and believe that you did wrong.
Say words and do actions of repentance Toba
and then start committing not to go do it again. That's how you do
Toba.
only Maryam says we read that
denatured alcohol
is okay in perfume and has no effect yes it is because the
Hanafi is to only consider two types of alcohol to be nevus wine,
a grape and date one all other forms of alcohol may be forbidden
to get drunk on but they're not in adjusting themselves.
Okay, so that's the answer to that
our looks when I'm getting married is looks just the face no it's not
the face but then again, oh woman. The Quran says she's going to
cover her body in lemma Vihara minha. What what is motherhood
Amina? It is her height for example, like hijab will not cover
her height, her width for like shoulder, it's not going to cover
hijab will not cover that. Look of the hence Look at the face. So
body does have value especially after you get married. You want to
make sure that you take care of yourself. But that's the what a
person before they get married. That's where they're going to see
That's why Allah subhanaw taala, ylim Avara Mina, the certain
things hijab will not cover, right, but that will not cover
your height and your shoulder arm length, things like that hijab
will not cover. So those are things that a person would
consider before marriage
and aren't on our religion.
Yeah, there will be certain things you don't know about the woman
before you marry her. And that's that's part of life. That's part
of our religion. You won't know what her stomach looks like she
won't know what your stomach the skin looks like. She just won't
know that. Right? She won't know what your back looks like Carlos
that's that's part of our life.
All right.
Do we consider genetics Yes, consider genetics.
You can you're allowed to the Prophet mentioned that.
All right, let's now take a look at another question which says
what is the ruling on eating the meat slaughtered by a Hollywood
bidder.
There is a difference of opinion on
it on whether we accept their slaughters or not.
Okay.
Sophia says, Can we advise on the responsibility for adult children
to take care of their divorced mother? Is it the same for sons
and daughters married a single
the the maintenance of the mother is on the sons.
And if it's if the sons cannot fulfill it, then the son in law
fulfills it. So the son in law, the mother has rights over the son
in law, the mother in law and the son in law. They have he has
rights over like he he's obligated to help his daughter fulfill her
obligation of taking care of the parents. So it's it's the it's the
sons first though.
Abdullah says, What's your opinion on Andrew take converting to
Islam?
Is there an opinion to have, he has to convert this, let's just do
it. That's your creator, you have to submit to Him. Right? That's
one thing. How he behaves is another thing. Right?
Like what he did in the past is another thing. Right? What he's
going to do in the future,
will show whether that Islam is sincere or not. I would say
listen, if you had a message to him, Listen, I want to tell you
one thing, like you're a UFC fighter, you're a tough guy and
everything you are now submitted to Allah, you don't mess around,
you respect the rules, okay? Respect the rules.
And delete all your * business. Whatever it is, business that he
used to do, delete it all, if you have respect for this God and for
this word that you just uttered.
And let me tell you,
right,
if any word that you say that you're advising people how to
live, which he was before giving philosophy, you know, philosophies
about life and how to live, I never watched except one clip of
Andrew, just one clip that I saw. So I don't know what else he says.
But I know a lot of women don't like it. They feel like he
antagonizes guys to be mean to their sisters, like biological
sisters in their home. That's what some people told me.
I would say anytime that you speak from now on, it has to be from a
lens of God and His Prophet. And I would highly recommend learning
before talking, right? And earning some credit credibility as a
Muslim in the community before talking. But most importantly,
forget all that. Delete all that foreign business of yours and
repent from it. Okay, if you're sincere to this word that you just
said.
But as for like, oh, he became Muslim, should we be happier, not
with his obligation he has to become Muslim, that we are all
obligated to submit to our Creator. There's no discussion on
that. Right.
What is the brothers responsibility over the sister?
Well, first of all the sisters responsibility is for dads first
and the absence of the dad. And the absence of the dad does not
mean for example, the death of the dead it means let's say they're
both on campus. She's 18 He's 20 and they're in college. So in the
dad can't be there the dad's at work. So in that situation, he
just has to ensure that her safety
and her needs he has to make sure for that. Right that those things
are taken care of. Then if the dad dies, and she's still young, the
older brothers have to maintain the sisters and so maintenance is
food clothes protection, etc. And then even if he's a younger
brother, he would still have to do that. Okay.
How many Sunnah prayers are there for the handpiece the Hanafis have
I believe it's 12 to before fed before before the hood for after
the hood I don't know about the four before asked if they consider
that sooner market I don't think so. And then to after a month or
two after I show chef and witted Of course his foot collar White
says 18% alcohol and vanilla extract. Is it permissible? Yes
according by Hanafi FIP it is permissible
I've been using Desi vanilla extract instead in have you think
it's permissible
time check it is now 311 We're gonna stop here
a try attraction to a look will pass but good character doesn't.
Yeah, I would go with personality is so important. Now somebody
asked me the other day about
astrology? Can you marry a person or not based upon what you know
about their star sign so that I know that this person is let's
say, I don't know what these things are. Right. But let's say
the one that's he's very boring and they're
We're all engineers. And they're all like very stoic types of
people like that yet. I'm very excitable, right? I would say no
to that, I would say. Yes, ma'am. And don't touch the screen.
Mamadou, you're gonna ruin the screen like that.
I would say temperament. No, don't touch the screen.
temperament, yes. But there's too many exceptions for these austere
astrological signs, right? There's too many exceptions. So I would
hesitate to consider that. Right. But I would consider what you see
in front of you. What their sibling say about them. Alright,
more than that.
Okay, because that's something that's that we have. And the
astrology thing. Like you can read it after the fact. Right? Like you
read these things. Oh, yeah, that's me. That's fine. Because
that's something you you see right in front of you should he wants us
to judge by something we see in front of us not a type of
pseudoscience or it's not even a pseudoscience. It's like an
attempt to match up personalities with birth dates. And I would just
be hesitant that there are a lot of exceptions, so I would
definitely not reject somebody because of that. Alright, ladies
and gentlemen,
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